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00:00Oh, God, she kicked my ass in Dennis.
00:04I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo.
00:07Oh, you're joking.
00:08No.
00:09Every day, you have to talk to your mom.
00:11It's ridiculous.
00:13Oh, if you're worried about that,
00:14why are you worried about your $20,000 debt that you have?
00:17Things are clearly not going well,
00:19and there's something that I need to talk to Dylan about,
00:22and I think it might make it worse.
00:26How long would it take if we did file the partnership
00:29papers for me to be able to work?
00:32Eight to seven months.
00:34Yeah, it's a long time.
00:35That's a long time.
00:36If you're married, there's no problem.
00:39Jonathan and I have talked about getting married,
00:41but there is no way that it was going to be as soon as tomorrow.
00:46Well, I think at the end of the day,
00:47it's something to think about so we can be together in the end.
00:53I don't think I love you anymore.
00:59Nothing could have prepared me for those words.
01:02That's the saddest part.
01:04There was no fight.
01:05No.
01:07Your fight's just begun, sir.
01:08I think you should have a talk with her.
01:11Oh, my God, let's get out of here.
01:14Oh, my God, let's get out of here.
01:15Oh, my God, let's get out of here.
01:19This is not the way I want to start my weekend wedding.
01:23I feel dizzy and weird.
01:27I told you so many times we even be careful when we have sex.
01:31Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
01:33Yes, and I have a text.
01:35I don't know, but I'm not scared.
01:46Maybe we could take a look at the possibilities.
02:05After tennis, Batia and I had a big fight
02:10about my relationship with my mum.
02:12I don't want the constant stress and the arguments,
02:15so I told her I can sort of meet her halfway with some boundaries,
02:19but my mum's going to be a part of our lives,
02:23so Batia needs to stop letting it get to her so much, you know?
02:28G'day, mate.
02:30How you going?
02:31How the bloody hell are you?
02:32Well, a long time no see.
02:34It's a strong hand trick, you've got their balance.
02:41After you coming, sir.
02:42All right.
02:44Ever since Batia arrived in town, like, every day,
02:47she keeps asking me, when are you going to propose?
02:50G'day, guys.
02:51I'm here to get a ring polished.
02:53Certainly.
02:54So today I'm going with my buddy Chris to a jewellery store
02:58to get the engagement ring that I gave Batia shined up
03:02so that when I'm ready to propose, it looks brand new.
03:07Beautiful.
03:08You like that, do you?
03:09Family allure?
03:10Eh, not quite.
03:12He did actually give it to his partner.
03:17Yes.
03:17Before, and then he took it back.
03:19That's right, yeah.
03:22It's a complicated relationship.
03:25The first time I proposed to Batia, it was very lacklustre.
03:29You know, we were in bed.
03:30It was Christmas morning and I just slipped the ring on her finger
03:33and she said yes.
03:35I mean, I feel like that's got a bit of history behind it.
03:38Are you sure you don't want to look at other rings?
03:40No, I don't.
03:41There is so much history and so many memories.
03:44So, like, it still has a sentimental value.
03:47I definitely don't want to trade it in.
03:49You don't want to trade it in?
03:50Definitely not.
03:51Perfect.
03:52And then give it a clean and polish.
03:56Perfect.
03:57Go grab a coffee.
03:58Alright.
03:59After I proposed, we'd be breaking up every three or four weeks.
04:05And, um, at one point Batia's spending got so bad, she started selling all her jewellery
04:12just to fund her shopping habit.
04:14And I thought, she's going to pawn that.
04:17So, I took the ring back.
04:20She saw that as, you know, we're no longer engaged, which is fair enough.
04:24Okay, so the ring.
04:27Yes.
04:28Ten years ago, you gave her the ring.
04:30And you've been holding on to that ring ever since.
04:33Yeah.
04:34You haven't proposed to her again?
04:36No, because I'm trying to fix all these issues.
04:41I don't know, 12 years.
04:42I feel like if you haven't fixed something after 12 years, how many more years is it going
04:46to take for you to fix?
04:49I'm not giving up.
04:52Hmm, okay.
04:54I'm just worried about the personality clash.
04:56You lived together in Thailand.
04:57Yes.
04:58So what happened there?
04:59Why, why did that not work out?
05:01In the beginning, it was magical.
05:04And then after a while, she was miserable, I wasn't giving her enough money, and she just,
05:10she just hated it.
05:14I just thought she would be happy living that life, that retired beach lifestyle.
05:20But she, that wasn't enough for her.
05:23And her life has been fast paced.
05:28Fast money, fast living.
05:30How is she going to be happy here?
05:32Long term.
05:33Honestly, think about that.
05:35She's in a foreign country.
05:37She's got no family or friends here.
05:39She's just going to be happy hanging around in Launceston.
05:44But the thing is, there's a certain limit.
05:47You can't do that all your life.
05:49She's approaching an age.
05:51An age.
05:52Yeah, sure.
05:53She's getting older.
05:54She can't live that fast paced life forever.
05:56I don't know.
05:57Once you're used to something, it's, it's hard to, um, to change.
06:02You know, I've known Dylan always to be pretty stubborn.
06:06Like he won't change what he eats, for example.
06:08It's only chicken and rice.
06:09I tried to get him to eat a cookie, wouldn't even eat a cookie.
06:11I mean, he's pretty stubborn.
06:12He won't, he won't change anything.
06:14So I'm worried that Dylan's stubbornness is causing him to live in a fantasy and not deal with reality.
06:20I don't think a ring on the finger is going to be the thing that fixes everything.
06:26I love her.
06:28I just can't see myself with anyone else.
06:31I'm not saying you, I'm not saying you.
06:33I'm not even attracted to anyone else.
06:34I just want her.
06:35Alright, look, I'm only saying,
06:38this because I care about you as a friend.
06:42I love Patia.
06:45I know she makes you very happy.
06:47But your idea of happily ever after is a bit delusional.
06:52I don't think you've really thought about the long-term plan.
06:58Chris's concerns are valid.
07:02Patia and I still have a lot of issues to work through.
07:05But I am feeling optimistic about the future with Patia.
07:10She's come to Australia.
07:12She's given it a good go.
07:14And she's trying to resolve things with my mother.
07:17So I think that's massive, really.
07:19I feel like it is different now.
07:21Think about it.
07:22Think about it.
07:23I'm confused.
07:35Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
07:49Are you pregnant right now?
07:50I can't be.
07:56Holy .
07:57This stresses me the out right now.
08:00You don't know how it's stressful,
08:02how I'm scared, how stressful I am.
08:06I didn't expect you to say that you actually think
08:10that you're pregnant.
08:11I'm really, like, so scared about if he's positive.
08:19Because if you have a baby, like,
08:22I need to have a stability.
08:25Stability is the only thing that I really ever wanted.
08:29I'm talking about you don't give it to me.
08:31So how are we going to get our children to the war
08:35when you and me fighting all the time,
08:37when you're cheating on me?
08:39Like, how?
08:42I hope that we can work on this relationship.
08:43But right now, I'm not confident that we're working.
08:46We talked yesterday.
08:47Hey, like, are we compatible?
08:49Can we not fight?
08:50And all we've done is continue to fight.
08:53Who made the fight today?
08:55I didn't try and fight today.
08:56No.
08:56I said, please.
08:57No.
08:59I don't want to argue.
09:04Do you want to go try this?
09:05No.
09:07Leave me alone.
09:10I want to know.
09:16I don't know.
09:17You think I am happy?
09:29Like, you know, there's a situation I should be happy.
09:32You look at me happy.
09:34Let's please try and be happy about this.
09:36Please.
09:36Can we take the time?
09:37See, you think I am like, you're going to change the almost.
09:39You're so lazy.
09:40Like, how I can be happy?
09:42I am two days to supposedly get married.
09:48If you are pregnant, and we're going to have a baby, then this means that we're having
09:57a family, Madeline.
10:00Can we please take this test?
10:05No.
10:06Please.
10:07Please.
10:13Please, Madeline.
10:14I am not ready to get the text, but it's something like I have to do.
10:20I need to know what is going on.
10:21This is a good opportunity for you to show me that you're ready to really take a serious
10:26step.
10:27If you wouldn't put a ring on my finger today, in a sense, you're not in love with me.
10:28Like, you're in love with also an idea.
10:29I am not ready to get the text.
10:30I am not ready to get the text.
10:31I am not ready to get the text, but it's something like I have to do.
10:35I need to know what is going on.
10:40This is a good opportunity for you to show me that you're ready to really take a serious
10:49step.
10:50If you wouldn't put a ring on my finger today, in a sense, you're not in love with me.
10:54Love is also an idea.
10:56I feel like this is a test if I'm actually wife material or not.
11:03You broke his heart, Ressa.
11:04You might think that it's done.
11:06But he wonders whether you just need some time.
11:09I know.
11:24It's such a beautiful beach, huh?
11:25It is really pretty.
11:26It's been a few days since Jonathan and I have met with the lawyers and found out that the
11:40fastest and easiest way for me to stay here is to get married.
11:44And we're still kind of processing that information.
11:47I don't think your leg can support me.
11:49Oh, really?
11:50Come on.
11:51I've been eating a lot.
11:52Yeah?
11:53I don't want to step on your shoe.
11:54Let's go.
11:55Ow!
11:56I thought giving up everything and moving to another country was a lot.
11:59But adding this on top of it is, like, bang.
12:04Do we miss the sunset or is it just cloudy?
12:06It's a bit cloudy today.
12:08Anyway, so me and Maria are going to have meatball night tomorrow.
12:12What does meatball night mean?
12:14Are you going to actually go to a restaurant and eat meatballs or are you going to, like...
12:18It's just, like, a girly, fun night.
12:20Like, it's just where we can just act stupid and be in meatballs.
12:23Go to dinner, have a drink.
12:25Okay.
12:26It's called a meatball night.
12:27One drink.
12:28One drink.
12:30Have a drink.
12:32Maria is my best friend on the island.
12:35Jonathan doesn't like when I go out with Maria because we like to drink.
12:40We like to be stupid.
12:42We like to randomly karaoke.
12:44We like to, like, climb palm trees and just do really harmless things.
12:49With that being said, if I'm being unrealistic about something that happened with Jonathan,
12:55Maria is always the one to reel me in and be like, don't put up with it.
12:58And I think that makes Jonathan a little nervous.
13:01I don't know where we're going to go to dinner yet.
13:04Maybe one of our go-to spots.
13:07Yeah, well, we'll find a spot where we can go to dinner.
13:10Well, I think me and Maria are just going to go to dinner and then...
13:16I'm not going to go?
13:18That's why it's a meatball night.
13:20Oh.
13:22We were going to invite you afterwards.
13:25Mm-hmm.
13:26Well, no, I don't want you to be, like, worried about it, you know?
13:30I know, but I have a lot of worries when Maria is here because when you guys get together,
13:35it's a real get together, you know what I mean?
13:37You guys go all out.
13:39Yeah, but I think I've chilled out a lot.
13:43Maria, I met a few years back.
13:45We had the same friends, you know?
13:46We'd hang out sometimes.
13:48When I introduced Chloe, they clicked automatically.
13:51It was like the next day, Chloe was telling me, I'm going to hang out with Maria every day now.
13:54The thing about Maria is that she works abroad, so when she comes in a little bit, she only wants to look for a party, you know?
14:01And I don't like that at all.
14:03Now that, you know, you're living here in the island and stuff, this is a good opportunity for you to show me that you're mature and ready to really take a serious step.
14:14I'm not going to go out and, you know, go dance on top of the bar and, you know, be crazy.
14:19Like, that's not something that's respectable from either of our parts.
14:22Like, I wouldn't do that.
14:24I just don't want you to want to change, like, so much about me to the point where, like, like, if you wouldn't put a ring on my finger today, in a sense you're not in love with me.
14:33Like, you're in love with also an idea of what, like, the future can look like when you have to be okay with me now also.
14:41Okay.
14:42It's just, um, I'm used to you when you're going out and going heavy, you know what I mean?
14:49Right, and I think that's more vacation mode.
14:51Okay, so just, I want to see how this mode's going to be, okay?
14:55So this is the opportunity to show me, like, what kind of mode you're in, okay?
14:59Okay.
15:00I know Jonathan doesn't like that I like to go out and have drinks, but I feel like this is more of a test if I'm actually wife material or not.
15:10Now that we're talking about it more and more, I can't really tell if Jonathan wants this or not.
15:15I feel like he's throwing up all these little, little roadblocks and, like, high obstacles that I can't jump over to stall the process.
15:23You're going to let me live a little.
15:25Okay.
15:26Understood.
15:27Just don't go too crazy, okay?
15:29I'm not going to go too crazy.
15:31I'm still a little crazy.
15:32You are.
15:33Very crazy.
15:34I'm going to 1 to 10.
15:359.
15:36I wouldn't say that about you.
15:37What would you say about that?
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16:09I was able to fall asleep, but I did wake up a few times.
16:18I was just kind of, like, spiraling about everything that happened.
16:27The other night, I ended my engagement with Matthew, and slipping the engagement ring
16:35off my finger made the breakup feel very real to me, and I am filled with immense sadness
16:45because an engagement is a promise, and I am breaking a promise, and that doesn't feel
16:51very good.
16:53Matthew's dad has texted me and wants to talk with me.
16:58I feel really nervous about it because I don't know how he feels about the breakup.
17:05It's going to be difficult because I know it's going to be emotional, but I really
17:11do hope that the conversation ends amicably.
17:17Matthew's parents were so excited for me to move and to join the family, and it really
17:23makes me feel guilty.
17:35I just thought we'd just catch up with each other because obviously a lot's happened, and I just
17:58want to try and find out what, where you are, because I can't understand what's happened,
18:05and I'm struggling to put it together.
18:11Matthew's isn't, I've never seen him like it, Greta, and I'm worried about him because he loves you.
18:18He loves you.
18:19I know.
18:20He does, and you broke his heart, Greta, literally.
18:25And that's, like, the worst part about it all, and that's why I was, like, struggling so much,
18:31because, like, I, like, really don't want to hurt him because it's so difficult to explain.
18:39I did love him so much, and I was so excited to talk to him all the time.
18:45I was so excited to see him, and so I'm confused, like, why I don't, like, feel like I love him,
18:54like, in love with him.
18:56Is that because you've had so much happening in the last, last few months?
19:00You forgot how to live almost, haven't you?
19:02Because you've been studying, studying, studying, studying.
19:05I mean, I know that there was a shift because I felt like we were not evolving into people
19:13that were still compatible with each other, and, and I wish, like, I could change my feelings.
19:23Like, he's a great person, like, he, like, I respect him so much.
19:27He's, like, helped me so much in life.
19:29Like, I truly just, like, only want him to be happy.
19:32He wonders whether you just need some time, because you've, don't forget,
19:36you've just traveled across, halfway over the world.
19:39You've probably not slept properly.
19:41He's prepared to give you your time and your space.
19:43Yeah.
19:44What worries me is that you've not had time together.
19:47You've not, not been on your own.
19:49So, yeah, you might think that, yeah, it's done, and, and you'll, you say it is.
19:53But let's be honest, it's only been four days.
19:55There's, it's not been given a chance to, to go any further, because...
20:00I know it seems, like, sudden, and I know this just sounds, like, crazy,
20:05but I just know it in my instinct, like, that, that, like, he's not my person.
20:13It's such a shame, you know.
20:15And, like, my honest truth, which, like, you can accept or not.
20:20I just, like, know I can't make him happy.
20:23And I just, like, hate that I did this to you guys,
20:26and you guys, like, welcomed me with open arms.
20:28Like, it really meant the world to me, like, thank you, because...
20:32It did, so we, we loved you, Greta.
20:35Yeah.
20:36And we really thought a lot of you.
20:43I do think I've got clarity from Greta.
20:46I don't think there's any hope for Matthew and Greta at this stage.
20:51I don't understand it.
20:53I can see she's rationalising it in her mind why she's doing it,
20:57and she's justifying it.
20:59But I'm the one who's got to pick up the pieces with my son.
21:04Matthew's always loved you,
21:05and he always probably will for a long time, still to come.
21:11Just wish I had a different ending.
21:12Yeah.
21:19I'm nerding my life.
21:21Take a dex of Brena.
21:25We're struggling to cross the finish line on us getting married,
21:29let alone starting a family together.
21:32I'm really so scared.
21:42I'm never in my life.
22:05Take a dex of Brena.
22:08And I never think you're going to be like this.
22:19I'm scared of this.
22:22I mean, we're struggling to cross the finish line on us getting married,
22:26let alone starting a family together.
22:29What do you want to be?
22:52Honestly, I think, like, right now, the right time for us to have a baby?
22:59Probably not.
23:00But it's something that I want with you.
23:03You are the person that I want to be the mother of my children,
23:07because I love you.
23:09And I think that you would be a very good mom,
23:11whether it's now or in five years,
23:13it's not going to change how I feel.
23:16What does this mean?
23:30Usually this says pregnant or not pregnant,
23:33a smile or a sad face or something.
23:35This says one line.
23:36What does one line mean?
23:40Negative.
23:41This is negative?
23:42That is the... result.
23:51But you should be crying. You don't cry.
23:54That you're negative or positive?
23:56Negative.
24:00It doesn't change how I feel.
24:03I love you and I want this relationship to work.
24:06Yeah, me too.
24:07But in the same way, I don't trust you in anything
24:11and I'm really so scared.
24:16I just want you to be happy.
24:19And I don't know that I can make you happy.
24:21I try really hard.
24:22And I feel like I fail all the time.
24:25You try so hard.
24:26But what about the conversation today?
24:29The lot of the other we're talking about, we share too.
24:33This is going to be my name.
24:35Okay.
24:37Like one day, we're going to have to share everything.
24:40We have a company together.
24:41We have business together, everything.
24:44And later, no, I don't want to share anymore.
24:47The company is both of us.
24:49In your mind, everything is money.
24:58I don't care about money.
25:01Other than the fact that...
25:02Don't!
25:03Other than...
25:04Every single day mention money.
25:06Every single day mention,
25:07no, you don't push any money in this project.
25:10You don't pay anything.
25:12You never follow me.
25:13I value everything that you do.
25:16But the fact of the matter is,
25:18I try as much as I can to provide for you.
25:22And if you would let me be a man,
25:26and make manly decisions,
25:28I'd really appreciate it.
25:33I don't ask much of you.
25:34Just let me do what I need to do
25:36to make our dreams a reality.
25:43I know I am not perfect,
25:55I know I am a difficult person,
25:57and I know I have so many things to do well.
26:01But I just love everything you've been doing for me.
26:07But at the end of the day,
26:08I really love you, Luke.
26:09I know you do.
26:15And I love you more.
26:21One of my biggest problems in this relationship
26:24is always he show me,
26:26I don't kind of trust him in anything.
26:28So...
26:30I really push so hard
26:32to push my name on, like, the property.
26:35Because I don't know if in the future
26:37he's gonna have to change the woman,
26:39or change me,
26:40and what are they gonna have to do?
26:42But when I tell him,
26:44maybe I think I get pregnant,
26:46and he reaction like,
26:47no, I really want a family with you.
26:49It may make me more comfortable
26:51about everything's gonna have to be good,
26:54and I need to trust him.
26:58I just want you to be happy.
27:00And I'd like for us to be happy together.
27:06Damn.
27:07This is not the first night we met.
27:20I know.
27:21Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
27:23Absolutely.
27:24If I'm being honest after being here,
27:26sometimes I miss it.
27:28I want to go back home for like,
27:31six months,
27:32and dance that debt off.
27:34You only just got here.
27:52Wow.
27:53All righty.
28:04Look at that.
28:07I've been here a couple of weeks,
28:09and I've been complaining
28:10about how there's nothing to do here,
28:12but tonight Dylan's taking me to a strip club.
28:17I'm excited because that's more my vibe.
28:20I had no idea Tasmania had a strip club.
28:23There's nightlife here in Tasmania.
28:25Something that's open past 10.
28:27OMG.
28:40You think you can do that?
28:41Definitely not.
28:45It's even like the first night we met.
28:47I know, right?
28:48Except you're wearing a little bit less
28:49than what you're wearing now.
28:51I know, more clothing.
28:52I know.
28:53This is awesome.
28:54It's a great club.
28:56G'day, g'day.
28:57Hey, beautiful.
28:58Oh my God, she's hot.
29:00She's definitely good with the pole.
29:04You're loving this, aren't you?
29:06I do.
29:07Giving your elements.
29:08This is the happiest I've seen you since we got here.
29:10Shut up.
29:11Seriously.
29:12Shut up.
29:13I have everything we've done.
29:14Yeah, babe, you know why I love it?
29:16What? Tell me.
29:17This is my life.
29:18I've been doing it for 37 years.
29:19It's like my second home.
29:21You know what it's like to perform.
29:23I love it.
29:24You feel good.
29:25You get all the, you know, the compliments is awesome.
29:27It's just an adrenaline rush.
29:29Yes, exactly.
29:31Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
29:33Absolutely.
29:34Why?
29:35Well, even though, you know, you were happy doing it and it lit you up, it's still not my favorite
29:41thought to have you dancing naked for other guys.
29:44It's not my favorite thing.
29:46But you know it's just work.
29:49Yeah, but I'd rather you do a different job.
29:54I get that he doesn't like me being around other men, but it's just a job and the money
29:59is fantastic.
30:00And if I'm being honest after being here, sometimes I miss it.
30:04It's going to be hard for me not making this kind of money, you know?
30:09I'm going to be totally relying on you.
30:12Yeah?
30:13It makes, it scares me sometimes.
30:17I'm just going to have to look at, you know, some of the luxuries that you enjoy in Dallas.
30:22You know, all the online shopping and the excessive spending, that's just going to have to stop.
30:27Do you worry about the financial stuff?
30:32You're worried about the money, the debt.
30:35So, I just think I want to go back to the States, home for like six months and dance that debt off.
30:45Then you won't have to worry about paying that off.
30:47Would you be okay with that?
30:51I don't like that thought, love.
30:53You only just got here and you're talking about leaving and going back to dancing.
30:57To be honest, I know that it's fun for you and I dance too.
31:03But like, I don't dance in a champagne ring with just me and another person.
31:09No.
31:10I work with another girl.
31:11I'm off on stage.
31:12But I work with another girl.
31:13It's always me and another girl.
31:14Okay, well sometimes you don't.
31:15But the thing is...
31:16Yes, 90% of the time maybe.
31:17Okay, well 10% you don't.
31:19Very rare.
31:20It bothers me a little bit.
31:23Sorry.
31:25Even though, you know, we're both strippers, it's a very sensitive topic and makes me look
31:32like a hypocrite, but I feel like it is different in a way.
31:36I'm up on stage with a room full of women.
31:40But with Patia's, she goes out, she finds a guy and then she takes him back to a VIP room.
31:46I know they're both entertainment, they're both stripping, it's both a transaction, but
31:51they're two different things.
31:53And so, I don't like the thought of Patia going back to dancing.
31:57It kind of feels like an excuse just to leave Tasmania.
32:00It's like, this place sucks, it's too quiet.
32:03I don't want to be near your family.
32:05So, I'll just go back and dance in the US.
32:09Maybe Chris's concerns are valid.
32:12Maybe Patia is not going to change.
32:14I just sometimes don't think that I'm enough for you.
32:17You are enough.
32:18I know that I'm enough, but sometimes I think that you're addicted to that lifestyle,
32:24that easy, fast money.
32:26And that's kind of what I'm scared of because...
32:28Babe.
32:29I retired you in Thailand and you were just completely bored.
32:32I was bored.
32:33All you talked about the whole time was going back to dancing.
32:35I did.
32:36I did.
32:37I thought I was going to get a ring there and you didn't give it to me and I was like,
32:40you know what, what's the point?
32:42I'm done.
32:43If you really love me, you should just stick by my side no matter what.
32:49Listen, part of a problem in the past was because you didn't want to commit.
32:54So once you get a ring, like everything's magically going to change, you're going to become...
32:58It's not going to magically change.
32:59It's going to make me feel better.
33:01It's hard to commit to you if you can't commit to us being together.
33:07Hey, I want to commit to us being together.
33:10I love you.
33:11You're not committing.
33:12You're just like running off to dancing already.
33:14I'll put a ring on it.
33:17I want this to work but Batia's saying she wants to go back to the US.
33:23Thailand is kind of still in the back of my mind because she left me.
33:28If things get tough, is Batia just going to leave?
33:32I just want to know that you're going to stick by me no matter what.
33:42You marrying him is the worst idea you've probably ever had.
33:46Before, it looked so bad.
33:48Still is.
33:50In the year that they've been together, I think Johnny has cheated on her.
33:54Probably every week.
34:02Don't hit me with your car.
34:20Please.
34:21Or do.
34:23Bye.
34:24I love you.
34:25Bye.
34:27Girls night.
34:28Girls night.
34:29My best friend, Maria, is finally back in town.
34:39And we're going to get dinner with our other friend, Kamilah.
34:42And I'm so excited to just have some girl time.
34:44Hi.
34:45How are you, Pookie?
34:46You look fabulous.
34:47They are my go-to girls to talk all my relationship gossips.
34:52They know everything from the highest high to, like, the lowest low.
34:57Did you guys get wine?
34:58Did you order anything?
34:59We're not sure.
35:00We're already starting with tequila.
35:01Yeah.
35:02Oh.
35:03Between my mom cutting me off financially and everything that's going on with Jonathan,
35:08I think we have a lot to catch up on.
35:10I actually haven't seen you.
35:11This is so funny.
35:12And the last time I saw you-
35:14I barely saw you.
35:15You were six, so I-
35:16And then my phone broke.
35:17I got a new phone.
35:18Do you have a plan in Aruba?
35:20No.
35:21Oh wow.
35:22Haven't gone that far.
35:23I got a plan with my mom now instead of my, like, own.
35:26Because she has the business one, so I can, like, internationally-
35:29Oh, I have the same.
35:30Roam it up.
35:31I have the same, yeah.
35:32But my mom said, you know, I'm not going to keep, you know, financing your journey.
35:38She was like, I'm not.
35:40Like, which is understandable.
35:42But now, it's like, if my mom's not going to help me out, we can't keep going to dinner
35:48every single night like we were when I was here, which is thousands and thousands of dollars
35:53at this point.
35:54Can Jonathan give you that?
35:57No.
35:58No.
35:59He can't give me, he cannot give me the financial aspect that I'm used to.
36:02He can't.
36:03No.
36:04And he knows that.
36:05It's going to be a lot harder.
36:07Are you willing to risk that?
36:09It's a lot.
36:11It's going to take a lot of work.
36:13I'm okay with that.
36:15I want to do that because I know at the end of the day, like, I do want to be happy with
36:19him.
36:20I want us to work.
36:21How long has it been?
36:22Not even a year or a year?
36:24It's been a year almost now.
36:26You have love goggles on.
36:27It's going to be a year.
36:29You're in the honeymoon phase.
36:31I wish I could rip him off your face.
36:35I want us to work.
36:37I want to build something together.
36:39I want a work permit.
36:40So we went to our first appointment with an immigration lawyer.
36:43Yeah.
36:44What happened?
36:45Well, the easiest way for me to be legal is to get married.
36:59Do you want to marry him?
37:00I do.
37:01I really do.
37:03Chloe, no.
37:06You marrying him is the worst idea you've probably ever had in your life.
37:12You see yourself long-term settling down with him.
37:15I do.
37:16But you find out about a random girl every single week.
37:19He wants a relationship while he's out cheating.
37:23I do.
37:24I remember that day that we were at Clubhouse.
37:27And he said he was at work all day.
37:29And his co-workers were like, Jonathan didn't work today.
37:32It wasn't his location at Jolly Pirates because Kaner has his phone.
37:36Right.
37:37Because Kaner has his phone.
37:38What is his name?
37:39There's definitely been a few other times where I've questioned where Jonathan was, what he
37:48was doing, where I thought something was going on.
37:51But a lot of the times I couldn't prove it.
37:53So I understand their side, but I feel like since I've been here that Jonathan is being faithful.
38:00I feel like before it looked so bad.
38:04Like it was bad.
38:05Before.
38:06It was.
38:07You see, you're making an excuse for him.
38:08Again.
38:09I don't want to make.
38:10It looked so.
38:11No.
38:12It was bad.
38:13Still is.
38:14I think we're moving in a better direction.
38:17Like I think we've had growth, but no.
38:20Like our.
38:21So he has been cheating.
38:23Lately?
38:24No.
38:25What's changed?
38:26I mean.
38:27Is he just lying better?
38:30Chloe has talked about marrying Johnny before, but I never thought it was actually serious.
38:37Because everybody on the island knows that Johnny has a reputation with girls.
38:42He's proud to have a lot of girls on him.
38:45I think it feeds his ego.
38:47In the year that they've been together, I think Johnny has cheated on her.
38:51Probably every week.
38:52You know what he's doing.
38:55You know what he's doing.
38:56You know, like.
38:57Are you willing to put up with that?
38:59Is this.
39:00I know.
39:01Right.
39:02So this is the person you want to marry.
39:04What I am baffled about is that you're just okay with what he says.
39:09Okay.
39:10I love you.
39:11I want to marry you.
39:13How about you don't cheat on me?
39:16What would it take for you to be like, okay, actually, I'm going to take my best friend's
39:22advice, my mom's advice, everybody else's advice that this is a bad idea.
39:27If something were to happen, I would pack my so fast.
39:33Just prepare yourself.
39:34That's all I'm saying.
39:42Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, The Other Way.
39:44We're going to play.
39:45We're going to play.
39:46We're going to play.
39:47Even if you work a lot, you have to take time.
39:51Hearing from Anthony and from my mother, you focus too much on career.
39:55The thing is like, we still need to provide and pay the bills.
39:59We're not rich.
40:09How are you doing?
40:10Good.
40:11This is Madeline.
40:12Madeline calling the wedding off three, four times.
40:15I mean, that's not a very good indicator going into a marriage.
40:20You're going to be marrying my son.
40:22But the three weeks that he's been here, it's a joke.
40:26Is this really what you want?
40:31You haven't really changed doing what you do.
40:33I didn't do anything.
40:35It's just a matter of time until he just does it again.
40:38Like, it's a habit.
40:39You didn't physically do anything.
40:40Exactly.
40:41You should not have messaged another girl.
40:43I didn't have messaged another girl.
40:44I didn't have messaged another girl.
40:46I'm not getting into this.
40:51I just feel like it's one thing after another.
40:53Your mom is complaining about how I do things.
40:57I can't live like this.
40:58I knew that it's going to be hard for Jenny because my mom has a list of expectations for everybody in the house.
41:05I can't take this anymore.
41:13There's no making this woman happy.
41:15Someone needs to put her in her place.
41:19Someone needs to put her in her place.
41:21What are you doing?
41:22Who are you talking about?
41:23Who are you talking about?
41:24Who are you talking about?
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