Baylen Out Loud - Season 2 Episode 01- Obsessed with Everything
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00:00My name is Balin, I'm 21 years old, and I have Tourette's syndrome.
00:10Tourette's syndrome causes me to have involuntary motor and vocal tics.
00:16This isn't good for you, because then you're, oh,
00:18I put both the hands on the panel bars.
00:23I'd describe our family as large, chaotic.
00:26I have four crazy and loud brothers.
00:30You can stop, kid, you can stop.
00:32And one younger sister, Sammy.
00:34Search what?
00:37Suck a wiener.
00:40That would not do.
00:42I have the world's best boyfriend, Colin.
00:45He's my medicine.
00:48So there's something I have to tell you guys.
00:51Me and Colin are gonna move in with each other.
00:53This isn't like moving in with a girlfriend who has no issues.
00:59I need Colin to understand that this is a challenge.
01:02My foot stock.
01:05Nothing better happen to my kid, nothing.
01:10I would like to have both of your blessings to have your daughter's hand in marriage.
01:13I know what's coming, I just knew it.
01:15I don't really have an answer.
01:17As a guy, that's not what you're going into that conversation thinking that's how it's gonna go.
01:23I just want to marry Balin.
01:29Balin Alexandra Dupree, will you marry me?
01:35Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
01:39We're getting married.
01:40Life is just perfect.
01:41Someone asked me one time, how many times do I tick a day?
01:53But anyways, ticks come and go.
01:57I don't know.
01:58Believe it or not, I have a gun.
02:01We're all gonna die.
02:02Pluck it.
02:03Slap it.
02:03Wrap it.
02:04La la la la.
02:05Suck a wiener, bitch.
02:08Still loving the ring.
02:10We're still engaged.
02:12This is my ring.
02:13That's a big bitch.
02:15God damn.
02:16Man's did good.
02:19How many people have been asking you, do you have a date?
02:22That was the first thing that we got asked right after we got engaged.
02:25However, we haven't started a single thing.
02:27No wedding planning done.
02:29Yeah.
02:29Nothing.
02:30We're just living with the fact that we're just fiancé, you know?
02:38Living together is fun.
02:40At least in my eyes, I don't know what it's like living with me, so.
02:46Every day is a new day.
02:47You never know what you're gonna hear or see.
02:52I'm gonna take a grilled cheese up the ass.
02:54Sorry, I'm sorry.
02:55I love grilled cheese.
02:59It came out of left field.
03:02A lot of them come out of left field.
03:06All I do around this house is find socks.
03:10Not one.
03:14Have you ever lived with a man if the temperature isn't at 64 degrees in the house?
03:19He likes at a ripe 65 Alaskan type of chill.
03:22We're just gonna boost it.
03:24If you just keep going until you hit the 80s, that's about where I like it.
03:30No!
03:31So about five years ago, I was diagnosed with Tourette's syndrome, which is a neurological
03:40involuntary motor and vocal disorder.
03:44I have a nine-inch penis.
03:46I decided to share my story with Tourette's on social media because I was done hiding from myself.
03:57Goddamn!
03:58So to be able to help others not feel overwhelmed, a little bit confused, a little bit hopeless is so important.
04:12Tourette's syndrome is never isolated by itself.
04:14It's often accompanied by other conditions or comorbidities, like OCD, ADHD, depression, anxiety.
04:24And I have a lot of those.
04:30It's really good.
04:32That don't need no tweaking.
04:37This is really good.
04:38What?
04:39Why'd you...
04:41It's not bad.
04:44I have no idea where my kicking tick came from.
04:53The punch has been a common thing.
04:55She punches me in the balls.
05:02Sorry, I had to do that.
05:03I have the urge in my wrist to punch Colin in the ball sack.
05:11And it feels electrifying.
05:14It's like itching, burning, um, hurting, waiting.
05:20And when I let it out, the urge goes away, actually.
05:24Are you excited that it's Easter and that we're going to an Alpac farm today?
05:28You're not as excited as me.
05:30Yeah, I will never be as excited as you about this Alpacas.
05:34I'm so excited.
05:35I'm literally going to cry.
05:36I'm going to cry.
05:36And we get to walk with them.
05:39I hope you know that they're like more mean than horses.
05:42Not those ones at the farm.
05:43They spit on you.
05:44That's what llamas and Alpacas do.
05:48I don't want that.
05:50My fondness for Alpacas started when I was like 12 years old.
05:54This is where my OCD is a problem, because why am I obsessed with everything?
05:59They're just big, fluffy, lovable.
06:02I can't get enough.
06:06Yeah, and they eat sideways, yeah.
06:12I know that.
06:13I suggested an Alpaca farm for an Easter gathering with my family, because one, it's on my bucket
06:22list, and two, it's been a really long time since we've all been together.
06:27However, there's some things I want to clear up with my dad, know that time has passed since
06:33we've gotten engaged.
06:34And considering that I don't really like confrontation, I'm a little nervous to approach my dad.
06:40And I just don't know how well it will go.
06:53I'm coming down in my mind.
06:57And I'll see the sun but shine, so we can't stop now.
07:04This is amazing.
07:07Bailen's going to lose her mind.
07:08Look at that one.
07:09Look at that one.
07:10Staring right at you.
07:10Look at him staring at you.
07:11Here.
07:12She's like so obsessed.
07:14It's so crazy.
07:15Come on!
07:16There's so many.
07:20Oh my god, they have him in the front yard.
07:22Oh my god!
07:23We could at least fit six of them in the apartment.
07:28Oh my god!
07:30We haven't seen my parents a ton, because it's almost two hours difference to see them.
07:36This is what our front yard's going to look like.
07:38Give me two years.
07:39You look so good.
07:41Happy Easter.
07:42Happy Easter, you f***ing Easter boy.
07:44Happy Easter.
07:45It's okay.
07:47It's been a couple of months since we've all been together as one group.
07:52Super excited.
07:53I'm so excited.
07:54Thank god.
07:54I'm so excited.
07:55I'm so excited for you.
07:56Happy Easter.
07:56Happy Easter.
07:58It's not like Julie and Alan have softened up on me, but there is a difference.
08:03It's almost like they're more accepting in a way.
08:08But I think Julie and Alan are always going to be hard on me, because they're very protective
08:14parents like that's just who they are.
08:16Hi.
08:16Hi.
08:16Hi.
08:18We haven't been ambushing Balin with calls and stop and visits, because it's good to give them
08:24some space and time to establish their new normal.
08:27And she can be more assertive at attaining her own independence without us.
08:33I know you're excited, aren't you?
08:34Not really.
08:37I think her figuring it out on her own a little more is better for her.
08:42But it's still my daughter, and in my mindset, we are still going to be her parents forever.
08:50Where's Sammy?
08:53Where's Sammy?
08:54So everything was booked and she was ready to come here, and then stuff got out of sorts
08:58with too much anxiety, then her OCD crap was all kicking in.
09:02I was, Sammy, just do another time where you can come for a longer stretch.
09:05Mm-hmm.
09:06So then, like, the ends didn't justify the means, so.
09:10It's not just Balin dealing with issues.
09:13To be completely honest, three out of the six kids, maybe four out of the six,
09:19have anxiety and OCD.
09:20It's just how it's elicited differently and how they cope differently.
09:24But to me, the mystery is that there is a way to hide your OCD.
09:30And Sammy does a really good job of hiding it.
09:33She does a really good job with keeping things private that she wants to keep private.
09:38How has the house been with all guys?
09:41Community .
09:43A lot of .
09:44A lot of cleaning. We've helped.
09:46I've helped a lot.
09:46Do you do dishes?
09:48No.
09:48Nothing's changed, Balin.
09:51Hey, you like my shirt.
09:53I love your shirt.
09:54I love how colorful it is.
09:55Banana will be away.
09:57When we get to, like...
09:58Where's the wedding at?
10:00Just don't tell mom, but me and Colin are getting married in Alaska.
10:05It's going to be a destination wedding.
10:06What did you guys pick out of a hat?
10:10Did you guys pick out of a hat?
10:14You suck for a living.
10:15So does Colin and Sammy.
10:17Colin sucked George Washington's .
10:19Colin.
10:20Colin's busy.
10:21Yeah.
10:23Yeah.
10:24Why is everything, like, a .
10:27Oh, I just...
10:28Oh, mom.
10:29And poor Colin George Washington tips.
10:32He's got time on his hands.
10:34I don't know.
10:35More than time, I guess, on his hands.
10:37Colin needs a second job.
10:39Yeah.
10:42Welcome to Ever After Alpaca Farm.
10:44Hi.
10:45Hi.
10:45I'm Heidi.
10:46Hi.
10:47It's nice to meet you.
10:47Hi, I'm Heidi.
10:48Are you guys ready for an alpaca adventure today?
10:50Yes.
10:51Yes.
10:51Good, good.
10:52We're going to go in the field and hand feed the boys and interact with them.
10:56A couple of field rules.
10:57Rule number one, not going to chase alpaca.
11:00Number two, don't stand behind them because they can kick.
11:03Now, as adults, if they were to kick, it literally feels like you stubbed your toe.
11:08It hurts for five seconds.
11:10And most people who come here want to know, am I going to get spit on?
11:15Yes.
11:15Did you wonder that?
11:17Oh, I have seen yourselves on the way over here.
11:18I was going to say.
11:19Now, if you were to get spit on, it's definitely stinky, but it doesn't harm us in any way.
11:24We have wipes.
11:25We will clean you up.
11:26How are you feeling?
11:27I'm good.
11:28My tics are good.
11:29I'm just really excited.
11:30My tics get a little bit more when I'm excited.
11:34There are no worries here.
11:36My tics can be elevated from any type of emotion.
11:39And even though my tics are very active right now, I'm not distressed.
11:45It's just because of how excited I am to touch the fluffies.
11:50I love your body.
11:54Oh, my God.
11:56Oh, my God.
11:56I love you.
11:58Hi, buddy.
11:58How are you doing?
11:59That thing's giant.
12:01Hold on, bud.
12:03Here.
12:05Holy crap.
12:06Come here.
12:06I got the good stuff right there at the bottom.
12:07Jesus.
12:08Hey, hey, hey.
12:09The thing's stuck on there.
12:10This thing's stuck on there, buddy.
12:10There, get out of there.
12:11Get out of there.
12:12They end up with a lot of farms.
12:14Oh, my God.
12:15Somebody spit on me.
12:18This guy just spit on me.
12:20Oh, hell no.
12:22No way.
12:24And that's why his lip's hanging down.
12:25Oh, ho, ho, ho, ho, ho.
12:27It was real red.
12:30Shake it.
12:32Look at your little trot.
12:34I got you wet.
12:35Yum, yum.
12:37You're a sweetie.
12:40You don't do kisses?
12:42Me and Colin are planning a wedding.
12:45Do you guys let the alpacas be at weddings?
12:48We've taken a couple of alpacas to the wedding.
12:50We had the pictures with the bride and groom.
12:52So that's the first thing we're thinking about,
12:54is if alpacas are coming.
12:56Have you done any other venue?
12:59Because you haven't really asked me for any help, so.
13:03We honestly, there's very, you're bald.
13:04There's very minimal planning.
13:06We haven't started, but we need to start looking for venues.
13:08OK, I thought maybe you were leaving me out.
13:10No.
13:11Good to know.
13:12Being it, that's our first child that's engaged to be married,
13:18I would love to be super involved.
13:21Al wants to be in the wedding.
13:22Al wants to be making the plans.
13:23I'm already in the wedding.
13:24I'm already guaranteed a dance.
13:26Al's already making videos.
13:28Al's getting baby pictures.
13:30Al's crying at night.
13:31Oh, OK.
13:32I'm, I'm, I'm, it's gonna, it's fine.
13:35It's all right.
13:37Oh my goodness.
13:39Hey, can we, can we talk?
13:41Huh?
13:41Can we talk?
13:42Yeah, honey.
13:43OK.
13:45Where, right now?
13:46Yeah.
13:47Like, over there.
13:48Just recently, Colin shared with me that when he went to go talk to my parents about getting
13:56a blessing, my dad said that he had no, no blessing to give.
14:00I would like to have both of your blessings to have your daughter's hand in marriage.
14:03I knew it was coming.
14:04I just knew it.
14:06I don't really have an answer other than whatever Balaam wants to do, she's, she's got our blessing.
14:15I am just confused.
14:18I don't think I actually do have his blessing.
14:23Colin knows that I plan on talking to my dad about it.
14:27But this isn't about Colin.
14:30This is about me and my dad.
14:32Because with wedding planning and everything coming around the corner, I need clarity.
14:38Um, so with our wedding coming up, you're bald with wedding planning.
14:46And I wanted to ask you because I heard that when Colin went to suck George Washington's
14:54When I heard that Colin went to you and mom to ask for y'all's blessing and you said
15:04that there was no blessing to give.
15:08And I just want to know what that meant.
15:10I expected Balaam to actually bring this up at some point.
15:17I mean, not today.
15:20It's important to have this conversation, but I'm nervous, yeah.
15:25When I leave the house, I have to flick the lights three times before me because if I only do it once,
15:33then something bad's going to happen on the way to the airport.
15:36Sammy's anxiety and OCD becomes disabling.
15:40She has done a very good job at hiding it.
15:43I can't really like enjoy anything.
15:45You're like a prisoner to your own thoughts.
15:50We have been talking about our marriage and it started with some premarital counseling.
15:59I'm confused with why they're bringing up counseling.
16:03Colin looks pissed.
16:13I was confused with when you said that there was no blessing to give.
16:21And I just want to know what that meant.
16:26I didn't mean it to be like, oh my God, well, I don't prove a cop.
16:30Like, I'll do whatever Balaam wants to do.
16:33That is my blessing.
16:34That is my like, hey, if Balaam's okay, we are okay.
16:39What's really sunk in that now it's them.
16:42It's not her, it's them.
16:44Anyone who's in your life needs to protect you.
16:47I know where you were when you're manic and from where you are right now to where you were.
16:54Amazing.
16:56When he stepped into your life, it's kind of like at a time where
17:01I think that's really helped you move forward.
17:05There's such a realism with this condition because my whole
17:10focus up until she met Colin was how can we get Balaam better?
17:15Four to five years ago, Balaam was in the darkest place of her life.
17:18There's some things that people don't know.
17:21A lot of things.
17:22And something that I'm still grappling with.
17:25I just want to make sure that like, suck a fat bitch.
17:32That there was no harsh feelings.
17:35Oh my god, no.
17:38We love you guys, okay?
17:39We're just truly grateful to even like be on this adventure.
17:43And whatever you guys want to do in your wedding is fine by me.
17:45I'm 100%.
17:46You're talking about this adventure.
17:48Dad, without you and mom, I wouldn't be here.
17:50So thank you.
17:51You're the best dad ever.
17:52Yeah.
17:52I love you.
17:53Thanks.
17:54I love you.
17:55I'm here to help you whenever you need, okay?
17:58I love you.
18:00I'm very, very glad that we talked because I was able to get more clarity.
18:05But also at the end of the day, like I'm still marrying Colin.
18:08It's actually crazy that we're walking alpacas.
18:10Yeah, it's way cooler than I thought.
18:12I hope that my parents are now starting to see how amazing Colin is.
18:16Because he's proved over and over and over and time and time again,
18:20that he's for me.
18:39What's going on, Graham?
18:41Her hair looks so good.
18:42Oh, your hair looks so good.
18:44You look so much brighter.
18:47Candy is Mima, and she is my mom.
18:51Ow, you look a little fried today.
18:53I got all the sun today.
18:54Yeah, I didn't see you.
18:55You're so tired.
18:57Mima lives both in New York and in Florida,
19:00but she will not let life get in the way of being a part of her grandkids' lives.
19:06I'm sorry.
19:07I'm so tired from going to alpaca home.
19:08I know, but that's okay.
19:10I'm glad I get to see you.
19:12I'm excited to be here because I don't even remember when the last time was that I spent
19:16Easter with the family.
19:18To all.
19:19Everything that they're involved in, I want to be involved in.
19:26I love them to death.
19:27Baelin has always had that special place in my heart, and I don't look at Bay as having Tourettes.
19:34I see Bay as she's got the biggest heart.
19:38Oh, Bay, it's beautiful.
19:40I think Baelin and Colin make a great couple.
19:43I think the engagement was awesome.
19:45Is Colin here?
19:47Mm-mm.
19:47No Colin?
19:48He's at work.
19:48Oh, that bitch.
19:50I know.
19:54Where's Sammy?
19:55No, Sammy.
19:56She just couldn't do it.
19:57You know how it goes with her.
19:59I know.
19:59She felt bad, and I didn't want to make her feel bad.
20:02Come on, Winnie.
20:02Let's go outside.
20:03I'm going to take Winnie out.
20:05I'm going to FaceTime Sammy about the alpaca farm.
20:09Come on.
20:10He needs to go out.
20:13I miss Sammy, and I love her, and I know it's getting harder and harder for her to travel.
20:18Sammy's anxiety and OCD becomes disabling.
20:22She has done a very good job at hiding it, but it has become more difficult for her to travel
20:31because of it being at a very high peak.
20:41Are you taking a .
20:42Pick up.
20:45Hi.
20:49No, it was a long day.
20:51I'm not kidding you.
20:52We missed you.
20:53I know.
20:54I miss you guys, too, but I'm the only one that really has to take a flight there,
20:59so then when mom's like, oh, just get on the flight.
21:01It's fine.
21:02Like, oh, it's just a quick little flight.
21:04Like, it's not.
21:05When I leave the house, I have to flick the lights three times before me because if I only
21:09do it once, then something bad's going to happen on the way to the airport.
21:12I can only say certain things.
21:14I can only wear a certain pair of shoes.
21:17I have to sit in row 13 or 14 right over the wing in the aisle seat every time I get on the
21:22plane, and I have to, like, look at the cockpit and make sure that all of the buttons are on.
21:28When I was eight years old, I knew I had to do things a certain way, but I wasn't sure why.
21:32And that's when I started therapy because if I didn't do something the way that my brain would
21:37tell me to, something was going to happen.
21:39Like, not terrible, like, oh, I'm going to get an F in school.
21:43Terrible, like, I'm going to die.
21:45Somebody in my family is going to die.
21:47Car accidents, like, my brain goes AWOL.
21:51You're like a prisoner to your own thoughts.
21:55For me, everything has to feel perfect or else I will redo it 60 times.
21:59Like, if I were to throw that marker over there on the table and it were to land sideways,
22:03I'd flip it or I'd flip it again because it doesn't feel right or I'd twist it because it
22:08doesn't feel right or I need to do it again and throw it in the right angle at the right
22:11time at the right place.
22:12It's literally, like, mind-controlling.
22:14Like, I'm in my own prison locked behind bars.
22:17No one knows or no one sees.
22:18It's, like, always constantly in your head.
22:22Uh-huh.
22:22That was a big struggle growing up, watching Bailen deal with all of her own issues,
22:26and then also dealing with mine.
22:28It's almost like we both failed, my parents.
22:31How are we raised by two absolutely selfless, caring, supportive parents,
22:37and then we're both, like, down in the basement because we shared a room, like, struggling.
22:42But also in a way, like, I found comfort and safety within Bailen because we did both struggle
22:46with kind of sort of the same things, even if they were a little bit different on each
22:50sides of the spectrum.
22:53I still do want to see you, and I also have a wedding to plan,
22:57and I need my maid of honor to do that.
22:59So...
23:06Sammy knows that she's my maid of honor because, like,
23:09because it would be so rude if I picked someone else over her.
23:13Like, no one gets her place.
23:14I'll go!
23:15All right!
23:16I'm so excited.
23:19So are there any plans?
23:23Are there any wedding plans?
23:25What is, what's, what's...
23:26I mean, it's like, I think that they've been, like, scrolling online and glancing.
23:30That's the idea I'm getting from her.
23:31But you just hear within the next year.
23:34And things are different.
23:36Like, when we got married, we had, like, if you're gonna get married in the church,
23:39the church makes you go through the counseling.
23:42And then after that, then you can set up your time.
23:45And then you, like, it was kind of laid out for you, you had a plan.
23:49And Julie and I have talked about this.
23:51Even if it's not even called counseling, maybe if it's just, you know, marriage guidance or,
23:55or whatever it is, I, I think that's a, something they should look into.
23:58It's, it's not like something that you go, I wish I would have never went there.
24:01Nobody's gonna lay out in counseling or marriage guidance exactly how things are gonna pan out for
24:07you because people change over time.
24:10Your finances change over time.
24:12The demands of children and family and, like, all the things change and you change and develop as people.
24:18I think those are really important things that, that third party will make them more aware of.
24:24Yeah.
24:25I just feel like that would be a bonus.
24:26And that's why I'm a really big fan of, like, mentioning it to them.
24:31I just don't want them to be offended.
24:34His family is very religious.
24:36Very, very spiritual people.
24:38Yes.
24:38Good people.
24:39So they're probably going to want the same thing.
24:42Okay.
24:42Where's your connection spiritually?
24:44Are they going to continue to live where they're at?
24:47I don't know.
24:48I don't know what all of those things are, but that's the whole premise of this.
24:53I feel a little bit in the dark.
24:55I think knowing what Colin wants to do after the military would be kind of a relief.
25:01But we don't want to be overbearing.
25:03Al was a little tough with him.
25:05He was, like, very in his face, like, this is my girl.
25:08And, and Colin so far has passed the test through Alan's toughness.
25:14But that doesn't mean that there isn't some, like, residual feelings of, like, you know,
25:19here your parents are kind of, you know, intervening in our life again.
25:24And we're thinking about heading there this week and kind of introducing it to them.
25:35And I hope the talk doesn't go awry.
25:38Personally, I don't feel the best about going to the grocery store myself.
25:48Me and grocery stores have a very complicated relationship because of my tics.
25:54you, bitch.
25:56If I don't get my tics and anxiety under control, I'm going to end up on the ground.
26:00I am making my first homemade red velvet cake from scratch for Colin's 25th birthday.
26:21Colin has no idea.
26:22Colin's going to be really surprised.
26:23Yeah.
26:30Do I want a cupcake?
26:34I love it so much.
26:36I love the sprinkles.
26:37I'll come back for you.
26:39Don't you worry.
26:40Personally, I don't feel the best about going to the grocery store myself.
26:43Because me and grocery stores have a very complicated relationship because of my tics.
26:49This isn't good for you because then you're a .
26:54That hurt really bad.
26:55How are you gonna, you're not gonna do this when you're out on your own, Balin?
27:00Woohoo.
27:03But since me and Colin have been living with each other, there's been times where I go to the grocery
27:08store by myself and every time that I go to the grocery store, it's different.
27:13Let's go find purpose flour.
27:16There's no signs, okay?
27:19I've been recorded throughout stores, people staring at me, everyone noticing I'm different.
27:26It gives me a lot of anxiety to go out in public.
27:30Oh wait, I think there's vanilla pudding.
27:34Hold up.
27:35We got vanilla pudding.
27:37Wait, do I need jello or do I need pudding?
27:40What the is the difference?
27:43I don't want to this up.
27:45This is pudding.
27:48I have never shopped for half these ingredients before.
27:50Buttermilk.
27:52That'd be like buttermilk pancakes or like?
27:55I don't think pancake mix goes in cakes.
27:58And I honestly have no idea what I'm looking for.
28:03Heavy whipping cream, mascarone, cheese.
28:06Okay, none of that's down here.
28:08Did I pronounce that right?
28:09Masca, mascaperone, mascaperone.
28:13It's gotta be some French-Italian bougie.
28:23Bread all purpose.
28:26I'm starting to get anxious and my tics are acting up and especially my motor tics.
28:35And when my anxiety goes up, my OCD gets worse.
28:44I'm like really distracted right now.
28:49you, bitch.
28:53almond, bitch.
28:54If I don't get my tics and anxiety under control,
28:57I won't be able to walk through the grocery store.
28:59Okay, heavy whipping.
29:02I'm gonna end up on the ground.
29:05Oh, you, bitch.
29:10If I want to finish this and get home,
29:14it's time to put these on.
29:17I need to put headphones on.
29:19Headphones and music is the one thing that soothes my tics.
29:24So it's kind of like distracting your brain.
29:27The type of music that I listen to to help my tics is country music,
29:32Christian music because they're soothing.
29:36Found the buttermilk.
29:37If I can put headphones on to ease my anxiety, it's almost like my body is calm.
29:47Mascarone cheese.
29:48Oh my god, I don't know if they have it.
29:53What's in this jar?
29:56No.
29:56I have a question.
30:04Yes.
30:04Where would the Mascarone cheese be?
30:08Uh, it would be right there.
30:10Go, uh, I'll tell you where to stop.
30:12Okay.
30:13Little more, little more, little more.
30:15It should be right there.
30:16Huh.
30:16Yes.
30:18All right.
30:19It feels really good to push through something that I was scared to do in the first place.
30:27Oh my god, it smells so good.
30:28I'm getting two.
30:29Of course the cupcake's a reward.
30:32When I do hard things, I give myself tweets.
30:38I have Tourette's syndrome.
30:40So if you notice anything, just don't mind me.
30:44It's not good.
30:48The shopping trip wasn't perfect, but it was successful.
30:52And I did it by myself.
30:53It takes time.
30:55Anything with time, anything with practice, like, I feel more comfortable.
30:59I don't like the name Mike.
31:01Oh, man.
31:04Now I got to go home and bake this sucker, you know?
31:07No.
31:14There we go.
31:14It's really nerve-wracking to bake your first cake from scratch.
31:19Weenie.
31:21Colin gets home from work at five.
31:22Wait, wait.
31:24My parents are coming later.
31:26I feel like it's a race against time.
31:28I'm more than nervous, actually.
31:30I'm living in a girl's dream world, love.
31:42Can't wait to see where life takes me.
31:46A girl can only dream.
31:48It's really nerve-wracking to bake your first cake from scratch for your significant other's birthday.
32:03Did me.
32:04I've used the oven before.
32:06Not a good idea.
32:07There was one time I made cookies.
32:12Listen, they were baking all night.
32:13What do you want me to say?
32:15I forgot to turn the oven off.
32:19That's not safe.
32:21But it's really important for me to be able to use the kitchen by also not hurting myself,
32:29hurting others, or burning down our whole apartment.
32:33What are you guys doing?
32:35Colin gets home from work at five.
32:37My parents are coming over later for his birthday,
32:39and I appreciate my parents making efforts to get closer to Colin.
32:43So that means I have a total of about five hours to finish this cake.
32:53Thank God, I do have reinforcement.
32:56Oh my goodness.
32:58Here, let me take this.
33:00Look at that.
33:01They look so cute.
33:02They got their hair cut for the baby.
33:04Oh my goodness.
33:05They can see.
33:07Leela and I met off of a friendship-making app.
33:11I have everything laid out that I think we need.
33:14Perfect.
33:15I still talk to Eileen and Olivia.
33:18They're still very close people in my life.
33:21They're just out of state, so I don't see them as much.
33:23So I decided to sign up for a friendship app and meet new people.
33:27And we really just hit it off.
33:30We're very aligned in the head.
33:32Like, I get her, and she is very good with my tics.
33:39The vision may not be what we're actually replicating.
33:42Balen did not say that she had Tourette's Syndrome on her friendship app profile.
33:48She texted me before we were about to go out to eat that she has Tourette's Syndrome.
33:52Look at this, step-by-step instructions, preheat oven.
33:55I literally online looked it up because I didn't want to offend Balen in any type of way
34:01because she was really like the first person that I met who had Tourette's Syndrome.
34:05We're going to do a red velvet 2-5 cake because he's turning 25.
34:10And then we're going to cut out these little pictures and stick them on sticks and put them in there.
34:13I never made something so extravagant before.
34:16He may get a 2-3 for his birthday, for all I know.
34:20Me and Balen have done cooking and baking in the past.
34:22We're doing teamwork.
34:24Do you want to try it?
34:25Yeah, I do.
34:28I've learned to be more helpful to her.
34:31You've got to be almost kind of ready for anything.
34:34Okay, there we go.
34:37I try to be mindful and make it a bit safer.
34:43What did you just do?
34:44Oh my god, smell that.
34:47Feels like it's been left out for nine years.
34:49There's a lot of scents that set my tics off.
34:53And this is the first time I'm smelling buttermilk.
34:56This smells like Beckner's feet after his baseball game last week.
34:59Wait, wait, wait.
35:00There's trash.
35:03There's buttermilk.
35:0410 out of 10.
35:05Disgusting.
35:06Ever seen an egg crack this way?
35:08Weenie.
35:10Perfect.
35:10See that?
35:11Just two more times.
35:12Just two more?
35:12Yeah, don't put your hand there because I don't want that.
35:15It's going to hurt.
35:18Tap that weenie.
35:18Tap the rotisserie chicken.
35:20I did so good for the longest time.
35:23I really did.
35:25Throughout the day, my tics always progress.
35:33He's going to love it.
35:35I think he will like it.
35:36It's just, when am I going to finish this?
35:40So this is going to bake for 30 minutes and then we can get it all set up to where
35:44you can just do the decorating, you know?
35:46Okay.
35:47It's a little ambitious.
35:49Perfect.
35:50Do you care putting both of them in?
35:51Yeah, I can do that.
35:52I'll put it down.
35:54And I'm going to put a timer on my phone.
35:56I put it for 26 minutes instead of 25 minutes because I do everything in three sixes or nines.
36:01And that's my OCD is everything has to be in threes.
36:04It just makes sense in my head.
36:06Okay.
36:06It doesn't make sense in Collins and Colin adjusts to it very, very well.
36:10It's literally constant.
36:12Yes, it's all day, every day.
36:14I didn't really know that she had OCD so aggressively.
36:19Even the time it has to be in threes.
36:21And I'm like, I cannot do that head math, so.
36:24It's fine.
36:26It's fine.
36:32Oh, there's the timer.
36:33All right, let's check her out.
36:37Oh, she's done.
36:39You're done.
36:40You're done.
36:41I am very proud of Vaylin because she's making progress to be more independent.
36:46And she's able to do more by herself now.
36:51Your mom squirted.
36:52I'm sorry.
36:54Okay, okay.
36:55My chair is going to be here in three minutes.
36:58Send me a picture of it when it's done.
36:59I will.
37:00Love you.
37:00Sorry, I couldn't stay longer.
37:02No, you're fine.
37:03We didn't get very far.
37:04It's been a long time, but it didn't get very far.
37:08So we'll see how it goes.
37:10I'm going to get the door for you.
37:13Am I nervous?
37:14I'm more than nervous, actually, to have Leela leave and have me finish the cake by myself.
37:19Bye.
37:19Bye.
37:21Okay.
37:21I have a little bit of time.
37:22I hope.
37:24I feel like it's a race against time and I'm a perfectionist.
37:28I just want you guys to know I have no idea what I'm doing.
37:31I hope you guys know that.
37:32Happy birthday.
37:35Thanks.
37:35Walking into the apartment for Colin's birthday were a little reserved to bring up marital counseling.
37:41I hope this goes as well as we've talked about.
37:44I think it would be a good tool to have.
37:47I'm sure this wasn't the birthday Colin was expecting.
38:05I'm laughing.
38:07Don't look at me with that side eye.
38:09You're about to fall over, Toonie.
38:12Guys, why are you trying to take your crown off, Laf?
38:16You guys stay put for Colin.
38:18I'm going to get the cake.
38:23I'm really excited about the finished product and how it turned out.
38:27I'm ready to roll.
38:29But the way that I had envisioned it was not the way that it turned out looking.
38:33Please do not mess up.
38:36Oh my, please.
38:43Holy balls, man.
38:48It's up the whole cake.
38:52But it's for Colin.
38:53And if I see a smile on his face, then that's all that matters.
38:56Happy birthday!
39:04What do you guys have on?
39:05Oh my goodness!
39:06Oh, babe.
39:08What the heck?
39:09Hey, this is sick.
39:10How did you do all this?
39:12You got my sunburnt picture on there?
39:14Oh yeah, you didn't need sunscreen.
39:15That's awesome.
39:17I was working on this all day and I picked out 25 photos.
39:20Pumpkin still hasn't moved.
39:23Pumpkin.
39:23Oh, there you go.
39:26All better.
39:26Are you going to wear it?
39:28If I'm wearing one, you're going to wear one.
39:31This is cool, babe.
39:32Thank you so much.
39:33I wasn't making tiramisu.
39:35That's too much for the first time.
39:37Wait, you made this cake from scratch?
39:40You didn't buy it?
39:41No.
39:42Wow, that's impressive.
39:44Balen has always struggled with being in the kitchen.
39:47So for her to spend all day making a cake, it just shows that she is trying to improve
39:54on her independence.
39:55And it just makes me super proud of her.
40:00Oh my goodness.
40:01Hey, bitch.
40:01Hi.
40:02How are you doing, babe?
40:04Thanks for coming.
40:05Hey.
40:05Happy birthday, Colin.
40:07Oh.
40:08Happy birthday, buddy.
40:09Thanks.
40:09Walking into the apartment for Colin's birthday were a little reserved to bring up marital counseling.
40:15Happy birthday.
40:18This is not us criticizing or evaluating the relationship.
40:22So I hope this goes as well as we've talked about.
40:27So you made the cake?
40:29Me and Lila.
40:29Yeah.
40:30Oh, Lila came.
40:31Mm-hmm.
40:32It looks great.
40:33So this is how it started.
40:35And then I cut it with my plastic knives.
40:38Oh my gosh, stop.
40:39Yeah.
40:40It's surreal.
40:41It's unbelievable.
40:42I don't have the adjectives to describe how my mama heart feels.
40:46It was so much fun to make.
40:47I'm glad you liked it.
40:49Yeah.
40:49Where she's come in the last, I guess, even six months, but where she started from five,
40:55six years ago to this point is astounding to say the least.
41:01Well, thanks for letting us ambush your birthday.
41:03Of course.
41:04Yeah.
41:05I definitely feel like Colin has improved Baelin's self-confidence and overall well-being.
41:13This is good.
41:13I made it.
41:15That's really good.
41:16It tastes like ice cream.
41:17I'm not even a red velvet person and I'm loving it.
41:19I think that you could make the wedding cake.
41:22We're sitting here.
41:23The mood is good.
41:25And I'm thinking to myself, they have no idea what we're about to tell them.
41:28We've practiced how we're going to articulate it enough so that I think our presentation is going
41:35to be smooth.
41:36I hope that it is perceived well.
41:38All right, so this is kind of off topic, but there is just something kind of important
41:48that Al and I would like to talk to you guys about.
41:51So, but don't be, don't be worried.
41:54Okay.
41:56So, we have been talking about our marriage and like the steps of, you know, to where
42:08we're at and the parts of it that have made us successful.
42:13And it started with some premarital counseling.
42:19Mm-hmm.
42:19Um, this isn't like a, like a, let's see if we fit.
42:25And if we don't, we're breaking up.
42:27That's not.
42:28It's more like.
42:29More like guidance, like, hey, this is what you're in for, right?
42:32Like, are you on the same, um, mindset and principles and fundamentals regarding things in life?
42:40And I don't want you guys to be offended, but I, I think, um, I think it would be a good tool to have.
42:51I had a conversation with my dad that I thought went well.
42:54So, I'm confused with why they're bringing up counseling.
43:02I'm sure this wasn't the birthday Colm was expecting.
43:06Colm looks pissed.
43:09Yeah, I thought everything was fine, but this is definitely a curveball.
43:15Do they think our relationship is not in good standing?
43:24I can't look at the chickens.
43:31Chase after the weenie.
43:33Joe Biden does crystal math.
43:36I have Tourette's syndrome, stupid.
43:38Tourette's syndrome is a neurological involuntary motor and vocal disorder.
43:42You're bald, Chuck.
43:44Just in case you weren't aware already.
43:45Yeah.
43:46I would like to have a bouncy house at the wedding.
43:48Are you four years old?
43:51Two girls night.
43:52Hi.
43:53Oh, my God.
43:55I'm not like every other bride.
43:57Have you guys ever had alpacas at a wedding?
44:00Nice to meet you.
44:01Nice to meet you.
44:02I'm the owner here.
44:04Dick.
44:05You okay?
44:06Eat a bag of chips.
44:09In thinking about your budget, you're not going to love what I have to tell you all.
44:13What if we can't have our dream wedding?
44:16I would be devastated.
44:17We're making the right decision, right?
44:21I don't know, are we?
44:23Oh, my God.
44:24Oh, my God.
44:26Dylan.
44:27What do you think?
44:29It's amazing.
44:31I want her to be able to say, this is the best day ever.
44:38Give me the world to me, okay?
44:39You made me a lion, and I'm ready to roll.
44:44You guys are getting married.
44:45You're going to eventually want children.
44:47I get a steady paycheck in the military, and my contract will be expiring in about a year.
44:55A medical plan is probably the number one thing when it comes to jobs.
45:00Our father, he's having a lot of influence on our lives right now.
45:07His life is tough.
45:08You add children.
45:10them kids.
45:11Please don't be offended.
45:13My parents bringing up premarital counseling kind of just felt weird.
45:16We're going one step forward and three steps back.
45:18Let's be honest here.
45:19Let's be honest, bitch.
45:20I'm choosing a career that your dad told me not to choose.
45:24It's a lot of pressure.
45:25I literally don't want to be in the middle of it.
45:30If this doesn't work out, what are you going to do?
45:34Is this what our marriage is going to be like?
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