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90 Day Diaries - Season 7 Episode 9 - Dear Diary, I Have Mommy Issues
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00:00Here we are. Say hello, papa. It's balloons. Brennan, look. Do you team the boy or girl?
00:18I team the boy. Because your boobies could bite. Oh my goodness, no. I'm finally having
00:26my breast reduction surgery. And there's so much that could go wrong. I want to keep my nipple
00:32sensation. Well, you know that it's always just a risk. You know, there's a risk that you could
00:36lose it, but the nerves are so small. Brennan, your mom not grandmother material. Your dad
00:44or grandfather material. Your mom not. Today is supposed to be a special day. We are getting
00:50ready for the baby shower, but of course my mother-in-law is trying to ruin. What the
00:54even my baby shower, she has to have turtles and make everything his length now. What can
01:00we do? Tell them to not come. No, no. Don't come. You attacked Ashley at the tell-all and
01:09felt like you owe her an apology. No, I don't. I don't owe her nothing. She owes me an apology.
01:14You're supposed to be the bigger person. I am. She's very tiny. I'm not going to sit here
01:19and let my parents disrespect my girlfriend to my face. Well, you're mean with a nasty attitude
01:25and a smart mouth. So maybe you and Ashley belong together.
01:28Say hello, pop-ups. Hi. Here we are at the party park. I'm Chantel. I'm 34 years old and I'm from
01:57Atlanta, Georgia. I'm Ashley. I'm 36 and I'm from Weedowie, Alabama. All right. Here we go.
02:06Got puppers. Little babies. Ashley and I have been dating for one year now and we're just joint
02:14at the hip all the time. That includes taking a bath together. Yes, taking a bath together,
02:21taking a shower together. Do you guys like it right here? Do you like it right here? Say yes.
02:30All right. I guess I'll take them out then. Is that okay? Sure.
02:35My 90-day journey began when I married Pedro from the Dominican Republic.
02:40I pronounce that they are husband and wife. You may kiss your bride.
02:46But things didn't go well when our families didn't get along.
02:56Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
02:57Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
02:58Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
02:59Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.
03:00What you say?
03:00What you say?
03:01What you talking about?
03:02What's up?
03:03What's up?
03:04Hey!
03:05Hey!
03:06Hey!
03:07Hey!
03:08Hey!
03:09Hey!
03:10Hey!
03:11Hey!
03:12How you do that?
03:13I was always in the middle, and it took a toll on our marriage,
03:16and we divorced.
03:18I started dating again, and things were really rocky.
03:21I tried finding love in Greece.
03:25I even went on a singles retreat in Mexico.
03:28What would your ex say about you?
03:30Where's my money?
03:31Did you pay for the money?
03:33I took my money out of the bank account.
03:35It was yours, right, I believe.
03:38But nothing really stuck.
03:40Finally, I found love right in Atlanta with Ashley.
03:46So happy.
03:49The relationship I had with Ashley early on
03:52was strictly friends, like platonic.
03:57And it took a turn one drunken night
04:00when you told me that you had romantic feelings for me.
04:05And then my whole world was open to a whole world
04:08of possibilities that I didn't knew that existed.
04:11It's been so nice.
04:13I've actually been, plus all the sex we're having.
04:19Ashley's been living with me for an entire year now.
04:22And it's been going really well.
04:24It just feels good.
04:25Feels right.
04:28You look nice, by the way.
04:31I'll look a lot nicer once I get my breast reduction,
04:34because then I won't have, like, a supersonic bra
04:36showing out the side.
04:38Yeah, your big day is coming up.
04:41Oh, man.
04:43Tomorrow, I'm finally having my breast reduction surgery.
04:47I decided to get a breast reduction because I have a size L,
04:53boobs, which are, by the way, 100% natural.
04:57And as a nurse who works 12 hours a day on her feet,
05:03my back is killing me.
05:05I also feel like I'm always sexualized or not taken seriously
05:09because of my big boobs.
05:11And I've battled with it for so long.
05:16Now I think that this, it's time.
05:21It's crazy that this is finally happening.
05:23Oh.
05:24It's your boobies goodbye.
05:26Oh, my goodness, no.
05:28I'm going to be crying.
05:29I'm going to be so upset that I don't have my pillows.
05:32Yeah.
05:33You're going to have to use a real pillow.
05:35I'm going to miss them a lot.
05:37Really?
05:37It's OK, though.
05:38It's OK.
05:39Show me for a better back.
05:41Do you want to do first position?
05:43OK, so we have different positions that we sleep in,
05:45and we call it first position, second position,
05:48third position.
05:48So all because of these boobs.
05:50But I love when I sleep at night,
05:52I jack it up like this, I put my head like this,
05:55and I do this.
05:56This is first position.
05:59Don't go to sleep now.
06:01I'm so nervous.
06:03But I'm so ready, really, truly am ready.
06:07I know you are.
06:09You know I'm going to want my mom there the day of surgery.
06:16Ashley has been a friend of the family for a very long time,
06:21and everybody loved her.
06:23But now that she's in a relationship with me,
06:26everybody's acting crazy about it, like especially my mom.
06:31I brought a little something for you.
06:33Here.
06:34And what?
06:35I thought I would give suckers to the suckers.
06:38Hold up a second.
06:39I'm about to get crazy.
06:40Oh, I'm about to get crazy, too.
06:41She came here throwing trash bags,
06:43giving me suckers and calling me a sucker and .
06:47But who's the plout chaser?
06:49She came here to try to ruin what we got, right?
06:51Is that it?
06:51You're trying to ruin what we got.
06:53Who's acting crazy and ?
06:55Since the tell-all, I haven't spoken to Karen
06:57or Chantel's family.
06:58It has been very difficult, and it's made things very weird.
07:02That really made me feel .
07:06Yeah.
07:06Yeah.
07:08I know.
07:09I get it.
07:10But I want her to be a part of it in some way.
07:15I mean, I understand that's your mom,
07:17but I really don't want her there.
07:20Like, I really do not want your mom there.
07:23I just want to be there for you and relax,
07:25and I don't want to cause a scene in the hospital.
07:29One of my biggest fears is that my mom
07:32is in the waiting room with Ashley arguing
07:35while I'm being operated on.
07:37I don't want to go and be put under anesthesia with that fear.
07:44Well, we will figure it out.
07:47Don't you worry about it.
07:48Oh, my gosh.
07:49I'm really nervous.
07:49Don't worry.
07:50Don't worry.
07:51What?
07:59She was so proud of the family.
08:08So we're running late, and I've been trying to get us out the door,
08:13but we had to walk the dogs.
08:16Here we go.
08:17Bye, dogs.
08:19We love you.
08:21Oh, man.
08:23Today is my surgery,
08:24and I can't believe that it's finally here.
08:27You get in first.
08:29OK.
08:31In you go.
08:36My nerves.
08:38Your nerves?
08:39Yeah.
08:39My nerves.
08:42I called my mom to talk to her about Ashley
08:47and her being at the surgery.
08:49And I told her that I don't want her to come to the hospital
08:55when I'm having the surgery.
08:57All right.
08:59I'll see you soon.
09:00See you in a little bit.
09:02And she was not happy about it at all.
09:05But I can't risk having any unforeseen drama.
09:20So I am hooked up to my IV.
09:27I've got my bear hugger on me.
09:30Got my IV going.
09:33Hello.
09:34Hi.
09:35How are you doing?
09:36Doing well.
09:37Doing good.
09:38So I know what we've talked about.
09:39You want to be around a still a V or a double D.
09:43I want to be more like a D, whatever she can safely do
09:53and possibly keep her nipple sensation.
09:56I want to keep my nipple sensation, but I want to make it worth it.
09:59Well, you know that it's always just a risk.
10:01You know, there's a risk that you could lose it no matter how much or how long we take off.
10:05Right.
10:06But I'll do my best to kind of, you know, preserve anything that I see.
10:10The nerves are so small.
10:11So, any other questions?
10:15I think I'm okay.
10:17Okay.
10:18All right.
10:19So, yeah.
10:20So, they'll get you situated and then, you know, once you hear from me that she's in the
10:23recovery room.
10:24Okay.
10:25One thing that's really important to me is my nipple sensation and placement.
10:30I'm worried that my nipples are going to be botched, like one's higher, one's lower,
10:37or different sizes, or what if the lines are crooked, or, I don't know.
10:43There's so much that could go wrong.
10:45Thank you for being here, mom.
10:50Baby, I want to FaceTime my mom.
10:55I don't mind if I do that right now.
11:02Hi there.
11:07Hi.
11:08How's it going?
11:10So far, so good.
11:11So, when does the sardine actually start?
11:13Because I can speed up the real quick.
11:15You should not come up here.
11:17No, we don't do what you say.
11:19And never.
11:20We are the bear.
11:21You are the child.
11:22No, they only allow me to have one business.
11:25Yeah, we don't throw them out.
11:29That's right.
11:30They'll throw them out.
11:31Excuse me.
11:32I'm going to hang up.
11:33Bye, mom.
11:34Bye.
11:35Bye.
11:36See you later.
11:37Hey, we coming.
11:38That is crazy.
11:39Did you hear what my mom just said?
11:40That is ridiculous.
11:41, man.
11:43I'm stressed.
11:44They're going to end up here waiting to open the damn door,
11:46and they're there.
11:48This is the last thing that I need right now.
11:51I'm literally about to have major surgery.
11:54And now, I don't know if my mom's going to show up spontaneously
11:59in the waiting room.
12:00And getting in a fight with Ashley while I'm under anesthesia,
12:03I don't know what kind of mess I'm going to wake up to.
12:08I love you.
12:09I love you, too.
12:10We'll take really good care of her for you.
12:11Oh, I know it.
12:12I love you.
12:13See you, too.
12:14I love you.
12:15Let's do it.
12:30I can be a model.
12:32Pregnant's a model.
12:41Don't worry, I'm pregnant.
12:43No more.
12:46Really?
12:49My name is Julia.
12:50I'm 31 years old, and I'm from Russia now.
12:53I live in Norfolk, Virginia.
12:55I'm Brandon.
12:56I'm 33 years old, and I live in Norfolk, Virginia.
12:59I need to be exercising more.
13:02Oh, watch me.
13:03That is so easy to slip up.
13:05I still can do something.
13:07Wee!
13:08Wee!
13:09Wee!
13:10I'm looking good.
13:11For eight months?
13:12I mean, yeah.
13:13Yay!
13:14I'm sorry.
13:19Our 90-day journey began almost seven years ago.
13:23Julia was living in Russia at the time, and I was living in the United States.
13:26But we had a mutual friend in common, and he urged me to reach out to Julia online.
13:31Hi, love.
13:32How are you today?
13:33And we meet in person, first time after one month.
13:37And soon after that, I proposed.
13:40Julia, will you marry me?
13:43Yes.
13:44We applied for the K-1 visa, and six months later, we were approved.
13:50Go!
13:51Go, go, go, go, go!
13:53Go!
13:58And less than three months later, we got married.
14:01You may kiss your bra.
14:03Through the first few months of our marriage, we had some relationship struggles.
14:15When we, you know, first got together, we wanted to have kids.
14:18And Julia's telling me she no longer does.
14:22When they say, like, I don't want kids, two years ago, I take whole facility tests.
14:29And them say, I can't have kids.
14:32But Brandon's trying to tell me I need second opinion in America.
14:35Yeah, absolutely.
14:36I'm not here to help.
14:37But if you're going to the doctor, if the doctor says no.
14:39That could be the possibility.
14:40You're going to leave me.
14:42No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
14:45But we made it through.
14:47And now we're entering a new happy chapter.
14:50We're having a baby.
14:56I swear to God, I'm not lying.
14:58Isn't that a joke?
15:03Oh, your heart?
15:05Yeah.
15:06And now I'm eight months alone, and I'm freaking out.
15:10We're still not ready at all for being a parent.
15:16Uh-huh.
15:17We have to go into the one-time class to figure out this brief exercise together.
15:24We need to go to a class to learn how to breathe.
15:27Yeah.
15:28I've been doing it my whole life.
15:29I'm a professional.
15:30And you just ask me.
15:32Right then.
15:33It's in and out.
15:34We have six weeks left.
15:36We're not ready for anything.
15:38And it's getting so real.
15:41We doesn't know how to hold a baby.
15:43We doesn't know how to change the address to baby.
15:45We doesn't know.
15:46How to hold it?
15:47Oh, you told me you know how to hold a baby.
15:49Yeah, you cram its head.
15:51That's a baby.
15:53What you need to do with this.
15:56You are going to be dead.
15:57You're over stressing.
15:58Head supported.
15:59It's not rocket science.
16:00I think we can figure it out.
16:01We doesn't have a room ready.
16:04We doesn't have anything set up clean.
16:07We doesn't have shoulder and car seat.
16:08Do you know they're not going to give us baby to the home if he doesn't have a car seat?
16:22We need to prepare because if we not, Brandon's mom will be overstepping and thinking that it's her baby in over control and trying to make us do everything what you want, like usual.
16:33I can talk to a doctor.
16:35I can help go with you if you want to make sure that, you know.
16:38No, I mean, that is our situation.
16:40Yeah, but you need somebody to help.
16:41No, I don't want.
16:42No, we're family.
16:44We need to be independent.
16:46I know.
16:47And your mom has to be a supporting role, not be a role in a mom.
16:51Got it.
16:52Your mom has to have biology.
16:54That's what we need to do.
16:55I have to be a controlling one.
16:57Mm-hmm.
16:58Your mom not grandmother material.
17:02Your dad or grandfather material.
17:06Yeah, for sure.
17:07Your mom not.
17:08I survived, didn't I?
17:10Yes, because you're dead.
17:12Grandmother to me is a person who will be respecting your bungee and helping when...
17:20they need it.
17:22I guess I'm like, Betsy come and tell me, like, I doesn't know what I'm going to do.
17:26This is why Brandon have to sit down and talk about bungees and tell her to stand back a little bit.
17:32I know Betsy will be probably freaking out, but this conversation has to be happening.
17:37Oh, my God.
17:38I guess I can imagine it's going to be like a nightmare.
17:40It's going to be a nightmare.
17:41It's going to be a nightmare.
17:42Because I don't want to make, I don't want to make the same mistake.
17:52Hello, hello.
17:53Hi.
17:54Hello, hello.
17:55Hi.
17:56Our favorite store in the world.
17:59Hi.
18:00Hi, guys.
18:01Today, we are at our friend Nikki and Drew's jewelry shop because Julia has just learned what a push present is.
18:07In Russia, I never heard about this before.
18:09I saw on TV somebody talking about a push present.
18:13This is how I learned.
18:14I don't hear a lot of American traditions, but this one, I love it.
18:19No more TV for you.
18:22Push give.
18:24Did you know about this tradition?
18:26Yes, very typical.
18:27I didn't know about that.
18:29Nikki can show you different stuff and see if Brandon can step up to the plate.
18:33I think your push present should be an epidural.
18:39Let's go.
18:40Nikki, show me something.
18:42Julia has rejected every other American tradition.
18:45She doesn't want to know the gender.
18:47She doesn't want to have a baby shower.
18:50In Russia, it's superstition.
18:53Don't celebrate baby if it's not gone.
18:56But when the tradition involves getting something shiny and expensive, of course, she's all for it.
19:04Look at that.
19:05That's pretty.
19:06I told Julia that we could at least look at some jewelry today, but I'm not making any promises.
19:12Let me see what I can get you.
19:15Oh, no.
19:16Oh, no.
19:17Oh, no.
19:18Oh, no.
19:19I mean, I give you example, and you can come and surprise me after.
19:24Okay.
19:25Take the notes.
19:26Right.
19:27We got you got the new tools in the workshop.
19:28Oh, yeah, man stuff.
19:29Let's do it.
19:30Okay, man stuff.
19:31I'm probably going to play computer game.
19:34Girl, are you ready for the baby?
19:36I am not ready for the baby.
19:38We are like six weeks away.
19:41We doesn't have a name.
19:42We doesn't buy anything.
19:44I'm like, I'm just frustrated about everything.
19:47I know you possibly don't want to do the baby shower, but I really feel like you should,
19:53because you'll get lots of diapers, clothes, like maybe even like a car seat or stroller,
19:58and then you wouldn't have to worry about getting those things.
20:00Okay, but that is not like something like superstition here in America.
20:05No, no, no.
20:06It's just like a small get together with family, friends.
20:08We're just going to eat, and then we're going to shower you with some gifts.
20:11I mean, but who should come to this baby shower?
20:14Whoever you want.
20:15I'm going to leave that to you.
20:16You know, if you don't want to invite Buddy, you're wrong.
20:19She'll take over.
20:21Yeah, she'll be safe for sure.
20:23She should know before, a couple of days.
20:25A couple of days before, okay.
20:27Nikki gave a good point.
20:29We does need all this stuff.
20:31And no way Brandon will have the time to get everything before baby arrives.
20:36I'm going to ignore the session superstition for now,
20:39because we need all this help.
20:42Buddy, I'm fine if she'll go there, but I want she to be involved for this.
20:46I just have a lot on my head right now,
20:49and I just hope this will eliminate our stress.
20:53Put this in the safe.
20:54It's literally going in the safe.
20:56Bye guys, love you.
20:57Bye.
20:58We never back, back, back, back down.
21:05No turning back, back, back, back down.
21:09Good morning, everybody.
21:11Good morning from Inalo.
21:13Yay, we have a baby shower today.
21:16I'm a little scared, excited.
21:19Julia, what do you think about this?
21:20That's what you want to wear into the baby shower.
21:25Yeah, it's somebody's favorite color.
21:27It's your mom's favorite color.
21:29No.
21:30We can both be purple.
21:31No, that is my pajamas.
21:33We can be the purple kids.
21:35No.
21:36It's been a bit of a crazy morning.
21:39We've been a little stressed and trying to get everything ready to get out the door.
21:43What about this?
21:44I don't think it's, uh...
21:45No?
21:46I don't think that's right, no.
21:47Why?
21:48What about this?
21:49Because you're not going to the club, girl.
21:50I'm excited for our party, but I'm just anxious Betty and Ron will be there, and I hope they're not going to create any teen drama there.
21:59I think you're excited to get gifts.
22:02Sure.
22:04Let me call my parents, see if they're on the way yet.
22:08Hey, what's going on?
22:09Not much.
22:10Just wondering how you're progressing this morning.
22:13We're just picking an ice up, and we're on our way.
22:16So we'll be there an hour and 20 now.
22:18An hour and 20?
22:19Yes.
22:21Okay.
22:22All right.
22:24All right.
22:25Bye.
22:26What the ?
22:28Even my baby shower, she has to have her rules and make everything as late now.
22:32We told them the time, and them are not coming, like, exactly the time we asked.
22:37They'd be asking five times.
22:39I know.
22:40Come for this time.
22:41Calm down.
22:42It's...what can we do?
22:43Tell them to not come.
22:45No.
22:46Too late.
22:47Too late.
22:48Doesn't need to come to my baby shower.
22:49Julia.
22:50Don't come.
22:54I know, Nala.
22:58I know.
22:59That's a long time for me.
23:00I know.
23:01I know.
23:02I know.
23:03I know.
23:04I know.
23:05I know.
23:06I know.
23:07Chantel's going through with her breast reduction surgery procedure right now, so I'm a little
23:30nervous.
23:34Guess we'll see what happens.
23:37All right, we're all finished, Chantel.
23:46How do you feel?
23:48I feel a little nervous.
23:49I feel right.
23:51You feel sleepy.
23:53Get your rest.
23:54We'll check in later.
23:55The surgeon just came and talked to me.
23:57Everything went very well.
23:59Oh, my goodness.
23:59I'm so happy to hear that.
24:01Can't wait to have her in my arms and take her home.
24:04My poor baby.
24:05Can't wait.
24:06I'm so excited.
24:06Yes.
24:13How are you feeling?
24:14I feel very sore underneath my breast.
24:19I have to be bad, though.
24:21Okay.
24:22Well, let's get you in this wheelchair and we're heading home, okay?
24:25I love you, baby.
24:26I love you, too.
24:26My back is so good right now.
24:37So she took three pounds off of one side and 2.3 off the other.
24:42That's like six pounds off of just boobs.
24:45And you still have plenty there.
24:47Because I still want to be sexy.
24:50Baby.
24:54Did my mom show up?
24:56No, thank God.
24:58Not today.
25:00Or maybe I should say, not today, Satan.
25:01Like, that's the right one to talk to.
25:04Not today, Satan.
25:06Tomorrow, maybe, but not today.
25:08Yeah, not today.
25:16All right, baby.
25:18Let's change all those drains.
25:19It's been two days since my surgery, and every hour, I have to check to see how much fluid
25:33is coming out of my drains and keep a log of it so that we prevent infection and speed
25:38up the wound healing.
25:40It's the same.
25:41Great.
25:42It's got some 20 on those legs.
25:43Mm-hmm.
25:44All right.
25:46Let's see how fast this sucker's been within 12 hours.
25:49I like the smile that I put on you.
25:56It sure looks good to you.
25:58Ooh, yeah, yeah.
26:07Hello.
26:08Hi.
26:09Hello, amigo.
26:10Hola.
26:10Thank you for coming.
26:12Don't hug hard.
26:13I can't.
26:14I know.
26:16It's been three days since surgery, and I'm having my mom and dad over because they
26:21haven't seen me this whole time I've been recovering.
26:24Ashley wasn't ready to be in the same room as my mom, so she went out for a very long walk.
26:29I brought you some clam chowder.
26:34I hate that Ashley feels like she has to leave her own home, so I'm hoping that I can
26:39talk some sense into my mom today.
26:41Why are you so happy, Chloe?
26:43Of course.
26:44We brought you all your mail.
26:47Yes.
26:47And then something a little special.
26:50A good little wild pass.
26:51There he is.
26:52There's her friend to help you recover.
26:54Yeah, that is my little bear friend.
26:57Yeah, give him a sweet.
26:58I love him.
26:59You guys are so sweet.
27:01She's so happy.
27:03I see that everything turned out just fine, but I wish I could have been there with you,
27:10for you.
27:11Yes, because, you know, I took off work.
27:13He did.
27:14He took off work.
27:14I took off work to come to your appointment with you.
27:18Oh, they got there.
27:48No, I don't.
27:49I don't owe her nothing.
27:50She owes me an apology.
27:51You're supposed to be the bigger person.
27:53I am.
27:54She's very tiny.
27:58All you want to do is use your displaced emotions about Pedro towards Ashley.
28:03I'm seeing the same patterns in you.
28:06In me?
28:06Uh-huh.
28:07As I did with my failed marriage.
28:09Lord, you mean the failed marriage to Pedro that scammed you to get into this country?
28:14There is similar to the same situation that someone is trying to look for a come-up.
28:21The same, the same, the same.
28:24I don't want to discuss Ashley with you.
28:32Well, why are you acting nasty towards me?
28:34I brought you soup.
28:34I brought you presents.
28:35And you're up here talking about it like that.
28:37You and Ashley might deserve each other.
28:39And I'm not saying that in a mean way.
28:41And what's that supposed to mean?
28:41Well, you're mean with a nasty attitude and a smart mouth.
28:44So maybe you and Ashley belong together.
28:47It might be time for you to go.
28:49I think it might be.
28:50And I'm just going to help you change your drains.
28:53I'm not going to sit here and let my parents disrespect my girlfriend to my face.
28:59And I'm certainly not going to let them disrespect me in my own home.
29:03I love my family, but I don't want them to ruin another one of my relationships.
29:09I honestly, I don't know what to do.
29:12No, dog.
29:15Love you, beast.
29:33So this day is already not great.
29:41My parents are going to be late.
29:43And Julia is already in a bad mood.
29:47But we need to get to the shower, Julia.
29:51Be a good girl, Fluffy.
29:54Make friends.
29:55Make good choices.
29:57Today is supposed to be a special day.
29:59We are getting ready for the baby shower.
30:01But, of course, my mother-in-law already trying to ruin.
30:06So we're on our way to the baby shower.
30:09Everything is intense already.
30:11My parents, again, decide what they want.
30:15And they don't want to follow any rules.
30:18I ask them to come specifically time.
30:20And now they're late.
30:21So everything is already being off the plan and disaster.
30:26It's already so stressful.
30:28And I already don't want to if I want to do this.
30:30Everything is going to be fine.
30:32Just calm down and relax.
30:34Just like you're having the baby.
30:36Just breathe in and out.
30:39Do you think that is how it will be?
30:41I think it will help.
30:43Can't hurt.
30:45So we arrive and it's balloons.
30:48It's balloons.
30:49Brennan, look.
30:50Do you team the boy or girl?
30:52They don't know.
30:54I team the boy.
30:55You can see.
30:57Baby creature Gibbs.
30:58Oh, my God.
30:59This is so funny.
31:08Oh, my God.
31:10Hi.
31:13You look beautiful.
31:15You too.
31:16Hi, guys.
31:18I'm going to be a daddy.
31:24Daddy to be.
31:25Dadacita.
31:27Dadacita.
31:28I doesn't have a look because Brennan's parents are late.
31:32They're not here.
31:33So I'm so pissed.
31:36Are you okay?
31:40Thank you, buddy.
31:42Good to see you.
31:42All right, everyone.
31:43How are you doing?
31:44You guys are great.
31:45I'm good.
31:45Thanks.
31:45All right, let me get this stuff out.
31:48I don't know if Julia's going to like this amount, but it says,
31:50my Nona loves me.
31:52Well, you like it.
31:53That's for sure.
31:54I hope the baby's going to love me more than she loves Julia.
31:57Fuck.
31:57Stop.
31:59Betty Ron arrived late.
32:00What is typical, Betty?
32:03I hate to complain, but yes, it is probably one of the most annoying things about my mom.
32:10Okay.
32:11Hi, guys.
32:12Hi.
32:12I didn't know you're here.
32:14Oh, of course.
32:15We're trying to set up and get things ready for the food.
32:18Oh, the temperatures look beautiful.
32:21Hey, Norella.
32:22Hi, Norella.
32:23Hi, Norella.
32:24How do you set up the food?
32:26Can you go to the kitchen window?
32:27Yes, come on.
32:28Can you hand it up?
32:29Yeah, that'd be great.
32:31Is she better trying to change something in here?
32:34Did she really?
32:34I did not know this.
32:35What did she try to change?
32:36Is she trying to move some stuff?
32:38Just like that is your decoration.
32:41No, I'm going to snap if she moves it.
32:42Is she really trying to move something that should be a decoration?
32:44You're going to make the toilet paper roll?
32:47We need to go in the shower.
32:48It's like a bathroom.
32:50Betty's driving me crazy, and I worry when this baby will be arrived, it's going to be a disaster.
32:56I'm going to take this pacifier and give it to Betty.
32:58So, I'm planning to do a little prank on her today.
33:05She's been bothering us to know the gender of the baby, and she knows Brennan and I doesn't want to know.
33:13I need to make sure she knows she's going to have to stay in her lane.
33:17You team girl or boy?
33:22Girl!
33:24You team boy or girl?
33:25Girl!
33:26Say boy!
33:29Say boy!
33:31Okay, random.
33:33Okay.
33:33You ready?
33:34Okay.
33:37Are you guys going to do this now?
33:39Are we doing a reveal?
33:41Are we doing a reveal?
33:42We are doing a reveal.
33:43Okay.
33:43Are you guys ready to hit the gender?
33:45Yeah, we're running.
33:47I want to see that sound.
33:50Let's go.
33:51Let's go.
33:52Let's do it.
33:57Wait a minute.
33:58Oh, wait a minute.
34:00Let's go.
34:02Are you having wins?
34:04No.
34:05Are you having wins?
34:06You didn't.
34:07No, we decided to not doing this.
34:09No.
34:10Isla's job.
34:11Man.
34:12You brought us out here for this?
34:13We decided to do this because we...
34:16It's not ever thinking about you.
34:18What?
34:21Like, like, for real?
34:23I'm going to get your wife on.
34:25Yeah.
34:26I knew my mom was not going to take this joke well.
34:30I don't think she understood quite what we were trying to do,
34:33so now I've got to smooth things over with her.
34:36That was pretty cruel.
34:38That joke was not funny.
34:40I'm sorry.
34:43I've got to say.
34:44I don't know.
34:45She's just stressing.
34:46She's got those raging hormones.
34:47That's normal.
34:48Like, she's coming up with all these rules and everything.
34:49She's trying to set boundaries.
34:50Boundaries?
34:51For you.
34:52For me?
34:53For dad.
34:54Yeah.
34:55Like, just rules that you have to follow.
34:56And...
34:57Is this a Russian?
34:58Is this a Russian...
34:59Um, traditional thing?
35:00I think it's a Julia thing.
35:01She hasn't said anything to me about this, so...
35:02We'll see.
35:03We'll see what happens.
35:04I'm a little worried because...
35:05Brains said something about the fact that we're going to have boundaries.
35:07I still don't know what those are, but I'm going to keep myself positive and think positive
35:11and happy thoughts.
35:12That there's nothing that's going to be too invasive or restricting.
35:13Yes.
35:14Because it's going to be really disappointing and very...
35:15Yeah.
35:16No, I know.
35:17I know.
35:18If I can't, like, spend time or cuddle and love...
35:19I know.
35:20I think it's a Julia thing.
35:21I think it's a Julia thing.
35:22She hasn't said anything to me about this, so...
35:23We'll see.
35:24We'll see what happens.
35:25I'm a little worried because...
35:26Brains said something about the fact that we're going to have boundaries.
35:27I still don't know what those are, but I'm going to keep myself positive and
35:28think positive and happy thoughts.
35:29That there's nothing that's going to be too...
35:31Restricting.
35:32Yes.
35:33Because it will be really disappointing and very...
35:36Yeah.
35:37No, I know.
35:38If I can't, like, spend time or cuddle and love our new...
35:42Franchile.
35:43Franchile.
35:44Mom, we'll talk about it.
35:47Okay.
35:48That's a conversation, I guess, for another day.
35:53That's got the cake!
35:55Got the cake!
35:56No, no, no!
35:58There was a little bit of drama today with Mom, but...
36:01I mean, ultimately, I think the baby shower went well.
36:04Yeah.
36:05We're getting there.
36:07Mom?
36:08It's like a piece.
36:09It's like a piece.
36:10It's like a piece.
36:11I did have a conversation with my mom about boundaries, and she did seem to take it well.
36:16I believe it when I see it.
36:18Let's see when this baby gets here.
36:21It could be a call before a storm.
36:24That just makes me worry because I know your mom and you know your mom.
36:28God.
36:29God.
36:47I can't wait to have my drains taken out.
36:50What if she doesn't take them out today?
36:53I don't think I could go much longer with these drains, honestly.
36:57I hope you don't.
36:59After years of back pain, I finally had breast reduction surgery two weeks ago.
37:05And today is the big reveal because, honestly, I've been wearing the surgical bra this whole time.
37:11And all I've seen is my cleavage.
37:14I can't wait to take off the bandages and see what my breasts look like.
37:19I'm excited to see your boobs, baby.
37:22Me too.
37:23And also nervous.
37:25I'm scared.
37:26Yeah.
37:27I'm nervous.
37:28I'm really nervous about my nipples.
37:32I want them to be in line.
37:35I don't want one bigger or one smaller.
37:38I don't want one looking south and one looking north.
37:40Oh, let me go and pick you up.
37:43But one thing that's really important to me is my nipple sensation.
37:48Well, the nipple sensation and placement is important for me, too.
37:52Especially the sensation part.
37:54I sure hope you can feel it.
37:56Hey.
37:57Hey.
37:58How are we doing?
37:59Doing well.
38:00Yay.
38:01How have things been for you?
38:02They've been fine.
38:03Okay.
38:04Very good.
38:05Good, good, good.
38:06So, all right.
38:07Well, let's take a look here.
38:10Oh, gosh.
38:15They're so high.
38:17Oh, my nipples.
38:18Ah, yes.
38:19Nipples are nice and alive.
38:20Very good.
38:21All right.
38:22And so, and your incisions look great.
38:24You just have minimal amount of bruising.
38:26Okay.
38:27I'm going to show you so you can take a look with the mirror.
38:30Oh.
38:31Oh, my God.
38:33Oh, my God.
38:34Right?
38:35I'm in shock right now.
38:36Yay.
38:37They look so good.
38:38Oh, my God.
38:39Yes.
38:40I so love my new breasts.
38:43They look amazing.
38:44They're light.
38:45They're lifted.
38:46And my nipples are symmetrical and even.
38:50And they're cute.
38:51And I'm just so excited and so happy because now my back is really thanking me.
38:59No more back pain.
39:00Woo!
39:01My boobs look so good.
39:05They so small.
39:06They so cute.
39:07Oh, oh, oh.
39:08Look at them.
39:09Look at them.
39:10Look at them.
39:11Look at them.
39:12They don't bounce like they used to, but I like that.
39:15You know, I like that.
39:16I don't want to be hit in the face when I'm running.
39:19My boobs don't move.
39:21Hey, hey, hey.
39:22Hey, hey, hey.
39:23Hey, hey.
39:24Hey, hey.
39:25Hey, hey.
39:26Another question.
39:27The fact that I feel pins and needles, that's good.
39:30That's good.
39:31That's good.
39:32Sensation's coming back.
39:33Okay, good.
39:34Okay.
39:35What we'll do is we'll get these little drains out and then you'll really be free.
39:40I'm looking forward to the future.
39:43I'm going to be more active.
39:44I'm going to buy a whole new wardrobe and I can't wait to wear whatever I want and feel
39:51comfortable and confident in my body.
39:54They're ready for some attention hopefully soon.
39:58Hopefully soon they'll be ready for some attention.
40:01I'm so happy.
40:03I'm just so excited.
40:05That's okay.
40:06I'm not used to that.
40:08I know.
40:09I am so happy that I got the drains taken out.
40:13Oh no.
40:14Thank you for coming and supporting me and taking care of me and I just love you so much
40:21my little sweet pea.
40:22I love you too.
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