00:00I want to apologize on behalf of the men for these scenarios that you're about to hear.
00:04Good cop, bad cop. Come on.
00:05Shouldn't have done it.
00:06You pour your heart out over text, and he responds with an emoji.
00:09Why do you do that?
00:10That's everything, first of all.
00:12Yeah.
00:12Y'all shouldn't do that.
00:13Yeah.
00:13Y'all scare us with all them words, okay?
00:15We're simple creatures, and you hit us with that whole paragraph of text,
00:20and we know that there is nothing we can say to appropriately respond
00:26to that Harlequin romance book that you done just sent us.
00:30Chapters 7 through 17.
00:31What do you want to hear?
00:32We don't have the paragraph in our mind.
00:35The mental capacity to respond to that, so we're going to hit you.
00:38I'm going to tell you the emoji that he hit her with.
00:41Which one?
00:41You know, the smiley one with the kind of red cheeks.
00:44No, with the heart tears.
00:46The heart, well, that's it.
00:49He wants her to go natural and ditch the weed, but loves Beyonce.
00:53Why do you do that?
00:54I had to tell y'all this.
00:55Okay.
00:56You are not Beyonce.
00:58Okay.
00:58So, um, she can wear that weave.
01:02Yeah.
01:02She can rock that lace front.
01:04We love every inch of that mane that Beyonce is rocking.
01:08Wear your hair, however you want to wear.
01:10If your man say go natural, that weave ain't working.
01:12That's just, that's a good way.
01:13That's like, oh, you look great with your natural hair.
01:15It means, pull that out.
01:18Yeah.
01:18That ain't, mm-mm, it's not working.
01:20Bring the beat in.
01:21He says he's hustling and grinding, but always on the gram with his boys.
01:27Why'd he do that?
01:28He hustling, he's trying, he's, uh, and he sets time aside for you when he has enough time
01:36to give you the proper attention that you need.
01:38All right, see, I thought we was going to be honest.
01:40I didn't know that we was just going to be honest.
01:41Did I, did I, was that a good lie, though?
01:42I didn't know we was going to be honest.
01:43Was that a good lie?
01:43It was an amazing lie.
01:44Okay, well, hold on.
01:45He ain't feeling you today, okay?
01:47He ain't feeling you today.
01:48And when he's feeling you, he'll holler at you.
01:50I don't care how busy he is.
01:52You're looking at two of the busiest cats in the world.
01:55And I'm apologizing, guys, because I know this is our go-to.
01:57I'm so busy, I'm chasing my career, which is true.
02:00But let me tell you something.
02:02A man will make time for what he wants to make time for.
02:07We've been up since six in the morning.
02:08We've been all over New York.
02:10I done called home four times.
02:11I called home.
02:13I always called home because she makes the difference in my life.
02:17And we have text how many more times after that?
02:19Why?
02:20Because I love you.
02:24Time and relationship stress me.
02:25Yeah, that's too many four times and text.
02:28Jesus.
02:29The first date was great, but then he ghosted over text.
02:32Why'd he do that?
02:33It's a hit or a miss-hit both ways.
02:35If he hit it, and that's what he was after, that's it.
02:38Like, what else he got to talk about?
02:39But the date was magical.
02:40And if he wanted to get it and didn't get it, he out.
02:44No, because he wasted that whole night with you
02:47and somebody else across town was sitting to come get it picture.
02:50That's a whole lot he didn't like about her.
02:51It might have been a great night, but that's a lot he didn't like.
02:54He was hoping for that night.
02:55Here's the thing, ladies.
02:56You can't let the sex question, like, should I give it up or not within a certain period of time?
03:01You can't let that affect you.
03:03I promise you.
03:04A grown man, that's not going to affect at all, whether or not he wants you or not,
03:08whether he got it the first hour or in 90 days.
03:12If he around waiting for 90 days, first of all, you might need to check that out
03:16because he's getting it somewhere.
03:17So he definitely was hitting something.
03:19Ain't nobody went 90 days.
03:21No, no, no, no.
03:21And anybody doing 90 days is in jail.
03:24There's nothing.
03:27He wants to move in, but gets nervous when marriage comes out.
03:30Why do you do that?
03:31A guy that's saying he wants to live with you but doesn't want to get married,
03:34that does not mean he's not into you.
03:35That does not mean he doesn't love you.
03:37Men are built differently, and there is a different level of commitment for us in our minds.
03:43We can be with you, be monogamous, only you live together.
03:46But when you talk about, like, will you go down that aisle or will you go and put these rings on it,
03:51there's a fear that some men have.
03:54It does not mean he does not love you.
03:56It just means that he's not ready in his mind for that level of commitment.
03:59And weirdly, men want that to have all the perfect circumstances around it.
04:05Sometimes it's like, I don't want to get married to her.
04:07I've got my money at a certain place.
04:09My finance, right, right, right.
04:10Or together we have our money at a certain place, or I've gotten to a point in my career.
04:14Like, we're weird about that.
04:15And we have, it's a different level of responsibility we take on when we say we're going to call you Mrs. So-and-so.
04:21Let's flip this.
04:21So for the women who get asked, who definitely, who moves in,
04:25I don't think you should move in with a man unless you guys have talked about getting married.
04:31You guys have set a date to get married.
04:33I didn't move in with my wife.
04:34I moved in with my wife.
04:35And guess what?
04:35We were engaged when I moved in.
04:37There was a date set.
04:38And we followed it all the way out.
04:39But Tommy, it's 2018.
04:42I know, but I got married in-
04:43We cohabit now.
04:44Okay.
04:45You sound old school.
04:46I know, I know, but I am.
04:48We can't move in together unless the brother is willing to talk about marriage?
04:52We got to at least discuss it.
04:54I mean, I guess-
04:55We got to at least discuss it.
04:56I guess you got to at least know if he's like, I'm never getting married.
04:58I mean, oh, we should know, hey, we're going to do this for a while.
05:03What if he don't know, though?
05:04You know, brothers don't know.
05:05You know men don't know.
05:06You want old school or new school?
05:09That is.
05:10New school, go move in with.
05:11Go have one at Rent.
05:12Rent is serious these days.
05:13Go have one at Rent.
05:18I'm a fan.
05:19Go have to meet.
05:19Go with the app.
05:20Go with the app.
05:20Please do nonprofit.
05:22Go with the app.
05:22I'm a fan.
05:23You're not a fan.
05:23You're not a fan.
05:24Prettyball.
05:25Go with the app.
05:25Go with the app.
05:27So you guys can see what I found.
05:28And I can join it on.
05:30Looking at the bottom.
05:32Get really good.
05:33Get really bad.
05:33Goods.
05:34I want people to come in.
05:35Go with the app.
05:36Get really good.
05:38Go with the app.
05:38Go with your app.
05:39kosten, Katherine.
05:40рассказ, monetization,
05:40go with me.
05:42You'll knock me behind the app.
05:42Get really good.
05:43Second,sil.
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