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00:00Oh, God, she kicked my ass in Dennis.
00:04I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo.
00:07Oh, you're joking.
00:08No.
00:09Every day, you have to talk to your mom.
00:11It's ridiculous.
00:13Oh, if you're worried about that,
00:14why are you worried about your $20,000 debt that you have?
00:17Things are clearly not going well,
00:19and there's something that I need to talk to Dylan about,
00:22and I think it might make it worse.
00:26How long would it take if we did file the partnership
00:29papers for me to be able to work?
00:32Eight to seven months.
00:34Yeah, it's a long time.
00:35That's a long time.
00:36If you're married, there's no problem.
00:39Jonathan and I have talked about getting married,
00:41but there is no way that it was going to be as soon as tomorrow.
00:46Well, I think at the end of the day,
00:47it's something to think about so we can be together in the end.
00:53I don't think I love you anymore.
00:59Nothing could have prepared me for those words.
01:02That's the saddest part.
01:04There was no fight.
01:05No.
01:07Your fight's just begun, sir.
01:08I think you should have a talk with her.
01:11Oh, my God, let's get out of here.
01:14Oh, my God, let's get out of here.
01:15Oh, my God, let's get out of here.
01:19This is not the way I want to start my weekend wedding.
01:23I feel dizzy and weird.
01:27I told you so many times we even be careful when we have sex.
01:31Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
01:33Yes, and I have a text.
01:35I don't know, but I'm not scared.
01:46Maybe we could take a look at the possibilities.
02:05After tennis, Batia and I had a big fight
02:10about my relationship with my mum.
02:12I don't want the constant stress and the arguments,
02:15so I told her I can sort of meet her halfway with some boundaries,
02:19but my mum's going to be a part of our lives,
02:23so Batia needs to stop letting it get to her so much, you know?
02:28G'day, mate.
02:30How you going?
02:31How the bloody hell are you?
02:32Well, a long time no see.
02:34It's a strong hand trick, you've got their balance.
02:41After you coming, sir.
02:42All right.
02:44Ever since Batia arrived in town, like, every day,
02:47she keeps asking me, when are you going to propose?
02:50G'day, guys.
02:51I'm here to get a ring polished.
02:53Certainly.
02:54So today I'm going with my buddy Chris to a jewellery store
02:58to get the engagement ring that I gave Batia shined up
03:02so that when I'm ready to propose, it looks brand new.
03:07Beautiful.
03:08You like that, do you?
03:09Family allure?
03:10Eh, not quite.
03:12He did actually give it to his partner.
03:17Yes.
03:17Before, and then he took it back.
03:19That's right, yeah.
03:22It's a complicated relationship.
03:25The first time I proposed to Batia, it was very lacklustre.
03:29You know, we were in bed.
03:30It was Christmas morning and I just slipped the ring on her finger
03:33and she said yes.
03:35I mean, I feel like that's got a bit of history behind it.
03:38Are you sure you don't want to look at other rings?
03:40No, I don't.
03:41There is so much history and so many memories.
03:44So, like, it still has a sentimental value.
03:47I definitely don't want to trade it in.
03:49You don't want to trade it in?
03:50Definitely not.
03:51Perfect.
03:52And then give it a clean and polish.
03:56Perfect.
03:57Go grab a coffee.
03:58Alright.
03:59After I proposed, we'd be breaking up every three or four weeks.
04:05And, um, at one point Batia's spending got so bad, she started selling all her jewellery
04:12just to fund her shopping habit.
04:14And I thought, she's going to pawn that.
04:17So, I took the ring back.
04:20She saw that as, you know, we're no longer engaged, which is fair enough.
04:24Okay, so the ring.
04:27Yes.
04:28Ten years ago, you gave her the ring.
04:30And you've been holding on to that ring ever since.
04:33Yeah.
04:34You haven't proposed to her again?
04:36No, because I'm trying to fix all these issues.
04:41I don't know, 12 years.
04:42I feel like if you haven't fixed something after 12 years, how many more years is it going
04:46to take for you to fix?
04:49I'm not giving up.
04:52Hmm, okay.
04:54I'm just worried about the personality clash.
04:56You lived together in Thailand.
04:57Yes.
04:58So what happened there?
04:59Why, why did that not work out?
05:01In the beginning, it was magical.
05:04And then after a while, she was miserable, I wasn't giving her enough money, and she just,
05:10she just hated it.
05:14I just thought she would be happy living that life, that retired beach lifestyle.
05:20But she, that wasn't enough for her.
05:23And her life has been fast paced.
05:28Fast money, fast living.
05:30How is she going to be happy here?
05:32Long term.
05:33Honestly, think about that.
05:35She's in a foreign country.
05:37She's got no family or friends here.
05:39She's just going to be happy hanging around in Launceston.
05:44But the thing is, there's a certain limit.
05:47You can't do that all your life.
05:49She's approaching an age.
05:51An age.
05:52Yeah, sure.
05:53She's getting older.
05:54She can't live that fast paced life forever.
05:56I don't know.
05:57Once you're used to something, it's, it's hard to, um, to change.
06:02You know, I've known Dylan always to be pretty stubborn.
06:06Like he won't change what he eats, for example.
06:08It's only chicken and rice.
06:09I tried to get him to eat a cookie, wouldn't even eat a cookie.
06:11I mean, he's pretty stubborn.
06:12He won't, he won't change anything.
06:14So I'm worried that Dylan's stubbornness is causing him to live in a fantasy and not deal with reality.
06:20I don't think a ring on the finger is going to be the thing that fixes everything.
06:26I love her.
06:28I just can't see myself with anyone else.
06:31I'm not saying you, I'm not saying you.
06:33I'm not even attracted to anyone else.
06:34I just want her.
06:35Alright, look, I'm only saying,
06:38this because I care about you as a friend.
06:42I love Patia.
06:45I know she makes you very happy.
06:47But your idea of happily ever after is a bit delusional.
06:52I don't think you've really thought about the long-term plan.
06:58Chris's concerns are valid.
07:02Patia and I still have a lot of issues to work through.
07:05But I am feeling optimistic about the future with Patia.
07:10She's come to Australia.
07:12She's given it a good go.
07:14And she's trying to resolve things with my mother.
07:17So I think that's massive, really.
07:19I feel like it is different now.
07:21Think about it.
07:22Think about it.
07:23I'm confused.
07:42I'm confused.
07:48Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
07:50I can't be.
07:55Holy
07:56this stresses me out
07:59right now.
08:04I didn't expect you to
08:08say that you actually think
08:10that you're pregnant.
08:12Stability is the only thing
08:26that I really ever wanted.
08:28I'm talking about you
08:30don't give it to me
08:31so how are we going to get
08:33our children to the war
08:35when you and me fighting all the time
08:37when you cheating on me
08:39like how?
08:40I hope that we can work
08:43on this relationship
08:43but right now I'm not confident
08:45that we're working.
08:46We talked yesterday.
08:47Hey, like, are we compatible?
08:49Can we not fight?
08:50And all we've done
08:50is continue to fight.
08:53Who made the fight today?
08:55I didn't try and fight today.
08:56No.
08:56I said please.
08:57I don't want to argue.
09:03Do you want to go try this?
09:05No.
09:07Leave me alone.
09:10I want to know.
09:11I don't know.
09:17I don't know.
09:28You think I'm happy
09:29in making other situations
09:31and I should be happy.
09:34You look at me happy.
09:35Let's please try and be happy
09:36about this.
09:36Please, can we take the time?
09:37You think I am like
09:38you're going to change
09:39almost you're so lazy
09:40like how I'm going to be happy
09:42if I am two days
09:44to supposedly get married.
09:48If you are pregnant
09:49and we're going to have a baby
09:54then this means
09:56that we're having a family,
09:58Magdalene.
09:58Can we please take this test?
10:06No.
10:07Please.
10:14Please, Medley.
10:15I am not ready
10:28to get the text
10:30but it's something
10:32like I have to do.
10:35I need to know
10:36what is going on.
10:37This is a good opportunity
10:45for you to show me
10:47that you're ready
10:47to really take a serious step.
10:50If you wouldn't put a ring
10:51on my finger today
10:52in a sense
10:53you're not in love with me
10:54like you're in love
10:55with also an idea.
10:56I feel like this is a test
10:58if I'm actually
10:59wife material or not.
11:03You broke his heart, Ressa.
11:05You might think
11:06that it's done.
11:08He wonders
11:08whether you just
11:09need some time.
11:11I know.
11:32It's such a beautiful beach, huh?
11:35It is really pretty.
11:37It's been a few days
11:38since Jonathan and I
11:39have met with the lawyers
11:40and found out
11:41that the fastest
11:41and easiest way
11:42for me to stay here
11:43is to get married
11:45and we're still
11:46kind of processing
11:46that information.
11:48I don't think
11:49your leg can support me.
11:50Oh, really?
11:51Come on.
11:52I've been eating a lot.
11:54Yeah?
11:54I don't want to step
11:54on your shoe.
11:55Let's go.
11:56Ow!
11:57I thought giving up
11:58everything and moving
11:59to another country
11:59was a lot
12:00but adding this
12:01on top of it
12:01is like bang.
12:03Do we miss the sunset
12:05or is it just cloudy?
12:07It's a bit cloudy today.
12:09Anyway,
12:10me and Maria
12:10are going to have
12:11meatball night tomorrow.
12:13What does meatball night mean?
12:15Are you going to actually
12:16go to a restaurant
12:17and eat meatballs
12:17or are you going to like...
12:18It's just like
12:19a girly, fun night.
12:21Like, it's just
12:22where we can just
12:22act stupid
12:23and be in meatballs.
12:24Go to dinner,
12:25have a drink.
12:27Okay.
12:27It's called
12:28a meatball night.
12:28One drink.
12:31Have a drink.
12:33Maria is my best friend
12:35on the island.
12:36Jonathan doesn't like
12:37when I go out with Maria
12:38because we like to drink.
12:41We like to be stupid.
12:43We like to randomly karaoke.
12:44We like to, like,
12:45climb palm trees
12:46and just do
12:47really harmless things.
12:50With that being said,
12:51if I'm being unrealistic
12:53about something
12:54that happened with Jonathan,
12:55Maria is always the one
12:56to reel me in
12:57and be like,
12:58don't put up with it
12:59and I think that
13:01makes Jonathan
13:01a little nervous.
13:04I don't know
13:04where we're going
13:04to go to dinner yet.
13:05Maybe one of our
13:06go-to spots.
13:09Yeah, well,
13:10we'll find a spot
13:11where we can go to dinner.
13:13Well, I think
13:14me and Maria
13:15are just going to go to dinner
13:16and then...
13:17I'm not going to go?
13:19That's why
13:19it's a meatball night.
13:21Oh.
13:23We were going
13:23to invite you afterwards.
13:25Mm-hmm.
13:26Well, no,
13:27I don't want you
13:28to be, like,
13:29worried about it,
13:30you know?
13:31I know,
13:31but I have a lot
13:32of worries
13:32when Maria is here
13:34because when you guys
13:35get together,
13:35it's a real get-together,
13:37you know what I mean?
13:38You guys go all out.
13:41Yeah,
13:42but I think
13:42I've chilled out a lot.
13:44Maria,
13:44I met a few years back.
13:46We had the same friends,
13:47you know,
13:47we'd hang out sometimes.
13:49When I introduced Chloe,
13:50they clicked automatically.
13:52It was like,
13:52the next day,
13:53Chloe was telling me,
13:53I'm going to hang out
13:54with Maria every day now.
13:56The thing about Maria
13:57is that she works abroad,
13:58so when she comes
13:59to Ruby,
14:00she only wants
14:00to look for a party,
14:02you know,
14:02and I don't like
14:03that at all.
14:05Now that,
14:05you know,
14:06you're living here
14:06on the island
14:07and stuff,
14:07this is a good opportunity
14:09for you to show me
14:10that you're mature
14:11and ready
14:12to really take
14:13a serious step.
14:15You know,
14:15I'm not going to go out
14:16and, you know,
14:17go dance on top of the bar
14:19and, you know,
14:20be crazy.
14:20Like,
14:21that's not something
14:21that's respectable
14:22from either of our parts.
14:23Like,
14:23I wouldn't do that.
14:25I just don't want you
14:26to want to change,
14:27like,
14:28so much about me
14:29to the point where,
14:30like,
14:30if you wouldn't put a ring
14:31on my finger today,
14:33in a sense,
14:33you're not in love with me.
14:34Like,
14:34you're in love with also
14:35an idea
14:36of what, like,
14:37the future can look like
14:39when you have to be okay
14:40with me now also.
14:42Okay.
14:45It's just,
14:46um,
14:47I'm used to you
14:48when you're going out
14:48and going heavy.
14:49You know what I mean?
14:50Right,
14:50and I think
14:51that's more vacation mode.
14:52Okay,
14:53so just,
14:53I want to see
14:54how this mode's going to be.
14:55Okay,
14:56so this is the opportunity
14:57to show me, like,
14:57what kind of mode you're in.
14:59Okay?
15:00Okay.
15:03I know Jonathan
15:04doesn't like
15:05that I like to go out
15:06and have drinks,
15:07but I feel like
15:08this is more of a test
15:09if I'm actually
15:10wife material or not.
15:11Now that we're
15:12talking about it
15:13more and more,
15:14I can't really tell
15:14if Jonathan wants this
15:15or not.
15:16I feel like he's
15:16throwing up all these
15:17little,
15:18little roadblocks
15:19and, like,
15:20high obstacles
15:20that I can't
15:21jump over
15:23to stall the process.
15:25You're going to let me
15:26live a little.
15:27Okay.
15:28Understood.
15:29Just don't go too crazy.
15:31Okay?
15:31I'm not going to go too crazy.
15:32I'm still a little crazy.
15:34You are.
15:35Very crazy.
15:35I'm going to 1 to 10.
15:379.
15:37I wouldn't say that about you.
15:38What would you say about that?
15:4010.
15:41You're so bad.
15:4213.
15:43I don't think so.
15:47My heart, it wanders
15:50through the light
15:52Searching for the star
15:56Searching for the star
15:59Searching for the star
15:59Who will I find my way
16:05I was able to fall asleep, but I did wake up a few times.
16:18I was just kind of, like, spiraling about everything that happened.
16:27The other night, I ended my engagement with Matthew,
16:30and slipping the engagement ring off my finger
16:36made the breakup feel very real to me.
16:42And I am filled with immense sadness
16:45because an engagement is a promise,
16:47and I am breaking a promise, and that doesn't feel very good.
16:53Matthew's dad has texted me and wants to talk with me.
16:58I feel really nervous about it
17:01because I don't know how he feels about the breakup.
17:05It's going to be difficult because I know it's going to be emotional,
17:09but I really do hope that the conversation ends amicably.
17:17Matthew's parents were so excited for me to move and to join the family,
17:21and it really makes me feel guilty.
17:28I just thought we'd, uh, just catch up with each other
17:33Hi, Greta.
17:41How are you?
17:44I'm okay.
17:44How are you?
17:45Okay.
17:46I'm sorry.
17:48You have to be sorry about it.
17:51I just thought we'd just catch up with each other.
17:55Because obviously a lot's happened.
17:58And I just want to try and find out what...
18:01where you are.
18:02Oh, because I can't understand what's happened
18:05and I'm struggling to put it together.
18:11Matthews isn't...
18:13I've never seen him like it, Greta.
18:15And I'm worried about him because he loves you.
18:20I know.
18:21He does.
18:22And you broke his heart, Greta.
18:24Literally.
18:27That's, like, the worst part about it all
18:29and that's why I was, like, struggling so much
18:31because, like, I, like, really don't want to hurt him
18:34because...
18:35it's so difficult to explain.
18:40I did love him so much
18:42and I was so excited to talk to him all the time
18:45and I was so excited to see him.
18:47And so...
18:48I'm confused, like, why I don't, like, feel like I love him,
18:55like, in love with him.
18:56Is that because you've had so much happening
18:58in the last few months?
19:00You forgot how to live almost, haven't you?
19:02Because you've been studying, studying, studying, studying.
19:06I mean, I know that there was a shift
19:09because I felt like we were not evolving into people
19:13that were still compatible with each other
19:15and I wish, like, I could change my feelings.
19:23Like, he's a great person.
19:25Like, he...
19:26Like, I respect him so much.
19:28He's, like, helped me so much in life.
19:30Like, I truly just, like, only want him to be happy.
19:32He wonders whether you just need some time
19:36because you don't forget you've just travelled
19:38across halfway over the world.
19:40You've probably not slept properly.
19:42He's prepared to give you your time and your space.
19:44Yeah.
19:45What worries me is that you've not had time together.
19:48You've not been on your own.
19:50So, yeah, you might think that, yeah, it's done
19:52and you say it is.
19:54But let's be honest, it's only been four days.
19:57There's not been given a chance to go any further because...
20:00I know it seems, like, sudden
20:03and I know this just sounds, like, crazy
20:05but I just know it in my instinct, like, that...
20:09that, like, he's not my person.
20:14It's such a shame, you know.
20:16And, like, my honest truth,
20:18which, like, you can accept or not,
20:21I just, like, know I can't make him happy.
20:25And I just, like, hate that I did this to you guys
20:27and you guys, like, welcomed me with open arms.
20:29Like, it really meant the world to me.
20:31Like, thank you, because...
20:33We loved you, Greta.
20:36Yeah.
20:36We really fought a lot of you.
20:43I do think I've got clarity from Greta.
20:47I don't think there's any hope for Matthew
20:49and Greta at this stage.
20:52I don't understand it.
20:54I can see she's rationalising it in her mind
20:57why she's doing it and she's justifying it.
21:00But I'm the one who's got to pick up the pieces with my son.
21:05Matthew's always loved you.
21:06And he always probably will for a long time,
21:08still to come.
21:12Just wish I had a different ending.
21:13I did.
21:13Yeah.
21:19I'm nerding my life.
21:21Take a dex of Brena.
21:25We're struggling to cross the finish line
21:28on us getting married,
21:29let alone starting a family together.
21:32I'm really so scared.
21:34I don't know.
22:04I've never in my life
22:05take a dex of Brena.
22:10And I never think I'm gonna have to be
22:12like this.
22:20I'm scared of this.
22:23I mean, we're struggling
22:23to cross the finish line
22:25on us getting married,
22:27let alone starting a family together.
22:29What do you want to be?
22:53Honestly, I think, like, right now,
22:58the right time for us to have a baby?
23:00Probably not.
23:01But it's something that I want with you.
23:04You are the person
23:05that I want to be the mother of my children
23:07because I love you.
23:10And I think that you would be a very good mom,
23:12whether it's now or in five years.
23:15It's not gonna change how I feel.
23:17What does this mean?
23:31Usually this says pregnant or not pregnant,
23:33a smile or a sad face or something.
23:35This says one line.
23:37What does one line mean?
23:41Negative.
23:41This is negative?
23:42That is the result.
23:52But you should be crying.
23:53You don't cry.
23:55That you're negative or positive?
23:57Negative.
24:00It doesn't change how I feel.
24:03I love you,
24:04and I want this relationship to work.
24:07Yeah, me too,
24:08but in the same way,
24:09I don't trust you in anything,
24:12and I'm really so scared.
24:16I just want you to be happy.
24:19And I don't know that I can make you happy.
24:21I try really hard,
24:22and I feel like I fail all the time.
24:25You try so hard.
24:26What about the conversation today?
24:29The lot of the other we're talking about,
24:32we share, too.
24:33This is gonna be my name.
24:34I don't care about money.
24:46I don't care about money.
24:47The company is both of us.
24:49Do you mind everything is money?
24:58I don't care about money.
25:01Other than the fact that...
25:02Don't!
25:03Other than...
25:04Every single day mention money.
25:06Every single day mention,
25:07no, you don't push any money in this project.
25:11You don't pay anything.
25:12You never follow me.
25:13I value everything that you do.
25:17But the fact of the matter is,
25:18I try as much as I can to provide for you,
25:23and if you would let me be a man
25:26and make manly decisions,
25:29I'd really appreciate it.
25:33I don't ask much of you.
25:34Just let me do what I need to do
25:37to make our dreams a reality.
25:54I know I am not perfect.
25:56I know I am a difficult person,
25:57and I know I have so many things to do well.
26:01But I just love everything you've been doing for me.
26:07But at the end of the day,
26:08I really love you, Luke.
26:11I know you do.
26:16And I love you more.
26:21One of my biggest problems in this relationship
26:24is always his show me.
26:26I don't kind of trust him in anything.
26:29So, I really push so hard
26:32to push my name on, like, the property,
26:35because I don't know if in the future
26:38he's going to have to change the woman
26:39or change me,
26:40and what they're going to have to do.
26:43But when I tell him,
26:45maybe I think I get pregnant,
26:47and he reacts like,
26:48no, I really want a family with you.
26:50It may make me more comfortable
26:52about everything's going to be good,
26:54and I need to trust him.
26:56I just want you to be happy.
27:02And I'd like for us to be happy together.
27:08Damn.
27:09This is, like, the first night we met.
27:21I know.
27:22Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
27:24Absolutely.
27:25If I'm being honest after being here,
27:27sometimes I miss it.
27:29I want to go back home
27:31for, like, six months
27:33and dance that debt off.
27:35You only just got here.
27:36All righty.
28:05Look at that.
28:06I've been here a couple of weeks,
28:10and I've been complaining
28:11about how there's nothing to do here,
28:12but tonight Dylan's taking me
28:14to a strip club.
28:18I'm excited because that's more my vibe.
28:20I had no idea Tasmania had a strip club.
28:24There's nightlife here in Tasmania,
28:26something that's open past 10.
28:28OMG.
28:28Do you think you can do that?
28:41Definitely not.
28:45Good luck is even, like,
28:46the first night we met.
28:47I know, right?
28:48Except you're wearing a little bit less
28:49than what you're wearing now.
28:51And no more clothing.
28:52Yeah.
28:53This is awesome.
28:55It's a great club.
28:56G'day, g'day.
28:58Hey, beautiful.
28:59Oh, my God.
28:59She's hot.
29:01She's definitely good with the pole.
29:04You're loving this, aren't you?
29:07I do.
29:07Doing your elements.
29:08This is the happiest I've seen you
29:10since we got here.
29:11Shut up.
29:11Seriously.
29:12Shut up.
29:13I have everything we've done.
29:14Yeah, babe, you know why I love it?
29:16Why?
29:17Tell me.
29:17This is my life.
29:18I've been doing it for 37 years.
29:19It's like my second home.
29:22You know what it's like to perform.
29:23I love it.
29:24You feel good.
29:24You get all the, you know,
29:25the compliments is awesome.
29:28It's just an adrenaline rush.
29:29Yes, exactly.
29:32Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
29:33Absolutely.
29:34Why?
29:36Well, even though, you know,
29:38you were happy doing it
29:39and it lit you up,
29:39it's still not my favorite thought
29:42to have you dancing naked for other guys.
29:45It's not my favorite thing.
29:47But you know it's just work.
29:50Yeah, I'd rather you do a different job.
29:54I get that he doesn't like me
29:56being around other men,
29:57but it's just a job
29:58and the money is fantastic.
30:00And if I'm being honest after being here,
30:02sometimes I miss it.
30:05It's going to be hard for me
30:06not making this kind of money,
30:09you know?
30:09I'm going to be totally relying on you.
30:13Yeah?
30:16It scares me sometimes.
30:18I'm just going to have to look at,
30:19you know,
30:20some of the luxuries that you enjoy in Dallas.
30:23You know,
30:24all the online shopping
30:25and the excessive spending
30:27and the excessive spending,
30:27I'm just going to have to stop.
30:30You're worried about the financial stuff.
30:32You're worried about the money,
30:34the debt.
30:35So,
30:36I just think
30:38I want to go back to the States,
30:41home for like,
30:42six months
30:43and dance
30:44and dance
30:44that debt off.
30:46Then you won't have to worry
30:46about paying that off.
30:48Would you be okay with that?
30:49I don't like that thought, love.
30:53You only just got here
30:55and you're talking about leaving
30:56and going back to dancing.
30:57To be honest,
30:58I know that
30:59it's fun for you
31:01and I dance too.
31:04But like,
31:05I don't dance in a champagne room
31:07with just me and another person.
31:10No.
31:11I work with another girl.
31:12I'm not on stage.
31:12But I work with another girl.
31:13It's always me and another girl.
31:15Sometimes you don't.
31:16But the thing is...
31:1790% of the time, maybe.
31:18Okay, well 10% you don't.
31:20Very rare.
31:21It bothers me a little bit.
31:23Sorry.
31:26Even though,
31:27you know,
31:27we're both strippers,
31:28it's a very sensitive topic
31:31and makes me look like
31:33a hypocrite
31:33but I feel like
31:35it is different in a way.
31:37I'm up on stage
31:38with a room full of women
31:40but with Patia's,
31:42she goes out,
31:43she finds a guy
31:44and then she takes him
31:45back to a VIP room.
31:47I know they're both entertainment,
31:50they're both stripping,
31:51it's both a transaction
31:51but they're two different things.
31:54And so,
31:55I don't like the thought of Patia
31:56going back to dancing.
31:58Kind of feels like an excuse
31:59just to leave Tasmania.
32:01It's like,
32:02this place sucks,
32:03it's too quiet,
32:04I don't want to be near your family
32:05so I'll just go back
32:07and dance in the US.
32:09Maybe Chris's concerns
32:11are valid.
32:12Maybe Patia
32:13is not going to change.
32:15I just sometimes
32:15don't think that
32:16I'm enough for you.
32:17You are enough.
32:18I know that I'm enough
32:20but sometimes I think
32:22that you're addicted
32:23to that lifestyle,
32:24that easy, fast money
32:26and that's kind of
32:27what I'm scared of
32:27because I retired you
32:29in Thailand
32:30and you were just
32:31completely bored.
32:33I was bored.
32:33All you talked about
32:34the whole time
32:35was going back to dancing.
32:36I did, I did.
32:37I thought I was going to
32:38get a ring there
32:39and you didn't give it to me
32:40and I was like,
32:40you know what,
32:41what's the point?
32:42I'm done.
32:43If you really love me,
32:45you should just stick
32:46by my side
32:46no matter what.
32:49Listen,
32:50part of our problem
32:52in the past
32:52was because you
32:53didn't want to commit.
32:54So once you get a ring,
32:55like everything's
32:56magically going to change,
32:58you're going to become...
32:58It's not going to
32:59magically change,
33:00it's going to make me
33:01feel better.
33:03It's hard to commit to you
33:05if you can't commit
33:07to us being together.
33:08Hey, I want to commit
33:10to us being together.
33:11I love you.
33:11You're not committing,
33:12you're just like
33:13running off to dancing
33:14already.
33:14Put a ring on it.
33:17I want this to work
33:19but Batia's saying
33:21she wants to go back
33:22to the US.
33:23Thailand is kind of
33:24still in the back
33:25of my mind
33:26because she left me.
33:29If things get tough,
33:30is Batia just going
33:31to leave?
33:33I just want to know
33:34that you're going
33:35to stick by me
33:36no matter what.
33:42you marrying him
33:43is the worst idea
33:45you've probably
33:46ever had.
33:47Before,
33:47it looked so bad.
33:49Still is.
33:51In the year
33:52that they've been together,
33:53I think Johnny
33:53has cheated on her.
33:55Probably every week.
33:56Don't hit me with your car.
34:20Please.
34:22Or do.
34:22Bye.
34:27Girls night.
34:29Girls night.
34:34Hi.
34:35Hi.
34:37Hi.
34:38My best friend Maria
34:39is finally back in town
34:40and we're going to get
34:41dinner with our other
34:42friend Kamilah
34:42and I'm so excited
34:43to just have some
34:44girl time.
34:45Hi.
34:46They are my go-to girls
34:51to talk all my
34:52relationship gossips.
34:53They know everything
34:54from the highest high
34:55to like the lowest
34:56low.
34:58Did you guys get wine?
34:59Did you order anything?
35:00I'm not sure.
35:01We already started
35:01with tequila.
35:02Yeah.
35:03Oh.
35:03Between my mom
35:04cutting me off financially
35:06and everything that's
35:07going on with Jonathan,
35:08I think we have a lot
35:10to catch up on.
35:11I actually haven't seen you.
35:12This is so funny.
35:13And the last time I saw you,
35:14I barely saw you.
35:15You were six,
35:16so I-
35:17And then my phone broke.
35:18I got a new phone.
35:19Do you have a plan
35:20in Aruba?
35:20No.
35:21Oh, wow.
35:22Haven't gone that far.
35:23I got a plan with my mom
35:25now instead of my like
35:26own because she has
35:27the business one
35:28so I can like
35:28internationally
35:29Oh, I have the same.
35:30Roam it up.
35:31I have the same, yeah.
35:32But my mom said,
35:34you know,
35:34I'm not going to keep,
35:35you know,
35:36financing your journey.
35:39She's like,
35:40I'm not like,
35:41which is understandable.
35:42But now it's like
35:44if my mom's
35:45not going to help me out.
35:47We can't keep going
35:47to dinner every single night
35:49like we were
35:50when I was here,
35:51which is thousands
35:52and thousands of dollars
35:53at this point.
35:55Can Jonathan give you that?
35:58No.
35:59No.
35:59He can't give me,
36:00he cannot give me
36:01the financial aspect
36:01that I'm used to.
36:02He can't.
36:03No.
36:04And he knows that.
36:05It's going to be
36:05a lot harder.
36:07Are you willing
36:08to risk that?
36:10It's a lot.
36:11It's going to take
36:12a lot of work.
36:13I'm okay with that.
36:15I want to do that
36:16because I know
36:17at the end of the day
36:17like I do want
36:18to be happy with him.
36:20I want us to work.
36:21How long has it been?
36:22Not even a year or a year?
36:25It's been a year almost now.
36:26You have love goggles on.
36:27It's going to be a year.
36:29You're in the honeymoon phase.
36:31I wish that you
36:32would rip him off your face.
36:33It's like I want us to work.
36:37I want to build
36:38something together.
36:39I want a work permit.
36:41So we went to our
36:42first appointment
36:43with an immigration lawyer.
36:44What happened?
36:46Well, the easiest way
36:49for me to be legal
36:50is to get married.
36:59Do you want to marry him?
37:00I do.
37:01I really do.
37:04Chloe, no.
37:06You marrying him
37:07is the worst idea
37:10you've probably ever had
37:11in your life.
37:13You see yourself long term
37:15settling down with him.
37:16But you find out
37:17about a random girl
37:18every single week.
37:20He wants a relationship
37:21while he's out cheating.
37:24Remember that day
37:25that we were at Clubhouse
37:28and he said he was
37:29at work all day
37:29and his co-workers
37:30were like,
37:31Jonathan didn't work today.
37:33It wasn't his location
37:35at Jolly Pirates
37:36because Kainer has his phone.
37:38Because Kainer has his phone.
37:40And covers his name.
37:43There's definitely been
37:44a few other times
37:45where I've questioned
37:46where Jonathan was,
37:48what he was doing,
37:49where I thought
37:50something was going on.
37:51But a lot of the times
37:52I couldn't prove it.
37:54So I understand
37:55their side
37:56but I feel like
37:57since I've been here
37:58that Jonathan
37:59is being faithful.
38:01I feel like
38:02before it looked so bad.
38:05Like it was bad.
38:06Before.
38:07You see you're making
38:08an excuse for him.
38:09Again.
38:10I don't want to make
38:10so bad.
38:11It was bad.
38:13Still is.
38:15I think we're moving
38:16in a better direction.
38:18Like I think we've had growth
38:20but no.
38:21Like our...
38:22So he has been cheating?
38:24Lately?
38:24No.
38:25What's changed?
38:27I mean...
38:28Is he just lying better?
38:29Khloe has talked about
38:33marrying Johnny before
38:34but I never thought
38:36it was actually serious
38:37because everybody
38:39on the island knows
38:40that Johnny
38:40has a reputation
38:42with girls.
38:43He's proud to have
38:44a lot of girls on him.
38:46I think it feeds his ego.
38:48In the year
38:48that they've been together
38:49I think Johnny
38:50has cheated on her.
38:51Probably every week.
38:54You know what he's doing.
38:55You know what he's doing.
38:57You know?
38:57Like...
38:57Are you willing
38:59to put up with that?
39:00Is this...
39:01Right.
39:02So this is the person
39:03you want to marry.
39:05What I am baffled about
39:07is that you're just
39:08okay with what he says.
39:10Okay.
39:11I love you.
39:12I want to marry you.
39:14How about you
39:14don't cheat on me?
39:17What would it take
39:18for you to be like
39:20okay, actually
39:21I'm going to take
39:22my best friend's advice,
39:23my mom's advice,
39:24everybody else's advice
39:25that this is a bad idea.
39:27If something were to happen
39:29I would pack my
39:31so fast.
39:33Just prepare yourself.
39:34That's all I'm saying.
39:42Next time on
39:4390 Day Fiancé
39:44The Other Way.
39:45We're going to play?
39:45We're going to play?
39:46We're going to play?
39:47Even if you work for a pool,
39:48you have to take time for a moment.
39:51Hearing from Anthony
39:52and from my mother
39:54if you focus too much
39:55on a career.
39:56The thing is like
39:57we still need to provide
39:58and pay the bills.
39:59We're not rich.
40:01How are you doing?
40:10Good.
40:11This is Madeleine.
40:12Hi, Madeleine.
40:13Madeleine
40:14calling the wedding off
40:15three, four times.
40:16I mean,
40:16that's not a very good
40:17indicator
40:18going into a marriage.
40:21You're going to be
40:21marrying my son
40:22but the three weeks
40:23that he's been here
40:24it's a f***ing time.
40:27Is this really
40:28what you want?
40:31You haven't really changed
40:32doing what you do.
40:34I didn't do anything.
40:35It's just a matter of time
40:37until he just does it again.
40:38Like, it's a habit.
40:39You didn't physically
40:40do anything.
40:41Exactly.
40:41You should not have
40:42messaged another girl.
40:44I didn't have
40:44not seen another girl.
40:46I'm not getting into this.
40:48I just feel like
40:52it's one thing
40:53after another.
40:54Your mom is complaining
40:55about how I do things.
40:58I can't live like this.
40:59I knew that it's
41:00going to be hard for Jenny
41:01because my mom
41:02has a list of expectations
41:04for everybody in the house.
41:07I can't take this anymore.
41:13There's no making
41:14this woman happy.
41:19Someone needs to
41:20put her in her place.
41:20You don't want to do it.
41:22You're saying
41:23what you're saying.
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