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00:00Oh, Atani, I'm so...
00:03Your mom's a hoe. Marlene's a dirty, fat, filthy, horny whore.
00:08Hopefully she doesn't see it.
00:11She definitely will.
00:13I feel like I'm being pulled, almost.
00:17Between what?
00:18Like, family members and friends, and especially your dad,
00:23to, like, choose a career path that's secured financially.
00:26I didn't know that he was this overwhelmed.
00:31It breaks my heart that he's been keeping this in.
00:35We need to find ways to be able to save money.
00:39We can start cutting by you not shopping as much.
00:45We can start cooking more meals here.
00:48The more we talk about it, the more I realize this isn't going to be easy, you little bitch.
00:54Yep.
00:54What are we doing?
00:58I've been working on a surprise I want to share with the family, but especially Balin.
01:03Let's have the wedding here in the backyard.
01:08I don't think my parents' backyard is Colin's first wedding venue choice.
01:13And honestly, I'm a little afraid to ask.
01:16I want to party tonight.
01:33Merry weenies.
01:34I want to party.
01:40Hey, guys.
01:41Hey, babe.
01:41Smells good in here.
01:43How was work?
01:44Work was good, long, but I'm here.
01:48What are you making?
01:50Wanted up.
01:51Cooking up a home-cooked meal.
01:54After Colin opened up in couples therapy about how stressed he's been with money,
01:58I thought that it would be a good idea to start not eating out as much, so I'm cooking more.
02:05The stove is still a danger to me because I can still easily burn myself, so I'm trying
02:10out safer options like a slow cooker.
02:13I'm doing some pulled chicken motions right now.
02:16I did have to spend a little bit of money.
02:19I have some pretty cool kitchen gadgets that helped me with shredding and cutting so I don't
02:24have to use sharp objects.
02:26It's a tick-proof tool.
02:28And then I made mac and cheese, which probably needs to be stirred.
02:32Whoa.
02:32It's not warm because I had to start it off.
02:36It's okay.
02:38It looks good.
02:39I'm a little nervous.
02:41My parents are coming to join us.
02:42The last time I saw my dad, he pitched the backyard as a wedding venue.
02:47It's hard for me to have serious conversations because I don't like confrontation, so I haven't
02:52even told Colin yet.
02:53That's exactly why I invited my parents to dinner.
02:56That's 100% my dad's job.
02:58Wow, it smells really good.
03:08Thanks.
03:09I've been cooking all day.
03:10Yeah.
03:11I shredded a whole block of cheese with a cheese hand grater that you get from the nail salon.
03:17Yeah.
03:25Bitch.
03:26And it started setting off my dystonic tics, so then I got really worried that I wouldn't
03:32like be able to finish.
03:33So I put country music on my headphones so it helped soothe my tics.
03:38So I was able to do all of it.
03:40Yeah.
03:41And I made a salad.
03:42I made a salad.
03:48We know how much effort it takes for Balin just to cook a dish, let alone an entire meal.
03:54So we were happily surprised by the random dinner invite.
03:58You're killing me.
03:59You got to tell me what this whole thing is about.
04:02Yeah, this was quite a little last minute surprise.
04:05Yeah.
04:05Special meal.
04:07At the Dupree Dooley house.
04:09Well, I knew we had some things to talk about.
04:12Oh, the chicken's good.
04:15Yeah.
04:15So what's the latest with wedding planning?
04:19Have you guys looked at venues?
04:23Balin, have you thought about?
04:24Have you told Colin?
04:26No.
04:27What better time to do that than now?
04:29Yeah.
04:29Oh.
04:30Are you kidding me?
04:33Tell me what.
04:34Colin.
04:35Wait.
04:36Hold on, Colin.
04:36Here, Colin.
04:37Here's...
04:37You might want to sit down.
04:38Okay, so?
04:43When I went to go, you know, barbecue with the family, we had a very nice discussion of
04:50a layout in the backyard for our wedding.
04:55Mm-hmm.
04:56Mm-hmm.
04:57Like having our wedding in my parents' backyard.
05:01That was the Al...
05:01How do you feel about that?
05:03That was the Al suggestion.
05:04Having our wedding.
05:08Our wedding in the backyard.
05:09You picture it.
05:10You open up the door, and you see me walking down the stairs.
05:14I really don't have words.
05:18I'm really just trying to wrap my head around it all.
05:20Like, I wouldn't really picture our wedding being there.
05:24I mean, there's a lot of bugs.
05:27There's also a lot of dog poop in the yard.
05:29I just offered it out there because I know if she needed an emotional break due to overstimulation,
05:38tics, she could have her emotional break in the house.
05:41That's all I wanted to offer, and that's all it is.
05:48I mean, listen, Baylin.
05:49I am warming up to the idea of certain aspects of it, only because I know that your struggles
05:56are real, and I know finances mean a lot to you.
06:01Okay.
06:02Scumbag.
06:03Yeah.
06:04This is kind of like a tricky situation.
06:06I really am concerned about the expenses kind of getting out of hand for the wedding,
06:11so I don't want to ignore a way for us to save money.
06:14But on the other hand, Baylin has really been working really hard to be more independent.
06:21Having this wedding in her parents' backyard would be kind of like pushing her back into
06:25the fold.
06:27Yeah, I mean, I think it really just comes down to what we can find, right?
06:32Like, if we can't really find anything within our budget.
06:35But that's all.
06:36You got options, man.
06:37Yeah.
06:38Definitely.
06:39It doesn't hurt to have options.
06:40Yes.
06:40Yeah, it's good to have options.
06:42You could have told me yourself, you know?
06:46I mean, I know, but I just still don't know how I feel about it, so.
06:50All right, we're out of here.
06:52Everything was so good.
06:54Plus, I really don't want to hurt my dad's feelings.
06:56He put dick.
06:58A lot of thought into this.
07:00Dick.
07:01All right, I love you.
07:02Thanks, Bay.
07:02Thanks, Colin.
07:03So the big question is, are we able to make everyone happy, including ourselves?
07:09Yeah.
07:09So, right now, we'll keep the backyard option on the table.
07:25Just tap it in.
07:27Just tap it in.
07:28Oh, it's good.
07:32That's a great restart for me.
07:34Oh, that's stroke three.
07:36We needed a mini break from wedding planning.
07:41And what's more mini than mini golf?
07:44It's all nips.
07:45It's all nips.
07:47We're doing mini golf because we've got a pro golfer over here.
07:50I just started pulling in, but I am competitive.
07:55I'm in the water.
07:57You pulled it.
07:59No re-dos.
08:01Play it where it was.
08:03Sweet.
08:04That was a good shot.
08:06Two.
08:06Thanks.
08:08Seven to three.
08:09Six to three, sir.
08:16Oh.
08:18Because of my dicks.
08:19I do have to face a few obstacles that require a lot of stopping and going.
08:25Colin, I lost my ball.
08:26I know.
08:28I'm not fishing for it, either.
08:30Eat a bag of dicks.
08:31Let's go get you a new ball.
08:32One minute.
08:35Someone's calling me.
08:36Hey, Mom.
08:37Hi, baby.
08:38How are you?
08:39What are you doing?
08:40Little mini golf date.
08:41Me and Colin.
08:42Oh, my gosh.
08:42That sounds like so much fun.
08:44It honestly is.
08:45I'm beating him.
08:46Oh, my gosh.
08:47He's probably losing his mind.
08:49Well, I won't keep you too long, but Vector, I would like to have, like, a sleepover, like,
08:54a hangout with you for the weekend.
08:57Okay.
08:58And he brought it up.
08:59He wants to?
09:01Of course he does.
09:01Yeah.
09:02I'm surprised that Beckner requested to have a sleepover with me because, like me, he suffers
09:08from anxiety.
09:09Since moving outside of the house, I don't really know how bad Beckner's anxiety has been.
09:14But I do know it prevents him from doing a lot of things.
09:17I mean, I wasn't really surprised when he brought it up because, like, he misses his
09:22sisters.
09:23Like, the boys are a lot sometimes.
09:25He's a lot, but he obviously knows what he wants.
09:28Okay.
09:29I'm definitely thrilled.
09:32I would be thrilled to host Beckner.
09:33I honestly would.
09:34I'm a little, like, nervous.
09:36I've never hosted a kid before.
09:38I'm sure it'll be fine.
09:39Colin, would you care if Beckner spent the night for the weekend?
09:42This weekend?
09:44Yeah.
09:44I have golf plans this weekend, so I don't know how much I would be around.
09:50Okay.
09:50It'll be fine, though.
09:52Yeah.
09:53Take a dick.
09:56Things just got way more complicated.
09:59I'm supposed to do this by myself.
10:02When I get overwhelmed, my tics act up.
10:05But I love Beckner, and I want to be able to spend some time with him.
10:11I know it's a little daunting.
10:12I just think it's good for you.
10:14It's good for him.
10:15We're testing our limits.
10:18Okay.
10:19It'll be a fun little weekend.
10:21He's a handful.
10:22Yeah, I know.
10:24He's an actual handful.
10:25Mom, he's eight handfuls.
10:27Yep, so you better be ready.
10:29Okay, bye.
10:29I have no idea what to expect.
10:33This is going to be interesting.
10:38Hola, como estĆ”?
10:40Muy bien.
10:41You guys ready for this damn sleepover?
10:45It's okay.
10:46It's okay.
10:46Do you think that there's any part of this where you're still just trying to hold on to Balan?
10:55I haven't shared this story with that many people.
10:58It's just, you know, when I went to pick her up and when I talked with her.
11:03Oh my gosh, we're not talking about this again.
11:11Maybe I was the same as you when I was 15, except back then I still had big dreams.
11:18Always listen to the others, now my eardrums bleed from the noise inside my head.
11:23Joe Biden.
11:25Give me a shot.
11:25Joe is a young kid that I met at a Tourette's event a couple years ago.
11:31He has Tourette's syndrome.
11:33We stayed in touch through social media and that's when I kind of got inspired by who he really is.
11:41Hi.
11:42Hi.
11:43Can you see me?
11:44Yeah, I can see you.
11:45Okay, sweet.
11:46How are you?
11:47I'm good.
11:48How are you?
11:49I'm good.
11:51Joe Biden.
11:52Where did that tick come from?
11:53Remember when the election was going on?
11:57I watched a solid three minutes of the total debate.
12:01Joe Biden's buried in my backyard after storing cocaine off of a zebra during the Revolutionary War of 812 and the government's trying to do it as we did, Joe.
12:07And it's come back.
12:09But, yeah, I got it from watching the debate.
12:12Anyways, how are you doing?
12:14How is college?
12:16LSU is really cool.
12:18I'm actually taking summer classes now.
12:21Oh, yeah.
12:22That's another thing about Joe.
12:23He's 12 and in college.
12:26Obviously, like, people in my class is, like, six foot, like, plays football and I'm just sitting there with my voice like this.
12:35It's hard to make friends.
12:37What are you studying?
12:38Uh, sports management.
12:39I just really like basketball.
12:41Mm-hmm.
12:41Are you good at it?
12:43Yeah.
12:43You sound like you're like my brother Beckner.
12:46He is so cocky.
12:47You're like, yeah, I'm the s**t.
12:51Joe reminds me a lot of my brother Beckner because they both like sports.
12:55They're both around the same age.
12:57They're both outdoorsy.
12:58They're both hands-on.
12:59They're both, in a way, mature, well beyond their ears.
13:07So, how have you been feeling physically lately?
13:09I'm doing good.
13:10Hmm.
13:11Woo-hoo, woo-hoo, woo-hoo.
13:12I feel like chatting helps my tics a lot because it distracts me from my tics.
13:17I know specifically that I suffer with very, very bad OCD and anxiety and I have ADHD traits.
13:25Do you know what type of co-occurring conditions, like, you specifically have with your Tourette?
13:30OCD and anxiety, definitely.
13:32Tourette syndrome manifests itself differently in everybody.
13:37Joe has verbal and motor tics because he has Tourette syndrome and you have to have both to have Tourette syndrome.
13:44Today, I can't assume that he's not ticking because he probably is ticking, but underneath the table.
13:52We just can't tell.
13:54Joe, what's the hardest thing about making friends your age?
13:58Kids always make fun of me.
13:59Mm-hmm.
14:00On my way to summer camp, I got jumped on the bus because I was ticking.
14:04I was, like, yelling and cursing and I was blinking my eyes and I broke my nose and had a concussion.
14:10Um, so it was rough, but I managed to pull through it.
14:16Joe, f***ing Biden.
14:17F***ing Biden.
14:20I'm very sorry that that happened.
14:22I mean, it's terrible.
14:26Yeah.
14:28When I hear that Joe got jumped on the school bus, Joe, f***ing Biden, it's disheartening.
14:34I was also bullied in high school.
14:38I've been recorded throughout stores.
14:41I mean, I get recorded everywhere I go and people think that it's okay, but that's also bullying.
14:49Unfortunately, I know what it feels like, but I also want you to know that, like, you're so loved.
14:55Yeah, and you are loved, too, by the way.
14:57So, you too.
14:59Thanks, Joe.
14:59I love to help others with Tourette's when I can because I know what it's like to hate yourself because of a condition that you have no control over.
15:13And I don't want anyone to feel that, ever.
15:17Gosh, it was so lovely to talk to you, Joe, f***ing Biden.
15:20I'm Joe.
15:21Yeah, me too.
15:23Bye.
15:24I'm Joe, f***ing Biden.
15:25Hearing Joe talk really makes me think about Beckner and the way that kids are when you're younger.
15:37The more I think about it, I want to get those two boys together when Beckner's here.
15:45I have a feeling it'll be good for them, me, everybody.
15:49My mom and Beckner should be here any minute, so you have to make sure that everything's perfect.
16:06Okay.
16:08How are you feeling about it?
16:10I'm fine.
16:11I'm a little nervous on how to host a kid, but it's fine.
16:13I mean, I'm just anxious to host somebody and then be in charge of that person.
16:19Yeah, but it's not like he's a two-year-old.
16:21It's not like we have to sit there and wipe his butt on the toilet.
16:24Listen.
16:26Listen, let me tell you, if we did.
16:30Hola, como estas?
16:31Muy bien, you too?
16:33Muy bien.
16:34Muy bien.
16:36What's up, guys?
16:38How you doing?
16:39Good.
16:40How you doing, man?
16:41Good.
16:41You guys ready for this day of sleepover?
16:44What's up, y'all?
16:45What's up?
16:46It's okay?
16:49About to get real.
16:51Fill me in on, like, the lowdown of everything, because I really can't stay long.
16:56I have things to make ice cream sundaes, games we can play.
16:59I have things to bedazzle.
17:01Beckner will love to bedazzle.
17:03Have you ever bedazzled anything?
17:04I don't even know what bedazzle...
17:05Bedazzle...
17:06Bedazzle...
17:07Bedazzle...
17:07Okay.
17:08I know Balen does have some nervous jitters about hosting Beckner this weekend for the first
17:15time ever.
17:16Okay, bye, guys.
17:17Bye.
17:17I love you.
17:18Get home safe.
17:19But I also know that she's come so far just with her independence and knowing who she is
17:25and what her boundaries are in her life in regards to what she can and can't do.
17:31So this is...
17:32I mean, this is groundbreaking, honestly.
17:35It makes my mama heart really proud of her.
17:38Okay, I'm going to show you how to bedazzle.
17:41I'm going to take this, and it goes in the wax.
17:43Well, before y'all get started, bedazzle some stuff.
17:47Bedazzle.
17:48I'm going to go ahead and head out and go golfing, all right?
17:50Okay.
17:51Love you.
17:52I love you.
17:53I had already made plans to go golfing before Balen scheduled this sleepover with Beckner,
17:57but things are off to a really smooth start, so I feel a lot more comfortable leaving.
18:03I have the brown ones that go over here for B.
18:06Plus, now, Balen and Beckner can have a little one-on-one time.
18:11So?
18:12Wait, I could color them.
18:14No.
18:14No.
18:15No.
18:16Is something burning?
18:20Wait, whoa, whoa, whoa.
18:21What's over there burning?
18:25Yo, what's burning?
18:28What?
18:29Why is this burning?
18:39Yo, what's burning?
18:42What?
18:44Something's burning.
18:45When I start seeing smoke come out of the stove topper, I'm very much confused.
18:54I'm, I can't go over there.
18:58I mean, one of the knobs was on.
19:00Somebody must have bumped it or something.
19:02My instinct is probably run to the shower and turn it on.
19:09What is the shower going to do for us in the kitchen?
19:12Because if you're burning, just sit in the shower.
19:15It's running water.
19:17We're not burning.
19:18The stove top is.
19:19Okay.
19:24It's not smoking anymore.
19:25Nothing is going on.
19:28Let's move away from there.
19:29Just be careful when walking by.
19:31This is the exact kind of thing that can push me over the edge.
19:36So I'm very proud that I was able to stay calm.
19:40But now my anxiety is definitely on high layer.
19:45I don't know.
19:46This has never happened.
19:48I can't believe this is our first real do-something date in a century.
20:0030 years?
20:0120 years?
20:02I don't know.
20:04Uh, I think.
20:07This is what leads to more kids, but.
20:10What did you just say?
20:11Backer's out of the house for the weekend, so Julie and I thought we'd go out, too.
20:16We haven't had a date night in 25 years because it's been kids and diapers and lack of babysitters.
20:23It's pretty important, I think, in this moment and time for us to still spend time with each other
20:31and kind of rekindle why we are together.
20:35Hi.
20:36Hello.
20:37We're here.
20:38Okay.
20:38How you doing?
20:39Hi.
20:39Al.
20:40Nice to meet you.
20:40Hi, Al.
20:41I'm April.
20:41So nice to meet you.
20:42Welcome, welcome.
20:43I was like, we could do pottery or bowling, quick dance lesson.
20:48And Al was all about, he's like, yeah, let's do pottery.
20:51Then I booked the dance lesson.
20:55Gentle.
20:56Practice.
20:57Gentle.
20:57Go five, six, seven, eight, and one, two, three, four, five, six.
21:04What are you doing?
21:05One, two, one, two, one.
21:08You're not leading.
21:09You're not touching your feet.
21:10We're going to take a time out in a second.
21:11How do we feel?
21:13Can I switch partners?
21:15Yeah, I'm all, like, this is, like, here, let's get the underhooks on this.
21:21Okay.
21:24Julie and I usually have fun no matter what we do.
21:27We met at my cousin's wedding when she was a waitress there.
21:30I was 28, 29 years old, and Julie was 18, 19.
21:34We were the perfect gift for each other at that moment in time.
21:40An accident happened after we got engaged.
21:43It wasn't an accident.
21:44It was...
21:45And I got pregnant with baby Berkey.
21:47And we had already started the planning.
21:50There was no preventative actions anywhere at all.
21:54We had started the planning changes of the wedding.
21:59Yes.
22:00We wanted to make sure his birth was legitimate,
22:03so we got married at the courthouse before he was born.
22:06And then we had another wedding seven months later,
22:08so I could actually wear the dress.
22:10And, of course, we had baby Berkey with us.
22:14Three or four children is kind of what we both agreed upon.
22:18Yes.
22:19Somehow we garnered up some extra stamina.
22:22What are we doing?
22:24You're just trying to grind my leg.
22:25I'm not trying to grind anything.
22:27If I was, it wouldn't be your leg.
22:30Right?
22:31The one thing I believe that helps make our relationship work
22:35is the fact that we admire each other.
22:37And that truly enhances our commitment to each other.
22:45All right.
22:46Thank you, guys.
22:48Yay.
22:48Very, very welcome.
22:49Let's go check my phone.
22:50Yeah.
22:51Yeah, yeah, yeah.
22:51It's nice that we've taken this time for each other,
22:54but the kids are always on our minds.
22:57Truly, that's the first thing I think about
22:59when we're done on the dance floor
23:00is checking to make sure that Beckner is okay
23:03and things are going smooth.
23:05He hasn't called yet, and she hasn't called.
23:07No news is good news, so I'm all about it.
23:11So.
23:12Do you think Beckner's grilling her over the wedding
23:15or where are they going to have it?
23:16Are they going to have it at the house?
23:17Oh, gosh.
23:18No, Beckner doesn't.
23:19He's so excited about wanting to have it at the house.
23:23I literally think he doesn't even care about the wedding.
23:25He just wants people to play wiffle ball.
23:26He's the first person you've definitely convinced.
23:29You have one person on your team.
23:31Al is still really championing this idea
23:34of the wedding in the backyard.
23:36It's such a comfortable, safe space,
23:38so there's, like, this logical side to it,
23:40and then I also think that Al is stuck,
23:44just hanging on to all the pieces of her life.
23:49Do you think that there's any part of this
23:51where you're still just trying to hold on to Balin?
23:55I don't mean in a negative way.
23:57She's your girl.
23:59Hmm.
23:59It's really about
24:02that I do everything that I could
24:08to make sure, like, her day was amazing.
24:15It's just, you know, when I went to pick her up,
24:17and when I talked to her...
24:20Oh, my gosh, we're not talking about this again.
24:23I haven't shared this story with that many people.
24:27Four years ago, Balin was in college,
24:29and we had kind of talked her into going.
24:34Calls.
24:35She's manic.
24:37I get to there.
24:38It's a three-plus-hour drive,
24:40and then when I went in there,
24:41she was just curled up on the bed with her dog,
24:45and she was like,
24:48I'm such a burden.
24:49I'm such a burden.
24:49I can't...
24:50I'm like, you're not a burden.
24:51Stop talking like that.
24:52I give her a big hug,
24:53and I'm like, you're going to be fine,
24:54and she's like, I'm not going to be fine.
24:56I'm not doing good.
24:57And I was like, well,
25:00you can't talk like this,
25:02because it's worrisome.
25:04And...
25:04I just asked her for my own well-being,
25:10like, hey,
25:11like, you're not thinking about, like,
25:14doing something bad.
25:16Like, you're not thinking about killing yourself, are you?
25:18And she's, like, this far away, hugging me,
25:22and she just turned and looked at me,
25:24and she's, like, this close.
25:25She's like, that's all I've thought about for four days,
25:30is how can I just jump off this roof?
25:33And I was like...
25:34Never thought that reaction.
25:38I just never knew what to say.
25:39I just didn't know.
25:40Like, all I kept doing was just hugging her
25:42and, like, telling her, like,
25:44you don't even know
25:47what, like, tomorrow
25:48is going to be.
25:50Like, you don't...
25:51You haven't...
25:52You haven't even lived your best day.
25:55You don't...
25:55You haven't held your own baby.
25:57You haven't, like, gotten married.
25:58You don't know what it's like to...
26:01to experience...
26:03like, true love,
26:05like somebody who'll do anything for...
26:06Thinking back at that day,
26:12I was really just trying to give her hope,
26:16and now what I had said,
26:17actually,
26:19it's coming to fruition,
26:20like it's here.
26:22I just don't want her
26:24to be in a place where
26:26it's an emotional wreck for her,
26:32and all she ever remembers about her wedding is...
26:35Not enjoying her day.
26:37Yeah.
26:37This is it.
26:38So it matters big time.
26:39It matters to me big time.
26:42I've got to make sure it's good.
26:44That's all.
26:45That's all.
26:48Al is holding on
26:50to some of his pain from the past
26:52in regards to Vaylin.
26:54I can't relate as deeply
26:56because I didn't live in that moment,
26:59that deep, dark moment
27:00that he experienced with her,
27:03but I can understand
27:03because I want to protect her, too.
27:06So I think that that's why
27:07this idea of a backyard wedding
27:10is so important to him.
27:13Don't put too much pressure on yourself.
27:15You've already done everything.
27:18You've already been the best dad ever.
27:21And we're going to make sure
27:22that she has the best,
27:25most comfortable day
27:27accommodating to her.
27:30And, of course,
27:31Colin is part of this, too.
27:33But Colin...
27:34Colin does a great job
27:36with taking the back seat.
27:37He does a good job.
27:38He's happy to be sacrificial
27:40and take the back seat
27:41because he knows that her needs
27:42come before his in a lot of ways.
27:44And that is, uh...
27:46That makes him a great human.
27:48Just don't feel heartbroken
27:50if this is not the avenue they pick.
27:53And I'm sure she'll still let her dad
27:56have some input.
27:58Why?
27:59Well...
28:00One of the traits
28:03that I admire most about Alan
28:04is just how deeply
28:07and unconditionally
28:08he cares
28:10about our children.
28:13I've always said
28:14that it's going to be
28:16and it is harder
28:17for Al to let go.
28:22Have you decided
28:24where you're having your wedding at?
28:25We're still looking.
28:26Well, there's always an open option.
28:28The backyard.
28:30In the backyard?
28:31Yeah.
28:33I know exactly
28:34who put Bacner up to this.
28:35Thank you, Alan.
28:38My dad is bald.
28:50Ooh, I'm drooping them
28:52over the sides.
28:53Dirty martini style?
28:55Mm-hmm.
28:55I don't even know what that is,
28:56but, yeah.
28:56It's fine.
28:57So, after
28:58the fire's been kaput,
29:02I'm pretty confident
29:02now that me and Bacner
29:04can get back
29:05to what we're doing.
29:06We're going to have a good night
29:07and not tell mom
29:08until the morning.
29:14My stomach's already hurting.
29:17I feel like
29:18at the end of this
29:19I'm going to have diabetes.
29:21I mean, God.
29:23Please stop.
29:24When my dad found out
29:31that I was having a sleepover
29:32at Bane Collins' apartment,
29:34he gave me a little task.
29:36Have you decided
29:38where you're having your wedding at?
29:41Nope.
29:42Text out.
29:43We're still looking.
29:46We got no idea.
29:47Well, there's always an open option.
29:53The backyard.
29:56Just think about it.
30:00What the flip-flop?
30:02Boy.
30:03First my dad,
30:04now Bacner?
30:05I really do kind of like
30:07the idea
30:07of the backyard wedding.
30:09You save a lot of money.
30:11You don't have to keep
30:11looking for stuff.
30:13Get it done way sooner.
30:15What are you talking about?
30:16Like, the vet,
30:17where the venue is.
30:19In the backyard?
30:20Yeah.
30:21I know exactly
30:22who put Bacner up to this.
30:24Thank you, Alan.
30:25My dad is bald.
30:29It would honestly
30:30make dad so happy.
30:32It's just,
30:33it'd be nice to just
30:34roll out of bed
30:3515 minutes
30:37before the wedding.
30:39I would like to have
30:40a bouncy house
30:40at the wedding.
30:42I don't mean to be rude
30:43drawing to four years old.
30:47Dad is really
30:49pushing hard for this.
30:50But I'm not anywhere
30:51close to saying yes
30:54to a backyard wedding.
30:55We've only seen
30:56one wedding venue so far,
30:58so we have no idea
30:59what else is out there
31:00for us to choose from.
31:01I mean,
31:01I only plan on
31:03getting married one time,
31:04so let's make this
31:05one-time special.
31:09All right,
31:09let's get buff.
31:10I mean,
31:11we did just eat ice cream.
31:18Oh, yeah.
31:25When did you get this
31:28gym equipment?
31:29I got it because
31:30it's hard for me
31:31to go to the gym
31:31because of my nerves.
31:32It's hard for me
31:32to go to the gym
31:33because of my social anxiety.
31:34It's hard for me
31:35to go there
31:35in general.
31:37being in the gym
31:39with another person
31:41that's...
31:41So I work out here.
31:47Me and Beckner
31:47have always had
31:48a cute little special bond.
31:51I would say
31:52out of all the siblings,
31:54me and Beckner
31:55are the most alike.
31:56He has a lot of anxiety
31:58just like I had
31:59a lot growing up.
32:00But with me,
32:01he doesn't feel like
32:01he has to hide it.
32:02He knows he can
32:03say something
32:04and I'll get it.
32:06I also have a problem
32:07with like being
32:07in the same room
32:08with people that like
32:09are sweating
32:10and there's sweats
32:11just everywhere.
32:13You get it, right?
32:15Yeah.
32:16I don't really
32:17know how to say it,
32:19but I do have anxiety.
32:20Yeah.
32:21Like, are you anxious
32:22about sleeping over here?
32:24I have to be
32:26near a wall
32:27when I sleep.
32:28I just don't know
32:29like how bad
32:30or how intense
32:31your anxiety is.
32:32So that's just
32:33why I ask.
32:34Every time I leave
32:35my room,
32:36I have to leave it
32:37better or the same
32:38when I walked into it.
32:40And what if you don't?
32:42I'll think about it
32:43all the time.
32:44And the first thing
32:45I'll do when I get back
32:46is I'll fix it.
32:49And if I do have anxiety,
32:51I just tap.
32:53Like, I'll sit down
32:54and I'll be like...
32:56I mean, like everything
33:03at school,
33:04like with my binder,
33:06my books,
33:07my MacBooks
33:08and all that,
33:08it has to be perfectly
33:10even,
33:10even with everything.
33:12Like,
33:13you probably didn't see,
33:15but when I got off,
33:16I was going like this
33:17to try to make it
33:18even and completely straight.
33:19And if I don't do that,
33:22I'll probably think
33:23about it a lot.
33:25I don't know why,
33:26but...
33:27Listening to Beckner
33:29is raising some
33:30concerns for me.
33:31My sister Sammy
33:32and I both went
33:34through something
33:35similar to this,
33:36and we both ended up
33:38with a diagnosis
33:39of OCD.
33:41So I'm wondering
33:42if Beckner could benefit
33:43from some kind
33:44of medical help.
33:45But first,
33:46he would need a diagnosis,
33:47and I'm not really sure
33:50how my parents
33:50feel about that.
33:54Yeah,
33:55do you care, Mom,
33:55if we talk for a second?
33:56Oh, my gosh.
33:57What are we doing?
33:58What's up?
33:59I just want to talk
33:59to you about Beckner,
34:01who is expressing to me...
34:02What?
34:04They're all running.
34:05I can't look at them.
34:06Okay.
34:07Mark, mark, mark,
34:08what?
34:18Okay.
34:19That's a first.
34:20Haven't done that
34:21since seventh grade.
34:23Since Beckner is here
34:24with me for the weekend,
34:25I reached out
34:26to my friend Joe's mom
34:28to see if I would be able
34:29to get them together.
34:31Splash.
34:32They live in New York,
34:33but they are so excited.
34:35She told me that
34:35it'll be absolutely nothing
34:37for them to get down here.
34:38Yeah.
34:41Holy bullets.
34:43And honestly,
34:43I thought it'd be
34:44really cool for Joe
34:45because it's been
34:45really hard for him
34:46to make friends
34:47because of his Tourette.
34:50Why is there chickens
34:52in my neighborhood?
34:54You're in the hood.
34:55Mark, mark, mark, mark,
34:57mark, mark.
34:59Hey.
34:59I can't look at the chickens.
35:02I can't look at the chickens.
35:06Sometimes seeing chickens
35:07sets off my ticks.
35:09Kind of a lot of animals
35:10set my ticks off,
35:12especially farm animals.
35:16I mean, not a farm animal,
35:17but dolphins.
35:18Sorry.
35:20That was spot on.
35:22Dude, that was perfect.
35:23I'm going to look this way.
35:29Back there.
35:30They're here.
35:32Hi.
35:33How are you?
35:33Hi, Annie.
35:34It's so nice to see you.
35:36Hi.
35:36I'm Annie.
35:37Nice to see you.
35:38Nice.
35:40Oh, my God.
35:41I'm so excited
35:41to see you guys hang out.
35:43How was the travel here?
35:44It was a little weird
35:45when we got here
35:46with the chickens and stuff.
35:47I know.
35:48You know,
35:48from New York,
35:50you know?
35:50Yeah, and like,
35:51where's the graffiti?
35:54So, how old are you?
35:5611.
35:57Oh, okay.
35:57So, he just turned 12.
35:59So, you feel like
36:00the same age.
36:01Want to play now?
36:02Sure.
36:03All right.
36:03You guys are going to play.
36:04Me and Annie
36:05are going to go over there.
36:06How about a one-on-one?
36:07All right.
36:08First to five?
36:09Sure.
36:10Shoot for ball.
36:10I'll shoot for it.
36:17I'm so glad
36:22they were able to connect.
36:24It made me so sad
36:25to think that
36:25he doesn't have friends.
36:26I know.
36:26And it's hard.
36:28Thank you so much.
36:28This, like,
36:29means the world to him.
36:30Of course.
36:31If you don't mind
36:32me asking, like,
36:33what type of six
36:33do you have?
36:34Like, physical?
36:37Mostly, uh,
36:39blanking.
36:41Sometimes cursing.
36:43I usually just have,
36:44like, anxiety.
36:46One thing
36:47that I always do
36:49and it's tapping.
36:52I talked to Bae
36:53about it yesterday
36:54and she asked me,
36:56like, what I do
36:56to, like, help it
36:57but it's, like,
36:59I don't know how.
37:00You know what I mean?
37:01Yeah.
37:02Like, it's kind of weird.
37:05My first impression's on Joe.
37:06He's really nice, cool,
37:08fun to hang around,
37:09chill.
37:11I don't know how severe
37:12Joe's tics are
37:13but I didn't really notice
37:14him ticking today.
37:16Is Joe the only kid?
37:18Yes, he's, like,
37:18my one and only.
37:19So, when he was younger,
37:21looking back at videos
37:22at his preschool,
37:23he's singing
37:24and he's slapping himself
37:25in the face
37:25and I was like,
37:26oh, he's so cute,
37:27he's anxious just like his mom,
37:28like, he's quirky
37:29and then, like,
37:31he had this one
37:32phenomenal teacher
37:32who was like,
37:33do you notice his, like,
37:34blinking?
37:35And because of her,
37:36he got tested.
37:37We found out that he had
37:38the Tourette's diagnosis
37:39and I was like,
37:41oh, like,
37:42how did I not see that?
37:44My mom has six kids
37:45and she hasn't noticed
37:46half the things.
37:46Right.
37:47As a parent,
37:48you really don't.
37:48So, like,
37:49be gentle with her.
37:50And also, like,
37:51at, like,
37:52my parents,
37:53their generation,
37:54like,
37:54you don't get diagnosis.
37:55Right.
37:56But it helps
37:57at least answer questions
37:59about the way
38:00that you're feeling.
38:01The mantra is, like,
38:02don't put it in their head
38:03but it's, like,
38:04it's already there.
38:05Uh-huh.
38:06The more that I talk
38:06to Joe's mom,
38:08the more I feel like
38:09I need to advocate
38:09for Beckner.
38:10For me,
38:11finally hearing
38:12Tourette's syndrome
38:13made sense
38:14why things felt so hard.
38:17Like, you can't get help
38:19Right.
38:19medically
38:20without a literal diagnosis.
38:22So, I do want to say
38:23something to my mom,
38:24I just don't really know
38:25how she will.
38:26React to the whole thing.
38:27Just talk to your mom,
38:28you know?
38:28Mm-hmm.
38:29I just want to do
38:30what's right for Beckner.
38:30I want him to get
38:31the help that he needs.
38:33Hey.
38:34Oh, there's my mom!
38:37Hi!
38:37Hi!
38:38How are you?
38:38I'm good.
38:39How are you?
38:39Good seeing you.
38:40Oh, well, this was nice
38:41to organize this.
38:43Oh, my God.
38:44Oh!
38:45So, how was sleepover weekend?
38:48We had a blast.
38:49We had ice cream for dinner.
38:50Well, yep.
38:52Just ice cream?
38:53You guys didn't order in?
38:54You didn't?
38:54No.
38:55We had ice cream.
38:56Oh.
38:56It looks like they might be done.
38:59Bye, guys.
39:00So, have you two had fun
39:01hanging out?
39:01Yeah.
39:02I am definitely glad
39:03that Balin introduced me
39:04to Beckner because
39:06he's cool,
39:07funny,
39:08and he gets me.
39:09He's like a younger Balin,
39:11but like a cooler Balin.
39:12A lot of hair.
39:15I was going to say that.
39:16I was going to say that.
39:18Ooh.
39:20Bye, you guys.
39:21It was so nice to see you.
39:22Yeah, bye.
39:22Thank you so much for coming.
39:24We'll talk.
39:24Yes, please.
39:26Bye.
39:26Bye.
39:27Bye.
39:27Can I get front?
39:28Babe, can I get front?
39:29Yeah.
39:29Do you care, Mom,
39:30if we talk for a second?
39:31What?
39:32Do you care if I talk to you
39:33for a second?
39:33Yeah, no, that's fine.
39:34Oh, my gosh.
39:37What are we doing?
39:38What's up?
39:39I just want to talk to you
39:40about Beckner.
39:41What?
39:41What happened?
39:42He was expressing to me.
39:44What?
39:45They're all running.
39:46I can't look at them.
39:47Okay.
39:50Yeah, can we switch sides, actually?
39:52Okay.
39:53I cannot look at them.
39:54Okay.
39:55All the chickens.
39:58I really want to be able
40:00to share this with my mom,
40:01but I'm very nervous
40:02with how she will react
40:04or what she will say.
40:06I hope she doesn't get offended
40:08or defensive.
40:10Beckner expressed to me
40:12his anxiety.
40:13Yeah.
40:14It's a really big issue.
40:18Marlene's a dirty, fat,
40:19filthy, horny, whore.
40:21I hope I don't say that
40:22take in front of your mom.
40:23She knows that you can't control it,
40:25so look her right in the eyes
40:27and you say exactly that.
40:29No.
40:30This is so real.
40:32Kidney, this is so pretty.
40:33That's like a little mushroom.
40:37I'm so excited to get back
40:39into touring wedding venues.
40:41Everything about this place
40:42seems perfect,
40:44but is this a place
40:45that fits within our budget?
40:48Something else that came up
40:50is her concern about Beck's
40:52obsessions and compulsions.
40:54Now she's so preoccupied
40:56that these things run in families.
40:58It's super important.
40:59You guys are getting married.
41:02You're going to eventually
41:02want children.
41:03A medical plan is probably
41:05the number one thing
41:07when it comes to jobs.
41:08At some point,
41:09you're going to have to
41:10trust me to be able
41:11to take care of your daughter.
41:12sister.
41:14I'm going to have to
41:14stop me.
41:14I'm going to have to
41:16see you next time.
41:19I'm going to have to
41:20get that one thing
41:21for you.
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