Baylen Out Loud - Season 2 Episode 03- Addicted All Around
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00:00And he can't tell us apart.
00:02My hair in the way.
00:04Deadpool.
00:06Deadpool.
00:08There.
00:10Flins.
00:12Oh, that's it right there.
00:14It's so pretty.
00:16Today we're taking our first tour
00:18of a possible wedding venue.
00:20Nice to meet you.
00:22Welcome to Crystal View.
00:24My first impression
00:26is very echoey.
00:28Are your tics okay?
00:30Joe Biden does crystal math.
00:32This might not be the right one for us.
00:34When I leave the house,
00:36I have to flick the lights three times before I think,
00:39because if I only do it once,
00:41then something bad's gonna happen on the way to the airport.
00:43Sammy's anxiety and OCD becomes disabling.
00:47I can only say certain things.
00:49She has done a very good job at hiding it,
00:53but it has become more difficult.
00:57We have been talking about our marriage,
01:02and it started with some premarital counseling.
01:06If someone gets involved in our relationship
01:10or marriage too much, where does it end?
01:14Colin, did anything come up for you?
01:18I've been holding on to something for a while now,
01:21and it's not easy to say out loud,
01:24because I know it's gonna affect Baylen.
01:26So, Colin, did anything come up for you that you thought would be important to bring up together?
01:35So, Colin, did anything come up for you that you thought would be important to bring up together?
01:50Yeah, I mean, there is something I want to talk about.
01:55Yeah.
01:56So, obviously, you know that here soon I have to make like a career decision.
02:04And that is like a super like heavy burden that I guess I could say that I have.
02:15I feel like the pressure is on me to either stay in the military or go into some kind of government job.
02:23That way we have health insurance.
02:26Being able to have that kind of benefits, especially with someone with her condition, I know is like huge.
02:34But I don't necessarily really want to do either one of those things.
02:40Right.
02:43I've been in the military for about five years now,
02:45and my contract will be expiring in about a year.
02:50I joined at 19 and I was just a kid and mature.
02:55The military is the reason that I'm the man who I am.
02:59But now I'm headed into a completely different phase of life.
03:03And lately I've been wondering if there's a different career path for me outside of the military.
03:10But if I do decide to change careers, I need a job that I'm going to be successful in, be happy in,
03:17and also still be able to provide for me and my family.
03:22I feel like I'm being pulled almost.
03:25And so it's just like...
03:26Between what?
03:28Like family members and friends, especially your dad,
03:32want me to like choose a career path that's secured financially.
03:37And it scares me that I like may not go in that direction that everyone else wants me to go in.
03:44Yeah, but none of that would make you happy.
03:47Yeah.
03:49Colin discussed feeling really concerned about the expectations from family and friends,
03:54stressors that he's been holding in for quite some time.
03:58And while a lot of couples struggle financially,
04:01they're already dealing with more of a challenge as a result of Phelan's conditions.
04:06Do you feel like it is solely on you to provide for the both of you and your future family financially?
04:13Yeah, I mean, it's just really hard for her to work a regular job.
04:16So it kind of has to be like on me to be able to make the main source of income.
04:23That's a lot of pressure on you.
04:25Yeah.
04:26There's a lot that goes on trying to take care of Phelan on a day-to-day basis.
04:31Just the weight of trying to fill the shoes of her parents,
04:36making sure that she's okay, she's taking her medicine,
04:41taking care of three dogs, the weight of expenses in the future.
04:46It's a lot.
04:47And I have to make sure that I don't let it affect Phelan.
04:50I don't let Phelan see that I have all of this going on up here.
04:54But it is weighing on me a lot.
04:57And everyone has a breaking point somewhere.
05:00I just don't want to hit mine.
05:02So what I hear you saying, Colin, is that you don't want to bring her that stress.
05:09You don't want to share that with her.
05:11But, like, I don't want you to hold it, like, into yourself.
05:15Like, you wouldn't want me to do that to myself.
05:18Yeah, but it's different.
05:19And, like, when I hear that, it just is like...
05:22It's different, though.
05:23It's like you already have a lot of moving parts in your life.
05:26So then for me to, like, add on, like, my stress to that,
05:31I don't want to do that to you.
05:33Like, I don't want you to be overwhelmed and be stressed out.
05:37Like, it's just like...
05:39Dict of death.
05:40That way, like, it almost makes me feel like, okay, I have to do this on my own, in a way.
05:48Oh, I don't want you to feel like that.
05:49Yeah.
05:50I'm hearing that you're also struggling with other people's opinions and separating that from yours and mine.
06:02Like, you don't want to upset them or, like, not please everybody.
06:08Kind of like how I am.
06:11I knew that Colin was stressed about his career, but I didn't know that he was this overwhelmed.
06:17This is something I've always worried about.
06:21Because with my Tourette and other conditions, it can be a lot.
06:25Not just for me, but also for Colin to take on as my partner.
06:29So the last thing I want is Colin to protect me from these type of difficult subjects.
06:34It's not healthy for him or our relationship.
06:37It breaks my heart that he's been keeping this in.
06:42You don't want to put anything on to me.
06:46And I understand that.
06:48However, you doing that is hurting yourself.
06:52And I don't want to feel disconnected from you.
06:56Regarding the pressure he feels from family and friends' opinions, I know it sucks because I feel it too.
07:02I feel like I'm stuck in the middle of Colin and them.
07:05And that's going to be a harder issue for me to address because I usually see both sides.
07:10Everything that everyone else says almost shouldn't be a burden.
07:16And I know that it's still going to be.
07:18And I'm telling you, like, suck a fat .
07:24I'm telling you that, like, that's between us.
07:28That's not between my dad, your parents, no one.
07:32And if we believe that it can work, then it'll happen.
07:38It'll happen.
07:39Mm-hmm.
07:40Investing.
07:42It's just really nice to know that no matter what I decide, she just wants me to be happy.
07:48You have a few things to focus on until I see you next.
07:52Thank you so much.
07:53Thank you so much.
07:55But I still have a lot to figure out with our financial future.
07:59And I have a feeling Alan isn't really going to let it go until I make some real decisions.
08:04Can I just do something?
08:30What?
08:31What are we doing?
08:32I'm starting something for a project.
08:35Don't try to block it.
08:38You're clearly trying to hide something, which is weird.
08:43Man, I'm making something for someone.
08:46It's a surprise.
08:47Okay.
08:48Right?
08:49You're acting weird.
08:51I can usually tell when Al has something up his sleeve.
08:55And there's always something crazy going on in this head of his where he's conjuring up some silly ideas.
09:01And the sooner I find out the better, because this is just awkward.
09:04Yeah, so I've been working on a surprise for Valen just in case she can or can't have certain things at her wedding.
09:12But we don't know that much about her wedding or her venue yet.
09:15Like we only know she needs the dogs there.
09:18That's really all we know.
09:20So I don't know how you are coming up with this and thinking that it's just going to fit into whatever.
09:27It's going to fit in.
09:28It's going to fit in.
09:29Yeah.
09:30It's going to fit in.
09:31So here's the deal.
09:32I've been thinking a lot about Valen's wedding and how sensitive she is to her surroundings.
09:38And I want to pitch an idea to her.
09:40But before I pitch it, I want her to envision it.
09:44And that's what my secret little project is all about.
09:47Do you want it to be a surprise for me, too?
09:49Am I not allowed to see this again?
09:50Yes, of course.
09:51I'm just going to do this.
09:52Okay.
09:53And I'm just going to show you this.
09:54And then you can say, wow, or you can say, that's never going anywhere.
09:59Will you let Sammy and Burke see it when they fly in for their long summer weekend with their mom and dad?
10:04Yeah.
10:05So you're telling me it's going to be done for the weekend, this?
10:08Yeah.
10:09And the longer you bother me about it, the less I'm working on this.
10:13You know what I mean?
10:14Okay.
10:15Like, I got to get some things done.
10:19I'm a little nervous.
10:20I mean, with the wedding coming up and with Valen's condition, we know that she needs help.
10:27But I also don't want us to overstep our boundaries.
10:31Okay.
10:34But I guess I have no choice but to wait and see what's up Alan's sleeve in this carving situation.
10:41Nope.
10:42Hurry up and wait.
10:46I can still see you.
10:48And I have so many questions for you.
10:51So many questions.
10:55Hi, baby.
10:56I love you.
10:57Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend.
10:59They live out of state, so I don't see them as much.
11:02Did I tell you guys that me and Colin are in premarital therapy?
11:05I didn't know he was carrying stress with, like, the future and him getting out of the military.
11:09Because he knows you can't work a normal job?
11:11Mm-hmm.
11:12Yeah.
11:13Yeah.
11:14Maylon, I want to show you something that we got outside.
11:17What?
11:18Yeah, what are we doing?
11:20Julie doesn't have a clue.
11:22I keep her in the dark about things because that's the fastest way to get my ideas ruined,
11:27is to invite her into my mind space on these.
11:30You're being creepy and weird right now.
11:32I know.
11:33I know.
11:34I ain't livin' in no twilight fantasy.
11:36I'm a grown-up woman, I'm a pedigree.
11:39I could chillin' in my own menagerie.
11:43It's mean to brush your teeth for the day.
11:45Flop, get the hole on it.
11:47We have no food.
11:48Are you not hungry?
11:49No.
11:50We can go grocery shopping and get food.
11:51And then we can cook something.
11:52Okay.
11:53So what are you up to today?
11:54Any plans?
11:55I am gonna go hang out with Sammy and Burke.
12:10She finally got to be able to be on a plane because of her OCD and all of her rituals.
12:15Yeah.
12:16That's good.
12:17I'm glad.
12:18How are you feeling after therapy?
12:20Fine.
12:21I feel closer.
12:25Mm-hmm.
12:26I don't know how I feel.
12:29What?
12:30I feel fine.
12:32Okay.
12:35After one session of premarital counseling, this marriage stuff is getting dipped down in
12:41Dallas.
12:42It's getting real.
12:44Stop.
12:45I knew you were gonna laugh.
12:46I look over and there's just a...
12:48I didn't know that you carried a lot of weight and a lot of burden on your shoulders with
12:55finances and wedding planning and saving money and the stress of work and the unknown of
13:04that.
13:05I had no idea.
13:06Yeah.
13:07Yeah.
13:08I just don't want you to carry the stress by yourself.
13:14I can handle some stress.
13:17I honestly really appreciate Baylin saying that she wants to help out with all of the
13:23burdens that I've been carrying.
13:25But there's a reason why I haven't, you know, brought this up to her and it's because I know
13:30that stressful stuff sets off her anxiety.
13:35But a part of this whole counseling thing is learning to trust.
13:40If she says that I need to be open about something, then I need to be.
13:45Let's talk about some of the big expenses that we have coming up.
13:48Do you want me to get out my calculator for this?
13:52Wedding.
13:54House, eventually.
13:56Bachelor, bachelorette trip.
13:58Honeymoon.
13:59Let's stop adding all of this stuff.
14:01Yeah, but it's a lot of money right there.
14:04Gosh.
14:06It's okay.
14:07It's fine.
14:08So, I mean, we need to find ways to be able to save money so that we can be able to not
14:15have to worry about all of those in the next year.
14:19What do we cut?
14:21Well, we spend a lot of money.
14:23Dick.
14:24On...
14:25Sorry.
14:26Good?
14:27Yeah.
14:28Sure?
14:29Yep.
14:30Dick.
14:31Okay, here we go.
14:32I mean, we can start cutting by you not shopping as much.
14:37It's so hard to save when your love language is overpriced deliveries and shopping.
14:48It's kind of hard.
14:50Every day, she's looking on some website.
14:54The reason why I have, like, the shopping addiction is because I don't go out and regularly
15:02go shopping because of my tics.
15:05No, you're just addicted all around.
15:08Is that your name?
15:10Well, you name it, I got it.
15:13Just about.
15:16Also, if we can start cooking more meals here, the both of us not ordering food deliveries.
15:22Yep.
15:23Yep.
15:24We do that a lot.
15:25A lot.
15:26Wow.
15:27I really want to cook more, but as you know, as we get later into the day and, like, making
15:31meals and, like, just with my tics, it gets a lot harder.
15:35So I know that I go to almost, like, ordering food as, like, a comfort because I'm just too
15:42scared.
15:43But I feel like I can, like, come out of my comfort zone a little bit because I need, we
15:47need to save some money.
15:48Mm-hmm.
15:49I would appreciate that.
15:52The more we talk about it, the more I realize this isn't going to be easy, you little bitch.
15:57Yep.
15:58But we're going to try.
15:59Yep.
16:00You little bitch.
16:02What is setting that dick off?
16:05I don't know.
16:06We gon' live it up.
16:09We gon' have a good time, we gon' have a good time, yeah.
16:12Live it up.
16:13We gon' have a good time, we gon' have a good time, get your paper up.
16:17We gon' have a good time, we gon' have a good time, yeah.
16:20Live it up.
16:23Live it up.
16:26Bitch.
16:29Sammy and Burke are both in town for a long weekend.
16:31They both live out of state, so I don't see them as much.
16:34So we're meeting up in a bar around my neighborhood.
16:40Where are Burke and Sammy?
16:44I don't like this.
16:47I die on them.
16:49I die on them.
16:52Of course they're late.
16:55I absolutely hate walking into anywhere alone.
17:01It's kind of like torture, because I'm just worried about the other people's reactions that are in the building.
17:09Woo-hoo, woo-woo-woo.
17:16Oh, thank God they're here. Oh, thank God.
17:20My baby!
17:22Don't ever let me be the first one at the function ever again.
17:26Hi, baby!
17:26I love you.
17:28I haven't seen Sammy in a long time.
17:32You look so good with your hair like this.
17:35Oh, thanks.
17:36She has severe OCD and anxiety, so it's always been hard for her to leave her comfort and travel home.
17:44Hi, Burke.
17:44What's up, baby?
17:45What's up?
17:46What's up?
17:47My oldest brother, Burke, is living in Tampa.
17:51He is currently, honestly, thriving down there and loves it.
17:55How was your flight today? I was worried that you weren't going to get on the plane.
17:58Dude, I was at f***ing mass this flight.
18:00I can't get up and walk around, but I, like, can't sit still. I, like, can't watch a movie.
18:04I just, it's just a lot.
18:08Traveling with my OCD and flying is...
18:11Obsessive-compulsive dick.
18:13...disorder is very challenging for me, and some days are harder than others.
18:20Objection!
18:20Where the f*** is the function? Your mom has one life, and she's 30% off this week.
18:28It's very common for Balin to have new tics after you haven't seen her in a while, because
18:31she can pick up anything from a TV show, a movie, music.
18:37Yep.
18:37Take a dick. Self-serve that dick.
18:40They don't really surprise me that much anymore, because there's been some crazy ones.
18:44Yeah.
18:44I mean, you really can't get much more crazy, especially with that airport one with the gun.
18:47Yeah.
18:48You know what I mean?
18:48I have a gun.
18:49Oh, my God, it's right there.
18:53I have a gun.
18:55Maybe try to whisper it.
18:58Is there a place to shuffleboard?
19:00Yeah.
19:00Yeah, sure.
19:02So, do you want to be red or blue?
19:05I'll be blue.
19:06So, we're going to try to knock each other's arms.
19:07Wait, this one...
19:08It's going to take a little bit, because you just got to barely let go of the thing.
19:12Oh, that one broke.
19:14Not bad, though.
19:16Bro.
19:17So, now you want to try to knock his off, because...
19:20Oh.
19:21All right.
19:22The three of us being the oldest and hanging out is a lot different than, like, the three
19:27younger ones hanging out, because we're not fighting over boogers or, like, baseball bats.
19:32Too hard.
19:35That's what she said.
19:36Your mom's too hard.
19:39That's money, too.
19:42Bitch.
19:46I'm exhausted.
19:48We should have stretched out beforehand.
19:49Dude.
19:50Did I tell you guys that me and Colin are in premarital therapy?
19:54So, who brought that up?
19:55Mom and Dad.
19:56I think it's a great idea.
19:57I'm all for it.
19:58It's great to be on the same page about children.
20:01Like, do you want to go to church every Sunday?
20:03Do you want to do this stuff?
20:05How...
20:05Well, some of that stuff should be basic conversations you have with each other.
20:08Yes, like, there's multiple things.
20:10Like, I didn't know he was carrying stress with, like, the future and him getting out of
20:13the military.
20:14Saving enough, having enough money for all these expenses and all these things.
20:19Because he knows you can't work a normal job?
20:20It's hard for me to work a nine-to-five as much as I would love to.
20:25It's hard with my tics.
20:28Yeah.
20:29But I do want to help contribute in, like, some way.
20:34Yeah.
20:36So, what's Colin's plan after he gets out of the military?
20:40He doesn't honestly know.
20:41He officially gets out next year.
20:44Kind of, like, that's when he'll, like, be transitioning out to his next job if he has
20:48one.
20:49What do you...
20:49If he has one?
20:51Yeah.
20:52I mean, it's important when you have a job, you don't want to leave it until something
20:55else is lined up there.
20:56I know.
20:57That's the thing.
20:59I can definitely sympathize with Colin because the responsibility and due diligence of taking
21:09care of not only yourself but two people and providing for dogs and doing all that, I
21:13definitely, I definitely empathize with him.
21:16Mm-hmm.
21:16But I think it's also, like, a you know what you signed up for.
21:20You knew she couldn't work a normal job.
21:22He needs to find, like, steady income, a job.
21:24Yeah.
21:24Not even a stable job.
21:25Just a providing job for the both of them.
21:28But it's not our job to tell him which job.
21:31Yes.
21:31You know what I mean?
21:32Yes.
21:32He's got to come up with that himself.
21:33I'm not going to go to Colin and be like, hey, you need to...
21:37Yeah, you need to...
21:37You need a 40-hour work week with health insurance and this.
21:41That's my dad's...
21:42My dad can do that.
21:44I just think it's hard for you.
21:46Like, let's say he gets out of the military and then waits, like, six months, like, Burke
21:49did after college for a job.
21:51Who knows on the time frame?
21:52Yes.
21:53That's why he's stressed.
21:58I do love spending time with Burke and Sammy.
22:00However, they both do have very strong opinions.
22:04They're very, very protective of me.
22:06Weaning.
22:08All right.
22:08That's okay.
22:09Do you want a nap here?
22:09No, I am.
22:11No, let's just go.
22:12Colin and I just talked about in therapy the pressure he feels when my family weighs in
22:19in our business.
22:20If Sammy and Burke are doing all this questioning, I can't even imagine what my parents are going
22:24to think.
22:27Oh, my God.
22:29This is the first time that I've had a solid, tight group of girlfriends.
22:33Pump that dick, bitch.
22:34Oh, my God.
22:35I'm scared.
22:35It's really nice to spend time with people where the main focus isn't about minding Colin's
22:40future.
22:40I love...
22:41Oh, my God.
22:42It's great.
22:44It's great.
22:59Between therapy and wedding planning lately, things have been very stressful.
23:05So, since Colin is working late, tonight, I'm having a girls' night where we are just
23:11going to let loose and have tons of fun.
23:13Take a dick, bitch.
23:16Hello.
23:17Hi, Bailey.
23:19What's that, guys?
23:21Since I moved to D.C.
23:22I actually met a lot of new people through my best friend, Leela, as well as through Colin's
23:27friends.
23:28Okay, so who's in charge of the liquor?
23:29Okay, so who's in charge of the liquor?
23:30Wait, aren't you a bartender?
23:31Oh, yeah.
23:32We need a bartender.
23:33There we go.
23:33We need a bartender.
23:34This is the first time that I've had a solid, tight group of girlfriends.
23:38It's great.
23:39It's great.
23:40It's great.
23:41So, how's your wedding planning going?
23:45We've looked at one venue.
23:47When we went there, it was beautiful.
23:48It had these huge stairs that were filled with flowers.
23:52However, it's very echoey, which turned out to be a very big trigger.
23:57I'm just hearing myself echo as I tick.
24:00Me and Colin agreed that it just wasn't the right place for us.
24:03You want to be somewhere where you're comfortable, of course.
24:06The first time that I met Bailen, she was ticking, but at the same time, for me personally,
24:10I grew up having a friend that had Tourette's, so I kind of already knew what it was, and
24:14that it's an uncontrollable thing, and it's worse to hold them in than it is to just let
24:19it all out.
24:19And so she would tick, and then we'd just kind of move on with our conversation.
24:23There were some other things that I didn't realize that I didn't like.
24:26Like, I didn't like circle tables, because, like, it only got you secluded to the people
24:30that were at your table.
24:32So I kind of want, like, long tables, and then I would want to be separated, like him and
24:37I.
24:38Like a sweetheart table?
24:39Mm-hmm.
24:39Oh, that's...
24:40I love that.
24:40Honestly, having a sweetheart table was so nice, like my wedding, because it was like
24:44we got to sit there and enjoy each other, and not be surrounded by a bunch of people.
24:50The fact that my tics are not being brought up, like, no one's just dying laughing out of
24:55anywhere, I feel accepted, and I feel like I belong in this group, because we're all just
25:02being ourselves.
25:03Two girls' lives!
25:05Nice!
25:06Salut!
25:07This is so strong.
25:08Okay, so I'm going to do something you guys have never seen before, and I'm going to make
25:15us all some cotton candy.
25:16Oh my gosh!
25:17It's cotton candy!
25:18Oh my gosh!
25:19It's cotton candy!
25:20Exactly!
25:21Has anybody ever made cotton candy before?
25:22A long time ago.
25:23Absolutely not.
25:24Yeah!
25:25It's coming out!
25:26Look at it!
25:27Pump that dick, bitch!
25:28Oh my gosh!
25:29That looks good!
25:30Mm.
25:31Oh!
25:32Thank you!
25:33That's literally perfect!
25:34A little sugar hangover.
25:35A little sugar hangover.
25:36By the way, with wedding planning, me and Colin decided that we were going to start premarital
25:41therapy.
25:42One thing that was brought up was finances, and saving money, and kind of like this huge stress
25:49that he has with this, like him getting out of the military.
25:52So, when you heard Colin say that in...
25:56That bitch!
25:57Is that something that you knew that he was failing?
26:01No.
26:02And I know it was hard for him to say it.
26:04He's like holding it onto himself, thinking that like, I can't help him.
26:09Hearing that Balin and Colin are doing premarital counseling I thought was really inspiring,
26:13and I think that's something that a lot of newlyweds or fiancés aren't really talking
26:18about as much anymore, when it used to be a lot more common to do.
26:21Especially with what she's dealing with, her Tourette syndrome.
26:24They can set themselves up for a healthy marriage, and hopefully for the rest of their life.
26:29So I was like, you know what, we'll save money with like, not ordering out so much.
26:34And it's like, okay, well now I have to start making food.
26:37So, fun times.
26:38So what kind of foods are you going to be making?
26:40I haven't figured that out yet.
26:41That's a good question.
26:42We should figure that out.
26:44We'll make you a recipe book.
26:45Yeah, ooh, that's a good idea.
26:47We could all literally send in our favorite recipes.
26:50Make sure the half of it, I can put in the air fryer.
26:52Yeah.
26:53Make sure the air fryer.
26:54We should get you a crock pot.
26:55Crock pot is so easy.
26:56You can just throw it in there in the morning, turn it on, and then you don't have to deal
26:59with it all day.
27:00And it's so nice.
27:01Crock pot.
27:02Crock pot.
27:03I have a gift for everybody.
27:04Right, punky boy?
27:05I have a gift.
27:07Tonight, I have a special, fun, surprise for my girls.
27:13Girls' night with a twist.
27:17Twist that dick around, wrap it, slap it, tap it, that dick.
27:22Everybody, pick a bag.
27:24Ooh.
27:25Okay.
27:26Just hand it to us.
27:27Oh, gosh.
27:28I'm scared.
27:29All right, can we open it?
27:30Oh!
27:31Mine's multicolored.
27:32Mine is literally multicolored.
27:33No way.
27:34I don't remember it.
27:35I got purple.
27:36So, the theme for the night is wigs.
27:39This is so fun.
27:41Oh!
27:42I don't think I have my underwear.
27:44Oh, my God!
27:46This is what Girls' Night is all about.
27:49Whoo!
27:51Whoo!
27:52Whoo!
27:53Whoo!
27:54Whoo!
27:55Whoo!
27:56Whoo!
27:57Whoo!
27:58Whoo!
27:59Whoo!
28:00Whoo!
28:01Whoo!
28:02Whoo!
28:03Whoo!
28:04We've had candy.
28:06We've had the jungle juice.
28:07Like, the crazy wigs.
28:08Sophie time.
28:09This is a very Baelin night.
28:11This is exactly what I needed.
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29:32Teşekkürler.
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30:24Geçenin ilk önceden.
30:25Yeni şimdi kamu takımım üstü oluparışlı.
30:27Bu işler çok büyük.
30:29녹meleri gibi.
30:31Takım!
30:32Bakın.
30:32Bu ne?
30:33Evet.
30:33Bu ne?
30:34Bu ne?
30:35Bu ne?
30:36Bu ne?
30:37Bu ne?
30:38Bu ne?
30:39Bu ne?
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30:50Bu ne?
30:51Bu ne?
30:53safe you guys both fried ramen noodles and plop the lot there that's good it's okay we'll just get
30:58bakner the wig look for them back there's right now honestly put it on put it on yoder
31:04so you have other wigs yeah yes but i only have one other wig for one person in the room who
31:11needs it looks like somebody shaved their pubes and just threw it on a wig literally look at this
31:23Bu Hareketler?
31:24Kırmelerim inanました.
31:28Nல
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32:22The fastest way to get my ideas ruined
32:25Is to invite her into my
32:26Mind space on these
32:28Where are we going?
32:30What the f*** are we doing?
32:32I want you to be able to like
32:33Think about something for a second
32:35I have no idea why my dad is taking us out back
32:39I am so confused
32:41On so many different levels
32:43You're being creepy and weird right now
32:46He's like let me show you my knife collection
32:48Now listen
32:49I don't know where you are with the whole
32:51Wedding location search
32:54So I know that you want
32:56Animals at your wedding
32:58Goats and alpacas
33:01And ringling brothers
33:04Or whatever you want
33:05And a lot of wedding venues probably aren't going to let you have
33:08Animals
33:08Okay
33:10You got one chance to make this amazing
33:13This is it
33:16You can put all those things
33:18Right here
33:19Let's have the wedding here in the backyard
33:21How is that funny?
33:25No I'm being serious
33:26Serious?
33:28I've been working on a plan
33:31To have the entire yard wide open for Balen's wedding
33:35Rip the fence down
33:36Cut trees
33:38Build a platform
33:40Whatever she wants
33:42Let's start doing something
33:43Come on dad
33:48Seriously?
33:50Who the hell wants a wedding in their backyard?
33:53I don't even know what to say
33:55So much for trying to take some pressure off of Colin
33:59This whole idea is only going to add to it
34:01This is crazy
34:03This is it
34:13Let's have the wedding here in the backyard
34:15How is that funny?
34:17No I'm being serious
34:18I'm envisioning it
34:22There's not a lot to envision
34:25You can have whatever you want here
34:28I'll get those tents put up
34:30This is where she comes up the aisle
34:34And then we pass the lump
34:36We pass the lump
34:38I trip
34:39Alright
34:39I truly thought he was insane
34:41Like this is
34:43This is
34:43No girl's dream
34:45How many people do you think inviting?
34:47We're probably thinking about inviting 175
34:50And thinking between 125 and 150 will show up
34:53With two toilets here
34:54With two toilets?
34:56Two toilets
34:57One grill
34:58We're looking at a couple porta potties
35:00Like imagine 150 people in this house
35:02Oh no
35:03They'd have to get Ubered to like the Holiday Inn or something
35:06No
35:06Obviously 150 people are going to lay up cots here
35:08I mean come on
35:10I'm talking about people wandering around getting food
35:13I mean just imagine 150 people just hammered
35:16Brutal
35:16Brutal
35:17Alright so
35:18We'll think of different venues
35:20But appreciate your offer
35:21Let's move on
35:22But if you go to another venue
35:23And then they don't allow
35:24Half of the stuff that you want in your wedding
35:26This is
35:26This is the wedding
35:28This is an option
35:28This is something that
35:29I mean let's hope it only happens once in your life
35:32It is an option
35:32The last option
35:33But it is an option
35:34It could be the last option
35:36The last one
35:37It's fine
35:39It's alright
35:40It's
35:40I am enjoying this
35:42But to me
35:44I'm not worried about
35:45The food
35:47I'm not worried about desserts
35:48I'm not worried about tents
35:49I'm not worried about outdoors
35:51Cat
35:51I'm not worried about this
35:52I'm worried about
35:52Is Balen going to be comfortable
35:55At this location
35:56Because we all know
35:58That when she gets overstimulated
36:00She could have a bad tick attack
36:01And end up on the floor
36:03Having her wedding here at the house
36:05She has a safe place
36:07That she's familiar with
36:08Comfortable with
36:09And if
36:10We can
36:11Take some of that emotional baggage
36:14And struggle away from her
36:15To make her day amazing
36:16Then
36:17Then that's what it's truly about
36:20It's not everyone else's wedding
36:22It's her wedding
36:23It's what you want
36:25So
36:25Either way
36:27Whether you
36:27Choose here
36:28Or you choose somewhere else
36:30I want you to come over here
36:31And look at something
36:32It's one more thing
36:33For you to think about
36:34And visualize
36:35Alright
36:36Let's go over here
36:36Come on
36:38You'll like this
36:39Here Balen
36:40Come over here
36:41And stand in front of this
36:42Look this way
36:42So I can take this off
36:43And then you can be surprised
36:44It looks like he ordered
36:45A bed frame
36:46I know
36:46Wait so he's been out back
36:48Making this
36:49And you guys haven't
36:49He told me he was doing
36:51Something special
36:52What?
36:58What?
36:59Why are you guys laughing?
37:01Only your dad
37:02Oh my god
37:03What are we doing?
37:06So this
37:07So listen
37:07So no matter what you pick
37:09Pick?
37:10You can use this for a venue
37:11Alright?
37:12Okay well it's not gonna be
37:13Oh my goodness
37:16Oh
37:18This is going in the apartment
37:24No
37:25Okay
37:25We just need to add some sprinkles
37:27Do you know what they are?
37:28That's a horse
37:29That's Fluffy and Toots
37:32Toots me
37:33Thank you so much
37:36This probably took you so long
37:38I am freaking so excited
37:41I love alpacas
37:43Mr. and Mrs. Dooley
37:45There we go
37:46That's Chuck
37:46And that's Marlene
37:47Marlene's a dirty filthy whore
37:50Okay
37:50Whatever
37:51As our maid of honor
37:52We accept this
37:53We're not super sure
37:54About the venue portion
37:55Of the whole thing
37:56I think the venue's good
37:57I could see like
37:58Two big circus tents
37:59Your animals running around
38:01A place to like
38:02Take photos
38:02And there can be like
38:03Flowers in the background
38:04Yeah
38:04Whatever you want to do
38:05It's your wedding
38:05It ended up being
38:07A great surprise
38:08I'm totally impressed
38:11The backyard venue idea
38:14I'm not so sure of
38:16But the bench is beautiful
38:17This probably took you
38:19So long to make
38:20How long did it take you
38:20To make this?
38:2216 hours
38:23No, time
38:24I don't know
38:24Time to stand still
38:25When it carves
38:26So I'm not given a time frame
38:27It's worth it
38:30When Balin was at her worst
38:33Four years ago
38:34In her medical journey
38:35I really question
38:37That a day like this
38:38Would come
38:39Balin deserves to have
38:40The perfect wedding day
38:41Like anybody else
38:42It's been a long journey
38:44And her day needs to be
38:46As amazing
38:47As her expectations wanted
38:51I want her to be able to say
38:53Dad
38:54This is the best day ever
39:02You can put like a bow tie
39:04Or we can put whatever you want
39:06It's kind of like
39:07Mr. and Mrs. Julie
39:08That'd be so cute
39:09Okay, that is really cute
39:11That's a really cute idea
39:13How heavy are these?
39:14What if she
39:15Well, they're heavy
39:15Oh yeah, they gotta be heavy
39:17I mean, what if the venue's like
39:18No, they're actually like
39:19Four hours down the road
39:20Like I'll just drive it down the road
39:22Or what if it's here?
39:23This sweet gift from my dad
39:26Has definitely
39:27Made it harder to choose a wedding venue
39:31I mean, I totally get what my dad thinks
39:35It would be better for me to have it here
39:37And even though
39:38It's not exactly what I thought I wanted
39:40For my wedding
39:41He's been taking care of me a long time
39:44So I definitely trust his judgment
39:46So what do you think?
39:50It's an option
39:51It is an option
39:53Me and Colin are trying to save money
39:56For this specific reason
39:57So I can bring it up to him
39:59However, I don't think my parents' backyard
40:03Is Colin's first wedding venue choice
40:05And I know Colin feels a lot of pressure
40:08When my dad gives suggestions
40:09Even when they're meant to be helpful
40:11And honestly
40:13I'm a little afraid to ask
40:16I can't look at the chickens
40:23Have you told Colin?
40:28No
40:28You told me what?
40:31The last time I saw my dad
40:33He pitched the backyard as a wedding venue
40:35I haven't even told Colin yet
40:36And I'm not even sure I want to
40:38Hey mom
40:40I'm a little like nervous
40:48I've never hosted a kid before
40:50Hola, como estas?
40:51Muy bien
40:52Okay, I'm going to show you how to bedazzle
40:54I don't even know what bedazzle
40:55Bedazzle
40:56Bedazzle
40:57Take this and it goes in the wax
40:59Is something burning?
41:02Wait, whoa, whoa
41:02What's over there burning?
41:05Do you think they're still just
41:07Trying to hold on to Valen?
41:09It's just, you know
41:10When I went to pick her up
41:12When I talked about her
41:14Oh my gosh
41:14We're not talking about this again
41:16I haven't shared this story
41:19With that many people
41:20You know
41:20You
41:25You
41:26You
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