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00:00Previously on The Real Housewives of Potomac.
00:03We all went to Nigeria.
00:04I really wanted to see that.
00:06It's been over 20 years.
00:11Greg has asked me to move back in.
00:13You're moved out for a purpose.
00:16So we're moving in with the ring on the finger.
00:18Are you helping me?
00:20Oh, you're hurting me here.
00:21What's going on?
00:22Happy wife, happy life.
00:23You know it is.
00:24So we're celebrating the 4th of July.
00:26OK.
00:27We're bringing the kids, we're bringing the husbands.
00:28Yes.
00:29Oh, look, it's crazy.
00:30Was that her husband?
00:32That's Timo.
00:33Basically, long story short, this house was double bumped.
00:37I got a message from the homeowner basically saying,
00:39I hope you had a good say.
00:42He just left Angel's.
00:43He's literally having to move out.
00:45She just came here basically for the show.
00:48Tia has talked to Giselle.
00:51And you had to move with her days?
00:53I ain't going to dance around it.
00:54The people say you a victim.
00:56They ain't single.
00:58I ain't going to dance around it.
01:00The people say you a victim.
01:01So I was confused because I was sure that I had let them know the exact date when we
01:09were leaving.
01:10So this is why I was so upset and kind of unmoored.
01:13Because had I known it was July 1st, I wouldn't have put myself and my family in a position
01:18where we're having to hurry up and figure out another situation.
01:24This is not evicting homegirl.
01:27What exactly is the definition of eviction?
01:30Maybe we should look that up.
01:32Siri says, expulsion, ejection, ousting, throwing out, displacement, clearance.
01:37That's exactly what happened.
01:39Me and Angel have been friends for 20 years.
01:41And Angel has always been trustworthy.
01:43You're bringing up eviction and Angel's name in the same sentence.
01:46Leave my girlfriend alone.
01:48There has been some other talk that you move purposefully into this area to be in the group.
01:54Okay.
01:55Well, that's not true at all.
01:57I moved here to be with Ashley and Giselle and Wendy?
02:01Are you kidding me?
02:03There was no eviction.
02:04It's not like that.
02:05So we're...
02:06Okay.
02:07It's all good.
02:08Yeah, I'm glad that you guys are okay.
02:09Yeah, we're fine.
02:10Yes, ma'am.
02:11She is over there with her friends.
02:13We have our 15-year anniversary coming up.
02:15Damn.
02:16Yeah, we've been together for a while, yeah.
02:17That's wild.
02:18Wendy wants a new ring.
02:19Oh, .
02:20No, that's cool, man.
02:21Yeah.
02:22I can tell you're happy, but you smile.
02:23Yeah.
02:24That's cool as hell.
02:25Hi.
02:26Hi.
02:27How are you?
02:28Good.
02:29How are you?
02:30Fine, babe.
02:31Oh, this is a hubby.
02:32Hi.
02:33Nice to meet you.
02:34And this is a pretty girl.
02:35Hi.
02:36Yes.
02:37This is Sharice.
02:38Nice to see you.
02:39And here comes Sharice slithering over in lingerie.
02:44This is a family event.
02:46Why are you talking to me?
02:49Be gone.
02:50Are you happy now, babe?
02:51Yeah.
02:52Uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, uh.
02:54Dean and Dylan.
02:55That's a real life power boy.
02:57I'm so glad that we are finally meeting.
03:00I have been expressing to Timo quite often how much I appreciate you.
03:04Aw.
03:05I'm gonna walk him out.
03:06Okay.
03:07Unfortunately.
03:08Oh, he said no.
03:09Yeah.
03:10Oh, I didn't get a chit-chat.
03:11We will.
03:12We want to continue the friendship.
03:13Aw.
03:14Nice meeting you.
03:15It was so good meeting you.
03:16All right.
03:17Nice meeting you, man.
03:18Yeah.
03:19Talk soon.
03:20Okay.
03:21I appreciate you.
03:22I love you.
03:23I love you, too.
03:29So, Timo.
03:30Yes.
03:31Just left.
03:32Why?
03:33Um, I think he's still nervous around the group.
03:35No, no, no.
03:36Why are we catering to this?
03:37Why are we handing him a kid glove?
03:38So, he walked out the door?
03:39Yeah.
03:40At first, I just thought he was part of the rec center, um, staff.
03:43Because I did not know who this gentleman was.
03:45You okay?
03:46Yeah.
03:47Then I look up again, he's gone.
03:48So, I guess he doesn't know how to have fun.
03:52The ladies need to meet us on the field.
03:54Yeah.
03:56All right.
03:57I have teams.
03:59Can we be on here with our heels?
04:01I think you guys should take your shoes off.
04:03Are we gonna lose our security deposit?
04:05How are you and Tia?
04:08So, what was the answer on the security deposit?
04:11Or what were...
04:12I love this belt.
04:13What does it say?
04:14Chia Popeyes?
04:15Girl, I don't know.
04:16Chia Popeyes.
04:17I don't know.
04:21So, the game is...
04:22You got this.
04:23Okay, let's go.
04:24For us to just make it to the line.
04:26Okay, three, two, one.
04:28Okay, come on.
04:29Come on, Stacy.
04:30Go!
04:33We got it.
04:34We got it.
04:35Cherise.
04:36I'm on the ground because of you, ma'am.
04:42You couldn't get your left foot and your right foot together.
04:44We got it.
04:45We got it.
04:46We got it.
04:47We got it.
04:48We got it.
04:49Can we all shut her out?
04:50Y'all can call A-A-R-E.
04:53Okay, that didn't work out for me at all.
04:57Oh, my God.
04:58This is my son.
04:59Hey, son.
05:00We're back at four.
05:01Nice to meet you again.
05:02Hi, Tia.
05:03Nice to meet you.
05:04Hi, Tia.
05:05Nice to meet you.
05:06Hi, Tia.
05:07He's so handsome.
05:08Ashley.
05:09Look, he's here.
05:10Hi, Jackson.
05:11How are you?
05:12Um, how are the kids?
05:14The kids are good.
05:15What are you laughing at?
05:16Remember that night that after the crab boil?
05:29Yeah.
05:30Okay, is this where you're dropping me off?
05:32Yep.
05:33Okay, well, thank you so much.
05:34You're welcome.
05:35You know, Jackson drove home because I was a little inebriated.
05:38A little tipsy?
05:39Mm-hmm.
05:40Uh-huh.
05:41Okay, here we go.
05:43Here we go.
05:44Here we go.
05:47Spit it out.
05:48Spit it out.
05:49Okay, we may have had a little smooch.
05:51Whoa.
05:52I might stop sweating.
05:54I'm sweating.
05:55I'm perspiring here.
05:56I'm...
05:57Now...
05:58Now I'm super sweating.
05:59You know, we got to my house, and Jackson came in to use the bathroom, and then as he
06:05was holding his hand out with my key, I went to take my key, and then he grabbed my hand,
06:10and he pulled me to him.
06:12Yeah.
06:13I saw a different side of him that night.
06:14We playing with my son.
06:15No, no, no, no.
06:16I think we just sort of needed a little comfort in each other in the moment.
06:21Okay.
06:22And...
06:23If it didn't end at the kiss, you'd be okay with it.
06:26I got to digest on this one.
06:27Oh, my God.
06:28No, me too, actually.
06:29I didn't know if I was ever going to tell you this.
06:31I had no idea Jackson was coming today with Sharice.
06:35Yeah, he's got those nice full lips in him.
06:37Yeah.
06:38Yeah.
06:40It's game time.
06:41You get to pick a team for a tug of war, and you get to pick a team for a tug of war.
06:45Oh.
06:46Okay.
06:47Ashley goes first.
06:48Ashley gets to go first.
06:49Ashley goes first.
06:50Oh, boom.
06:51My first choice is going to be...
06:53Giselle.
06:54Yay!
06:55Eddie.
06:56Jackson.
06:57Kaye.
06:58Sharice.
06:59She's going to be none other than Wendy.
07:00Cass.
07:01Oh, my.
07:02Rob.
07:03Tia.
07:04Go, Greg.
07:05Stacey!
07:06Yes, you're not mine.
07:08Let's do this.
07:11Locked in, bro.
07:13Oh, oh.
07:18See you, Toby?
07:20There you go!
07:21There you go!
07:22There you go!
07:23I told you!
07:24I told you!
07:25I told you!
07:28We won!
07:29We won!
07:30We won!
07:31We won already!
07:32We were winning before!
07:33They tried to cut our heads off.
07:34I know.
07:35We made it.
07:36We're alive.
07:37They are acting like they're going to get a new wig or something.
07:39Like, what are we really fighting for?
07:41What is the prize?
07:42What's this?
07:43What is this?
07:44She was scared of my girls, and then she didn't want me to hold it.
07:45And I was like, they've ruined it for me.
07:46Her outfit is so cute.
07:47I don't mean you feel some type of way about something.
07:48I don't mean you feel some type of way about something.
07:49I don't know.
07:50I don't know.
07:51I don't know.
07:52I don't know.
07:53I don't know.
07:54I don't know.
07:55Her outfit is so cute.
07:56I don't mean you feel some type of way about somebody.
08:00You know?
08:01Come over here.
08:02I mean, you know that I am going through something that is, like, unexpected.
08:06OK, get a pink pony!
08:08Like, I don't need to move anywhere for anybody.
08:12Angel, I know that you have a lot to talk about, but it's game time.
08:16So you're going to ask me if I'm evicted, and now I'm supposed to hop down the turf and
08:20be buddy-buddy with you and say, yeehaw.
08:22Like, I don't know how this Colorado trip is going to go.
08:25Ladies, we have been invited.
08:27Sister Angel.
08:28Pack your cutest fits.
08:30I'm honored to invite you all to Colorado for a few days.
08:33But I know for sure I'm going to keep my head high like I always do.
08:37The name of this game is Pink Pony.
08:40OK.
08:41OK.
08:42We have to giddy up to the halfway line.
08:46OK.
08:47OK.
08:48And then you've got to come back and tag your person.
08:50It's a relay.
08:51One, two, three.
08:54Are we giddying up or what do we do?
08:56That's not a giddy up.
08:57That's not a giddy up.
08:58All right.
08:59OK.
09:00All right.
09:01Go, go!
09:02All right.
09:03Go, Stacey.
09:04Are we ready? What's going on?
09:05What is Stacey doing?
09:07I don't know.
09:08Go, put Stacey up.
09:09We won!
09:10We won!
09:11We won!
09:12We won!
09:13We won!
09:14We won!
09:15We won!
09:16We won!
09:17We won!
09:18We won!
09:19We're faster!
09:20Eddie!
09:21Eddie, stop checking for Stacey!
09:22Everybody's a winner today!
09:23All right.
09:27Let's have some on your plate.
09:28You taste that and you tell me how much you like it.
09:31You need a special plate.
09:34Mm-hmm.
09:35Y'all have no trouble.
09:36You're gonna...
09:38It's just the American flag for the cowboys.
09:42It's the same thing.
09:43So how are you guys doing?
09:46We all move back in?
09:47All right.
09:48So this makes it official, official, official.
09:50Yeah.
09:51That'd be great for y'all.
09:52Kay, I don't know whether you know this, but this is like woman power 101.
09:57In the words of the old aunties, girl, you done lost your power.
10:00That man is never gonna give you a ring because he knows he doesn't have to.
10:03Oh, Lord.
10:04How did I get caught up in this mix?
10:06Do you like the potato salad, sweetie?
10:09You do?
10:10Oh, Pam.
10:12That makes me feel so good.
10:14I can't wait to hear what Eddie thinks.
10:17So much to eat that I didn't save space.
10:22Yeah, take a piece of potato salad.
10:24Taste it.
10:25I mean, this is...
10:26I mean, the smell is good.
10:28A lot of flavor in one spoon.
10:30I like it.
10:31Yeah.
10:32I just tasted it.
10:33So take another bite.
10:34I gotta save space for the rest of the food.
10:35Oh!
10:36How are you doing?
10:37Good.
10:38How are you?
10:39Very good.
10:40You been traveling?
10:41A little bit.
10:42Modeling.
10:43Mostly.
10:44New York, Miami doing that a little bit.
10:45We're just catching up, saying hey.
10:46Oh, really?
10:47Yeah.
10:48You know, I did share with your mom that you were very sweet that night and drove me home,
11:04and then we had a little smooch goodnight.
11:06I'm sorry, what happened?
11:07Wait, what happened?
11:08Wait, what happened?
11:09It was just a little smooch goodnight.
11:10Wait, what happened?
11:11That's all it was.
11:12No, wait, hold on.
11:13That's true?
11:14But that's your friend's son.
11:17It was just a little kiss, okay?
11:19A little kiss.
11:20Yes.
11:21That's what it was?
11:22Yes.
11:23None of y'all ever kissed him like this.
11:25That's not something I would admit to anyone.
11:29I would take that to the grave.
11:30I don't know.
11:31If my friend looked like Ashley, I'd be kind of like, get it, boy, like I am not mad at
11:35it.
11:36I don't know.
11:37Ashley's cute.
11:38Nobody's safe around Ashley.
11:40Hide your coochie.
11:41Hide your young sons.
11:42Hide your old sons.
11:43Hide your daddies.
11:44I mean, this is Ashley's world, and you're just living in it.
11:47Well, thank you for sharing.
11:49This is an interesting way to end Family Fun Day.
11:52And somebody please take Stacey's potato salad.
11:55I don't think there's any luck.
11:57Coming up next.
12:00Hold on one second.
12:01Don't do that to me.
12:02Don't do that to me.
12:03Yeah, but don't do that.
12:04But don't do that.
12:05You can talk to me, but I'm going to protect them.
12:18We have to follow up on the chore chart we talked about.
12:20Yeah.
12:21Okay, so what are some of the things that should be your chores?
12:23Anyone want to volunteer for something?
12:26Okay.
12:27Okay.
12:28How about you, Lexi?
12:29Anything you want to volunteer for?
12:30Okay.
12:31Do you have chores growing up?
12:34Well, we had people for that, but kids are disrespectful.
12:39I think maybe it's an opportunity during the summer holiday.
12:43One child is taking responsibility for making a meal once a week.
12:47They will eat something and then just throw the wrapper on the floor.
12:51Like, who is the maid?
12:52Is it me?
12:53It's definitely not me.
12:54Who keeps kissing the mirrors with...
12:56I don't...
12:58Why are you the first one to say something?
13:00I literally did that in the past, so...
13:02But somebody's still doing it.
13:04What if it do...
13:05Why would it be me?
13:06Because you're always wearing lipstick.
13:08I don't know who's doing it, Nathaniel, but let's stop.
13:12From today, no more.
13:13Okay.
13:14Okay, but what about all the things I did today?
13:17Like what?
13:18What did you do?
13:19Like, I put the Doritos away, I did my things.
13:23You ate your Doritos and then you walked away and you left it on the table.
13:27Okay, so Amira's coming here and I was thinking about taking her to the old house.
13:32Yes, you guys should do that.
13:34Amira's my half-sister and I also have a half-brother who I found out about in my early teens.
13:41At the time, my mum definitely didn't sign up to be a sister-wife.
13:45I really didn't welcome a relationship with Amira because I was a teen mum, still am.
13:50It wasn't until my father passed away that it was almost a necessity.
13:55And it's been great getting to know her personality.
13:58She's got some shade in her as well.
14:00So we must be related.
14:02Are you falling asleep?
14:07Mini adjourned?
14:08Well, yes.
14:09I think we should do a quick assessment of anything that you see could be sorted now.
14:12So, like for instance, whose plate is that?
14:15We might be because we were having this family meeting thing.
14:18Fantastic.
14:19All right?
14:20Come on, buddy.
14:21Let's go do the lawn, man.
14:23I'm tired.
14:36Hey, hey, hey.
14:37Hello.
14:38I brought you some water.
14:39Perfect.
14:41What's up?
14:42Are you ready?
14:43Ready for?
14:44Workout.
14:45Oh, Bella's at the neighbors.
14:48Okay.
14:49So we've got some time to work out.
14:51Time to ourselves.
14:52Exactly.
14:53What should we do?
14:54Hmm.
14:55Let's see.
14:56Want to stand with these machines?
14:59That's not what I thought you were going to say.
15:02I know.
15:03I'm a yogi at heart.
15:04I'm not really trying to be like, you know, working out, working out.
15:10And there we go.
15:11TJ got you.
15:12I like this already.
15:13We all know that couples who sweat together stay together.
15:17And clearly, we're trying to stay together.
15:20I hope and I pray.
15:22Dear Lord.
15:24Okay, here we go.
15:27Is it normal to be this loud?
15:30Ooh.
15:31Is that what people do in gyms?
15:33In a gym, yeah.
15:34How many times?
15:35Ooh.
15:36This is more of ice feet.
15:38Ooh.
15:39Ooh.
15:40Okay, that's not for me.
15:43Is this low enough?
15:45Yeah.
15:46Ooh.
15:47Is this going to give me a bigger butt?
15:49A bigger butt?
15:50Hopefully not.
15:51I want to have a bigger butt.
15:52Everyone says I need a bigger butt.
15:53Yeah, I don't know about that.
15:54Yeah.
15:55Now that Timo is back home, it's almost like we're picking up right where we left off.
16:03He still has his home, but despite getting a divorce, this feels natural.
16:09This feels right.
16:10Let's just say that Ashley's bunions are not the only body part that have been on my countertops.
16:19Coming for my bunions?
16:20You coming for my bunions?
16:21Yes.
16:22Can I see them?
16:23I got two of them.
16:24I got two of them.
16:25I got two of them.
16:26How are you feeling?
16:27I'm feeling pretty good.
16:28Here we are.
16:29Mm-hmm.
16:30In our home, back together.
16:31So I think we've gone through a lot.
16:33I think we made the right decision.
16:35I think so, too.
16:36I think it just requires, like, real love, and I think that's what we still have going.
16:48You're right.
16:49You like having me back in the house?
16:52Yeah?
16:53Yeah?
16:54You know that I do.
16:55You're good.
16:56Well, it feels good to be home.
16:58I think that seeing Bella happy is the most important thing for both of us, right?
17:03Bella's always going to be okay because she has you, and you're an amazing father, and she has me, and I'm, like, clearly amazing.
17:09Um, so, I don't know that Bella has had, like, this big reaction to Timo being back home because we've spent so much time together.
17:21It's almost like he never left.
17:23Bella's happy, and that's all that matters.
17:26All right.
17:28What's next?
17:29Champagne?
17:30Let's go.
17:32Coming up next.
17:34I can't find anything.
17:36Aw, hi, Dad.
17:37I miss you.
17:38I don't want to dwell in the past.
17:51Come on.
17:52Don't be mad.
17:53You running from daddy?
17:54See if I don't like it.
17:55Come on.
17:56Come on.
17:57Come on.
18:03Come on.
18:04Come on.
18:05Come on.
18:06Come on.
18:07Good job, boy.
18:08All right.
18:09Let me find somewhere else to connect because this isn't working.
18:15So we're moving a few things to storage before we go to Colorado.
18:20We definitely thought that we would have found a house by now that we wanted to buy.
18:26But it's okay.
18:27It's all in God's time.
18:28And we'll find the house that we need to find when it's appropriate.
18:33I'm feeling a little stressed.
18:36We have to make sure we restock because a few friends coming out to experience Wonderland.
18:43Even after Potomac and Ponies, I'm going into this trip with an open mind.
18:48And I'm giving the ladies a taste of the Wonderland experience.
18:51So think luxurious, guided, mindful hiking experiences, fly fishing, and horseback rides.
18:58But there are things I won't tolerate, like being disrespectful under my roof.
19:03I really, really want to do something nice for them.
19:08Yeah, throw like a big cookout or something?
19:10A big cookout.
19:11Yeah.
19:12I'll clean up everything so they ain't got to worry about nothing.
19:14No.
19:15Me and you will clean up, honey.
19:16Yeah.
19:17They just show up and eat.
19:18Yeah, they can show up and eat.
19:19Hey, baby.
19:20This is my first time taking stock in all of the renovations.
19:33My favorite part?
19:34The appliances mixed with the cabinetry.
19:36All the gold, how it just all gels together.
19:40I feel such a relief that there are not construction workers here.
19:45Yeah.
19:46I don't hear banging.
19:47I am so excited!
19:50This has been the biggest labor of love.
19:53It was a two-month process.
19:55It felt like two years.
19:57But we made it.
19:59Next thing we're going to do is renovations.
20:01Because now that we've done the whole first floor,
20:03either we do the basement or we build a pool.
20:09I vote pool.
20:10I vote pool, too.
20:11Do you?
20:12If I had to vote.
20:13We're on the same page!
20:15Yay!
20:16I feel like I just got tricked.
20:17Yeah!
20:18I feel like this was a trick question.
20:19You vote pool?
20:21So what else do you have going on?
20:23Um, I feel like I'm in a good place.
20:25And part of that new chapter, I think, you know, I've talked to you about my dad.
20:30And I just don't want for anything to happen.
20:33And I didn't reach out.
20:34So I just want to call and see what happens, you know?
20:38My father lives in Nigeria, and I have not physically seen him in, like, 20 years.
20:44But the few memories I have of my dad was joyful.
20:48I'm going to do it right here.
20:49Oh, you're doing it right here?
20:50Okay.
20:51My parents' divorce hit me really hard because even though I wasn't old enough to know what
20:58was going on, I was still old enough to fill a void in my life that he was gone.
21:04Hello?
21:14Yes, my daughter.
21:17Aw, hi, dad.
21:19How are you?
21:20Aw, daddy.
21:21I know we haven't, you know, spoken in a while.
21:24Okay.
21:29So, last time we talked, we talked a little bit about the trip to Nigeria.
21:33This December.
21:34Okay.
21:35I was really, you know, sad because I didn't get to see you.
21:40Yeah.
21:41Okay.
21:42Ah, that's true.
21:43Yeah.
21:44No need crying over your spirit milk.
21:46You know, I brought my whole family, and I miss you.
21:51Um, I miss my daughter, too.
21:56I don't want to dwell in the past.
22:02I miss you more than I, I believe you miss me.
22:06It's not easy for me not to have seen my daughter this long, and also my grandchildren.
22:11So, hopefully we'll work out something.
22:14But there's nothing to worry about.
22:16Yeah.
22:17I love my daughter so much.
22:19I love you.
22:21I'm happy I heard from you, too.
22:26I'm excited to move forward with him.
22:29I am excited to see what the future holds.
22:31Do you want me to FaceTime you real quick so I can wave to you and say bye?
22:34Go ahead.
22:35I love you.
22:36I love you too, Dad.
22:37I love you too, Dad.
22:38Bring Eddie, bring Eddie, bring Eddie.
22:39Okay, bring Eddie out.
22:40Let me bring Eddie out.
22:41Hold on, Dad.
22:42Hello.
22:43Good evening, sir.
22:44You look good too.
22:45You look good too.
22:46I think it's important for me to let go of any notions of what I think a father-daughter
22:50relationship is.
22:51All right, Dad.
22:52It was good talking to you.
22:53All right, my daughter.
22:54All right.
22:55Bye-bye.
22:56Bye-bye.
22:57Because once I put those expectations on it, I could easily let myself out.
23:02I just want to go with the flow and just see where we go.
23:04Aw.
23:05Aw.
23:07Aw.
23:08Coming up.
23:09Okay.
23:10There you go.
23:11I tried to describe it.
23:12Look at this being.
23:13A gift for my love.
23:14Is that right in here?
23:15No.
23:16No.
23:17No.
23:18No.
23:19No.
23:20No.
23:21No.
23:22No.
23:23No.
23:24No.
23:25No.
23:26No.
23:27No.
23:28No.
23:29No.
23:30No.
23:31No.
23:32No.
23:34No.
23:36No.
23:37Do-do-do-do-do.
23:40Do-do-do-do-do
23:42Do-do-do-do-do-do.
23:43Hi!
23:44You look amazing.
23:45You look amazing.
23:46You look amazing.
23:47I'm really super happy that we're able to, like, catch up.
23:50Because I feel like.
23:51I know, it's been too long.
23:52And I haven't seen you since the 5k, right?
23:55Right, the race for Hope DC.
23:56And I haven't seen you since the 5K, right?
23:59Right, the Race for Hope DC, yes.
24:01So how much did the Brain Tumor Society raise that day?
24:04So in total, about $1.2 million.
24:07No.
24:09I love the fact that I can continue
24:10to work with the National Brain Tumor Society,
24:12because as of right now, I still don't know
24:15what's going on with my dad's will.
24:16Typically, we would hear something within 30 days.
24:19It's been past 30 days.
24:20What does that mean?
24:21Whoa.
24:22I mean, I just...
24:23Lawyer, what does that mean?
24:24I've been in law school for zero days.
24:26I know.
24:27Working with the Brain Tumor Society
24:29just gives me some peace.
24:30It gives me the opportunity to know
24:33that I'm just doing things on his behalf
24:36that I know I should be doing.
24:37I am so happy that we have gotten to a second annual partay
24:42for the National Brain Tumor Society and to raise money.
24:44So thank you all.
24:46Anytime I talk to you or just talk to anybody
24:49in the organization, it makes me feel a little closer
24:51to my dad.
24:52It makes me feel like he's with me.
24:54He's happy about just not letting him die in vain.
24:59So this has been...
25:01You always thank me, but I'm really thanking you.
25:03Oh.
25:04Well, we'll thank each other.
25:05This is a mutually beneficial partnership.
25:07Make sure your dad, his legacy is remembered
25:09and that a difference is made for those that are impacted
25:12and diagnosed in the future, because that's the goal.
25:14Yes, yes.
25:15All right, well, I will talk soon.
25:17Oh, all right.
25:17Bye.
25:18Whew.
25:31There she is.
25:32Hey!
25:33My love, how are you?
25:35Oh, my God.
25:35It's right in my cage.
25:37It's right as hell.
25:37Oh, I'm catching dogs.
25:38There's everything.
25:39I'm glad you're here.
25:40Yeah, the traffic.
25:41You fought through the traffic and everything.
25:43The traffic was insane.
25:45You got the poochie on and everything like that.
25:47Yeah, okay, okay.
25:48Yeah.
25:49So this is our big day.
25:50Yeah.
25:51Yes.
25:52I got a few, like, little bit more boxes, though.
25:54Okay, all right, cool.
25:55If you don't.
25:56Yeah.
25:57You know, the rain doesn't affect me.
25:58Oh, yeah.
25:59Oh, yeah.
26:00You're so sweet for those gym muscles.
26:01So this is my second time moving back in with Greg.
26:04Clearly, we're off to a better start, because we have him moving the boxes this time.
26:07Oh, you have more things.
26:09We're not going to have any space for all of you.
26:11Yes, we are.
26:12The other one's pretty heavy, though.
26:14It is?
26:15So you might need to use your trowel.
26:16And even though my mom wasn't fully on board with it, at the end of the day, Greg and I are
26:21two adults who know what's best for our lives.
26:23And I think the people around us just have to respect that.
26:26So what's your plans for, like, you know, moving in and stuff like that?
26:30You know, you've been an independent lady for a little while now.
26:33What's your plans?
26:34Oh, my gosh.
26:35My plan is just to smile every day and be quiet.
26:38I decided to move back because Greg and I have made a newfound commitment to each other.
26:44And for me, it's like the ring symbolizes the next step.
26:48But I feel like you have to have love and understanding and be rooted in that.
26:52And then the ring is the cherry on top.
26:54All right, babe, I got you a nice gift.
26:56You know, like a little move-in thing, you know.
26:58Oh.
26:59Like Mr. Biggs from the show.
27:01You got Mr. Diggs, though, you know.
27:03Oh, Mr. Biggs and then there's Mr. Diggs.
27:05Yes.
27:06You know what the D stands for, right?
27:08Not the D.
27:10Okay.
27:11There you go.
27:12Go ahead.
27:13I tried to describe it.
27:14That's why it's in this brown box.
27:15Oh, this is so sweet.
27:17Yes.
27:18Go ahead.
27:19Ooh.
27:20Look at this big.
27:21A gift for my love, you know.
27:23Yes.
27:24Oh, this is so sweet.
27:26Yes.
27:29Oh.
27:30Aw.
27:31Red roses is your favorite flower.
27:34And then, yes.
27:35Oh!
27:36The place?
27:37Yes, a little gift.
27:38With a ring in here.
27:39These rings have been very beautiful.
27:42Yes.
27:43Is it a ring here?
27:44Lord have mercy, the pressure.
27:45I think Radcliffe, I think crazy.
27:46Yeah, all right.
27:47Now you get excited, don't you?
27:49What is it?
27:54Ah!
27:55We're gonna put our first picture in there.
27:57Okay.
27:59They don't have princess cutting diamonds.
28:02Two Sagittarius, baby.
28:04We are the fire to each other's fire.
28:06You can't run us.
28:07We run us.
28:08But it's like we know the love is there.
28:10And so it's like all the extra bells and whistles for the outside applause.
28:15That's just really not Greg and I style.
28:17Now that we're here, I feel like it's been such a great journey.
28:22Mm-hmm.
28:23But like, I feel like we have this.
28:25We're squaring the condo away.
28:26Yes.
28:27So you are totally fine with it still being the way that it is.
28:31The condo is still Kay's condo in my name completely as a gift, but it's ours.
28:36Yes.
28:37And then so as far as the house, right?
28:39Because you purchased the home.
28:40Do you think that we would ever like change the deed once we get married?
28:44If you get married, it's like they're both properties that you own.
28:47If, when?
28:49When?
28:50I would say...
28:51No, I'm saying like, it's not if, it's when.
28:53Okay, when you get married, they're both properties.
28:56So we wouldn't change the deed?
28:58I don't think neither one is necessary.
29:00I don't plan on being here the rest of my life.
29:03No, we said five years of a new house.
29:04Five to six years.
29:05Five.
29:06Oh, gosh.
29:07You gonna hold me to that?
29:08Oh, you know I am.
29:09Sounds good.
29:10Yes, you will.
29:11Coming up next...
29:15I'm just so upset.
29:16Like, you guys always do this to me.
29:18Oh, shut up!
29:19You guys always do this to me.
29:21Shut the up, woman!
29:22Mom!
29:39Hi.
29:40Good, thanks.
29:41How are you?
29:42Uh, table for two, Plutina.
29:43Yes.
29:46You guys enjoy it.
29:48They have like, really nice brunches.
29:50Okay.
29:51How's your jet lag?
29:52Are you exhausted?
29:53I am.
29:54Hi, thank you.
29:55But it's wearing off a bit.
29:56It's not too bad.
29:57Do you feel like my kids remembered you from last year?
30:00Yeah, they did.
30:01It was like, you know, nice hugs, lots of warmth.
30:05It's nice.
30:06I remember when I was first explaining to them that you're coming.
30:09And they were like, huh?
30:10So, yeah.
30:11So, how did you explain that to them?
30:13I explained to them, oh, that, you know, my father has two other children.
30:19And they were like, oh.
30:20But they haven't quite figured out timeline.
30:23Yeah.
30:24So, they probably just think he got remarried and had more children.
30:27Amira lives in Abuja, which is the capital of Nigeria.
30:30We have the same father, not the same mum.
30:33I guess family's family.
30:34Family's family.
30:35Irrespective of, you know, the order.
30:37And I think I officially learned about her when I was about 12.
30:42I remember my mum calling us into the room saying, your brother and sister are coming round.
30:46And I was like, huh?
30:47Brother and sister.
30:48Apparently, I had seen her when she was born.
30:51But then I came home and told my mum, oh, I saw a baby today.
30:54And, you know, my mum's a lady.
30:56I mean, she's better than me.
30:57I would have burnt the whole house down.
30:59I would like the seafood cow pral fried rice, please.
31:04And then we're just going to share it.
31:05Yeah.
31:06And she wanted a blueberry nojito.
31:08Yeah.
31:09Nojito.
31:10Yeah.
31:11And then do you do one with alcohol?
31:13Yes.
31:14And I'll be the big sister with the alcohol.
31:15All right.
31:16Bye.
31:18Thank you so much.
31:19A lot of the resistance I had growing up is because my mum had a lot of resistance.
31:22Yeah, that makes sense.
31:23If she was more accepting and welcoming of you, I think our relationship would have started
31:28a lot sooner.
31:29Okay.
31:30That makes sense.
31:32And then she died and we had to have communication because we had to bury him as a family.
31:37It was the most awkward time for me in my life.
31:41I think you called me a few hours after I got the news.
31:45Mm-hmm.
31:46And I froze.
31:47I think that was probably the first time I've ever called you.
31:49Yes.
31:50And then you went on to say, oh, I just want you to know that you're loved.
31:53Did I?
31:54Yeah.
31:55And I was like, okay.
31:58Okay.
31:59Um, I'm crying already.
32:04So yeah, after you said that, I just thought, okay, maybe this is the beginning.
32:17Maybe she isn't a monster.
32:18When my father was alive, he really, really wanted us to be close.
32:22I remember when I got married, he wanted them to come to the wedding.
32:25And I said, absolutely not.
32:26This is my day, not your day.
32:28I think it was just me being a bit defiant, thinking about what would my friends say.
32:32As I have matured in age, in life, I understand that really all he was trying to do is have
32:39his children together and actually thinking about it.
32:46So I see him more now as a father who just wanted his children together.
32:52And why wouldn't you?
32:53Yeah.
32:54And we, God willing, will outlive our parents.
32:57Amen to that.
32:58Amen to that.
32:59What matters is, is the family that we create now going forward.
33:03Absolutely.
33:04Yeah.
33:12Ciao!
33:13Huh?
33:14Mom is here.
33:15Okay.
33:16Okay, so Cam, grandma and auntie are here.
33:18What are we going to do to welcome them?
33:20Nothing.
33:21When they come, we're going to say, welcome to our home.
33:26Okay.
33:27Okay.
33:28You're going to say that.
33:29Okay.
33:30All right.
33:31Ready?
33:32One, two, three.
33:33Just hands.
33:34Welcome!
33:35Hi!
33:36Hi!
33:38I am so excited to show my mom and my sister my finished renovations.
33:43Hi!
33:44Hi!
33:45Hi!
33:46My mom has lots of opinions, and I'm sure there's certain things that I have done in
33:53this house that she would not have done.
33:55But I hope she likes it, and most of all, I hope that she's proud.
34:00This is beautiful.
34:02You got to take on a tour.
34:03Yeah!
34:04You see the finished product.
34:05Oh, my goodness.
34:06Oh!
34:07I love it.
34:08I love it.
34:09Oh, I like the kitchen.
34:10Oh, girl.
34:11Yes!
34:12This is my favorite part.
34:14It's all the spices.
34:15Seasoning.
34:16So I don't have to leave to cook.
34:17Yeah!
34:18All my stuff is right here.
34:19This is it.
34:20Like, you really cook?
34:21I do.
34:22I don't know why you think I don't cook.
34:23Sometimes.
34:24I cook all the time.
34:29This is beautiful.
34:30So here is the powder room.
34:31Oh, my God.
34:32I've never seen black toilet paper before.
34:33You've never seen black toilet paper before.
34:34Huh?
34:35That's right.
34:36It's a different type of vibe when black toilet paper touch your ass.
34:38That's a great point.
34:39You know what I'm saying?
34:40That's a great point.
34:41But it messes with you.
34:42Is this not going to cause like UTI or something?
34:46I'm just asking.
34:49Let's do.
34:50OK.
34:51Let's move on.
34:52I've got to cut this tour short because I've got another appointment.
34:54OK.
34:55OK.
34:57Thank you so much.
34:58Thank you so much.
34:59Seriously.
35:00Where's the food at?
35:01We have some suya, some plantain, some jollof rice.
35:03Thank you guys for coming.
35:04Are you fixing me, okay?
35:05This could be yours.
35:06Sure.
35:07So go.
35:08OK.
35:09Sure.
35:10It looks really good.
35:11Y'all did a good job.
35:12Thank you so much.
35:13I appreciate it.
35:14Oh, my God.
35:15This must cost you arm and leg.
35:17What, eating out?
35:18Eating out and this whole thing.
35:20The renovation?
35:21Yeah.
35:22Yeah.
35:23It was pricey, but it's worth it, you know?
35:26Mm-hmm.
35:27Remember you wanted to go buy a new house.
35:29I told you don't buy a new house.
35:31Thank you for advising me.
35:32Last time you guys were here, we talked a little bit about Dad, and we talked about my relationship
35:39with him.
35:40I was hurt because I didn't get to see Dad.
35:43Mm.
35:44He is miserable.
35:45Oh, God.
35:46This is going to be a long talk.
35:47Let me have a seat.
35:48It's not going to be long.
35:49I just want to let you know I called Dad, and I'm really happy I did.
35:53He was very warm, very apologetic, and very optimistic about the future.
35:59So it was a great conversation, and I'm really happy I called.
36:03I don't know.
36:04As long as you feel good about it.
36:06I just don't want you to get your hopes up.
36:08I'm not, though.
36:09Okay.
36:10Because he's notorious for being a disappointment.
36:12Don't put him on a pedestal that he's going to be that Dad.
36:16Mm-hmm.
36:17Because he's just not.
36:18Mm-hmm.
36:19Yes, he gave birth to you, but he is not, like, going to be that fatherly.
36:23You know what I mean?
36:24I gave birth to her.
36:25Correct.
36:26I was the one in labor in pain.
36:28Right.
36:29Okay?
36:30He was just a freaking sperm donor.
36:35Well, y'all were married, so I don't think it's fair to...
36:38No, we were...
36:39Yeah, I don't think it's fair for you to say he was a sperm donor.
36:41He did not take help me or take care of you guys or even turn back to see how anybody is doing.
36:48Can you give me one second?
36:49That's why I gave him the title.
36:51Give me a favor.
36:52Cruz, take Cameron upstairs.
36:53That's...
36:54Can you?
36:55Hold on one second.
36:56Don't do that to me.
36:57Don't do the thing.
36:58Yeah, but don't do that.
36:59But don't do that.
37:00But don't do that.
37:01You can talk to me, but I'm gonna protect them.
37:02Cruz, can you take your sister upstairs for me?
37:04Yeah, like, you've not done what skin is...
37:05Okay.
37:06Yeah.
37:08Where did you put my bag?
37:09Because I want to go.
37:10Can you go upstairs with your brother?
37:12Wow!
37:13I'm not your friend group.
37:14Don't...
37:15Don't do this to me.
37:16That's disrespectful.
37:17Okay?
37:18Don't do that to me.
37:19I gave birth to you.
37:20You can do that to your child.
37:23Not me.
37:24I'm already pissed off, so don't piss me more off.
37:26I came here to see your renovation and not to hear some update on the person that abandoned
37:45me and children.
37:48And I had to work four jobs.
37:51Okay.
37:52It's okay.
37:53Come on.
37:54You know how much money I paid to put you through school?
37:57The feeling is still very deep for my mom.
38:01To have carried that weight for 40-something years by yourself, I'm sure she has a lot of resentment
38:09towards my dad.
38:10But don't give to me the energy that my dad deserves.
38:15The person that she is speaking of is also those kids' grandfather.
38:20Those kids don't need to hear that.
38:21Okay, fine, that the kids don't need to hear what's going on.
38:24But your presentation was very off by putting your hand in the face, right?
38:29It's just funny to me how, all of a sudden, we're now protecting the image of their grandfather.
38:36Can you imagine?
38:37Grandfather who has not seen.
38:41Grandfather who has not seen their grandchildren.
38:44You said that.
38:45Excuse me, don't interrupt me.
38:47For the first time, they flew across the world to go see this guy.
38:53And he never showed up.
38:55Girl, like now you're crying and you're doing too much because you want to have your moment.
38:58Okay.
38:59And that, to me, I'm not doing that.
39:00I'm not doing too much.
39:01You know what she's doing.
39:02Go ahead.
39:03Get lost.
39:04Get lost.
39:05And you know what she's doing.
39:06Get lost.
39:07Don't insult me.
39:08I'm your mom.
39:09Who insulted you?
39:10You don't have to call me an idiot to be an insult.
39:11Who called you an idiot?
39:12I'm here talking to you as you want.
39:13So now I've insulted her by walking here.
39:15That's disrespectful.
39:16That's why you don't know your African culture.
39:18Are you coming here to defend your wife?
39:20No, I'm coming here.
39:21I'm coming here.
39:22Yeah.
39:23Yeah.
39:24Bring Eddie out.
39:25Bring Eddie out.
39:26Bring Eddie out.
39:27All I'm saying is this.
39:28Don't tell me what I said.
39:29I've been waiting for you because you've been letting mom just do what she's doing here
39:40in this house.
39:41If the roles were reversed.
39:42Don't come for me.
39:43Don't do that.
39:44You see what you're doing right now?
39:45You see what you're doing?
39:46More people.
39:47Everything you say, everything she says, you're like defending her.
39:49You're the man here.
39:50Yeah.
39:51You're the man of this house.
39:52Correct, correct.
39:53Okay?
39:54You're the man of this house.
39:55Yes, ma'am.
39:56Your wife is, you see, she's under control.
39:58What?
39:59Edward, listen to me.
40:00I'm under control?
40:01Are you kidding?
40:02Am I in the twilight zone?
40:03I want everyone to calm down.
40:04The conversation just is getting very exacerbated, and I think we all need to take a beat.
40:09All this started because she was talking how she was talking in front of the kids.
40:16I'm just so upset.
40:17Like, you guys always do this to me.
40:19Oh, shut up.
40:20You guys always do this to me.
40:21Oh, shut up.
40:22Shut the up.
40:23You guys always do this.
40:24No, seriously.
40:25She always does this.
40:27Are you into your attention seeking disorder?
40:30Oh, my God.
40:31Are you?
40:32Let me tell you why I'm so hot.
40:33Don't even give a shit about this girl.
40:36I'm so upset.
40:37Look at this girl.
40:42Why are you doing what you're doing?
40:44And I fell.
40:47You said you want us to get the out of your house?
40:50No, no, no.
40:51Is that what she said?
40:52Let's take it.
40:53Let's take it.
40:54Let's go.
40:55Let's go.
40:56All right, y'all.
40:57Y'all be blessed.
40:58Can you take the mic off me, please?
40:59I think I am done.
41:00Yeah, please.
41:01The last time you told us about your dad, and we comforted you.
41:06That doesn't mean we supported his stupid ass.
41:09Look at how I am.
41:10Working how many jobs?
41:11Help you with your kid.
41:12Quit my job to take off your kid.
41:15Your hair turned up like, yeah, yeah.
41:17I'm not upset when he called me.
41:19Kiss his ass.
41:20All I care.
41:21Idiot.
41:22Look at this girl.
41:23All my hair have to wear blah, blah, blah, blah.
41:31You OK?
41:34I'm used to it.
41:35So you're used to it?
41:36You know, this is always, it's always this.
41:39Mm-hmm.
41:40If I'm not on their train to hate him, it's a problem.
41:45Like, look, they even leave together.
41:47They're together.
41:48And that's exactly why I wanted or yearned the relationship with my dad,
41:51because when there's three of y'all and two people always F with each other
41:54and you're by yourself, you're like, damn, I'm always by myself.
41:58I'm always by myself.
42:03I'm with you down here.
42:05You're not by yourself.
42:07Next time on The Real Housewives of Potomac.
42:10One of the things was asking myself, who am I?
42:13And I'm a binder bitch.
42:16Hi, ladies.
42:18Welcome to Colorado.
42:20Look at this view.
42:22Oh, my gosh.
42:23This is the house you guys are staying in.
42:25Why you ain't got us at your house?
42:26Just some people are at my house.
42:28Because what's not going to happen is spreading toxic energy on my property.
42:47Hey.
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