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90 Day Fiance The Other Way S07 E14
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00:00Since we've been in France, everything's very, very heavy.
00:03So I'm just looking to cheer her up a little bit.
00:06What the f***?
00:10He's taking the jokes way too far.
00:12What is in your mind, Antoni?
00:16My daughter living here, that means I need to put a lot of trust in you.
00:20And I feel like it's too much of a struggle here for her.
00:24I am worried about Chloe being in the hands of someone that had infidelity.
00:30Show me that you can take care of yourself here, please.
00:33All right.
00:34I think when she feels the difference between having my financial support and not,
00:39a little bit of reality is going to settle in.
00:42Okay.
00:42Okay.
00:48That's mom.
00:49She's constantly invading our relationship.
00:54She calls every day.
00:56It's not normal.
00:58I've sat at the table with you girls.
01:01I know, but baby.
01:01You guys act like best friends.
01:02You're saying, is it resolved?
01:04You're saying, you know what, mom, but he is right.
01:09The honest truth is that I don't think I'm being very fair to you at all.
01:13I don't think I love you anymore.
01:18We'll just have a little warm-up first.
01:48Okay.
01:49You ready?
01:50Yes.
01:55Sorry.
01:56A bit hard.
01:56Okay.
01:58Oh!
02:01Don't worry about the ball.
02:02Okay.
02:03You want me to keep going?
02:04Yeah.
02:04I've been in Tasmania for a few weeks now, and Dylan's mom invited me to go play tennis with her today.
02:12Ah!
02:13And I kind of feel a little nervous about being with her alone because I still have a lot of issues with how close they are.
02:21I've got one for Tia.
02:25Fairly love.
02:27I feel like by her calling him every day, she influences him.
02:31She contaminates Dylan's head.
02:33I think she's the reason why we are not married today.
02:38Whoops, that's a bit me.
02:39Okay.
02:40My point.
02:46Party love.
02:48I suck!
02:51Oh, God.
02:51She kicked my ass.
02:52Oh, that was embarrassing.
03:00Just like, ugh.
03:01Are you thirsty?
03:03Yeah, I'm thirsty.
03:04Let's go.
03:04Let's have a break.
03:07I'm definitely going to take this opportunity to talk to Joe because Dylan does not have my back when it comes to boundaries.
03:13And if he's not going to fix it, I will.
03:16Well, thank you for inviting me out here to play tennis with you today.
03:21It's a beautiful place.
03:23Oh, thanks for coming.
03:25Yeah.
03:29To be honest with you, Joe, like the other night at dinner, I wanted to say so much, but I'm like, oh, my God, is it too soon to be talking to her about this?
03:37No.
03:37Because I don't want to come office.
03:38I'm very open.
03:39Listen, I'm very easygoing.
03:41Any other issues, just we bring them up.
03:42Well, how did you feel when you knew that Dylan said, Mom, Patia's going to be moving here, even though you knew I hated you and wanted nothing to do with you?
03:54Yeah, I was excited for him because he was excited about it, but he did say, Mom, Patia doesn't want to live anywhere near your house or Dad's house.
04:05Did you say that?
04:06I did.
04:07Yeah.
04:08Yeah.
04:08So I was concerned about that.
04:11I said, well, how's that going to work?
04:12That's, I know, that's horrible.
04:14It's how I felt.
04:15Yeah, I know.
04:15I thought it was horrible, too.
04:18That's just screwy because I don't mean you any harm.
04:21I know.
04:21I want you both to be happy.
04:22No, seriously, I do.
04:24I never, ever resented you.
04:25Oh, I did because I just, you know, the things that I thought you said about me was horrible.
04:31Yeah, no, well, I didn't say it.
04:32The main two things has been your hatred for me and the spending.
04:36Well, I stopped spending.
04:40You say you've stopped spending.
04:44You still haven't paid the debt off.
04:45Well, that's because Dylan asked me to move here.
04:49So it's Dylan's fault again.
04:51He did say you are more than happy for Dylan to sell one of the properties to help you out.
04:58Yes, I feel, I feel like he owes me that.
05:01Well, I think that's terrible that you have that expectation that he's to sell one of the properties.
05:05That's obviously for the both of you to sort out.
05:08But I really would advise him against selling the property.
05:11This is what I'm talking about when he shares too much information with his mom about us.
05:19Now she's going to tell him to not sell one of his properties.
05:23First of all, it's like none of her business.
05:25She shouldn't be putting her two cents in.
05:27I really need for her to back off.
05:30I wanted to say something else.
05:33In order for me to feel comfortable here, I need to set boundaries.
05:39Like maybe not call Dylan every day.
05:41Three times a day.
05:42So that's still bothering you?
05:44Yes.
05:46Oh my God.
05:47But I thought we got past that.
05:48Yes, we did get past that.
05:49But we haven't if you're still onto it.
05:51Yeah, yeah, I want to, yeah, I want to like get past it.
05:55It just makes me mad because Dylan, well like stop everything just to talk to you.
06:00But isn't that a good thing?
06:01Because wouldn't you want him to stop everything to talk to you?
06:04Yes.
06:04Because you're important to him?
06:05Yes, but unless it's an emergency, you know.
06:08I don't know about that.
06:09Yes, I mean unless it's an emergency, I just feel like he can wait till we get home and talk to you.
06:13I feel like you're a needy mother, Jo.
06:16Oh, you're joking.
06:18No.
06:18Here's the deal.
06:21I'm not needy.
06:22I'm not needy in any relationship.
06:23So I'm actually quite strong and quite capable.
06:25So I don't, I'm not going to be classed as needy.
06:27I don't think that Patia has a right to tell me what my relationship with Dylan should be like.
06:34I think that problem lies within her.
06:37I might back off a little bit, but I don't think Dylan's going to be in agreeance with that though.
06:42Asking me not to call doesn't seem normal or natural.
06:46But I mean, I'll do it.
06:47I know.
06:47That makes you happy and if you think that's going to help the relationship, I'll do it.
06:50It will.
06:50But sometimes he'll phone me at half past nine at night and say, what do you want, Dil?
06:53And he wants to chat.
06:54So it's not just me.
06:56It could be yes.
06:56You better get in his ear too.
06:57Grandpa sent me a picture.
07:21Benny's sleeping on grandpa tonight.
07:24You probably sleep all night on their bed since it's probably a lot more comfortable than I am.
07:27So I have no idea where we are going or what we are doing.
07:32I have no idea.
07:34My last couple of attempts have really failed at giving this grand gesture of love to Manon with being a mine and the goat farm.
07:43So tonight I have a romantic getaway plan.
07:48This is definitely more along the lines of what's something I know she likes, which is really going to a nice hotel.
07:55But of course, earlier today we had a fight, so I don't know how this is going to be received.
08:02Here, the Terrace du Port, it's open seven days a week.
08:06It's the only stores that are open on Sundays.
08:09That's why tomorrow maybe I can get my nails done.
08:12I can do them for you.
08:13Has your mom got nail polish?
08:14Okay, not a good joke either, but that's fine.
08:18It's not a joke.
08:19It's how you save money.
08:21And that, I cannot do it now anymore?
08:22No.
08:23Great.
08:24Oh my God.
08:24So what do you want to say about this afternoon?
08:29There's nothing to say.
08:30We're on the same page.
08:32We got it.
08:33We're good.
08:33What do you mean we are on the same page?
08:35Earlier today, when we were down in this like historic part of Marseille, there was this
08:42little shop that had some seashell earrings and she didn't have her purse on her and she
08:48was asking if I had my wallet.
08:50And I said I didn't have my wallet so that she would not buy anything.
08:55I'm like coming from this like sense of you spend money all the time, there's no money coming
09:00in and we're looking to purchase a house.
09:02And then me being the juvenile sense of humor that I have, kind of flashed my wallet as
09:10we're leaving the shop to show her and I shouldn't have done that.
09:18I could have gone about it a different way and said, hey, maybe don't spend right now
09:22because I have something planned or something like that.
09:25But even $20?
09:27Okay, I know you're saying $30.
09:29It wasn't just $30.
09:30Max a hundred, do you think I would have spent like crazy in a small, tiny boutique if you
09:35would have said, can you don't buy them or can you buy just one piece?
09:39I would have not pushed you.
09:42Really?
09:43Yes, really.
09:45Stop assuming that I'm a bitch.
09:48What do you assume that I am such a monster?
09:51You're sabotaging me all the time and sabotaging us.
09:54I like, I really don't feel like going down this road because it could lead into some really
10:02bad and I just don't want to go.
10:04Oh wow.
10:04So you have more stuff to say to me?
10:06Do I have more stuff?
10:06It's like, what about you?
10:08Your apologies?
10:10Huh?
10:10Like we can, this can go on all day of like you, me, you, me.
10:14It can.
10:14I don't like feeling like the bad guy.
10:20I just, you know, I'm trying to be smart about everything and Manon does not hear how,
10:24you know, she comes across to me.
10:26We tried to move away from these problems moving here and they've just followed us from
10:32LA.
10:32And I don't have a support system anymore.
10:36My family's over there.
10:38My only support system is her and there's none.
10:45I apologized.
10:46I said where I'm coming from.
10:48But.
10:48But like I said, you would invalidate the way I felt about it, which you did.
10:54I don't invalidate.
10:55You are invalidating your own apology by always saying a but, a but, a but.
11:03Then I guess I'll just never say where I'm, where like my mind was coming from in the
11:07moment.
11:07And I'll just say, I'm so sorry, my wife, my apologies and get on my knees and beg for
11:13your forgiveness.
11:15I feel you just don't want this to work out.
11:17You just don't.
11:20You always like have to throw that on me too.
11:23Just like you do.
11:24Because it's how I feel.
11:24I don't like divorcing.
11:25Oh, we're not compatible.
11:26Go find someone that's good for you.
11:28Because you make me feel this way.
11:29Mm-hmm.
11:30Putain.
11:32You just don't care about losing me then.
11:34You just don't care about saving us then.
11:37You just don't care about me.
11:38Period.
11:42When we talk about money, it's a fight.
11:45Our core beliefs are so freaking different.
11:49Is it even possible for us to be happy long term if we are that different?
11:54I'm telling you, I feel like I need to be a whole different person for you.
12:03But I'm sorry, Antoni.
12:04I cannot change for you.
12:06I heard that you have some plans to immigrate to Naruba.
12:15Today is a big day.
12:16I'm going to go meet up with the immigration lawyer.
12:18To legalize your status in Naruba, it'll take approximately five months.
12:22Part of that five months, you need to stay in the States.
12:26Jonathan and I definitely would not survive long distance.
12:29Not...
12:30Not at all.
12:31Is it a dog?
12:59Don't tell me.
13:01It's a piece of leaf of a coconut tree.
13:06Looks like a dog, didn't it?
13:08No.
13:08Oh, thank God.
13:09Relax.
13:12When Chloe's mom was here, you know, the pressure that she put on us for the papers and stuff
13:16that I feel like really put both of us in a place like, hey, you know, you got to get
13:20this done.
13:20So today is a big day.
13:21We're going to go meet up with the immigration lawyer, and hopefully you can give me some
13:25really good information and what steps we should take next.
13:28Don't touch it, Chloe.
13:39The goal for me and Chloe right now is to apply for domestic partnership papers.
13:45I've known people that have done it before.
13:47First thing is partnership papers, and then for the job, we have to find an employer that
13:51wants to hire her and willing to pay for her work permit.
13:54I heard that you have some plans to immigrate to Naruba.
13:57Yes.
13:58We're kind of just looking to see what the process would be as far as how much it's going
14:05to cost, and we're very interested in a work permit, because without work, I have no money.
14:11So I have to somehow find a legal way to do all of those things.
14:16The main thing right now is trying to legalize your status in Naruba.
14:20Once you are here in Naruba, the work will follow automatically.
14:24Maybe it will take some time, but it can happen.
14:27How much would the permits cost?
14:30How long is it going to take?
14:33It all depends if it is a partnership agreement or a marriage.
14:36Mm-hmm.
14:37When you marry, he can bring you in automatically, and the marriage will cost maybe some legal
14:43dues to marry at the municipal, but it can go very fast.
14:48So the partnership agreement, maybe $600, $700.
14:54But the thing is, that process will take approximately five months.
14:59Maybe part of that five months, you need to stay in the States to wait for you to come
15:04to Aruba.
15:05Well, there's the bad news.
15:06I knew that was too good to be true.
15:08If you married, there's no problem.
15:11But with partnership, you need to wait abroad.
15:15Yeah.
15:15How long would it take if we didn't file the partnership papers for me to be able to work?
15:21After you're legal in Naruba, it will take approximately another three months for you to get a job.
15:28The whole process is approximately, I think, eight to seven months.
15:33Yeah, that's a long time.
15:34That's a long time, I know.
15:35Mm-hmm.
15:36With a marriage thing, everything goes quicker.
15:39Goes quicker.
15:40But you have to be ready for that, of course.
15:42Right.
15:43No, it's not a little step, you know, it's a big step.
15:50I'm shocked.
15:52This partnership paper is not this easy, sign your cute little signature on a dotted line.
15:57And it's even more shocking that for a part of this, I might actually have to be home.
16:04In the past, when Jonathan and I have done long distance, he broke my trust once.
16:10My anxiety then is through the roof every day because I'm so nervous that he's going to just break my trust again.
16:19So Jonathan and I definitely would not survive long distance.
16:22Not at all.
16:24Not in the slightest.
16:25Jonathan and I have talked about getting married, and he's definitely someone that I see myself marrying.
16:48But there is no way that it was going to be as soon as tomorrow.
16:52But it would solve a lot of our issues with me being able to stay here legally.
16:58When you're ready, just give me a call.
17:02I mean, the plan's always been to get married.
17:04Maybe we should just go for it.
17:06Be honest.
17:33Be honest, like, truth is that I don't think I love you anymore.
17:40Thank you for being honest.
17:57Relationship isn't always 50-50.
18:01Sometimes it's 70-30.
18:03Sometimes it's 90-10.
18:05But, like, I can't, like, force myself to love you.
18:17And, like, I love you as a person.
18:21And I, like, really, like, only want happiness for you.
18:24Like, I just, like, I just feel like there's just, like, so much about myself that I just, like, need to know about before I can commit to someone.
18:41I just, like, don't think it's, like, a good idea to, like, move forward in this relationship.
18:52It's been three or four days here.
19:02I think we just need to spend a little bit of time together again.
19:05Not worry about getting married or kids or necessarily even where to live.
19:12Just get somewhere.
19:13Just feel it out.
19:16No commitment.
19:18I think there's something to explore still.
19:21I really do.
19:23But, like, I just, like, know what I need right now, like, is to be alone.
19:34It's just all so sudden.
19:37I feel like I was pulling back the past six months.
19:43I was not being very affectionate.
19:44I was not reciprocating your feelings.
19:47I wasn't calling you as much.
19:48I wasn't sharing much about my life, and I've been, like, like, spiraling about it and wondering if we decide to see each other in person again, and then, like, then I would know.
20:00We've only seen each other with a camera crew around us.
20:04It doesn't have to do with the camera.
20:07Like, like, no, it doesn't.
20:13I just know it in my gut.
20:14Like, I have to listen to my gut.
20:16Like, and it's not fair for me to string you along when I already know it's over.
20:20Like, this is not fair for you either.
20:28Nothing in the world could have prepared me for those words.
20:35You don't just suddenly not love someone.
20:39These things build up over time.
20:41And I had no idea it was building up all this time.
20:51There is so much life still ahead of us.
20:55Yeah, I know.
20:57I was prepared to spend it all with you.
21:05Every single second day.
21:07I will only look back with, like, fond memories of, like, the connection I felt with you.
21:33And, like, how we helped each other grow.
21:38And, like, maybe I'm making the worst mistake of my life.
21:43And even if I am, I still feel like I have to make it.
21:50That ring weighed a ton on my hand.
21:53When I put that ring on her finger, I never intended to take it back.
22:09Well, what do we do now?
22:10We just move forward.
22:20Our individual ways.
22:25I'm just...
22:26I'm sorry.
22:30I'm just a little bit dead inside.
22:32I'm gonna go to a hotel, I guess.
23:01Greta is always chasing a frill in life.
23:13And I think...
23:15the rollercoaster just ended.
23:17All right.
23:26Grab your bag.
23:28Oh, no.
23:29What the f*** is this?
23:32I was definitely not expecting a...
23:34A sex dungeon.
23:35Yeah, I was not expecting a sex dungeon.
23:37Just there's no windows.
23:39And it's soundproof.
23:41Oh.
23:41I don't want you to change
23:57But it don't feel the same
24:01You say, I don't care about you.
24:04It's complete bulls***.
24:06I wouldn't be here in France if that was the case.
24:11We getting out?
24:19Right on.
24:19I mean, it's been a while
24:21Since we had any alone time
24:24to be intimate
24:25And I was looking forward
24:27to having, like, this nice time
24:29And now we're walking up to the hotel
24:31not in a good headspace
24:32Love room?
24:39Oh, no.
24:40What the f*** is this?
24:52Check it out.
24:55Oh, wow.
24:56That is cool.
24:57Uh-huh.
24:58That's a good f*** jacuzzi, huh?
25:00Uh-huh.
25:01Cool.
25:03Cool.
25:04It's just there's no windows.
25:05That's the thing that's freaking me out right now.
25:07And it's soundproof.
25:08Oh.
25:10When I was asking Antoni
25:13for a sexy, romantic night away
25:17I was definitely not expecting a
25:20How can I put it
25:23without being insensitive?
25:28A sex dungeon.
25:29Yeah, I was not expecting a sex dungeon.
25:31Thank you, exactly.
25:33Well, it wasn't labeled as a sex dungeon.
25:36What a love room for you.
25:38Love room.
25:40Oh, okay.
25:41A strip bowl.
25:42Okay.
25:44I get it.
25:45The effort was
25:46it's still better than mine.
25:47So, thank you.
25:49Okay.
25:52So, I have a surprise for you.
25:54Oh, no, no, no.
25:55So, you stay over here
25:56and I'll get that ready.
25:59Okay.
25:59Manon loves the fact
26:03that I was in the military.
26:05I mean, I think
26:06she just loves a uniform.
26:08I'm scared.
26:09So, I decided to dust off
26:11my old army of fatigues.
26:14That will at least
26:16at a minimum
26:16put a smile on her face
26:18which I think is
26:19a stepping stone
26:20to having a better night.
26:22What is he doing?
26:24You ready?
26:25What the f***?
26:32What is it?
26:32It's what you want.
26:34Yeah, but you always said
26:35you will never wear it.
26:36You hate it.
26:38I'm doing it for you
26:39and
26:40opportunity awaits.
26:42With the outfit.
26:43Oh, yeah.
26:43Uh-huh.
26:44Oh, f***.
26:45Let's go.
26:46Come on.
26:47Can it hold my weight?
26:49Oh, pizza.
26:50You ready?
26:51I'm not.
26:52Yeah.
26:55Yeah.
26:57Oh, my God.
26:58I'm thinking that.
26:59I'm going to break it.
27:01What's the military boy?
27:03You can't look like
27:03going for like that pose.
27:05Oh, yeah.
27:06I'm not.
27:06Yeah, that's what you want.
27:08Ooh.
27:09Ooh.
27:13Yeah.
27:16You're a very,
27:17very rare breed.
27:19It's just very cute.
27:21It's very sexy.
27:21It's very cute.
27:23Okay, let's go.
27:23Let's go to the hotel.
27:25You're a nice guy.
27:26It's nice.
27:26I love that.
27:27I'm a nice guy.
27:28Yeah, you are.
27:29Yeah.
27:30Anyway, and I'm the bad girl.
27:31We always know that.
27:32I'm the bad girl.
27:33I'm the crazy one.
27:34I'm the loud one.
27:35The big one.
27:36You know, I take space.
27:37We know that.
27:38Dramatic, emotional.
27:39I'm not dramatic.
27:42You are very sexy,
27:44my dear soldier.
27:45Yeah, but you are also
27:46very sexy.
27:48Sure.
27:49You are?
27:50Mm-hmm.
27:52You're welcome.
27:53Mm-hmm.
27:58I'm really happy
27:59with Anthony doing the effort,
28:01and the thing is like,
28:03you know,
28:03when we are good,
28:04we are good.
28:05It makes me feel good.
28:06He loves me and everything.
28:08It's just made me feel more like,
28:09okay, my heart can be full of joy,
28:11full of love.
28:13I'm home,
28:14which is Anthony.
28:15Anthony is my home.
28:16I love you.
28:20I love you.
28:21I love you.
28:22It's just funny when you say
28:23beaucoup,
28:23you say beaucoup,
28:24but you say beautiful ass.
28:26Well, also that.
28:27I love you.
28:28Oh, my God.
28:29Are you ready
28:34to get married?
28:37I'm hesitating.
28:39Is this something
28:40really she wants,
28:41you know?
28:42I'm afraid that
28:43I'm gonna get too hard,
28:44you might leave.
28:44Hungry.
29:02I'm just actually starving.
29:04If I could make a witch
29:06here for me for this,
29:08only you and me.
29:14I want my sweet potato fries.
29:18What are you gonna eat with that?
29:19Oh, just Caesar salad with shrimp.
29:21Okay.
29:22So what did you think
29:22about the law firm today?
29:25I think we got really
29:26useful information out of it.
29:28Yeah.
29:30Earlier today,
29:31we found out that
29:32it would be a hell of a lot easier
29:35for me to start working
29:37and be legal here
29:39if we just got married.
29:42I don't know how my mom
29:43will react when we tell her,
29:44like it could be
29:45potentially eight months
29:46before I can work.
29:47It definitely probably
29:48will be a I told you so moment.
29:50We definitely did not
29:51see that one coming.
29:53Oh, God.
29:55You know,
29:56what is that gonna look like
29:57for us in the meantime
29:58if I can't work?
29:59You know,
30:00I don't want to put it on you.
30:03The eight, nine months
30:04is not a problem
30:05of me taking care of you.
30:06The problem I have
30:07is the lifestyle
30:08that you like to live.
30:10You like to go out,
30:11have drinks,
30:12go to dinners
30:13and stuff like that.
30:14I can't support that aspect.
30:17No, I understand.
30:18Everything else
30:19I can help you with.
30:20But you would have
30:21to be patient.
30:22Oh, I understand that.
30:24I think this whole
30:25entire situation
30:26is about patience
30:27at this point.
30:28Regardless,
30:29we're gonna be waiting around.
30:30Yeah.
30:31But if I marry you,
30:32it's in two weeks.
30:33Well, are you ready
30:37to get married?
30:41Yeah, I am.
30:42Who hesitated?
30:43I'm already at an age
30:44that I'm ready to get married.
30:45Well, it's not about age.
30:46It's about me.
30:47Like, you can marry
30:47anyone at any age.
30:48No, but I'm looking
30:50for someone to marry
30:51and I really, really
30:53love you,
30:53so I would expect
30:55you to be the person
30:56that I want to marry.
30:58But I don't know
30:59if you're ready for that
31:00because you're very young.
31:02Why?
31:03You're nine years
31:04younger than me,
31:05I don't know
31:06if you still want
31:07to live life
31:08and party
31:08and all that,
31:09you know?
31:09I wouldn't say
31:11that I'm not ready.
31:13I think we just have
31:15some work
31:16to do, you know?
31:21You know, of course,
31:23the marriage
31:23is a much easier option.
31:25But, you know,
31:26is this something
31:27really she wants, you know?
31:28Because partnership papers
31:29is one thing, you know?
31:30If it goes bad,
31:31hey, you know,
31:32we go separate ways.
31:34But if you marry somebody,
31:35it's much easier
31:36to get married
31:37than to get divorced.
31:39I think you're very concerned
31:40about, like,
31:41you're so young
31:41and you shouldn't settle down
31:42and this,
31:43but I think the way
31:44I grew up
31:45and, like,
31:45how blessed I was
31:46to travel
31:47and do all the things
31:48that I have,
31:48like, I feel so comfortable
31:50with the life
31:51that I have lived
31:51and I've never felt
31:52like how I feel
31:53with you
31:53with anyone else.
31:55So why would I want
31:56to, like,
31:57put this on the back burner
31:58and not go all in?
32:00Like, I'm already
32:01where I want to be.
32:02Like, I'm still going
32:03to have martini nights,
32:04obviously,
32:04but I would like
32:05to have a martini night
32:06and then come home
32:07like to you.
32:10I just want you
32:11to know for sure
32:13what you're putting
32:13yourself into.
32:15I'm going to tell you
32:16right now,
32:16it's not going
32:16to be easy
32:17and I'm afraid
32:20that when it gets
32:21too hard,
32:21you might leave
32:22because I've been
32:24through that situation
32:24before and I'm not
32:26trying to compare
32:26you to anybody,
32:28but, you know,
32:28like, I was in a relationship
32:29for a very, very long time
32:30and I gave that person
32:31everything and that person
32:33at the end of the day
32:33left me for something
32:34easier.
32:37So I don't think
32:37it's only you
32:38risking everything,
32:38I'm also risking life.
32:44I think it's frustrating
32:45that he keeps telling me
32:46that I'm not ready
32:47to get married
32:48because he doesn't
32:49actually know
32:50how I feel.
32:51In my eyes,
32:53I mean,
32:53I'm pretty in tune
32:53with my brain upstairs
32:55and I feel that
32:57I'm ready to get married.
32:58I think if I thought
33:00in my head
33:00this isn't going to work,
33:01I would have already left
33:02and I'm telling you
33:04that I'm more than
33:04okay with it.
33:05So don't have this,
33:07you know...
33:08Second doubt.
33:10Of me, exactly,
33:11of me.
33:11If every day
33:12you show me
33:12that you love me
33:13and you care for me,
33:14then I won't have
33:15that doubt in my mind.
33:18I already gave up
33:19my entire life
33:20and moved to another country
33:21so there's nothing else
33:23I could really give up
33:24to prove to him
33:25how much I do love him.
33:26I know it's fast
33:28and we definitely
33:28have our issues
33:29but to me,
33:30this feels right.
33:32Well, I think
33:33at the end of the day,
33:33it's something to think about
33:35so we can be together
33:36in the end.
33:38We'll figure it out.
33:44Every day
33:44you have to talk
33:45to your mom.
33:46It's ridiculous.
33:48You're just trying
33:48to destroy everything.
33:49I think you're worried
33:50that I'm going
33:51to abandon you.
33:53You better start
33:54picking your battles
33:54because you're just
33:55going to be nagging me
33:56until we're both dead.
34:17Hi, babe.
34:19Hi.
34:19How are you?
34:21How was the game?
34:21We had a ball,
34:22didn't we?
34:23Yes, we did.
34:24She did.
34:25She kicked my ass.
34:26Oh, not really.
34:27We're both winners
34:28on the day.
34:29She's really good.
34:31Okay, guys.
34:31I've got to be somewhere.
34:33We'll catch up
34:34another day?
34:35Yes.
34:35Okay, see ya.
34:36Bye.
34:37It's good to see you.
34:38You too.
34:38And thank you.
34:40We'll do it again.
34:40After tennis,
34:43I feel a lot better.
34:44I finally got
34:45all the issues
34:46off my chest.
34:48Other side.
34:49Remember,
34:50we're in Australia.
34:51Huh?
34:52Back horse.
34:53Where you going?
34:53Oh, wait.
34:55Yeah.
34:55I'm sorry.
34:56I'm still trying
34:57to get used to the side.
35:01She did point out
35:02that Dylan is part
35:03of the reason
35:03why they talk so much.
35:05So, maybe it's
35:06not all on her.
35:08But I'm glad
35:09we talked about it
35:10and hopefully things
35:11can be different
35:11moving forward.
35:14We had a good
35:15tennis match.
35:15She kicked my ass.
35:17It's been a long time
35:18since I played.
35:19She might have had
35:20to get some frustration
35:21out.
35:21Yeah.
35:22At least she didn't
35:23hit me with the ball.
35:24I was expecting
35:25her to hit me
35:27with the ball
35:27a couple of times.
35:30Do you feel like
35:31all the issues
35:32are resolved
35:32with my mother?
35:33I feel like it's resolved.
35:35I just said,
35:36you know,
35:36maybe she not
35:37calls so much.
35:38Twice a week.
35:39Twice a week?
35:40But not every day,
35:41three times a day.
35:42That's too much.
35:46What do you think
35:46about that?
35:47I feel like you're
35:49bothered by that
35:50a little bit.
35:51It's your great idea.
35:53It's not a great idea
35:54for me.
35:54Okay.
35:54We enjoy having
35:55a chat here and there.
35:56Yeah, but if it
35:57bothers your partner,
35:59then how is that
35:59enjoyable?
36:00It shouldn't bother
36:02you that much.
36:05If it's a problem
36:11for me,
36:12then you should,
36:13you know,
36:13you should respect
36:14how I feel.
36:16Why would you stop
36:17the person that you love
36:18from doing something
36:19that makes them happy?
36:20Listen, I'm not stopped,
36:21no.
36:21Yes, you are.
36:23Babe, every day
36:24you have to talk
36:25to your mom.
36:26It's ridiculous.
36:26I don't talk to you
36:27every day.
36:27Sometimes it's
36:28three times a day.
36:29Yes, you talk to her
36:29three times a day
36:30and it's been an issue
36:31with us for 12 years.
36:34Can't you just work
36:35on, like, getting over that?
36:36Can't you work on,
36:37like, helping me
36:38set boundaries
36:39and respecting
36:40my feelings?
36:43Since I was a little kid,
36:45mom and I
36:45have always been close
36:47and Patia
36:47has never really
36:48been close to her mom,
36:50so she doesn't
36:51understand that
36:52closeness.
36:54I think Patia
36:55feels fearful
36:57that my mom
36:59is going to
37:00influence me
37:00in some way
37:01or take me away
37:03from Patia
37:03in some way,
37:04but if respecting
37:06the woman that
37:06brought you into
37:07this world
37:07is a problem,
37:08then I don't
37:10really know
37:10what to say.
37:12I mean,
37:13if I'm asking,
37:14if I'm saying,
37:14hey, babe,
37:15you're talking
37:15to your mom
37:15too freaking much,
37:17you should be like,
37:18well, what?
37:18And then what if
37:18she dies?
37:20How would you feel
37:20stopping me to talk?
37:21She's not going to die.
37:23She's freaking healthy.
37:23She's pushing 70.
37:25Babe, she plays
37:25tennis every day.
37:26Are you kidding?
37:27She's freaking healthy.
37:29I don't think it's fair
37:30that you're asking me
37:30to stop speaking
37:31to my mother.
37:32I think that's really,
37:33like,
37:33that's really sad
37:35that you'd be
37:36concentrating on that
37:37over all things in life.
37:39You're worried about that.
37:40Why don't you worry
37:40about your $20,000
37:41debt that you have?
37:45You got me into it.
37:46I've already talked to you
37:47about it.
37:47Yes, you did.
37:48No, it's funny
37:48that you blame me
37:49for everything
37:49that's gone wrong
37:50in your whole life.
37:50I get the blame for it.
37:51Yes, you caused me
37:52a lot of money.
37:53No, I didn't cause you
37:54anything.
37:54I saved you money.
37:56I taught you...
37:57Oh, you did not
37:58save me money.
37:59Are you kidding me?
38:00You've got lots of issues.
38:02Big, big, big
38:03spending issues.
38:04Excuse me, Mr. Controlling.
38:05You have a lot of issues.
38:07You're very controlling.
38:09You're always, like,
38:10trying to tell me
38:11what to do.
38:11It's always, like,
38:12my way or the highway.
38:13You know what?
38:14I think that's the
38:15pot call and the kettle
38:16black because you're
38:16the most controlling
38:17one of us all.
38:19You love controlling
38:20the...
38:20Absolutely.
38:22You're always, like,
38:22trying to tell me
38:23what to do.
38:23And that's why
38:24you don't like me
38:24talking to my mother
38:25because you like
38:25to manipulate,
38:26influence,
38:26and control me.
38:27And when I speak
38:28to her,
38:29you feel like she's,
38:30you know,
38:31taking that away
38:32from you.
38:34You're just trying
38:35to destroy everything.
38:36I think you're worried
38:37that I'm going
38:38to abandon you.
38:39No, but I'm
38:40going to abandon you.
38:40You know,
38:41freaking respect
38:41my wishes.
38:44Dylan tells me
38:45I'm controlling.
38:46I'm like,
38:46what?
38:47How am I controlling?
38:49You're the controlling
38:49one.
38:51Honestly,
38:52sometimes I think
38:52Dylan is a narcissist.
38:53It's always about him.
38:55You know,
38:56it's my way
38:56or the highway.
38:58It's so annoying.
39:00Whether Dylan
39:00wants to admit it
39:01or not,
39:02his relationship
39:03with his mother
39:04is affecting
39:04our relationship.
39:06I don't know
39:07how much longer
39:07I can take this.
39:09It's not that hard.
39:11You keep fighting me
39:12on it,
39:12which makes it worse.
39:13Well, it's like,
39:14obviously my relationship
39:15with my mom
39:16is not going to change,
39:17so you better
39:18start picking your battles
39:19because you're just
39:20picking this battle
39:21and you're just
39:22going to be nagging me
39:23until we're both dead
39:24and we're going to
39:25have a miserable life.
39:28Things are clearly
39:29not going well
39:29and there's something
39:32that I need to talk
39:33to Dylan about
39:33and I think
39:34it might make it worse.
39:39Next time on
39:4090 Day Fiancé,
39:41The Other Way.
39:42Let me get you
39:43some change.
39:45How much money
39:45you have given back?
39:46All?
39:47You've given them
39:48all the change
39:49I've given to you.
39:51You haven't charged
39:51anybody?
39:52She's saying
39:53I don't know
39:53how any money works.
39:54It's a basic man.
39:56If you are buying
39:57something for 60,
39:58if somebody pays you 100,
39:59it's easy.
40:00Give them 40 back.
40:01I don't understand
40:02the change.
40:05So I guess
40:06we didn't make
40:07any money on that sale,
40:08did we?
40:11I do feel alone
40:13and it's like
40:13starting to hit me
40:14that I am alone.
40:15The last thing
40:16I want is for you
40:17and Greta
40:17to split up
40:18some things
40:18that we're fighting for.
40:19I am upset
40:21with Greta
40:22but I really want
40:23them to work out.
40:25I think you should
40:26have a talk with her.
40:30When I met
40:31with Dorian,
40:32we already started
40:33working together
40:34on the skincare brand
40:36and we need
40:39to invest money.
40:40We're trying
40:41to buy a home
40:42and I feel like
40:43this is going
40:44to set a lot
40:44of things back.
40:46You working
40:47and living
40:48at your parents,
40:49how much time
40:50before you crack?
40:56What's wrong?
40:57I feel so dizzy.
41:00You okay?
41:00No.
41:02This is not
41:03the way
41:03I want to start
41:04my weekend wearing.
41:05I say no,
41:14no, no.
41:15I don't pregnant.
41:16I don't pregnant.
41:17Are you telling me
41:18that you're pregnant
41:18right now?
41:19I told you
41:20so many times
41:20we even be careful
41:21when we have sex.
41:23I don't pregnant.
41:25I don't pregnant.
41:26I don't anymore.
41:26I ain't even
41:27pregnant.
41:28I don't even
41:29have sex
41:30so many times
41:36I don't even
41:38I don't to
41:39even
41:39like
41:40I'm
41:41I don't
41:42really
41:42I don't
41:43ever
41:44So many times
41:44I'm
41:45you
41:45but
41:46you
41:47I don't
41:50I don't
41:51I don't
41:51I don't
41:52know
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