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00:00:00Oh, Trish.
00:00:00Oh, you're here.
00:00:04I'm here, baby.
00:00:06I really believe that she's the one.
00:00:09Don't love me.
00:00:10I love you so, so, so much.
00:00:13I know, but I've been very suspicious of Trish
00:00:16after the ghosting incident.
00:00:18But right now, all I want to focus on is our bond.
00:00:22Surprise!
00:00:25Damn!
00:00:26You know what I really like in the States?
00:00:30The Chinese food out there.
00:00:32If you bring that for me, I'll marry you.
00:00:34My boyfriend is just a charmer.
00:00:37He is a famous singer and rapper in Belize.
00:00:41But my aunt hears a lot of rumors.
00:00:44They actually just did a big concert.
00:00:46The first song that was performed was Vicky,
00:00:49and I was getting messages that she was at the concert
00:00:52and that they left together.
00:00:54I hope that Stig and I prove everybody wrong,
00:00:59but there's definitely a little part of me
00:01:00that wonders if what my aunt is saying is true.
00:01:06Beer Con is absolutely like the hot main character
00:01:12straight out of a romance novel.
00:01:14I'm ready to take the next step with him,
00:01:17but I think my best friend, Michael,
00:01:20has feelings for me that are more than just friendship.
00:01:22You want my time and attention as though I am your girlfriend,
00:01:27but it can't go both ways.
00:01:30You said you'd never leave.
00:01:32I want a man who wants to be a man.
00:01:34I want a man who wants to make me a priority.
00:01:36I'm headed to the Philippines today.
00:01:42But last night, Sheena tells me
00:01:44she has been giving all her money to her parents this entire time.
00:01:49I am not happy, and I don't feel like I can trust her.
00:01:54I'm worried that Molly would try to break up me and Forrest
00:01:58when she's alive here.
00:02:01And I would have the most painful heartbreak in my life.
00:02:05It's a beautiful day!
00:02:12I hate packing.
00:02:30I feel like I'm going to forget something.
00:02:32So, yeah, I don't like that.
00:02:34I'm, like, super nervous.
00:02:35Did not expect to be this nervous.
00:02:36I've never gone on a trip for this long.
00:02:40I've never flown over the ocean.
00:02:42I've never left the continent.
00:02:44But I am leaving for Turkey today.
00:02:47I am so incredibly excited to finally be on my way
00:02:51to meet what could be the love of my life.
00:02:54I've been talking about doing this for so long,
00:02:56for so many months.
00:02:57And now that it's here,
00:03:00I'm, wow, like, way more nervous
00:03:02than I thought I was going to be.
00:03:04The situation with Michael
00:03:06is giving me a little bit more anxiety, too.
00:03:10When I confronted Michael,
00:03:13I really was trying to give him a chance
00:03:17so I could have a clear head
00:03:18before going to Turkey to meet BeerCon.
00:03:22But Michael does not seem like
00:03:24he's ever going to come to terms
00:03:26with his feelings and his emotions.
00:03:29And that's not fair to me.
00:03:31So I'm ready to take the next step
00:03:33with someone else.
00:03:35Michael and I have a really great friendship.
00:03:37We do a lot of things together.
00:03:38We spend a lot of time together.
00:03:40And I know that that is not really common
00:03:45to have that kind of male-female friendship
00:03:47in other cultures, other religions.
00:03:51And so that's scary to feel like
00:03:53I might possibly have to choose
00:03:55between somebody who's my best friend
00:03:57and somebody who could be the love of my life.
00:04:02It's open.
00:04:04Hey.
00:04:05Hey, how are you?
00:04:06Good, how are you?
00:04:07Oh, hi, Laura.
00:04:08Are you excited?
00:04:09Yeah.
00:04:10A little terrified, actually.
00:04:11I know.
00:04:12I'm terrified.
00:04:12Hey, I'm terrified for you.
00:04:15My parents offered to take me to the airport,
00:04:17which is really nice.
00:04:19But my relationship has felt a little bit strained
00:04:22with my parents since I started dating Birkan.
00:04:26They are very conservative and very Catholic.
00:04:31And Birkan is not at all who they would expect to see me end up with.
00:04:38So I've tried not to talk about it with them very much.
00:04:41You're ready for your big adventure?
00:04:45So excited.
00:04:51I can't believe today's the day.
00:04:53I appreciate you guys taking me to the airport.
00:04:55I know it's a little bit of a drive.
00:04:56I wanted you to feel supported, but I'm not in favor of all of us.
00:05:04I can't believe you would go clear to Turkey and meet a guy you never met who is a Muslim.
00:05:12It's not even in my wheelhouse to think that that would ever have been something that was possible.
00:05:17You know what I'm saying?
00:05:19It seems irresponsible to me.
00:05:22It's not like I'm going in completely blind or without the same concerns and questions.
00:05:32The age thing is the single biggest concern that I have.
00:05:37I mean, how old is he, Laura?
00:05:40He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:05:43Oh, my God.
00:05:46Laura, are you serious?
00:05:47I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:05:51Don't make jokes.
00:05:52It's not funny.
00:05:54What is he thinking?
00:05:55What is that?
00:05:56What is he thinking?
00:05:56I'm awesome.
00:05:57What the heck is he thinking?
00:05:58I think he's thinking I'm awesome.
00:06:00No, I think he's thinking he wants a ticket to America.
00:06:04That's what I think he's thinking.
00:06:08Were you ever suspicious?
00:06:10Like, gee, he's a young man talking to an older woman and saying all the right things.
00:06:15Has he told you he loved you?
00:06:18Yeah.
00:06:18Okay.
00:06:19Big red flag.
00:06:20Because he doesn't love you.
00:06:21That's not what love is.
00:06:24You haven't even met this guy yet.
00:06:26You've had a conversation with an unknown entity.
00:06:29Right now, it's not love.
00:06:33It's some infatuation or some...
00:06:35To me, I will not be convinced it's nothing but that guy wants out a turkey.
00:06:42I don't...
00:06:43Like I said, it's a concern.
00:06:45I agree.
00:06:46Concern?
00:06:46It's more like, like ten giant red flags.
00:06:52My word in heaven.
00:06:54You actually think that there's a possibility that this could work and this could be a lifelong commitment?
00:07:03Yeah, I do.
00:07:04You do?
00:07:05If I didn't think that there was a possibility, I wouldn't be getting on a plane and flying to Turkey.
00:07:10My...
00:07:10Oh my God.
00:07:14We're just pointing out all our concerns, you know?
00:07:22And all I can hope is that you make the right decision.
00:07:28I feel blindsided.
00:07:31I knew that they didn't really approve.
00:07:34I just didn't know that they felt this strongly.
00:07:37I just...
00:07:40Honey, I disagree with the whole thing.
00:07:42All of it.
00:07:45I want to be happy for you.
00:07:48But I can't.
00:07:50I'm already so overwhelmed.
00:07:53I'm feeling every emotion possible.
00:07:55And for my mom to unleash all of these concerns on me at this point, it is just messing with my head.
00:08:05It keeps me awake at night, thinking about you going over there and doing all that.
00:08:09Don't sell yourself short.
00:08:11Don't ever settle.
00:08:12I got a funny feeling ain't nobody gonna understand.
00:08:25No trouble in the alley.
00:08:27We have to make a pit stop.
00:08:28Why?
00:08:29Because your mother is picking out condos.
00:08:34Are you sure you don't want to come in with me?
00:08:36Yeah.
00:08:37Yeah.
00:08:37No.
00:08:38That's...
00:08:38That's what I'm sure we're going to happen now.
00:08:40Yeah.
00:08:41I'm going to do it once.
00:08:43Do it twice.
00:08:44Take the cake, not just a slice.
00:08:46I got a funny feeling ain't nobody...
00:08:48What did you tell me earlier?
00:08:49You're how old?
00:08:51I'm 52.
00:08:53And you said you're an adult?
00:08:55I am an adult.
00:08:57You don't need my help picking out McDonald's.
00:09:00My name is Lisa.
00:09:02I'm 52 years old and I live in King of Prussia, Pennsylvania.
00:09:05I thought you would feel better knowing that your mother's taking precautions.
00:09:09I mean, he did say he was a playboy, so...
00:09:12I said a lot of women seem to like him.
00:09:15No, you said he used to play the field a lot.
00:09:19Is that not a playboy?
00:09:20Playboy is somebody who's like, um, a gigolo.
00:09:24He didn't say...
00:09:25A gigolo and playboys are way different.
00:09:27A gigolo is a male hooker.
00:09:29No, that's not.
00:09:30That's what a gigolo is.
00:09:31That's a pimp.
00:09:32A pimp is the one who takes out female hookers and gets the money.
00:09:38Okay.
00:09:38I live with my daughter, Faith, where Faith lives with me.
00:09:43We live with each other.
00:09:44And she is the apple of my eye.
00:09:47We talk about everything.
00:09:49Whether it's a topic of sex and masturbating to dirty dishes in the sink and who's going
00:09:58to do the laundry tomorrow.
00:09:59I don't know what I'm looking for.
00:10:01What if I buy the wrong one?
00:10:03How do I know what size it is?
00:10:05Has he ever told you in inch...
00:10:09Well, I guess I wouldn't be...
00:10:10In kilometers?
00:10:12No.
00:10:14I have never used a condom before.
00:10:16Every male I was with, I married.
00:10:20I have been married five times.
00:10:23Husband number one, I was young, I was dumb, and it led to an annulment.
00:10:28Husband number two, he was my very best friend.
00:10:31And it led to my daughter, Faith.
00:10:33But after a few years, I realized he made a better friend than he made a husband.
00:10:39Husband number three, he was actually my favorite of all of them.
00:10:43He was a really good guy.
00:10:46So, why did I leave him?
00:10:49I realized I was a lesbian.
00:10:51And for the past 21 years, I've been with women only.
00:10:54Let's go with the flow.
00:10:58Relax.
00:10:59Watch what happens.
00:11:01Women are nice and curvy and soft.
00:11:05And I've had one wife, and then I've had another wife.
00:11:08But neither of them worked out.
00:11:11But I forgot about men, to be quite honest with you.
00:11:13I wasn't even thinking that I'd be interested in a man after 21 years.
00:11:17But sure enough, Daniel came along again.
00:11:22Yeah, Daniel came along.
00:11:27Hi, beautiful.
00:11:28You're my everything.
00:11:29You're the lights in my show.
00:11:34He is 39 years old, and he lives in Oweri, Nigeria.
00:11:38He's not built like a woman in any sense of the way, shape, or form.
00:11:44So, I don't know what it is.
00:11:47He messaged me on social media.
00:11:50We didn't know each other from Adam or Eve.
00:11:54So, at first, I thought, this is a scam artist.
00:11:57I said, I'm not talking to you.
00:11:58You're not real.
00:12:00But he kept trying to talk to me.
00:12:02And you know what?
00:12:03He is a smooth operator.
00:12:05He says, the sweetest, most charming things I've ever heard.
00:12:09I love your voice.
00:12:10Your voice like a food to my soul.
00:12:13I just fell in love with him.
00:12:16He is so sweet, it hurts my teeth like a bad candy bar.
00:12:20I love you, Lisa.
00:12:22And I will continue to love you.
00:12:24Daniel says, I'm exquisite.
00:12:26And I'm beautiful and gorgeous daily.
00:12:29And he better, because this damn thing is itchy as all hell.
00:12:34And it's uncomfortable.
00:12:35Can I take it off?
00:12:46I love you.
00:12:48Oh, my God.
00:12:48It feels so much better.
00:12:50One of my exes had me cut off my hair really, really short.
00:12:54And I miss my long hair so much.
00:12:57So, I wear wigs.
00:12:59Daniel saw me in my natural hair first.
00:13:01And then he saw me in my wigs.
00:13:02And he was like, damn.
00:13:06So, now I wear wigs every day.
00:13:07And I plan on wearing my wig the whole time when I go visit Daniel in Nigeria in less than a week.
00:13:14Okay.
00:13:15Here goes nothing.
00:13:17Try a flavored one.
00:13:18You might like it.
00:13:18No, I'm not getting flavor.
00:13:20Maybe you're rubbed.
00:13:21No.
00:13:22I don't know.
00:13:25Growing up with mom was in a roller coaster.
00:13:28My mom is somebody who's always fallen in love so quickly.
00:13:34At least what she thinks is love.
00:13:37She's been through a lot of relationships.
00:13:39We've moved so many places.
00:13:42I've been to 15 different schools, if that tells you something.
00:13:46Part of me is surprised she's switching over to men after 21 years.
00:13:51I didn't see this one coming.
00:13:53Oh, gosh.
00:13:57Oh, it's a very small selection.
00:14:01Oh, there's different sizes.
00:14:03Holy crap.
00:14:04Daniel and I, we've had video sex.
00:14:08We've sent pictures to each other.
00:14:09And I am attracted to Daniel.
00:14:13But the idea of laying with a man after 21 years, I can't even think about it.
00:14:19They have different body parts than women.
00:14:22The smells, the taste, the feels.
00:14:25The cleanup.
00:14:26I mean, I remember 21 years ago just walking to the bathroom to have to take care of myself
00:14:34and still dripping.
00:14:35That's disgusting.
00:14:36You don't have that with women.
00:14:39It's a whole different ballgame.
00:14:41Oh, I'm going to be sick.
00:14:44Um, sir, do you have a moment?
00:14:46Could I ask you a question, please?
00:14:48How can I help you?
00:14:49So embarrassing.
00:14:50I'm sorry.
00:14:50This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:14:53Okay.
00:14:53They have to be latex-free.
00:14:55I'm allergic to latex.
00:14:57Um, oh gosh.
00:15:00When it says thinnest, does that mean that you feel more like it's a natural skin on it?
00:15:06It's just, it doesn't feel like there's plastic going in you or, I'm sorry, I'm crying.
00:15:10I'm just really, really embarrassed.
00:15:12No, no, it's good.
00:15:13I'm buying the condoms myself because I'm worried that I'll get there and there won't
00:15:18be a latex-free condom.
00:15:19I, this is incredibly overwhelming and emotional for me.
00:15:25This is not just about the embarrassment over the condoms.
00:15:28All I can think about is Daniel and how he has no idea that I lived my life as a lesbian
00:15:35for 21 years.
00:15:37Thank you so much.
00:15:38No problem.
00:15:38I appreciate it.
00:15:39A couple of months ago, I went into Tessa Waters to see if I could come out with my whole
00:15:45truth.
00:15:46And I told him in the past that I had a fling with a woman.
00:15:52Daniel said to me, how could I do that to myself?
00:15:55How could I do that to God?
00:15:56God doesn't believe in same sex as being together.
00:16:00And he was disgusted.
00:16:03There you go.
00:16:05Yeah, no problem.
00:16:05Let me tie them in my purse.
00:16:08I plan on telling Daniel the truth in person because I am not ashamed of who I am.
00:16:13But I'm terrified to tell him because of how he responded to the fling.
00:16:17I'm terrified.
00:16:18I'm worried that he's going to say that this is a mistake and walk away and I'm going to
00:16:27be left heartbroken.
00:16:30Okay, that's all we're done with.
00:16:32Thank God.
00:16:39So you're really serious in this girl, bro?
00:16:43Yes, I am.
00:16:45I was a player for most of my life.
00:16:48Now, I actually want a family.
00:16:49I want somebody to be there for me.
00:16:51So you want to stop all the parties?
00:16:53I stop all the parties.
00:16:54That's part of my life.
00:16:55That's part of my life.
00:16:56How do you think she's going to react?
00:17:01I have a check-in flight and I've landed.
00:17:03But I'm worried since he's not texting me.
00:17:08You're going to need your passport.
00:17:10Let's get through here.
00:17:11I don't know.
00:17:11I left him somewhere.
00:17:12What are we doing now?
00:17:13Oh, God.
00:17:17My flight to Belize boards in 20 minutes.
00:17:22I'm still on the other.
00:17:25So hopefully we get off soon.
00:17:29I'm rushing to my next gate right now.
00:17:39I don't want to miss my flight.
00:17:41It's a good thing that I've been keeping up in the gym because I am having to run to
00:17:46my connecting flight to Belize to meet my boyfriend Stig for the first time.
00:17:51Stig, you better be worth it because running through the airport is really embarrassing.
00:17:56Stig's a famous musician in Belize and the women there love him.
00:18:00So the last thing I want to do is look like a sweaty mess when I meet him for the first
00:18:06time.
00:18:06But I don't really have a choice right now.
00:18:09Four minutes.
00:18:10Just getting to my gate.
00:18:15Or maybe it was perfect timing.
00:18:18Thank the Lord.
00:18:20Next stop, Belize.
00:18:21After waiting for so long, I'm super nervous to meet Stig, but I cannot wait to get my
00:18:30hands on him and start a future together.
00:18:33My second plan to believe you.
00:18:36I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:38I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:46Listen.
00:18:46I'm coming for you.
00:19:16What's up?
00:19:20I am Erlin Dwayne.
00:19:22I go by Stig the Artist.
00:19:24I'm a musician from Belize, Belize, Central America, and I'm 30 years old.
00:19:29You know the vibes.
00:19:31I think I'm a cool guy, you know.
00:19:33I'm just chill for the most part.
00:19:36But when I'm performing, it's just a different feeling.
00:19:40I just get alive.
00:19:41I love what I do.
00:19:43I love music.
00:19:44I love singing for the ladies then.
00:19:46And the girls, you know, they can get pretty wild at my show.
00:19:52There's this one time.
00:19:53This girl was literally trying to get in my pants.
00:19:55She was front stage.
00:19:56I'm like, yo, chill.
00:19:57But if that's what my music gives them, that kind of joy, then I'm doing the right job.
00:20:02About ten years ago, I put out my first song, my first music video.
00:20:09I recorded every single day in the studio.
00:20:12I grew my fan base.
00:20:13I grew my fan base.
00:20:13And now I'm at the highest level of Belize as an artist.
00:20:16So everybody recognized me.
00:20:19And I'm very grateful for the love and support that I get here.
00:20:28I'm very proud of what I've become.
00:20:30But I couldn't have done it by myself.
00:20:33Perf is my producer.
00:20:35He produced a lot of my biggest songs.
00:20:37Richie is my manager.
00:20:40Six is my G.
00:20:42He's one of my best friends.
00:20:44They're still my homies since we started everything.
00:20:46And I know they're always looking out for me.
00:20:49Have a special toast.
00:20:51My gallery tomorrow.
00:20:53Cheers, yeah?
00:20:55Well, well.
00:20:56Well, yeah.
00:20:57You really like the American girls, bro.
00:20:59You really like them.
00:21:00Farina.
00:21:00You like the right girls.
00:21:01Farina.
00:21:03Farina.
00:21:04I go straight, Farina.
00:21:06We are dead.
00:21:06Listen, my friends, they could joke around as much as they want and tease me.
00:21:13But I'm very serious about my girlfriend, Aviva.
00:21:17Two years ago, I started talking to Aviva on social media.
00:21:22At first, we were both in a relationship.
00:21:24But when we both became single, it was way beyond friends.
00:21:30Aviva's super hot.
00:21:31She has the most beautiful blue eyes.
00:21:34But one of the most attractive things about Aviva is her personality.
00:21:39She has a beautiful heart.
00:21:41So humble and gentle.
00:21:43And she has a cute little laugh with her.
00:21:46I don't have to be stick the artist, you know?
00:21:48I don't have to impress her.
00:21:49I can be Erlin Dwayne.
00:21:51And that's why I feel like she's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.
00:21:55So you're really serious in this girl, bro?
00:21:58Yes, I am.
00:22:00You think you'd have settled down really with this woman?
00:22:02Start a family.
00:22:03Let's get married.
00:22:05Let's have kids.
00:22:05I don't know.
00:22:07I might want to be a baby.
00:22:10You want to breathe, huh?
00:22:12You want to bury your girl?
00:22:13Hello.
00:22:14I mean, woof.
00:22:16Woof, woof, woof, woof.
00:22:17Damn.
00:22:19So you're right.
00:22:20So you know why she can't have your baby over here over America?
00:22:24America?
00:22:24America?
00:22:25America?
00:22:25You want to be a baby?
00:22:26You want to be a baby?
00:22:26You know why you get to be a baby?
00:22:28I mean, the girls?
00:22:30I don't.
00:22:32Let it get serious, bro.
00:22:33It's getting serious, you know?
00:22:36So you want to stop all the partying?
00:22:38I stop all the partying.
00:22:39That's part of my life.
00:22:40I mean, you know, like, I plan to take her to San Pedro for the show.
00:22:46You're taking her to San Pedro for the shows.
00:22:49You ready for that?
00:22:50Yeah, I mean, I hope she's ready.
00:22:52You know they call San Pedro, right?
00:22:54temptation island so what if you fix us on Pedro when a hundred girls jump out
00:23:00there I could bet you had you reached on Pedro
00:23:03my past relationship I tell him like you're gonna get jealous no no no he
00:23:13always trips so I told Aviva we're gonna see I hope you don't trip and she's
00:23:18like no I'm not like that I'm not jealous what I don't know I want somebody
00:23:23from my side you know just sit at that and worry about all that kind of stuff
00:23:28yeah but everywhere we go people always say you have XYZ girl how do you think
00:23:34she's going to react I hope I pray I could be the best version of myself this
00:23:41time I got the things a little bit different no disrespect huh I heard that
00:23:46sound too many times bro I can't control it I can't control it a lot of my
00:23:56relationships in the past have failed because of this very issue you know I
00:24:01was a player for most of my life now I actually want a family I want somebody I
00:24:07can go home to at night and and they're there to listen to me to be there for me
00:24:11I hope Aviva can be that person and that I can be a faithful partner you guys are
00:24:18gonna love Aviva you know I love her so let's see how it goes I have 20% fit
00:24:25damn
00:24:27so update on the food oh that's shrimp look at that that's good stuff
00:24:41she and I get good airline move like I think you take a flight back home
00:24:46I'm a girl
00:24:51oh
00:24:53oh
00:24:55oh
00:24:57oh
00:25:00oh
00:25:01oh
00:25:03oh
00:25:05oh
00:25:06oh
00:25:07oh
00:25:09oh
00:25:11oh
00:25:13Forrest is arriving today with his parents, and I feel, wow, like, super happy and excited.
00:25:24I'm on my way to the airport now.
00:25:27We rented a bigger apartment where we can all stay together.
00:25:30So I'm carrying quite a few bags.
00:25:38Also, I am bringing Jack Rube.
00:25:40I want Forrest and his family to taste the local goodies here in the Philippines.
00:25:49I'm really quite nervous, and I don't know how to react.
00:25:56It's possible that I would kiss him before him, or not.
00:26:00I would be quite too nervous to kiss him for the first time.
00:26:03Honestly speaking, we will both enjoy with each other.
00:26:09But I'm worried, regarding with Molly, that she would say bad things to me.
00:26:16So I'm trying to get rid of my nervousness, especially meeting the first time with the love of your life.
00:26:23It's once-in-a-lifetime, so why not enjoy with each other?
00:26:33Look, here we are.
00:26:36We're touching now.
00:26:39After so long.
00:26:43After seven years.
00:26:44Forrest, this sure is a long way to come traveling for a girl.
00:26:51Yeah.
00:26:52But she's not just any girl.
00:26:59All right.
00:27:04After 30 hours of being on an airplane, I finally made it to the Philippines.
00:27:26I'm feeling ecstatic.
00:27:28I feel like I drank, like, six energy drinks.
00:27:31Where's mom?
00:27:37Mom.
00:27:39What?
00:27:40Just in the middle.
00:27:41We have to be sure I have a passport.
00:27:43Where's mom?
00:27:43In there.
00:27:44Right?
00:27:45I don't know.
00:27:48Great choice, though.
00:27:49It's in the back.
00:27:50Not yet.
00:27:54Yes, I happened to check in flight, and it landed.
00:27:57But I'm also worried, since he's not texting me.
00:28:04I really calm down.
00:28:09Here's my...
00:28:10Guys, with your impression, you're going to need your passport.
00:28:13Please get through here.
00:28:14I don't know.
00:28:14I left him somewhere.
00:28:16Oh, my God.
00:28:19What are we doing now?
00:28:20I don't know, Jev.
00:28:21Look.
00:28:22Jev, stop.
00:28:23Oh, God.
00:28:23I'm starting to fall more in love with Trish, but I think it's important that we're completely
00:28:38transparent with each other.
00:28:40And I wanted to touch bases with you about what exactly you were doing for those five days
00:28:48and why you weren't in contact with me.
00:29:10Did you sleep good?
00:29:15I slept great, baby.
00:29:17I slept beautiful in the morning, babe.
00:29:19I slept beautiful in the morning.
00:29:31I was really tired from what we did.
00:29:35So, was it everything you expected it to be?
00:29:41Even more.
00:29:45Yesterday night, we had sex two times.
00:29:51He's older, and I didn't think, like, he can do all of the stuff he did to me.
00:29:57Like, for the second round, it was, oh, my God.
00:30:04You want to go one more round?
00:30:07Let's do it.
00:30:14You good?
00:30:20Yeah.
00:30:21You're here.
00:30:23Wow, so this is the market.
00:30:24I only gave Trish a little sample of what I could do.
00:30:29I have some more tricks up my sleeve.
00:30:33If it were up to me, I'd just stay at the hotel all day.
00:30:36But this is our first day in Madagascar together, and Trish wants to take me to explore her city.
00:30:43What is that fried fish right there?
00:30:45Yeah.
00:30:45This is so different from anywhere I've ever been in my life.
00:30:48Today, I want to show him everything around in Antananarivu.
00:30:58First, I'm taking him to the market and Alakili.
00:31:03The butcher shop right here, huh?
00:31:06Mm-hmm.
00:31:09And they just leave the meat out like this without refrigeration?
00:31:15Yeah.
00:31:17Big face.
00:31:18Yeah.
00:31:20Oh, my God.
00:31:20What is that, babe?
00:31:21What is that?
00:31:22That's the stomach or the cow?
00:31:25The stomach.
00:31:26Yeah, yeah.
00:31:26And then is this also, like, intestines or what?
00:31:29Yes.
00:31:30I think I see a heart over there.
00:31:32Yeah, that's here.
00:31:34Oh, my God.
00:31:36I'm feeling like Trish deceived me.
00:31:39I mean, this is our first date.
00:31:41All this raw meat is going to mess up the sexy vibes we had going this morning.
00:31:45Yeah.
00:31:45So, this is all the leftover stuff that people usually don't eat.
00:31:50But, you know, we don't see that.
00:31:53In my culture, we eat everything.
00:31:56We don't waste something in the cow.
00:32:00Oh, my God.
00:32:01Even the feet, the head, intestine, the heart, liver, everything.
00:32:08Break.
00:32:09It's just food.
00:32:10Relax.
00:32:11Baby, I know that's not a brain right there.
00:32:14It's a brain.
00:32:15Oh, Lord.
00:32:16Yeah.
00:32:17Why?
00:32:17And would you eat that?
00:32:19Of course.
00:32:21Well, baby, don't put that in those stews that you cook for me.
00:32:25Please don't.
00:32:38Oh, I hope somebody's going to enjoy it.
00:32:42Oh, wow.
00:32:43What a view.
00:32:44You can see all Madagascar here.
00:32:48Wow.
00:32:50I can see the whole island.
00:32:51Yeah.
00:32:52Oh, my God.
00:32:53You don't know how to taste that.
00:33:04Like this.
00:33:15Hey.
00:33:15Hey.
00:33:16Hey.
00:33:17Hey.
00:33:17Get it, baby.
00:33:18Get it, baby.
00:33:18Get it, baby.
00:33:19Get it, baby.
00:33:20Get it, baby.
00:33:20Got a little booty.
00:33:20I know how to tap dance, but this is not tap dance.
00:33:50This is something foreign to me.
00:33:51I've never seen this style of dance before, but I'm realizing that there's a lot that I
00:33:56don't know about Trish just from talking to her over the phone.
00:33:59Like she's an amazing dancer.
00:34:01I didn't know she had that in her.
00:34:04Hey.
00:34:05Hey.
00:34:06Hey.
00:34:07Hey.
00:34:08Hey.
00:34:09Hey.
00:34:10Hey.
00:34:11Hey.
00:34:12Hey.
00:34:13Hey.
00:34:14Hey.
00:34:15Hey.
00:34:16Hey.
00:34:17Hey.
00:34:18Hey.
00:34:19Hey.
00:34:22Hey.
00:34:24Hey.
00:34:25traditional dance no that's not mine I just dance like that you like it oh it's beautiful
00:34:33the name of the place is Rufa Rufa that means a palace oh okay now where's the palace is it
00:34:42this is so beautiful baby I'm having such a great time with you but you know there's some things
00:35:01that I want to talk to you about so I wanted to touch bases with you about what exactly you were
00:35:12doing for those five days why you weren't in contact with me I already told you like you
00:35:21want to you want me to explain to you everything happened you know that all of these things that
00:35:27you're telling me you know kind of sounds unbelievable in a way I would like you to
00:35:35be open and honest with me right now I promise I will tell you everything but promise me that she
00:35:45won't get mad you sent him money right is that not part of a romance scam my mom and I have been
00:36:04having a lot of hard times right now financially she's in so much debt I think this topic needs to
00:36:10be over because this is ridiculous
00:36:13now we've got entertainment
00:36:27uh-oh
00:36:30and we have fire
00:36:33what we gonna do gonna break that heat what we gonna do gonna break that heat
00:36:39sell the competition
00:36:40oh go for it B
00:36:41what we gonna do gonna break that heat
00:36:44oh
00:36:44I can do it
00:36:46oh that was so close
00:36:49let me try
00:36:53that was way over my head that was on you
00:36:56that was on you
00:36:58I'll give you a good one
00:37:01hot in like a baseball
00:37:02oh my god
00:37:03that looks delicious
00:37:07what kind of food do they have in Nigeria
00:37:10well Daniel has showed me pictures of some of his meals
00:37:13he's always eating rice
00:37:15is it like a fried rice thing you think
00:37:17I don't know
00:37:18I have no clue what their food is
00:37:20where are you going again
00:37:21I am heading to Africa to Nigeria
00:37:24wow
00:37:25why
00:37:26I am going to meet a man that I have not met in person yet
00:37:30for the very first time
00:37:31wow congratulations good for you
00:37:35thank you
00:37:35thank you
00:37:36but it's crazy
00:37:37yeah
00:37:38slightly a little crazy
00:37:39I would agree
00:37:41but you know the heart wants what the heart wants
00:37:43so go for it I say
00:37:44thank you
00:37:45I'm leaving to Nigeria to meet Daniel for the first time
00:37:50in just a few days
00:37:51I can't believe I'm doing this
00:37:54I must be insane
00:37:55I really must be
00:37:57I'm very very nervous
00:38:00so I wanted to take the edge off
00:38:02by having a night out with my daughter Faith
00:38:04and my friend Juna
00:38:05oh my
00:38:07here's a volcano
00:38:08here it comes
00:38:09I'm teasing
00:38:11Gina is my very best friend
00:38:15I swear to God
00:38:17if she was a lesbian
00:38:19Juna would be my ideal woman
00:38:20Juna knows the ringer I've been through
00:38:24in past relationships
00:38:25and she is supportive of Daniel
00:38:27I'm hoping this is finally more happy every hour
00:38:31I'm going to hold you to it
00:38:32what
00:38:33that this is my happily ever after
00:38:34yes
00:38:35this is the last time
00:38:36mine is doing
00:38:39considering it's the last one
00:38:40as she's said every other time
00:38:42which we know
00:38:43he's always talking sweet to me
00:38:46he's always trying so hard to do things
00:38:48he just makes me feel so good
00:38:50and so wonderful
00:38:51it's a good thing that he's treating you with
00:38:54but that's part of what concerns me
00:38:57the love bomber right away
00:38:59it's part of a romance scam
00:39:03they go for single
00:39:06and I don't mean to say
00:39:07older women
00:39:09who have been hurt
00:39:11and who are desperately looking for somebody
00:39:13and want someone to give them
00:39:15all the compliments
00:39:17all the love
00:39:18stop
00:39:18hold on
00:39:20do I look like an old
00:39:22vulnerable
00:39:23searching for somebody
00:39:25woman on the internet
00:39:26no I was minding my own business
00:39:31not looking for anybody
00:39:32but you sent him money right
00:39:34is that not part of a romance scam
00:39:38sending money
00:39:39even though I live paycheck to paycheck
00:39:42I send Daniel money almost every two weeks
00:39:45Daniel works in construction
00:39:49he makes very little money
00:39:51and he lives in a very poor area of Nigeria
00:39:54I give Daniel money for food
00:39:56I have bought him clothes
00:39:58I give him money for fuel
00:40:01for electricity
00:40:03this is my generator
00:40:04Daniel has come straight out
00:40:08and asked for money
00:40:09around two maybe three times
00:40:11but I give Daniel money more for myself
00:40:14because I want to feel that he's safe
00:40:17and I want to feel that he's secure
00:40:18all I know is within the first two months
00:40:23you sent $2,000
00:40:24and that was two months ago
00:40:27so how much more is it now?
00:40:31I don't know
00:40:31how did he do it before he met you?
00:40:37does he not have a job?
00:40:39yes he has a job
00:40:41but lately he's been sick
00:40:42and he's missed work because of the malaria
00:40:44and other things that he has caught
00:40:47and that's not a red flag to you
00:40:49he meets you
00:40:50and now all of a sudden
00:40:51he's getting sick all the time
00:40:53my mom and I have been having a lot
00:40:57of hard times right now financially
00:40:59she borrows from Juna a lot
00:41:03she's in so much debt
00:41:05and it has me feeling more on edge
00:41:09you were telling me
00:41:10is Juna gave you money to help us with bills?
00:41:13she has
00:41:14haven't you?
00:41:16so she's been giving you
00:41:17how much in debt now are we?
00:41:19you already know
00:41:20I hate that you're asking for money all the time
00:41:22but it hasn't been the amounts that it has been
00:41:25it's so bad
00:41:26Daniel seems to be a really really nice person
00:41:31I see how happy she is
00:41:33so I have given her money to send to him
00:41:36and I gave Lisa the money for the visa
00:41:40to go to Nigeria
00:41:42I do have some concerns
00:41:45because if he's scamming her
00:41:47then he's scamming me
00:41:49this was between Juna, me and Daniel
00:41:54it had nothing to do with you
00:41:56and me and your bills
00:41:57it had to do with Juna and I and Daniel
00:42:00and you're still not seeing any red flags about this?
00:42:04Juna has talked to him
00:42:05does he seem like he's a real bad man?
00:42:07from texting?
00:42:10no
00:42:10he doesn't
00:42:12but you know
00:42:13texting
00:42:14and talking
00:42:16are different things
00:42:17there's no point in me trying to talk to you about anything
00:42:22that's fine
00:42:23because I know things that are inside and out
00:42:27more than you do
00:42:28because you're not in the relationship
00:42:30and this may be the best relationship I've ever had
00:42:34you've said that every time
00:42:39this has all been an emotional wreck
00:42:43and we have not had one positive conversation together
00:42:46and it's breaking my heart
00:42:48as much as it's breaking yours
00:42:49and I think this topic needs to be over
00:42:51because this is ridiculous
00:42:53it always has to be over
00:42:55I'm done
00:42:57I'm done?
00:43:00I'm done
00:43:00this might be the start of the rest of my life
00:43:18with one girl
00:43:19we would say one burner
00:43:21that means you have one partner
00:43:25never always been a one burner
00:43:27I used to be full of gala
00:43:28I need to make some changes
00:43:31into my lifestyle
00:43:32but I'm nervous
00:43:33to handle all that
00:43:34this is crazy
00:43:39super excited
00:43:45super nervous
00:43:46probably
00:43:4734 minutes
00:43:48until I land
00:43:49let me rephrase that
00:43:5234 minutes
00:43:54until me
00:43:55and the shrimp
00:43:56land
00:43:56and they actually
00:43:58landed on my pants
00:44:00I have greasy
00:44:02smelly sauce
00:44:03all over me
00:44:04the things I do
00:44:05crazy
00:44:05the things I do
00:44:07you're welcome
00:44:08I was getting warm in here
00:44:16as the beep beep
00:44:17crack into the atmosphere
00:44:18come on let's switch gears
00:44:20and the power still
00:44:21and go
00:44:21let's go
00:44:22uh
00:44:24so today
00:44:25my girl is coming
00:44:26I want to give her
00:44:27a Belizean welcome
00:44:29beautiful flowers
00:44:31for a beautiful lady
00:44:32today
00:44:34I meet my girlfriend
00:44:36Aviva
00:44:36for the very first time
00:44:37in person
00:44:38Aviva's probably thinking
00:44:43that we're going back
00:44:44to my city
00:44:45to my apartment
00:44:46but she don't know
00:44:47that we have
00:44:48my nice hotel room
00:44:49in Belize City
00:44:50because
00:44:50I want a nice little
00:44:52romantic stay
00:44:53tonight
00:44:53but hey
00:44:55this looks a little kinky
00:44:56I have butterflies
00:45:01I feel like a kid again
00:45:03this might be
00:45:05the start
00:45:06of the rest of my life
00:45:07with Aviva
00:45:09with one girl
00:45:10we would say
00:45:11one burner
00:45:12one burner
00:45:14that means
00:45:15you have
00:45:16one partner
00:45:17never always been
00:45:18a one burner
00:45:19I used to be
00:45:20full of girl
00:45:20but
00:45:22I need to make
00:45:22some changes
00:45:23in my life
00:45:24and my lifestyle
00:45:24so I can be
00:45:25the man
00:45:26that I've always
00:45:26envisioned
00:45:27that I would be
00:45:28anybody driving around?
00:45:33yes sir
00:45:33all right
00:45:34Aviva
00:45:37minutes away
00:45:38from picking you up
00:45:39I'm nervous
00:45:44I'm about to
00:45:47leave my mansies
00:45:48after two years
00:45:53of talking
00:45:53and six months
00:45:54of dating
00:45:54I'm finally
00:45:55meeting
00:45:56meeting Stig
00:45:56for the first time
00:45:57we're here
00:45:58we made it
00:45:59I'm super super nervous
00:46:01and it's making me
00:46:02nauseous
00:46:03a flight just landed
00:46:13I'm ready
00:46:15I'm ready
00:46:15I just want to make sure
00:46:28I just want to make sure
00:46:30that he sees me
00:46:31and he's attracted to me
00:46:46I'm so tired
00:46:47and it's stressing me out
00:46:49I know he's around beautiful women all the time
00:46:55and deep down
00:46:56and deep down
00:46:57there's things I'm worried about
00:46:58my biggest fear is
00:47:03that I'm going to
00:47:05go in with this big loving heart
00:47:08and it's just gonna get crushed
00:47:10here we go
00:47:13this is what I've been preparing myself for
00:47:15this is crazy
00:47:26oh my
00:47:31I'm gonna throw up
00:47:33I'm gonna throw up
00:47:33I'm gonna throw up
00:47:34okay
00:47:36look at him
00:47:37look at him
00:47:38more beautiful in person
00:47:41Oh.
00:47:43Oh.
00:47:45Oh.
00:47:47Oh.
00:47:49Yeah.
00:47:51I am.
00:47:53Oh.
00:48:05Look at them more beautiful in person.
00:48:07No.
00:48:09You.
00:48:11She's a good kisser.
00:48:13I know. It felt good.
00:48:15It felt natural. It felt good.
00:48:17It did. You're getting red.
00:48:19You're a blessing. You're a blessing.
00:48:21I love it.
00:48:23Oh.
00:48:25You're here. I know.
00:48:27You're very beautiful.
00:48:29Thank you. You look really good too.
00:48:31And I'm super happy.
00:48:33Love that.
00:48:35Oh.
00:48:39Aviva got a fat ass. I had no idea.
00:48:41I know she's been in the gym a lot.
00:48:43But what? I like it.
00:48:47It was like.
00:48:49Oh. Oh. Oh.
00:48:51I've got you Chinese food since you asked.
00:48:53And uh.
00:48:55No way.
00:48:57It's up.
00:48:59Don't eat that. Don't eat that.
00:49:01Please don't. Just throw it away.
00:49:03You did say that if I bring it to you,
00:49:05you'd marry me so.
00:49:07I mean I brought it.
00:49:09I brought it. It's here.
00:49:11Out of my word.
00:49:12Ask anybody.
00:49:13Ask about me.
00:49:14Okay.
00:49:15Okay.
00:49:16Ready?
00:49:17Let's go.
00:49:18Let me get that one for you.
00:49:22I definitely feel a spark right away.
00:49:26I couldn't have asked for a better first kiss.
00:49:31It was a very magical moment.
00:49:33He definitely smelled better than the Chinese food I was carrying.
00:49:38Please throw this away now.
00:49:39I'm gonna eat it.
00:49:41You'll get sick.
00:49:42We're throwing it away.
00:49:43It's going.
00:49:44It's going.
00:49:45It's gone.
00:49:46Today is just making me feel really special.
00:49:49And I know I only just got here.
00:49:51But it just seems like the rumors Aunt Spring brought up.
00:49:55That he hasn't been exclusive with just me.
00:49:58Seem a little silly and not true.
00:50:01You're actually here.
00:50:03I know.
00:50:04What are we gonna do?
00:50:05Well.
00:50:06I did bring some lingerie.
00:50:08Okay.
00:50:09Uh-uh.
00:50:12Laura is coming to Turkey.
00:50:14And it makes me feel excited.
00:50:17Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaked now.
00:50:20I know that's something that I should tell her.
00:50:30But I don't know how she's gonna react.
00:50:33Yeah.
00:50:34Bye.
00:50:35Bye.
00:50:36Bye.
00:50:38Bye.
00:50:39Bye.
00:50:40Bye.
00:50:41Take care.
00:50:42Bye.
00:50:43I'm sure to ride.
00:50:44Bye.
00:50:45Bye.
00:50:46Bye.
00:50:47Bye.
00:50:48Just be safe, okay?
00:50:49Bye.
00:50:50Bye.
00:50:51Bye.
00:50:52Bye.
00:50:53Bye.
00:50:54Bye.
00:50:55Bye.
00:50:56Bye.
00:50:57I'm about to head to Turkey so I can meet BeerCon in person for the very first time.
00:51:01And I'm trying not to think about all of the things that my parents were saying.
00:51:06Hi. Love you. Bye. Bye.
00:51:18There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face,
00:51:22and everyone that was naysaying against it will tell me that they told me so.
00:51:27But I feel like life is a series of calculated risks.
00:51:31And if I'm not willing to take a risk for love, then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:51:48I have about 13 hours until I get to meet the love of my life.
00:51:53And I need to decompress from just all of the negative energy from the car ride with my parents
00:52:01with a good smitty book, with some really steamy moments.
00:52:05This is the best part.
00:52:15It's darkness, you know.
00:52:17It's what I love about Nietzsche.
00:52:19He lightens the people around him, but he's the darkness himself.
00:52:24He was the part of the reason I wanted to find the light.
00:52:30I am into philosophy because life is deep, but we are living on the surface.
00:52:36I am trying to learn lives that I never lived.
00:52:39I discovered Nietzsche on my toughest time of my life.
00:52:46I had the chance to have a professional career of a football player.
00:52:50I was on the training, and my knee collapsed with the other one's knee,
00:52:56and my AC had crashed.
00:52:59I know it was over.
00:53:01But I still play football for fun.
00:53:05You know, I love the game.
00:53:07You just have to keep moving.
00:53:09The embrace the pain.
00:53:11Life is like this.
00:53:13One part is struggling, and one part is surviving.
00:53:17One shot!
00:53:18After I raptured my ACL, it was just the end of everything, you know?
00:53:30Everything I dream of, and now I rebuild it from the bottom.
00:53:34And what's helping me the most is finding Laura, actually.
00:53:41It was destiny.
00:53:43I met Laura in Snapchat.
00:53:48We started talking and joking around.
00:53:52She was so supportive, so optimistic.
00:53:55She made me believe that dreaming is okay.
00:54:01That's the point that I realized she was perfect for me.
00:54:05I'm in the darkness, but I can see the sun.
00:54:08It was about third or four weeks I told her I love her.
00:54:14And now Laura is coming to Turkey, and it makes me feel excited.
00:54:20Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaked out.
00:54:26I want to move things to the next level, and maybe propose.
00:54:30I don't know yet.
00:54:31I'm waiting for just meaning.
00:54:33I've been gay.
00:54:38How are you feeling?
00:54:39I'm good.
00:54:40You're good, you're good.
00:54:42I'm good.
00:54:43Memo and Yutuba are my best friends in Izmir.
00:54:47I'm not close with my family, so they are the closest people I have.
00:54:52We didn't see the stones, I saw the stones.
00:54:57I saw the stones.
00:54:59What are you doing?
00:55:00Good.
00:55:01What do you do?
00:55:02Laura will come tomorrow.
00:55:04But we will die.
00:55:07We will die.
00:55:09You can see it in the first time.
00:55:11You can see it in the first time.
00:55:13I heard the voice of your voice.
00:55:16I said hello.
00:55:18But I didn't see it.
00:55:22How old was it?
00:55:2445.
00:55:2545.
00:55:27Do you know this problem?
00:55:30Think about it.
00:55:32When you come to 45, he will be at 65.
00:55:36Do you want to see one more younger than you?
00:55:40Do you know who I am?
00:55:45She's old.
00:55:47It's okay.
00:55:48Because I dated older woman before.
00:55:51The thing I'm attracted with older woman is they understand, you know?
00:55:57Not childish.
00:55:59And Laura looks good when you consider her age.
00:56:04She looks young.
00:56:06When my football career is over, I opened up a couple businesses.
00:56:12Eventually everything is failed and I couldn't find a proper job.
00:56:18She knows that I have some troubles, but she doesn't know how much...
00:56:24I know that's something that I should tell her.
00:56:26But I don't know how she's going to react.
00:56:27I don't know how she's going to react.
00:56:29But I don't know how she's going to react.
00:56:30I don't know how she's going to
00:56:56but I don't know how she's going to react.
00:56:57She's going to react.
00:56:58That's not a joke.
00:56:59She's going to be a fan, she's going to be a fan.
00:57:00She's going to be a fan.
00:57:01She's going to be a fan.
00:57:02You're one of the closest friends you've been with you.
00:57:04You're my friend.
00:57:06You're my friend.
00:57:08My best friend, my friend.
00:57:10I'm really scared about you.
00:57:13I want this friend to be able to get rid of you.
00:57:17If you have any questions at this point...
00:57:20...you may be interested in this situation.
00:57:23You may be interested in this situation.
00:57:27It's not a thing to say.
00:57:29I don't like it as much as I don't like it, I don't like it as much as I don't like it.
00:57:32He knows this, but I don't like Michael.
00:57:59I'm supposed to be your confidant, I thought that you were with somebody else.
00:58:08Now that we're face to face, I feel like I can see the truth in her eyes.
00:58:13I didn't tell you everything, but um...
00:58:16Oh man, I'm scared now.
00:58:20I'm done.
00:58:30I'm done.
00:58:35Faith, you okay?
00:58:41I can't, I can't.
00:58:45Now I'm going to get out of her.
00:58:47I don't know what to do at this point, because it always ends up being a fight.
00:58:53Every time I've tried to voice my opinion, she doesn't want to talk about me, she doesn't
00:59:00want to hear me, or she told me I'm not allowed to feel that way.
00:59:05And see if we can find her, see if we can fix this.
00:59:09Faith, let me talk to you for a minute.
00:59:22I really don't want to.
00:59:24No, look at me, look at me.
00:59:26Please look at me.
00:59:28I love Daniel, and I know that you're worried that I'm in another bad relationship and things
00:59:33are going to go sour, and you're trying to save me from that.
00:59:37But I don't want you to feel like you're being second choice.
00:59:40I will always choose you before somebody else.
00:59:42Look at me.
00:59:43I will.
00:59:44You said, do not marry Daniel while I'm in Nigeria.
00:59:47I promise you with the bottom of my heart, I am not marrying Daniel while I'm in Nigeria.
00:59:52I'm not.
00:59:54Just give me the opportunity to do this.
00:59:57If you break this promise...
00:59:59I'm not going to break this promise.
01:00:01If you break this promise again, I can't do this anymore.
01:00:06No, because that would be toxic, and I'm not a toxic person anymore, okay?
01:00:11So just please, give me a hug.
01:00:13I really need some space right now.
01:00:16Okay.
01:00:17I'll do that.
01:00:24This was an awful lot for her today.
01:00:30I have been in so many relationships and moved around so much on this poor child when
01:00:34she was little.
01:00:37But at that time, I was searching for who I was.
01:00:40I want to show her that this is different.
01:00:43I'm a grown-up.
01:00:45I'm not this young mom who is trying to take care of a young child and have a relationship
01:00:50after relationship.
01:00:51I want my happily ever after.
01:00:53I want this to be forever.
01:00:55And Faith doesn't see that yet.
01:01:00Can I talk to you for a minute?
01:01:10Can I talk to you for a minute?
01:01:12I'm trying to understand your feelings, and I'm trying to not fight about it.
01:01:21Is your biggest fear that I'm going to marry him without you knowing him, and that I'm going
01:01:25to choose him over you?
01:01:27You never listen.
01:01:30I'm telling you to think about us first.
01:01:40Listen, I understand your point of view.
01:01:43I'm listening to you, and I'm going there to get to know him better.
01:01:46I'm going there to see if we are compatible.
01:01:49I'm not going there just to run off and get married.
01:01:52I'm listening to your concerns, and I am going to voice them.
01:01:56I promise you I will.
01:01:58Okay?
01:01:59Can I have a hug now?
01:02:01Okay, come here.
01:02:02I love you.
01:02:03I will start listening better.
01:02:05I'm proud of everything you do.
01:02:07You are wonderful and kind-hearted and loving and sweet and caring, and you have been good
01:02:12to your mother, regardless of what I've put you through.
01:02:15And I'm proud of you, and I will listen to you more.
01:02:18Okay?
01:02:19All right.
01:02:22I understand where Faith is coming from, and I understand that she has been down this road
01:02:27with past relationships over and over again.
01:02:30I hold her opinion deeply in my heart, but I think Daniel's different.
01:02:37I think he's the real deal.
01:02:38I think he's a very precious man who is very rare, and I would be a fool not to go after him.
01:02:47Can we go home now?
01:02:49Okay?
01:02:50Welcome, welcome.
01:03:03Stig is everything I thought he would be.
01:03:04He looks super good.
01:03:06There is definitely some chemistry, but it's a bit scary.
01:03:10bit scary i mean i definitely want to respect your lifestyle and i don't want to be super jealous
01:03:16or crazy but i hope that you haven't been seeing other people just breathe you got this you're a
01:03:25man she and i have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other and i'm hoping my mom
01:03:31will not fight with sheena i just don't know how to feel on this whole situation yeah there's still
01:03:37some things that have to be discussed before we can proceed
01:03:42no way i love it
01:04:01celebrity style is okay
01:04:05can i take a picture of it yeah sure
01:04:09lovely lovely girl
01:04:12you know you can change the world
01:04:17so where are we going i don't even know where we're going i don't know
01:04:24i don't know you don't know no i don't the driver you know where we're going the driver's just taking
01:04:29us he don't know where we're going to meet her whatever so i don't know but i can tell you though
01:04:33we're going to spend the night in really city at a hotel tomorrow we're going to go to the islands
01:04:38i do have a show out of the islands okay um some new songs i'm excited to perform those
01:04:46hopefully i kill it you know okay a lot of people are going to be there
01:04:49yep are you ready to be there are you ready for that
01:04:53i do want me there even of course i want to do
01:04:57okay
01:04:58i know stig can't stop working while i'm here i would never ask him to do that
01:05:06but i'm really shocked to hear that i'm seeing stig perform already in just a couple days
01:05:13we're here
01:05:15i've been a little bit nervous about having to watch him on stage with girls
01:05:21and having him interact with fans in front of me
01:05:24and now i'm going to be thrusted into it right away
01:05:28and it's a bit scary
01:05:30welcome welcome
01:05:33so we'll have an extra prize for you okay since you said that you love the flower
01:05:42i got you some more flowers oh well they're so pretty thank you this was to show you that
01:05:47you're my one and only and this is to show some gratitude that you're here
01:05:51oh thank you i like them they're so pretty
01:05:55check them out
01:05:56stig is everything i thought you would be he looks super good
01:06:00there is definitely some chemistry what are you gonna do with those
01:06:05i'm all over you
01:06:06we've been touching each other kissing each other so i hope the night continues on
01:06:13sexually
01:06:15let's get comfy
01:06:18that sounds good to me
01:06:20i'm attracted to her even more in person
01:06:22but i'm a gentleman i'm not gonna just push up on her and try to get some the first night
01:06:29we'll see how it goes i'm gonna let it play out the way it should play
01:06:32i'm getting more comfy
01:06:35so
01:06:38what about you at that
01:06:40a flower sorry it's not a rose
01:06:42what is it is a rose
01:06:43i think it is a rose
01:06:45what are you gonna get
01:06:47stig on your forehead
01:06:48could get it only if you get aviva
01:06:50leave my ass and i have aviva big on my neck or something
01:06:55same how do you think i would feel
01:06:56i'm gonna leave you
01:06:57unless you make me leave you
01:07:01what would make you want to leave me
01:07:05that's a good question
01:07:07if you um
01:07:08you can't understand
01:07:10what i do for work and how i
01:07:12you know
01:07:13my lifestyle because of what i do and who i am
01:07:15yeah i mean i definitely want to respect your lifestyle
01:07:18and i don't want to be super jealous or crazy
01:07:21but but i also want to be
01:07:24like respected too just like
01:07:26i hope that you haven't been seeing other people
01:07:30because i feel like we've been talking seriously but
01:07:32why are you rolling your eyes like that
01:07:36i don't know
01:07:37because like
01:07:38you don't trust me
01:07:38oh you don't trust me
01:07:40i mean i know your lifestyle
01:07:43there's a lot of beautiful women around you
01:07:45always so
01:07:46they're not you though
01:07:47okay mr charmer
01:07:50i got you
01:07:53i do have one more thing for you that's not
01:08:02that's still chinese food
01:08:04okay
01:08:05yeah
01:08:06steak makes me feel really comfortable
01:08:08he just knows the exact right thing to say
01:08:11and steak and i just feel right together
01:08:14it's just a spark a connection
01:08:16a happiness
01:08:17all wrapped together with a bow
01:08:21i don't know how to explain it
01:08:24hi
01:08:30hi
01:08:31yes man that is it
01:08:58she's fine as
01:09:00i will be soon
01:09:05aviva just might be the one
01:09:08but i don't think she understands the extent of my lifestyle as a performer
01:09:13sometimes girls go on stage dance on me
01:09:16you know girls be in my dms
01:09:18some pretty girls
01:09:19i don't know if she can handle all that
01:09:21she said she will
01:09:23but
01:09:24we'll see
01:09:25all right
01:09:35i'm on monster passport
01:09:36left on the airplane
01:09:38but
01:09:40we
01:09:41found it
01:09:42got it
01:09:43figured out
01:09:44here we go
01:09:46he's texting me
01:09:57he's already here
01:09:59he's feeling so happy
01:10:01and floating
01:10:02enlightened feeling
01:10:04all right
01:10:07here we go
01:10:08i actually have to go freshen up in the bathroom
01:10:11yeah
01:10:12go ahead
01:10:12oh man i gotta find it
01:10:13see you in a minute
01:10:14this way
01:10:15oh man
01:10:17i just don't know how to feel on this whole situation
01:10:20yeah
01:10:21it's just
01:10:22i mean
01:10:22i think that i have these ideas of what i want to say
01:10:25because the emotions get there
01:10:27the feelings get there
01:10:28settle down
01:10:30while we settle down
01:10:31just breathe
01:10:39this is gonna be good
01:10:40everything's gonna be at peace
01:10:43you got this
01:10:45you got this
01:10:46you're the man
01:10:46keep moving forward
01:10:48my mom did not take kindly to sheena lying about the money again
01:10:52she sent text messages to sheena that made her really upset and hurt
01:10:59so i'm hoping that my mom will not fight with sheena
01:11:04hey mom
01:11:07sheena and i have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other
01:11:10and i just want everything to go smoothly
01:11:13you
01:11:14you look good
01:11:15let's get this
01:11:16mixed up a little bit
01:11:18here let me get this
01:11:19little
01:11:19there you go
01:11:21you look good
01:11:21thank you
01:11:22are you ready
01:11:23yeah i'm ready
01:11:24this is your moment
01:11:24okay
01:11:25i'm so nervous
01:11:30let's do this thing
01:11:37here it comes
01:11:39you got this
01:11:39you will do fine
01:11:40you tell her hello
01:11:41you say you'll just do whatever you feel
01:11:43okay
01:11:44you got this
01:11:46go for us go
01:11:48thank you i love you guys
01:11:49oh my goodness
01:12:01oh my goodness
01:12:17oh my goodness
01:12:19oh my goodness
01:12:21oh my goodness
01:12:27Our journey is about to start, and we're going to go to the next level.
01:12:44God love you, too.
01:12:45Oh, Lord.
01:12:51Meeting you, getting to be with you finally, is my world.
01:12:56Why everything?
01:12:58Everything.
01:12:59Oh, Papa Bear.
01:13:01She...
01:13:02Oh, I just want to do, baby.
01:13:04You're the best muggle bear ever.
01:13:06I love you.
01:13:08It feels like heaven.
01:13:11It's the best I have ever felt.
01:13:15Oh, no.
01:13:16Sheena, can I kiss?
01:13:17You kiss?
01:13:19Sure.
01:13:19Oh, my goodness.
01:13:25What's the most?
01:13:27Kissing you.
01:13:28Oh.
01:13:30It was ecstatic.
01:13:32She has some really good, like, perfume or something on.
01:13:35Actually, I put some, a lot of flavored perfumes in it.
01:13:40Oh, I know you're going to love it.
01:13:41Oh, I'm loving it right now.
01:13:42I think I got it all over me.
01:13:43Oh, really?
01:13:44Yeah.
01:13:45That's why.
01:13:47I got mom and dad here, too, with us.
01:13:53I want us to be a big family.
01:13:54Hi, Mom.
01:13:55Hi.
01:13:56Hi, Mom.
01:14:01Hi.
01:14:01Hi, Mom.
01:14:02Hi, Mom.
01:14:03Hi, Mom.
01:14:04Hi, Mom.
01:14:04Hi, Mom.
01:14:04Hi, Mom.
01:14:05Hi, Mom.
01:14:05Hi, Mom.
01:14:06Hi, Mom.
01:14:07Hi, Mom.
01:14:09Hi, Mom.
01:14:10Hi, Mom.
01:14:10Hi, Mom.
01:14:10Hi, Mom.
01:14:10Hi, Mom.
01:14:11Hi.
01:14:11You got to be crying, Porsche.
01:14:12All right, now, yeah, I'm going to have the same image here.
01:14:17Oh, boy.
01:14:19Seeing Sheena cry, seeing Boris cry, and then the big trigger was just death, and then that
01:14:25was the waterworks.
01:14:26You're all right, Sheena.
01:14:27You're okay, okay?
01:14:30I was surprised that it got to me like that.
01:14:34I don't cry very often.
01:14:36And right there, I couldn't hold it back, you know, and kind of felt good, I guess.
01:14:42Sorry.
01:14:43I completely apologize for everything that has happened.
01:14:46Well, thank you for apologizing, but let's make this a happy moment, all right?
01:14:51Yes, ma'am.
01:14:52Because we're going to be, today is a happy day.
01:14:54Yes.
01:14:54We are all together, right?
01:14:55Yes.
01:14:55I'm so glad to see you guys.
01:14:57It's been like a family.
01:14:59We're family now.
01:15:00We're family.
01:15:02You're with family now, Sheen.
01:15:04Seeing her face-to-face with him, face-to-face with me, this whole thing is just so overwhelming.
01:15:13I love you, machine.
01:15:14I love baby, man.
01:15:16And he got the softest lips ever.
01:15:17Oh, really?
01:15:18And he tastes like candy.
01:15:19But apology aside, there's still some things that have to be discussed and talked about
01:15:28before we can proceed.
01:15:31That's just how I see it.
01:15:33I would call you, you would press decline, and then I would hear back for hours.
01:15:44I didn't tell you everything, but, um.
01:15:50During the time that Trish ghosted me for those five days, I made the biggest mistake of my life.
01:15:58What did you do?
01:16:03I promise I will tell you everything, but promise me that she won't get mad.
01:16:16Okay, I can promise you that I won't get mad, but I can't promise that it won't hurt me.
01:16:39About months ago, I had a lot going on in my life.
01:16:43And for five days, I didn't answer Rick's call.
01:16:49He was really, really upset, and it caused a huge problem for us.
01:16:57Um, my ex-boyfriend got robbed.
01:17:00Right, yeah, you told me about that.
01:17:02Yeah.
01:17:02And you said that he blamed you?
01:17:05Yeah, he blames me.
01:17:06Like, I was complete for everything, so I was really nervous and upset.
01:17:13And also, I didn't tell you everything, but, um.
01:17:21Oh, man.
01:17:22I'm scared, man.
01:17:23After my ex-boyfriend got robbed, my brother got in an accident.
01:17:30He hurt someone, bumped someone on my scooter.
01:17:34We did a lot of process, like going for the radiographic.
01:17:39And the guy at the hospital, we're paying for his food and paying for everything he needs.
01:17:46Then we went to the police to pay for the amends.
01:17:51Baby, why didn't you tell me that?
01:17:54I mean, I would call you, call you.
01:17:57You would press decline.
01:17:59I didn't press decline.
01:18:01Or you would just not pick up.
01:18:03I didn't.
01:18:03And I would text you, and then I wouldn't hear back for hours.
01:18:07I thought that you were with somebody else.
01:18:09I didn't even really care about my phone.
01:18:15I didn't even want to talk to anybody when I came back there, because I was nervous and really upset.
01:18:23Baby, I'm not just anybody.
01:18:23I'm supposed to be your confidant.
01:18:25We have to work together.
01:18:27But I didn't see you yet, Rick.
01:18:28So it's scary to tell all my problems.
01:18:33Maybe just say, that's not true.
01:18:36I don't believe.
01:18:37Maybe she just wants money.
01:18:39Maybe you will judge me, but, yeah, I was wrong.
01:18:51I'm really, really sorry to hurt you so much, but it's different now, because I see you.
01:18:58I see who you are.
01:19:00So I can share, like, everything happens to my life.
01:19:07You okay?
01:19:08I'm okay.
01:19:15I completely understand what you're saying now.
01:19:18Thank you so much for explaining everything to me.
01:19:25I just didn't know what to do, baby.
01:19:28What she was telling me before just wasn't adding up in that moment.
01:19:35But now that we're face to face, I feel like I can see the truth in her eyes.
01:19:40And I feel a little bit guilty for not trusting her.
01:19:45Here she is going through all these things.
01:19:49And instead of being there for her, I made the biggest mistake of my life.
01:19:54During the time that Trish ghosted me for those five days, I talked to my ex from Colombia.
01:20:11And she said that, you know, why don't you, you know, come down here?
01:20:17I'm missing you.
01:20:18And so, you know, I decided to book a trip and go spend time with her.
01:20:27Even though Trish started talking to me again, in my heart, I believe that she cheated on me.
01:20:34And so, I still went to Colombia.
01:20:39My ex stayed with me for the week.
01:20:42We were acting as a couple once again.
01:20:46Did you have sex?
01:20:48We had sex all the time, the whole time.
01:20:52Multiple times a day, every day.
01:20:56I feel bad for that.
01:20:59So, I know that I need to tell her.
01:21:01But I'm extremely scared that it'll be something that she can't forgive me for.
01:21:08And it might be the end of us.
01:21:15Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:18This is it.
01:21:20I can't believe I'm about to meet him.
01:21:22I'm really proud of the progress that I've made.
01:21:24But I am nervous.
01:21:26BeerCon won't be as attracted to me in person.
01:21:29Oh, my God.
01:21:32Here we go.
01:21:37Enough, Lisa.
01:21:39She's thick.
01:21:40She has box.
01:21:42But as an evil man, I am worried about that she was physical with a woman.
01:21:47We don't accept that.
01:21:48We're here going to the Philippines.
01:22:06Yes, I'm going to see my wife.
01:22:08I've never even met my wife here.
01:22:11This will be actually our first meet.
01:22:14Oh, okay.
01:22:14Me and Anna, we've been married two years.
01:22:19He said that?
01:22:21No.
01:22:22We have been in a relationship for six years and married for almost three years.
01:22:26Okay?
01:22:28Did you guys do the old nookin' nookin'?
01:22:33You're pushing too far.
01:22:37It's in the right time, more places.
01:22:38Yeah.
01:22:40Sheena already has that control, that thumb on him.
01:22:43Let's not forget, she was giving all of her money to her parents instead of saving for their future.
01:22:49You haven't given me a direct answer as to why you lied.
01:22:55The pieces aren't lining up.
01:22:57I don't like that we were fighting yesterday, but there's something else I wanted to, like, talk to you about that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
01:23:09What?
01:23:10What is this?
01:23:10What's happened?
01:23:11I really want to tell the end about my last engagement because I think it's the only way that we could move forward.
01:23:22I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:24I don't know what I'm going to do.
01:23:46I don't know what I'm going to do.
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