00:00The days I don't feel, as my mama would say, cute, the days I don't feel cute, I have to actually tell myself I do anyway, which is still hard to believe.
00:14You know what I mean?
00:15Because, you know, you'll wake up and, like, I'm like, this eye is swollen.
00:19I swear my eyes aren't symmetrical.
00:20This side of my mouth is doing something.
00:22And I'm like, well, maybe my nose looks different today.
00:25This space in between my nose.
00:26Like, I'm literally telling you what I think in my head.
00:28I'm like, the space between my nose and my top lip is just really off today.
00:33Maybe I should get that.
00:35No, girl, what are you thinking?
00:36You know, I literally do that all the time.
00:39And the truth is, is that I'm sitting there and I'm going, if I pick myself apart, where am I going to end up?
00:45If I pick myself apart, where am I going to end up?
00:50At the bottom.
00:51So here I am picking myself apart, like, and I'm not going to have anything left.
00:55If I don't have anything left, what do I have to offer myself, my kids, my husband, my business?
01:03Like, I don't have anything to offer.
01:05You know what I mean?
01:06Like, I want to be the best version of myself for my kids first.
01:09Yeah.
01:10And my husband and my home.
01:11And that means the most to me.
01:13So I got to, if I'm starting there, I got to start, I got to go here and not here.
01:19Because there ain't no space to go.
01:20There ain't nowhere to go.
01:21Here's what I love about that answer.
01:23Number one, you say the same things to yourself on the days you don't feel beautiful as the days that you do.
01:29Like, don't stop that inner narrative.
01:31Absolutely.
01:32And the motivation for that 24 hours or whatever you have to make it through is the people who need the you when you feel your best.
01:38Yes.
01:38I absolutely love that message.
01:41And you know what else?
01:42Please share.
01:42Write on your mirror, even the things that you don't believe just yet, write them down.
01:48Like, I do that for Titan.
01:50But I said that I'd start doing it for myself.
01:53And I did, but somebody wiped it off and they were trying to, you know, do their jobs.
01:57Keep houses clean and whatnot.
01:58Exactly.
01:59Mess up all your affirmations.
02:00I need this because Tuesday was not a good day for me.
02:03Right.
02:04So I need to make sure that I have to see it.
02:06So with those days that I don't believe it, I can just write it down.
02:08I am great.
02:09Oh, girl, you look good today.
02:11Like, I literally say it as if I'm like the girlfriend in my head.
02:14Yeah.
02:14So I'm just the hype.
02:15I'm the hype woman for myself.
02:17Who else is going to hype you up besides yourself?
02:19I mean, be your own hype person.
02:20Absolutely.
02:21Absolutely.
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