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Second Chance Love - Season 1 Episode 6
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00:00I am totally in to keep moving forward.
00:12I've been wanting to like open up to you more.
00:16I get scared.
00:18Like our chemistry is still there.
00:19As soon as I saw you, it clicked.
00:21I feel like I'm at home.
00:23I do not want to rush into another relationship
00:25and I wouldn't want to lose a potential friend.
00:28What's important to them, like in a relationship,
00:31who are so vastly different?
00:33They're talking marriage and kids
00:35and they don't exactly envy the position that they're in.
00:39This is about as romantic as it can get.
00:42I am a little concerned
00:44because we haven't had a lot of moments
00:46where she and I have connected.
00:48I'm not really sure what direction she wants it to go in.
00:51My daughter has her first dance recital coming up,
00:54so tonight I'll be leaving to go back home.
00:57Are you gonna come back?
01:15We took the wrong path.
01:16We ended up at like somebody else's like resort.
01:18That's wild.
01:19That's wild.
01:20That's wild.
01:21That's wild.
01:22Where are we?
01:23Where are we?
01:25Girl talk.
01:26Have a chair, have a chair.
01:28The new one, the new B.
01:30The new one.
01:31You get to be.
01:32New role on the block.
01:33Yeah, the new one.
01:34The new, okay.
01:37So?
01:38So we want the role skinny.
01:39We want everything.
01:40No, I'm kidding.
01:41Yeah?
01:42Even though we came late.
01:43Mm-hmm.
01:44Me and Calvin have had some talks and we want to take it slow.
01:49And he's made me feel just super comfortable.
01:51He's easy to talk to.
01:52Are you avoiding anything though?
01:54Like, are you prepared for the serious questions or the serious conversation?
01:59Ooh, yes.
02:01I mean, I'm gonna be honest with him no matter what he asks.
02:05And he knows that.
02:07And he knows that I want to take it slow and think things through.
02:10I have a motherly instinct.
02:13I know that Calvin is very much into Autumn.
02:18She?
02:19I can't tell.
02:20I can't tell if she's into him.
02:21I just don't want to jump into something and not really think it through.
02:25I mean, obviously, we live super far apart.
02:29So that would be something that we would have to be able to work out in real life when we're out of Italy.
02:35Logistics.
02:36It's like a dream, like getting this time and hanging out.
02:38Exactly.
02:39But it's different when we get home and reality kind of sits in.
02:43Right.
02:44Now, Paul and I, it's so funny because here I am telling you all, Paul and I haven't had that conversation.
02:48I'm in Houston and he's in Seattle.
02:50How are we going to work that out?
02:52Because you're so into somebody you forget to ask those and that could be a deal breaker.
02:56I feel like that's how me and Calvin were the first time around.
02:59It was like a whirlwind and we just kind of jumped in like too fast.
03:04And we really don't want to do that this time around.
03:06Calvin and Autumn, I think that they are a beautiful couple.
03:10So I want to see their relationship blossom.
03:13How's it going with you and Paul now?
03:15I hardly know.
03:16I hardly know.
03:17What do you mean?
03:18Because right now it's, I mean, I already have expressed my feelings and it's kind of the balls in Paul's court.
03:24So it depends on what he's thinking and what he wants.
03:28Okay.
03:29He's a little more sort of grumpy now.
03:31But he was, he was actually more kind of loving and affectionate before.
03:38Oh.
03:39But then that loving and affectionate guy, you know, broke my heart.
03:42Okay.
03:43So now I don't even get that.
03:45I just get, you know, he's kind of gruff.
03:47But I think it's just the way he's showing his affection.
03:51He just does it differently and I haven't been used to that.
03:54Paul and I still need to have the hard conversation because even though I sense how he's feeling and he knows how I'm feeling, he needs to say those words.
04:03And for this man who is the most honest man that I've known, he's holding back ever so slightly and he needs to say it to me.
04:10I need to hear it.
04:11I need to hear, I want to be with you forever.
04:15What's your update?
04:17Give us your update.
04:18You know, we've been friends for over 30 something years.
04:22Alan is a great person and we get along, but there's different aspects of like, you know, a romantic relationship that Alan and I don't know about.
04:33Yeah.
04:34Of each other.
04:35Oh.
04:36And that's what we're like, you know, discovering about one another.
04:38Trying to figure out.
04:39But it's going to take some time.
04:41But we're just trying to see if we would be like right, like if we're fitting for one another for like a romantic relationship.
04:48That's one of the things is us trying to find out like, you know, if, you know, we can.
04:54That's, that's a lot to unpack.
04:57It's kind of funny because Razmi, when she talks to me about her relationship with Alan, she says the same thing back to back to back to back.
05:06Yeah, we're just, you know, really trying to get to know each other.
05:10I sense that she's afraid to actually come up with what she wants.
05:14I'm going to have to explore because I need details and I'm inquisitive.
05:19Some people call me nosy.
05:21Um, let's go get going for the rest of the day.
05:25Because I think we have to, you know, get ready for the workout.
05:28Cool.
05:29I'll walk you to the door like a gentle woman.
05:31Oh, thank you.
05:32Because that's how I am.
05:37So today we have a workout with Chili, who's in such good shape.
05:42So we won't go too hard today, but we're going to do the core workout.
05:47This is exactly what we need.
05:49There's been a lot of pasta here, like a lot.
05:51I like to eat.
05:52Pastries.
05:53Potatoes.
05:54Pasta.
05:55Pasta.
05:56Pizza.
05:57I can eat.
05:58There's no doubt about that.
05:59So this is going to be so wonderful.
06:02All right, you ready?
06:04Wow.
06:05I'm going to be in the front of the class.
06:08I'll be all right, you know, because I'll work out.
06:10You know, I'm an athlete.
06:11Today we're going to concentrate on the core.
06:13That's my favorite because if you want to preserve your back as we age, you've got to
06:18have a strong core.
06:19We know that, yeah?
06:20Yes.
06:21Paul and I have been hitting the gym every single day.
06:24When you consistently work out, classes like this are very, very easy.
06:29So I'm ready.
06:32Let's get down here.
06:34Okay.
06:35On your backs.
06:36Let's do this.
06:37One.
06:39Two.
06:40Three.
06:42Six.
06:43Seven.
06:44Eight.
06:46Nine.
06:47Ten.
06:48Ten more.
06:50I was wrong.
06:51It was hard.
06:53All together.
06:55I'm here with someone who I want to rekindle with, and she is very athletic.
07:00So it makes me work a little bit harder.
07:03I got to keep up.
07:04Guys, we're not done yet.
07:06Let's go.
07:07One.
07:08Two.
07:09This workout routine is no joke.
07:12Go.
07:13Two.
07:14Three.
07:15I was fighting for my life.
07:18Now you're okay?
07:19Hey.
07:20Oh my gosh.
07:22I haven't had this much fun since polio.
07:27Now we're going to come around and we're going to look at everybody's abs.
07:32I know.
07:33Hi.
07:34What's crazy is that, you know, our time is kind of winding down here.
07:37Yeah.
07:38I know.
07:39It's bittersweet, isn't it?
07:40You know, we've had such a good time, but I think we want to make sure that you guys have
07:45those conversations that need to be had and don't get to that point where all of a sudden
07:49you realize time is out and you haven't really discussed with your partner what you're feeling.
07:54I think it's incredibly important.
07:56Just making sure that it's real clear, you know, that you guys are either going to leave
08:00together or you're going to leave separate.
08:02And also remember, there's no failing here.
08:05Leaving as friends and going your own separate ways could be the win.
08:09Right.
08:10So don't put that pressure on yourself.
08:12Just be true to yourself.
08:13Just got to be a hundred percent transparent.
08:16And let's see what these next few days lead us to.
08:19All right.
08:21I don't know about you guys because I'm going to be sore tomorrow.
08:24Yeah, I'm going to be sore.
08:26That was a good workout.
08:27Big ol' bumblebee.
08:28Ah!
08:29Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh!
08:30Get that chili!
08:31Hello!
08:32You ready for our double date?
08:33Yes.
08:34Today we are going on a little double date, Camille and I and Autumn and Calvin.
08:46Come on.
08:47It'll be great.
08:48We're making memories, you know?
08:50Calvin and Autumn definitely like to be outside in nature like myself.
08:53And I think that Camille will like this, but we'll make the best of it and have fun.
08:59Trust me.
09:00It'll be a lot of fun.
09:01It'll be sweet.
09:04We're making memories, you know?
09:06Memorable memories.
09:08It'll be great.
09:10Hello, guys.
09:11Hello.
09:12Hello.
09:13Welcome.
09:14We're going to do some rock climbing and some zip lining.
09:17I'm excited.
09:19It's going to be fun, Camille.
09:20Yeah, this will be fun.
09:22This?
09:23We got it.
09:24This is the first time Blake and I have done anything like this together.
09:28So I'm a little scared, but I'm excited.
09:32I'll be there for you.
09:33I got it.
09:34We're just going to have to see.
09:36You look like Laura Croft, you know?
09:39Tomb Raider.
09:40Double dates could be a little weird sometimes, you know?
09:42Because it's different dynamics.
09:43I'm not too worried about Autumn.
09:45I've got this daredevil next to me and she's just like pushing me to do things that I probably would never do by myself.
09:51Are these one size pizza?
09:52I don't know.
09:53You can choose.
09:54I've never gone rock climbing before.
09:55I love doing outside stuff like that.
09:56I like challenging myself and I think it is super romantic because I get to experience all of this for the first time with Calvin.
10:12Come on.
10:13Let's go.
10:14I'm excited.
10:15Let's do this.
10:16Yeah, let's do this.
10:17This date, it's one of these once in a lifetime experiences.
10:23I'm beyond excited.
10:24I just want to carpe diem seize the day.
10:25I see that with Camille too.
10:26She's got that spirit.
10:27I love the fact that, you know, she's like the same way.
10:28That's what I want in a partner.
10:29Leg workout.
10:30Whew.
10:31I got a nice little sweat going.
10:32Yeah.
10:33I thought it was just going to be a short little walk.
10:34But then there's like rocks that we have to kind of like start stepping over, climbing up.
10:39This way.
10:40This way.
10:41This way.
10:42These are super sturdy.
10:43Trust me, I would not be getting on these rocks if they are moving.
10:44You want me to take your hand?
10:45You got it.
10:46I promise it will be okay.
10:48I just wanted to support her.
10:50I just wanted to support her.
10:53Oh, come on.
10:54Come on.
10:55Come on.
10:56Come on.
10:57Come on.
10:58Come on.
10:59Come on.
11:00Come on.
11:01Come on.
11:02Come on.
11:03Come on.
11:04Come on.
11:05Come on.
11:06Come on.
11:07Come on.
11:08Let me try.
11:11He'll pull you.
11:12This is freaky.
11:13I'm climbing over rocks, climbing under rocks, hanging on for dear life.
11:18Oh my gosh.
11:20Oh my gosh.
11:21I can't.
11:22I'm done.
11:23Yeah.
11:24No.
11:25You want me to get in front of it?
11:26Come on.
11:27I do not do things like this ever.
11:31I believe this is for you.
11:36Aww.
11:37It's not necessarily my nature to be romantic.
11:42You're welcome.
11:43I'm not going to make the same mistake I made 45 years ago.
11:46The balls in Paul's court.
11:48We should probably talk about compatibility.
11:51I made this big effort to try to like connect with you.
11:55But it doesn't feel like you're ever going to want to take that chance.
11:59Maybe not.
12:00You got it, Kim.
12:01There were some tricky rocks to climb over.
12:02Okay.
12:03One by one, okay?
12:04But I'm willing to go through this because our time here in Sardinia is coming to an end.
12:23Blake makes me happy and I deserve to be with a good guy.
12:29And I honestly think this is all in God's plan.
12:32Yeah, I'm on.
12:33Push her.
12:34And I am just trusting it.
12:36For my first time rock climbing, I definitely think it was a little challenging.
12:42My arms were shaking, but I love it.
12:45I'm having a blast.
12:46This is a lot of fun.
12:47Oh, this is a workout.
12:49I was impressed when I saw her moving the way she was.
12:52It showed me a lot about her.
12:53It shows me that she likes a challenge.
12:56Right there.
12:57This one's probably a workout.
12:58I'm not saying that this is a competition, but it just shows that we're going to push each
13:01other to be better.
13:02Okay.
13:03No matter what happens.
13:05Good job.
13:10So, Razmi, are you prepared for the serious questions or the serious
13:14conversation?
13:15What?
13:16So, I was thinking maybe you want to explore or see, you know, if you have those feelings
13:23with Alan.
13:26And I know it's not in your comfort zone, but you might want to sort of just open up about
13:31this.
13:33You can do this.
13:35It's okay.
13:36Razmi is a little guarded in her feelings and sharing it with everyone.
13:41But I sensed there's just something more.
13:44Just try it.
13:45Because what's the worst that's going to happen?
13:47I'm scared.
13:50I'm scared that our friendship dynamic might change.
13:58It will change.
13:59That's the point.
14:00In a negative way.
14:01Oh.
14:02The possibility of losing a friendship altogether.
14:04Absolutely.
14:05It doesn't work out.
14:06Yeah.
14:07And that's, I think, what's holding you back, maybe.
14:09Yeah.
14:10Perhaps.
14:11Yeah.
14:12Because you don't want to risk losing that.
14:13Yeah.
14:14I think that that's perfectly fine, but I understand Alan wants more.
14:18I think so.
14:19Do you think that that's a big obstacle in your relationship right now?
14:23It might be.
14:24Really?
14:25I think it's one of the things.
14:27If you don't take a risk, I can assure you that nothing will happen.
14:31If you do take a risk, something might happen.
14:34Yeah.
14:35So just consider that.
14:36I mean, I know you've probably had conversations about it.
14:40To be completely honest, no.
14:44Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
14:46You have to have that conversation.
14:48Yeah.
14:49Yeah.
14:50Yeah.
14:51Yeah.
14:52Yeah.
14:53Yeah.
14:54Yeah.
15:07We up here.
15:08We up here.
15:09Wow.
15:10I'm so scared right now.
15:13Camille actually got up there, up onto the top of the mountain, which is huge.
15:22She pushed through it.
15:23Good job.
15:24Thanks, Blake.
15:25There's this level of just like admiration and respect for her.
15:30If all the instructions, you know, I'll be okay.
15:32I promise.
15:33I finally make it to the top and I see the zip line.
15:38Three, two, one, go.
15:43I am feeling very emotional.
15:47Bye-bye.
15:50I'm shaking.
15:51Want me to go first?
15:52Mm-hmm.
15:53I'm crying.
15:54I'll see you on the other side.
15:56Bye-bye.
15:57Woo!
15:58But I'm trying to get past my fear.
16:02I feel like Cam's a little nervous.
16:04Go down.
16:05Your head.
16:06Go down.
16:07Okay.
16:08Okay.
16:09Three, two, one.
16:10Bye!
16:11There you go.
16:12Woo!
16:13Look at that.
16:14Wow.
16:15I did it, guys.
16:16There you go.
16:17Look at you.
16:18I did it.
16:19Come here.
16:20Come here.
16:21Come here.
16:22Come here.
16:23Come here.
16:24Come here.
16:25Ow.
16:26I am proud of myself for getting through these fears and just pushing, pushing through it.
16:44You did it.
16:45You did it.
16:46I am so happy that Blake has been by my side.
16:50You helped me so much.
16:52No, I'm just like, I'm really proud of you.
16:54I mean, I was just, I know that was a big deal.
16:56Yeah.
16:57You know?
16:58It was a really big deal.
16:59But you did it.
17:00I feel like I couldn't have done it without him.
17:03He's made me feel so safe.
17:05I'm very appreciative for you just being patient with me, you know, and just giving me time.
17:11Anything for you, honestly.
17:13It's a breath of fresh air to be with somebody who cares about me and sees me for me.
17:22Thank you for opening up.
17:26I know that's a lot.
17:28I get it.
17:29We've both been there and not so great of relationships.
17:34So I totally understand, like, you know, it's the whole just trusting again and, you know, doing the work and to open up and trust again.
17:44It takes a long time.
17:47I know my worth and Blake knows my worth and I deserve to have a good relationship.
17:54And I'm happy that just the good things come to those who wait, I guess, you know?
18:02I'm ready to let my guard down and open my heart to you.
18:07You're a good one and I would like to keep you.
18:11Can I kiss you?
18:12Yes.
18:17You give me butterflies and I haven't felt that in like a really, really, really long time.
18:34And it's just, it's nice to, it's nice to feel that again.
18:38Just getting to know you again after so long.
18:42I wouldn't, you know, trade this moment for like anything.
18:45Honestly.
18:46Sam.
18:55Ready to get off this rock?
18:56I'm so ready to get off this rock.
18:57We've been friends for so long and now we're working on the romantic aspect of it.
19:09But I'm looking for something more.
19:11Things haven't been aligned.
19:13I don't know how much more I can wait to figure that out.
19:18We're really enjoying ourselves.
19:20But there's nothing fluffier, romantic.
19:22Sometimes we can be a little clueless.
19:24That would be the word that comes to mind.
19:26It is.
19:27It is.
19:39Practice my vocal chords.
19:41I learned from Cam.
19:42Hey ladies, how's it going?
19:45Good.
19:46Good.
19:47Good.
19:48So I'm here to check in on you guys from the guys' perspective.
19:52Hello.
19:53Hey.
19:54Hi, Chili.
19:55What is up?
19:56Fancy meeting you here.
19:59Good to see you guys.
20:01Good to see you too.
20:02See you too.
20:03I just felt like it would be good for us to talk.
20:06Just us.
20:07From a woman's point of view.
20:09Chili and Matthew say they want to kind of check in.
20:12I love that.
20:13I mean, I love opportunities to get a new perspective on things.
20:16It's going to be helpful with regard to Rasmie and I's relationship.
20:20So I just want to know.
20:21I want to go, you know, to each of you and see if there's a moment, like a romantic moment,
20:25a moment that gave you butterflies on this whole trip that really you felt that little spark.
20:31You know someone loves you by looks.
20:33Totally.
20:34Looks and smiles.
20:35Yeah.
20:36I'll catch a little look from Chili and it just melts me.
20:39For sure.
20:40Yeah.
20:41Okay, cool.
20:42Awesome.
20:43Good to hear.
20:44The reunion, when I first saw her, it was like this feeling of euphoria just washed over me.
20:49Mmm.
20:50When we were getting gelatos and he gave me the journal on the bridge, it was really nice.
20:54Yeah?
20:55And then the stuff that was inside the journal was really, really nice and it meant a lot.
20:58Cool.
20:59That's very cool.
21:00My favorite was us just like cuddling like on the couch.
21:05It was like all dark and we were just like having like those moments of just like talking
21:10about life.
21:11That's great.
21:12It was nice.
21:13What about you?
21:14When did you feel butterflies?
21:15Seeing her coming off the boat onto the beach.
21:17This was our reunion.
21:18Oh, okay.
21:19Yeah, yeah.
21:20Like a lightning bolt down my spine.
21:22Good.
21:23Yeah, she's a, she's pretty.
21:25Autumn, how you get any butterflies at any point in time on this trip so far?
21:29I enjoy just quality time.
21:30Yeah.
21:31Like I went out to tan the other day and I know that man does not want to lay out there
21:35and tan it to me.
21:36Yeah.
21:37But he was like, oh go.
21:38We were out there for like two hours and I was like.
21:39Awesome.
21:40I didn't want to, but he did it just to spend time with me and I love stuff like that.
21:43Totally.
21:44Like our reunion.
21:45He had the butterflies.
21:46When I first saw Autumn.
21:48Yeah.
21:49After so many years.
21:50It felt like home.
21:51Alan and I had that moment on our first date where we really opened up to one another
21:59and we spoke about, well, marriage and children, he opened up and talked about his children
22:05and then we both got emotional and the moment was just so real, so genuine.
22:10That for me really opened up my feelings.
22:13Cool.
22:14My feelings in a different way.
22:15Yeah.
22:16Not just the friendship way.
22:17Okay.
22:18Well, that's a great moment.
22:19Yeah, it was a great moment.
22:20You know, when you can really bare your soul like that to somebody, it's pretty special.
22:22Our first date.
22:23Okay.
22:24I left that date.
22:25I had a hard time sleeping that night because my mind was racing.
22:29I love all of this.
22:31Paul.
22:32Yes.
22:33What about you and Leslie?
22:36What's going on?
22:37Like seriously, give it to me.
22:38Sure.
22:39We're really enjoying ourselves.
22:40So we, yeah, it's been 45 years.
22:42Yeah.
22:43But we are so much the same as we were.
22:46I think it's going well because right now I'm actually learning a lot more about Paul.
22:51But there's nothing, you know, fluffy or romantic.
22:55Communication is, it's not easy for guys all the time.
22:58Sometimes we can be a little clueless when it comes to the emotional side.
23:01That would be the word that comes to mind.
23:03Yeah.
23:04It is.
23:05We can be.
23:06She's just as, you know, lively and adorable and bright as she ever was.
23:12And I'm still, you know, kind of dumb.
23:15Well, I've had trouble with that even with Chili and I.
23:18It's great though.
23:19She'll text me like, I need some mushy stuff today.
23:21Oh, I like that.
23:22Yeah.
23:23And I'm like, okay, totally.
23:24He said, I got you.
23:25I got you.
23:26For some reason, it takes a lot of vulnerability from a man to get mushy sometimes.
23:32Okay.
23:33If we open ourselves up that way, it maybe weakens us.
23:36You know, there's that.
23:37That is definitely something to consider.
23:39I wasn't really thinking in those terms.
23:40It's weird, but it's, that's what it is.
23:42I know with Leslie and I, it would be easy to commit.
23:46I have not forgot about Leslie in all those years.
23:49Oh.
23:50You know, commitment, sure.
23:51I mean, I don't, I don't see a problem with that.
23:54No outside dates?
23:55Yeah.
23:56No.
23:57No.
23:58I'm too old for that.
24:00You never, no, that's, there's no such thing.
24:02You want to bet?
24:03Yeah.
24:04Get me married.
24:05Get me married.
24:06So, Alan and I are kind of like the opposite, because we've been friends for so long.
24:10Right.
24:11And now we're trying to think about coming out of that, coming out of a friend zone.
24:15Stuck in the friend zone.
24:16Yeah.
24:17Yeah.
24:18And now we're working on the romantic aspect of it.
24:22Yeah.
24:23Can we have that spark for one another?
24:25We seem to be in this kind of friendship space, but I'm looking for something more.
24:31Things haven't been aligned.
24:33We've been here for a while.
24:34We've had lots of time to spend together.
24:36Mm-hmm.
24:37Flirty, being physically affectionate.
24:39Yeah.
24:40I haven't really felt that, you know.
24:41From her?
24:42From her, yeah.
24:43Okay.
24:44I've kind of interpreted that as a lack of interest.
24:45Mm-hmm.
24:46I don't know how much more I can wait.
24:48We all have that gut feeling, right?
24:50Mm-hmm.
24:51Listen to your gut, listen to your gut.
24:52Like, what is your gut telling you?
24:53It's always right.
24:54Yeah.
24:55My gut has said, be patient.
24:57Mm-hmm.
24:58I feel like I'm giving a lot and being supportive and listening, but I'm not really getting...
25:04That's not reciprocated for me.
25:06Mm-hmm.
25:07You need to say that to her.
25:08Don't try to, like, dance around it or sugarcoat it.
25:11Just...
25:12Y'all got to have that conversation ASAP.
25:13Yeah.
25:14Mm-hmm.
25:15What about you?
25:16I'm doing well.
25:17Yeah?
25:18I'm doing well.
25:19Okay.
25:20Enjoying this time.
25:21Okay, good.
25:22Alone.
25:23I know, I know.
25:24Yeah.
25:25It's been a couple days now.
25:26Yes.
25:27How are you feeling about that?
25:28Um, I was definitely supportive for him to go to support his daughter.
25:32I was disappointed in the fact that I wasn't given a lot of notice.
25:36It was just like, hey, I'm leaving.
25:38Right, right, right.
25:40That does seem to be a very common male trait.
25:43Mm-hmm.
25:44I don't know why we do this, but we'll literally hold these certain details to the last moment
25:48because we're just afraid of how they're going to land.
25:50Yeah.
25:51Of course, it could be done better.
25:53Yeah.
25:54Time is winding down, running out.
25:55I'm feeling uncertain about the relationship that I was once super confident in.
26:00Matina and I will need to have some deeper conversations once he gets back.
26:05Sounds like a little margin of grace.
26:07Yeah.
26:08Isn't it?
26:09Distance makes the heart grow fonder.
26:11That's what they say.
26:12That's what they say.
26:14Ah!
26:15Oh, a little tail there.
26:17Oh, no.
26:18I don't know.
26:19Yeah.
26:20If you don't have a lot of time, so really throw it all out there.
26:23Don't be afraid of what the reaction is because time is just running away from all of us.
26:29Yeah.
26:30So really go for it.
26:31And I'm rooting for you guys.
26:32I'm so glad you opened up to me and shared these things with me.
26:36And it's great to have a female perspective.
26:39I want you guys to be happy.
26:41I want this to work out, you know, either way.
26:44Thank you for being here and sharing your wisdom and the guy perspective.
26:50All right, guys.
26:51Wise words.
26:52All right.
26:53You know, I try.
26:54I don't know.
26:55Take it with a grain of salt.
26:56Let's bring it in.
26:57Let's bring it in.
26:58Come on, come on, come on.
27:00On three, one, two, three.
27:03We got this!
27:04Yes!
27:05Woo!
27:14Hello.
27:15Buongiorno.
27:16Can I have a piece of paper, please, and a pen to write a note?
27:18Of course you can.
27:19Sure.
27:20There we go.
27:21Leslie and I reconnecting.
27:24We're just having a lot of fun and a good time.
27:27It's been just wonderful.
27:31It's not necessarily my nature to be romantic, but Leslie, she makes me want to be better as
27:40far as that goes.
27:41If anyone could, it would be Leslie.
27:43And would somebody be able to take that to her room for me, please?
27:46Of course we will.
27:47Thank you so much.
27:48You're really welcome.
27:49Bye-bye.
27:50I'm looking forward to see where it goes.
27:52I really am.
27:53I'm not going to make the same mistake I made 45 years ago.
28:00We've been really having a good time.
28:02You don't have to talk about marriage.
28:05Marriage would involve someone moving.
28:07It ain't going to be me.
28:09Oh, how are you?
28:10Very well.
28:11There is an envelope for you.
28:12Ah.
28:14You're really welcome.
28:15Goodbye.
28:16Huh.
28:17Okay.
28:18Leslie, please meet me for dinner tonight.
28:19Paul.
28:20Aw.
28:21It's just so Paul.
28:22There's nothing, you know, fluffy or romantic.
28:23It's just, meet me for dinner at the Yacht Club, 8 PM.
28:24Paul.
28:25But I think that that's him being extremely romantic.
28:26So, you know what?
28:27I will take that.
28:28No.
28:30Okay.
28:31Come with me?
28:32No.
28:33No.
28:34You know what?
28:35That's all right.
28:36It's amazing.
28:37We've got a lot of questions.
28:39So, we've got a lot of questions.
28:40We've got a lot of questions.
28:41We've got questions I've talked about, and we're going to ask this question.
28:42nothing you know fluffy or romantic it's just meet me for dinner at the yacht club 8 pm pa
28:50but i think that that's him being extremely romantic so you know what i will take that
28:56let's see beautiful yes i'm so excited for you you look beautiful
29:04okay thank you yay have fun okay thank you
29:07yeah yeah yeah i'm gonna tell you everything yeah leslie and paul are so adorable i see
29:19the love that they have for one another still and i just think that they're a perfect couple see
29:25you when you get back thanks bye
29:37oh my gosh wow look at you
29:49you clean up quite nicely it doesn't get any better than this so i am like wow i believe this is for
29:55you oh that is like so sweet thank you you're welcome i haven't had someone give me flowers in
30:02probably 40 years this is going to sound silly but i kind of felt like a princess shall we yes yes oh my
30:11gosh paul keeps saying to me i will not make this mistake again i am not going to have any regrets
30:21again what does that mean does that mean we're going to be a boyfriend girlfriend have a seat thank you
30:28you're welcome i'm in so the balls and paul's court don't you look pretty thank you this is this is a
30:36nice surprise and i have to say i was not expecting it's just lovely i hope the print's big enough so i
30:40don't need my readers i brought some i love it i'll probably get the beef you get the beef i'll get the tuna
30:48okay okay then we can share done do i see a future with wesley absolutely i want her to know
30:56you know i'm i'm i'm just really smitten now that's gorgeous look at that oh it has nice legs yes you do
31:04well cheers sweetie ah the prettiest girl the bill of the ball thank you okay it's really yummy yummy it is
31:21good so when we go back to the states you're coming to seattle for your parents 50th yeah okay okay nice
31:32oh my goodness oh beautiful thank you look at this look how far flight is that like
31:42three hours maybe it's almost four i'll be in seattle yeah so we'll get together in seattle oh for sure
31:47what we'll find is when my sons meet your son so that will be fine absolutely because they you know
31:54they all snowboard and they snow ski and they put my son's wakeboard and i was thinking um i'd like to
32:01come to to houston come on down i'm coming i'm there i could do that okay that's perfect yeah
32:09it'll be good i feel terrific about this date because this is the first time that i know that paul
32:16is in it a hundred percent he's talking in terms of us doing things together we have plans and i like
32:25that we've been really having a good time i know yeah i feel a little guilty because you don't have to
32:31talk about marriage and kids you know and we're retired and i mean we don't have to talk about
32:38kids or retirement but i mean i don't know what you mean by marriage i mean well that's true
32:44it doesn't freak me out but marriage would involve someone moving
32:53it ain't gonna be me
32:57well no that's a fair question i'm just gonna tell you about houston and me i moved to houston just
33:02because i thought it was a fun place to live no connection to houston none i love it and it's
33:07beautiful if i moved i wouldn't even think about it it would just be something just a little blip in
33:13my life my mom my dad my brother my sister two of my children and your grandkids i'm a northwest girl
33:20i know i know so it wouldn't take a lot of cajoling to no okay i'm just enjoying it now because this is
33:26something to do seems like leslie is not married to houston so the distance thing would never be an
33:34issue ideally she would move back to seattle area that would be ideal uh but we'll just have to wait
33:42and see so what do you think about all these other couples blake and cammy that's an easy one to start
33:48with because they live in the same town i mean it's pretty hard to mess that up you know when you
33:54they have the music the connection all that moving on alan my roommate then raz may they've known each
34:02other since the seventh grade i'm not seeing a big spark there but they're reserved they can still
34:09be reserved and you can detect a look in their eye or something and i'm i'm sorry i don't see it
34:16you know i mean i'm not exactly you know dr ruth here but i i
34:20so shakira and mateen they are like the same person because they're both they kind of are cute
34:30their personalities the way he looks at hers he loves everything about her he gets her yeah i'd agree
34:38but how they're gonna blend you know their families how is that gonna look could be a deal breaker
34:44calvin and autumn i believe they dated about six or seven months i think they're both adorable
34:49i think they're a super cute couple yeah they don't really have an opinion i could see that happening
34:54anyway this was amazing and these flowers i'm gonna save them for i mean i'm gonna i'm gonna take a
35:00picture you take a picture just like the sweetest thing anyone's ever done oh oh no okay it's been an
35:06awfully long time before i've had any romance i know i know and this is so beautiful
35:12what i'm not crying you know i cry please don't cry i'm not gonna cry i promise yeah when you cried
35:20in the store the other day that really embarrassed me when we broke up or as you like to say i dumped
35:25you i am profoundly sorry i'm not gonna make the same mistake twice don't be so okay thank you
35:35you're welcome as if it didn't embarrass me that in the middle of a retail store you decided to say
35:43like the most deep heavy thing it was beautiful looking into his eyes the entire world stops it was
35:51like the world was gone it seemed like we were just staring at each other for hours that i i can't i
35:57cannot explain it there i don't think a word i don't even think there is an english word for what i
36:03was experiencing we were in a good mood if you don't speak good time to she'll take it well i've
36:09loved paul since i was 19 years old he broke my heart but um you know that's that's just part of life
36:18i regret what happened between us so many years ago i didn't mean to hurt her and i certainly won't do it
36:25again oh okay wow let's go to bed excuse me i mean you know i'm gonna go so forward in our separate
36:35what in our separate rooms he's feeling it and he's feeling it on his own it's not because we're
36:42in the most romantic place in the world i think the love that leslie and i had 45 years ago definitely uh
36:50lends herself to a pretty good foundation going forward shall we yes okay oh my gosh this is just
36:57wonderful paul i want him in my life i love it it doesn't get more any more romantic than this
37:03i don't think i want to entertain dating anyone else it's paul or bust you are very lovable okay sweetie
37:11oh my god that's it you're trying to be lovable i get it okay i'm so trying
37:25oh my goodness how's it going much better now how are you doing amazing what an amazing day so
37:54peaceful yeah yeah we've been in this experience for a while we've had you know a lot of time to kind
38:01of talk about things and you know do things together and go on dates and all that yeah
38:11for me i definitely you know um i'm looking for a partner someone to spend my life with
38:18i i think you're amazing i think you're beautiful i love the way that you show up in the world
38:23but you know we should probably talk about compatibility if you want me to be quite honest
38:30i don't really feel like you like you really want to be with me
38:36what makes you say that i don't think that you would be satisfied with me so you're you're saying
38:42that you don't think that you're what i want if your reason for not wanting to be with me is because
38:49you don't feel like i want to be with you that is confusing no it has to be
38:55i have to laugh at that for a second but it doesn't feel like you want to be with me i don't
39:01feel like you really want to be with me like i invited you here i know you invited me i invited
39:06you here this experience we're in this you know beautiful resort and we've flown across the world and i
39:14made this big effort to try to like you know yeah connect with you if that doesn't signal to you
39:20that you know i want to kind of see if we can explore something i don't know what will because
39:26this is all i got yeah i mean i also don't want to cross that line and you know ruin our friendship
39:33i don't want to risk us not ever being in each other's lives because we tried something and once
39:40you cross that line it's like you can't go back because i'm not friends with my ex-boyfriends i'm
39:46not friends with my ex-husband you're special to me in my life i'm treading carefully
39:56like not worth it for me to lose somebody special in my life just because
40:01that's really sweet i would never want to lose alan from my life this is very sensitive because like
40:13i've already lost so many people in my life already i don't want to risk losing you period period i don't
40:22want to lose any more people out of my life i've lost enough i miss my parents every day
40:27you know maybe other people would know right away but for me it would take time especially
40:36we're going to be together as friends but i can have you forever then that's what i want
40:42it sounds like it's unlikely that you're ever going to want to take that chance maybe not
40:47we got a talent show yes all the troubles we created something together i have one for you
41:01you have one for me back in love you just gotta do it leave no stone unturned that feeling that i
41:09get when i see you i can't ignore that i'm telling everyone exactly how i feel about her even if you
41:15don't feel the same man i shed a couple tears how was your trip it was good that's good what i'm doing
41:25i feel like i'm in the twilight zone
41:45so
41:55you
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