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00:01OK, six.
00:02We're good.
00:03Six hours.
00:04Three.
00:05Three and three.
00:06We're good.
00:07Your father's having a lot of influence
00:09on our lives right now.
00:12I don't think they 100% trust us.
00:15You don't think so?
00:17Whether it's the venues or what career I want to go into.
00:21Ho, ho, ho your ass out the door, bitch.
00:25I asked Vaylin to have a conversation with her father.
00:29You don't want Vaylin to go communicate for you every time
00:32there's a concern.
00:34How do you feel about having a conversation with Alan?
00:41Your mom and I want to celebrate your engagement.
00:44Like an engagement party?
00:45Absolutely.
00:46So where is this party going to be?
00:48Right in the backyard.
00:50This is definitely Alan's way of saying, hey,
00:53the backyard could definitely be a wedding spot for you guys.
00:56So how was your trip to Roanoke?
00:59We went and saw a wedding venue.
01:02Close to them?
01:03Yeah.
01:04OK.
01:05Colin invited them.
01:06I wish my parents were a little bit more involved
01:08because I feel like Colin inviting his family
01:11to the wedding venue that they toured stripped them of it
01:13a little bit of experiencing that with their daughter.
01:16Hi.
01:17Hello.
01:18Today's Van Collins engagement party.
01:19You're bald, Chuck.
01:21Just in case you weren't aware already.
01:22Yeah.
01:23And it's looking pretty amazing.
01:24This is so beautiful.
01:25And if they want to have a wedding in the backyard,
01:27I would build 10 times better than this
01:29to have these guys have an amazing day.
01:31I mean, I could really picture the wedding back here.
01:34Could you?
01:35Yeah.
01:36We have to announce our wedding venue,
01:38and I'm second guessing it.
01:40Where we will be having our wedding will be at...
01:44encoding sessions...
01:53jv does crystal meth with joe biden.
01:57OK.
01:59Keep talking.
02:01J.B. does crystal meth with Joe Biden.
02:12Okay, keep talking.
02:12Where we will be having our wedding will be at
02:19an amazing, beautiful venue on top of a mountain,
02:31and it's a place where Baelin feels the most comfortable to take freely.
02:39I have Tourette's syndrome, stupid.
02:41You all will be there.
02:42What mountain will we be on?
02:44It's close to Roanoke.
02:45Okay.
02:46Near my family.
02:47We're happy that we found the right one.
02:49We have finally decided where we're going to get married.
02:53The seclusion.
02:56Holy crap.
02:57Oh, this is phenomenal.
02:59This venue is a gorgeous private wedding venue on top of a flippin' mountain.
03:06We did consider the backyard today as an option.
03:10I didn't know that it could look like that.
03:11It transformed overnight.
03:14But we just couldn't deny the views.
03:16It's so opened, and I feel really comfortable taking freely there.
03:22As excited as we are, I'm still a little bit worried that I might have disappointed my dad.
03:28Thank you guys for coming.
03:32Okay.
03:33Thank God.
03:35How's your dad doing?
03:36Is your dad holding it together?
03:37No.
03:37We're out of here.
03:39Hey, congratulations on finally picking one.
03:41Yep.
03:42I think they made a perfect choice for this venue because they picked one in Roanoke, closer to Colin's family, our family.
03:50Congratulations, dear.
03:53I'm not losing a son.
03:55I'm gaining a dog.
03:57And so, um, I'm just so, so blessed to have both of them in my life.
04:04I do think Al must be a little bit disappointed that they didn't choose this as their venue.
04:11And ironically, I was kind of coming around a little bit myself, especially after seeing his idea of the engagement party come to fruition.
04:22I need to know more.
04:24But definitely more questions than answers in terms of the venue announcement.
04:30Hey, Dad.
04:36How you doing, bae?
04:37I just came to tell you that it meant a lot to me today.
04:41Everything that you did.
04:42The alpacas.
04:43Oh, my gosh.
04:44Like, I didn't expect the alpacas.
04:45Like, I mean, you put me in full-blown happiness tears.
04:48What means more to me is you set up for yourself and are brave enough to say,
04:55I made my own decision and this is what I want.
04:59Right?
05:00And that you didn't worry about my feelings.
05:02You worry about your own, right?
05:05Well, I do worry about yours.
05:06Well, listen, mine are in the background.
05:10Think of it like this, okay?
05:16As a dad or as a parent, I've walked beside you and I've watched you grow into your own person.
05:28That is far more important to me than being something that I want you to be.
05:34I want you to be you.
05:36I want you to be all the things that you dream about.
05:40Don't be the things that I want you to be.
05:42You be the things for you.
05:44Okay?
05:44I am very excited that you guys picked an amazing spot.
05:50Me too.
05:51And I'm looking forward to being there, okay?
05:55I'm excited to show you guys pictures because it's really beautiful.
05:58Honey, honey, you mean the world to me, okay?
06:02Enjoy the rest of your day.
06:03Stop crying, all right?
06:04Stop crying.
06:05It's a huge relief feeling my dad's reassurance.
06:10All right, let's go back and see all your buddies that travel a long way, okay?
06:14Come on.
06:15Even though today went well, me and Colin are still trying to talk to my dad about boundaries
06:20going forward.
06:21It's an uncomfortable conversation to be had, but it's something that needs to happen for
06:25me and Colin to start building a relationship and life together.
06:28We just need to find the right time.
06:31Thank you for having us.
06:33Congrats once again.
06:35Thank you for coming.
06:40So now that we have the wedding venue out of the way, really it's pedal to the floor
06:47and we are going full speed into this wedding planning.
06:53See you, Travis.
06:54Thank you for coming.
06:55We only have 11 months until our wedding and there's a lot of stuff to do in a short
06:59amount of time.
07:00We've got a lot of vendors to find out.
07:02Bye, Sunny D.
07:03So are you ready for this?
07:06Are you ready for this?
07:09You ready for this?
07:11Are you ready for this?
07:16Yeah.
07:17Take a s*** up your ass.
07:20I'd rather not.
07:21I love you.
07:22I love you.
07:30Throw that in the laundry room, please.
07:43Nah.
07:44And then come stand over here.
07:46I'm going to have you dry these.
07:49Maybe Burke will dry the dishes.
07:51What a party, huh?
07:53I think yesterday's party was a major success.
07:56When I went to bed, there were still things going on.
07:59Like the bonfire is still smoldering outside.
08:02And since the party went so late, we didn't get a chance to discuss the wedding venue with
08:06Bae and Colin.
08:07But we're hoping that we get more information soon.
08:11Dad, how do you feel about the wedding not being in the backyard?
08:13I feel a little bit of relief that I don't have six months' worth of projects to work on.
08:19Like, just to do this was a lot of work.
08:21It's a big commitment.
08:22That doesn't mean that you didn't want to do it.
08:23But now you can be like, okay, they found something that's better.
08:27I mean, we still need to, like, look more into it or whatever, but...
08:30She sent me the link to the venue.
08:32Do you want to see it?
08:33Oh, so she gave you the name.
08:35I was waiting for the text.
08:37I was like, are we going to get a name to this place?
08:40Mountain Top.
08:40Mountain Top Venues.
08:41I'm a little scared to listen.
08:43To me, time frame.
08:45That would give me an idea, like, what month to be picked a day.
08:49Let's kind of start at that.
08:52We know nothing about budget.
08:53We know nothing if this is a five-course meal or if this is a buffet.
08:56We don't know if we're inviting the great aunts or if we're cutting the line at brothers and sisters.
09:01We really know nothing.
09:06My God.
09:07This is, like, where she'd, like, get ready and hang out afterwards.
09:11Is this where the ceremony happens?
09:13It has to be.
09:14Just the ceremony.
09:15Wait, is this where Colin would ride in on the stallion?
09:19Okay.
09:19Something.
09:20I'm going to bet you that price tag right there is gigantic.
09:24I'm kind of taken back, like, wow.
09:27Oh, my gosh.
09:28That's nice.
09:29It's pivotal in their pending marriage that they learn how to budget and save money now.
09:36The venue is stunning.
09:37But I'm thinking, cha-ching.
09:41Yeah.
09:41So now that the venue's finally been revealed, and obviously you and Balin have already talked
09:47about, like, you being maid of honor and whatever, how much do you feel like you can do being
09:52there?
09:53I can't just drive down the road and see you, you know?
09:55So it's kind of like I feel bad that I can't be here sometimes.
09:58I don't want to miss dress shopping with Bae, and I don't want to miss picking her veil
10:03out and a pair of shoes, and I don't want to miss that.
10:06So it's like I would never want to miss Balin's pivotal moments in her life.
10:12Never.
10:12But with my schedule and anxiety and OCD and traveling and coming back here and unpacking
10:18and doing all the things and then going back and getting back into my real life, I don't
10:23know, it's 500 things.
10:26Like, I just can't shut my mind off.
10:28You shouldn't have to miss it.
10:29Yeah, I wouldn't have to miss that.
10:30As far as I'm concerned, that's not an option.
10:32You missing it is not an option.
10:34But the reality is that this is really difficult for you.
10:37I'm super thankful that Sammy was able to make it here for the engagement party, although
10:45I feel like it's going to be a minute before we see her again, even though she wants to
10:51be here.
10:52She's a little bit into kind of like a dark place with some of her anxious thoughts and
10:59OCD, and I think that she really needs to work on herself right now.
11:04Maybe for a little while, the ends won't justify the means.
11:09Seeing the venue, though, made me excited because I at least have a blueprint for sakes.
11:15Oh my gosh, I know.
11:16We're all just grateful to hear a location and a place.
11:22I don't want to overwhelm Balin.
11:24I do know how quickly Balin can get overstressed and overwhelmed and all the overs, and that can
11:32lead down a slippery slope of not good.
11:35But the clock is ticking.
11:37It's really time that we start to talk through a few things, wedding, so that we can get a
11:43jump on some stuff.
11:50We're in therapy right now discussing Dad.
11:52Oh gosh, Colin really wants a relationship with Dad, and he's scared.
12:00I know they have the best intentions for us.
12:04However, I'm going to make whatever decision I'm going to make, and I don't care what anybody
12:09else has to say.
12:22The engagement party at my parents' house yesterday was genuinely so incredible.
12:38The alpaca surprise, Sammy and all my friends making it, the excitement I got from my dad
12:44with our wedding venue.
12:46However, yesterday's high has been tanked after reading some comments on social media.
12:52I got a couple, and what I mean by a couple, a lot of couple, of not nice comments towards
12:58my body.
13:02Social media is hard, especially when you're reading comments and those type of things,
13:06and it's like, oh my God, I had no idea you're pregnant.
13:09Congratulations.
13:10What?
13:10I'm sorry.
13:11There was never an announcement.
13:14That's not happening.
13:17What are you doing?
13:19Laundry.
13:20Fun.
13:21Yeah, fun times.
13:24Loved these shorts, but it just won't fit, and neither will those.
13:30What's going on?
13:32Nothing fits.
13:34My jeans don't fit.
13:35My jean shorts don't fit.
13:37Is it from the new medication you've been trying out?
13:40Is weight gain one of the side effects?
13:43Yep.
13:44The number one side effect.
13:46On top of, like, being, like, scared to go to the gym because of my germs.
13:52I've gained 18 pounds that I cannot lose.
13:56It's definitely frustrating because I really do like this medication.
14:01Just throw them away.
14:02I'm never going to fit in them.
14:03This medication is intended to treat my mood.
14:07I feel better.
14:09I sleep better.
14:11But at the end of the day, with the waking, it's definitely affecting my self-confidence.
14:15Do I keep these?
14:17Yes.
14:17So, how do you think yesterday was with the whole engagement party and everything?
14:22I think it went lovely.
14:24I'm just really excited that your parents were there.
14:27Speaking of my parents, my mom told me that my dad had about four or five glasses of the spiked lemonade.
14:34That's hilarious because he probably hasn't had that amount of alcohol in his life since he was probably 18.
14:44Then we're explosions.
14:48So, yeah.
14:50He had no idea.
14:51He didn't feel anything or anything.
14:54What comes next?
14:56Like, with steps in wedding planning.
14:58Save the dates, RSVPs.
15:01When do we pick out the cake?
15:02I don't, I don't know.
15:04I am very stressed between wedding planning, budgeting, and pretty much everything that comes with it.
15:14And with that, makes my OCD worse.
15:17I'm seeing my mom later, so it's probably a good time to gauge her thoughts.
15:21Because I'm already overwhelmed.
15:25I really want to get in shape before the wedding.
15:28And I know that I want to get in shape before the wedding as well.
15:32Why don't we find an avenue or way that we can work out together?
15:38I know, without you touching gym equipment.
15:41You suck.
15:41If you do some research and find a class that you want to do, I'll do it with you.
15:48Okay.
15:49And that's a scary statement, because I don't know what the hell you're going to find.
15:55I have a great idea for a workout we can do together.
15:58Yeah, that means it's probably going to be something like Pilates or...
16:01Something more exciting.
16:03I'm sure.
16:04Dick.
16:04I don't know where we're waterboarding in a pool.
16:23I don't know if I want to get Punky a black tux.
16:26No, we got to get him pink.
16:28Oh, my God.
16:31Hi.
16:32Thanks for inviting me to shop with you.
16:35Look at the sock burglar.
16:36Okay, what are we doing?
16:37I'm shopping for Tootie, Punky, and Falaf.
16:40I'm definitely craving a little bit more involvement in the wedding planning preparations.
16:46And this is not exactly what I had in mind.
16:51We're getting a lot of dog clothes.
16:52No, you're on a budget.
16:54You're getting married, so you're on a budget.
16:57Do they have shopping carts?
16:58Oh, yes, of course.
17:00Do you not have a wedding budget?
17:03I have a toy list.
17:05Balen.
17:06Okay, do I put the llamas back?
17:07You're worrying me.
17:09I know you want the most expensive wedding in the whole world, and we're filling our cart with dog toys.
17:14Fluff's going to love that.
17:15What do you think I need to do?
17:17Mom, I don't know.
17:18I don't know either.
17:19I don't know this way.
17:20I don't come shopping.
17:20What about a wedding coordinator?
17:21I know it's like an extra cost for a wedding coordinator, but somebody that knows what they're doing.
17:27What are you doing?
17:28This truly is not the best place to discuss the wedding.
17:32Nothing wedding is going to be accomplished here today.
17:35I think either one, she's completely clueless, or two, she would just rather not think about it.
17:45Oh, my God, they spin!
17:46What do you think the reality is of Sammy coming back to helping me plan my wedding in person?
17:52Oh, it's not happening anytime soon.
17:54No, she's not in a good spot with traveling.
17:58Because her anxiety is a little bit at a peak.
18:01And I don't want to stress her out.
18:02I think what's important is Dick for you to decide.
18:08Marlene Dooley.
18:10Them explosions.
18:10How you want to utilize people.
18:12Like sending out and making save the dates.
18:15There's so much.
18:16Like, I know that that's next, and I know that I'm going to need help writing down everyone's
18:20addresses.
18:22Yes, I can help you with that.
18:23But you can't do save the dates, Bela, until you have a guest list.
18:26Until the guest list is 100% final?
18:28Or picking out dog dresses.
18:30You need to have the numbers.
18:32We'll back away.
18:32You need to have, like, the numbers situated.
18:36It's super, super important that I have my mom help me with all the ins and outs of wedding
18:42planning, because it can get stressful and overwhelming, and those type of things make my tics worse.
18:48I could see fluffing on on this for, like, six years.
18:51Put that back.
18:52What the?
18:52Is this a leg?
18:54So to be able to have her time means the world to me.
18:58Can you just start with one?
19:01No.
19:02So what's the latest with couples counseling?
19:05What?
19:06Nothing.
19:06Wait, bad?
19:08Nothing.
19:08What's going on?
19:09We're just having some conversations.
19:12I'm confused.
19:13Are you acting weird?
19:15Um.
19:18I'm reluctant to tell my mom that dad's been brought up in therapy, because I just don't
19:23know what she's going to say, or what she's going to think.
19:26Are you acting weird?
19:28Because we're in therapy right now discussing dad.
19:32Oh, gosh.
19:33Mm-hmm.
19:33Why are you discussing dad?
19:35We're working on coming up with a way to bring up to dad that me and Colin kind of want to,
19:47like, take things our own way, if that makes any sense.
19:51No, it doesn't help your mom out.
19:59I've been putting off talking to my parents because things were so good at the engagement
20:03party.
20:04But I know it's better to rip that Band-Aid off now and tell my mom first to see what
20:09she thinks.
20:10I just hope I'm not making things worse for Colin by sharing this with my mom.
20:14Me and Colin kind of want to, like, take things our own way, if that makes any sense.
20:29No, it doesn't help your mom out.
20:31We had initially presented the idea of premarital counseling to Bay and Colin to work on their
20:41relationship.
20:41So it has been a little bit surprising to find out that they have been talking about Colin
20:46and Alan's relationship.
20:49Colin really wants a relationship with dad, like that bond and that relationship with him.
20:55And he's scared.
20:57He's scared after the initial, I mean, who wouldn't be?
21:02I do feel kind of bad that Colin still feels that way.
21:06And I don't want him to, and your dad does not want him to feel any kind of way.
21:10Do you think that we should even bring it up?
21:13Honestly.
21:14I don't know that it necessarily has to be my dad, dad, dad.
21:19I think it needs to be boundaries in general.
21:23And I think that we want to do everything that we can do to make him feel comfortable.
21:27You and Colin come to the house, barbecue.
21:31It'll just be one more step of showing him.
21:34You're done.
21:35You know, like, okay, I don't want to get hurt.
21:38I don't think my dad's overstepping by chiming in.
21:41He just wants what's best for his kids and wants to make sure that we're all taken care of.
21:47However, I love Colin, and I want to support Colin, and I understand where he's coming from with my dad.
21:53Thanks for taking those from me.
21:57Do you want me to take this?
21:58No.
21:59Your dad can have a lighthearted conversation and be like, Colin, like, we're good.
22:05Knowing the ways that Colin and my dad have clashed before, I would just like it to be less intense
22:14and have the just two people having a conversation.
22:19But I have no idea how the conversation is going to go.
22:22This is making me really anxious to think about.
22:26Yeah.
22:26Do, do, do, do.
22:27They're just reaching out.
22:28Are we ready to go shopping?
22:29Okay, yes.
22:29Go shopping.
22:30Okay, where do we go?
22:32Happy Hound that day.
22:34Yeehaw.
22:35Okay, this is it.
22:50Turn left.
22:51Okay.
22:52We're here.
22:54Where are we?
22:55Yes, you're just going to have to find out when we get inside, sweetheart.
23:01I have no idea where Baylen's taking me today.
23:04Dickville.
23:05It's supposed to.
23:06It's supposed.
23:11Colin.
23:12Dickville.
23:13Okay.
23:13Your mom goes to Dickville.
23:14I'm sorry, Marlene.
23:17Baylen and I both want to get in better shape for the wedding.
23:20This is supposed to be a workout class, but knowing her, it's not something like pole dancing
23:25or something, right?
23:28I'm not pole dancing, so absolutely not.
23:32I just saw a sign that said yoga.
23:34Please, no.
23:37Don't worry.
23:38It's a sport you've already done, and I'm sure you're really good at it.
23:41Somehow that doesn't make me feel any better at all.
23:46Ride the horse.
23:48Dude, we're already late.
23:50Let's go.
23:51Ride the horse.
23:52What the f*** is this?
23:58Ride the horse.
24:03Okay, everyone.
24:04So we're going to start with a warm-up, get our body loose.
24:06We're riding horse heads on a stick.
24:09How is this a workout?
24:11Oh, it's a legit sport.
24:13It's a sport.
24:13I don't...
24:14Saw it on social media.
24:16There is a U.S. championship for this f***.
24:18Think about it.
24:19Horseback riding is like the same thing, but we are the horse.
24:22So instead of the horse jumping over the barrels, we are jumping over the barrels.
24:27So technically, it's a great exercise for us instead of horsies.
24:31Yeah.
24:32What horse do you want?
24:33What horse do you want?
24:35You pick.
24:38How you doing?
24:38That's me.
24:39Nice to meet you all.
24:39Nice to meet you.
24:40Ride the horse.
24:41Nice to meet you.
24:42Going to a hobby horse class is different than going to the gym with my OCD because when
24:47I go to the gym, I have a specific fear of germs, but germs on the equipment, germs not
24:52being wiped down.
24:53We all have our own horse.
24:56So compared going to the gym, it's one thing you're touching versus 20 things you're touching.
25:01What exactly is this?
25:03So, you know, we're doing fitness a long time.
25:05We're going to have a cardio workout, but it's inspired by the hobby horse.
25:08So...
25:09I learned about Colin riding a hobby horse around his house naked, actually from his
25:17mom.
25:17She showed me a photo.
25:19I just did it butt-ass naked before every shower.
25:23I just thought you would like it and it would bring back memories.
25:28Everybody, if we can line up in rows, please.
25:30You get in the middle.
25:31Okay.
25:32I'm getting in the middle.
25:34Ride the horse.
25:35Come on, yeah!
25:36Today, we're going to have a fitness class inspired by hobby horses.
25:40We're going to go over some movements, the walk, the trot, dick.
25:44Moo, bitch.
25:46As we raise our knee up, our toes are pointed downward.
25:49Woo-hoo!
25:50Keep going a couple more times.
25:51Eat a bag of dicks.
25:52I'm watching.
25:53Did I mention I have Tourette's, anybody?
25:55I feel really comfortable in the hobby horse class.
26:03It's just really nice to be able to tick and not be judged or looked at or stared at or
26:08talked about.
26:09I mean, we're all standing here holding horse heads, so I feel like these people are willing
26:13to go with anything.
26:14Right here.
26:15Boom.
26:16So let's point it downward.
26:19Try to look upright.
26:20Don't look at the horse.
26:21F*** this horse.
26:23Yeah.
26:24Keep going.
26:25Six, five, four, three.
26:27Yeah, it's pretty humiliating to be in the front row with a stick between your legs and
26:31a horse on the other end.
26:34Woo!
26:37Yeehaw!
26:38All right, next, we're going to go from a canter to a flying change, similar to a skip.
26:42Got it.
26:45Yeah.
26:46Ride the horse.
26:49I was taking it serious.
26:50It's called a workout class.
26:52It's called you work out in the workout class.
26:54I was worked out.
26:56How many laps are you doing?
26:57I'm having flashbacks.
27:02We're going to gallop.
27:04Jump.
27:05Jump.
27:06Jump.
27:09Ooh.
27:10Grace, look at that.
27:12Oh, I don't know.
27:16Sweet.
27:18All right, everyone, that is class.
27:20Let me collect the horses.
27:23Yeah, back in the stalls.
27:24They got to be boarded.
27:26I don't think that going to hobby horse classes on a consistent basis is going to help you
27:33lose weight.
27:34I guarantee I probably burned less than 100 calories in that class.
27:38Did everyone have fun?
27:39Yeah.
27:39Yeah.
27:40Woo!
27:42I need to catch my breath for a second.
27:44So what'd you think?
27:47Ride the horse.
27:48Yeah, I mean...
27:49It was something that I'll never forget.
27:52I can tell you that.
27:53Uh-huh.
27:56I would probably not take this class again.
27:59Just because there's a lot of running.
28:02I'll pass.
28:04But it's fine.
28:04I'll think long and hard next time before we pick another sport.
28:08Correct?
28:08So, speaking of things that we don't want to do, we still need to have that conversation
28:16with your father.
28:18So are we still going to have that conversation or no?
28:21I don't know.
28:25I have a feeling it's not going to end well.
28:29But my mom has asked me how couples therapy is going.
28:34And I told her that dad has come up.
28:39How did that conversation go?
28:41Just about as well as I thought it would be.
28:43I mean, I think it's okay to discuss something about what happens in couples counseling.
28:52But when it's something like this that we've kind of went back and forth on and it's kind
28:58of a big deal and it involves her parents, I just wish she would have, like, brought it
29:03up to me first or something.
29:06I know they have the best intentions for us.
29:10However, you just don't want to hear you should do this job.
29:15I'm just saying it's hard to hear from somebody.
29:18That you should do the same thing over and over again.
29:21No, that I, like, if I get a job offer that doesn't have health care, don't take it, even
29:27if that's something that I want to do.
29:28So that's hard to hear as the person that is now trying to take over the reins from him.
29:34And I don't care who it upsets.
29:36I'm going to do what's best for me and what I think is best for the both of us.
29:40That's it.
29:42I'm headed into a completely different career path for me outside of the military.
29:47And I wish I had, like, their trust more and to be able to make these types of decisions.
29:56So I think that it's important that we all sit down and have a conversation together just
30:03so we can talk through this at their house.
30:07Okay.
30:08I mean, I'm fine with having a low-key conversation.
30:13All right?
30:14But I'm going to make whatever decision I'm going to make.
30:17And I don't care what anybody else has to say.
30:19They've got to figure out finance, budget.
30:24And I think that we need to, like, confront that head on.
30:27And I know that he still has some feelings about yours and his relationship.
30:33I'm not surprised that I've come up in their therapy sessions, but I am curious to know why.
30:53Almost done?
30:53Oh, you are done.
30:54Yeah, it looks good.
30:55Oh, good stuff.
30:56They should be here any moment, I think.
30:58Did you just talk to her?
30:59Did you get a text?
31:00Yeah, they're on their way.
31:01Yeah.
31:01She was like, who's all going to be there?
31:03and I was like, oh, just your dad and I
31:06because the boys are golfing and Beck's at a sleepover.
31:09Holla.
31:10Bailen and Colin are coming over tonight
31:11to talk about the wedding planning
31:13and also some things that have come up in therapy.
31:17It's kind of actually nice that the boys aren't here
31:19because, like, we can talk.
31:21I mean, I know, obviously, the intention is to talk about wedding stuff a lot
31:27because we've got to start this.
31:29I mean, this is pathetic.
31:29They've got to figure out finance, budget, like, I don't even know.
31:35There's just a lot, so I'm excited.
31:36You really think there's a budget?
31:37Well, I think that's the point, to ask some questions and find out.
31:40You've already said words that probably they've never heard before.
31:43Plan, budget.
31:46Talking with Bailen at the pet shop
31:48made me realize that she definitely is in a little bit over her head
31:55with this wedding planning.
31:56We know that they decided on a venue
31:59and, therefore, they picked a date, which is next year.
32:02And that is only 11 months away.
32:04That's not a lot of time.
32:06They are going to need a little more help planning this event.
32:11Somebody like me and myself.
32:12But help costs money, too.
32:13Yeah, that's true.
32:14So there.
32:15Add that to the list.
32:17Mm-hmm.
32:17I'm excited.
32:20Yeah, me too.
32:20But I'm nervous, too, because it's like, let's not be unrealistic.
32:23Like, let's really, like, buckle down with all this
32:26and make sure that you're in the right realm with everything.
32:30If maybe you're not, now's a good time to pivot.
32:33You know, and be like, okay, well, maybe that won't work.
32:36Thank you for bringing that up, kind of a thing.
32:38Yeah.
32:39And I know that they've even had some things brought up, you know,
32:45since they started the premarital counseling.
32:50So I know they even have some stuff, like, if we even make it to that topic.
32:55I know that he still has some feelings about yours and his relationship and whatever.
33:02And I think that we need to, like, confront that head on.
33:05I hadn't told Alan until now that he had came up in their therapy session
33:13because I don't want his feelings to be prematurely hurt
33:17when maybe it's not as big of a deal as it would come across as being.
33:25It's kind of unsettling, but I'm not surprised that I've come up in their therapy sessions,
33:31but I am curious to know why.
33:33Nobody's here.
33:36Like, we can have a private conversation because the kids are not around.
33:39Whatever they want to talk about, I'm willing to talk about it.
33:40Okay.
33:45Are you nervous at all to go, like, to my parents?
33:49This is a conversation that's needed to...
33:53been had for a long time.
33:56We've needed to have this conversation.
33:58I think it's really important for there to be boundaries.
34:05We're about to get married, and you don't want to wait and put it off.
34:11And the next thing you know, we have kids,
34:13and it gets to a point where it's too late to be able to set those boundaries.
34:19I'm going to just say that there's been a decision that's been made
34:25regarding my career choice, and I want to go into real estate.
34:32So let's be honest here.
34:34Let's be honest, bitch.
34:35I'm choosing a career field that your dad told me not to choose.
34:39When we take that chance, we just want you guys to be with us.
34:45I wouldn't even call it a chance.
34:47What would you call it?
34:49I would just call it a career, a decision.
34:53It's not a chance.
34:55When you go into something with that kind of a mindset,
34:57you're going to fail every single time.
34:59So how do you go into it?
35:02Saying that you're not going to fail.
35:06So what happens if you fail?
35:07Well, it's not a chance.
35:11I don't know.
35:14We're taking a chance.
35:16Exactly.
35:17We can fail at this conversation.
35:20I know we can.
35:25It's really important to me that Colin feels heard and seen and understood.
35:30It just feels like an impossible balance to deal with right now, though,
35:33between him and my parents.
35:35It feels very overwhelming to always be in the middle.
35:37You got what you're going to say figured out?
35:40Sure.
35:41All right.
35:43Here we go.
35:43We're finally here.
35:46My God.
35:47Are they bringing their dogs?
35:57I have no idea.
35:59Hi, guys.
36:00Hi.
36:02It is quiet here.
36:03Where's Toot?
36:05We didn't bring them because we have to go all the way back.
36:07No doggies.
36:10Where?
36:10I'm not trying to say your dad loves Toot more than he loves you, but your dad loves
36:14toot.
36:15No, I was just wondering if I could go around like a teacher.
36:19Tootsie.
36:19I made her a hamburger.
36:22Alan and I don't always see eye to eye.
36:25We have different approaches, different opinions on things.
36:29Every decision that I make, it's, hey, you shouldn't do that.
36:32Or, hey, that's risky.
36:34Or, hey, like this.
36:35Ultimately, at the end of the day, like, I'm going to make whatever decision that I think
36:41is best for my life, regardless of what anybody else has to say about it.
36:44So, I'm glad you came because we, all four of us, haven't had the opportunity to talk
36:52more about the wedding-ish plans.
36:55Mm, this is so good.
36:57What are some of the things that you guys have discussed?
37:00Or do you, like, I mean, do you have, like, notepads?
37:02Discussed for what?
37:03For the wedding.
37:04Yeah.
37:05You're bald.
37:08The only thing that we have, we need to, like, 100% finish before the save the dates,
37:13which would be, like, our next steps, is the guest list.
37:16Because we've nailed in the coffin at least 120 people.
37:20120 people.
37:21That's a bad term to use.
37:26We nailed in the coffin, yeah.
37:27Nailed 120 people in the coffin.
37:29Coffin.
37:29Yeah.
37:30Dick.
37:31Do you have a budget?
37:32Have you looked at each other and said, hey, this is the amount of money that we want
37:37to spend, and how can we find a way to stay within that budget?
37:41Whatever it is, double it, and then double that.
37:44That's probably what it'll be.
37:46I'm not surprised at all that my parents are hitting us with a bunch of wedding questions.
37:50We're still in the dark about a lot of this, so they're great questions, but we have no
37:56idea how to answer them.
37:58We have sat down and talked about how much we want to put in.
38:02Okay.
38:02We haven't sat down and thought about how much we want to individually spend on, like,
38:06florists and makeup and hair.
38:07Because I've thought about getting one of my friends to do my makeup.
38:10Like, if it comes down to getting my makeup done and getting all my bridesmaids done is
38:14$15,000, I'm not going to pay for that when all of us can do our...
38:18By all means, we'll get their bridesmaids...
38:19$15,000, what is this, reconstructive surgery?
38:22Well, that would be your part that you would pay.
38:25How the is somebody going to come out of makeup and sex it?
38:29That would be the part you guys pay, and then the horse for Colin would come out of
38:33your loan.
38:36I feel like we're kind of, like, working, like, backwards.
38:39Like, we're figuring out all, like, the small stuff, and we don't have any of, like,
38:43the major stuff to help, like, the guest list or...
38:45We probably do.
38:47We've been discussing on whether we should get a wedding planner or not.
38:49Oh.
38:50And we were kind of waiting on...
38:51Oh, I think after tonight, you probably should be on a yes checkbox.
38:54I mean, I'm even clueless.
38:55Okay.
38:56Because I'm feeling no stress for you guys.
38:59Like, there's...
39:00I'm not feeling no stress yet.
39:01I'm feeling if you just don't think about it.
39:03If you just don't think about it.
39:05I love that technique.
39:06Yeah, I'm learning it in therapy.
39:07It's called procrastinating.
39:09It's called avoiding.
39:10No, no, no.
39:11It doesn't go away.
39:12It's not procrastinating.
39:12It's called avoidance.
39:13It's something I'm very good at.
39:16You are.
39:17Yup.
39:18Yeah.
39:18Yup.
39:20Oh, my gosh.
39:21Speaking of therapy.
39:22Speaking of therapy.
39:24Hold your dad a little bit of what you said to me in the...
39:28Yeah, where am I at in therapy?
39:34I don't want to tell my dad that my dad's been brought up in therapy.
39:37I'm honestly freaking out because I have no idea what my parents are going to think when
39:45we finally put our feet down about boundaries, especially with Colin's career.
39:50I'm worried that this might go really, really bad.
39:54What's the deal?
39:55What am I doing?
39:56Uh, so...
40:04In therapy, we were talking about stressors and knowing that, like, whatever decision
40:10that I make is not only affecting me, but her.
40:13It's a long road to that dead end.
40:16This is why I hate confrontation, because it feels like there's so much to lose.
40:21If this doesn't work out, what are you going to do?
40:24I love it.
40:28Hi!
40:29Hi!
40:30We're really hoping that the wedding planner can help us with, one, everything.
40:34I want alpacas.
40:35Alpacas.
40:36A horse.
40:38Have you guys ever done a queso fountain?
40:40A queso fountain.
40:43Part of our job is educating them so that we can be like, okay, this is what reality is.
40:49In thinking about your budget, you're not going to love what I have to tell you.
40:54You know, we've done a swim!
40:59If I'm going to want a horse in our wedding, do you want to work on your fear of horses?
41:06I'm going to do the exposure therapy today with the horses.
41:10I want to cry.
41:12It's okay.
41:12They can throw you off.
41:14They can kick you.
41:15Just everything about them is scary to me.
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