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Join us this Valentine’s season on Beyond the Headlines as we celebrate the stories behind meaningful connections. ❤️
We sit down with Leonhardt & Lian Cabahug to explore what makes love, partnership, and family truly thrive—beyond grand gestures and social media moments.
This feature highlights the values, shared experiences, and everyday choices that define their journey together, reminding us that love is about connection, commitment, and choosing each other every single day.
We sit down with Leonhardt & Lian Cabahug to explore what makes love, partnership, and family truly thrive—beyond grand gestures and social media moments.
This feature highlights the values, shared experiences, and everyday choices that define their journey together, reminding us that love is about connection, commitment, and choosing each other every single day.
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00:01:30Good afternoon and welcome to Beyond the Headlines.
00:01:32I'm DJ Moises.
00:01:34This Saturday is Valentine's Day, and around this time, the world talks loudly about love.
00:01:42But here on Beyond the Headlines, we ask different questions.
00:01:47What does love look like when the cameras are off, when the flowers wilt, and when the ordinary day begins?
00:01:59Because Beyond the Headlines are real people doing the quiet work of becoming better partners, better parents, better human beings.
00:02:11This afternoon, we sit down with Lian Paz Cabahog and John Cabahog.
00:02:16And hi, Lian and John, and welcome to the show.
00:02:21Hello.
00:02:22Good afternoon.
00:02:24And maybe you have some friends to greet before we start the conversation.
00:02:30I'll go first.
00:02:30You first?
00:02:31Yes.
00:02:33Maying hapon sa tanan akong mga kaila sa barangay pagsabungan, labi na nga mo ang kapitan si Cap Bubbles.
00:02:41Maying hapon cap, naalang sa koderi cap po ako mo duty.
00:02:48And of course, hi, sa amuang family, to our kids, and sa akong guwapa, kaayong mga mother-in-law, sa
00:02:55akong inahan.
00:02:57Kamusta mo di hatanan?
00:02:58I hope you're watching.
00:03:00Sige, so before the camera started to roll, we had a little bit of a conversation.
00:03:06So, Lian, you are a GMA artist.
00:03:09So that means you were based in Manila.
00:03:13Yes.
00:03:13So, how did the two of you meet?
00:03:17Back then, we were schoolmates.
00:03:20So, my father is a medicine representative.
00:03:22And then, nagkaskoolmate me for elementary and high school.
00:03:27And classmate me for three days during sa high school.
00:03:31Gibalhin man siyang section because sipat.
00:03:34Okay.
00:03:36And then, so, how did you reconnect with her diyan?
00:03:442013, we are looking for a new endorser for our beauty product.
00:03:48And kung imus ang tanahon, perfect doon kayo siya as a beauty endorser.
00:03:55So, ni-message ko niya.
00:03:57And then, pero secretly, di naman ni siya secret doon.
00:04:00Gimangki business gito na ko git nga.
00:04:02Banguyoban dyan in ako.
00:04:03So, nakuha man siya, nakuha man siya, nakuha ang gusto.
00:04:12Kami na until now.
00:04:15Sige, sige daw.
00:04:16Because, at least from my experience, when somebody would message us and we lost touch for many years,
00:04:24unfortunately, the first thing that would come into mind is maybe na maligyan ni or naituyo, mangutang.
00:04:31So, what came into your mind or what was inside your mind the moment he reached out to you after
00:04:37a long time?
00:04:38Siyempre, during that time, naanamay Facebook, right?
00:04:41So, it's easy to get the background by like looking at the profile, no?
00:04:45So, naitanaw ko, pero wala mang kayo ko yung nakita.
00:04:49Ay, hindi siya kayo ting-post, kalisod sa daan niyo.
00:04:52So, mysterious guy, manday ni siya.
00:04:54But then, sabi ko alang, um, na-reply ko niya, a month pa.
00:04:59Okay.
00:05:01Dog guide you ko nagunaho na.
00:05:02So, nung nag-reply ako was because also, I was a single mother that time.
00:05:09So, I needed to have work.
00:05:11And then, he's offering a job to endorse their product.
00:05:16So, I asked, I replied to him.
00:05:19So, and the rest is history.
00:05:21Yes, super history.
00:05:23And you live happily ever after.
00:05:28Happily ever after, ba?
00:05:30Kayo.
00:05:31Sige.
00:05:31So, now let's take a look at kanang dynamics niyo, and hopefully the viewers can also learn, okay?
00:05:38No relationship is perfect, but I can tell that you are managing the relationship really well, no?
00:05:46Cool kayo, no?
00:05:47So, among the two of you, can say mo, ingo na ka ng, unsay kan o na to rong adlawa?
00:05:54Ah, it's me, Giyod.
00:05:56Ah, okay.
00:05:57Sige.
00:05:57Because?
00:05:57I love cooking.
00:05:59Okay.
00:05:59So, dinala ko sila pang aton on, I will cook what I want to cook.
00:06:03And, sila man sa, di pilihan ng food, especially kanini.
00:06:07Hindi siya maarte sa pagkain.
00:06:10And then, what the, ah, karon, di maarte, but let's see, level up na to.
00:06:13Among the things that si Lian iprepare, unsa man ang pinaka-favorite ni mo?
00:06:18Ang beefsteak.
00:06:20Mmm.
00:06:20And, chicken curry.
00:06:22Oh, chicken curry.
00:06:24Chicken curry.
00:06:26Kaya kung mother-in-law, ya hajit ng recipe.
00:06:29Okay.
00:06:29Sige.
00:06:30So, now this one, among the research also that I did is, it's a blended kanang family, no?
00:06:36And, both of you are occupied, no?
00:06:39I will have to say.
00:06:40So, that means, especially karon na a lot of us are really kanang busy day, ba?
00:06:45But, what is a normal, quiet day, no?
00:06:50For you in the family?
00:06:56Normal, quiet day na mo sa family is, ano?
00:07:00Movie time.
00:07:02Yes.
00:07:05Going out.
00:07:06Lunch out.
00:07:07Yeah, but at home, normal, quiet time is just eating together at the table.
00:07:14Yeah, because it's seldom na, because the kids are busy in school.
00:07:17In the majors, na?
00:07:18Yeah, kami po, busy.
00:07:19So, sometimes hindi sabay-sabay kumain.
00:07:21Mm-hmm.
00:07:22And then, when things get stressful, who is the peacemaker?
00:07:29Honest, ha?
00:07:30Natwik-twik lang, humataoy.
00:07:32Okay.
00:07:34Sino nga ba?
00:07:36Ako ang peacemaker.
00:07:38Agree.
00:07:39I have to submit.
00:07:40Ah, very good.
00:07:43Now, that's also key for keeping the peace, no?
00:07:47And then, the other one also is, kanang, who needs more convincing, especially when it
00:07:53comes to taking risks, no?
00:07:55Like, business decisions, or financial decisions, building a house, buying a property.
00:08:02Who needs more convincing?
00:08:05Him.
00:08:06Sige.
00:08:06Why is that, Sean?
00:08:09He is convincing in a lot of things, because he's a wise thinker.
00:08:15Wise person talaga siya.
00:08:17So, before he decides, he's gonna think it over, like, how many times.
00:08:20Even buying shoes.
00:08:21He loves shoes.
00:08:23But he thinks about that, like,
00:08:25I'll just go back and do that.
00:08:26Actually, about the shoes,
00:08:34So, you cannot decide, no?
00:08:36What do you think?
00:08:37Let's buy it.
00:08:39He looks like a lot of shoes.
00:08:41He's gonna go back and do that.
00:08:41Yeah.
00:08:41And then, I'm not born.
00:08:43I'm not going to shop for myself.
00:08:45Ah, okay.
00:08:46I can learn something new today.
00:08:47No, I'm not going to do that.
00:08:49Now, because both of you are also personalities, no?
00:08:55And so, both of you and even your family are visible online.
00:09:01And people would always say,
00:09:04Oh, they're happy.
00:09:06So, in the everyday that the family are together,
00:09:12what are the things that you are most grateful to?
00:09:16You're right, no?
00:09:17Yeah.
00:09:17So, yeah.
00:09:18Well, not everyday is a happy day.
00:09:22Maybe we just choose to be happy.
00:09:25Because, like, on my end, I have losses already.
00:09:29I lost my father.
00:09:30I lost my grandmother.
00:09:32And this is where I realized that life is short.
00:09:35You know, instead of dwelling on things that really don't matter at all,
00:09:40like fighting most of the time,
00:09:42we choose to be joyful.
00:09:46So, among gratefulness, Anna,
00:09:47maybe when we see the kids, like, just at home,
00:09:50and still going to our bedroom, yeah?
00:09:54Yes.
00:09:54Like, it's still coming to you.
00:09:56Asking for, Mom, can we watch this and that?
00:09:59I'm grateful for little things.
00:10:01You, John?
00:10:02Okay.
00:10:05I'm grateful if it looks like I'm going anywhere.
00:10:12Clingy.
00:10:14Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:10:16And now, after 11 years, no?
00:10:19So, what were the things that you did not understand with each other in the past
00:10:26that you already appreciate this time?
00:10:30May na lang, no?
00:10:32Inanis siya.
00:10:33Sige.
00:10:35Before,
00:10:38always, gina niya isultin ako nga,
00:10:40mahal, step up na, step up.
00:10:43Do it na, step up na.
00:10:45And before,
00:10:46medyo
00:10:47relaxed pa ko,
00:10:48didi pa kayo ko
00:10:49mo
00:10:51mind.
00:10:51And then,
00:10:52now,
00:10:53na,
00:10:53siguro,
00:10:54daghan na kayo ka nang,
00:10:55daghan na ako sa community service,
00:10:57na realize na ako nga,
00:10:59daghan na nag-look up po na ako ba.
00:11:01Karoon na ako na siya na,
00:11:02na tagag value nga,
00:11:05important sa Judea nga,
00:11:06mag-give back na ka.
00:11:08Not just by,
00:11:08not just by,
00:11:10saying things,
00:11:11but,
00:11:11being a role model,
00:11:12makita sa mga tao nga,
00:11:13especially yung mga younger generations nga,
00:11:16si Anjan,
00:11:18na dingkamot sa kinabuhi.
00:11:21So, yun.
00:11:23On my part naman,
00:11:25he's,
00:11:26hmm,
00:11:28he's a jealous person kasi.
00:11:30So,
00:11:31kung sa aming duha,
00:11:32si Amoy seloso,
00:11:33more than ako.
00:11:35So,
00:11:37him being a jealous person,
00:11:39he is a possessive kind of person.
00:11:43Diba?
00:11:43If you're gonna look at it,
00:11:44it's not the good trait,
00:11:45right?
00:11:46But I am thankful of that
00:11:48because that saved me
00:11:49from who I was before.
00:11:52So,
00:11:52technically,
00:11:53I am also a type of person
00:11:55that kailang laagan bitaw.
00:11:58And then sometimes,
00:11:59we make wrong decisions
00:12:00when we laa,
00:12:01we go with other people
00:12:02that you know,
00:12:03you're not familiar.
00:12:04And,
00:12:05technically,
00:12:06naka-save na ako
00:12:07ang yung pagkaposessive na ayaw.
00:12:09Don't go out,
00:12:10don't do this and that.
00:12:11Yeah,
00:12:11probably because
00:12:12wakumaanad.
00:12:13Kasi walang maging ana-anako,
00:12:14yun.
00:12:15Si Yara.
00:12:16But then,
00:12:17right now,
00:12:18I truly appreciate it
00:12:19and I also want that
00:12:20for our kids.
00:12:22And then,
00:12:23you mentioned,
00:12:24no relationship
00:12:25is actually
00:12:27perfect.
00:12:28Some relationships,
00:12:29no,
00:12:29not some,
00:12:30all relationships
00:12:30are actually tested.
00:12:32But through the 11 years,
00:12:34where you are today,
00:12:35what are the things
00:12:37that
00:12:37you can say
00:12:39na,
00:12:40it is worth it?
00:12:42it's worth it.
00:12:44Daghahan man,
00:12:45you guys?
00:12:46Daghahan man,
00:12:47wala siya sulti.
00:12:48Swishless na show,
00:12:49Daghahan man,
00:12:50I have no.
00:12:51It's worth it.
00:12:52Sige,
00:12:53just one,
00:12:53two or three.
00:12:54Sige,
00:12:54we can start with the end.
00:12:5612 years,
00:12:58actually.
00:12:5812 years?
00:12:5912 years na kami.
00:13:01And,
00:13:01soon is gonna be our anniversary,
00:13:03pero boyfriend,
00:13:03girlfriend anniversary
00:13:04so we're looking forward
00:13:06to our wedding anniversary,
00:13:07na po.
00:13:08We waited for that wedding,
00:13:10di ba?
00:13:11So,
00:13:12actually,
00:13:12it was sagit na,
00:13:13that I think
00:13:14it was all worth it
00:13:15because God gave us
00:13:17the chance.
00:13:18Yeah.
00:13:19Yeah.
00:13:19After the enrollment,
00:13:20no?
00:13:20Yes,
00:13:21after,
00:13:22I don't know,
00:13:23we have to admit
00:13:23we had,
00:13:24you had
00:13:25messy life,
00:13:26I also had mine.
00:13:28That's really not,
00:13:29not okay.
00:13:31Or not ideal.
00:13:32Not ideal.
00:13:33Yes,
00:13:33that's true.
00:13:33But then,
00:13:34God put it all together.
00:13:36God orchestrated
00:13:36our relationship
00:13:37that it can be
00:13:39a wonderful love story.
00:13:41Mm-hmm.
00:13:43So,
00:13:43it was all worth it.
00:13:44All the kind of
00:13:45lalys before.
00:13:48Kay,
00:13:48I think we,
00:13:49we,
00:13:49we have
00:13:50grown together,
00:13:51Yud.
00:13:52Oh,
00:13:52yeah.
00:13:52Yeah.
00:13:53Kay,
00:13:53nagailang may
00:13:54parehara
00:13:55kasad kaayyuta,
00:13:56no?
00:13:56Inod na,
00:13:57before,
00:13:59before,
00:14:00grabi may
00:14:00mag-away niya.
00:14:03we decided
00:14:04to,
00:14:05to,
00:14:07join a D group
00:14:08sa CCF.
00:14:10Okay.
00:14:10From there,
00:14:12guided na me,
00:14:13na na may mga
00:14:14account,
00:14:15accountable na
00:14:16friends,
00:14:17di ba?
00:14:17Yes.
00:14:18Yeah.
00:14:18There,
00:14:19nagpa,
00:14:19nagpa-baptize me
00:14:21last year
00:14:22and we,
00:14:22we try to do
00:14:23the right things,
00:14:24kid.
00:14:25Yeah.
00:14:27And actually,
00:14:28can I,
00:14:29at this part
00:14:30of the conversation,
00:14:31I think my
00:14:32takeaway,
00:14:33it reinforced also
00:14:34my belief na
00:14:35every relationship,
00:14:36there will be
00:14:37differences,
00:14:38kay,
00:14:38individuals
00:14:39maginta to begin
00:14:40with,
00:14:41no?
00:14:41But I think
00:14:42the more important
00:14:43thing is how
00:14:43the differences
00:14:44are actually
00:14:45resolved
00:14:46or managed,
00:14:47no?
00:14:48Sometimes,
00:14:48it both become
00:14:49your strength,
00:14:50like my weaknesses,
00:14:52and then at the
00:14:53end of the day,
00:14:54strength pala namin
00:14:55yun both.
00:14:56When you're
00:14:56together.
00:14:57Yes.
00:14:58So speaking of
00:14:59differences and
00:15:01similarities,
00:15:02we have a little
00:15:04bit of a game.
00:15:04So both of you
00:15:05are holding
00:15:06a heart
00:15:08that actually
00:15:09has A
00:15:10and B.
00:15:11And what
00:15:13I have here
00:15:13are situations
00:15:14in which
00:15:16you have to
00:15:17individually
00:15:18process if
00:15:19this is something
00:15:19that you prefer
00:15:20or something
00:15:21that you
00:15:22like better.
00:15:24So the first
00:15:25one is
00:15:25A.
00:15:26Quiet night
00:15:27or B.
00:15:29Spontaneous
00:15:29road trip.
00:15:32Oh.
00:15:33Okay.
00:15:34Sige.
00:15:34Why do you go
00:15:35for quiet night,
00:15:36Leanne?
00:15:37Sige.
00:15:38Unang tanong pala.
00:15:41Wala na.
00:15:42Okay.
00:15:43Sige, sige.
00:15:44Okay.
00:15:45Sige,
00:15:45Leanne,
00:15:46tell us more
00:15:46about the quiet night.
00:15:48Why is it something
00:15:48that you prefer?
00:15:49Probably because
00:15:49quiet night for me,
00:15:51the whole day
00:15:52I'm busy with the kids.
00:15:53Right?
00:15:54As a mom,
00:15:55right?
00:15:55You think a lot
00:15:56of things
00:15:56during daytime
00:15:58like going to school,
00:16:00after school,
00:16:00you're gonna cook.
00:16:01Then while they are
00:16:02in school,
00:16:03I'm also thinking
00:16:03about my husband.
00:16:05So maybe my mind
00:16:06goes to a lot
00:16:07of things.
00:16:08I think that's
00:16:09a very good point.
00:16:10And maybe
00:16:10if you don't mind,
00:16:11can you share
00:16:12to our viewers,
00:16:14cannot,
00:16:15at least the circle
00:16:16that I am in,
00:16:17not everybody
00:16:17has a full appreciation
00:16:20of a full-time
00:16:21mom.
00:16:22Sige,
00:16:23tell us about
00:16:24your job description
00:16:25and how the day
00:16:27looks like.
00:16:28I'm the mom.
00:16:29Sige,
00:16:29at least my circle,
00:16:31not everybody
00:16:32has that appreciation.
00:16:32They think
00:16:33that you're just
00:16:33at home.
00:16:34Yes,
00:16:34it's true.
00:16:35But no,
00:16:36you know,
00:16:3624-7,
00:16:37you think about
00:16:37a lot of things
00:16:38as a mother.
00:16:39And it's a lot
00:16:40especially when you
00:16:41have kids
00:16:42of different ages.
00:16:44when it comes
00:16:45to teenagers,
00:16:47it's a lot of
00:16:47approach to
00:16:48your 10-years-old.
00:16:49And then,
00:16:50it doesn't stop
00:16:51there.
00:16:52It doesn't stop
00:16:52on the guidance.
00:16:54You will pack
00:16:54their things
00:16:54going to school,
00:16:55think about
00:16:56their homes.
00:16:57And then,
00:16:58if you're a
00:17:00hands-on mom,
00:17:00really,
00:17:01I'm a hands-on mom.
00:17:02And in today's
00:17:04world,
00:17:04I think,
00:17:06it,
00:17:06because of the family,
00:17:08you need to be
00:17:08a mother.
00:17:09The mothers are
00:17:10hands-on in
00:17:11nurturing the
00:17:12family,
00:17:12the children.
00:17:13So,
00:17:14don't get me wrong,
00:17:16a mom is really,
00:17:17I know,
00:17:18super,
00:17:19super,
00:17:20mahirap,
00:17:20mahirap
00:17:21to be a mom.
00:17:21But then,
00:17:22it's also
00:17:24priceless,
00:17:24fulfilling.
00:17:25So,
00:17:26what will you tell
00:17:27the husbands
00:17:28who are watching?
00:17:29Not,
00:17:29not John,
00:17:30but the husbands
00:17:31or watching.
00:17:33They're like,
00:17:34you're going to
00:17:35have a heart
00:17:35or you're going to
00:17:35have a heart?
00:17:36Oh, no.
00:17:38It's just a fight.
00:17:39You're going to
00:17:39get a heart.
00:17:40What will you tell
00:17:41those husbands?
00:17:42Not John.
00:17:43So,
00:17:43the husbands,
00:17:45appreciate your wives.
00:17:46Appreciate,
00:17:47if maybe they're not
00:17:48together.
00:17:49They're going to
00:17:50have a
00:17:51blended family
00:17:52or
00:17:53parenting.
00:17:54I want them
00:17:55to appreciate
00:17:56the mother
00:17:58as the mother
00:17:58because it's not
00:18:01easy.
00:18:01It's not an easy
00:18:02job every day
00:18:03and if you're
00:18:05a husband to your
00:18:05wife,
00:18:06show love
00:18:07in little things.
00:18:08Appreciate
00:18:09such little things.
00:18:11Yes.
00:18:12let's go to
00:18:12John and he
00:18:13says,
00:18:13between quiet
00:18:15nights and
00:18:16spontaneous road
00:18:17trip,
00:18:17he prefers the
00:18:18road trip.
00:18:18Tell us about it.
00:18:19Don't think so.
00:18:35the best road trip
00:18:43that the two of you
00:18:44went together
00:18:45without the kids.
00:18:47going south,
00:18:49butanbing days,
00:18:52long drives,
00:18:54long drives with
00:18:55music,
00:18:56after being
00:18:56in Manila,
00:18:56no traffic,
00:18:58okay na na.
00:18:59That's the best
00:19:00moments together.
00:19:02And there's one
00:19:04time then,
00:19:04I was
00:19:05in Baguio.
00:19:06I rode trip
00:19:07for eight hours.
00:19:08Oh,
00:19:08really?
00:19:09And you know,
00:19:09it rained so hard.
00:19:10We went out of
00:19:12the car and we
00:19:13just,
00:19:13you know,
00:19:13I don't know
00:19:14what I'm doing
00:19:14in the past.
00:19:15So,
00:19:16I don't know,
00:19:16I'm going to message
00:19:17to the viewers
00:19:18because my dad,
00:19:21because my dad
00:19:21already passed away
00:19:22and the thing
00:19:23that I said
00:19:23in his ideology
00:19:25is a quote
00:19:26that's not original
00:19:27but that's what
00:19:28I also,
00:19:29among the many things
00:19:30that I learned
00:19:30from him
00:19:31when he said
00:19:32the best way
00:19:33to love your kids
00:19:34is to love
00:19:36their mother.
00:19:37in my message,
00:19:38you can align
00:19:39to that.
00:19:39You have a family,
00:19:41you have children
00:19:42but you also
00:19:44prefer, no?
00:19:45That you can also
00:19:46take her out
00:19:47na kamulang
00:19:48on a road trip, no?
00:19:49So, my message
00:19:51for husbands.
00:19:52Katong mga husbands,
00:19:53no?
00:19:53About how to love
00:19:54their wives better,
00:19:56not just the kids.
00:20:01Appreciate your wife
00:20:02because they are doing
00:20:04their job 24 hours.
00:20:07Nakita ba ya,
00:20:08kitabaya mga bana,
00:20:10i-deny na to
00:20:13pero kitabaya
00:20:13yung kinamagwangan
00:20:14ng anak.
00:20:17So,
00:20:17dapat naagi moment
00:20:20na musta ipapunta
00:20:22niya,
00:20:23ato saan silang i-date,
00:20:24ato silang i-appreciate,
00:20:26ato silang hatagan
00:20:27o value
00:20:29kay emotional
00:20:31magundi
00:20:31ang mga mama
00:20:32kaya ang problema
00:20:33sa anak,
00:20:34problema akong
00:20:35maguna nila.
00:20:35So,
00:20:37mo ginaang ako
00:20:38ang permisulti
00:20:39sa ako
00:20:39ang mga friends
00:20:40na magkuyugmi
00:20:41nga i-date
00:20:42ang inyuhang wife
00:20:43kaya mag-ask
00:20:44mo na sila
00:20:45na kung
00:20:45nga yun sa
00:20:45mananin mo,
00:20:47bro nga,
00:20:47okay man mo
00:20:48ko,
00:20:48i-date lang na
00:20:49bisag once a week
00:20:50na important
00:20:51kaya na kahit
00:20:52lunch breaks,
00:20:53dada siya niya.
00:20:54We appreciate
00:20:55good.
00:20:56Always be kind
00:20:57to your wife
00:20:58kay
00:20:59di Bella Lim.
00:21:00Yeah.
00:21:01Tinood siya na.
00:21:04First question
00:21:05but our viewers
00:21:07are already
00:21:07picking a lot
00:21:08of insights
00:21:08and that also
00:21:09includes me
00:21:10while talking
00:21:10to you.
00:21:11Now,
00:21:11the second
00:21:12is planning
00:21:13A,
00:21:14planning everything
00:21:15or B,
00:21:17letting the
00:21:17day unfold?
00:21:19Gage.
00:21:21Oh!
00:21:25Wait!
00:21:29Sige.
00:21:30Una ta ni
00:21:31You know we have
00:21:31a lot of
00:21:32differences.
00:21:33Sige.
00:21:33Una ta with
00:21:34John.
00:21:35Letting the
00:21:35day unfold.
00:21:39Kung an
00:21:39maguni siya
00:21:40ka nang
00:21:41on time,
00:21:44kung ang
00:21:45schedule
00:21:465am,
00:21:474.30 na
00:21:48na siya.
00:21:49Siguro for the
00:21:50past 12 years,
00:21:51morag na,
00:21:52naroutine na na
00:21:53mo ba niya?
00:21:53Ako ba ya?
00:21:54I'm the type
00:21:55of person nga?
00:21:56Okay na na.
00:21:57Okay na na.
00:21:57Sige.
00:21:58Siguro nag-match
00:22:00na po na nga mo
00:22:01ang vibe.
00:22:02Kung siguro
00:22:02kung kami
00:22:03per me on time,
00:22:04mag-sundaw na lang
00:22:05siguro nyo nyo.
00:22:05Maige,
00:22:06na-match
00:22:06na sa ba?
00:22:09Ako po
00:22:10magpa-
00:22:11nag-match
00:22:11po yung
00:22:12magpa-relax
00:22:13sila nga.
00:22:13Mahal,
00:22:14pwede na ta
00:22:14malate.
00:22:15Children's party
00:22:16na na.
00:22:18Yay ko kaya,
00:22:18ah,
00:22:19let's go!
00:22:21Okay,
00:22:22sige.
00:22:22Planning everything.
00:22:24Yeah.
00:22:24Oh,
00:22:25yeah.
00:22:26Actually,
00:22:26that's me.
00:22:27I'm too organized.
00:22:28So,
00:22:28I plan a lot of things
00:22:29even
00:22:31on little things.
00:22:32Meticulous.
00:22:34So,
00:22:34I want things organized
00:22:36and planned.
00:22:37Especially,
00:22:38travels.
00:22:40Yeah,
00:22:41so,
00:22:41maaw na.
00:22:42Kung mag-travel me,
00:22:43okay,
00:22:44the finances,
00:22:45emo.
00:22:46Planning ako talan.
00:22:47So,
00:22:48yun na,
00:22:48mag-sabot na lang.
00:22:49And by the way,
00:22:50this reminds me
00:22:51also of
00:22:52the things
00:22:53that I hear
00:22:53also within
00:22:54my circle
00:22:55and I'd like
00:22:55to get your
00:22:57opinion about it
00:22:58because it's
00:22:59related to travel.
00:23:00I heard
00:23:00actually
00:23:01that they said
00:23:02that when you
00:23:02have,
00:23:04when you are
00:23:04in a relationship
00:23:05and you're already
00:23:06thinking about
00:23:07proposing,
00:23:08so that means
00:23:08settling down,
00:23:10you travel
00:23:10first.
00:23:13What do you think
00:23:14nganong nai-inana
00:23:15nga advice?
00:23:15Have you heard
00:23:16about that?
00:23:16Yes.
00:23:17why do you think
00:23:18kay Katon,
00:23:19yabay,
00:23:19nai-inana kang
00:23:19finances
00:23:19in that
00:23:20ikaw sa planning.
00:23:21So,
00:23:21there's something
00:23:22that about
00:23:22the dynamics
00:23:23that you learn
00:23:24about each other.
00:23:25Sige.
00:23:26Actually,
00:23:26when you're dating,
00:23:27that's true.
00:23:28Ano eh,
00:23:29kanabitang
00:23:29murag spontaneous pa mo.
00:23:31You can be
00:23:32spontaneous pag-ihaapon.
00:23:33But when you're
00:23:34already,
00:23:34like,
00:23:35engaged,
00:23:35then,
00:23:36it starts with
00:23:37family planning as well.
00:23:39So,
00:23:39you have to
00:23:40check on your
00:23:41savings,
00:23:42check on
00:23:42the years
00:23:43whatsoever
00:23:43is gonna happen,
00:23:44right?
00:23:45So,
00:23:45you don't focus
00:23:46na lang
00:23:46on both of you,
00:23:47but you focus
00:23:48on also
00:23:49your future.
00:23:50That's why
00:23:50traveling
00:23:51before proposing
00:23:54is very important.
00:23:56And then,
00:23:57di ba yasadgo
00:23:58kay na ingana
00:23:58man po dmi.
00:24:00Before she
00:24:00nag-propose
00:24:01because duke man
00:24:02sad na siya
00:24:02nakapropose na
00:24:03ako eight years
00:24:04na mi.
00:24:05Yes.
00:24:06So,
00:24:07actually,
00:24:08sweet yung proposal
00:24:09niya kay
00:24:09wala paman
00:24:10mafinish
00:24:10ang ako
00:24:11ang
00:24:12case
00:24:13before.
00:24:14So,
00:24:14he proposed
00:24:15to me
00:24:15asking the
00:24:16kids
00:24:17kung
00:24:18niya
00:24:18if
00:24:19they're okay
00:24:20that we're
00:24:20gonna get
00:24:20married
00:24:21in the future.
00:24:22So,
00:24:23he already
00:24:23thought of that
00:24:24without
00:24:25me,
00:24:26fix
00:24:27without
00:24:27tanan.
00:24:28So,
00:24:29it's
00:24:29it's
00:24:29the
00:24:29kids
00:24:30that this
00:24:30is the
00:24:30right
00:24:31thing
00:24:31to do.
00:24:31And there
00:24:32is a
00:24:32future.
00:24:33Yes.
00:24:34Okay,
00:24:35John,
00:24:35about
00:24:35travel first.
00:24:37Six
00:24:38maybe.
00:24:39What did
00:24:40you discover
00:24:41in your
00:24:41travels
00:24:42that made
00:24:43you think
00:24:44that yes,
00:24:45she is
00:24:46the one?
00:24:50Wow,
00:24:50love you.
00:24:52Taronga,
00:24:53John.
00:24:58Organized.
00:24:59You're
00:24:59organized.
00:25:00You're
00:25:00caring.
00:25:01and
00:25:04siguro
00:25:05kanadyunang
00:25:05caring part
00:25:06did
00:25:07naalang ganib
00:25:09gamay
00:25:09kaya nga
00:25:10nabad
00:25:10manang
00:25:11kumumahal.
00:25:11Hindi na
00:25:12nansya
00:25:12may mutang
00:25:14kanang
00:25:15mga
00:25:15inanang
00:25:15natings.
00:25:16So,
00:25:17bonus
00:25:17na lang
00:25:17kayo
00:25:18na
00:25:18kay
00:25:19wapa
00:25:19pa
00:25:20dyan.
00:25:22Purang
00:25:22knife-free
00:25:23lunch
00:25:24after this.
00:25:24Continue.
00:25:26Purang
00:25:26magpapalit
00:25:27maning
00:25:27sapatos.
00:25:28I
00:25:28panap
00:25:28po.
00:25:32Sige,
00:25:33ang
00:25:33next
00:25:34statement
00:25:34akane.
00:25:35Kainang
00:25:35A.
00:25:36Dapat masakto
00:25:37na gito.
00:25:37O,
00:25:38o.
00:25:38Sige.
00:25:40A.
00:25:41Say it
00:25:42now
00:25:42or B.
00:25:44Cool
00:25:44down
00:25:45first.
00:25:47A.
00:25:48Say it
00:25:48now
00:25:49or B.
00:25:50Cool
00:25:50down
00:25:50first.
00:25:55Sige,
00:25:56let's
00:25:56start
00:25:57with
00:25:57say it
00:25:58now.
00:25:59Sige.
00:26:00I don't
00:26:01want
00:26:01to wait.
00:26:03Especially
00:26:03when we're
00:26:04fighting.
00:26:04I want
00:26:05it like
00:26:05to be
00:26:06resolved
00:26:06immediately.
00:26:07What's
00:26:08the point
00:26:08in
00:26:08fighting?
00:26:09Right?
00:26:10magbuwag
00:26:11na bata
00:26:11after we
00:26:12fight?
00:26:12Or
00:26:12pwede
00:26:13na nai
00:26:13maresolve
00:26:13ka ron?
00:26:14Kaya
00:26:14na nai
00:26:15maresolve,
00:26:15pwede
00:26:15di
00:26:15lang
00:26:16to
00:26:16mag-away.
00:26:17O
00:26:17anay
00:26:17luod-luod,
00:26:18kaya
00:26:18mas
00:26:18luuran
00:26:19manggud
00:26:19din
00:26:19ako.
00:26:22So,
00:26:23nga
00:26:23ako,
00:26:23I
00:26:23want
00:26:24it,
00:26:24I
00:26:24want
00:26:24to say
00:26:25it
00:26:25now.
00:26:26But
00:26:26sometimes
00:26:26it's not
00:26:27good
00:26:27actually.
00:26:28No,
00:26:29most of
00:26:29the time
00:26:29it's not
00:26:30good
00:26:30to say
00:26:31it
00:26:31now.
00:26:32Inip
00:26:32kikagug.
00:26:35kikagug.
00:26:35Kikagug.
00:26:36Kikagug.
00:26:36am
00:26:36kikagug.
00:26:38Kikagug.
00:26:40That was
00:26:40before.
00:26:41That was
00:26:41before.
00:26:42And then,
00:26:43finish
00:26:43lang sa
00:26:43aning
00:26:44advantage.
00:26:45I will
00:26:46also
00:26:46learn
00:26:46from
00:26:46this.
00:26:47An
00:26:47advantage
00:26:47of
00:26:48saying
00:26:48it
00:26:48now.
00:26:50Let's
00:26:50talk
00:26:50about
00:26:51this
00:26:51now.
00:26:51mean,
00:26:52I
00:26:54don't
00:26:54want
00:26:55fighting.
00:26:55I
00:26:55don't
00:26:56want
00:26:56arguments,
00:26:57actually.
00:26:57But
00:26:58I
00:26:58just
00:26:58don't
00:26:59know
00:26:59why
00:26:59my
00:27:00husband
00:27:02loves
00:27:02to
00:27:02argue.
00:27:07So,
00:27:10you
00:27:10are the
00:27:11type
00:27:11of
00:27:11what
00:27:12they
00:27:12say
00:27:12do
00:27:13not
00:27:13let
00:27:13the
00:27:14sun
00:27:14go
00:27:14down
00:27:15without
00:27:16solving
00:27:16it.
00:27:17You're
00:27:18that
00:27:18type.
00:27:19I'm a
00:27:19warrior
00:27:20because
00:27:20I don't
00:27:21want
00:27:21him
00:27:22thinking
00:27:22the
00:27:23next
00:27:23day
00:27:23we're
00:27:24good
00:27:26like
00:27:26over
00:27:27think
00:27:27so
00:27:28you
00:27:28have
00:27:28the
00:27:28tendency
00:27:29to
00:27:29think
00:27:29that
00:27:29I
00:27:30love
00:27:30whatsoever
00:27:31whatsoever
00:27:31can we
00:27:34just
00:27:35talk
00:27:35now
00:27:35and
00:27:36then
00:27:36end
00:27:36it
00:27:36now
00:27:37but
00:27:37it's
00:27:37not
00:27:38like
00:27:38that
00:27:38tell
00:27:39us
00:27:39about
00:27:39the
00:27:40advantage
00:27:40of
00:27:43cool
00:27:43down
00:27:43first
00:27:59then
00:28:01that's what I got in there.
00:28:04Locked my door.
00:28:06I was in the house
00:28:09or in the house. I was in the house.
00:28:10I was in the house. I was not in the house.
00:28:12I was in the house.
00:28:13Very good.
00:28:15Can you tell us more about that rule?
00:28:17Because I was about to ask that follow-up question.
00:28:19Are you also the type who drives the car and leave?
00:28:22Tell us about it.
00:28:23Because I think that our viewers also
00:28:25might pick up something about that rule.
00:28:28If I advise
00:28:30advice, okay lang
00:28:32if mag-away mo.
00:28:33Dili siya mo mag-story.
00:28:34Basta nalang mo sa compound
00:28:36or nalang mo sa balay.
00:28:38Tantood, pwede naman mag-story.
00:28:39Pero wala ilakaway.
00:28:40Ma-worried man po lang yung mong partner
00:28:42if mulakaw ka.
00:28:44Pero before, naabot yun
00:28:46may anang apart niya. Dili siya
00:28:48nindot pa. So, nakadeside me nga.
00:28:49See, if mag-away ta ha.
00:28:51Natatadere. Nakakasa. Nakaskwarto.
00:28:54Actually, that's the good thing also
00:28:56about fighting. You know,
00:28:58don't always think it on a negative.
00:29:01way.
00:29:01Because if you fight,
00:29:02you learn something.
00:29:03So, that's where
00:29:04we have grown as a partner.
00:29:06As a couple.
00:29:07Nakana bitang,
00:29:09oh, maunin na hita bo pag-last.
00:29:10Pag-away na to.
00:29:11Maapot man diyon,
00:29:12magka-okay mo, right?
00:29:13Correct.
00:29:13And nang-okay mo,
00:29:14diha amin mag-talk.
00:29:15Hey, you know what happened last time?
00:29:17It's really not good.
00:29:18Whatsoever.
00:29:19Whatsoever.
00:29:20At the time nga ma-resolve na mo
00:29:21ang amo ang conflict.
00:29:22And then,
00:29:23dito namin mag-tell
00:29:24o amang rules.
00:29:26Kay,
00:29:26ako gin ang walk-autera.
00:29:28Before.
00:29:29Ah.
00:29:30Yes, I also have the,
00:29:31I have the tendency
00:29:33to walk out,
00:29:34bring my things.
00:29:35Oh, di ba,
00:29:35layas-layas ganyan.
00:29:37On niya,
00:29:37di nabang ko apason.
00:29:41Oh, di nabang ko apas na ako.
00:29:44Bugay kay mulakao ba?
00:29:46Mulakao na to.
00:29:46Mulakao na ko.
00:29:47Yung balik na sa atin,
00:29:48na sa ikuaon.
00:29:49Mulakao na lalagi ko.
00:29:52Di nyo dyan mo apas.
00:29:54No, but I hope
00:29:55our viewers
00:29:56have captured
00:29:56that learning, no?
00:29:58Nga ka nang,
00:29:59you may not resolve it now,
00:30:01but
00:30:01stay in the same area.
00:30:03Don't drive the car
00:30:04and leave.
00:30:05Don't drink as well.
00:30:06Ah, di nabang.
00:30:07Ah, very good.
00:30:08Scene begets another scene kasi.
00:30:10Right?
00:30:10Very good point.
00:30:12Sige, kane.
00:30:12Ah, sige, continue.
00:30:13Kuan, po,
00:30:14kanang,
00:30:15ah,
00:30:16if ever,
00:30:16mag-good,
00:30:17if ever,
00:30:17mag-good,
00:30:18naimulakao,
00:30:19kanang,
00:30:21mag-selos ka?
00:30:22Hindi.
00:30:23Hindi isang mag-selos ka.
00:30:25Kuan,
00:30:25bakit ka remember ka tong
00:30:26mag-apas-apas a car?
00:30:28Yeah.
00:30:28Kuyo po,
00:30:29sa accident ba?
00:30:30That's why I get it.
00:30:30So,
00:30:31nakalindot lang sa amu relationship,
00:30:34naami improvement sa amu mga fights.
00:30:35So, kanina,
00:30:36natunibuha to na,
00:30:37kanina natunibuha to.
00:30:38Like,
00:30:38before mag-argue me
00:30:39sa public place,
00:30:41parang,
00:30:42di na,
00:30:42kaya na na'y progress,
00:30:44so,
00:30:44ano.
00:30:45No,
00:30:45but I think,
00:30:46kanang,
00:30:46in my corporate practice,
00:30:48that's what they call norming.
00:30:50Kanang,
00:30:50that's how you manage the differences,
00:30:52kaya,
00:30:52fights are good, man.
00:30:54Kaya,
00:30:54kaya,
00:30:54di ba na,
00:30:54may there's such a thing as
00:30:55false harmony?
00:30:57Na,
00:30:57you look okay,
00:30:58but you're not agreeing on anything.
00:31:01That's true.
00:31:01So,
00:31:01the fights actually
00:31:02is even better than that.
00:31:04But,
00:31:04that's why you talk
00:31:05and then,
00:31:06let's not do this anymore.
00:31:07That's true.
00:31:08That's the norming.
00:31:09So,
00:31:09you become better
00:31:11out from a difference.
00:31:13Sikani,
00:31:13agoy.
00:31:14Why?
00:31:14Oh,
00:31:15okay.
00:31:15Okay.
00:31:19Clean as you go,
00:31:21or,
00:31:22one big clean up later?
00:31:25A,
00:31:25clean as you go,
00:31:26and then B,
00:31:27one big clean up later.
00:31:28I'm wrong.
00:31:29I said,
00:31:29the biggest.
00:31:35Sikani,
00:31:35tell us about
00:31:36the one big clean up later.
00:31:42one big clean up later.
00:31:43Kau na yan,
00:31:43kaya mo na yan.
00:31:44Kuan,
00:31:46namagoko sa moment kay,
00:31:48kuan,
00:31:48magkukukan ng
00:31:48happy-go-lucky lang ba?
00:31:50Oh,
00:31:50so,
00:31:50if na,
00:31:51naa dingaw.
00:31:52Siya,
00:31:53pun,
00:31:53every time na,
00:31:54na makitan nga,
00:31:55hugaw da rin,
00:31:56yan,
00:31:56tundun ko,
00:31:57mal,
00:31:57pwede mo,
00:31:58chill lang sa kamang,
00:31:59nandiyo sa tangay,
00:32:00oh,
00:32:01nami sa resort,
00:32:04nagswimming ang mga bata,
00:32:05ah,
00:32:05sa inyong mami,
00:32:07nang dimpyo sa room ko,
00:32:08pwede,
00:32:08ang mga bata,
00:32:10kanang apart,
00:32:11nang dimiparihan.
00:32:13Ako,
00:32:13one time,
00:32:13big time lang,
00:32:15finish na,
00:32:15sige,
00:32:15okay na ta.
00:32:16Limpio na ta.
00:32:17limpyo na ta.
00:32:18Oh,
00:32:19itong,
00:32:19kanina questions,
00:32:20pamulag?
00:32:21Pag-question pa na,
00:32:22nakabawan ako,
00:32:22dito.
00:32:24At least,
00:32:24you know each other.
00:32:25Sige,
00:32:26tell us about
00:32:26the clean as you go.
00:32:28Clego,
00:32:29di ba,
00:32:29rules na yan,
00:32:30everywhere.
00:32:31That's it,
00:32:32that's my point.
00:32:32Charot.
00:32:33Sige.
00:32:34Hindi,
00:32:35sakit sa eyes.
00:32:37I told you,
00:32:38ganina,
00:32:38I'm a very
00:32:39organized person.
00:32:40Nagkikilis jug ko,
00:32:41especially un-cleanliness
00:32:42giyod.
00:32:44So,
00:32:44I'm afraid nga,
00:32:45kanami tong,
00:32:46gubot,
00:32:47hugaw,
00:32:48kanama,
00:32:48anxious jug ko,
00:32:49ana.
00:32:50So,
00:32:51bahala na lagkapuy ko,
00:32:52hala.
00:32:53Hiposon.
00:32:54Hiposon,
00:32:54juda,
00:32:54hiposon.
00:32:55Even while,
00:32:56nagparty,
00:32:57nagstorya,
00:32:58marubarong jug ko,
00:32:58ana,
00:32:59kahi hipos-hipos,
00:32:59juda,
00:33:00ana.
00:33:01kiat kayo ko.
00:33:02Na,
00:33:02nami,
00:33:03visitor,
00:33:04sige,
00:33:04bangparo,
00:33:05sige,
00:33:05kung pa niya pangitaon,
00:33:06ah,
00:33:06saan naman to siya,
00:33:07uwi.
00:33:08Actually,
00:33:08this is just a joke,
00:33:09but I can imagine,
00:33:10kanibit ang mga talks na to about,
00:33:12I'm sorry,
00:33:12ha,
00:33:12but,
00:33:13kanibit ang mga grandmothers,
00:33:15haven't you noticed,
00:33:16I'm not for some reason,
00:33:17if it's common to all of you nga,
00:33:18kanang mamatan gin na to,
00:33:19kanang sound of a cellophane,
00:33:22or AM,
00:33:23kakasnat,
00:33:24kanang BC.
00:33:26Maunab,
00:33:27because I grew up like that.
00:33:29Sa grandmother,
00:33:30magagalag na to.
00:33:31Ah,
00:33:31that's why.
00:33:33So,
00:33:33your grandmother theory is correct.
00:33:35Ah,
00:33:35hindi mamamala ka nang,
00:33:36alas 4 na mo nag,
00:33:38yes.
00:33:39What's going on?
00:33:40Alas 3 pa lang,
00:33:40mamukaw na si Lola.
00:33:42Si Lola,
00:33:43grabe ka,
00:33:44no?
00:33:44Ah,
00:33:45my late Lola.
00:33:47Sige,
00:33:47tell us about that lagsa,
00:33:48sige,
00:33:49before we move to the next question,
00:33:50about growing up with your Lola.
00:33:52Um,
00:33:52growing up with my Lola,
00:33:53murag military food.
00:33:55So,
00:33:563 a.m.,
00:33:57oras gud.
00:33:58So,
00:33:58but that's why,
00:33:58siguro,
00:33:59naanag kog time.
00:34:00Because,
00:34:01naagit siya yungana,
00:34:01kinang lang 3 a.m.,
00:34:02mata naka.
00:34:034 o'clock,
00:34:05kumuna ka sa imuhang,
00:34:06CR,
00:34:07liko,
00:34:07dapat nakakauna ka,
00:34:09dapat ingani.
00:34:10So,
00:34:11kalabitaw.
00:34:11Numbered.
00:34:12Numbered ako ang,
00:34:13growing up.
00:34:15Yeah,
00:34:16but actually,
00:34:16I appreciate that with my Lola,
00:34:18because I learned discipline
00:34:19on an early age.
00:34:21Yeah,
00:34:21and I miss her.
00:34:22Kaya,
00:34:24she's in heaven na.
00:34:27Sige,
00:34:27karon,
00:34:28speaking of heaven,
00:34:30big dreams,
00:34:31A,
00:34:32or B,
00:34:33simple joys?
00:34:35A,
00:34:36big dreams,
00:34:38B,
00:34:39simple joys?
00:34:40There we go.
00:34:42Ah,
00:34:42very,
00:34:42ah,
00:34:43simple joys,
00:34:44we'll do ah.
00:34:45Ay,
00:34:46finally.
00:34:48Sige.
00:34:48Actually,
00:34:49ingisip ko lang to,
00:34:49sige.
00:34:50Sige,
00:34:51tell us about
00:34:52the simple joys
00:34:53that you have,
00:34:54family or together.
00:34:58At first,
00:34:58actually,
00:34:59I would admit,
00:34:59I am after
00:35:01the big dreams.
00:35:03Diba?
00:35:03Same tayo dyan.
00:35:04But then,
00:35:06as you mature,
00:35:07and you realize
00:35:08how precious life is.
00:35:10Diba?
00:35:10Like,
00:35:11you see your parents
00:35:11growing old,
00:35:13us growing old,
00:35:14and you see the kids
00:35:16grown up na.
00:35:17At the end of the day,
00:35:18it will be you and I
00:35:20together,
00:35:21alone,
00:35:22right?
00:35:23That's,
00:35:23that's when I realized
00:35:25nga ka nang,
00:35:26hala,
00:35:27malipay naman kuo ka nang
00:35:28gagmay nga things.
00:35:30Like,
00:35:31sige daw.
00:35:31Drinking coffee,
00:35:32talking,
00:35:33kaso hindi siya
00:35:34uminom lang coffee,
00:35:35so I hope mag-cupi na siya.
00:35:38Kaya,
00:35:38itong simple chat.
00:35:39The conversation.
00:35:40simple conversation.
00:35:41Okay,
00:35:42as you go along
00:35:43with your life
00:35:44in your 30s,
00:35:45mag 40s,
00:35:45you want a stable life.
00:35:47So your life
00:35:47is to be sige yun.
00:35:49Reaching for that
00:35:50kind of life
00:35:51na gusto ninyo.
00:35:52So wala mo'y time
00:35:53much together.
00:35:55So when you sit down
00:35:56and just,
00:35:56you know,
00:35:57have a fresh breath of air
00:35:59sometimes.
00:36:00Together.
00:36:01Together.
00:36:02And talk about
00:36:02nothing lang but life.
00:36:04Talk about life,
00:36:05because it's different
00:36:06when you sit down
00:36:06and talk about business.
00:36:08Correct.
00:36:08That's a good point.
00:36:09Talk about what you're gonna do
00:36:09next time.
00:36:10Together,
00:36:11sa sunod,
00:36:11whatsoever kinahanglan sa mga bata,
00:36:13it's stressful.
00:36:14But when you sit down
00:36:15and talk about like,
00:36:17do you remember
00:36:17when you were like this
00:36:18and that?
00:36:20Ever since
00:36:21when you're in community service,
00:36:23you're in selfless,
00:36:24selfless.
00:36:25Okay, tell us more about that.
00:36:27Yeah,
00:36:28because we've seen people,
00:36:29like sometimes,
00:36:30you tend to look at yourself,
00:36:33when you look at people
00:36:34that are more fortunate than you,
00:36:38but then you're too blessed.
00:36:41When you look at the people
00:36:42in the community,
00:36:43the other communities,
00:36:45and you tell yourself,
00:36:46wow,
00:36:47ako may snacking pa ako
00:36:48ng midnight snack.
00:36:49And then,
00:36:51ang iba,
00:36:51diba?
00:36:52siguro,
00:36:53dihagin mi nag,
00:36:55nagmatch.
00:36:57gabi anga mong genuine
00:36:58intentions
00:36:59sa amokan community.
00:37:02siguro, dihagin mi
00:37:03grateful among hearts,
00:37:05every time uli,
00:37:05may nami mabuhat
00:37:06something for
00:37:07other people.
00:37:10wala na kayo
00:37:11may maglook after
00:37:13things na.
00:37:14like birthdays
00:37:17or whatsoever
00:37:18na na occasion,
00:37:19we think about,
00:37:20hey,
00:37:20how can we serve
00:37:21other people?
00:37:22It's not about
00:37:23both of us anymore.
00:37:24It's not about me anymore.
00:37:26Like,
00:37:26before,
00:37:27I used to ask him
00:37:28for gifts.
00:37:28Karun,
00:37:29magkota na siya,
00:37:29so,
00:37:29kainahin mo mo gift.
00:37:31wala kaman ui.
00:37:32Palit na lang tag-ingon ani,
00:37:33adota sa ing ana.
00:37:35Maghihata dito,
00:37:36or whatsoever.
00:37:37It's that
00:37:38simple joy.
00:37:39And,
00:37:40honestly,
00:37:41mas satisfying
00:37:42sa imuhang self
00:37:43na,
00:37:44di ba?
00:37:45Kung koan lang.
00:37:46Abi nato before ba na,
00:37:48diri siya na nag-impak
00:37:50sa tuwang self,
00:37:51pero,
00:37:52karun nga,
00:37:54succeeding months,
00:37:55years,
00:37:56maura gina nga mong ibuhat,
00:37:58na feel gina mo nga,
00:37:59I think this is life.
00:38:01Mauna niyang life,
00:38:02nga mong gusto.
00:38:03I think in,
00:38:04in the terms of,
00:38:06kanang,
00:38:06I'm glad also that you
00:38:07touched that because,
00:38:08nakaremember lang po ka,
00:38:09this is also
00:38:10growing up for me.
00:38:11But,
00:38:12I've also heard
00:38:13many times in the past,
00:38:14and it's also
00:38:14from my parents,
00:38:15nga,
00:38:16the world has
00:38:17misled us to think,
00:38:19nga happiness
00:38:19is from what we get.
00:38:21Yes,
00:38:22that's true.
00:38:22And it's a deception
00:38:24because,
00:38:25happiness actually
00:38:26is for what we give.
00:38:28Yeah,
00:38:28you're good.
00:38:29So,
00:38:29this is a good reminder
00:38:31also for me.
00:38:32Sige,
00:38:32kani,
00:38:33related ni siya earlier,
00:38:34but this is more specific.
00:38:35A,
00:38:36the one
00:38:37who apologizes
00:38:38first,
00:38:39or B,
00:38:40the one
00:38:41who needs time.
00:38:45Ako nalaysa kabi.
00:38:54Ako nalaysa kabi.
00:39:00Ako nalaysa kabi.
00:39:10Ako nalaysa kabi.
00:39:15Bati na tayo.
00:39:21Karo nalang kumuadmit
00:39:22kung anong manggog ko,
00:39:23kainang,
00:39:26nakakoy,
00:39:27nakakoy yung tendency nga,
00:39:29mag-OA ko,
00:39:29kai spoiled manggog niya.
00:39:31Ah,
00:39:31okay.
00:39:32Sa Sunstar,
00:39:32ako nag-admit.
00:39:33Oh,
00:39:34first time!
00:39:36Exclusive.
00:39:37Exclusive.
00:39:38Nakakoy yung tendency nga,
00:39:39mag-OA ko,
00:39:40kai,
00:39:42kung anong dyan siya,
00:39:43baka nang,
00:39:44kai ba,
00:39:44kung anong anaan siya,
00:39:45ba?
00:39:46I'm using my kindness,
00:39:48you know what?
00:39:50Paratis,
00:39:50by nag-shoes.
00:39:52After this one.
00:39:53After this one.
00:39:56Luuran manggog ni siya.
00:39:59Mimu ko luuran eh.
00:40:01Exclusive,
00:40:01never for you.
00:40:02Exclusive for me.
00:40:03Bantay ha.
00:40:06Sige,
00:40:07kani,
00:40:07kani.
00:40:08Related to travel niya
00:40:09or everyday.
00:40:10A,
00:40:11take photos
00:40:12or B,
00:40:14live in the moment.
00:40:17Ah,
00:40:18the same.
00:40:18Sige.
00:40:19Elaborate.
00:40:20Kaya nga min-elaborate ganina.
00:40:21Ikaw,
00:40:21Lian,
00:40:21na mo elaborate about
00:40:22why do you think,
00:40:23why both of you prefer
00:40:24to live in the moment
00:40:26instead of taking photos?
00:40:28Ah,
00:40:28what we do,
00:40:29we take photos,
00:40:30like,
00:40:31quickly.
00:40:31And then,
00:40:32okay,
00:40:32tago na phone na.
00:40:33Ah.
00:40:34Yeah,
00:40:34because we want to live in the moment
00:40:36because we're missing on,
00:40:37we're missing
00:40:39those days.
00:40:40It's like,
00:40:41we don't have technology.
00:40:43Before,
00:40:43we can actually
00:40:44pick lang,
00:40:45di ba?
00:40:45Sa camera,
00:40:46pila ka picture na.
00:40:47Because film pa na.
00:40:48Right?
00:40:48That's a good point.
00:40:49And then,
00:40:50you just have
00:40:51unlimited shots
00:40:52and whatsoever.
00:40:53Very good point.
00:40:53And you don't realize,
00:40:55taghan na,
00:40:56haig nasaya nga time
00:40:57because of it.
00:40:58And you don't enjoy,
00:40:59really,
00:41:00what's right in front of you.
00:41:02At least,
00:41:02you can see it.
00:41:03Di ba?
00:41:04Like,
00:41:04how we were before.
00:41:05During the time
00:41:06when you were young
00:41:07and then now
00:41:08that you're gonna
00:41:08think about it,
00:41:09you will tell stories.
00:41:10Right?
00:41:11Wala jyay photo about it
00:41:13but you tend to just
00:41:14remember everything.
00:41:16But now,
00:41:17you have the photo album
00:41:18in your phone
00:41:19but,
00:41:19di li ka ka-remember.
00:41:21Like,
00:41:21what happened bitaw last year?
00:41:24Wala jyay photo about it.
00:41:26Right?
00:41:28So,
00:41:28I think,
00:41:29ay mauna
00:41:30nga nagkasundo
00:41:31dyan ni anag yod nga.
00:41:32Just live in the moment.
00:41:34Take,
00:41:34take few photos lang.
00:41:37Just for the remembrance.
00:41:39Ganon.
00:41:40Like,
00:41:40like,
00:41:41ito nag-travel me,
00:41:42nag-disilani,
00:41:43one picture.
00:41:44Okay na.
00:41:46Okay na ta.
00:41:46Kasi,
00:41:46time right now
00:41:47is so fast.
00:41:50No,
00:41:51I like actually
00:41:51the point
00:41:52that you said
00:41:52about
00:41:53kanang
00:41:54before Manggord
00:41:55naka-film.
00:41:57So,
00:41:57five shots lang.
00:41:58But this one,
00:41:59you can do this
00:42:0124-7
00:42:02if you don't
00:42:03watch out.
00:42:04And katimung point na
00:42:08makananan tay
00:42:08mga photos na
00:42:09natakahin ng dum
00:42:10nga.
00:42:10What happened here?
00:42:13That's a very good point.
00:42:14I hope our viewers
00:42:15have
00:42:15kanang captured that.
00:42:17Kadi,
00:42:17okay.
00:42:18Wake up early.
00:42:20Okay.
00:42:21A
00:42:21or B
00:42:22marag na lang po ko
00:42:23a-diyani.
00:42:24B
00:42:24sleep
00:42:25when possible.
00:42:27Extend
00:42:27when possible.
00:42:30Ah,
00:42:31okay.
00:42:35Sige,
00:42:36let's talk
00:42:36about,
00:42:37let's extend
00:42:37sa tulog
00:42:38when possible.
00:42:42Tulog yun.
00:42:43Tulog.
00:42:44Tulog,
00:42:44gusto maka mo,
00:42:44explain ko?
00:42:45Iko explain.
00:42:46Sige,
00:42:47ako explain.
00:42:48Look at his height
00:42:48compared to mine.
00:42:51Okay,
00:42:52yeah.
00:42:53I mean,
00:42:53that's why
00:42:53so tall siya,
00:42:54kailhihili,
00:42:55kailhihili,
00:42:55kailhihili,
00:42:55kailhihili.
00:42:56Ako,
00:42:56no.
00:42:57I'm always awake.
00:42:59Para mas nice,
00:43:01ishare tong experience
00:43:01na tong
00:43:02anapakas Manila niya.
00:43:03Na ako sa Cebu,
00:43:04nitawag kang papa
00:43:05kailhihili,
00:43:06nilaag ko na tograde ko.
00:43:08Share, share.
00:43:09So,
00:43:09it's so embarrassing.
00:43:28Sige,
00:43:29manpud,
00:43:30no,
00:43:30kailhihili,
00:43:30we were long distance
00:43:31before.
00:43:32So,
00:43:32I was in Manila pa,
00:43:33wala pa ako nag Cebu,
00:43:33so she's Cebu.
00:43:34So,
00:43:35wala may kanang
00:43:36time together good
00:43:38mostly nga makakita
00:43:39ajugunea.
00:43:39But then,
00:43:40this one time,
00:43:41nanawag ko,
00:43:42siguro 10 a.m. na to.
00:43:43Dili?
00:43:44No.
00:43:45Sige.
00:43:46Mula ka,
00:43:47don't.
00:43:49Sige.
00:43:4910 a.m.
00:43:50Well,
00:43:51precise,
00:43:52no?
00:43:52Yes.
00:43:52Okay.
00:43:53Are you awake
00:43:53by 10 a.m.?
00:43:54Yes.
00:43:55Yes,
00:43:56right?
00:43:56Surprisingly,
00:43:57I'm in-interview,
00:44:00no?
00:44:00Okay,
00:44:01sige,
00:44:01continue.
00:44:02I'm in-interview.
00:44:03Yeah,
00:44:03no,
00:44:03technically,
00:44:04yeah,
00:44:05it will go there.
00:44:06Ah,
00:44:06okay.
00:44:07Sige,
00:44:07sige,
00:44:08okay.
00:44:08Tulog pa siya nun.
00:44:09But then,
00:44:10after that,
00:44:11hindi na ako tatawag
00:44:12kasi alam ko may work siya.
00:44:13So,
00:44:13sige,
00:44:14ako sad,
00:44:14na-busy ako.
00:44:15Then,
00:44:15mulaag siya
00:44:16at night.
00:44:17So,
00:44:18mananghit siya na ako.
00:44:19Okay,
00:44:20sige lang ko.
00:44:21But then,
00:44:22haba,
00:44:23wow,
00:44:23un sa na ni oras nga laag
00:44:24nung 100 a.m.
00:44:25So,
00:44:25wala may update.
00:44:26Wow,
00:44:27update.
00:44:27Okay,
00:44:28sige,
00:44:29okay.
00:44:29So,
00:44:29eto na,
00:44:302 a.m.
00:44:31wala,
00:44:313 a.m.
00:44:32wala.
00:44:32Hala,
00:44:33nagmatachong ko,
00:44:34ha,
00:44:344 a.m.
00:44:35So,
00:44:35I called,
00:44:36hmm,
00:44:37papa.
00:44:39Wow,
00:44:40kayo,
00:44:40atrean ko.
00:44:41Siyempre,
00:44:41dilay papapa that time,
00:44:42diba?
00:44:43Ay,
00:44:43hello,
00:44:44tito,
00:44:44did I wake you?
00:44:45Hi.
00:44:46Nag-hori lang ko ni John,
00:44:48kaya nakauli ba siya?
00:44:49Kaya,
00:44:50wala siya na nag-update nga,
00:44:51nakauli na siya.
00:44:53Oto,
00:44:54gi-added daw siya,
00:44:55right?
00:44:554 a.m.
00:44:564 a.m.,
00:44:56gitok-tok daw siya sa house.
00:44:58And,
00:44:59gi-ask siya,
00:44:59uy,
00:45:00John,
00:45:00anawag man si Lian,
00:45:01what happened man?
00:45:02Uy,
00:45:02ano,
00:45:02walang ka,
00:45:03hala,
00:45:03naaraman ko diri,
00:45:04para tograman ko.
00:45:07And then,
00:45:08wala,
00:45:08hala siya mag-update.
00:45:09Eh,
00:45:10can you think about that?
00:45:11Meaning,
00:45:12gipukaw na siya sa iyong father.
00:45:13So,
00:45:13pilara may
00:45:14second spug message,
00:45:15right?
00:45:15Girls,
00:45:16agree?
00:45:17Women?
00:45:18Yeah?
00:45:20So,
00:45:20wala siya nag-update
00:45:21gi-happon.
00:45:22So,
00:45:22technically,
00:45:23for,
00:45:25nakatok na ko sa iyong papa,
00:45:26pero wala gi-happon ko i-update,
00:45:27kung usa na siya.
00:45:29Correct.
00:45:29So,
00:45:29until morning,
00:45:30the next day,
00:45:31nga mauna sa gi-happon,
00:45:3210 a.m. wala pag-gi-happon.
00:45:34Agoy.
00:45:35I can't,
00:45:36I can't anticipate,
00:45:37no?
00:45:37Yes.
00:45:37mauna ang reason,
00:45:38nga nung,
00:45:40naka-aingon ko niya,
00:45:41nga,
00:45:41hala,
00:45:41wala siya ka mag-update na po,
00:45:43ha?
00:45:44Dito na ako na-discovering
00:45:45nga,
00:45:45love,
00:45:46ju-ka niya.
00:45:50Valid yon,
00:45:50valid.
00:45:51Valid,
00:45:51valid,
00:45:52valid.
00:45:52But it's like,
00:45:52he loves sleep,
00:45:55dude.
00:45:56So,
00:45:56he's already in the same way,
00:45:57he'll see you,
00:45:58he's already in the same way.
00:46:00Yeah.
00:46:01Yan lang.
00:46:02Okay,
00:46:03sige,
00:46:03Kenny,
00:46:05Kenny,
00:46:05this is easy.
00:46:06Window seat A,
00:46:08or ang B,
00:46:09kay aisle seat?
00:46:11This is easy.
00:46:13Oh,
00:46:14hindi kaya po na.
00:46:17window seat A,
00:46:19window seat A,
00:46:21sige,
00:46:22let's talk about the window seat.
00:46:25Oh my god.
00:46:27Hindi kaya nga nag-window seat?
00:46:30Kapag siya kibaw,
00:46:31oh my god.
00:46:32Okay, sige,
00:46:34sige,
00:46:34sige,
00:46:34sige,
00:46:34tala sa ba't the window seat?
00:46:37Abii,
00:46:37ginawaganan siya nag-window seat.
00:46:39Ah,
00:46:39okay.
00:46:40Mauna,
00:46:40abii,
00:46:41nasad niya.
00:46:42Sige.
00:46:42No,
00:46:43I love the window seat
00:46:45for viewing lang,
00:46:46purposes.
00:46:48Ano lang,
00:46:48kalang,
00:46:49di,
00:46:49dugay.
00:46:49But I love the aisle seat
00:46:51because I can go quickly
00:46:52to the restroom,
00:46:53di ba?
00:46:54You know that,
00:46:55that I keep,
00:46:56ano,
00:46:56on going to the toilet.
00:46:58More convenient.
00:46:59Yeah,
00:47:00so it's easy to stand up
00:47:01like that.
00:47:02Hmm.
00:47:04Kenny,
00:47:04but I think this one,
00:47:06Murag,
00:47:06you will agree.
00:47:07This is already second to the last.
00:47:08I think you will,
00:47:09Murag,
00:47:09maka-anticipate ko sa result.
00:47:11A,
00:47:11eating with phones away,
00:47:14or B,
00:47:15okay lang.
00:47:17Mamin ka,
00:47:18John.
00:47:19Ah,
00:47:19okay.
00:47:20Okay.
00:47:21Sige,
00:47:22eating with phones away.
00:47:23Because I think a lot of our viewers
00:47:25also will learn from that.
00:47:27Sige,
00:47:27tell us about eating
00:47:29with phones away.
00:47:33Kung old school lang,
00:47:34advice,
00:47:35you have to respect your food.
00:47:37And,
00:47:37ano,
00:47:38and,
00:47:39kung kanon po,
00:47:41na time,
00:47:44pas-pas magod kayang oras
00:47:46if mag-phone ka niya,
00:47:47eating niya,
00:47:48murag,
00:47:48murag,
00:47:49murag niyong disrespect
00:47:50ang imuhang kuyog sa table ba.
00:47:52So kami,
00:47:53amung ginanggi kuhan
00:47:54sa amung household
00:47:54na if we are
00:47:55all eating,
00:47:57no phones,
00:47:58and,
00:48:00enjoy your food,
00:48:00let's talk about life,
00:48:02let's talk about school,
00:48:02and everything,
00:48:03mauna siya ang
00:48:04mumatter na mo.
00:48:06Yeah,
00:48:06it's sad kasi to look at
00:48:07people nowadays,
00:48:09right?
00:48:09Like,
00:48:09sometimes we eat outside.
00:48:11And then I will look around
00:48:12because while waiting
00:48:13for your food,
00:48:14right?
00:48:14And then you'll see
00:48:15a family,
00:48:18gadget,
00:48:18cellphone,
00:48:19they're all there,
00:48:20they're not talking.
00:48:21Kanabito,
00:48:22nawala na ang sense
00:48:22sa family,
00:48:24eating,
00:48:25that when you eat together,
00:48:26we tend to tell stories,
00:48:27right?
00:48:28Like,
00:48:28what happened
00:48:28with your day,
00:48:29how was your day,
00:48:30how was school?
00:48:31So,
00:48:32mauna nga kami,
00:48:33cautious niya ang apna area.
00:48:36It's just sad to look at.
00:48:39actually,
00:48:39it's not just a blended family,
00:48:41but it's also blended
00:48:42in terms of what
00:48:43the new technology
00:48:45can bring
00:48:45and also what
00:48:46the old tradition
00:48:47can also bring.
00:48:49So,
00:48:49it's still blended.
00:48:50Yes,
00:48:51yes,
00:48:51that's true.
00:48:52You know,
00:48:52technology is really
00:48:53a blessing naman to us,
00:48:54right?
00:48:54It can be a help
00:48:55to a lot of things,
00:48:57but also,
00:48:58kung hindi mo din siya,
00:48:59may minimize
00:49:00or wala ka rin control.
00:49:01Or take over
00:49:02in the same life.
00:49:04Sige.
00:49:05So,
00:49:05that would have been
00:49:06my second to the last,
00:49:07but I think your answer
00:49:07is a good segue
00:49:08already to the next question.
00:49:11And we're already
00:49:12in the last few
00:49:13parts of the question.
00:49:14So,
00:49:15love stories
00:49:16don't always
00:49:17start from a
00:49:19blank
00:49:21space,
00:49:22no?
00:49:22So,
00:49:23how did your
00:49:24past experiences
00:49:25shape the way
00:49:28you love
00:49:30and you protect
00:49:31the relationship
00:49:32today?
00:49:33Sige.
00:49:34Who will go first?
00:49:36Ago.
00:49:37Diba?
00:49:38Okay.
00:49:39Alright.
00:49:40Sige,
00:49:40Lian.
00:49:43Love,
00:49:44we started
00:49:45both
00:49:46that we are
00:49:47both,
00:49:48ano,
00:49:50doubtful.
00:49:51But,
00:49:52you know,
00:49:53we started
00:49:53as friends
00:49:53kasi.
00:49:55We did not
00:49:55start
00:49:56na kanaabitaong
00:49:59relationship
00:49:59dayon.
00:50:01You know,
00:50:01what I like
00:50:02about John
00:50:02kasi,
00:50:03respectful
00:50:04mangud siya.
00:50:05It is the
00:50:06first time
00:50:06that I have
00:50:07experienced
00:50:07a guy
00:50:08that is not
00:50:08aggressive.
00:50:09Wow.
00:50:10Right?
00:50:11Because,
00:50:11tendency kasi yan,
00:50:13like,
00:50:14mostly
00:50:14sa mga guys,
00:50:15diba?
00:50:16When,
00:50:17they want
00:50:17the girl
00:50:18quick,
00:50:19diba?
00:50:19They want
00:50:20quick,
00:50:20everything
00:50:20quick.
00:50:21But siya,
00:50:22kanang,
00:50:22even mo
00:50:22hold sa kong
00:50:23hands,
00:50:24iya kong
00:50:24pangutan,
00:50:24unhoy,
00:50:25nga nun,
00:50:25nihold ka sa kong
00:50:26hands,
00:50:26unhoy,
00:50:26sana di,
00:50:26ay taoy.
00:50:30Conservative.
00:50:31Conservative.
00:50:32Okay.
00:50:33What do you
00:50:33ang name?
00:50:34Alright,
00:50:35and then,
00:50:36and then,
00:50:39kanang,
00:50:40I've learned,
00:50:41nga,
00:50:41in protecting
00:50:41our relationship,
00:50:43girls really,
00:50:44no,
00:50:45have to
00:50:46submit
00:50:47in whatever
00:50:48get to the
00:50:48guy.
00:50:49Like,
00:50:50if you want
00:50:50your relationship
00:50:51to last long,
00:50:53I'm not saying
00:50:54to shut your
00:50:54mouth,
00:50:55no,
00:50:55women,
00:50:55we have to
00:50:56actually talk
00:50:57about things
00:50:57that we think
00:50:58is not right,
00:50:58but we should
00:51:00always look
00:51:01onto them
00:51:02as our leaders,
00:51:03bitaw,
00:51:04na,
00:51:04they are capable.
00:51:05You have to
00:51:05encourage the
00:51:06men,
00:51:08love kaya ni
00:51:09ni mo,
00:51:09you have to,
00:51:10you can love me
00:51:11this way,
00:51:11you can take care
00:51:12of me this way,
00:51:13instead of kanang awa,
00:51:14yun bitaw siya.
00:51:14So,
00:51:15that's how I
00:51:16protected our
00:51:16relationship now.
00:51:18During the time,
00:51:19nga mga na-learn
00:51:19ako from the
00:51:20previous relationship,
00:51:21from my past,
00:51:22I realized nga,
00:51:24ang girls dapat
00:51:24weaker vessel,
00:51:25yun.
00:51:29Mauna ako ang,
00:51:30mauna ako ang,
00:51:31na-realize,
00:51:31na ang girls
00:51:32gay vulnerable,
00:51:33yun.
00:51:34Imbisan pag,
00:51:35unsa sila ka-strong
00:51:36in front of you,
00:51:37ka nang yaw-yawan,
00:51:38everything,
00:51:40pero at the end
00:51:40of the day,
00:51:41yabaw ka na,
00:51:42na vulnerable,
00:51:43so ikaw,
00:51:44you have to,
00:51:45you have to manage
00:51:46your emotion as a man,
00:51:48dapat,
00:51:48dapat,
00:51:49kayo bawag ka mo,
00:51:50mo timing,
00:51:51mo,
00:51:51mo,
00:51:53mo,
00:51:53mo,
00:51:54reach out,
00:51:55in a,
00:51:55in a,
00:51:56calm way,
00:51:57kay,
00:51:58siyempre,
00:51:58ang babae,
00:51:59mayroong manging kayo ninyo,
00:52:00na-realize ako,
00:52:01mula ng hikap-pikapo
00:52:02ng,
00:52:03ang,
00:52:03dunggan,
00:52:05ang hubok naman,
00:52:06so,
00:52:07okay naman.
00:52:08Mauna,
00:52:08kamusad mga laki,
00:52:09ayosan ninyo g-abuse,
00:52:11kay,
00:52:13dubianis na,
00:52:14pansin gin ako na,
00:52:15ang babae,
00:52:16dali na manjod kayo,
00:52:17sila i-manage,
00:52:19ayaw lang g-abuse,
00:52:21mo na ako ang,
00:52:22and I think,
00:52:23my next question,
00:52:25should go to you then,
00:52:26canang,
00:52:26what can you say also,
00:52:27to the guys who are watching,
00:52:29who would confuse love,
00:52:32with intensity,
00:52:34no,
00:52:34ngamurag kong,
00:52:35daghang,
00:52:36this must be love,
00:52:40ang love,
00:52:41for me,
00:52:42is ano man,
00:52:42good,
00:52:43you have to be,
00:52:45responsible in,
00:52:47with your emotions,
00:52:50dapat,
00:52:51mature kayo enough,
00:52:52to,
00:52:53to lead her,
00:52:54especially,
00:52:55if,
00:52:56mo decide na ka,
00:52:57she's the one,
00:52:59dili pwede na,
00:53:00ikaw ang,
00:53:00ikaw ang emotional,
00:53:02kaya ang babae,
00:53:03emotional naman,
00:53:03dito by nature,
00:53:05so along the way,
00:53:06dapat,
00:53:07ikaw,
00:53:07good ang,
00:53:08kalma,
00:53:08ikaw ang,
00:53:10you have to be,
00:53:10a good listener,
00:53:12and,
00:53:13important,
00:53:14yun kayo,
00:53:15especially,
00:53:16sa karoon nga generation,
00:53:17na,
00:53:18you have to be,
00:53:19a,
00:53:19God-centered relationship,
00:53:21but,
00:53:21mo matter,
00:53:22yun kayo na,
00:53:23ang,
00:53:23kamunduhan,
00:53:24na,
00:53:24ang relationship sa ginoon,
00:53:25because,
00:53:26na naman,
00:53:26yun kayo covenant nga,
00:53:28at the end of the day,
00:53:28there is somebody,
00:53:29nga,
00:53:29part sa inyuhang,
00:53:30part sa inyuhang,
00:53:32inyuhang relationship,
00:53:33so akong advice sa mga laki,
00:53:36is,
00:53:36ano,
00:53:36good,
00:53:37have a relationship with the Lord,
00:53:39and,
00:53:41enjoy the blessings,
00:53:42kaya parang ako,
00:53:43ang wife is a blessing,
00:53:44man.
00:53:47And then for,
00:53:48again,
00:53:48this one,
00:53:49also,
00:53:49this is for Leah,
00:53:50no,
00:53:50this may be a misconception,
00:53:52or maybe,
00:53:52this is also true,
00:53:53you can also tell our viewers,
00:53:55no,
00:53:55women are said to be,
00:53:57kind of good in archiving,
00:53:59ka naman mga,
00:54:00pat,
00:54:02check,
00:54:02oh,
00:54:03oh,
00:54:03you check,
00:54:04oh,
00:54:04you check,
00:54:05oh,
00:54:06sandwich at makli,
00:54:07ha,
00:54:07okay,
00:54:09what can you also,
00:54:10advise to our viewers,
00:54:11for women,
00:54:12who also have past hurts,
00:54:15yeah,
00:54:16and then,
00:54:16how to manage the pain,
00:54:17when it resurfaces,
00:54:20okay,
00:54:20sigur,
00:54:23dealing with hurt,
00:54:24dealing with,
00:54:25past experiences,
00:54:27you know,
00:54:27I can tell right now,
00:54:29marami kasi ako na learn,
00:54:30especially,
00:54:32um,
00:54:33when I give myself to the Lord,
00:54:35and I have asked the Lord,
00:54:37to give me the wisdom,
00:54:39it's different,
00:54:40when you pray,
00:54:41and then,
00:54:42you will really,
00:54:43um,
00:54:44check out yourself,
00:54:45on that matter,
00:54:46because when you,
00:54:47when you have a relationship,
00:54:48with the Lord,
00:54:49your happiness,
00:54:50doesn't depend on people,
00:54:52when you are healed,
00:54:54then,
00:54:55it doesn't,
00:54:57um,
00:54:57kanabi taong,
00:54:58wala,
00:54:58nailabot,
00:54:59ang kong kinsang na tao,
00:55:00ang imuhang kastorya,
00:55:01imuhang,
00:55:01bisang imuhang pang bana,
00:55:03I mean,
00:55:03you get,
00:55:04you don't get healed,
00:55:05in another relationship,
00:55:06to another relationship,
00:55:08that's what I realized,
00:55:10na,
00:55:10my healing is of my own,
00:55:13so,
00:55:13dapat ka nang,
00:55:14aware sa gilang women,
00:55:15anak bitaw,
00:55:16nga kanang,
00:55:17you are responsible,
00:55:18for your own happiness,
00:55:20don't get your happiness,
00:55:21sa ubang tao,
00:55:22you will get happy,
00:55:23um,
00:55:25when you actually,
00:55:25really surrender,
00:55:26to the Lord,
00:55:27yeah,
00:55:28that's then,
00:55:28when you realize,
00:55:29kasi,
00:55:29when you surrender yourself,
00:55:30to the Lord,
00:55:31you will have a purpose,
00:55:32in life,
00:55:33makakita sa gana,
00:55:34ikaw,
00:55:35put yourself,
00:55:35is a sinner,
00:55:37taghan sa gagpagulang,
00:55:39di kabuutan,
00:55:40maldita ka,
00:55:41di ba,
00:55:41reklamador ka,
00:55:42o maunay mga iparealize,
00:55:43ni Lord ni mo,
00:55:45and then,
00:55:45makaingun ka,
00:55:46abitaw no,
00:55:47I'm also imperfect myself,
00:55:49so,
00:55:49that's when healing starts,
00:55:51so,
00:55:51when pain resurfaced,
00:55:52um,
00:55:53maka-realize,
00:55:54kung ano,
00:55:55I'm also imperfect person,
00:55:56this person hurt me,
00:55:58pero ako din,
00:55:59somehow in my life,
00:56:00naapokoy na hurt na mga tao,
00:56:02and this one,
00:56:03any of you also can answer,
00:56:05going to the last stretch,
00:56:06what about for our viewers,
00:56:09who are still waiting,
00:56:11for love,
00:56:13what will you tell them,
00:56:15waiting for love,
00:56:17your love story,
00:56:18is also a long process,
00:56:20it was not like,
00:56:22this is it,
00:56:23so,
00:56:24what can you tell also,
00:56:26our viewers,
00:56:27who may be,
00:56:28up the wrong love,
00:56:29and still hoping,
00:56:30that maybe one day,
00:56:31I'll also be,
00:56:32in the right love,
00:56:34or,
00:56:35they feel like,
00:56:36I'm not love,
00:56:37and I'm still waiting,
00:56:38to be loved,
00:56:39what will you tell them,
00:56:42honestly,
00:56:43experience first,
00:56:44the love of God,
00:56:47when you experience,
00:56:48the love of God,
00:56:49you won't settle,
00:56:50for less,
00:56:52okay,
00:56:52kung ano man good,
00:56:54it's different,
00:56:56that joy is different,
00:56:58kung ano man good love,
00:57:03I think it will just come to you,
00:57:05in a very special way,
00:57:08even on guys,
00:57:09I want the guys,
00:57:10to also,
00:57:11look on that,
00:57:12don't settle for less,
00:57:14I mean,
00:57:16we have,
00:57:16our soulmates,
00:57:17God,
00:57:18so,
00:57:18can I tell you,
00:57:19I don't want to go,
00:57:20because,
00:57:20the other people,
00:57:21can I tell you,
00:57:22can I deadline,
00:57:30when we choose,
00:57:32the love,
00:57:32that is not for us,
00:57:34so,
00:57:34if you're waiting,
00:57:35for that love,
00:57:37enjoy lang,
00:57:38the process of waiting,
00:57:39because it will just,
00:57:40come to you talaga,
00:57:41in unexpected way,
00:57:43and John,
00:57:44I'm going to share,
00:57:46sir,
00:57:47what do you want,
00:57:48love did it the same,
00:57:49like,
00:57:51okay,
00:57:52because,
00:57:53those who are lucky,
00:57:55who are looking,
00:57:55are so cute,
00:57:56love,
00:57:57but like,
00:57:57they're like,
00:57:58like,
00:57:59love,
00:57:59it's a deeper,
00:58:00deeper root,
00:58:02and,
00:58:02I'm a wife,
00:58:04I'm a woman,
00:58:04but,
00:58:06what do you want,
00:58:06love,
00:58:07it's a like,
00:58:08I'm a like,
00:58:09I'm a player,
00:58:11good,
00:58:31this is love,
00:58:37you can answer that,
00:58:39oh,
00:58:42I'm just going to share,
00:58:44okay,
00:58:45go,
00:58:46like John,
00:58:48you would test,
00:58:49the love of a guy,
00:58:50if he's really,
00:58:50willing to wait,
00:58:52because on our end,
00:58:54I will share this,
00:58:55because this is very important,
00:58:57because,
00:58:59apart from not knowing,
00:59:00what is good,
00:59:01and,
00:59:02really okay,
00:59:03like,
00:59:04before we became Christians,
00:59:05ni John,
00:59:06if you're good,
00:59:07I didn't realize,
00:59:09di ba,
00:59:10that,
00:59:11I'm a married,
00:59:11but,
00:59:12I entered,
00:59:13in a relationship,
00:59:14with him,
00:59:15so,
00:59:15that's not okay,
00:59:16actually,
00:59:17di ba,
00:59:17I admit to that,
00:59:18but then,
00:59:19God is,
00:59:19full of grace,
00:59:20and mercy,
00:59:21and,
00:59:22mauna,
00:59:22realize,
00:59:23na,
00:59:23ko,
00:59:23nga,
00:59:23si John,
00:59:24love,
00:59:24ko,
00:59:24niya,
00:59:24because,
00:59:26napunta kami,
00:59:26sa point,
00:59:27nga,
00:59:27kanang,
00:59:28we want to obey,
00:59:29the Lord,
00:59:30to give us the chance,
00:59:31for a wedding,
00:59:32so,
00:59:32we have this covenant,
00:59:34the purity covenant,
00:59:36we have kids,
00:59:38di ba,
00:59:38imagine,
00:59:39nga,
00:59:39muingong ko niya,
00:59:40I don't want to have,
00:59:41an intimate,
00:59:42time with you,
00:59:44until,
00:59:47so,
00:59:47he respected that,
00:59:49he waited,
00:59:51and,
00:59:51siguro,
00:59:52probably,
00:59:52that's what the Lord,
00:59:53wants from us,
00:59:54di ba,
00:59:55binigay yung wedding namin,
00:59:57doon nangyari yun,
00:59:58we,
00:59:59we know that,
01:00:00it is,
01:00:01from the Lord,
01:00:03yeah,
01:00:03so,
01:00:03yun yung advice ko din,
01:00:04especially for the younger,
01:00:05generation,
01:00:06I mean,
01:00:07don't,
01:00:07don't do that,
01:00:08it will cause you,
01:00:10don't rush,
01:00:11it will cause you,
01:00:13unnecessary pain,
01:00:16sir,
01:00:17don't rush,
01:00:17crush lang,
01:00:19don't rush,
01:00:20crush lang,
01:00:21CRU,
01:00:22CRU,
01:00:23na crush,
01:00:24okay,
01:00:24advice nga niya sa daughter namin,
01:00:27sabi niya,
01:00:27ano bang difference,
01:00:28ng boyfriend,
01:00:29saka friend,
01:00:29ay,
01:00:30that's a very good question,
01:00:31sige daw,
01:00:31share it to,
01:00:32to the viewers,
01:00:33before we close,
01:00:34sige,
01:00:34sige,
01:00:34sige,
01:00:35different sa boyfriend,
01:00:36and friend,
01:00:37kiss,
01:00:37ragid sir,
01:00:39ang boyfriend,
01:00:40maka kiss man,
01:00:41ang friend,
01:00:41di man,
01:00:41mawari ko,
01:00:42if,
01:00:43ayaw gib pa da,
01:00:45ho,
01:00:46see,
01:00:46he's wise,
01:00:47I don't,
01:00:48until,
01:00:49until,
01:00:51dili pa na,
01:00:52wala pa ilabel na boyfriend,
01:00:54pwede pa man,
01:00:55special friend,
01:00:55tanan,
01:00:56pero mo,
01:00:56ingon na ganikag boyfriend,
01:00:58maka kiss na na,
01:00:59nai mo,
01:00:59so,
01:00:59that's how you draw the line,
01:01:01don't confuse the two,
01:01:02yes,
01:01:03yes,
01:01:03that's it,
01:01:04ako mag,
01:01:05sige,
01:01:06naandad mag,
01:01:06kung,
01:01:07ba na,
01:01:08balans,
01:01:08kung makakita ka,
01:01:09permiroan nga mong,
01:01:10mga gimi pareha,
01:01:11pero,
01:01:12siguro,
01:01:13nagmatch po,
01:01:13ako,
01:01:14mo,
01:01:15advise ko sa kong kids,
01:01:16kaya na,
01:01:16mag,
01:01:17binugoy lang ba,
01:01:18pero naagan ni,
01:01:19ako nyo siyang iksultihan nga,
01:01:21ayun,
01:01:22okay,
01:01:24and I think,
01:01:25siguro,
01:01:25before we close,
01:01:26and before I ask the last question,
01:01:27ang aking take away among the many side,
01:01:30is,
01:01:30actually,
01:01:30daghan mag,
01:01:31kanang instances na,
01:01:33di li mo pareha,
01:01:33ang answer,
01:01:34no,
01:01:34A or B,
01:01:35di ba,
01:01:35pero ang take away na,
01:01:37is related katong,
01:01:38when we opened,
01:01:39na,
01:01:39kanang,
01:01:40it's how you manage the differences,
01:01:41but I think the other one,
01:01:43it's because,
01:01:43both sides are considered,
01:01:46di ba,
01:01:47kay,
01:01:47kato,
01:01:47to your point,
01:01:49kanang,
01:01:49pwede man sad,
01:01:50kung pareho mo din,
01:01:51dinhira mo,
01:01:53you don't see the other perspective,
01:01:54but if the other one,
01:01:56also thinks differently,
01:01:58then you get to talk,
01:01:59and most likely,
01:02:01arrive at a better decision,
01:02:02that you could have done,
01:02:04when you were not talking,
01:02:06di ba,
01:02:07so that's my,
01:02:08takeaway actually,
01:02:09there's also wisdom,
01:02:10in your differences,
01:02:12that's true,
01:02:12sige,
01:02:12ang final na lang ako din,
01:02:13which we normally ask,
01:02:15as our guests now,
01:02:16so beyond,
01:02:17the labels,
01:02:18and beyond the past,
01:02:20and beyond the headlines,
01:02:22your personality is there,
01:02:24kanang,
01:02:24who are,
01:02:25Lian,
01:02:26and,
01:02:27John,
01:02:28you know,
01:02:29want,
01:02:30to be,
01:02:32together,
01:02:33beyond the headlines,
01:02:34what do you want,
01:02:35or who do you want,
01:02:36to be,
01:02:37as a couple,
01:02:38as a couple,
01:02:38as a couple,
01:02:56as a couple,
01:02:58younger generations,
01:02:59younger generations,
01:02:59like,
01:03:03you have to do,
01:03:04the right things,
01:03:05with your life,
01:03:06and it's not too late,
01:03:08sa mga mistakes,
01:03:09nga buwatin mo sa mo life,
01:03:10nothing is impossible,
01:03:11and,
01:03:13I want them to,
01:03:14I want them to see us,
01:03:17na,
01:03:17na,
01:03:18na transform mong life,
01:03:20because,
01:03:21among manggong gi,
01:03:22gi-obey ang ginoo,
01:03:23so,
01:03:23mo na nga ako,
01:03:24mo na ako,
01:03:25gusto ko makita na sa mga,
01:03:26sa,
01:03:27younger generations,
01:03:28na kami ni,
01:03:29Lian,
01:03:33na transform mong,
01:03:34because of,
01:03:35of our,
01:03:35of our discipline,
01:03:37of our faith,
01:03:38yes,
01:03:39a life with,
01:03:41God,
01:03:42you have to have a relationship,
01:03:44with Jesus,
01:03:44talaga,
01:03:45iba talaga kasi,
01:03:47I mean,
01:03:48that's the covenant,
01:03:49especially on couples,
01:03:50hindi lang kayo dalawa,
01:03:51kasi kung kayo dalawa lang,
01:03:52madali lang i-break eh,
01:03:54but if someone there,
01:03:55is holding you,
01:03:56which is the Lord,
01:03:57then you will stay together,
01:03:59yeah,
01:04:00kung i-mamagong,
01:04:02you know now,
01:04:02we have,
01:04:03all girls,
01:04:04ang amuang mga bata,
01:04:05but,
01:04:06sa tinanay lang,
01:04:07ang amud yung mga anak,
01:04:08grabe katagan,
01:04:09because,
01:04:10sa mga players,
01:04:11yeah,
01:04:12we serve kasi talaga,
01:04:13the community,
01:04:14so as a couple,
01:04:14we want that,
01:04:15we want to continue to serve,
01:04:18our community,
01:04:19and not just our community,
01:04:20I love actually,
01:04:21ang anak judmi,
01:04:22with our friends,
01:04:23family,
01:04:25na,
01:04:26so,
01:04:26no,
01:04:27I think that's the best way to,
01:04:28end the episode,
01:04:29but I hope we will still have more,
01:04:31kind of conversations in the future,
01:04:33off camera,
01:04:34no,
01:04:34but I think that's the best way to end,
01:04:36no,
01:04:36kind of,
01:04:37role models,
01:04:38no,
01:04:38because I think a lot of people,
01:04:40regardless of where we are in life,
01:04:42also need examples,
01:04:44no,
01:04:44regardless of whether we are experienced in life,
01:04:47or we have less experience in life,
01:04:50or we have less experience in life,
01:04:50we still need role models,
01:04:51so it's a blessing to have the two of you,
01:04:53and I hope our viewers also feel just as blessed as much as I am feeling blessed right now,
01:05:00so thank you very much once again for reminding us that love is not just a date on the calendar,
01:05:08so Valentine's Day may come with flowers and celebrations,
01:05:13but the real story of love is written in ordinary days,
01:05:19beyond the past,
01:05:21beyond the selfies,
01:05:22beyond the headlines,
01:05:24we are learning how to love better,
01:05:27and the importance also of being anchored in faith,
01:05:30so I'm DJ Moises,
01:05:32and we'll see you again tomorrow,
01:05:34have a good afternoon,
01:05:35and on Saturday,
01:05:36happy Valentine's Day,
01:05:54happy Valentine's Day,
01:05:55happy Valentine's Day,
01:05:55happy Valentine's Day,
01:05:55happy Valentine's Day,
01:05:55happy Valentine's Day,
01:05:55happy Valentine's Day,
01:05:56happy Valentine's Day,
01:05:56happy Valentine's Day,
01:05:56happy Valentine's Day,
01:05:56happy Valentine's Day,
01:05:56happy Valentine's Day,
01:05:57happy Valentine's Day,
01:05:57happy Valentine's Day,
01:05:58happy Valentine's Day,
01:06:01happy Valentine's Day,
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