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00:00Oh, God, she kicked my ass in Dennis.
00:04I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo.
00:07Oh, you're joking.
00:08No.
00:09Every day, you have to talk to your mom.
00:11It's ridiculous.
00:13Oh, if you're worried about that,
00:14why are you worried about your $20,000 debt that you have?
00:17Things are clearly not going well,
00:19and there's something that I need to talk to Dylan about,
00:22and I think it might make it worse.
00:26How long would it take if we did file the partnership
00:29papers for me to be able to work?
00:32Eight to seven months.
00:34Yeah, it's a long time.
00:35That's a long time.
00:36If you're married, there's no problem.
00:39Jonathan and I have talked about getting married,
00:41but there is no way that it was going to be as soon as tomorrow.
00:46Well, I think at the end of the day,
00:47it's something to think about so we can be together in the end.
00:53I don't think I love you anymore.
00:59Nothing could have prepared me for those words.
01:02That's the saddest part.
01:04There was no fight.
01:05No.
01:07Your fight's just begun, sir.
01:08I think you should have a talk with her.
01:11Oh, my God, let's get out of here.
01:14Oh, my God, let's get out of here.
01:15Oh, my God, let's get out of here.
01:19This is not the way I want to start my weekend wedding.
01:23I feel dizzy and weird.
01:27I told you so many times we even be careful when we have sex.
01:31Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
01:33Yes, and I have a text.
01:35I don't know, but I'm not scared.
01:46Maybe we could take a look at the possibilities.
02:05After tennis, Batia and I had a big fight
02:10about my relationship with my mum.
02:12I don't want the constant stress and the arguments,
02:15so I told her I can sort of meet her halfway with some boundaries,
02:19but my mum's going to be a part of our lives,
02:23so Batia needs to stop letting it get to her so much, you know?
02:28G'day, mate.
02:30How you going?
02:31How the bloody hell are you?
02:32Well, a long time no see.
02:34It's a strong hand trick, you've got their balance.
02:41After you coming, sir.
02:42All right.
02:44Ever since Batia arrived in town, like, every day,
02:47she keeps asking me, when are you going to propose?
02:50G'day, guys.
02:51I'm here to get a ring polished.
02:53Certainly.
02:54So today I'm going with my buddy Chris to a jewellery store
02:58to get the engagement ring that I gave Batia shined up
03:02so that when I'm ready to propose, it looks brand new.
03:07Beautiful.
03:08You like that, do you?
03:09Family allure?
03:10Eh, not quite.
03:12He did actually give it to his partner.
03:17Yes.
03:17Before, and then he took it back.
03:19That's right, yeah.
03:22It's a complicated relationship.
03:25The first time I proposed to Batia, it was very lacklustre.
03:29You know, we were in bed.
03:30It was Christmas morning and I just slipped the ring on her finger
03:33and she said yes.
03:35I mean, I feel like that's got a bit of history behind it.
03:38Are you sure you don't want to look at other rings?
03:40No, I don't.
03:41There is so much history and so many memories.
03:44So, like, it still has a sentimental value.
03:47I definitely don't want to trade it in.
03:49You don't want to trade it in?
03:50Definitely not.
03:51Perfect.
03:52And then give it a clean and polish.
03:56Perfect.
03:57Go grab a coffee.
03:58Alright.
03:59After I proposed, we'd be breaking up every three or four weeks.
04:05And, um, at one point Batia's spending got so bad, she started selling all her jewellery
04:12just to fund her shopping habit.
04:14And I thought, she's going to pawn that.
04:17So, I took the ring back.
04:20She saw that as, you know, we're no longer engaged, which is fair enough.
04:24Okay, so the ring.
04:27Yes.
04:28Ten years ago, you gave her the ring.
04:30And you've been holding on to that ring ever since.
04:33Yeah.
04:34You haven't proposed to her again?
04:36No, because I'm trying to fix all these issues.
04:41I don't know, 12 years.
04:42I feel like if you haven't fixed something after 12 years, how many more years is it going
04:46to take for you to fix?
04:49I'm not giving up.
04:52Hmm, okay.
04:54I'm just worried about the personality clash.
04:56You lived together in Thailand.
04:57Yes.
04:58So what happened there?
04:59Why, why did that not work out?
05:01In the beginning, it was magical.
05:04And then after a while, she was miserable, I wasn't giving her enough money, and she just,
05:10she just hated it.
05:14I just thought she would be happy living that life, that retired beach lifestyle.
05:20But she, that wasn't enough for her.
05:23And her life has been fast paced.
05:28Fast money, fast living.
05:30How is she going to be happy here?
05:32Long term.
05:33Honestly, think about that.
05:35She's in a foreign country.
05:37She's got no family or friends here.
05:39She's just going to be happy hanging around in Launceston.
05:44But the thing is, there's a certain limit.
05:47You can't do that all your life.
05:49She's approaching an age.
05:51An age.
05:52Yeah, sure.
05:53She's getting older.
05:54She can't live that fast paced life forever.
05:56I don't know.
05:57Once you're used to something, it's, it's hard to, um, to change.
06:02You know, I've known Dylan always to be pretty stubborn.
06:06Like he won't change what he eats, for example.
06:08It's only chicken and rice.
06:09I tried to get him to eat a cookie, wouldn't even eat a cookie.
06:11I mean, he's pretty stubborn.
06:12He won't, he won't change anything.
06:14So I'm worried that Dylan's stubbornness is causing him to live in a fantasy and not deal with reality.
06:20I don't think a ring on the finger is going to be the thing that fixes everything.
06:26I love her.
06:28I just can't see myself with anyone else.
06:31I'm not saying you, I'm not saying you.
06:33I'm not even attracted to anyone else.
06:34I just want her.
06:35Alright, look, I'm only saying,
06:38this because I care about you as a friend.
06:42I love Patia.
06:45I know she makes you very happy.
06:47But your idea of happily ever after is a bit delusional.
06:52I don't think you've really thought about the long-term plan.
06:58Chris's concerns are valid.
07:02Patia and I still have a lot of issues to work through.
07:05But I am feeling optimistic about the future with Patia.
07:10She's come to Australia.
07:12She's given it a good go.
07:14And she's trying to resolve things with my mother.
07:17So I think that's massive, really.
07:19I feel like it is different now.
07:21Think about it.
07:22Think about it.
07:23I'm confused.
07:46I'm confused are you telling me that you're pregnant right now I can't be
07:55holy this stresses me out right now you don't know who is stressful I would
08:02scare I stressful I am I didn't expect you to say that you actually think that
08:10you're pregnant stability is the only thing that I really ever wanted I'm talking about you don't
08:30give it to me so how we gonna to get a children to the war when you and me fighting all the time
08:37when you seen of me like how I hope that we can work on this relationship but right now I'm not
08:44confident that we're working we talked yesterday hey like are we compatible can we not fight and
08:50all we've done is continue to fight who made the fight today I didn't try and fight today I said
08:57please I don't want to argue do you want to go try this no leave me alone I want to know
09:11no see
09:17you think I happen like in other situations I should be be happy you look at me happy please try and be
09:36happy about this please can we take you think I am like you're gonna change the almost you're so
09:40easy like how I couldn't be happy if I am two days to supposedly get married if you are pregnant
09:49and we're gonna have a baby then this means that we're having a family masculine
09:58can we please take this test no please please medley
10:15I am not ready to get the text but it's something like I have to do
10:33I need to know what is going on
10:37this is a good opportunity for you to show me that you're ready to really take a serious step if
10:50you wouldn't put a ring on my finger today in a sense you're not in love with me like you're in
10:54love it's also an idea I feel like this is a test if I'm actually wife material or not
11:00you broke his heart you might think it's done with he wonders whether you just need some time
11:30it's been a few days since Jonathan and I have met with the lawyers and found out that the fastest
11:42and easiest way for me to stay here is to get married and we're still kind of processing that
11:47information I don't think your leg can support me oh really come on I've been eating a lot yeah I
11:54want to step on your shoe let's go oh I thought giving up everything and moving to another country
11:59was a lot but adding this on top of it is like bang do we miss the sunset or is it just cloudy
12:07it's a bit cloudy today anyway so me and Maria are gonna have meatball night tomorrow
12:12what does meatball night mean are you gonna actually go to a restaurant eat meatballs or are you gonna
12:18like it's just like a girly fun night like it's just where we can just act stupid and be
12:23meatballs go to dinner have a drink okay and be it's one one drink one drink have a drink Maria is my
12:34best friend on the island Jonathan doesn't like when I go out with Maria because we like to drink
12:41we like to be stupid we like to randomly karaoke we like to like climb palm trees and just do really
12:48harmless things with that being said if I'm being unrealistic about something that happened with
12:55Jonathan Maria is always the one to reel me in and be like don't put up with it and I think that makes
13:01Jonathan a little nervous I don't know where we're gonna go to dinner yet maybe one of our go-to spots
13:08yeah well we'll find a spot where we can go dinner well I think me and Maria are just gonna go to dinner
13:16and then I'm not gonna go that's why it's a meatball night oh we were gonna invite you afterwards mm-hmm
13:26well no I don't I don't want you to be like worried about it you know I know but I have a lot of worries
13:32when Maria is here because when you guys get together it's a real get together you know I mean
13:38you guys go all out yeah but I think I've chewed out a lot Maria I met a few years back we had the
13:46same friends you know we'd hang out sometimes when I introduced Chloe they clicked automatically it was
13:52like the next day Chloe was telling me I'm gonna hang out with Maria every day now the thing about
13:57Maria is that she works abroad so when she comes to Ruby she only wants to look for party you know and
14:02I don't like that at all now that you know you're living here in the island and stuff this is a good
14:08opportunity for you to show me that you're mature and ready to really take a serious step I'm not
14:16gonna go out and you know go dance on top of the bar and you know be crazy like that's not something
14:21that's respectable from either of our parts like I wouldn't do that I just don't want you to want to
14:26change like so much about me to the point where like like if you wouldn't put a ring on my finger
14:32today in a sense you're not in love with me like you're in love with also an idea of what like the
14:38future can look like when you have to be okay with me now also okay it's just um I'm used to you
14:48when you're going out going heavy you know what I mean right and I think that's more vacation mode
14:52okay so just I want to see how this mode's gonna be okay so this is the opportunity to show me like
14:57what kind of mode you're in okay okay I know Jonathan doesn't like that I like to go out and have
15:06drinks but I feel like this is more of a test if I'm actually wife material or not now that we're
15:12talking about it more and more I can't really tell if Jonathan wants this or not so he's throwing up all
15:17these little little roadblocks and like high obstacles that I can't jump over to stall the
15:24process you're gonna let me live a little okay understood just don't go too crazy okay I'm not gonna
15:31go too crazy I'm still a little crazy you are very crazy I'm not one to ten nine I wouldn't say that
15:38What would you say about you? What would you say about that? Ten. You're so bad.
15:53Searching for the star. Searching for the star.
15:59I was able to fall asleep but I did wake up a few times I was just kind of like spiraling about
16:23everything that happened. The other night I ended my engagement with Matthew and slipping the engagement
16:34ring off my finger made the breakup feel very real to me and I am filled with immense sadness because
16:45an engagement is a promise and I am breaking a promise and that doesn't feel very good Matthew's dad has
16:54texted me and wants to talk with me I feel really nervous about it because I don't know how he feels
17:02about the breakup it's going to be difficult because I know it's going to be emotional but I really do hope
17:10that the conversation ends amicably. Matthew's parents were so excited for me to move
17:19and to join the family and it really makes me feel guilty.
17:40Hi Greta. Good work. How are you? I'm okay. How are you? Okay. I'm sorry. You have to be sorry about it.
17:51I just thought we'd just catch up with each other because obviously a lot's happened and I just want to try
17:58and find out what where you are because I can't understand what's happened and I'm struggling to put it together.
18:08Matthew isn't. Matthew isn't. I've never seen him like it, Greta. And I'm worried about him because
18:17he loves you. I know. He does. And you broke his heart, Greta. Literally.
18:25And that's like the worst part about it all and that's why I was like struggling so much because like I like really don't want to hurt him because it's so difficult to explain.
18:39I did love him so much. And I was so excited to talk to him all the time. I was so excited to see him. And so I'm confused like why I don't like feel like I love him. Like in love with him.
18:56Is that because you've had so much happening in the last last few months? You forgot how to live almost haven't you? Because you've been studying, studying, studying, studying, studying.
19:05I mean, I know that there was a shift because I felt like we were not evolving into people that were still compatible with each other. And and I wish like I could change my feelings.
19:23Like he's a great person. Like he like I respect him so much. He's like helped me so much in life. Like I truly just like only want him to be happy.
19:33He wonders whether you just need some time because you don't forget you just traveled across halfway over the world. You've probably not slept properly.
19:41He's prepared to give you your time in your space. Yeah.
19:44What worries me is that you've not had time together. You've not not been on your own.
19:49So, yeah, you might think that, yeah, it's done. And you say it is. But let's be honest, it's only been four days.
19:55This has not been given a chance to go any further because I know it seems like sudden.
20:02And I know this just sounds like crazy, but I just know it in my instinct like that guy like he's not my person.
20:10Such a shame, you know.
20:14And like my honest truth, which like you can accept or not. I just like, no, I can't make him happy.
20:23And I just like hate that I did this to you guys and you guys like welcomed me with open arms.
20:28Like it really meant the world to me. Like, thank you because.
20:32We loved you, Greta. Yeah.
20:36We really thought a lot of you.
20:43I do think I've got clarity from Greta. I don't think there's any hope for Matthew and Greta at this stage.
20:51I don't understand it. I can see she's rationalizing it in her mind why she's doing it and she's justifying it.
20:59But I'm the one who's got to pick up the pieces with my son.
21:04Matthew's always loved you. And he always probably will for a long time still to come.
21:10Just wish I had a different ending.
21:12Yeah.
21:19I'm nerding my life. Take a dex of Brena.
21:25We're struggling to cross the finish line on us getting married, let alone starting a family together.
21:32I'm really so scared.
21:42I'm never in my life. Take a dex of Brena.
21:55And I never think you're gonna have to be.
21:59I'm never in my life. Take a dex of Brena.
22:04I'm never in my life. Take a dex of Brena.
22:09And I never think you're gonna have to be like this.
22:20I'm scared of this.
22:22I mean, we're struggling to cross the finish line on us getting married, let alone starting a family together.
22:28What do you want to be?
22:53Honestly, I think, like, right now, the right time for us to have a baby? Probably not.
23:01But it's something that I want with you.
23:03You are the person that I want to be the mother of my children because I love you.
23:09And I think that you would be a very good mom, whether it's now or in five years.
23:14It's not gonna change how I feel.
23:24What does this mean?
23:30Usually, this says pregnant or not pregnant. A smile or a sad face or something.
23:35This says one line. What does one line mean?
23:40Negative.
23:41This is negative?
23:42That is the result.
23:45But you should be crying. You don't cry.
23:54That you're negative or positive?
23:57Negative.
24:00It doesn't change how I feel.
24:03I love you and I want this relationship to work.
24:06Yeah, me too. But in the same way, I don't trust you in anything and I'm really so scared.
24:16I just want you to be happy.
24:19And I don't know that I can make you happy. I try really hard. And I feel like I fail all the time.
24:25You try so hard.
24:26But what about the conversation today?
24:28The lot of the other we're talking about, we share too.
24:33This is gonna be my name.
24:35Okay.
24:37Like, one day, we're gonna have to share everything. We have a company together. We have business together. Everything.
24:44And later, no, I don't wanna share anymore. The company is both of us.
24:49And you mind everything is money.
24:58I don't care about money.
25:01Other than the fact that...
25:02Don't!
25:03Other than...
25:04Every single day mention money. Every single day mention,
25:07No, you don't push any money in this project.
25:10You don't pay anything.
25:12You never bother me.
25:14I value everything that you do.
25:16But the fact of the matter is, I try as much as I can to provide for you.
25:22And if you would let me be a man and make manly decisions, I'd really appreciate it.
25:32I don't ask much of you. Just let me do what I need to do to make our dreams a reality.
25:46I know I am not perfect. I know I am a difficult person. And I know I have so many things to do well.
26:01But I just love everything you've been doing for me.
26:04But at the end of the day, I really love you, Luke.
26:11I know you do.
26:15And I love you more.
26:16One of my biggest problems in this relationship is always he show me I don't kind of trust him in anything.
26:29So, I really push so hard to push my name on, like, the property.
26:35Because I don't know if in the future he gonna have to change the woman or change me.
26:39And what are they gonna have to do?
26:42But when I tell him, maybe I think I get pregnant.
26:46And he reacts like, no, I really want a family with you.
26:50It may make me more comfortable about everything's gonna have to be good.
26:54And I need to trust him.
26:58I just want you to be happy.
27:02And I'd like for us to be happy together.
27:04Damn.
27:19This is not the first night we met.
27:20I know.
27:22Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
27:23Absolutely.
27:25If I'm being honest after being here, sometimes I miss it.
27:28I want to go back home for, like, six months and dance.
27:33That deck off.
27:34You only just got here.
27:35You only just got here.
28:04Alrighty.
28:05Look at that.
28:07I've been here a couple of weeks and I've been complaining about how there's nothing to do here.
28:12But tonight Dylan's taking me to a strip club.
28:17I'm excited because that's more my vibe.
28:20I had no idea Tasmania had a strip club.
28:23There's nightlife here in Tasmania.
28:25Something that's open past 10.
28:27OMG.
28:28You think you can do that?
28:29Exactly not.
28:30Good night.
28:31This is even like the first night we met.
28:33I know, right?
28:34Except you're wearing a little bit less than what you're wearing now.
28:35I know more clothing.
28:36I know.
28:37This is awesome.
28:38It's a great club.
28:39G'day, g'day.
28:40Hey, beautiful.
28:41Oh my gosh, she's hot.
28:42She's definitely good with the pole.
28:43You're loving this, aren't you?
28:44I do.
28:45Giving your elements.
28:46This is the happiest I've seen you since we got here.
28:47Shut up.
28:48Seriously.
28:49I have everything we've done.
28:50Yeah, babe.
28:51You know why I love it?
28:52It's because this is my love.
28:53I know.
28:54I know.
28:55I know.
28:56I know.
28:57I know.
28:58I know.
28:59I know.
29:00I know.
29:01I know.
29:02I know.
29:03I know.
29:04I know.
29:05I know.
29:06I know.
29:07This is awesome.
29:08It's a great club.
29:09G'day, g'day.
29:10Hey, beautiful.
29:11Oh my gosh, she's hot.
29:12She's definitely good with the pole.
29:14Yeah, babe.
29:15You know why I love it?
29:16Why?
29:17Tell me.
29:18This is my life.
29:19I've been doing it for 37 years.
29:20It's like my second home.
29:21You know what it's like to perform.
29:22I love it.
29:23You feel good.
29:24Yes.
29:25You get all the, you know, the compliments is awesome.
29:27It's just an adrenaline rush.
29:29Yes, exactly.
29:30Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
29:33Absolutely.
29:34Why?
29:35Well, even though, you know, you were happy doing it and it lit you up, it's still not
29:40my favorite thought to have you dancing naked for other guys.
29:44It's not my favorite thing.
29:46But you know it's just work.
29:49Yeah, I'd rather you do a different job.
29:53I get that he doesn't like me being around other men, but it's just a job and the money
29:58is fantastic.
29:59And if I'm being honest after being here, sometimes I miss it.
30:03It's going to be hard for me not making this kind of money.
30:08You know, I'm going to be totally relying on you.
30:12Yeah.
30:14It makes, it scares me sometimes.
30:17I'm just going to have to look at, you know, some of the luxuries that you enjoy in Dallas.
30:22You know, all the online shopping and the excessive spending, that's just going to have to stop.
30:28Do you worry about the financial stuff?
30:31You're worried about the money, the debt.
30:34So, I just think I want to go back to the States, home for like six months and dance that debt off.
30:45Then you won't have to worry about paying that off.
30:47Would you be okay with that?
30:51I don't like that thought, love.
30:53You only just got here and you're talking about leaving and going back to dancing.
30:57To be honest, I know that it's fun for you and I dance too.
31:03But like, I don't dance in a champagne room with just me and another person.
31:09No.
31:10I work with another girl.
31:11I'm not on stage.
31:12But I work with another girl.
31:13It's always me and another girl.
31:14Okay.
31:15Well, sometimes you don't.
31:16But the thing is...
31:1790% of the time maybe.
31:18Okay.
31:19Well, 10% you don't.
31:20Very rare.
31:21It bothers me a little bit.
31:22Sorry.
31:23Even though, you know, we're both strippers, it's a very sensitive topic and makes me look
31:32like a hypocrite.
31:33But I feel like it is different in a way.
31:36I'm up on stage with a room full of women.
31:40With Patia's, she goes out, she finds a guy and then she takes him back to a VIP room.
31:46I know they're both entertainment.
31:49They're both stripping.
31:50It's both a transaction.
31:51But they're two different things.
31:53And so I don't like the thought of Patia going back to dancing.
31:57It kind of feels like an excuse just to leave Tasmania.
32:00It's like, this place sucks.
32:02It's too quiet.
32:03I don't want to be near your family.
32:05So I'll just go back and dance in the US.
32:09Maybe Chris's concerns are valid.
32:11Maybe Patia is not going to change.
32:14I just sometimes don't think that I'm enough for you.
32:16You are enough.
32:18I know that I'm enough, but sometimes I think that you're addicted to that lifestyle,
32:23that easy, fast money.
32:25And that's kind of what I'm scared of because I retired you in Thailand and you were just
32:31completely bored.
32:32I was bored.
32:33Maybe all you talked about the whole time was going back to dancing.
32:35I did.
32:36I did.
32:37I thought I was going to get a ring there and you didn't give it to me.
32:40And I was like, you know what?
32:41What's the point?
32:42I'm done.
32:43If you really love me, you should just stick by my side no matter what.
32:48Listen, part of a problem in the past was because you didn't want to commit.
32:54So once you get a ring, like everything's magically going to change, you're going to become...
32:58It's not going to magically change.
33:00It's going to make me feel better.
33:02It's hard to commit to you if you can't commit to us being together.
33:07Hey, I want to commit to us being together.
33:10I love you.
33:11You're not committing.
33:12You're just like running off to dancing already.
33:14Put a ring on it.
33:15I want this to work.
33:16But Patia is saying she wants to go back to the US.
33:22Thailand is kind of still in the back of my mind because she left me.
33:28If things get tough, is Patia just going to leave?
33:31I just want to know that you're going to stick by me no matter what.
33:37You marrying him is the worst idea you've probably ever had.
33:46Before, it looked so bad.
33:48Still is.
33:50In the year that they've been together, I think Johnny has cheated on her.
33:54Probably every week.
33:55Don't hit me with your car.
34:07Please.
34:08Or do.
34:09Bye.
34:10Girl, it's night.
34:11Girl, it's night.
34:12Girl, it's night.
34:13Hey!
34:14Don't hit me with your car, please.
34:22Or do.
34:24Bye.
34:28Girls night.
34:29Girls night.
34:35My best friend Maria is finally back in town
34:40and we're going to get dinner with our other friend Kamilah
34:42and I'm so excited to just have some girl time.
34:45How are you, Pookie?
34:47You look fabulous.
34:49They are my go-to girls to talk all my relationship gossips.
34:53They know everything from the highest high to, like, the lowest low.
34:58Did you guys get wine? Did you order anything?
35:00We're already starting with tequila.
35:02Yeah.
35:03Between my mom cutting me off financially
35:06and everything that's going on with Jonathan,
35:08I think we have a lot to catch up on.
35:11I actually haven't seen you.
35:12This is so funny.
35:13And the last time I saw you...
35:14I barely saw you.
35:15You were six, so I...
35:17And then my phone broke.
35:18I got a new phone.
35:19Do you have a plan in Aruba?
35:20No.
35:21Oh, wow.
35:22Haven't gone that far.
35:23I got a plan with my mom now instead of my, like, own
35:26because she has the business one,
35:28so I can, like, internationally...
35:29Oh, I have the same.
35:30...roam it up.
35:31I have the same, yeah.
35:32But my mom said, you know,
35:34I'm not going to keep, you know,
35:36financing your journey.
35:39She's like, I'm not.
35:40Like, which is understandable.
35:42But now, it's like,
35:44if my mom's not going to help me out,
35:47we can't keep going to dinner
35:48every single night
35:49like we were when I was here,
35:51which is thousands and thousands
35:53of dollars at this point.
35:55Can Jonathan give you that?
35:58No.
35:59No.
35:59He can't give me...
36:00He cannot give me the financial aspect
36:01that I'm used to.
36:02He can't.
36:03No.
36:03And he knows that.
36:05It's going to be a lot harder.
36:07Are you willing to risk that?
36:10It's a lot.
36:11It's going to take a lot of work.
36:13I'm okay with that.
36:15I want to do that
36:16because I know at the end of the day,
36:17like, I do want to be happy with him.
36:20I want us to work.
36:21How long has it been?
36:22Not even a year or a year?
36:24It's been a year almost now.
36:26You have love goggles on.
36:27It's going to be a year.
36:29You're in the honeymoon phase.
36:31I wish I could rip him off your face.
36:33It's like...
36:34I want us to work.
36:37I want to build something together.
36:39I want a work permit.
36:41So we went to our first appointment
36:43with an immigration lawyer.
36:44What happened?
36:46Well...
36:46The easiest way for me to be legal
36:50is to get married.
36:59Do you want to marry him?
37:00I do.
37:01I really do.
37:03Chloe...
37:04Chloe...
37:05No.
37:06You marrying him
37:07is the worst idea
37:10you've probably ever had
37:11in your life.
37:13You see yourself long-term
37:15settling down with him.
37:16But you find out
37:17about a random girl
37:18every single week.
37:19He wants a relationship
37:21while he's out cheating.
37:22I remember that day
37:25that we were at Clubhouse
37:28and he said he was at work all day
37:29and his co-workers were like,
37:31Jonathan didn't work today.
37:34It wasn't his location
37:35at Jolly Pirates
37:36because Kainer has his phone.
37:38Because Kainer has his phone
37:39and covers it.
37:40Because they cover.
37:43There's definitely been
37:44a few other times
37:45where I've questioned
37:46where Jonathan was,
37:48what he was doing,
37:49where I thought something
37:50was going on.
37:51But a lot of the times
37:52I couldn't prove it.
37:54So I understand their side.
37:56But I feel like
37:57since I've been here
37:58that Jonathan is being faithful.
38:01I feel like
38:02before it looked so bad.
38:05Like it was bad.
38:06Before.
38:07You see, you're making
38:08an excuse for him again.
38:10I don't want to make...
38:10It looked so...
38:11No.
38:12It was bad.
38:13Still is.
38:14I think we're moving
38:16in a better direction.
38:18Like I think we've had growth,
38:20but no.
38:21Like our...
38:22So he has been cheating?
38:24Lately, no.
38:25What's changed?
38:27I mean...
38:28Is he just lying better?
38:32Khloe has talked about
38:33marrying Johnny before,
38:34but I never thought
38:36it was actually serious.
38:38Because everybody on the island
38:39knows that Johnny
38:40has a reputation with girls.
38:43He's proud to have
38:44a lot of girls on him.
38:45I think it feeds his ego.
38:48In the year
38:48that they've been together,
38:49I think Johnny
38:50has cheated on her.
38:51Probably every week.
38:54You know what he's doing.
38:55You know what he's doing.
38:57You know, like...
38:57Are you willing
38:59to put up with that?
39:00Is this...
39:01Right.
39:02So this is the person
39:03you want to marry.
39:05What I am baffled about
39:07is that you're just
39:08okay with what he says.
39:10Okay.
39:11I love you.
39:11I want to marry you.
39:14How about you
39:14don't f***ing cheat on me?
39:17What would it take
39:18for you to be like,
39:20okay, actually,
39:21I'm going to take
39:22my best friend's advice,
39:23my mom's advice,
39:24everybody else's advice
39:25that this is a bad idea.
39:28If something were to happen,
39:29I would pack my f***ing so fast.
39:33Just prepare yourself.
39:34That's all I'm saying.
39:35Next time on 90 Day Fiancé,
39:44the other way.
39:45We're going to play?
39:46We're going to play?
39:47Even if you work for a pool,
39:48you have to take time.
39:51Hearing from Anthony
39:52and from my mother,
39:54you focus too much
39:55on career.
39:56The thing is like,
39:57we still need to provide
39:58and pay the bills.
39:59We're not rich.
40:00How are you doing?
40:10Good.
40:11This is Madeline.
40:12Hi, Madeline.
40:13Madeline,
40:14calling the wedding off
40:15three, four times.
40:16I mean,
40:16that's not a very good
40:17indicator going into a marriage.
40:21You're going to be
40:21marrying my son,
40:22but the two weeks
40:23that he's been here,
40:25it's a f***ing joke.
40:27Is this really
40:28what you want?
40:31You haven't really changed
40:32doing what you do.
40:34You haven't done anything.
40:35It's just a matter of time
40:37until he just does it again.
40:38Like, it's a habit.
40:39You didn't physically
40:40do anything.
40:41Exactly.
40:41You should not have
40:42messaged another girl.
40:44I didn't have
40:44messaged another girl.
40:46I'm not getting into this.
40:51I just feel like
40:52it's one thing after another.
40:54Your mom is complaining
40:55about how I do things.
40:58I can't live like this.
40:59I knew that it's going
41:00to be hard for Jenny
41:01because my mom
41:02has a list of expectations
41:04for everybody in the house.
41:07I can't take this anymore.
41:13There's no making
41:14this woman happy.
41:19Someone needs to put her
41:20in her place.
41:20What do you want to do?
41:21What do you want to do?
41:22Who are you talking about?
41:23Who are you talking about?
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