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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé, Happily Ever After.
00:00:04I am excited, but I've never been on bad terms like this,
00:00:07and we're just leaving the country.
00:00:09It's not about my parents. It's not about your parents. It's about us.
00:00:12I wish we had left things better with my parents,
00:00:15but we're going off to see the world.
00:00:17We're going to Europe.
00:00:18We didn't know how long we will be there.
00:00:20And into the airport?
00:00:22Yes, please.
00:00:24There we go.
00:00:30Love it. So freaking good.
00:00:32This is such an epic, exciting moment,
00:00:34and I want to, you know, fight for this, you know, marriage,
00:00:37fight for this life.
00:00:38But at the same time, I don't know how much longer I can hang on.
00:00:42Are we truly happy?
00:00:46There's something very important that I need to share with Darcy,
00:00:50but I need to have this conversation with her when she's come.
00:00:55I knew it.
00:00:57I read you very well.
00:01:00I know you don't want to face your mom,
00:01:05but you know what?
00:01:05I just, I really think it's, it's, it's time.
00:01:08It'll be so twisted.
00:01:11I'm having a baby in six weeks.
00:01:13I cannot continue lying to her.
00:01:15I have missed you too.
00:01:27I have missed you too.
00:01:41How about us three?
00:01:45Let's go have a drink, have a conversation.
00:01:47Why three of us?
00:01:49I've got Lauren over here talking about Yara behind her back,
00:01:52and I don't like this.
00:01:53I don't like what's happening.
00:01:55Elizabeth, you told me that you're making fun of me
00:01:58and the way I trust you and stuff.
00:01:59What?
00:02:01Elizabeth's lying.
00:02:02So ready to just hop on a plane and go home.
00:02:04I'm so over this.
00:02:06What happened?
00:02:24Drive easy, puppy.
00:02:25Why are you laughing for my pain?
00:02:32I thought you were going to poop yourself.
00:02:34No, it's not poop.
00:02:35It's a baby.
00:02:36Oh.
00:02:36I was reading that because the baby's head down.
00:02:39Uh-huh.
00:02:40Like she's pushing my vagina, and that's what, it hurts.
00:02:44It's a horrible feeling.
00:02:45It's just like someone grabbing your balls, imagine.
00:02:49Like this.
00:02:50Yeah?
00:02:51I dare you.
00:02:54Puppy, please.
00:02:55Come on, dude.
00:02:57You're very, very stressed.
00:02:59I'm just kind of tired.
00:03:00Is it because you're nervous about the birth class?
00:03:05You better take this birth class serious.
00:03:08You don't even know what hole the baby's going to come from, right?
00:03:11Probably the butthole.
00:03:12Matt.
00:03:13What?
00:03:13I'm being serious.
00:03:15Okay.
00:03:16Okay.
00:03:25So we're going to have you sit on the ball here.
00:03:52We'll have you in the chair behind you.
00:03:53Don't let me fall.
00:03:56Jesus Christ.
00:03:58Oh, I'm scared of exploding it.
00:04:01You're not that pregnant yet.
00:04:03Oh, babies.
00:04:10I don't know why my skull is so thick that even though I'm going to a birthing class, even
00:04:15though we're inching closer to the delivery of this baby, it's still not like real, real
00:04:19to me, obviously, because I'm still not, I haven't learned a thing.
00:04:22Jasmine is having the baby within a couple of weeks, and I'm hoping to learn anything
00:04:29would be nice.
00:04:31Anything.
00:04:31Like, how do I hold the kid?
00:04:33How do I feed it?
00:04:33Do I change his diaper?
00:04:34How often do I change it?
00:04:35When do you put it to sleep?
00:04:36How do you put it to sleep?
00:04:37There's a lot of variations that I instead have to think about.
00:04:40So hopefully they can just, like, dump this information on me and I'll learn something.
00:04:45I have a lot to learn.
00:04:46We're going to have such a fun class together, guys.
00:04:50We're going to talk about things that you can do to have an easier, more comfortable
00:04:54labor.
00:04:55Great.
00:04:55I need it.
00:04:56Who is it?
00:04:59So if you look here, this is how baby is going to move into the pelvis, and as the shoulders
00:05:06come through, they'll rotate on the way out.
00:05:11The dolls that you have in front of you are right about the size of a newborn baby, so it
00:05:15gives you a really good idea of what to expect.
00:05:18Yikes.
00:05:19Matt, that face.
00:05:21That's a pretty big baby.
00:05:23Look at this.
00:05:23This is pretty accurate.
00:05:26I want a medicated natural birth, and I really hope with this class that Matt can finally
00:05:33understand how intense it is going to be, me giving birth.
00:05:38We're talking about unbearable pain.
00:05:41Imagine like a coconut is coming out of your penis.
00:05:45How would that feel, Matt?
00:05:48One of the things that we are going to start out talking about is fears surrounding the
00:05:52birth space.
00:05:53Do you guys want to share any particular fears that you have weighing on you?
00:05:56What if you end up tearing up?
00:06:01So if there's tearing?
00:06:02Yeah.
00:06:02When we talk about tearing, we talk about degrees, first through fourth degree.
00:06:07So a first degree tear is going to be superficial skin.
00:06:10Third into this capsule around the anus, and fourth would be a connection between the two
00:06:13internally or externally.
00:06:15We don't see a lot of third and fourth degrees.
00:06:18So what we're looking for is stretching the muscles.
00:06:21What you can do as a partner is use your first two fingers.
00:06:27And so we actually start on the outside here.
00:06:28We press into these tissues towards the clitoris.
00:06:31We're going to go to the first knuckle until you have that nice stretch.
00:06:34And then you go in and do the same at the second knuckle.
00:06:36Is this like on the inside of the wall?
00:06:38Mm-hmm.
00:06:38Inside.
00:06:38Okay, gotcha.
00:06:39So apparently if I don't help Jasmine with the stretching of the walls, her, you know
00:06:48what, is going to tear possibly all the way to her butthole.
00:06:52Yikes.
00:06:54That would just be one giant hole.
00:06:56I don't know how you fix that.
00:06:58So I have to remember, between reading and everything else, I got to remember I have
00:07:04to do this stretching thing now with her too, which is like between foreplay and trying
00:07:11to help her stretch.
00:07:12I don't know.
00:07:13I never heard anybody talk about this before.
00:07:16The stretching of the muscle tissues on the inside.
00:07:19I've never heard this.
00:07:21This is actually a space where we can provide massage and touch.
00:07:25So when we talk about labor massage, we want to focus on down and out.
00:07:30So I'm going to have you press sort of down and out.
00:07:34Okay?
00:07:34So focus that massage going down and out.
00:07:37I know not easy with the sweater.
00:07:38Oh, yeah.
00:07:39There we go.
00:07:40This is good?
00:07:41Mm-hmm.
00:07:42Okay.
00:07:43Oh, gosh.
00:07:44I love it.
00:07:45Yes.
00:07:46Then keep going.
00:07:46That's what we're looking for.
00:07:47Some people like gentle touch.
00:07:49Some people do not, and that's okay.
00:07:52I like rough.
00:07:52I'm going to have you sit by her hips.
00:08:07Oh, my knees.
00:08:08All right.
00:08:09This is one of the most common ways that we see babies born when we are experiencing unmedicated
00:08:16birth, right?
00:08:16What tends to happen here is we're having these loud, grunty pushes, and kind of like,
00:08:21ah, to kind of like, ah, like we are working with our bodies.
00:08:26So you have to take care of your mind.
00:08:29Be present with your partner.
00:08:30Now, partners, you're going to reach down and catch your babies, okay?
00:08:34With this deep breath, we're going to go, oh.
00:08:38Imagine sending your baby down and out.
00:08:40Deep breath here with me again.
00:08:43Oh.
00:08:46Being gentle with yourself.
00:08:47There you go.
00:08:49When this happens, it's going to be a long day or a long night of clawing and screaming.
00:08:56So kind of like an exorcism or something.
00:09:00Your partner is going to pass baby back through your legs.
00:09:03So head first, turn baby around.
00:09:06Perfect.
00:09:06Bring baby to your low belly, and then sit back onto your heels.
00:09:10What I like about this transition of sitting back is it gives you a moment to see your
00:09:17baby, to look at your baby with your partner, and you create this little bubble around you
00:09:22guys.
00:09:24I'm trying to learn, like, as much as I can about the process of the baby.
00:09:28Then it kind of gives you, like, anxiety, and I don't know.
00:09:31It's just, it's a lot.
00:09:33We're at week 37, and I don't have all the time to figure out about taking care of a
00:09:38child, so.
00:09:41I love you, baby.
00:09:44Simba.
00:09:46You're so beautiful because you look just like mommy.
00:09:50Yeah.
00:09:51Oh, look at your daddy.
00:09:52Oh, don't cry.
00:09:53Don't cry.
00:09:54Jasmine, you know, she completely up my life.
00:10:09Really did.
00:10:11The last time I spoke to Jasmine, I was reading her my letter.
00:10:16It was a scam as marriage fraud to the T.
00:10:19I didn't do anything criminal.
00:10:21I married you, and the marriage didn't work.
00:10:23That is criminal because the marriage was never true.
00:10:30I was expecting more from her, like, more of apology.
00:10:34There was, like, no explanation of anything.
00:10:36So that, you know, that's why I decided today that I'm going to talk to a lawyer about my
00:10:42options for divorce because I need to do it.
00:10:44And I think it's the only way I'm going to get closure in this whole thing.
00:10:48Don't be there.
00:10:50Don't be right.
00:10:53Don't be fair.
00:10:56Don't take flight.
00:10:59Don't be right.
00:11:02Robert.
00:11:04Gino.
00:11:05How's it going?
00:11:06It's been a while.
00:11:06How are you doing?
00:11:06It's been a minute, right?
00:11:07Yeah, definitely.
00:11:08All right, come on.
00:11:09Back to the conference room.
00:11:09Let's do it.
00:11:10I decided I want to speak with a divorce lawyer, very good, top-notch lawyer.
00:11:19You know, I need to move forward in my life, see what my options are, because our relationship
00:11:25is over.
00:11:26It's done.
00:11:27There's no repairing it.
00:11:32So you're back here for another divorce, huh?
00:11:34Unfortunately, yes.
00:11:36The funny thing is, is that I've been to this divorce lawyer's office before.
00:11:43About 12 years ago, when I finalized my divorce with my previous wife, they were very good
00:11:50and thorough.
00:11:50So I'm very much looking forward to speaking to him about how complicated my situation is
00:11:56now.
00:11:56The first divorce is relatively easy, but this one is different.
00:12:01And so how is it different than the first one?
00:12:04Well, very different.
00:12:07In my recollection, you had a consent judgment divorce, right?
00:12:10So you two were able to agree on terms relatively easily.
00:12:14This one is, this is going to be much different because Jasmine does not have the same personality
00:12:19as my previous ex.
00:12:22Jasmine has like a demon or devil inside of her.
00:12:26This is going to be ugly.
00:12:30With my first wife, we always got along.
00:12:33We never argued much.
00:12:35And our marriage was pretty solid, really, for the most part.
00:12:39We lasted for seven years.
00:12:41But, you know, over time, we kind of grew apart a little bit.
00:12:45And in the end, we ended up just mutually agreeing to getting a divorce.
00:12:53You were married how long ago?
00:12:55We've been married just over two years, like basically two years.
00:12:59Okay.
00:13:00We only lived together for like 10 months until she cheated on me and I kicked her out of
00:13:04the house.
00:13:05Wait, wait, wait.
00:13:05She cheated on you?
00:13:06Yeah.
00:13:0710 months into the marriage, she spent the night at this gentleman's house.
00:13:11And I found out.
00:13:14But we did agree to an open marriage.
00:13:20But we had rules for it.
00:13:21Okay.
00:13:22That she can only spend two hours with him per day.
00:13:26And not to get too close to him.
00:13:30Whose idea was open marriage?
00:13:31Was it yours or hers?
00:13:32It was hers.
00:13:33She was proposing it.
00:13:35And when I went back and I looked at the whole big picture, it's very clear to me that I was
00:13:42used for a green card.
00:13:43I understand why you felt that way.
00:13:46So what I did a few months ago is I reported her for immigration fraud.
00:13:59I am not letting up on the immigration fraud because I want Jasmine to be held accountable
00:14:06for her huge betrayal.
00:14:09Jasmine got her green card in hand and left.
00:14:12I would be happy if she gets deported.
00:14:16I think she deserves it.
00:14:19I want her to feel some pain.
00:14:21I want her to feel some pain like I felt pain.
00:14:26Give me some details of it.
00:14:28I'm not an immigration attorney.
00:14:29Maybe you can educate me here.
00:14:31So basically, I gave all the details to immigration, what happened, the cheating, and how she was
00:14:38pursuing this person when I submitted the green card.
00:14:42When I submitted her a green card application, she was pursuing this guy at the gym.
00:14:46So I explained all the details of that, you know, how she was cheating on me when it started
00:14:53and how it was linked to immigration.
00:14:56And I kind of talked in all the details in my submittal, in my report to them.
00:15:00And then I actually did it twice.
00:15:03I submitted it twice because I want to make absolutely sure it got through.
00:15:07But the second time I submitted it, I updated it and told them that she was pregnant.
00:15:16Okay.
00:15:17On the second time.
00:15:18Okay.
00:15:18That's a factor we're going to have to talk about.
00:15:20So she's pregnant with another guy during her two-year probationary period on her green
00:15:25card.
00:15:27And she moved to Florida with this guy and still married to me.
00:15:31So she got pregnant with a random dude down the street, still married to me, cheated on
00:15:38me, okay, while we're married.
00:15:42For immigration, I really can't speak to you.
00:15:44I think you probably know about as much as I do on that.
00:15:46In regards to divorce, there's a huge impact on that.
00:15:49Is there?
00:15:50There is.
00:15:51So the question is, is the child yours?
00:15:55The child is not mine, it's his.
00:15:59Okay.
00:16:00Well, under Michigan law, I'm going to give you some bad news here.
00:16:03As I, you know, you may be aware, as we worked with him before, that I'll kind of tell you
00:16:07what the law is.
00:16:08I'll tell you the good news, the bad news, and where I think the likely outcome will
00:16:11go.
00:16:12So under Michigan law, when you are married and a child is born, during that marriage,
00:16:18or the husband here, you're presumed to be the father.
00:16:25Are you kidding?
00:16:26No, I'm not, unfortunately for you.
00:16:28That's crazy.
00:16:29You have a legal obligation and a financial obligation to that child.
00:16:34What?
00:16:37I mean, come on.
00:16:38This is ridiculous.
00:16:39That's understandable.
00:16:41But the basic presumption is that because you are married to Jasmine and you are the husband,
00:16:47she had a child during the marriage, that makes you the father.
00:16:54With this baby, you have an obligation until the baby turns 18 or graduates from high school.
00:16:59We're talking hundreds of thousands of dollars that you'll be paying in child support.
00:17:03What?
00:17:04If you don't take action.
00:17:07She's up my life.
00:17:08It's just like you take a step forward and you take three steps back.
00:17:38I don't want to deal with this stuff anymore.
00:17:39I definitely do want to talk to Yara.
00:17:41What happened last night?
00:17:43I cannot leave this trip on these terms.
00:17:57Second day in London.
00:17:59This weather is amazing.
00:18:00Let's go.
00:18:01Let's see.
00:18:01Let's see.
00:18:01Let's see.
00:18:02Let's see.
00:18:03If you stay a little longer
00:18:04I can tell you really wanna
00:18:06With me
00:18:09And my head is like
00:18:11But I know you got the ticket
00:18:13So give me half for a minute
00:18:15I think it's time we give it
00:18:19Because I don't really care what they do
00:18:22We never stop
00:18:24And I think we could taste something new
00:18:27Because I want your baby's just
00:18:29This place is a total sausage fest
00:18:32I love it!
00:18:43Look at all the lemons
00:19:02Let it go, let it go
00:19:12You ready now?
00:19:14Get it!
00:19:15I'm just going to go after that one now.
00:19:16Give her this. She want a new one.
00:19:18I know.
00:19:19Yay! She want a new one!
00:19:21It's been five months since we've been back from Europe.
00:19:24It was a great trip,
00:19:25but because we didn't sell Julia's apartment
00:19:27like we were planning to do,
00:19:28we had to come back from Europe early.
00:19:30You know, traveling is not cheap.
00:19:41You did see a lot, yeah.
00:19:50Yeah, there was one who was like,
00:19:51she's probably 60.
00:19:53You need to lower the retirement age over there.
00:20:00We're planning nine countries in one month.
00:20:02And it's a lot of different amazing experience.
00:20:06I love Switzerland so much.
00:20:08Yeah, you just have these like big icy mountains with snow on them.
00:20:12It looks like it's Photoshop.
00:20:13From a movie, yeah.
00:20:14So romantic.
00:20:16So romantica.
00:20:17You won't give a future to mommy.
00:20:20Though it was hard in our finances,
00:20:22I still feel like the trip was an overall success.
00:20:25I do feel like Julia and I reconnected to a certain level.
00:20:28Oh, yeah.
00:20:29Oh, yeah.
00:20:30That's a European sis-
00:20:31Sex-capade.
00:20:32Copade.
00:20:40Oh, my God. Oh, my God.
00:20:49You talking to somebody?
00:20:50I'm not here. Why?
00:20:51A kidnap.
00:20:52I gotta go. Hold on.
00:20:56Guess what?
00:21:00I swear to God, I'm not lying.
00:21:02This is not a joke.
00:21:11Okay.
00:21:13Oh, your husband?
00:21:15Yeah.
00:21:17Oh, my gosh.
00:21:19We're pregnant!
00:21:20Yay!
00:21:21Yay!
00:21:22After we reconnecting, I decided to try to have a baby.
00:21:26But Dr. Solis is not expecting anything for a long time.
00:21:31That's what she told us.
00:21:32I mean, like, it's possible, but she don't expect.
00:21:37Usually, I decide to record every time for a couple of years.
00:21:40I decide to record this, right?
00:21:42So, and this time, I decided, ah, it's going to be safe.
00:21:45I'm not going to record.
00:21:46I record every single time.
00:21:49Every single time.
00:21:50And this time, I'm like, no, I'm not going to record.
00:21:56I scared.
00:21:57What if?
00:21:58How is?
00:21:59What is that?
00:22:00This is, I need a second test.
00:22:02My brain explodes.
00:22:04I'm excited.
00:22:05Julia showed me that test.
00:22:06I was literally, like, the air just left my lungs.
00:22:09Like, greatest moment of my life so far.
00:22:12I think next best one's going to be when that little thing comes out of there, you know?
00:22:18That's right.
00:22:19I got to start working on my dad jokes.
00:22:22It doesn't need to work.
00:22:23You just need to repeat yours.
00:22:24Oh, really?
00:22:25Okay.
00:22:26I'm just shaking.
00:22:27I'm sorry.
00:22:28I'm not going to record this time.
00:22:31I'm, I'm, I'm just...
00:22:33You're gonna break.
00:22:34Yeah.
00:22:35I'm not.
00:22:36I'm not.
00:22:37You're not.
00:22:38I'mções.
00:22:39You're not.
00:22:41Yeah.
00:22:42I'm not.
00:22:43Men.
00:22:44I'm not.
00:22:45I'm not.
00:22:46I'm not.
00:22:47You're not.
00:22:48You're not.
00:22:49I'm not.
00:22:50I'm not.
00:22:51You're not.
00:22:52I'm not.
00:22:53I'm not.
00:22:54I'm not.
00:22:55It's gonna be a little strange.
00:22:56These people are just, like, weird.
00:22:58Dude, but why, well, why you've been very
00:23:01scattered?
00:23:02Oh, I saw them talking.
00:23:03I saw them talking to Yara,
00:23:05and then I heard, like, a glass break,
00:23:08and then they just didn't laugh.
00:23:09I don't know.
00:23:10They're gonna go to a fight?
00:23:12Let's talk to them.
00:23:26Hey, babe, I need help.
00:23:28I'm getting the toilet treats, and I'm coming.
00:23:31Toilet treats.
00:23:32Don't forget your mouth guard.
00:23:33Right.
00:23:35And your earplugs from me to tune me out.
00:23:38These are dirty now.
00:23:39I'm gonna leave them here.
00:23:41Where's the box from them, though?
00:23:42I don't know.
00:23:43I'm gonna start getting some stuff, though.
00:23:45Okay.
00:23:49I'm glad we're leaving, like...
00:23:51We gotta get out of here.
00:23:52I don't want this more of this uncomfortability
00:23:55and trying to resolve things.
00:23:56Like, I don't want to deal with that stuff anymore.
00:23:58I know.
00:23:59Just one thing out of here.
00:24:00I don't have energy for that.
00:24:04But, like, I definitely do want to talk to Yara.
00:24:07I can't leave this trip without, you know,
00:24:10making sure we're good.
00:24:11No problemo.
00:24:12Go talk to Yara.
00:24:14I'm gonna keep, you know, organizing,
00:24:16and then when you come back, we'll finish up and go.
00:24:19Okay.
00:24:19All right.
00:24:20I'll be right back.
00:24:21I can't leave this trip on these terms.
00:24:32Like, Yara definitely doesn't deserve what happened last night.
00:24:35And I'm not a malicious person.
00:24:37I wear my heart on my sleeve.
00:24:38I will literally give my shirt off of my back to you.
00:24:41And I want her to know that.
00:24:49Usually means do not disturb.
00:24:50And I want her to know that you do not disturb.
00:24:58Hi.
00:24:59Hi.
00:25:00Hi.
00:25:01We're getting ready to leave, so I wanted to talk to you
00:25:05if you have a minute.
00:25:06I do have a minute.
00:25:07So why are you leaving?
00:25:09You know what?
00:25:10It just, a lot happened last night.
00:25:15So I need to just decompress.
00:25:18I understand that you have to leave.
00:25:20I'm not gonna even try to pressure you to stay longer
00:25:22and all this stuff.
00:25:23I get it.
00:25:25I'm pissed at Elizabeth again because it's hypocritical
00:25:28because she got mad at me for all of us
00:25:32talking about them at dinner.
00:25:34But then she goes and twists words.
00:25:37And I'm so sorry that you felt in any way hurt.
00:25:43I wanted to apologize to you if I hurt you or.
00:25:46I do not have, like, negative energy, emotions to you,
00:25:50to be honest.
00:25:50I just want to give you a hug.
00:25:54The funniest part, to be honest, which I'm thinking right
00:25:55now, that I am the youngest from all of them.
00:25:58We have, like, five or seven years old difference between us.
00:26:02I mean, hello, guys.
00:26:03You could be more mature, almost 40.
00:26:08But to be honest, I appreciate Lauren and take accountability.
00:26:10I just can't be mad at her because she's opening up for me.
00:26:13And I'm actually asking the question of Elizabeth
00:26:16because she is the for a lot of the problems in the group.
00:26:21I would not have come on this trip
00:26:24if I didn't consider you a friend.
00:26:27I think the same thing about you.
00:26:28Have a safe life.
00:26:29Thank you, you too.
00:26:30Bye.
00:26:30Bye, tell Jovi we said bye.
00:26:31OK.
00:26:36All right.
00:26:38Oh, you're all packed.
00:26:39You see?
00:26:40I'm really glad that I spoke with Yara.
00:26:42Yeah?
00:26:42I am.
00:26:43It went really well.
00:26:44And we, like, I truly say, like, I love her.
00:26:48She's amazing.
00:26:49Great.
00:26:49So maybe now you have a new great friend.
00:26:52Yeah.
00:26:52You know, I don't want to say you lost one, but, like,
00:26:55you have a new somebody to talk more to.
00:26:58To latch on to.
00:27:01In 10 years, we have achieved so much as a couple.
00:27:05We've gone through seven surgeries, three kids,
00:27:08moving twice.
00:27:10Three times.
00:27:11Three times.
00:27:11Excuse me.
00:27:14Alex is my best friend.
00:27:16You are.
00:27:16She's my best friend, too.
00:27:21The big one is small.
00:27:22OK.
00:27:24One last look at that view.
00:27:27I want to have all of this behind me.
00:27:30It's not who we are.
00:27:31We don't fill ourselves with toxic people.
00:27:35This was the final straw.
00:27:37Like, there is no friendship between me and Elizabeth.
00:27:40I don't even like saying her name.
00:27:42I just need to, like, move on with my life.
00:27:46Whoa!
00:27:49We're open to new friends.
00:27:51Accepting applications for friends.
00:27:53We're accepting applications.
00:27:54We're ready to meet some new friends.
00:27:55What are your requirements, your special skills?
00:27:58Do you like to ski?
00:27:59How many kids do you have?
00:28:01Yeah, do you talk behind their back?
00:28:03Do you raise your wife's text messages?
00:28:07Whoo!
00:28:08We definitely accept the applications.
00:28:12Oh, it's knowing.
00:28:14Think I'm ready for the beach?
00:28:15I don't know.
00:28:25How'd you sleep?
00:28:26Uh, by myself.
00:28:28Last night, Georgie stormed out.
00:28:30He didn't come back to the room.
00:28:31And I have no idea where he is.
00:28:33He was even saying in Bulgaria he was able to think a lot.
00:28:37Think about what?
00:28:38I don't know.
00:28:39You're not crazy.
00:28:40I'm not crazy.
00:28:41There's something going on.
00:28:47I want a caring partner.
00:28:49I need you to fully be there for me.
00:28:52And then I bite the umbilical cord.
00:28:54Look at me in the eyes.
00:28:57There's a lot more stuff about this baby,
00:28:59and we've covered 5% in this class.
00:29:02Scary.
00:29:03So as we wrap up our class, I always, like, talk about how important the role of support is.
00:29:24So I encourage all of you to bring your partner more into this journey with you.
00:29:32That is our class for today, guys.
00:29:34Thank you so much for joining me today.
00:29:36I hope your hips are feeling loose and comfy,
00:29:39that you have some great tools to take home with you.
00:29:41Remember to practice some of these movements, some hands-on techniques.
00:29:46Yay!
00:29:47Yay!
00:29:48Yay!
00:29:49Good job, ladies.
00:29:50Thanks.
00:29:51Your daughter.
00:29:52Right out of the open.
00:29:53Good luck, guys.
00:29:57Oh, my gosh.
00:30:11Oh.
00:30:12I step on bubble gum.
00:30:14Uh-huh.
00:30:18So how did you feel during the class?
00:30:21Fantastic.
00:30:23What was your favorite part?
00:30:25Breathing.
00:30:26Do you like it?
00:30:27Yeah.
00:30:28Deep breathing in the air.
00:30:31What about the part where you have to pull the baby and how to give it to me?
00:30:35Remember?
00:30:36Yeah, I thought it was like a football move or something.
00:30:38But now you know how it is.
00:30:40How is it?
00:30:41So I push, you catch the baby.
00:30:43That's it, yeah.
00:30:44Then what?
00:30:45Then I just flip it around.
00:30:47Flip it around.
00:30:48Then I put it back in the oven.
00:30:49I mean, back to you.
00:30:50I hand it to you.
00:30:51It's in the legs.
00:30:52Then you grab it.
00:30:53Yeah, you have to remember those steps.
00:30:55And then I bite the umbilical cord.
00:30:57You're like, hey, hey, hey, hey.
00:30:58Why are you like this, man?
00:31:01Like what?
00:31:02I'm not even doing anything.
00:31:03Did you see how intimate it is?
00:31:06Like giving birth?
00:31:07Like literally all the positions.
00:31:08Being naked, pushing a baby out of you.
00:31:09Do you think that's funny?
00:31:10No.
00:31:11Exactly.
00:31:12So why you want to laugh?
00:31:14Nothing.
00:31:15Mad?
00:31:16Everything's fine.
00:31:18So why do you want to laugh?
00:31:20Nothing.
00:31:21Matt?
00:31:23Everything's fine.
00:31:26If Matt says stupid , like, it's fine
00:31:30when I'm giving birth to this baby,
00:31:31I'm going to cut his balls.
00:31:34It's not just saying out loud, everything is going to be fine.
00:31:37It's actually being supportive, taking care of the baby.
00:31:41This birth class is a good beginning,
00:31:44but I need this on a daily doses.
00:31:49Just look at me, Matt, like how pregnant I am.
00:31:52I feel lonely.
00:31:53I feel overwhelmed.
00:31:55Jazz, do you see, like, the amount of effort I'm putting?
00:31:59Like, I'm trying?
00:32:01I see it.
00:32:02Or do you only see the negative?
00:32:04I appreciate everything you're doing.
00:32:07I see you trying.
00:32:09But I need for this experience, you know,
00:32:14I need you to fully be there for me.
00:32:18No jokes, no nothing, just like, I want a caring partner.
00:32:23I need that right now.
00:32:25So I'm pleased.
00:32:27That's the only request I have.
00:32:30All right.
00:32:32Look at me in the eyes.
00:32:34Promise.
00:32:37Yes, boss.
00:32:40She's right.
00:32:41I'm going to have to do my part.
00:32:44I'm going to have to step up and do my part.
00:32:46But there's a lot more stuff about this baby,
00:32:49and we've covered 5% in this class.
00:32:52I don't know anything.
00:32:53Nothing.
00:32:54You know, what am I going to do?
00:32:57Scary, mm-hmm.
00:33:01It's a lot for me.
00:33:02I know it is for you, you know?
00:33:03I don't want to sound selfish, but I am the one
00:33:06who has the baby inside, the one doing the baking,
00:33:08the one that has to go through the pain of delivery,
00:33:13you know, the pushing.
00:33:15And trust me, that's a lot.
00:33:20I don't even know how many days or weeks
00:33:22until the baby is born.
00:33:23It's very stressful.
00:33:25It's a lot too funny, right?
00:33:42Oh, hey.
00:33:43Someone got some action last night.
00:33:46Oh, yeah.
00:33:47I'm in a good mood.
00:33:48Your hair, Jesus, Lord.
00:33:49Right!
00:33:50OK.
00:33:51Smacked it good, too.
00:33:52Well, wow, your bed looks a little too neat.
00:33:54Me?
00:33:55Yeah.
00:33:56Looking like you got ravaged.
00:33:58Yeah, oh yeah, I was like doing all kinds of blues,
00:34:00like doing like, like.
00:34:03What the?
00:34:04Wow.
00:34:15Ow.
00:34:16I'm trying to pull it.
00:34:17I'm just trying to get it out.
00:34:20Relax.
00:34:21How'd you sleep?
00:34:22Uh, by myself.
00:34:25What do you mean by yourself?
00:34:26It was fine the first two minutes,
00:34:27but then it turned sour.
00:34:29As usual.
00:34:30I don't know.
00:34:31I thought he was getting in the mood to want to like talk
00:34:32and open up.
00:34:33Say something.
00:34:34No, no, no, no, no.
00:34:35He kind of just went right into, you know,
00:34:38making me feel like I'm the blame for everything.
00:34:43Last night, Georgie stormed out.
00:34:44He didn't come back to the room,
00:34:46and I have no idea where he is.
00:34:48No text, no call.
00:34:50I don't know what he's thinking and feeling
00:34:52in this moment.
00:34:53It just doesn't feel good.
00:34:58He's very dismissive.
00:34:59And he was even saying in Bulgaria,
00:35:03he was able to think a lot.
00:35:05Think about what?
00:35:06I don't know.
00:35:07It's probably thinking about his future for himself
00:35:11and not having me included in it.
00:35:13Hmm.
00:35:14That's the vibe I got because the tone was nice.
00:35:15If it was thinking something positive,
00:35:17he'd be like, I was so, you know, so happy to be around family
00:35:20and you were there.
00:35:21But, you know, I could definitely see us, you know, thinking so much about what our future
00:35:25could look like.
00:35:26Right.
00:35:27It wasn't anything like that.
00:35:28He wasn't excited?
00:35:29If he was thinking about, he doesn't want to waste his time on me because he misses his family.
00:35:36And what, he doesn't think that I've been like a family to him?
00:35:39We've been nothing but family to him.
00:35:41Yes, we have.
00:35:42We've all been there for him.
00:35:43We've all given him the benefit of the doubt and showed him love and cared about him.
00:35:48I don't know.
00:35:49I smell something fishy.
00:35:51I texted him, are you okay?
00:35:53Will you be coming back to the hotel?
00:35:55He just responded.
00:35:56What'd he say?
00:35:57Not sure if you're really asking because you really care or you're just pretending that
00:36:04you care.
00:36:05Because most of the time, you are pretending that you care, but you don't give a at all.
00:36:09Seems like he's the one that doesn't care and give a .
00:36:10I think he's basically talking about himself when projecting that onto me.
00:36:14Exactly.
00:36:15That's what it sounds like, Darcy.
00:36:19Okay?
00:36:20You're not crazy.
00:36:21I'm not crazy.
00:36:22Something going on over there.
00:36:24Really, I just kind of feel like Darcy just can't get anywhere with Georgie.
00:36:29And I feel like this time around, this conversation, it's hitting deeper and it's hitting her soul into
00:36:37her core.
00:36:38And, you know, I just hope that she finds the peace that she needs so she can, you know,
00:36:44make the right decision for herself.
00:36:46Oh, Darcy, you deserve a husband that's going to be there for you through thick and thin and
00:36:53not always, you know, flip things on you, but he's always going to.
00:36:58He's never going to change.
00:36:59It's never going to happen.
00:37:03That's why it hurts.
00:37:10It's like a shield.
00:37:12Stay away.
00:37:16Come here.
00:37:17I got you.
00:37:18Help me.
00:37:19I got you.
00:37:20I got you.
00:37:21Be strong, Darcy.
00:37:22Be strong.
00:37:23I don't know what else to do to help fix this marriage and our relationship because it's
00:37:33broken.
00:37:34You can only patch up the cracks so many times.
00:37:37So, I don't know what to expect, I don't even know what to say if I see him.
00:37:42You got to do what's best for you.
00:37:45I don't want to be manipulated or angry or feel like I'm not worth it.
00:37:54Not again.
00:37:56You know, if two people love each other, they can forgive and forget, and we've been able
00:38:02to do that before in the past, but something just feels different this time.
00:38:07All you can do is focus on yourself.
00:38:10Just know that I love you.
00:38:12We all love you.
00:38:13It's all.
00:38:17It's all.
00:38:18I'm back.
00:38:19Can you do a sasquatch?
00:38:21He was dragging it alone.
00:38:24I think you will have a big .
00:38:27I could not believe on a sasquatch.
00:38:29I don't know.
00:38:30Sasquatch is real.
00:38:31Okay, no, sasquatch is real, if you say so.
00:38:35Yara's dropping hints.
00:38:37So, here today for your first day.
00:38:43OB visit, make sure there's a good heartbeat.
00:38:47We are done with this fertility journey for now,
00:38:50but I'm so scared.
00:38:53You're gonna feel a little bit of pressure.
00:38:56Oh my gosh.
00:39:08But you have to drive slow.
00:39:11You wanna throw up in the car?
00:39:13I don't.
00:39:14Sorry, it's just there's a lot of information
00:39:16going on right now.
00:39:17Now you want to try to speak like you're in a race?
00:39:19Really crazy news,
00:39:20and I'm still trying to process everything.
00:39:36Like, I knew, I felt like it would happen,
00:39:41but I was beginning to wonder, it may never happen.
00:39:44Okay, I'm gonna cry right now.
00:39:47That is how incredible in the world, and thinking about this,
00:39:53processing this, I'm proud of myself because I did all of this.
00:39:57to get pregnant.
00:40:01We decided not to go into the soji in this moment
00:40:04because I'm so scared to drink soji.
00:40:07So we decided to go into a third opinion.
00:40:10Them give us a plan.
00:40:12I changed my diet.
00:40:13I started doing hormones and vitamins.
00:40:15And most important, counting ablation tape.
00:40:19Okay, take a deep breath.
00:40:24I'm so happy we are done with this fertility journey for now.
00:40:30But now it's most scary and most excited moment
00:40:35is first OB visit.
00:40:38I'm worried that I won your heartbeat,
00:40:40and I'm so scared.
00:40:42Good morning, how are you?
00:40:45I'm Dr. Mayer.
00:40:46Nice to meet you.
00:40:47Nice to meet you.
00:40:48Nice to meet you.
00:40:50So, here today for your first OB visit,
00:40:55how do you feel?
00:40:58Weird.
00:40:59Yeah.
00:41:00That's super normal.
00:41:01It looks like I'm hungover every day.
00:41:02That is so normal.
00:41:04So, you are considered seven weeks and four days.
00:41:08And so, you're very much right in the middle
00:41:11of the first trimester.
00:41:13We'll do our ultrasound today,
00:41:15make sure there's a good heartbeat,
00:41:16and then the next visit will be at 12 weeks,
00:41:19right before you turn into that second trimester.
00:41:23All right, my love.
00:41:25Foot rest out.
00:41:28You're going to feel a little bit of pressure.
00:41:36And then...
00:41:38Right here,
00:41:46that's your baby.
00:41:50Look how cute your little baby is.
00:41:57Do you see right here?
00:41:59That's the heartbeat flickering.
00:42:04Why I always want to cry when I saw that.
00:42:07Everything looks so good, guys.
00:42:12All right, let me measure that heartbeat.
00:42:16And yours is 158.
00:42:17That's perfect.
00:42:19And I love it when the heartbeat
00:42:20is on the high side of normal.
00:42:22Your baby's perfect.
00:42:24Oh, my God.
00:42:27I'm rushing.
00:42:28I can't cry.
00:42:28Yes, you can.
00:42:30Yes, you can.
00:42:32You're still a woman with a baby inside.
00:42:35Oh, my God.
00:42:41Oh, my God.
00:42:41Yeah.
00:42:43It's so fun.
00:42:45Knowing you're pregnant is big enough news,
00:42:49but when you actually, like, see it,
00:42:51it's...
00:42:52I don't know.
00:42:54It's just a moment where my heart skips a beat,
00:42:56you know, it's incredible.
00:42:59The whole thing that we can even, like,
00:43:01start to look inside and what's going on in there
00:43:03is...
00:43:04It's really special.
00:43:05Don't touch my uterus.
00:43:17Okay.
00:43:20Gonna be a dad.
00:43:22That's crazy.
00:43:24I think I want to be a dad like my dad, you know?
00:43:26I want to...
00:43:26I always respected my dad a lot.
00:43:28He was always fun, but firm, you know?
00:43:31I feel like I'm going to get the fun part down for sure.
00:43:35Okay, let's go home.
00:43:37I have to eat.
00:43:37Okay.
00:43:38Steak and potato.
00:43:40Gotcha.
00:43:41This is a big moment for our family, you know?
00:43:44And I honestly cannot wait to tell my mom and my dad
00:43:48because, you know, this has been a long time coming,
00:43:51so I would like to do something special,
00:43:54something memorable.
00:43:57I don't know.
00:43:59What...
00:43:59What would be deserving of such a big moment?
00:44:04Bye.
00:44:04Bye.
00:44:05Oh, I feel like water leaking out of me.
00:44:16Jasmine, she's in labor.
00:44:18The baby is coming.
00:44:22It's just straight anxiety.
00:44:26Like, oh, man, she's really going to have a kid.
00:44:29It's 1 a.m.
00:44:42It's 1 a.m.
00:44:42I was obviously in bed,
00:44:45and I feel like my water has broken.
00:44:50I went to the bathroom,
00:44:51and I'm bleeding, and I'm in pain.
00:44:53I'm having certain contractions,
00:44:56so what Matt is going to do right now
00:44:57is he's going to call the midwife
00:44:59because I think a baby's coming, so...
00:45:02Matt, then you have to wake up.
00:45:04I know you want to sleep,
00:45:06but forget about sleeping life
00:45:07for the next days of your life.
00:45:22Oh...
00:45:23This place is kind of far, too.
00:45:26Oh, I feel like water leaking out of me.
00:45:29I feel like I have a diaper right now.
00:45:33Oh.
00:45:35Just make sure that I don't give birth
00:45:37in this car, Matt, please.
00:45:41I don't want to give birth in the car.
00:45:44Just breathe, Mama.
00:45:45Breathe.
00:45:47Try not to get anxiety.
00:45:49I'm trying not to,
00:45:51but it's giving me anxiety
00:45:52the fact that this birth center is so far away.
00:45:54It's like...
00:45:56Jasmine,
00:45:59she's in labor.
00:46:00It's happening.
00:46:02I hope we made the right choice
00:46:03to come to a birth center.
00:46:07And I'm thinking to myself,
00:46:08we should have just probably went to a hospital
00:46:10because if anything happens to her
00:46:12or the kid, like,
00:46:13what are we going to do?
00:46:15My heart is racing.
00:46:17I feel like the walls are kind of closing in,
00:46:19and I'm, like, stressed to the max.
00:46:26My contractions are coming
00:46:27every four to five minutes,
00:46:29and they are very, very intense.
00:46:32And I've been trying to hold it,
00:46:34it was, like, so freaking painful.
00:46:38Oh, here goes another one.
00:46:41Oh, yeah.
00:46:42But I'm taking it as a pro because
00:46:48I feel like every contraction
00:46:51is bringing me closer
00:46:53to meet our angel,
00:46:56our baby.
00:46:57Today is her birthday.
00:47:03And I cannot wait to meet her.
00:47:05So we just made it to the birth center,
00:47:14which is good.
00:47:15I'm in a lot of pain right now.
00:47:19Let's pray that everything works out.
00:47:22All right, Mom.
00:47:23And that we can hold our baby pretty soon.
00:47:27So let's see.
00:47:28Come on.
00:47:35And you can do anything for a minute, right?
00:47:40Come.
00:47:42That's your baby.
00:47:43Every contraction,
00:47:44that's your baby coming down.
00:47:45Yeah.
00:47:47Like a villain.
00:47:48Of course.
00:47:49Oy.
00:47:50Jesus.
00:47:52It's crazy.
00:47:53It's just crazy to know, like,
00:47:55the baby is coming.
00:47:58Like, Jasmine is in so much pain.
00:48:01You want to try to?
00:48:02Yeah.
00:48:02Can you talk a little bit?
00:48:03Yeah.
00:48:03Yes.
00:48:04Let's do that.
00:48:05So this is the part
00:48:06that's been scaring the crap out of me
00:48:08because it makes me feel,
00:48:10like, powerless, you know?
00:48:13And I feel bad.
00:48:16And I don't want anything
00:48:16to happen to her, you know?
00:48:19Oh!
00:48:20Good job.
00:48:21Oh!
00:48:22Breathe, honey.
00:48:25Breathe.
00:48:30Breathe.
00:48:32Breathe.
00:48:32Breathe.
00:48:33Oh!
00:48:37Mom, I'm dying.
00:48:39Please, God.
00:48:41Please don't let there be any issue.
00:48:42Please let the baby come out fine.
00:48:43Please let the baby be healthy.
00:48:45She's coming.
00:48:46She's coming.
00:48:47She's coming.
00:48:47She's from me.
00:48:48It's just straight anxiety
00:48:52because I'm worried to death
00:48:53that something might happen.
00:48:58Ah!
00:48:59Ah!
00:48:59Ah!
00:49:00Ah!
00:49:00Ah!
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00:49:20Ah!
00:49:21Ah!
00:49:21Ah!
00:49:22Ah!
00:49:22Oh, the baby stuff.
00:49:23We should go in and look at something.
00:49:25No.
00:49:25No.
00:49:26No.
00:49:26No, not inside.
00:49:27That is bad superstition in Russia.
00:49:30After first trimester, we can go inside.
00:49:33Julia, you have too many superstitions and stuff.
00:49:35No.
00:49:36You can't do this because we have to do everything right.
00:49:40I promise we will go store.
00:49:42In the second trimester, we will go store.
00:49:44That's a good idea.
00:49:45Yeah.
00:49:46All right.
00:49:47Whatever.
00:49:48OK, Brian.
00:49:49I'm hungry.
00:49:50Let's go.
00:49:51Let's go.
00:49:52Come on.
00:49:53Can we go this way is a bad superstition.
00:50:07Hi.
00:50:08How are you?
00:50:09Good.
00:50:10Welcome in.
00:50:11Have a seat wherever you'd like.
00:50:12Are we eating or drinking or both today?
00:50:13Both.
00:50:14OK.
00:50:15Hungry and thirsty.
00:50:16Love it.
00:50:17OK.
00:50:18Everything.
00:50:19Today, I officially seven weeks pregnant.
00:50:22And I just crave everything.
00:50:24And this is good feelings.
00:50:27First trimester, it's been tough.
00:50:30And people say morning sickness.
00:50:32That is not morning sickness.
00:50:34That's all day sickness.
00:50:39Look at that.
00:50:40Lollipop really helped me with my nausea.
00:50:43And Brandon trying to give me his lollipop.
00:50:46Sucking on stuff helped reduce the nausea.
00:50:49I mean, all I'm ever trying to do is help you out.
00:50:51You know what I mean?
00:50:53But it does not have a gum inside.
00:50:55It has something that rhymes with gum inside.
00:50:58What does it mean?
00:50:59What does it mean?
00:51:00You'll learn when you're older.
00:51:03Did you have a by chance garlic sauce?
00:51:08We have a garlic aioli sauce.
00:51:10Would you like that?
00:51:11Ooh.
00:51:12It's got aioli.
00:51:13Ooh.
00:51:14Sounds interesting.
00:51:15Enjoy.
00:51:16Oh.
00:51:19Oh, strong.
00:51:23Oh, my gosh.
00:51:25Wow, you never showed me this sauce before.
00:51:27I think they sell it at the grocery store.
00:51:29Garlic, that sauce?
00:51:31Yeah.
00:51:32Is your life now complete?
00:51:34Are you just going to be drinking it by the tub?
00:51:37Mmm.
00:51:38I want just sweet bread.
00:51:41And I put in the garlic sauce.
00:51:43And I eat it.
00:51:44Like I'm dipping it in a super garlic onion sauce.
00:51:47I've seen you eat pizza with chicken sauce, Julia.
00:51:49I mean...
00:51:50Yeah.
00:51:52Pizza with chicken sauce is good.
00:51:57Lately, Julia's had weird cravings.
00:51:59Like, shove dip some french fries and lemonade.
00:52:04That's weird.
00:52:07I need to try every sauce now.
00:52:11I try to stock the fridge with whatever she wants,
00:52:14and I swear to God, we'll go to the store and spend $200,
00:52:17and then she'll be like, burgers.
00:52:19So it's like caring for Julia right now is a challenge.
00:52:24She is needy.
00:52:26Needy.
00:52:28Seriously.
00:52:33It's interesting that you have all these weird cravings.
00:52:36That's so good.
00:52:39Dancing in there?
00:52:40Just doing little backflips in there?
00:52:43Don't move your hands.
00:52:45Why?
00:52:46Don't show people here around.
00:52:48Shh.
00:52:50But it's a lot happening, especially with my body, with my mood, with my hormones.
00:52:56It's a lot of happening.
00:52:58I can feel it, but at the same time, I don't believe it.
00:53:02You're having a lot of changes now, and you're grown in some of my favorite areas, you know?
00:53:08So it's becoming noticeable, Julia.
00:53:10So we really, I think it's time to tell my parents before they figure it out.
00:53:16And they get pissed off, because we didn't tell them.
00:53:18Brandon, your mom, she'll just make sure everything in her way.
00:53:33I think it'd be a really good idea to tell my parents right now, because since we've come back from Europe, they're still mad about the financial bond we put ourselves in.
00:53:42And I just feel like they'll be happy for us.
00:53:45They're the grandparents, you know?
00:53:48But, um, Julia hasn't seen my parents since the last time we had a fight with them.
00:53:55So, you are just waiting for a little more time.
00:53:58I've always...
00:53:59I'm already almost done first trimester.
00:54:02I promise, in a second trimester, we're going to tell my parents and your parents, because we need to make a plan.
00:54:07No.
00:54:08I mean, what if they find out before the second trimester?
00:54:13Your brain will explode now.
00:54:15No, you're just creating a recipe for disaster.
00:54:29We could use the support, you know?
00:54:30Give my parents time to, like, plan for this.
00:54:33Give us advice.
00:54:34There's so much we don't know about having babies, and they do.
00:54:39Betty, she will be overstepping.
00:54:42She already overcontrolled us.
00:54:45And now I'm pregnant.
00:54:46I don't want she to be telling me what to do.
00:54:48She told me, like, where to go, and she will be suspicious what I'm doing.
00:54:53It's important that mom and dad know now.
00:54:58I mean, they're the most, like, important people to know.
00:55:01You know?
00:55:02When we have this child, they gain a status.
00:55:04They become grandparents, you know?
00:55:06So, like, if we're going to tell anybody, it should be them.
00:55:09They should know first.
00:55:10I don't think my mom was overbearing.
00:55:12She just wants to help and be supportive.
00:55:13But I feel like Julia keeping it a secret is just making the situation worse.
00:55:24Because if my parents find out we've been hiding something as big as this from them,
00:55:28they're going to be absolutely offended.
00:55:44Hello.
00:55:45How are we doing, folks?
00:55:47Good. How are you?
00:55:48Ready to go find Sasquatch.
00:55:50Are we waiting for the other ones?
00:55:52Who?
00:55:53Yeah, where's Lauren and Alex?
00:55:54Oh, they left.
00:55:56What?
00:55:57Yeah.
00:55:58They didn't even tell me bye, either.
00:55:59They just hold eyes.
00:56:00They go...
00:56:01They went back.
00:56:02What happened?
00:56:03They're mad about last night, of course.
00:56:04Yeah.
00:56:05Should I say back?
00:56:06What happened?
00:56:07We talked to them.
00:56:08They were fine.
00:56:09I mean, me and Yara had a conversation with Lauren.
00:56:11They weren't really thrilled about that conversation.
00:56:13So, I guess they were just like their cue to get the out of here.
00:56:16I saw you guys talking and then I saw like a glass break.
00:56:33Yeah.
00:56:34It looked like everything.
00:56:35Julie break everything.
00:56:36I didn't break everything.
00:56:37I mean, I told them the truth.
00:56:40About what?
00:56:41I told Julia what you told me and Julia went and told her what you told me.
00:56:45I called her out.
00:56:46You told her that?
00:56:47Yeah.
00:56:48What, you mad I ruined your friendship again?
00:56:51Well, now she's probably mad at me again.
00:56:54But I was saying that more as a precautionary for Yara not to be like, stay away from her.
00:57:00Just to let her know.
00:57:01I had a shot ski and felt like talking about it.
00:57:04Oh my gosh.
00:57:05You don't have to tattletale.
00:57:09I feel really awful.
00:57:11Lauren leaving this abruptly is not good.
00:57:14And I think Jovi needs to keep his mouth shut and mind his own business
00:57:18because Yara wasn't planning on saying anything to Lauren.
00:57:22She's not that type of person.
00:57:23She avoids conflict at all costs.
00:57:27Why would he instigate like another fight?
00:57:29We all just got over something massive.
00:57:32And then he's going to bring up some other bull .
00:57:35He did it again, you know, like, and he's the, again, the .
00:57:37He's being a .
00:57:39Yeah, he again does the same .
00:57:41Seems like he's up to no good too, right?
00:57:46Well, honestly, like, that information sucks to hear
00:57:49because now I don't know where her and I stand.
00:57:52Now I'm back in the lion's den.
00:57:58Anyways, you know, like, those memes about the Sasquatches that are in Moldova.
00:58:03Everybody got a different name for it, huh?
00:58:05Well, Andrew, in Moldova, how did you call?
00:58:07Baba Yaga.
00:58:08Baba Yaga?
00:58:09Baba Yaga?
00:58:10Yeah.
00:58:11I also heard that Sasquatches is interested in blondes over here.
00:58:15Oh!
00:58:16We're all first victims.
00:58:18We're going to come and run.
00:58:19We'll be like, hey, I'll give you my wife.
00:58:22Just let me leave.
00:58:24You know what I mean?
00:58:25Hey, nobody never saw him.
00:58:26Maybe he's hot.
00:58:27He probably has a big .
00:58:29And have a big house in the forest.
00:58:30Big .
00:58:31What the ?
00:58:32He's got big feet.
00:58:33Yeah.
00:58:34Yeah.
00:58:35Yeah.
00:58:36Right?
00:58:37Exactly.
00:58:38We're here.
00:58:39Like, come on.
00:58:40Shut up.
00:58:41Wherever you are.
00:58:42Hey, guys.
00:58:43Hello.
00:58:44Welcome to the land of Sasquatch.
00:58:45Hello.
00:58:46My name's Mike.
00:58:48Hello.
00:58:49Have you ever been this far in the woods before?
00:58:50Yeah.
00:58:51Been in the woods, but we never saw Chupacabra.
00:58:52Chupacabra?
00:58:53Looking for the wrong thing, baby.
00:58:54OK.
00:58:55Well, follow me.
00:58:56You know, we met the bartender the first night,
00:58:57and he knew a guy who does these Sasquatch tours.
00:58:59My great grandfather, I think his first Sasquatch sighting was in 1936.
00:59:02He saw him off in the woods.
00:59:03I mean, he's clearly been out a bunch.
00:59:04It's so fun that every country has, like, the stuff that lives in the woods.
00:59:05Because it's an anxiety.
00:59:06Everybody's scared of going to the woods.
00:59:07The thing about Sasquatch is that they're mostly at night.
00:59:08So if you try to take a walk, you're going to take a walk, you're going to the woods.
00:59:09You know, we met the bartender the first night.
00:59:10You know, we met the bartender the first night, and he knew a guy who does these Sasquatch
00:59:11tours.
00:59:12My great grandfather, I think his first Sasquatch sighting was in 1936.
00:59:15He saw him off in the woods.
00:59:16I mean, he's clearly been out a bunch.
00:59:17I mean, he's clearly been out a bunch.
00:59:18It's so fun that every country has, like, stuff that lives in the woods.
00:59:23Because it's an anxiety.
00:59:24Everybody's scared of going to the woods.
00:59:29The thing about Sasquatch is that they're mostly at night.
00:59:33So if you try to take a picture or shine a flashlight, you're really not going to see
00:59:36anything but just a black blob.
00:59:37So it's very hard to find them, very hard to see them.
00:59:40There's state campsites over here, and I've heard people screaming.
00:59:43So I assume he shows up and wants something to eat.
00:59:47I don't believe in Sasquatches, but I definitely believe that there are some
00:59:52questionable creatures in the woods.
00:59:55Because when I was about 13, I was walking alone in the woods.
00:59:59And something flew past me.
01:00:01And I still to this day have no clue what the hell it was.
01:00:04A bird?
01:00:05It was just like this dark thing that just flew by, but it was massive.
01:00:09And it was at the top of the trees.
01:00:11It wasn't a bird.
01:00:12It didn't, it just, I don't even know.
01:00:14I can't explain it.
01:00:15It was so weird.
01:00:16Oh, this is beautiful.
01:00:22Wow, look at this.
01:00:23It's crazy, crazy.
01:00:24It's quite nice to wake up to every morning.
01:00:26Yes, it is.
01:00:27So you can see here, these are fresh claw marks from Sasquatch.
01:00:33Oh, .
01:00:35At night, you can hear them scratching the trees.
01:00:37Over the clunt saw.
01:00:38Oh, okay.
01:00:39That's great.
01:00:40We got a sign, Andre.
01:00:42Really creepy.
01:00:43Wow.
01:00:44I fully believe in all this Sasquatch stuff.
01:00:48And apparently, this is a popular place.
01:00:50Like, everybody believes Sasquatch is here.
01:00:52So I was thinking, you know, we have to do this.
01:00:54We're going to look for Sasquatch, but it's going to be fun.
01:00:57I could not believe in Sasquatch.
01:00:59I don't know.
01:01:00Sasquatch is real.
01:01:01Okay, Sasquatch is real.
01:01:03If you say so.
01:01:08We're kind of in the middle of nowhere, honestly.
01:01:10Yeah.
01:01:11What do people eat around here?
01:01:13Do you have a grocery store?
01:01:15No, we don't have grocery stores.
01:01:17So where do you get, like, eggs or milk?
01:01:19My sister has cows and chickens.
01:01:21I'm with you.
01:01:22Come on, let's go.
01:01:27That was Sasquatch.
01:01:30Can you do a Sasquatch ?
01:01:32He's dragging it alone.
01:01:34Because he's a big .
01:01:36I think he's a guy, and I think he will have a big .
01:01:39Speaking of all that .
01:01:41Like that.
01:01:42That's Sasquatch.
01:01:43That's a crooked .
01:01:44Yara's dropping hints.
01:01:51That's funny.
01:01:52Josie, I think that was a hint for you.
01:01:54Hey, guys.
01:01:55I don't want to slow down for anybody, and we're way further than I'm usually comfortable going.
01:01:59So if, like, you look over here, you can see fresh tracks.
01:02:04I don't know what those are, so we've probably come too far.
01:02:07And I'm not comfortable being all the way down here.
01:02:09You're too far?
01:02:11You can't.
01:02:12I've never come this far.
01:02:13Oh.
01:02:16See that there?
01:02:17That's a little bit of a dent.
01:02:26You see it?
01:02:27No way.
01:02:28That's a real .
01:02:29Babe, you're going to fall through something.
01:02:31Okay, that's probably far enough.
01:02:33We should go back.
01:02:34Hey, stop.
01:02:35Don't.
01:02:36Nobody's been close enough to know if he's dangerous.
01:02:41Stop.
01:02:42Hey, that's close enough.
01:02:43We should probably go back.
01:02:48Hughie, the lake is his at night, and I don't want to be out here.
01:02:53Okay, yeah, let's go.
01:02:55You know what?
01:02:56We should rename Sasquatch.
01:02:57Alex.
01:02:59He disappears.
01:03:00He disappears.
01:03:01This little Sasquatch journey is a lot of fun.
01:03:06I love seeing Yara's goofy side.
01:03:08I think she's so funny.
01:03:10But Jovi better watch out because he's on thin ice.
01:03:14I don't think that Jovi understands the depths of this.
01:03:18Like, my friendship with Lauren could be over.
01:03:21Like, Lauren and I have finally had a good night with each other.
01:03:25I don't think Jovi's taking that into consideration.
01:03:27I think he's just like, oh, whatever.
01:03:29They're not friends anymore.
01:03:30No big deal.
01:03:32Jovi's not seeing it for what it is.
01:03:34So the fact that Jovi is just trying to stir the pot right now
01:03:38and be a starter is not a good look.
01:03:41And it just makes me really believe that he's just a dick.
01:03:44Yeah, a working dick.
01:03:45I got some appetite after this.
01:03:47Yeah, I want to eat something.
01:03:48All the cock.
01:03:49It's making me hungry.
01:03:51I got this message from Georgie that he wants to meet.
01:03:56I'm eager and I'm ready to hear what he has to say.
01:03:59Are we even together right now?
01:04:01Like, you walked out.
01:04:02I don't know.
01:04:03I want to feel part for myself.
01:04:05There needs to be some serious conversations
01:04:07and we're running out of time.
01:04:14I want to feel part for myself.
01:04:27This is absolutely fucking cool.
01:04:28I think this is too work.
01:04:31I don't think so.
01:04:43I understand how I need you to be a few people.
01:04:45Bye.
01:04:46I keep living אל's children.
01:04:52You want to drink something?
01:05:07Yeah, I'll drink.
01:05:08What do I do?
01:05:09I'll do a Cosmo.
01:05:11Can I have one Cosmo and one WhatsApp wine of the same place?
01:05:17I got this message from Georgie that he wants to meet
01:05:20and explain what's on his heart.
01:05:24So I'm eager and I'm ready to hear what he has to say.
01:05:37So, did you sleep okay last night?
01:05:40Because you didn't come back.
01:05:43Where did you sleep?
01:05:44I just get through for myself.
01:05:45I need time for myself just to figure out how I really feel.
01:05:55And especially after Bulgaria.
01:05:59This trip kind of made me feel different kind of ways
01:06:02and opened different kind of emotions and feelings about everything.
01:06:05Even last night, I tried to talk with you about it.
01:06:13Emotions about our marriage.
01:06:15About everything.
01:06:16Work.
01:06:17What I want.
01:06:18What are your finances?
01:06:18Family.
01:06:19Everything.
01:06:21I mean, if you can kind of dive in a little deeper,
01:06:24divulge a little bit more.
01:06:25Yeah, so one of the actually,
01:06:29what I realized one of the strongest feelings and emotion I have
01:06:33was for you.
01:06:34Oh.
01:06:35You know, that's, I really care about you and I really love you.
01:06:40I love you too, but are we even together right now?
01:06:43Like, you walked out, I don't know.
01:06:45I want to feel empowered for myself.
01:06:46I get you want to do the same thing.
01:06:48Is this marriage going to work?
01:06:49Is it not going to work?
01:06:50Like, there needs to be some serious conversations
01:06:52and we're running out of time.
01:06:54That's why I want to talk with you.
01:06:59Try to explain my feelings, how I feel.
01:07:02I need to feel comfortable just to, I don't know, I don't know.
01:07:05Comfortable with what?
01:07:06Why don't you feel comfortable with me?
01:07:08Because I'm expressing how I feel too.
01:07:12And you can't handle the way that I express myself.
01:07:14I'm sorry that I'm not trying to get at a level 10.
01:07:17I'm, I'm, it gets that way because I don't feel like
01:07:20we're getting each other.
01:07:21It's too much.
01:07:24What do you need to say?
01:07:29And I don't want to talk anymore.
01:07:31I'm, I'm already tired.
01:07:34I'm trying to hurt you.
01:07:35When I see my sister with her kids and her family.
01:07:50And when my sister asks me if I want a kid.
01:07:55And it's kind of, in a way, kind of hit me.
01:08:08And since this day, she asked me about if I want kids.
01:08:14I keep thinking about this.
01:08:16Where do you want to go with this?
01:08:22Breathe, mama.
01:08:34Breathe?
01:08:35Breathe.
01:08:36Breathe.
01:08:38Deep breath.
01:08:41She's coming.
01:08:41She's coming right now, mama.
01:08:42She's coming.
01:08:43She's coming.
01:08:44Take a deep breath, and then you push down.
01:08:47Ah!
01:08:47Ah!
01:08:47Ah!
01:08:48Ah!
01:08:49Ah!
01:08:49Ah!
01:08:50Ah!
01:08:50Ah!
01:08:51Ah!
01:08:51Ah!
01:08:52Ah!
01:08:52Ah!
01:08:59Breathe, mama.
01:09:00Breathe.
01:09:01Breathe.
01:09:02Breathe.
01:09:02Ah!
01:09:04Breathe, baby.
01:09:04Breathe.
01:09:05Ah!
01:09:07Deep breath.
01:09:07She's coming.
01:09:08She's coming right now, mama.
01:09:09She's coming.
01:09:13We're going to work together, okay?
01:09:15Oh!
01:09:16Take a deep breath, and then you push down.
01:09:19Yeah.
01:09:19Ah!
01:09:22Ah!
01:09:24Ah!
01:09:25He's coming, honey.
01:09:27Breathe, didn't push deep.
01:09:29Ah!
01:09:30Ah!
01:09:31Hurry up!
01:09:32Hurry up!
01:09:33Hurry up!
01:09:34Grab her.
01:09:35Grab her.
01:09:36Grab her.
01:09:37Oh, have her.
01:09:38Hi.
01:09:39Grab her.
01:09:40Hi.
01:09:41Hi.
01:09:42Hi.
01:09:43Grab her.
01:09:44Oh, hi.
01:09:45How's that?
01:09:46Ty?
01:09:47Jeez.
01:09:48I'm going home.
01:09:49Yeah, that's okay.
01:09:50I love you.
01:09:53I love you, honey.
01:09:55You're fine, my dear.
01:09:58You're fine.
01:09:59You're fine.
01:10:00Wow.
01:10:01Yes.
01:10:02Good day.
01:10:03Want any respiration?
01:10:04Good?
01:10:05Yeah.
01:10:06She is perfect.
01:10:07I'm going to keep her nice and warm here.
01:10:09Oh, my gosh.
01:10:11Now, just seeing my baby, my daughter,
01:10:15on my chest.
01:10:16Thank you, honey.
01:10:17Thank you, honey.
01:10:18Thank you, honey.
01:10:19Thank you, honey.
01:10:20Thank you, honey.
01:10:21I imagine her in so many different ways, but none of them, again, even the closer to how
01:10:32perfect and beautiful she actually is.
01:10:36I feel like this is how an angel will look like.
01:10:41I would like to introduce our baby.
01:10:47Matilda.
01:10:48Matilda.
01:10:49Matilda.
01:10:50Matilda's here.
01:10:51Just bake out of the oven.
01:10:54And she has blue eyes.
01:10:56Where'd you get the name Matilda from?
01:11:01From a joke.
01:11:03I used to call Matt Matilda.
01:11:06In Matilda, you can see the name Matt.
01:11:09And it's Matt and Matty, because that's how we call her.
01:11:13It was beautiful.
01:11:15Very painful.
01:11:16All medicated, but worth every second of pain just to meet my beautiful angel.
01:11:26With giving birth to my daughter and Matt being there,
01:11:30I trust Matt as I have never trusted a person.
01:11:34When I was the most vulnerable, he was there for me unconditionally.
01:11:39He made me feel so loved.
01:11:41And after this, I can trust him with anything, because I know that no matter what, he's going
01:11:47to have my back.
01:11:54I have no doubt he's going to be a good dad.
01:11:57She's so beautiful.
01:11:59We're so blessed.
01:12:00Wow.
01:12:01Finally, daddy's using the right pronouns.
01:12:04You stopped calling her he.
01:12:07Now you believe it's a sheep?
01:12:10Yes.
01:12:11How does it feel to be the brand new daddy of a baby girl?
01:12:15Scary.
01:12:16Why?
01:12:17You're still scared?
01:12:18She's so small and fragile.
01:12:20The joy in seeing your child for the first time, it's crazy, you know?
01:12:29And in that moment, like, I literally felt like my heart grew like the Grinch's three sizes.
01:12:35I cannot believe that 10 hours ago, this baby was inside of Jasmine.
01:12:40Like, it's a whole baby.
01:12:42I can't believe she was first in your balls.
01:12:45That's gross, huh, dude?
01:12:47I'm telling you, I've never felt that level of depth of love.
01:12:54And it's like, this is what, this is what life is about.
01:12:58It's not about what your cars are.
01:13:00It don't matter about how much money you got and all the other garbage that we try to tell each other.
01:13:04That's not what it's about.
01:13:05What it's about is this very moment.
01:13:07And I could feel it.
01:13:08I could feel the love, the compassion.
01:13:11And, uh, I don't know, it's an insane feeling that I don't think anything, nothing can top this feeling.
01:13:22It's just something crazy.
01:13:28I love you, Maddie.
01:13:30I'm gonna spend the rest of my life taking care of you.
01:13:34Me too, baby.
01:13:36Like, every single tear, every single struggle that I have had ever since I came to this country, everything made sense.
01:13:45Because even when it is a mess, my life is a mess.
01:13:50If, you know, it led to this point in which I'm holding this beautiful, perfect angel on my arms.
01:13:57It's just like, I will go through everything again just to be able to have her.
01:14:03My daughter is beautiful.
01:14:07Yeah.
01:14:08I love her so much.
01:14:11You're perfect.
01:14:12You're a me too.
01:14:20This child is my child?
01:14:22It's not my child.
01:14:24I am technically the father of this child.
01:14:28It's time to file for divorce.
01:14:30She couldn't leave the country or be deported.
01:14:32And now that complicates things.
01:14:34You are taking a chance the longer you wait.
01:14:37I think you have to look at the risk here.
01:14:52You have a baby that will be born to this marriage, and as a result, you're presumed to be the father.
01:15:00Child support alone is going to be hundreds of thousands of dollars that you're going to be paying for a baby that you said is not yours.
01:15:09I wouldn't take a hundred thousands of dollar risk.
01:15:13That's not a game I would play.
01:15:15I think it's something you need to take care of.
01:15:17You're telling me that this child is my child?
01:15:35It's not my child.
01:15:37Under Michigan law, that's how the law sees it.
01:15:39That is a basic presumption.
01:15:42There's ways to get around it, though.
01:15:44You may have to do a paternity test, DNA.
01:15:47If the father of the child is willing to do an affidavit to indicate that he is the father of the child, there's ways around it.
01:15:55But there's time limits on this, too.
01:15:57The law, you need to do this within three years of birth.
01:16:00When I heard that Jasmine was pregnant, I thought that that actually would help my case in the divorce because it proves adultery.
01:16:12But I had no freaking clue that I am technically the father of this child.
01:16:20Are you freaking kidding me?
01:16:21That's really up.
01:16:24This is ridiculous.
01:16:26She really, really messed up my life.
01:16:30Yeah, I'm sorry.
01:16:31That's not something easy to go through, especially if you had this image that it was going to be you and her and have a child.
01:16:38Yeah, it was supposed to be her and I.
01:16:40We talked about this.
01:16:44Now, are you deciding that it's time to file for divorce?
01:16:47When you file, it takes at least 60 days to get divorced if you don't have kids.
01:16:52If you don't have kids.
01:16:53However, just given what you just told me, since there's a minor child involved, the statutory waiting period is now 180 days or six months.
01:17:01So from the time of filing, it's going to take a minimum of six months to get divorced.
01:17:06Because there's a child involved.
01:17:08Correct.
01:17:09Even though the child is not yours.
01:17:12I'm not quite ready yet.
01:17:16There's two reasons.
01:17:17One is I have a lot of investments.
01:17:21I want to wait for the market to drop and then file because I want the least financial impact to me.
01:17:27Because I know when you're married, you share assets basically 50-50 during your marriage.
01:17:32Another reason is immigration.
01:17:35Because Jasmine is going to have to remove conditions from her green card, okay, to get her permanent tenure card.
01:17:41She's on the two-year probationary card right now.
01:17:44But I am not jointly going to sign for it.
01:17:47And the only way she can do it on her own is if she's divorced.
01:17:52So if I divorce her right away, I'm giving her the green light to get that card.
01:18:00I want her to be held accountable for the betrayal she did to me, okay?
01:18:04That's super important to me.
01:18:07When there is this vengeance, payback, pound of flesh you're seeking,
01:18:12a lot of people unfortunately think that you can utilize the court system to gain that pound of flesh.
01:18:18What you do is you give attorneys a lot more money to probably in a position that I could have told you would have been in from the beginning.
01:18:24So I believe he should be filing for a divorce in Michigan yesterday.
01:18:29Since there's a minor child involved, you're going to have to bring in action within three years.
01:18:36Oh my God.
01:18:37One thing we haven't considered is that Jasmine could file for divorce in Florida.
01:18:42I would hate to have to travel back and forth to Florida for a divorce.
01:18:46So the person that initiates divorce is where the state that it's going to be handled in?
01:18:53Correct.
01:18:54Um, really?
01:18:55Dude.
01:18:56This is jacked.
01:18:57You know, you are taking a chance the longer you wait.
01:19:01She couldn't leave the country or be deported.
01:19:03And now that complicates things as far as you trying to get a hold of her and it just cost you more money.
01:19:08Hearing everything the lawyer is telling me today, he's actually convinced me that I need to take action now and I need to be the one who files for a divorce so I can take control of the divorce and have it in Michigan.
01:19:27And with Jasmine's personality and stuff, I don't know what she's going to do next.
01:19:32I don't know what she's thinking in that crazy mind of hers and that devilish inside of hers, you know.
01:19:38I've got a lot of stuff to think about here.
01:19:40Yeah, absolutely.
01:19:41I mean, whatever you need, we're here for you.
01:19:43Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, Happily Ever After.
01:19:50You're going to walk at least in the street?
01:19:52You got to because if I go like this, a baby could die, Julia.
01:19:57It's a good thing I think of these things.
01:19:58I'm five months pregnant right now and still nobody know I'm pregnant.
01:20:06You should tell him daddy right now.
01:20:08Thank you, all right?
01:20:10Let her know because eventually it's going to come out and she's going to know this timeline.
01:20:14I mean, I am lucky that she even let me tell you guys, to be honest.
01:20:18She are over-controlling.
01:20:20She even getting more controlling than before.
01:20:23I don't need more stress on my shoulder right now.
01:20:28Oh my gosh, so many pictures.
01:20:30Oh my gosh, full head of hair, I got a necklace on.
01:20:33Back in the day when I was working out, looking good.
01:20:37Hey, what's up?
01:20:39Hey, Jasmine, I guess posted something on social media right now.
01:20:44It looks like she had her baby.
01:20:49Wow.
01:20:50I feel in a way that they're expecting me to have kids.
01:20:59Because that's how is our culture.
01:21:02Stop, babe.
01:21:03Let me move on.
01:21:04Let me have my keys.
01:21:06Stop.
01:21:07Just stop.
01:21:11What am I big for?
01:21:12I see everywhere you go, there's problems that follow you.
01:21:15Jovi, he is just trying to find somehow to like point the finger.
01:21:20Let's get in the out, babe.
01:21:21Sit down and handle yourself like a man.
01:21:26You know your mom.
01:21:27I want to cause a very good impression.
01:21:29I want my kids and my friends to be saved.
01:21:33And not to go to hell, but to have one.
01:21:36That's all I want.
01:21:37This is everything that goes against her morals and values.
01:21:43The only people we can live for is ourselves.
01:21:47There is no way she's going to accept this relationship.
01:21:53With this string, would you marry me?
01:21:55With this string, would you marry me?
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