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00:00Wedding days for polygamous men aren't necessarily an easy day.
00:04You know, a groom, a monogamous groom,
00:07probably hangs out with grooms.
00:11Tony called them the brosmen.
00:14I feel kind of sad for a polygamous man on his wedding day
00:19because he really has such a challenging balancing act
00:24that it's almost impossible to fill an intimate relationship
00:29with your new bride while being observed by all your wives.
00:35I don't think wedding days are easy for men or women in plural marriage.
00:47Christine complains that when I showed up to our wedding day,
00:50I had a thousand-yard stare
00:51because I did not know how I was going to balance this.
00:56And we got jovial, and we got after time.
00:59But that's hard for a wife.
01:07I think for some people, the weddings can be trivial.
01:12And I remember promising myself years ago
01:16that if I ever married again, I would celebrate,
01:17that we'd have a good celebration.
01:19Yeah, I didn't want a big reception.
01:22Yeah, I pushed that.
01:23And at the end of the day, I looked at Robin
01:25after our wedding day was over,
01:27and everybody was home, and I said,
01:29how do you feel about the day?
01:30And she said, well, I missed you,
01:33but it was successful because I think
01:36the whole family was happy and involved.
01:39But I didn't connect with my bride on our wedding day.
01:44Just like with Christine.
01:45Yeah.
01:47This is probably why I looked at Tony McKilty and said,
01:51make this day festive, but be with each other, you know?
01:56And that would be my advice to any groom and bride
01:59ever getting married in any kind of relationship
02:03is acknowledge each other and make the day festive.
02:07It's a beautiful thing that you're celebrating.
02:09It's a beautiful thing.
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