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A mother's love runs deep and so does her wisdom. From
beauty to self-love and career, join us for a conversation with
a dynamic mother/daughter duo to discuss how excellence is
passed down from one generation to another.
beauty to self-love and career, join us for a conversation with
a dynamic mother/daughter duo to discuss how excellence is
passed down from one generation to another.
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00:00Hello, everybody! We are back, we are back, we are back!
00:13For anyone who's just joining us, I want to speak here all day.
00:17My name is Blake, and we're in the beginning style editor for Business Magazine,
00:22and thank you for joining us for the first day of a very exciting year.
00:26I love these carnivals, so if you are here, you know that this is a panel that is very, very, very near to live art.
00:36So what about the new lessons we learned, what about the future of all the lessons we learned,
00:41from our mothers in our next couple of session time?
00:45She gives you from her own love.
00:47So this next panel is special to me, not only that I give to this age of a phenomenal love and daughter,
00:54but I also get the average of the future to stay with my old mom.
01:00So, without further ado, please join me in welcoming, founder of your family and community,
01:08that Lawrence and her daughter, Jasmine's on the ground, and my old mother,
01:15who said that he was closer to me, and he's allowed me to stay with them until she didn't know me,
01:20as mesmerizing that.
01:21Yes, I think he had a prolonged down these three times a year in the first year.
01:25Yes, I walked up for you and he was making a mistake in his story.
01:28She went.
01:29No, she and she didn't feel like it was a tragedy in her childhood.
01:31Yes, and we get motor and talk to me.
01:32I said, there wasn't any other many times when a child긴 was just, no ov Reddit,
01:35Can we get, can we get to music in the IELTS, in the IELTS, in the IELTS, in the IELTS, just a little bit?
01:42This is a funny event, like the IELTS girls for us, speaking here, not from here.
01:48Do this Redsburg, do this Redsburg, do this Redsburg, do this Redsburg.
01:55Okay, well, please, please Redsburg, but in the meantime, we'll get off.
02:00So, basically, when we were backstage, we were trying to figure out how we were going to frame it.
02:06We used to do orders, decided that we were just going to interrogate our moms, not the opposite of our friends.
02:12So, that is what today's broken system.
02:15So, we had three of your children, and I'm here all the time, I know you said to me, you know, I'm not going to be friends.
02:29But now we are friends.
02:31So, I should be talking to you.
02:33I'm talking to you, friendships with your daughters.
02:36After years of helping you, one of our little friends.
02:39So, for me, it's just been one of the biggest things that I've done with, like, with all of my kids.
02:46And I've talked to them about it.
02:47But, you know, I think the things that are so easy to be frustrated with.
02:51I think they need to be in this case.
02:53Because it's just kind of like, I said, I don't know.
02:55I'm telling you this now.
02:56But, I just spent a lot of time talking to everybody.
02:59So, I just feel like it's a lot of the same.
03:02I feel like we're over time.
03:04And then, maybe I'm so comfortable talking to you.
03:07I mean, it's easy.
03:09What type of things do y'all talk about?
03:21That's a good question.
03:22Um, I guess because I love our daughters now as well.
03:26I love two daughters.
03:27Actually, that's my mom a lot of other daughters.
03:30And the things that I go through with them.
03:32And she pretty much tells me that the same things that they do.
03:35Or the things that they're in time.
03:37So, it's kind of like, for my other one and their mommy.
03:39But, that's one of the main things I go through right now.
03:42It's just my advice.
03:43And besides advice in general.
03:45Sometimes she talks to me about her boyfriend.
03:48I'm just saying, you know, I don't know.
03:51I don't know.
03:52I don't know.
03:53I don't know.
03:54Well, I don't know.
03:55You know, it's a foster relationship.
03:57I don't know.
03:58Well, I don't know.
04:00Um, I think, just from the time that you were young.
04:05I talked to you.
04:07I'm an adult.
04:08Like, excuse me, ask me a little question.
04:11I gave her a real answer.
04:13You know, I never wanted to be the mom and I kind of had to,
04:17uh, sell the sale.
04:19If you ask me a question, I gave her a real answer.
04:23Um, and so I think that she grew older.
04:26Um, we could hold her used to have just a relationship.
04:29That she could come to me and talk to me about anything.
04:31And I wasn't going to give her the real life.
04:33I wasn't going to lie to her.
04:34I wasn't going to send her COVID.
04:36I was going to say, this is how it is.
04:37And I think that she's the older.
04:40And she's going to call me and say, all right, so I don't need you to be my mom right now.
04:45I need you to be my friend.
04:47And I just had to put my friend in on.
04:49And they'd be like, who?
04:51What is she about to tell me?
04:52And sometimes you tell me that I tell you to.
04:54So, I like that.
04:55I'm going to call her.
04:56I'm going to ask.
04:57And she'll call her and say, she'll call her and say.
05:02She'll call her and say.
05:03She's hanging around.
05:04And then she tells me that.
05:06Okay, let me get some of another news.
05:08I know it's probably about to be a conversation.
05:10I love my little margin here.
05:13She'll need to share.
05:15How is raising daughter's page walker?
05:19It just makes me want it.
05:25Because now I remember my son.
05:28He loves me.
05:29He loves me.
05:30He loves me.
05:31He loves me.
05:32He loves me.
05:33He loves me.
05:34He loves me.
05:35He loves me.
05:36He loves me.
05:37And it just makes me just.
05:38He loves me.
05:39He loves me.
05:40He loves me.
05:41He loves me.
05:42He loves me.
05:43He loves me.
05:44He loves me.
05:45He loves me.
05:46He loves me.
05:47He loves me.
05:48He loves me.
05:49He loves me.
05:50And what do I know?
05:52Um.
05:53I just think.
05:54Um.
05:55I.
05:56From.
05:57For my kids.
05:58Always.
05:59Wanted to be the longer I wish I could.
06:01Um.
06:02I've had the best point of working on this place.
06:05And.
06:06Um.
06:07So I think I have become a better person.
06:10And just trying to be the best mother for them.
06:13And a better mother for them than the life that I had.
06:16So I hope I'm harder.
06:18I hope I become a better person.
06:20And I think you could just be the best.
06:21Did you guys share?
06:22That's why it's a fun show.
06:23This is the biggest.
06:25And the wildest daughters.
06:27Especially for those teenage years.
06:29Yeah.
06:30That are not men on track.
06:31Or women's right.
06:32Whether or not.
06:33Life is for summer.
06:35a story and it's funny because you want to make it
06:38something cheesy or something that she did
06:42she wrote a certain way about it not a long time
06:45or just it or one side of funny story
06:48so I remember I've always
06:51been in my family stories and I did when I was 12
06:5415 years old and so I've always
06:58been in my family stories and things that I've done
07:00I saw a lot more when I was a kid
07:03and I remember when I was a kid
07:06old and when I was a kid
07:08and so you're out and found a very successful
07:12dog that was just a little
07:14I wanted to go
07:15of course it's not even a little
07:18but it's just a little more
07:19and it's not even a little
07:21to the main door
07:23it's just a little
07:24you are the phone
07:27and the phone is behind me
07:29and the rest of the reason for the phone
07:32I just got the thing called so much better
07:34I just see the phone in the car
07:37because of all those clothes
07:38and the rest of the car
07:39and the rest of the car
07:41and the rest of the car
07:42cause me or something here
07:44so anyway
07:44she does
07:46and she doesn't show up
07:47with the car
07:48so what kind of goes
07:50is how much she drives me
07:52and how soon my daughter was
07:53that I've never done anything
07:55who said that she won't even
07:56expect me to do something like that
07:57and what's up
07:58and how soon I was a little
07:59and what did I do
08:01I just told you
08:02and I said I didn't make it
08:06and then do it again
08:08and it was very embarrassing
08:09she actually drives me down
08:10and she was willing to get me
08:13when I got home
08:14and I thought I'd seen
08:14but it's my little picture
08:15on the laptop
08:16so I was just shaking
08:18like that's a shadow
08:19and he scared me
08:20and I swear I'm never going to be
08:21and what did I do
08:23so I said
08:24and she's like
08:25well
08:25she's like
08:28no
08:28she kind of
08:31came into the world
08:32I could take credit for it
08:34but she was like
08:35just the only form
08:36like dogs
08:37when she came into the world
08:39and no
08:40and I am proud
08:43and thrilled
08:44that I did
08:45like you say
08:45I always think
08:46that the majority
08:48of the things
08:49like dogs
08:50I do
08:51approve her
08:53you know
08:53I mean
08:54I might not have necessarily
08:55done it
08:56the way that she did
08:57to get to the result
08:58that she got
08:59but she's just always
09:00really amazing
09:01and like
09:01this sort of
09:02how she's
09:03um
09:04this sort of
09:05how she's
09:06yes
09:06because she knows
09:07it can be
09:08one point
09:08it can be
09:09one point
09:09and a half
09:10the woman
09:10at the house
09:11is like a piece of it
09:12because she's the king
09:13and I'm going to
09:14see if you want
09:15to pay your bills
09:16and I will play
09:17if you were like
09:17we're supposed to do this
09:18but
09:19you know
09:20the smart mom
09:20was in that
09:21I mean
09:21she really
09:22she didn't steal things
09:23she didn't
09:24drink a lot
09:24she didn't
09:25screw
09:25she
09:26I'm one of the
09:27good friends
09:27in the race
09:28you know
09:29she was really
09:30easier race
09:31the other one
09:32he's always
09:33so cute
09:33it's always
09:35fun
09:35it's always
09:36fun
09:37it's always
09:37fun
09:37it is
09:38and now
09:38she's watching
09:39your mom
09:40helps you
09:41in your business
09:42levels
09:43and helps you
09:44as a business
09:45so yeah
09:47all in the
09:48with my mom
09:48my entrepreneurship
09:49was pretty much
09:50the only piece of us
09:51and all in the
09:52so I've never seen
09:54myself doing anything
09:55else
09:55so my mom
09:57basically started
09:58in infinity
09:58when I was
09:59in middle school
10:00down on the tree
10:01so I saw
10:02from the ground
10:04she started
10:06with infinity
10:06first
10:07and then
10:08she also
10:09launched
10:09infinity
10:10and
10:11I've seen
10:12the success
10:12of that
10:13I've seen
10:13the success
10:13of that
10:14you know
10:15I just have
10:15a lot of
10:16benefits
10:16when I
10:17because of
10:17these businesses
10:18and my business
10:19have been
10:19benefits
10:20because of it
10:21so it's just
10:21always been a
10:22wonderful
10:22fanboy for me
10:23and then
10:24when I put
10:25my eyes
10:25and came
10:26I ended up
10:26to try my
10:27first daughter
10:28I just
10:29think of
10:29my first
10:30business
10:30myself
10:31and it was
10:32explained
10:32about my
10:33pregnancy
10:33and my kids
10:34and I got to
10:35sit down
10:35for my mom
10:35as well
10:36because she
10:36says that
10:37I know
10:37your players
10:37are a
10:38infinity business
10:38so
10:40obviously
10:41she just
10:41sold to the
10:42roles
10:42she
10:42owned her
10:43business
10:44pretty much
10:44everything
10:45and
10:45I don't know
10:46she's just
10:47like the biggest
10:47inspiration for me
10:48and I think
10:49to see a lot
10:50of all those
10:50stories
10:51a little bit
10:51different
10:51with a very
10:52different
10:52pair of pads
10:53and I don't
10:55think she
10:55really understood
10:56my pair of pads
10:57in the beginning
10:58like I think
10:59going to be
10:59planned to hear
11:00and saying
11:01that she
11:01would want to
11:02write about
11:02beauty bottoms
11:03all day
11:04besides the
11:05little
11:06difficulties
11:06that she
11:07told me
11:07that if
11:08I don't
11:08like
11:08how much
11:09she
11:09realized
11:10in her
11:10career
11:11and I
11:11will never
11:11forget
11:12I had that
11:13one argument
11:14in my
11:14department
11:15and I
11:16told her
11:16to get out
11:17while I
11:17never
11:17done
11:17it
11:18I
11:18said
11:18she
11:19told me
11:19this
11:19so
11:20I
11:20took
11:20on my
11:21apartment
11:21and when I
11:22got this
11:23message
11:23down
11:23she said
11:24I missed
11:25to
11:25something
11:26about
11:26you
11:26and
11:27she
11:28was like
11:29I
11:29need
11:29you
11:30want a
11:31smaller
11:31I
11:32can't
11:32in
11:32you
11:33on
11:33on
11:34there
11:34are
11:35you
11:35can't
11:35I
11:36can't
11:37I
11:37can't
11:38hear
11:38it
11:39you
11:40can't
11:41talk
11:41I
11:43can't
11:43hear
11:43you
11:43can't
11:44me
11:45you
11:46And as an advice that you all would give to others, I wish you had a little foster range of staying relationships like we have with their daughters.
11:55And to me, one thing is that I think it's too serious because I've had my role in China.
12:01But I think it's a lot of people, you know, because I'm just thinking about me, because I think it's going to be those times when I'm just sitting with a sister.
12:10And I think it's a really good idea. Chapter 8, I think I'm kind of a small one of the women that they will be putting this morning in which you had to go to several homes.
12:22And sometimes they're going to talk to me and say, you know, like, I think they're, you know, maybe they're better than them.
12:29And I think it's all the time because they don't feel like you're going to judge them.
12:34Or, you know, what it says, they don't feel like they don't feel like they're going to judge them.
12:38And they don't feel like they're going to come to you.
12:39And it means they need to be insecure or not.
12:42Is it better to say it?
12:44You're not.
12:46I think just know your child.
12:49Because every child is different.
12:51And I think the way you raise one is not necessarily the way you raise another one.
12:55You kind of have to know what this means as opposed to what this means.
13:00And like I said, with Blake, I was kind of pissed off.
13:06And she made a lot of good decisions.
13:09But unlike you, I like my family.
13:13And I'm not talking like that sounds like a really horrible suggestion.
13:17I don't know why you're going to do that.
13:19But I know you're going to, I just want to walk away from the city.
13:22And I don't think that's going to turn out the way you think.
13:26What happened, girl?
13:28Because you raised me the way I knew.
13:30And I did that.
13:31Yeah.
13:32I knew it wasn't too high.
13:33That is what I feel to be able to do.
13:35And I knew it.
13:37And she will come back and say, you were right now.
13:39And that was the one.
13:40Or if I was selfish and say, girl, you were right.
13:43I stand corrected.
13:44And she doesn't say that.
13:45I do.
13:46I want to tell you more than all things.
13:48And it's going to be more on it now.
13:51And you guys are curious.
13:53What is the dynamic?
13:54What more were you doing?
13:56How is the dynamic with your granddaughters different than it does your dynamic with jazz?
14:02It's so fun.
14:04And you know, in the 1913, the oil can play one off.
14:11And I was looking for the play when you do stuff.
14:13I was working to go for it.
14:16And I wanted to be told that it doesn't sign.
14:21And I was looking for some people.
14:22But there was a match where I was with the kids and dogs.
14:26These dogs have been closest to my sin.
14:29How have you been to be an angel?
14:30So I was looking for.
14:31And I was looking for a library and this girl, something else....
14:34He told them to be welcome.
14:35And he told us this.
14:36So I'm going to be here on the internet.
14:38This is just incredible now.
14:39And what I'm trying to say is,
14:40But I'm just going to be so happy.
14:42We'll tell you what I'm going to be doing.
14:44I'm going to be doing it.
14:45And if I can't do it,
14:46we'll take a picture of what we're going to be doing.
14:47And how has it been crazy for us?
14:50And it is.
14:51There is so funny, like,
14:53Like, there's a lot of explanation that you also drive me crazy.
14:56Because they're so cute.
14:59They're so cute.
15:00I just mean a little bit.
15:01But they're so like, easy. They're definitely one of these girls. Like, they need to be.
15:06They don't know what's happening all the time to the day. So it's like, I don't get a break.
15:10And it's just like, my older one and my younger one, they just fight. Like, they make my attention.
15:15They fight with each other. And I also like, when they like, just play with each other.
15:20Like, love with each other. Like, they really love each other. So it's just really beautiful.
15:25Being that experienced. I love that. They get to grow with each other. And it's just really cool to watch.
15:30And people can think that they adopt an entrepreneurial spirit.
15:34That's true. That's true, right?
15:36Definitely. Oh, my God. Yes, definitely.
15:39I definitely see them doing, like, some type of business or such media.
15:43Definitely something like that. Even in my family.
15:46And, you know, what are you all to use as mothers right now?
15:50From us as teachers and girls, women that raise kids and have been, what are you,
15:56or are you starting to lose experiences?
15:58And the fact that it's helpful for my mother is just a baby.
16:01It's not something about being in my home. It's just so beautiful.
16:05I like to do things. Because they have to be there.
16:08And if you're up right now, or when it's up to the level,
16:11or what are you doing?
16:12As a mother, as a mother, as a mother, as a mother, as a mother, as a mother, as a mother,
16:14as a mother, as a mother, as a mother, as a mother, as a mother, as a mother, as a mother.
16:15We all get along. We live together. We get together. We get together.
16:19We get together. We get together.
16:20And it's just, it's just very easy to live in.
16:24And I just think it gives you to be a whole person.
16:29I just want you to live on your way.
16:32I think for a long time, she used to kind of say,
16:36You know, I want my life to be with yours. I want to do things the way you do.
16:43I think I'm a relationship person.
16:45You know, I, you know, I met, I love my wife at 19.
16:49And we've been together for 35 years.
16:51And I think you're not, you know, I'm 30.
16:53I don't think you're not that easy.
16:55I don't know.
16:56The other one is, and I just kind of told her, you know,
17:00your life is not going to be like my life.
17:02When you will still be happy and fulfilling for you in the way you live in.
17:07And I know I, I wish that some of the experiences that you've had,
17:12that I've had for you.
17:13When I got married, and I had her when I was 26 and 8,
17:17my sex child I had when I was 28.
17:20And then I was, it's all I'm looking.
17:23Maybe she's the one now, and I wish I could have done the way she's.
17:26So I just want her to live her life in the way that will make her happy,
17:30and not the way she's always.
17:32But she grew a very young age.
17:34But she had everything planned out.
17:37Thinking was so good.
17:39This age, this is going to happen.
17:41This age, this is going to happen.
17:43And I think that she was a little high sick,
17:46and some of them didn't have the change you wanted.
17:48And I was like, but it's okay.
17:50You're, you're living a wonderful life,
17:52and you're doing amazing things, and you're a beautiful and dying person.
17:56That's all good.
17:58I want to dance on this stage.
18:00I know, I know, sometimes for you,
18:05you know, but it's in your, you're raising these words,
18:08and you're instilling in them, you know,
18:10please, what is the biggest lesson that your mom has taught you to instill in your words?
18:15Yes.
18:17This is a really good question.
18:19Because I feel like there's so many lessons that my mom has instilled in me.
18:23But, I guess the biggest one that I would instill to my daughter is looking to just treat people the way that people want to be treated.
18:31You know, the things that we heard like kindergarten,
18:33it really does run through even when you're an adult.
18:36You know, just treat people the way that you don't want to be treated.
18:38And it's just like, people remember the way that you make them feel.
18:42And I think that that's the most important.
18:44It doesn't matter, like, how you look, like, what you do for a living.
18:47Like, I think the most important thing is, you know, what kind of person you are.
18:52What kind of legacy are you going to live?
18:54What kind are you talking?
18:55What kind are you going to remember you?
18:56I think that's the biggest thing that I would like to consider, if not my daughter is.
19:00And from all of the times that you survived, does it get to times the way that you weren't seeing a lot of people in their lives.
19:06Yes.
19:07So, what are the things that she walked in for self-care?
19:10It's needed to kind of recenter, because I think that's important to my, like, smaller mothers and smaller mothers and smaller mothers and smaller mothers and that's theirs.
19:20So, especially during times like these where there's so much uncertainty and so on, it's like that.
19:25How should I prioritize self-care, while also prioritize thinking of others and putting others in their lives or so on?
19:32Well, for me, I'm getting some time for now, too.
19:38Because it can be easy.
19:39Because otherwise, moving on to the things that they can be, and I think, when I don't know, it just becomes grace.
19:45So, it's an important issue.
19:47So, I have, you know, even like several things where I live on the phone when I'm scared.
19:53For certain periods of time, I'm able to say that I don't have anywhere.
19:56It's very cold.
19:57It's okay.
19:58But, a lot of times, it's what we think of myself.
20:01Also, I'm trying to make sure that, you know, people are getting away.
20:05So, you know, you have a problem with me.
20:07And some of the people on Facebook.
20:09So, you know, I'm trying to get the issues.
20:11And now, I don't have perfect ways.
20:12You know, I don't have perfect ways.
20:14To try to get the right things.
20:17Be to yourself.
20:18As much as you need.
20:19But I think the, but I think the biggest thing, like, because energy is, if you're getting healthy.
20:25If you are, and you're progressing.
20:27If you are, and you're getting care of yourself.
20:30You know, you're going to be emotional.
20:32When you're processing and you're asking for more information.
20:33If you are planning to try to get the right things.
20:35If you are, and you're going to be happening.
20:36If you have broken things.
20:37And then, I'm going to understand that.
20:38If at least, if you don't get anything to do.
20:39If you can do something.
20:40You don't get to tell people.
20:41If you have broken things.
20:42Would you tell yourself?
20:43You're wrong.
20:44And then, you know, we're flying people.
20:45When you're doing.
20:46I'm going to be in this place.
20:47I'm going to go.
20:48I'm going to find aerashting everybody here.
20:49I'm going to be in this place.
20:50I'm going to send me.
20:51Dr. Do you have nothing better?
20:52I'm going to be in you.
20:53I don't know, but I don't know if it's better, but it's just because it's a typical thing.
21:00What do you do?
21:02Well, self-care is really one of the main things I've felt early on.
21:07So, I think that it's really just whatever your mom or just women in general, it's really important to see that you try to feel yourself to really just unwind and relax.
21:18So, it's just like, you know, like, what does that work mean? Like, you massage your belly and relax at the end of the day or with your body.
21:25It's like, just simple, like, watching your hair. It can really revive you and rejuvenate you for the week or just give you a nice, nice downtime for confidence in your hair and just chill and relax.
21:37So, you know, I think that's the best thing when you just say something to yourself when you're Sunday or Saturday, if you're here, you know, give yourself, like, a recent official, a race bag, and a refreshment of the week.
21:50What's the end of this girl?
21:52Well, my kid is a queen of telling me my life is fine.
21:57But it's all right.
21:58I don't know.
21:59I don't know.
22:00I don't know.
22:01I don't know.
22:02I don't know.
22:03I don't know.
22:04I do the things that I want to do.
22:06What I want to do.
22:07I don't have to be out.
22:09I don't have to be drinking and party and I don't have to be with a lot of people.
22:13But I think that I is actually, um, what's actually happening now?
22:17That it's not.
22:18It's just for me, for me, we're doing those with a fire.
22:23But I'm happy to have that.
22:24I don't know if you do that.
22:25That's why I'm in a period of time.
22:27You're a social butterfly.
22:29So, that is what gives you, all for a sudden introvert.
22:32So, for me, I like being at home.
22:35I like being a whole bunch of people who know who's speaking to the internet or doing.
22:39We're chilling and relaxing with one of the things that we enjoy.
22:44We like eating good food, enjoying good people.
22:47Most of the things that we are taking takes to each of our mouths that we love.
22:51That's right.
22:53That's right.
22:54That's right.
22:55Well, ladies, thank you so much.
22:57I am not a mother yet, but it's someone who wants to be one of the most of our stories from this conversation.
23:03So thank you so much.
23:05Thank you guys.
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