90 Day Fiance Happily Ever After S09E20

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00:00:00Previously on part one of 90 Day Fiancé

00:00:04Happily Ever After, Tell All No Limits.

00:00:07Javi's in the pool throwing balls like a dog.

00:00:09He's probably drunk already.

00:00:11What's going on with Lauren and Elizabeth?

00:00:14I'm good with Lauren, but with Elizabeth and Andrew, no,

00:00:17because they blame us for everything.

00:00:19What Gino still doesn't get is that I am not the same person.

00:00:24I'm not the broken Jasmine who couldn't regulate her emotions.

00:00:29My man's worse, asshole.

00:00:33You're a fraud.

00:00:34No, Sarah.

00:00:36Oh my God, who has a Xanax?

00:00:37Dear God.

00:00:42Look at my boobs.

00:00:43People are saying I did plastic surgery,

00:00:47but I am a pregnant.

00:00:48I'm a six months right now.

00:00:50In the house, nobody knows me.

00:00:52I'm afraid to say.

00:00:55How you doing?

00:00:56Stop, you touch my arm like that.

00:00:58Why not?

00:00:59We are not fighting enough for the relationship.

00:01:03You speak for yourself.

00:01:06Let's talk about the text messages.

00:01:08Andre, what exactly did you find out from reading these logs?

00:01:12Plenty of material, Sean.

00:01:14She says, Alex compares me to other women.

00:01:17He goes around the bar.

00:01:18He doesn't want to come home.

00:01:19What the is wrong with you?

00:01:21Why you diss everybody around you?

00:01:23You're putting your panties in a bunch or shoving up your ass.

00:01:25Hey, let's go outside.

00:01:26Let's fight.

00:01:27I don't give a .

00:01:28What?

00:01:29Andre!

00:01:30Let's go.

00:01:32Come on.

00:01:43Let's fight.

00:01:43I don't give a .

00:01:45Andre, calm down.

00:01:46Why are you running your mouth?

00:01:49You crazy?

00:01:50Yara, do you want to weigh in on this?

00:01:53Everything is like a big mess.

00:01:56You don't react.

00:01:58What can we tell about that?

00:01:59How can we just get a word in between them?

00:02:00Well, you sit there and stir the pot, and then you sit back quiet.

00:02:03Why didn't they stir the pot?

00:02:04Like, say something about it.

00:02:05You were there.

00:02:06You were there.

00:02:11So, Yara and Jovi, who do you think takes the blame for the conflict between these two?

00:02:17So, listen, I think it's a lot of wrong on everyone's part, right?

00:02:21I mean, y'all went behind her back and exposed information, which is a little unfair.

00:02:26Y'all?

00:02:27No, y'all.

00:02:28You sure about the y'all part?

00:02:29Andre, let's say that.

00:02:31Andre, that was no right what you did to her.

00:02:34What'd you tell about Alex, about body shame, when you did him dirty?

00:02:37That was not right.

00:02:40Elizabeth, why do you think that Yara and Jovi are stirring the pot in this situation?

00:02:48When I saw them at Lake Placid, how they're, like, playing a double game here, then I'm

00:02:52like, hold on a minute.

00:02:53What's going on here?

00:02:54Which double game?

00:02:55Aren't you putting me in the middle when you say that I say that?

00:02:57She said, here's a horrible person.

00:02:59I never said that.

00:03:00You lie about that.

00:03:02I never said that.

00:03:03You lie about that.

00:03:04Maybe it was Jovi that said it.

00:03:06That was said.

00:03:06Do you think I made that out of the .

00:03:09Who called me a horrible person?

00:03:10I don't know if that was said or when it was said.

00:03:12I never said that.

00:03:13Nobody.

00:03:14Nobody.

00:03:15But why did you apologize to it?

00:03:16That's what I don't understand.

00:03:17Exactly.

00:03:18I apologize.

00:03:19I'm a victim.

00:03:20I apologize.

00:03:21I called him a dick.

00:03:22All I'm doing is apologizing, apologizing, apologizing.

00:03:26I'm sorry I called you a dick.

00:03:27I'm sorry your butt hurt over it.

00:03:28But that's not a real one more time.

00:03:32I kept apologizing for 20 times.

00:03:36Like how many more times can I apologize?

00:03:40Oh my gosh.

00:03:42God.

00:03:43Benzona.

00:03:44Yeah.

00:03:45Wow.

00:03:46You and I are connected on like, oh we're not fake, we don't like plastic surgery, we don't

00:03:52like Botox, we don't like fillers, we don't agree with that stuff, right?

00:03:56We're like most Florida women like that stuff.

00:03:58We're not like those girls.

00:03:59Yes.

00:04:00Right?

00:04:01It's true.

00:04:02And then you're like, I'm getting a tummy tuck.

00:04:03Yeah.

00:04:04And I'm going to get this, liposuction, this, that, that.

00:04:06I was confused.

00:04:07I've never wanted that stuff, but after I had my three kids, I did need the tummy tuck

00:04:12because I had the abdominal diastasis, which I openly shared with the world.

00:04:18My stomach was not reattaching.

00:04:19So you connected on the wrong thing, right?

00:04:21No, we connected on the fact that we bitched about our husbands to each other.

00:04:26Fact.

00:04:27We bitched about getting hate on social media to each other.

00:04:30Fact.

00:04:31Also that our husbands can be similar with their Eastern European descent and just...

00:04:36No, me neither.

00:04:37No.

00:04:38I think just the alpha male.

00:04:39We would send each other, for instance, funny pictures of being, what are you doing

00:04:43today?

00:04:44Nothing.

00:04:45They think a housewife is sitting around doing nothing.

00:04:46So we would always laugh and be like, oh, we're doing nothing.

00:04:48What are you doing?

00:04:49Nothing.

00:04:50On my way to get the kids.

00:04:51On my way to do the laundry.

00:04:52To do the laundry.

00:04:53It's so therapeutic to have a friend to bitch about your husband.

00:04:56It is therapeutic.

00:04:57It's so therapeutic.

00:04:58I do it with Julia all the time.

00:05:01And you better never log in into our text, Brandon.

00:05:06You don't want to see it.

00:05:08What about squashing it out?

00:05:11What?

00:05:12Like when we went into Lake Placid.

00:05:14Supposedly you were sorry for your behavior of your, like how it went down.

00:05:18What happened to this, like, sorry?

00:05:20Like what happened to it?

00:05:21You just like said sorry, just throw it around.

00:05:23We made amends.

00:05:25We talked it out, whatever.

00:05:26And then Jovi comes up to me at the very end of the night.

00:05:29Cause apparently you, before we went out, told them that I was making fun of Yara and

00:05:35talking about her clothes and this and that.

00:05:37So I literally just found out right then and there, which is why I stormed off.

00:05:41Cause I was so done.

00:05:44Elizabeth, you told Yara that Lauren made fun of her clothes.

00:05:51Is that right?

00:05:52Made fun of her clothes?

00:05:53Yes.

00:05:54No, I don't think I use those words.

00:05:55You never said that.

00:05:56No.

00:05:57I said that she discusses her clothes.

00:05:59I never said she made fun of her.

00:06:01There was that before we went to the bar.

00:06:03I said, just beware.

00:06:04You're getting close to her.

00:06:07We actually have that clip.

00:06:09Let's watch.

00:06:11Yeah.

00:06:12I don't know.

00:06:13Like I wasn't going to say anything, but she was just saying, you're just, Miami got

00:06:19to your head and just nasty comments about you and like things that you wear.

00:06:23Oh, nice.

00:06:24Oh, that's lovely.

00:06:25Just tread lightly.

00:06:26Be cautious.

00:06:27That's all I'm saying.

00:06:28I just don't want you to get hurt in the long run.

00:06:33Oh, she did.

00:06:34Straight forward.

00:06:35Bitches are fake.

00:06:41So Elizabeth, do you stand by those comments?

00:06:43Absolutely.

00:06:44Okay.

00:06:45Because she did say those things.

00:06:47Though again, sharing personal conversations, but you don't talk about me.

00:06:51Is that not girl code?

00:06:53Should I not warn another girl that another girl's talking about her?

00:06:56Should I not warn her about that?

00:06:58I forget about the snakes.

00:06:59As a new person in Miami looking to make genuine friends.

00:07:03Two snakes.

00:07:04Well, you don't live in Miami.

00:07:05Thank God so.

00:07:09Lauren, I think this in the wrong way, but you tell this to many people that Miami is get

00:07:14to my head.

00:07:15You tell this to many people.

00:07:16I don't think I say it like that, but I think you fit very well in Miami.

00:07:20Like, I cannot see you in Louisiana.

00:07:23I have said this before to her.

00:07:25She probably, she said whatever she said, and it is what it is.

00:07:33Elizabeth, you stand by telling Yara to watch out for Lauren.

00:07:39Of course.

00:07:42Especially now.

00:07:43How she treated this whole situation.

00:07:45I don't trust you.

00:07:46What did I do?

00:07:47She couldn't explain.

00:07:48I told her I had nothing to do with it.

00:07:50Time and time again.

00:07:51She says it's not true, but still mad at me.

00:07:53Still doesn't trust me.

00:07:54So what did I do here?

00:07:55I don't understand.

00:07:56So that is a person that you cannot trust.

00:07:58And so I removed myself.

00:08:00But you think that Yara should not trust Lauren.

00:08:03Of course not.

00:08:04I didn't say trust.

00:08:05I didn't use that word.

00:08:06You just said it.

00:08:07You just said it.

00:08:08You just said it.

00:08:09Makes sense.

00:08:10You are so twisted on all your lies and all your conspiracies and thoughts.

00:08:14You hurt us.

00:08:15We came here as your friends.

00:08:17We were fine.

00:08:18We were fine.

00:08:19And we had conversations thinking we had an understanding of what was going on.

00:08:23So there's no feelings hurt.

00:08:25Yeah, so there's no feelings hurt.

00:08:26But there's feelings hurt because nobody's on the same page besides them.

00:08:29Wait.

00:08:30One more thing.

00:08:31I was told that apparently Elizabeth and Andre told Yara and Jovi that they had to choose

00:08:37between us or Yara and Jovi.

00:08:40I think I said it.

00:08:41Or I don't know.

00:08:42You said it.

00:08:43Yeah.

00:08:44When I said, hey, listen, you have to choose because you're playing a double game.

00:08:47Put your money where your mouth is.

00:08:48Yeah, yeah.

00:08:49Who are you really friends with?

00:08:50What is your friend?

00:08:51Your friend or your friend?

00:08:52Okay.

00:08:53Because it seems like there's a lot of fakeness going on.

00:08:54So I was like, okay, let's figure it out.

00:08:56I don't think that it's fair to put you in a position.

00:08:59Choose.

00:09:00Like, are we in high school?

00:09:01Okay.

00:09:02Well, let me just ask very quickly.

00:09:04Yara.

00:09:05Yeah.

00:09:06Are you friends with Lauren?

00:09:09Yeah.

00:09:10Are you friends with Elizabeth?

00:09:12I mean, I don't know.

00:09:15I'm not sure.

00:09:17Okay.

00:09:18It's clear that feelings are hurt and emotions are high.

00:09:22So we're going to pause this conversation for right now and let everybody cool down.

00:09:26We will touch base later and we will be joined by Lauren's friend.

00:09:30Sorry.

00:09:31Noga.

00:09:32Oh, my God.

00:09:33Bring her on.

00:09:34We are going to call it a day for right now.

00:09:37Have a great night, everybody.

00:09:38Oh.

00:09:39I'm so embarrassed.

00:09:40I'm so upset that I yelled.

00:09:41Yeah, we should keep our composure.

00:09:42But they really think they did nothing wrong and that's really up.

00:10:00Is the bartender going to be there tonight?

00:10:02Yeah, have me a drink ready.

00:10:03Tell him to make 10 margaritas.

00:10:05It seems like, you know, like, between me and Jovi, even though, you know, like, was

00:10:09frozen bottles, I think we pretty much were squared up.

00:10:13You had a conversation with Jovi, but we didn't have a conversation.

00:10:16You guys should do the same thing, I think.

00:10:18I think...

00:10:19With who?

00:10:20You and Yara.

00:10:21Yeah, yeah.

00:10:22We stopped acting like teenagers.

00:10:23I mean, come on.

00:10:24All right, everybody, please get changed and then you can head to the house.

00:10:28I don't like drama.

00:10:29Yeah, this is like a lot more to do with Lauren and Alex and Elizabeth and Andre.

00:10:33We're in the middle.

00:10:34I'm just trying to be friends with both of them.

00:10:36That's it.

00:10:37We'll see you at the house.

00:10:38See you at the house.

00:10:39This house is going to get crazy.

00:10:42I'm going to the house.

00:10:44I think it's going to be okay because today all the bad stuff happened.

00:10:48So now I feel pretty confident that it's going to be less Gino and Jasmine drama.

00:10:52I'm hoping.

00:10:55Today was the longest day.

00:10:56I have a lot of relief that I'm done.

00:10:58Jasmine is good to get in everybody's heads.

00:11:00Exactly.

00:11:01Hello.

00:11:02She's so good at that.

00:11:03Now I feel bad for Matt.

00:11:04Well, listen.

00:11:05He proposed whatever would have straightened her or whatever the that was, but she should

00:11:08have said yes or just move on.

00:11:10You know, co-parent and that's it.

00:11:12Gina, how do you feel about Natalie?

00:11:15She's pretty.

00:11:16Oh, thank you.

00:11:17She has a good heart.

00:11:18You're happy with her.

00:11:19You're giggling, farting.

00:11:20Yeah.

00:11:21Well, let me tell you something.

00:11:23She treats me very good and she doesn't fight with me.

00:11:27That's nice.

00:11:28You fresh start.

00:11:29Yes.

00:11:38Oh, .

00:11:39Oh, God.

00:11:40Honey, I'm home.

00:11:41Honey.

00:11:42Come on, let's go in here, yeah?

00:11:46Are you saying prayer before you?

00:11:47Oh, okay.

00:11:48Let's do a little prayer.

00:11:49You want to say prayer?

00:11:50You want to start?

00:11:51Let's do it.

00:11:52Let's do it.

00:11:53Let's do it.

00:11:54Thank you, God, for the day today and Gino's.

00:11:59What are you grateful for today?

00:12:00Say what you're grateful for.

00:12:01Well, I'm grateful that I got through today and I feel like I can move forward again in

00:12:15my life.

00:12:16Praise God.

00:12:17Thank you, Lord, for protecting us and giving us grace to continue on these journeys that

00:12:22we live.

00:12:23Amen.

00:12:24Amen.

00:12:25Amen.

00:12:26We just had a good prayer.

00:12:27That's a good prayer.

00:12:28I like that.

00:12:29I like that.

00:12:30I like that.

00:12:31And what we're grateful for.

00:12:34You want a knife?

00:12:36So what are you guys feeling?

00:12:37How was this today?

00:12:39I was shocked, you know, all the commotion.

00:12:42And I didn't expect that between Lauren, Alexa, and you two after a five-year friendship.

00:12:47I didn't expect it either, honestly.

00:12:49Well, you didn't.

00:12:50Yeah, you didn't.

00:12:51Nope.

00:12:52Andre, were you being a dick?

00:12:53Probably.

00:12:54Probably.

00:12:55I know.

00:12:56Be careful.

00:12:57Where's the kitchen, honey?

00:12:58Starving.

00:12:59What in the hell is going on here?

00:13:00Let me guess.

00:13:01Georgie's losing.

00:13:02Wow.

00:13:03Now we are talking.

00:13:04Hey!

00:13:05I'm here!

00:13:06Okay, let's go.

00:13:07Let's go.

00:13:08Oh!

00:13:09Hey!

00:13:10Yay, Gino!

00:13:11Almost.

00:13:12Let's go get some shots, dude.

00:13:13These people don't know how to play.

00:13:14I don't know.

00:13:15We spent enough time with people today, so we need to, like, decompress.

00:13:32Look, we got through today.

00:13:35It was very heated.

00:13:36I'm very tired.

00:13:37I don't think we got through.

00:13:38I don't want to spend more energy on them.

00:13:41Enough.

00:13:42Too much back and forth and screaming.

00:13:44This is Vatelo, so yeah.

00:13:46Let's order a couple drinks.

00:13:47I'm going to make Andre and Alex friends.

00:13:49Elizabeth, you want to come?

00:13:50What do you want to say?

00:13:51I'm good.

00:13:52All right.

00:13:56All right, so I brought you guys a drink and a friend.

00:13:59What friend?

00:14:01No friends.

00:14:02Oh, wow.

00:14:03So I guess that's our cue to leave.

00:14:06All right, I want to ask a favor from all of y'all,

00:14:08because we're going to get into this some more.

00:14:10Let's try to talk normal, because, like, I had a lot of stuff I wanted to say today,

00:14:14and because of you in particular, mostly you, also you, I couldn't get a word in.

00:14:19I couldn't say my opinion.

00:14:20I couldn't really speak for myself.

00:14:22And let's keep it a little more civilized.

00:14:24I think it got way too aggressive, way too quick.

00:14:26I yelled, and I hate that I yelled.

00:14:29I'm not going to apologize for yelling, but I hate that I yelled.

00:14:33No more apologizing.

00:14:34I think we should, we should reconcile the things before we hear from that lady,

00:14:39from your friend, because we said that in like class.

00:14:41Her name is Noda.

00:14:42Okay, lady, whatever, lady.

00:14:43You can call her by her team.

00:14:44No, no, no, nice, okay?

00:14:45It's nice, lady is nice, because she's a lady, I think.

00:14:48But you know, like, I'm just saying, you know, like .

00:14:51There are some things I want to ask her.

00:14:52If she does come, you have to let her get a word in.

00:14:55I will, okay, I will.

00:14:56Andre, I have to tell you wholeheartedly, I never said you were a horrible person.

00:15:05I think that was a lot of he said, she said.

00:15:08There's a big difference between a horrible person and calling somebody a dick.

00:15:11Okay.

00:15:12Your characteristic is a dick.

00:15:15Yeah, okay.

00:15:17I have a question.

00:15:18Who mentioned body shaming?

00:15:20Because on that clip.

00:15:21Who mentioned it first, Andre?

00:15:22It comes from the text messages that I read.

00:15:26But who said it?

00:15:27But who said it?

00:15:28Who revealed this?

00:15:29Who said it?

00:15:30It comes from the context of what was conversation.

00:15:33Who said it?

00:15:34You're dodging the question.

00:15:36Did you say it, or did Elizabeth say it first?

00:15:38I'm more mad at Elizabeth at this point, because she did it, and she won't own it.

00:15:44In the clip that we saw today, Elizabeth said, you body shame your wife.

00:15:50I'm just trying to think.

00:15:51Are we talking about this again?

00:15:52I'm just trying to think.

00:15:53Are we talking about this again?

00:15:58I dare you, Darcy, to let Cara lick one of your nipples.

00:16:11Oh!

00:16:12I need to sit down!

00:16:14Here, just like, here, yeah.

00:16:20When she was going to sing, then she keeps going into a potty, drinking, and then to

00:16:26another potty, and then to someone else's house until like 4am.

00:16:30She's just having fun.

00:16:31She did not cheat, you know, she just had fun.

00:16:34Um...

00:16:44Are we talking about this again?

00:16:47What is wrong with you?

00:16:48I'm trying to figure out who said something.

00:16:51Like, isn't everybody tired?

00:16:54Oh, my God.

00:16:55I can't.

00:16:56I can't do this again.

00:16:57You're asking the question too many times.

00:17:00Now you want to clarify it, but I didn't clarify it at the moment.

00:17:03Why did you leave?

00:17:04You should have clarified it.

00:17:05Babe, just don't try.

00:17:06It's annoying.

00:17:07You know, like, every time when it was getting deep, you leave.

00:17:10I don't have energy for this.

00:17:11We was thinking that you're controlling all of her because you're always taking her away

00:17:14from the situation.

00:17:15This was a situation that I got dragged into that just escalated and escalated and escalated.

00:17:20So, yes, we did remove ourselves before it got so much worse.

00:17:24So, what are we going to do?

00:17:26You guys can't avoid each other forever.

00:17:28I don't give a flying .

00:17:30Babe, I'm...

00:17:31Well, I'm done told.

00:17:32I don't know why.

00:17:33Let's go get a drink because I'm done told.

00:17:34Like, it's just...

00:17:35Oh, no, are you taking her away from the situation?

00:17:38The irony.

00:17:39We discussed this in the studio.

00:17:41Yara, I'm sitting here and look who left.

00:17:47Yeah.

00:17:48And that's okay?

00:17:49He literally said, you got up and left.

00:17:52Yeah, so I was thinking...

00:17:53He just...

00:17:54And they just...

00:17:55He just left.

00:17:56Like, what a hypocrite.

00:17:57Yeah.

00:17:58Damn it.

00:17:59I don't know.

00:18:00It was her, like, last real friend.

00:18:11Oh, baby!

00:18:12Oh, did you know?

00:18:13Another point for you.

00:18:14All right.

00:18:15Catching her up.

00:18:16Oh.

00:18:17Welcome to my humble giant room.

00:18:30Wow.

00:18:31Make yourself at home.

00:18:32Very nice.

00:18:33All right.

00:18:34All right.

00:18:35That's a game.

00:18:36What do you want to play?

00:18:37Truth or dare?

00:18:38True or dare?

00:18:40You're asking me?

00:18:41Mm-hmm.

00:18:42Um, let's do a dare.

00:18:44I dare you to do a backflip in the floor.

00:18:47Do you know how to do a backflip?

00:18:49Backflip?

00:18:50You know, you do it in the floor.

00:18:51Those are cheerleaders.

00:18:53You mean roll backwards?

00:18:54Okay.

00:18:55Oh, a roll.

00:18:56A roll.

00:18:57Oh, a roll.

00:18:58I was thinking you wanted, like, a back handspring.

00:18:59I was like, what the...

00:19:00You're right.

00:19:01Okay.

00:19:02Wait.

00:19:03I don't like that it didn't happen.

00:19:04How do I get over it?

00:19:05I don't know.

00:19:06Wait.

00:19:07How does one do that?

00:19:08I don't know.

00:19:09Okay.

00:19:10Yeah, that works.

00:19:11All right, Cara, your turn.

00:19:12All right.

00:19:13What are you calling out?

00:19:14Brandon.

00:19:15Truth or dare?

00:19:16What up?

00:19:17Yes, you.

00:19:18Truth.

00:19:19Boring.

00:19:20Boring.

00:19:21I dare.

00:19:22Oh, yeah.

00:19:23All right.

00:19:24I dare you to lick that door handle.

00:19:26I have to lick a door handle?

00:19:27Seriously?

00:19:28Very nasty.

00:19:29Lick it.

00:19:30Lick it like a lollipop.

00:19:31You know what I'm saying?

00:19:32Have you opened this door?

00:19:34I do.

00:19:35I want, like, a...

00:19:36I want, like, a...

00:19:37I want, like, a...

00:19:38Yeah, that works.

00:19:39Yeah, that works.

00:19:40All right.

00:19:41All right, Cara, your turn.

00:19:42All right.

00:19:43All right.

00:19:44All right, Cara, your turn.

00:19:45What are you calling out?

00:19:46Brandon.

00:19:47I want, like, a...

00:19:48Blink it!

00:19:49Blink it!

00:19:50Blink it!

00:19:51Blink it!

00:19:52Blink it!

00:19:53Blink it!

00:19:54Ah!

00:19:55Yay!

00:19:56I can't get this.

00:19:58How dare you?

00:20:00Ew!

00:20:01You're nothing.

00:20:03All right, Matt.

00:20:04No.

00:20:05Son of a bitch.

00:20:06Son of a bitch.

00:20:07You got it.

00:20:08You got it.

00:20:09All right, dare.

00:20:10Dare?

00:20:11I dare you.

00:20:12Suck a toe.

00:20:14A toe?

00:20:15Suck a toe.

00:20:16No.

00:20:17Because I have a foot fetish, and he...

00:20:19We've seen it, yeah.

00:20:20Exactly.

00:20:21Can he at least wash the foot?

00:20:22He finds that disgusting.

00:20:24No, I'm not watching.

00:20:25Do you find a...

00:20:26What the hell are you talking about?

00:20:27No, girl.

00:20:28You'd be walking on the floor and stuff.

00:20:29Suck a toe.

00:20:30Suck a toe.

00:20:31Suck a toe.

00:20:32Suck a toe.

00:20:33And the big one.

00:20:34No.

00:20:35Yeah.

00:20:36No.

00:20:37He didn't say the big one.

00:20:38Okay, whatever.

00:20:39Did you walk on the barefoot?

00:20:40I didn't.

00:20:41You're such a liar.

00:20:42Papi, suck it.

00:20:43Bro.

00:20:44You got it.

00:20:45Oh, oh wow.

00:20:46Pointer toe?

00:20:47Suck it.

00:20:48Oh my...

00:20:49I gotta wash my mouth.

00:20:50If he only knew where this toe had to be.

00:20:52That was a sweaty ass toe.

00:20:53It was salty, you son of a bitch.

00:21:15It was salty, you son of a bitch.

00:21:17I went to the bathroom, barefoot, and all that .

00:21:22Good.

00:21:23To the bathroom.

00:21:23Now I have to kiss Matilda with this.

00:21:25Yeah, I hope you're happy.

00:21:26Oh, my god.

00:21:27Listen, I just, like, imagine you sucking.

00:21:33Respectfully saying, Gino's feet?

00:21:35It was the only thing he would let me suck.

00:21:38Really?

00:21:39I swear to god.

00:21:41Typical Gino trying to save money on a pedicure.

00:21:45She's got it.

00:21:47Yo.

00:21:49Gino.

00:21:51You got a game?

00:21:51I have a funny idea.

00:21:53You got that paper with you?

00:21:54Paper?

00:21:54Your phone records.

00:21:56Let's call that number.

00:21:56See if Mat answers the phone.

00:21:58He's lying to us.

00:22:01I'll call it.

00:22:04Let me see her number.

00:22:07Hold on a second.

00:22:09Here, look.

00:22:11That's his number.

00:22:15Oh, it's ringing.

00:22:20Is it?

00:22:21Yeah.

00:22:21He might not have changed his number.

00:22:25Oh, what are you guys doing in here?

00:22:34Guys, go, go, go.

00:22:35You having a little sleepover?

00:22:36We're playing truth or dare.

00:22:37Truth or dare?

00:22:38Yeah.

00:22:39Yeah.

00:22:39OK.

00:22:40All right.

00:22:41A little truth or dare never hurt anybody.

00:22:43But we've done some scandalous things before your arrival.

00:22:46Yeah.

00:22:47OK, baby.

00:22:48This is your turn.

00:22:49Oh, me?

00:22:50I'll do truth.

00:22:51Do you still have feelings for Guillermo?

00:22:53Oh, my God.

00:22:54Truth.

00:22:55The whole truth.

00:22:56The whole truth.

00:23:03I will always love Guillermo.

00:23:05I will always love Guillermo.

00:23:06We share a child.

00:23:09Wow.

00:23:10Hmm.

00:23:11She created a song in the main course of the song.

00:23:16It's like, try.

00:23:17And we need to just try.

00:23:18Yeah.

00:23:19Yeah, sure.

00:23:20Yeah.

00:23:21Yeah, yeah.

00:23:22Yeah.

00:23:23I don't feel like we really tried.

00:23:25I tried.

00:23:27That's what I'm saying.

00:23:28It's what you don't get here.

00:23:29No, no, no, no.

00:23:30You just shut down.

00:23:31You didn't communicate.

00:23:32Well, I was trying.

00:23:34Because our marriage was getting up.

00:23:37Mm-hmm.

00:23:38I think that you should have chosen there.

00:23:44I'm sorry.

00:23:48Hold on.

00:23:49Hold on.

00:23:50Somebody says, who is this?

00:23:52Let's take this back.

00:23:53Oh, he replied.

00:23:55I asked him if it's Matthew.

00:23:58Yeah.

00:23:59This is Matthew?

00:24:00Like this?

00:24:01Yes.

00:24:02He's not going to say yes.

00:24:03No.

00:24:04He's going to be like, what the do you want?

00:24:05Yeah.

00:24:06He's a starter.

00:24:07Believe.

00:24:08Okay.

00:24:09Jasmine.

00:24:10Uh-huh.

00:24:11Truth or dare?

00:24:13Okay.

00:24:14Truth.

00:24:15Do you love Matt the same as you love Gino?

00:24:26Hmm.

00:24:27I think that...

00:24:29I don't know.

00:24:32I think that...

00:24:33with Gino.

00:24:36I didn't love him in a healthy way, but I was so obsessed with him.

00:24:40Like, I love him, you know, in a very passionate way.

00:24:43No, she doesn't love me as much as him.

00:24:45Right?

00:24:46I was like, I think it was a yes or no.

00:24:48I don't want to be that person again.

00:24:50No.

00:24:51But I do love him.

00:24:53I like his companion.

00:24:54Sex is the freaking best.

00:24:59Well, you definitely have chemistry.

00:25:02Hello.

00:25:03Oh, hi. Welcome.

00:25:04My baby.

00:25:05Yeah.

00:25:06My new people.

00:25:07Yeah.

00:25:08It's my turn.

00:25:11The queen.

00:25:12The newcomer to the circle.

00:25:14Dare.

00:25:15She has this.

00:25:16Double D, baby.

00:25:17Double D.

00:25:18My girl.

00:25:19I dare you, Darcy, to let Cara lick one of your nipples.

00:25:30Oh!

00:25:32Oh!

00:25:33Whoa!

00:25:34I need to see that!

00:25:37Here, I'll lick your boob, but not your nipple.

00:25:40Okay.

00:25:41And let me see Claire come closer.

00:25:43Here, just like, yeah.

00:25:44I'm such a pervert.

00:25:45No!

00:25:46She left only twice for this season!

00:25:47She did it!

00:25:48No!

00:25:49No!

00:25:50I didn't see it!

00:25:51Ah!

00:25:53Yeah!

00:25:54Double D's, baby!

00:25:56Y'all are ratchet as hell.

00:25:57Zero .

00:25:59True or dare?

00:26:01I can't dare.

00:26:03Okay.

00:26:04I want you are dancing for your wife.

00:26:07She's still your wife.

00:26:08Take off your shirt, and make sexy feeding her the sandwich

00:26:13without your hand.

00:26:15Get your ass over here.

00:26:17Show the Latino movements.

00:26:19Da-da-da-da.

00:26:20Da-de-do-doo-doo.

00:26:22Yoo-hoo!

00:26:23Lo-loo-loo-loo-loo-loo-loo!

00:26:26Put the sandwich inside your face!

00:26:34She's been a boss girl, punish her!

00:26:41I'll make her smell it.

00:26:42There you go.

00:26:49It's a dance, it's a dance.

00:26:50Smile, smile!

00:26:53Sock it, I mean, .

00:27:01Wow, that was cute.

00:27:04Look, it's responding, let's see.

00:27:06Bring it on.

00:27:07Says, I don't know where you are.

00:27:08If it wasn't him, he'd say wrong number.

00:27:11Where's Matt?

00:27:12Upstairs.

00:27:13Somebody see if he's on his phone.

00:27:14Where is he?

00:27:14Let's go sneak and see.

00:27:16I'll peek around the corner.

00:27:17Go, go.

00:27:18Somebody bring the camera on.

00:27:19Where?

00:27:20Here, yeah.

00:27:21Upstairs, we'll see if he's texting.

00:27:23If he's on his phone right now, that's him.

00:27:34Oh, man!

00:27:36Kara, you're still living in the house

00:27:37that you and Guillermo bought together.

00:27:38Yes.

00:27:39Are you trying to get his name off the deed?

00:27:42I mean, I think it's fair.

00:27:44He didn't contribute money, and that's

00:27:45the reality of what happened.

00:27:46Mm-mm, that is not.

00:27:48That's a dumb way to think about it.

00:27:50We'll see if he's texting.

00:27:51If he's on his phone right now, that's Matt.

00:27:52Too loud.

00:27:53We can't sleep.

00:27:54You guys missed some crazy .

00:27:55Missed it.

00:27:56Licked doorknob, licked toes.

00:27:57Big .

00:27:58Yeah, that's right.

00:27:59More action here than I get with you.

00:28:00Tiny.

00:28:01All right, let me do it one more time.

00:28:20Is somebody texting you?

00:28:29No, I'm not playing.

00:28:30Why?

00:28:31Why?

00:28:32Was somebody texting you earlier?

00:28:33I have no idea why.

00:28:35Were you texting somebody earlier?

00:28:37No.

00:28:38I'm going to go back and get a drink.

00:28:41Yeah, let's go back.

00:28:42Yeah.

00:28:43It's kind of boring here.

00:28:44Why?

00:28:45Our spy mission was a total bust.

00:28:49I mean, either Matt changed his phone number or Gino's lying.

00:28:53I don't know.

00:28:54All right.

00:28:55Please leave your message.

00:28:56No.

00:28:57Did they figure it out upstairs or no?

00:29:00I don't know.

00:29:01Children, come back.

00:29:02What did you discover?

00:29:03Nothing.

00:29:04Nothing.

00:29:05He wasn't on his phone.

00:29:07Jasmine's looking at me like I'm crazy.

00:29:09I'm like, Matt, are you texting anybody right now?

00:29:12And he was like, no.

00:29:14I called like three times.

00:29:15Nothing happens.

00:29:16Answer?

00:29:17Nothing happens.

00:29:18Nothing happens.

00:29:19Matt's phone number was definitely a match at the time

00:29:24that I pulled the phone records because I verified it myself.

00:29:27So the fact that Matt changed his number, I mean,

00:29:31that just shows he's guilty.

00:29:34So you can't even question it.

00:29:36I just hear somebody upstairs leak Darcy's boobs tonight.

00:29:40Oh, yeah?

00:29:41Yeah.

00:29:42What did you say?

00:29:43Somebody touched her boobs?

00:29:44Lick it.

00:29:45Who?

00:29:46Guillermo?

00:29:47Kara?

00:29:48Oh, OK.

00:29:50They're playing a game.

00:29:51In the front of other people there.

00:29:53They're having fun.

00:29:54Are you doing other spots?

00:29:55Oh, they're having fun.

00:29:56That's an excuse.

00:29:57They're having fun.

00:29:58Let's go strip club.

00:29:59I'm just going to have fun.

00:30:00Yeah.

00:30:01OK.

00:30:02Well, I have a dare for all of you.

00:30:04Yay!

00:30:05I dare you all to get the out of my room.

00:30:07Oh, my gosh.

00:30:08My pleasure.

00:30:09Yay!

00:30:10That was fun.

00:30:11All of us?

00:30:12I love you.

00:30:13Don't get me wrong.

00:30:14You sure?

00:30:15All of us?

00:30:16You maybe somebody want to stay?

00:30:17Thank you for having us.

00:30:18That was a fun game.

00:30:19I think all of you is just fine.

00:30:21All right.

00:30:22When's the last time you guys had sex?

00:30:24How many months?

00:30:25Y'all told me three in Miami when we hung out.

00:30:27Jovi, when was that?

00:30:28Ah, that was like three months ago.

00:30:30So that would be six months.

00:30:31We're just too busy.

00:30:33She said January.

00:30:34Too busy to have sex?

00:30:35Yeah.

00:30:36Oh, come on.

00:30:37You can do a quickie.

00:30:38You just wanted a nice vacation.

00:30:40I feel like that's the first thing you want to do when you get there.

00:30:42I don't know.

00:30:45Hey, guys.

00:30:46How's the party?

00:30:47What's up with Alik in the upstairs?

00:30:49That was the fun room.

00:30:51Played a little truth and dare.

00:30:52What did you do there?

00:30:53No.

00:30:54Got my tit licked.

00:30:55How she licked your nipples?

00:30:57Like this.

00:30:59In the front of everybody.

00:31:02That's right, baby.

00:31:04So everybody see your boobs upstairs?

00:31:05Yeah.

00:31:06It was fun.

00:31:07Innocent fun.

00:31:08What's up with a sex situation?

00:31:09Seriously.

00:31:10I don't know.

00:31:11Ask him.

00:31:12Ask me.

00:31:13You tired all the time.

00:31:14You're not in the mood for us.

00:31:15Dad, stop blaming me for everything.

00:31:16First and foremost.

00:31:17We both have to want it.

00:31:20But you know what I'm saying?

00:31:21Like, it's like, are you getting it off somewhere else?

00:31:23That's what we were asking.

00:31:24Like in the shower, at the steam room with a hottie.

00:31:27Definitely somewhere.

00:31:28Because you're not going to, like, if you last for two weeks, you're going to

00:31:32and you're asleep.

00:31:33I have wizards, yeah.

00:31:36You do?

00:31:37Why not a woman?

00:31:38You have a woman.

00:31:39Oscar.

00:31:40Yeah.

00:31:41I mean, obviously, I'm, you know, hormonal at this moment.

00:31:45Right.

00:31:46But I also want some romance.

00:31:47I want to, like...

00:31:48It only takes, what, five, ten minutes?

00:31:49Oh, the work.

00:31:50No, he's quick.

00:31:51He's quick.

00:31:52It's like a wham-bam, thank you, ma'am.

00:31:53It ain't hours long.

00:31:54That shirt.

00:31:55One pump chump?

00:31:56If I wanted it, it's like, all right.

00:31:57I don't mind that.

00:31:58You know, you're actually, like, you know, slow and a little gentle.

00:32:01You're never, like, freaky or nothing like that.

00:32:03I've had freaky.

00:32:04Yes, dude.

00:32:05You're saying Georgie's boring.

00:32:07I don't know.

00:32:08It's like this is...

00:32:09We both probably are now.

00:32:10We just got so used to each other.

00:32:12You know, we need to spice it up, so maybe we need to do something.

00:32:15Y'all take a shot of tequila, make your way upstairs, and renew your six-month membership.

00:32:20We need your membership.

00:32:22Do you want to go in the room and have a six?

00:32:25Let's do it.

00:32:26Take a shot and go.

00:32:28Oh.

00:32:29Let's take it to the bedroom, baby.

00:32:31Do you have a problem, dude?

00:32:32Like, what's the problem?

00:32:33Like, do you have a problem?

00:32:34Why are you not your wife?

00:32:36I'll give you some liquid courage.

00:32:38She better be smiling here to ear.

00:32:41Yeah.

00:32:42Tomorrow we'll be taking this to you.

00:32:43I'm vulgarian.

00:32:45All of you gonna hear us scream tonight.

00:32:49Let's go.

00:32:54Come to bed.

00:32:59Yeah, baby.

00:33:04Don't fall asleep.

00:33:07Wake up!

00:33:10Georgie, you feel like a dead body.

00:33:13I can't breathe.

00:33:16Help, help, help.

00:33:18Oh my God, that was so much fun.

00:33:22Two to third day.

00:33:23Kara, I'll never forget you.

00:33:25I tasted your perfume for like an hour after that.

00:33:29Yeah.

00:33:30Oh, I'm so ready.

00:33:45Yeah.

00:33:50Let's do this.

00:33:51I'm so excited.

00:33:52You know, you got it.

00:33:53Oh.

00:33:54Thank you, sir.

00:33:55Ready?

00:33:56Red?

00:33:57Ready?

00:33:58Yeah.

00:33:59I slept there last time, man.

00:34:00I didn't slept that long.

00:34:01Switch.

00:34:02Switch.

00:34:03Switch.

00:34:04Oh my God.

00:34:05We got a hungry bird.

00:34:06We're going first.

00:34:07We're going first.

00:34:08We're going first today?

00:34:09Good for me.

00:34:10It's okay.

00:34:11We can just get it out of bed.

00:34:12Yeah.

00:34:13All my cries out.

00:34:18I feel very gross today.

00:34:20I'm not in a good mood.

00:34:26Good morning, guys.

00:34:28What's up?

00:34:29Good morning.

00:34:30Good to see you.

00:34:32How was your night?

00:34:33Never better.

00:34:34Never better.

00:34:35I didn't see you guys last night.

00:34:36So what was happening upstairs?

00:34:37Anything crazy?

00:34:38Man, weird stuff happened.

00:34:41Okay.

00:34:42Now I want to know.

00:34:43Brandon licked a door.

00:34:45How do you say it?

00:34:46A doorknob?

00:34:47Uh-huh.

00:34:48Okay.

00:34:49I'm glad I was downstairs.

00:34:50Hey.

00:34:51What's up?

00:34:52I heard you licking doorknobs.

00:34:54What happened last night?

00:34:55Sucked the gold off that thing, right?

00:34:57Was it a bet?

00:34:58Like, what was happening?

00:34:59We were just sitting around playing truth or dare.

00:35:00Y'all were quiet.

00:35:01I figured everybody went to sleep.

00:35:02Really?

00:35:03Yeah.

00:35:04Oh, no.

00:35:05I thought we were loud as .

00:35:06I mean, maybe the house does have, uh, how do you say?

00:35:09Good walls?

00:35:10Yeah.

00:35:11Soundproofing, yeah.

00:35:12I mean, I haven't heard anybody having sex, so.

00:35:14How about you?

00:35:15Yeah.

00:35:16How about me?

00:35:17With what?

00:35:18Do you have sex?

00:35:19Ha!

00:35:21Wasn't Carl hot and bothered after your little private dance?

00:35:23No dance?

00:35:33My love!

00:35:34I didn't, I saw you, but you were getting makeup, and I did, I wanted to.

00:35:39I, I hear it.

00:35:40You're good?

00:35:41I have your back.

00:35:42Relax.

00:35:43You are who matters.

00:35:46You are who matters.

00:35:47You're not crying.

00:35:48No.

00:35:49Shh.

00:35:50Breathing exercises.

00:35:51I need, I need to.

00:35:52Yes.

00:35:53Squish it.

00:35:54Squish it.

00:35:55Squish it.

00:35:56Squish it.

00:35:57I came here thinking, like, everybody was gonna probably be a dick to me.

00:35:59But, overall, everybody has been, like, pretty, like, pretty cool to me and pretty nice, so.

00:36:04I wanted to not like you.

00:36:05Oh, okay.

00:36:06Just given, just given everything.

00:36:07Nobody wants to like him.

00:36:08I know.

00:36:09Then you meet him, and you're like, oh, that plan.

00:36:10I know he's so likable.

00:36:11It's crazy.

00:36:13Yeah, unfortunately.

00:36:14Unfortunately.

00:36:15He's socializing more today.

00:36:17He feels more confident.

00:36:18Yeah, yeah.

00:36:19Look at our kids, them on the couch, talking with people.

00:36:22I just have to keep, like, an eye on Matt.

00:36:24He's too charming sometimes.

00:36:27I don't like that.

00:36:29The charming?

00:36:30Yeah, because with Gino, I didn't care because he's so bitchy to everyone.

00:36:34Like, you know?

00:36:35No.

00:36:36Isn't it nice?

00:36:38No.

00:36:40I guess I, too, like, I've seen Jasmine blow up and, like, cry so much.

00:36:44So much.

00:36:45That I was like, oh, here we go.

00:36:47Is it just gonna be, like, one big drama show all the time?

00:36:51See?

00:36:52Just like that.

00:36:53I'm literally trying to say, I thought you were gonna be so much drama, but you actually turned out to be so nice.

00:36:57But you're just proving the first part.

00:37:00I don't want to interrupt the peace and quiet.

00:37:02Are you sure?

00:37:03So I'm gonna be in this corner because apparently I'm too loud.

00:37:07Hi, Darcy. Good morning.

00:37:08Hi, Mama.

00:37:09Oh, it's so nice to see Georgie by Darcy's side.

00:37:12Yeah.

00:37:13Amen.

00:37:14Sometimes I forget.

00:37:15Yeah.

00:37:16That you're even a couple because he's always Darcy by herself.

00:37:19I know.

00:37:20He likes to walk off.

00:37:21Enjoying with any female except from his wife.

00:37:24True.

00:37:25Shots fired.

00:37:26Shots fired.

00:37:27Jesus.

00:37:29All right, guys.

00:37:30We're ready for you back on set.

00:37:31All right.

00:37:32Let's go.

00:37:34All right.

00:37:35Kara, you guys first?

00:37:36Yeah.

00:37:37Good boy.

00:37:38It's our time, G.

00:37:39Hey.

00:37:44Good morning.

00:37:45Good morning.

00:37:46Good morning.

00:37:54And I hope I don't pop out of my dress.

00:37:56You might have to have my back.

00:37:58Let me know if you see anything.

00:38:00Right, please.

00:38:04Five, four, three, two, one.

00:38:09Welcome back to 90 Day Fiancé.

00:38:11Happily ever after the couple's tell all.

00:38:14All right, everybody.

00:38:15Are you guys ready?

00:38:16Yep.

00:38:17We are ready.

00:38:18I want to start off with Kara and Guillermo.

00:38:21Now, I understand there was a little bit of flirting going on

00:38:26last night between the two of you.

00:38:28Is that right?

00:38:30I think, in my opinion, I think there's a lot of stuff happening

00:38:34that's really heavy.

00:38:35Yeah.

00:38:36I think our way to deal with it has seemed to be to just joke

00:38:40and keep it very, like, light.

00:38:42Yeah.

00:38:43Because once we start to really get into it...

00:38:46Mm-hmm.

00:38:47So what is the status of your relationship?

00:38:53Separated.

00:38:54Separated.

00:38:55Living separate.

00:38:56Co-parenting.

00:38:57Living separate lives.

00:38:58Co-parenting.

00:38:59Still married.

00:39:00Kara, you're still living in the house that you and Guillermo

00:39:03bought together.

00:39:04Yes.

00:39:05Okay.

00:39:06All right.

00:39:07And Guillermo, oh, you just threw me a look right there.

00:39:10How do you feel about that?

00:39:12Never better.

00:39:13Never better?

00:39:14Yeah.

00:39:15Okay.

00:39:16So you both bought that house together with both your funds.

00:39:21Mm-hmm.

00:39:22Right.

00:39:25The looks between you two.

00:39:27Kara, is that right?

00:39:28You bought that house together with both your funds?

00:39:30Uh, sure, in the sense that we're married and so our funds are won.

00:39:34Yeah.

00:39:35Kara, is Guillermo's name on the house?

00:39:39Yeah, on, not on the loan, but on the deed.

00:39:43When we bought the house, obviously I was okay with him being on the deed.

00:39:47I wanted to create a future with him.

00:39:49Yes.

00:39:50But now that we're separate, now I think about it and like, oh, I really did everything to

00:39:55really get us into that house and he just gets to have 50% ownership.

00:40:01Are you trying to get his name off the deed?

00:40:05I mean, I think it's fair.

00:40:07He doesn't live there.

00:40:08He didn't contribute money.

00:40:09And that's the reality of what happened.

00:40:11Mm-mm.

00:40:12That is not.

00:40:13I'm just waiting for my moment.

00:40:14Well, go ahead.

00:40:15Have your moment.

00:40:16I'm sorry.

00:40:18I remember actually clear conversations.

00:40:21And actually you were the one putting every single thing that I will spend in the house

00:40:26or in the family.

00:40:27And actually it was more than what you were putting into the house.

00:40:31And then the payment that I was doing, it was like food and this and the other and the

00:40:36kid and the da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da-da.

00:40:37Specifically about the house, it was more so me.

00:40:40As our budget as a whole, it was sometimes more him depending on what the bills were

00:40:45that month.

00:40:46But you can't separate the two.

00:40:48You were living together and spending money on everything.

00:40:50You can't separate the house from everything else.

00:40:52You can't give him back his food.

00:40:55Yeah, but the food he paid for is not accruing equity over the next 25 years either.

00:41:00But wait a minute.

00:41:01Wait a minute.

00:41:02Wait a minute.

00:41:03But that's a dumb way to think about it.

00:41:06Even if you're saying that you're paying this and I'm paying that,

00:41:09that at the end of the day is one.

00:41:12I wanted it to be one thing.

00:41:13I wanted it to be together.

00:41:14I wanted it to be one thing.

00:41:16You wanted it and it was.

00:41:18How much is it worth?

00:41:19Do you want to fight that battle and you want to claim 50%?

00:41:25How much did you put in?

00:41:27It's, listen, I come from nothing and I don't care if I go back there.

00:41:34I just want to have a good life.

00:41:36That's it.

00:41:37And if fighting with you, it's not going to give me that, so then just keep it.

00:41:42You have decided that you are going to give up your 50%.

00:41:49Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:41:50I did.

00:41:51So you're letting it go?

00:41:52Yeah.

00:41:53Okay.

00:41:54Yeah.

00:41:55Which is very nice of you, but to be honest, if the shoe was to be turned the other way

00:41:58and you were paying the mortgage and she was paying more on the rest of the bills,

00:42:02she would be claiming, I'm paying more now.

00:42:04There are so many things that there's no equality in this era.

00:42:09You don't think there's equality in your relationship with Kara?

00:42:15No.

00:42:21When she drinks, it's a completely different person.

00:42:25I don't feel comfortable with this.

00:42:27She's basically saying she's not wife material.

00:42:30Stop, Andrew.

00:42:32That's what it is.

00:42:34Yes.

00:42:36Um...

00:42:43You don't think there's equality in your relationship with Kara?

00:42:48No.

00:42:52If I will do the same things that she do, I will definitely be looking really bad.

00:42:59Like, for example?

00:43:00I keep my kid.

00:43:02I don't care about you.

00:43:03It's not your country, but I still, I don't care about you.

00:43:06I've never said that to you.

00:43:08No, but it's, it's, it's, it's the truth.

00:43:10It's, it's there.

00:43:11Like, you can see it.

00:43:15Guillermo, do you think that you would be treated differently by Kara if you did not have a son together?

00:43:19Yes.

00:43:28In what way?

00:43:30Um, would you like to answer that?

00:43:33No, you can answer.

00:43:34Um, there is a small line of respect that I feel from her just because I'm the father of her kid.

00:43:52And if Nico wouldn't be there, that respect, it will be none.

00:44:01Wow.

00:44:02Sounds bad.

00:44:03Think you would already be divorced?

00:44:05I will, yeah, I will, I will, I will, I will think so.

00:44:09What respect means for you?

00:44:10What does respect?

00:44:11You said she has more respect for you.

00:44:13What does it mean for you?

00:44:14I will start with the way she will speak to me.

00:44:18She speaks down to you.

00:44:19Yeah.

00:44:20Down means rude and, and names and all of that kind of stuff.

00:44:26Like, that's how she is.

00:44:28That's how Kara is.

00:44:30In fact, Rona said, Guillermo, the way Kara speaks to you, that's really bad.

00:44:37That's what Kara's mother told you?

00:44:39Yeah.

00:44:41What am I saying to you that you find so disrespectful?

00:44:45Do you call him names?

00:44:47No?

00:44:48No.

00:44:49What did I call you?

00:44:50No.

00:44:52I think my general tone sometimes can be sharp, particularly if I'm upset or angry or whatever.

00:44:57And I think he finds that tone disrespectful.

00:45:02No, no, no, we're talking about words like mother

00:45:05like all of those words so they can come out.

00:45:08That in my opinion, you shouldn't be saying those things to your husband.

00:45:12The way you spoke to me, it's not the right way to speak to me.

00:45:19Okay.

00:45:20I want to pivot to another point of contention in your relationship.

00:45:24Kara, what is the status of your music career?

00:45:27It's just growing.

00:45:29Mm-hmm.

00:45:30And evolving.

00:45:31Bringing in money.

00:45:32You know, music is a really hard industry.

00:45:34And I don't know that you see profit for a while.

00:45:37Okay.

00:45:39I want to look back at how Kara's dream of a music career resulted in a nightmare for her marriage.

00:45:45Let's watch.

00:45:47People started arriving like an hour ago, and Guillermo still isn't here.

00:45:52There was a time when Guillermo was different.

00:45:57He was really supportive of my performances and of my career.

00:46:02I never had the feeling that one day maybe he wouldn't be there as my biggest supporter, my biggest fan.

00:46:08So how come you didn't go to Kara's performance?

00:46:11I'm not going to be part of the possible bull that could be going on in Kara's life.

00:46:21Like going out, drinking, partying, even the way she probably could dress, it's going to probably make me feel so weird.

00:46:43Normally she would wear something like no clothes or almost no clothes.

00:46:51And I've said like, yo, that makes me a little bit, a little bit weird.

00:46:55And every time I said that, she's like, who the do you think you are to tell me what to do, what to wear and stuff?

00:47:02And I'm, it's not that I'm telling you what to do, what to wear, not at all.

00:47:06It's just that it makes me feel a little bit weird.

00:47:10You know what? Enjoy your life. Go do your thing. But I'm not going to be part of it.

00:47:17Kara, when you were watching that, what were you feeling?

00:47:24I guess it's just the realization that somehow I've ended up married to someone that just like doesn't support me.

00:47:36I just never thought it was going to be that way. You know, if anybody should be there, it should be him.

00:47:45Even if it was in the middle of a desert, you know, like if anyone should be there, it should be my husband.

00:47:51Yeah. I think you should have been there for her and supported her.

00:47:57When she was going out to sing, then she keeps going into a potty, drinking, and then to another potty, and then to someone else's house until like 4am.

00:48:10And I'm like, Joe, were you not going to sing and then come back home to your family?

00:48:15No, no, no. It's to continue from this place to another place to continue drinking.

00:48:20And we know, we know, she's just having fun.

00:48:25But she did not cheat, you know, she just had fun.

00:48:28Um, no, that's okay.

00:48:31I actually went to New York two weeks ago to Manhattan without Joey for my birthday.

00:48:36And Joey didn't have no problem with that. I go out, we go to the bar with my friends.

00:48:41I think from his perspective, if he goes out until 4 o'clock in the morning, three parties, would you believe him? He's singing only?

00:48:49If his goal was to be a singer, and he had a show, I would never miss his show.

00:48:55So he has a jealousy problem, okay.

00:48:57Yeah, I think she's using the music as an excuse for her to continue to go out because she knows that Guillermo doesn't like it.

00:49:02But maybe she's not happy in her marriage.

00:49:04So if she's already there, it's an excuse to keep going.

00:49:06If I would have done the same thing, I'll be in trouble.

00:49:09No, if you would have done the same thing, I would have been by your side with you the whole time.

00:49:13I think she would be with you.

00:49:14Yeah, if you will be there for her, she will go home with you.

00:49:18Look, I have a problem with Cara when she drinks.

00:49:26When she drinks, it's a completely different person.

00:49:31And she knows it.

00:49:36Tell us about this DJ friend of yours.

00:49:45He was writing her.

00:49:48And the way he was writing, it was to invite her out.

00:49:52And then she would be acting in very different ways.

00:49:55I'll be very honest.

00:49:56If I went to him tomorrow and was like, hey, let's hook up, I have no doubts he would.

00:50:00I have no doubts he would.

00:50:01Oh, my God.

00:50:03Oh.

00:50:04When she drinks, it's a completely different person.

00:50:17So then I was like, hey, listen, I don't feel comfortable with this.

00:50:20So then I would get scared of going to those places because then she would be drinking.

00:50:25And then she would be acting in very different ways.

00:50:28She would be like very cute and cozy with some other guys.

00:50:32She would be like dancing very cute with other guys.

00:50:34They think they have a chance.

00:50:35Exactly.

00:50:36She's not being like, oh, okay, sorry.

00:50:38Like, I'm not going to speak to these people.

00:50:40I'm married.

00:50:41Like, I feel like that never comes up.

00:50:42But she's a singer.

00:50:43Aren't those her fans?

00:50:45I mean, imagine.

00:50:47But I think you still have to be respectful to your marriage.

00:50:50I get a terrible point.

00:50:52So it's disrespectful.

00:50:53I've been there, right?

00:50:54She's going somewhere.

00:50:55Like, what?

00:50:56She's just going to hang out there.

00:50:57And she's going to talk around everybody around.

00:50:59And he's just staying there watching, having a drink.

00:51:01It don't feel okay.

00:51:03He could also enjoy himself.

00:51:07Kara, do you think you become a different person when you drink?

00:51:10I think I become more fun when I drink.

00:51:13For you, not for Guillermo.

00:51:18He doesn't look like he has fun when you drink.

00:51:25What?

00:51:26Yes, that's what it is.

00:51:27She can do all of it.

00:51:28Yes.

00:51:29Wife is not the only wife who sit at home and cook and clean.

00:51:31Stop, Andrew.

00:51:32He doesn't want to see his woman going out

00:51:34and speaking and taking shots.

00:51:35To some other woman.

00:51:36Why could you choose her than to be his wife?

00:51:39From day one when I met Guillermo, I've never not been who I am.

00:51:43Like, I never changed.

00:51:44He changed.

00:51:46He was fine with who I was.

00:51:48What if she stopped drinking and just did networking after the show

00:51:51for one hour and then comes home?

00:51:53Would it change the situation?

00:51:54What a beautiful life.

00:51:55In fact, in fact, my man.

00:51:56In fact, my man.

00:51:57In fact, my man.

00:51:58No, no, no, no, no.

00:51:59We agreed that she had a problem drinking.

00:52:02I was going to ask that.

00:52:03Does she have a drinking problem?

00:52:04In my opinion, she does.

00:52:05In his opinion, I would.

00:52:06And then she said to my face, hey, you know what?

00:52:08I'm going to stop drinking.

00:52:09Did you say that, Kim?

00:52:10I did.

00:52:11In an effort to save our marriage, which time over time, he says, I never tried.

00:52:15I didn't try hard enough.

00:52:16I didn't take accountability.

00:52:17I looked at him and said, okay, maybe you're right.

00:52:18I can stop drinking.

00:52:19I will try to stop drinking because I want our marriage to work.

00:52:23And how did that go?

00:52:24Two weeks.

00:52:25I did.

00:52:26I did.

00:52:27I did.

00:52:28I did.

00:52:29I did.

00:52:30I did.

00:52:31I did.

00:52:32I did.

00:52:33I did.

00:52:34I did.

00:52:35I did.

00:52:36I did.

00:52:37I did.

00:52:38I did.

00:52:39I did.

00:52:40I mean, I definitely started drinking.

00:52:41But like.

00:52:42Two weeks.

00:52:43Two weeks.

00:52:44No drink.

00:52:45Yeah, but he was still being ridiculous also.

00:52:48So you said, forget it.

00:52:49I'm going to start drinking again.

00:52:50Ridiculous?

00:52:51What?

00:52:52I'm trying to build trust.

00:52:53I'm trying to go back and feel comfortable again.

00:52:54No, I was trying to communicate with you.

00:52:56You were shutting me down.

00:52:57I couldn't.

00:52:58You were giving non-answers.

00:52:59You were making uncomfortable.

00:53:00I'm uncomfortable.

00:53:01And I was like, okay, so now I stopped drinking to try to save our marriage, and he's not

00:53:04doing any work.

00:53:05I'm giving up stuff.

00:53:06I'm making sacrifices.

00:53:07I'm trying to fix it.

00:53:08How could you drink?

00:53:09Did you think you had a drinking problem, Kara?

00:53:12I mean, there's definitely been times where I've gone too hard.

00:53:15Okay.

00:53:16So were you doing it, giving up drinking just for Guillermo?

00:53:21Or did you feel like it was something that you should do for yourself?

00:53:23Maybe a little column A, maybe a little column B. I mean, I think alcohol is not good

00:53:27for you long term.

00:53:28It obviously doesn't make you feel good.

00:53:29But then you only gave it two weeks, right?

00:53:31Yeah.

00:53:32Okay.

00:53:33Do you think you should have gone a little bit longer?

00:53:37Would that have made a difference, do you think?

00:53:38No, I don't.

00:53:39That's why I just started drinking again.

00:53:40Because I was like, clearly, me doing, I just didn't feel like it was going to make

00:53:43any difference.

00:53:44Because he was still being, like, standoffish and mean.

00:53:46No, look, look, look.

00:53:47She doesn't like when people tell her what to do.

00:53:51And this is not just coming from me, because I just want to say it.

00:53:54When I start.

00:53:55No, I get on that.

00:53:56Yeah, she can agree.

00:53:57Her mother told me when I got here, Kara is the type that she would do whatever she

00:54:03wants.

00:54:04Be careful, be careful.

00:54:05Did her mom say this to you?

00:54:07Yes.

00:54:08Rana said that to me.

00:54:10Well, I want to pivot to a related topic.

00:54:14At one point in their marriage, something happened that fractured the relationship.

00:54:18Guillermo became suspicious of Kara and a relationship she had with a local DJ.

00:54:24Take a look.

00:54:25Kara will go to the Latin night with her friends, which is this guy, DJ, until what?

00:54:35Like 3, 4 a.m.?

00:54:37Does make me feel very weird.

00:54:39More when they have a pass.

00:54:42I hooked up with this human literally in 2011, one summer, one time.

00:54:49We've been very good friends ever since.

00:54:51He's now started the Latin event in Charlottesville and hosts every Bachata night.

00:54:55Of course, I'm going to him saying, hey, can I perform at your events?

00:54:58Hey, can you help me promote my music?

00:55:00Like, true friends.

00:55:02And because after Latin night, we go back to the after party that's at his house, it's a problem.

00:55:09It's the same guy that when we got married, he was writing her and trying to take her out.

00:55:15There's no proof to what he's accusing me of.

00:55:19And that is hurtful to me.

00:55:21Okay, Kara, tell us about this DJ friend of yours.

00:55:28Javier and I became friends early, early, like 2008, 2009, dancing Bachata.

00:55:34It was an underground scene at that point.

00:55:36Had sex one time.

00:55:37One time.

00:55:38I immediately was like, we're friends.

00:55:40I have no interest in you.

00:55:42Sorry it went too far.

00:55:43I'd really like to keep it friends because we've been friends already for so long.

00:55:46I was gone for a decade.

00:55:48He got married, had kids.

00:55:49We always kept in touch.

00:55:50Why would I not call upon my friend to help promote my music?

00:55:54Is this guy still married with kids?

00:55:56Yeah.

00:55:57Uh, no.

00:55:58Yes.

00:55:59They're still legally married.

00:56:00It's fine to work with him, but like, is it necessary to go to the after party at 4 o'clock in the morning?

00:56:07I mean, yeah, that's debatable.

00:56:09I would become comfortable, too.

00:56:12But there was a time when we just got married that he was writing her.

00:56:18And the way he was writing, it was to invite her out.

00:56:23Kara, I get the impression that there's something you are holding back.

00:56:28What's going on?

00:56:30I'll be very honest.

00:56:33In my heart of hearts, if I went to him tomorrow and was like, hey, let's hook up.

00:56:38I have no doubt he would.

00:56:40Oh, my God.

00:56:41I have no doubt about it.

00:56:43When we come back, we're going to talk to Brandon and Julia.

00:56:51Okay.

00:56:52Okay.

00:56:53Okay.

00:56:54It's tough in your skater.

00:56:55I understand.

00:56:56Is everybody ready?

00:56:57I'll be very honest.

00:56:59If I went to him tomorrow and was like, hey, let's hook up, I have no doubts he would.

00:57:04Then I'm on your side, Guillermo.

00:57:05I'm not going to Javier.

00:57:07I don't want to touch him with a 20-foot pole.

00:57:09So, like, I know where I stand with him and it takes two to tango.

00:57:10Like, I don't give a what advances he's trying to make.

00:57:11But then I will come with my hands.

00:57:12I'll be very honest.

00:57:13I'll be very honest.

00:57:14If I went to him tomorrow and was like, hey, let's hook up, I have no doubts he would.

00:57:24Then I'm on your side, Guillermo.

00:57:27I'm not going to Javier.

00:57:29I don't want to touch him with a 20-foot pole.

00:57:32So, like, I know where I stand with him and it takes two to tango.

00:57:35Like, I don't give a what advances he's trying to make of me.

00:57:38But then I will come with my insecurities and I will be like, hey, yo, that makes me feel uncomfortable.

00:57:44Can you please talk?

00:57:45And you're wrong.

00:57:46Now you're wrong, right?

00:57:47I'm being too nice.

00:57:48As a Latino, too nice.

00:57:50No, but for a long time.

00:57:51As anyone.

00:57:52I did have a conversation with Javier and I said, look, I'm married now.

00:57:56You can't just come up and be like, oh, mommy, you know?

00:57:59My husband's uncomfortable.

00:58:00It's inappropriate.

00:58:01I had several conversations with Javier about this.

00:58:04Okay.

00:58:05So, Kara, do you think the combination of, you know, the late nights after the performance,

00:58:11the drinking, the fact that it may be at this guy's club and he's separated from his wife and he still likes you and would hook up with you,

00:58:21that's kind of a perfect storm for something to happen, don't you think?

00:58:26Like, all the signs are there.

00:58:28I get it.

00:58:29I understand why he's upset.

00:58:30But at the end of the day, I have not done anything wrong.

00:58:32And I have not betrayed his trust in that way.

00:58:36I know who I am and I know what my intentions are.

00:58:38If I wanted to Javier, I would have done it a million times ten years ago.

00:58:42Like, it was never something I've wanted and I still don't want it.

00:58:47I've always wanted to sing.

00:58:48I've always been a partier.

00:58:49I've always been coqueta.

00:58:50I've always been coqueta.

00:58:51I've always been outgoing.

00:58:52I've always been maybe a harsh-toned speaker, whatever you want to call it.

00:58:54Caramel's shaking his head.

00:58:55Caramel's shaking his head.

00:58:56I wanted you to say it.

00:58:57Keep going.

00:58:58Keep going.

00:58:59And I feel like he was fine with that.

00:59:00He was fine with all of us.

00:59:01My problem is with my sitting in a table, talking about the things that makes me feel uncomfortable,

00:59:06and then she will be doing something else.

00:59:08Those are my problems.

00:59:09I've always wanted to sing.

00:59:12I've always been a partier.

00:59:13I've always been coqueta.

00:59:14I've always been outgoing.

00:59:15I've always been maybe a harsh-toned speaker, whatever you want to call it.

00:59:19Caramel's shaking his head.

00:59:21I wanted you to say it.

00:59:25Keep going.

00:59:26And I feel like he was fine with that.

00:59:29He was fine with all of that until we came to America, and I was with my friends and my people,

00:59:36and then all of a sudden it became a problem.

00:59:43But Cara, have you ever cheated on Guillermo?

00:59:45Never.

00:59:46Never.

00:59:47I've cheated on people in my life.

00:59:48Never with Guillermo.

00:59:49Guillermo, do you believe her?

00:59:54Sure.

00:59:55Sure.

00:59:59Listen.

01:00:00I feel like inside of me I do have problems, but my way to come out of those problems, it's being just let it go.

01:00:12You were the love of my life.

01:00:14Like I fell in love with you.

01:00:16But there was a point that I felt like the person that I fell in love with, it wasn't there anymore.

01:00:23And I need to accept that.

01:00:25That's so true.

01:00:31Cara, that really hit you hard.

01:00:34Yeah.

01:00:35I just saw it going so differently than what actually happened.

01:00:49I was really committed and down.

01:00:52I was like ride or die for him, you know?

01:00:55No.

01:00:58Okay.

01:01:02I want to shift right now to an incident when Cara's mom came to the house last fall.

01:01:10Take a look.

01:01:12Have you somebody else since we were married?

01:01:15No.

01:01:17A few days ago, my mom said she thinks that Guillermo cheated on me.

01:01:22Your stepdad and I were watching Nico and, you know, we went to your house to wait for him to get off work by like five o'clock.

01:01:32So we're sitting there, you know, we go in and get comfortable and like quarter after six rolls around.

01:01:37So Guillermo shows up.

01:01:38And when he shows up, he was like disshuffled, hair crazy.

01:01:43He darted for the bathroom.

01:01:45He definitely looked guilty.

01:01:49And his actions show me something ain't right.

01:01:52So, uh, who thinks there may have been some behavior there that was inappropriate?

01:02:03He came back shuffled.

01:02:06Doesn't point to anything that he did wrong in my opinion.

01:02:09Well, Ronald might put some gas in the fire.

01:02:11You don't know.

01:02:12Yeah, she stirred the puds.

01:02:13Yeah.

01:02:15There's a river that I go a lot.

01:02:18And when I normally paddle that river, I come smelling.

01:02:22No, I can tell you what my mom said happened.

01:02:24Right, but you were supposed to be on what?

01:02:25He came home from work, not the river.

01:02:26Yeah, exactly.

01:02:27I went to Mexico.

01:02:28Like, when is the day?

01:02:29Like, that's the thing.

01:02:30We can look it up.

01:02:31Like, I went to Mexico to visit my pregnant friend.

01:02:32She came back to Mexico to give birth.

01:02:34My mom watched Nico while he was at work.

01:02:36He was supposed to be back at 5.

01:02:37He came home closer to like 6, 6.30, whatever.

01:02:39He was late.

01:02:40Then he comes in late, disheveled, runs straight to the bathroom, takes a shower immediately.

01:02:45Comes back down.

01:02:46My mom was like, he's late.

01:02:47He's disheveled.

01:02:48Supposed to be at work.

01:02:49Runs to the bathroom.

01:02:50Like, suspicious.

01:02:51And Guillermo, you don't remember this at all?

01:02:54I'm trying to find the day that I came back, like, trying to get in the shower.

01:02:59I will definitely, normally, every single time after I come from the river, to clean myself because smell like...

01:03:04What the river?

01:03:05What are you saying, the river?

01:03:06It smells like .

01:03:07No, but you went at the river and you didn't have to clean it.

01:03:09You don't work at the river.

01:03:12And he came back in his work clothes disheveled, not his river wetsuit disheveled.

01:03:16I have never cheated.

01:03:18It's not about the cheating.

01:03:20There's so many other problems here.

01:03:21I don't know.

01:03:22It sounds to me like you're the problem.

01:03:23I don't see anything you're really saying that Guillermo's doing.

01:03:25Stop it.

01:03:26She's such a fire.

01:03:27He's such a ground.

01:03:29They cannot go together seriously.

01:03:30I don't think he's wrong.

01:03:33Is the next step divorce?

01:03:44Everybody has their turn in the hot seat to give us the update on their lives.

01:03:47So, Brandon and Julia?

01:03:50Sure.

01:03:51We've been on our fertility journey.

01:03:54It's been like a lot.

01:03:56Like a lot.

01:04:08Is the next step divorce?

01:04:10We're just separate right now.

01:04:23I would rather just keep it as it is.

01:04:26I know he can be here.

01:04:27He can see our son every day.

01:04:29Is there a part of you that wants the marriage to work?

01:04:33Yeah, of course.

01:04:34I did not want my marriage to fail.

01:04:35I didn't get married to get divorced.

01:04:37It was never my intention.

01:04:38It was never my goal.

01:04:39Now that I'm on this side of it, I don't know that that's the best solution for us.

01:04:45Guillermo, you said during couples therapy that you weren't sure if you loved Cara.

01:04:52Do you love Cara?

01:04:54Yeah, I mean she's the mother of my kid.

01:05:01So you just love her as the mother of your kid or you love her as a woman?

01:05:06He doesn't love all of me.

01:05:07You know, at least I will speak for my country or like for where I come from.

01:05:12But we consider that the mother of your kid, that's your woman.

01:05:17And in Spanish we say like, esa es mi mujer.

01:05:20And I guess I don't see it like that right now because, so I, I, look, I don't know.

01:05:27I don't know.

01:05:28I don't know.

01:05:29I'm lost.

01:05:30And yeah, me too.

01:05:32Sometimes I don't understand a hundred percent what's going on inside of me

01:05:37because I guess I still going through just pain.

01:05:43Okay, let me ask our other couples.

01:05:45Who here thinks that there is a future for Cara and Guillermo?

01:05:50I do.

01:05:52Yeah, I think so too.

01:05:53They're nice to go.

01:05:54I saw, I saw the energy between them.

01:05:56And that's energy is real.

01:05:57You can't lie about this energy.

01:06:00And them have a feeling for each other.

01:06:03You can't throw away this.

01:06:05I think that he needs more digging into his feelings and open up a little bit more.

01:06:10And I know that in our culture, it's, it's very difficult for men.

01:06:15I mean, they, they look nice together.

01:06:17Look at them.

01:06:18Yeah.

01:06:21Well, um, thank you so much, Cara and Guillermo.

01:06:25Um, I'm really sorry that you are having so many problems in your relationship now.

01:06:30But we do hope that there is a path forward for you both.

01:06:34Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts.

01:06:37Okay.

01:06:39Okay, everybody can take a five minute break.

01:06:41And when we return, Brandon and Julia, we're talking to you.

01:06:46Yay!

01:06:47Yay!

01:06:48We have a couple of minutes?

01:06:49Yeah.

01:06:54Let's try it.

01:06:55Yeah.

01:06:56Can I help you?

01:06:57Ah!

01:06:58Don't do that!

01:07:09Okay.

01:07:10Okay.

01:07:11Okay.

01:07:12Okay.

01:07:13Okay.

01:07:14Okay.

01:07:15Stop in your skateboard.

01:07:16I understand.

01:07:17But don't be fine.

01:07:18You'll do a great job.

01:07:19Okay.

01:07:20Okay.

01:07:21Okay.

01:07:22Okay.

01:07:23Okay.

01:07:24Okay, everybody, please sit down.

01:07:26We're gonna get started here.

01:07:29Five, four, three, two.

01:07:32And now let's turn our attention to Brandon and Julia.

01:07:36There is a lot we need to unpack.

01:07:38So, are you ready to get started, guys?

01:07:41Yeah.

01:07:42No.

01:07:43Yeah.

01:07:44Okay, everybody has their turn in the hot seat to give us the update on their lives.

01:07:48So, how are you two doing?

01:07:57Uh-huh.

01:08:02Can you start?

01:08:03Sure.

01:08:04So, yeah.

01:08:05We've been on our fertility journey.

01:08:13It's been tough.

01:08:14It's been hard emotionally.

01:08:15It's been tough.

01:08:16Aw.

01:08:17It's been, like, a lot.

01:08:18And now what we are dealing is even more.

01:08:23I'm not gonna talk.

01:08:24I'm not gonna talk.

01:08:36Hi, Mom.

01:08:37Hi, Dad.

01:08:38So, when is the last time you guys saw each other?

01:08:41It's been a while.

01:08:42It's been tough.

01:08:43It's been tough.

01:08:44It's been tough.

01:08:45It's been tough.

01:08:46It's been hard emotionally.

01:08:47It's been tough.

01:08:48It's been tough.

01:08:49It's been hard emotionally.

01:08:50I will be saying we have miscarriages.

01:08:51I enjoy that.

01:08:52That is why we're waiting so long.

01:08:53It's been tough.

01:08:54It's been tough.

01:08:55It's been hard emotionally.

01:08:56It's been tough.

01:08:57I will be saying we have miscarriages.

01:09:00Oh, Julia.

01:09:01That is why we're waiting so long.

01:09:03It's been tough.

01:09:04It's been tough.

01:09:05It's been tough.

01:09:06It's been hard emotionally.

01:09:08It's been tough.

01:09:09It's been tough.

01:09:10It's been hard emotionally.

01:09:12I will be saying we have miscarriages.

01:09:15Oh, Julia.

01:09:18That's why I've been waiting so long.

01:09:20Aw.

01:09:21But I am six months pregnant right now.

01:09:27Ah!

01:09:28Oh, watch.

01:09:30Oh my god.

01:09:31Wow.

01:09:33But I have a very high risk pregnancy,

01:09:36and I never have panic attack.

01:09:39I never have paranoid what I have right now.

01:09:41And every day, I wake up, and I'm trying to, like, feel kicking.

01:09:45If I feel kicking, I feel this alive.

01:09:49Brennan's so excited to share this with people.

01:09:52He want to say this.

01:09:53I'm like, I'm not.

01:09:55Because if you're going to share, if you're going to be again lost.

01:10:00No.

01:10:02It's scary.

01:10:02It's been challenging to get here, you know?

01:10:04It's, it's, we've achieved something.

01:10:06It's scary to possibly lose something.

01:10:09But I've been dying to actually tell somebody

01:10:12to get it out, you know?

01:10:15Congratulations, you and Brandon.

01:10:17Congratulations, Julia.

01:10:18Yeah.

01:10:18Congratulations.

01:10:19Congratulations.

01:10:20I think Julia needs a hug.

01:10:21Julia.

01:10:24She made me cry.

01:10:25Great.

01:10:26Ooh.

01:10:27Oh, God, there's Julia.

01:10:28My mother's in the world.

01:10:29Oh, God, there's Julia.

01:10:31Oh.

01:10:32Wow.

01:10:32And Daddy, I'm Julia.

01:10:34Congratulations.

01:10:34You are good.

01:10:35And Julia.

01:10:36What's up?

01:10:37What's up?

01:10:37It's going to be great.

01:10:38It's going to be great.

01:10:38No way.

01:10:39It's a blessing.

01:10:40It's a beautiful thing.

01:10:41Thanks, bud.

01:10:48Thank you, all of you.

01:10:49We love you.

01:10:50We appreciate you sharing the news.

01:10:52That look like I'm sick in my life.

01:10:54No.

01:10:55Wait, did you get a boob job?

01:10:56Or is this, this is just her pregnancy?

01:10:58Just her pregnancy.

01:10:59Oh, my God.

01:11:01That's real.

01:11:01Oh, oh, oh.

01:11:03My God.

01:11:04That is real.

01:11:05It is good, too.

01:11:06Not like that.

01:11:07Not like that, but they grew for a minute.

01:11:10So, Julia, we know that you have wavered a bit between having kids and not having kids.

01:11:18How are you feeling about your pregnancy tonight?

01:11:20That's a very good question, because I'm questioning myself, what if I'm not going to accept it?

01:11:27What if I'm not going to like it?

01:11:28What if this kid's not going to like it?

01:11:30What if I have too much what if?

01:11:32Have you thought about what if everything works out perfectly?

01:11:35Yeah.

01:11:36Oof.

01:11:37Get it, Sean.

01:11:38No.

01:11:39That's never a factor.

01:11:40No.

01:11:41Think about that.

01:11:42Yes.

01:11:43That's never part of the what is.

01:11:44No.

01:11:45Aw.

01:11:46You're stressing out too much, but I think you're going to be a good mother.

01:11:48You are a good person, and you're going to be a good mom.

01:11:51Take a deep breath.

01:11:53Just relax.

01:11:54Enjoy it.

01:11:56In my opinion, what you're feeling and what you're going through is so valid.

01:12:01Yeah.

01:12:02Let me tell you, I don't know, it touches me really .

01:12:06Aw.

01:12:10I thought you can't cry, my friend.

01:12:12We can cry about Nico all day.

01:12:14Aw.

01:12:15I haven't been able to cry in a long time.

01:12:19It feels great.

01:12:20And you have not told your parents.

01:12:25Not told my parents.

01:12:26You have not told Brandon's parents.

01:12:27No.

01:12:28No.

01:12:29We have arguments with his mom, and now I doesn't know what I feel.

01:12:34Me and Betty's relationship has become a lot, and we doesn't spoke with her.

01:12:39Even we doesn't see his mom on her birthday.

01:12:43I think she will forget about all of that.

01:12:45Oh, hell yeah.

01:12:46When she knows.

01:12:47That's gone.

01:12:48Like, I want to tell them to the first people I think we should have told, but I want to

01:12:54do what I can to support her and not cause her any additional stress.

01:12:59Um, have you thought about any boundaries that you want to set with him?

01:13:05Let me tell you something.

01:13:06Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:13:07Last time in the house, we have a sex, and parents just come to the front door.

01:13:16Brandon have to rush to the door and smack the door.

01:13:20Oh, my God.

01:13:21Oh, my God.

01:13:22Your mom does that, too.

01:13:24So that is boundary what we are going to.

01:13:29Brandon?

01:13:30I really don't know what to expect.

01:13:31Hold one second.

01:13:32Can I ask everybody, who thinking Betty will be trying to move on to our house when she

01:13:37knows this?

01:13:38I think you will want that, because you will want some sleep.

01:13:53Trust me.

01:13:54Julia, you know that Brandon's parents will be joining us in a few minutes.

01:13:59Yes.

01:14:00Them doesn't know anything.

01:14:02We have to lie to them.

01:14:04We have to tell them a lot of lies.

01:14:08You need the support, honestly, to calm you down.

01:14:14So that's why I think you should tell them.

01:14:17It could be amazing for you to just have that support around you.

01:14:20I'm also in Virginia, by the way.

01:14:21I will happily do whatever you need.

01:14:23I can be to your house in, like, two and a half hours if you need it.

01:14:26Yeah, rely on sisterhood in here, Julia.

01:14:27You're not alone.

01:14:28It's going to be stressful.

01:14:29We're not going to lie.

01:14:30You know, when a baby is born, it's going to be some night.

01:14:33But you have a lot of help around you.

01:14:35I'm not going to say, I'm not going to tell his parents.

01:14:38No, I still don't tell my parents either.

01:14:40How often do you talk to your parents?

01:14:42My parents?

01:14:43Yeah, to your mother.

01:14:44All the time.

01:14:45Every day?

01:14:46Yes.

01:14:47Call them now.

01:14:48Yeah, let's call them.

01:14:50I mean, I would say we go for it.

01:14:55No?

01:14:56Mm-hmm.

01:14:57You want to call your parents?

01:15:00Do you want to tell them?

01:15:03Do you want to call your parents, Julia?

01:15:13I mean, I would say we go for it.

01:15:14No?

01:15:15Mm-hmm.

01:15:16Mm-hmm.

01:15:17Can I have my phone?

01:15:18Oh, my God.

01:15:19Oh, my God.

01:15:20You're getting everybody excited, Julia.

01:15:21Yeah.

01:15:22It's like Christmas.

01:15:23Oh, my God.

01:15:24Oh, my God.

01:15:25Oh, my God.

01:15:26Oh, my God.

01:15:27I'm going to cry.

01:15:28Are we really going to do it?

01:15:29Are we really going to do it?

01:15:30Are we really going to do it?

01:15:31It's 11.30 there.

01:15:32Are they asleep?

01:15:33Wake them up.

01:15:34Wake them up.

01:15:35Don't do it the same time.

01:15:36Don't do it the same time.

01:15:37Can I not?

01:15:38Oh, I can breathe now.

01:15:39It's good, yeah.

01:15:40She's going to have a weight lifted off of her shoulder.

01:15:41She already has it because we know already.

01:15:43Oh, my God.

01:15:44Oh, my God.

01:15:45Oh, my God.

01:15:46You're getting everybody excited, Julia.

01:15:47Yeah.

01:15:48It's like Christmas.

01:15:49Oh, my God.

01:15:50I'm going to cry.

01:15:51Are we really going to do it?

01:15:52Are we really going to do it?

01:15:53It's 11.30 there.

01:15:54Are they asleep?

01:15:55Wake them up.

01:15:56Wake them up.

01:15:57Wake them up.

01:15:58Wake them up.

01:15:59Wake them up.

01:16:00Wake them up.

01:16:01Wake them up.

01:16:02Don't do it the same time.

01:16:03Can I not?

01:16:04Oh, I can breathe now.

01:16:05Because we know already.

01:16:06This is exciting.

01:16:09Can your dad be up?

01:16:10I don't know.

01:16:11I'm getting excited.

01:16:12I'm kind of shaking here.

01:16:13We need more tissues.

01:16:15I mean, they probably are sleeping,

01:16:17and then probably doesn't really understand

01:16:19what freaking is going on.

01:16:21OK, here we go, Julia.

01:16:23OK, quiet.

01:16:24All right, let's go.

01:16:26Be quiet, you guys.

01:16:28I don't know how to say congratulations in Rocha.

01:16:30Pazdravlayo.

01:16:31Pazdravlayo.

01:16:32Pazdravlayo.

01:16:33Pazdravlayo.

01:16:34You can probably see, like, what the hell mommy did.

01:16:38I got one.

01:16:39Privet.

01:16:40Oh, we got two.

01:16:41Uh-oh.

01:16:42Pazdravlayo.

01:16:43Hi.

01:16:44My pozvonili vam, had to peredat privet всем.

01:16:46Hi.

01:16:47Hi.

01:16:49Hi.

01:16:50How are you?

01:16:52Can you hold the phone?

01:16:54Yeah, yeah.

01:16:55One, two, three, can you just say,

01:16:56Pazdravlayo.

01:16:57All right, let's go.

01:16:58One, two, three.

01:16:59Pazdravlayo.

01:17:00Pazdravlayo.

01:17:01Pazdravlayo.

01:17:02Oh, wow, let me just, like, show like this, like this.

01:17:32My father's future.

01:17:34No, no.

01:17:36She just ate well and slept well.

01:17:39They said just eat a lot.

01:17:44I've been waiting for this so long, that I don't even believe.

01:17:48I'm very happy.

01:17:50Yulia, which month?

01:17:54They ask how many months.

01:17:57Oh, boy.

01:17:59I understood that and I don't speak Russian.

01:18:13Oh, in general.

01:18:15Well, all right, I won't sleep now.

01:18:17What are you doing there?

01:18:19No, sir, there's a photo.

01:18:21I'll send you a photo.

01:18:23This is beautiful.

01:18:25We're so happy for you.

01:18:31Where's the second pair of parents?

01:18:33Mom, Dad, Dad, Mom, Mom, don't know Betty and Ron.

01:18:39Yes, what?

01:18:40Well, of course, I won't say anything to anyone.

01:18:43All right, I'll kiss you.

01:18:45All right.

01:18:46I love you.

01:18:47Bye-bye.

01:18:48Bye-bye.

01:18:49Bye-bye.

01:18:50Bye-bye.

01:18:51Bye-bye.

01:18:52OK.

01:18:56OK.

01:18:58That was fun for all of us to be a part of.

01:19:01So two down and just two to go.

01:19:04Yeah.

01:19:06Are you ready for us to bring Ron and Betty into the conversation?

01:19:10Let's show.

01:19:11I will see.

01:19:12I will see.

01:19:13Cool.

01:19:14Let's follow the emotional.

01:19:15I follow emotional with my parents.

01:19:16Let's follow emotional, how I feel, how it's...

01:19:18Yeah, let your heart be your guide.

01:19:19You're doing great.

01:19:20You're doing great.

01:19:22All right.

01:19:24Here we go.

01:19:26Let's bring on Ron and Betty.

01:19:31Ron and Betty, this is Shawn.

01:19:33How are you guys?

01:19:34Hi, Shawn.

01:19:35Hi, Brennan, Julia.

01:19:36Hi, rest of the gang.

01:19:37Hi, Mom.

01:19:38Hi, Dad.

01:19:40So when is the last time you guys saw each other?

01:19:44It's been a while.

01:19:45Been a while.

01:19:47I didn't get to see her for my birthday.

01:19:49I didn't get to see her for Father's Day.

01:19:51I do feel like there's been a distance, like, between us as of late, you know?

01:19:56I don't really...

01:19:58It is something I would like to fix.

01:20:01Well, knowing the relationship that Ron and I have had with Brandon growing up and over the years,

01:20:06we actually felt we had that with Julia.

01:20:09We love her and she's family, but for some reason we're feeling this distance and I don't want to make things worse.

01:20:19I feel we have... we start have, like, a lot of disconnection with each other.

01:20:25But I want to fix this.

01:20:27I want to fix our situation.

01:20:30I want to... our connecting back.

01:20:32Did I want biologists?

01:20:34Yes.

01:20:35Did I want to back to connecting with parents?

01:20:37Yes.

01:20:38That's all we've ever wanted.

01:20:41And heaven forbid, there's grandkids one day that come into a situation.

01:20:46It's like, they're our grandkids.

01:20:49It's like, it's part of our blood.

01:20:51It's like, it's us.

01:20:53We want to be part of that.

01:20:55And to push us away or to alienate us, that would just totally break our hearts.

01:20:59And even, even in the fact that there aren't any grandkids.

01:21:06Brandon is my son.

01:21:07Julia, as far as I'm concerned, my daughter.

01:21:10But you have to make this first gesture to reach out because we've tried and we feel like every time we've tried, you've shut a door on us.

01:21:20I just want to say it's, um, we have, we have reason why we disconnect.

01:21:29It's what, what we are being through.

01:21:32It's hard to explain, but I always, most close in person.

01:21:37Like, I most of hide everything inside me.

01:21:41Brandon Morris, like, he can share something, but I feel like I can't.

01:21:47Try.

01:21:51You got to share it with us, Julia.

01:21:58We are lying.

01:22:00We doesn't tell.

01:22:03What?

01:22:04Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, happily ever after, tell all no limits.

01:22:22I can't wait for Georgie and Darcy.

01:22:24I think he's outside in the streets of Miami acting up.

01:22:26He's in the streets.

01:22:27I think he's in the streets and not telling Darcy is what I think.

01:22:31Does anybody think that Georgie might have one foot out the door?

01:22:36It crossed my mind.

01:22:37Really?

01:22:38He does certain dirt when he goes out.

01:22:39I've seen it.

01:22:40He does it point blank.

01:22:41It's not like he's hiding it.

01:22:42So I have suspicions.

01:22:43I talk with beautiful woman.

01:22:45Oh, she's jealous, obviously.

01:22:46I'm not jealous.

01:22:47I'm just, like, joking in her face.

01:22:48I'm like, I'm flirting.

01:22:49No, it's just networking.

01:22:50I just talk with people.

01:22:51Oh, my God.

01:22:52With your arm around another chick with her mouth in her ear?

01:22:55Hello?

01:22:56What are you doing?

01:22:57You're married.

01:22:58His mom told me, if you cannot be his wife, like, I have this good Romanian woman, like,

01:23:04I want Matt to be with, and she's still available for Matt.

01:23:09Some girl waiting for Matt?

01:23:10That is up.

01:23:12I didn't know that.

01:23:13But Jasmine says she don't want to marry you.

01:23:15So what if another opportunity comes up?

01:23:17You taking that opportunity, or...?

01:23:19Maybe.

01:23:20We'll see.

01:23:21Can I say it like this?

01:23:22No, but if we don't live together...

01:23:24How much time are they going to wait for her?

01:23:34We'll see you next time.

01:23:35Bye.

01:23:36Bye.

01:23:37Bye.

01:23:38Bye.

01:23:39Bye.

01:23:40Bye.

01:23:42Bye.

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