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90 Day: The Single Life - Season 5 Episode 3 - The Art Of The Situationship
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00:01Previously on The Single Life.
00:03Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?
00:04Hey!
00:05No, there you go, there you go.
00:08Via is very good looking.
00:10I think we need a drink to that.
00:12I think we need a shot.
00:14This is my Dominican fling that I've been looking for.
00:17Nice to meet you, I'll never see you again.
00:21I'll see you tomorrow, okay?
00:23I didn't like the way it ended for us.
00:25Neither did I.
00:26And I'm a little bit more recovered, I guess.
00:29Well, that's good.
00:30Now I know.
00:30If Gino wants something romantic with me,
00:32he's gotta prove that he's gonna be honest.
00:35He's gotta prove that he really wants this.
00:40He's having issues right now.
00:42Like, he's not able to get, like, up.
00:46So I'm trying to be supportive.
00:47But then, yeah, I do have, like, doubts or fears.
00:50Like, what's he doing behind my back?
00:52Oh, .
00:54There is a girl I was talking to
00:56before I even went to the resort.
00:58Oh.
00:59Yeah.
01:00Here we go again.
01:02Diana and I met a year ago online.
01:04Are you still in contact with Diana?
01:07I still talk to Diana.
01:09This might be an opportunity for you to do the right thing.
01:12I don't know, man.
01:17I want to figure out what I want.
01:18I don't know what it is.
01:19I like things clear.
01:20You know?
01:21I've been clear to you.
01:23No, you didn't.
01:25I don't want Sophie to play game with me.
01:27I'm not interested in that .
01:29I have never once told you I have healed and I'm ready for this ship.
01:32I have never told you that.
01:33Sophie?
01:34No, never told you that.
01:34No.
01:35No.
01:36Hell no.
01:36No with me.
01:59I don't like rain.
02:01Sophie!
02:05Hello?
02:06Did you order strippers?
02:07Yeah.
02:07Come in
02:20Let's jump in a bit
02:25I have to like cover my boobs when I jump why they're gonna blow up because my implant like hers
02:31But you have to protect them
02:37Oh my god
02:39This is like a rock
02:42It's squishy
02:43That's squishy
02:44No, it's squishy. It's just like isn't it is still an implant. So it's just I don't know. I don't
02:50know. I'm not a doctor
02:56Is that my food
02:59The night was supposed to be a girls night out, but there's just crazy rain outside
03:03The power's down in parts of the area and the streets are flooded
03:06Yes, yes, so me and Julia just decided to stay in and order room service
03:11so
03:13How your day with Pedro?
03:15Because I want to hear you told me you're gonna tell me everything
03:18We ate at a restaurant at the beach and he told me that Liz went and told him basically everything
03:24I told you guys
03:26She was telling him how I'm not ready and like he should be careful
03:30Like be careful. Like he's so nice. He does all these things for me and I'm not even ready like
03:35pretty much
03:35It's not like she was kind of warning him about me. Okay, what the?
03:40She just like hey, let's start this
03:43It is not her place
03:48Liz has just given reason to Pedro to think like I'm just a huge red flag
03:53Even though I'm not ready for relationship. I am still trying to get to know him and I actually do
03:57like him and
03:58As my friend you should only say good things about me. She should say oh Sophie's great
04:03Like you're you're lucky. That's what friends say like girlfriends. Don't tell a guy like watch out
04:10So then I was like even though I've had this discussion with him before I felt like let me again
04:14just reiterate like
04:16Explain where I'm at, you know, I'm getting to know you but let you can talk to people
04:21I can talk to people and right in the end. He's like, you know, as of you from being real
04:24with you
04:24You never said any of this to me and all of what you just said is rubbish
04:28I'm used to my last relationship always saying I'm lying and making things up and gaslighting me
04:33So when he did it it triggered me and I was like, I don't want to do this again where
04:37someone's convincing me something never happened
04:39I did we definitely both just
04:42Did not mesh well at the end and communicate well it it flipped so quick that I was like
04:47What the hell was that?
04:48Now he feel like it's like so sad because you are like
04:52Definitely say he's like a like a rock when you're in the your last relationship
04:56I text him often I'll like hey like, you know, I apologize if I offended you I say he's ignored
05:01me since since the day I
05:05Sent him a one-minute voice note. Okay, but one minute
05:10Scene
05:12He's seen it. No, it's a scene and played. I
05:17Now you're interesting
05:21Let me let me call him. Oh
05:23My gosh
05:25Up until this point I'm used to hearing from Pedro multiple times a day
05:29So because he stopped texting me back. I'm starting to miss him
05:33He's really ignoring me. Oh, that was one more question mark if you were
05:36Stop
05:39No, I give me they're gonna send it. Let me give you space
05:41It's a little bit of space for me to like think about him and remember I like him and I
05:47want to talk to him
05:48Maybe he's gonna give up
05:49That's why I stopped texting me. Mm-hmm. You think so?
05:54I'm really pissed off at Liz like I feel like she might have just instigated the end of me and
05:57Pedro like what if he just
06:00Ghost me forever and that's that
06:27There is no such thing as too much glitter
06:41This is perfection. I wish I could just walk like this every day. Mm-hmm. I am Banya
06:47I'm 42 years old. I live in Orlando, Florida. I'm a Jill of all trades. I wear many many hats
06:53I do medical sales. I'm a vegan Baker, and I'm a professional belly dancer
07:04She's got her wings. How was it? How did it go? It was good. Great crowd by the way. So
07:09great crowd. Yes, definitely
07:10So how have you been my darling?
07:14I'm okay. I
07:16Weird date let's hear it. Oh my god. I went out with this guy
07:21And it started out okay, but then like
07:24We started sitting down to eat and he just kept picking his nose and my
07:29What am I supposed to do with that? Like so gross the dating apps are just
07:35Overwhelming. I know so many times I
07:38I match with somebody and I'm thinking okay the conversation is going great and then you know thing you get
07:44a notification a picture came in and I open that it's a
07:47d*** pic
07:49Like who would think that's gonna work? What do they envision? I get a d*** pic and I go oh
07:54my god
07:54I must marry this guy
07:58I have been single for about a year and
08:00And what I'm looking for is somebody who is optimistic who is accomplished who is driven and that's hard to
08:07find apparently
08:09All right girly, I am going to go get my a little shamadan ready for the show
08:15All right, I'll see you out there break a leg. Thank you girl
08:18I'm starting to get really frustrated. I want to find my forever partner and it's not like I haven't been
08:24trying
08:25That guy even went to another country in search of love
08:30You're a wonderful creature and everything you do. It's so loveable
08:36Two years ago, I met a guy from Croatia online and his name is Boža
08:51But I was only in Croatia for a couple of days before things just blew up
08:57You know, how do you say romantic way? I don't feel it right now
09:03You know, I can't believe that this guy that I was talking to for eight months online turned out to
09:08be something totally different
09:10I should have just never come I should have listened to my friends and to my cousin and I should
09:14have never come because of this
09:19After everything fell apart with Boža I ended up going back on a dating app and I ended up matching
09:24with Yoshiko
09:26It was an immediate connection
09:29I love it
09:30It's perfect
09:31It's the rest of you
09:34What a great line
09:37I have been celibate for six years prior to Yoshiko because I feel like your body is
09:43The most precious gift you can give to somebody
09:47At the time it felt right, but looking back. I really wish it didn't happen
09:52Without my knowledge. He took a video of us while we were being intimate
09:59Violated my privacy my body
10:02Yes, I did
10:07And
10:07Obviously I went back to my celibacy because I'm not going to be breaking it for just anybody ever again
10:26I should be jaded at this point, but despite all the negative stuff that's happened. I'm still here ready for
10:33love
10:34I'm easy to talk to I'm easy to read I wear my heart on my shoulder and I am unapologetically
10:40me
10:42On top of all of that. I'm still single. Can you believe that cuz I can't
10:48Oh my goodness
10:52We were just talking you so good
10:54You guys are awesome. Cheers girls. Cheers
10:59Girls night out. This is awesome
11:03So what'd you think he amazing I think this guy over here is looking at you where
11:11He's smiling
11:11He's definitely looking. He's kind of cute. I don't know. There's this other guy
11:17Oh, excuse me
11:19I know. Well, his name is Tony
11:22Is that your friend Tony? Yeah
11:24Wait, I'm Tony? Who's Tony?
11:27Tony's actually a doctor
11:28A year and a half ago. He invited me to dance at his holiday party and we ended up just
11:34hanging out after that as friends like all the time
11:38Tony is an amazing person
11:39I always thought that he was very handsome and very intellectually stimulating and attractive
11:50So I'm starting to wonder if after all the searching the guy for me has been right in front of
11:55me this whole entire time
11:57We've been friends for a year and a half at this point and he's never made a move
12:01This hot mama and no moves
12:05Nothing and then finally I get sick and tired of it and then I made the move
12:09No way
12:10Okay
12:11I kissed him
12:12Oh my god girl
12:15Get it
12:16It's kind of like now we're in this limbo situation
12:19We haven't made it clear if we're exclusive if we're dating. It's just we're two friends who kiss
12:26I don't like this
12:28Zone of unknown
12:32When it comes to relationships Vanya can be very optimistic. She really really wants it to work
12:37I hope that it goes well, but the fact that Tony hasn't made a move yet gives me a little
12:43pause
12:43And I just hope she's not imagining something with Tony that's not really there
12:48I don't want to see you get hurt again
12:50I don't want to see you hang on to something that's not really there
12:54You need to have a conversation with him
12:58I really want our friendship to blossom into a relationship
13:02But I just don't know if I'm ready to take this risk and potentially lose my best friend
13:08Because if I have this conversation, there is no going back
13:13Our friendship will be changed forever
13:15We get to the bottom of it. No more wishy-washy wondering
13:24Hi
13:24Hey
13:26If we came here and spent all this money on a hotel
13:29Just to play with his gummy worm all night
13:31I'm gonna be annoyed
13:35Oh, yes
13:39I just keep seeing you have this online battle deal with Jasmine back and forth
13:45If she wouldn't post anything, there wouldn't be any back and forth
13:48Any type of emotion, whether it be positive or negative, is still an emotion attached to that person
13:53There's a thin line between love and hate
14:10What are you doing? It's my tiara
14:14Beautiful
14:15Oh, you look pretty
14:17Okay, let me suck stuff out of your face
14:22Oh, it's like you're giving me a little kiss
14:31Thank you, I feel 10 years younger and beautiful
14:34You are beautiful
14:36I really want this relationship to work with Colt
14:39But we have major issues
14:40His leg is broken
14:42Trust issues
14:43His erectile dysfunction
14:45We're not able to have sex
14:47So don't get wrinkles
14:49We gotta keep you young
14:51Forever young
14:52But I still want to be with Colt
14:54He makes me feel good
14:55He makes me happy
14:56I enjoy spending time with him
14:59I love who I am when I'm with him
15:02I need a spa, damn
15:04Come in
15:06Hey, you two
15:07Hey
15:08What the heck are you doing?
15:10She's trying to make me look more beautiful
15:12I see, it's working
15:14Oh, thank you, you're sweet
15:16Oh, I'm gonna head to bed
15:17Oh, you have a good night
15:20So, lights off in 10 minutes, Courtney
15:23Okay
15:24You know the rules
15:25You have a good night, thank you for everything
15:3310 minutes, huh?
15:34Yeah
15:35That's still enough time
15:37We could do it in 30 seconds, yeah
15:39Probably could
15:41Alright, I'm gonna go to bed
15:43Oh
15:45Maybe
15:46Night
15:48Goodnight, Courtney
15:52Okay
15:52Take a bath and close my eyes
15:56All the lows and all the highs
16:00Wow
16:03Good afternoon, how are you doing today?
16:04Good, how are you?
16:05Very well, thank you for asking
16:06What reservation is the name under?
16:07Colt
16:08Courtney and I booked a hotel room for tonight
16:10To get away from her parents' house
16:12So we can have more alone time
16:13Oh, wow
16:15Wow
16:16This is so nice
16:17Three months, by far, is the longest I've ever been with somebody without having sex
16:22Oh, champagne
16:24Hey
16:25But knowing her parents could come in at any time really has made any intimacy between Courtney and I impossible
16:35Probably why my performance as of late has been spotty
16:40Well, cheers to you
16:41Cheers
16:44That's nice
16:49So what do you wanna do now?
16:58I guess I'm gonna change and get ready
17:01I love that Colt had the idea to come to a hotel
17:04But if we came here and spent all this money just to play with his gummy worm all night
17:10I'm gonna be annoyed
17:12I'm not a miracle worker
17:15Colt tells me he loves me but if he can't get it up that makes me question
17:20Does he really love me or he's just saying that?
17:27Hey
17:28Hey
17:29I was doing some research and like different ways to get creative
17:35Yeah
17:37What the hell is this?
17:40Whoa
17:41You're like in the carpet for this one
17:43I guess this is like doggy style for like
17:46Lazy dog
17:49This is probably like the most practical one I guess
17:52Oh, this is simple
17:55You just go straight to the target
17:58This one looks like you have to really have some upper body strength
18:03Right?
18:03No, I think I'm probably down
18:05Wait, am I in front of the ceiling?
18:07Why can't you just do it like this?
18:09Yeah, like that
18:09I don't think I'm flexible enough to do a handstand like on your
18:14Some of these seem a little complex
18:15Yeah, I'm like
18:16You need a lot of upper body strength and I don't know if we could do that
18:19Yeah, I'm like what are these people doing?
18:21Like maybe the handicap world's freaky
18:28Hey
18:28Hey
18:29Why'd you turn the rope on your chest?
18:32Babe
18:32I don't know how I thought it is
18:35Oh, yes
18:36What do you think?
18:37Sexy
18:38Yeah?
18:40You find a little bow tie that's cute
18:42You like it?
18:43Aw
18:45Don't break your lip
18:46I already did that
18:51Aw
18:52I love you
18:52I love you too
18:54You don't have to be afraid or nervous or anxious about anything
18:57Just have fun, enjoy our life together
19:01It means a lot to me that Courtney has been there for me
19:03I mean, we're so close in so many ways
19:06I feel this love for her
19:08Cheers to that
19:09Cheers to that
19:15We just don't have the passion, the intimacy, the fire
19:19So I really do feel like that's why I'm still talking to Diana
19:23For me, having sex with a woman makes me feel validation
19:28I need that in my life from Courtney
19:34Why don't you show me that massage, the back massager you got?
19:43It's nice
19:45Oh
19:50You know the right spot
19:55We're gonna go do some surfing
19:57Surfing?
19:58Yeah
19:58Last night I met Pedro's friend Villa
20:00And we completely hit it off
20:02Do you wanna help me?
20:05Is it too tight here?
20:06I like it
20:07And showing your abs
20:08I'm having butterflies
20:10I haven't felt these emotions in such a long time
20:13We're definitely gonna fall
20:17It's time to elevate
20:18Push it really
20:19Then activate
20:20Try something new
20:21Like innovate
20:22And then be level up
20:24Hey
20:25Hi
20:26Hey beautiful
20:27How are you?
20:28How are you?
20:29You're good
20:29You feel very nice
20:31Thank you
20:31You look good
20:32Thank you
20:33I got some water
20:34Cause I know it's like humid out
20:35And I talked to the activities coordinator
20:38Oh, okay, okay
20:38And we're gonna go do some surfing
20:41Surfing?
20:42Yeah
20:42I've never surfed before
20:43How does that sound?
20:44I've never surfed either
20:45So let's do it
20:53Okay
20:54Hello
20:55Hello
20:56Hello
20:56Hello
20:56Hello
20:56Hello
20:57Okay, we're ready?
20:58Yes
20:58Last night I met Pedro's friend Villa
21:01And we completely hit it off
21:03We ended up talking and flirting all night
21:06And then he asked if I would go on a date with him today
21:10Is this the changing room?
21:12No bathrooms here so just straight to it I guess
21:16Avia's hot, but talking to him was so easy,
21:21and I think that that's what hooked me.
21:23You want to help?
21:25Is it too tight here?
21:26Are you sure this is?
21:27Are you going to be able to move?
21:31Oh, my gosh.
21:33You look good.
21:33And showing your abs.
21:35You got some muscles going on.
21:37Yeah, yeah, we're good.
21:38Okay.
21:38My life is really upside down right now.
21:41So you guys getting laid down?
21:43And we're going to start.
21:45I have health issues going on,
21:47so I have to be careful who I let into my personal space.
21:52But anything I can possibly want in someone,
21:55he's already showing it to me.
21:57Okay, you guys ready to go in the water?
22:00We're definitely going to fall.
22:01I think we're going to hit some water.
22:10Last night, when I met Liz,
22:12I just felt she had something about her.
22:22Great energy.
22:24The vibe is awesome.
22:26Good job, guys.
22:27Yes.
22:28Very good.
22:29I need you.
22:30I need you.
22:33Let's get a towel.
22:39I have a really good seat.
22:40Awesome.
22:40You too.
22:41This is out of my character,
22:43but I would like to hang out with me and do this.
22:45I would love to.
22:46Yeah.
22:46I would.
22:47Yeah.
22:47Maybe tomorrow or something.
22:48You tell me when, where.
22:49I'm there.
22:50Okay.
22:51I'm so down.
22:52Okay.
22:52Yeah.
22:53All of this is completely unexpected.
22:55I'm having butterflies.
22:57I haven't felt these emotions in such a long time.
23:01Do you need help?
23:02Yes, please.
23:03Please, yes.
23:04I can't.
23:04I'm only day two into this vacation,
23:06and all I can think about is spending time with Via
23:11and getting to know him.
23:12I'm definitely 100% all in to see where this can go.
23:17I guess I will see you tomorrow.
23:18Will do.
23:19Yeah.
23:20It was so nice.
23:21I had a great time.
23:22Me too.
23:23Me too.
23:23I did.
23:24She could hug.
23:27I don't know what you're into.
23:29I don't know what you want to.
23:31Hey, I don't know what you can do,
23:34but I know just where you are.
23:36It was a good day.
23:37Yes, it's raining, but hey, I'm with you,
23:40so my day is bright.
23:42Oh, okay.
23:42Well, that's good.
23:43You know?
23:44It's like sunshine next to me.
23:46Stop.
23:48Natalie is my sunshine.
23:50Oh, my God.
23:58Come on.
24:01Okay.
24:03Oh, sorry.
24:04Be careful with that.
24:06Let me give you a tour.
24:08I can't believe I'm here with Natalie in her apartment.
24:12It's taken a lot of work to get to this point.
24:14A lot of texts and calls and putting on my Gino charm.
24:21All right.
24:21Come on over here.
24:22This is the bedroom.
24:24This is the bedroom.
24:26Yep.
24:26Lay on the bed.
24:27All right.
24:28This is my side, I guess.
24:29Right. Here we go.
24:31Oh, my gosh.
24:31It's got massage on it.
24:33Torture me.
24:34Torture me, baby.
24:35You asked for it.
24:37There we go.
24:39Oh, yeah.
24:40Oh, yeah.
24:41Don't stop.
24:43I'm a very bad boy.
24:45You're a very bad boy.
24:46And you need some serious discipline.
24:53So.
24:54Whoa.
24:55I got a surprise for us.
24:57Look at you.
24:57You were all hearts tonight.
24:59So, let's get you comfy.
25:00Because we're going to have a spa night.
25:02Spa night?
25:03So, you get a choice.
25:04Oh, my God.
25:05That thing's scary.
25:06We could use the master blaster for, like, the back and larger areas.
25:10And this is for, like, the face and scalp.
25:12And I have the blaster oil.
25:15Oil?
25:15Yes.
25:16So, you kind of have to lubricate it up so that it collides.
25:21Wow.
25:21You sound really dirty tonight.
25:24The fact that Natalie is offering to give me a massage with her little toys,
25:29maybe something good is going to happen tonight.
25:32I'm really hoping so.
25:33That would be awesome on the first night connecting, wouldn't it?
25:37You're going to have to take your hat off.
25:40Oh, my gosh.
25:41Well.
25:42You're safe.
25:43You're in a safe space.
25:44Don't worry.
25:45Okay.
25:46All right.
25:47There.
25:47Perfect.
25:48See?
25:49There you go.
25:50This is by no means any foreplay or a way to get him aroused or a way to get sexy
25:56time.
25:57How does that feel?
25:59Freaking awesome.
26:00Yeah.
26:01I was an esthetician for 10 years.
26:03I know how to get people to relax and be comfortable and kind of tell me their deepest, darkest secrets.
26:08Very good.
26:09Very relaxing.
26:10I know that Gino can get defensive, so I want to pamper him to let his guard down so that
26:15I can ask him some tough questions and I can actually get some honest answers from him.
26:20You know, I'm happy that you came here.
26:22I'm happy that we reconnected, but I just keep seeing that you have this online battle still with Jasmine back
26:32and forth.
26:34There's a lot of emotions still left there.
26:39One thing that's concerning me about Gino is he is battling Jasmine constantly on social media.
26:49She's making accusations.
26:51He's defending himself.
26:53She's rebuttaling that.
26:54And I think they just both look really stupid.
26:58See, the problem is that she's saying lies about me.
27:02So I had to defend myself.
27:03I can't let her lie about me, you know, in public.
27:07It's just not fair.
27:10Now, if she wouldn't post anything, there wouldn't be any back and forth.
27:14To me, it's a red flag because any type of emotion, whether it be positive or negative, is still an
27:21emotion attached to that person.
27:23Does he have these unresolved feelings for Jasmine?
27:27There's a thin line between love and hate.
27:30All right. Well, I think it's time to go to bed.
27:33I will be right back.
27:44Oh, my God. What the hell?
27:48That turns into a bed.
27:52Seriously?
27:54You just showed me how the bed works.
27:57That's my bed. I'm going to go in my bed.
27:59Yeah.
28:00This is your bed.
28:01I thought things were really going good.
28:04And Natalie and I were going to have this romantic, sexy weekend together.
28:09There we go.
28:11So I'm really disappointed.
28:17This is not bad.
28:18Oh, my God.
28:19Here you go.
28:21This ain't bad at all.
28:23Hey, I'm going to get to bed.
28:25You're going to what?
28:26I'm going to go to bed.
28:27Oh, you're going to bed?
28:28I'm going to go to bed.
28:29Oh, okay.
28:30Bummer.
28:31Okay.
28:32Good night.
28:35There was no way in hell this man was going to be invited into my bed and sleep with me
28:41the first night he's here.
28:43I don't think he understood how much he hurt me by not being transparent about him and Jasmine's relationship.
28:49Good night, Gino.
28:50Sweet dreams.
28:51Sweet dreams.
28:52I feel a connection with Gino.
28:54I feel like we could have a future together, but trust is earned and he hasn't earned it yet.
29:01Are you sure you don't want to come sleep in here on this comfortable bed? You just made me?
29:08Oh, guess not.
29:12Going to meet Tony, things are kind of unclear. You know, is this a date? Are we just hanging out?
29:18I feel like there's a lot at stake here because if we give it a try and it doesn't work
29:24out, we're risking of losing our friendship.
29:25I just, I'm a little confused. We had a kiss. So, where's your head?
29:34Don't run away from this left. Don't run away from this left. Don't run away from this left. Don't run
29:43away from this left. Don't, don't run away.
29:47I always wanted a pink heart. It is pink and it is sparkly and I think it finally matches my
29:53personality.
29:56Going to meet Tony. We're going to an amusement park. There's a lot happening in my head because things are
30:04kind of unclear.
30:05You know, is this a date? Are we just hanging out? So, I would like to get to the bottom
30:10of that with him.
30:11Don't run away, don't run away, don't run away from this love. Don't run away, don't run away. Don't, don't,
30:21don't run away.
30:24There she is. Hi.
30:26Nice to see you again. Oh my goodness. Absolutely. You ready?
30:29Which way do we go? We're going to go this way.
30:31I met Vanya two years ago where I actually invited her to a party that I was hosting and she
30:36danced for some of my work colleagues and we kept in touch ever since.
30:40At that time, I did meet someone else and I actually had a very short marriage.
30:45And after my divorce, it took me a while before I could start thinking about even pursuing someone else again.
30:52I haven't been on a roller coaster in like over 10 years now.
30:56Well, it's about time we break that streak.
30:59But I think with Vanya, she makes my, my worst days feel amazing.
31:04Oh, the front seat.
31:05Yeah.
31:06We're always laughing. She's very easy to talk to. We have a lot in common.
31:09How romantic.
31:10To me, it's the best thing ever.
31:12Woo!
31:12I've never been in the front seat before.
31:15Woo-hoo!
31:16Oh. Oh, no, God.
31:18Oh, yes.
31:20Oh, my gosh. Oh, my gosh.
31:23Oh, my God. Oh, my God.
31:25Wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow.
31:28Oh, my gosh. Oh, my gosh.
31:35I don't want a bird's eye view right now.
31:38It's almost over.
31:39No, it's not. It's starting.
31:41Yes, it is.
31:41Oh, my God.
31:44Oh, my God.
31:49Tony is definitely different than guys I normally date.
31:53The past two relationships that I've had, the guys were very much athletes into fitness.
31:58But what I love about Tony is that he's so cerebral, and he's so smart, and he's able to keep
32:04up in a conversation about anything and everything.
32:07Oh, that was so cool.
32:10And he's just, he's incredible.
32:13I think we should do one of these arcade things.
32:15Oh, let's do one of these games.
32:16How are you with a gun?
32:17I'm not good with a gun.
32:19Perfect.
32:20I think we should try that then.
32:22I feel like there's a lot at stake here because I value our friendship so much.
32:26He means the world to me.
32:27And I know that if we give it a try and it doesn't work out, we're risking of losing our
32:32friendship.
32:33All right, let's see if you can win me something.
32:37But I don't want to look backwards and say, like, oh, my God, this could have been one of the
32:41best relationships of my life.
32:42But I didn't give it a try because I was scared of losing out on a friendship.
32:47We have a winner, number six.
32:49That's me.
32:51Man.
32:54Wow.
32:58Okay, ready?
32:59I'm going to pop up here.
33:01Take a little break, huh?
33:02Yes.
33:02I feel like we're having such an awesome time.
33:06But I just, I'm a little confused.
33:10We've been friends for so long.
33:11We've been hanging out for so long.
33:13But, you know, we had a kiss.
33:16So what does that mean?
33:18Does that mean that we're more than friends?
33:20Like, how do you feel about that?
33:22Is that something that you feel like you want to try to pursue?
33:26Or where's your head?
33:32I mean, we've been, like, best friends for over a year and a half now.
33:36You know?
33:36And it's not an easy decision for me, though.
33:40For me to commit to the next step, I worry that we might lose what we have.
33:47I can't say right now that I can fully commit to being exclusive and, you know, saying that we're in
33:55a relationship and, I mean, obviously I don't want you dating other people.
33:59But I feel overwhelmed with just making a decision on the spot where...
34:03So you are able to see other people, but I'm not?
34:05I wouldn't say that either, but I just can't say yes to us right now.
34:09I hope I'm not imagining a romantic connection with Tony that's simply not there.
34:15That would just be completely devastating to me.
34:20I'm sorry, I feel like you're using her.
34:22I don't know how I'm using her.
34:24Are you worried that I'm just gonna leave once I'm healed or something?
34:28Yeah.
34:29I'm really starting to think, what the am I doing with him?
34:42Should we do a ski shot?
34:44Yeah!
34:45Shut, shut.
34:47We have to keep moving to keep warm.
34:57One, two, three!
35:03This is the most exciting two days I've had in months.
35:06Like, last night the hotel with Colt.
35:08Now I'm out to the bar with my friends.
35:10Let's go out there, it's too cold in here.
35:12This is the first time Colt's meeting with them.
35:14So I'm a little nervous.
35:16Here's Colt!
35:17Hey Colt!
35:18Hey!
35:20My friends have already expressed their doubts and told me I'm crazy for being with him.
35:25But I'm hoping once they hang out, they see all the good things that I see in him.
35:29Hey dude!
35:29Hey, how's it going?
35:31Hey!
35:31Nice to meet you and Josh!
35:32Nice to meet you!
35:33This is my wife, Marie.
35:34Hi!
35:35Pleasure to meet you!
35:36Hi!
35:36Hi!
35:37I'm Sandy!
35:38I'm Colt!
35:39Hi!
35:40Sandy and Lexi!
35:41Pleasure to meet you both!
35:42How are you feeling?
35:43I'm okay.
35:44A little tired.
35:45A little hard to get around.
35:46But I feel like I'm doing okay.
35:48Courtney's been a really great help.
35:49I'm like a classy housewife woman now.
35:52The classiest.
35:54What is that like though, living together like so fresh with her parents?
35:58The parents are great, but it's been difficult.
36:00You know, and her and I want to be close, then you know, that's awkward.
36:06And I can't do much with my leg either, so...
36:08He can't stand on it.
36:10He can't kneel.
36:10I can't put weight on it, basically.
36:12So it's like that takes away every position.
36:13It takes a lot of them out.
36:15They're just riding the cowboy.
36:17That's it.
36:17That's all you can do.
36:18Well, that's one thing you can do.
36:22Our hotel date we had yesterday wasn't a total disaster.
36:26We attempted to have intercourse, but...
36:28We tried.
36:29We tried.
36:30We got closer.
36:31Yeah.
36:31We got closer than we've been...
36:33It's like we're approaching a black hole.
36:34We get definitely close each time, but it's pretty close to...
36:36What's the black hole?
36:37My...
36:40I'm gonna suck you into my black hole.
36:42That's the idea.
36:44And we basically just scissor and oral.
36:48But we together.
36:50We literally together.
36:51We literally together.
36:53We literally together.
36:55We're just going through a lot right now.
36:57We're having a lot of issues.
36:59Not a lot.
37:00But some.
37:02What's the biggest struggle right now that you feel?
37:06Trust.
37:07The trust?
37:12At the resort, he was talking to like three other girls.
37:17Maybe two.
37:17Three.
37:19Two or three.
37:20Or five.
37:22Might be more.
37:23Nobody knows.
37:24Wow.
37:25So, but now you're fully committed to Courtney at this point.
37:28100%.
37:28And you're not talking to anybody else?
37:34No.
37:34Just Courtney?
37:35Just Courtney.
37:41I know right now I'm in kind of a gray area, talking to Diana from Brazil, but she's been in
37:46my life for a year now, and to be perfectly honest, I have feelings for her.
37:53But I love Courtney, so I'm trying to keep things platonic.
37:58I don't know.
37:59I just feel like a lot of problems in such a short amount of time.
38:04You're like living in her house.
38:06You guys are not even intimate.
38:09I'm sorry, I feel like you're using her.
38:12I mean, like, are you?
38:14I don't know.
38:15I don't think I'm, I don't know how I'm using her.
38:18Are you worried that I'm just gonna leave once I'm healed or something?
38:21But you've spent all this time worrying about things that might, may or may never happen.
38:25And I assure you, I'm not gonna cheat on you, I'm not using you, but I can't convince you.
38:30A part of me can't blame Courtney's friends for grilling me alive.
38:35But honestly, I don't need to tell them anything.
38:37I mean, I need to tell Courtney that I'm talking to Diana.
38:40And I plan on telling her eventually.
38:43But that's not happening right now.
38:48So what are you guys doing after this?
38:50So we're gonna go to a bar.
38:51Yeah, you guys could come tag along.
38:53We'll drive you.
38:54I'm pretty tired.
38:55I was hoping to go home, actually.
38:57You wanna go out?
38:59Yeah, I'm going out.
39:01So what's your plan?
39:02Are you gonna go home?
39:03Yeah, so Uber back.
39:07Tonight sucked.
39:07I think my friends are like, what are you doing?
39:10What value is he bringing to your life?
39:14This man you don't trust, like, he can't even keep his .
39:17Hey, babe.
39:19Have fun.
39:20It's like I'm torn.
39:21I see his potential, but then I also see it through their eyes.
39:25You'll be fine, though?
39:26I'll be fine.
39:26All right.
39:27There's a part of me that loves him, but I'm really starting to think, what the am I doing with
39:33him?
39:36Well, that was fun.
39:38Whew.
39:39This time on The Single Life.
39:41One, two, three.
39:43One, two, three.
39:44One, two, three.
39:46This is Kimberly.
39:48Hi.
39:48How are you?
39:49Kim, it's a breath of fresh air.
39:51You're a beautiful woman.
39:51You're charming.
39:52It's like...
39:53I'm charming.
39:53I like you.
39:54I really want to find love, but it's terrifying to think my past could make somebody walk away from me.
40:02I'm in a stage of my life where I see what I want and I go after it.
40:06I just can't say yes to us right now.
40:10I've already wasted so much time on men who don't know what they want out of life.
40:15I'm done with that.
40:17Hi.
40:18Hello.
40:20I'm worried Natalie's friends are going to have this preconceived notion about me and not even give me a chance.
40:26Are you talking to other women?
40:29Well...
40:32Do you not like him?
40:33I really don't.
40:34I think he's hiding something.
40:38Why are you here alone?
40:40What is the girl?
40:42Sophie.
40:43She's been kind of off.
40:45She's been a little distance right now.
40:47My sister Nicole, she's very protected.
40:50Maybe she's confused.
40:52Confused people hurt people.
40:54I feel that I had to listen to Nicole because she always write about my relationship with Chantal in the
40:59past.
41:00I think you're going to ruin your life again.
41:03Maybe I had to walk away.
41:06What's been going on with Pedro?
41:08He hasn't texted me.
41:09Everything I told you, he knows.
41:12I've been fired to him.
41:13I'm not a friend.
41:14At the end of the day, bro.
41:15You should have my back, not his back.
41:17You just gave him.
41:18I don't know what the is going on.
41:20I feel like Sophie's looking for someone to blame for her relationship problems with Pedro, but she's not going to
41:26put the blame on me.
41:27This is bull .
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