00:00I can't believe I'm gonna be 28 years old my boy Jamie who yesterday called up to
00:05wish me happy birthday and said you're turning 28 and I said yeah let's go with
00:08that I said please spread that no I'm not turning 28 not turning 28 okay it's a
00:17big one turning it's okay it's a big one embrace you got this
00:30you're 50 tomorrow I will be okay Romero come over to the dark side it's okay it is not dark it is
00:37light and beauty and not given f's and oh man I love it over here yeah whatever man I'm not there
00:48you'll be all right you'll be all right I promise you whatever you'll be all right are you really
00:54worried about it not worried but like are you really 100% I legit 100% this morning
01:01every morning you know if we see each other like we if we conversate she's like oh how's your workout
01:06and I said my last workout at 49 she goes how did it feel like I said it felt good I go I
01:10literally feel like tomorrow I'm gonna pick up a weight and blow something out
01:15sucks man but uh she's been roasting me the entire time by the way not helping at all
01:24he roasts everyone else for everything that's right I said to him if I am self-conscious about like
01:30my fingernail he finds any reason to bring up my fingernail even if it has nothing to do with
01:36anything and like the pillow talk at night is just all about how sad he is that he's turning
01:40like he's in his feelings I am I really am and I've been with you for the 40 changeover
01:4745 none of them hit you I'm a I'm a three decade kind of wife yeah yeah that's true yeah this one's
01:55hitting him but why do you think this one in particular and I'm asking this because I just
02:00turned 50 as well and I had kind of similar feelings but I think you might be getting hit a
02:04little bit harder than I did why do you think you're feeling this way that's a good question
02:11and it's because I feel like I look good I feel good right he's waiting for something there you go
02:18no no no no like good things no those are good things but it just doesn't sound good
02:25if that makes any sense okay you know saying this is what I said and it's funny because pebbles had to
02:31talk me off a ledge but this is what I said and Nicole back me up because I don't know if it's
02:36going to make sense when you hear 50 you think oh my god if I'm going to live to 100 my life is half
02:42over but think think of it this way think of how much you've accomplished in this 50 years right
02:48and now think wow I'm only half done think about it that way keep going no no because I literally
02:56just started thinking like that recently and I'm like so much more life to live and things to do
03:02okay can I okay this is a better way to explain it okay when I was young I always thought and I'll
03:08say like probably when I was in my teens early 20s I thought for some reason there was an age where
03:14you would figure out all of life and at that age and at that age I thought it was 30 and then I hit 30
03:21and I'm like yo I don't know what the hell's going on in life right now gotta be 40 and then I hit 40
03:27and I'm like yo I don't know what the hell's going on like right now in life gotta be 50 I'm 50 I'm still
03:35figuring it out but that's a good thing my kids will ask me questions and I'm like I don't know
03:40you have the rest of life to figure it out yeah that's a good thing figure it out at 50 now what
03:46what do you like go down to rest and you know that's it and then I can rest in peace like Thanos
03:52yeah yeah I can sleep now and the best thing that the I will say the best thing for me is that
03:59there and it is like you you start to think about like the halfway point or whatever but I think that
04:06brings with it a new sense of urgency yeah and it kind of like is a huge shift in your mindset where
04:15you're just like okay I need to stop around and really like the things that I always said I wanted
04:23to do or whatever like do it
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