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00:00Deadpool.
00:01Deadpool.
00:02There.
00:03Finn.
00:04Oh, that's it right there.
00:07Yeah.
00:08It's so pretty.
00:09Today, we're taking our first tour of a possible wedding venue.
00:14Nice to meet you.
00:15Welcome to Crystal View.
00:17Oh, hi.
00:19My first impression is very echoey.
00:23Are your tics OK?
00:25Joe Biden does crystal math.
00:27This might not be the right one for us.
00:29Sammy's anxiety and OCD becomes disabling.
00:32I can only say certain things.
00:34She has done a very good job at hiding it, but it has become more difficult.
00:53We have been talking about our marriage, and it started with some premarital counseling.
01:02If someone gets involved in our relationship or marriage too much, where does it end?
01:10Colin, did anything come up for you?
01:13I've been holding on to something for a while now, and it's not easy to say out loud because
01:19I know it's going to affect Baylen.
01:20I know it's going to affect Baylen.
01:21I know it's going to affect Baylen.
01:26I know it's going to affect Baylen.
01:27I know it's going to affect Baylen.
01:32So, Colin, did anything come up for you that you thought would be important to bring
01:44up together?
01:45yeah i mean there is something i want to talk about yeah so obviously dick you know that
01:56here soon i have to make like a career decision and that is like a super like heavy
02:04burden that i guess i could say that i have um i feel like the pressure is on me to either
02:13stay in the military or go into some kind of government job that way we have health insurance
02:20being able to have that kind of benefits especially with someone with her condition i know is like
02:27huge but i don't necessarily really want to do either one of those things right
02:35i've been in the military for about five years now and my contract will be expiring in about a year
02:45i joined at 19 and i was just a kid immature the military is the reason that i'm the man who i am
02:54but now i'm headed into a completely different phase of life and lately i've been wondering
03:00if there's a different career path for me outside of the military but if i do decide to change careers
03:07i need a job that i'm going to be successful in be happy in and also still be able to provide for me
03:14and my family i feel like i'm being pulled almost and so it's just like between what like family members
03:24and friends especially your dad want me to like choose a career path that's secured financially
03:32and it scares me that i like may not go in that direction that everyone else wants me to go in
03:38yeah but none of that would make you happy yeah colin discussed feeling really concerned about the
03:47expectations from family and friends stressors that he's been holding in for quite some time
03:52and while a lot of couples struggle financially they're already dealing with more of a challenge
03:59as a result of phalan's conditions do you feel like it is solely on you to provide for the both
04:05of you and your future family financially yeah i mean it's just really hard for her to work a regular
04:11job so it kind of has to be like on me to be able to make the main source of income that's a lot of
04:19pressure on you yeah there's a lot that goes on trying to take care of balen on a day-to-day basis
04:26just the weight of trying to fill the shoes of her parents making sure that she's okay she's taking
04:35her medicine taking care of three dogs the weight of expenses in the future it's a lot and i have to
04:44make sure that i don't let it affect balen i don't let balen see that i have all of this going on up here
04:49but it is weighing on me a lot and everyone has a breaking point somewhere i just don't want to
04:57hit mine so what i hear you saying colin is that you don't want to bring her that stress you
05:05don't want to share that with her but like i don't want you to hold it like into yourself like you
05:11wouldn't want me to do that to myself yeah but it's different when i hear that it just is like
05:17it's different though it's like you already have a lot of moving parts in your life so then for me to
05:23like add on to like my stress to that i don't want to do that to you like i don't want you to be
05:30overwhelmed and be stressed out like it's just like that that way like it it almost makes me feel like
05:38okay i have to do this on my own in a way oh i don't want you to feel like that yeah
05:45i'm hearing that you're also struggling with other people's opinions
05:52and separating that from yours and mine like you don't want to upset them or like not please
06:02everybody kind of like how i am i knew that colin was stressed about his career but i didn't know
06:10that he was this overwhelmed this is something i've always worried about because with my tourette
06:18and other conditions it can be a lot not just for me but also for colin to take on as my partner
06:23so the last thing i want is colin to protect me from these type of difficult subjects
06:28it's not healthy for him or our relationship it breaks my heart that he's been keeping this in
06:36you don't want to put anything on to me and i understand that however you doing that
06:44hurt is hurting yourself and i don't want to feel disconnected from you
06:50regarding the pressure he feels from family and friends opinions
06:55i know it sucks because i feel it too i feel like i'm stuck in the middle of colin and them
07:00and that's going to be a harder issue for me to address because i usually see both sides
07:05everything that everyone else says almost shouldn't be a burden
07:10and i know that it's still going to be
07:13and i'm telling you like
07:16suck a fat
07:19i'm telling you that like that's between us that's not between
07:24my dad your parents no one and if we believe that it can work
07:30then
07:31it'll happen
07:33it's just really nice to know that
07:39no matter what i decide she she just wants me to be happy
07:43you have a few things to focus on until i see you next thank you so much
07:49but i still have a lot to figure out with our financial future and i have a feeling alan isn't
07:56really going to let it go until i make some real decisions
08:02what you say to me
08:07can't tell me what you're doing
08:09don't let the rules down
08:11give me a clue
08:13welcome to pin day we got the hot wheels we got a little cash
08:18you want to keep it from here
08:20hey let's do something
08:23what are we doing
08:26starting something for a project
08:29don't try to block it
08:31you're clearly trying to hide something which is weird
08:36i can usually tell when al has something up his sleeve
08:50and there's always something crazy going on in this head of his where he's conjuring up some silly ideas
08:55um the sooner i find out the better because this is just awkward
08:58yeah so i've been working on a surprise for balen just in case she can't or can't have certain things at her wedding
09:07but we don't know that much about her wedding or her venue yet like we only know
09:11no she needs the dogs there that's really all we know so i don't know how you are coming up with
09:18this and thinking that it's just gonna fit into whatever
09:23it's gonna fit in
09:23it's gonna fit in
09:25so here's the deal i've been thinking a lot about balen's wedding
09:29and how sensitive she is to her surroundings
09:32and i want to pitch an idea to her
09:35but before i pitch it i want her to envision it
09:39and that's what my secret little project is all about
09:42do you want it to be a surprise for me too
09:44am i not allowed to see this again
09:45yes of course i'm just gonna do this
09:47okay i'm just gonna show you this and then you just can say
09:49wow or you can say that's never going anywhere
09:53will you let samia and burke see it when they fly in for their long summer weekend
09:57with their mom and dad yeah so you're telling me it's gonna be done for the weekend
10:02this yeah and the longer you bother me about it the less i'm working on this
10:08you know what i mean like i gotta
10:10okay get some get some things done
10:13i'm a little nervous i mean with the wedding coming up
10:17and with balen's condition we know that she needs help
10:21but i also don't want us to overstep our boundaries
10:26okay but i guess i have no choice but to wait and see what's up alan's sleeve in this carving situation
10:36nope hurry up and wait
10:38i can still see you
10:43and i have so many questions for you so many questions
10:47hi baby
10:51sammy and burke are both in town for a long weekend
10:54they live out of state so i don't see them as much
10:57did i tell you guys that me and connor are in premarital therapy
11:00i didn't know he was carrying stress with like the future and him getting out of the military
11:04and because he knows you can't work a normal job
11:07mm-hmm yeah
11:08naylon i want to show you something that we got outside
11:12what yeah what are we doing
11:15julie doesn't have a clue
11:17i keep her in the dark about things
11:19because that's the fastest way to get my ideas ruined
11:22is to invite her into my mind space on these
11:25you're being creepy and weird right now
11:37and i'm a pedigree
11:38i could chill it in my own menagerie
11:41this means brush your teeth for the day
11:44let's get the whole one
11:45we have no food
11:51are you not hungry
11:53no
11:53we can go grocery shopping and get food
11:56and we can cook something
11:57okay
11:58so what are you up to today
12:00any plans
12:01i am gonna go hang out with sammy and burke
12:04she finally got to be able to be on a plane because of her ocd and all of her rituals
12:09so
12:10yeah that's good i'm glad
12:11how are you feeling after therapy
12:14fine
12:16i'm like
12:18i feel closer
12:19mm-hmm
12:21i don't know how i feel
12:24what
12:25i feel fine
12:26okay
12:29after one session of premarital counseling
12:32this marriage stuff is getting
12:34dick down in dallas
12:36is getting real
12:38stop i knew you were gonna laugh
12:41i look over there's just a
12:42i didn't know that
12:44you carried a lot of weight
12:47and a lot of burden on your shoulders
12:49with finances
12:50and wedding planning
12:53and saving money
12:55and
12:56the stress of work
12:58and the unknown of that
13:00i had no idea
13:01yeah
13:02i just
13:03don't want you to carry
13:05the stress by yourself
13:07if i'm
13:09i can handle some stress
13:10i honestly really appreciate
13:14balen
13:14saying that she wants to help out with
13:17all of the burdens that i've been carrying
13:19but
13:20there's a reason why i haven't
13:23you know brought this up to her
13:24and it's because i know that
13:25stressful stuff
13:27sets off her anxiety
13:29but a part of
13:32this whole counseling thing
13:33is learning to trust
13:34if she says that
13:35i need to be open about something
13:37then i need to be
13:39let's talk about
13:40some of the big expenses
13:42that we have coming up
13:44do you want me to get out
13:45my calculator for this
13:46wedding
13:47house
13:49eventually
13:50bachelor bachelorette trip
13:53honeymoon
13:53let's stop adding
13:55all the stuff
13:56a lot of money right there
13:58it's okay it's fine
14:02so i mean
14:03we need to find ways
14:05to be able to save money
14:07so that we can
14:08be able to
14:09not have to worry about all of those
14:11in the next year
14:13what do we
14:15cut
14:15well we spend a lot of money
14:18dick
14:18on
14:18sorry
14:19good
14:20yeah
14:20sure
14:21yep
14:21dick
14:23yep
14:23okay here we go
14:24i mean
14:26we can
14:28start cutting
14:29by
14:30you not shopping as much
14:32it's so hard to save
14:38when your love language
14:39is overpriced deliveries
14:41and shopping
14:43it's kind of hard
14:44every day
14:45she's looking on some website
14:48the reason why i have like
14:52the shopping addiction
14:53is because i don't
14:55go out and regularly
14:57go shopping
14:58because of my tics
14:59no you're just addicted
15:02all around
15:03is that your name
15:04well
15:06you name it
15:07i got it
15:08just about
15:11also if we can start
15:13cooking more meals here
15:14the both of us
15:16not ordering food deliveries
15:17yep
15:18we do that a lot
15:19a lot
15:20well
15:20i really want to cook more
15:22but as you know
15:23as we get later into the day
15:25and like making meals
15:26and like
15:27just with my tics
15:28it gets a lot
15:29harder
15:30so i know that
15:31i go to
15:32almost like
15:33ordering food
15:35as like a comfort
15:36because i'm just too scared
15:37but i feel like i can like
15:39come out of my comfort zone
15:40a little bit
15:40because i need
15:41we need to save some money
15:43i would appreciate that
15:45the more we talk about it
15:49the more i realize
15:49this isn't gonna be easy
15:51you little bitch
15:52yep
15:53but we're gonna try
15:54yep
15:54you little bitch
15:56what is setting that
15:59dick off
16:00i don't know
16:01bitch
16:10Get your paper on, we gon' have a good time,
16:13we gon' have a good time, yeah, live it up, live it up.
16:20Bitch.
16:23Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend.
16:25They both live out of state, so I don't see them as much.
16:28So we're meeting up in a bar around my neighborhood.
16:34Where are Burke and Sammy?
16:38I don't like this.
16:41Oh, damn.
16:43Oh, damn.
16:47Of course they're late.
16:49I absolutely hate walking into anywhere alone.
16:55It's kind of like torture,
16:57because I'm just worried about the other people's reactions
17:01that are in the building.
17:03Woo-hoo, woo-woo-woo!
17:08Oh, thank God they're here.
17:12Oh, thank God.
17:14My baby!
17:16Don't ever let me be the first one at the function ever again.
17:19Hi, baby!
17:21I love you, I love you, I love you.
17:23I haven't seen Sammy in a long time.
17:26You look so good with your hair like this.
17:29Oh, thanks.
17:30She has severe OCD and anxiety,
17:33so it's always been hard for her to leave her comfort and travel home.
17:38Hi, Burke.
17:39What's up?
17:40What's up?
17:41What's up?
17:42My oldest brother Burke's living in Tampa.
17:45He is currently honestly thriving down there and loves it.
17:49How was your flight today?
17:50I was worried that you weren't going to get on the plane.
17:52Dude, I was at this flight.
17:54I can't get up and walk around, but I can't sit still.
17:57I can't watch a movie.
17:59I just...
18:00It's just a lot.
18:02Traveling with my OCD and flying is...
18:05Obsessive-compulsive dick.
18:07...disorder is very challenging for me,
18:10and some days are harder than others.
18:13Objection!
18:15Where the is the function?
18:17Your mom has one life and she's 30% off this week.
18:21It's very common for Baylin to have new tics
18:24after you haven't seen her in a while
18:25because she can pick up anything from a TV show,
18:28a movie, music.
18:31Yeah.
18:32Take a dick.
18:33Self-serve that dick.
18:35They don't really surprise me that much anymore
18:36because there's been some crazy ones.
18:38Yeah.
18:39I mean, you really can't get much more crazy,
18:40especially with that airport one with the gun.
18:41Yeah.
18:42You know what I mean?
18:43Yeah.
18:44I have a gun.
18:45Oof!
18:46Oh my God, it's right there.
18:47Oof!
18:48I have a gun.
18:49Maybe try to whisper it.
18:53Is it going to play shuffleboard?
18:54Yeah.
18:55Yeah, sure.
18:56So...
18:58Do you want to be red or blue?
18:59I'll be blue.
19:00So we're going to try to knock each other's arms.
19:02It's going to take a little bit
19:03because you just got to barely let go of the thing.
19:05Oh, that one broke.
19:08Not bad, though.
19:10Bro.
19:11So now you want to try to knock his off because...
19:14Oh.
19:15All right.
19:16The three of us being the oldest and hanging out
19:19is a lot different than, like, the three younger ones
19:21hanging out because we're not fighting over boogers
19:24or, like, baseball bats.
19:26Too hard.
19:27That's what she said.
19:28Your mom's too hard.
19:29That's what she said.
19:30Your mom's too hard.
19:31That's money, too.
19:32Bitch.
19:33I'm exhausted.
19:34We should have stretched out beforehand.
19:35Dude.
19:36Did I tell you guys that me and Colin are in premarital therapy?
19:37So who brought that up?
19:38Mom and Dad.
19:39I think it's a great idea.
19:40I'm all for it.
19:41It's great to be on the same page about children.
19:43Like, do you want to go to church every Sunday?
19:44Do you want to do this stuff?
19:45How...
19:46Well, some of that stuff should be basic conversations
19:47you have with each other anyway.
19:48Yes, like, there's...
19:49100%.
19:50There are multiple things.
19:51Like, I didn't know he was carrying stress
19:52with, like, the future and him getting out of the military
19:56saving enough, having enough money for all these expenses
19:58and all these things, and all these things.
20:00And, you know, I don't know.
20:01I don't know where I'm still going to go.
20:02I don't know what you're going to do
20:03if you're going to do this in my life.
20:04And then I don't know what I'm learning really now.
20:06But I'm trying to go.
20:08I don't know it.
20:09I don't know what I'm seeing.
20:10enough money for all these expenses and all these things and because he knows you can't work a normal
20:15job it's hard for me to work a nine to five as much as i would love to it's hard with my tics
20:23yeah but i do want to help contribute in like some way yeah
20:31so what's colin's plan after he gets out of the military he doesn't honestly know he officially
20:37gets out next year kind of like that's when he'll like be transitioning out to his next job if he
20:43has one what do you if he has one yeah i mean it's important when you have a job you don't want to
20:49leave it until something else is lined up there i know that's the thing i can definitely sympathize
20:56with colin because the responsibility and due diligence of taking care of not only yourself
21:05but two people and providing for dogs and doing all that i definitely i definitely empathize with
21:10him but i think it's also like a you know what you signed up for you knew she couldn't work a normal
21:16job he needs to find like steady income a job yeah not even a stable job just a providing job for the
21:23both of them but it's not our job to tell him which job yes you know what i mean yeah he's got to come
21:27up with that himself i'm not gonna go to colin and be like hey you need you need a 40-hour work week
21:34with health insurance and this that's my dad's my dad can do that i just think it's hard for you
21:40like let's say he gets out of the military and then waits like six months like burke did after college
21:45for a job who knows on the time frame yes that's why he's stressed
21:49i do love spending time with burke and sammy however they both do have very strong opinions
21:58they're very very protective of me wait name all right that's okay do you want a nap no no let's just
22:07go colin and i just talked about in therapy the pressure he feels when my family weighs in in our
22:14business if sammy and burke are doing all this questioning i can't even imagine what my parents
22:19are gonna think this is the first time that i've had a solid tight group of girlfriends pump that
22:28dick bitch oh my god it's really nice to spend time with people where the main focus isn't about
22:34minding colin's future between therapy and wedding planning lately things have been very stressful
23:00so since colin is working late tonight i'm having a girls night where we are just gonna let loose and
23:07have tons of fun take a dick bitch
23:16since i moved to dc i actually met a lot of new people through my best friend leela
23:21as well as through colin's friend okay so who's in charge of the liquor
23:25wait aren't you a bartender oh yeah there we go this is the first time that i've had a solid tight
23:32group of girlfriends it's great so how's your wedding planning going we've looked at one venue
23:42when we went there it was beautiful it had these huge stairs that were filled with flowers however
23:47it's very echoey which turned out to be a very big trigger i'm just hearing myself echo as i tick
23:55me and colin agreed that it just wasn't the right place for us but it'll be somewhere where you're
23:59comfortable of course the first time that i met balen she was ticking but at the same time for me
24:05personally i grew up having a friend that had tourettes so i kind of already knew what it was and that
24:10it's an uncontrollable thing and it's worse to hold them in than it is to just let it all out and so she
24:15would tick and then we just kind of move on with our conversation there were some other things that
24:19i didn't realize that i didn't like like i didn't like circle tables because like it only got you
24:24secluded to the people that were at your table so i kind of want like long tables and then i would
24:30want to be separated like him and i um sweetheart table oh that's i love honestly having a sweetheart
24:36table was so nice like it like my wedding because it was like we got to sit there and enjoy each other
24:41mm-hmm and not be surrounded by a bunch of people the fact that my tics are not being brought up like
24:48no one's just dying laughing out of anywhere i feel accepted and i feel like i belong in this group
24:55because we're all just being ourselves this is so strong okay so i'm gonna do something you guys
25:09have never seen before and i'm gonna make us all some cotton candy oh my gosh that's a cotton candy
25:13exactly has anybody ever made cotton candy before a long time ago absolutely i have never
25:17little sour patches it's coming out look at it pump that dick bitch oh my gosh that looks good
25:26oh thank you that's literally perfect a little sugar hangover by the way with wedding planning me and
25:33colin decided that we were going to start um premarital therapy one thing that was brought up was
25:39finances and saving money and kind of like this huge stress that he has with this like him getting out
25:46of the military so when you heard colin say that in that is that something that like you uh that you
25:54knew that he was feeling no and i know it was hard for him to say it he's like holding it onto himself
26:00thinking that like i can't help him hearing that balen and colin are doing premarital counseling i
26:06thought was really inspiring and i think that's something that a lot of uh newlyweds or uh fiancés
26:12aren't really talking about as much anymore when it used to be a lot more common to do especially
26:17with what she's dealing with her tourette syndrome they can set themselves up for a healthy marriage
26:21and uh hopefully for the rest of their life so i was like you know what i will save money with like
26:27not ordering out so much and it's like okay well now i have to start making food so fun times so what
26:34kind of foods are you going to be making i haven't figured that out yet that's a good question we should
26:38figure that out we'll make your recipe book yeah oh that's a good idea we could all literally send
26:44in our favorite right make sure the half of it i can run the air fryer we should get you a crock pot
26:50crock pot is so easy you can just throw it in there in the morning turn it on and then you don't have
26:54to deal with it all day and it's so nice crock pot i have a gift for everybody right punky boy i have
27:01a gift tonight i have a special fun surprise for my girls girls night with a twist twist that dick
27:12around wrap it slap it tap it that dick everybody pick a bag here you go just hand it to us oh i'm
27:22scared all right can we all mine is multicolored mine is literally multicolored i don't want my brain
27:29i got purple so the theme for the night is wigs this is so fun oh i don't think i have my own
27:38i love it oh my god this is what girls night is all about
27:59we've had candy we've had the jungle juice like the crazy wigs
28:04scoffee time this is a very balen night this was exactly what i needed me and the girls laughing
28:11having fun it's really nice to spend time with people where the main focus isn't about my tourettes
28:16or mining collins future i would say that tonight was a super successful girls night holy i look like
28:24beckner i want you to be able to like think about something for a second i truly thought he was insane
28:32like this is this is no girl's dream
28:50who says a lady can't be king
29:00how many blankets do we need do you think i sound good i think you sound like you got a tracheotomy
29:09actually good look for me is this a good sound sounds great means i can't yell at kids
29:15one of you jokers gave this to me this is not my fault yeah well did you come here with this i did not
29:24okay well then you're not culpable thank you since my siblings sammy and burke are in town my dad wants
29:32to have a barbecue this weekend but also my dad's been bugging me to come by the house to see something
29:40and i have no idea what it is so i decided to get a two hour ride share from dc to be able to see
29:47everybody them kids oh baby finally made it hi how was it yeah the ride was good okay it wasn't like
30:00the other time where i got motion sickness because ride shares in dc are i know how long is it like
30:05two hours the whole way are we gonna eat yeah we're just waiting for burke to finish grilling
30:13he's out there grilling are you hungry yeah are you yeah a little bit where's the wieners are you
30:19almost done okay almost we're just talking about how you knew your way around a wiener these wieners
30:23are very big um you were telling me how you had a girls night how did that go yes so it went great um
30:30me and my friends have like these regular like girls nights where they'll all come over but
30:34they're all themed nights so we did wig nights you don't have to wear it beckner because what i'm
30:42actually you that's you beckner let's do a side by side see the accuracy looks like you guys both just
30:49fried ramen noodles and just plopped a lot there that's good it's okay we'll just get back there
30:54the wig look for them beckners right now honestly put it on put it on yoder
30:59so you have other wigs yeah yes i only have one other wig for one person in the room who needs it
31:19what do you think damn i think it looks good because i haven't seen it
31:24i don't think you look like sven with his hair no no now i look like sven dead
31:30i think you look like you should be on some sort of list maybe 200 feet away from schools or
31:51something well before we eat balen i want to show you something that's that we got outside
31:57okay you guys should come all i've been working on a surprise i want to share with the family
32:04but especially balen come on what's he doing yeah what are we doing julie doesn't have a clue
32:14i i keep her in the dark about things because that's the fastest way to get my ideas ruined
32:20is to invite her into my mind space on these where are we going right here are we doing i want
32:27you to be able to like think about something for a second i have no idea why my dad is taking us out
32:34back i am so confused on so many different levels you're being creepy and weird right now he's like
32:41let me show you my knife collection now listen i don't know where you are with the whole wedding
32:47location search so so i know that you want animals at your wedding right goats and alpacas and
32:58ringling brothers or whatever you want and a lot of wedding venues probably aren't going to let you have
33:03animals okay you got one chance to make this amazing this this this is it you can put all
33:12those things right here let's have the wedding here in the backyard
33:19how is that funny no i'm being serious serious i've been working on a plan to have the entire yard
33:28wide open for balen's wedding rip the fence down cut trees build a platform whatever she wants let's
33:38start doing something come on dad seriously who the hell wants a wedding in their backyard
33:48i don't even know what to say so much for trying to take some pressure off of colin this whole idea is
33:55only going to add to it this is crazy
34:07this is it let's have the wedding here in the backyard how was that funny no i'm being serious
34:13i'm envisioning it there's not a lot to envision you could have whatever you want here i'll get
34:24those tents put up this is where she comes up the aisle this is and then we pass the lump we pass we
34:32pass the lump i trip all right i truly thought he was insane like this is this is no girl's dream
34:40how many people do you think inviting we're probably thinking about inviting 175 and thinking
34:46between 125 and 150 will show up with two toilets here with two toilets two toilets
34:55like imagine 150 people in this house oh no they'd have to get over to like the holiday
35:00end or something no obviously 150 people are going to lay up cots here
35:03i mean come on i'm talking about people wandering around getting food i mean just imagine 150 people
35:10just hammer brutal brutal all right so we'll think of different venues but appreciate your offer let's
35:16move on but if you go to another venue and then they don't allow half of the stuff that you want in
35:21your wedding this is this is the wedding this is an option this is something that i mean let's hope it
35:25only happens once in your life it is an option the last option but it is an option it could be the last
35:30option the last one it's fine it's all right it's it i am enjoying this but to me i'm not worried about
35:41the food i'm not worried about desserts i'm not worried about tents i'm not worried about outdoors
35:46cat i'm not worried about this i'm worried about is balen going to be comfortable at this location
35:52because we all know that when she gets overstimulated she could have a bad tick attack and end up on the
35:57floor having her wedding here at the house she has a safe place that she's familiar with comfortable
36:04with and if we can take some of that emotional baggage and struggle away from her to make her day
36:11amazing then then that's what it's truly about it's not everyone else's wedding it's her wedding okay
36:19what do you want so either way whether you choose here or you choose somewhere else
36:25i want you to come over here and look at something it's one more thing for you to think about and
36:29visualize all right let's go over here come on you'll like this here balen come over here and
36:36stand in front of this look this way so i can take this off and then you can be surprised it looks
36:39like he ordered a bed frame i know wait so he's been out back making this and you guys haven't he he told
36:46me he was doing something special what what are you guys laughing oh my god what are we doing so this
37:02so listen so no matter what you pick pick you you can use this for a venue all right okay well it's not
37:08gonna be oh my god this is going in the apartment no okay we just need to add some sprinkles you know
37:22what they are that's a horse that's fluffy and toots with me oh thank you so much this probably took
37:32you so long i am freaking so excited i love alpacas mr and mrs dooley there we go that's chuck and
37:41that's marlene marlene's a dirty filthy whore okay all right whatever as our maid of honor we accept
37:48this we're not super sure about the venue i think the venue's good i could see like two big circus tents
37:54your animals running around a place to like take photos there can be like flowers in the background
37:59yeah whatever you want to do it's your wedding it ended up being a great surprise i'm totally
38:05impressed the backyard venue idea i'm not so sure of but the bench is beautiful this probably took you
38:14so long to make how long did it take you to make this 16 hours no time oh time to stand still when
38:20a car so i'm not given a time frame it it's worth it when balen was at her worst four years ago in her
38:29medical journey i really questioned that a day like this would come balen deserves to have the perfect
38:36wedding day like anybody else it's been a long journey and her day needs to be as amazing
38:42as her expectations wanted i want her to be able to say dad this is the best day ever
38:57you can put like a like a bow tie we can put whatever you want it's kind of like mr and mrs
39:03julie that'd be so cute okay that is really cute that's a really cute idea how heavy are these what
39:09she they're heavy oh yeah they got to be heavy i mean what if the venue's like four hours down the
39:15road like i'll just drive it down the road or what if it's here this sweet gift from my dad has
39:22definitely made it harder to choose a wedding venue i mean i totally get what my dad thinks it would be
39:30better for me to have it here and even though it's not exactly what i thought i wanted for my wedding
39:36he's been taking care of me a long time so i definitely trust his judgment
39:43so what do you think it's an option it it is an option me and colin are trying to
39:50save money for this specific reason so i can bring it up to him
39:55however i don't think my parents backyard is colin's first wedding venue choice and i know colin feels a
40:02lot of pressure when my dad gives suggestions even when they're meant to be helpful and honestly
40:09i'm a little afraid to ask
40:16i can't look at the chickens
40:22have you told colin no
40:23yep told me what the last time i saw my dad he pitched the backyard as a wedding venue i haven't
40:30even told colin yet and i'm not even sure i want to hey mom hi baby becky would like to have like a
40:39sleepover with you for the weekend i'm a little like nervous i've never hosted a kid before
40:44okay i'm gonna show you how to bedazzle
40:53take this and it goes in the wax is something burning wait what's over there burning
41:01do you think that you're still just trying to hold on to balen it's just you know when i went to pick
41:06her up and when i talk oh my gosh we're not talking about this again i haven't shared this story with that many people
41:22you
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