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00:00Just thoughts and OCD.
00:02So you guys found what venue you love.
00:05Yes.
00:06What are you looking forward to the most?
00:09Flowers would be number one.
00:10OK.
00:11Food would be number two.
00:12OK.
00:13I want alpacas.
00:14Alpacas.
00:15Have you guys ever done a queso fountain?
00:17A queso fountain?
00:19We need to manage expectations.
00:22This is what reality is.
00:25I think you're not going to love what I have to tell you.
00:30We can work some magic.
00:46I think that you're not going to love what I have to tell you.
00:50OK.
00:53We just shared exactly what we want our dream writing to look
00:56like, and I'm so nervous that she's going to pull the rug right
01:01out from underneath us.
01:02Rug that bitch out of here, mother .
01:06I think that it's going to be challenging to get to the point
01:10where we can have everything we want for over 100 guests.
01:15And I think that spending a huge portion of our budget on the venue and shuttles
01:22versus putting that towards the food worries me a little bit because I just want to make
01:29sure that we get all of the things we need before we get to the things that we want.
01:35Obviously, the things that we need are photo, hair and makeup, our officiant, music, and all the food.
01:45And the things we want are the alpacas and the flowers.
01:50And we all know it's not cheap and it's easy to get wrapped up in all the things,
01:56snowballing into, you know, all the shiny object, squirrel, you know.
02:02So I think that's going to be our goal is to keep it.
02:05Be in our budget.
02:05Be in budget and not have any regrets afterwards, you know.
02:08You want to feel really good about the whole thing, OK?
02:11We fell in love as soon as we saw the venue.
02:14We just didn't think about all the other expenses with it being a remote location.
02:21Thank you guys so much.
02:22Yes, of course.
02:23See you.
02:24See you.
02:25Bye.
02:26Eat a bag of dicks.
02:27Oh, OK.
02:32Well, that was informative.
02:34Yeah.
02:35Like, literally information overload.
02:38Eat a bag of dicks.
02:39But I'm not going to spend all this money to not get what I want.
02:43I'm not giving up that venue.
02:45We've already put a down payment on it.
02:47Yeah.
02:48And it's a lot of money.
02:49I'm not losing the shuttles.
02:52Five years ago, I was at, like, my worst.
02:54And I never thought that I would be marrying my best friend.
02:58So I want the day to be absolutely perfect.
03:01At the end of the day, I just hope she can give us what we want.
03:06Maybe just volley.
03:07See how many you can get across the net without trying to, like, kill each other.
03:23Oh!
03:24Go ahead, bro.
03:25You got this.
03:26That's your point.
03:27Dad, what's up with the tank top?
03:28Five percent body fat.
03:29You know it's like, my gosh, that would be fantastic until you get sick.
03:30Ninety-eight percent muscle.
03:31Thank you!
03:32Yeah!
03:33That's it right there!
03:34The bowling pins.
03:35Eleven to two.
03:36You got a lot of bounce.
03:37What?
03:38When it comes to pickleball, probably not the best.
03:39But when it comes to grabbing my kids, I'll be all right.
03:41I got it.
03:42I got it.
03:43I got it.
03:44It's just domination.
03:45Oh, the park is gonna run over the ball.
03:47Hi.
03:48Hey, me.
03:49Welcome to the pickleball game.
03:50I miss you.
03:51How's your ride?
03:52We're good.
03:53No ride shares are $150.
03:54It's okay.
03:55It could be worse.
03:56I try to see my parents as much as I can.
03:57And then they're going to be fine.
03:58If they're going to be fine, they'll be fine.
03:59Yeah.
04:00They're going to be fine.
04:01I don't know.
04:02They're going to be fine.
04:03Oh, I don't know.
04:04I don't know.
04:05They're going to be fine.
04:06They're going to be fine.
04:07I don't know.
04:08They're going to be fine.
04:09They're going to be fine.
04:10It's fine.
04:11You're going to be fine.
04:12I try to see my parents as much as I can but it makes it hard because me and Colin live about two hours away
04:18And I can't drive
04:21Just dominate this kid
04:24Rideshares are crazy expensive and me and Colin are trying to save as much money as we can for this wedding
04:29Trying we're trying we're doing the best we can
04:35We met with our wedding planner that we got we met with for the first time
04:39Okay, yeah, and with our budget she doesn't know if she's gonna be able to give us what we want
04:46She already thinks you have to dial it back. Yeah
04:50We know Baelin dreams big and with big comes a price tag
04:54That wedding venue is their decision. That's what they pick. That's what they know. Yeah, so budget smudge it. They better figure it out now
05:04That's great. Are you kidding me? It flies
05:07So are you excited to finally go dress shopping?
05:10I'm so excited so excited
05:12I wasn't at first but now I'm like super pumped to just realize like Baelin you're not gonna look like this in three months from now
05:19Yeah, I believe that Baelin is definitely procrastinating
05:24I think it's because she's a little self-conscious maybe with where her body is right now
05:28But these alterations and customizations can take like eight to nine months
05:32So I made a few calls and I found an amazing wedding dress shop in the DC area so we can get this going
05:41I can't wait to have you Mima Lila Colleen and Marlene there
05:45I don't know really about Sammy
05:47You know, it's not looking good. How is she doing?
05:50She's still teetering like her thoughts are
05:53Still her thoughts
05:54They're impediments
05:56I'm just glad that she was open to finally going to a therapist
06:00And the way that she explained it to me which makes me sad to think about it, but she's like she was exhausted
06:05The way that Sammy describes her racing thoughts to me reminds me of like like a tree maybe
06:20Where it's like like you've got like this big trunk and like that's the thought and then it takes a turn this way
06:25And just everything just keeps branching off
06:27Like what if this happened today then then this could happen and um
06:32It's just exhausting
06:34We can like FaceTime or
06:36Like she needs to be on FaceTime the entire time because if one dress
06:40She will be
06:41One dress she misses she could be like oh my god that's ugly that one's good that one's bad
06:44That one's ugly that one's really ugly you didn't show me the ugly one
06:48Oh my gosh, I know
06:50Imagining Sammy not being there when I try on wedding dresses just makes it feel more empty
06:55It makes me sad
06:57It makes me hurt more for her than for you
06:59Yeah
07:00Because for her to know herself well enough that she can't
07:05Overcome this hurdle to get to one of your biggest things
07:08Yeah, it's sad
07:09It's like really painful to think about
07:14Here you go dad
07:15Here you go dad
07:16I don't want you to tear her vertebrae
07:18Back in her, do you need a new partner?
07:20Yeah
07:21I'm gonna play
07:22It probably won't get any better
07:23I'm just gonna I'm gonna pick these tomatoes off
07:25Yeah
07:26All right, it's a lot to a little
07:32So Baelin just filled me in on a whole whirlwind of information
07:36Her and Colin had their first appointment with their wedding coordinator
07:40Oh Jesus
07:41Yeah
07:42Yeah
07:43And I guess the biggest like what you would call reality check was possibly their budget not fitting into what their desires are for their dream wedding
07:52Which is I mean
07:53That's why they call them dream weddings
07:54Cause you gotta be dreaming I guess
07:56I don't know
07:57I want her to have her dream wedding and she's not gonna make concessions
08:00Hmm
08:03We're gonna go wedding dress shopping this week
08:07But Sammy won't physically be there
08:10But I feel like I could suggest to her
08:14What if your dad flew out and got you?
08:16The idea of Al picking her up is really more Sammy is accountable to somebody else
08:23It empowers her
08:25Yeah
08:26To say and schedule and be in control
08:29Where if she doesn't have that control she lets her thoughts control what's going on
08:35It would mean so much to Baelin
08:37And if she feels open to the idea then like we're running with it
08:43I don't want to say anything to Baelin because I don't want to get her hopes up
08:46We gotta pull it off
08:52You remember the link I sent you on the device?
08:55Yeah, new pulse
08:56Yes
08:57That you wear on your wrist or whatever it is
08:58Yeah
08:59It's something that could possibly control that impulse
09:01Kinda to tick
09:02It could be life-changing for Tourette in general
09:04Oh, wow
09:05Oh, my God
09:09I hear the drag gang
09:10Oh, my God
09:11Oh, my God
09:15Oh, my God
09:32Today I'm meeting up with my friend Anita for the first time in person
09:47She reached out to me on social media because she has a daughter a few years older than Baelin that has autism and Tourette syndrome
09:54Are you okay?
09:55No
09:56No
09:57No, you're not
09:58No
09:59Well, you're gonna have to be
10:00Oh, my God
10:01You're so beautiful
10:02Oh, my God
10:03Those are you
10:04But I think what Anita really wanted was some connection from another parent that is dealing with some of the same issues that she's dealing with
10:12Out of all kind of like the requests and DMs I get because people know that Baelin being on social media and they just know that she's my daughter
10:21You're honestly the only one that I reach back out to
10:27It's a blessing for me
10:29So I reached out to Julie through social media because Baelin experiences some of the same tics the severe tics that my daughter Sophia has
10:39So I felt like Julie might be able to help me answer some questions that my daughter could not because she can't give you details
10:46She's not nonverbal but she can communicate to me everything
10:50She's definitely more complex than Baelin because I know that she has autism and stuff like that too
10:55But you feel like the Tourette is is really prominent at this point
10:59I feel like the Tourette is kind of ruling her life right now
11:02Okay
11:03Sophia was officially diagnosed with Tourette's at 16 years old
11:08Her tics were not as severe in the beginning, but she's 25 years old now
11:13And she's in a helmet 24 hours a day to protect her eyesight and to protect her head
11:20When you um, I'm sorry
11:22Oh my gosh, I'm great
11:24I'm sorry
11:28To see her
11:32Beat in her face every day and punch herself in the jaw
11:39As Baelin says Tourette looks different on everybody
11:42So the emotional and physical toll on Anita specifically because the Tourette is so self-harming
11:51My heart just actually hurts
11:54Yeah
11:55I don't know how you do it
11:57But it's what I would do a million times over and over again
12:00Until we find whatever it is that's gonna make her have a better quality of life
12:06There's no other option, right?
12:07There's just no other option
12:09I wouldn't have ever thought five or six years ago
12:13That we'd be preparing to like walk Baelin down the aisle
12:16I know
12:17Never
12:18It's definitely a different case than Baelin but I know that feeling of helplessness
12:22And I want nothing more than for Anita to stay hopeful that there will be just that one person
12:29That has some idea of something that could help Sophia
12:32I'm always always have my nose in a book in a something just trying to look for anything that I think that might be helpful
12:39Like the next thing
12:40Yes, the next thing
12:41Yes
12:42Do you remember the link I sent you on the device?
12:45Yes
12:46The new pulse
12:47Yes
12:48That you wear on your wrist or whatever it is
12:49Yes
12:50Baelin's actually heard of it
12:52I read an article about this device being in development in the UK
12:57And so I reached out to the company to ask for more information about this device
13:02From what I understand stimulates the median nerve
13:05Goes up to the brain
13:06Kind of like deep brain stimulation but not deep brain stimulation
13:10Yes
13:11Not invasive
13:12I think this device could be revolutionary because it's not conventional
13:16When you have DBS you have actual wires that are connected
13:19And if you're a self injurious Ticker Tourette patient
13:22There is that chance that you are going to pull and prod
13:25So this device that sits no differently on your hand like a watch
13:30Seemed so promising to me for that reason
13:32What could be life-changing for Tourette in general?
13:35Honestly
13:36I think you should explore it
13:38Hmm
13:40Even though new pulse is not even available in the US
13:43I feel like that would be a great time to get a hold of this team
13:47Because even though Baelin's doing a great job forging her path into the world
13:52This device could potentially make her everyday experiences easier possibly
14:01Tell me baby if I'm all that you desire
14:04Walk through rain and fire to get you back to me
14:07Hi
14:09Colin
14:10Yeah
14:12What type of dress do you think I'm going to be in?
14:14White
14:16Sure, if that helps you sleep at night
14:20I mean part of it is coming from my traditional values
14:24Well let me tell you with your traditional values it is not a skimpy dress like you want me to be in so
14:30I just said flaunt what you got
14:33Colin describe if you could put Baelin in any wedding dress
14:37What would it look like?
14:38What's it?
14:39Nipple covers
14:40Just kidding
14:44And a veil
14:45Nipple covers and a veil
14:48I'm not where I want to be to try on dresses but there's alterations
14:52Today is wedding dress shopping day and if my mom didn't set an appointment at the wedding dress boutique
14:59That wouldn't have happened
15:01And my mom and my sister are on their way up from Roanoke
15:04They're going to go with Baelin wedding dress shopping
15:07So this time around I'll try and wear dresses
15:10You're welcome
15:12Love you
15:13Thank you
15:14Have you done everything you need to out here?
15:15Have you done the child proof in the past?
15:17I did everything yesterday
15:19My sister is bringing her littlest up
15:24She's about one and a half
15:26And I volunteered to watch her one and a half year old daughter
15:31But I am excited though
15:32You got that baby fever going on
15:35No
15:36Yeah
15:37No
15:38Don't lie
15:39God's watching
15:40I don't have baby fever
15:41I just want kids
15:43Yeah now
15:44Not now
15:46In a year
15:47It's just being a dad at like a younger age
15:51You can do more with your kid
15:53And I would like to have kids sooner than later
15:56What do you think baby fever means?
15:59Colin's really moving up the timeline here
16:02The last conversation we even had about kids you basically almost fainted in the bowling alley
16:06We've been dating for a little over a year now
16:10As far as future goes
16:13What do you see?
16:14I'd like to have kids before I'm 25
16:16You'd like to have kids in the next four years?
16:19Yeah
16:20Yeah
16:26Well yeah because it was different at that point
16:29We weren't engaged
16:30We didn't live together
16:32All I'm saying is we get adjusted to the new lifestyle
16:35And we get into a rhythm
16:37Then we can get into the lab and maybe start cooking something up
16:40What?
16:41Yeah
16:44I didn't want to say yeah let's go to pound pound
16:48Well you just did
16:49I was trying to say like
16:50You just did
16:53I'm about to go wedding dress shopping
16:55I need to be in the wedding dress shopping zone
16:59This is a conversation for another time
17:01No
17:04That's them
17:07Back up, back up, back up
17:09Hello
17:10Hey
17:11Hi
17:12How are you?
17:13Good
17:14Good
17:15How are you guys?
17:16Good
17:17Good
17:18Good
17:19So how was it getting up here?
17:20It was pretty good
17:21Did she sleep at all?
17:22No, rough
17:24Not at all
17:26I feel a little nervous about Colin watching Lily
17:29Because she's definitely got that fiery
17:31Oh yes
17:32Feisty toddler attitude
17:34So I don't know how she's going to react
17:38But I know she's going to give him Colin a run for his money
17:41For sure
17:43She eats regular food
17:45Just still make sure you cut it up into the bite-sized pieces
17:48Dick
17:50As far as her diaper
17:52Where am I doing that at?
17:54Like you got something I can put her on?
17:56Right here are like doggy pee pads
17:58Essentially
17:59Lay her on that
18:00Do you have gloves in there?
18:01No, I do not have gloves
18:04You do with bare hands?
18:05Why would I have gloves?
18:06I use wipes
18:07I don't get anything on my hands
18:09She's not like scraping it with her hands
18:11Yeah
18:12You just wipe it off
18:15This is a big responsibility and when I offered to babysit Lily
18:19I didn't realize how much pressure is on me for everything to just go correctly
18:23All right, bye
18:24Bye
18:25I know, I know
18:26See ya
18:27Love you
18:28Love you too
18:29Oh God
18:30Love you
18:31Oh God
18:32I have no idea what I'm doing
18:37It's going south already
18:39Lily, it's okay
18:40Breathe, girl
18:42Breathe
18:43Lord, it's gonna be a rough day, isn't it?
18:45Yes it is
18:47Come on
18:49Oh yeah
18:50I'm so excited
18:51Today I'm pretty pumped
18:52I like the extra color underneath it, like the nude
18:54So extra
18:55Oh wow
18:56Yeah
18:57I can barely hold it together thinking about Baelen possibly finding the dress of her dreams
19:02My oldest daughter
19:04We're here you guys
19:18Oh
19:21All right
19:22Ready?
19:23Let's go
19:25Hi
19:26Hi
19:27Hi
19:28Hi
19:29I'm so excited but I'm so nervous
19:32I know
19:33It's okay
19:34Don't be nervous
19:35Hi
19:36Today I'm pretty pumped about wedding dress shopping
19:39But I'd be lying if I didn't say that I had some nervous energy
19:44Cause I just know how Baelen is feeling about her body right now
19:48I can't do this by myself
19:49And I don't want the most beautiful day to turn into a negative event for Baelen
19:55Hi
19:56Hi
19:57Oh my gosh
19:58We're waiting for you
19:59I'm coming
20:00Hi
20:01I love your purse
20:02Thank you
20:03Oh my god
20:04Are you so excited?
20:05Yes and
20:06Hi girl
20:07Hi
20:08Good to see you
20:09I love her
20:10It's not every day that a girl gets to literally play dress up for her wedding
20:13Let's go
20:14Lead us
20:15There we go
20:16No worries
20:17And despite Baelen's weight game Baelen is beautiful and she just could use a little reminder
20:22of that
20:23My name's on this card
20:24Stop
20:25Yes it is
20:26My name's on the card
20:27Oh wow
20:32Hi ladies
20:33Hi
20:34Hello
20:35We're so excited to have you today
20:36You're going to follow me
20:37We're going to head into the showroom
20:38And then we'll get started shortly
20:39Great
20:40Perfect
20:41Oh look
20:42I am a little bit nervous to try on dresses because I just want to feel like a princess
20:48But putting on 18 pounds for my medication makes it really hard
20:52So I'm definitely going to latch on to all my lovely people that I brought with me today
20:56Because I really need their support
20:58Oh I like that dress too
21:00Alright Baelen
21:02My name is Taya
21:04Hi Taya nice to meet you
21:05Well welcome everyone
21:06Thank you
21:07Dildo
21:08Thank you
21:09So what we like to do is kind of get to know the bride
21:11Get to know what your sort of vision is
21:13Oh boy
21:15My dream dress
21:17I don't really know what I want
21:20That's even better
21:21That means you are open to like trying on different silhouettes
21:24Different necklines
21:25And hopefully lead us to like the one
21:28I don't mean to interrupt
21:29I don't mean to be rude
21:30At what point should we FaceTime Sammy?
21:31When we're in that first dress mode
21:33I think that would be perfect
21:35So we are going to have you take a look at our showrooms
21:38Point out three gowns that you think you like
21:41To get to a really good place
21:42I definitely want to try at that one
21:44It's very pretty
21:45And remember you don't have to go with white
21:48Oh I know
21:49Grandma
21:50I know
21:51Colin knows too
21:52Oh my
21:53He's like let's do a more tradition
21:56Oh my god
21:57Come here
21:58Yay
22:03Hi buddy
22:04Hi buddy
22:05Oh my goodness
22:07Oh
22:08Yay
22:09Oh
22:10Oh
22:11Oh
22:12I don't mean to like pat myself on the back
22:15But this is...
22:17I mean it's...
22:18I don't have words
22:20This is the best surprise ever
22:25So how'd you get here?
22:26Um, dad brought me here.
22:27Wait, dad flew there and came back?
22:29And came back with me.
22:30Oh, what a good owl.
22:31I know, good owl.
22:33What a good owl.
22:34I couldn't ask for two better daughters,
22:36and that one of them is willing to put all of her struggles aside
22:40because she knows her older sister would love her here
22:44and that she wouldn't miss it for the world.
22:46That's all I needed.
22:47Yeah, yeah.
22:49I'm over the moon.
22:50I'm over the world.
22:52Sammy's not only my sister, she is my best friend.
22:56Sammy's my best friend.
22:58I'm ready now.
22:59Oh, my God.
23:01It's important for me to be here because I think she trusts my opinion a lot,
23:05which makes me want to be here.
23:08We can get started, so remember, just take a walk,
23:11let me know what you want to try on, and we'll take you there.
23:14Sweet.
23:14Okay.
23:15Yay.
23:15All the jewels come together, and they form a different color.
23:23I don't mean to have, like, honestly, to even, like, bring your Tourette into this at all,
23:26but I worry about stuff like that.
23:28And if you're pulling on any of this, if you...
23:30Oh, wait, is it see-through at the bottom?
23:32No, Grandma, it's see-through.
23:33Grandma, move on.
23:36Oh, wait, this one's gorgeous, too.
23:38I really like this one.
23:39You're going to think I'm crazy, bae.
23:41What?
23:41I really want you to try this one on.
23:43I love this.
23:46Hey, Mom.
23:47Yep.
23:47How about this one?
23:49I like the extra color underneath it.
23:50I like the nude.
23:51So extra.
23:51Oh, wow.
23:52Yeah.
23:53I feel very honored that she wanted to include us,
23:57because not all in-laws to be get a chance to do this.
24:01It doesn't have to be the first dress I try on.
24:03And knowing Colin, I think he would probably prefer a form-fitting dress.
24:07Yeah, I definitely agree, but none of my opinions or feedback is based on Colin.
24:14It's not about Colin, it's about Bailyn.
24:16But I do appreciate that she's considering a total white dress,
24:20because that's what Colin wants.
24:22This one's getting tried on.
24:24This one.
24:25This one?
24:26Yeah.
24:27Oh, look at that.
24:30Oh, my gosh.
24:31I'm aching for Bailyn to find the one or something close to the one.
24:36All right, so everyone get comfortable, have a seat.
24:39We're going to do a little fashion show.
24:41We're going to start putting gowns on.
24:42She's going to come out, and you'll get to see her in a wedding gown.
24:44Yay!
24:45All right, are you ready?
24:47Let's do it.
24:47Sweet.
24:48She's getting ***.
24:51I can barely hold it together, thinking about Bailyn possibly finding the dress of her dreams.
24:56Like, I don't know.
24:58It's just surreal.
24:59My oldest daughter.
25:01She's still back there.
25:12You know, she's still back there.
25:13She hasn't left.
25:13She hasn't left.
25:14Oh, my God.
25:16I'm obsessed.
25:20Oh, I hear the dress.
25:21Oh, she's moving.
25:23I hear the dragging.
25:24Oh, my gosh.
25:29Oh, my gosh.
25:29Oh, my gosh.
25:34I hear the dress coming.
25:41Tip, tip, tip, tip, tip.
25:44Oh, my gosh.
25:50Oh, my gosh.
25:52Wow, that's epic.
26:04I feel like a little cupcake.
26:06I feel like a cupcake.
26:08Love it.
26:09Love it.
26:09I love the veil.
26:09I mean, you can't.
26:10Oh, the veil.
26:11I love the veil.
26:12Yeah.
26:12I don't even want you to try it at night.
26:15It's gorgeous.
26:16It looks so good on you.
26:17Yeah.
26:19Oh.
26:20That is very pretty.
26:22Ailyn getting married.
26:24That's like the true, like, rite of passage almost into not being under our wing anymore.
26:32I love the pockets.
26:33I love the corset.
26:34Okay.
26:34I was going to say.
26:35I like the corset.
26:36I mean, you look this big.
26:37I love it.
26:39You look insane.
26:40It does look really good.
26:41Seriously.
26:42You guys are sweet.
26:43No.
26:44You look insane.
26:44I feel like Rapunzel.
26:48I can't believe how much I loved the first dress.
26:51I was like, holy s***, I'm actually getting married.
26:54I love it.
26:55I love it.
26:56It's just a little too plain.
26:58Do you want to try Sammy's pick next, which is going to be a very different look?
27:02Very different.
27:02Yeah?
27:03Yes.
27:03Yes.
27:04All right.
27:04Let's go.
27:05Is it completely different than the two?
27:06Completely different than both of those two.
27:08Good.
27:08Good.
27:08The dress is not enough for Balin.
27:11I think the tiara gives the dress, you know, that little bit of sparkle, but Balin is just
27:17full of sparkle.
27:18And I want to see what else is hiding back there.
27:22How was the baby?
27:23I don't know.
27:24I haven't heard from a while.
27:25So.
27:26Call him.
27:27All right.
27:27Maybe I should give him a call.
27:28We're going to need a phone call.
27:29Yeah.
27:30Hey.
27:31Shut up.
27:32Hey.
27:33How's it going?
27:34Um, it's all right.
27:36I mean, she's down for a nap right now.
27:38She cried a lot.
27:40Tried to give her food.
27:41That wasn't going well.
27:43I even set the plate on the ground and thought that she would come over and just grab it whenever
27:49and, you know, she just had to cry.
27:51Don't grab it whenever.
27:52She's won.
27:52She's won.
27:55She's moving too much.
27:57I don't want her to get up.
27:57He's like, please, I don't want her to get up.
28:00Cut the phone.
28:02Well.
28:03Oh, no.
28:04Well, good luck.
28:05Just try snacks when she wakes up.
28:08Y'all have a good time.
28:09Okay.
28:10Bye, Colin.
28:10You too.
28:11Bye, Colin.
28:11Bye.
28:12Bye.
28:13Oh, no.
28:15Like, that was from his heart.
28:17Yes, that was.
28:18It's real.
28:19It's not easy.
28:20No, it's not.
28:23I hear the dress.
28:24Oh, brother.
28:26Okay.
28:26Yeah.
28:27Oh, nice.
28:29This is like a little dance thing.
28:30This one we can get down in.
28:31Yeah.
28:32I love the scarf.
28:34Oh, I love the dress Sammy picked.
28:40I love the texture and, like, how flowy it was.
28:44It's beautiful.
28:45Oh, my.
28:45It's absolutely beautiful.
28:49I love the different, like, layers.
28:52So pretty.
28:55Stunning.
28:56I'm trying to be in love with it.
29:00I feel like the sparkle's missing a little bit.
29:02Yeah.
29:02Where it's like, hey, it's like, it's so, like, I'm going out to dinner and I look amazing.
29:06Not like.
29:07Yes.
29:07I'm walking down the aisle.
29:09Yeah.
29:10I love it, but.
29:11I love it as, like, a dancing.
29:12That's exactly what you're talking about for the reception.
29:15Yeah.
29:16And not down the aisle dress.
29:18Hmm.
29:18Reception.
29:19I like it.
29:20Yeah.
29:20I personally really do like this dress.
29:23Let's try another one.
29:24Yeah.
29:24Sweet.
29:25We'll pick one now.
29:25Yeah.
29:26You can tell that she feels confident and that she is really, like, enjoying how she feels
29:31in the dress.
29:32And I think that is beautiful.
29:34Gorgeous in every single dress.
29:36Yeah.
29:36I'm happy that this appointment is going way better than what they expected, though.
29:39Oh, my gosh.
29:40Yes.
29:40Oh, my God.
29:43This is gorgeous.
29:45Like, I'm getting married.
29:46You're the dry king.
29:47She's a-moving.
29:50She's climbing.
29:51Oh, my God.
29:53Oh, my God.
29:54Oh, my God.
29:59Oh, my God.
30:01Oh, my God.
30:03Oh, my God.
30:04Literally.
30:04Oh.
30:07I'm already lost it.
30:09Yeah.
30:09I feel like, yeah.
30:19Oh, my God.
30:27Wow.
30:34Like, it's literally like that dress was, like, made for you.
30:36I'm loving this.
30:45What do you guys think Colin would say?
30:47It's-you look unreal.
30:48He'd be speechless.
30:49He'd be speechless.
30:50Yeah.
30:50It's all going to be.
30:51There's nothing that he would say.
30:53This is me.
30:54It's beautiful.
30:55This is me.
30:56You can just tell that it makes you feel confident.
30:58You know, like, you can just tell that it, like, makes you feel good.
31:02I love it.
31:04I see a princess.
31:06Exactly what I wanted to be on my wedding day.
31:11Oh, babe.
31:13I really just don't have words.
31:14I'm sorry.
31:15It was a big moment to see really just how joyful she felt when she put on something that made
31:22her feel like the Queen of England.
31:25this kid.
31:26them kids.
31:28Oh, my gosh.
31:30Honestly, in reality, it's not a bad tick day.
31:32My ticks haven't been triggered by the dresses.
31:35It was just the veil.
31:37Sorry.
31:37Would you like it on or should I take it off for you?
31:39Will you care if we take it off?
31:40No, if you care.
31:41That way you can see it all sort of out.
31:42Because it was touching my head instead of touching my hair, if that makes any sense.
31:46Like, it was really in there.
31:48And I think that you knew, too, before you even, like, fully saw yourself in it.
31:55But I would like to come back before I purchase it.
31:59Yeah.
31:59Yeah.
32:01I want to see if I keep thinking about it.
32:03Because if I keep thinking about it, then I'm just not going to try it anymore.
32:06I'm just going to come back and buy that one.
32:08All right.
32:08You've got the floor.
32:09Careful.
32:09Okay.
32:10I'll take you back and you can get dressed.
32:12And we'll come out here and chat.
32:13I love that she found something that was, like, bomb.
32:16Like, Valen bombshell.
32:19Oh, my gosh.
32:20Oh, my gosh.
32:21Was that cringy?
32:22Okay.
32:23What a good day.
32:25Today was phenomenal.
32:27I'm not going to lie.
32:28I came in here very anxious because I've gained 18 pounds and I'm not confident.
32:33But thank you guys for coming because I wouldn't be able to pick out my dress without you guys.
32:38It meant everything to have my closest people there.
32:41Bye.
32:42Oh, thank you for inviting us.
32:43And they can tell me, oh, they wouldn't miss it for the world.
32:45And I know that.
32:46But they deserve to know how thankful I am that they were there for me.
32:52Bye.
32:53I love you.
32:54It means everything.
32:55Hey, guys.
32:56Thanks for coming.
32:57You looked beautiful.
32:59I love you.
33:00Love you, too.
33:01Well, let me sit on my throne.
33:03On my throne?
33:03No, I'm just kidding.
33:05What do you think?
33:06I just picked the perfect people to be here.
33:08Honestly.
33:08We're not good liars.
33:09You're going to leave a little bit of room open to maybe try some more on, or the favorite
33:15is the favorite?
33:16My favorite is the favorite.
33:18I'm still willing to come back and try more dresses on.
33:22What would be a reasonable time that you would be able to be back here?
33:27Do you have anything tomorrow?
33:29Yeah, you and Colin are going to Boston for your...
33:32Yeah, we have a doctor's appointment tomorrow, so...
33:34Dr. Flaherty.
33:35Don't...
33:36Because it would have to be in a month.
33:38It would have to be, like...
33:39Oh, I could do a month.
33:40I just need a little bit of time to...
33:42We know.
33:42To come back.
33:43We know.
33:44Yeah.
33:48I don't know.
33:49Sounds crazy.
33:50Yeah, that's so funny.
33:51It doesn't sound crazy.
33:52It's called anxiety.
33:53And you started therapy, which is a huge step, too.
33:56You're doing the right thing.
34:03I was resistant to a therapist before because I was thinking that I could just fix it myself.
34:09But ultimately, my OCD and anxiety...
34:12I got to a point so bad of, like, why I wanted to go to therapy was because, like, I couldn't
34:16walk out of a room.
34:18Because I couldn't put, like, one left foot down and then one right foot down.
34:23So it feels good to talk to somebody else about it.
34:26And not be shamed or not be embarrassed.
34:34What I didn't know about therapy and after my first session of it was the validation that
34:39I would feel.
34:41Baylin's, I feel like she's definitely spot on when she says, like, she's a prisoner in
34:45her own mind.
34:45It's like, yeah.
34:47I was just finally ready to focus on me and what I needed.
34:50I feel like I'm starting to learn I can only control certain things.
34:57You can control dick.
34:58I can't control if a plane falls out of the sky.
35:02I love that Sammy's focusing on herself and her health.
35:06My girls have morphed into the most amazing adults.
35:12Well, we had you as a mommy.
35:14It's like really like being with your very, very best friends.
35:18If it's helpful for somebody to fly with you, we'll always make that happen.
35:21You forgot your dildo in the airport.
35:26Okay, wait, hold on.
35:28Yeah, mom needs a minute.
35:29She's never heard dildo out of your mouth.
35:30She needs a minute.
35:31Hold on.
35:32Mom needs a minute.
35:34Dildo!
35:35Hi!
35:35I'm on the struggle bus with the dildo tech.
35:40We're not even just saying it.
35:42We're screaming dildos.
35:46I think she was holding it in from also Colleen and Marlene.
35:49She was holding what in?
35:50Oh, my goodness.
35:58You're tired?
35:59You're tired.
35:59We're exhausted.
36:00Oh, my bum hurts.
36:01Sitting on this.
36:02Oh, we're, whoa.
36:03I just drank a lot of shea bean.
36:05Today was awesome, but I'm exhausted, and I'm ready to go home.
36:09I wonder how babysitting went, to be honest.
36:11Hopefully it was birth control, because he needs to stop that baby fever.
36:16Oh.
36:18Hey, mom.
36:20Hey, babe.
36:21What's up?
36:22Currently traveling to Boston.
36:24Having Colleen in the car, now is the perfect time to reintroduce New Pulse to her,
36:28because he will make sure that she talks to Dr. Flaherty about it.
36:33Let's just add it to the list of things we need to talk to Dr. Flaherty about.
36:36I actually have a question for the doctor.
36:40There we go.
36:41We're out of business, you motherf***ing Marlowe bitch.
37:02It said Marlowe's was going out of business.
37:04What do you want me to do?
37:05It was right in front of my face.
37:06Oh, my mom's calling.
37:09Hey, mom.
37:11Hey, babe.
37:12What's up?
37:13Currently traveling to Boston.
37:15Good little trip ahead of us.
37:17Oh, my gosh.
37:17Are you excited?
37:18I am excited.
37:19Colleen's more excited than me, personally.
37:22He should be.
37:23Yeah.
37:23This is like his first time into the doorway of Baylen's crazy doctor visit.
37:28Yes.
37:29This is life.
37:30Yes.
37:31I'm excited about going to a doctor's appointment for the first time with Baylen because the torch or the responsibility of taking care of Baylen is kind of being passed down.
37:42And I feel good about that.
37:43So I think while you're there, it would be a great time to ask her about the new pulse, the device, the wrist device.
37:54Okay.
37:55I've been wanting to talk to Baylen about my lunch date with Anita, but I know with having Colin in the car, he will make sure that she talks to Dr. Flaherty about it.
38:06I think it would be good to get her opinion.
38:09She's such a scholar.
38:10And if she doesn't know anything about it, that means it's not a good thing.
38:13This is true?
38:15Okay.
38:16I love you.
38:17I love you, and I will talk to you soon.
38:19Okay.
38:19That sounds good.
38:20I'll let you know when we get there.
38:21Okay.
38:22Bye.
38:23Okay.
38:23Bye.
38:25I'm glad my mom brought it up.
38:26Yeah.
38:27I was actually with Baylen when she was told about New Pulse.
38:30So at least we can find out if and when it might be available in the U.S. and if Baylen can benefit from it.
38:37Let's just add it to the list of things we need to talk to Dr. Flaherty about.
38:43I actually have a question for the doctor.
38:46Do we have?
38:49How your medications would work when you're pregnant?
38:56What part of not pressuring me to have kids before a wedding isn't clicking?
39:05I wasn't pressuring you.
39:08It's good knowledge to have.
39:11Good knowledge for who?
39:12For me.
39:15For the future.
39:16You got a mind of your own.
39:22I'm so frustrated between wedding planning and Colin's career change.
39:27We can't add a baby into this mix.
39:31We're not talking about this right now.
39:34We're not talking about this right now.
39:35Miss it, bitch.
39:50Oh, my God.
39:52Josh, tell me you're thinking about getting the real estate.
39:54Yeah, I am.
39:55More than 80% of people who get their real estate license stop, you know, in less than five years.
40:00It makes me worried for Colin because there is so much potential to succeed in this field,
40:07but there's even more potential to fail.
40:10There's this device I heard about called New Pulse that helps her tics.
40:15It's not available here.
40:16If you did want to try, you'd have to go to the UK, I'm afraid.
40:19Yeah.
40:20So she's basically like, give it a go.
40:23Except for it's in the UK.
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