00:00I told you guys to show up, and you guys show up looking really good.
00:03Yeah, I haven't seen you in a long time.
00:05Oh, my God.
00:06I love this.
00:06What's going on with you guys?
00:08You know, I've just been living my best life, you know, doing the best that I can.
00:11I'm living the soft life.
00:13It's feeling real plush over here.
00:15It's feeling very plush.
00:16Well, y'all already know who I am, so that means you know that I brought a game today
00:20for us to play.
00:21Of course you do.
00:23It's called Sip or Spill.
00:25Juicy.
00:26And it is exactly what it sounds like.
00:28Y'all ready to get into this?
00:31Yeah.
00:32Are we sipping or are we spilling?
00:34Like, what combination?
00:35Oh, we're doing all of the things, so can you go ahead?
00:37Let's grab our drinks.
00:38What do you have set up for us here today?
00:40I go, you guys, Simply Mixology, and each flavor match everyone's lifestyle.
00:45Ooh.
00:47Wow, a mojito for you, a lime margarita for me.
00:50All right.
00:51Let's get into it.
00:52All right, should I go first?
00:54Go ahead.
00:54Okay.
00:55You guys ready?
00:56Yes.
00:56I'm not.
00:58Take a sip of your drink.
01:03You, me, almost?
01:04It's for her.
01:04Oh.
01:05Whatever you do, it's for her.
01:06All right.
01:07Well, mine is not a great job.
01:07And they did that.
01:09It's going to go second.
01:12Ooh.
01:14Spill.
01:14What is on your list?
01:17We're talking about dating, this day and age.
01:20I'll give you one thing.
01:21Okay.
01:22I'll say consistency.
01:23Oh.
01:24Period.
01:24Tell me more.
01:26You see how green my shirt is, how green these cords is?
01:29Uh-huh.
01:29You see it's consistent?
01:30Yes.
01:30My margarita is consistent.
01:32Yes.
01:33It's just that simple.
01:34Yeah.
01:35No, period.
01:35What'd she get?
01:37All right.
01:38You just hit the lottery, and you can do whatever you want for a year.
01:42What are you going to do?
01:44You know what?
01:45I've been wanting to take a sabbatical and just, like, be in the middle of ocean with nobody.
01:50I'm the only one in the world just for six months.
01:53Yes.
01:53Look at you, swim.
01:54I don't know yet, but I'm going to find out.
01:57Traditional marriage, open marriage, or are you down to go 50-50?
02:03I'm team 50-50 all day.
02:06What about you?
02:07Well, I feel like I could go 50-50, too.
02:10Okay.
02:10It's a partnership.
02:11Yeah.
02:12I mean, traditional marriage, it's kind of, like, old school now, so.
02:15So, let's slice it up a little bit.
02:18You want the traditional vibe?
02:19Perhaps.
02:20Mm-hmm.
02:21Somebody can take this little load off of me.
02:23Okay.
02:23I'm good.
02:24Listen.
02:25I'm going to do it all.
02:26Okay.
02:26I got to wipe a counter.
02:27She said, I don't need to do everything.
02:30I don't.
02:30And I hear you there.
02:31I'm not mad at all.
02:32Like, why are we carrying all this weight on our shoulders as black women, as women?
02:38Ooh, what is one thing you can do to simplify your life?
02:42Delegation, asking for help.
02:44Yeah, asking for help.
02:45And maybe starting to say no.
02:47You know, I hear you, but saying no can be real difficult.
02:50It takes a strong person to say no.
02:52Yeah, but saying no can be simple.
02:54With a period on the end, just say no.
02:56Not a comma.
02:57It's just that simple.
02:58Just cheers for that.
03:00Clink, clink, clink, clink, clink, clink, clink, clink, clink, clink, clink, clink.
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