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00:01Previously on 90 Day Fiancé goes away.
00:04Today I am finally going to Tasmania to see my honey.
00:08My biggest concern about going to Australia is his mom being so darn close to us.
00:13I think it's about time that he gets off his mom's nipple.
00:24I feel like I can start living life now.
00:26Ring.
00:27It's coming.
00:30Please make yourself comfortable.
00:32Okay.
00:33In Oklahoma, I get weekly massages.
00:38I couldn't afford the life that you want.
00:40I don't want you to make choices because you feel like that's what I want in the future.
00:45You don't necessarily appreciate how much I give to this.
00:51I have an idea for a business here.
00:54Are you, like, for real?
00:57Minoan will always be hustling.
01:00I know what that leads to.
01:03Us divorcing.
01:08Do you see him?
01:09Jonathan asked me to stop his location sharing.
01:13But my eyesight doesn't need to stop tracking him.
01:17What if something happens and I just gave everything up?
01:21Do you see him?
01:22I think you're a little bit too much?
01:23Do you see him?
01:24Can I see him?
01:25I don't know.
01:26I know who he is.
01:27I know who he is.
01:28Mmm, it smells good.
01:53It smells good.
01:55I started learning French when me and Manon began dating.
01:58She always says I mispronounce everything,
02:00so Manon's taking every opportunity she can to test my French.
02:04Allez, vas-y.
02:05Okay, alors...
02:08Je prends quatre pain au chocolat.
02:13Quatre?
02:14Quatre, yeah.
02:16Right?
02:18Et quatre mini beignets.
02:22Everything's gonna be quatre now.
02:25All right, c'est tout.
02:28C'est chaud.
02:29Oui, c'est chaud.
02:31Merci à vous, bonne journée.
02:33Merci, bonne journée.
02:34Merci, bonne journée.
02:35Merci.
02:36Bonne journée.
02:37A tout à l'heure.
02:38Non, a tout à l'heure, non.
02:39For sure.
02:40Oh, my...
02:41I say we, uh, resté ici.
02:46What do you want, Ben?
02:48You want to play?
02:49You want to drink?
02:50You want to eat?
02:51Go play, dude.
02:52Allez jouer.
02:53Non, jouer, it's something else.
02:55Play.
02:56Non, jouer, it's having an orgasm.
02:59Jouer.
03:00That's what I said.
03:01No, you said jouer.
03:02You don't want to say that.
03:03No.
03:04So the baptism's tomorrow.
03:05Yeah, I know.
03:06I'm scared and I'm excited.
03:07This weekend, Benjamin is going to be baptized, and I invited my whole family to the baptism,
03:19just to be polite.
03:20And honestly, I'm pretty shocked because everyone said they are going to be there.
03:26You know, people that I haven't seen in a long time.
03:29Some people have beef with each other, like, in each family, you know.
03:34But once you said to me, and actually I remember, I took it really at heart.
03:38You said, like, you know what, if you go to France, it may be also a good opportunity
03:42for you to make amends or bury the hatchet with everyone, and you are going to be seen
03:47like the first and the only one who actually initiate something positive.
03:53We only see each other during, like, funerals, which is very sad.
03:57No one is doing an initiative to actually meet up and have a good time.
04:01Yeah.
04:02It's really turned into, like, this big thing with all your family.
04:06And to be honest, like, for me, it's a little weird.
04:08I'm not religious.
04:10So?
04:11I don't agree with that.
04:13It's uncomfortable for me.
04:15I don't believe in Catholicism and just the establishment of religion in general.
04:19I feel like a lot of people hide behind it when they do bad things.
04:22I feel like a lot of it's greed, power.
04:25I would say that, like, for the baptism, I'm for against it, you know.
04:30I'm for doing it for my own.
04:33But as long as we're not practicing, I'm good.
04:36I get it.
04:37I get it.
04:38But we've done a lot of things your way because it was your country, your family.
04:42It's about my roots.
04:44We are French.
04:45We are Christian Catholic.
04:47The entire family is.
04:49I am.
04:50And this is just one thing that I want.
04:52I am doing this for you.
04:54And I'm there for you.
04:55And I love it.
04:56And I see it.
04:58My family and my extended family really stresses me out.
05:03They always peek at me and they always like to.
05:07Antoni said being the black sheep of the family.
05:11So I'm worried that a lot of uncomfortable moments are going to happen.
05:15And the fire in me is going to have to be put down.
05:21But yeah, it's stressful.
05:43I invited Kariana to come tonight.
05:45Yeah.
05:46She's a very, very sweet girl.
05:48Are you excited to have some drinks?
05:50Getting loose?
05:51Yeah, I'm excited to go out tonight.
05:52Yeah?
05:53It should be fun.
05:54I hope.
05:55Jonathan's version of going out and my version actually couldn't be more different.
06:03I feel like I need to relax.
06:05Jonathan doesn't even drink.
06:07And I, myself, I don't want to say I'm an avid drinker.
06:11But I mean, I'm not going out sober.
06:14Kind of rack up a bill.
06:16Kaner's going to come meet us over there.
06:21Joy to the world.
06:26Man, you really don't like him.
06:28No.
06:29I don't like it that you don't like Kaner so much.
06:32Yeah, I don't know if I can help all that.
06:35Kaner's a long time best friend of Jonathan.
06:39And they work together.
06:41Before I got serious with Jonathan, I was already made well aware of Kaner and Jonathan's nights out.
06:47They went out together after work and we're partying it up and taking random people home.
06:53They are definitely partners in crime to say the literal least.
07:00Yeah, but remember he's my friend too, so you know.
07:02I know, but...
07:08My elbow is like itchy.
07:10I think that's like a mosquito problem here.
07:13There it is.
07:17Nice spot, huh?
07:21It is nice.
07:24So I actually saw Kariana today.
07:27We actually went and spied on you.
07:33You spying on me just makes you feel like there's no trust in this relationship.
07:38But I feel like one day, like asking me,
07:41it's okay, let's not share our location to the next day.
07:44I feel like I need more time than just a day or two to feel better.
07:48But the thing is like what I don't like is that you from the distance thinks that I go with like a young girl on my back and flip.
07:54But like it wasn't, it's not like that.
07:57No, I can see.
07:58No, you can't.
07:59You cannot tell me what I can and cannot see. I am there, I see it.
08:02You don't see it too far.
08:05It makes me feel better.
08:07I would really, really like her to trust me enough where she wouldn't have to worry about where I am and what I'm doing.
08:14The things that worry me a lot is that she'll never get over it.
08:17Hi guys!
08:19Hey!
08:20Hey!
08:21How are you?
08:22Good, how are you?
08:23Good, come to me because I don't want to stand up.
08:25Hi!
08:26How are you?
08:27Well, you got your drink ready, right?
08:28I did, I already got a drink.
08:29She couldn't be sober around us, so.
08:31Carriana, I heard you went spying on me with Chloe today.
08:34I did.
08:35You're viewing it as malicious, we're viewing it as helpful.
08:39I know, I view it as that you don't trust me.
08:41If it's making you feel better, just let it be.
08:43Carriana, what do you mean?
08:45If your boyfriend was working, would you go spy on him too?
08:48She does spy on her boyfriend.
08:50Probably.
08:51Probably, yeah.
08:52Why are you women crazy like that?
08:54Because you make us crazy.
08:56You guys make us crazy.
09:01Hey, man.
09:02Finally, some backup, man.
09:04Finally, man.
09:05Sorry that I'm a little late.
09:06Oh, man.
09:07Hi, Chloe.
09:08Hey, Keenan.
09:09How are you?
09:10Good.
09:11Nice to see you.
09:12Welcome back.
09:13Hi.
09:14Thanks.
09:15So happy to be here.
09:16I'm perfectly okay with Jonathan and Kaner having a friendship.
09:19But once I found out that he had cheated, it kind of opened that door for me to view him differently.
09:26Because Kaner, he's the one to create the perfect space to enable Johnny's bad behavior.
09:33It looked like you was in the sun because you're still a little tan.
09:36I am?
09:37Yeah.
09:38A little bit.
09:39You are.
09:40Yeah, right?
09:41Yeah.
09:42I no longer dislike you.
09:46She went spying on me at work today.
09:48I saw you.
09:49Yeah.
09:50You didn't tell me?
09:51You did not see me.
09:52I didn't see her.
09:53You didn't see her?
09:54I didn't see her.
09:55Well, she was over there.
09:56I saw her.
09:57He's fine.
09:58No, it's not that I sent this with Kaner.
09:59He's fine.
10:00I said, oh, he's with Kaner.
10:02Nothing's fine.
10:03Why?
10:04What do you mean, Abe?
10:05You better be nice.
10:07I don't want to have a problem with you.
10:10You better not.
10:11No, Kaner.
10:12You better not.
10:14You better not.
10:15We both better not, yeah.
10:17Yeah, no.
10:18We better not.
10:19Don't try to start a fight right here, please.
10:20Right now.
10:21If you've seen me fight, this isn't me fighting.
10:23This is me conversating.
10:24That's how you talk to people?
10:25Yes, don't be intimidated by me.
10:26That's scary.
10:27No, I stand on business.
10:29You have to stand on business with people or they walk over you.
10:32You should see me when I'm actually getting mad.
10:36Since I met Chloe, she's been like that, so I know how she is already.
10:40Her personality is a lot.
10:42I always try to be, like, nice and easy with her because I have, like, a hard personality.
10:47Also, I can be an asshole, too.
10:49But she's an asshole.
10:51My trust issues come from your actions, but you work with him and you go out with him.
11:00So what am I not going to like?
11:02Him.
11:03So you're telling me right now that you don't like me?
11:06I'm not exactly a fan, no.
11:08I have such an issue with him going out with you, that he's not going to go out with you.
11:12That's something that you have to do with him.
11:13Chloe, I want to go out with my friend, okay?
11:16You can't control me like that.
11:17You can't do that kind of thing.
11:18Respect me.
11:19Respect what I say.
11:20I do respect what you say.
11:21Clearly not, because I'm saying I don't like to go out with him.
11:26Oh, my God.
11:27This is getting crazy.
11:29Chloe, come on.
11:30No, it's not.
11:31Come on.
11:32It's a serious thing.
11:33Chloe, I'm not defending him, okay?
11:35I'm just trying to tell you that.
11:36Well, you're not defending me either, so you can't play Switzerland.
11:39Would you be okay with me cooking my way a little bit?
11:46Dylan, he's a very controlled type of person.
11:51I don't like to be told what to do.
11:53I would just love to, like, tell you what I'd like and then you cook it.
11:58Is it this whole house?
11:59Yes.
12:00It looks lovely.
12:01When I picture Matthew and I getting our first place together,
12:04I did not envision this three-bedroom house.
12:07Two little twin beds here.
12:09Twins is on the agenda then, is it?
12:15One little spark is all it will take to set this old world on fire.
12:21Finally find our way home.
12:27Welcome to Australia.
12:29Australia.
12:30It's really pretty.
12:32I'm glad you're out here.
12:35No, really.
12:36It's so pretty.
12:37It's so, it's so nature.
12:38Aww.
12:39I think it only they'll rise up and take this crown.
12:42This is a great good day.
12:52All right.
12:53Is that it?
12:54Yeah, that's it, babe.
12:55Oh, it's totally different from what I expected.
12:58Seriously.
12:59I'm very much excited to show Patia our home for the first time here in Tasmania.
13:05I own a couple of properties here and I rent them out for income.
13:10And I recently renovated this one for Patia and I to live in.
13:14That's coming out.
13:15That's coming out.
13:16That's coming out.
13:17I know it's not a ring, but it's a house.
13:19That's got to count for something, right?
13:27Oh my gosh, babe.
13:29It's super cute.
13:30You did good with the decorating and the plants.
13:33Oh, and you have our pictures up.
13:36This is when we first met.
13:38I love it.
13:39You like that?
13:40So you ready for the rest of the house tour?
13:42Yes.
13:43All right.
13:44This is obviously the lounge room.
13:46We need to buy a couch.
13:49Okay.
13:50We can go shopping and we can pick out something that you like.
13:53I love that word, this house, shopping.
13:56Yep.
13:57It's been years since Patia and I lived together full time,
14:00so there's going to be a little bit of an adjustment period.
14:04We're polar opposites.
14:06I like to keep things simple, but Patia prefers a more luxurious lifestyle.
14:12So here's the master.
14:13It gets a lot of sunlight in here.
14:15It's nice, huh?
14:16Okay.
14:17You did good with the bed in here.
14:18Do you like the bedding or not really?
14:19I do.
14:20I like the bedding.
14:21I like the curtains.
14:22Yeah.
14:23I'm very sort of structured.
14:24I like to get all the laundry done, everything folded.
14:26And this is my closet, I take it?
14:28That and this is your closet.
14:30And there you get that.
14:31And that's your closet there too.
14:33That's a good size.
14:34Oh, and up here for my purses.
14:37And her laundry basket is overflowing, so it makes for an interesting dynamic.
14:46Something smells good.
14:48You're cute with your mask on.
14:50Oh my God.
14:51Sorry, you know when I travel I have to put sort of the mask on.
14:54Is that the secret to your fountain of youth?
14:57One.
14:58I have many.
14:59Oh, the salmon looks so fresh.
15:02Well this is fresh Tasmanian salmon.
15:04And then you're going to be having 50 grams of asparagus.
15:07And you're going to be having 150 grams of brown rice.
15:10So that's going to be 379 calories.
15:15I like to be very strict with my diet.
15:18During the day I will have 100 grams of kangaroo, and then 150 grams of brown rice, and then
15:25maybe a little bit of broccoli or green beans.
15:27And I'll repeat that meal about five times throughout the day, every two or three hours.
15:34You season it?
15:36Well you know how I like to cook.
15:38You're going to have to learn to cook with seasonings for me now that I'm here.
15:41Yes, well let's spice things up a bit.
15:43You want to make it hot?
15:44Hot chili flakes.
15:45Oh, and chipotle seasoning.
15:47Wow, you really are going out loud, aren't you?
15:52I want to have my salmon too.
15:53Are you going to season my salmon?
15:55Yes.
15:56The difference between me and Dylan and how we eat is like night and day.
16:00Like he will literally boil his chicken to get the fat out.
16:04I'm like, there's no fat in chicken breast.
16:07Me and Dylan argue a lot about food.
16:10I don't know if it's going to ever stop really.
16:12And we'll probably be arguing to her grace.
16:16I'm so happy that you cook for me, but I want to do some of the cooking too.
16:20Yeah.
16:21I know how you're strict with your diet, but would you be okay with me cooking my way a little bit?
16:25Yes, you can cook your way, but like I need 30 grams of protein,
16:29100 grams of carbohydrates, and some micronutrients in every meal.
16:35Why do you always make it like a science project?
16:38Sometimes the way that you eat is lots of sugar, lots of oil.
16:42It is a fun cheat meal for me.
16:44Cheat meal?
16:45My cooking's not that bad.
16:46You're calling it a cheat meal?
16:47No, it's just like all those sauces that you use.
16:49No, I know.
16:50And then all the oil that you use.
16:52I don't use that much oil.
16:54You don't even measure when you put the oil in, you just throw it in.
16:57No, but I eye it.
16:58I know.
16:59Well, there's no eyeing here.
17:00Babe, I know.
17:01We'll precision.
17:02I've been cooking a long time.
17:03I know just my eyeing.
17:04I know you know how to cook, but I'm just saying if I'm trying to keep my physique in shape,
17:09I can't just be eating whatever.
17:11You act like you're doing a modeling shoot every day.
17:16You have to lighten up and enjoy.
17:18But what if that's how I like to live?
17:22Gosh.
17:24Dylan, he's a very controlled type of person.
17:29He likes things specific ways.
17:31I'm very independent.
17:32I don't like to be told what to do.
17:34And, you know, he does that to me.
17:36We haven't been together in years.
17:38And Dylan, he needs to compromise with me.
17:41Or it's just going to be really hard for me and Dylan to succeed.
17:45I would just love to, like, tell you what I'd like and then you cook it.
17:48Oh.
18:11Look, sheep.
18:14Are you excited to look at houses?
18:16Yeah.
18:17Very excited.
18:18I know Greta was keen to move out of my parents' place.
18:22So I've arranged for us to see a rental property today.
18:25The estate agents picked out some things.
18:28I've asked for character, decent size.
18:31I mean, is it going to be in an urban area?
18:35It's probably not as urban as you were hoping for, but we can make it work.
18:41One of the reasons I left Oklahoma was because I really wanted to live in a walkable city with public transportation.
18:50I like to be able to walk to a coffee shop and walk to the store.
18:55I do that in Oklahoma sometimes when people think I'm weird.
18:59There's some really nice houses around here.
19:03I wonder what the average age of the people who live here, though, are.
19:07Matthew's lived in cities before, but he also loves the countryside.
19:11So I'm hoping we can find a compromise.
19:15All right, here we are.
19:17This looks really nice, actually.
19:20There's our state agent.
19:23Hi, Nigel.
19:24Hi, Matthew.
19:25How are you?
19:26Are you okay?
19:27Very good, thank you.
19:28That's a good spot.
19:29You've got a nice courtyard.
19:30Nice and quiet.
19:31Very cute, yeah.
19:32Let's go inside and take a look around, shall we?
19:33Okay.
19:34Absolutely.
19:35Is this the house?
19:36Yes, it is, yep.
19:37Oh, wow.
19:38That's huge.
19:39That's lovely.
19:40So come on through.
19:41Wow.
19:42Nice entrance hallway.
19:43This is like a legit house.
19:44This is good.
19:45Yeah, very nice and spacious.
19:46So take you through to the sitting room.
19:48The sitting room?
19:49Yeah.
19:50Is that a living room?
19:51Same as a living room.
19:52You may call it that.
19:53So dual aspects.
19:54You've got nice light flowing through here.
19:55View out to the front.
19:56So right across the hallway, you've got the kitchen.
20:00Aw, look how cute the oven is.
20:02It's so small.
20:03Yeah, nice little English oven.
20:06How do you even cook anything in here so small?
20:09Yeah, this is an average oven.
20:11That's it.
20:12It's only the first place we're seeing,
20:14but I could picture us living here.
20:16This is good.
20:17This could be a nice functional area.
20:19This house could be a really good stepping stone for us.
20:22So then we're into the principal bedroom.
20:24Bright, spacious room.
20:26You could have put your bed here.
20:27You can even maybe put in a desk as well in this room.
20:30Definitely.
20:31Have an office space.
20:32Yeah.
20:33When I picture Matthew and I getting our first place together,
20:36I picture us in a tiny flat,
20:39cooking vegan meals in our kitchen
20:41and cuddling up on the couch with our cats.
20:44I did not envision this three bedroom house
20:47meant for a family with multiple kids.
20:50Let's show you the bathroom then.
20:51Okay.
20:52If he's so concerned about our finances,
20:54why would he want to pay for space we don't even need?
20:57Let's show you the other bedroom.
20:59So this traditionally would be the second bedroom.
21:02So you've got space for a double bed.
21:04I think it would make an excellent kids' bedroom as well.
21:06It would.
21:07Two little twin beds here.
21:09Yeah.
21:10What do you think, Grella?
21:11I mean, yeah.
21:12Yeah.
21:13Yeah.
21:14Twins is on the agenda.
21:16Oh, yeah.
21:17I guess we're having twins now.
21:18Yeah.
21:19We are too, yeah.
21:20Okay.
21:21Let's take it through then.
21:22Matthew pointing out that the second bedroom could be for our two kids.
21:27Bye.
21:29Definitely put a rock in my stomach because I've become really unsure if I want kids.
21:40But I haven't told him yet.
21:46Sharp road.
21:49So, the real estate guy was nice, wasn't he?
21:54Yeah.
21:55But, like, I don't think I'm ready to settle down in a neighborhood village yet.
22:02I would just feel really isolated here.
22:04It doesn't really matter where you live if both people drive in the tent.
22:10You can live five, ten minutes away from a town center, right?
22:15It's just, like, it doesn't make any sense for a house to, what, fill out for no reason right now.
22:23You know what I mean?
22:24Like, it's just, it doesn't make any sense to me.
22:27I am feeling really overwhelmed.
22:32I don't mind having more space rather than less space.
22:35I think we'll fill it out in time.
22:37My wants and needs were kind of mowed over.
22:43Matthew seems pretty certain about our future, but I just don't think I'm in a place to be moving into a house in the middle of nowhere with a set of twins.
22:55I just don't feel like we're in a place for a house at all.
22:59It's a no-tay, no-tay.
23:10She's already a little tipsy.
23:12I'm gonna get out of here before it gets ugly.
23:15Whew!
23:25The Lord is with you.
23:41Acclaim the word of God.
23:43Louange to you, Lord Jesus.
23:46Sit down.
23:50Benjamin's baptism is happening today.
23:53My relationship with my sister, Marie, has been a little bit complicated, especially since I moved to the US.
24:00She always kind of left a little bit of a distance between us.
24:04So that's why I decided to make up the godmother to help us reconnect.
24:10Benjamin Laurent, I baptize you in the name of Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
24:20We can applaud him.
24:21Yeah!
24:23Yeah!
24:24Yeah!
24:26Yeah!
24:27Everyone, everyone!
24:28Everyone, everyone!
24:29I would like to tell you a big, big, big thanks for coming to Benjamin's baptism.
24:30For more than 10 years now, I'm no longer here in France.
24:34Everyone, everyone, first of all, I would like to tell you a big, big thank you all for coming to Benjamin's baptism for more than 10 years, because I'm no longer here in France.
24:46But I really wanted to invite everyone, because life changes, life evolves, and I really wanted to take advantage of this time that with my husband, we'll go to France.
24:55Because we don't know where we'll be tomorrow.
24:58I haven't seen most of these people for 10 plus years.
25:07I'm kind of proud of what I've done, because who would have imagined my entire family, even people who have beef with each other, being actually all together, bonding, talking, laughing, and just enjoying and having a good time.
25:19That feels good.
25:23That Morito is so strong.
25:26I don't know what I want.
25:29Because everything is so good in France, though.
25:31I know it's going to be very good.
25:33Everything is so good, like my sausage thing I had.
25:36You mean your own sausage?
25:40Your American sausage?
25:41No, I mean the sausage thing I got at the boulangerie.
25:43I haven't had the chance to taste your own sausage for like two months, you know that?
25:48Taste?
25:49That's been like over a year.
25:51No, I'm not talking about that.
25:53Yeah, the way you phrase it.
25:56We're at the dinner table with your family.
25:59They don't speak English.
26:00No, man.
26:01They don't speak English.
26:02It's sausage for them.
26:03Mary's cute.
26:04She doesn't hear.
26:06Who cares?
26:07It's just me, you.
26:08Well, sorry.
26:09Unfortunately, the thing is that we haven't had a lot of money, ok?
26:15So the problem is that I have to visit and see what I can find for at what price I don't
26:21入지 in Europe,
26:22to make it look like in America.
26:26I was there in America where I work two or three jobs.
26:29You change, yes, it's true.
26:31Yes, but also I can't completely let who I am at the pool.
26:35I'm someone who needs to work to feel successful.
26:42I've always been like that.
26:44So I try to find a good balance.
26:46I want a balance.
26:52What's your heart?
26:53Yeah, it's fine.
26:54You're fatigued?
26:56Yeah.
26:57You're fatigued?
26:59No, it's not the alcohol.
27:00I feel good.
27:04I'm afraid that I can't find this balance.
27:07I don't want to come back to the United States.
27:11I don't want to have a career.
27:16How do I pay everything if I don't have a career?
27:19You can do it here, chérie.
27:22You've always been a leader.
27:25Stop!
27:26Yes.
27:27That's the truth.
27:28To do what you've done, chérie.
27:29You've always managed to do what you've wanted.
27:31I've done like everyone.
27:32I've worked.
27:33It's cool.
27:34Yes, it's already very good.
27:35It's already very good.
27:36But you've gone alone there.
27:37You know what?
27:38Rememore a little bit of your career.
27:40Look where you're in.
27:41It's not a failure.
27:43It is definitely an overwhelming day.
27:49And all of these like pessimistic, toxic, negative, intrusive thoughts won't go away.
27:56My parents, they never went to high school.
27:59They've never moved abroad.
28:00They don't realize how hard it is coming back to France.
28:04I cannot stop remembering about my life in LA and what I left.
28:09And I feel like a total failure.
28:15Hey, so he's getting pretty unruly.
28:18Yeah.
28:19So I'm going to take him home to get him to sleep.
28:21Your family.
28:22You okay with me, see you?
28:23Yeah.
28:32I have no idea what's been going on, but Minoune was crying.
28:36She's already a little tipsy.
28:39I know how stressed she gets and overwhelmed when she's around her family.
28:45Nothing good can come from it.
28:47I'm going to get out of here before it gets ugly.
28:49Merci beaucoup pour tout.
28:51Au revoir Benjamin.
28:52Au revoir.
28:53Au revoir.
28:58That was a while.
29:02Hey.
29:03How are you?
29:04I'm good.
29:05And you are Petia.
29:06My mom and Petia basically hate each other.
29:08And we're here.
29:09Yes.
29:10Don't know how long until things are just going to explode.
29:13So when do you think you'll do furniture shopping?
29:15Probably this week.
29:16You might have to keep an eye on it, Dylan.
29:19Hey, hey.
29:20Hey, hey.
29:21Hey, hey.
29:22Hey, hey.
29:25Hey, hey.
29:26Hey, hey.
29:32Hey, hey.
29:37Hey, hey.
29:38Hey, hey.
29:39Hey, babe, do you want a protein shake?
29:40Hey, what's a tuna for?
29:42Are you going to put that in the protein shake?
29:44No, I mean I'm crazy but I'm not that crazy.
29:50Oh, is that your phone?
29:58Hello.
29:59Hi, it's me.
30:00Hi, how are you, Mum?
30:02Yeah, not bad, I'm in the area.
30:03I thought I'd pop in and see you guys.
30:05Oh, beautiful.
30:07Is that okay? I'm not intruding or anything?
30:09No, that's great.
30:11All right, I'll be there shortly.
30:13All right, can't wait to see you.
30:14Okay, can't wait to see you two either. Bye.
30:18Why is she coming now? I don't want to look like this.
30:21Well, I looked at you and you said it was okay.
30:23But I haven't seen her in years.
30:24When she saw you, the first time she saw you in Hawaii,
30:26her jaw hit the floor and she's just like, she's gorgeous.
30:30Yeah, but I don't want to see her like this.
30:32She's going to be about five minutes.
30:33All right.
30:34I talk to my mum two, three times a week and I do confide in her.
30:43She gives great advice, but Patia and my mum don't really get along.
30:48Patia thinks I have this abnormal relationship with my mum
30:52and my mum sees the animosity that Patia has for her and she's not a big fan.
30:58So I'm hoping they can get off on the right foot and not just start fighting immediately.
31:03I can't believe she's already in our business already.
31:07Yeah, she's my beautiful darling. I just got here.
31:09You're great.
31:10How long is she staying?
31:12I don't know.
31:13She's probably just stopping by for five minutes.
31:18This is, oh God.
31:23She's here.
31:29Hey, how are you? Come on in.
31:31Hi, Jules.
31:33I didn't know you were coming over. Sorry I look like this.
31:36That's okay.
31:37I got you some flowers and I brought a vase because I didn't know if Dylan had one.
31:41Oh, that's so sweet.
31:42And there's some Australian biscuits for you.
31:44Oh my gosh, how are you?
31:46So you're here. Welcome to Tassie.
31:48Thank you so much.
31:50You look beautiful.
31:51You look great.
31:53You look healthy.
31:54You're having your brekkie.
31:55Yes, Dylan made me some breakfast.
31:56So you got the orchids going?
31:58Yes.
31:59That's her favourite flower.
32:00That's lovely.
32:01That's lovely.
32:02I actually haven't seen Patia in 11 years.
32:05I've never had the problem with her.
32:07I think that she's always had the problem with me.
32:09Because I feel that there's jealousy towards me with my relationship with Dylan.
32:13I just think it's a little bit off that she would want to get in between our relationship.
32:18Because, you know, mother and son, you're bound for life.
32:21So I really hope she's happy to share Dylan with me.
32:26You're here.
32:27Yes, I'm here.
32:28I can't believe it.
32:29You can't believe it either.
32:30That's fabulous.
32:31I love it.
32:32I know.
32:33It was so good seeing him at the airport.
32:34Yeah.
32:35Yeah.
32:36Yeah, we're good.
32:38What do you want to say, Jo?
32:39Yeah, it was fine.
32:40Yeah, that's fine.
32:43My mum and Patia basically hate each other.
32:46And so far, everything's going great.
32:48They're both playing a game of who could be the nicest.
32:51Thank you so much for the beautiful roses.
32:53Oh, look at those.
32:54Would you like to put some water in there, Dylan?
32:56Yes.
32:57But I don't know how long until things are just going to boil up and they're just going to explode.
33:04Yellow for friendship.
33:05I love it.
33:06Yeah.
33:07So what do you think of the pad?
33:08Isn't it fab?
33:09It is.
33:10But Dylan and I did talk about going furniture shopping since there's only like a few items in here.
33:15Yes.
33:16He needs a bit of a sofa or something.
33:17Well, I was thinking like maybe a cream colour, L-shaped section here.
33:22Yeah.
33:23And you know, since there's not much of a dining space in this area, I was thinking something like that, but right over here.
33:29You might have to keep an eye on it, Dylan.
33:35Don't worry, both eyes are on.
33:36Now I've gotten better.
33:37Have you?
33:38Yes, I have.
33:39Good girl.
33:40Yeah.
33:41Good girl.
33:42Yeah.
33:43So I've like settled with it.
33:44With the spending.
33:45Yes.
33:46Yep.
33:47I've only been here less than 24 hours and she's already like, rrrr, about my finances.
33:53I'm like, the ****.
33:55It's none of her business and she shouldn't be putting in her two cents.
33:59Yeah, I don't want to, I don't want to put you on the spot right now, but I just find it, sometimes I'm like, find it hard to believe.
34:05Okay, well just prove it to you.
34:06Oh yeah, prove it to me.
34:07Yeah.
34:08All right, well I'm going to have to go.
34:09I really hope that we can all spend some time together.
34:12That'd be great.
34:13Thank you for stopping.
34:14Particularly you and our patio.
34:15Oh, okay, definitely.
34:16Oh, are you dumping me off, are you?
34:17No, no one's getting dumped.
34:18Oh.
34:19Have a coming together.
34:20It makes me nervous and it makes me mad that she's already automatically inserting herself into our relationship.
34:27Thank you for stopping, dog.
34:29This is exactly what I was worried about.
34:31Bye.
34:32Dylan so needs to stop talking about our personal business with his mom.
34:36I'm so damn sick of it.
34:41I'm glad she came by, but I still feel like we still need to, you know, talk about some things.
34:47Yeah, okay.
34:48I mean, obviously you talked to your mom about the spending habits.
34:51Look, I had opened up to my mum and I had told her, because before you came, you were down on your bills.
35:00You were struggling with rent.
35:01You were fighting to pay all that.
35:03You couldn't make your bills, you know, and then you went out and dropped a huge shopping spree.
35:08And now you're saying that you've changed.
35:10And that was like a week ago.
35:12I wish my mum didn't bring up Patia's spending, but Patia does have a spending problem.
35:19And it's been going on for years.
35:21I'm going to be financially supporting her now.
35:24And if she wants to come here and have the champagne lifestyle, unfortunately, it's not going to work.
35:30I've learned I don't need all the nice fancy things anymore.
35:35Patia's been asking for a commitment pretty much for 12 years.
35:40I do love her and I want things to work out, but I'm not there yet.
35:47I need to see some changes in you, because it's very easy to slip back into old habits, you know?
35:52No, no, no, no, no, no, I've been there, done that.
35:55I have changed.
36:01You have to understand that letting you come here to live with him and move with him and everything, that's a big thing also.
36:07It's not the same.
36:08He doesn't have anything to lose.
36:09It is. Let me tell you.
36:10I risk my entire future going out the window.
36:14He doesn't risk that.
36:22If you guys want to go out alone, then fine, but at least get me to a point where I'm like, okay.
36:37Kaner's an Amy.
36:38I don't hate Kaner.
36:39I trust you.
36:40I no longer have an issue with it.
36:42But don't push it.
36:43Okay, but I'm trying to get there, Chloe.
36:45I'm trying to get there.
36:46Like, I'm bringing you to my house.
36:48I'm showing you how I live.
36:49I'm giving you my schedule.
36:50I'm giving you access to my cameras, my location, just so you can see that you can trust me enough, or I can just go out peacefully with my friends.
36:58You have to understand that he getting into a relationship with you and letting you come here to live with him and move with him and everything, that's a big thing also.
37:09It's not the same.
37:10He doesn't have anything to lose.
37:11It is. Let me tell you.
37:12Do you think that he needs somebody to live with him to be with somebody?
37:15No, he doesn't need anything.
37:16That's what he means.
37:17He's showing you a lot.
37:18But it's not the same as if he's risking the same thing.
37:21It is kind of the same.
37:22If you put a balance, it is kind of the same.
37:24Okay, pause.
37:25What is he risking?
37:26Ready?
37:27Go ahead.
37:28I'll wait.
37:29He doesn't need somebody to live with him and to be like...
37:30That's not a risk.
37:31That's a want.
37:32It is a risk.
37:33I risk my entire future going out the window.
37:35He doesn't risk that.
37:37If anything, he has something to gain.
37:39He has a partner.
37:40He has someone he can be with.
37:42I left a business that my mom built from the ground up.
37:46That's all I've ever known.
37:48And I'm coming here with no job now.
37:50You're not gaining anything with me?
37:51But I am, but you're not losing as much as I'm losing.
37:55I'm leaving everything I've ever known to come here to pursue this relationship with Jonathan.
38:06And not that I'm looking for a gold star.
38:09But I just don't see him giving up anything other than his, like, young Johnny lifestyle of hooking up with these random tourists.
38:22Which, I don't know, I guess that's a big deal to him and Keiner.
38:27It's a big deal.
38:29If you guys are both putting a lot to be with each other, why, like, why you guys don't trust each other, like...
38:36Because there's a lot to lose.
38:39But at this point, we just have to trust each other, Colleen.
38:42But it doesn't...
38:43You're right, we do.
38:44But we've had so many issues in the past to get where we are, that I'm afraid for something to happen again.
38:49Because I don't want to lose you and I don't want to lose this.
38:52I don't want to have to move back home.
38:54The trust has been broken in the past, which is why I am the way I am.
39:00I want to go out with my friend, okay?
39:02Really?
39:03You know, you can't control me like that.
39:05You can't hold me down like that.
39:06You know what I mean?
39:07Jonathan needs to understand how serious I'm actually being.
39:12My anxiety is through the roof every day because I'm so nervous that he's going to just break my trust again.
39:20I don't want to stop being with Jonathan because I do see it in the future.
39:25I just think that I have a very fine line between you wanting to live your life and you wanting to cheat on me.
39:34That's not controlling.
39:36If I'm controlling you to not cheat on me, then you should go be single.
39:43You were so like crazy and get psycho and jealous and, you know, you want to break up with me because you thought this and this happened when nothing really, really happened.
39:51I wouldn't break up with you on a thought of something happening.
39:54I would break up with you because something happened.
39:56You have to trust me more than that.
39:59If I saw something and I had proof, I'm not saying.
40:08Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, the other way.
40:12I have up.
40:14I want to be with you.
40:16You liar to me and talk to me like nothing happened.
40:20Why the men are so stupid?
40:24There's no chance to come back together.
40:29Mom!
40:30My mom is coming down with a certain expectation in her head.
40:34I hope Jonathan is ready for all the scrutiny.
40:38Welcome to my home.
40:40Johnny's house.
40:41Would it be where I want my daughter to live?
40:43Absolutely not.
40:44You're deciding to live here and I can't finance it.
40:48You are going to have to make your own way.
40:51I'm cutting her off.
40:53My mom said I was talking about the family.
41:00This is my chance to talk to her.
41:02I'm freaking tired of always being the black sheep of the family.
41:09I'm freaking tired of always being the black sheep of the family.
41:19I'm freaking tired of always being the black sheep of the family.
41:23I just want to pack up all of my and go back to LA.
41:30We'll see you next time then.
41:31Thanks so much for coming.
41:33You'll be mesmoметrifism.
41:34Yeah.
41:35I want to listen to 25 Nikki's life Jon Ott.
41:39Brilliant telling her story.
41:40I'll try this story for you next week.
41:41Take care later on Spotify.
41:42Bye.
41:43Bye.
41:44Oh.
41:45Whatever.
41:46There are great bands off of the family,
41:47I might be feeling until the family is filled.
41:49Two bears so up and down that out that's the time all over.
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