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90 Day Fiance The Other Way - Season 7 Episode 17 - En Garde
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00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé The Other Way.
00:04The love of the other we're talking about, we shared too.
00:08This is going to be my name.
00:10you.
00:12You never believe me.
00:14I value everything that you do.
00:16We're struggling to cross the finish line on us getting married.
00:21Just let me do what I need to do to make our dreams reality.
00:34I knew living there and working together was going to be tough.
00:39Stop calling me fast.
00:45How much money you have given back?
00:47All.
00:48You've given them all the change I've given to you.
00:53There's just no way I'm going to be able to handle this.
00:58What do you try to do?
00:59Trying to start a business and living at your parents.
01:03What if it gets to the point where it's just too much?
01:07We moved to France to save our marriage.
01:09And I just can't get over the fact that she's going back to her old ways.
01:13I don't want to go back to how it was.
01:18The easiest way for me to be legal is to get married.
01:23This is a bad idea.
01:25He has been cheating.
01:27Lately, no.
01:28Is he just lying better?
01:30Everybody on the island knows that Johnny has a reputation with girls.
01:35If something were to happen, I would pack my so fast.
01:39Just prepare yourself.
01:40That's all I'm saying.
01:41That's all I'm saying because she's going back to the island.
01:58I can't turn any time.
01:58And I woo you.
01:58I'm listening to Sh Kaito Kehile at the land.
02:03It'll beικ that I want to be in the land,
02:06But everyone is going back to the island.
02:06That's all I will do.
02:06That's all I can say.
02:06That's all that hurt to be in the land.
02:09I can't blame a fact.
02:11Baby, this is so frustrating.
02:13Look at this mess.
02:15Look at, clothes are everywhere.
02:17This place is terrible.
02:19Like, I have nowhere to put anything.
02:22In the apartment we lived in before,
02:23I had a whole bedroom, a whole extra bedroom for our stuff.
02:28Big mistake to move here.
02:30Sucks.
02:31We had a reason to move in, like, we have to move in here
02:36because we cannot afford there anymore.
02:39OK, well, I can't even stand it here.
02:41Nothing works.
02:43Power keeps going out.
02:45And the shower sucks.
02:47The water, like, trickles out on my head.
02:49I have to, like, stand up against the pipes to get the water.
02:54It just sucks.
02:55Like, everything about this place is bad.
02:59We've been here for a couple of weeks and, oh, my god,
03:04this house is turning into being a nightmare.
03:06The lights go out.
03:08It fluctuates between rooms.
03:10You got to turn on the hot water for a hot shower
03:13and, nope, no electricity there.
03:16So, so far, not so good.
03:22We can't leave our alcohol out.
03:25We have to hide it.
03:26Like, how old are we?
03:27If we want to have a drink, we have to shut the door,
03:30lock it, hide a drink.
03:33I like it.
03:33Look at it.
03:36You like hiding our alcohol and drinking in the room
03:39like we're teenagers?
03:41Are you listening to yourself?
03:43Like, you know, you are complaining so much, baby.
03:48Yeah, well, I'm not happy here.
03:50I'm frustrated as hell.
03:52All I want to do is just scream at the top of my lungs.
03:57Between this terrible apartment and the stress of the cafe,
04:02I feel like Sumit and I are already growing apart.
04:06When we were living on our own in the house and the apartment,
04:09sex life is great.
04:11At least three, four times a week.
04:13But now, we got mom living with us, we got a three-year-old living next door to us.
04:18Our sex life is basically done.
04:20It's over.
04:21There's no more.
04:24I just feel like it's one thing after another here.
04:27One thing after another is happening.
04:30And your mom is complaining about how I do think it's not good enough.
04:35And I can't live like this.
04:37It gives me anxiety.
04:41She's expecting so much from me.
04:43I know you're having issues.
04:45You are having problems.
04:46Like, the thing is that, you know, like, there's an expectation every mother-in-law is having
04:52from the daughter-in-law.
04:53You have to be paying attention and learn everything.
04:56You will start learning after you, living there once you experience everything.
05:02Why are you so casual about all of this?
05:04This doesn't bother you at all?
05:06I've been taught or trained to adjust in every situation, so I can't.
05:12Well, that's you.
05:14That's you.
05:14That's you.
05:15It's not me.
05:16I'm not you.
05:17I'm a different person.
05:18I just don't know how I'm going to be able to handle your mom.
05:22As soon as I wake up in the morning, I'm frustrated.
05:25I don't even feel like you have my back.
05:30I knew that it's going to be hard for Jenny to live with the family because my mom has a
05:36list
05:36of expectations for everybody in the house.
05:39But Jenny is unable of following somebody else's order.
05:42It took me so many years in order to win my family back.
05:46And now Jenny wants me to stand up to mom.
05:50But standing up to mom is a little disrespectful.
05:53So it feels like an impossible choice.
06:17Oh.
06:20Does this look good?
06:21Yes, amor.
06:25I'm nervous to meet you, dad.
06:26I know.
06:28It'll be fine, baby.
06:29He loves you.
06:31The wedding is tomorrow.
06:32And this morning, my dad is arriving in Guatape.
06:35My dad has never met Madeleine before in person, so I'm super anxious.
06:40My dad means the world to me.
06:43He's one of my best friends.
06:44And I need them to get along.
06:48Amor.
06:50I don't know why I'm so nervous.
06:52You'll be okay.
06:54Oh, there he is.
06:55Hey, dad.
06:56Finally got here.
06:57How was the flight?
06:59How you doing?
07:00Good, bud.
07:01Good.
07:02This is Madeleine.
07:03Nice to meet you.
07:06I love your country already.
07:09Beautiful country.
07:10Beautiful scenery.
07:12Mrs. Berry.
07:16Have you started learning your signature yet?
07:18To sign those checks?
07:20Yeah.
07:21Almost.
07:22Almost.
07:22Don't give her a check, though.
07:24Right?
07:27Welcome.
07:28Everything here is beautiful.
07:30Like, really, this is a paradise.
07:31This is, like, my favorite place in the world.
07:34Across the water, that's where I asked Madeleine to marry me.
07:37So it's a special place.
07:39Gorgeous.
07:41I need to, uh, put my stuff down.
07:43Yeah, yeah, yeah.
07:43Your, uh, your first room up on the right.
07:45So go put your things.
07:46Everyone else, they'll grab your things.
07:48Don't worry about it.
07:49And, yeah, we're gonna go see the property.
07:51Today, we're gonna go?
07:52Yeah.
07:52Yeah, we're gonna go, like, right now.
07:53All right.
07:54Sounds good.
07:54I've got my running shoes up.
07:55All right.
07:56Let's go.
07:57All right, let's get it.
07:58Good job.
07:59You did good.
08:00My plans with my dad is to show him the property.
08:03My dad runs a really successful business.
08:06He's done well for himself.
08:08So I want his advice.
08:11All right, baby, we wish you could come,
08:13but I know you have to...
08:14Yeah, I have so many things to do.
08:17I really want his approval.
08:19But at the back of my head, I'm thinking, oh,
08:22I've made some really dumb decisions in the past.
08:26So what if he doesn't approve?
08:28What if he doesn't like it?
08:30What if he thinks that this is just another one
08:32of my dumb business decisions?
08:44Welcome.
08:49We'll have to construct the road.
08:50It'll be drivable, but right now, we gotta walk it.
08:54There's a cow right here.
08:56I think it's my cow.
08:58So this is all yours from here, from that gate we walked in.
09:02Yeah.
09:02How far down does it go?
09:04From here all the way down, basically all the way down
09:06to the valley where the creek comes.
09:08It's massive.
09:09It's huge.
09:12I like it.
09:13But here, let me show you some designs.
09:17There it's gonna be the hotel, two stories with the infinity pool down below,
09:23a discoteca, a restaurant.
09:25I understand why you're so excited.
09:27I mean, it's a beautiful piece of property.
09:29But how much is the hotel gonna cost?
09:32How much are the cabins gonna cost?
09:33And you gotta run power, water.
09:35Right.
09:37I don't think it's as expensive as you might think.
09:40Part of me finishing the plans is to find the costs for everything.
09:45So I haven't quite gotten to that part yet.
09:48Wow.
09:50You gotta be very careful and take small steps
09:54because there's gonna be many other things that haven't even crossed your mind yet.
09:58If you say two million, it'll probably end up three.
10:01Okay.
10:01It's just the way it is.
10:02Mm-hmm.
10:04And that's serious money that you don't have.
10:06Right.
10:08A property like this, it's beautiful.
10:12You could expand it into something incredible.
10:14But he may be getting a little bit over his head
10:17because Luke doesn't look at all the, the whole picture.
10:22He's not a multi-millionaire.
10:24And unfortunately in today's world, everything costs money.
10:27And a lot of it.
10:30You're gonna be a married man tomorrow.
10:32Is Madeline's name gonna be on the, uh, on the deed?
10:35Yeah, I mean, we, we talked about it briefly yesterday.
10:38You know, Madeline wants to be included in the property name.
10:43She's a firecracker.
10:45Yeah.
10:45You know, take it from me.
10:48I married the same kind of person and it's not easy.
10:52You got to let her know, listen, look what I'm giving you.
10:57Everything we obtain from tomorrow on is both of ours.
11:03Right.
11:04Anything before, what was yours is yours and what was mine is mine.
11:10I've tried to say that she just has trouble understanding.
11:15Well, cause she's trying to dominate you.
11:16Yeah.
11:17Don't let her.
11:18Otherwise you're, you're done.
11:20Yeah.
11:20She'll be the first woman I know with a vagina and a pair of nuts.
11:24Yours.
11:25Yeah.
11:25So don't let that happen.
11:31I'm really worried for Luke.
11:34I can actually in the end see Luke buckling a little bit because she's got a lot of power over
11:40Luke.
11:40That's where we're not alike.
11:42I need to protect my son.
11:44You know, I'm willing to speak to Madeline and if I have to spend an hour to try to explain
11:48that to her,
11:49she's just got to understand, listen, this is the way business is done.
11:54So just eat it and forget it.
12:06I was less than seven years old, helping my mom doing the calculations on how much money we owe to
12:12the bank.
12:12Look at me and imagine the stress.
12:18Chloe has given up everything for you.
12:20And you haven't really changed doing what you do.
12:24You messaged another girl.
12:26She messaged me and she said, hey, are you going to go out?
12:29And I put only if it's a threesome.
12:30So, with a luxury and a living with a living mind,
12:34With your life,
12:35when I see you,
12:36When I see you,
12:38When I see you,
12:42You've seen it all,
12:44But I don't care.
12:46You can't tell me.
12:47When I see you,
12:49When you see me,
12:49When I see you,
12:50When I see you,
12:56When I see you,
13:00It's not the United States.
13:02It depends.
13:04Generally, it's Anthony who makes food,
13:06because I'm in the office,
13:07and since I've stopped working,
13:09and especially since we're here,
13:10it's good because I'm bored all alone.
13:14I think, since you're here,
13:17I think that the baby is here,
13:19he comes with you.
13:20I think.
13:22Yesterday, it was the most beautiful day of my life.
13:25You saw how he wanted to stay with you.
13:27When we came out,
13:28he pushed Anthony,
13:30he went over to me.
13:33I talked to Anthony about what happened.
13:36I always wanted to have a career
13:41and make my dreams with my career.
13:44I think he was sincere
13:46when he told me,
13:47that it's a good idea.
13:49Even Anthony, I told him to stay at home,
13:51to be a mom at home.
13:53He told me that he knew that he was married.
13:55He was married.
13:57You like to work.
13:59You have to be always busy.
14:00For me, work,
14:02it makes me feel good
14:05against myself.
14:08Last week,
14:09I had a little fight with Anthony
14:10about my partnership with Dorian.
14:13And it feels like every single time
14:15Anthony and I talk about money
14:17or jobs,
14:18we end up finding all the freaking time.
14:20The thing is like,
14:22we still need to provide
14:23and pay the bills
14:24and save and everything.
14:25We're not rich.
14:26I know I can find a job.
14:28I'm another freelancer.
14:30I have contacts.
14:31I have a career.
14:32I can try to put things out by myself.
14:34But spending time with Ben,
14:36I've seen him hugging me,
14:39wanting me.
14:40This feels pretty dang good.
14:42And I'm like,
14:42**** my money.
14:45I'm like,
14:45I just want to be with my son.
14:48We're going to play?
14:49We're going to play?
14:50We're going to play?
14:51Even if you work a lot,
14:52you have to take time for your son.
14:57It's important.
14:59Yes, I'm sure,
15:00but who pays the bills?
15:02Well,
15:03there was a situation
15:05where your husband told me
15:06that I wanted to work.
15:08That's right.
15:11Every day,
15:12Mom,
15:12when I was little,
15:14we didn't have money for this.
15:15We didn't have money for this.
15:17And I,
15:18every day,
15:20I work,
15:20I work,
15:21I work,
15:22I don't have money,
15:22I don't have money,
15:23I don't have money.
15:24Because if you don't pay a salary,
15:26you have to pay two.
15:28Yes.
15:29Mom,
15:29just listen to me.
15:30You're not a reproach.
15:32But I grew up like that.
15:35I couldn't sleep.
15:36And I had an anxiety
15:37at the age of seven years.
15:39The way I'm educated
15:41is the way I am today.
15:45I grew up with anxiety
15:47around money
15:49all the freaking time.
15:52My dad was a business owner
15:54working in security.
15:56Sometimes, actually,
15:57he never paid himself.
15:58He had to make sure
15:59the employees were paid first.
16:01I was less than seven years old,
16:04helping my mom doing the calculations
16:05on how much money we owe to the bank.
16:08that was a game.
16:09So I never have enough.
16:11I'm always thinking
16:12that I'm going to lack money.
16:14And I absolutely don't want Ben
16:16to go through that.
16:17Mom,
16:18the stress that you put me
16:19with the blue card
16:20in the stores.
16:22Mom,
16:22every time...
16:23Oh!
16:23The card,
16:24she refused!
16:25No, but you're laughing!
16:27I'm sorry,
16:28dearie,
16:28I didn't do it much.
16:30I'm sorry,
16:31I didn't do it much.
16:32Look,
16:33we're in love.
16:33Imagine the stress.
16:36I'm sorry,
16:37I don't know…
16:39I don't know.
16:40I don't think that…
16:42I'm sorry,
16:42I'm sorry,
16:44I'm sorry.
16:45I'm sorry,
16:46I'm done for the rest.
16:46I want to have more.
16:47I want to have more,
16:49I want to be more comfortable.
16:51Anthony is like you,
16:53I say,
16:53I've got on the table
16:56to die.
16:57I'm happy.
16:58I'm happy.
16:59It makes me look so dangerous.
17:00I can't even have money
17:02and take advantage of your family.
17:04And the little boy can't be reproached.
17:06Well, he's a little.
17:07But you can continue in this rhythm.
17:10He can't be reproached.
17:11And you'll suffer.
17:15All that for money.
17:17Look, Dad, how he worked.
17:20For money, for money.
17:21With your child.
17:26But yes, I didn't see Dad.
17:28I didn't go on vacation.
17:29And here.
17:30Yes, that's why I'm here.
17:32I try to change.
17:34But...
17:35Hearing from Anthony and from my mother,
17:38I'm starting to realize that maybe actually they are right.
17:42You miss on motherhood if you focus too much on career.
17:46When you worked for the first time,
17:48I was on my way to work.
17:50And Anthony sent me pictures.
17:52Look.
17:52And I'm like on my phone here.
17:54And I'm like, great.
17:55I'm not home.
17:57Yes, but you know,
17:58compared to you, Manon,
17:59when you were little,
18:00When you were little,
18:00you're little,
18:00or your sister.
18:01I would be so sad,
18:03If you were little,
18:04I would cry.
18:06Yes, but it's the thing,
18:07I try to get in balance.
18:10And now,
18:10I don't want to say,
18:11but I'm a little...
18:24I don't want to miss any other first moment ever anymore.
18:29I'd rather slow down my career.
18:33So I think my business is going to come a little bit later, it's just on hold for now.
18:52Chloé, what would it take for you to be like, okay, actually, I'm going to take my best
18:58friend's advice that this is a bad idea.
19:03If something were to happen, I would pack my so fast.
19:08Just prepare yourself, that's all I'm saying.
19:17Now knowing what my mom is taking away, I'm not going to throw everything I know away for
19:25someone who's going to cheat.
19:28Maria and Kamilah have told me in the past that I should probably pack my and leave,
19:33but I obviously did not listen.
19:36Are you worried right now?
19:38No.
19:39No.
19:39I think I can trust him again.
19:41I truly do, because I see it.
19:45Like, I do see it changing.
19:46Yes, we have issues, and yes, I do cry about it.
19:49But to me now, I'm like, I am making the right decision.
19:55I mean, it sucks to know that they don't have hope for our relationship, but their opinions
20:02at the end of the day don't really change how I feel.
20:06Should we keep going?
20:07Okay.
20:08I'm going.
20:09I have to go home.
20:10I have to leave you guys.
20:12I do love him, and I want to be with him, so I hope that he can show me everything
20:16I'm
20:16doing for him is worth it.
20:19So, you know how much I'd love to go out with you?
20:24Okay.
20:26Unfortunately, or fortunately, Jonathan's going to come.
20:30It's meatball night.
20:31It's going to be meatball night, but I think it's also important that we all talk it out.
20:38Jonathan and I have one rule that if I'm going to a bar, I will always extend the invite
20:44to him, and Maria absolutely hates it.
20:47But at the end of the day, a relationship is a relationship, and I think it needs to be
20:51respected on both sides.
20:54So you can't go to a bar with your friend alone?
21:00No.
21:00I think...
21:01Well, no.
21:02Can I think you're a good lady?
21:03Um, I'll do a vodka Sprite with a little bit of grenadine, please.
21:07Treposado with pineapple juice, please.
21:10He's coming because he doesn't trust you at a bar.
21:14He has no reason to trust me.
21:16Yeah, but he's still coming tonight.
21:18Johnny, whenever he goes out with Kayner, he's doing stuff, so he thinks Chloe and I are
21:24doing the same.
21:25Come take a seat.
21:26Welcome back.
21:26How does it feel?
21:28I'm exhausted, but good.
21:30Yeah?
21:30In Spanish, you call it machista, like a macho, kind of like, I have the upper hand, you have
21:36to do this, you have to do that, but I can do this.
21:38And he kind of has that trait.
21:42We were saying, like, it's important, like, for you to be okay with me and Maria going
21:47out, because this is literally what we do.
21:48Yeah.
21:49Now you're living here, it's not vacation mode anymore.
21:52Like, you can't be, you know, going out till late.
21:55You just can't, you know what I mean?
21:56Like, maybe once or twice in a year, you know, like...
21:59Once or twice in a year?
22:00Yeah.
22:01Okay.
22:01Am I in jail?
22:02No, you are just...
22:04You are just...
22:04What do you mean?
22:05What do you mean?
22:06What do you mean?
22:06What do you mean?
22:06Yeah, but it just...
22:08Like, it'll just...
22:09Maybe one day it just happens.
22:11Like, if you were having a night where you were having so much fun, and you're like,
22:15It's just gonna be a late night.
22:18I can't pry you out of it.
22:19If you have a late night, I'll have a late night.
22:22Don't do it out of spite.
22:23That's not out of spite.
22:24But I mean, just saying, I don't want it to be a habit.
22:29The thing is, like, I feel like you recently
22:32have done things that are questionable.
22:36And I feel like you project that on her,
22:39thinking that she might be doing the same.
22:41You're gonna do anything.
22:44You didn't physically do anything.
22:46Exactly.
22:47You should not have messaged another girl.
22:49I didn't have messaged another girl.
22:53What girl did I messaged?
22:55The girl.
22:57I'm not getting into this.
23:00You messaged another girl that you met on Joy Pirate.
23:06That's why you're smiling.
23:07You do this when you know exactly what I'm talking about.
23:12Yeah.
23:13So now you're gonna tell me that you did it.
23:15I didn't, I didn't.
23:16You didn't actually have a threesome with another girl.
23:18No, but you implied that you were going to.
23:20You didn't say, no.
23:21You didn't say you were going to.
23:23You just, I don't even wanna look at you guys right now.
23:25But you can't say that didn't happen.
23:27Okay, yeah, it happened.
23:29Okay?
23:32You know, I like, it's hard to say,
23:34but like, before Chloe, I was doing whatever I want.
23:37And then when I started with Chloe,
23:38that habit really was still there with me for a little bit.
23:41So like a few months ago,
23:43there's these crazy girls that came on the boat,
23:45hanged out and stuff like that.
23:46I gave them my social.
23:48And then when I got home, she messaged me.
23:50And she said, hey, are you gonna go out?
23:52Said, no, I don't go out.
23:53I don't, I don't really drink.
23:54And she's like, what if you come with my friend?
23:57And I put as a joke saying, only if it's a threesome.
24:01And then, of course, Chloe saw the message like an hour later.
24:05How did Chloe see the message?
24:06And she checks my phone.
24:09Was it really a joke?
24:11I mean, yeah.
24:12It's a joke, man.
24:14It's a joke.
24:17Okay, so what I'm worried about is that,
24:20obviously, Chloe has given up everything for you.
24:24You know, head over heels, mom's company, everything.
24:29And I'm just worried that you haven't really
24:32changed doing what you do.
24:34I'm like, I'm just worried, like, honestly.
24:38I know you're concerned, but honestly, this is,
24:40she's living with me, you know what I mean?
24:42I never had anyone to live with me in my house, you know?
24:44So it's like, I'll be very, very serious.
24:48You know, I did up, you know, a couple of times.
24:52And, you know, I learned my lesson.
24:54And now I really, really want to take this seriously.
24:57I don't want to let her, nor her mom, nor you down with me.
25:04It's so frustrating because you engage in a conversation
25:08with him, and he just takes you in, you know?
25:10Johnny is such a charming guy.
25:13I believe that he loves her, and that he wants
25:16to believe what he's saying.
25:18But it's just a matter of time until he just does it again.
25:21Like, it's a habit.
25:22You know, she's young, and she's like, oh, yeah, I'm in love.
25:24I want to get married, and I'm like, oh, God.
25:32I support her, and I'm your mother.
25:34You know, you're like, oh, he's like, oh, yeah.
25:38No, I'll do this.
25:40No, it's not.
25:41You're the one who supports it, and he supports that.
25:42No, I don't support that.
25:44I can't help you.
25:46You can't say it, you people.
25:46Look at that.
26:06Let's go.
26:08Yeah, big name.
26:10Big name.
26:13This place is very beautiful.
26:15Yeah.
26:17Today is the holiday, so the cafe is closed, and we are going to a park to have a picnic
26:22and play cricket.
26:25I think this is good spot.
26:27Yeah.
26:28Jenny is not into any kind of sport, whether it's an outdoor, indoor, mental, any kind
26:34of...
26:34I said, Jenny, you know how to play cards?
26:36No.
26:36How to play chess?
26:37No.
26:38Like cricket?
26:39No.
26:39Nothing.
26:40So it should be interesting.
26:43Wow!
26:45I hit it!
26:50Oh!
26:56Whoa!
26:57You don't expect me to chase that, do you?
27:03Good.
27:04Yeah!
27:05Wow!
27:05Oh!
27:11Wow!
27:13Jenny dive!
27:22On the head.
27:27Jenny?
27:38I wasn't paying attention yeah she was kind of taking revenge you did that on purpose didn't
27:47you thank God that was a softball yeah not a real cricket ball I'd have been dead
28:02come sit next to me so huge Jenny oh oh my gosh
28:13no shoes on the mat you kind of where is the bed ball on the head bed on the bum
28:37what happened nothing she's just getting emotional that finally we all are living together
28:42but it was is very very very very very very very very very very very very simple
28:48I do accept any other day take it away as a soft
28:51I don't know what you can't not tell yeah huh
28:55I'm a local man direct a you know who can tell me to call him so he can tell me
29:11about
29:12everything I'm so happy that I'm so happy that I'm happy that I'm happy that I'm happy
29:16I'm just thinking, here we go again.
29:19We're always walking on eggshells with Samit's mom.
29:24And now that we're living with her, it's just gotten so much worse.
29:53What is she upset about?
29:56Things have to be like the way they want it.
30:00Like, I'm saying this, stop controlling, first of all.
30:03I agree. She needs to chill.
30:13No, I'm saying this place completely wrong.
30:16I'm supporting her, I'm supporting her.
30:18No, I'm not supporting her.
30:20I'm supporting her.
30:21I don't know about your family.
30:24Okay.
30:27Don't say anything. Don't say anything wrong.
30:30You're saying a lot wrong with me.
30:34Look, I didn't say anything in your support, so I thought you'd like it.
30:37You're saying wrong, but then I'll be out.
31:03I'm going to go check on Kiara, okay?
31:06Madeleine, calling a wedding off three, four times.
31:08I mean, that's not gonna happen right across the country.
31:09a very good indicator.
31:12My son, the two weeks that he's been here,
31:14the things that have gone wrong, it's, it's
31:18it's hard.
31:39My son, the two weeks that I'm sending you.
31:44Presente en atención.
31:45Bueno, eso se la aprenden todos.
31:47Nice to meet you.
31:50Nice.
31:51Nice.
31:52To.
31:53Meet.
31:55You.
31:56You.
31:57Es que una, dos y tres.
32:00Una, dos y tres.
32:02Nice.
32:03Nice.
32:04Oli, ¿cómo estás?
32:06Yo quiero presente a mi papá.
32:09Nice.
32:10You.
32:11Meet.
32:12Meet.
32:13You.
32:16It's the night before our wedding, and we're
32:19having a family dinner.
32:20My dad meeting Madeline's family is a huge deal.
32:24It's their first meeting.
32:25I want it to go smoothly.
32:27There's a huge language barrier.
32:29It's a little bit awkward.
32:31It's weird.
32:37My, my mom, she coming tomorrow.
32:39Oh, it's going to be beautiful.
32:41Yeah.
32:41It's going to be a beautiful day.
32:43Can you translate for me?
32:44This is, this is what weddings are about.
32:46The joining of families and, you know, happiness and just, just being in the moment.
32:53Yeah.
32:53Luke dice que de eso se tratan los matrimonios, de que las dos familias nos unamos como nuevas
33:00familias y que está súper feliz de vivir esta experiencia con nosotros.
33:04SÃ.
33:05Uh.
33:06Nosotros también estamos muy felices de, de estar ahora con la nueva familia porque
33:12ya para nosotros son parte de nuestra familia.
33:14Qué bueno.
33:16SÃ, eso es muy emocionado la hora.
33:19Ya.
33:20No.
33:21Yo creo que Mar y yo solo hemos hecho hablar cuando se llegue el taratatán.
33:28Taratatán!
33:30Taratatán!
33:31Taratatán!
33:32Taratatán!
33:33Taratatán!
33:33Taratatán!
33:33I know!
33:34Me quiero llorar.
33:35Qué pereza mi maquillaje!
33:38She can't wait until ta-dum-ta-dum, ta-dum-ta-dum, ta-dum-ta-dum-ta-dum.
33:44You're going to need one of these.
33:48Been a long time coming.
33:50Yeah.
33:50And it was meant to be.
33:51Two become one tomorrow.
33:54Tomorrow we'll be a single family.
33:57Forever family.
34:03I feel so blessed about we kind of have
34:06all my family to get there.
34:08Look at me being fighting a lot,
34:11and really that make me so many dabs.
34:13If we are ready to get married,
34:17but my family like that make me calm down,
34:21and this is wonderful for me.
34:28The weather here is so crazy.
34:33I see a prayer.
34:34God, please don't rain in tomorrow.
34:53I'm going to go check on Cairo, okay?
35:00All right, boy.
35:02Jeez.
35:08They're setting up for tomorrow already.
35:11Me?
35:11I'm so excited.
35:12I didn't see it in my eyes.
35:14In the rain, they're setting up for your wedding tomorrow.
35:16Yeah.
35:17It's got to go down, girl.
35:19Either way.
35:20Edie.
35:25Madeline, she's lovely.
35:28Luke's a very lucky man.
35:30But I must be honest.
35:32I've heard she can be quite controlling,
35:35and just strip her, and, you know,
35:37throwing the cake at Luke's face,
35:39and calling the wedding off three, four times.
35:42I mean, that's not a very good indicator going into a marriage.
35:47You're going to be marrying my son.
35:51And I am going to protect my son.
35:53But, you know, he's made so many sacrifices
35:57to spend the rest of his life with you
35:59until the day he dies.
36:01But it hasn't been an easy road.
36:03You know, there's been a lot of bumps in the road.
36:08I've got one question for you
36:09before I go to bed
36:10and then put that suit on in the morning.
36:14The two weeks that he's been here,
36:16the things that have gone wrong,
36:19it's...
36:20It's...
36:23You've had a couple of arguments
36:24because he told me about it.
36:25Yeah.
36:25Is this really what you want?
36:35There's no making this woman happy.
36:38I'm hitting a breaking point here.
36:40I'm just done.
36:44Someone needs to put her in her place.
37:08Why is she so upset?
37:11Is she mad at me?
37:13No.
37:14He has said that you need to give freedom to her kids also.
37:17She said that no,
37:18it will happen the way I want to do.
37:21Mom is very hard, isn't she?
37:23She's very...
37:24It's very difficult to make her happy.
37:26Yeah.
37:26Very difficult to make her happy.
37:32She's very happy.
37:36She's very happy.
37:38She's very happy.
37:40She's very happy.
37:43She's very happy.
37:56We were talking about her in the bazaar.
38:11She needs to calm down. She needs to relax. She's going to give herself a heart attack.
38:41God, man, who can enjoy their life behaving like that?
38:48It was only a matter of time before Sadhana lost it.
38:51I can't take this anymore. It's been six years living in India,
38:56dealing with mom's freakouts. There's no making this woman happy.
39:05It's making me realize that this is how it's always going to be with her. Screw that.
39:13I'm not going to live with someone yelling at me all the time just because they're not getting what
39:18they want. I'm hitting a breaking point here. I'm just done.
39:32She takes this I'm the boss of the family stuff too far.
39:40Someone needs to put her in her place.
39:48Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
39:51Oh, away we go.
39:54Petia said she wants to go back to the U.S. and go back to dancing.
39:58Hey, don't peck him.
40:00But I want us to stay together. I want this to work.
40:03When something's meant to be, it always finds a way.
40:10Now I feel like our life is really starting here.
40:13We finally found the perfect house and we are about to be moving in.
40:18Fully in for the first time.
40:22Oh my God!
40:23Hey, first time jitters.
40:27We have to adjust with mana.
40:30Somehow we have to make the cafe run.
40:33I'm not going to just follow mom's orders.
40:36I'm ready to leave.
40:37The arguments and the fighting.
40:40I'm too old for this.
40:43What happened two weeks ago with the stripper?
40:46He has cheated.
40:48But when he was younger.
40:49Right now, he done made me feel insecure about getting married to look tomorrow.
40:56You should have no doubts in your mind.
40:59No man alive would sacrifice what he sacrificed for you.
41:07Jonathan, he left his phone on his nightstand.
41:11So I respectively went through it.
41:15I don't think I've ever experienced this much hurt.
41:22I don't want to be around him.
41:25Like, I don't want to see him.
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