Open House The Great Sex Experiment Season 3 Episode 5

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00:01OK, now I'm getting bugs.

00:05En route to the unique retreat are Lauren and Tom from Exeter.

00:11It kind of feels like, you know when you go on a really, really scary roller coaster right before you're about to drop?

00:17Their relationship goes back to when they were teenagers.

00:20We've known each other for 16 years.

00:22Lauren's brother is one of my best mates and now I can't talk about women issues with him.

00:28Just three months ago, Tom's dreams came true when he proposed.

00:33Look at that rock on your finger.

00:35She just makes me basically. She keeps me on my feet, definitely.

00:40The couple's passion for one another extends to their sex lives.

00:45I'm a huge adrenaline junkie and when it comes to sex life, the same.

00:50Tom fully understands what I'm like and to be honest, joins me.

00:54Yeah, if I could, I'd have sex all the time. I love it.

00:59The frisky couple have already attempted to open up their relationship, but with disastrous consequences.

01:06I really, really wanted to be able to explore whether that's a couple swap or just get a woman.

01:11We kind of explored it a little bit, but Tom really struggled.

01:18Yeah.

01:20I feel like I'm chomping at the bit to be open because I don't want to be with just the one person for the rest of my life.

01:26With its non-monogamy coach and experienced residents, Lauren and Tom are hoping the retreat is the answer to their problems.

01:44How you guys doing, alright?

01:47We're a good-looking couple.

01:49Yeah.

01:50You look lovely.

01:51Very lovely.

01:52Hi guys, you alright?

01:53Hey!

01:54Come on, love your show, it almost matches.

01:59Yeah, these guys look fit.

02:00One girl, a bit of you.

02:02I'm excited but nervous.

02:09Oh, I'm nervous now, yeah.

02:10Definitely nervous now.

02:12I'm so excited to be here.

02:14I really am.

02:15I am like, come on.

02:17Yes, it's throwing Tom in at the deep end, but sometimes I think that's what people need, it's just a real big push.

02:25Guiding couples on their journey.

02:27Hello, come in.

02:28Is the retreat's non-monogamy coach, Effie Blue.

02:33Take a seat.

02:34I would love to know what brings you to this retreat.

02:37So, me and Tom had been together for about a year.

02:40I was terrified but brought up the conversation with him about going open.

02:45I've tried in my life to be with a woman, to be with a man, and always felt if I was with one or the other that I wasn't complete.

02:51We have tried opening up the relationship and had issues, which is obviously why we're here today.

03:02Do you want to tell me a little bit about that?

03:04I panic when it comes to actual performing.

03:07Mm-mm.

03:08I've basically got hard midway having sex, and then it has just gone soft.

03:16When your penis doesn't work, it doesn't work.

03:19If it's with another female, like, she thinks she's done something wrong, and it's not that at all, and then that's, for me, game over.

03:29I'm stuck in a rut on the fact that I can't, I can't get him up, I can't perform, and it's like, shit, again, I'm feeling a bit, I'm feeling like crap.

03:42I'm curious, does this impact sex with Lauren?

03:46There's been a couple of times, there's been in the past even with Lauren herself, but not multiple times.

03:51I'm more relaxed, I'm more chilled, and I can perform.

03:54When you've attempted to open up with other women, what is the story in your head?

04:00I can't take the top off. I absolutely hate looking at myself.

04:05I think what's really bad is I don't love myself.

04:09When I first met Tom, he was a really cheeky chappy.

04:13Then Tom got his heart diagnosis, and, yeah, it had a huge impact, mainly on Tom.

04:19It was terrifying.

04:20The doctors basically told me that I had sudden death syndrome, so that means I can drop down and die at any point.

04:28It was so, so scary.

04:30He got really down, he obviously put on a lot of weight, because he wasn't allowed to work out.

04:35Because of being such an energetic person, going to the gym all the time, looking after myself, and doing all of that, it's basically, well, it just went down the drain.

04:45You have a terrible relationship with your body.

04:46Yeah, definitely.

04:47Definitely.

04:48It's like you're not going to get a hard-on, because you might be mentally aroused, but you're not physically aroused.

04:58Hey, you're okay?

04:59Yeah, I'm good.

05:00I wasn't expecting that.

05:01Do you want to tell me what's going through your mind right now?

05:14The fact that I'm just, I've stopped in my path, and just let myself go.

05:19So, it feels like there's a lot riding on this, right? Because I feel like your anxiety is getting in the way of you potentially opening up.

05:32Which is kind of what Lauren wants, and I imagine you feel the pressure of that.

05:40It's what I want as well.

05:43Lauren, what do you want to achieve? What would be your ideal situation?

05:47I would love to be able to, obviously, couple swap.

05:50And also, I've never had more than two men at once, and it's always been a fantasy of mine.

05:57Mm-hmm.

05:58And the same for women as well.

05:59Yeah.

06:00But obviously, we need to get to the bottom of whatever this is.

06:04Sure, yeah, no, exactly.

06:05Hopefully, here is the place we can help you get over those things.

06:09Starting with a good old party.

06:11Tonight is about taking the lead.

06:13Why don't you kind of let your hair down and relaxed, right?

06:16I would love, Tom, for you to pick some people and invite them to somewhere cozy for a sensual group experience.

06:26This is about sensuality.

06:28That's about cuddles and touches.

06:32I want you to focus on one person.

06:35And I want you to focus on how the person that you're touching, how you're giving them pleasure through touch and through caressing.

06:42Because I want you to ease into that sexual space without it feeling like it's all about your dick getting hard.

06:51And then, be open to things escalating.

06:57That's the part that I get a bit, wow.

06:59When we say escalating, we don't always mean straight to sex.

07:03Yeah.

07:04Right.

07:05Right, okay.

07:06It sounds really exciting.

07:07Beautiful.

07:08Yeah.

07:09It sounds really inspiring!

07:10That's fun.

07:15Tom has a bit of work to do, because his issues are mostly in his head.

07:21The exercise today is to get him into the present, feeling what pleasure looks like and to be more embodied.

07:28If you could just think about, that he doesn't need a hard penis, it's amazing how quickly one will appear.

07:38I do worry for me and Lauren because if I can't if I can't do the the whole open

07:45relationship I feel like we go our separate ways I'm hoping it won't get to

07:51that stage

08:00previously on open house ultimately why we're here is to bring in another

08:06couple but I've got to be okay with Alex being with another woman what's at stake

08:15is Alana's like feelings and emotions I've been cheated on quite a lot I've

08:20seen women is more of a threat so we kind of want you to face that threat would

08:27you be open to finding a woman for a little sexy threesome that scenario

08:32wasn't in my head don't want to do it like I want to live if this is gonna work

08:38it has to be the right person who Alex is sitting with now is Georgie he's gorgeous

08:46would you like to come and spend some time in what's up with us if it does go

08:52wrong is it something I'd be able to get over I did not think this is where we're

09:06gonna be on like our first night and he was this would have literally been my

09:09worst nightmare meaning if someone was like how would you feel about doing this

09:12I'll be like no you we didn't think that we would be in a hot tub with me yeah how

09:19would you feel if I gave Alex a little kiss

09:24how do you feel I'm okay yeah in that moment watching Alex and Georgie kiss I

09:44thought

09:51how did that make you feel like fine I was like yeah look always bit turned on by it

10:13I really want you on me can I like can I like you on me I can't believe this are you proud of me

10:22yeah like what the hell yeah I've never seen Alana kiss another woman I knew it's part of her

10:38life like long long ago but to see that like reopen that door was such a huge turn

10:44on for me to see that it was like really hot

10:46oh my god I'm obsessed stop it can we just take you home with us

10:55well it all flows very naturally

10:58I honestly don't know what's happening right now feel like this is normal I think like things are feeling good

11:22mm-hmm do you maybe when I come back to our room I would love that yeah explore fingers a little bit more

11:29yeah take the next step we'll do baby steps

11:32let's do it

11:33I didn't think that was going to be a thing at all to bring in like a single female I thought that would be way too intimidating

11:41I was really glad I was below water because I was really turned up yeah yeah like this has been insane

11:50honestly I can't believe what like it's such a change and you wouldn't can do anything and now

11:55we're inviting

11:57I asked her to come back to our room

11:58that's our room

11:59oh my god they're short short

12:15I know I did say my ass like eats them

12:18new arrivals Lauren and Tom are preparing for a big night

12:22oh

12:23they'll be attending a sexy barn dance where they hope to meet residents who could help Tom overcome his

12:34physical stumbling block when it comes to opening up

12:37whenever we've dipped our toes into being open Tom felt he just couldn't perform felt really uncomfortable

12:47they've been tasked with finding residents interested in joining

12:53them for a group experience where the focus is only on foreplay

12:58hey babe I look fucking ridiculous with no pressure to perform the hope is Tom will relax and rise to the occasion

13:07I do foresee hurdles the residents are all very beautiful the problem with that is obviously Tom being body conscious

13:15if I went there on my own I think I'd probably walk straight back out

13:23how are you guys feeling

13:29yeah great

13:31shit scared

13:33this is out of my comfort zone the heart palpitations I've got right now are through the room

13:48so what we're gonna do is we're gonna go around and we're gonna talk to them I feel sick inside I don't think okay so listen there's no pressure that's what we're saying

14:05like let's just give it a really good go this is what we're here for

14:10first to meet them are married couple Gem and Daz

14:14what are you looking for then that's the question so for me you need I need that conversation

14:19yeah and for you it's obviously just about feeling body confident

14:23yeah I'm a bit yeah yeah yeah

14:28you know it's really nerve-cracking

14:30if there's any environment where personality matters more than looks it's

14:35this environment we'd love to chat to them and try and help them with their

14:38journey

14:39hello you all right I'm Tom

14:41how you doing me all right

14:42how you doing

14:43I'm Gaze this is my wife Olivia

14:44what's your dynamic

14:45so we when we try

14:47it's a big word that is

14:48dynamic

14:49that's a very big word isn't it

14:50dynamic

14:51I love it

14:52why did I say we've dabbled in it before

14:53we're really good at reading people's body language and kind of like how they're feeling

14:58you know when someone's nervous and you know when someone's a little bit scared but when you

15:02have that you know responsibility to kind of give them that first good impression of

15:06the lifestyle you want to make it the best

15:08I used to be like really like really like outgoing going gym seven days used to have like the

15:13abs and I basically come for eat and drink and of course I put on the weight now so you

15:18can just like kiss and you can like you can go down on them and you can touch and you don't

15:24necessarily just have the build-up but I think it is the point that you think you've got to go through that natural process

15:29Olivia and Gage they made me feel so like it just felt it just felt natural just talking to her

15:35After a confidence boost from Gage Tom moves on to single resident Aaron who's no stranger to open conversation

15:44Do you have an idea of kind of what you want from the experience?

15:48Basically have fun, relax and try and let my hair down

15:52To a couple that's coming into the retreat that are looking to open up I think the best thing they can do is talk to us you know you've come here for the sex but don't forget that the sex comes from a person.

16:04I'm a single guy I've literally just come out of a relationship with two women

16:09Oh wow! At the same time for two years

16:11Oh wow! That's crazy!

16:12Split 50-50

16:13Yeah

16:14There'll be days and weeks and months where I don't feel like I have the confidence

16:18Yeah

16:19And I'll go and play and I won't even get half

16:21But that's okay because if you're around people you're comfortable around

16:25That's, that's what I'm, that's what we're trying to get through to talk

16:30Speaking to Aaron he made it easy for me to basically say I don't need my penis basically I've got my hands and I got my tongue

16:38And I think Lauren really likes them as well

16:42Aaron has given me fanny flutters

16:44So I've never had more than two men at once so my ideal situation would obviously be more men

16:51Oh yeah!

16:56Fresh from meeting Aaron, Lauren feels it's time for Tom to start deciding who to invite to their sensual soiree

17:03Aaron, because he was on the same page as you and even he doesn't get hard

17:08Yeah, yeah

17:09Because I feel like he would understand you as well

17:12Yeah

17:13Aaron made me feel really at ease, he, yeah he was absolutely brilliant

17:20I'm so scared of the rejection, mainly for Tom rather than for me

17:24Because is he then going to be really nervous going forward

17:28That little bit inside that if they say no, it'll feel like shit yeah but you know

17:32You just have to wait and see and see what happens

17:36We just want to know if you want to come back to him basically just

17:40Maybe some games, some teasing, some cuddling, if it escalates, escalates

17:45If it doesn't, it doesn't and that doesn't run

17:51Okay guys, I'm not going to say that I'm going to play

17:56It's for me at the moment, I take a lot more to get to that point

18:00I was surprised by Aaron because he said he doesn't want to play

18:07Aaron, without being rude, obviously we have to move along with being ironed

18:11Not everyone is everyone's cup of tea but for me, I don't obviously want to put Tom off even more with this process

18:17It's like rejection, I'm just, yeah, I'm shocked

18:29Right, move all the things with the bed, put them all on the, here

18:32In their bedroom, Alana and Alex are preparing to be joined by resident Georgie

18:39Are we going to be weird and going, are you okay if we get protection just in case?

18:43We'll just have it on the side

18:45They're hoping that tonight they can take their first steps towards their ultimate dream of a couple swap

18:52By having a threesome

18:55I don't know how this is going to go

18:57Seeing Alex being with another woman

19:01With where we are now, look I'm definitely open to

19:07What's he's into?

19:08Just seeing how it goes

19:10But as much as this is a really big step for me, it's also a really big step for him

19:16Because he's going to potentially be with another woman

19:19This is all new and it's starting to feel very real

19:23So my worries going into this is me being with another woman and how that might make Alana feel

19:30I hope that it's the most amazing experience that we could have, but equally it could not be

19:38Hello, come in, come in, you all right?

19:41Oh, it's so nice

19:43Nice!

19:44It would be devastating if anything went wrong here, for sure

19:52So much better, okay, cool, okay

19:54This is a bit more chill

19:55Yeah, if you don't mind, I'm just going to pick up the momentum

19:59No, I like that, let's just pick up when we're left though

20:05The sexual chemistry was insane

20:13The fact that I could, like, just let go of everything and just really enjoy it, like

20:23I never thought that would have happened in this experience

20:27Oh!

20:28Oh!

20:29Oh, I can't believe that, she is!

20:30Oh, yes!

20:31Going on, it tastes

20:34But as play between Alana and Georgie intensifies, Alex retreats to the sideline.

21:04I think like I was overwhelmed, it was like from 0 to 100 and it caught me off guard really.

21:17Although I was like turned on an idea, I wasn't like turned on.

21:24I can't quite match that right now.

21:44I've had like the best evening, like.

21:55Give me a little kiss.

21:56Yeah.

21:57Bye.

22:04I'll see you soon as well.

22:05Yeah, we'll see you soon.

22:07I love you so much.

22:14I loved it.

22:15I genuinely loved every minute of that.

22:18There wasn't any part where I thought I feel uncomfortable or like, oh, I don't know how I feel about this.

22:24Like I literally loved every single second of that.

22:28Did you enjoy it?

22:30Yeah.

22:31I loved seeing you, like, enjoy it.

22:33Yeah.

22:34I loved it.

22:37Oh, do I always seem to get the wet patch?

22:43Maybe I could have done more, but I think I was a little bit like, overwhelmed by how quickly it all went.

22:58At this moment, I don't know if I can open up the relationship.

23:05It's the morning after Alana and Alex's first threesome with a female resident, Georgie.

23:26You're so quiet.

23:27Got up this morning feeling really good about what happened, but I could feel there was something a little bit off.

23:41What are you thinking about?

23:42I'm just thinking.

23:43Processing.

23:44Are you sure you're okay?

23:45Yeah.

23:46When we first came in here, obviously our aim and our kind of end goal was to be able to do a full couple swap.

23:59I knew Alex was in his head a little bit. Even at home, like, he can go a bit quieter sometimes, but today I just knew there was something kind of underlying.

24:12Hello, come in.

24:13Hello, come in.

24:14Take a seat.

24:15Take a seat.

24:16Get comfy.

24:17Oh, yeah, you're right.

24:18How was last night?

24:19Like, I'm really happy.

24:20Yeah, you're right.

24:21Like, I'm really happy.

24:22It just felt right.

24:23Beautiful breakthrough.

24:24Absolutely.

24:25I think what I liked is it was actually Georgie.

24:28Hello, come in.

24:31Hi.

24:32Take a seat, take a seat, get comfy.

24:34Yeah, you're right.

24:36How was last night?

24:38Like, I'm really happy.

24:40It just, it felt right.

24:43Beautiful breakthrough.

24:45Absolutely.

24:46I think what I liked is it was actually Georgie that said, like,

24:50would you be okay if I kissed Alex?

24:53She kind of, like, led it a little bit, which was nice.

24:57And, like, I actually enjoyed watching it,

25:00which I never thought those words were going to come out of my mouth.

25:03What are you thinking, Alex?

25:06I don't, I don't know.

25:09I don't want to take away because I loved last night.

25:11It was incredible.

25:12Sure.

25:13But I was a little bit, like, overwhelmed by the whole situation.

25:18Yeah, tell me about that.

25:20I don't know, like, I don't think I was...

25:22I wasn't, like, turned on physically, like.

25:25So that's what I'm confused at the moment about.

25:27Okay, okay, okay.

25:30The couple thing I definitely want to do, but again,

25:32I don't know if I go all the way, so...

25:34Okay.

25:35That's where...

25:36I think that's why I've been quiet this morning,

25:37because I wasn't sure.

25:38For me, there was, like, something missing,

25:39and I don't know what it was.

25:40I feel like maybe I'm more of a connection-based, like,

25:43when it comes to sex.

25:44Mm-hmm.

25:45Like, deep, deeper emotions.

25:46Sure.

25:47Intimacy?

25:48Is that what you're seeking?

25:50Like, intimacy to go with your sexual experience?

25:54I do find it better if there's a connection,

25:58and that's where I am right now.

25:59Like, I'm trying to figure that out.

26:02The thing that I want to understand is,

26:04how do you feel about that?

26:06I don't feel comfortable with that.

26:15Sure.

26:16Now, like, I do see that as threatening.

26:19Like, what if you build, like,

26:22this really great connection with someone else

26:24that you then feel is, like...

26:29That's never ever going to be the thing.

26:32You okay?

26:35Yeah.

26:38It's okay.

26:40You're really challenging some of the things

26:42that you're the most afraid of,

26:43and stuff is coming up.

26:44Like, that's all about that.

26:48So, that's scary to you right now.

26:49So, let's just look at it in the face.

26:50Tell me, what do you mean by connection?

26:53Let's just, like...

26:54I think it's definitely not, like,

26:56deep connection with what I have with you.

26:59It's a lot less than that.

27:01It's more familiarisation.

27:02Like, you almost want to be friends with that person

27:04before it...

27:05Yeah.

27:06Okay.

27:07I've never been, like, a one-night guy,

27:09if you know what I mean, so...

27:10To be fair, like, yeah, even...

27:12We didn't sleep together, like, straight away.

27:14Mm.

27:15So, I get that.

27:16I know that's not necessarily, like,

27:18how you work.

27:19Mm-hmm.

27:20So, what would that look for you

27:22in terms of you guys dating couples?

27:24Like, do you want to have, like,

27:25one couple friend that you date and play with,

27:30or do you sort of meet a bunch of couples?

27:34Like, what does that look like for you?

27:36We did say, like, it would be nice to have, like,

27:38one couple that we're, like, best friends with.

27:41Mm-hmm.

27:42And we get on really well with them

27:43and, like, play together as well.

27:45Mm-hmm.

27:46So, what I have in mind is...

27:48I want you to have a taste of the couple experience

27:51that you want.

27:53But I feel like the next challenge for you

27:55is to navigate the connection piece.

27:57For you to actually go there

27:59and start making a connection.

28:00And for you to feel like...

28:02to figure out what it feels like when it's happening.

28:04And spend a bit of time connecting with the couple.

28:07And then, once you feel like you have a connection in place,

28:11then you can escalate things in your own time

28:14and take it from there and you see how it goes for you.

28:16How does that sound?

28:17No, that sounds good.

28:18You happy?

28:19Okay.

28:20Good.

28:21I'm fine with that. Are you definitely fine?

28:22No, I am. Yeah, I feel relaxed.

28:23Okay.

28:24Okay.

28:25I think that the biggest thing off my chest

28:26was what we've spoken about now.

28:28That was, like, just something I needed to understand.

28:34You're welcome. You're welcome. Enjoy.

28:41I'm excited to meet some couples today.

28:46But this moment, I don't know if I can go all the way.

28:51We'll have to see.

28:56We love each other, right?

28:58Yeah, we do.

29:01At the sexy barn dance, Lauren and Tom are coming to terms

29:13with being rejected by resident Aaron.

29:21Let your hair down.

29:22Let my hair down.

29:23I'm going to make you line dancing.

29:24I am not line dancing.

29:25That is not happening.

29:31Oh!

29:32Oh!

29:38Oh, my God!

29:42I used to do quite a lot of dancing with Lauren.

29:44It's what I used to really enjoy.

29:46So, I feel a lot more comfortable, yeah.

29:48When I was around Tom, we had a little mini dance battle.

29:57Yeah.

29:58And, like, the fact that he was just busting out the robot

30:00and, like, just having so much fun with it.

30:02And I was like, let's do this, let's do that.

30:04And he was just like, yeah, let's do it.

30:05It's the last.

30:06I'm buzzing.

30:07I'm literally buzzing from how happy he is.

30:11He's so relaxed now.

30:24Rejection behind them, thoughts return to their objective,

30:27finding residence for a sensual after-party.

30:30I feel a lot more comfortable, yeah.

30:32So, I think it's a lot more easier to invite people

30:35and to see if they say yes or no.

30:37You lead the way.

30:38Well, hello, well, welcome to my friend.

30:52Hello.

30:53I'm your shirt for tonight.

30:54Have you guys been enjoying yourself?

30:55Yeah.

30:56But it was basically, we're just wondering if you'd like to be,

31:00to, like, come back with us and just basically cuddle, kiss, touch.

31:08Well, I'm ready whenever you guys are.

31:10I'll be at the bar.

31:11I wasn't expecting that.

31:13I wasn't expecting the fact that I was actually waiting for a note.

31:16As Tom's confidence grows.

31:19And I was just wondering if you guys want to come back.

31:21Yeah.

31:22Yeah.

31:23Yeah.

31:24Oh, wow.

31:25Yeah.

31:26So does the after-party.

31:28Wondering if you want to come.

31:30Yes.

31:31I love that.

31:32That's quick.

31:33That's so easy, thank you.

31:35And the guest list swells to five.

31:37We were pleasantly surprised.

31:39And it actually feels kind of, like, nice, like feeling,

31:42I know it sounds weird, but wanted.

31:44I would say I'm definitely attracted to him, for sure.

31:48They're a vibe, 100%.

31:50I'm just really excited just to get to know them a bit more.

31:52Lauren and Tom's next challenge will be their biggest yet,

31:56as the five residents will be joining them to attempt to help Tom overcome his performance anxiety and successfully open up.

32:09We're basically, we'll go back to the bedroom and basically see what happens.

32:15I'm not promising anything.

32:17I've still got them hurdles, I've still got them body confidence and all that.

32:21The worst thing that can happen is going into shock and walking out.

32:26Having been in two minds as to whether he's ready to open up, Alex has agreed to try to make connections with couples.

32:45Oh, this looks so cute.

32:50We're just looking for, like, good vibes.

32:53Obviously, going into the couple scenario is slightly different because it's both of us have got to have an attraction to two different people then.

33:01We'll see, you know, if it's the right people, then it will be there.

33:11Hello.

33:12Hello.

33:13How's it over? I'm Joe.

33:14Joe, lovely to meet you.

33:15How are you doing?

33:16How's it going?

33:17How's it going?

33:18Literally on the walk in.

33:19Both Alex and Alana really want to get to know them, don't we?

33:23Yeah, they're definitely good looking.

33:24They're super hot.

33:25Who was the one who instigated sort of coming here and stuff then?

33:28I think coming here might have been more me.

33:31Did you guys come in initially looking to bring in a single lady?

33:36What were you initially looking for?

33:38Connections with couples.

33:39Yeah.

33:40Is where we were looking at.

33:41The hardest part was obviously for me to kind of get over, like, insecurities with having another female.

33:47Like, being physical and, like, smash that on the first note.

33:52So we're like, yay!

33:53Yeah.

33:56One thing I'd say is, oh, I'll do threesomes as easiest.

33:59You guys have actually done probably one of the harder things.

34:01Like, foursomes are sort of easier because everyone's got something to do.

34:07Hi, I'm Alana.

34:08Hi, Alana.

34:09Lovely to meet you.

34:12So, tonight?

34:13Today?

34:14Tonight?

34:15You're looking for a couple swap?

34:16Yeah.

34:17Just trying to, like, find our way into it now.

34:19We're definitely looking at a space that's just finding our, like, place.

34:21Big thing letting someone else into your relationship.

34:25But it's nice because, like you say, everyone's, like, scenarios are different.

34:30Well, it's about you guys.

34:31That's the thing.

34:32It's like, you're not here to please someone else.

34:34Yeah.

34:35It's what's best for you.

34:36I didn't know how I was going to feel about it.

34:39Yeah.

34:40But actually, like, I shocked everyone.

34:42Ended up being absolutely fine with it.

34:44Alex and Alana were quite attractive, actually.

34:48There was definitely a vibe there.

34:50I think we'd definitely be into them if they wanted to kind of spend a bit more time with us.

34:59Can I go for a chat?

35:01Yes.

35:02Hi.

35:04Ooh, thank you.

35:05How have you found it?

35:06Um, like, it's been nice to speak to couples today.

35:20Like, obviously, that was what we wanted to do.

35:24For me, I feel like, um, Jem and Daz, I just feel like they would be, like, a really great couple to get to know.

35:30I feel like they've got a similar vibe to us.

35:35How are you feeling?

35:36Is there anyone that you felt like, might have had a connection with?

35:40I've, like, um, honestly at the moment, I just don't know right now if I can go any further.

36:00Okay.

36:01How do you, how are you feeling about that?

36:05Um, yeah, like, I'm a little bit surprised.

36:10Um, what is it that's making you feel that way?

36:15Is it that you don't feel like you want to go any further at all?

36:20Or do you feel like it's just maybe been a little bit too much too soon?

36:24Like, it's just got a bit overwhelming?

36:29Me, I don't know, like, it's more of a me thing this now.

36:34Like, for now, that's as far as I can go.

36:37You've hit, like, a bit of a wall with it.

36:38Yeah.

36:39Okay.

36:40I do want to redo this.

36:41Okay.

36:42Okay.

36:43That makes me happy.

36:44Okay.

36:45I do want to redo this.

36:46Okay.

36:47Okay.

36:48Okay.

36:49That makes me happy.

36:50Okay.

36:51Okay.

36:52Okay.

36:53That makes me happy.

36:55Coming up in the night.

36:56Here's the65s.

36:57Yes.

36:58Oh, my God.

37:00Thanks.

37:01My God.

37:03Oh, yeah.

37:04Yeah.

37:05With Alex unable to continue, the couple's stay at the retreat has come to an end.

37:10has come to an end going forwards I do think open up the relationship is for me

37:21and Alana but it's going to take time it will take more time for me

37:40um I don't know I feel like emotional now

37:45I could what just happened then I don't know it's just the whole thing's like just very

37:57overwhelming isn't it like I don't know I don't like I don't know what to say

38:05it's just like a very emotional few days isn't it

38:12the future will at some point be a full open relationship but at the moment it's baby steps

38:20still

38:21it's just been a very overwhelming process but um I don't want to keep crying but like I'm actually

38:34really proud of myself

38:35opening up our relationship is a lot harder than I first thought like I really thought it was going

38:43to be a straight line but it's curves and angles and everything that goes with it it's not easy

38:49but like we've absolutely got the ability to do it

38:52I absolutely love you to pieces and I'm happy and glad and I love you so much I love you so much

39:04just goes to show that you're saying that you haven't got it however if you hadn't then why is

39:17everyone saying yes Lauren and Tom have invited a small group back for an intimate party in the

39:24residence playroom even though they've said yes and all that kind of stuff it but it doesn't mean

39:31like you know they see me and go actually no what the fuck is that it's what goes to my head

39:35I know so that's why we're gonna go and take it one step at a time

39:39okay yeah no pressure they hope that by focusing on touch and foreplay Tom will manage to get an

39:50erection a stumbling block that's stopping the couple from opening up

39:54I'm hoping to leave here knowing the fact that I don't have to worry about um for for my dick not to

40:04hug

40:11yeah I don't quite know how I'm feeling right now

40:29I've been shocked to be fair my biggest concern is obviously making sure Tom is comfortable because

40:36I will get naked and run around like I am the opposite of Tom

40:41I know I want to be open and I'm not planning on changing that I'm not the person that struggles with this lifestyle and it's Tom that is

40:52we should we make the light a little bit more sexy guys oh yeah

40:59yeah

41:01yeah

41:02yeah

41:03yeah

41:04yeah

41:05yeah

41:06yeah

41:07yeah

41:08yeah

41:09yeah

41:10yeah

41:11yeah

41:12yeah

41:13yeah

41:14yeah

41:15yeah

41:16I definitely want to make Lauren happy and we'll try anything like jump this hurdle basically but once it's in my head I can't before I freeze once I'm in that rut I can't get out of the rut

41:29how are you doing mate

41:31it's weird but

41:33you're getting worshiped you're getting all the attention this is my favorite thing

41:40despite Effie's advice to actively engage in foreplay Tom lets the ladies lead

41:47start a step but it gets a bit too overwhelming

42:03it was putting shivers down my spine I could feel everything

42:08I feel absolutely petrified and sick

42:23next time on open house

42:26are you ready for the next level

42:29I feel absolutely petrified

42:33yeah

42:34yeah

42:35is it okay to kiss

42:37it's two guys

42:40back of the net

42:41I have identified as gay

42:45today I don't know

42:47I've been feeling very nutty

42:50never had any experience with gay men before

42:54the worst case now would be reacting in a way which I'm not expecting

42:58this is out of my comfort area for sure

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