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00:00The bees are head-butting me.
00:11Yeah, they're not happy we're here.
00:14Come in to the grand foyer.
00:17Which is also our living room, which is also our bedroom,
00:19which is also our .
00:20I mean, is that, yeah.
00:21Is this a PG program?
00:23No, don't do.
00:25We try to put Gokhan in his crib,
00:28but he ends up in our bed.
00:32He's kicking us.
00:33He's crying.
00:35And we can't be intimate.
00:37We really need to change our sleeping ranges.
00:40Why?
00:41I'm tired of not having a sex life.
00:44I hate you grabbing my ass on your finger.
00:48I would like it if you didn't have your stupid ex-wife's
00:52initials on your finger, bro.
00:54I'm just going to, like, chop it off at this point.
00:57For the nipples, the scar goes around the areola.
00:59You can't ever guarantee that you won't get hypo
01:02or hypersensitivity.
01:04There are a lot of risks that go into getting
01:07your boobs reducted.
01:09I could lose nipple sensation, have an ugly scar,
01:13or maybe be lopsided.
01:15Oh, my God, I'm getting anxious.
01:17I see this.
01:18Hmm.
01:20I feel like Siyad is completely withdrawing from me
01:31and this marriage, and it just makes me really suspicious,
01:35especially after finding him with another woman.
01:37I was kind of hoping we could enjoy having a Saturday off
01:40together.
01:41Yeah.
01:41How'd you get them?
01:43Are we?
01:50Yeah.
01:51I feel good, baby.
01:52I feel great.
01:53I ain't got so much on my plate.
01:55We're going to have a good day.
01:57Hey, we are getting ready to go to jiu-jitsu.
01:59Yes.
02:00Are you excited?
02:01I'm a little nervous.
02:02Oh, my gosh.
02:03She's so excited.
02:04All right.
02:05My name's Chantel.
02:06I'm 34 years old, and I'm from Atlanta, Georgia.
02:10Now introduce yourself.
02:11You have to do this, too, now.
02:13Okay.
02:14Hey, I'm Ashley.
02:15I'm 35 years old, and I'm from Wadawi, Alabama.
02:18Let me grab the door while you hold the camera.
02:20Aw, thank you.
02:21Yeah, yeah, yeah.
02:22Sweetie.
02:23So excited for this.
02:24All right.
02:25Hi.
02:26Hi.
02:26How are you?
02:27Doing well.
02:28Good.
02:29We've been trying to find a hobby that's for couples,
02:31and we can do it together.
02:33So Ashley suggested that we do jiu-jitsu.
02:37So I've been in jiu-jitsu for about a year,
02:39and I took some time off, but now I'm getting back to it.
02:42Couples hobby.
02:43Yay.
02:44Are you excited for this?
02:45Are you ready?
02:46I am nervous.
02:47I'm nervous.
02:48My 90-day journey began with my ex-husband, Pedro.
02:53Pedro moved to the US on the K-1 visa, and we got married.
02:58I pronounce that they are husband and wife.
03:02All right.
03:03You may kiss your bride.
03:10But after seven years of marriage, we divorced because our families just couldn't get along.
03:15Divorciate, punto.
03:16Suéltalo.
03:17You just call me a bitch.
03:19Yes.
03:21You are a whore, and you will not disrespect me like this today.
03:25Good night.
03:27After my divorce, I was living my best life, and that's when Ashley told me that she had romantic feelings for me.
03:34I'm so happy.
03:35I've never been with a woman before, but it was something that I was open to exploring.
03:42We soon fell in love, and a couple of months ago, Ashley moved in with me.
03:47I hope that there's enough room for all of this stuff.
03:51I hope so, too, because I kind of have more energy.
03:54Oh, my God.
03:55I love waking up to her and falling asleep to her.
03:58I love it.
03:59Aw, baby.
04:00So sweet.
04:01So sweet.
04:02All right.
04:03So we're going to start our class with self extension.
04:07Someone might try to grab your leg on and drag you out.
04:11She's going to break your rib towards my cup.
04:14So I've been working towards a blue belt.
04:17I don't know the difference between a green belt, a yellow belt, a blue belt.
04:21The only kind of belt that I know about is a Prada belt.
04:24Seriously?
04:25A Gucci belt.
04:26A Louis belt.
04:27I'm going to pair you guys up.
04:30I'm going to pair you up.
04:31I'm going to pair you up.
04:32I'm going to pair you up.
04:33I'm going to pair you up.
04:34I'm going to pair you up.
04:35I'm going to pair you up.
04:36Hold hard.
04:37Hold like you're going to drag her.
04:38You're the bad guy.
04:39Bad guy.
04:40Drag her to the ground.
04:41Perfect.
04:43I didn't know that this was going to be this aggressive.
04:46I'm supposed to make it happen for her.
04:48I mean, I thought we were just going to do a little wax on, wax off, like Karate Kid.
04:57But we are throwing each other around.
05:00There you go.
05:01Back.
05:02This is like football without the football.
05:07Well, thank you so much for the class today.
05:16Are you excited?
05:17Yeah, I'm excited.
05:19But my back is killing me.
05:21My boobs have gotten so big over the years.
05:26And they've been causing me a lot of back pain and shoulder pain, headaches, migraines.
05:32When I first started my 90 day journey, my breasts were a double D.
05:37And now I'm currently at a L.
05:40That's halfway through the alphabet.
05:44I'm excited.
05:45I'm a little nervous.
05:46Baby, I'm nervous for you.
05:47I know.
05:48I've had big boobs since...
05:49It's pregnant.
05:50I'm excited.
05:51I'm a little nervous.
05:52I'm excited.
05:53I'm a little nervous.
05:54Baby, I'm nervous for you.
05:55I know.
05:56I've had big boobs since...
05:59It's pregnant.
06:00Everybody online always thinks that these are fake and these are implants.
06:09But these are real and they're a real pain in my back.
06:13So I'm looking into a breast reduction surgery so that I can live a more pain-free life.
06:20With smaller breasts, I'll be able to participate in jujitsu better.
06:27Maybe compete.
06:29Really?
06:30I do.
06:31Another nice thing about getting the breast reduction is I'm looking forward to not being
06:38perceived sexually in some situations.
06:41Yeah.
06:42My boobs are so big that people stare at them and point at them and make all kinds of comments.
06:50Like, oh, they're so big and so fake and why would she do that to her own body?
06:56And it hurts my feelings and it makes me feel so self-conscious.
07:01And I just want to be comfortable in my own skin.
07:05Let's do this thing.
07:07I got your phone.
07:09Great.
07:15Okay, here we go.
07:17How heavy is this compared to my actual breasts?
07:21This is lighter.
07:22You think that's lighter?
07:23Yeah, it's way lighter.
07:24Put the other one on there.
07:26That's still lighter.
07:27Are you kidding me?
07:28Shut up.
07:29I'm going to see Dr. Deal, who did an amazing job removing my birthmark last year.
07:39Wow.
07:40I'm so happy.
07:42I'm so happy.
07:43Wow.
07:44Dr. Deal and I have already discussed that I want to get the breast reduction.
07:50So I'm meeting with him so he can go over everything and tell me what the surgery entails.
07:57What's up?
07:58Yo!
07:59What's up?
08:00Hey, Dr. Deal.
08:01Oh, look.
08:02Are we recording here?
08:03I'm sorry.
08:04I didn't even bust in the room.
08:05All right.
08:06Stand up for me.
08:07Let's see this.
08:08Okay.
08:09Imagine.
08:10So you see how they cover up a lot of my torso.
08:13One of the things that I was wanting to achieve is just more of my torso.
08:18Okay.
08:19Um.
08:20Mm-hmm.
08:23For the nipples, you want them about four centimeters above the fold under the breast.
08:27So about right here.
08:28So I'm just going to freehand this.
08:29You really want the nipple about in that position there.
08:32As you can see, the scar goes around the areola.
08:34It goes down the middle.
08:36That's where this comes together.
08:37And that's how the breast gets lifted.
08:39Oh, I still feel it.
08:40I think you have to feel it.
08:43I read that if you get a breast reduction, sometimes your nipple sensation won't come back.
08:49Oh, no.
08:50We got to have those nipples.
08:52We got to be able to feel.
08:54You can't ever guarantee that you won't get both hypo or hypersensitivity, but the majority
09:01of patients do get it to come back at around nine months or so.
09:05The idea that I could lose nipple sensation with my breast reduction or have an ugly scar
09:13or maybe be lopsided is a big risk.
09:16So I am worried that this could end horribly for me.
09:21With the breast reduction, yes, we'll get them to the size you want them to be.
09:26But remember, they'll still have a little bit of a slope on the top when they heal.
09:30Oh, my God.
09:31I'm getting anxious.
09:32I should not see this.
09:33Hmm.
09:34It's okay.
09:35Oh, hey, guys.
09:49Welcome to El Cris.
09:50Come on inside.
09:51To give you guys a little tour.
09:52Look at my fridge now.
09:53And my beers.
09:54Cheers.
09:55Cheers.
09:56How's everybody?
09:57My name is Sinjin.
09:58I'm all the way from South Africa.
09:59I'm 35 years old and I live in beautiful Los Angeles.
10:00My name is Shana.
10:01I'm 27.
10:02I'm from San Diego and I currently live in Los Angeles, California.
10:04Since you last saw us, we moved out of San Diego all the way to L.A. because Shana got a job out here and we're just hoping for the best.
10:23We'll do the whole tour, guys.
10:25Don't blink or you might miss it.
10:27This is our pooper.
10:28With our washer.
10:29The pooper is behind it.
10:31Yeah.
10:32Here, wait.
10:33Very small.
10:34Yeah.
10:35Plus, we have storage.
10:36We have storage.
10:37We have storage.
10:38Peace your eyes.
10:39Oh.
10:41Our definitely not haunted creepy, dark, gross spider demon cabinet.
10:47Tanya!
10:48No.
10:49Tanya, you're in there.
10:50I think she's demoning somewhere else.
10:51She's not there.
10:52Thank the Lord.
10:54My 90 day journey began when Tanya flew all the way to South Africa, met me in a local bar over there, you know?
11:01She's like, oh, this is a cute guy.
11:02Let's have sex.
11:03She looks beautiful even when she wakes up in the morning.
11:06Aw, baby.
11:07Supposed to be a one night thing.
11:09But then we ended up falling in love.
11:11I literally applied for the K-1 visa.
11:14Got here.
11:15Yes!
11:16Oh, my God.
11:17Got to get married in 90 days.
11:20Got married on day 89.
11:22I hereby pronounce you husband and wife.
11:26You may kiss the bride!
11:27Yeah!
11:28Yeah!
11:29Yeah!
11:31After me and Tanya were married, she told me that I'm not her true soulmate.
11:35And that, for me, just kind of was the beginning of the end of the relationship.
11:39This will be for the best, you know?
11:42Um...
11:43Are we getting divorced or are we getting separated?
11:45What do we even do?
11:46I think it's the same thing.
11:47No, I mean, separation, you're still legally married, you're separated.
11:50Yeah, but there's no point in them being married if you're separated.
11:56Sorry, baby.
11:59And now I'm sitting next to an even more beautiful girl.
12:03So I would say I win.
12:05Yeah, yeah.
12:06I slid in those DMs probably a little prematurely.
12:09I think you were still married.
12:10I was still still married.
12:11Sorry.
12:12Sorry.
12:13Sorry.
12:14Sorry.
12:15He was hot.
12:16There she is, everybody.
12:18We fell in love very quickly.
12:20We did distance for almost a year.
12:23Eventually, I wore him down.
12:25And now we're three and a half years later living in LA, Los Angeles, California, baby.
12:31And then you come in to the grand foyer.
12:35Which is also our living room, which is also our bedroom, which is also our room.
12:38I mean, is that...
12:39Yeah.
12:40This is a PG program.
12:41Come over here and check our toast.
12:43This is our son.
12:46His name is toast.
12:48Come say hello to everyone.
12:50He is like...
12:52Mwah.
12:53A little guy.
12:54At least this child doesn't scream.
12:56I know.
12:57He doesn't scream.
12:58I know, right?
12:59Right?
13:00He doesn't scream every once.
13:01He doesn't, but so do children.
13:02Look.
13:03Day high.
13:04Day high.
13:05Mwah.
13:06Okay, Lise.
13:07Mommy's getting pound towns, so you gotta go away.
13:10You are.
13:11I'll give you the best two minutes of your life, brother.
13:13Oh, wow.
13:14No wachi wachi.
13:15No wachi wachi.
13:16Free for free!
13:24What?
13:25I just...
13:26I hate you grabbing my ass on your finger.
13:30I would like it if you didn't have your stupid ex-wife's initials on your finger, bro.
13:37I don't even want to touch it.
13:39It drives me absolutely crazy.
13:42Me and Tanya spontaneously decided, you know what?
13:46Screw the traditional wedding rings.
13:48Maybe we can do something a little different.
13:50You ready?
13:51As ready as I would be.
13:54Uh-uh.
13:55Okay, that's good.
13:57And, uh, it turned out to be one of the dumbest decisions I've made of my life.
14:02I'm just gonna, like, chop it off at this point.
14:05You know, it just...
14:06There's a lot of pain involved in moving in.
14:08Money as well.
14:09We just getting back on our feet.
14:11Enough with the money, bro!
14:14It's really hard to, like, plan a future and move on and be like,
14:17Oh, yeah, this guy's, like, all into our relationship when you have, like,
14:20your ex-wife's initials literally tattooed on your body.
14:24Just don't worry about it, you know?
14:26The TM stands for, like, Thrustmaster or Tickle Madness.
14:31Oh, my God, stop it.
14:33Okay, this is in hand jail, okay?
14:37It stays over here.
14:38All I got is my right hand.
14:39Yes, okay.
14:40All I need.
14:45Oh, my God.
14:47You know, like, we're leaving in, like, 20 minutes, right?
15:02Please go get dressed.
15:03I hope you so much.
15:04Okay.
15:05You are welcome.
15:08I'm super, super excited.
15:10We're going to a concert.
15:12We're going to party, and it's going to be the best time ever.
15:15You look so cute!
15:17Ta-da!
15:18You know, I love when you get dressed up a little bit.
15:20I think it's adorable.
15:21Does this even count as getting dressed up?
15:23It's just, like, it's not the PJs.
15:25Can I spice you up a little bit?
15:27I'll do a little glitter, but no lipstick and stuff like that.
15:30You can...
15:34I know, it's been...
15:35I forgot about that.
15:36I honestly forget too.
15:37I forget too long, Lacey.
15:39Still there.
15:40I actually have not one, but two tattoos that I got for Sinjin.
15:45I got a little S on my wrist, and I thought it was safe.
15:48You know, maybe it means Shayna.
15:50Maybe it means Sinjin.
15:51Maybe it means stupid.
15:53So, which I would have been if we broke up, but we didn't.
15:56And then I thought it would be hilarious to get his name tattooed in my mouth.
16:01So, I have that now.
16:04Very sexy, by the way.
16:06I would love it if you got my name tattooed on you.
16:11It doesn't have to be big, giant letters on your chest,
16:14even though, you know, that would be nice.
16:16Could be something subtle.
16:17We could get your lip done.
16:19Honestly, the more I think about it,
16:22the more, you know, his Tanya tattoo, like, really pisses me off.
16:28I have two tattoos of him.
16:30He has zero of me and one of his ex.
16:33And I don't know, it's kind of up.
16:35I don't know. I've, uh...
16:37I don't know. I just, I think that if I get a tattoo of you, it's not going to work out.
16:43I literally have your name tattooed in my mouth, you know?
16:49Yeah.
16:50I feel like I've really shown my commitment to you in a lot of ways.
16:53So, honestly, you have three options.
16:56You can get my name tattooed somewhere.
16:59Um, you can get that thing lasered off once and for all.
17:03Or, which I think is maybe the easiest choice, you can, uh, put a ring right there on this figure.
17:10Those are your choices.
17:12And if not, I kind of don't really know where this relationship's even going.
17:18Maybe I should get a tattoo on my ass.
17:22Then you have to kiss it every time I show it to you.
17:24Kiss the bosom.
17:26It's, that's not what a bosom, do you know what a bosom is?
17:28No.
17:29Bosom is titties.
17:30Oh.
17:31Yeah.
17:32Yeah.
17:33I'm not gonna give up.
17:36I'm not gonna give up.
17:38Who are we?
17:40So, do you know where we're going?
17:42I'm gonna put it in a GPS right now, but...
17:45Okay.
17:46I don't want you to see, so I'm gonna just keep it on my phone.
17:48Okay, just direct me. You'll tell me.
17:49Um...
17:50I have a little surprise today for Shayna.
17:52I'm gonna step up to the plate and do something big.
17:57You know, I'm kind of emotional.
17:59I won't lie.
18:00Like, it's a big step.
18:01But, um...
18:03I'll be honest with you.
18:05I'm gonna actually go and get my tattoo room.
18:09You're joking.
18:10This is where we go.
18:11That's where we're going right now?
18:12We're going right now.
18:13Maybe.
18:14I'm ready for this.
18:15Oh, my God.
18:17You know what?
18:18I've actually thought long and hard about this.
18:21And Shayna has a point, you know.
18:24I can't keep just going around with my ex's name on my wedding finger.
18:29After my divorce, I was in a really dark place and Shayna got me out of it.
18:35She helped me see that there was light in my life and actually helped me love again.
18:40And I know I can't lose her.
18:42I can't lose her.
18:43Hello, everybody.
18:44Hi.
18:45Hi.
18:46So, here we are.
18:47Hi.
18:48Good morning.
18:49Good morning.
18:50Thank you so much.
18:51You know, this is the last thing I have of Tanya.
18:54Once I get this off, I can finally forget about the bad times I had in a relationship.
18:59All the baggage, the hate, the tears, the anger, the frustration.
19:04I get to let it all go.
19:07Hello.
19:08Hello.
19:09Hi.
19:10Hello.
19:11I'm Dr. Dombra.
19:12Nice to meet you guys.
19:13Nice to meet you, I'm Shayna.
19:14Nice to meet you.
19:15Nice to meet you.
19:16Thank you so much for this.
19:17No worries.
19:18Oh, this is a little painful, right?
19:20Maybe it does hurt.
19:21Yeah.
19:22But the good thing is it's a small tattoo.
19:24Yeah.
19:25We'll be over soon.
19:26The doctor's going to use a laser, you know, get rid of the ink.
19:30And it's going to take multiple sessions.
19:33But hey, probably cheaper than therapy, to be honest.
19:37Hey, here we go.
19:39We're ready.
19:42Get started, okay?
19:44Yeah.
19:45Yeah.
19:46It's nice.
19:47Yes.
19:48Yes, yes, yes.
19:49Do it.
19:50Imagine a thousand bees stinging you at the same place.
19:59Oh my god.
20:00Yes.
20:01Is it the initials?
20:02Kind of gone.
20:03Oh my god.
20:04You did so good.
20:05Oh my god.
20:06Oh my god.
20:07You did so good.
20:08Oh my god.
20:09Oh my god.
20:10You did so good.
20:13Oh, painful.
20:15I never thought I would see the day that we finally get this thing off, man.
20:19No, this is the next step.
20:21Oh.
20:22We're taking the next step.
20:23We're taking this step.
20:24Yeah.
20:25And then we'll figure out whatever the next step is.
20:26Yeah, we'll figure it out.
20:27We'll figure it out.
20:28Okay, I'll take it.
20:29Whatever.
20:30We got the ring off.
20:31Maybe we gotta get the ring back on.
20:33So how long until he can get another tattoo on the same side?
20:40That's a good one.
20:41Haha.
20:44Oh my god.
20:45How are we doing?
20:46Here we go.
20:47Where is it?
20:48So I haven't been here in years.
21:03in years. I don't remember where everything is, but I need the hardware stuff.
21:11My name is Rebecca. I am 54 years old and I currently live in Atlanta with my handsome
21:17cousin Ziyeh. My name is Ziyeh. I'm 32 years old. I'm from Tunisia and I live in Georgia
21:25at Atlanta with my beautiful wife Rebecca. You might find the Velcro picture things like
21:32to hang pictures, hanging stuff. Oh, I think this way. Same paper, paper. My daughter-in-law
21:44Laura is in the process of setting up her salon and she asked me to come by later and kind
21:49of help her set everything up and do the decorating. I brought Ziyeh to the hardware store with me
21:58because I need him to help me pick out some supplies. He's my big, sexy, hunky HVAC tech,
22:04especially when he was wearing his school belt.
22:09Oh, no. That's right. Right there. Yeah. Okay. Let's see. Damage-free hanging.
22:16Ziyeh and I met on social media. We kind of fell in love immediately. He made me laugh and
22:23he was definitely very handsome. Oh. Good morning, sexy. I want to kiss you now.
22:34For the first time I saw you, actually, I said, oh, she's beautiful. I want you to be a part
22:40of my life. Aw. Look at you. I ran to Tunisia to meet him for the first time. He was very handsome,
22:49very charming, very charming, and so sweet. So after being in Tunisia for three weeks,
22:58Ziyeh proposed to me.
23:03This is for you. You want my evening?
23:13I'm shaking. You're so perfect. I came home, Ziyeh filed for the K-1 visa, and we got married
23:22right after that. Thank you, I love you. And we've been together ever since.
23:32But I want to get, like, a big pack of it so that we have some to hang other pictures and stuff.
23:38I don't want a hook.
23:43Oh, dear.
23:45I'm sorry.
23:47I'm not going to die.
23:50While sometimes Ziyeh is sweet and romantic and loving, I just find it really annoying that
23:57Ziyeh just randomly starts talking on the phone in Arabic. And I don't know who he's talking to,
24:02what he's saying, and it just makes me really suspicious, especially after finding him with
24:07another woman who he claims was his friend's wife.
24:11Oh, my God. He's with a woman. I'm going to throw up.
24:21See, it doesn't matter why I followed you. I caught you.
24:26I never chased him, dude. You knew this.
24:30You promised me.
24:31I promised you a bit.
24:33Hey.
24:38Can you help me?
24:43Can you help me?
24:44Help you for what? Do you know?
24:46His phone.
24:47Not every day.
24:50The hardest part about him being on the phone talking to God knows who and saying God knows
24:55what is that it makes me feel like I don't matter anymore. And obviously, whoever he's
25:02talking to is way more important than I am.
25:06Yeah, I do.
25:10Thank you. Have a good day.
25:12I feel invisible and I really don't like it.
25:22Honestly, you have spent so much time on the phone lately.
25:25I feel like every time I need to see you or talk to you or want to spend time with you,
25:29all you do is you're on the phone.
25:32I talk with my family or with my friends.
25:39Go, go, go.
25:41Rebecca, she don't trust me and I don't like this. I hate this.
25:46And to be honest, the last Rebecca trust me, the more I'm pushing away.
25:51I'm pushing away.
25:52I was kind of hoping we could have a good day today and be happy and enjoy having a Saturday
25:59off together.
26:00Right together.
26:01Are we?
26:02We are right now together.
26:04Hello.
26:05Hey.
26:06How are you?
26:07How are you?
26:08I'm wonderful.
26:09Let me put my cup down here.
26:11I'm meeting up with my daughter-in-law, Laura, to help her kind of redecorate her home
26:38eyelash and eyebrow studio.
26:41It's good to see you.
26:42Good to see you.
26:43How are you doing?
26:44I'm good.
26:45Yeah.
26:46Laura helped me on that dreadful night where I found Zied with the other woman
26:51and she has been my biggest support system to get me through all of this.
26:56It's been going on.
26:58Oh my God.
26:59It's changed already so much.
27:01You like it?
27:02Yeah.
27:03So where do you want to put the pictures?
27:05Okay.
27:06So I have this one, but then I also have this bigger one and I'm not sure.
27:13It probably needs to be closer this way than that way.
27:18Well, what's the deal with you?
27:20I literally have no idea what's going on with Zied right now.
27:24Um, still?
27:25Yeah.
27:26He is being so incredibly distant, constantly on his freaking phone.
27:35You were having this issue last year too.
27:38Yeah.
27:39He is completely emotionally withdrawn from me.
27:41We do not have the relationship that we used to have where it was just fun.
27:46I remember when we come over, we see it like he's just distant.
27:51He's not attentive.
27:53Like when you asked him for something the other day, it was almost like, yeah.
27:58Yeah.
27:59Yeah.
28:00When it used to be like, yeah, he hasn't been the same.
28:03Okay.
28:04Um, but like Zied is the first relationship I've ever had that has been healthy and happy
28:10and made me believe that there is real love out there.
28:13And honestly, it just, it's never been work.
28:16And in the last year, it has been nothing but work.
28:22Have you ever thought about, like, I know this is probably really not up Zied's lane,
28:27but like couples counseling.
28:30He thinks he's perfectly fine.
28:32But like someone needs to sit him down and be like, what is going on?
28:36Like, what do you want?
28:37What do you need from this relationship?
28:39Yeah.
28:40Even though our marriage is really messed up right now, I still feel like Zied is my soulmate.
28:46I still feel very much in love with him.
28:49And I still believe that this is worth and capable of being fixed.
28:56I need to sit Zied down and explain to him why we need therapy,
29:01because I feel like without it, our marriage will not survive.
29:05You can't be the only one trying.
29:09I know.
29:11We want you to be happy.
29:13I know.
29:14I know.
29:15I know.
29:16I know.
29:17I know.
29:18I know.
29:19We've been doing심 Н
29:34Okay, we're off to check the bees.
29:37I'm Hannah.
29:38I'm forty-four.
29:39And I'm from vilばaw paw, Nebraska.
29:42It's hot today.
29:43This is like perfect weather to check the bees.
29:48I am Marcel.
29:49I am 44 years old.
29:52I am from Turkey.
29:53We are ready, lady.
29:55Let's go, lady.
29:57Marcel and I met through social media,
29:59through a beekeeping group.
30:02We started talking about beekeeping,
30:04and then we just started talking about our lives
30:06and about each other and all for each other.
30:12After about two months, Marcel proposed.
30:16I said yes, and then I applied for Marcel's K-1 visa.
30:20Marcel!
30:25Then we got married.
30:27So in the presence of your witnesses,
30:29I pronounce that you are now husband and wife.
30:32You may seal your union with a kiss.
30:38Probably me, Luke!
30:41Now it looks, looks good.
30:44After three years of marriage,
30:45we have a thriving beekeeping business and a child together.
30:50Gokhan's going to be three, and he is super active.
30:53Ah!
30:56For us to have a child surrogacy was the only option,
31:00since I'm unable to carry.
31:02We chose to do surrogacy in Ukraine
31:04because we wanted our names on the birth certificate,
31:08and we wouldn't have to go through the adoption process
31:10like you would have to in the United States.
31:12When our surrogate was about five months along,
31:16the war in Ukraine broke out.
31:20Yeah, it was pretty scary.
31:24Gokhan was born five weeks early.
31:27I had to go to Ukraine by myself to pick him up
31:30because they still hadn't approved
31:33Versailles' entry visa into Ukraine.
31:36It was really scary.
31:37Every, the whole, the whole,
31:41the whole situation was just scary.
31:44You want to see the queen?
31:45Okay, good.
31:46Okay.
31:47Maybe very aggressive?
31:48Yes, we'll see.
31:50With it getting warmer,
31:51we have to get the bees ready
31:53for peak summer production.
31:58There's the queen.
31:59Oh.
32:00Yeah, it's starting to get aggressive.
32:02The bees are head-butting me, basically.
32:04They're telling us they don't like us here.
32:09That's usually a bee's first warning
32:10is they'll head-but you.
32:12Yeah.
32:13I'm out of here.
32:15Yeah, they're not happy we're here.
32:17They're following me
32:18Yeah, they're not happy we're here.
32:21They're following me
32:22and singing the heck out of my legs.
32:24I always get stung in the butt.
32:26One day...
32:28Everything.
32:29My penis.
32:31Your penis?
32:33Yes, inside.
32:34So was your penis swollen?
32:36Little bit.
32:38What was it?
32:39I am ice-proof.
32:41Please don't lie a camera.
32:44Please don't lie a camera.
32:51Ladybug?
32:52Ladybug.
32:53Allah!
32:54You're very tired.
32:57Let's go to sleep.
33:00Here.
33:01Let's put it up.
33:02Gokhan's gonna be three in about two weeks and he is sleeping in our bed.
33:12And I don't like it.
33:15Here, Michelle, put him in his bed.
33:18Good night.
33:20Good night, Gokhan.
33:25Good night, Gokhan.
33:27Hello.
33:28Hey!
33:29Shhh!
33:30Shhh!
33:36No, don't do...
33:37We try to put Gokhan in his crib, but he ends up in our bed.
33:44He's kicking us.
33:46He's crying.
33:47He's sometimes pee...
33:49Poof!
33:50Ah!
33:51Shhh!
33:52It's a turn-off.
33:53Hey!
33:54Rola!
33:55Ah!
33:56What?
33:57Gohan!
33:58We all need to sleep here.
33:59Ma!
34:00Wa!
34:01Last night was really bad, Michelle.
34:02I'm tired of Gokhan being in the room.
34:04It's hard.
34:05I can't sleep.
34:06I don't know why he's sleeping aggressive.
34:07I don't know.
34:08He was crying last night again.
34:10He was crying.
34:11We really need to change our sleeping arrangements.
34:14I can't sleep like this anymore with Gokhan.
34:16Do you know my second-oldest son moved into a room in the basement?
34:19I don't know, why he's sleeping aggressive, I don't know.
34:21He was crying last night again.
34:24Just crying.
34:25We really need to change our sleeping arrangements.
34:29I can't sleep like this anymore with Gokhan.
34:32Gino, my second oldest son, moved into a room
34:34in the basement, so we have this room upstairs
34:38that we want to turn into Gokhan's room.
34:40But I've been trying to get Marcel to help me
34:41with it for a long time.
34:43He's too busy doing his carpentry business.
34:45Work, work, work, work, no stuff.
34:47I'm busy.
34:49We need to get it done, because our marriage life is not good.
34:54Why?
34:56We don't have any time to ourselves.
34:59Yes.
35:00It's very hard.
35:01Yeah, we don't have a sex life because of this.
35:05Stop.
35:06It's true.
35:08After Gokhan was about a year old,
35:10I decided to finally get gastric sleep surgery.
35:13A lot of it had to do with me not being able to keep up with him.
35:17I've lost over 100 pounds.
35:19I feel more energetic, confident, and intuitive
35:23with my sexual side.
35:23I'm tired of not having a sex life.
35:27Just bad.
35:28Since I've lost weight, I feel like I can't really enjoy it.
35:34Like, I want to.
35:35What do you mean?
35:37What do you mean?
35:38I don't like not having intimacy in our relationship.
35:41I don't like not having sex.
35:46I'm going to start working on the room with Gina.
35:50I'm tired of waiting.
35:52Sorry.
35:53You're a good person.
35:56How beautiful could it be?
35:58She'll be with me.
35:59Are you helping?
36:04I'm not even going to go to sleep in it.
36:06No more sleepless nights.
36:07No more sexless nights.
36:09Since Marcella is not going to help me,
36:11I guess I'm going to take it into my own hands.
36:12into my own hands.
36:18Tree there!
36:19That's a tree.
36:27There we go.
36:28A dance!
36:30Look, what do you think?
36:32A dance!
36:33This is your new bedroom, Gokhan.
36:34A dance!
36:36What?
36:38A dance!
36:39A dance!
36:40A dance!
36:41A dance!
36:42Allah!
36:45That's a prize!
36:47Very fancy room.
36:49Big change.
36:50Very, very big change.
36:52I like.
36:53Oh, thank you.
36:56You gotta go to sleep.
36:57We're gonna turn the light off.
36:57No!
36:58Yes!
36:59You're a big boy now.
37:00Oh, I love you.
37:02Let's turn the light off.
37:03No, no, no, no!
37:04Get on!
37:06Good night, Gokhan.
37:07Good night.
37:08I want to be intimate.
37:13What do you like?
37:14I'm proud of you.
37:15I'm proud of you.
37:15I want to be intimate.
37:16I want to be intimate.
37:18What do you mean intimate?
37:20Sex?
37:20A stuff.
37:21Stop!
37:22A stuff?
37:23Stop.
37:23It's an ambulance.
37:24I'm really watching.
37:25You're mewealthy?
37:25Yes!
37:27I'm sad.
37:28It's embers.
37:29I'm ready to watch you.
37:31Me and me.
37:32Yes.
37:48I can't sing.
37:49I know.
37:50You're swallowed up by those balloons.
37:53Going to set up the boobot party.
37:57Help, help.
38:00Are they all in?
38:01Yeah.
38:02OK.
38:03Are you sure?
38:04Yes.
38:04The door just opened back up.
38:06Today, I'm having my boob vibe party.
38:10All of my friends are coming over to a friend's place,
38:13and we're going to celebrate my boobs.
38:16And tell them goodbye, but not too much of a goodbye.
38:20Yeah, we're not saying goodbye to them completely.
38:22No.
38:23We're just giving them a little bit of rejuvenation.
38:27There you go.
38:28Woo!
38:29Woo!
38:30Woo!
38:31Welcome to your boob vibe party.
38:34Oh, thank you guys.
38:35Yes.
38:36You're the sweetest.
38:37Here, you pop us off.
38:38After a lot of consideration, I decided to go through
38:41with the breast reduction surgery.
38:43I'm going to pop this bottle.
38:44I'm going to pop them titties off.
38:46If she had smaller boobs, this wouldn't be a problem.
38:50Woo!
38:51Woo!
38:53Even though I'm scared and I know the risks,
38:56it's all worth it if I can alleviate my back pain
38:59and be more active.
39:00And I am a little bit worried about it,
39:02but you know I'm going to support you 100% on whatever
39:05you want to do.
39:06Great.
39:07Cheers to a weight off my chest.
39:09Yay!
39:10To the new titties.
39:11New titties!
39:12Ready for some games?
39:14Oh, okay.
39:18You're thinking about bedroom games.
39:20Wait, what are we talking about?
39:21I'm talking about at the boob vibe party.
39:22Oh.
39:23So, I got a fun game for us to play.
39:27Okay, so we're going to see who knocks
39:29each other's titties off first.
39:31Whoever keeps a titty wins.
39:34Ladies and gentlemen.
39:37To all of us, we're going to win.
39:40Ladies and gentlemen.
39:43To our left, we have Ashley Zeworld.
39:49And to our right, we have Chantelle Chanel.
39:55Woo!
39:57Let the best thing win.
39:59Ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding, ding.
40:01Share it, share it, share it, share it, share it.
40:05What?
40:07Come on.
40:09We need a rep, we need a rep, we need a rep.
40:10We need a rep.
40:11All right.
40:12Go!
40:13Ah!
40:14Hey!
40:15Hit you again.
40:16Hit you again.
40:17Hit you again.
40:19I'm so excited for my breast reduction surgery.
40:23I finally have everything in my life coming together.
40:28I have my perfect partner.
40:30And when I finally have smaller boobs, I'll be able to be more active.
40:37I'll be able to run with Ashley in the park.
40:41I'll be able to do jujitsu with her.
40:44I'm excited for your next chapter.
40:46And I can't wait to see you with smaller titties.
40:50My boobs are so big that people stare at them.
40:54And it makes me feel so self-conscious.
40:57So I can't wait to just feel more confident and healthier.
41:02I love you.
41:03Oh, my God.
41:04I'm doing the best.
41:06I'm here to be fine.
41:07You have a great hand.
41:08I'm about to step into the best chapter of my life.
41:11Thank you so much, girls, for everything you've done for me.
41:14I appreciate you so much.
41:16You've been such a blessed.
41:18Oh, my God.
41:19Oh, my God.
41:31Cheers to the building to be here.
41:32Cheers.
41:33Love it.
41:34I'm divorced.
41:35And I can't wait to not hold this last name anymore.
41:39Oh, my God.
41:40This year at New York City Pride, I will be performing
41:43at a street festival.
41:45New York City is one of the biggest prides ever.
41:49So I just hope that I kill it on stage.
41:51Here is Nikki and Veronica.
41:55Do you have anyone originally divorced here in the house?
41:59Yeah.
42:00After all I've been through with my ex-husband,
42:03I cannot wait for this celebration.
42:07I deserve this.
42:11You are planning to have a baby with us, right?
42:17Hopefully.
42:18We have not had the best experience so far.
42:21We're trying to get a sense of this new fertility clinic,
42:23because this is our last shot.
42:25If this doesn't work, that's it.
42:27The last surrogate we had, we found out some stuff
42:30that we didn't like.
42:32Do you just surround yourself with whores?
42:38Now I don't have the best of women.
42:40I'm stupid.
42:41I'm stupid.
42:42Joan, she's your girlfriend.
42:44What girlfriend?
42:45you.
42:47You.
42:52You
42:59You
43:00You
43:01You
43:02You
43:04You
43:04You
43:04You
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