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Love & Marriage_ Huntsville - Season 10 Episode 10 - Like A Bat Out of Nell
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00:00Previously, on Love and Married Huntsville.
00:03Let's not mention Martell Holt or his fiance.
00:07Maybe we should leave Marshall and Tisha alone.
00:08The four of us, we won't be in no negative space
00:11because we won't say anything negative about each other.
00:12I have no intentions of saying anything
00:15about you that's negative.
00:16I know we talk about this wall it seems like I have built up.
00:19I can't keep getting beat over the head for I ain't do.
00:22If there's no actions taking place, it's not going to change.
00:24There has to be a change.
00:27My name is Kitsu Francis.
00:28We're going to work our way through this.
00:30I think I'm a very angry soul right now.
00:33I redirect my pain from mental to physical.
00:35And because the gym does not have a way of arguing with you,
00:39it's a safe place.
00:40Sometimes he comes back home with me.
00:43You should do something else, get the group together,
00:44play some adult games, some type of adult game.
00:46Nothing too challenging is going to get people all riled up.
00:48Right.
00:49It's just fun.
00:50You know, LA was interesting.
00:52Y'all disappeared all of a sudden.
00:54And allegedly, I was told you left to go
00:56be there for your new grandbaby from Letitia.
00:58And see, that's the problem.
01:00Letitia Scott need to mind her own business
01:02and what's going on in her life and her marriage.
01:04Your friend need to keep my family's business out her mother
01:08in her mouth.
01:13We keep it moving all day, all night.
01:17Yeah.
01:18Ain't no stopping, I've dropped that.
01:20We ain't stopping, you know, you know.
01:26We keep it moving all day, all night.
01:33Yeah.
01:34Yeah.
01:35Yeah.
01:36All day, all night.
01:38Yeah.
01:39Ain't no stopping us.
01:43Yeah.
01:44We'll see you next time.
02:14Sharon, because I have some things to tell her.
02:17The last time we talked, things were chaotic and a complete mess.
02:20Well, I only got some good news to tell her, so can't wait to share.
02:25So, like, I feel like we have so much catching up to do.
02:27A lot.
02:28A lot.
02:28I feel like we haven't really even had a real conversation about you and Ken.
02:36Ken, he moved, he stepped away for a little while.
02:41For a couple of days.
02:42But, um, he's back at the house.
02:44I think it was so much tension and frustration, and it was all the arguing constantly, like, back and forth.
02:52Like, a lot.
02:53I think that Ken, um, brings a good balance to you.
02:58I know.
03:00I hope that you're trying to be more vulnerable with him.
03:04That's hard, but I'm trying.
03:05Good.
03:06Have you did your counseling session yet?
03:08I have started my counseling session.
03:10Oh, M-G.
03:11That's good.
03:13Are you being open with them?
03:15Yeah.
03:16I was very emotional.
03:18I guess when I sat down, I knew I was going to relive some moments that I didn't want to relive.
03:24And I really didn't want to be there in the beginning.
03:27We talked about my parents.
03:31We talked about the emotional attachments that I haven't let go with losing them.
03:38We talked about bottling things up, you know, until it just overflows, and I do.
03:52I've bottled up a lot of anger, which comes from them not being here, too.
03:58That's a big part of it.
04:00When I can't think about it anymore, I explode on everybody.
04:04Instead of talking or crying or releasing, I go to the gym.
04:10We done talked about some things and went through some things, and I'm like, I ain't never seen you cry.
04:16Because I hated it.
04:17I don't think anybody's ever seen me cry.
04:20I don't think my kids have ever seen me cry except at funerals.
04:23It's just showing that I'm not strong enough to be there for them.
04:27No, that's not what they're showing them.
04:29That's how I take it.
04:30I know, but it's just showing them that you're human.
04:32I mean, you have emotions.
04:34Yeah, but it's like a weak emotion to me.
04:36No, it's not weak.
04:37But it is.
04:38Well, to me, it was.
04:40I told Dr. Francis, it was like a weak emotion to me.
04:42Dr. Francis didn't tell you that was weak.
04:44I know it didn't.
04:45What did he tell you?
04:47That's part of being strong.
04:53I'm still not feeling that part.
04:55It's okay.
04:56It'll come.
04:56It'll come with time.
04:57It's hard for me to get close to people.
05:00Yeah, because of that.
05:01You think I don't know that?
05:03Seriously, do you know how long we worked out for?
05:06I knew anything about you.
05:10Yeah, I don't know.
05:11I guess I don't want to get attached to people and then I lose them.
05:15I'd rather just keep my distance and keep my feelings.
05:18That's not my emotions.
05:19No, no, no, no, no, ma'am.
05:21That's not what he wants you to do.
05:23I get it, but then there's no pain in the end that I'll have to go through all over again.
05:26We're going to have pain.
05:28We're going to have sorrow.
05:28Those are emotions.
05:30That session was hard.
05:33It was hard reliving.
05:35It was hard thinking about it.
05:37But you definitely feel better afterwards, though, right?
05:40I felt a lot better afterwards.
05:42Like, after the session, the things that would have made me mad, I stopped and thought about it for a second.
05:48Before I reacted.
05:48Yeah.
05:50That felt good.
05:51So that's a tool.
05:53That felt good.
05:54I'm super proud of you.
05:56High five.
05:57You did that.
05:58I tried.
06:00Since my first meeting with Dr. Francis, I can say, can our relationship, it has progressed.
06:05It's getting better.
06:06But I think we still have a lot to work on as far as communication with each other.
06:12It feels right when I start to open up.
06:14It feels like this is the right thing to do.
06:16One thing I did after learning about the attachment and letting go, because I can't talk to them, you know, physically, so I went to their graves.
06:29I never wanted to do that.
06:29I did not go to their graves at all, because I felt like I would get angry at talking to the ground.
06:39I sat there, and I cried again.
06:43It was actually comforting, though.
06:50I did go and visit my parents' grave for the first time.
06:54It feels like a weight lifted.
06:56I'm sure I probably should have done it a long time ago.
07:00I don't think I've ever talked about this.
07:06Ever.
07:06Thank you for sharing.
07:08I really mean that.
07:09That mean a lot to me.
07:10When I go home, I'm going to think about it all night now.
07:11I'm going to go home and cry, crown kids, big old shows.
07:15I'm going to start punching holes in the wall.
07:17That is not going to help you.
07:18You did before.
07:19It is not going to help you.
07:20Then I used to cover it up with mirrors.
07:22And pictures.
07:26You funny.
07:27Welcome to Magnolia.
07:48How are you?
07:49I'm awesome.
07:50How are you doing?
07:50I'm good.
07:51I am Kearney.
07:52I'm Jamie.
07:52It's nice to meet you.
07:53Hi.
07:54I think I have a little reservation for some ladies.
07:56For four.
07:56That would be me.
07:57Perfect.
07:58Any ideas?
07:58What kind of smells you like?
08:00Um, no.
08:01We're just curious on how we get to the smell.
08:04I want to try to do as much as I can to kind of move things along with the ladies.
08:09We need to spend more time together.
08:11We need to learn each other, understand each other, get to know each other.
08:15And that only happens with spending time.
08:16So I got Trisha, Destiny, Tisha, and me.
08:20We're going to make soap.
08:21I'm probably a pick based on colors, because I think some of these are pretty.
08:24Well, you can have your best vibes can be whatever color you want.
08:27Hey, Letitia.
08:28It smell good in here.
08:29Uh-huh.
08:30Uh-huh.
08:30What's up?
08:31Hey.
08:32Look pretty.
08:33Thank you, dear.
08:33You too.
08:33Brown.
08:35Well, this is nice.
08:36You look good.
08:37You do.
08:41So we couldn't go running?
08:43You said running.
08:44Yeah.
08:44That's your thing.
08:45Kimmy is more relaxed.
08:46She.
08:47I see.
08:47Kimmy, Trish said no warning.
08:51She said she thought it was going to be some exercise.
08:53She did not think that.
08:55You didn't think that at all?
08:56I did.
08:57Why would you think that?
08:59We're going to eat, and we're going to, like, sit down, have some wine, make some bath
09:02balls.
09:03I thought Kimmy would organize something active, because I keep challenging her and keep picking
09:09with her about it.
09:10So I was just expecting her to be like, you know what?
09:12I'm going to do it one day.
09:14But no, here we are, making soap.
09:15I'm just going to pass this around to each of you.
09:19So what you're going to do, you're going to pour this right about there, and then you're
09:23going to pour your scent halfway, and then dump both of them in.
09:28So it should be like on a 60?
09:30Yep.
09:30And that's what's going to moisturize you.
09:32Okay.
09:33Shea butter, cocoa butter, and then a pumice oil mix.
09:38And when you add the water, that's what's going to start to make it warm.
09:41Well, hello.
09:42Hi, Snowpaw.
09:43Hey, girl.
09:44That's Destiny.
09:45Hello.
09:46What color would you like?
09:48Um, green?
09:50Green?
09:50Oh, green for money.
09:52Yay, yay.
09:53Can I see what you're doing?
09:54Oh, no, no, no.
09:54This is a loss.
09:55I think I like this one.
09:56When you pinch it, it releases it.
09:58I'm so cute.
10:00So then I put this in here, or do the oil first?
10:02Do the oil first.
10:03She said that.
10:03Yeah, you said that.
10:04Oh, yeah.
10:05It's fine.
10:05It's like every time I try to get everybody together, somebody missing.
10:10The first dinner, who was, you was missing.
10:13Now Nell.
10:14Where's Nell?
10:15She's having her own event that she's getting ready for.
10:18I didn't invite Nell because I knew she was getting ready for her event.
10:23Fletch-tivities, and it is tonight.
10:25And I didn't want us making bath bombs to make her tardy.
10:29Oh, I thought it was because Tisha was here.
10:33What?
10:34What?
10:35What did I do with it?
10:40Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
10:43Destiny said you said keep my name out your mouth.
10:46I did say that.
10:50Hello.
10:55Where's Nell?
10:56She's having her own event that she's getting ready for.
10:59Oh.
11:00I thought it was because Tisha was here.
11:02What?
11:03What?
11:04What did I do with it?
11:06Y'all going to her event, right?
11:07Yeah.
11:08You're going to go.
11:09You going to T?
11:09Oh, yeah.
11:10I'm going with Kristen by the Marcel.
11:11Marcel said he was going to go, so I'm going with my husband, girl.
11:14Lance will probably be there, too.
11:15Ooh.
11:16Did y'all talk?
11:17Did y'all square y'all stuff out?
11:18We had a conversation.
11:20You going to be a stepmom?
11:21No.
11:22Damn.
11:22Thank you, Chris.
11:24So, real talk.
11:25I sat and I talked with Lance about finding out about this baby on the internet, because
11:30y'all all know I did not know about a kid.
11:32I was told that I had a baby on the way, but I wasn't sure.
11:34So, I didn't know how you would react to that.
11:37And, of course, I didn't want to say anything before knowing that it was my child.
11:41Y'all saw it at the same time?
11:42We all saw it when you saw it.
11:44Yeah.
11:45And, you know, he brought up the whole googly-eyed situation.
11:49No, she's not.
11:51Okay.
11:51Y'all good.
11:52You stay close.
11:53Wait a minute!
11:54The googly eyes, smiley.
11:56And I'm like, you talking about googly eyes, and you have a whole kid that you didn't tell
12:00me about.
12:00Like, what are we doing?
12:02So, I said, well, speaking of Twan, it's his name.
12:05Oh, you got a name now.
12:07Well, my name ain't changing.
12:09What's your name?
12:10Googly eyes.
12:11I can't, I'm sick of you.
12:12I told Lance that if he asked me out, I would say yes.
12:16And then this negro hit me with it.
12:18That's my god brother.
12:19Yep.
12:21Life just keeps on lifing.
12:24What you say when he said that?
12:26I was like, we finna keep it in the family then.
12:27I think it's humorous that Destiny just found out that Lance and googly eyes are god brothers.
12:37Like, close.
12:39Like, dudes.
12:40Like, bros.
12:42I'm gonna say that I don't think this revelation is gonna make much of a difference.
12:47I don't have a lot to base it on, but the rules tend to change when it comes to Destiny.
12:55I was like, well, I was told that he possibly was interested.
13:00And although it's been nothing but professional, he guarded my body really well.
13:05And I told Lance that if Twan was interested, that I would be too.
13:10He was like, well, I mean, what can I say?
13:12I mean, I had a whole baby out here.
13:14I blessed the situation.
13:15Oh, he blessed it.
13:17Long story short, Lance thought I should talk to his mom because she felt a way about the googly eyes still.
13:22Which is why she was giving me that energy in L.A.
13:25I think Nell got triggered because when I met with her and I said, you know,
13:30you told me that they left L.A. early because of the baby situation.
13:34And she was like, that's not true.
13:36Isn't that what she told us?
13:38What did she tell us the reason she left L.A. early?
13:40I didn't know why they left in the moment.
13:41I didn't know either until she came back and she was talking about the child.
13:44And she was like, that's one of the reasons they had to leave early because they found out that she was in labor, I guess, having the baby.
13:50That's what I took from what she said.
13:52Oh, well, she said that's not what happened because the baby was born in November.
13:55Then she remembered that it was actually October.
13:58Oh, wait, wait.
13:58She said the baby was born in November but your actual name was October?
14:01Yes, October.
14:02She definitely said something about the child was the reason.
14:05How would I even know?
14:06I don't even know nothing about the day we've had.
14:07I'm just saying.
14:09Like, I don't know nothing about it unless she told me.
14:12She said, Letitia Scott need to mind her mother f***ing thing.
14:16Mind her business about what?
14:18I don't really know.
14:20You didn't ask her?
14:21It was about the comment about the signing NDAs and...
14:25That's my business.
14:26Her husband mentioned my husband.
14:28That's my business.
14:28So I did talk to her after the party and she brought that up.
14:32She told me to go talk to Chris.
14:34It was your fashion, the way you went and talked to Chris.
14:37She was trying to explain her side of the story.
14:39She was like, when she went over there and was pointing on his face.
14:41She's all up in my husband's face.
14:44She was like, Why did you say those things about Marceau and Maurice?
14:48And she just started doing this right here.
14:51She crossed the line.
14:52She went too far.
14:53Nell wants to have a problem with me.
14:55Like, I don't have a problem with Chris.
14:55Well, that's why I told her she should talk to you.
14:57We had a conversation already.
14:59That's where my confusion comes.
15:01Because they'll have the conversations and then all of a sudden it's a problem with me.
15:04Right, and I haven't done anything.
15:06That's where I get confused.
15:07Her conversation was after her conversation, right?
15:10Right.
15:11It's so weird.
15:12I don't know.
15:12It was recent.
15:13I have given Nell a lot of grace and I've tried to really put forth an effort with trying
15:19to build something with Nell.
15:21I thought like, Hey, this is going to move in a good direction.
15:24Now, had I known, she was going to go back and say the things she said to Destiny about
15:29me.
15:30But you know what?
15:31She got me that one time.
15:32It would never happen again.
15:34Sometimes you got to just have a conversation with people and everybody be on the same page.
15:39Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
15:44Let's go.
15:45Games begin.
15:48This is so funny.
15:51I told Nell we went to make balls, soap balls today.
15:55And she said, well, it sounds like y'all did something without me.
15:58I said, well, we did.
15:59I feel like y'all need to talk.
16:03No, we don't.
16:09We're getting ready for Fletch-tivities tonight.
16:37We're going to have all the couples beginning the games together that we're going to play.
16:42I think we'll do good.
16:43We got some very competitive people in this circle.
16:47Oh, yeah.
16:48Yeah, I'm sure we'll have a good time.
16:50I didn't know we were the first ones here.
16:53Look at us.
16:54Right on top.
16:56I love when the game gets together, especially on game night.
17:00I think Fletch-tivities are going to be fun.
17:02Just the name gets me tickled.
17:04Oh, yeah.
17:06You're low.
17:07Look at y'all doing.
17:09We're going to play some games.
17:11Not no shots yet.
17:14We're going to juggle some balls in the cups.
17:16Okay.
17:17Having all kinds of balls today, aren't we?
17:18That's what I was going to say.
17:20What are the balls we have?
17:22Did I miss Dr. Tash?
17:23No.
17:26You did it.
17:27What?
17:29I meant to make some soap balls.
17:31You was getting ready for this, so I was...
17:34Oh, so what was it?
17:35A couples thing or a female thing?
17:39Nope.
17:40It was all the girls but you.
17:43Oh, wow.
17:45Making balls.
17:47But you was preparing for this.
17:48We're not about to say that's awkward.
17:49You was preparing for this.
17:51I'm kind of feeling some type of way about not getting invited
17:54to something that Kimmy has planned for the girls
17:57and I'm getting left out once again.
18:00I'm kind of wondering, like,
18:03was this intentionally?
18:05Tally.
18:06What up?
18:07What's up, Martell?
18:07Y'all looking all fancy and stuff?
18:09Hello.
18:10Tadis, how you doing?
18:11You all right?
18:12What's up?
18:12Hey, what's up, though?
18:14Okay, here's what's going on.
18:16Hello, how are you doing?
18:17Mama, what up, though?
18:18Hey, lady, how are you?
18:19Can't get to...
18:20Mr. Lou?
18:21How are you, sir?
18:23What up, what up?
18:23Martell, how are you, sir?
18:24I'm good, you good?
18:25Everything good?
18:25Everything's great?
18:26What up, I remember?
18:28Well, this is my first time seeing Martell
18:30since he did that little interview skit that he did.
18:34I'm here to have a good time.
18:36Marceau can be cordial with Martell.
18:38That mean I can be cordial with Nell.
18:41I'm just going to make sure I keep everybody's name
18:44at my MF mouth.
18:46What's a party without a drink?
18:49Get a couple of wangs.
18:50Who else is coming from?
18:58I don't see nobody missing but Destiny and what, Lance?
19:02Are they coming together?
19:04I don't know.
19:04We'll see.
19:05Oh, f**k.
19:07Do we have some more people?
19:08I don't know if they're coming together or not.
19:10That's going to be tough.
19:10Okay.
19:11Destiny and Lance?
19:13They saying like they're a couple or something.
19:15She is like, uh, she had a feeling about Destiny.
19:19Oh.
19:19Have y'all gotten past that?
19:21Yeah.
19:22What's that?
19:22Oh, okay.
19:23Well, damn, everybody good.
19:24I think they're neutral.
19:26I just think they're good.
19:27Friends.
19:28Yeah, just friends.
19:29Yeah.
19:29Friends that ride together.
19:31Friends that ride to a couple of events.
19:35Oh, this is a couples event?
19:37Ish.
19:38I'm the ish.
19:39I was like, Martell's not a couple?
19:41I was going to say it.
19:42No, he got a picture of him in the couple.
19:44What you got, Martell?
19:46Don't laugh.
19:47It's kind of corny, but...
19:51Oh, so you did bring Ariana with you.
19:55See?
19:56So it's still a couple of nights.
19:58Though I had my jacket zipped up, I wasn't trying to hide anything.
20:01As a matter of fact, hell, I show it.
20:04It was cold, so I just had my jacket zipped up.
20:07She's covering your heart?
20:09Yeah, it was something like that.
20:10Hello.
20:15Hey, how y'all doing?
20:17Hey, how y'all doing?
20:19What up, what up?
20:20Oh, yes, oh, hey.
20:22Hey, how you doing?
20:23How you doing?
20:24How you doing?
20:24How you doing?
20:24Desi is walking in here with Will after a conversation we just had about Twan.
20:29So this is very surprising to me.
20:33Awkward.
20:33Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
20:40How much y'all know about Destiny?
20:41Good, wholesome girl.
20:43Good, wholesome girl?
20:43Yeah.
20:44That's not what I wanted to hear.
20:46Oh, what you want to hear?
20:48That's not.
20:48CC down for the calls tonight.
20:50You got the one night to prove you're worth it.
20:53So, Nell, why did you guys leave L.A. early?
20:58That's none of your business.
21:00I don't owe you anything.
21:03Hello.
21:05Hey, how y'all doing?
21:07Hey, how you doing?
21:08What up, what up?
21:09Hey, what's up?
21:09Hey.
21:10Hey.
21:11Hey.
21:11Hey.
21:11Hey, what's up?
21:11Hey, what's up?
21:12Get your cards.
21:13Hey, what's up?
21:14That .
21:15Hey, I don't know.
21:16I didn't ask you what I told him.
21:18I told him.
21:19Will, that's my bro.
21:21We've been cool for a long, long time.
21:23So watching Will walk in with Destiny is definitely unexpected.
21:27It took me by surprise.
21:28He didn't tell me.
21:30Hey, I guess that answered that Lance question.
21:31Oop, there it is.
21:35So Will DMs me and asked me on a date, and why not bring him to game night?
21:39We have some of the same friends, and I knew the peanut gallery would be all in my business
21:45and snickering like they were, but I'm grown, and I'm single, and I can date who I want, and however many
21:53people I want.
21:55So what was so funny?
21:56They thought Destiny was coming in with Lance.
21:58And then I pop up.
21:59And then I pop up.
22:00You pop up.
22:01Yes.
22:02Love, everybody, guys.
22:03What up?
22:04What up?
22:05I'm OK.
22:06Maybe it's a modern day, too.
22:07This .
22:08That pops just thickens.
22:09How are you?
22:10How you doing, sir?
22:11It's Kiara.
22:12How you doing?
22:13I'm here with a date.
22:14I did expect that Destiny was going to be there with someone.
22:18I thought maybe Antoine.
22:20I didn't know it was going to be Will.
22:24Is it weird?
22:25Of course.
22:26Does it bother me?
22:27Not...
22:28OK.
22:29It bothers me, but it doesn't bother me to the extent of, like, it will be an issue.
22:34Nice to meet you.
22:35Hi!
22:36You look cute.
22:37Hey, babes.
22:38Lance is a lover boy.
22:39He is, like, always dating somebody.
22:42So I'm not surprised to see him with someone here.
22:44Because he probably didn't want to see me with another person.
22:47So he had to bring a little datey date.
22:50Everyone, this game is called Flip Cup.
22:54You guys are going to start on this end.
22:56You're going to flip the cup.
22:57Everyone else is going to move back.
22:59Hey, can we huddle before we get started?
23:02That's on y'all.
23:03Hey, guys.
23:04Come on.
23:05Let's hold on.
23:06I don't know where my competitive gene comes from, but if I'm on the team, you have to
23:10know that we're going to win.
23:12Because that's all we do.
23:13One, two, three.
23:14Win!
23:15Let's go.
23:16Let the games begin.
23:17On your marks.
23:18Get set.
23:19Go!
23:26There we go, Marty.
23:28Let's go, baby.
23:29Let's go, baby.
23:30Somebody going to mess up.
23:31I ain't worried about it.
23:32Let's go, baby.
23:33Woo!
23:34Yes, sir!
23:35You need a key.
23:36Oh, G!
23:37Oh, G!
23:38Oh, G!
23:39Oh, G!
23:40Yeah!
23:41First rounds of games are going well.
23:46We're winning as usual.
23:49If you look over our history, as long as I'm on the team, you want to win, put Reece Scott
23:53in.
23:54Okay.
23:55The next game is going to be the spoon game.
23:57Musical spoons, all right?
23:58Okay.
23:59Whoever doesn't grab a spoon, you're out.
24:01Y'all ready?
24:02Let's get it.
24:03On the music.
24:04This way.
24:05Clockwise.
24:06There we go.
24:11Keep it moving.
24:12Keep it moving.
24:13Keep it moving.
24:14Keep it moving.
24:15Keep it moving.
24:16So, who doesn't have a spoon?
24:17I know.
24:18A spoon can pump it out.
24:19You're out.
24:20Well, don't feel too bad, because I made us lose on the little beer pong thing.
24:25Oh, yeah.
24:26Y'all was losers the whole night, though.
24:28Come on.
24:29Stop the music.
24:30I don't give a damn.
24:31I would need to be out.
24:32Y'all cheated.
24:33Woo!
24:34Scope versus Scope.
24:35Yeah!
24:36So, musical spoons was such a cute idea, but Marceau and Martell being the last two
24:52standing, I thought was hilarious.
24:53Here we go.
24:54Last man standing.
24:55Scope versus Scope.
24:56He's such a cheater.
24:57He's going to have a spoon the whole damn time.
25:14I was victorious.
25:15And for him to pull out a spoon the same color of the spoon that I won with, you know, that's
25:22the typical Marceau.
25:23You know, people say how you do one thing is how you do everything.
25:27And him cheating in this game is very telling.
25:30I got a spoon.
25:32Which one's the real spoon?
25:38Apparently, it was an extra spoon.
25:40I'm not saying how I got there, but...
25:44This one's the real spoon!
25:46What are the freaking odds, Martell and Marceau, the last two at the table?
25:53They're very competitive.
25:54Very.
25:55We have a lot of type A personalities here, as well.
25:58Fact.
25:59What's going on?
26:00How y'all doing?
26:01I mean, we came to an agreement.
26:02Spectre's there.
26:03We stayed with them all negatively, you know, amongst us and our significant other.
26:07And I'm going to agree to that.
26:08We're going to do the best with our significant others.
26:11Oh, what'd you say?
26:12We're going to do the best with our significant others.
26:14Well, I see.
26:15I'm just happy as that is.
26:16Where is that?
26:17I enjoy the piece.
26:18It's good to see Marceau and Martell getting back to a place where they can be around each
26:23other, laugh and joke, and everything's not so on edge.
26:27I can't take all the credit for it, but if they want to heap it on me.
26:36I told Nell we went to make balls, soap balls today.
26:39And she said, well, it sounds like y'all did something without me.
26:42I said, well, we did.
26:43I feel like y'all need to talk.
26:48No, we don't.
26:49Of course you do.
26:50You always need to have a conversation.
26:51You always say we need to have a conversation.
26:52The last conversation we got somewhere.
26:55Did you tell your mama that I was growing smiles when I was a kid?
26:58I did not tell her that.
26:59No.
27:00Well, you came in and you said, Kiara.
27:02And I said, Lance, who was that?
27:03And he said, Kiara.
27:05I kept looking at you.
27:07How many years did you go?
27:08Do you know?
27:09How old are you?
27:1031.
27:12Dang.
27:13Yeah, we've been there 30 years.
27:15You know, you always tell me to have the hard conversations.
27:18I have the hard conversations.
27:20So I don't know why when she met up with you, it was a problem.
27:23I honestly don't know.
27:24I honestly don't even care though, but I mean.
27:26Well, maybe it's because she maybe miscommunicated what she was trying to say.
27:32So I don't know.
27:33And that means y'all should talk about what was actually meant or said.
27:39Okay.
27:40Just for a minute.
27:41You can get some fresh air.
27:42So since Kimmy asked me so nicely to speak to Neah, I'm really going to try to resolve
27:47whatever this issue is she has with me.
27:49Now that's the plan.
27:50We'll see how it plays out.
27:52Can I interrupt y'all?
27:54I wanted us to chat if that was possible.
27:58And what we chatting about?
28:00I know you had a conversation with Tisha.
28:02I feel like the conversation you had with her at that moment went well.
28:07But then she felt like, I guess after Destiny and Trisha were talking about some of y'all's conversations,
28:14she felt like maybe that conversation wasn't as cool as she thought it was when it happened.
28:19Destiny said, you said, keep my name out your mouth.
28:22I did say that.
28:23And that's like tough.
28:25I said, I did say that.
28:27And I meant that.
28:28It would appear that nobody's interested in mending this particular fence.
28:32I picked the hardest battles apparently.
28:34What happened to make something like that?
28:36That's what I'm saying.
28:37If maybe if we talk, I'll go with you.
28:43Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
28:46We don't have to talk about my problem.
28:48Each and everyone here got their problem.
28:51Hey, Nell, let me tell you something.
28:52What is this? Oh, hell.
28:53I dumped your ass in that pool.
28:54You keep hollin' at me.
28:55You want to dump me?
28:56No, .
28:57You want to dump me?
28:58No, .
28:59Keep hollin' at me.
29:00Keep hollin' at me.
29:01No, .
29:02Destiny said, you said, keep my name out your mouth.
29:06I did say that.
29:07And that's like tough.
29:09I can be in a room and be cordial with someone if need be.
29:13And that's just where I'm at.
29:15But why?
29:16What happened to make something like that?
29:17That's what I'm saying.
29:19Maybe if we talk, I'll go with you.
29:24So Kimmy wants me to go outside and speak with Leticia.
29:27I really do not want to go.
29:30But I go because I want everybody to be happy.
29:34I go out here, but I'm not finna do all the arguing and back and forth.
29:39And I don't want you to.
29:40I'm not gonna do it.
29:41I'm not gonna do all that.
29:43I'm not gonna do all that.
29:44And what y'all know about Destiny?
29:45Good, wholesome girl.
29:46Yeah.
29:47That's not what I want to hear.
29:48No!
29:49Oh, what you want to hear?
29:51That's not.
29:52She down for the calls tonight?
29:53Yes, yes.
29:54This boy is a fool.
29:57She said yes, yes.
29:58You got one night to prove you're worthy.
30:00Ah, wow.
30:03Damn!
30:04That's so up.
30:05What have you learned so far?
30:07Hmm?
30:08I look good together, for sure.
30:09Oh, yeah.
30:10I learned that I didn't know she looked that good in her body suit until tonight.
30:14I saw her before, but tonight was different.
30:18You guys know about each other?
30:25Who?
30:26Will and I?
30:27Yeah.
30:28So, I bless whatever it is that anybody wants to do.
30:32You know what I'm saying?
30:33Y'all done or y'all still dating?
30:34Who?
30:35You know Destiny?
30:36Oh, we're done.
30:37Okay.
30:38Finito.
30:39Oh, y'all actually dating?
30:40I don't know y'all dating.
30:41Oh!
30:42It was a little something.
30:43That's why we're sitting here.
30:44Oh, yeah.
30:45I said I was lost.
30:46I was truly lost.
30:47As tall as you are, you didn't know you were a rebound.
30:50Damn!
30:51Oh!
30:52I wouldn't necessarily say Will is a great option to be a rebound guy.
30:57Just knowing who he is.
30:59She might want to just have a little fun for the time being.
31:03And because that's probably definitely not going to go the way she wants it.
31:09Will!
31:10I'm looking for her.
31:11I'll just look.
31:12There's no ring.
31:13100%.
31:14There's no ring for that.
31:15I want to just kind of sit down because you two had a conversation.
31:18And at the end of the conversation, I was under the impression that y'all were amicable.
31:25What happened since that conversation?
31:28Mm-hmm.
31:29So Destiny, when she told you that I need to keep her mother name out my mouth, why did she tell you that?
31:34Sure.
31:35Because we were talking about L.A. and when you told me they left early to go basically for the delivery of the baby, and Nell said that wasn't accurate and that you need to keep my mother name out your mouth.
31:51So Nell, why did you guys leave L.A. early?
31:56That's none of your business.
31:57Okay.
31:58I don't owe you anything.
31:59You don't, but I don't know why you're giving me this attitude because, one, I don't talk about you.
32:04I'm not giving you no attitude.
32:05I don't talk about you.
32:06I'm not giving you no attitude.
32:07Do y'all feel like she's giving attitude?
32:08I'm just asking another question.
32:09No, you're doing this and I'm doing you like that.
32:11Like I told you, my granddaughter is off limits and I meant what I said.
32:14So maybe that's why she's backtracking what she said because she did tell me that Kimmy was you a part of that conversation when she said the reason they had to leave L.A. early was something dealing with the grandbaby?
32:24I felt like you said it did have something to do with you had to come back home for the situation.
32:29Absolutely she said it.
32:31He had got a call saying he needed to get back.
32:34He had a baby on the way in labor.
32:36I saw that on social media.
32:38Me too.
32:39We all did.
32:40Don't do that.
32:41You're talking about my granddaughter.
32:42I don't care about your granddaughter.
32:43Well, that's it.
32:44That's a mouthful right there.
32:45You don't have to.
32:46I'm just saying you don't have to curse at me.
32:47You don't have to.
32:48You don't have to.
32:49I did not curse at you.
32:50It was a figure of speech and I told her to tell what I said.
32:53You're trying to be extremely disrespectful.
32:54Keep my name at your mouth.
32:55I don't talk about you though.
32:56I didn't curse at you.
32:58Well, what the ?
32:59Now you just cursed.
33:01This is hilarious.
33:02It's not funny.
33:03I don't like this.
33:04At the end of the day, Nell, if the situation with your grandchild was none of my business, why did you bring it up to me?
33:10You told me about the situation.
33:12I can care less.
33:13This is the reason I don't really want to have a conversation with Nell because I am trying to talk to her.
33:18I'm being cool, calm, collective and she's giving me bad energy.
33:21So y'all were perfectly fine until Destiny told you that she said you left L.A. because of the birth of the baby.
33:28I thought it was.
33:29Y'all were perfectly okay until that.
33:30I thought it was.
33:31And I'm like, okay, here we go again.
33:32I didn't have that energy for you like you have for me.
33:35That's not true.
33:36So it seems like you have a problem with me.
33:38That's not true.
33:39And I don't know what it is.
33:40That's not true.
33:41You just want beef with me just for.
33:42No.
33:43I don't want beef.
33:44I haven't even thought of anything with you.
33:45Yes, you do.
33:46Yes, you do.
33:47You think I'm doing something and you're doing the same thing.
33:49I'm good.
33:50I'm fine.
33:51Okay, I'm good.
33:52I'm fine too.
33:53Boy, lie as y'all tell.
33:54We can't resolve anything if she does not.
33:56If she can't admit to exactly what it is.
33:58Ammit to what?
33:59I don't know, Nell.
34:00That's what I'm trying to talk to you about.
34:01You keep talking over me.
34:02What is that for me?
34:03I stated where I stand.
34:05And I said, I'm not talking about my granddaughter.
34:09Other than that, I'm good.
34:10Come on.
34:11I'm good.
34:12So the boundary is set.
34:14Exactly.
34:15Okay, but then are we...
34:16Well, that didn't pan out too well.
34:18I don't know.
34:19Kimmy, you're the mediator, so.
34:21It's hard to mediate I'm good.
34:23I've been in a circle of friends that say I'm good.
34:26Me too.
34:27When they not good.
34:28And we don't want Hister to repeat itself.
34:30It's like y'all trying to make it something that's not.
34:32Nell, you said keep my name out your mouth.
34:35It made it something.
34:36And I said why I said it.
34:38And it made it something.
34:39Don't act like we're trying to make your problem.
34:41And I said why I said it.
34:44Ooh.
34:46I know Trisha's in the middle of it.
34:48I hear you.
34:49I know she in the middle of it.
34:50When I hear the ladies outside going at it,
34:52I instantly know that it's probably Tisha and Nell.
34:54So I'm making a beeline over there.
34:56I've been thinking about it all night.
34:58And I'm going out there to make sure that my wife
35:00is calmed down and separated.
35:03I'm not saying that you did.
35:04We don't have to talk about my problem.
35:06Each and everyone here got their problems.
35:08You don't have to yell at us, though.
35:09I didn't know that.
35:10I'm not yelling.
35:11I'm doing what everyone else is doing, OK?
35:13No, you're not yelling at us.
35:14Do you expect me not to say nothing?
35:16No, you can talk, but you're yelling at us.
35:18Do you think I'm talking, but you're talking to me?
35:20You're actually yelling at us.
35:21What did y'all think y'all doing here?
35:23Gang up on me?
35:24Oh, Jesus.
35:25Victim, victim, victim.
35:26I didn't say you.
35:27I didn't say you.
35:28I'm strictly talking about 1.0 and 2.0.
35:31Because I didn't see this coming from you.
35:33So where are you yelling?
35:34Like, really?
35:35Hey, listen.
35:36Listen, let's not overreact.
35:37Hey, Nell, let me tell you something.
35:39I dumped your ass in that pool you keep homing at me.
35:41You want to dump me?
35:42No.
35:43No.
35:44You want to dump me?
35:45No.
35:46No.
35:47No.
35:48No.
35:49No.
35:50No.
35:51No.
35:52No.
35:53No.
35:54No.
35:55No.
35:56No.
35:57No.
35:58No.
35:59No.
36:00No.
36:01No.
36:02No.
36:03No.
36:04No.
36:05No.
36:06No.
36:07No.
36:08No.
36:09No.
36:10Who?
36:11Why do you talk like that?
36:12You're threatening me.
36:13I'm just messing with you.
36:14I'm telling you to stop yelling at my ass.
36:17Stop yelling at me.
36:18Yes, sir.
36:19Stop yelling at me.
36:20She didn't.
36:21She didn't.
36:22She did not yell, Nell.
36:24Nobody's yelling but you.
36:25She didn't.
36:26You're the only person yelling.
36:27You're the only person yelling.
36:28It's bull .
36:29I don't know what the issue is with Nell and everybody.
36:33I just don't know.
36:34At the end of the day, Nell just need to learn how to talk to people.
36:37You're gonna sit there and tell somebody you're going to dump me.
36:38and tell somebody you're going to dump them in a
36:40But you can't yell at me.
36:41And you can't just say what you're going to do to me.
36:44When I yell, there's a problem.
36:45When they're yelling, oh, oh, we're not yelling.
36:48We're just talking to you.
36:49It's very much a double standard with these girls.
36:52This is crazy.
36:53So can we get back to, like, where everybody's good?
36:57Everybody's not good.
36:58That's the problem.
36:59Everybody keeps saying, I'm good, I'm fine,
37:01and you're not good.
37:02What Fletch Tivities is showing me
37:03is that the men are maintaining a cool, calm,
37:06collected demeanor as they navigate
37:08through complex controversy.
37:11And the women, well, don't let you judge for yourself.
37:14So Fletch Tivities are over, or are we going to talk
37:17our way through it?
37:18Is this what we're talking about by Fletch Tivities?
37:20Let me tell you this.
37:21Let me tell you this, for real.
37:26My fuse is shorter than what most people think.
37:35Wow.
37:36My dad was abusive.
37:41He would drink and get drunk and be loud and holler and stuff.
37:45And that never was OK with me.
37:49So after my parents got divorced, I felt like I was
37:52my mother's protector.
37:54Anybody who came around that felt they needed to yell
37:58to be heard just didn't work for me.
38:02Never has, from this size to this size.
38:06It doesn't work for me.
38:08I should not have said, I will dunk you in the pool
38:11if you keep hollering at me.
38:12And I apologize for that.
38:14However, we're not going to keep doing the hollering thing, no matter
38:18how normal it is in your world.
38:22I accept Kimmy's apology, but I really do.
38:29Because it really hurt.
38:30That hurt me.
38:31And if I yell at you, I apologize to you.
38:37I appreciate that.
38:38It'll be a cold day ahead before I apologize to Nell.
38:41If anything, she owes me an apology.
38:44She's the one talking about me behind my back
38:47to all these ladies and is getting back to me third person.
38:51Like, yeah, no, I'm good.
38:54Can we get a hug, Kimmy and Nell?
38:57Oh, you don't hug me.
38:58I'm fine.
38:59I ain't got no long-term energy.
39:02Can we get a hug real quick?
39:03Yes, it's a hug.
39:04It's a hug thing?
39:05It's a hug.
39:06I don't get a hug.
39:07I don't have no big issues.
39:08Hey, guys.
39:09This is progress.
39:11This is progress.
39:12Hey, listen, this group is progressive.
39:14I'm looking for you.
39:15You're getting real progressive.
39:17I'm really sorry.
39:19I was able to make up with Kimmy,
39:22even though I'm the person that it takes me a minute.
39:27But Kimmy apologized to me the same night.
39:31So I felt like I need to put my big girl pants on
39:36and accept the apology.
39:38She said she was sincere about it,
39:39and I just have to take it for what it is.
39:42I can't do the hollering.
39:43The hollering is tough for me.
39:45I was raised in a house where my dad would holler.
39:49And it's not good for me.
39:50And so as much as people think I'm patient,
39:54that's my trigger.
39:56The yelling, I can't.
39:57I apologize, because that shouldn't
39:59have come out like that at all.
40:02It shouldn't have come out.
40:05But I think you would look to you in the full way.
40:07Your ass is going with me.
40:09I'd have pushed you and saved you, I swear.
40:15I'd have saved you and I pushed you.
40:17Next on Love and Marriage Hauntsville.
40:21Kimmy says, don't you yell at me.
40:24Well, what the you think you doing right now?
40:27She made the comment, if you yell at her again,
40:29she's going to dunk you in that pool.
40:32That mother went in that pool before me.
40:35When Kenny comes into the picture,
40:38and the kids are saying, there's a breath of fresh air.
40:40Let me gravitate towards the fresh air.
40:42You're saying, wait a minute.
40:43Whoa, whoa, whoa.
40:44Whoa, what about me?
40:46I've had you all this time.
40:47He's the new kid on the block.
40:49I was jealous when he came along,
40:50and they started asking him instead of me.
40:52It just kind of made me feel some type of way.
40:54Wanda, Miss Wanda.
40:57Hey, come on, girl.
40:59Yeah, you got your truck.
41:01The hoes came from Highsville.
41:03I felt like I was losing my kids.
41:07To me?
41:08Yeah.
41:09Well, how you going to lose them to me?
41:11Y'all are just pushing me to the side.
41:14What do you feel about it?
41:16About what?
41:17About this little ?
41:18About this little went to this live right here.
41:21About Maso and Maurice.
41:24Oh, Lord.
41:25Just wanted to know what riddle was going on.
41:27Come on.
41:27We don't care.
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