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90 Day Fiance: The Other Way Season 7 Episode 5
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00:01Previously on 90 Day Jemsae, it goes away.
00:04I unpacked an entire bag.
00:05Not this one.
00:06So proud of you.
00:07It feels good to be back in Aruba.
00:11No, I don't like the noise.
00:13Oh, I'm afraid.
00:15You're afraid to help me.
00:17If you start it once, I'll restart it.
00:19She's always had everything done for her.
00:22But now we're living together, and I can't have her have this
00:25vacation mode all the time.
00:27Oh!
00:28Yay!
00:30So it's time.
00:33Saying goodbye to Hazel feels like my heart is being
00:38ripped from my chest.
00:39Bye, Hazel.
00:41But I can't wait to see Matthew again and feel that spark
00:45with the person that I love.
00:51This is sarcastic.
00:53Working here is not possible at all, no?
00:56It's small.
00:57For years, I've been the black shape of the family.
00:59It feels like I disappointed them again.
01:05Bienvenue chez vous.
01:07I'm feeling super grateful to be moving in with Manon's parents.
01:10Oh, my God.
01:11Super cheap.
01:12There's no intimacy.
01:13There's no privacy.
01:14And honestly, staying at the house is just surreal.
01:19Yeah.
01:20It's surreal.
01:21Oh, my God.
01:22There's so many problems with the wedding.
01:24She told me if we don't give the money in two days, we're going to have to cancel the
01:29Maria.
01:30Well, how much is?
01:31I sent over $4 million.
01:32You don't receive the money in December?
01:33No.
01:34Mentiroso.
01:35We can look at the bank account.
01:36Yeah, we can.
01:37I already have.
01:38Lo siento, pero es verdad.
01:39So don't get married.
01:40Just simple.
01:41We've been in the right of the day.
01:42It's so funny.
01:43You don't get married?
01:44No.
01:45Mentiroso.
01:46We can look at the bank account.
01:47Yeah, we can.
01:48I already have.
01:49Lo siento, pero es verdad.
01:51So don't get married.
01:52Just simple.
01:53Today's the day.
02:23Greta is arriving in the U.K.
02:27Hey, Apple, your mummy's coming home.
02:29Do you know that?
02:30Yes, she is.
02:32I feel like I have a butterfly sanctuary in my tummy right now.
02:38It's been six months since we've seen each other.
02:42That is the longest we've been apart, and it hasn't been easy.
02:47It's definitely a bit of a scramble to get things ready.
02:52But I want everything to be perfect for her.
02:56I better make some room for her here.
03:00Greta is sacrificing everything she has to be here.
03:05Her friends, her career, her cat, to be with me.
03:14It's a lot of pressure.
03:24I just arrived in England.
03:27I'm really excited to see Matthew.
03:29I haven't seen him in six months.
03:31I'm on the train, and the next step is to reunite with my love, nephew.
03:39I've been to England five times, but this time feels really different because I'm starting a whole new life.
03:45I'm an American woman on the way to my English fiancee who lives in the countryside.
03:51I feel like I'm living out of a romance novel right now.
03:55It makes me very excited.
03:57I'm a little bit nervous.
04:09I have no idea what to do with my hands, no idea what to do with my feet.
04:30There's a lot riding on this for me.
04:32I just want to make sure I get it right.
04:37This has been two years in the making, and it's an incredible feeling to finally start.
05:06my life with a person who I love.
05:10But I am also sweating more than I would like to be in this moment.
05:15morning.
05:37Hi, darling.
05:41How are you?
05:46Good.
05:49How are you doing?
05:50I'm very well.
05:52It's been a long time.
05:54I didn't realize you would be right here.
05:56Yeah, right there.
05:58Hey, sweetie.
06:01Did you get a haircut?
06:03Yeah.
06:03You look very different.
06:04It's very short.
06:05I know.
06:06It will grow back out.
06:09All right.
06:10No, we didn't.
06:11We're here.
06:12Yeah.
06:13I can tell it was a long journey for you because you stink.
06:18Yeah.
06:19I had to carry some very heavy suitcases, so I got very sweaty,
06:24and I smell really bad right now.
06:26Your antiperspirant is fighting on for its dear life right now.
06:30Yeah.
06:31You're welcome.
06:33Let's take you home.
06:35OK, let's go.
06:36All right.
06:37Can I help you with that?
06:38Um, I mean, why are you being so formal?
06:45I've almost forgotten what it's like to have Greta with me, to have you with me.
06:51And so, yeah, it's, I feel very disjointed right now.
06:58So I'm just waiting for those sort of jigsaw pieces to come back together over the next
07:02few days.
07:04It's good to see you again.
07:05There is no return flight booked this time.
07:10That's the first time we've done that.
07:12And now it feels like this is where everything else begins.
07:16This is the crossroad of everything in the future.
07:20Yeah.
07:21It feels very special.
07:22Let's go home.
07:29Yeah.
07:30Let's go.
07:31Damn, you're a really bad B.O.
07:33I know.
07:34Oh, wow.
07:36Thank God I got that loop from here.
07:37Colors not good.
08:05I'm not Indian.
08:06What did they think?
08:07Progress is good at the cafe and things are moving along.
08:13And today we're having a Hindu ceremony called a puja.
08:18It's for blessings for our new house.
08:21Oh, good.
08:24Beautiful.
08:26Indian lady.
08:28Indian lady.
08:30My family is very religious.
08:32They believe that a prayer is required because we all are moving in with a good intention.
08:38So that's why they choose to do a housewarming ceremony.
08:41I hope it doesn't break the floor.
08:52No, don't worry.
08:53Coconut is a high-hanging fruit and it gets the water by itself if we consider it's pure.
09:00And the cracking the coconut, like, it's like blessing the house.
09:05It's like as many you do, more blessings to the house.
09:09Okay, hold it.
09:10Hold it.
09:10Hold it.
09:11Hold it.
09:13Oh, my God.
09:14Be careful with the hand.
09:18Both right hand.
09:20Right leg.
09:22Look.
09:23Inside.
09:23One.
09:24Come.
09:25Yes.
09:26Great.
09:27Come over.
09:28It's coming.
09:31Carrying the thing on my head is supposed to be like I'm carrying in everything in the house
09:38with me, like I'm going to take control of everything.
09:41It's a balanced thing.
09:42If you want, you can carry in your hand.
09:44Yeah.
09:44I see this.
09:47Okay.
09:48It's not easy.
09:49If you're not used to carrying something on your head.
09:52Yeah, come.
09:59I find these ceremonies to be very beautiful.
10:03The prayer that they're saying a mantra.
10:06Yeah.
10:06I'm so fascinated by it.
10:14How do they remember all these prayers and what to say?
10:18And everybody all says it together.
10:21It's been a surprise for me that Denny and I are leading the ceremony.
10:38This is amazing.
10:39This is a very good day.
10:42And now all my extended family members are showing up.
10:45And it's just a really happy moment.
10:46I don't spend a lot of time around his extended family.
10:59Most of them are going through the complexity of the culture.
11:04And that's what makes them like to resist against our relationship.
11:09I'm Jenny, my sister-in-law.
11:11Hey.
11:13This is like Sri to you.
11:14She's the sister-in-law.
11:16This is true.
11:17This is my sister.
11:20Touch of Pete?
11:21No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
11:22This one, this one.
11:22No, no, no, no, no.
11:24This one.
11:24This one.
11:25How about you?
11:27Since my extended family member choose to come here for the pooja, it's a really good sign
11:32that they start accepting our relationship.
11:34I think that they need to get to know me and be happy for us and get over it.
11:42Make small flowers and small, small flowers.
11:47I'm making the middle dots.
11:50You're making the middle dot?
11:51Yes.
11:52Sri is teaching me how to draw rangoli on the floor, which is usually a flower, some sort
12:00of design, and it's used to welcome the guests and keep negative energy out of the house.
12:12How's my flower coming?
12:13Wow.
12:15You like it?
12:16Let's see.
12:17Who makes it?
12:19A little bit more here.
12:21What do you make?
12:22You make it?
12:23You make it?
12:25Sumit, Jenny.
12:26Jenny, what are you doing?
12:28Make it a flower.
12:29Make it a flower.
12:30Flower.
12:30I made flower.
12:31Here.
12:31This one?
12:33I make the flower.
12:34Very pretty.
12:36Very nice.
12:37She's doing it?
12:38No.
12:39No.
12:39Did you make it good?
12:40No.
12:41Did you make it good?
12:42Did you make it good?
12:43No.
12:44I made it good.
12:45He's saying Jenny didn't make it good.
12:48Why are you having a problem?
12:49I never thought that the rest of the house will be able to stay down below.
12:56No.
12:57Someone doesn't like my artwork so I'm just going to watch.
12:59It's okay.
13:00Should I complete this?
13:01Yours?
13:02Very good.
13:03Very nice.
13:04Why are you bothering?
13:05We're enjoying when you're bothering.
13:06Why are you bothering?
13:07Why are you bothering?
13:08Why are you bothering?
13:09Why are you bothering?
13:10We're enjoying when you're bothering.
13:16Very good, very nice.
13:28Why are you bothering? We're enjoying when you're bothering.
13:41Why are you taking mom?
13:44What does she do?
13:47It's real.
13:56I was sorry, miserable.
13:59My girl doesn't eat, but still she's gross.
14:02There's a lot of body shaming.
14:07Think if they want to marry because this situation is bochornosa.
14:12I trust Lisanne opinion so much.
14:14He up.
14:16It's real.
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14:49It's really nice.
14:50Especially with a little 19 months old baby boy.
14:53a little fun getaway to start fresh with my parents just get out of the house and we are
15:04going to go play some pétanque ah the first time playing yeah let's see how we do two people in the
15:20same team with three four double three guys two balls okay la pétanque is actually a game that
15:31involves like a little cochinou like we call it a small ball and big ones very funny and you got
15:38to actually throw the balls really close to the smallest one you want to actually knock down the
15:44balls are close so you can stay closer and you steal the points kind of j'ai pas joué depuis très très
15:51longtemps ah c'est pas mal ça merci okay hi anthony hey je suis marseillaise moi dans le sang
16:02thank you thank you because you push my ball oh okay oh je suis trop je suis trop grave oh je suis trop fort
16:23pétanque it used to be a tradition as a family when i was young during summer times my parents
16:29didn't have a lot of money for fancy expensive vacations so they used to rent a town house
16:36in a very very small asshole of friends type of city where every day it's just aperitif lunch pétanque
16:47and up and you start again in the morning ben ben il faut que je joue bon allez ok voilà
16:57ah ah manon faut que je te dise j'étais vraiment surprise quand tu m'a dit que tu voulais revenir
17:04c'est ma je te dis la vérité je n'ai pas eu pas mes yeux je n'ai mes oreilles toi qui tout le temps je
17:11reste là bas je reste là bas la france ou la france voilà parce qu'ici j'étais malheureuse misérable
17:17je me sentais comme comme comme un ovni ici je me suis toujours senti pas accepté avec la société des
17:26amis tout ça mais dans la famille aussi manon moi ma fille elle ne mange pas mais pourtant elle est
17:34grosse il ya beaucoup de body shaming et je le sais que je suis différente des autres on a tout le temps
17:39cru faire de notre mieux après je dis pas qu'on a fait tout parfaitement ça c'est loin de loin de ça
17:47i'm kind of just like boss i don't know if she's resolving stuff with the family
17:51is it just bringing more from the past it is hard for men on to like move forward but i definitely
17:59worry that men on dwelling on the past is going to make her family less interested in helping us
18:04c'est compliqué c'est compliqué enfin on le fait pas méchamment c'est qu'on j'aime nos enfants puisque
18:12tout le monde est bien sûr je vous m'avez toujours aimé je le sais ça se voit et tout mais je peux pas
18:18dénier que il ya certains choix donc vous avez pris par rapport et qui m'ont construit et fait
18:22devenir celle que je suis aujourd'hui qui était une fille pas confiance qui pensait qu'ils étaient un
18:27problème qu'ils pensaient qu'ils étaient une erreur de la nature mais maman au plus tu apprends plus tu
18:35grandis au plus tu change et tu vois ce que c'est que d'avoir un enfant en plus je te dis ah ils ont
18:41fait ce qu'ils ont pu et franchement au final je suis contente je prends que le positif important
18:47c'est que je sois heureuse et que je serai bien où tu as envie d'être qui choisit ta vie c'est pas les
18:54autres et non il sera toujours là pour toi de toute façon oui je sais merci je le ferai
19:03i was in such a dark place but i'm like this is my past life so i just want them to be aware all the
19:11ways of thinking need to evolve because i'm committed to make it work here in france so i hope to see that
19:18making a change but we see
19:37you told me i sold you money and you don't get it be careful with you worse i'm sorry for how this is
19:47turning out for me it's so embarrassing talking about about her
19:59please finish with her i don't want to the people see me fighting okay amor
20:05i so so embarrassing lisana is my pageant coach i work with lisana
20:13i kind of believe he's making me look like that he say i talk the money when i don't talk anything
20:20it's like he up you're gonna have to have the biggest problems you're gonna have to have later
20:26let's just maybe get back back to it yo tengo 12 millions de pesos por este boda
21:05yes
21:08me genera un poco de de inseguridad en cuanto a la oda
21:12y de pronto dudas que se generan de que será que si hay matrimonio
21:19okay
21:27you're getting rid of that one yeah and mariachi
21:31Desistir de los mariachis.
21:33Sí.
21:33Ya ahora tenemos como pagar 12 millones, ¿cierto?
21:37Bueno, hermosa, entonces, ¿para cuándo tengo todo esto?
21:42¿Cuándo vas a pagar aquí?
21:44Give me in so Monday.
21:47Dos días.
21:47Dos días.
21:49Perfecto.
21:50Pues yo hablo con todos los proveedores a ver qué podemos hacer,
21:53pero también es que piensen si es que se quieren casar,
21:57porque, pues, espero que realmente, más que el dinero, los una el amor,
22:03que es lo más importante.
22:08Gracias.
22:10Con gusto.
22:11Con gusto.
22:12Chao, hermosa.
22:14Chao.
22:16I trust Lisa's opinion so much,
22:20and she is wondering if I should get married.
22:24And this stick with me.
22:26Chao, que se bien.
22:27Salud.
22:30I am so sick and tired about always I need to forgive him,
22:36and he continue to do and and and .
22:39My question is, for how long he think I'm going to forgive him?
22:51Who tell you you're going to sleep in with me?
22:53If you don't want me sleeping here, I can go sleep elsewhere.
22:57Whatever you want, Madeleine.
22:59Do you think I want to sleep in with someone until me I still live?
23:02I don't know what you want, Madeleine.
23:04I've had a really long day and I'm exhausted.
23:07So I apologize for being rude.
23:11I apologize for making you look bad.
23:13I am very sorry.
23:14That is not my intention.
23:15I don't want to fight, but I've given up my life in the United States and all of my financial security.
23:25She doesn't understand the gravity of the situation.
23:28It's very troubling.
23:30Can we go to bed together on my first night here, moving here?
23:33Or would you like me to go to the other room?
23:35What do you do?
23:42Do you have to understand, I work in hospitality, Chloe.
23:44I have to be nice to people.
23:46You can climb the rope, just don't put people on your back.
23:48I can't promise you that.
23:50His literally sole purpose on his job is to entertain young drunk girls.
23:55It's like if I worked at, like, a strip club.
24:05That's going to be a beautiful sunset today.
24:08I know.
24:08It's going to be gorgeous, just like you.
24:11Don't start.
24:21Hello, good evening.
24:27Now that I'm living in Aruba and I'm finally back with Jonathan,
24:31it is a relief to put everything from long distance behind us.
24:35I really want to become a less jealous partner,
24:40but his job makes that much more challenging
24:43considering his job is like a strip club located on the ocean.
24:49Oh, electronic mode.
24:51Jonathan has a lot of big dreams,
24:53and he told me that he wanted to go into business together.
24:55I'm hoping part of him truly is considering it
24:59because I just, I don't think I could see the trust coming back truly at his job.
25:05I really don't.
25:07It's actually so pretty.
25:09Mm-hmm.
25:10That's, like, picture perfect.
25:12There it is.
25:15Enjoy, okay?
25:16You're welcome.
25:16Anyway, you mentioned that you want to open, like, a business type situation.
25:28Yeah.
25:28Does that mean you're going to lean towards leaving?
25:32Yeah, of course.
25:33I don't want to work for somebody, Chloe.
25:36I mean, like, what kind of business are you thinking?
25:39Basically, if I'm thinking I'm starting a business where I could be in the water,
25:44and that's something I can't explain that feeling, you know?
25:49I would always want to work on the water.
25:52You understand?
25:53Yeah.
25:53I mean, but it's up in the air, but...
25:55Yeah, I know it's up in the air, but, I mean...
25:57No, I think that...
25:58We're going to have to help each other in this.
26:01Help you how, though?
26:04Help me create the business.
26:07We can come with a business plan now, and then maybe, hopefully, luckily enough,
26:10we can find an investor who's willing to put money into it.
26:12Once I finally manage to get through that, then I will leave Charlie Pirates.
26:17But that's the whole idea.
26:19I think I want to believe him that he wants to open a business together,
26:23but I do feel like part of him telling me all these things
26:26is because he just wants to take my focus off of him quitting his job.
26:31So you think within the year?
26:33Within the year, I will start making bigger moves.
26:37I'll work really hard for, like, a year, maybe two.
26:41So you think you'll be there for two more years?
26:44Maybe two.
26:46But what if you find a job that I like sooner than two years or one?
26:56I mean...
26:58Because there's plenty of other jobs.
26:59I've asked Jonathan to quit multiple times.
27:05His literally sole purpose on his job is to entertain young drunk girls
27:11in literal dental floss bikinis,
27:14and then put these drunk dental floss girls on his back
27:20as they, like, cling on to him for dear life
27:23and then flip with them in the air.
27:26Even one more year is pushing it.
27:28Like, you're going to be 33 working on a pirate ship.
27:31I think he would probably stay until the boat sinks.
27:35I don't know.
27:36It's an easy and fun job.
27:38I get good tips on that boat because of the things I can do, you know?
27:41I snorkel with the people.
27:43I show them all sorts of stuff.
27:44Like, I feel like you don't have to be so much, like, the center of it anymore.
27:47Like, I feel like you can slowly kind of step out of the limelight.
27:52I mean, if I start getting, like, colleagues,
27:54I start doing what I do.
27:56Like, nobody climbs the rope.
27:58Climbing?
27:59Okay, you can climb the rope.
28:01Just don't put people on your back.
28:02I'm trying to do that, lady.
28:03I'm trying, but I can't promise you that.
28:07You have to understand that, like,
28:09I did leave working on the boat
28:11to go work in a hotel
28:12because my ex didn't like me working on the boat.
28:15And I did it thinking that it would make things better.
28:18But it didn't.
28:19You know, but I'm not your ex.
28:21I understand that.
28:21So you can't compare.
28:23I understand.
28:24It's going to put me in a situation I've been in before.
28:27And I really don't want to do that again.
28:29I was just, like, mad that I had to go to work.
28:32Mad that I was doing what I was doing.
28:34But the work's not always fun.
28:35I mean, I think you can have a good balance.
28:37Yeah, I know, but that's why I'm trying to find a way to respect you
28:40as much as I can at work
28:41so I can stay with my job
28:42because it's something I really, really love.
28:44I'm not asking you in this moment
28:46to go put in your two weeks.
28:48That's not what I'm asking you to do.
28:49I'm asking on the boat.
28:51Somebody asks, be like,
28:53listen, like, I have a girlfriend, whatever.
28:55I know you want to put on a show,
28:57but, you know, leave young girls
29:00and dental floss out of it.
29:03Leave them out of it.
29:06You got to understand, you met me on Jolly Pirates.
29:10You know, like,
29:11you can't expect me to just change for you.
29:15Just, I met you a year ago,
29:16and, like, oh, I have to change my job
29:17and my lifestyle and everything.
29:18If you're going to sit here and tell me,
29:22no, I'm not going to stop flipping young, beautiful girls,
29:25then you can easily tell them no as well.
29:28At least have more respect for me.
29:30If you're going to say no to someone,
29:32say it to them, not to me.
29:33The only way that I will leave Jolly Pirates
29:35is if I did something for myself.
29:37It's like if I worked at, like, a strip club.
29:43No.
29:44I don't work at a, I do not, not even.
29:45But it's like if I worked at a strip club.
29:47That's not either.
29:47Because I'm saying most of your clients are girls.
29:49No, not about them.
29:50What do you mean?
29:51There's kids, there's families that come on the boat.
29:52In the morning trip.
29:53No, in all trips, Chloe.
29:55Like, Chloe, what is wrong with you?
29:59Anyway.
30:01Okay.
30:02Your parents are not here.
30:08Yeah.
30:09I'm seeing my fiancé for the first time in six months,
30:12and I'm sleeping down the hall from his parents.
30:15It's not ideal, especially for the type of stuff I like.
30:32I'm staying here today.
30:55Wow, you're driving more smoothly than what I'm used to.
30:59Not doing any of your speeding antics.
31:01Oh, I've been practicing just for you.
31:04I just arrived in England.
31:06It's been a long day of travel,
31:08and things were pretty awkward when we first saw each other.
31:11I think once we settle in together,
31:15we will feel more connected to each other.
31:18The town still looks the same.
31:20Not much changes in sleeping.
31:23Still pretty cute.
31:25Filled with old people.
31:27Uh-huh, yeah.
31:30Matthew's hometown is like the quintessential English countryside.
31:35There's lots of sheep, a lot of cute little cottages,
31:39and just long country roads leading to nowhere.
31:43Definitely not a place I would choose to live in my 20s.
31:46It maybe would be a place I would live in my 60s.
31:49I mean, I like a lot of the same things old people do,
31:52but I prefer city energy, not retirement home energy.
31:57There we are.
32:06Your parents are not here.
32:08Yeah.
32:09Hi, Daddy!
32:11Oh, my baby!
32:13Yeah, Apple!
32:14Hi, sweetie!
32:16Hi, sweetie!
32:17I have stayed at this house three times before.
32:21Want me some?
32:22Yeah!
32:23But it's always been, like, a little bit awkward
32:26because it's a small space.
32:28We all share one shower.
32:31I don't really have my own place to have my own alone time.
32:36Oh, wow!
32:37You got your new computer monitors?
32:39Yeah.
32:40I'm also seeing my fiancé for the first time in six months,
32:43and I'm sleeping down the hall from his parents,
32:46and the walls are pretty thin.
32:48It's not ideal, especially for the type of stuff I like.
32:52Sorry.
32:53I just got that out.
32:54Is this where I put my stuff in these drawers?
32:59Uh, yep.
33:00Everything with a G on it.
33:01But there's stuff in there.
33:02Oh, God, really?
33:04Oh, yeah, these are my shirts.
33:07Oh, I'll figure that out.
33:10Um...
33:11I guess you have to figure that out now, right?
33:15Mm-hmm.
33:16Mm-hmm.
33:17That's mine.
33:18That's mine.
33:19Maybe we should just get, like, a bag
33:21and just, like, put everything in the bag
33:22and then figure it out later?
33:23Mm-hmm.
33:24Grind it.
33:25Okay.
33:28Put everything in here.
33:30Like, I just don't know why all of this
33:32wasn't done beforehand.
33:35There you go.
33:36Three functional empty drawers.
33:39Okay, I don't know if that's enough.
33:41Can you make me a fourth one right now?
33:43Okay.
33:44Yeah, I'll get one.
33:47Well, I thought there was enough space.
33:49I mean, did you expect me to wear, like,
33:51four outfits over and over again?
33:54No, there's 20 hangers here,
33:55enough space for about five or six pairs of trousers down there,
33:59seven pairs of shoes.
34:01Seven pairs of shoes are going to fit there and trousers?
34:04Yeah, lined up, yeah.
34:06So you don't see space as an issue right now?
34:11No, I think this is fine.
34:12This is fine.
34:13This is fine.
34:14Should we lay out and start doing the suitcase, or...?
34:16Um, I feel like I just want to do that, like, alone
34:18because it's, like, too cramped for me to unpack
34:20while you're sitting there.
34:21Okay, sure.
34:22I'll let you unpack then.
34:24I don't even know where to put anything.
34:38I know it's, like, so silly to, like, cry over, like, not having the space to put your stuff, but it just feels, like, really discombobulating.
34:59It just doesn't really feel like home, and I'm just, like, coming here and trying to just find the space to put my things, and there's not enough space, and, like, I'll just be living out of a suitcase, basically.
35:14And, uh, it's just, like, a really weird situation.
35:21I just thought he would get ready more for me to come, so it just kind of feels like I'm not really welcome here.
35:32I left home to come here, and then just, like, to feel like you're just taking up space that you shouldn't be taking up.
35:40It just makes me really realize, like, I need, we need to find a place, like, of our own.
35:47Because it's just not really gonna work.
35:51I was already a little bit annoyed that Matthew hadn't seriously started looking at apartments for us, and then it doesn't even seem like he was expecting me to arrive here.
36:00It feels pretty inconsiderate, like, I just left Hazel to move here.
36:06He's just not really making me feel at home right now.
36:11How's it going? Any help?
36:16You can get me a bigger room.
36:19This one will have to do, I'm afraid.
36:21All right.
36:22What's she doing?
36:48What happened?
36:50Why she took your mom away?
37:18I didn't expect that my aunt would start saying all this.
37:20She was fine in the starting.
37:25I didn't expect that my aunt would start saying all this.
37:32She was fine in the starting.
37:35She came to a celebration and all of a sudden she's getting mad and talking about Jenny.
37:53It's really like make me, why and what is going on over here?
38:01Still having a problem with our age gap?
38:04Yeah, age gap thing.
38:05Well, we love each other.
38:07Well, if you don't like it, you don't have to come over here.
38:35You don't have to come over here.
38:37She's not a girl.
38:39She's not a girl.
38:41She's a woman.
38:43But we're living together and we're happy.
38:46The biggest thing is that she's happy.
38:48She's happy.
38:49That's okay.
38:50You don't have to say anything about this.
38:52I don't want to say anything about this.
38:54But she's happy.
38:56She was happy with her.
38:58She was happy with her.
39:00I haven't.
39:01The city is about us.
39:02Our town too is.
39:03The town is about us.
39:04The town is about us?
39:05What would I say?
39:06I took it.
39:07I took it.
39:08I take it.
39:09This is why I don't accept it.
39:11Deannaiko.
39:13I didn't understand her.
39:15I took it.
39:16I took it out of my house.
39:18The experience was with me.
39:20The experience was with me.
39:21Many people say, what have you done with your son?
39:25I don't want to go anywhere.
39:28I'll stay in my home.
39:31After a few times, my husband also told me
39:37that you can't do anything,
39:40that they both gave birth.
39:42Then I also thought that they did it.
39:46You have to change yourself.
39:49Now you have to change yourself.
39:53I am so happy today.
39:57If you think that the wrong thing is wrong,
40:01then it will be my son.
40:04It will be fine.
40:08Take anything.
40:10This is your house.
40:13I want to tell you this.
40:15Why do you have to change her?
40:18No one will change her.
40:21If you leave her,
40:23then you will change her.
40:25You are a very good lady.
40:28You are the part of our family.
40:31Okay.
40:32If you want to make your family,
40:33then you can make your family.
40:35If you want to make your family,
40:36then you will.
40:37If you want to make your family,
40:38then you will.
40:39You will.
40:40You will.
40:41My husband,
40:42you will say,
40:43and you will help me.
40:44But this is the muzik,
40:45then you write your family,
40:46you will have to change your family.
40:48It is like all the good work we have done
40:49until now can be spoiled by one loud person.
40:51It might make my parents feel like
40:53fighting against society and culture
40:56is not important.
40:58I don't know,
40:59but I think it's very risky for us.
41:01Thank you for us.
41:02You're going to be on your own.
41:12Next time on 90 Day Fiance, The Other Way.
41:15I'm Patia.
41:16I'm 58 and I'm an exotic dancer.
41:19But now I'm hanging out my cowgirl hat to move across the world to be with my boyfriend,
41:25Dylan.
41:26G'day, I'm Dylan.
41:28I'm 38 years old and I live in Launceston, Tasmania.
41:30We've been together for 12 years and have broken up 20 times.
41:35I'm just tired of the back and forth, you know.
41:39I'm not going to keep the break-up, the make-up, the break-up, make-up going for the rest of
41:44my life.
41:45It's either get off the pot.
41:47In Oklahoma, I get weekly massages.
41:51I feel like you don't necessarily appreciate how much I give.
41:57He's never said anything like this before.
42:00I couldn't afford the life that you want.
42:02Engage you for the money, is that what you're saying?
42:08Aw, you're so cute.
42:10Thanks.
42:11We're going to have a day night.
42:13And we can put all the fighting behind us.
42:18I didn't do anything, I just...
42:22I didn't do anything.
42:23I didn't give a minute.
42:24I just...
42:25I didn't give a minute.
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