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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:02You guys remember B, right?
00:04Wait, wait.
00:06I'm going to them.
00:07Oh!
00:08People think that middle-aged women don't have sex.
00:10Like, it's just cobwebs down there.
00:12But I'm like, hello, come to Kim.
00:15Oh my gosh, it's got massage on it.
00:18Torture me, baby.
00:19All right, you asked for it.
00:20I thought Natalie and I were going
00:21to have this romantic, sexy weekend together.
00:25What the hell?
00:26But you just showed me how the bed works.
00:28That's my bed.
00:28This is your bed.
00:30So I'm really disappointed.
00:32Good night, Gino.
00:33Sweet dreams.
00:34I feel like we're having such an awesome time.
00:38But I just, I'm a little confused.
00:41We had a kiss.
00:42Does that mean that we're more than friends?
00:44There's a lot at stake here because once we have
00:47this conversation, there is no going back.
00:49Our friendship will be changed forever.
00:51I can't say right now that I can fully commit
00:55to being exclusive and can't say yes to us right now.
01:01Sophie's been talking about, man.
01:02You're thinking that she really want this.
01:05She's in the beginning stages of trying to discover where she's at.
01:09She's still killing.
01:11This made me think that Sophie's not ready for a legend shit.
01:14That made me feel like a freaking idiot.
01:16I was talking to Liz.
01:17She told me, like, maybe you have another guy in your mind.
01:21How to say, like, be careful.
01:24I invited Liz to the Dominican Republic.
01:26I thought we were friends.
01:27And then to go behind my back, she knows it's up.
01:31That's breaking girl code.
01:33Like, you don't do that.
01:35I'm really pissed.
01:51What do you think of my toes?
01:53I mean, their toes.
01:54Their feet.
01:55So if I asked you, I mean, would you ever suck my toes one by one?
02:04No.
02:05Nope.
02:15Did you sleep well?
02:17Oh my god, I slept like a baby.
02:19You got some big, big balls coming into this bed last night.
02:22I will give you that.
02:24Last night, you know, Natalie put me to sleep in the living room.
02:29But I felt a little lonely.
02:31So I thought it would be a kind of romantic gesture to sneak into Natalie's bedroom.
02:37We did cuddle and we enjoyed each other.
02:40It was actually intimate without even having sex.
02:44So if you don't mind, my skin overall is a little dry sometimes.
02:48OK.
02:48OK.
02:49And I was wondering if you could put some lotion on my back.
02:53I have some dry skin lotion.
02:55Absolutely.
02:56I'll do it.
02:56You'll do it for me?
02:57Yeah.
02:58Of course.
02:59That's great.
03:00OK.
03:00So I'm going to have to take my head off and shirt off quick.
03:07And...
03:07All right.
03:08Here.
03:09Turn your back towards me.
03:11Wow.
03:11Is this OK?
03:12Yep.
03:13It's going to be cold.
03:14I tried to warm him.
03:14Oh my gosh.
03:15Warm your hands.
03:16I did.
03:16Stop.
03:17Warm your hands.
03:19Stop.
03:20Waking up next to Gino is a little awkward.
03:22And honestly, I really don't know how I'm feeling about it.
03:26If he wants to have a relationship with me,
03:28it's not going to happen overnight.
03:29He has to earn back my trust.
03:31You know, earn back his place in my heart, in my bed.
03:38Oh my God.
03:38That feels good.
03:39But he's got this kind of swag to him that, I don't know,
03:42for some reason I can't resist it.
03:45So what would you like to do today?
03:47Well, I actually already have plans today.
03:49I have a potluck set up with the girls at work
03:51and some of their husbands.
03:53We do that about once a month.
03:55So, I mean, if you want to come, you can.
03:58All you got to do is bring a dish.
03:59I came here to see you.
04:01Of course I want to go.
04:02OK.
04:04The fact that Natalie is introducing me to her friends
04:07so quickly could be either good or bad.
04:11Either we're jumping back into it and didn't miss a beat.
04:16Or it could be a bad thing where she wants to introduce me
04:20to her friends to kind of get like a second opinion.
04:23So tonight is really important and it can decide a lot for us.
04:27I got to get ready.
04:27So you're kicking me out of the room.
04:31Bye.
04:35How long have we been going round the same old ups and downs?
04:42Going to the big party.
04:44Are you nervous?
04:45Yeah, a little bit.
04:46I mean, like, I don't know what your friends are going to be asking me.
04:49Is it going to be positive, negative?
04:52After everything that happened in Michigan, which kind of was out of my control.
04:56But, I don't know.
04:57Well, I mean, not all of it.
04:59I'm worried Natalie's friends are going to have this preconceived notion about me.
05:06And they might not even give me a chance.
05:15Hi.
05:16Hello.
05:17How are you?
05:18How are you?
05:18So beautiful.
05:20Oh, thank you.
05:22How are you?
05:23Hello.
05:23Nice to meet you.
05:25Nice to meet you.
05:25Nice to meet you.
05:25What's your name?
05:26Carla.
05:26Nice to meet you, Carla.
05:27Hi, Gino.
05:28Honey, nice to meet you.
05:29Nice to meet you.
05:30They're twins.
05:31I'm hoping my friends can see what I see in Gino.
05:34I think we should take these over to Melanie.
05:36And I'm hoping that Gino can also prove to them that he deserves another chance.
05:43Melanie.
05:44Okay.
05:44I'm Gina.
05:45Nice to meet you, Gino.
05:46Nice to meet you.
05:47Well, Melanie's one of my really good friends.
05:49We work together.
05:50I trust her opinion.
05:51She looks out for me.
05:53She has my back.
05:54So, he brought some sandwiches that he has to cook.
05:58Who wants a sandwich?
05:59There you go.
06:00I'm cooking a ham and cheese sandwich.
06:02Hey, Dave.
06:03Jay, lady.
06:04Would y'all like one?
06:05What's up?
06:06What's up?
06:06What's up?
06:06This is my specialty.
06:09I don't think the pan is on the heat.
06:12He's got this.
06:13Okay.
06:14There we go.
06:14When I was a short order cook back in the day, I would cook simple things like a ham and
06:20cheese sandwich.
06:20And, man, I can cook a really good one.
06:23I'll tell you.
06:25Oh, my God.
06:25My cheese is sticking to the...
06:27Oh, no.
06:28Ooh.
06:28That's not good.
06:30The cheese is sticking to the ham.
06:31But for some reason, after assembling these sandwiches and traveling over to the party, the freaking cheese and the ham
06:41was stuck together.
06:42Oh.
06:43That screws me.
06:44I can't cook like that, man.
06:46Is that cheese soup?
06:49The cheese is dripping.
06:51I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing.
06:53But it's gonna be great when you taste it.
06:55Okay.
06:56Do you have a clean plate?
06:57I really want the first one to look good.
06:59Sure.
06:59Of course.
06:59Yeah.
07:00It's all about that first serving.
07:02You're first.
07:03I need the double.
07:04Let's see how it goes.
07:09Any condiments in here?
07:12Any condiments at all?
07:13Cheese and meat.
07:15That's what we going with.
07:18It's pretty obvious that Gino doesn't go to many potlucks because ham and cheese sandwiches is not a normal option
07:27by any means.
07:29Whew.
07:30Yeah.
07:30How embarrassing.
07:31It's getting hot in here.
07:32I'm gonna go outside.
07:34Yeah.
07:34Okay.
07:35I hope that's melted enough.
07:37Yeah.
07:38Is there any plate?
07:39Yes.
07:39Up there.
07:41Yeah.
07:43So how long have you been friends with Natalie?
07:46So far about a couple of years.
07:47Couple of years?
07:48Couple of years.
07:49Okay.
07:49She has talked about you a little bit.
07:52So...
07:52Only a little bit.
07:54Just a little bit.
07:56Okay.
07:56Oh my gosh.
07:58Well, I understand because we kind of stopped talking for a bit after all this stuff went down
08:03in Michigan.
08:03Yeah.
08:03She did tell me that.
08:04The fact that she brought you here, I mean, that's a big plus.
08:10She doesn't just bring anybody here, so...
08:13Oh, really?
08:13Yeah.
08:14I mean, she's talked about guys, but not...
08:16Oh, she has?
08:17She has met.
08:18Yes.
08:18But you're saying she's dating other guys?
08:20No, she's not dating other guys.
08:21Yes.
08:22Are you talking to other women or are you...
08:26Um, well...
08:29There are some girls that are writing me because they know my marriage is over.
08:35And are you writing back to them?
08:37Are you entertaining that?
08:39Well, I talked to them, but...
08:40I don't...
08:41I haven't met anyone.
08:42Yeah.
08:43And does Natalie know that?
08:46Uh...
08:47I don't know.
08:48I am not feeling a good vibe right now with Melanie.
08:52I understand she's trying to protect Natalie, but this is feeling like an interrogation.
08:58And I'm very worried that I could have just blown the whole thing.
09:03Now I'm having a second thought about you.
09:38I'm very sad because I have a strong feeling for Sophie, but she told me she want to date
09:44in other people.
09:45And now she's been telling me not to stop.
09:47Like, how you doing?
09:49Are you okay?
09:50Are you mad?
09:51Why you care?
09:54I am so confused.
09:56I need some advice.
10:09Why are you here alone?
10:12Eh?
10:13Take a drink.
10:14Oh, my God.
10:15You look great.
10:17You're so beautiful.
10:19This is soul.
10:20Soul?
10:20You look great.
10:22My sister Nicole, she's very protected.
10:25Because when I dating girl, she told me all the time, you are a little dumb.
10:32You want to take her for a walk?
10:34She doesn't like to walk enough.
10:36She doesn't like to walk enough.
10:36She doesn't like to walk.
10:37She hates it.
10:38But it turned out my sister was all the time right about my ex-wife, Chantelle.
10:43What's your problem with me?
10:46Oh, no.
10:48I'm finished.
10:49Bye.
10:49Oh, okay.
10:51After my divorce, I promise to myself that I'm not going to be with somebody else, you
10:55know?
10:56That it's not getting along with my family.
10:58Mm-hmm.
10:59How you doing?
11:00How you been?
11:01I'm good.
11:01And you?
11:02It's a lot of things going on here right now.
11:05What is the girl?
11:07Huh?
11:07Sophie?
11:08Yeah, Sophie.
11:09What?
11:09She's been, like, kind of off.
11:13You know, she's with her friends right now.
11:17Like, she's being a little decent right now.
11:19And, you know, that's making me a little worried.
11:22Like, yesterday, we got a little conversation regardless, you know, what we're here for.
11:28Mm-hmm.
11:29She tell me that she's not ready dating.
11:32That she won't want talking because there's been a lot going on in her life.
11:36It's past relationships.
11:38That she have been healed.
11:39If you've not been healed before, why you try to approach to me?
11:42Because I try to be a good man, you know.
11:45I know, I know.
11:46Send the flowers two times a month.
11:48You know?
11:49Yeah, you know.
11:51You're really in love.
11:53You are really in love.
11:56So...
11:56Don't tell me like that because that may be me like stupid.
11:58No, no, no, no, no.
11:59You are not stupid.
12:01It's not your fault.
12:02You are doing anything you can do to make her happy.
12:06And she doesn't appreciate that.
12:09It's the first time after Pedro divorcing from Chantel, he's in love with someone else.
12:15And I feel so, so frustrated right now because I love my brother and I know how, how good guy
12:23he is.
12:24But Sophie cannot say that.
12:25I need to protect him because I want to see him living his best life with a woman who really
12:32loves him and has commitment.
12:35And I don't feel like appreciated enough.
12:38Exactly.
12:39I don't appreciate enough.
12:40I don't feel like she's taking me for for granted or she's taking me like I'm playing.
12:45I'm not playing.
12:45I was seriously from the beginning, like.
12:47It's frustrated.
12:47Yeah, that's a little frustrating.
12:49It's frustrated.
12:50Yeah.
12:51Let's go.
12:51You are too good.
12:52Let's walk.
12:53I need to walk.
12:55I don't know.
12:56Come on.
12:57You got her?
12:58Come on, babe.
12:59Being honest.
12:59Being honest, Pedro, I don't like this.
13:03She's so immature.
13:05Yeah.
13:05How old is she?
13:07She's 26 at the moment.
13:0826.
13:09She's not a woman.
13:12She is acting like a little girl.
13:15Like, I don't know what I want.
13:18Believe me.
13:19When a woman is really interested in a man, she is going to do anything she can do to impress
13:27this man and be with that man.
13:30You know?
13:31Yeah.
13:33I said, OK.
13:34If you were someone and you want to entertain other people, how you entertain me.
13:38Exactly.
13:39Oh, yes.
13:40Of course.
13:40I said, what the ?
13:42Maybe she's confused.
13:43Confused people hurt people.
13:45It's the most dangerous people in the world.
13:48You are going to suffer and you are going to be, you're going to be like a collateral damage.
13:56I feel that I had to listen to Nicole because she always write about my relationship with Chantal in the
14:01past.
14:02But at the same time, I really, really want a Sophie.
14:04She has part of my heart already.
14:08But I don't know if I can not be exclusive with her.
14:11And that's going to make me, like, sad.
14:14She wants to date another guy.
14:16Maybe I have to walk away.
14:20Anything you decide about Sophie, I will be there for you.
14:23OK?
14:24Because I want to see you happy.
14:26You are my only brother.
14:28Oh.
14:29And I love you.
14:30Oh.
14:30But being honest, I think you're going to ruin your life again.
14:38This is Kimberly.
14:40Hi.
14:40How are you?
14:41My friends have been trying to set me up with Joe for a while.
14:44And it's been a long time since I've even met anybody that's, like, relationship material.
14:49You're a beautiful woman.
14:49You're charming.
14:51You're charming.
14:52I like you.
14:53Why would you tell her, Joe, that he should be careful with me?
14:55He told me you were just scared.
14:57He said, I had a conversation with Liz.
14:59And Liz said, you're doing all this for Sophie.
15:01And she doesn't appreciate it.
15:03Because you're scared.
15:04You've never had it.
15:05You're trying to tell me that I'm trying to sabotage you and Pedro.
15:09Like, yeah, this is bull .
15:24I'm in a stage of my life where I see what I want and I go after it.
15:28Because I don't want those confusing, blurry lines.
15:31But I just can't say yes to us right now.
15:47I can't say right now that I can fully commit to being exclusive.
15:52And I feel overwhelmed with just making a decision on the spot.
15:59This is super disappointing.
16:02You know, I've put myself out there.
16:04I let him know how I feel.
16:05And he's essentially saying no.
16:08I thought we were kind of on the same page.
16:10Maybe I misread the signs that you were giving me.
16:15It's very disheartening because what I see in Tony is something very, very special.
16:20Our life goals are the same.
16:22We have the trust.
16:23We have the closeness.
16:24We have the bond.
16:25Like, seriously, what more can this guy want?
16:30You mean so much to me.
16:31And I've dated so many other guys who I feel like they totally destroyed my sense of trust and things
16:39like that.
16:39And I feel like I have that with you.
16:41And this makes sense.
16:44For me, it's a title.
16:46Putting a title to it, to me, is kind of very restrictive because it just, you have these expectations then.
16:52This is what's so confusing to me is I feel like you're giving me such mixed messages.
16:57So what is even today?
16:59Is this we're just hanging out?
17:00Or is this a date?
17:02I mean, did you have one still today if I called it a date or if I called it a
17:06hangout?
17:06But I want to know what you look at it as.
17:09I want to know what do I mean to you.
17:12Is this all coming from the kiss that we had last week?
17:15Is that why?
17:16I mean, that helped kind of spark my thoughts about everything because you're not making a move.
17:22So I was the one that instigated the kiss.
17:24And now I'm wondering if I didn't, would it have ever even happened?
17:29I can't answer your question.
17:30If you didn't kiss me, would I have kissed you?
17:31I could have, you know?
17:32But you didn't.
17:36Sometimes I think Vanya, she just jumps right in.
17:38She throws all her emotions into everything.
17:40She wants to commit right away.
17:42I like to take a lot of time when I date.
17:45I want to be sure a thousand percent that she's the one.
17:48Obviously, there's no rush for anything.
17:51But I just want to make sure that we're aligning.
17:53And I know that you make me happy.
17:55And I think I make you happy.
17:58I feel the same way.
17:59And I want to have more dates.
18:00And I want to get to know you better.
18:03I'm not trying to rush in.
18:05I'm not trying to...
18:06Yeah, me too.
18:06I want to know everything about you before I make that final step.
18:09And if that's something you're on board with, I think that's something I can commit to.
18:12I mean, I would like a little bit more of a defined situation, but I guess it's the step in
18:18the right direction.
18:22It's definitely better than I know.
18:24Right.
18:25But I thought that Tony has had feelings for me this entire time.
18:29And I thought that once I laid out for him that, hey, I'm interested too, that he would just sweep
18:34me into his arms and we would ride off into the sunset together.
18:38And that's not what happened.
18:41So until our next date?
18:42Yes.
18:47I've already wasted so much time in my life on men in the past who have commitment issues, who don't
18:53know what they want out of life.
18:56So if Tony is not ready to make a commitment, then I'm done.
19:00Done with that.
19:00I don't know the treasure map.
19:02X marks the spots in my heart.
19:04You got to start.
19:10I'm a little bit salty and I'm not a bit sweet.
19:13If you come to my table, you better know what I need.
19:16I know what you mean.
19:19I'm gonna be a snack.
19:21I'ma for a course for you.
19:22Yeah.
19:24Not bad, Kim.
19:25Not bad for 55.
19:26What?
19:27Let's go par-tay.
19:31If you want a little sour, make it taste better electric.
19:34Yeah, I'm always in the kitchen.
19:35You can come on and get it.
19:37Thank you so much.
19:38I'm meeting some single men tonight.
19:47Hi.
19:47Oh my God, here we go.
19:49Kimberly.
19:49Kimberly?
19:50Kimberly in a skirt.
19:51What is this?
19:51Kimberly in a skirt.
19:53You look beautiful.
19:54Are you excited?
19:55I am excited.
19:56I love seeing you in a skirt.
19:58So my friends Jody and Laura, they throw these fabulous parties like every couple months.
20:02So I decided to get up off the couch, leave my cats at home and forget about the family stuff
20:07for one night.
20:07So how'd it go with B?
20:11Last time you saw him.
20:12I mean, I got my needs met.
20:14Right?
20:15But I've always had feelings for B. You know what I mean?
20:18You're a long time guy, kind of.
20:19Yeah.
20:20So like, even since the last time I saw him, I've just really been thinking about what I want.
20:24You know what I mean?
20:25And I think he's just always going to be this bachelor guy that, you know, and I just need more
20:29than that now.
20:31B is always going to have a special place in my heart.
20:33Like always.
20:35But with everything that's going on in my life, the adoptions and everything coming to light, I really need somebody
20:41who is like emotionally stable enough to deal with all of my .
20:47Jodi, come here because I know this is the first lay you've had in a while.
20:50Yeah.
20:51The lay.
20:52Like seven years.
20:52Oh, I want to get laid.
20:54I don't know when last time you got laid.
20:56You're crazy.
20:56Oh, God.
20:57It's lady.
20:57I don't even know.
20:58Yeah.
20:59Let's get this party started.
21:01Let's get this party started.
21:03Woo!
21:05Here comes the party.
21:07Hi, guys.
21:08I'm Kim.
21:10How are you?
21:10Nice to meet you.
21:11What's up?
21:12Oh, you need to get laid.
21:13Oh, my God.
21:14You need to get laid.
21:14I remember you from the parties.
21:16Hi, Neil.
21:17I haven't seen you in a long time.
21:22I just lost like 50 pounds.
21:24So I just started wearing skirts with little slits in them.
21:27And with a slit?
21:28I really like your slit.
21:29Okay.
21:30Cheers for that.
21:31Okay.
21:32Hi, Jodi.
21:34Hi.
21:35How are you?
21:35Good. How are you?
21:36I'm doing good.
21:37Hello.
21:38Hi, Joe.
21:39How are you?
21:39Nice to see you as well.
21:41This is Kimberly.
21:42Hi.
21:43Nice to meet you as well.
21:44Nice to meet you as well.
21:45Joe, let's get you laid first.
21:47Let's do it.
21:47Let's do it, guys.
21:48Take care of business first.
21:50I feel so much better now.
21:52You just got laid.
21:53You should feel so much better.
21:54Hey, guys.
21:55It's limbo time.
21:58Woo!
21:59Thanks, Joe.
21:59You know we celebrate.
22:01It's our time.
22:02Good luck, baby.
22:03Yeah.
22:04My friends have been trying to set me up with Joe for a while.
22:07But he's a little bit on the short side.
22:09So I've been a little leery.
22:10Come on, Kim.
22:11You know you can do it.
22:12All right.
22:12I'll go.
22:12I'll go.
22:13I'll go.
22:14I'll go.
22:14I'll go.
22:15Let me make this clear.
22:16I am 5'9".
22:17Your girl is tall, okay?
22:19And I'm not saying you have to be 6'7", or anything,
22:21but at least be my height.
22:23I don't want to feel like an Amazon.
22:25Come on, little one.
22:26Come on.
22:27Let's go.
22:27If my hip pops out in this bitch,
22:29I'm telling you right now.
22:30Ready?
22:31One, two, three.
22:32One, two, three.
22:34One, two, three.
22:36But now that I'm seeing him in person,
22:38he's kind of cute.
22:39Not really at eye level, but he's cute.
22:42Kim, are you from here?
22:43I'm from San Diego, yeah.
22:44Okay.
22:44I'm originally from Philadelphia.
22:46Are you?
22:47I know.
22:47Can't tell, right?
22:48No.
22:48I've gotten stoff since I've been here in California.
22:50Is that what happened?
22:51Yeah.
22:52I lived in Virginia for like 25 years.
22:54I moved back home when my mom started having
22:56health problems and stuff, so I moved back home
22:5710 years ago, thank you.
22:59So then, yeah, I've been here ever since.
23:01Do you have any kids?
23:02I have a daughter.
23:02We're best of friends.
23:03It's like, we're very cool.
23:04That's how I am with my son.
23:05I have a son named Jamal.
23:06He works for this like modeling agency with his friends
23:09and he's like, he's so good looking.
23:11I mean, this is a job for him.
23:12So he takes after his mom, huh?
23:14You're charming.
23:15I like you.
23:15You know what I'm saying?
23:16You're a beautiful woman.
23:17You're charming.
23:18I am charming.
23:19I can tell that all the time.
23:20It's so funny.
23:22My first impression of Kim is that
23:24she's a breath of fresh air.
23:25She's a woman that's full of life.
23:27You feel her energy, you know?
23:28And it seems like we had known each other for years.
23:31So what do you do on your free time?
23:33I write music.
23:34I produce music.
23:35Wow.
23:35I love music.
23:36I have to ask you something.
23:37I have to interrupt.
23:37Are you a Michael Jackson fan?
23:39Yes, absolutely.
23:39From the time I was a little kid,
23:41the very first album I ever bought was ABC by the Jackson 5.
23:43It's so crazy.
23:43I have a tattoo of him on my arm.
23:45Do you really?
23:45I do.
23:46It's the hat.
23:47It's the hat and the glove.
23:48Wow.
23:49That is so cool.
23:51You know there's a movie coming out, right?
23:52Honey, I know all about it.
23:54I'm sorry.
23:55I should know.
23:56So my short king loves the king of pop.
23:59Okay, Joe.
24:00I see you.
24:01He gets major points for that.
24:02Should we mingle?
24:04Honey, otherwise we just stay here the whole night.
24:05I know.
24:05Let's just go.
24:06All right.
24:06Let's go mingle.
24:07I'll talk to you soon.
24:08All right, yeah.
24:09Yeah, I'll hook up people for you.
24:10I like him.
24:12He's so nice.
24:13He was like, you're so pretty.
24:15Blah, blah, blah.
24:16Did he have a connection to you?
24:17I felt it.
24:18I felt it.
24:18And I was really surprised, you know?
24:20But I just, I felt like really, like, safe.
24:23Oh, my.
24:23You know?
24:23I love that feeling.
24:24Oh, my God.
24:25That's the best feeling.
24:26Yeah.
24:26Joe said all the right things.
24:28Like complimenting me on my outfit, complimenting on how pretty I am.
24:31And he made me feel really beautiful.
24:34Yes, yes, yes.
24:35You know, it's like when you first meet people, you just don't hear that.
24:39It's always they pick out the flaws in me before they see the beautiful Kim.
24:43Ready?
24:43One, two, three.
24:45Ah!
24:50I think that's like a game changer for me, you know?
24:52It's like green flag, green flag, green flag, green flag.
24:55So, yeah.
24:55I like them.
24:56How are you getting home?
24:57I'm taking an Uber because I live in the boondocks.
25:01Okay.
25:01You mind if I walk you out as you go?
25:03No, I would love that.
25:04Okay.
25:05Are you ready to go?
25:06Yes.
25:06Okay.
25:06Thank you for walking me out.
25:07Of course.
25:09Don't have too much fun tonight.
25:11Huh?
25:12Don't have too much fun tonight.
25:13Shut up.
25:14I'm going home.
25:16I don't want to put like any unrealistic expectations onto Joe, you know?
25:21But he seems like such a good, like a genuine soul.
25:25Do you mind if I give you a hug?
25:26No, of course not.
25:28So nice to meet you.
25:29Nice to meet you.
25:30So nice to meet you.
25:30I look forward to talking to you.
25:32I know me too.
25:33Are you gonna text me?
25:34I will talk to you.
25:35Okay.
25:35Absolutely.
25:36I really want to find love.
25:37And it's been a long time since I've even met anybody that's like relationship material.
25:42But at the same time, it's like terrifying to think that I could get close with someone,
25:47tell them all about my past, and that could make somebody walk away from me.
25:53All right.
25:53Bye, Joe.
25:54Bye-bye.
25:54Nice to meet you.
25:55You too.
25:57It was really nice.
26:00Are you normally one who kind of takes charge?
26:03Yeah, definitely chivalrous guy.
26:06He is definitely the type of person I want in my life.
26:10But I haven't told him yet about my cancer.
26:12I'm afraid that it might make him just want to run.
26:15He makes me nervous.
26:17Why?
26:27If you want to take it slow.
26:30Girl, you gotta let me know.
26:33I'm into you and that's for sure.
26:35I don't want to let this feeling go.
26:37Right now, I'm texting Thea.
26:40And I'm letting him know that I am on my way to meet him at kayaking.
26:46The DR is beautiful.
26:48The rain has let up.
26:49And, you know, day two.
26:52I want you to take me, take me, take me to make go.
26:57A favorite kiss you got me sometimes.
27:00A favorite kiss you got me upside down.
27:05What's up?
27:06Hi.
27:06How are you?
27:07I'm good, how are you?
27:08Good, good, good.
27:10I bought you some shoes.
27:13Wait, I didn't even know we need shoes.
27:15Well, I kind of figured that, so that's why I got them for you.
27:18I'm the master kayaker here.
27:20I had a great first date with Via.
27:22We went surfing and now we're going kayaking.
27:26And I love that he wants to go out and do these things with me.
27:33You know what you're doing.
27:35Oh, oh.
27:36No.
27:37No, you don't.
27:38No, I don't.
27:39You know you don't.
27:40In all my past relationships, the focus was never really on anything I wanted to do.
27:46When I was with Ed, he was such a princess.
27:49It was always fine dining, bottles of wine, cappuccino, steak, and then a nightcap at home.
27:57We never got out.
27:58We were never active with each other.
27:59How about we, like, hit it hard right now?
28:05Let's go, slow down.
28:06And when I was with Jason, he just was a homebody.
28:09The most exciting thing we did was every Wednesday we went to go get chicken wings.
28:13And then we came home and went to bed.
28:16This is fun.
28:17I'm actually really enjoying this.
28:20You've been single for like a year and a half?
28:21Yeah, about a year and a half.
28:24I tend to jump from, like, serious relationship to another one.
28:28Like, I don't regret any of my past relationships, but they definitely weren't easy.
28:33Yeah.
28:34I've always been one to kind of end up being, like, the dominant in the relationship
28:37and never been able to, like, really be feminine in a relationship.
28:42Are you normally one who kind of takes charge?
28:45Yeah, definitely, definitely a chivalrous guy.
28:51Like, all your chivalry is, like, so new to me.
28:54It's a big culture thing.
28:55Yeah.
28:56Because my dad was very traditional and very macho.
29:03V is very chivalrous.
29:05This is exciting for me.
29:07It's something different.
29:08I've always felt like the man in the relationship.
29:11Like, there's times when I would open Ed's door or help him into the car.
29:14You gonna jump in, though?
29:15I'm jumping in.
29:19But V is very attentive.
29:21I feel safe.
29:22I feel comfortable.
29:23And I realize, especially since I've gotten sick, that V is definitely the type of person
29:27I want in my life.
29:29I'm enjoying my time here, for sure.
29:32I'm glad I met you.
29:36Like I said, it's so unexpected.
29:41You make me nervous.
29:42Why?
29:44You're smiling a lot right now.
30:01Mm.
30:02Okay.
30:04I didn't expect that.
30:07I think I'm really falling for Via.
30:10It's like almost this like fairytale dream come true.
30:13Well, that was nice.
30:16Okay.
30:18But I haven't told him yet about my cancer.
30:21I'm afraid that it might make him just want to run.
30:25Well, I think I have girls night around two tonight.
30:28Okay.
30:30I don't know what I'm doing, but I'll definitely let you know.
30:34It's kind of like, am I even worthy to date?
30:36Am I worth someone taking a chance on me?
30:39Because, I mean, I wouldn't even know if I'd want to date someone knowing that they're sick
30:44right now.
30:45It's such a complicated, hard experience.
30:48I never thought I'd have to be sharing this.
30:50This is supposed to be my getaway.
30:56Are you taking her seriously?
30:59I'm not a player or anything like that.
31:00That's just saying.
31:01Are you sure?
31:03If Natalie's friends don't like me, this can destroy our relationship.
31:08He seems like he does like you.
31:12Okay.
31:12But I think he's hiding something.
31:31Are you talking to other women or are you?
31:34I talk to them, but I haven't met anyone.
31:39And does Natalie know that?
31:42I don't know.
31:44I told Mel that I'm speaking with other girls because I wanted to be honest with her.
31:50But I'm realizing that I f***ed up.
31:54Now I'm Gino the player instead of being this really good guy.
31:59If Natalie's friends don't like me, this can destroy our relationship.
32:05Now I'm having a second thought about you.
32:08Are you taking her seriously though?
32:11Oh, am I taking her?
32:12Yeah, of course I am.
32:13Okay.
32:13Of course.
32:14Yeah.
32:14It's not like, I'm not a player or anything like that.
32:17That's just saying.
32:18Are you sure?
32:20Yeah.
32:21All right.
32:22How you going?
32:24Hey, how's it going, man?
32:26Good.
32:27Yeah.
32:28All right.
32:28Good, good.
32:30So, I was talking to Gino.
32:32Okay.
32:34Um, so how has it been since he's been in D.C.?
32:38I mean, it's been good.
32:40We get along really well.
32:42He's been very flirtatious.
32:44I mean, he was even in my bed last night.
32:46Oh?
32:46Yes.
32:47But I have my guard up with everything.
32:50He seems like he does like you.
32:55Okay.
32:56But when he's talking to me, he's not really looking at me eye to eye.
33:00Right.
33:01And I think he's hiding something.
33:04Right.
33:04He was telling me that there was a woman writing to him.
33:07Okay.
33:07Is he talking to other women?
33:11He is.
33:12Yeah.
33:13To find out that he's talking to other women is disappointing.
33:16We're not in an exclusive relationship, but, like, this is exactly the problem that I had with him in the
33:21first place.
33:22He thinks if he, you know, omits something just because he didn't tell you, he doesn't think that's lying.
33:28We actually really haven't sat down and talked to each other about that.
33:32But what I do know is that I'm not going to put myself in a situation where I get hurt
33:42again.
33:42Absolutely not.
33:44I see.
33:45Yeah.
33:46Do you not like him?
33:47Be honest.
33:48Do you like him or not?
33:49Like, do you?
33:49I really don't.
33:50Okay.
33:51I really don't.
33:52You don't like him.
33:52Yeah, I don't like him.
33:55I'm looking at this whole weekend like it's a big test for Gino.
33:58I want to believe that he can be truthful.
34:01I want to believe that he can be honest and that all of this is because of his past trauma,
34:05his relationship, everything that he's gone through.
34:08I don't want to keep looking.
34:09I don't want to keep searching.
34:10I don't want to keep asking.
34:11I don't want to keep wondering.
34:13I want to believe him.
34:17How are you?
34:17How are you?
34:18Good.
34:19What were you all talking about out there?
34:21Nothing.
34:22Real stuff.
34:22Real stuff?
34:23Just work stuff.
34:25But if he thinks he's going to make a fool out of me again, I mean, he's crazy.
34:29That's not going to happen.
34:31All right.
34:36Like, I really like Pedro, but for me it's really important to enjoy my freedom.
34:41So I think tonight I'm going to focus on that.
34:43This trip is just not going how I hoped at all.
34:46Pedro just goes to me and not even reply to any of my messages.
34:49My name is Tao.
34:50Nice to meet you.
34:51But this hot guy has already come up to me trying to flirt with me.
34:54Yeah, I kind of like it.
34:55This is what I needed.
34:56Cheers.
34:56This is how you were.
35:05It's true.
35:11Yeah!
35:27This trip is just not going how I hoped at all so far, like I feel like the first night
35:31was just awkward and weird and then Liz, my friend, spoke negatively about me to the girl I'm talking to,
35:38so I'm still pissed off at her and now Pedro's not even replying to any of my messages.
35:42Gracias.
35:46Salud.
35:47Gracias.
35:48Now I'm like, well, I guess he's just decided to ghost me and that's it then.
35:53But I'm not going to spend my night stressing about it. I just want to have fun.
35:58Arriba. Abajo.
35:59Al centro.
36:00Al centro.
36:01Alimento.
36:02In your mouth.
36:05Do you see some cute guys around?
36:07Oh, yeah. I've already seen two and I just got here.
36:09All right, yeah.
36:11Good.
36:12It's good.
36:12I'm excited.
36:13Like, I really like Pedro, but for me it's really important to also enjoy my freedom, you know?
36:19And so I think tonight I'm going to focus on that.
36:22Good.
36:22So maybe when today you go home not alone.
36:26I mean, I...
36:27Chill.
36:28Chill.
36:31Oh my God, he's looking at me.
36:34Okay, if you end up with somebody tonight, you should take him to tomorrow.
36:39Because my room is messy.
36:41No, they need to know the real me.
36:43Not the first night.
36:45He needs to see my room.
36:46Not the first night.
36:47Hello.
36:47Hi.
36:48Okay.
36:48Sorry girls for coming like that.
36:50Okay.
36:51Julia.
36:52My name is Tau.
36:53Nice to meet you.
36:54I'm Sophie.
36:55You're here on vacation?
36:57Yeah.
36:57Okay, where you come from?
36:59Uh, we both live in America.
37:01Oh, how long have you been here?
37:03Four days.
37:04And what do you do in that four days?
37:06I've come here to support Sophie because she are, have a difficult time.
37:12She are divorcing.
37:14So, and now I'm supporting her single funny life.
37:19So we have a girl's treat.
37:21Yeah.
37:22What are you doing here?
37:24I am general doctor.
37:26After work, I come in, take a drink, like relax a little bit.
37:30This hot doctor guy has already come up to me, trying to flirt with me.
37:34He talks very slow and, and mysteriously, you know?
37:38So, yeah, I kind of like it.
37:40This is what I needed.
37:42One more juice of piña, too.
37:45Oh, you speak Spanish also.
37:47Oh, yeah.
37:48I used to live in Spain, in Spain.
37:49And not, not fluent, but...
37:51A little bit.
37:52A little bit.
37:52What is that?
37:53How are you?
37:54Hi.
37:56How are you?
37:57Hi.
38:00Ugh.
38:01That grows the vibe.
38:03Hi.
38:04Gustavo.
38:04Liz.
38:05Gustavo.
38:06Nice to meet you.
38:07Nice to meet you, too.
38:08What do you want to drink?
38:09Um, what are we drinking?
38:11Majito.
38:12Should we go over to this side?
38:13Yes, and then go.
38:15I just arrived at the bar, and Sophie's not acknowledging my presence at all.
38:22She immediately takes off to the other side of the bar with this guy.
38:26She's being cold.
38:27Sophie.
38:28Please don't talk to me.
38:29Let's go into the girls' talk.
38:31We can go into, like, right here somewhere.
38:33It doesn't feel good.
38:35Yes.
38:35Nice.
38:37Okay, quick question.
38:39Do you like doctor?
38:40As soon as he says he's a doctor, I'm like, you say FIFA?
38:43I'm like...
38:44Like, his personality is very kind.
38:47I like him.
38:48Okay, wow.
38:49I think I need a lot to be caught up on.
38:51What's been going on with Pedro?
38:55She texted you tonight?
38:57Let me check in.
39:00He hasn't texted me.
39:02That's the answer?
39:03Yes.
39:04So, in the past, like, more than 24 hours, he's kind of been ghosting me.
39:09I don't know what happened.
39:13Yesterday, me and him had a conversation, and it didn't go well because he came into that, like, thinking I
39:20had a boyfriend or something.
39:21And I was like, why do you think that?
39:23And he told me this made me feel like there is another guy.
39:27And he should be careful because he's going to get his feelings hurt with me because I'm not ready.
39:34Well, Sophie, I was obviously drinking, but if I do remember, he told me you would be different.
39:40But why would you tell him he should be careful with me?
39:43I was trying to make it known, okay, well, she's not used to this, so don't be, like, pushed away
39:49from it.
39:49But everything I told you, he knows.
39:53And I feel bad.
39:53Then why would you tell him that he should be careful with me?
39:56If I said be careful, I didn't mean it that way.
39:59I don't give a about Pedro.
40:01I'm worried about Sophie getting hurt.
40:04I want him to be careful with her heart.
40:05Take it slow.
40:06I'm not trying to sabotage you.
40:12Yeah, this is bull****.
40:15So, technically, all of this conversation, because he...
40:19No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
40:20He said, I had a conversation with Liz, and Liz said, you're doing all this for Sophie, and she's not
40:25ready, she doesn't appreciate it.
40:27Because you're scared you've never had it.
40:28It's not your place.
40:29I haven't had it.
40:30You're correct.
40:31I just felt for your pain and everything.
40:33I'm sorry.
40:34You're talking about it.
40:35You feel for Pedro's pain, because I can tell you.
40:36I don't feel for Pedro's pain.
40:38You told Pedro's pain.
40:39She doesn't deserve it, because she's not ready.
40:42I don't know what the is going on.
40:44I feel like Sophie's looking for someone to blame for her relationship problems with Pedro, but she's not going to
40:49put the blame on me.
40:51I've invited you here.
40:52As a friend.
40:53At the end of the day, girl.
40:54You should have my back, not his back.
40:56You just want him.
41:00Next time on The Single Life.
41:02I really like this.
41:04Wow.
41:04I'm feeling so like...
41:05Can you look at her eyes?
41:06I'm trying to.
41:07That's how beautiful you look.
41:08They call them fun pillows.
41:09You don't need to bounce them.
41:10I found the perfect outfit for my first date with Joe, but I have to say I'm a little nervous.
41:15I need you to do something goofy or sexy.
41:17I'm not doing anything sexy.
41:18I don't know you.
41:20Ready?
41:21Joe seems really, really, really great, like a great guy, but they all started out sweet.
41:26Usman started out sweet.
41:27Got it.
41:28Okay.
41:29I should do love your dress.
41:32The fact that I haven't told Bia yet about my cancer makes me extremely anxious, because
41:37I don't know how he'll react.
41:38But with the way I'm feeling with Bia, I know I have to.
41:41I don't share with a lot of people, like, how I'm, like, sick right now.
41:47A lot happened at once, and suddenly it's like not only are we dating, but it's like we're
41:51married or something.
41:53It's just a lot.
41:55Are you kidding me?
41:56After everything I've done for you, you piece of , you have erectile dysfunction.
42:03You can't walk.
42:03You're homeless.
42:04You're jobless.
42:05The level of disrespect is insane.
42:09You've never had my back.
42:11Yes, I have.
42:11You've never had my back.
42:12Enough.
42:13Enough.
42:14Pedro's goes to me, probably will never talk to me again.
42:16So at this point, I'm just done with Liz, and I'm just done with this whole trip.
42:21Bye, Liz.
42:21Go home.
42:22Bye.
42:23Adios.
42:24It is.
42:25She just it all up.
42:27She's a horrible person.
42:29She.
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