00:00A frenemy is somebody that just should not be in your inner circle.
00:06Like, if you have a frenemy, someone who's your friend, yet an enemy, then that says
00:11a lot about you if you have a person like that in your circle.
00:15We have a circle of friends.
00:16Like, I have a friend that I talk to every day, a friend that I talk to once every four
00:20months.
00:20Make them feel like they're my friend for every day, but you know, you gotta treat them
00:24with, like, a distance in between.
00:26And everybody has a frenemy because what happens is you have a friend that you don't
00:29even know is your enemy until it hits the fan.
00:32Right.
00:33And then it's too late.
00:34Oh, yeah.
00:35That's true.
00:36But if you do know, you're funky.
00:38Oh, yeah, yeah.
00:39If you know, you gotta get them out of there.
00:40You don't need to keep your enemies that close.
00:42That's what Twitter and Instagram is for.
00:44We can keep up with everybody's happenings online.
00:47We don't have to have them all up in our business.
00:50Yeah.
00:50They're your friend, right?
00:51But everything they say and do doesn't match.
00:53Right.
00:53So it's like they're labeled a friend, but it's like, wait.
00:55And I feel like that's always fine.
00:56What is worse with me, you are from the negative side.
00:58But, you know, this is how I split up my friends.
01:02Like, if you come to my house and I cook you dinner, then we kiki girlfriends.
01:05But if I don't want you to use my bathroom.
01:06Right.
01:07Then we're not friends.
01:08Wait, wait, wait.
01:08How can I eat your house?
01:10I can't use your bathroom.
01:11The guest bathroom.
01:12The guest bathroom.
01:14Down the road.
01:15If someone is not a real friend, then they don't need to be in your life.
01:18I love small town USA with a lot of issues with men and women because my best friend from
01:23elementary school grew up all the way through high school had a baby with my boyfriend who
01:28I was with for four years.
01:30She was with all three of those years.
01:33She ain't a friend in me.
01:34She ain't in me.
01:35Yeah.
01:35So that's all the way frenemy.
01:37But the thing is with the frenemy thing, if you don't know, it's not your fault.
01:41But if you do know and you keep that person in your camp, you deserve what you get.
01:45You know, you have your best friends who've been riding with you forever.
01:47Say they have a friend and you don't necessarily like them, but are you going to be the person
01:51like, do not bring her because I cannot stand her.
01:52That's a good point.
01:53I would never like tell my friend she can't hang out with somebody.
01:55No, you got to control the environment.
01:56Like it was their birthday.
01:58But sometimes, so for example, Gia and I are friends, Gia and Chloe are friends, and
02:03now Gia's like, oh, I feel like Dana and Chloe should be friends.
02:05Right.
02:05And you feel this pressure to be now your girlfriend's girlfriend's friends.
02:10And you're like, I'm not really feeling so-and-so or vice versa.
02:13What do you do in those situations?
02:14I don't know.
02:14Because you're forced to like bond and mean like group chats.
02:17But if me and Gia are really good kiki girlfriends, then she know not to play in herself.
02:21Exactly.
02:21Because you know girls will be like, she's not the one.
02:25And it's always okay to be cool with somebody.
02:27You don't have to be BFF with everybody.
02:30Go out.
02:31Yes.
02:31And be part about being older.
02:33When you're older, your friends respect your space.
02:35Talk about it.
02:35But when you're younger, it's like, this is my friend.
02:38Are y'all going to be friends?
02:38Are we going to be friends?
02:39And the next thing you know, you're fighting in the club and getting kicked out by the bouncer.
02:42Right.
02:42It's too much.
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