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Unexpected - Season 7 Episode 2 - What Tests Will I Have
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00:00Previously on Unexpected.
00:02Every time I go to the bathroom, it's like dribble, dribble, dribble.
00:05It's annoying.
00:06Well, I done told you you couldn't handle pregnancy.
00:09I'm Isabella.
00:10Me and Bryce have been dating for a year.
00:12We're fixing to have a baby.
00:13We're not fixing to do nothing.
00:14It's fixing to be me pushing out a baby.
00:17So how has the job search been going?
00:19Not too successful.
00:21Buddy, Bryce assured me that he was going to take care of the baby,
00:25and he's not even trying.
00:28Are we together or not?
00:28I don't know.
00:30I'm asking for the bare minimum.
00:31I'm not asking for the freaking moon.
00:33Leave.
00:34I don't care.
00:35All right, that's fine.
00:36Text me whenever your little attitude is over with.
00:40Oh, I'm scared.
00:42I'm scared.
00:43I'm Amaya.
00:44I'm 16 years old, and I'm having a baby, literally.
00:48You're just going to look at me and focus, okay?
00:50She just doesn't know what she's about to go through.
00:54There is going to be a moment where you steal everything that that girl won't cover.
00:58We call that the ring of fire.
01:00You know, there goes that worrying about your kid part.
01:03It's time to push.
01:04I can't.
01:05I can't.
01:06Mom.
01:14No.
01:16You okay?
01:18I can't.
01:19I can't.
01:20I can't.
01:21I can't.
01:21I can't.
01:23It's time to push.
01:24You got to push.
01:25You're making me more redder than you want to have the strength to push.
01:27Hold on.
01:28It's time.
01:30Woo!
01:31Let's go!
01:36Oh, I'm scared.
01:37No, no, no.
01:39There's no point in being scared.
01:41Hold on.
01:42I'm coming.
01:42It's okay.
01:43No, you have to do it.
01:45You have to do it.
01:46My butthole.
01:47It's okay.
01:48It hurts.
01:49What the is going on?
01:52It's the labor going to labor.
01:55We've been in the hospital about 23 hours at this point, and here goes Amaya.
02:01I got a .
02:03No.
02:03I don't know if that's what she said.
02:05Yes.
02:05There's pressure in her butthole.
02:07And I'm like, that's the baby.
02:08That means it's time to push.
02:09No, it doesn't.
02:10I have to go to the bathroom.
02:12No.
02:13It is time to push.
02:15We're about to have as a baby.
02:18I'm not ready.
02:21I don't want to do it.
02:23No, no, no.
02:23I started to realize, oh, this is not a joke.
02:26And she had to push throughout the pain.
02:29Even though she did get the epidural, she's still feeling pain.
02:33Just freeze my hand.
02:34Just freeze my hand.
02:35No, it hurts.
02:37Okay.
02:37No, it's not.
02:40I just felt bad.
02:41I couldn't do anything to help her.
02:44I was thinking like a hundred things all at once.
02:47A hundred things?
02:48What are those hundred things you were thinking?
02:50If something happened to the baby, if something happened to her,
02:53something happened to both of them?
02:58Do you guys need help?
02:59Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
03:10no, no, no, no.
03:22I knew at that point, like, it was serious.
03:25The baby's heart rate didn't look down.
03:28The baby's heart rate went up again, okay?
03:30If the baby's heart rate was down again, that means we have to go over an emergency C-section.
03:35Okay?
03:36I'm gonna go call the doctor, okay?
03:38I'll be right down.
03:40Nurse said, if that happens again, there's no other conversation being had.
03:44We're going straight to the emergency room, you know, for an emergency C-section, and that's it.
03:50You can do this.
03:52You're made to do this.
03:54You're Sammy's mama.
03:55You got this.
03:58This is not okay.
04:01My worst fear is she'll have to have a C-section, and the baby won't make it.
04:11And I just don't want her to go through that.
04:18Or have to experience that, because it's not easy.
04:22At all.
04:41What's wrong?
04:42What?
04:46What?
04:47Nothing.
04:51So last night, me and Bryce was talking about how he should get a job, and he had the audacity
04:56to tell me that I should be working.
04:59It's common sense.
05:00You gotta get a job.
05:01Why don't you get a job, too?
05:02I cannot believe you just said this.
05:04Be real.
05:05Who's gonna keep our kid?
05:06You.
05:08I don't really know where me and Bryce are at right now, because he's not trying for anything.
05:14And I don't know if it's a maturity level.
05:16I don't know.
05:17But I'm worried that he'll never understand what he needs to do in order to fix the problems
05:23in our relationship.
05:28I guess we'll talk more about how our conversation went after we do this.
05:36That's fine.
05:39Because I don't want to get mad again and be in a bad mood.
05:43You seem to get mad no matter what.
05:45Now you're gonna make me mad.
05:47What?
05:48I don't get mad for no reason.
05:50I get mad because I have logical things to get mad about.
05:53You're mad about a lot of things that aren't logical.
05:54My feelings are valid, and you're trying to discourage my feelings.
05:59Like, they don't matter.
06:01I never said that.
06:03It's how you act.
06:06Can you pull over for a second?
06:09Yeah.
06:10So I agreed to go to Bryce's nan and papa's house, but I don't know how it's gonna go,
06:13because me and him still haven't figured anything out.
06:17You think the world revolves around you?
06:19If it's not on your timing and what you want to do.
06:21It's not on your way.
06:22It's not right.
06:23It's arguing.
06:24You're not doing .
06:26What are you doing?
06:27I do my school.
06:28I clean my mom's house for her, because that's my job, you know?
06:32Because my mom pays for everything for me.
06:34Yeah.
06:34So that's what she expects from me, so that's what I do.
06:37Yeah.
06:37I watch Truly.
06:38What are you talking about?
06:40You don't even watch her half the time.
06:41She just comes in your room and you make her food when she asks.
06:47Like, I do stuff with her.
06:48We color.
06:49My neck's hurting.
06:50We paint.
06:51I'm over with this conversation.
06:52My neck's hurting.
06:52Yeah.
06:54Because you're a cry baby.
06:56Yeah.
06:57You are.
06:57Yeah.
06:58Glad you finally admitted it.
06:59Yeah.
07:00Keep saying yeah.
07:01What about it?
07:02I know I'm a brat, but don't make me a brat.
07:05Like, there's a reason I act like a brat.
07:07I'm not just a brat for no reason.
07:08Bryce expects me to just sit there and take, like, whatever.
07:13Probably because that's how his Nancy is, and she just takes everybody's bull
07:17and she don't stick up for herself.
07:20to learn behavior.
07:22Whatever it is.
07:24You've changed ever since I got pregnant.
07:29Okay.
07:30I see.
07:30You have?
07:31No, I haven't.
07:32Yes, you have.
07:33Yes, you have.
07:34Yes, you have.
07:34No.
07:34No.
07:35What do you mean how?
07:36No.
07:37Because we never fought this much.
07:40At this point, I'm like, all right, what are we arguing over?
07:43It's like, just stupid things.
07:45And I'm not saying anything that she has to do is easy.
07:48Like, taking care of a kid and doing schoolwork is definitely hard.
07:51I will give it to her.
07:52And I'll make sure, no matter what, that I'll find a way to make money.
07:56But I want her to understand that I need to do things my own way without her harping
08:02on me.
08:03But it's like talking to a brick wall.
08:04When have you ever said it's your fault?
08:06Ever.
08:07Ever.
08:08What is my fault?
08:09Like, what do I do that's my fault?
08:11Okay, that's my fault.
08:11I get mad over it.
08:12What have you changed for me then?
08:13I get...
08:14What have you changed for me?
08:15I don't know.
08:15How do you expect us to sit here and talk if you can't even...
08:18Because you can't let me talk ever.
08:19You never see my side.
08:21I never see your side of what?
08:23No, never.
08:24Of what?
08:24Of anything.
08:25It's always my fault.
08:26My fault.
08:26My fault.
08:27My fault.
08:28I don't do nothing to sit in my bed.
08:29How is it ever my fault?
08:31Okay, that's the problem.
08:33Bryce doesn't seem like he even listens to when I talk.
08:37It's going through one ear and right out the other.
08:39Like, I just can't get through to him.
08:41You know, I feel like Bryce is this way
08:43because there's nobody telling him what he's doing is wrong.
08:46Except Isabella.
08:48Because his dad died and his mom, she's worthless.
08:51So his grandparents are the only people he has
08:54to hold him accountable and to tell him you're wrong.
08:56And if they can't understand and get it through his head,
08:58then I'm done.
08:59Whatever, Bryce.
09:03I see your belly.
09:05I'm Mia.
09:06I'm 16.
09:07I'm 30 weeks pregnant.
09:08There are headbands.
09:09Oh, my goodness.
09:11That's cute.
09:11Today, me and my friends are going to pop for the baby shower.
09:14Oh, Lord.
09:16And hopefully, my dad doesn't flip out.
09:19How much you spend on all this?
09:20800.
09:21800?
09:22What?
09:24Hard.
09:25Hard.
09:25Hard.
09:25Four.
09:26Six.
09:27Seven.
09:28With the baby's heart rate going as low as it did,
09:31I mean, the heart can stop at any moment, you know?
09:33And go.
09:34To the count of 10.
09:35Go.
09:35Come on.
09:35I killed my breath for that long.
09:38I killed.
09:39I was very scared.
09:40She may have to have a C-section.
09:43No.
09:43Come on.
09:44Push.
09:44Push.
09:46Push.
09:47Push.
09:56She's making.
09:57You got OK.
09:58I think we need more butter.
09:59I'm any more milk.
10:00OK.
10:01Let's see.
10:02I'm Mia.
10:03I'm 16.
10:04I'm 30 weeks pregnant.
10:05It's still so crazy to me, like, even I think, like, oh,
10:08this baby's about to call me mom.
10:10I mean, I'm 16 years old.
10:11Like, I'm...
10:12Like, I still call my mom mom, you know?
10:14It's just so crazy, like, this little baby, like, it's depending on me.
10:19You mean, okay.
10:22Because your belly's going to hit the cupcake.
10:25I work at a bakery in Baton Rouge.
10:27I make $13 an hour.
10:29I start it at $9.50.
10:31So I'm earning a little over $500 per week before taxes.
10:35I think I counted you made 70 pretzel sticks, which they are so beautiful.
10:40They are so cute.
10:41And every time I get paid, I put half in my savings, and then I put the other half in
10:45my account just for me to be able to spend.
10:48Because I'm not going to work all this and just put it all in my savings and get nothing from
10:52it.
10:52Because that's stupid.
10:58Hi, Mrs. Joe.
11:01Hello, my beautiful ladies.
11:03Hello, Mia.
11:05Hello, hello.
11:06I can see your belly.
11:08Oh, my gosh.
11:10My pregnancy has been going very well.
11:13I don't think a lot has changed since I got pregnant besides, like, my belly got a lot bigger.
11:19Yeah.
11:20And then my face has gotten fatter.
11:21And my fingers have gotten fatter because if you see and you look where my ring's at, you see that?
11:27That wasn't, that didn't happen before I got pregnant.
11:30Like, there wasn't a big old mark there and, like, an indention in my finger.
11:34Now it's hard to push my ring back on.
11:44Oh, because I promised to marry her one day.
11:50I'm Jessie.
11:51I'm her boyfriend.
11:51And I'm also the dad.
11:53Me and Jessie have been dating for a year and four months.
11:56But we've known each other for, like, two and a half years.
12:04I was the first person to say, I love you.
12:06Like, I kissed her and it was just, like, our whole future played in my mind.
12:10I see, like, us being together probably till death do us part.
12:19So, what do you plan on getting?
12:20I want to do, like, the pink and brown counter print.
12:24Do you have, like, an inspo pic?
12:25No.
12:26No? Okay.
12:27It's just in my brain.
12:28Today, me and my friends are going to go and shop for the baby shower, which is in a few
12:32days.
12:33We are having around 50 people at my house.
12:38And I'm going to try to stick to a budget of around $300.
12:44So, where do you want to start?
12:46We've got to find the Western.
12:49Western.
12:49Western.
12:49Okay.
12:50Oh.
12:51I see cow prints.
12:52Oh.
12:53Perfect.
12:53I may have found it.
12:55Three, four, one.
12:56There are headbands.
12:57Oh, my goodness.
12:58Oh, that's cute.
12:59So cute.
13:00One, two, three, four, five, six.
13:03Yeah, and then get these.
13:04I'd say five.
13:05And then get, like, the pink, like we were saying, like, get the pink and go in the middle.
13:09When I first found out I was pregnant, I freaked out and I cried and cried.
13:14For, like, weeks and weeks.
13:17And then I found out I'm having a girl and I'm super excited I'm having a girl because me and
13:22my mom, we never had a very good relationship.
13:24And I want a relationship, like, I want it with my mom.
13:27I want it with her.
13:29You can't be a 100% perfect mother, you know.
13:32But I think I'm going to be a pretty good mom.
13:34Okay.
13:35We can put Jessie in some chaps.
13:37Look, something like this.
13:39Did you see him in that?
13:40That is terrible.
13:41I don't think I'll go with the thing.
13:43After I found out she was pregnant, I was sad and worried and frustrated.
13:46But after the first few days, it was like, okay, I can actually do this.
13:49Because I've always wanted to be a father.
13:51Because I never really had one, but I've always wanted to be one.
13:54Well, yeah, but he wants to play good cop, bad cop.
13:56And he wants me to be the bad cop.
13:57And he wants to be the good cop.
13:59All the time.
14:01He's a sucker.
14:05What are you texting on your phone?
14:07I'm texting Jessie.
14:09Well, we're having a fun time.
14:10What's he doing?
14:11He's supposed to come to the house when we're done.
14:13And he's stressed out because he don't have a ride to the house and all that.
14:17And he keeps texting me.
14:18Well, he's putting that stress on me.
14:21Whatever.
14:22I'm practically planning this baby shower and doing this baby shower by myself.
14:27Because my mom hasn't really helped during my pregnancy.
14:30And even though me and my dad are a lot closer to me and my mom,
14:33he just don't understand because he's a guy.
14:35And then Jessie's mom has bought a few things to help me decorate and everything.
14:39But my mom can get kind of jealous.
14:42It would just aggravate her a little bit if Jessie's mom helped out.
14:48Yep.
14:49It was a lot.
14:51Good morning.
14:52Or afternoon.
14:53How are y'all?
14:53Good.
14:54How are you?
15:03Yes.
15:08Is this in budget mail?
15:09As I'm checking out, the numbers are steadily going up.
15:11And we do exceed $300 by a bit.
15:19$871.91.
15:21That's over your budget.
15:25Oh, Lord.
15:26I might have went a little overboard with spending for the baby shower, but it's my money.
15:31I do what I want with it.
15:32I just hope I didn't spend all that money for it to be a day filled with drama.
15:37Only because our moms haven't met yet, and the first time they're supposed to meet is at the baby shower.
15:42I don't know how I feel about that.
15:44Me either.
15:45Because when you put my family and Jessie's family together, who knows what's going to happen.
15:55Oh, my God.
15:57Come on.
15:58Come on, push.
15:59Go!
16:00Push.
16:00Hard, hard.
16:01So it has been 24 hours since me, Maya, and Mama G have been in that labor room.
16:09Maya's just in that constant pain, just trying to push.
16:11That's it.
16:12Hard, hard.
16:12Four, six, seven.
16:15With the baby's heart rate going as low as it did, I mean, it can, the heart, it can stop
16:21at any moment, you know?
16:22And so she may have to have a C-section, and that's my biggest worry.
16:30And go to the count of 10.
16:31Go.
16:31Come on.
16:33I've run for that wall.
16:37Just like that.
16:38All right.
16:39I'll do that.
16:40Okay, Maya.
16:41So here's what we're going to do.
16:42Okay.
16:43Okay, no more shouting.
16:44Don't get to talking.
16:45They're going to be you and me.
16:46Okay.
16:47Okay?
16:48Listen to me.
16:49Nice, quiet delivery.
16:51It's better for you and better for me.
16:52Okay?
16:54Don't you have to focus on this holding that breath and bearing down and pushing as hard as you can
16:59for that 10 seconds.
17:00Okay.
17:01Okay.
17:02Very good.
17:03Oh, man.
17:04The doctor had to tell everyone to shut up.
17:08I mean, I get it.
17:09We are a very loud family.
17:11You know, he puts his foot down, to be honest, and just tells us we need to all be quiet
17:16and let him do his job.
17:18But Lord knows I'm praying and just hoping Amayi's going to be able to push and can deliver this baby
17:24vaginally.
17:25Oh, my God.
17:28You have that pressure?
17:29Yes.
17:30Good.
17:30Take a deep breath.
17:31Okay.
17:32Come on.
17:32I am.
17:33Yes, you can.
17:34Deep breath.
17:34You're doing it.
17:35Push.
17:36Two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, breathe.
17:43Good job.
17:45I was scared.
17:47I was scared, too.
17:48I was very scared.
17:49Because it's been a long 24 hours for all of us.
17:54And Amayia was like, you got to do this.
17:58It's go time.
17:59And you got to put your all into it.
18:01The nurse told her it could be three hours of push.
18:04And she was like, oh, hell no.
18:06At that point, it kind of put a little fire under her.
18:09And, you know.
18:10Yeah.
18:10One, two, three.
18:12Ew.
18:14One, six.
18:19Oh, my God.
18:22Okay.
18:23Four.
18:27He's cutting his hair, mama.
18:29Oh, my God.
18:31Oh, my God.
18:44Okay, four, ah, he's just getting delivered here.
18:49He's cut his hair, mama.
18:51Oh my god!
19:05He did it.
19:07All right, listen to me.
19:09Oh my god, mom.
19:11Oh my god.
19:18You want to cut the cord again?
19:19Yes, please.
19:20Just put your scissors like that.
19:22There you go.
19:25Cutting the umbilical cord was weird.
19:28It was, like, full of, like, blood.
19:30It's the thing where you don't cut it just one and done.
19:33You have to keep going.
19:34And it was like, ugh.
19:36You have to cover and kick your hands right there, okay?
19:40I appreciate that.
19:41That's okay.
19:42Oh my god!
19:44You did it!
19:48Oh my god, that's cute.
19:51Oh, wow.
19:52Good job, mama.
19:52Maya pushes Sammy out in 40 minutes.
19:57Doctor gave him a pat on his back.
19:58He started crying, and I was happy.
20:01At 18 a.m., Sammy comes into the world.
20:04He was born, finally.
20:08Oh my god!
20:09It takes me 24 hours and 10 minutes of labor to have Sam Sam.
20:15He was 7 pounds and...
20:2014 ounces?
20:21Oh my god.
20:227 pounds?
20:22I know how big my baby was.
20:23I can't believe I just forgot that.
20:25It's okay.
20:26I got it.
20:26He was 7 pounds and 14 ounces.
20:28I thought he was 13.
20:29Almost 8 pounds.
20:31This is why I'm the mom, because clearly they don't even...
20:34I have pictures.
20:34You want to bet?
20:35I don't want to bet.
20:36Oh, you're not a betting man?
20:38You got pictures, but you don't know how big he was.
20:40I'm not trying to lose that money.
20:42He was 7 pounds and 14 ounces, okay?
20:44Thank you, guys.
20:48Oh, look at him!
20:51Beautiful!
20:54We're meeting a very special person.
20:56We're meeting Samuel, Sammy.
20:59The little king of our...
21:02The little pride of our joy.
21:05His name is Samuel Maximino Georgiev Socares.
21:12He's so tired.
21:13Say hi.
21:14Oh.
21:15Oh.
21:16Oh, look.
21:17He's saying hi himself.
21:19Oh, no.
21:20He's going back to sleep.
21:21All he does is sleep.
21:23Can I hold him up?
21:23Yeah, I'll hold him.
21:24Let me see.
21:25Sammy.
21:29Sammy is named after both me and Jose's grandfathers.
21:34And he has both of our last names.
21:37And this is our little creation.
21:42Our little creation.
21:47Little Sammy.
21:55That feeling of holding him for the first time was, like, the most rewarding part.
22:00Like, he's really there and I really did that, like, by myself.
22:04It was, like, I don't know.
22:07There's no better feeling than that.
22:11You did it, baby.
22:13I'm so proud of you.
22:15You're going to be an amazing mother.
22:17Hopefully a better mother than I am.
22:19Oh, my gosh.
22:20Don't say that.
22:21She's already an amazing mom.
22:26I'm the best mom I could have, literally.
22:28I'm your only mom.
22:29That's how you get it.
22:29Exactly.
22:30The best one, too.
22:32I got lucky.
22:34You did so good.
22:36So good.
22:38You, mama.
22:40I'm so proud of you.
22:42Look at my grandbaby.
22:44I feel like a big weight has been lifted off.
22:47And my prayers have been answered.
22:50Because that's all I hoped for, was that her and the baby make it through.
22:54And everyone be healthy.
22:57Aw.
22:59But now that the baby's here, the real work starts.
23:04We're...
23:05It's not a game anymore.
23:06Anyway, let's see if you guys can handle it.
23:13What do you think your nan and papa are going to want to talk about?
23:17Hello?
23:24Okay, now you're not going to talk.
23:32Let's go.
23:34Let's go.
23:35Put your seatbelt on.
23:44Does it look good?
23:45Yeah, it looks good.
23:47You know, I'm making their favorite, so hopefully...
23:49...choose on with the crab legs.
23:50There you go.
23:51She's going to love that.
23:52Okay, yeah.
23:53You'll be like, what's going on?
23:54Okay, crab legs?
23:55Crab legs.
23:56Crab legs.
23:58I'm Kevin.
23:59This is Sue.
24:00We're Bryce's grandparents, and we're fixing to be great-grandparents.
24:04My nan and papa are pretty much parents and grandparents.
24:06Like, I don't know.
24:07They play both the rules, so...
24:09We started raising Bryce when he turned about three years old, I guess.
24:14His mother was just partying a lot and, you know, not real responsible.
24:20And Bryce's dad, he went to jail.
24:22And then a few years later, sadly, his father passed away.
24:26It's a sad situation, and I just thought it would be better if Bryce permanently stayed with us.
24:34We've tried to give him the best life we could give him.
24:37I've always felt like we had to overcompensate, you know, to make up for hard times in his life when
24:44he was little.
24:44Did we spoil him some?
24:46Yeah, of course we did, but he's been a joy for us.
24:51He's so special.
24:53All righty.
24:57You know, Bryce is just so closed off these days, it doesn't really talk about anything, so...
25:03I know he looks like he's in shock, doesn't he?
25:05Yeah.
25:06Yeah.
25:07That's it.
25:08Deer in the headlight look?
25:10Yeah!
25:11We're very excited that a new baby's coming.
25:15It's a little surreal that we're going to be great-grandparents.
25:19You want to be a great-grandmother dead or alive?
25:23What does that mean?
25:24Do you want to be dead before you have one or no?
25:26Oh, of course not.
25:27That's one good thing about it, at least we'll get to see the baby, huh?
25:30And, uh...
25:31Get to see it grow up.
25:32And see the baby grow up, you know, before we're too old to even enjoy it.
25:45I mean, it's just going to be a real change, and...
25:51I don't know, it's a very emotional thing.
25:55Yesterday, he was a little boy, and now he's, like, this man who's going to have a baby.
26:00When Isabella found out she was pregnant, me and Nan welcomed her, and, you know, we did everything we could.
26:06But it is a shock.
26:08It was just a little bit too soon for me.
26:15See what you did?
26:17I didn't do nothing.
26:18The old woman did it to herself.
26:21All good? You good?
26:23Yeah.
26:24Just nervous.
26:25You are? Why?
26:26Well, I know we need to talk about stuff.
26:29All we know is there might be some tension between Isabella and Bryce tonight.
26:34This pump-up, ah, he hears him coming.
26:37With Bryce, we always say, you know, how's everything going?
26:39Everything's fine.
26:40Everything's fine.
26:41Everything's fine.
26:42There he is, yeah.
26:44So, we have our concerns and a lot of questions.
26:47He's not real open about, like, his relationships and stuff. He doesn't talk to us about it. You know, he
26:52likes to keep that private.
26:54It can be easier communicating with Isabella. So, we're hoping to get some answers tonight.
27:01Here we go.
27:03Gonna find out now, huh?
27:07Hopefully, this is not gonna happen anytime soon again.
27:12I'm Mia's dad, and yes, I was disappointed in Mia getting pregnant at 16.
27:16How would you prevent that, Mia?
27:19To have protection, and to purposely take it off. Y'all are stupid.
27:42Hey, babe. What you got going on right there?
27:45All the stuff I got for the baby shower.
27:48It's not a lot.
27:49Looks like a lot to me.
27:51Okay, well, just a little bit.
27:57I'm gonna show you everything I got, but I gotta pee. I'll be right back.
28:01I'm Keith. I'm 47. I'm Mia's dad, and I'm about to be a grandfather.
28:06When I first found out I was pregnant, I was afraid to tell my dad because I was scared. I
28:10don't know.
28:10Because I knew he was gonna be disappointed in me.
28:12Yes, I was disappointed in Mia getting pregnant at 16.
28:17Going through my head when I found out was everything.
28:21It's kind of like, I guess, her life passing in front of my eyes in a blink, you know?
28:29Seeing her little bitty growing up, and then all of a sudden, out of left field, 100% this.
28:36But, uh, I do feel some type of way responsible.
28:40Because I dropped the ball, I feel like, and I should have went and got her on birth control.
28:44And, I mean, that's, that's on me. I mean, you know.
28:47But she wasn't knocking down my door, either, saying,
28:50Hey, Dad, hey, did you forget? Because I forget stuff, you know?
28:53And, I mean, unfortunately, this is one of them things I forgot.
28:59Okay.
28:59All right.
29:01So, these are the centerpieces of the table.
29:04They're little hats.
29:06No, that's kind of cute.
29:07So, what else you got?
29:08These are gonna be hanging from, like, above the tables.
29:11Jesus Christ, $4 for some freaking balloons.
29:15How much you spend on all this?
29:19Eight hundred and...
29:20Eight hundred? What?
29:22Seventy-five dollars.
29:24Nine hundred dollars.
29:26It's like the nine hundred dollars she spent on the baby shower is a prime example.
29:30How she's not ready to have a baby and she's clueless about life.
29:34That's just money down the drain.
29:37I do everything I'm supposed to do.
29:39I, I have good grades in school. I'm about to finish school. I work.
29:44It's, it's gonna be hard, man.
29:46It sucks.
29:48Struggling is hard.
29:49And I didn't want that. I don't want that on anybody.
29:52Definitely don't want that for my kid.
29:55Who's all supposed to be coming over here to help?
29:57Caitlin and Jessie and all of them are gonna be here.
29:59And then...
30:01Mom...
30:02She said she was gonna be here, but...
30:04I don't know.
30:06Well, that's just how it is, babe.
30:09Yeah.
30:10I just don't talk to my mom a lot. She just, she's more absent.
30:15Um...
30:17We don't have a good relationship and she, um, we don't live together.
30:20Yeah.
30:22Well, at least you got people to help you.
30:24Yeah.
30:24But I mean, it's that she's not.
30:29Yeah.
30:31My mom and dad, they officially like split up, split up like two and a half years ago.
30:35And that's when I started living with my dad.
30:37Yeah.
30:38Um, my mom isn't stable.
30:40She, uh, she doesn't have a stable work environment.
30:45She doesn't have a stable place to live.
30:47She, um, she has a lot to figure out.
30:51And I just knew like with my dad, I'd be in a stable, stable house.
30:55That's my daughter.
30:56That's my baby girl.
30:57I mean, you know.
30:59I love him.
31:00I'm a dad's girl.
31:01I just, I don't know.
31:03I just wish things would be better.
31:06You know, that's a sore subject.
31:11Well, what else you got?
31:12So we're gonna put the banner up.
31:15Let's look at it.
31:15And then we're gonna put like the balloon arch around the banner.
31:19Hopefully this is, uh, not gonna happen anytime soon again.
31:29Don't look at me.
31:31She's talking to you.
31:33So how would you prevent that, Mia?
31:37My plan for after having the baby, to have another baby, preventing it, is to be put on birth control.
31:43I wanna get an IED or some type of birth control in my arm so I know it's reliable.
31:48Because like, we did use protection in the beginning.
31:50But Jesse took off the condom.
31:55Wow.
31:55Wow.
31:59What?
32:00Why?
32:01I don't know.
32:05Yeah, well, I don't feel so guilty now.
32:12Y'all are stupid.
32:17To have protection and to purposely take it off in chances of creating a freaking other human being that you're
32:28responsible for for the rest of your life, baby.
32:33It dumbfounds of me.
32:34It really does.
32:35I mean, it really, it's ridiculous.
32:38You think I wanted to get pregnant, huh?
32:40No.
32:40Okay, then.
32:41I hope not.
32:41But you need to be, hey, bro, I mean, do what you gotta do.
32:46I don't wanna get into all that , but I mean, golly.
32:48Kinda obvious.
32:51Just saying.
32:52Y'all still children.
32:54Whether you having a baby tomorrow or in a year.
33:01And it, eh, whatever.
33:04I'm sorry.
33:05I'm sorry I made you upset, but that's just how I feel.
33:17Hello.
33:19Hello.
33:19Hello.
33:21Is your dad still saying no to me coming over, or am I coming to you?
33:24Come over.
33:24All right.
33:25I love you.
33:26Love you, too. Bye.
33:28How long is he staying?
33:31Until tonight.
33:34He's not staying here, that's all I can say.
33:37I know.
33:39I'm just telling you how I feel.
33:42It's awkward having Jesse around, because I don't really care for him.
33:46I don't want him in my house.
33:48I'm just trying to get over the, that I just heard earlier.
33:57Anyway.
34:03Bryce is gonna get a job.
34:05Yeah, but I ain't selling one for $10 an hour.
34:07$10 won't do nothing.
34:08You would just make an effort.
34:09That is all my mom is asking.
34:11It's a waste of my time.
34:11Well, why is your mom asking Bryce what to do?
34:14I think her mother's sticking her nose in it.
34:17You know, that's not right.
34:18That's not the life he dreamed of.
34:19They're enabling Bryce to think that he doesn't have to do anything,
34:22and he does because he helped make this kid.
34:36What's up, boy?
34:38I don't really think Bryce understands that if he doesn't get a together, I'm done.
34:43Like, I've explained over and over again why he needs a job.
34:46I mean, I've tried, my mom's tried.
34:48There's fixing to be a baby here, so hopefully Bryce's grandparents can get through to him.
34:57Mmm.
34:59Mmm.
34:59That was good, man.
35:01I'm really surprised.
35:04Kevin.
35:05What?
35:06You're blocking the sunlight.
35:08Mmm.
35:10How's your mom doing?
35:12Oh, she's doing fine.
35:14Working.
35:17Good little sister, you been looking after her or what?
35:20Yeah.
35:21You got a lot on your plate, don't you?
35:24Maybe more than most.
35:27At your age.
35:31Isabella seems a little standoffish previously.
35:35She was always nice and smiling, and tonight she just doesn't seem very inviting, or there's a wall there, I
35:46feel like, between us.
35:48She looked the same to me, like she's on the defensive or something's wrong.
35:55But I just shook it off.
35:56We haven't seen her.
35:57I haven't seen her in a while, and she's nervous, and you know, we'll see what happens.
36:04Well, what's y'all's plans? What do you want to do?
36:07I got no clue.
36:08What do you mean?
36:09Plans for what?
36:09As far as where y'all are gonna live, are y'all gonna try to live together?
36:12No.
36:13You don't want to live with Bryce?
36:15No.
36:17Not at anybody's house.
36:18Well, no, I mean, like, when it's time for y'all to live together.
36:23Oh, yeah, but...
36:24Or get married or whatever.
36:27My nan and papa had felt like that we should get married because we're really religious.
36:32Well, my family's Christian too, but my mom didn't think that we should get married just because we was having
36:37a kid.
36:38If we can't financially support a baby, why would we get married?
36:41It's not like I'm gonna go to hell because I had a baby at a wedlock.
36:48So your plan isn't for y'all to get married anytime soon?
36:54Or ever?
36:56Not anytime soon.
36:58Gotta get a job first.
37:00Right now we have two months until she comes and nothing's bought.
37:04I mean, she has a couple outfits that my mom's bought.
37:07You know, you're talking about y'all don't have anything.
37:10What about having a baby shower?
37:12Are you interested in that at all?
37:14No.
37:15I don't want a baby shower.
37:16People bring you and give you gifts.
37:19It's not about the gifts.
37:20It's just more about, like, support.
37:22It's crunch time.
37:23Like, this isn't gonna happen and there's just like...
37:25Hey, that baby's not gonna hurt for nothing, I can promise you.
37:30I'm very frustrated because it has nothing to do with them not buying anything.
37:34It has everything to do with...
37:37They're enabling Bryce to think that he doesn't have to do anything and he does because he helped make this
37:42kid.
37:43We're willing to do whatever we can and Bryce is gonna get a job.
37:46Yeah, but I ain't selling for $10 an hour.
37:50No, you have to have a decent job.
37:52That's what I'm saying.
37:52You have to crawl before you walk.
37:53Like my mom said, you don't have to work...
37:55No, it's an hour won't do nothing.
37:56Okay.
37:56It won't.
37:57You would just make an effort.
37:59That is all my mom is asking.
38:00It's a waste of my time.
38:01Well, why is your mom asking Bryce what to do?
38:05I'm still her daughter and I'm not going to be in a relationship, me and him dating,
38:11but me feel like a single mom and my mom taking care of me and Paisley.
38:15That's just not...
38:16Like, it don't make any logical sense.
38:18I think her mother's sticking her nose in and telling Bryce what to do.
38:22You know, that's not right.
38:23He needs to do what he thinks he needs to do to be able to raise a family.
38:28Okay?
38:28Not just anything.
38:33Bryce has a future, a bright future.
38:35Okay?
38:35He's smart.
38:36He's very smart.
38:37But it takes a little time.
38:39You can't just get that overnight.
38:40And if you go settle for a, you know, minimum wage job, that's what you're doing is just
38:45settling for that.
38:46That's not the life he dreamed of.
38:48He wants to have a life too, you know, and a good life.
38:52What I'm asking is they tell Bryce to get his head out of his ass and get a job.
38:58But oh well, who cares?
39:00Not them because bringing a baby in this world doesn't fall on them.
39:04It falls on my family.
39:06It'll be all right.
39:08Relax a little bit.
39:09Well, I'm sorry I sit here and worry because...
39:11I understand.
39:12I understand.
39:12But it's Bryce's baby too.
39:15Let's not forget that.
39:17Okay, well let's make an effort.
39:19We had this crab dinner, you know, to reconnect with Isabella.
39:27And I feel like I have been under attack the whole time.
39:33It's getting dark out here.
39:34We need to get all this stuff and get it inside.
39:38So, I'm hopeful that if we just had some time to reflect, we can all come together and
39:46try to form a plan that works for everyone.
39:50Well, I hope so, but I'm not holding my breath.
39:59Close the door, bud.
40:01Next time on Unexpected.
40:03When I first met Jessie, I kind of didn't like him.
40:06Then this happened.
40:07Well, I definitely don't like the kid now.
40:09Can Jessie stay the night?
40:10No.
40:11He's making it hard.
40:12He is making it harder than it has to be.
40:14I don't know why he don't let you sleep over.
40:16Ain't like she's gonna get pregnant again.
40:20Let's go.
40:20He's ready.
40:21We lost the children.
40:22Okay.
40:24Okay, you gonna help her over here?
40:25Taking Sammy home is really scary because it's like really setting in that this is my
40:31whole life now, you know.
40:32Can you get a band-aid?
40:34We don't have band-aids.
40:35Okay.
40:36Can you call them and ask for a band-aid, please?
40:39I have to go back to work.
40:40So, you need to be able to do this.
40:43Have fun, Hunter.
40:45We'll see you all later.
40:45Today, Hunter's going to see his dad.
40:48But I am worried that he might not show up.
40:50When I go right there, it's gonna be like 30 minutes.
40:57He's a piece of .
40:58When does the disappointment stop?
41:00I do think it's important for Hunter to have his dad in his lap.
41:03He's a 13-year-old boy about to have a child of his own.
41:06But his dad needs to be consistent.
41:07I don't want to hurt.
41:10I'm done with this stupid .
41:11What the ?
41:12Belle, stop.
41:13Wait.
41:13Dinner?
41:14It was miserable.
41:16I'm not gonna sit in the room with a little crybaby because y'all enable his behavior.
41:23She's gonna regret this.
41:25It's on now, okay?
41:27We can do it like that.
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