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00:00That is so funny.
00:02That's really good.
00:03Well, you guys have the idea.
00:04We all got the memo.
00:05I'm best known for my best-selling book, Rich as ,
00:08which has given me the nickname The Money Queen.
00:11My marriage has been eradicated from the Catholic Church.
00:14The letter came to Sutton Brown.
00:17Have you gone on any dates?
00:20Are you dating now?
00:21I'm not.
00:22I just haven't been leaving my house.
00:23Right.
00:24Girl, what?
00:25The truth about if Kyle is seeing somebody, it's like,
00:28I'm sorry, are we friends or not?
00:30I don't feel like being asked all the time about my private life.
00:33I was seeing someone, unfortunately.
00:35I'm single now.
00:36Since separating from Mo, I was at a very vulnerable place in my life,
00:41and I felt hard for this person.
00:44If it was only me, I would give all the answers they want.
00:48Yeah, it's not just about you.
00:52In this town, stars come and go, but diamonds last forever.
00:57I'd die for Vashen, but now I'm living for me.
01:02I turn ambition into an art form, and I am the masterpiece.
01:07I might live on a main road, but I definitely bring main character energy.
01:12I didn't marry into money.
01:14I manifested it.
01:16Survival isn't my story.
01:19It's my superpower.
01:21I'm unfiltered, unbothered, and finally, unburdened.
01:26Niko.
01:27Are we ready?
01:29You look so pretty.
01:30Yes.
01:31I'm ready.
01:32I'm in my matchmaking bag.
01:33I know.
01:34You got the roses.
01:35I feel like I'm, like, the hostess of The Bachelorette.
01:38And what are the men called?
01:39The Bachelors?
01:40Yes.
01:41That's what single men are called.
01:42I've never seen The Bachelorette.
01:43I've come to a striking realization.
01:45Almost everybody is single in this friend group.
01:46These girls are going through it.
01:47We've got our questions.
01:48I think Dorita's gonna be the most enthusiastic.
01:49Erica, too.
01:50No, Erica might scare them.
01:51And secretly, I think Kyle is gonna be very nervous.
01:54I want all the girls to come out and enjoy their responsibilities.
01:56Yes.
01:57I love my family.
01:58I love my family, too.
01:59I love my family, too.
02:00I love my family.
02:01I love my family.
02:02I love the family.
02:03I love my family.
02:06You're welcome.
02:07I'm so happy.
02:08That's your family, too.
02:09I love my family.
02:10We love my family.
02:11You're all my family.
02:12We love my family.
02:13the girls to come out and enjoy themselves but i think this might be an opportunity for kyle to
02:17really let her hair down learn a little i want to see that side of her i think the guys are already
02:22like comparing their resumes look at them cheers cheers fellas great to be here with you you don't
02:29have your cocktails yet sorry what bad timing i went through my contact list and found eligible
02:35bachelors that match the interests of my friends we are going to describe like keywords okay
02:42protector chivalrous safe sexy sexy what does that mean someone who likes sex and you can tell by
02:49looking at them oh i have done my research i mean this is a pretty good group they look good too
02:55oh i'm so glad everybody's here thanks for having us hi so nice to see you thank you for coming hi how
03:02are you hello oh good to see you now i'll tell you a secret these ladies are very nervous i can't tell
03:09you the group chat with the like what should i wear what should i say what am i gonna do
03:17it would be really great if one or all of them found true love tonight and even if it doesn't happen
03:22i'm still excited for them to flirt a little bit because maybe it'll loosen up the old wires that
03:29aren't necessarily clicking all the way they should be nervous we are intense yeah look you better cut it
03:34out okay give him a break i want to look like a normal human being right because you know men get
03:45scared yeah see for the face i think that we keep it young baby approachable but not could give you a
03:54blowjob in the alley but probably won't okay we have to make me look very pretty we're gonna make you
04:08look extra snatched this is running pretty sure i think i need a coca-cola because i am going to struggle
04:25i need a beverage now where are these ladies
04:44hi you look good why are you giggling already i know i feel really weird that might feel weird
04:51how about have a seat right there because they are over there oh no i know
05:01if you make me take my shoes off no no you don't have to this is the first time i was gonna bring
05:05some sanitizer i don't know what to make of kyle's single state is she single because she has accepted
05:11her separation from mo for somebody who's nervous you certainly don't look it is she single because she
05:17isn't dating anyone at all why did you bring the most expensive bag see this is clearly signaling
05:22your high maintenance oh my don't mess with me don't
05:32wow you are a goddess we all look like we're going to a funeral you guys
05:37she's just wearing black no she is not oh my god everybody's wearing black everybody's wearing
05:48black hello beautiful oh my gosh you look gorgeous everybody's wearing black let's see what sudden
05:54has it hi hi is that oh my god the key is you can't look like you tried too hard because that reads
06:01desperate and thirsty don't look like you spent three hours getting dressed like oh i just threw this on
06:06i look like the maid that's gonna bend over and get it i do think if you wear a little black dress
06:12on a first date you're saying i want to have sex with you oh my god she's wearing black everybody's
06:18in black i cannot even believe you do we look like we're going to a funeral yeah that's what i just said
06:23our subconscious is talking right now we do not look like a group of women that are looking to find a
06:30date we're all dressed in black like we just came from some sort of witch convention i think it
06:35just says where we all are in our lives is black it's a black cloud over all of us we have to get
06:42out of our heads she happens to know that they're all good guys yes they're all successful they're all
06:48very nice don't ask for any dick pics oh what those that is horrible how dare i've gotten enough of those
06:56dick pics in my dms i mean do they really think you're gonna be like oh my god that's so great hi
07:01can we go say hi to them let's go let's go girls let's go i'm rallying the troops are you taking
07:12your bags i'm wearing my sunglasses rachel is that rude no yes it's rude but they're rachel's old glasses
07:19hello everyone hi okay good good job dorit oh i'm so proud of her i'm dorit hi ben pleasure
07:27hydrate i'm chase thanks to meet you what happened let's go to jack of the box i didn't realize how
07:34many of these women are so socially awkward come on oh i hate this just kidding yes kyle erica cheers
07:44weird tuesday sutton okay well i knew sutton was it's itching because i have neuropathy it's gonna
07:50bother me yeah hey rick greg nice to meet you rick rick rick hi hi hi nice how are you nice to meet
08:01you how are you doing hi what was your name rachel hey rachel nice to meet you rachel rachel nice to
08:07meet you yeah wait does this feel like a receiving line you guys a fun fact i actually won the biggest
08:12flirt award when i was six years old in day camp a ribbon and everything where is your accent australian
08:18a soda yeah accent has two girls already i get it always always works doesn't it they asked us to
08:25choose a husband to marry on our campus and you know who i picked my 18 year old counselor do you
08:31have a drink no but i think i need one oh my god i feel so awkward hold on one second okay i gotta go to
08:36the bar what i've never seen this side of erica before where's a woman who is twirling around on stage
08:42making people nervous when she walks in the room probably got a whips and chains somewhere where is she
08:48can i have a cocktail yes no do you want to take a shot do you want to take a shot no i don't need a
08:53shot erica jane can do anything she can talk to anybody splits on stage run around in a costume but
08:59erica is very awkward i thought you had like some icebreaker activity i do but we lost i think i know we
09:06lost you just let it do it the old-fashioned way we lost somebody yes how long have you been single
09:11like a week no i'm kidding a year about four hours yeah okay that's long enough for me no well i guess
09:18a year i'm not going to suggest that i'm emotionally in the best place to date right now i've never heard
09:26a lemon referred to as the carcass when it's done listen it's just a drink that i like it's
09:32clean it's easy is that how you would describe yourself not easy i'm really not easy i mean
09:40but she is make sure you tell her i told you i will i'm a little out of practice but that doesn't
09:46mean it's gone i know i'm a good flirt yeah it's working right oh good i got everybody's attention
09:53well welcome i'm so glad everybody was able to come over so welcome cheers to you yes so we have
10:01some stations where the ladies will sit some questions that i've written but you are free
10:06to ask your own questions and then we'll keep going around around until everybody's met everybody
10:11i'm gay yes okay very good kyle you can sit here okay erica you're gonna go inside
10:17sutton you're going inside too i've never done anything like this i'd be more comfortable like
10:22standing on stage with no clothes i would like to gouge out my own eyeballs but i'm going to go with
10:28a smile on my face let me start my clock okay here we go um okay oh
10:41let me start my clock okay here we go have you been married no uh wow well yes that was a little
10:52oh well uh so you were a lawyer too uh i was but i'm not i'm still active with a bar but i'm not
10:57practicing thank god what do you do for fun no i don't think i've had that in a very long time so
11:01i've almost forgot you're such a sexy dress how could you not have fun well thank you are you more
11:05of a dominant or a submissive i've learned to be a bit more dominant in life i think the question
11:12means sexually oh i've been on a lot of bad dates and you know i did go on that one date with it was
11:19just all about the mother my mom still is in the house but i've been working from home so i can still
11:24be mom i'm the only guy whose mother tried to pull the what happens in vegas stays in vegas rule oh
11:32i kind of have this fearless factor when it comes to dating so show me what you got let's do this
11:38i started comic-con so if you're ever into superheroes no oh i can't did a lot not in los
11:44angeles why is that girls here are pretty bad okay where do you live you live on this side i'm i think
11:52we're on the west side right i think we're on the east side now okay so i don't know what side i live on
11:58oh i live in the valley okay do you know where that is that way okay who do you think is amazing
12:06maybe like led zeppin on the rolling stones and that's like it i don't know chris martin what's
12:10up yeah this cold play sucks what cold play sucks dude white women love cold play what when i was
12:17younger i was always in love with a guy that i shouldn't be in love with what i've realized is
12:21i'm still her i am still her i'm still the girl that is attracted to a very certain kind of person
12:30that is not the guy that probably everybody like wants to set me up with oh my god this is so much
12:36harder than i thought it is is it a little stressful it's so stressful i'm a real estate agent by the way
12:41my husband would die right now well i'm separated we did a deal i'm sure you did yeah i honestly
12:48cannot get away from mel i mean i wouldn't be surprised if he was here tonight as one of the
12:53bachelors i mean he does good deals have you been married i married a stranger in in los vegas for a
12:58day it was on my bucket list i was just gonna say it was a bucket list it was a bucket list because it's
13:03completely legal in your country in your country you can just you get married when i turn the charm on
13:08i'm not the girl that's like oh wow oh you look good have you been working out i'm more of the
13:16it's in the eyes maybe a little hair flip anyway so seductive i've been asking the guys everybody
13:27loves to read yeah look at them right now i have to tell you oh that's yeah thank you my darling but
13:32i think everybody likes sebastian yeah i like sebastian yes everybody likes go go back but look
13:38at them this is a match made they both have accents that's how i knew it was gonna work
13:42people say i'm loquacious so oh my god what a word were you like a big comic fan yeah i grew up
13:47collecting sports cards and comic books i love sports cards what kind of sports cards are we talking
13:51about baseball basketball all the cards excuse me yeah oh yeah c-a-r-d-s yes i have zero gang i can't
13:59small talk i don't know how to do it wait you're in the law right yeah but i do other things
14:05slimy weasel sutton has a lot more game than i do soft and feminine and southern and you know ha
14:13your accent's great just a hint of georgia but it's more if i go home or if i talk to my mother
14:18too long the order listen when i'm on the phone with my family back home right new york comes right
14:22out absolutely right back i've been fortunate to work in baseball i've represented a bunch of players
14:26my apologies you are halfway through your conversation oh okay yeah time is flying by i know when you're
14:32having fun i like rick he is easy to talk to he seems interested in me he has potential this rick
14:40our time is up okay now we're all gonna get back together sure okay so we can go back in here okay
14:45what's happening you guys well everybody i would like to say good night to our gentlemen oh good night
14:52guys it was nice meeting all y'all wait wait this is me all right let me know all right i'll let you
15:00know it's in your court still got it obviously i love bows and there's nothing i won't do for her or
15:08with her i need fire pit but like i knew full well there was zero percent chance i was meeting a guy
15:14at a speed dating event jory was that your first like meet new guys moment actually and i feel like
15:20you did great oh i feel like you're very good in this situation by the way i feel like you were fully
15:24rolling guys each guy right tonight was a boost of confidence it felt like the feminine flirty fun
15:32dorit was here and it felt good who was our favorite guy the aussie guy was great
15:38he was really fun i liked rick did he give you his car because he gave me okay okay
15:47y'all i'm just saying your attorney husband didn't work out so well
15:55coming up in order to be friends i want to know the information so that i can also
16:00be helpful why don't you ask what you really want to ask
16:08okay okay who's our favorite guy i like rick did he give you his car because he gave me okay
16:16your attorney husband didn't work out so well
16:22i'm about to do something really important she's gonna throw it in the fire no in the spirit
16:27of kindness and being like a good friend truthfully this is for you whoa
16:33it's taken a long time for sutna and i to get to a good place and rick seems like a really nice guy
16:38yeah sutton enjoy him i'm gonna give the lawyer thing a rest case dismissed um kyle do you feel
16:46that you are actively looking to meet someone of course not i mean i'm not i'm not what do you mean
16:54of course you mean of course no no i'm not i mean you're not actively looking for anybody i'm not three
17:00years in i mean like is that what you want i would be looking for a life partner like well i want to
17:08get married again you want to be married again i think i would want to get married again really
17:13dorit do you want to come talk with me for like five minutes pardon come here come talk with me for
17:19a minute i want to talk to you oh okay go ahead i just want to catch up with you and how you're doing
17:25and pk and all of that sutton you want to sit here yeah is that okay have a seat i was asking
17:31dorit what's going on and then i was just trying to check in on her and see how the kids are did they
17:36go to florida my kids are supposed to go to florida with their grandparents and pk is now i got a
17:42letter today from the lawyer saying that he's going to block it they did go to florida so the kids are
17:49having a good time they are having the greatest what are you doing now that they're not are you
17:54resting the best thing that you can do is take care of yourself yes you have to i know i have to
18:00and you don't want to use against you you know what i mean exactly that's by the way that's by design
18:06here's the thing when you're going through a divorce your state of mind is like a big deal anything
18:13and everything will be used against you to make you look not the best so you have to be careful
18:19what you say how you say it who you say it to where you hanging out who you hanging out with
18:23where you spending money and it's a long road yes dudes can get away with a hell of a lot more than
18:30mothers the great news is this you will come ashore and you will survive yes yeah you will and your
18:37children will too and all for the better you know you just have to get through it and it sucks and i'm
18:43really sorry yeah it does suck this is really nice to see a different side of sutton she's talking to me
18:51from her heart i know she has the experience and it feels genuine i completely sympathize
18:59with dorit i see a little bit of myself in this um broken wing that she's walking around with
19:06it's so sad it's just the hardest thing to watch i want to be a good friend to everybody yeah of
19:15course you know i think kyle is somebody that i'm like okay i'm like peeling back the onion do you
19:21like anybody was there anything that sparked if not i'm like okay tell me girl what you want i mean
19:26gosh my gosh you know i'm not the only single one here um you don't want to like just be no no you
19:33are not a one night only girl no so we got to find somebody with substance but how many times have
19:38you been in love have i been in love how many times have you been in love like say oh in love yeah
19:43three times three yeah in my life how many have you been in love four how many times three yeah have
19:51you found love again uh yeah since okay yeah well that's a good feeling yeah i have love to me but
19:58okay but now you don't no and now i'm just figuring it out no now i'm just i mean i did but now i'm
20:07now i'm on my own again so okay okay yeah boz is acting like she's never heard anything or seen
20:14anything and she's asking me all these questions and i'm like okay buzz was it by choice not to be in
20:21love now um no it's not it's just complicated i think it's been really challenging for kyle to be
20:32vulnerable you said that you had never before questioned your sexuality but when public speculation
20:38went into overdrive you would even talk to your daughters about it just a really proud moment for
20:43me as a mom how my daughters reacted they supported you oh my gosh like beyond and it was a really
20:50uncomfortable hard conversation to have but i'm really glad that she's at least sharing a little
20:56bit with me now because i want to be there for her i want to be able to support in every way that i can
21:02as a friend i told you i'm a girl's girl i want to like be in everybody's business you're a lady not
21:07because i want to be in the business but because i'm like but in order to be friends why don't you
21:13ask what you really want to ask what's that what do you think i want to ask i don't know i could go
21:18brad i could go angelina that's what you want me to say right i mean is that serious if we go brad or
21:25angelina i know i mean i'm like half joking but not fully joking open i don't know listen i've learned
21:32a lot about myself i think it doesn't gender doesn't matter i think it's yeah i think it is a
21:38connection with a yeah you know a soul connection i think my biggest worry after mo and i separated
21:45was really that i was going to maybe be alone one day and then to find someone that you have a lot in
21:53common with and you can laugh with and have fun it was exciting for me because i proved to myself oh you
22:02know i actually can meet someone after a marriage of this many years i've always been attracted to
22:09men you know like tall dark and handsome could that apply to women i also felt nervous about why go out
22:17with somebody like what is mo gonna think about that what are the girls gonna think about that what
22:23is the public going to think about that i don't really know so kyle to be honest with you i actually
22:29don't think you have to know you have been with mo for ever she said 30 years and i think it's okay
22:34to now be like i'm freely being me and whatever that feels like and whoever i connect with the most
22:40i've gone through so much in these past few years and it really has changed my perspective on life and
22:48how i want to live while i am sad about the relationship i'm also really grateful you get
22:56lost and being a wife and a mother and you can kind of forget about who you are and i learned a lot
23:05about myself in that time i'm gonna go back in my contact list no no you know what i am i'm a fake kind of
23:14person coming up maybe i'll change my name back to brown i dropped my married name the day i left
23:23it's like my last little it is it is but you're not married to me anymore
23:44oh can i do this you guys can absolutely oh sure she do you want to paint she's right she's right
24:05behind you she's right behind you she's literally right next to you oh hi okay you want to paint a
24:11dragon no cake he wants to help let's go here here mama help you want me to help you get the stuff
24:17so i heard the beads stick i'll show you i've never done that activity before hey that's my side
24:23what if we both paint on both sides and we work together collaboratively how does uh where you go up in
24:29oklahoma get thorough from where your children are right um okay so i come from pretty humble
24:38beginnings we didn't really have a lot on friday nights i used to hang out at walmart we would like
24:43go walk i would walk around walmart do you want to go jet skiing with dad out of my own we're going
24:48jet skiing in the morning of course of course they will never grasp but the reason i have them in a
24:53stroller walking around beverly hills like getting ice cream and going to lunch or whatever is because
24:58i dreamed this for them like we walk the streets that i watched on clueless like that you know
25:05it looks like i'm going to disney on monday daddy has a new project at disney world sunday you have
25:11water polo correct at 11 yeah i'm gonna take liam and i'm gonna try to go to pilates that day during
25:16nap time eddie is my partner and fiance and lover we met in 2019 and so we've been together five years
25:25eddie is in construction isn't he so cute though he's like so good okay before daddy proposed like
25:32i kept having the dream that he got me a ring with the smart and final logo on it
25:39get your oklahoma out of here so once eddie and i were living together he asked me what i wanted what
25:44my priorities were i was about to turn 36 and i remember telling him that there was an expiration
25:50date on my ovaries more than there was an expiration date on my ring finger and i thought we should get
25:55to making babies it did take a while for us to get engaged but then daddy crushed it he got me the
26:02exact ring that had been on my vision board literally okay as a financial empowerment teacher
26:08and coach i'm the embodiment of everything i teached i'm my biggest testimonial i remember
26:15someone who was in one of my courses and they're like of course amanda wouldn't come through just
26:19manifesting a man amanda comes through manifesting a whole ass family i'm really thankful you cook
26:24and i'm really thankful you cook it yeah or else nobody would eat no
26:38like hello you are so sweet hi you look so gorgeous hi i feel so casual i'm so sorry you look
27:01gorgeous why are you i'm in jeans i okay we're both in jeans yeah i love your house thank you i have a
27:06penchant for white houses i love white house me too you drink white wine yes i brought you some
27:11white wine and i love this i love puly fussy yes thank you so much i know sutton because we have
27:19like some mutual friends so i end up seeing her at different like events and lunches and parties when
27:25i do that sort of circuit you know around the holidays especially i always see her at kathy's
27:30um but she was always someone who was very like friendly and outgoing invites me to all these
27:36parties and things like that i just had never gotten close with her wait i feel like we have
27:40so much to discuss how's it going i mean can we talk about boz's house i can't believe we just did
27:48like a speed dating night like i didn't know that there was a name for this did you think any of the
27:52guys were cute the guys were cute the guy with the hair i feel like he was like good looking and cute
27:59yeah right yeah felt like not up
28:05it's all relative you know i think i'm still so fresh out of marriage so i think i'm really enjoying
28:12not being married right would you get married so you know for me it's complicated because i found out
28:18um a little over a year ago my ex-husband um he asked for an annulment with the catholic church
28:25like within the church our marriage never existed but when i got the letter from the catholic church
28:34uh it came to strike brown and brown is my maiden name i'm like okay i kept looking at it
28:43strike brown and so i thought well maybe maybe i'll change my name back to brown i dropped my
28:51married name the day i left really yeah well the truth is i'm not a strike so unstruck you know i'm
28:59not you should distract i know but it's like my last little it is it is but you know what you're not
29:06married to him anymore i always felt that i could get christian back whenever i wanted to sometimes when
29:15we talk i'm like in this little moment like did i just went in back for a second i think i realized
29:24with this annulment he is not going to take me back
29:29it's over oh rachel why do you want to make me cry i don't want to make you cry but i also want
29:40you to grandchildren i'm like so what grandma and grandpa's track over there are the good ones with
29:46all the houses all over the world and i'm just sorry i'm mommy brown over here with my four dogs and
29:53probably 18 cats look 18 cats is a problem in and of itself but that's a whole different story
30:00i know a lot of women who want to keep their married name and sometimes it's status
30:05sometimes it's because they're not over the marriage and they want to hold on to it and um
30:10i'm not one of them something around's not bad what's your middle name oh no what's your middle name
30:17it's thurman okay harder coming up do you know about your retirement accounts no retirement accounts
30:29exist as far as i'm concerned money's not invested i'm in the unknown
30:47i'm excited to see flowers i know me too another thing we're checking off the list we need to get
30:52with the program
30:57hello how are you hi welcome to orchid republic we have an appointment here for her of course
31:03hi margarita margarita nice to meet you we're trying to get some inspo and ideas for her wedding
31:09flowers what is your color scheme and what are the flowers maybe that you're thinking about
31:15i don't have a color scheme i do want colorful bohemian i like like the wild unique looking flowers you
31:25know one like artichokes alexia's ideas give me a little stress sometimes because my wedding was
31:35more traditional black tie at a country club i had 12 bridesmaids and very traditional flowers like pink
31:42and white roses let's just look in here for a second and see if we can find something like oh look at
31:47that one right there that's too many purples too many purples of course alexia is my earth child
31:53free spirit so i expect this to be very eclectic i actually like more like this vibe than that
32:01bringing some of these guys in look at these tiny balls i love them do you guys have any like drippies
32:08this is getting artichokes perfect ooh see would those look pretty in here do you like the more
32:13organic-y vibe we're getting somewhere guys i love that she has her own unique style
32:21frozen but it's just trying to get her to nail down the actual look she wants so we can just put
32:26this to rest this looks so pretty look at that you like that i do this matches like the bridesmaids
32:32dresses color scheme you said there's no bridesmaids mother i'm still having like bridesmaids and just
32:39not doing the walk and not matching dresses i want matching dresses you didn't say that you said colors
32:44not matching yeah yeah that's still matching dad and i are both walking in with you yeah okay of course
32:50yeah you're gonna walk me down that's so crazy it does feel strange now to think that my daughter
32:57our daughter is getting married and we're not together i would like to take the flowers home
33:03so that jake can give the green light i always like him to have the final yes when i look at alexia
33:10and jake getting married i just hope that they have a long happy marriage i hope that they can
33:15always trust each other i hope that
33:17i hope that jake always looks at alexia the way he looks at her today
33:35but when you look back one day at your wedding photos as long as you look back and you're like
33:41oh that's exactly what you know what i wanted and you know that's what i wanted at the time
33:47mo and me we were also really happy
33:53so do i get scared thinking i hope one day they don't go through what we're going through of course
33:58i think like that i'm hoping that they have both learned from mo and me through all of this
34:06and love and respect each other as much you know 30 40 years from now as they do today
34:15i'm telling you i'm going to have a very different wedding with each of your sisters yeah god help me
34:19with sophia's
34:28hi welcome to jemma feed me pasta and tell me i'm pretty oh yes please have that again right this way
34:35thank you fabulous can i get you started with some still or sparkling water still would be great
34:41sounds good hi how are you oh hey honey how are you i am good good good
34:48good get us started with something to drink over here can i have a nice tea yeah absolutely i'll have
34:53arnold palmer you got it thank you i met amanda at jennifer tilly's party whose jacket is that by the
34:58way this is about mine this is my model i would knock you down put you in that pool out there and
35:03take the jacket and go thank you i'm taking both those things as a compliment she seems interesting
35:07she's a businesswoman she's getting married so i want to get to know her better did you ever start
35:13in like the corporate space no i have no always formal business experience you've always been an
35:19i have a master's in counseling i don't know that i had this language at the time but i was like let's
35:23make this a personal development brand yeah like what do i want to be about so i started putting out
35:28really good content online every day i started out as a therapist and life coach and later a business
35:33coach as my audience grew and i wanted to help more people i began to create online courses to help
35:40people create both the professional and personal life of their dreams oh interesting so then i created
35:45a digital course called become a life coach oh and then i found that i had a a gift a niche
35:51uh around money but not around like i'm not a financial planner you know around like the
35:58energetic part of money the mindset part the psychology around it right most people who teach
36:05on money focus on the practical aspects of money exclusively i think their practical aspects are
36:11really important but i think the foundation is our relationship with money which involves the
36:15psychological the emotional and the energetic that's really what i became known for that's what i wrote
36:21my book on i have a best-selling book called rich as oh yeah um so then i became known as the money
36:26queen yes but i create courses on all kinds of things well hello hello hi hi baby you are love you
36:34you're just so gorgeous so good to see you good to see you too here i'll take your bag thank you thank you
36:39oh i'll take her back that's not what i meant i'll take her back so i've been thinking about you a lot
36:45since the party i really have sending you love and good vibes every day and praying you're getting some
36:49sleep oh i really have i have every day you've been on my mind yeah that's really very sweet no i mean it
36:55my first impression of amanda to be honest i didn't know what to make of her
36:59but now hearing her say how she was thinking about me all weekend and prayed for me
37:09it's incredibly kind and sweet and caring the french fries because that's the most important
37:15thing yes it is let's do the kale salad um it looks like this calamari is gluten-free
37:20calamari is gluten-free well that never happens i haven't had calamari in here
37:23yeah okay so i have to do that awesome i'll get that started um my what do i say my husband
37:29my ex-husband i don't know what to say i keep saying estranged okay yeah i know
37:33estranged husband yeah that's your official phrase but in any case he's very much an alpha male
37:37a businessman he built a very big business in the uk and when the world tilted on an access in 2008
37:45he lost his business when pk and i married we did not have a prenup pk came into the relationship broke
37:52he had lost his business and he was really starting from scratch so there was nothing to protect and
37:58when we got married the finances he really was handling everything and you had kind of delegated
38:06it out of your mind yeah you weren't thinking about how the finances work no we had a business manager
38:11i filed for divorce a couple of months ago there wasn't like a handoff there wasn't like an agreement
38:18there was nothing i just would find out that he's not going to pay this anymore
38:31wait wait wait so you're living in the house the family home yes and he's trying to not pay the
38:53mortgage like for example he's currently paying the mortgage he's just randomly deciding you're
38:58on your own absolutely he's thinking she's making x no for the last 14 years pk has been paying the
39:07lion's share of our family outgoings when we separated he said that the finances would stay the
39:12same she's now having more financial responsibility than in the past but not but right but it hasn't been
39:19mutually decided upon no a month later i got an email saying that he decided he's no longer going
39:24to do that and i was like how can you change this all of a sudden and his answer was i only agreed to
39:30that for one month for you to have a fair position in mediation you have to know what you're working with
39:37do you know about your retirement accounts no retirement accounts exist as far as i'm concerned
39:41and no money's not invested i have yet to discover everything and i can tell you i'm in the unknown
39:52when peter died i was left with the financial responsibility of raising leo on my own david is
39:58in a similar position she needs to understand where the money is i'm hoping i'm praying that there's been
40:03money invested like these are things that people live off of how do you get here like you have to turn
40:09a blind eye to your bank accounts for a long time to be in a state where you have no idea if you have
40:15retirement i mean this is like basic information every woman should know about their financial reality
40:22my husband's a complex person he's complex he's not a bad guy like a terrible bad guy vicious
40:30does he have some bad behavior absolutely and then you throw drinking into the mix and that for
40:37someone of his character it gets even more complicated right not only that but my name is on
40:44everything when i found out our house was in pre-foreclosure i wasn't just worried about losing
40:50the house the house is in my name so pk stops paying for something or doesn't make payments it's
40:57me that suffers the consequences i can't do anything right now my hands are tied behind my back so you need
41:03the clean break i can't buy everything back up exactly what can dorit do like proactively knowing
41:10like all of these unknowns is there anything that she can proactively do to protect herself or to like
41:16help the situation i think you have to decide what you want what you're creating and like who you're
41:21gonna be like i know that's like a big overarching question but who do you want to be as a provider
41:25who do you want to be as a woman who earns who do you want to be as a woman who has been screwed her and
41:28now she has to fill in the gaps like who are you gonna be no matter what he does right you know what i'm
41:32saying totally because you're going to keep your mind right to go through this battle with this man
41:36oh yes what is this frou-frou mess we talking about i was looking for one plus one equals two
41:43intentions what kind of provider does she want to be what does that even mean this is not financial
41:49advice the math ain't mapping the road we're going there are no winners it is going to get very very ugly
42:03next on the real housewives of beverly hills erica said boring i got her in that moment don't think
42:09for two seconds that you got her in that moment
42:14just go not here we come let's go baby this is hot girl summer rachel see i don't know my luggage
42:21what not the fashionista with no clothes did you see that picture of erica in the tabloids with that guy
42:28did he approach you
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