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Ricky and Tara are a recently divorced couple navigating the challenges of co-parenting their young son while recovering from the wounds of their failed relationship. But after moving on to new partners, they soon find the grass isn't quite greener and they might just want that old thing back. Will they take a second shot at love?
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00:00:00It's not funny to me.
00:00:24It's not funny.
00:00:24See, he always counters what I have to say.
00:00:27Listen, she thinks everything is a big joke,
00:00:29because all she wants to do is take my money.
00:00:31How does it make me feel that he put a baby inside me
00:00:33and that he walks off, and then he talks about how I'm a lowlife,
00:00:35but he can't give me any money to do anything with his son?
00:00:38First of all, I don't walk off, all right?
00:00:39I really can't stand him.
00:00:41Try to keep your mouth quiet for a minute.
00:00:42Can you talk to her?
00:00:43Because I damn sure don't want to hear you.
00:00:45Henry, he's either happy, one extreme, or he's pissed.
00:00:49I should have never named my son after him.
00:00:52She's fucking crazy.
00:00:53Poor excuse for a man.
00:00:54I have a little anger issue.
00:00:55She got a big anger issue.
00:00:57See?
00:00:58You just want to hear yourself talk all the time.
00:01:00I damn sure don't want to hear you talk.
00:01:02I don't have to do this.
00:01:04You can take the man out the ghetto.
00:01:06You can't take the ghetto out the man.
00:01:07You already know I've been saying that to her ass, all right?
00:01:09Anger issues.
00:01:10Yes, I got anger issues.
00:01:11You're taking my fucking money.
00:01:12It's hard-earned money.
00:01:13There's no fine line with this man.
00:01:16I just got a job.
00:01:17What the hell am I doing here?
00:01:18You run your mouth so much.
00:01:20Let me tell you.
00:01:21Let me talk to her.
00:01:22She just got a job.
00:01:23McDonald's is far from a motherfucking job.
00:01:24See?
00:01:25I told you this wouldn't help.
00:01:28You always have to be right about everything.
00:01:30Make sense out of everything.
00:01:31Everything is not supposed to make sense.
00:01:34That was something my grandma Pam used to say.
00:01:37Everything is not supposed to make sense.
00:01:40And she was right.
00:01:42My grandma was a wise woman.
00:01:44She would say, God gave you two good feet.
00:01:47You can either stay still or keep going.
00:01:50No use in feeling sorry for yourself.
00:01:52You got yourself way into this mess.
00:01:55You can get yourself out.
00:01:57She lived to be 92 before we laid her to rest.
00:02:00She was smiling and kind.
00:02:03She told me to remember one thing.
00:02:05A man will treat you exactly the way you allow him to.
00:02:08And that the road to self respect was not an easy one.
00:02:12And that you may not like what you find along the way.
00:02:15Another day, I'm feeling stuck.
00:02:20Don't wanna move, baby.
00:02:22I just wanna lose, yeah.
00:02:24I'm bound to lose, but I don't want to lose.
00:02:27Stuck confused, I always choose us.
00:02:30Call me crazy cause it's true.
00:02:32I can't tell if I'm still in love with you.
00:02:35Cause my thoughts are far away.
00:02:37You know my mind is going, babe.
00:02:40Comfort is a killer, but I'd rather be complacent.
00:02:44I don't wanna move cause it might be a mistake.
00:02:47If I go, if I stay.
00:02:59Henry, I need to talk to you.
00:03:01What?
00:03:02Yeah, yeah, okay.
00:03:03I'm on my way to work, but can I ask you for a quick favor?
00:03:05Tyra, come on.
00:03:06I'm working out.
00:03:07What do you need?
00:03:08I need about $100.
00:03:10Listen, I told you not to put him in them expensive-ass schools, didn't I?
00:03:13Yeah, it's not that much money.
00:03:15Listen, I went to public schools.
00:03:16That's all I needed, right?
00:03:17What do you want?
00:03:18I don't want him hanging out on the street court.
00:03:20He has to have a good education.
00:03:22Call me right here.
00:03:23Hello?
00:03:25Hello?
00:03:26What?
00:03:27Henry, don't hang up the phone on me.
00:03:29I wanna finish this conversation.
00:03:31Why again are you asking me for money?
00:03:33Why am I asking you for money?
00:03:34Because it's your son.
00:03:35And I turned out finally.
00:03:36Yeah, look how you turned out.
00:03:37Mm-hmm.
00:03:38If I didn't hide that gun, you would've got three more years in prison.
00:03:39Tyra, that's a low blow.
00:03:40What?
00:03:41What?
00:03:42What?
00:03:43What?
00:03:44Henry, don't hang up the phone on me.
00:03:45I wanna finish this conversation.
00:03:46Why again are you asking me for money?
00:03:47Why am I asking you for money?
00:03:48Why am I asking you for money?
00:03:49Because it's your son.
00:03:50And I turned out finally.
00:03:51Yeah, look how you turned out.
00:03:52Mm-hmm.
00:03:53If I didn't hide that gun, you would've got three more years in prison.
00:03:54Tyra, that's a low blow.
00:03:55Now you know I changed my life.
00:03:56Well, change your son's life.
00:03:57Why don't you give him a chance to make something of his life?
00:03:58Maybe with this head start, he can go to Ivy League school.
00:03:59You know, get some opportunities.
00:04:00See what the world has to offer.
00:04:01Or what?
00:04:02You want him to grab a beer and hang out with you and your boys on the corner?
00:04:03I resent you for saying that.
00:04:04You don't want him to grab a beer and hang out with you and your boys on the corner.
00:04:05I resent you for saying that.
00:04:06You don't want him to grab a beer and hang out with you and your boys on the corner.
00:04:08I resent you for saying that.
00:04:09You don't know nine out of ten businesses fail.
00:04:23Yeah?
00:04:24Well, failure is a chance to learn.
00:04:26Not an excuse to quit, Henry.
00:04:28You know you so damn dramatic.
00:04:30You know you miss your calling.
00:04:31Why, you could have had three Oscars by now.
00:04:33Mm-hmm.
00:04:34If I didn't hide that gun, you would've got three more years in prison.
00:04:38I mean, all I'm asking for is $100 for your son's school trip.
00:04:43No, I'm not gonna give you $100.
00:04:45Listen, when I was in school, field trips cost $10.
00:04:48Henry, it's for your son's science trip.
00:04:51They gotta ride on a bus for two hours.
00:04:54Look, why don't you just get the money from your new man?
00:04:56Yeah.
00:04:57Well, that man, he bought sneakers for your son,
00:05:00and I felt terrible, but he needed them.
00:05:02So how does that make you feel, another man buying sneakers for your son?
00:05:06Huh? You should feel like a piece of shit.
00:05:08You know what?
00:05:09If you have any of them dumbass morons around my motherfucking son,
00:05:12you know what you are?
00:05:13Lowdown.
00:05:14Then dick to the ass bitch!
00:05:15That's what you are!
00:05:16I'm the mother of your child, you fucking loser.
00:05:19How could you talk to me like that?
00:05:23What?
00:05:36How's her phone?
00:05:39I'm done talking to you, Henry. Don't call me back anymore.
00:05:57I'm on my way to work.
00:05:58Listen, don't hang up.
00:05:59Look, I know we don't get along.
00:06:02And we haven't gotten along in a long time.
00:06:05But for the sake of our son, please,
00:06:08I'm gonna have dinner with Cara at 6 o'clock at Garino's.
00:06:12Well, hooray for you.
00:06:14Come at 515, 530.
00:06:16Please, just be on time.
00:06:18I will give you the money.
00:06:19Don't be late.
00:06:20I don't want you to run into her,
00:06:21because the last time that you came up there,
00:06:23you almost wired her jaw shut.
00:06:24Well, I don't give a shit about that buck tooth hole.
00:06:26I just care about my child.
00:06:28All right.
00:06:29For me.
00:06:30Just be on time.
00:06:31Okay.
00:06:32Okay.
00:06:33Look, I'll be there.
00:06:34All right. Thank you.
00:06:47Please breathe in.
00:06:49Inhale deeply.
00:06:51Let your head touch the sky.
00:06:53Hold it.
00:06:54And exhale.
00:06:56Into your meditation stance and hold.
00:07:00Girl, I don't know why you're always doing for dude.
00:07:05He got you pregnant, left you,
00:07:07and now he gives you money whenever he feels like it.
00:07:10Jeez.
00:07:11You make it seem like it's some kind of science experiment.
00:07:14Impregnation sequence begin.
00:07:17He was.
00:07:18Seriously.
00:07:19Listen, you need to get a backbone.
00:07:21Ty, you need to toughen up.
00:07:23My motto is, if he ain't putting food in my mouth,
00:07:25he going to the courthouse.
00:07:26No.
00:07:27He's trying.
00:07:28Besides, I don't want to alienate him.
00:07:30He's a good dad.
00:07:32And little Henry, he worships the ground he walks on.
00:07:34Well, it sounds like he's not the only one worshiping the ground.
00:07:37Excuse me?
00:07:38Does my friend have a case of the starry eyes herself?
00:07:40Girl, no.
00:07:41Girl, no.
00:07:42Shh.
00:07:43Girl, I do not want him.
00:07:45Mm-mm.
00:07:46I moved on to better and way bigger things.
00:07:49Yeah.
00:07:50Boy, it sounds like you're going to have a second better and bigger science experiment coming soon.
00:07:54Uh-uh.
00:07:55Don't wish that on me.
00:07:56I am strapped up Sally.
00:07:57Uh-uh.
00:07:58Well, you acting like knocked up Nancy.
00:08:00You just hating because you're not getting none.
00:08:02Uh-uh.
00:08:03Celibacy is my choice, honey.
00:08:05Okay?
00:08:06I chose that.
00:08:07These men are driving me crazy.
00:08:08So I put them on an official time.
00:08:10Oh!
00:08:11Time out?
00:08:12Girl, time out.
00:08:13Your time out has been like six months.
00:08:14You're on official coochie hibernation, vagina vacation.
00:08:17Hibernation, girl.
00:08:18This is a Durastell stimulation.
00:08:24And speaking of Mr. Bigger Things, where is he at?
00:08:28On the road?
00:08:29Yeah.
00:08:30I told you he's a pharmaceutical rep.
00:08:31Cel, he's always on the road.
00:08:32Go.
00:08:33Pharmaceutical rep.
00:08:34Out on the road making tons of money.
00:08:36But me and him both drive a Honda.
00:08:37I work at 7-Eleven.
00:08:39And we drive the same car.
00:08:40Stop.
00:08:41Come on.
00:08:42Come on.
00:08:43You are just hating.
00:08:44Dude, it's fine.
00:08:45Look, I gotta get ready and go to work.
00:08:47Okay.
00:08:48I'll see you tonight.
00:08:49You and little Henry better be over for the Real Housewives
00:08:51Marathon than the reunion job.
00:08:53Oh, I gotta take a rain check because I gotta go to the
00:08:56restaurant to get the money from Henry.
00:09:01You going to see Henry?
00:09:02Tyra?
00:09:03Tyra?
00:09:04Tyra?
00:09:05What?
00:09:06I forbid you to see him.
00:09:07I don't want to be with you for four hours while you crying.
00:09:09You look like Shabba Ranks when you cry.
00:09:11Have you ever seen yourself?
00:09:12No, I'm not joking.
00:09:14You are emotionally scarring.
00:09:16Don't go.
00:09:17I forbid you.
00:09:18But don't worry.
00:09:19I'm gonna be out of the restaurant before she even gets there.
00:09:21Okay.
00:09:22But girl.
00:09:23You need me to come with you?
00:09:24I got Vaseline, razor blades, whatever I need.
00:09:26And a rolled up newspaper.
00:09:27You know how I get down.
00:09:28Girl.
00:09:29No, no, no.
00:09:30I am not worried.
00:09:31Told you.
00:09:32I'mma leave, get the money from Big Henry, and I'm gone.
00:09:33Mm-mm-mm.
00:09:34Okay.
00:09:35Well, you know the code to text me if you need backup.
00:09:37Because you know I'm about that action.
00:09:39I know you are.
00:09:40I know.
00:09:41Bye, Lindsey.
00:09:42I love you.
00:09:43You leaving?
00:09:44Leaving yoga.
00:09:45That's cool.
00:09:46You're gonna be looking at me turning necks, snapping heads, then you gonna be looking like that.
00:09:50Let me finish this class.
00:09:52Yeah exactly.
00:09:53No, I gotta go.
00:09:54See ya.
00:09:55Oh, that's what you think?
00:09:56That's what you think?
00:09:57You're looking very flabby.
00:09:58I'm supposed to be Serena and you Nicki Minaj, girl.
00:10:00Real booties matter.
00:10:05Oh, I'mma leave too.
00:10:16you can answer that if you need to oh no that's okay mr owens it's just henry he's called me six
00:10:27times already geez well i understand what do you mean you understand a fine woman like you working
00:10:35late with a rich man like me i'd be worried too oh really brother's just feeling the heat
00:10:42oh he's not the jealous type no why not or has he got something else going on to distract him
00:10:50um the jones case we were discussing the jones case right yeah the jones case
00:10:58we'll need sworn testimony over to the judge by morning along with that brief
00:11:12hi good evening welcome good evening um can i have a table for two please preferably in the back
00:11:36oh hot date excuse me i mean i just assume since you want to sit in the back that you know maybe
00:11:42you had a little hanky panky for dessert that's a little inappropriate could you just see me to my
00:11:48table look relax i don't mind watching you know back at my apartment i got binoculars i like to watch
00:11:53all the time and you never know i just might jump off the sidelines and join the game are you crazy
00:12:00uh-huh put me in coach yeah you're crazy you ain't seen crazy yet
00:12:22dr. bruce telephone please dr. bruce telephone please dr. garcia will be with you in a second
00:12:27great looking forward to doing business with her again yeah right
00:12:33yeah
00:12:50yeah can you hold on a second okay well i was just trying to see what time we're going
00:12:56so i'm gonna have to call you back call you back yeah yeah yeah i'll talk to you later
00:12:59may i help you yeah um i'm here to see henry fairway oh you mean that sexy chocolate drop at table 24
00:13:17excuse me girl let me know if you need help with that i got you
00:13:21excuse me you know they say bad things come in threes very very bad things okay this is getting awkward
00:13:30just please take me to his table all right this way
00:13:33goodness i didn't come here to be sexually assaulted i was a victim too what kind of seedy place is this
00:13:54you know what i'm not surprised considering you picked this spot you go with the jabs again
00:13:59come on let's just get this over with because i don't even want to start with you okay let's get it
00:14:04over with because carl will be here soon please okay well let's hurry up then what is your problem
00:14:09carl's gonna be in my life so you need to just learn to get along with her i don't need to learn to get
00:14:14along with her i don't need to learn nothing she needs to learn how to control her mouth and keep her
00:14:19damn hands off her iphone or do i need to remind her henry because i'm why the hell do you have to
00:14:23be so ghetto please i am not ghetto i'm from burbank i learned all this foolishness from you and
00:14:29world star you said a hundred dollars right that's right and what's up with you and all these over
00:14:34the top field trips over the top you know what's over the top is you going to strip clubs and sports
00:14:41betting places you know what what's wrong with being over the top for your son oh god here it comes
00:14:47you know what i should have kept my legs closed for you should use them same damn legs to run away
00:14:53from you what is your problem huh what's wrong with you everything's an insult you can't just sit down
00:15:02have a nice meal have a great conversation can you no you can't you know what just give me the money
00:15:11fuck get the fuck out of here yes please get the fuck out of here
00:15:14henry you on your way no no i'm sorry this product is taking forever
00:15:28listen i don't understand why are you not over here why are you still there henry i told you about
00:15:35asking questions when it comes to my work i'm sorry baby
00:15:39right there what car what are you doing um no nothing sir the files can go right there listen
00:15:49you go ahead and email me i i can't talk right now i'll talk to you tomorrow i'll be home in the morning
00:15:54what do you mean in the morning clara clara clara he's so clingy sometimes i can't take it
00:16:03that's why you need a grown-ass man in your life i wouldn't ask you no questions
00:16:10is that so yeah i don't play no games but interesting
00:16:17well you might as well stay have a drink she's not coming
00:16:27i'm not a cancellation prize just give me my money so i can get back on the bus i cannot believe she's
00:16:34not coming what did she say
00:16:37uh can i get you anything sir ma'am yeah uh jack and coke for me and get her a vodka cranberry ciroc
00:16:47i'll have the chardonnay okay right away
00:16:49she said she has work to do
00:16:54i hope it's very productive and what are you supposed to mean by that
00:16:58i don't know it feels like it's a little sweet revenge for me you know seeing you go through the
00:17:05same thing that you put me through look i don't know what you're talking about all right
00:17:08and ain't nobody gonna cheat on big hen because i know what i bring to tell you
00:17:12big hen yes okay i'll give you b plus at best b plus b plus oh henry spank that ass oh my god
00:17:22henry you're knocking my hip up out of place baby you're about to ouch oh really shit oh wow come on
00:17:28okay okay okay you have some a plus moments but you're not mr consistency
00:17:33mm-hmm now michael jordan had a couple days off too but he was still michael jordan henry michael jordan
00:17:39no i say you're like scotty pippen at best but you're not a michael jordan
00:17:43whatever
00:17:44all right thank you
00:17:49no problem enjoy
00:17:51thank you
00:17:57you're welcome
00:17:58so um what's your next move what you got going on in your life well i'm starting a new business
00:18:05some marketing internet play i hope this is not another one of your get rich quick schemes because
00:18:12the only person getting rich is the person selling to idiots like you you know life is about hard work
00:18:17yeah ain't no shortcuts no i don't take advice especially business advice from people who ride the
00:18:21bus oh come on that is by choice i'm on the bus because i'm trying to stack my money okay unlike
00:18:27you i have a financial plan right right right your financial plan is saving your money and spending
00:18:32mine well i like that plan i don't
00:18:40can i ask you something what
00:18:44no what if all that stuff didn't happen with your niece
00:18:48do you think we would have been broken up here we go traniece you mean my co-worker who you slept in
00:18:53our bed with she was giving me a massage see henry come on now you know what i'm about to go
00:19:01come on okay wait wait listen wait wait listen i shouldn't have brought that up
00:19:05you forgave me for that i mean we went to the pastor and everything and he prayed and they you
00:19:09know all of that yeah well forgiveness is an operational word i didn't forget
00:19:15listen i know you think i'm selfish selfish yes yeah well i'm an only child what do you expect yeah
00:19:24your mama still treats you like your only child and why you gotta bring my mama into this well i mean
00:19:29you brought up traniece so i thought everything was fair game all right speaking of games let's play one
00:19:35you ask me anything anything and i promise i'll tell you the truth anything mm-hmm anything okay
00:19:44is she better than me come why would you ask me that why would you ask me that is she is she better
00:19:52than me all right no but her mic game when she rocking that mic i can't lie but she rocking that mic
00:20:02she really okay but when it comes to you know getting married and all of that stuff and settling
00:20:09down i'll give that to you then what did she do different than i did well she just you know she
00:20:17got a couple different angles that you just she know how to move her head a certain way and it's
00:20:22just like it works oh okay well you know what stop stop stop stop okay that's enough you know what i
00:20:26didn't want to hear all of it okay well you shouldn't ask if you didn't want to know now you asked and i
00:20:31try to tell you yeah well you have a lot to learn too about yourself young man about pressure points
00:20:36oh you don't even need to go there yes i do because we already done established i am the man
00:20:42you're the man okay well i need to hear that from somebody else besides yourself
00:20:46then it might be true henry ask her if you want to ask oh really the man the man huh hold on
00:20:55i think i gotta answer this phone call i'll be right back be my guest the man man
00:21:12what you on your way you got the money yeah i'm gonna leave in a second
00:21:17okay i think he wants to talk with me girl obviously he's been stood up oh gosh i would
00:21:26have sniffed his lame deadbeat ass up too all right now stop it you know that's my baby daddy
00:21:32girl there you go protecting him again so lizzie i'm gonna need a quick favor
00:21:38story of my life ty what's up you know i had a drink and i don't drink that much
00:21:42is it all right if you pick up a little man for me ah okay um hold on okay i can rearrange some
00:21:52things and make that happen thank you i owe you my life we've established that you owe me your life
00:21:57come up with something better i appreciate you i do oh you appreciate me right okay well if you
00:22:04win cartier come on out with the red box okay girl take your time do what you have to do just get
00:22:11your money get out of there and call me as soon as you're on your way i got a little man all right
00:22:17bye love you uh you know i love the kids
00:22:20so you got the hundred dollars for little henry's lavish trip okay thank you you're welcome
00:22:41okay you take care of yourself all right
00:23:05tyrant hey come on come on look you really need to go
00:23:11come on can't you just eat a little bit
00:23:15well i really do need to go why don't you just have a few bites and then you can go
00:23:19you know you can eat real fast shut up look i ordered your favorite you ordered for me
00:23:26you know how much i hate when you do that no love when i do that that's a woman's code for that
00:23:33turns me on all right so
00:23:42all right i i well it isn't safe out here and i am hungry come on come on all right
00:23:50no i do remember the time when you were like on that boat and you fell off and then you were
00:23:55screaming like a little girl like help me save me i was not screaming like a little girl yes you was
00:24:00a manly scrub besides that black people in the water don't mix really well you can't say that
00:24:06because i'm black and i can swim well you didn't jump in to help me no because um at that time i had
00:24:12that life insurance policy and i was thinking about that mansion in miami you know you can't live without
00:24:17me and especially not down in miami yeah i don't know about that why don't you try me let's go rent a
00:24:23boat or canoe and see what happens you would jump in and save me i don't know i mean you know what that
00:24:29park ranger did a good enough job he was you would jump in and save me okay i would save you
00:24:37can i ask you something what personal question no you ever think about me you ever think about us
00:24:50no because i'm i have lamont now look at my lamont lamont you know you don't even love lamont
00:24:58that bastard look at him look at lamont and look at me huh there is no comparison
00:25:03now back to what i asked you you ever think about us i can't answer that figures
00:25:16you know oh my gosh
00:25:23why do you keep looking at the girl over here what what is that girl looking at why does she just keep
00:25:27staring over here something's going on or something i'm gonna come over there and tell her about
00:25:31herself in a second please why are you so ghetto you can take the girl out of the ghetto with me
00:25:36you cannot take the ghetto out of the girl don't say it you know i hate when you call me ghetto
00:25:42besides you the one who grew up in the projects i wouldn't even step foot over in your neighborhood
00:25:46after 5 30 pm ain't nothing wrong with being raised in the projects jay-z came from the projects
00:25:50well my dad was a high school principal oh and you aren't no jay-z and you damn showing beyonce
00:25:55you know what that's why i can't stand you you just have a smart mouth yeah well i mean you're
00:26:01trying to make everybody think that i'm from the ghetto you know i'm sensitive about that why are you
00:26:05sensitive why don't you embrace being from the hood i do embrace being from the hood what's wrong with
00:26:11being from the hood so i got my streets minds and i wouldn't get played by nobody like lamont
00:26:17because i got streets minds oh well what is that supposed to mean what do you mean what is it
00:26:22supposed to mean oh i'm on the road i'm a salesman i'm gone all the time hell you know what he doing
00:26:28you know why don't you focus on your own relationship and get out of mine i do focus on my relationship
00:26:34she makes good money and she has a job unlike you oh yeah yes well where is this good woman of yours
00:26:41taking care of business oh and you believe that yourself yeah i believe it why wouldn't i oh
00:26:46you know what i'm done you know i'm gonna go pay this bill and when i get back you be gone how about
00:26:54that yeah well go ahead pay this bill it's the least you can do at least i can do i'm gonna be right here
00:27:00drinking my drink right excuse me mom i'm sorry i don't mean to be nosy then why are you being nosy
00:27:13what do you want i saw you over there sticking your nose all in my business what you want to knuckle
00:27:18up listen again i'm very very sorry i just couldn't help to overhear about you and your boyfriend no
00:27:28ex-husband well i couldn't help to hear you and your ex-husband arguing seems like you guys have a
00:27:33lot of pimped out anger against each other excuse me but how is that any of your business well to be
00:27:40honest i can't help it my ears kind of tune to these type of things i'm a professional counselor
00:27:45specialize in broken relationships yeah well this relationship it can't use any of your help
00:27:55you'd be surprised i've helped a lot of couples come back from the brink we are well beyond the brink
00:28:04i don't think so i mean just like anything else in life it all depends on how much work you're willing
00:28:09to put in but okay well listen i know you're the expert and all but i disagree
00:28:15here's my card if you can convince him to come you never know you guys may be able to work things
00:28:21out and put this back together yeah i know you're an optimist and all but i don't have any money
00:28:31if you can convince him to come it'll be on me okay whatever you have a great day ma'am you too
00:28:39i should never even let you sit down with me oh you know what i'm gonna call you uber so you can
00:28:51take your ass home that's what we do you only let me sit down because you were lonely i was not lonely
00:29:00i let you sit down because i didn't whatever i shouldn't have let you sit down now my damn phone
00:29:06i got a surge because of the damn uber cheap cheap phone what do you mean i'm cheap i should put your
00:29:12ass back on the bus look at you i'm supposed to be the mother of your child that's how you talk to me
00:29:16yeah you're the mother of my child but sometimes you just get on my nerves it's always like this
00:29:20you know what i'll stand out here wait on the bus whatever i got to do 10 more minutes but i got to get up
00:29:24for work in the morning oh you don't have to get up and out of work what is your working system thumbing
00:29:28through like ads you know what without oh whatever yes whatever why you always got to bother me anyway
00:29:35i would leave your ass out here but i know a homeless guy's gonna drag you in the back of the alley so i'll
00:29:39wait with you i'm a big girl i can take care of myself your daddy is a principal and i'm from the ghetto
00:29:47remember so i'll stay out here and i'll wait with you as i always do oh and that's the least you can
00:29:53do you know look my hotel is right up there i'll go and get my car and we can just drive you home
00:29:59like that how about that wait a minute let me answer it well whoever it is maybe they can come pick your
00:30:04ass up what's wrong with you who the hell is that hold on my phone my phone my phone oh you on that
00:30:21damn cell phone don't answer it hey baby i'm on call it could be a client sorry just give me a second
00:30:28you pharmaceutical guys are so strange
00:30:40listen let's just go down here and i can just go get my car hold on
00:30:51who was on the phone you never said nothing how the hell you
00:30:54i'm gonna need a stiff one tyra come on look i don't have all night i got to get up for work
00:31:00in the morning he loves me please just stop he loves me not quick please you know what this is
00:31:05what i'm talking about i'm not looking at her and she crossed her legs just stop and stay here with
00:31:09you ain't gotta be oh stop it get your hands up come on come on all right i'm being serious
00:31:16therapists give us therapy i think that you guys need to let each other talk one at a time
00:31:24and all right go ahead every time i say something to you you're writing something
00:31:31never she's writing in the book so how do you feel that he has someone else
00:31:40how do i feel that yes don't do that to me see i hate that what do you mean you hate that
00:31:45just can you figure something out just talk to her talk to her
00:31:48you guys obviously love each other please get off of me or else you guys wouldn't be here
00:31:53i'm here because uh my son all right that's the only reason i'm here because i want to get along
00:31:58with his mother that's all she is to me my son's mother oh shit shut up look you know what that's
00:32:05what i'm talking about okay so as i was saying what do you want us to tell you how does pda make you
00:32:11feel pda pda you know what that acronym stands for yes from the projects you know see you see
00:32:17how i'm okay i'm trying to be nice to her but every time i'll be nice to her then she always has
00:32:22to say something that i'm well you know i have a sarcastic mouth but you just you have a you're
00:32:25more than that your mouth is not the problem but okay sierra right what is the reason for
00:32:31your sarcasm i feel like whatever you're writing in that book i want to make sure that it doesn't
00:32:36go anywhere else oh no this is strictly confidential she's lying i've seen something she wrote about
00:32:40something else she's been writing about people forever and just the reason for my sarcasm sarcasm
00:32:46i know okay i'm picking up your tendencies you're the one that's ghetto yeah you are ghetto no i'm not
00:32:51i'm from burbank you from the project why do you keep saying that like these references burbank got ghetto
00:32:56parts obviously i'm gone let's just get a party
00:33:06this has got to be the worst case ever it's so complicated i feel like every time i know what
00:33:15i'm doing three more things pop up well that's what we get paid to do deal with headaches my whole
00:33:22life is a headache right now oh so life should be great you're young beautiful smart you should
00:33:30you should have no worries if only that was the case all i do is worry no you're gonna have to let
00:33:38that go you're gonna start seeing gray hairs pop now look at me 20 years of worry 20 years of gray
00:33:44well it makes you look very distinguished oh then i must look very distinguished
00:33:48well it just so happens i like older men well what do you say we get out of here and have a drink
00:34:03why don't we go have a drink and go over the case the jones case the jones case
00:34:08i've been meaning to say something but i didn't want to make you feel uncomfortable please you know
00:34:30you always had an issue with that i ain't never had no problems telling people how i feel no you haven't
00:34:35that at all you like it you always liked me being your protector okay i'll give you that i'll give
00:34:43you that you always defended me sometimes you were a little too aggressive but for the most part you made
00:34:49me feel safe what are you talking about aggressive my right hook is a monster like lennox lewis baby
00:34:55okay i don't know who lennox lewis is but you probably aren't as half as tough as he is
00:34:59hmm see there you go again trying to tear me down better be glad i'm a mama's boy i got confidence
00:35:07henry that's part of the problem you're a mama's boy maybe if you wasn't a mama's boy our relationship
00:35:12could have lasted a little bit longer what are you talking about i'm an only child i'm supposed to be a
00:35:15mama's boy can i give you some advice yeah it's time for you to take your mouth off your mama's nipple
00:35:23slowly okay wait a minute what about you shopping at amazon wearing it one time and then sending it
00:35:31back what yeah that's ghetto as hell baby you know it relaxes me and then what what's gonna happen
00:35:38when amazon sends the fbi to your house and have your ass somewhere else then what fbi come on all i do
00:35:46is buy stuff and then i send it back in the mail i adhere to the return policy no what you adhere to
00:35:50is being ghetto as hell you know sometimes i think about all the nights i spent alone building this
00:36:04practice all the hours of solitude worry and i sometimes i you know i wonder if everything
00:36:15i missed out on was worth it i mean it was my dream and i'm here now but you know i think to
00:36:22myself is this it does that make sense i think you did exactly what you had to do to achieve your goals
00:36:29and i mean isn't that what life is all about achieving right no that's what i thought yeah that's what i
00:36:37thought i think you're getting a little tipsy i mean who wouldn't want to be rich and well respected in
00:36:45their field i mean what more can you ask for in a man i love ambition oh do you now i just like a go
00:36:56getter i mean i try to get henry to get off his behind and do something but it seems like every time
00:37:03he gets up he falls right back on his face and and i want to support him but i just don't have the
00:37:09patience for it you know everybody doesn't have it in them it's a long tough road to success yeah
00:37:15well i don't want to wait around while he's trying to figure it out
00:37:21do you love it
00:37:21do you know what let's do a toast to finally getting along you're right and to even maybe being
00:37:37friends i like how that sounds for little henry's sake i'll toast to that for little henry again let's
00:37:47go get myself into hey this is my drink this is damn ghetto you love it oh oh my god
00:38:08go give me another drink uh be right back all right
00:38:17hey hello hey how's everything going with little henry how'd i do is that him in the background that i
00:38:36hear he should be in the bed you should have told me that a long time ago or ten twinkies ago ten
00:38:43twinkies girl i'm gonna kill you i want him to love me you want me to hate you that's what you
00:38:51want girl put him to bed okay well we have to crack the zoom button then we're gonna go back girl i'm
00:38:58gonna kill you seriously sound like your meeting is productive you might let him dust them cobwebs off
00:39:05that thing for you shut up lindsay girl nothing's gonna happen well hopefully something happens and you
00:39:11could loosen up a little bit always on my case look let me call you back in about an hour and put henry
00:39:16back to bed that's good i gotta go anyway uh-huh okay ready go come on let's do the video do you love it
00:39:29oh i thought i did for a minute but now i'm not so sure well after three divorces
00:39:36yes well take it from me there is nothing unsure about love if you're not sure
00:39:44you're not in love you're probably right
00:39:49what is it that irks you about him the most i mean what is it is it is it one thing is it a lot of
00:39:55things i don't know i guess it's just he can't get his act together i mean he starts these businesses
00:40:01and he doesn't follow through and i mean i guess he tries hard but trying just isn't good enough
00:40:07for me i want him to win well failure is part of success i started some businesses before this one
00:40:13didn't work out but i you know i i stuck to it because well you never know yeah well i don't know
00:40:21if i want to stick around to figure out what's going on with him i mean i want to live my life and
00:40:26i want to live it right now i hear that baby and plus he does this really weird thing with my feet
00:40:35where he likes to kiss my toes and uh-uh i think he thinks it's turning me on and i really don't like
00:40:40it to your mind little toe jam between the teeth hey there's no toe jam over here i don't know i might
00:40:48have to do a little inspection myself put it up here let me check them out let me see put it right there
00:40:53you know you're a funny girl amazing sense of humor you know for a girl with a face like
00:41:03and that body
00:41:07are you flirting with me mr owens well you can take it however you want it but you said you'd like to go
00:41:15get her
00:41:29you know you love me i love everybody i love everybody
00:41:36okay okay uh what you can love everybody i love everybody
00:41:40what's in front of you what's in front of you then what is behind the words
00:41:53we're suspended in disbelief but simon said please
00:41:59mommy took you back and like i didn't have to tell us
00:42:03no that's for your girlfriend why you always got to bring up car though you always do that though right
00:42:19because it's all you know
00:42:27oh my god the phone was on the whole time
00:42:34oh
00:42:43oh
00:42:45oh
00:42:47shit
00:42:48oh
00:42:48shit
00:42:49mind what you know
00:42:49internal cage
00:42:53without sense of self
00:42:55we're all easing peace
00:42:57So, about that promotion.
00:43:02Anything you want, anything you want.
00:43:06That's why you hold you on your own.
00:43:11Believe it, it's so easy.
00:43:16Believe it, it's so easy.
00:43:18I need your help.
00:43:19Isaac and Lowell, will you help me sing this?
00:43:22Come on.
00:43:23We got to sit down.
00:43:24I need a break from carrying your big ass all night.
00:43:26All right.
00:43:27Sit down.
00:43:28Take a break.
00:43:29I can't sit down here.
00:43:31Oh.
00:43:32Oh.
00:43:33Oh.
00:43:34Shit.
00:43:35Oh.
00:43:36Oh, late at night.
00:43:38Messing around with your ass.
00:43:40Oh.
00:43:41You know what I'm saying?
00:43:43So, about that promotion.
00:43:45Baby, thank you.
00:43:47Company car.
00:43:49Pick the coat.
00:43:50Corner office.
00:43:51Where the clothes are mad.
00:43:53Expense account.
00:43:54You don't have to work a little hard.
00:43:55Ooh.
00:43:56Yippie yaya.
00:43:57Don't act like you don't know what I'm talking about.
00:43:59You got me out here all late at night, like I'm 18 years old.
00:44:1618?
00:44:17Yes.
00:44:18Late at night.
00:44:19I remember when you was 18 year old, baby.
00:44:20Let me tell you something.
00:44:21You look so sexy as one of the best cheerleaders.
00:44:25Cheering over there.
00:44:26Ooh, you so sexy.
00:44:27I saw you do that split and look right at me.
00:44:29You was like.
00:44:30Yeah, I know you was looking at me.
00:44:34Acting all super thirsty.
00:44:36What do you think we went wrong at then?
00:44:41Well, you was looking at all those gold looking women when you had this diamond looking woman in your pocket.
00:44:51Maybe that's the story of my life.
00:44:56Yeah, well, it's no need in rehashing over, you know, the past.
00:45:00What's done is what's done.
00:45:01What?
00:45:02Because you ain't, you can't like press the rewind button when it comes to life.
00:45:09No, but you got to take life serious, you know, what you have.
00:45:12You can't take it for granted what you have, because when it's gone, it might just be gone forever.
00:45:17Baby, listen, I understand that.
00:45:19But at the end of the day, I made wrong turns.
00:45:22The only thing I know that you're a good woman, and sometimes I regret it.
00:45:26Yeah.
00:45:27But I don't doubt one thing.
00:45:30What?
00:45:31I'm a good woman?
00:45:32You're a good woman.
00:45:34You ain't stupid.
00:45:36I like how you talking.
00:45:37You cute.
00:45:38Yeah.
00:45:39I like how you talking.
00:45:40You know what?
00:45:41What?
00:45:42You need to drink Crown more often, because I like this conversation.
00:45:45Yeah, I drink Crown.
00:45:48Crown make you clown.
00:45:50You're still so corny.
00:45:53You like that, don't you?
00:45:56Come here.
00:45:57Mm-mm.
00:45:58Mm-mm.
00:45:59Let me call your girlfriend.
00:46:00No, no, no, no.
00:46:01Don't call her.
00:46:02What's her number?
00:46:03I'm going to give you my phone.
00:46:04Call.
00:46:05Go.
00:46:06And here's the hotel key.
00:46:07I'm in room 112.
00:46:08112?
00:46:09Ooh.
00:46:10Ooh.
00:46:11Ooh.
00:46:12Ooh.
00:46:13Ooh.
00:46:14Ooh.
00:46:15Ooh.
00:46:16I don't know if I'm coming.
00:46:17I don't know if I'm coming to your hotel room.
00:46:18I'm not calling.
00:46:19Come to room 112, baby.
00:46:20That's where all the magic happens, baby.
00:46:21Look, I'm not coming to your room.
00:46:23I need to check on my son.
00:46:24Put your hands lower down here.
00:46:26Yeah.
00:46:27Make me feel good in my special parts.
00:46:29Hey, man.
00:46:30You're going to check on your son.
00:46:31It's my son, too.
00:46:32He's fine.
00:46:33What?
00:46:34Ew.
00:46:35What?
00:46:36Ew.
00:46:37I know you love me.
00:46:38I know you love me, baby.
00:46:42I know you love me.
00:46:43I know you love me, baby.
00:46:49Ugh.
00:46:50Stop.
00:46:51You don't come back to my hotel room and let me bang them back out for you again?
00:46:57No.
00:46:58You better save that for your girlfriend.
00:47:00What?
00:47:01Oh, that's nasty.
00:47:02Oh, it ain't nasty.
00:47:03Come here.
00:47:04Let me suck them toes.
00:47:05Stop.
00:47:06Don't touch me.
00:47:07Let me breathe on you.
00:47:08Baby.
00:47:09Baby.
00:47:10Oh, that's nasty.
00:47:11Oh, it ain't nasty.
00:47:12Come here.
00:47:13Let me suck them toes.
00:47:14Stop.
00:47:15Don't touch me.
00:47:16Let me breathe on you.
00:47:17Baby.
00:47:18Baby.
00:47:19Yeah, um.
00:47:20Is there a problem?
00:47:21Do we have an issue here, Lamont?
00:47:24So, um.
00:47:25Oh, my.
00:47:26You can't.
00:47:27You can't.
00:47:28I'm not.
00:47:29You can't.
00:47:30You can't.
00:47:31Oh, my.
00:47:32Oh.
00:47:33Oh, my.
00:47:34Oh, my.
00:47:35I'm not.
00:47:36Oh, my.
00:47:37It's okay.
00:47:38I'm not.
00:47:39I'm not.
00:47:40No, I'm not.
00:47:41I'm not.
00:47:42I'm not.
00:47:43Oh, my.
00:47:44Oh, my.
00:47:45Oh, my.
00:47:46All right.
00:47:52Literally in the middle of something.
00:47:56OK.
00:47:57I'll call you later.
00:48:16I don't want this to change anything.
00:48:44It won't.
00:48:49God, you're so cute.
00:48:56Maybe because I'm just not ready.
00:49:08Uh-huh.
00:49:15Me neither.
00:49:29OK.
00:49:30Now listen.
00:49:31Don't.
00:49:32Don't.
00:49:33I know what it looks like.
00:49:35Look, Tyra, I just-
00:49:36Stop.
00:49:37No, no, no.
00:49:38Listen, I just told her that it-
00:49:39Stop.
00:49:40Henry, don't say anything to me right now.
00:49:43Wait.
00:49:44How could you stoop this low?
00:49:46What the fuck?
00:49:47No, no, no.
00:49:48It's not what you think.
00:49:49No, it is what I think.
00:49:50Listen, I just- I just- I just told you-
00:49:52Henry!
00:49:53I've been standing here the whole time watching you with this skank.
00:49:58Then you should know that I was going to stop this.
00:50:01You know what?
00:50:03You're full of fucking lies, Henry.
00:50:05I just can't be with you anymore.
00:50:08Look at what you're doing in our bed.
00:50:11Our bed?
00:50:12Why?
00:50:16I have no excuse.
00:50:18You know what?
00:50:19I hate you so much right now.
00:50:21I hate you so much.
00:50:24Come on, Tyra, look.
00:50:25I just- I just stopped it.
00:50:27I want to beat her ass so bad.
00:50:28You- I know you do, but Tyra, listen to me.
00:50:30It's not what you think.
00:50:31I stopped it.
00:50:32You know we haven't been-
00:50:33I hate you so much.
00:50:34You hurt me over and over and over again.
00:50:37Because we-
00:50:38Infidelity?
00:50:39Really?
00:50:40That's what you want to do?
00:50:41Man, fuck you, Henry!
00:50:42Tyra, we've hurt each other.
00:50:43No.
00:50:44And you know that.
00:50:45You don't love me.
00:50:46You don't love me.
00:50:47I hate you!
00:50:49Listen, Tyra!
00:50:50Tyra, listen.
00:50:54Fuck.
00:50:55Fuck.
00:50:56Tyra!
00:51:00Goddammit.
00:51:01Shit.
00:51:02You know what?
00:51:03One thing that I always hated about you?
00:51:17Used to always leave your dirty socks on the bathroom floor.
00:51:23What?
00:51:24It was a small thing, but...
00:51:27Used to always do it consistently, and I wanted to inflict so much pain on you.
00:51:32And then I realized, it wasn't the socks.
00:51:36And how was it?
00:51:38It was the fact that you took me for granted.
00:51:42I used to always try to keep a clean home and keep you together.
00:51:47But then I realized, you was just taking me for granted.
00:51:52What?
00:51:53What?
00:51:54What?
00:51:55Because of the laundry?
00:51:56No!
00:51:57No!
00:51:58What?
00:51:59What?
00:52:00Tyra!
00:52:01Tyra!
00:52:02Come on!
00:52:03What are you doing?
00:52:04I ain't nothing.
00:52:05What's wrong with you fucking Neanderthals?
00:52:07Nothing's wrong with me.
00:52:08I don't care.
00:52:09I don't care.
00:52:10I don't care.
00:52:11I don't care.
00:52:12I don't care.
00:52:13I don't care.
00:52:14I don't care.
00:52:15I don't care.
00:52:16What's wrong with me?
00:52:17Nothing.
00:52:18Nothing.
00:52:19Nothing.
00:52:20Why don't you love me?
00:52:21I love you.
00:52:22I love you.
00:52:23I love you.
00:52:24I love you.
00:52:25I love you.
00:52:26I love you.
00:52:29I just don't care how she feels.
00:52:35You know why?
00:52:36Because when somebody bangs it into you for two years, that they don't care.
00:52:41They do everything they can to get under your skin.
00:52:43Everything they can to show you that you're not appreciated.
00:52:45Then what am I supposed to do, huh?
00:52:46Tears don't mean shit to me.
00:52:47Cry.
00:52:48And what's making you cry, hon?
00:52:49He...
00:52:50What exactly is hitting it?
00:52:51He just doesn't listen.
00:52:52He just doesn't listen.
00:52:53Now, there's obviously a reason, Henry, why you came here.
00:52:55You still obviously care about her.
00:52:56Of course I care.
00:52:57And this is why you get upset.
00:52:58Correct?
00:52:59Of course I care.
00:53:00Of course.
00:53:01Of course I care.
00:53:02Of course.
00:53:03Of course I care.
00:53:04And this is why you get upset, correct?
00:53:05Of course.
00:53:06Of course.
00:53:07Of course, I care.
00:53:08Of course.
00:53:09Oh, okay.
00:53:10Oh, okay.
00:53:11You understand.
00:53:12You understand why he's hurt?
00:53:13And he's hurt.
00:53:14You understand why he's hurt you.
00:53:15Okay.
00:53:16And this is why you get upset, correct?
00:53:17Of course I care about her.
00:53:19OK, what, tell me three nice things about her.
00:53:23I would bend over backwards to make her feel special.
00:53:26And she would always outdo me, making me feel even more special.
00:53:29And I hate the fact that I can't communicate with her.
00:53:32I hate the fact that we can't fight.
00:53:35I didn't just say you, do you see what I'm saying?
00:53:37I said us, that we can't communicate,
00:53:40that we can't just get along.
00:53:41We have to get along for our son.
00:53:44It's not, that's just not what I want to do.
00:53:46And she should be able to respect that.
00:53:47I can respect us being together.
00:53:50Listen, I'll tell you.
00:53:51I can respect, listen, listen, no.
00:53:53I can respect us being together as parents.
00:53:58You know what it is what it is at this point.
00:54:00But how does it make you feel?
00:54:02It's not that I can say more or do.
00:54:05Do I want to be in a relationship with her right now?
00:54:08Absolutely not.
00:54:09You're using the keyword right now.
00:54:11Why is that?
00:54:12I'm using the keyword right now because we're
00:54:14sitting here with you right now.
00:54:15I don't, tomorrow is not promised to any of us.
00:54:18But what I can say is this.
00:54:20As of right now, I need my space emotionally from her.
00:54:24I don't want to be in a relationship.
00:54:26I want a partnership to raise our son together.
00:54:29That's what I'm looking for.
00:54:30I don't know anymore.
00:54:32You know, you try to make things right,
00:54:34and then sometimes it just goes wrong.
00:54:36So what's the point of figuring things out anymore, huh?
00:54:39Oh, I don't know.
00:54:54Hey.
00:54:54Aww…
00:54:55did we yeah what please no we didn't only if you were dreaming you just better
00:55:11be glad I was drunk whatever I was on that Jack baby I would have been blowing
00:55:16that back out this is funny yeah here we are divorced and cheating with each other yeah life is crazy baby
00:55:32this show has to be over I know Lindsay is gonna kill me no cars gonna kill me oh she's gonna go
00:55:42hysterically we gotta get going okay you use the bathroom first
00:56:12oh shit I know I ain't promise that no corner office it was good but not that good
00:56:19oh shit let me check my woman
00:56:22so I'm gonna go and head over and catch the bus don't catch the bus I can take you home uh I only
00:56:46have two bus stops I'm good sure no no no it's fine I'm good okay Tyra boy Henry what the fuck is this
00:56:58I knew you were still fucking with that bitch excuse me no no wait Tyra just went uh-uh uh-uh no wait
00:57:05look I'll show you exactly what a bitch can do listen just think positive you know what it's okay
00:57:13you can have them I was all set last night anyway
00:57:16oh what were you last I was laid up with a rich man giving me everything you could never give me
00:57:24you broke worthless piece of shit what just like I thought a bunch of ghetto low lives y'all are meant
00:57:38for each other
00:57:38you know what I can't believe she did this
00:57:54it's exactly what I expected
00:57:58I knew she was cheating
00:58:01you know you deserve way better than that I know that no but I pushed them all away Tyra you know
00:58:06that why
00:58:08because they ain't you
00:58:11that's the nicest thing you said to me in like two years
00:58:16look if you're serious about us let's try one more time you know for our son
00:58:23oh you know what I forgot my comb it's back at the hotel room you stole the key how did I know you
00:58:43was gonna try to get back up in that hotel room sniffing all over the sheets it's got that comb on
00:58:48it's my favorite comb right I'll be right back
00:59:03well I need you to pick up little Henry today and get off all right
00:59:07did you hear what I said hello
00:59:15yeah I heard what you said okay why didn't you answer me then
00:59:18because I already told you I have a doctor's appointment today told you that once before
00:59:23didn't we talk about this last week I told you I had to work late every day this week
00:59:27why should I have to tell you to pick up your son
00:59:30the fuck is the problem do something in this fucking relationship
00:59:33do something productive for once make the fucking bed or something
00:59:37you don't do shit right around here anymore
00:59:39you know I gotta pick up my son
00:59:42I have to make up the bed I have to cook dinner I mean what do you do
00:59:45I clean the house I cook and I have to take care of my son because sometimes you know where to be found
00:59:51but you know what that's okay I'll get little Henry today don't you worry about it
00:59:56get my keys and go to work
00:59:58good
00:59:59good
01:00:04good
01:00:08good
01:00:10good
01:00:11good
01:00:20good
01:00:25Did you cheat on me?
01:00:31No, I didn't cheat on you.
01:00:34But why did you cheat on me?
01:00:37You know why I cheated.
01:00:38Listen, I cheated on you, and I take full responsibility
01:00:41for it.
01:00:42I cheated on you because I did that.
01:00:44Simple.
01:00:45I could sit here and tell you that we were growing far apart.
01:00:48You knew that.
01:00:49You could see every day.
01:00:50We argued every day.
01:00:51Like, either way, whoever cheated, it doesn't matter.
01:00:55It does matter.
01:00:56It always matters.
01:00:56I don't know what you're talking about.
01:00:58Explain why it matters.
01:00:58Cheating matters.
01:00:59Whoever does cheat.
01:01:00But explain if it's you.
01:01:01You just don't want to be the one to cheat.
01:01:03Is that what you're saying?
01:01:04Because explain to me how it's different if it's you or me.
01:01:06Doesn't matter.
01:01:07We're the ones in the marriage.
01:01:08You only cheated, and I didn't cheat.
01:01:09How would you feel?
01:01:10I'm not saying that.
01:01:11That's the question.
01:01:11No, answer the question.
01:01:12No, answer the question.
01:01:13If both of us have cheated, no matter who cheated first.
01:01:14Answer the question.
01:01:15Answer that question.
01:01:16No.
01:01:16Answer that question.
01:01:17Say, no.
01:01:18Stop.
01:01:18I won't.
01:01:19How do you think?
01:01:20No, you're not listening.
01:01:21It doesn't matter.
01:01:22I'm not listening.
01:01:22Tit for tat.
01:01:23I might cheat on you.
01:01:24OK, so, but what I'm saying is.
01:01:25So don't let me catch you.
01:01:26If I cheated, I'm saying this.
01:01:28If I cheated, then.
01:01:29Oh, my God.
01:01:31At least he admitted to something.
01:01:34Thanks for being honest.
01:01:37If one person cheated, it doesn't matter.
01:01:38I didn't cheat.
01:01:38I didn't cheat.
01:01:39You just don't want to be the one that cheated.
01:01:40I don't care.
01:01:41Oh, my God.
01:01:41But it doesn't make a difference.
01:01:42If you cheated or if I cheated separately, it doesn't matter.
01:01:46Henry.
01:01:47What?
01:01:47Why are you talking over me?
01:01:49Because it's the same shit every time with you.
01:01:51You just, listen, you see how it is with her.
01:01:53She, there is no answer but her answer.
01:01:56And we're going around and around for no reason.
01:01:58I'm human, and I want, I don't want to be loved.
01:02:02I want to be touched.
01:02:02I want, I want to be hugged.
01:02:04And someone came along and said some of the things
01:02:06that I wish you were saying, you know?
01:02:08But I still take full responsibility that I cheated on you.
01:02:12That's why I'm sitting here.
01:02:13I cheated on you, and it was wrong.
01:02:15I'm trying to fight for us.
01:02:17But what, what, what, what makes it different?
01:02:19Then why would I fight for us then if I cheated?
01:02:20I'm trying to fight for us too.
01:02:22Then I would, I would be backped.
01:02:23That's not necessarily true.
01:02:24Let's try to save the relationship.
01:02:27So, I take responsibility for that.
01:02:31And at this point, I just, I want to know if you can forgive me.
01:02:46Yeah.
01:02:48Yeah, I can forgive you.
01:02:54Let your mind unwind, I'm gonna make you mine.
01:03:10These thoughts of you make me feel alive.
01:03:16I can't hold back the way I feel inside.
01:03:24Love is you and me, only I can make you feel right.
01:03:30My life is incomplete, only I can make you.
01:03:35You're not open, only I can make you feel right.
01:03:40Your life is incomplete, only I can make you.
01:03:48Your eyes confide in me, you cannot hide from me.
01:03:54I fell asleep on the couch, all right, I hope you said your prayers.
01:04:00Love you, mwah.
01:04:04Mommy.
01:04:05Yeah?
01:04:06If I have a nightmare, would Daddy come back home and protect me?
01:04:12If I have a nightmare, would Daddy come back home and protect me?
01:04:18Why do you keep licking me like that?
01:04:20I can't do fucking...
01:04:22Because you like it.
01:04:24Uh-huh.
01:04:25Now if you get me all frisky, then you ain't no...
01:04:28You're supposed to cook for me tonight.
01:04:30I don't know if I should be frisky with you.
01:04:32Come on, come on.
01:04:33I'll cook for you all the time.
01:04:34Little Henry's not here.
01:04:35Well, Little Henry's not here, so...
01:04:37Babe, you heat up food for me all the time.
01:04:39You don't make food from scratch.
01:04:40But that's okay.
01:04:41What the fuck is wrong with hot dogs and tater tots?
01:04:42That is so nasty.
01:04:43But, baby, I'm cooking.
01:04:44Oh, baby.
01:04:45Give me a real kiss.
01:04:46Of course.
01:04:47I love you.
01:04:48I love you too, baby.
01:04:49Mm.
01:04:50Uh, baby.
01:04:51Mm.
01:04:52Give me a real kiss.
01:04:53Of course.
01:04:53Mm-hmm.
01:04:54I love you.
01:04:56I love you too, baby.
01:04:57A whole lot.
01:05:03You know, it's just us living here now.
01:05:15But you got your mommy.
01:05:16I can make you, you, you, love you, girl, only I can make you, you, you, you, you, girl, I can make you feel right.
01:05:29I like the new office space.
01:05:31Yeah.
01:05:32It's nice.
01:05:33You're moving up.
01:05:34Guess we paying her good.
01:05:35Yeah.
01:05:36You want me to tell him the three things that I hate about him?
01:05:39Oh.
01:05:40Okay.
01:05:41It's more than three.
01:05:42No, I'm just joking.
01:05:43It's not more than three.
01:05:44One of the three things that I hate about you is that sometimes you don't listen to me and I keep telling you that and I'll tell you I have a doctor's appointment and you'll forget.
01:05:55Or I'll tell you, can you pick up Henry from school?
01:05:57Henry Jr.
01:05:58Sir?
01:05:59I'm listening to you.
01:06:00I don't forget.
01:06:01But I'm listening.
01:06:03Oh, boy.
01:06:06Three things that I don't like about you.
01:06:11Well, I don't like your stubbornness.
01:06:15I think that when we have disagreements or anything, it's just so hard getting past the way you feel.
01:06:27If you think you're right and just, there's no, you know, no listening to anything else but the way you feel.
01:06:33Yeah, I'm stubborn at times.
01:06:37But, I mean, it's something that I can work on for you.
01:06:40You know?
01:06:42The second thing that I hate about him is that, I mean, I have to push him to flirt with me and be affectionate.
01:06:51Sometimes you just don't do it automatically and it's like, hey, hello, cuddle or something like that, you know?
01:06:59It's just, you know what it is?
01:07:00What is it?
01:07:01It's the difficulties that we're having and it pushes me away.
01:07:05Like, it's hard to want to cuddle with you after you just cursed me out.
01:07:08I don't like that you don't like my friends.
01:07:10I mean, I don't like his friends, but...
01:07:13None of them.
01:07:14None of them.
01:07:15None of them.
01:07:16I mean, he just makes friends easily with everybody.
01:07:21No, I'm just talking about the friends I've had for a long time.
01:07:24Oh, those.
01:07:25The ones that he always goes on a guy's trips with.
01:07:28You know, these are people that were in my life for years.
01:07:31Puts me in a weird position because I love them, but I love you.
01:07:36You know, and I want to honor that vow that I made to you, but I have people that I think are still really wonderful.
01:07:43people.
01:07:44And if they disrespected you or anything like that, then it would be different.
01:07:49But just to kind of not like them because I'm not spending that time with you, that just...
01:07:56That kind of hurts me because I just feel like it's a constant fight.
01:08:01Okay, okay, okay.
01:08:02Look, I will be more open-minded about your friends.
01:08:06And I will cut the trips in half.
01:08:08I won't go on as many guy trips.
01:08:14And the third thing.
01:08:17I don't like the fact that you...
01:08:22You weave your mother's opinion in our marriage so much.
01:08:28I didn't marry your mother.
01:08:29I married you.
01:08:30And I love your mother.
01:08:31I'm gonna be honest with you.
01:08:32I can't say that when I see you're doing something like we talked about before, that I'm gonna hug you and put you in my arms after you made me feel a certain way.
01:08:39No, I'm not ready for that yet.
01:08:41That's the third thing that I hate about him is that he always says can't, won't, don't, I'm not.
01:08:47I mean, if he would just change his language up some, then...
01:08:50But I always say that?
01:08:51You said I always?
01:08:53Always.
01:08:54Like, it's just always.
01:08:56It's never a time that I say anything else but that.
01:08:59Yes.
01:09:00A lot of...
01:09:01Well, a lot of times, majority of the time, you know what I'm talking about.
01:09:03Most of the time, he knows what I'm talking about.
01:09:05I mean, he hates the fact that I'm close with my mom.
01:09:08Who says that?
01:09:09I never said that.
01:09:10Who does that?
01:09:11Who thinks that?
01:09:12I love the fact that you love your mom.
01:09:15Because it shows your mom's a wonderful person.
01:09:16I mean, what else do you want me to say when it's something that we can't do?
01:09:20Can't.
01:09:21Right, but we can't do everything.
01:09:23I can't say yes to everything.
01:09:24When I say no, I should be able to say no without any explanation.
01:09:28Babe, you can say I'm gonna work on that.
01:09:30I'll try to do that.
01:09:31But what are we talking about here?
01:09:32Just...
01:09:33You just said I can't...
01:09:34You don't like when I say the words can't and don't.
01:09:36I mean, that's kind of just out there.
01:09:38Like, no.
01:09:39Every time we get into a disagreement, instead of saying I can't do that, I won't do that,
01:09:45I shouldn't, you should just say I'm gonna work on that.
01:09:47Maybe that's possible.
01:09:49I just want us to be able to make decisions for us by us, you know?
01:09:54I want us to be the first team when it comes to making our decisions.
01:09:57And all the other outside influences, let them be outside influences and not, you know,
01:10:02be a part of what we're doing.
01:10:05I'll look at things and try to say that I can try something different.
01:10:10Even if it's outside my comfort zone, I'll try to say that I can or I will or, you know?
01:10:19Listen, for you, I'll say I'm here to say whatever I need to say and do what I need to do.
01:10:25Babe, I can work on that for us, I can.
01:10:30And I have a great relationship with her, I love her.
01:10:33It's my mother-in-law.
01:10:34I'll work on that.
01:10:35Listen, hearing us, hearing you say this, it just means the world to me.
01:10:43And I want to work on this.
01:10:45It's hard or even harder.
01:10:50It's hard.
01:11:08All right, come here.
01:11:22Talk to me.
01:11:23What's going on?
01:11:25Babe, I think we should go to couples therapy.
01:11:29Couples therapy, Tyra?
01:11:31Yeah.
01:11:32Shit.
01:11:38Okay.
01:11:44Really?
01:11:45Yeah, let's do it.
01:11:48I'm in.
01:11:53Shit.
01:11:57My grandma was a wise woman.
01:12:00Everything is not supposed to make sense.
01:12:03That was something my grandma Pam used to say.
01:12:07She lived to be 92 before we laid her to rest.
01:12:12She was smiling and kind.
01:12:15She told me to remember one thing.
01:12:20A man will treat you exactly the way you allow him to.
01:12:24And that the road to self-respect was not an easy one.
01:12:28And that you may not like what you find along the way.
01:12:31But the last part, the most important part, came from the wisdom of being married for over 70 years.
01:12:38She would always say that sometimes a real love is worth fighting for.
01:12:45Okay.
01:12:46The three things that I like.
01:12:47So your sense of humor I love.
01:12:48I like his smile.
01:12:49Oof.
01:12:50See?
01:12:51Now I'm blushing.
01:12:52You just can't tell him.
01:12:53Okay.
01:12:54Okay.
01:12:55Okay.
01:12:56Okay.
01:12:57Wait.
01:12:58See, I love his smile.
01:12:59The three things that I like about Henry, I love his smile.
01:13:00He just glows.
01:13:01And it just warms my heart and makes me feel a certain way.
01:13:10Well, I love your eyes.
01:13:11I've always loved your eyes.
01:13:16Seems like you can look right through me.
01:13:21And then I like the fact that he works out.
01:13:24I mean, he got a body.
01:13:25He got a body.
01:13:26I love your eyes.
01:13:30Your sense of humor?
01:13:32Your sense of humor is just like mine.
01:13:34That's always been great.
01:13:38I know I'm a lot to deal with,
01:13:40but just the fact that he sticks it out.
01:13:42A lot of men don't stick it out.
01:13:44And, um, he stuck it out with me.
01:13:48Longevity, commitment.
01:13:50I like that.
01:13:52It's not good.
01:13:54Yeah, well, you know what?
01:13:56He gets me and understands me like nobody else.
01:14:00Everybody has their ways, I mean.
01:14:02We were all made differently on purpose,
01:14:04so that's why I love you.
01:14:08I love you, too.
01:14:10I, too.
01:14:16Oh, oh.
01:14:18I want to add a fourth thing that I like about Henry.
01:14:22I like how he serenades me.
01:14:24I mean, he could sing.
01:14:28Go ahead.
01:14:30You are
01:14:32The most beautiful girl
01:14:34In the world
01:14:36To me
01:14:38To me
01:14:40To me
01:14:42To me
01:14:44To me
01:14:46See you.
01:14:48To me
01:14:50I, too, too, too.
01:15:00I, too, too.
01:15:02I, too, too.
01:15:04I, too, too.
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