90 Day Fiance: The Other Way follows Americans who move abroad to be with their international partners. This episode continues the journey of various couples as they navigate cultural differences, family expectations, and visa challenges in a foreign country. Viewers can expect drama, romance, and difficult decisions as the couples strive to make their relationships work.
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00:01Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, you're the way.
00:04Today I am finally going to Tasmania to see my honey.
00:08My biggest concern about going to Australia is his mom being so darn close to us.
00:13I think it's about time that he gets off his mom's nipple.
00:24I feel like I can start living life now, so...
00:26Ring.
00:27It's coming.
00:30Please make yourself comfortable.
00:32Okay.
00:33In Oklahoma, I get weekly massages.
00:38I couldn't afford the life that you want.
00:40I don't want you to make choices because you feel like that's what I want in the future.
00:45You don't necessarily appreciate how much I give to this.
00:51I have an idea for a business here.
00:54Are you, like, for real?
00:56Manon will always be hustling.
01:00I know what that leads to.
01:02Us divorcing.
01:08Do you see him?
01:09Jonathan asked me to stop his location sharing, but my eyesight doesn't need to stop tracking him.
01:16What if something happens and I just gave everything up?
01:20He brings everything up.
01:23Yeah.
01:30Bandido.
01:32Bandido.
01:33Bandido.
01:34Bandido.
01:35Bandido.
01:36Bandido.
01:37Bandido.
01:38On the side of Saint-Tropez, I'll end up with your arms.
01:44I like your ass, your martin, your vinyl collection,
01:48your piscine and your spa.
01:51Mmm, it smells good.
01:53It smells good.
01:55I started learning French when me and Manon began dating.
01:58She always says I mispronounce everything,
02:00so Manon's taking every opportunity she can to test my French.
02:04Allez, vas-y.
02:05OK, alors, je prends quatre pain au chocolat.
02:13Quatre?
02:14Quatre, yeah.
02:16Right?
02:18Et quatre mini beignets.
02:22Everything's gonna be quatre now.
02:25All right, c'est tout.
02:27C'est chaud.
02:29Oui, c'est chaud.
02:31Merci à vous, bonne journée.
02:33Merci.
02:34Bonne journée.
02:35Merci.
02:36Bonne journée.
02:37À tout à l'heure.
02:38Non, à tout à l'heure, non.
02:39For sure.
02:40Oh, my.
02:41You're too much.
02:44I say we, uh, resté ici.
02:47What do you want, Ben?
02:49You want to play?
02:50You want to drink?
02:51You want to eat?
02:52Go play, dude.
02:53Allez, jouit.
02:54Non, jouit, it's something else.
02:56Play.
02:57Non, jouit, it's having an orgasm.
03:00That's what I said.
03:01No, you said jouit.
03:02You don't want to say that, but no.
03:03So the baptism's tomorrow.
03:04Yeah, I know.
03:05I'm scared and I'm excited.
03:06This weekend, Benjamin is going to be baptized, and I invited my whole family to the baptism,
03:19just to be polite.
03:20And honestly, I'm pretty shocked because everyone said they are going to be there.
03:26You know, people that I haven't seen in a long time.
03:29Some people have beef with each other, like in every each family, you know.
03:34But once you said to me, and actually I remember, I took it really at heart.
03:38You said, like, you know what, if you go to France, it may be also a good opportunity
03:42for you to make amends or bury the hatchet with everyone, and you are going to be seen
03:47like the first and the only one who actually initiate something positive.
03:53We only see each other during, like, funerals, which is very sad.
03:57No one is doing an initiative to actually meet up and have a good time.
04:01Yeah.
04:02It's really turned into, like, this big thing with all your family.
04:06And to be honest, like, for me, it's a little weird.
04:08I'm not religious.
04:10So?
04:11I don't agree with that.
04:13It's uncomfortable for me.
04:15I don't believe in Catholicism and just the establishment of religion in general.
04:19I feel like a lot of people hide behind it when they do bad things.
04:22I feel like a lot of it's greed, power.
04:25I would say that, like, for the baptism, I'm for against it, you know.
04:30I'm for doing it for Manon.
04:33But as long as we're not practicing, I'm good.
04:36I get it.
04:37I get it.
04:38But we've done a lot of things your way because it was your country, your family.
04:42It's about my roots.
04:44We are French.
04:45We are Christian Catholic.
04:47The entire family is.
04:49I am.
04:50And this is just one thing that I want.
04:52I am doing this for you.
04:54And I'm there for you.
04:55And I love it.
04:56And I see it.
04:58My family and my extended family really stresses me out.
05:03They always peek at me.
05:05And they always like to.
05:07Antoni said, being the black sheep of the family.
05:11So I'm worried that a lot of uncomfortable moments are going to happen.
05:15And the fire in me is going to have to be put down.
05:20Yeah, it's stressful.
05:23I've took it.
05:24I'm going to miss you tired.
05:25I'm going to miss you tired.
05:26He ain't calling her, he ain't calling her.
05:27Just thinking it enough.
05:29I invited Kariana to come tonight.
05:45Yeah, she's a very, very sweet girl.
05:48Are you excited to have some drinks?
05:49Get loose?
05:50Yeah, I'm excited to go out tonight.
05:52Yeah?
05:53It should be fun.
05:54I hope.
05:55Jonathan's version of going out and my version actually couldn't be more different.
06:03I feel like I need to relax.
06:06Jonathan doesn't even drink.
06:07And I, myself, I don't want to say I'm an avid drinker, but I mean, I'm not going out sober.
06:14Kind of rack up a bill.
06:19Katie's going to come meet us over there.
06:21Johnny to the world.
06:26Man, you really don't like him.
06:28No.
06:29I don't like that you don't like Kaner so much.
06:32Yeah, I don't know if I can help all that.
06:35Kaner's a longtime best friend of Jonathan, and they work together.
06:40Before I got serious with Jonathan, I was already made well aware of Kaner and Jonathan's nights out.
06:47They went out together after work, and we're partying it up and taking random people home.
06:53They are definitely partners in crime, to say the literal least.
06:59Yeah, but memory's my friend, too, so, you know.
07:02I know.
07:03I don't know.
07:03My elbow is, like, itchy.
07:11I think there's, like, a mosquito problem here.
07:13There it is.
07:20Nice spot, huh?
07:21It is nice.
07:24So, I actually saw Kariana today.
07:27We actually glint spied on you.
07:30You spying on me just makes you feel like there's no trust in this relationship.
07:39But I feel like one day, like, asking me, it's okay, let's not share our location, to the next day,
07:44I feel like I need more time than just a day or two to feel better.
07:49But the thing is, like, what I don't like is that you, from the distance,
07:51thinks that I go with, like, a young girl on my back and flip, but, like, it wasn't.
07:56It's not like that.
07:57No, I can see.
07:58No, you can't.
07:59You cannot tell me what I can and cannot see.
08:01I am there.
08:02I see it.
08:02You don't see it.
08:04It's from too far.
08:05It makes me feel better.
08:08I would really, really like her to trust me enough where she wouldn't have to worry about where I am
08:13and what I'm doing.
08:14The things that worry me a lot is that she'll never get over it.
08:18Hi, guys.
08:20Hey, Kariana, how are you?
08:22Good, how are you?
08:23Good, come to me, because I don't want to stand up.
08:26Hi.
08:26How are you?
08:27Well, you got your drink ready already.
08:28I did.
08:29I already got a drink.
08:29She couldn't be sober around us, so.
08:31Kariana, I heard you went spying on me with Chloe today.
08:34I did.
08:35You're viewing it as malicious.
08:37We're viewing it as helpful.
08:39Helpful.
08:39I know.
08:40No, I view it as that you don't trust me.
08:42If it's making me feel better, just let it be.
08:45Kariana, what do you think?
08:46If your boyfriend was working, would you go spy on him, too?
08:49She does spy on her boyfriend.
08:50Probably, yeah.
08:52Why are you women crazy like that?
08:54Because you make us crazy.
08:56You guys make us crazy.
08:58Hey, man, finally, some backup, man.
09:04Finally, man.
09:05Sorry that I'm a little late.
09:06Oh, man.
09:07Hi, Chloe.
09:08Hey, Kaner.
09:09How are you?
09:10Good.
09:11Nice to see you.
09:12Welcome back.
09:13Hi.
09:13So happy to be here.
09:15I'm perfectly okay with Jonathan and Kaner having a friendship, but once I found out that
09:20he had cheated, it kind of opened that door for me to view him differently because Kaner,
09:27he's the one to create the perfect space to enable Johnny's bad behavior.
09:33It looked like you was in the sun because you were still a little tan.
09:36I am?
09:37Yeah, a little bit.
09:39You are.
09:39Yeah, right?
09:40Yeah.
09:41I no longer dislike you.
09:45She went spying on me at work today.
09:47I saw you.
09:49Yeah.
09:49You're going to tell me?
09:50You did not see me.
09:51I didn't see her.
09:52You didn't see her?
09:53I didn't see her.
09:53Well, she was over there.
09:54I saw her.
09:55And you say, oh, he's with Kaner.
09:56He's fine.
09:57No, it's not that I said he's with Kaner.
09:59He's fine.
09:59I said, oh, he's with Kaner.
10:02Nothing's fine.
10:02Why?
10:04What do you mean, Abe?
10:05You better be nice.
10:07I don't want to have a problem with you.
10:09You better not.
10:11No, Kaner.
10:12You better not.
10:15You better not.
10:15We both better not.
10:16Yeah, no, we better not.
10:18Don't try to start a fight right here, please, right now.
10:21If you've seen me fight, this isn't me fighting.
10:22This is me conversating.
10:24That's how you talk to people?
10:25Yes, don't be intimidated by me.
10:26That's scary.
10:27No, I stand on business.
10:29You have to stand on business with people or they walk over you.
10:32You should see me when I'm actually getting mad.
10:36Since I met Chloe, she's been like that, so I know how she is already.
10:40Her personality is a lot.
10:42I always try to be, like, nice and easy with her because I have, like, a hard personality
10:47also I can be an asshole too, but she's an asshole.
10:54My trust issues come from your actions, but you work with him and you go out with him.
11:00So what am I not going to like?
11:02Him.
11:03So you're telling me right now that you don't like me?
11:06I'm not exactly a fan, no.
11:08I have such an issue with him going out with you.
11:11Exactly.
11:11Then he's not going to go out with you.
11:12That's something that you have to do with him.
11:14I want to go out with my friend, okay?
11:16You can't control me like that.
11:17You can't do that kind of thing.
11:19Respect me.
11:20Respect what I say.
11:21I do respect what you say.
11:23Clearly not because I'm saying I don't like to go out with him.
11:26Oh my God, this is getting crazy.
11:30Chloe, come on.
11:31No, it's not.
11:32Come on.
11:32It's a serious thing.
11:34Like, Chloe, I'm not defending him, okay?
11:36I'm just trying to tell you that I'm...
11:37We're not defending me either, so you can't play Switzerland.
11:43Would you be okay with me cooking my way a little bit?
11:47Dylan, he's a very controlled type of person.
11:51I don't like to be told what to do.
11:53I would just love to, like, tell you what I'd like and then you cook it.
11:58Is it this whole house?
11:59Yes, absolutely.
12:00When I picture Matthew and I getting our first place together, I did not envision this three-bedroom house.
12:07Two little twin beds here.
12:09Twins is on the agenda, though, isn't it?
12:10One little spark is all it will take to set this old world on fire.
12:21Finally find our way home.
12:27Welcome to Australia.
12:29Australia.
12:31It's really pretty.
12:33I'm glad you're on here.
12:34No, really, it's so pretty.
12:35It's so, it's so nature.
12:36Aww.
12:52Is that it?
12:53Yeah, that's it, babe.
12:55Oh, it's totally different from what I expected.
12:58Seriously.
12:59I'm very much excited to show Petya our home for the first time here in Tasmania.
13:05I own a couple of properties here and I rent them out for income.
13:10And I recently renovated this one for Petya and I to live in.
13:14That's coming out, that's coming out.
13:16I know it's not a ring, but it's a house.
13:19That's got to count for something, right?
13:20Oh, my gosh, babe, it's super cute.
13:30You did good with the decorating and the plants.
13:34Oh, and you have our pictures up.
13:37This is when we first met.
13:39I love it.
13:40You like that?
13:41So you ready for the rest of the house tour?
13:42Yes.
13:43All right.
13:44This is obviously the lounge room.
13:46We need to buy a couch.
13:49Okay.
13:49We can go shopping and we can pick out something that you like.
13:53I love that word, the sound, shopping.
13:56Yep.
13:56It's been years since Petya and I lived together full time,
14:00so there's going to be a little bit of an adjustment period.
14:04We're polar opposites.
14:07I like to keep things simple,
14:08but Petya prefers a more luxurious lifestyle.
14:12Says the master.
14:13It gets a lot of sunlight in here.
14:15It's nice, huh?
14:16Okay, you did good with the bed in here.
14:18Do you like the bedding or not, really?
14:19I do.
14:20I like the bedding.
14:20I like the curtains.
14:21Yeah.
14:22I'm very sort of structured.
14:23I like to get all the laundry done, everything folded.
14:26And this is my closet, I take it?
14:28That and this is your closet.
14:30And there you go.
14:31That's your closet there, too.
14:33That's a good size.
14:34Oh, and up here for mine.
14:36Purses.
14:36And her laundry basket is overflowing,
14:40so it makes for an interesting dynamic.
14:43Something smells good.
14:47You're cute with your mask on.
14:49Oh, my God.
14:50Sorry.
14:51You know, when I travel, I have to put sort of the mask on.
14:54Is that the secret to your fountain of youth?
14:57One.
14:58I have many.
14:58Oh, the salmon looks so fresh.
15:02Well, this is fresh Tasmanian salmon.
15:04And then you're going to be having 50 grams of asparagus,
15:07and you're going to be having 150 grams of brown rice.
15:10So that's going to be 379 calories.
15:13I like to be very strict with my diet.
15:17During the day, I will have 100 grams of kangaroo,
15:21and then 150 grams of brown rice,
15:24and then maybe a little bit of broccoli or green beans.
15:27And I'll repeat that meal about five times throughout the day,
15:31every two or three hours.
15:35You season it?
15:36Well, you know how I like to cook.
15:37You're going to have to learn to cook with seasonings for me
15:40now that I'm here.
15:41Yes, well, let's spice things up a bit.
15:43You want to make it hot?
15:44Hot chili flakes.
15:46Oh, and chipotle seasoning.
15:47Wow, you really are going away, aren't you?
15:51I want to have my salmon, too.
15:52You're going to season my salmon?
15:55Yes.
15:56The difference between me and Dylan and how we eat
15:58is like night and day.
15:59Like, he will literally boil his chicken
16:02to get the fat out.
16:04I'm like, there's no fat in chicken breast.
16:07Me and Dylan argue a lot about food.
16:10I don't know if it's going to ever stop, really.
16:12And we'll probably be arguing to her grace.
16:16I'm so happy that you cook for me,
16:18but I want to do some of the cooking, too.
16:20Yeah.
16:20I know how you're strict with your diet,
16:22but would you be okay with me cooking my way a little bit?
16:25Yes, you can cook your way,
16:26but, like, I need 30 grams of protein,
16:29100 grams of carbohydrates,
16:31and some micronutrients in every meal.
16:33Why do you always make it like a science project?
16:38Sometimes the way that you eat is lots of sugar,
16:41lots of oil.
16:42It is a fun cheat meal for me.
16:44Cheat meal?
16:45My cooking's not that bad.
16:46You're calling it a cheat meal?
16:47No, it's just like all those sauces that you use.
16:49No, I don't.
16:50And then all the oil that you use.
16:52I don't use that much oil.
16:54You don't even measure when you put the oil in.
16:56You just throw it in.
16:57You don't even put the measuring cup.
16:57No, but I eye it.
16:58I know.
16:59Well, there's no eyeing here.
17:00I've been cooking a long time.
17:03I know, just my eyeing.
17:04I know you know how to cook,
17:05but I'm just saying,
17:06if I'm trying to keep my physique in shape,
17:09I can't just be eating whatever.
17:12You act like you're doing a modelling shoot every day.
17:15You have to lighten up and enjoy.
17:18But what if that's how I like to live?
17:22Oh, gosh.
17:24Dylan, he's a very controlled type of person.
17:29He likes things specific ways.
17:31I'm very independent.
17:32I don't like to be told what to do.
17:34And, you know, and he does that to me.
17:36We haven't been together in years.
17:38And Dylan, he needs to compromise with me.
17:40Or it's just going to be really hard for me and Dylan to succeed.
17:44I would just love to, like, tell you what I'd like
17:47and then you cook it.
17:47I would love you more
18:06And I would listen for
18:09Because I would love you more
18:10It's so cheap.
18:14Are you excited to look at houses?
18:16Yeah, very excited.
18:19I know Greta was keen to move out of my parents' place.
18:22So I've arranged for us to see a rental property today.
18:25The estate agents picked out some things.
18:29I've asked for character, decent size.
18:32I mean, is it going to be in an urban area?
18:36It's probably not as urban as you were hoping for.
18:40But we can make it work.
18:42One of the reasons I left Oklahoma was because I really wanted to live in a walkable city with public transportation.
18:50I like to be able to walk to a coffee shop and walk to the store.
18:55I do that in Oklahoma sometimes when people think I'm weird.
18:58There's some really nice houses right up here.
19:02I wonder what the average age of the people who live here, though, are.
19:07Matthew's lived in cities before, but he also loves the countryside.
19:11So I'm hoping we can find a compromise.
19:15All right, here we are.
19:17This looks really nice, actually.
19:20There's our state agent.
19:21Hi, Nigel.
19:24Hi, Matthew.
19:25Pleasure.
19:25How are you? You okay?
19:26Very good, thank you.
19:27That's a good spot.
19:28You've got a nice courtyard.
19:29Nice and quiet.
19:31Very cute, yeah.
19:31Let's go inside and take a look around, shall we?
19:33Okay.
19:33Absolutely.
19:34Is it this whole house?
19:35Yes, it is, yeah.
19:36Oh, wow, that's huge.
19:37It looks lovely.
19:39So come on through.
19:40Wow.
19:40Nice entrance hallway.
19:42Uh-huh, this is like a legit house.
19:43This is good.
19:44Yeah, very nice and spacious.
19:46So take it through to the sitting room.
19:47The sitting room?
19:48Yeah.
19:49Is that a living room?
19:50Same as a living room, they call it that.
19:51So dual aspects, so you've got nice light flow through here.
19:54View out to the front.
19:56So right across the hallway, you've got the kitchen.
20:00Aw, look how cute the oven is.
20:02It's so small.
20:03Yeah, nice little English oven.
20:06How do you even cook anything in here?
20:07It's so small.
20:09Yeah, this is an average oven.
20:11That's it.
20:12It's only the first place we're seeing,
20:14but I could picture us living here.
20:16This is good.
20:16This is a nice, functional area.
20:18This house could be a really good stepping stone for us.
20:22So then we're into the principal bedroom.
20:24Bright, spacious room.
20:25You could have put your bed here.
20:27You can even maybe put in a desk as well in this room.
20:30Definitely.
20:30Have an office space.
20:32Yeah.
20:32When I picture Matthew and I getting our first place together,
20:35I picture us in a tiny flat, cooking vegan meals in our kitchen
20:40and cuddling up on the couch with our cats.
20:44I did not envision this three-bedroom house
20:47meant for a family with multiple kids.
20:49Let's show you the bathroom, then.
20:51Okay.
20:52If he's so concerned about our finances,
20:54why would he want to pay for space we don't even need?
20:58Let's show you the other bedroom.
20:59So this traditionally would be the second bedroom,
21:02so you've got space-ridable bed.
21:04I think it would make an excellent kids' bedroom as well.
21:06It would, definitely.
21:07Two little twin beds here.
21:09Yeah.
21:09What do you think, Greta?
21:10I mean, yeah.
21:12Yeah.
21:14Twins is on the agenda, then.
21:16Oh, yeah.
21:16I guess we're having twins now, so...
21:18We are, too, yeah.
21:20Okay, let's take it through, then.
21:23Matthew pointing out that the second bedroom
21:25could be for our two kids.
21:27Bye. Thank you.
21:28Definitely put a rock in my stomach
21:31because I've become really unsure if I want kids.
21:39But I haven't told him yet.
21:46But, like, I don't think I'm ready to settle down
21:59in a neighborhood village yet.
22:02I would just feel really isolated here.
22:05It doesn't really matter where you live
22:08if both people drive, that's it.
22:11You can live five, ten minutes away from a town center, right?
22:14It's just, like, it doesn't make any sense
22:19for a house to, like, fill out for no reason right now.
22:23You know what I mean?
22:23Like, it's just, it doesn't make any sense to me.
22:27I am feeling really overwhelmed.
22:32I don't mind having more space rather than less space.
22:35I think we'll fill it out in time.
22:37My wants and needs were kind of mowed over.
22:45Matthew seems pretty certain about our future,
22:48but I just don't think I'm in a place
22:50to be moving into a house in the middle of nowhere
22:53with a set of twins.
22:55I just don't feel like we're in a place for a house at all.
22:59It's an outtie, not it.
23:06How's it going, my heart?
23:08She's already a little tipsy.
23:12I'm going to get out of here before it gets ugly.
23:15Oof.
23:16I'm going to get out of here before it gets ugly.
23:37Benjamin's baptism is happening today.
23:53My relationship with my sister Marie
23:55has been a little bit complicated,
23:58especially since I moved to the U.S.
23:59She always kind of left a little bit of a distance between us.
24:04So that's why I decided to make up the godmother
24:07to help us reconnect.
24:10Benjamin Laurent, je te baptise au nom du père
24:15et du fils et du saint esprit.
24:19On peut l'applaudir.
24:20Yeah.
24:21Yeah.
24:23Woohoo.
24:25Yeah.
24:34Everyone, tout le monde,
24:36tout d'abord,
24:37je tenais à vous dire
24:38un grand, grand merci
24:40d'être tous venus au baptême de Benjamin.
24:43Plus de dix ans
24:44que je ne suis plus ici en France.
24:46Mais j'ai voulu vraiment inviter tout le monde
24:48parce que la vie change,
24:50la vie évolue.
24:51Et j'ai vraiment voulu en profiter cette fois
24:53qu'avec mon mari,
24:54on rentre en France.
24:55Voilà,
24:56parce qu'on ne sait pas
24:56où est-ce qu'on sera demain.
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24:58C'est parti.
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24:59C'est parti.
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25:33C'est parti.
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27:53My intrusive thoughts won't go away.
27:56My parents, they never went to high school.
27:58They've never moved abroad.
28:00They don't realize how hard it is coming back to France.
28:04I cannot stop remembering about my life in L.A.
28:08and what I left.
28:09And I feel like a total failure.
28:16Hey, so he's getting pretty unruly.
28:18Yeah.
28:19So I'm going to take him home to get him to sleep.
28:21Your family?
28:22Yeah.
28:23He's going to go to the house to get him to sleep.
28:25He's fatigued.
28:32I have no idea what's been going on, but Minoan was crying.
28:36She's already a little tipsy.
28:38I know how stressed she gets and overwhelmed
28:41when she's around her family.
28:45Nothing good can come from it.
28:46I'm going to get out of here before it gets ugly.
28:49Thank you very much for everything.
28:51Au revoir, Benjamin!
28:52Au revoir!
28:53Au revoir!
28:58That was a lot.
29:02Hey!
29:03How are you?
29:03I'm good, and you are Patia.
29:05My mom and Patia basically hate each other.
29:07And we're here.
29:08Yes.
29:09Don't know how long until things are just going to explode.
29:13So when do you think you'll do furniture shopping?
29:14Probably this week.
29:16You might have to keep an eye on it, Dylan.
29:18Hey, Bob, do you want a protein shake?
29:25Sure.
29:26Hey, what's it, what's a tuna for?
29:28You going to put that in the protein shake?
29:30Nah, I'm not.
29:31I mean, I'm crazy, but I'm not that crazy.
29:32Oh, is that your phone?
29:33Oh, is that your phone?
29:34Hello?
29:35Oh, it's me.
29:36Hi, how are you, Mum?
29:37Yeah, not bad, I'm in the area.
29:38I thought I'd pop in and see you guys.
29:39Oh, beautiful.
29:40Hey, what's it, what's a tuna for?
29:41You going to put that in the protein shake?
29:43No, I'm not.
29:44I mean, I'm crazy, but I'm not that crazy.
29:47Oh, is that your phone?
29:51Hello?
29:52Hi, it's me.
29:55Hi, how are you, Mum?
29:57Yeah, not bad.
29:58I'm in the area.
29:59I thought I'd pop in and see you guys.
30:00Oh, beautiful.
30:01Let's see what's going on.
30:04in and see you guys oh beautiful is that okay i'm not intruding or anything no that's great
30:11all right i'll be there shortly all right can't wait to see you okay can't wait to see you two
30:15either bye why is she coming now i don't want to look like this well i looked at you and you said
30:22it was okay when she saw you the first time she saw you in hawaii her jaw hit the floor
30:28and she's just like she's gorgeous she's gonna be about five minutes all right
30:37i talk to my mum two three times a week and i do confide in her she gives great advice but
30:44patia and my mum don't really get along patia thinks i have this abnormal relationship with my mum
30:51and my mum sees the animosity that patia has for her and she's not a big fan
30:58so i'm hoping they can get off on the right foot and not just start fighting immediately
31:05i can't believe she's already in her business already i just got here
31:10how long is she staying i don't know she's probably just stopping by for five minutes
31:17it doesn't oh god
31:19she's here
31:29hey how are you i'm good i didn't know you were coming over sorry i look like this
31:36that's okay i got you some flowers and i brought a vase because i didn't know if dylan had one
31:41oh and there's some australian biscuits for you oh my gosh how are you so you're here welcome to tassie
31:48thank you so much you look beautiful you look great thank you i look healthy you're having your
31:53brickie yes dylan made me some breakfast so you got the orchids going yes that's her favorite flower
31:59that's lovely that's lovely i actually haven't seen patia in 11 years i've never had the problem with her
32:07i think that she's had always had the problem with me because i feel that there's jealousy towards me
32:12with my relationship with dylan i just think it's a little bit off that she would want to get in
32:16between our relationship because uh you know mother and son you're bound for life so i really hope
32:22she's happy to share dylan with me and we're here yes i'm here i can't believe it you can't believe
32:29it either that's fabulous i know it was so good seeing him at the airport yeah yeah yeah what do you
32:38want to say joe yeah that's fine yeah that's fine thank you my mom and patia basically hate each other
32:45and so far everything's going great they're both playing a game of who could be the nicest thank you so
32:52much for the beautiful roses do you like to put some water in there dylan yes but i don't know how
32:58long until things are just going to boil up and they're just going to explode yellow for friendship
33:04i love it yeah so what do you think of the pad isn't it fab it is but dylan and i did talk about
33:11going furniture shopping since there's only like a few items in here he needs a bit of a sofa or something
33:16well i was thinking like maybe a cream color else l-shaped sectional here yeah and you know since
33:23there's not much of a dining space in this area i was thinking something like that but right over
33:28here you might have to keep an eye on it you know i've gotten better have you yes i've like settled
33:43with it with the spending yes i've only been here less than 24 hours and she's already like all right
33:51about my finances i'm like it's none of her business and she shouldn't be putting in her two cents yeah
34:00i don't want to i'm not want to put you on the spot right now but i just find it sometimes i'm like
34:04find it hard to believe okay well just oh yeah prove it to me all right well i'm gonna have to go
34:09i really hope that we can all spend some time together that'd be great thank you particularly
34:14you and i okay oh are you dumping me off are you no no one's getting dumped we're gonna have a coming
34:19together it makes me nervous and it makes me mad that she's already automatically inserting herself
34:26into our relationship thank you for stopping this is exactly what i was worried about bye dylan so needs
34:33to stop talking about our personal business with this mom i'm so damn sick of it
34:41i'm glad she came by but i still feel like we still need to you know talk about some things yeah i mean
34:48obviously you talk to your mom about the spending habits look i have i had opened up something yes i
34:54had opened up to my mom and i had told her because before you came you were down on your bills you
34:59were struggling with rent you were fighting to pay all that you you couldn't make your bills you
35:04know and then you went out and dropped a huge shopping spree and now you're saying that you've
35:09changed and that was like a week ago i wish my mom didn't bring up patia's spending but patia does
35:17have a spending problem and it's been going on for years i'm going to be financially supporting her now
35:24and if she wants to come here and have the champagne lifestyle unfortunately it's not going to work
35:30i've learned i don't need all the nice fancy things anymore patia's been asking for a commitment
35:37pretty much for 12 years i do love her and i want things to work out but i'm not there yet
35:47i need to see some changes in you because it's very easy to slip back into old habits you know
35:52oh no no no no no no i've been there done that i have changed
36:00you have to understand that letting you come here to live with him and move with him and everything
36:06that's a big thing also it's not the same he doesn't have anything to lose
36:10i risk my entire future going out the window he doesn't risk that
36:22you guys want to go out alone then fine but at least get me to a point where i'm like
36:36okay kaner's an amy i don't hate kaner i trust you i no longer have an issue with it but don't push it
36:43okay but i'm trying to get there chloe i'm trying to get there like i'm bringing to my house i'm showing
36:48how i live i'm giving you my schedule i'm giving you cast access to my cameras my location just so
36:53you can see that you can trust me enough where i can just go out peacefully with my friends
36:59you have to understand that he getting into a relationship with you and letting you come
37:05here to live with him and move with him and everything that's a big thing also it's not the
37:10same he doesn't have anything to lose do you think that he needs somebody to live with him to be with
37:15somebody no he doesn't need that's what he means he's showing you a lot but it's not the same as if
37:20he's risking the same it is kind of the same if you put a balance it is kind of the same pause what
37:25is he risking ready go ahead i'll wait he doesn't need somebody to live with him and to be like a risk
37:29that's a want it is a risk i risk my entire future going off the window he doesn't risk that
37:37if anything he has something to gain he has a partner he has someone he can be with
37:41i left a business that my mom built from the ground up that's all i've ever known and i'm
37:48coming here with no job now you're not gaining anything with me but i am but you're not losing
37:53as much as i'm losing
37:59i'm leaving everything i've ever known to come here to pursue this relationship with jonathan and not
38:07that i'm looking for a gold star but i just don't see him giving up anything other than his
38:16like young johnny lifestyle of hooking up with these random tourists which i don't know i guess that's
38:24a big deal to him and caner it's a big deal if you guys are both putting a lot to be with each other
38:33why like why you guys don't trust each other like because there's a lot to lose
38:39but at this point we just have to trust each other probably you're right we do but we've had so
38:44many issues in the past to get where we are that i'm afraid for something to happen again because i
38:49don't want to lose you and i don't want to lose this i don't want to have to move back home
38:54the trust has been broken in the past which is why i am the way i am
39:00i want to go out my friend okay really you know you can't control me like that you can't hold me
39:06down like that you know what i mean jonathan needs to understand how serious i'm actually being
39:13my anxiety is through the roof every day because i'm so nervous that he's going to just break my trust
39:19again i don't want to stop being with jonathan because i do see it in the future i just think that
39:26i have a very fine line between you wanting to live your life and you wanting to cheat on me
39:34that's not controlling if i'm controlling you to not cheat on me then you should go be single
39:43you were so like crazy and get psycho and jealous and you know you want to break up with me because
39:48you thought this and this happened when nothing really really happened but i wouldn't break up with
39:52you on a thought of something happening i would break up with you because something happened you
39:57have to trust me more than that if i saw something and i had proof i'm not saying
40:08next time on 90 day fiance the other way
40:11i have up i want to be with you you liar to me and talk to me like nothing happened why the
40:21means are so stupid there's no chance to come back together
40:30my mom is coming down with a certain expectation in her head i hope jonathan is ready for all the
40:37scrutiny welcome to my home johnny's house would it be where i want my daughter to live absolutely not
40:44you're deciding to live here and i can't finance it you are going to have to make your own way
40:51i'm cutting her off
40:53my aunt said i was talking about the family this is my chance to talk to her
41:08i'm freaking tired of always being the black sheep of the family
41:23and j'ai peut-être un peu de caractère i just want to pack up all of my and go back to la
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