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00:00There are millions of us looking for that special someone.
00:03Hello, everybody.
00:04I'm only talking to the hot sexy men right now.
00:07I would like to be painted naked and taken pictures of.
00:13But modern dating can be complicated.
00:17Wow, this is the really hard bit.
00:20You need a spark, you need to fancy each other.
00:23The ideal relationship is where we can just have a laugh together,
00:26have a few dates, and then the jiggy-jiggy comes after.
00:30Perfection would be great, but I'll just settle for fantastic.
00:36This summer... How are you? I'm here to meet Alec.
00:39There's a restaurant with a difference.
00:41Nice to meet you. Nah, I've got a smile on my face.
00:43Everyone in it will be single and on a real first date.
00:48Oh, my God, my first flower is from a man.
00:50Cameras will catch every moment in the search for love.
00:54What kind of modelling do you do? Topless.
00:57I'm actually not wearing underwear this evening.
01:00It's a first date. End it at that. It don't need to be too serious.
01:06Will any of these first dates lead to a second?
01:10It has been the best date I've been on.
01:12I just didn't get that kind of, oh, come to daddy.
01:15Every time he bent his arm, whew. Hello, princess.
01:19And will anyone find their perfect match?
01:21I think the date went amazing.
01:23The question's down to you, to be honest.
01:24It's not down to me at all. You're the man.
01:26Kiss on the cheek. No.
01:29Would you go out with him? Would you go out with him?
01:44Would you go out with him?
01:44How are you today? You okay? Yeah, I'm good, thanks. You?
01:46Every week, this restaurant is full of hopeful singles, all looking for love.
01:52Good afternoon. Good evening, sir. You all right? Good to see you again.
01:55I'm Terry. I've got a date with Amy tonight.
01:57It's DJ Terry's second visit to the restaurant.
02:00After his first unsuccessful date, 130 women applied to meet the self-confessed ladies' man.
02:07What makes a good date? Probably a lot of alcohol.
02:10I think I'll have a beer tonight.
02:11A little bit of carry-on, lots of flirting, and then maybe a quickie after.
02:17I don't know why I'm so nervous. I'm shaking like a shitting dog this time.
02:22I shouldn't be like it.
02:23Like Terry, all the first daters have to go on is their partner's name
02:27and what they look like in a photo.
02:30Perfect man.
02:31You look at my track record, it's kind of blonde hair, blue eyes, petite.
02:35As long as I've got a pulse, I'm good.
02:38Let's add gingers as well. Redheads, sorry. Redheads is the correct term.
02:42Yeah, I am a good... No, actually, I'm not a good listener.
02:44But all of the hair groups are fine.
02:51Hi. Good evening.
02:52Good evening. I'm meeting somebody here.
02:54And your name is? Philip.
02:5728-year-old financial recruiter Philip has been single for four years.
03:01Please follow me.
03:02I spoke to my parents as I was on the way here.
03:05Her mum was going,
03:06and you'll have a great time. Just remember, be yourself, be natural.
03:09How are we doing? How are you?
03:11And then I heard my dad, like, in the background shout,
03:13don't be natural because you're a bit of a dick.
03:15Some good cocktails on there.
03:17Yeah.
03:18Many of my favourites. I could do some damage tonight.
03:20Be yourself, but less dickish.
03:29Hi. My name's Lucinda and I'm here to meet Phil.
03:33Philip's date is 28-year-old Lucinda from Surrey.
03:36I feel under-dressed.
03:41Lucinda, yes?
03:42Yes. Hi.
03:42How are you?
03:43Nice to meet you.
03:45How's it going?
03:46Not too bad, not too bad.
03:48I'll pull up with you.
03:49Thank you very much.
03:50You're welcome.
03:50Thank you very much.
03:52What can we get you?
03:53Can I have a glass of something sparkling, if that's possible?
03:55Absolutely. Great shout.
03:56Champagne.
03:57Yeah, a glass of champagne.
03:58Yeah.
03:58Make that two.
03:59I'll speed up on that as well.
04:03What do you do?
04:04I am in the world of financial headhunting for, like, senior rich people.
04:11What about you?
04:12Oh.
04:13Oh.
04:13Right.
04:13OK.
04:14I'm learning to be a funeral director.
04:20I'm pleased you were drinking when I asked all of that.
04:23I'm sorry.
04:24Look, I...
04:25There's a lot of money in dead people because...
04:27That's a really awful thing to say.
04:30Well...
04:30Let's think about it.
04:31What spurred you on to be a funeral director?
04:34I've always wanted to be in event management, but...
04:37I just got champagne in my eye.
04:39This is getting better and better.
04:41Event management.
04:42You nearly choked and now you're blind.
04:44Please don't fall off your chair.
04:45Event management.
04:46But it is.
04:47It's event management customer service at the highest level.
04:52It's not funny.
04:54It is.
04:55Two boys ready.
04:56Oh, fabulous.
05:01I haven't been in the dating scene for a while.
05:05How have you been today?
05:06Very good.
05:07Nice day.
05:08Yeah, it's nice.
05:09It's sunny.
05:09Kind of just, like, lost my mojo.
05:14Today is good.
05:15And I need to get my mojo back.
05:17And it's not working somehow, but it takes little steps.
05:25I want to be loved.
05:28It sounds corny, but it's true.
05:3228-year-old Leon is on his first proper date for four and a half years
05:37with waiter and part-time model, Marcus.
05:43Hiya.
05:44How are you?
05:44I'm very well.
05:45Thank you, Sal.
05:45Yeah, good.
05:46Fantastic.
05:46And it's Marcus.
05:48Marcus.
05:51Do you want to leave your bag in the clock room?
05:52No, no, no.
05:53It's fine.
05:56Leon?
05:57Yes.
05:57Hi.
05:58Nice to meet you.
06:00You OK?
06:00How are you?
06:01I'm fine.
06:01I'm very well, thank you.
06:02Looking great.
06:03I try, I try.
06:05Please, oh, you've gone for a pint.
06:06To surprise me, but no Guinness.
06:08That'd be great.
06:09So, fill me in.
06:10What do you want to know?
06:11What do you want to know?
06:12Uh, right job.
06:14Hit me up.
06:15Right.
06:15Basically, I work for a fire safety company.
06:18Do you have a secret ambition to wear the fireman's uniform?
06:22Doesn't everyone?
06:26Not every in the hair.
06:28I'm not going to lie.
06:30No.
06:32I hate the gay suit.
06:34It's very promiscuous, you know, just the amount of guys that try on with me and then they've
06:40got boyfriends or you can see they've got the wedding rings on and you're like, really?
06:44Like, what are you playing at?
06:47Do you look really like Kanye West?
06:49Do you get that one?
06:49Everybody says this to me.
06:51Everybody says this to me.
06:52I was like, you remind me of someone.
06:55Who is this person?
06:58I'm not really as sorry, oh.
06:59Tell me something about you that I wouldn't know.
07:03Well my life is completely honestly boring compared to yours.
07:07Is it?
07:08I met Peter Andre before he was famous.
07:11Oh!
07:12We could get a dozen oysters
07:15To share to start with
07:17Oh yes that made me really happy
07:19I love oysters
07:19Go off my own heart
07:21There it is
07:21You know what they say
07:22So magic could happen
07:24Absolutely
07:25The loinage area
07:28Could we please order a bottle of the Jugandas 2010
07:32Modern
07:33Leave that one
07:35Wine comes in three varieties for me
07:38White, pink and red
07:42I
07:43Drink all three in equal measure
07:45I think in the last year and a half
07:47I've probably been on over
07:5050 dates
07:51I think that's probably because I'm
07:53I'm quite fussy
07:55Yes, ah it said
07:57It's 2010 on the list
07:58Thank you but I mean
08:00I'm sure it's fine it's 2011
08:01Thank you
08:04I mean it looked like a 2010 to me
08:07How do you know that? Did it say it?
08:09Yes, and it's 2010 Jugandas
08:11No on the bottle how did you know?
08:12It says 2011
08:14Always giving it away those bottles
08:16Bastards
08:18So now do you swallow or do you bite?
08:22My oysters I swallow
08:26But occasionally there might be a nibble
08:30I
08:30I like a nibble
08:31She's on the wine now
08:35Full on pro
08:39That's lovely thank you
08:40If we could just have about like half a glass
08:55And something classic and simple
08:58Don't you dare say the move isn't a bit of popcorn
08:59Because I know that popcorn trick
09:01Where like it's there
09:02And then you make a hole with your willy in
09:04And then like oh do you want to nibble on my popcorn
09:06And I'm like oh oh fantastic
09:08What is this?
09:18Can I admit something to you?
09:19Please do
09:21I'm actually not wearing underwear this evening
09:25I have like a lucky pair of underwear
09:29However because I got back from holiday like a couple of days ago
09:33Like I put it in the wash and everything
09:35But they hadn't tried so um
09:39I'm commando right now
09:42Right
09:44Wow
09:45It was either lucky pants or nothing
09:50I want some wine
09:51Are you an alcoholic?
09:53Yes
09:54Nice
10:00There you go
10:02Hey
10:03Come straight from work or?
10:05Yeah I come straight for a while
10:06I feel bad though
10:07Because I ain't even had a haircut or anything like that
10:09I'm just doing it
10:1425 year old personal trainer Cassius
10:16Is the first to arrive for his date
10:19My mum gave me some good advice
10:21He was just like if you can just find a girl that's
10:23Down to earth
10:24Genuine
10:25And you can feel like she's got a good heart
10:27And just stick with her
10:28But at the moment
10:29I haven't found that
10:34I'm definitely romantic I'm quite affectionate
10:36I do things to spare the moment
10:39I just like to catch someone off guard
10:50Hi
10:50You okay?
10:51Yeah I'm okay thanks
10:52What's your name?
10:53Danielle
10:57Cassius is dating 20 year old Danielle
10:59I just need to be higher
11:02He applied to meet her on the first date's website
11:06Man I've got a smile on my face
11:07Nice to see now
11:09Hi Danielle
11:10Nice to meet you
11:11I feel like I need to be on my tiptoes here
11:13I was kind of worried about that
11:14Well I thought I'd be alright
11:16Yeah
11:16Well you'll be sitting down for half of it
11:18So it'll be okay
11:20Yeah
11:21Nervous?
11:23Yeah
11:23Yeah
11:24I think the worst part was walking in with these shoes
11:27Yeah
11:29With new people I'm definitely shy
11:31Yeah
11:32Really bad
11:33Like I don't like I don't talk to them
11:35What was you doing before this?
11:37Um
11:38Just being like at home
11:39Right
11:40Okay myself
11:41Yeah
11:42Yeah
11:43Never been given flowers before
11:44I thought of flowers for myself
11:46And that's about it
11:47Yeah we can change that
11:48Oh my God
11:49That's it
11:50Thank you
11:51That's alright
11:51I got that before I came
11:52Oh my God
11:53My first flowers from a man
11:55Yeah
11:56Thank you
12:00I've met complete idiots in the past
12:02Um
12:04My...
12:04A boyfriend cheated on me
12:06So that's
12:06And since then
12:07I've been single for
12:09A year now
12:10It's sort of put me off
12:11To the point where it's like
12:12Oh okay
12:12There's no...
12:13There's not a normal man out there
12:15Oh my gosh
12:17Oh my gosh
12:18Oh my gosh
12:21Oh my gosh
12:22Oh my gosh
12:27I'm just gonna go to the toilet again
12:28Okay
12:30I suppose I do find
12:31First dates difficult
12:32I don't know if there's gonna be conversation
12:34Or anything like that
12:35Where it's gonna go awkward
12:36Where you're like
12:37Looking out the window
12:38And things like that
12:39What's that chick from Twilight?
12:41Like the one that bites people?
12:46I don't know
12:47Yeah the vampire film thing
12:49She looks like that
12:50She looks like the girl from that
12:52The girl that bites people
12:53What's your first...
12:54What's your first...
12:55What's your first thought now?
12:56My first thought is that
12:57She's either nervous
12:58Or she's in a situa...
13:00She's in a situation obviously
13:01She feels a little bit uncomfortable
13:03So like
13:04Sometimes I feel like
13:05I have to force the conversation
13:06But anyway
13:07I need to go back
13:07Before she thinks I'm having a shit
13:09On my first date
13:12It's two and a half hours
13:13It's two and a half hours
13:14Since Philip and Lucinda Matt
13:17I normally date people
13:18A little bit older than you
13:19How old?
13:20A little bit older than you
13:21A little bit older than you
13:22What turns you off about people
13:23The same age or similar ages?
13:25Insecurity and immaturity
13:26Guys who are
13:28Our age
13:29Often are
13:30Trying to establish themselves
13:32Both in the business world
13:33Or just generally in life
13:34And they've got hang ups
13:36About like
13:36How I look
13:37How I perform
13:38In life
13:39And everything else
13:40Whereas older guys
13:41Men
13:43They've been around
13:44They've done stuff
13:45They've lived life
13:46They've travelled
13:47They've experienced
13:47They've had wives
13:48They've had children
13:49They're over it
13:50It's a different ball game
13:52It's like having
13:52An older bottle of red wine
13:55Or whatever
13:55You know
13:56It's um
13:57And I say whatever
13:57They're in a very
13:58Whatever way
14:00More complexity
14:01More experience
14:02Thank you
14:03Don't pour it completely
14:04Out there into your glass
14:05Because there might be
14:05A bit of tannin in the bottom
14:06Yep, yep, alright
14:07Thank you again
14:09I feel
14:10Like she might need
14:11Somebody a little
14:12Bit more mature
14:13Like kind of in the 50s maybe
14:16Because I feel like
14:17I would be
14:17If I were to get
14:18In a relationship with her
14:19Like on one of those dog walkers
14:21Where they let you run so far
14:23Then they hit the button
14:23And you're like
14:25Like
14:26You know
14:26Probably want to check actually now
14:28Well yeah
14:29The check would be great
14:30Cool
14:32Hello
14:32Lovely to see you again
14:34Oh
14:37Not safe from your body language
14:38Unfortunately
14:39Sorry, no, no
14:40Very relaxed
14:41I'm very relaxed
14:44This has been a really lovely experience
14:46Thank you
14:47For your company
14:48You're welcome
14:49Thank you
14:51It's nice to meet someone
14:52Who's as gregarious as you
14:54And enthusiastic about life
14:56A lot of people can be disenchanted at your age
15:00Come on
15:00Come on
15:00That was patronising
15:01I had a delightful
15:03entertaining evening with you
15:06Huh?
15:07I know
15:08I had really good fun
15:10Down your wine
15:12OK
15:13No
15:14The glass
15:15Not the bottle
15:17If my dad was single
15:19You could definitely go
15:37Is it wrong to want to suck this stick?
15:44Yeah
15:45Oh
15:45That stick rose looks good
15:46Thank you
15:48Why are you laughing at that?
15:51I'm a very closed off shy person
15:55You have to use a jackhammer to chip away at the exterior
16:02So tell me a bit more about like your background like what's the crack?
16:06You know do you get on with your family?
16:08I'm an only child
16:09You're an only child
16:10OK
16:11But then I have my best friend who's like my sister
16:15She's been there since day one
16:16She was there when I was diagnosed
16:23Diagnosed
16:25I'm HIV positive
16:28OK
16:30So
16:33When did you find this out?
16:35I went to the clinic
16:37To get my test done
16:39And then they said that
16:41If they call me
16:43Then there's something wrong
16:46And then they called me
16:47Wow
16:49He took a deep breath
16:52And then said
16:53Yeah your
16:55Test came back positive
16:57And I just said what?
17:01Instant floodgates
17:03When I first got diagnosed
17:06It was
17:09Like
17:10Heart-wrenching
17:13I felt like
17:15A window that just shattered
17:18And I'm now trying to put back the shattered pieces
17:24I've been single now for
17:27Four and a half years
17:28I think it's because due to lack of confidence
17:32In a way I found it hard to like
17:34Go on like dates with people
17:37Because I'm thinking
17:39There is deep down you need to admit like what's going on
17:42Yeah
17:42There is still a stigma against it
17:44Some people if you tell them
17:46Oh yeah by the way
17:47I'm
17:47They will just like
17:50Go at the nearest door
17:53In my book
17:54Honestly is the best policy
17:56Yeah
17:57Obviously the best policy is a bit of a fucker for you
18:00Do you mind me talking about it?
18:02No god no
18:02Not at all
18:04It is big
18:05But at the same time if I understand everything
18:09And you know get your head around it
18:11I don't see there to be a problem
18:13It's massively different now isn't it
18:15Like there is a lot of drugs that are available for you
18:19I've still got to make sure that people understand that
18:24Yeah
18:25I'm that
18:26But I'm still the same person
18:28I think we need to chin chin this
18:35My friend just had her nipples done
18:38Really?
18:39Do you have a picture?
18:49I can't believe I've got flowers
18:54I'm just checking out his eyes
18:56No I wasn't
18:56I'm just
18:57No you have to be honest
18:58No I wasn't
18:59I saw you because your eyes went like that
19:00Men don't interest me
19:01What?
19:02Hold on a minute that came out totally wrong
19:05I don't
19:06Bisexual?
19:07No
19:07No
19:08Right
19:09Oh my god
19:10Alright I've kissed the girl and that's about where
19:11Like kiss or like tongue or like
19:14I don't really want to say
19:15Oh jeez
19:17Like
19:18Okay like past kissing
19:19I was drunk
19:20One thing led to another
19:21And yeah
19:22Suddenly
19:23You know
19:25Okay so basically
19:26Yeah
19:27I sort of do
19:29Do stuff outside of work
19:30I'm a model as well
19:31What kind of modelling do you do?
19:34Topless
19:35Hold on one more question
19:37You're on Babestation
19:38No I'm not
19:39I would say at the beginning I was kind of just like
19:44Okay
19:46Let's just talk first and see if we have anything in common
19:49I thought generally she was quite shy
19:51But then she opened up and like towards the end of the day we were just cracking jokes and having
19:56fun
19:56So yeah I'd definitely fancy that
19:59I'm glad I got you
20:00Where?
20:01Because I think
20:02Everyone else
20:02No you've just been real
20:03Just been yourself
20:04Oh okay
20:06First man to buy me flowers
20:07It definitely has been the best date I've been on
20:11I've got flowers
20:13You've got to figure out how to trim them and cut them
20:15Yeah no don't worry
20:16I'm not do that
20:16I bought myself loads of times
20:18Not because I'm a weirdo
20:19It just makes the room look better
20:21We're going to go on a second date
20:23We're going to Fort Park
20:25Make her scream
20:27You too
20:28Thank you
20:28Bye
20:29Safe bro
20:30Cool
20:31See ya
20:31Thank you
20:34You're alright
20:34That should be me doing that
20:35She had that effect on you
20:37See ya
20:41Kiss on the cheek
20:42Well
20:44Oh my god
20:45You kissed on the first date
20:46That was really sneaky
20:47You kissed on the first date
20:48No I don't
20:48I'm telling your mum man
20:49Oh my god
20:50What would your mum say
20:51That was so sneaky
20:52What would your mum say
20:53If I told her you kissed on the first date
20:54I can't believe you just did that
21:03Hello
21:03How are you?
21:05Do you want to leave your jackets
21:06That's fine
21:07Yeah
21:08You want to come with me?
21:09Last week Rajan's date didn't go to plan
21:11Now he's back in the restaurant
21:13Hoping for a second chance at love
21:15Can I get a double vodka and Sprite?
21:17Sprite?
21:18Yep
21:18Round two of dating
21:20Round two
21:20Hopefully I'll be able to make it to round three
21:23No it's not a boxing match
21:25See it feels like I've been stood up
21:27I've only been here for ten minutes
21:28And it feels like I've been stood up
21:29You can't go looking for love
21:31It's not a key in a treasure chest
21:32Love
21:33It finds you
21:46Afternoon
21:46Hi Jan
21:47Your name is?
21:49Shawnee Green
21:50Rajan's second chance at love is 21 year old Shawnee
21:55She applied to date him after seeing him on last week's programme
21:58Hello
21:59How you doing?
22:00You alright?
22:01Yeah
22:01Oh wow
22:02You look gorgeous
22:03Oh thank you
22:08You do amaretto sours?
22:10Yeah
22:10Now one of them please
22:12Oh are you not drinking alcohol?
22:13Do you not drink?
22:14No I am drinking alcohol
22:15Oh right what have you got?
22:16I've got a double vodka and a lemonade
22:18Oh right okay
22:19Are you drunk or are you alright?
22:21Do I look drunk?
22:22I don't know
22:23Wait surely you can tell if I'm drunk or not right?
22:25Well I don't know I've never met you before so
22:29Okay
22:30Right so we go and get a table then
22:31You're quite fiery aren't you?
22:33No I'm not
22:34Is this how you normally are as a person?
22:36No it's not
22:36Okay so what are you normally like?
22:40Is this how you normally are?
22:42I am a bit fiery
22:44The boys in Milton Keynes are just horrendous
22:46I don't want to be around them
22:48I want to find someone different
22:50I want to broaden my aspects
22:52I see Rajan as quite a fun bubbly bloke
22:55I like the challenge really with him
22:59We'll see
23:06What are you doing tonight?
23:07What's the crack on you?
23:09Sorry Leon
23:10Probably go see my dog
23:12Dog?
23:13Fill me in
23:14Yes I've got a dog
23:16I'm sorry I should have done that
23:17That sounds like a big revelation
23:19Yeah I've got a dog
23:20I have HIV and everything else that's going on
23:22But I have a dog as well
23:24How do you feel about this?
23:25This has been a very big breakthrough
23:27My first date since my diagnosis
23:33Oh
23:34Time to spin
23:36Yeah
23:36There's a little bit chemistry there
23:38I would rather wait until he says
23:42Because I don't want to come across as being a complete
23:46Plonk
23:47I was nervous
23:50Meeting you
23:51But actually
23:52Mate I wasn't nervous
23:54I was cool as a cucumber
23:56Literally look at the sweat marks
23:59On a sexual chemistry
24:01I wasn't thinking
24:02Looking at him thinking
24:03I just want to rip your clothes off
24:04Do you know what I mean?
24:05There was more like
24:05Oh you're a really nice cool guy
24:07Like I just want to meet you as a friend
24:09Thank you
24:10Yeah it's been great
24:11Thank you
24:12The weight has been lovely as well
24:13Oh is that you?
24:14Oh fantastic stuff
24:16And I don't want people to think like
24:19Oh just because it's got HIV
24:20Because that's got nothing to do with it
24:21It was literally like
24:22I just didn't get that kind of
24:24Oh come to daddy
24:25Do you know what I mean?
24:26It was one of them
24:30I know
24:31I know
24:32It's been ages
24:33What's going on?
24:37Are you ready for this?
24:38We are ready
24:38Let's go
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25:11The world's more of stuff.
25:18You have no idea how hard it is for girls to get ready for a first date.
25:22I was like, oh, my God, what am I doing?
25:24Like, I think, hold on, like, have I won the right thing?
25:26And then usually I'll take an outfit change just to go.
25:30You don't want to bring the Tatars out because that's sexual energy.
25:33I don't pout.
25:35I just, this is just me.
25:36You've got to find that real balance between sexy and attractive
25:41but serious and nice and my face is here, not here.
25:45How are you? I'm good, how are you?
25:46Yeah, I'm fantastic. What's your name?
25:48Nadia. I'm here to meet Alex.
25:55Are you all right?
25:57Come in.
25:5931-year-old entrepreneur Nadia...
26:01I'm good, how are you? Nice to meet you.
26:03You good?
26:03..is on a date with 30-year-old businessman Alex.
26:06How are you?
26:08Can I have a glass of champagne, please?
26:10Yeah.
26:11Woman after my own heart.
26:12Really?
26:12I thought I'd tone it down, have a red wine.
26:15You know what?
26:16A nice aperitif.
26:18Yeah.
26:19A nice, uh, nice shoes.
26:22Standard, the red soles.
26:24Very nice.
26:24You have to.
26:25Cheers, anyway. Nice to meet you.
26:27There you go, babe.
26:28Cheers.
26:36Nice.
26:37Nice.
26:38Taking the edge up for you.
26:39Totally.
26:41I like to class myself as being romantic,
26:43but I can't really say I'm an expert at it,
26:45because I'm still single at 30.
26:47If I had a line I'd use,
26:49your eyes are like spanners,
26:50every time I look into them, my nut's tight.
26:54Is that, um, I can never say it.
26:57Is it aglioli?
27:00Aglioli?
27:00Aglioli?
27:01Isn't that the...
27:03When you say that it's...
27:08Oh, my God.
27:09Oh, my God.
27:11Oh, my God.
27:13Or is that aglioli?
27:16I am no good.
27:19You know what I mean, though?
27:21Crab tastes great.
27:22It's that, like, garlicky, um...
27:24Yeah, try it.
27:25It doesn't taste like nipple.
27:28So, you're doing well.
27:32Do you think we got chemistry or not?
27:33What do you think?
27:36Yeah.
27:37Say it again.
27:38What?
27:38Say that again.
27:39I didn't say it again.
27:39I didn't hear what you said.
27:40Yeah, fuck off.
27:41I think we got chemistry.
27:44Yeah.
27:44Yeah, but it's up to you
27:45whether you want to take this to the next stage.
27:46Would you want, like, a boring relationship?
27:48No.
27:48Or do you want something a bit fiery, exciting,
27:51different?
27:52OK.
27:52Your mate, your companion.
27:54Yeah, yeah.
27:55There's loyalty as well.
27:55In terms of relationship,
27:58I need someone I can talk to.
28:00My granddad and nan have been together
28:01for absolutely years,
28:03and they're, like, my inspiration.
28:04I want to be like that,
28:05truddling along with my little walking stick,
28:07um, with someone I've been with,
28:09eating chips on the pier.
28:11I think you're lovely.
28:13You are.
28:14You're a cutie, aren't you?
28:16I accept the fact that you've got a good taste of men
28:18because you think I'm good looking.
28:19Are you really?
28:20Like that.
28:22I'd love to end up how they are.
28:24They, like, have their little bickering arguments,
28:25but it's so cute,
28:28watching them across the table.
28:30You've got some food on your lip, by the way.
28:32Have I?
28:32Yeah.
28:32I have.
28:33Oh, yeah, I have.
28:34Yeah.
28:37I didn't put it there, I'll put it there.
28:40Don't start.
28:41I didn't want it on mine.
28:44Okay, I'm, okay.
28:47It didn't go on yours.
28:48It went on the table.
28:53Cooking, cooking here.
28:54Do you mind if I take my time?
28:56Is that all right?
28:56No, of course.
28:58But I'd ask.
29:00Are you hot?
29:01Yeah, like, cooking with gas.
29:03You want to just chill, then?
29:04You can chill.
29:05Should I keep it at Hoxton, or should I do it?
29:07See, I would say that was more Essex,
29:09and that was more London.
29:12And that's more Greece.
29:17He's cute, and fun, and young,
29:21and got a lot of energy, and masculine.
29:26What's the biggest heel you've got?
29:28I've probably got about a seven-inch.
29:32Yeah, seven or eight.
29:35Yeah, I like a big heel.
29:36When I get drunk, I fall over a lot.
29:38A lot.
29:39Is that the only reason you feel this is the time
29:41that you need a man to support you on those journeys, huh?
29:44I never thought about it like that,
29:46but now you're saying it...
29:47It sounds quite appealing.
29:48It sounds very appealing, yeah.
30:05I would never instigate, obviously, asking,
30:09but, I don't know, I thought, you know,
30:13you'd have to ask him, honestly.
30:15From my perspective, I could think,
30:17yeah, it's gone great.
30:18From her perspective, she could see it
30:20from a completely different angle
30:21from the way I've seen the day tonight.
30:26Well...
30:26Hello, dear.
30:27How are you?
30:28Not too shabby, how are you?
30:30I'm all right.
30:33Would you like to?
30:34It's not up to me, like...
30:36No, I'm asking you, would you like to?
30:40Well...
30:41That's a yes or a no question, that is.
30:43Would you like to?
30:44No, it's a hard question,
30:46because it's like, well, would you like to?
30:48I'm asking you, would you like to?
30:49I wouldn't ask you if I wasn't asking.
30:52Thank you, bye-bye.
30:54Thanks, mate.
30:55Right there.
30:56Sorry.
30:56See you soon, bye.
30:57Yeah.
30:58Oh, God.
30:59Right there, right there.
31:01Yes, I would love to care on a date with you.
31:04Again.
31:05There you go.
31:06I think you have your answer.
31:12Are you religious?
31:14No.
31:14OK, the thing is, I wasn't religious before this date,
31:16but now I've met you, I think I believe in God,
31:18because it feels right now like I'm in heaven.
31:20It feels like I'm in heaven.
31:22Oh, am I like a little angel?
31:23Yeah, you.
31:26Don't do that again.
31:30You liked it a little bit?
31:31No, don't do that.
31:32Why didn't you like it?
31:33Don't do that.
31:33I am not no chick, man.
31:36Do you kiss on the first date?
31:38Why would I mention that?
31:40I just wondered.
31:41Well, you wouldn't kiss a complete wrong one, would you?
31:42It depends who it is.
31:44If the date's going well.
31:45Well, I don't know, maybe.
31:46I don't know.
31:48Probably not.
31:51I would never, ever sleep with someone on the first date.
31:56Anything like that.
31:57No.
31:57I wouldn't either.
31:59Do you know what I mean?
32:00Oh, whatever.
32:01Your face says it all.
32:03What?
32:04Wait, wait, wait, wait.
32:06What do you mean my face says it all?
32:07I find that quite disrespectful.
32:08I find it.
32:09No, wait a minute.
32:10Roger, you're going on like we've been together for months.
32:12I did not say that.
32:13OK, fine, fine.
32:15But I'm going to eat my chicken.
32:17I never, ever said that.
32:18You're just over-exaggerating.
32:20OK.
32:24But it doesn't take away the fact that I think you've got a beautiful...
32:26Don't!
32:26Shh!
32:27Just carry...
32:28Just leave it where it is.
32:29Can we just change the whole conversation?
32:30I'll say one last thing.
32:32It isn't...
32:33That conversation that we just had, it doesn't take away the fact that I think it's beautiful and gorgeous.
32:37You like your chicken hot and spicy, basically, so...
32:40Yeah, you're hot and spicy.
32:44Shut up!
32:45Oh, my God!
32:52Hello again.
32:54I'm Manjit.
32:55I'm 49, almost 50.
32:57I didn't have great expectations of meeting someone immediately, but this is my second chance.
33:05She's not a great deal older than me, uh, what?
33:09I'm 50 this year, and she's 61, 2?
33:14This one has got the hair.
33:16She'll be running her fingers through my hair, I think.
33:19He's got really nice biceps.
33:22You know, I can relate to her wanting to enjoy her life.
33:26So, we hope that this is the one.
33:29I want somebody.
33:30I don't want to be on me own anymore.
33:41It's really weird.
33:43It's probably the worst date I've ever been on, I think.
33:48But we'll see.
34:02Hey, you've got me waiting for ages.
34:04Have you?
34:05It felt like I was waiting for years.
34:07You've got, um, dinner on your lip.
34:08I'm so sorry.
34:09It's all right.
34:10It's gone?
34:10Yeah.
34:11No, it hasn't gone.
34:12It's just there.
34:14No, it's still there.
34:15Yeah, it's gone.
34:18Stop kicking me.
34:20You're not giving me enough room on this table.
34:27If you're in a relationship with a guy, but it's not going the way you like it to go, do
34:31you tell him?
34:32I feel like I've got to be pet in line a bit.
34:34I've got to be kept in line.
34:35To keep you on a leash?
34:36Yeah.
34:37I can keep you in line.
34:38I need to play this a bit dominating.
34:39It's going to be straight to the point.
34:40The last boyfriend put you in line.
34:42No, he made me, I walked all over him.
34:44Wait, wait, what?
34:47Yeah, basically.
34:48You've walked over men.
34:50Every girl will agree.
34:51If a bloke lets you treat him like a mug, you'll treat him like a mug.
34:55Wow.
34:56You know what's taking the piss, and you know that you're crossing the line, but you still do it.
35:00Yeah.
35:00That's a red flag for me.
35:03That's a red flag for me.
35:04Oh, really?
35:05That's a red flag for me.
35:06I don't think you should let a girl get away with doing that to you.
35:09You that are pitting me of what I think is beautiful, but in this walking all over business, it's messed
35:15it up for me.
35:16Oh, right, okay.
35:17It's a first date.
35:19End it at that.
35:20It don't need to be too serious.
35:22Okay, can we get the bill, please?
35:24Okay.
35:24Excuse me, can we get the bill, please?
35:31Thanks a lot.
35:44Can I take a second to think about this?
35:48It's just too much.
35:49But you want to walk all over me, you will do it.
35:51Oh, my God, it's a date, for fuck's sake.
35:56Well, in terms of the date, I thought it was great.
36:03I thought you were a lovely person, but fortunately, that line really messed it up for me.
36:10I'm sorry, I feel the same.
36:11Yeah.
36:12I think the feeling's definitely mutual.
36:15Yeah, it's mutual.
36:16I still think there's sexual tension between us.
36:19I feel the same.
36:26I feel the same.
36:32I feel the same.
36:50can i get you anything else no i'm good thank you i'm a single parent uh i have been a
36:55single
36:55parent for a considerable amount of time now i've reached a point where they've grown up and
37:02i'm ready to find somebody and maybe see what happens
37:15hello nice to see you how are you i'm fine thank you come to see my date 62 year old
37:24essex girl linda
37:25is meeting manjit he applied to date her after seeing her on last week's program this is my
37:31second chance i feel this is a lot more of a person that's got the same interest as me
37:38he is a property developer which is really sort of like what will that do for me mate
37:48nice to meet you manjit that's right yeah linda nice to meet you and you how are you yeah fine
37:58i know you're from walsall yeah do you know it no you don't i've never heard of it
38:04okay
38:05what i was uh thinking you know when i was coming out i thought oh i'm gonna meet a new
38:11person
38:12and you know we get on hopefully we get on really well so i made a love potion
38:20when you go out to for the evening and you're single yeah you make up this love potion so i
38:29brought
38:29some tonight that's mine
38:36and this is your one then so we've got one each of the love potion right love potion we've got
38:44to
38:44have a tea strainer because what okay no they're because otherwise you're going to get all petals in
38:50in your drink when you drink it you just get amorous you start getting all you know sexual
39:03this is um this is a first
39:10let's just see by the end of the night here's to love love and passion passion and romance
39:22i was i was thinking come on it's gotta work it's gotta work please let it work
39:30manage it drink it
39:34you're supposed to be looking at me okay
39:45i think i'll have a beer tonight you know yeah pint please
39:51after his first visit to the restaurant came to nothing terry's hoping it'll be second time lucky
39:57i've got a new date this week i chose her because she looks really pretty she had like a devilish
40:02little
40:03look about her she's a good sport to come here have a meal with me when she knows my history
40:09knows i'm a
40:10guitar and a bit of a player hi darling nice to meet you are you all right i'm good you
40:14yeah good
40:15terry's date is 28 year old car leasing consultant amy
40:21can i have a rosé please he's is definitely someone who would be my type
40:26um everyone wants to tame the cheeky chappy
40:32here we are yes nervous it'll be all right i'm a dickhead you'll have a laugh
40:39that's true dickhead part i'm exactly
40:43you said on your bio that he's like heavy set
40:47you definitely have got a heavy set of them
40:50at least you were truthful you know like people to go in with their eyes open
40:58and they're the ones that made the bad boy settle down
41:03thank you
41:04i'd love to meet somebody who made me feel special and that i could turn around and say
41:08i'm done dating i don't have to do another first date again
41:12yeah i'll have a tap water just to in case she wants to throw it in my face
41:20cheers mate what about you do you go on a lot of dates or um my teenage years got cut
41:26short
41:27tell me why i had a little boy at 18. did you all right but you don't regret it
41:34no god no he's amazing how old is he nine
41:39who may as well be 19. is he that much trouble at the age of three he was touching waitress's
41:44bums
41:45in restaurants man after me own art
41:49i want to settle down now because i'm getting a bit old now
41:52hairline's going back you know the wrinkles are starting to come through
41:56there's another side to me there's a real soft side a soft terry i want women to see that side
42:01of me
42:02did you think that when you come on this date that i might judge you or
42:05are you funny with people yeah i'm aware i'm the smallest of girls and that for me is an issue
42:11so i get very paranoid about it well don't be look at me i'm skinny i'm too skinny i'm like
42:18a
42:18tortoise without a shell i was very honest about the fact that i'm not a skinny supermodel um
42:27but i can laugh at myself you've been lovely on this date thanks you're not the sort of girl that
42:33sleeps where we're going on first date though are you no i'm a good girl
42:40oh god here comes trouble she says
42:45do you like to see me again lovely thank you as always there's a girl i'm looking for
42:53and i have to be honest you're not hurt but you are lovely and i've had a lovely day
43:05i can't cook i always buy them at frozen and there's one more thing on my list
43:12yes is that i want someone to be able to cook a man who could cook what's your favorite food
43:18i eat
43:19anything but i like indian i liked his physique he's very muscular and he had a lovely face if you
43:30have got properties all you gotta do is go and buy one down here london or essex
43:43he's quite away from me depends if he wants to travel
43:49thank you so much my jacket please she's she's nice but you know i think we're just a little bit
43:56different for each other
44:00yes
44:04yeah i can put that in there
44:09i can't say that that potion's gonna work immediately anyway you never know i might i might
44:15it might work as i'm going home tonight i might be oh my god
44:24at the end of another busy night in the first date's restaurant not everyone's found their special
44:30someone but some of tonight's data's will be back next week bonjour for a date with you hi if you're
44:38up for a laugh you're sexy and think i'm the right guy for you then get in touch if you
44:46want to be connected with me and feel like you want to get a connection with me then please do
44:53get in touch i know you're out there i know you are just go online do something
44:58thank you very much good night and 31 year old tamsin will be returning to the restaurant hi
45:05for a second chance at romance i'm kind of looking for someone that's in football
45:10um five foot eleven athletic builds um got good hair good teeth good dresser if you want to be sat
45:21opposite phil tamsin or leon on a date next saturday log on and apply at channel4.com forward slash
45:28first dates if you like what you see then get in touch i would be more than happy to hear
45:33from you
45:35applications close at 8am tomorrow
45:38and if they don't take your fancy there are plenty of other singles who you can apply to date
45:43in the restaurant over the weeks ahead