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00:00Hey, Real Short fans, it's Rebecca Stone, and today on Real Talk, things are about to get explosive.
00:06I'm reuniting with the flirts, the heartbreakers, and yes, the saboteurs of love bombing.
00:11We are reliving the drama and finding out what really happened behind the scenes.
00:15Love, lies, and maybe a few receipts.
00:19Let's find out.
00:30Oh, my gosh, you guys, it is so crazy seeing you all in the same room again.
00:42Look at you, you look gorgeous.
00:44It's so cute.
00:46It's good to be back with everybody.
00:47I miss your guys' faces.
00:48I know, right?
00:49Oh, my gosh.
00:50I feel like we spent so much time together for such a, you know, so many consecutive days.
00:56It was, like, literally so weird, the, like, not seeing you guys for 10 hours a day for a week's dream.
01:01It was, like, the day after was weird.
01:03I was like, whoa, hold on a second.
01:05It was like a boot camp for you guys, yeah?
01:07Yeah.
01:07A little?
01:08A whole lot of trauma.
01:09A whole lot of trauma.
01:10Trauma bondage.
01:11Just in general.
01:12All right, you guys, let's go into day one, the swiping.
01:17Tell me, I'm going to go down the line here, tell me how you guys must have been feeling at the beginning,
01:21before you met each other, before you knew each other, going through that process.
01:24I can't even imagine the emotions.
01:26So, Patches, I'm going to start with you.
01:28I'm looking for someone who has drive.
01:29I don't like people who are floating and have, like, no direction.
01:33I'm just that kind of person.
01:35There's no one that I really feel, like, a spark with immediately.
01:38I like somebody who's motivated, knows what they're doing, knows what they want to do,
01:41knows what they want their future to look like.
01:43Oh, pressure.
01:45No, I honestly, like, the swipe game, it was kind of strange because I feel like a lot of people
01:49were, like, just stepping back because they didn't want to get rejected on camera.
01:55Like, that's how I honestly felt about the swipe game.
01:57It's just, like, everyone, even if they wanted to say yes,
01:59if they saw the person kind of leaning backwards, they'd be like, like, you know, kind of thing.
02:04Yeah.
02:04My perspective also on the swipe game is I didn't really see anybody,
02:08but I was, like, super, like, oh, my God, like, I want to talk to them, like, you know?
02:12So for me, that's, like, I was, like, stepping back most of the time.
02:15Yeah.
02:16Yeah, that's what was pretty much my experience with it, I feel like.
02:18How many times did you go up?
02:20I think I went up, like, four or five times.
02:23Yeah, damn.
02:23At one point, I went up with Jude.
02:25We did, yeah.
02:26Sorry, Jude.
02:28I stepped back.
02:30That's my bad.
02:30Well, I did, too.
02:31You're a great friend.
02:32You're a great friend.
02:33It was good.
02:33Right, right.
02:34Patrice, let me ask you that.
02:35You stepped back quite a bit.
02:37There was nobody you said you were interested in.
02:38Yeah, nobody really caught my eye.
02:40Like, yeah, because it was all physical.
02:42Like, at this point, we hadn't really talked to one another.
02:46Like, we didn't get to meet everybody.
02:47Like, it was literally just purely based off of, like, looks and vibes is what we had to, like, judge it off of.
02:54And you had more of a design, right, I think?
02:56Yes.
02:57I had, like, definitely, like, more of a look going on just because, like, I think our, like, our call time that day was, I think, like, 8 or 9 a.m.
03:05And the call time, no, I think it was 9 a.m.
03:07And the call time, the rest of the week was, like, 7 a.m.
03:11And so I had, I only, I got to wake up at 6.
03:13So I had, like, you know, not that much sleep, but, like, more compared to the rest of the week.
03:17So I had more time to really, like, get it together.
03:20Like, you know, and also that corset I was wearing the first day, it was so hot.
03:25It was, like, 84 degrees outside, I think, in Tarzana.
03:30Like, it was, it was so hot.
03:32Like, I, like, I remember, like, after I did, like, my confessional, I remember just, like, ripping it off before I even walked over to, like, my car to leave for the day because it was just, like, sweat.
03:42I think you looked absolutely stunning, though, honestly.
03:44It was a fire outfit for the first day.
03:46And nothing melted.
03:48Yeah.
03:48Yeah, it looked great the whole day.
03:50I had no idea how that happened.
03:51I was looking at you throughout the day, and I was like, I'm melting.
03:54Yeah.
03:55You, from day one, you were analyzing them physically to see if they could handle you behind the eyes.
04:00I was, like, very much, like, I just, you know, someone who matched my freak.
04:04Yeah, I just opened my freak.
04:06I love it.
04:07There is really no freak to be matched.
04:10There's also rain.
04:11He was shirtless during half the time.
04:14The shirtless guy with the boobs.
04:19It's a no.
04:20Already?
04:21Damn.
04:22Wait for the countdown, girl.
04:23He told me to come dressed in comfort, so, you know, that came as is.
04:30Rain, yeah, he, um, I don't know why he decided to have his shirt off the whole time.
04:36That was a red flag for me already, off the bat, red flag.
04:39The red flag for me wasn't the shirt off.
04:41It was the, that, the bouncing.
04:43But the excessive bouncing.
04:45I think he does it, like, involuntarily.
04:49I'm not kidding.
04:49They have minds up there.
04:50I'm not kidding.
04:51Like, when he gets, like, excited, I think, like, his, the, they just, they just move.
04:55Like, I'm sorry, but if you, if you want a good drinking game, just take a shot every single time he moves his pecs.
05:01Don't.
05:02And you will probably take, like, 200 shots.
05:04Yeah, don't do that.
05:05You'll end up in the hospital.
05:06Robin, let me ask you, since you said that that was a red flag for you, having the shirt off.
05:12Yeah.
05:12But Biagio was not a red flag for you.
05:14You ready?
05:15I was born ready.
05:16I would love, uh, someone with a deep understanding.
05:19I, uh, I'd like to have someone with, with similarities.
05:21If we can both have the same, uh, values or path, like, if we both are creatives, that, that'd be great.
05:28Hello.
05:28Hi.
05:29What's your name?
05:29Robin.
05:30What's your name?
05:31Biagio.
05:31Say it?
05:32Biagio.
05:32Biagio.
05:33No, well, when we first got there, like, you know, like, whatever culture.
05:36Early in the morning.
05:37They had a sitting there for a long time.
05:39Something that I remember that it was really kind of split.
05:41Like, there was, like, a fountain in the middle, if you remember?
05:43And, like, there was, like, the people on this side and there was the people on that side.
05:45And then I didn't really see anybody of the people on that side.
05:47And it was kind of, like, split, like, guys and girls.
05:49So I was over here with, you know, the ladies and, like, you know, like, chit-chatting and talking.
05:53So I didn't really get to see a whole lot of them.
05:55But, um, just, like, from, like, the casual, like, glances across, I didn't see really anybody who, like, caught my eye.
06:02Like, like, as you said, like, it was all kind of, like, one very, one, you know, brand of guy.
06:07And, like, that's fine.
06:08It's just kind of, like, you know.
06:09It's not our brand.
06:10Yeah, yeah.
06:11This is, like, fine, whatever.
06:12And then I remember, like, sitting there.
06:14And then, like, somebody walked in lane.
06:16He, like, walked by me.
06:17And I kind of clocked him.
06:18And I was, like, okay.
06:19So they got one.
06:20They got one guy that's different from all the rest that, like, could, like, you know, possibly, like, look nice.
06:27No offense.
06:28But, like, could be, like, really nice.
06:29And, you know, I learned later on that that was Biagio who, like, walked in.
06:33He was, like, wearing, like, a sweater and, like, his, like, jewelry that was, like, really cool.
06:36Yeah, it was very unique.
06:38Yeah, rather than just, like, you know, the, you know, too tight t-shirt and jeans, you know, the other guys were wearing.
06:44I'm sorry.
06:45I felt that was directed directly at me.
06:47She was, like, I did everything right.
06:49I was in the scope right there.
06:51I mean.
06:52I was going to say, yeah, black t-shirt, the taint pants.
06:55Like, yeah.
06:56Totally whack.
06:57Am I right, ladies?
06:58Noted.
06:58So for the guys out there, the girls want something different.
07:01We don't want a black t-shirt.
07:03We want unique.
07:04Not all of us.
07:04We want personality.
07:05Not all of us mind.
07:07Okay.
07:07Yeah.
07:08Emily, let's talk.
07:09Let's talk about you during this moment.
07:11Yeah.
07:12Well, in the beginning, it was funny because I walked in.
07:14I had the same sort of, like, oh, everybody here is hot, LA, actor, model type vibe.
07:21Sure.
07:21I don't mind that vibe.
07:22Okay?
07:23I'm cool with that vibe.
07:24So I walked in and I was like, okay, cool.
07:25Everyone's hot.
07:26Great.
07:26But I do understand what you're saying about, like, you know, wanting a little something
07:31different.
07:32Yeah.
07:32But yeah, I didn't, I was cool.
07:34And this is the part that, like, I felt so bad about, but I came late.
07:39Whoops.
07:40And the girls were already all sitting at that one side and the boys were on, were actually
07:45kind of all scattered around.
07:47So the other side that ended up being the boys' side was more empty.
07:51So I sat over there and then eventually became the guys' side.
07:54And I'm just, like, the one girl talking to all the guys.
07:57And I was just like, damn, like, I look like such a pick me right now.
08:00But I promise that was not, that was not on purpose.
08:04But yeah, so because of that, I got to talk to a few people before the matching, which was
08:10nice.
08:10But still not enough time to be like, oh, yeah, I want to step forward for you.
08:14And you can only step forward for one person.
08:15So do you think people were stepping back because they wanted to see all their options
08:20or?
08:21I think that's a great question.
08:23That's a fantastic question.
08:24Yeah.
08:24Thank you, Jude.
08:25Of course.
08:25Yeah.
08:26I'd love to hear what you think about it.
08:28I, um, well, I just, I just think that overall it was a huge, I think everyone's ego got in
08:32the way.
08:33Interesting.
08:34Everyone's ego got in the way where it was like, you know, including my, I'm not separating
08:38myself from this.
08:38It was like, it was like, I don't.
08:40Yeah.
08:41So when you get in front of the lights and the cameras, you just don't want to be the one that
08:44says yes.
08:45Get rejected.
08:45You know, but power, like ultimate power to you if you're able to do that.
08:48Yeah.
08:49Right.
08:49I feel like it's human nature.
08:50And I feel like that's kind of what we all fell under.
08:52There was a long time where everyone, there were no matches for the longest time.
08:56Everyone was like really scared.
08:58Like that's what, like exactly.
09:00Like it was ego and like everyone just being scared to like be the one rejected in front
09:04of the camera because you're afraid that clip is going to make it.
09:07Do you guys have any regrets with how yours turned out?
09:10Do you regret matching?
09:11Are you guys happy?
09:13No.
09:13I mean, I feel like I got pretty lucky.
09:15That was like the thing that I wasn't going into it, like expecting to match up with anybody
09:19because like, you know, I looked around me and I was like, oh, whatever.
09:23But I remember like, I was like, we're like waiting in line.
09:25I remember that, you know, the girls were going up, you know, pretty quickly.
09:29And then like, I was like asking, we're asking around on our side saying like, like, how
09:33many times you've gone?
09:33Like, like three, four times.
09:34How many times you've gone?
09:35Three, four times.
09:36And I'm like looking over on the other side and I go, there's some guys that I don't think
09:39I've seen step up to the plate and some guys who I've seen like multiple times.
09:43So I think that's another thing that the girls were waiting on is like for, you know, a full
09:47cycle of the guys to go because like, you know, the same, like, you know, four guys kept
09:51on going up, you know, trying to shoot their shot, which kudos to them.
09:56But, you know, they're, you know, taking up some time.
09:58But yeah.
10:00And then I think like it was Biagio's like second time up and then like, we hadn't like
10:05stepped in front of each other.
10:06Yeah.
10:07And then like, like everyone, all the girls were like, like, oh, like we've already like
10:10seen it.
10:11They were kind of like, you know, getting a little, you know, bored of this.
10:13And I was like, I might as well, you know, the worst thing that happens, he steps back
10:18and I can walk into the flaming fireplace right behind us.
10:21So that'd be cool.
10:22He came up and then, you know, I step forward and he was like, like, hi, I'm Biagio.
10:26And I go, you're talking to me.
10:28Hi.
10:28Hi.
10:29Yeah.
10:29I didn't know we could, I'm like looking at like, can we do that?
10:31Can we speak?
10:32And so like, we're like chatting a little bit and then I couldn't wipe a smile off my
10:37face and, and, and he was, you know, smiling a lot too.
10:39And then, you know, they're like, okay, quiet down.
10:42And then they like said three and then we both step forward.
10:44And I was like, thank God.
10:46Cause then I, like how silly would it have been for me to like read it wrong just for him to
10:51play me, you know, that I step forward and he's like, ha ha.
10:55But I'm the first match too, right?
10:58No, we were.
10:59We're no, me and Olivia were.
11:08Olivia walks up to me and she's a very like go getter mindset.
11:11She walks up to me.
11:12She goes, she goes, we're matching and we're going to win this whole thing.
11:14She holds out her hand like this.
11:16I was like, okay.
11:17I was like, I was a little more shy to do it, but no, for sure.
11:20Yeah.
11:20Cause you guys were talking before, right?
11:22Part of that group.
11:22Yeah.
11:23Yeah.
11:23Yeah.
11:23We were sitting next to each other the entire time, you know, talking about whatever and
11:26stuff like that.
11:27Yeah.
11:27So me and Olivia ended up, uh, ended up matching.
11:30Yeah.
11:30Very first I was just, yeah.
11:31But I was like, I was like, I don't even know.
11:33Like, I don't, I honestly had no plan going into it.
11:36Wow.
11:36I probably should have maybe a little bit.
11:38Right.
11:38But we did end up actually, uh, Matt, you know, going up and I was like, yeah, I'm going
11:41to say yes.
11:41You know?
11:42I love it.
11:42Cause how bad would I look if I, if I shook her hand saying we're going to match.
11:45And then I said, yeah, yeah.
11:46But no, but she, she's very beautiful.
11:47I was going to say, she's hot.
11:49Yeah.
11:49Right.
11:49Right.
11:49Yeah.
11:49Yeah.
11:50But you matched with her.
11:51No problem at all.
11:51Mainly you guys matched together to win, not because you felt an actual connection.
11:55That was, that was her thing.
11:56And I was like, I'm on board.
11:57And Robin, you, yours wasn't about money at all.
12:00No.
12:01I mean, there was like that hint of it.
12:04And then like, after we matched, like we went off and like, we started getting to know
12:07each other.
12:08And I was waiting for the, you know, kind of the drop of the facade where, you know, he's
12:13like, like, okay, I'm just, I'm just in it for like, I know, like we were
12:15like, okay, like I'm just in it for, you know, the, the content.
12:18And I'd be like, sure, totally fine.
12:21But no, we were like, you know, actually like talking and like really getting to know each
12:24other.
12:24It really felt like, you know, you know, kismet just like, you know, us like talking.
12:28And then like, we like chit chatted like that whole time.
12:30Robin, I just really have to ask, how is it going?
12:33Because like, you guys stay together till the end.
12:36And I want to know how that's going.
12:39Um, nothing.
12:42Oh, nothing.
12:43No good.
12:43I, I believe the term that the Gen Zs are calling it now.
12:47I've been ghosted.
12:48Oh, yeah, we, um, well, if I can go into it now, unless this is later on, um, on the
12:56fourth day, third date, when I'm in the pink dress, um, after shooting that, because like
13:04the couples were only there for, you know, the, um, the filming of like our date.
13:08And then we got to go home, you know, like we stole some lunch.
13:11And then we got to go, I know you guys have to stay the whole day.
13:13That's why I'm like, I'm really like, I just know what I did.
13:16That's why I want to see what you guys did because I didn't see your guys' dates.
13:20I didn't see what you guys were talking about.
13:21Yeah.
13:21Any of that.
13:22And they were being really, you know, um, like, like don't go in there.
13:25Like, like be way away from that room because they're saying stuff.
13:28Like I, I almost never got to see you guys except when we were on lunch.
13:31But, um, and, and even then like, you know, Yaj and I really just like isolated ourselves.
13:35We were just over there yapping.
13:37But, um, yeah, on the, uh, third date, fourth day, uh, we were clocking out and we were like,
13:46like, like, you know, grabbing some lunch before we head out.
13:49And then, you know, he's carrying my bag to my car.
13:51Very nice.
13:52Very gentlemanly.
13:53And, um, he was like, oh, I have to like do these, uh, self tapes and I need to like,
13:59like film that.
13:59And then this is the first time you're hearing this.
14:01I, I, I, I was going to like be more vague about it.
14:04But, um, so he's like, oh, I have to do these like self tapes at home.
14:06And I'm like, okay, cool.
14:07You know, I have like, you know, my hours long drive back to my house.
14:11So, you know, like, cause we'll like chit chat later.
14:13But, um, as we're driving, like, like he's driving in front of me and then like, I'm like behind him.
14:17And then he, like, I see him roll down his window and he does like this to like, like, cause he sees me behind him.
14:22And I'm like, oh my God, that's so cute.
14:23Hi.
14:24And then we're on the freeway and he's like, he's like doing this.
14:27And he calls me on my phone and then like, you know, we're driving.
14:30I go, this is very dangerous.
14:31What do you, what do you need?
14:33And he said that like, oh, his friend who was going to help him cancel, who was going to help him with his self tapes canceled.
14:40Do you think you can be like my reader for like my self tapes?
14:42I'm going to come over to my house.
14:43And I was like, sure, absolutely.
14:45I'm an actor.
14:46You're an actor.
14:46There was no friend, by the way.
14:47It's like, yeah, yeah, yeah.
14:48I do think, I do think.
14:51You went like this out the window?
14:52Yeah.
14:53You know, that was, that's the setup.
14:55Yeah.
14:55No, but.
14:56Setting himself up.
14:57Yeah.
14:57But, um, so I went over to his house, we did the two self tapes.
15:01And then like, we like ate the lunch that like, you know, we had smuggled out of there.
15:05But then we spent the whole rest of the day just like talking in like, you know, like how like hours will go by when you're talking to somebody.
15:11And like, like, there's never like a lull in the conversation.
15:14I met his roommates and, you know, like, we're just like, you know, talking such a boy apartment, which is like, you know, but, uh, we just like gone to talking and, uh, we just, I called in a night.
15:27And I was like, it's like 1030, we need to go back for like, for filming again.
15:30I need to like, you know, look presentable.
15:32So, um, I call a night, he walked me to my car.
15:34He gave me another peck on the cheek.
15:37No, that was on the lips.
15:38The other car before.
15:40We, we kissed on and off the show, which is, you know, why I was.
15:44I'm proud to say I caused the first one.
15:47You did.
15:49You did.
15:50And, uh, oh my gosh, that day, like, I, I, I, like drove home and like, I ran to my roommates and I was like, I kissed a boy today.
15:57It was crazy because I was not expecting it.
15:59Then like, it's like getting up to the time.
16:00Like I'm like with my friends, like my, my lead in was like, oh, I met your roommates.
16:04You know, I'm going out with my roommates.
16:05You can meet my roommates now, you know, that kind of thing.
16:07Uh, uh, but he like, I canceled last minute and then I had to like go to my, like my friends, like my roommates and be like, oh, the guy that I told you about, like, he's not coming.
16:16And I had to get these looks, the, oh, Robin, I'm sorry.
16:20And I'm like, oh, that's worse.
16:22That feels worse than just having him canceled.
16:25That feels worse.
16:26And then like, like the, the next, like, like two days go by.
16:30And then like, I offer again, like, like, Hey, like I'm ending like my work day in LA.
16:34I know you might be in the area.
16:35Do you want to get, grab some lunch?
16:36He came up with excuse, more self tapes that he had to do.
16:39And then I was like, heard, heard.
16:42And then we hadn't, we haven't spoken since.
16:46And I never really got closure on that, but you know, and I mean, I think I said this in the confessionals where like, if nothing comes from this, I'm just happy to have had a crazy fun week.
16:58And it was, it was really, really fun to connect with someone to have that spark.
17:02So I hadn't had that in a long time.
17:03And it felt nice.
17:04It's like, I know we shouldn't get like validation from like men and such, but it felt nice to feel, you know, that somebody thought I was cute and funny and happy to talk to me.
17:12And like, and it was like really nice.
17:13And then now, you know, go be free butterfly, you know, go live your life.
17:18I only wish the best things for you and I'm going to be over here, you know, live in line.
17:24Yeah.
17:24Such a positive attitude, Rob.
17:26You honestly, wow.
17:27What a great, wow.
17:28What a great outlook on it.
17:30Because it could go either way.
17:32But if you guys don't mind on that note, since it doesn't sound like the experience was miserable, let's relive some of it.
17:39What do you guys think?
17:39I'd love back.
17:40I'm so excited.
17:42I would love back.
17:4440 singles.
17:45Oh my God.
17:47One goal.
17:48Hey.
17:48Hey.
17:49Oh, crazy.
17:50Oh, there he is.
17:51Stop.
17:52To find out who our lovely thought.
17:54Science.
17:54Okay.
17:55Thanks, guys.
17:56There's more gold.
17:58They'll come to the front to meet the person across from them.
18:01If you like what you see, take a step forward.
18:03These five saves lives.
18:05Oh.
18:06There's one guy.
18:08To step back on tiger lily is crazy.
18:11My friend is coupled up with him.
18:12Who?
18:14Jude.
18:15I knew him!
18:17There I am!
18:18Wait, wait.
18:19There's another guy too, a guy with glasses.
18:21I think he's cute.
18:22Really?
18:23Was that?
18:23That was you.
18:24Yeah.
18:25How do you feel about that?
18:25Wow.
18:26I didn't know.
18:27I had absolutely no clue.
18:28Because he was a part of the table we were talking to.
18:30You wish he would have matched a tiger lily instead now?
18:32I'm not going to say instead, but like.
18:34I'm trying to stir the puddle.
18:36Oh, my God.
18:38I'm so out of place.
18:40I look like a pig.
18:42Look at that fire outfit, though.
18:45You know, in the sun?
18:45So beautiful.
18:46How hot it was that day?
18:47Yeah.
18:48The look?
18:50Love the look.
18:50I'm good.
18:51That look does eat, though.
18:52I do.
18:53That's one of my favorite outfits.
18:54It eats.
18:55You know, there's a lot of good things.
18:57There's a lot of good qualities about them.
18:58I think I would just shun those.
19:00I love Jude.
19:02Such a cutie.
19:04There it is.
19:06Oh, that's so awkward.
19:07Yeah.
19:08Hug, what are you guys doing?
19:09See, foreshadowing.
19:11Foreshadowing.
19:11Well, at least he didn't hump her.
19:12What were you feeling in this moment?
19:14I was, it was very awkward.
19:16Awkward, being awkward was the most, um, I didn't want to, like, force myself onto her.
19:20Of course.
19:21I kind of want, you know, but then they said hug, and I was like, I'm open, you know, I'm ready, I'm ready.
19:25Hug.
19:25Yeah, right.
19:26Very gentleman-like.
19:27And I, like, turned away really quickly to say, like, don't get attached, don't get attached.
19:35Wow, so cute.
19:36Aw.
19:37I think they're matching before they're matching.
19:40That's all right.
19:40Yeah, yeah.
19:41Oh, my God.
19:51Yeah, this is great.
19:51We know what's going to happen.
19:53We're still like, I know.
19:54It's not the face crap.
19:56I was like, damn, is he going to kiss her?
19:58Yeah, right.
19:58Also foreshadowing.
19:59Oh.
20:00Robin, feeling, watching it back now, how are you feeling about this moment?
20:03Oh, my God.
20:04Is it his magical?
20:05I still have a smile on.
20:06His smile is killer.
20:08I can't believe it.
20:09Yeah.
20:09He outshone every other guy here.
20:12Oh, have you seen it?
20:13I have.
20:14You should look.
20:16Aw.
20:17It was my first date before they even said yes.
20:19They were already.
20:20Yeah, literally.
20:22So fun.
20:23Yeah, right.
20:24So fun.
20:26All right, you guys.
20:27Now, seeing that, I want to know a little bit more about the saboteurs.
20:34Hey, everybody.
20:35Hi.
20:36It's so nice to see you, Bob.
20:38Yeah.
20:38So as you guys know, $2,000 was on the line.
20:41Were you guys excited to be saboteurs?
20:44Were you upset?
20:45What was going through your heads?
20:46I personally was super excited about it just because, like, obviously the idea of, like,
20:52winning, like, prize money.
20:53Because, like, at that point, like, we had figured, like, if you didn't match, like, you
20:57weren't coming back any of the other days.
20:59Like, we just figured, like, we were gone.
21:00Like, that's what was happening.
21:01So it was really exciting, like, that even though we didn't match with anybody, that we
21:06still had the opportunity to come back and be involved in the whole process.
21:12And then also, like, obviously it's not fun having to ruin people's dates and, like, you
21:18know, like, basically crap on their, yeah, on their love life.
21:23I don't know about that one.
21:25For the camera.
21:25For the camera.
21:26Yeah.
21:27For the camera.
21:27I promise.
21:28I am not that much of a bitch in real life.
21:30I honestly am so sorry.
21:32Same.
21:32Like, we want to preference that it was all, like, um...
21:36We hyped it up, okay?
21:37We hyped it up.
21:38What does that mean?
21:38Because we had to hype it up to win two grand.
21:41That was what was on the line.
21:42It was just very exciting to know that we still had, like, a role in the show and it
21:46wasn't, like, over for us, essentially.
21:48Totally.
21:48Totally.
21:49Yeah.
21:49I mean, I, like I said earlier, um, I did have a connection with somebody, but we got
21:55brought back as singles anyway.
21:57Yeah.
21:57So, honestly, it was fun.
21:58I had no idea what to expect.
22:00I didn't know what it meant.
22:01I didn't know, you know, if it was a good thing or a bad thing, but I actually ended
22:05up now, looking back, I'm happy that I got brought back as a saboteur because we got
22:09to spend so much more time together.
22:11Totally.
22:11Because as a couple, you only got to go on the one date, you know, and whatnot, but we
22:16spent literally the entire day just kiki.
22:19And also just, like, because we watched every single date, like, on, like, you know, like,
22:23day two when, like, the first date's wrapping, we watched everybody's, you know, like,
22:27all the dates.
22:27And so it was just, like, watching, like, a live reality show with no cut.
22:31Yeah.
22:31Like, you know what I mean?
22:32Like, that's what it was.
22:32And, like, um, and in the room where we were watching them too, there wasn't, like, sometimes
22:37there, like, wasn't enough headsets for everybody.
22:39So you would just see people, like, cranking the volume all the way up and cutting them
22:42next to each other's ears because some of the dates, like, were just so entertaining
22:46that you didn't want to miss a second.
22:47Yeah.
22:48Like, especially Rain and Megan.
22:49Oh, my God.
22:50Tell me.
22:51Those dates?
22:51Yeah.
22:52Had a whiplash.
22:54I was in there.
22:54Excuse me.
22:56Are you okay?
22:58Um.
22:58You can leave.
23:00I knew that if there was one couple that I could break up, it was going to be Rain and
23:03Megan.
23:03And only because I had the most in common with Rain.
23:06So the fact that I could really rain in on that, rain in on that, and really talk about,
23:12you know, just what our culture and our ethnicity, and I knew that that was going to be how I was
23:18going to win.
23:18The first date, um, I thought that I was going to be successful in breaking them up
23:23because, yeah, because Rain-
23:24You brought him in the room.
23:25I know.
23:26Rain, I took him away.
23:27And then he was watching the date from our room and was like, I need to go back and get
23:31her.
23:31And I was like, what?
23:33Why?
23:34She's in the other room with another man.
23:37Yeah.
23:37Like, anyway.
23:39I remember specifically, like, the first date we were watching, at one point, I was, like,
23:43watching the screen with the headset.
23:45And I didn't even realize they were right behind me in the room arguing because I was
23:50just so in, like, interest and, like, entertained that I was just, like, so captivated.
23:55And then I finally, it finally clicked for me that they were in the same room as me.
23:58And I was like, oh, and I took up the headset and I turned to that one.
24:01I was always just, like, they were just so captivating every single time.
24:04When you were sabatooring, was there any part of you that wanted to break Rain up for
24:09the sake of getting Rain, or was it solely for the $2,000?
24:12It was for the money.
24:13But I will say, though, that a lot of the things that I said were true.
24:17Like, Rain and I do, we are the same ethnicity.
24:19The fact that he has a Laddie Stone tattooed on him, that's, like, a cultural thing from
24:23where I'm from.
24:24And he's visited the island next to where I'm from.
24:27Just the fact that he's been there.
24:28Because I think he's in the military, so there's a Navy base in Guam, so it makes sense.
24:33A lot of those things really did mean a lot to me.
24:35So, like, when I was talking about home and all of that stuff, that was all real.
24:39But in terms of, like, it was more, like, on a friendship vibe.
24:43But I wanted to run it, so.
24:46You heard it here.
24:47At the end of the day, yeah.
24:49And Patches, you, I think you used the strategy of being a girl.
24:53I was, like, yeah, I think, like, because for me, like, obviously watching, like, everybody
24:58go into these dates, so before we would, like, go into the dates to sabotage, like, we would
25:05get pulled aside and we would be, like, given, like, a thing, like, to go and do.
25:09Like, right?
25:10They gave us, like, a card, like, oh, like, try doing something like this, right?
25:13And so I had, like, just seen everybody, like, going in and, like, sabotaging.
25:17And everyone was kind of using, like, that same strategy of, like, trying to flirt with the
25:21guy or trying to flirt with the girl.
25:22And I was, like, that's obviously not working.
25:25Let me just try, like, getting in their heads.
25:28Like, let me just try getting in their heads.
25:29And then I think it was Rob who brought it up.
25:33He brought it, like, he was the one who brought up the first time, like, reading poems.
25:37Yeah.
25:37So I was, like, oh, yeah, like, I got the goth attire, like, I got the witchy vibe.
25:42Okay, I'm going to, like, take a look over here.
25:44Okay.
25:44Your personality line.
25:45I'm seeing, okay, so there's, like, this one major line, right?
25:49And there's, like, a lot, like, kind of, like, branching out.
25:51Yeah.
25:51That's showing me, like, you're not very truthful.
25:55Oh.
25:56He's a liar.
25:57Like, I cannot read poems.
25:59I'm so sorry.
26:00Total improv.
26:01I knew it.
26:02I knew it.
26:02It was all fake.
26:04I knew it.
26:05The astrology part, though.
26:07Nothing but negativity.
26:08That's all it was.
26:10No, but get this, because the astrology part, I do know a little bit about astrology, and so it's so funny, because when I went into you and your Biagos date specifically, and was like, oh, like, that sign's supposed to be a really good kisser.
26:21Like, do you want to test it out?
26:22I remember very well.
26:23It's a known fact that Pisces aren't good kissers.
26:28Maybe you should have started with her.
26:30Ah.
26:30I think she should be the judge of that.
26:32Yes.
26:33Okay.
26:34She can.
26:34I'll just admit that.
26:35Okay.
26:36I looked that up afterwards on Google, and his sign really was the top kissing sign.
26:56Like, that was not a lie, and that wasn't even intentional.
26:59What was his sign?
26:59Pisces.
27:00He's a Pisces.
27:02And so, but yeah, no, like, yeah, that's how that came about.
27:06Like, I think Rob was the one who told me originally, it was like, pretend to palm read, and then, like, that got taken into astrology and, like, witchy stuff.
27:13And so, like, I literally would just, anything I could use to get in, like, to people's heads and, like, make them doubt.
27:18Like, was the kiss your idea, or was that people?
27:21It was Rob's idea first for, like, to palm read and be like, oh, maybe you can say something negative.
27:26But then after that, I kind of took it and was like, oh, now I'm an astrology reader, too.
27:30Now I'm this.
27:31And then I really was just, like, running with it, like, as much as possible.
27:34It was so funny because, like, when we had coins to, like, sabotage, Rob would pull me over and he'd be like, go read their poms.
27:40Go read their poms.
27:41It was so funny.
27:42I was like, okay.
27:44And I'd have to be like, oh, yeah, the heart line.
27:48Yeah.
27:48Like, you know, like, or I'd be like, oh, like, the commitment line.
27:52Yeah, there was low commitment issues.
27:54I don't know if you want to be with him.
27:55Oh, my gosh.
27:56She was like, this line doesn't complete.
27:58It's broken, which means that he has commitment issues.
28:01And I was just like.
28:02You straight up called me a liar.
28:03Oh.
28:04You called me a liar.
28:05And I was like.
28:06To be fair, I'm pretty sure in that moment you had said something where, like, it kind of backed it up what she was saying.
28:12And I was just like.
28:13Did I lie?
28:13Was that my bad?
28:15You tell us.
28:16I'm pretty good at.
28:17Do you remember what it was about?
28:18Or I mean.
28:18I don't remember exact things, but, like, I feel like I'm pretty good at improv.
28:22And so, like, whenever, like, Jude would, like, slip up a little and say something, I would just really take it and run with it.
28:29Like, I was running with it.
28:30I ran it into the ground.
28:32Like, I was like.
28:33That's showing me, like, you're not very truthful.
28:36Oh.
28:37He's a liar.
28:38But it's kind of like the faults that I have as a human being bleeding into me trying to, you know, be my, like, 100% authentic self with a woman.
28:49I've learned to kind of cover those things up to be more successful.
28:54You did a great.
28:55Okay.
28:56I'll give you.
28:56I'll give you this.
28:57You did a great job at that because I felt so attacked.
29:01So uncomfortable.
29:02All three dates.
29:03I'm so sorry.
29:04As soon as it was going well.
29:05As soon as it was going well, me and Olivia actually getting to know each other.
29:08Right?
29:09Here comes Patches.
29:09Yeah, yeah.
29:11Rob goes.
29:11Rob goes.
29:12Do your thing.
29:13Yeah.
29:13And she comes in and it's just.
29:15And I'd be like.
29:15Trauma.
29:16That's so funny.
29:17Yeah.
29:17Patches, I've heard you're an incredible improvisational actor.
29:20And you obviously were very successful.
29:22You won a ton of money on this, right?
29:24Yes.
29:25But also so did Emily.
29:26Yes.
29:27Both of you, honestly.
29:28So you definitely knew what you were doing.
29:30Speaking of reputations.
29:32Hmm.
29:32Let's talk about yours.
29:34So you said that you got attacked quite a bit.
29:36Yeah, yeah.
29:37During the dates, I feel like I got a lot of the good things that were coming out of our dates were getting interrupted.
29:42Okay.
29:43As soon as it was going well.
29:45You know, a little awkward at first, like Emily might agree with, right?
29:49A little awkward, a little awkward at first.
29:51No notes.
29:52And as soon as it starts to take off, here's my defense.
29:55As soon as it starts to take off, someone like Paul or Patches would come in.
30:00Or me trying to give you a massage.
30:01Or Emily.
30:02Yeah, exactly.
30:03Yeah, yeah, yeah.
30:03One time.
30:03Stop me down.
30:04Fine.
30:04Do you want me to give you a massage?
30:06A massage?
30:07I mean...
30:08Just a little taste test.
30:09Why not?
30:09Yeah.
30:10A little tester.
30:11Right.
30:11What would your, uh, what are your intentions with the massage, I guess?
30:16What do you mean?
30:16I want you to relax and have a good time.
30:17Okay.
30:18Can I just sit right here?
30:19Yeah, you can.
30:19Of course.
30:19Okay.
30:19Great.
30:20Yeah.
30:20Yeah.
30:20And I just have to sit here and watch?
30:22No, no.
30:22I mean, we were kind of in the middle of a pretty, pretty connecting conversation.
30:27And I don't really want to ruin that.
30:28He's backsliding.
30:30Yeah, what was your intention about, about coming down?
30:32No, I just, you were talking about how you love quality time.
30:35You were talking about how you love physical touch.
30:37Those are my two main love language.
30:39Yeah, I know, but we were, you know, we were kind of both.
30:41And I think that you're really cute, so I just wanted to come down and let you know that.
30:45I think you deserve somebody who wants to spend time with you.
30:47And, like, actually, you know.
30:49Okay.
30:50Yeah.
30:51What are your thoughts on her barging in on our conversation?
30:55I mean...
30:56Well, you can speak for yourself, but I think he's pretty much telling you to leave.
31:02Yeah, I don't...
31:03In the most polite way.
31:04Yeah, if you know...
31:05And I think I am going to tell you to leave as well.
31:07Uh-oh.
31:08I mean, that's fine if you want me to leave, but I was asking him.
31:13I was so annoyed.
31:14You said you were a masseuse.
31:15Are you a masseuse?
31:16No, I'm not.
31:18And I didn't say...
31:18That's the reason why I was going to do it.
31:19I didn't say that I...
31:20I wanted a good massage, you know?
31:21I didn't say that I was a masseuse.
31:23I said I'm Asian, and Asians are good at massaging.
31:26Okay.
31:27It's true.
31:27Well, I believed it.
31:28But then, literally, you're like, I think I'm good.
31:30And then Olivia was like, yeah, get out of here.
31:32And I was just like...
31:33Okay, the walk up the stairs.
31:36You can see me walking in the background, and I was just like...
31:38And I went back in, and I was like, I don't know what just happened, but I didn't like it.
31:42It did not feel good.
31:43I didn't mean to cut you off.
31:44Sorry.
31:45No, you're good.
31:46I'm sorry.
31:46To be honest, that I didn't...
31:48No massage for you.
31:49I was just confused.
31:50Once again, things were going well.
31:52It was a little awkward position we were put in.
31:54You know, we were massage.
31:55She was massaging my back.
31:58How you doing?
31:59Doing good.
31:59What about you?
32:00Good, good.
32:01I'm so giddy.
32:01Look at me.
32:02I can't stop smiling.
32:03I don't know what you're talking about.
32:04The color is beautiful on you.
32:06All of my dates are at a 45-degree angle.
32:08With seven people in lights, cameras, and microphones.
32:11No, I'm kidding.
32:12It's so genuine, Robin.
32:14I love it.
32:14It's so you.
32:16Yeah.
32:16Well, it was genuine.
32:17You know, I think there was like a real connection.
32:20Yeah.
32:20And then like, as we're talking here, we had already like talked about everything like off
32:25camera.
32:25So we're just like rehashing this only now, like more articulately.
32:28Right.
32:28Because we had practiced beforehand.
32:30Like just like chit-chatting.
32:31I think he outshone every other guy here.
32:35True.
32:36There it is.
32:36Oh, cut.
32:37Cut to.
32:38Oh, no, no, no.
32:39That's at the very end.
32:40That's at the very end.
32:41Yeah.
32:41Sorry.
32:43Every time we kissed, I heard screams in the back.
32:46I was like, you guys.
32:48I heard, yeah.
32:50Was he a good kisser, Robin?
32:51Yes.
32:52Yeah.
32:52You see me like, when you guys had your first kiss, I was still standing behind you.
32:55You just see me going, I'm going to let myself out.
32:57Yes.
32:58Yeah.
32:58Well, yeah, grandpa came over here to speed us up.
33:04Grandpa's crazy.
33:05Who are you?
33:05Is this for me?
33:06Yeah.
33:06No, that's for you.
33:07Please, take it.
33:07That's so rude, man.
33:08Is this for you?
33:09No, I have an answer for you.
33:11It doesn't seem like you were interested at all.
33:14No.
33:15And like I said, literally nobody else like walking around that I saw was like even, you
33:20know, attempted.
33:21I think the reason why they brought Luca in because like he was like an older version of
33:26like Biagio in terms of like, you know, like the accent and all of that.
33:30So I see what they were trying to do.
33:32And you had no idea they were all watching in this moment.
33:35No, no.
33:35I only, I only figured out that they were, there they are.
33:38Double trouble.
33:39I'm always.
33:40Hi, Emily.
33:41So romantic.
33:42So romantic.
33:43How about you?
33:44Good.
33:44Yeah.
33:45Are you having a good time?
33:46What's happening over here?
33:47What the fuck is going on?
33:48Exactly.
33:49Oh, really?
33:49You can tell me right here?
33:50I was like, I don't want to leave.
33:52I'm so comfortable right here.
33:53Well, just tell me what, what is it that, that you like so much about her?
33:57About her?
33:58So much that closes you off to other people.
34:01I mean, that's a good question.
34:02But have you, if you spoke to her, I think it'd be a little easier for you to find that
34:05out.
34:05It's really easy to talk to her.
34:06I mean, out of, out of every.
34:07Oh, the montage.
34:09Yeah, the B-roll.
34:10But she has to be the easiest person to talk to.
34:13Yeah?
34:13Yeah.
34:14Oh, yeah.
34:14Yeah, look at her.
34:15She's like, oh, that's actually really sweet.
34:17She goes, that sounds smart.
34:18I think we just saw Emily crumble on her, on her sabotage.
34:21So what is your time?
34:24Before coming into this, what were you looking for?
34:27I mean, anything that moves?
34:29No, I'm kidding.
34:29I just, honestly, someone I could talk to, there's so much.
34:32Did you expect him to crumble in this moment or did you not see him cracking yet?
34:38I don't think so.
34:39I think I was pretty good.
34:39You could see me standing there.
34:40I was like, had a smile on my face.
34:42I was pretty confident that like she wasn't going to take him away from me because we had
34:46already at that point, like we like exchanged numbers, we're like texting each other, you
34:50know, like, like we're giving song recommendations already.
34:52And then like, again, like we're like, you know, already talking about like, you know,
34:55first date stuff already.
34:57I think I know what's coming next.
34:58Ah!
34:59Oh!
35:01There it is.
35:02Okay, I'm really big into astrology.
35:04Ooh!
35:05And I would love to know what your guys' signs are.
35:08I'm a...
35:09You just said merch for Pis.
35:10Is this, are we getting a sneak preview of this palm reading right now?
35:13I'm going to gas them up a little bit right here.
35:15Okay.
35:15Pisces, they're very emotional.
35:17They're very in tune with their emotions.
35:18They know what they're thinking a lot of times and they feel very deeply.
35:21They're very empathetic.
35:22I will say though, it's a known fact that Pisces are good kissers.
35:28I feel like maybe we should test this theory.
35:30On the fly.
35:31On the fly.
35:32I'm screaming, I'm screaming, I'm screaming.
35:33Look at me, look at me.
35:34I'm like, ah!
35:35Big smile on my face.
35:37I was like, hell yeah.
35:39Yes!
35:40Gimme!
35:41Yeah.
35:42Try to be coy.
35:44I feel like I'm getting like all like, oh, really good.
35:47Well, because, well, you'll see.
35:49You'll see.
35:54That's what, they're like faking out.
35:56On the first date.
35:58There it is.
36:02Look at my giddy smile.
36:04That was nice.
36:05Again, I heard the screaming.
36:07So I was like, so people are seeing this.
36:10Look at that big smile I have on.
36:13Wow.
36:14Yeah.
36:15Damn.
36:15I didn't tease myself.
36:17And that was very nice.
36:17Ugh!
36:18Feeling my things.
36:20Yep.
36:21Again, I like ran home.
36:23I was like, I kissed a boy!
36:24Oh my God!
36:26Are you open to a possibility of a second date?
36:31This is a lot.
36:32It's a lot.
36:33This is a lot.
36:34Absolutely.
36:37Everything's perfect.
36:38No.
36:40So, watching that.
36:41Yeah.
36:42Zero red flags for me.
36:43I don't know how you're feeling.
36:44If there was anything that happened as time went on that kind of showed you, maybe?
36:49No.
36:49I think that was like, it was like so, we were so quick on the get-go of like getting to know each other really, really well.
36:56And then it was just so easy to talk to him.
36:57I felt like I had known him for like ever.
37:00And I met him like literally like that day.
37:02Yesterday I met him.
37:03And then it was, you know, so great to kind of have that connection with somebody that felt so natural and really, really easy.
37:11And no, I think what I appreciated is that after, you know, the second time when I asked if he wanted to hang out and then he like made some excuse and then like we didn't really talk afterwards.
37:23I think I was like, I was like talking about it with my roommates and then like I was explaining to them like everything that happened.
37:28Like it was like such a crazy week for me.
37:30Like this doesn't happen in my everyday life.
37:32Like it was such a crazy like string of events.
37:35And then, um, and I was like asking my friends, like, was I more like really enjoying the connection that we had that was more like friendly?
37:43Did I read into it too much?
37:44Did he give off the vibe that he just wanted to be friends?
37:48But then if he did, why did he kiss me not on camera and like, you know, you know, invite me over to my house, his house and, and, you know, talk literally until like, you know, 1030 at night or something like that.
37:59And like, it was just so like easy.
38:01And I thought like we had like a really good and like strong connection and then, and then nothing.
38:06And I think that that's also kind of what, you know, hurt a little bit is like, you know, it was just so much, so intense connection for that five days and then like dropped cold turkey, like nothing.
38:19And I was like, that, that was kind of, you know, not great.
38:21And I'm talking with my roommates about it and they're like, like, oh, you know, like, I think he really did like you just like, like something happened, you know, they're saying all the nice things.
38:28And I'm like, yeah, I guess so, but you weren't there.
38:31But the thing is, I met you guys afterwards when we went out to dinner and then I was like telling you the whole thing.
38:37And like, it's not every day that you have people watching your first, second and third day.
38:42And then I was like asking the girls, I was like, I don't know, did I read into it?
38:45And you guys were like, no, no, it seemed like he really liked you.
38:49And I'm like, good.
38:49Like, I don't feel like crazy anymore.
38:51And I wish that everyone could have that experience of having like people watch their first, second and third day and then to get like feedback of like, did I read this wrong?
38:58Was I coming off weird?
39:00Like, like, you know, stuff like that to have people watching it.
39:02But obviously not everybody can have that experience.
39:04Is there anything that you think that he owes you?
39:07Like, not, not really, because again, like we literally met like five days ago.
39:12So it's not like, you know, I didn't felt, I didn't feel like he was leading me on or anything.
39:18I think it was just, you know, we had a spark and, you know, for whatever reason, he didn't want to move forward with it.
39:23And I guess it's easy to say, you know, like, like, oh, he's such a dick, like, you know, blah, blah, blah.
39:27And like, I kind of paint him as the bad guy.
39:29But like, I have to acknowledge that he's his own like rich human being and he has his own inner life.
39:35And, you know, he has his own things going on that, you know, whatever he decided to do, that was the choice that he wanted to make in that moment.
39:42And I have to respect that.
39:43And I think that that's, you know, it's, it wasn't any like mixed messages per se, but it was just kind of like, you know, whatever we had.
39:51Thank you for that.
39:52That was such a great, you know, time.
39:54What a crazy week that I had.
39:55That was like, I'm, and again, I think I make the joke and the thing where like, like, that's something that I'll, like, I'll take with me to my grave.
40:01Like I had a crazy week with, you know, a person who I really connected with.
40:05Maybe later on we'll see each other in life and I'll say hi, you know, you know, maybe we will reminisce or something.
40:11But like overall, I think it was just a nice experience for me to have and, and to have like, what was the phrase to have loved and lost is better to have never loved at all.
40:21You know, like that, that kind of thing where it's like, I'm, I'm glad to have, I didn't mean to say the L word in that situation.
40:26Yeah.
40:26But I think it's, it was nice to have that connection.
40:30And then, you know, I think I'm okay with like, not getting closure as to like, why that, you know, didn't move forward because now he's going on with his life and then I can go on with my life.
40:41Do you feel differently than Jude from how things ended with you and Olivia?
40:45Um, I think it was just, it was really, it was just really onscreen messy.
40:50Yeah.
40:50So there wasn't, I feel like there was a less spark.
40:54Yeah.
40:54Um, I don't know if people were out to get us more.
40:57I don't know if that was the reason.
40:58I mean, there they are right there, right?
41:01I'm just kidding.
41:02But regardless, I understand why you, it would be more toward us rather than, um, what they had going on, you know?
41:07So I feel like for that exact reason, I think there was just less of a general spark between, you know, just, I don't know.
41:13Yeah.
41:13Just kind of how it happened.
41:14Yeah.
41:15You know, could have been the order of the dates or whatever.
41:17Yeah.
41:18Could be anything.
41:18Yeah, exactly.
41:19That too.
41:20Yeah.
41:20Yeah.
41:21I love it.
41:22All right, you guys.
41:23Well, how do you feel about transitioning to a little game then?
41:26A game?
41:26I love games.
41:29All right.
41:29The game is called who is most likely to.
41:32Ooh, I love this.
41:33Between the four of you.
41:34Okay.
41:35Hey.
41:35Oh gosh.
41:36Do it.
41:36Okay.
41:36So the first question out of the four of you, who is most likely to fall for someone already taken?
41:43Three, two, one, go.
41:46Yeah.
41:48Sometimes it happens accidentally, I will say, because people are not honest.
41:54Who's actually caught real feelings on the show?
41:57Finger, I just can't.
41:58Oh.
41:59Yeah, yeah, yeah.
41:59Oh, okay.
42:00I was just like, Jude, are you?
42:02I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like.
42:02I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like, I was like.
42:03I was like, I was like, yeah.
42:03Yeah.
42:03All right.
42:04Who is most likely to be in a serious relationship one year from now?
42:09Oh.
42:10We all cry.
42:11Oh.
42:11Oh.
42:12But who is most likely to date a walking red flag?
42:16Three, two, one.
42:17Yeah.
42:18Yeah.
42:19Dude.
42:20Oh.
42:20At least you know.
42:21Yeah.
42:21Who is most likely to give the best advice, but never take it?
42:26Oh.
42:27I was going to say one of us.
42:28Oh, my gosh.
42:30Who is most likely to call out toxic behavior?
42:36I feel like either or.
42:38They're very similar.
42:39Yeah.
42:40This is our last one, you guys.
42:42Who is most likely to stay friends with everyone, no matter the drama?
42:45All of us.
42:48All of us.
42:48I was going to say, I was going to say, I was going to say, I was going to say, you're running
42:50it themselves, you know?
42:51Yeah.
42:51Cute.
42:51Yeah.
42:52We're sending memes in the group, Chow or Kiki.
42:54I really just like, I feel like all of us like on screen, we might like, especially
42:59at Saboteurs, we might seem like a little bit mean.
43:01We might seem a little bit but like in real life, I feel like all of us are such nice, lovely
43:06and like warm feeling people.
43:08Like, I don't know.
43:09I feel like all of us would stay friends with all of us.
43:12Because that was, I think like this is such a like a unique experience that not everybody
43:16gets to have.
43:18And so to even like be a part of it, like I'm like forever bonded to you guys because
43:21like trauma bonded, yes.
43:22Trauma bonded.
43:23Yeah.
43:23But I like there's nobody else that I can like talk to, especially like, you know, I was
43:28talking about with my roommates, like with like Biago and stuff.
43:30And like they only get like my side of the story when I can talk to you guys about it.
43:34And you guys know everything.
43:36And I think that's like so like...
43:37You didn't even have to tell us.
43:38I didn't even have to tell you.
43:39Yeah.
43:40In fact, you were telling me like, this is what I thought when he said this.
43:43I'm like, that's so crazy.
43:46Anything that you guys want the fans to know, whether it was a favorite experience from
43:50this, a lesson learned or a reputation you want to kind of save yourself from?
43:57One thing that I want to say for sure is so actually funny enough, the second day when
44:02I came back without like the goth makeup, I was by the crafty area and Rain was over
44:07there.
44:07Like, and we were just like, you know, grabbing a snack, whatever.
44:10And he like just looks at me.
44:12He's like, oh, like, I love the makeup today.
44:14And I was just like, oh, like, thank you.
44:15Like, you know.
44:16And then he and then he like goes and says like, oh, like, if you would have worn that
44:20on day one, like, I would have said yes.
44:24And I was just like, oh, like, and I, I forgot exactly what I said to him.
44:28But I said something like kind of sassy.
44:30And I just like walked away because I was like, what a Rain thing to say.
44:34It's very much like, um, if you don't like that every version of me, then you don't like
44:40me.
44:40Yeah, like, why would you like and so that's a message I really want to tell people is put
44:46your full freak out there, put your full like personality out there, like, be 110% of yourself
44:53in every situation where you're first meeting people because if they like you at 110%, then
44:58they'll like you at 30%.
45:00They'll like you at 40%.
45:00But if they only like you at 30%, who's gonna say they're gonna like you at that 110?
45:04Like, you know, so always make sure you're like, fully your authentic self, like to ward
45:09off like any situation like that where like, someone might say yes to you and want to like
45:13date you but then you want to do like, you know, crazy makeup or something is like and
45:18then all of a sudden they're like, oh, like, you know, always just be 100% like authentically
45:24you in every like dating situation.
45:26And whether or not like, like, you know, if you're hiding or not, it's going to ooze out
45:30into your everyday life who you really are.
45:31It will come out at like some point if you try to hide it or not.
45:34So it's only fair for the other person that you you come, you know, as you are rather
45:38than you know, anything else.
45:39I think that just all the reputation stuff aside, this experience taught me to like take
45:44more risks.
45:45And you know, to not even though that was literally what we did, don't judge a book by its cover,
45:49spend more time with people try to like, go outside of your comfort zone.
45:53And you know, date somebody give somebody a shot that you feel like maybe you wouldn't
45:57have, you know, paired with in real life and in a normal circumstance.
46:01Because you never know, you know what I mean?
46:02Like, I feel like the relationships, friendships, romantic, whatever that I personally made
46:07in this were not like, I can't even think of like Noelle, for example.
46:12I love Noelle down.
46:14Like, no, I love him.
46:16He's so funny.
46:17He's so cool.
46:18Everybody's obsessed with him.
46:19He came.
46:20Another thing too, that's just so sweet.
46:21Like, I know not everybody could come, but like planning the birthday, they plan like
46:25a birthday surprise for you too.
46:26Oh my God.
46:27And Noelle ended up coming.
46:28He brought a cake and like a plant, a whole plant.
46:32And, but if I was looking at it from the first day, Noelle, like just from what he
46:37was, you know, saying and how acting went on, I probably wouldn't have been like, hey,
46:41let's go hang out.
46:42You know what I mean?
46:42But now I'm like, oh my God, could I imagine not being friends with Noelle?
46:45That's crazy.
46:46Noelle, I love you.
46:47I would say one thing I didn't, it kind of came across my mind actually during this
46:52little conversation we're having was when I said I've never been in a relationship.
46:56I understand that's a red flag when people first hear that.
46:59You're young still.
47:00Yeah.
47:01That's what I'm saying.
47:01It's like, I am, I am still, I'm, I understand I'm not a perfect human being.
47:04Right.
47:05So I'm trying to work on that every day.
47:08I feel like I like, you know, like I learned two things on this fun adventure that we all
47:12had together.
47:13Like one of the first things is that, that I kind of appreciate is, you know, when people
47:17show you who they are, believe them.
47:20And I think I take that in one way of saying like, you know, I think he said, uh, Biago,
47:25I think Biago said in the, in one of the episodes on one of our dates that, um, he likes to plan
47:30things.
47:31He likes to take charge in the relationship.
47:32And then the fact that he kind of like, you know, left me on red, that's a cue to me to
47:36know that, you know, he's not just, he's just not that interested in you and that's okay.
47:40And I, I take that and I believe that there's no mixed messages there.
47:43I believe that.
47:44But then on the other side of it, when we were together and then we did have those good
47:47moments, we did have a spark.
47:48I believe that too.
47:49I believe that we did have a spark together and we did connect.
47:52And, you know, I'll believe, you know, when he said that, you know, he thought it was
47:55cute and charming.
47:56Like, I'll, I'll believe that because that's what he said.
47:58And I think I'll, I'll take it in both ways.
48:00And just, you know, that's just kind of how life plays out.
48:03And like the second thing that I think I've, I've learned on this is, you know, you know,
48:06how to say goodbye in, in a way, like on my first relationship, just kind of, you
48:10know, saying goodbye to what I thought my future would look like.
48:15I didn't think that I would be in the situation dating again, you know, after my long relationship,
48:19I thought I'd be in a, in a different place than I assumed that I'd be.
48:24And so I just kind of learned how to like grieve that relationship and then move on,
48:28you know, like, like be at peace with what happened and how that went down.
48:31Same thing with Biagia being at peace that, you know, everything happens, you know, how it
48:37played out and then it was fun while it lasted sucks that ends, but now we get to go on and
48:42enjoy life.
48:42And, you know, even though he, you know, left me on red, I get to, you know, take that for
48:47myself and I know how to like, kind of say goodbye to him, say goodbye to what we had and
48:52then move on.
48:53No hard feelings between the two of us.
48:55We're good.
48:56Yeah.
48:57Love that.
48:57Thank you so much for watching real short fans.
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49:08Why is it infamous?
49:10Infamous?
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