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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiance, Happily Ever After.
00:00:04Tomorrow, we have a beautiful ceremony in a beach.
00:00:08What happens if it rains?
00:00:11You think my mom's doing the rain dance
00:00:14and ruin everything for you?
00:00:16Yes.
00:00:17She's drinking wine and said, hey, can you make rain tomorrow?
00:00:21Yeah, I always have to have a backup plan
00:00:23when it comes to everything.
00:00:25Please don't make me stress now.
00:00:29I have a job opportunity.
00:00:32So I'm moving to Florida,
00:00:34and I'm really hoping that you'll come with me.
00:00:37Calm down, okay?
00:00:38You are rushing into things.
00:00:40He's making all the important decisions
00:00:43that are gonna directly affect my life
00:00:46without letting me know.
00:00:48Are you really moving whether I go with you or not?
00:00:51Yes, 100%.
00:00:53At some point, you just didn't like to be around me.
00:00:59And you start going out more with the guys.
00:01:02It's becoming obvious that you don't trust me.
00:01:04Mm-hmm.
00:01:06By Guillermo bringing up these cheating allegations again,
00:01:10like, is he projecting because he's been up to no good?
00:01:14I think you're not my person.
00:01:16Oh, my God.
00:01:19You said that I body shamed you?
00:01:21I read the text messages.
00:01:22You're comparing women to her.
00:01:25I really confide in Elizabeth about a lot of things,
00:01:28and you're reading them.
00:01:30Like, what the this guy's reading our text messages?
00:01:33Why would you do that?
00:01:35This was escalating too much.
00:01:37We need to remove ourselves.
00:01:38That's it.
00:01:39We went to the dinner with Laura and Alex,
00:01:42and Alex told us that your husband lost the $75,000.
00:01:48How the did Alex know this?
00:01:51Because your husband's held it to Alex.
00:01:53That's a secret.
00:01:54My friends knew before I did?
00:01:58That's mortifying.
00:01:59What are you doing?
00:02:00I'm crazy.
00:02:05Dad.
00:02:08Just kind of push it down in there.
00:02:23No, no.
00:02:24Those flowers, you've already got something holding those?
00:02:27Oh, gosh.
00:02:28What?
00:02:29This is not working.
00:02:30Do we have any more of those pins?
00:02:32No, it's not working.
00:02:33It's blowing off anyway.
00:02:36OK, new idea.
00:02:37We watched it all blow into the wind.
00:02:42This is just not working.
00:02:44Do you need help?
00:02:45Do we need something for you?
00:02:48What?
00:02:50Julia.
00:03:05Good morning.
00:03:06I know you told me to butt out, but I thought you might want a little champagne.
00:03:15You look beautiful.
00:03:16And I am need a glass champagne, actually.
00:03:20Because I'm overstressing.
00:03:22Aw.
00:03:26Jesus Christ.
00:03:27Oh, my God.
00:03:28Did you even put water juice here?
00:03:30I'm going to put this not even mimosa here.
00:03:34I'm excited for you.
00:03:35I think it's going to be a great day.
00:03:37And I've just been praying about the weather.
00:03:39I mean, I can still see some sun out there a little bit between the clouds.
00:03:43I hope not have a rain.
00:03:47So wind, it's fine.
00:03:48But please, Noreen.
00:03:49Betty every time trying to say, oh, it's going to be bad weather.
00:03:54It's going to be so bad.
00:03:56I don't hold that.
00:03:57Can I make a suggestion if you ever do this again?
00:03:59Don't.
00:04:03This is funny.
00:04:04It's me against the wind.
00:04:06You're going to be like Alice in the house.
00:04:10You're thinking of Dorothy when there was.
00:04:13Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:04:14Oz, yeah.
00:04:17Look at that.
00:04:18We did it.
00:04:19Yes!
00:04:20Yes!
00:04:26Brandon.
00:04:27Be good to Julia.
00:04:30I want Julia to be happy.
00:04:34I'm too.
00:04:35I'm too.
00:04:37Yes.
00:04:49I'm so happy your mom and dad are here.
00:04:50Yes.
00:04:51To get to experience this again.
00:04:52Yeah, it's true because when our real wedding is, it's not waiting.
00:04:53I mean like it's not.
00:04:54It wasn't exactly your dream wedding because your dad wasn't there to walk you down the aisle.
00:04:55But this is not actually Russian tradition.
00:04:56This is American tradition.
00:04:57In Russia we're walking together.
00:04:58Like you did the first time.
00:04:59Exactly.
00:05:00So now you get to switch.
00:05:01Yeah, now we're going to switch.
00:05:02And your mom and dad are part of your American tradition.
00:05:03Yep, it's true.
00:05:04That's going to be American tradition.
00:05:05Oh, it's got goosebumps.
00:05:06That's awesome.
00:05:07In the end of this day, Brandon and me have agreements.
00:05:08We have disagreements.
00:05:09But we are trying to solve them.
00:05:10And look at us.
00:05:11My parents here.
00:05:12We did something.
00:05:13But this is not actually Russian tradition.
00:05:14But this is not actually Russian tradition.
00:05:15This is American tradition.
00:05:16In Russia we're walking together.
00:05:17Like you did the first time.
00:05:18Exactly.
00:05:19So now you get to switch.
00:05:20Yeah, now we're going to switch.
00:05:21And like let's.
00:05:22And your mom and dad are part of your American tradition.
00:05:23Yep.
00:05:24It's true.
00:05:25That's going to be American tradition.
00:05:26Oh, it's got goosebumps.
00:05:27That's awesome.
00:05:28In the end of this day, Brandon and me have agreements.
00:05:31We have disagreements.
00:05:32But we are trying to solve them.
00:05:35Look at us.
00:05:36My parents here.
00:05:37We did second opinion.
00:05:38Like we promised to each other.
00:05:40We did it.
00:05:42Going to change.
00:05:44Even this is not really great everything.
00:05:47But we are trying to do this.
00:05:49We are getting there.
00:05:55Hey, Elena.
00:05:56Mm-hmm.
00:05:57She's almost ready.
00:05:58Julia, your mom's here.
00:06:00Almost ready.
00:06:05Oh!
00:06:10Beautiful.
00:06:14Are you princess?
00:06:15princess
00:06:21yul
00:06:23I brought you
00:06:25the golden decorations that my mother and your grandmother
00:06:30so that you
00:06:32don't forget about the grandmother
00:06:35I'll show you
00:06:37this is my grandmother
00:06:40this is the scissors
00:06:42beautiful
00:06:44very very old so it's my
00:06:45beautiful
00:06:46my grandmother told me
00:06:51oh that's gorgeous
00:06:55I sacrifice a lot to live in my home country living everything what I have so having my parents
00:07:00here is super emotional because that's what I really want I love this feeling I love this like
00:07:08we have this family and I wish that this will be like this forever
00:07:11she said you look at that amazing and totally beautiful didn't she yeah yeah she does
00:07:26look
00:07:29beautiful
00:07:35are we ready
00:07:39so
00:07:40So Jasmine sent me email and she says she really needed to talk and that it's urgent.
00:08:10So I'm going to check out what's going down.
00:08:31The worst part of all this is Jasmine asked me to come to Matt's house and I feel awkward
00:08:38really going over there.
00:08:40It's very awkward.
00:08:41I really don't want to.
00:08:45This is the first time that I've heard from Jasmine since over a month ago.
00:08:49We have not been on very good terms.
00:08:52So I was shocked that I got this email from her.
00:08:56Honestly, I don't know why she's inviting me to Matt's house.
00:09:01She told me that he's not going to be there.
00:09:05I can't think of what would be so urgent and why she would even invite me to his house.
00:09:12You know, I really don't have any idea, honestly, of how Jasmine feels about me and her right
00:09:17now, except for the fact that she got, seemed to be really jealous of Natalie at the birthday
00:09:22party.
00:09:23Like she attacked her immediately.
00:09:27If Jasmine is truly jealous, that must show that she still cares about me and still has
00:09:32feelings for me.
00:09:35I was feeling completely done with Jasmine.
00:09:40But with the breakup with Natalie that I just recently had, I've been feeling kind of lonely
00:09:45at home.
00:09:46Like I'm having flashbacks and memories in my house of Jasmine being here.
00:09:51But you know, there would have to be a hell of a lot of changes from Jasmine for me to consider
00:09:58like not wanting to get a divorce.
00:10:04What I would really like Jasmine to say is that she was sorry for cheating on me and having
00:10:10a relationship with Matt before we went to couples therapy.
00:10:14And she has never said she's sorry.
00:10:17And she's never admitted to doing anything wrong.
00:10:21You know, that's that upsets me.
00:10:27So we'll have to see what she says.
00:10:33Well, a lot of things have changed, like drastically changed.
00:10:52Matt first told me that he's moving to Florida and he wants me to move with him.
00:10:57My guy was telling me that I shouldn't move with Matt.
00:11:01But then something unexpected happened.
00:11:03And everything I was trying to figure out and plan just went down the drain.
00:11:11This is a big thing, you know, it's like just piling up and I'm extremely anxious.
00:11:17I have to tell you, you know, but I don't know how he's going to take it.
00:11:22Maybe not good.
00:11:23Maybe not good.
00:11:24I'm scared.
00:11:25I'm scared.
00:11:26I'm scared.
00:11:27I'm scared because I'm scared because I'm sorry.
00:11:40And I don't know what to do now.
00:11:44He's going to think that I planned everything, that I did it on purpose.
00:11:49And I haven't told anyone, I don't know what to do.
00:12:05What Elizabeth did was...
00:12:07Not okay.
00:12:08It's not okay.
00:12:09No.
00:12:10How can somebody call you a friend and then just do that?
00:12:14For her to say, oh, Lauren said you body shame her, that's insane.
00:12:18That's not normal.
00:12:19What did you actually tell Elizabeth?
00:12:22Who's the favorite?
00:12:23Who's the favorite?
00:12:24Who's the favorite?
00:12:25Who's the favorite?
00:12:26Who's the favorite?
00:12:27Who's the favorite?
00:12:28This weekend has definitely been an emotional rollercoaster, but I think it's important that
00:12:34we communicate about our feelings.
00:12:37I'm on fire, let's have fun, hell no, I'm not done, sparking higher, better run, come
00:12:52through and stand next to me, tell me can you take the heat?
00:12:57Take your shoes off.
00:12:58Who wears socks and shoes on a beach?
00:13:00Are you gonna help me?
00:13:02After how you behaved last night?
00:13:04You wanna go put your outfit in the water a little bit?
00:13:08Sure.
00:13:09Listen, a lot of happened like last night, you know like maybe I did some stupid things
00:13:14and I don't wanna, I wanna fix it, I don't wanna be like, you know like I don't wanna be secretive,
00:13:18you know like, I wanna be, come back.
00:13:22That water is as cold as you.
00:13:25Oh my gosh.
00:13:34Look, the fact remains is that all of our friends knew about like $75,000 and I didn't.
00:13:46Baby, it was just a conversation that we had in between Jovi and Alex but I should have
00:13:52not brought up this conversation about money in front of these people, I don't know them
00:13:56but it was my mistake.
00:13:57But what a like, you know like what a double-faced mother , you know like that Alex.
00:14:02I don't care about them right now and what they think.
00:14:05No, but this is where it started.
00:14:06I wanna know from you why, how, how, how do you leave your wife out of that information?
00:14:11That makes me look stupid because my husband doesn't tell me about our finances.
00:14:20While it is very annoying that Lauren and Yara knew about the bad investment before I did,
00:14:25I just, I'm actually more frustrated that you didn't feel comfortable enough to confide
00:14:30in me about it first.
00:14:32You know what, I'm gonna say that I'm not a perfect person and I have my faults
00:14:37but I'm not gonna go as far as Lauren and say I'm a horrible person.
00:14:42That's not even funny.
00:14:45Really appreciate what you stuck up for me.
00:14:47Like you said you were...
00:14:48Well of course I'm always going to, no matter how pissed off I am you.
00:14:51I will always be on your side, but you know what?
00:14:54I'm not gonna let you get away with stuff.
00:14:56Like I'm still gonna call you out on your and what you did was not okay.
00:15:00Yeah.
00:15:01We're working by trust, babe.
00:15:03And we're gonna get back on good terms.
00:15:07Wow, those challahs are beautiful.
00:15:14Which one do you want to dig into?
00:15:16I like some seasoning, you know, so...
00:15:19You got it.
00:15:22So how was your day today, honey?
00:15:25It was good.
00:15:27Um, Yara actually messaged me.
00:15:31What?
00:15:32What, yesterday?
00:15:33About yesterday, she said something.
00:15:36Interesting.
00:15:37Interesting.
00:15:38Do you know when we went out with Jovi and Yara?
00:15:41Mm-hmm.
00:15:42Um, and we found out about like the money situation and whatever.
00:15:46So Yara told Elizabeth that we knew about the bad investment and I didn't say anything to her.
00:15:54I wanted to tell Elizabeth and be like, oh my God, Andre lost the investment money.
00:15:59I mean, I told him that he has to tell her or somebody else.
00:16:04But I, as a friend, wanted to address it with her and be like, are you okay?
00:16:07Like, what's going on?
00:16:08Like, because that's what a friend does.
00:16:10I'm more upset that Elizabeth would throw away a friendship for no...
00:16:16Because she thinks they said Andre is a horrible person.
00:16:19Oh, I'm over this.
00:16:20I don't know.
00:16:21I don't know why.
00:16:23I definitely don't think I said that he was a horrible person.
00:16:26I said Andre is a dick.
00:16:28He knows he is one.
00:16:29I think she knows he is one too, so I don't know if...
00:16:31Everybody knows he is one.
00:16:32Would she prefer that I call him an asshole?
00:16:34I don't know.
00:16:35It's stupid.
00:16:36That's enough with this.
00:16:37But for her to take that and say, oh, Lauren said you body shame her, I have every right
00:16:45to be pissed.
00:16:46Like, wow, thinking about it now, I'm just like, holy .
00:16:51That's ridiculous.
00:16:52That's insane.
00:16:53That's not normal.
00:16:56What Elizabeth did was it's not okay.
00:17:01What did you actually tell Elizabeth?
00:17:04I don't know.
00:17:08Maybe I said something along the lines of, I know Alex is a perfectionist and he does
00:17:14care a lot about physical appearance and health and everything.
00:17:17And the way he approached it of motivating me, I took it like body shaming because I was
00:17:25struggling.
00:17:26And, you know, right after Ari, I mean, three babies in two and a half years, it's a lot.
00:17:31And it felt like you're working out at home every day and really doing it.
00:17:37And your body looks amazing.
00:17:38And you would look in the mirror and oh, oh, oh.
00:17:43And here I am.
00:17:44Even after a year of working with a dietitian and dieting and walking and exercising as much
00:17:50as I could, you looked amazing.
00:17:52And I felt like, oh my God.
00:17:57I mean, from that to go to, to, to tell this girl that I'm, I can't even word this like
00:18:04that.
00:18:05Like, it's not okay to say that.
00:18:08Remember, like, even before we had kids, remember what was our deal with, because I
00:18:13heard about the surgery before we even had kids.
00:18:15Yeah.
00:18:16And what was the deal, remember?
00:18:18I had to put in the work and prove to you that I wanted to change not just my body, but
00:18:25my whole thing.
00:18:26Meanwhile, bread and butter.
00:18:28That's the, that's the whole point.
00:18:30But it's homemade and I know what's in it.
00:18:32Exactly.
00:18:33There you see, you did the change.
00:18:35He can be straightforward and direct.
00:18:39And I know that it's an Eastern European thing.
00:18:43I don't think it was intentional from him, but I was struggling with postpartum depression
00:18:48really bad.
00:18:49And so naturally girls, we talked to our friends about this and I trusted her and confided
00:18:55in her.
00:18:57And she took that trust and like threw it out.
00:19:00I feel like I'm mourning the loss of somebody because I felt so close to her and so connected
00:19:07to her.
00:19:08And we talked all the time and to feel so betrayed, like she broke my heart.
00:19:15Yeah.
00:19:16There's no way in hell I would ever stay with you if you once spoke about how my appearance
00:19:34is.
00:19:35There's, there's no way in hell.
00:19:38Anyway, let's, let's enjoy the beach.
00:19:41Shall we?
00:19:42I'm really, really hurt because it's not somebody that it didn't think I was close
00:19:49with.
00:19:50Yeah.
00:19:51So if I do decide to meet up with Elizabeth, I'm scared that it's going to happen again
00:19:57and I don't have the in me anymore to deal with it.
00:20:01So don't.
00:20:02Just be the perfect person and walk away.
00:20:05If you feel like it's not going anywhere then yeah.
00:20:12Yeah.
00:20:13Why can't it ribey?
00:20:14Why?
00:20:15Why do I have the grateful?
00:20:16For if I have, I could War One pass down and hacer a number and reinforce a lot in the
00:20:19neck.
00:20:21Which 62inder was only happy at the moment.
00:20:22But yeah.
00:20:23All the time.
00:20:24It's.
00:20:25Very nice.
00:20:26You know?
00:20:27I need the ground.
00:20:28Only two.
00:20:29How about all these things's all right and mate.
00:20:30I kind of drew my father there?
00:20:31Well, who do everything they haven't seen.
00:20:33But if I do them too, you don't worry too.
00:20:34Could you be angry and mocked up your up?
00:20:35It just really feels like we're back where we always are, just completely different pages,
00:20:51not understanding at all how we got here and having very different views of how we got here.
00:21:05It's the morning after our big fight, and although we laid next to each other, we didn't really talk.
00:21:22I mean, I don't even know if we said goodnight, truly.
00:21:25I feel like when I met Guillermo, I was just so in love and so hopeful for such a beautiful life together,
00:21:32and it's just not that.
00:21:45It's very weird to sleep in the same bed with the person that I used to sleep every single night together.
00:21:56I plan this weekend just so we can fix our problems.
00:22:02I was hoping for a cute reconciliation in some way.
00:22:09For everybody, for me, for Nico, for our family.
00:22:13But I feel that we just talk deeper into our problems that we have.
00:22:17Now she's just saying that I'm kidding on her, and I feel like it's even more intense for me
00:22:28because I gave my life to come here, to marry her, to create a family.
00:22:35So it doesn't feel safe.
00:22:37It doesn't feel, you know, it doesn't feel like that beautiful love that we used to have together.
00:22:42These problems that we are having, they're still raw.
00:22:51And I feel like, yeah, something could happen in the future, and maybe life could change and it could be better.
00:22:59But currently, it's just, I feel like we need to be in separate spaces so we can heal in some way.
00:23:05When I first met Guillermo, I imagined the rest of my life with him.
00:23:11He was so thoughtful and kind.
00:23:15And now to hear that he doesn't trust me and thinks that I've cheated, it just is heartbreaking.
00:23:21I just feel like we've done a lot of investing in each other, and to have it come down to a lack of trust.
00:23:32I just, it's hard for me to believe it's going to make me cry.
00:23:38It just sucks.
00:23:51It's a beautiful day today.
00:24:00Oh, really?
00:24:01Mm-hmm.
00:24:04Um, I found your hair gel.
00:24:06I don't know if you, while I was packing up.
00:24:08Yeah.
00:24:16Maybe you want to, like, I don't know, do a once-over and make sure you have everything.
00:24:21Anything that you'd need?
00:24:24I'm, I'm good.
00:24:27Yeah?
00:24:29Yeah.
00:24:30You're over it?
00:24:33I'm good.
00:24:39Ready to go home.
00:24:40Yeah, me too.
00:24:41I'm ready to see Nico.
00:24:51This weekend has definitely been an emotional rollercoaster.
00:24:58It's kind of exhausting.
00:25:00But ultimately, regardless of hurtful things that were said or sad moments, I think it's important that we communicate about our feelings.
00:25:08I think it needed to be aired out.
00:25:10Um, but, like, it doesn't mean I don't miss him sometimes, some aspects of our relationship or him or as a person, you know?
00:25:28Um, yeah.
00:25:42My pleasure.
00:25:46I said my pleasure.
00:25:48Oh, I didn't hear you.
00:25:49It's hard for me to see whether it's going to happen or how it's going to be, because I'd never dream about this.
00:26:02The only thing that I can have is just whenever all of these feelings go away, that we can be 100% good to each other just so we can be the best for Nico.
00:26:13I think from here we take some time to pour into ourselves as individuals, because I think we've been doing a lot for each other for a long time.
00:26:31And we just seek out our own happiness in our own ways and, like, rediscover who we are as individuals, because we have been a unit for a long time.
00:26:43The day I found you, the day I tried to tell my heart not to fall.
00:27:06Oh, I see Julia now.
00:27:18Oh, she's beautiful.
00:27:21Feeling this support, that's just, like, priceless.
00:27:24And I'm so, so deeply inside, hey, B.
00:27:29Ah.
00:27:29Is this your dog, sir, or it ran off?
00:27:38Oh.
00:27:40Where'd it go?
00:27:41The dog ran away.
00:27:42Yara would kill me if she found out.
00:27:44Christ.
00:27:48Like, are you okay?
00:27:52And I always, to be honest.
00:27:53I'm trying to switch this around.
00:27:54No, I'm not trying to do it.
00:27:55You're the liar.
00:27:55I'm not.
00:27:57You're the liar.
00:27:58War is over.
00:28:00So that's the reason why I brought you here.
00:28:18So what do you think?
00:28:18It's beautiful here, right?
00:28:20It's a bayou, Jovi.
00:28:22Look, a coconut in the water.
00:28:23You have the coconuts in the bayou?
00:28:26No.
00:28:27That we don't see in Louisiana.
00:28:29Another coconut.
00:28:45That's a big, really big glass.
00:28:47Be careful.
00:28:47What are you doing?
00:28:50No, you can't.
00:28:54Ew.
00:28:55Mila, you funny.
00:28:57Swim, can you go to the bathroom?
00:29:00Right now?
00:29:02Come on.
00:29:05Yara's brand's launch party was yesterday, and my mom is going to leave today.
00:29:09This is the first time that my mom's come to visit us in Miami since we've moved, and she's
00:29:13not really a fan of Miami, but she came to support Yara's party.
00:29:16Hey, excuse me.
00:29:20Is this your dog, sir?
00:29:21It ran off.
00:29:22Oh.
00:29:23Oh, my gosh.
00:29:25Where'd it go?
00:29:26Oh, sorry.
00:29:31You're not even paying attention, are you?
00:29:33I put her down in good water, and I forgot.
00:29:35You forgot.
00:29:38At least Yara's not here.
00:29:39Yeah.
00:29:39Oh, my God.
00:29:42Christ.
00:29:44The dog ran away.
00:29:45Yara would kill me if she found out.
00:29:47Mila is growing on me a little bit, but just like, I don't know how to be like a dog, dad,
00:29:52dog parent, whatever you want to call it, right?
00:29:54I'll be a father to my child, but I'm not, not with this dog.
00:30:00You went to the restroom, Mila.
00:30:02What happened to your beau?
00:30:05Mila, what are you doing?
00:30:07You're so silly.
00:30:10So, overall, how do you feel about last night?
00:30:13I mean, you feel okay?
00:30:15You're happy with the way things turned out?
00:30:17I am happy until everything doesn't escalate to another level.
00:30:21It was absolutely crazy.
00:30:23Like, you don't go to a party and people start flinging the F word around, screaming at their
00:30:29so-called friends, and this is supposedly y'all friends.
00:30:34Last night, my party was, to be honest, didn't go the way exactly I wanted it to go.
00:30:41But I also feel a little bit upset that I maybe say to Elizabeth about the investments,
00:30:47but I was just so angry with her because all my guests saw her screaming, so I just said
00:30:52it.
00:30:52It just came out.
00:30:54And to be honest, I don't want to give nobody a secret.
00:30:57I'm very direct.
00:30:58So that's why I spill it out.
00:30:59Don't tell me your secrets because I'm going to tell them to everybody.
00:31:04I mean, the words that were being thrown around and the anger that was there, you need
00:31:12to be careful with Myla around that time.
00:31:13She wasn't there in Mrs. Quaid.
00:31:16She's never going to be there during a yelling.
00:31:19Or I'm going to shut them down.
00:31:21Last night, there was this big argument, Andre, Libby, Lauren, and Alex.
00:31:28They're all yelling and stuff's getting out of hand.
00:31:31I'm like, what in the world's happening?
00:31:33I mean, for a minute, I thought somebody was going to throw a punch.
00:31:37That's Yara's friends.
00:31:38That's who she's hanging out with, people that are screaming at each other during an important
00:31:45event in your life, because this is the kind of people you want around your child.
00:31:50Life would be easier in Louisiana.
00:31:53I just don't get it.
00:31:56I know that you guys are looking for a house and you have a large budget.
00:32:01Do you understand what you could get in Louisiana compared to here?
00:32:06So, don't you want the nice house?
00:32:09I've been looking for you.
00:32:14Did you ask your mom to help you to look for the places?
00:32:18Um, I did actually ask her to look for houses, right?
00:32:23Because, um, I mean, it makes sense, right?
00:32:28Like, are you okay?
00:32:29Okay.
00:32:36Like, what are you even talking about?
00:32:39I moved here because you wanted to move here.
00:32:42I don't want to say I'm miserable, right?
00:32:43Because I'm not miserable, but it's not like, I don't see this being, like, the place of
00:32:47my future.
00:32:48I don't know if I want to stay here right now.
00:32:53I mean, the housing market here is horrible, too.
00:32:55It's so hard to find anything.
00:32:56I don't think...
00:32:56It's not horrible.
00:32:57We're making good money together.
00:32:58We can buy a nice house.
00:32:59It's not like in Louisiana.
00:33:00The money would go a lot further in another place.
00:33:02You can have your dream house, for example.
00:33:04If we move back to Louisiana, let's just say.
00:33:06If we did, we can have our dream house.
00:33:07And I'm going to be miserable in that dream house.
00:33:08Who wants that?
00:33:08When are you going to be miserable there?
00:33:10How about I move to Ukraine?
00:33:11Because you know what?
00:33:12I can buy there for my budget.
00:33:13Well, at least she would be by one of her grandmothers.
00:33:15At this point, she's by neither.
00:33:18She doesn't see either of us.
00:33:19I don't know what you're talking about.
00:33:20But it was something we needed to talk about that I've been wanting to talk about, so...
00:33:24Being away from everyone, we don't have anybody to help out.
00:33:27For example, something happens in a day.
00:33:29We can't get Mala from school.
00:33:30We don't have anybody to pick her up, right?
00:33:32So I agree to come here and test it out and see if we like it.
00:33:34Like, yeah, some parts of it are good, but some parts are also, like, a lot more complicated than if we go somewhere else.
00:33:42To be honest, I feel more connected over here because I love that there are so many people from my country,
00:33:47that there are so many shops from my country.
00:33:49Like, if I want to eat syrniki, actually, there is a restaurant downstairs where I live,
00:33:55and I can go and eat my damn syrniki or borscht or something.
00:33:58The other day, I bring Mala to Ukrainian church,
00:34:01and she was able to experience Ukrainian tradition.
00:34:04I mean, like, it's so much stuff over here that I didn't have in Louisiana.
00:34:07I know that Joey feels that we don't have a support system here in Florida,
00:34:12but it's not like we don't have anyone here.
00:34:14I have Lauren and Alex, Elizabeth and Andrew here.
00:34:18We can be all good friends.
00:34:20We just need to smooth thing over, and all can be good.
00:34:24I don't want to be in New Orleans.
00:34:26Enough is enough.
00:34:27I said it's over.
00:34:28So, okay, go into Mala somewhere.
00:34:30I don't want to be in New Orleans, but I don't want to be in New Orleans.
00:35:00I don't want to be in New Orleans.
00:35:01I don't want to be in New Orleans.
00:35:03My time isn't up, no, this dream isn't fair.
00:35:07I'll throw out the shutters when the darkness is not your friend.
00:35:11Hold me close when it's cold in your bed.
00:35:16Ah, she's beautiful.
00:35:19You ready, Julia?
00:35:22Yes.
00:35:23Where is Brandon?
00:35:25We'll go first.
00:35:30Oh, look, it's Brandon.
00:35:32He's right.
00:35:40Hello.
00:35:41You go this way.
00:35:42OK.
00:35:43Hello.
00:35:44Hi.
00:35:49Hi, I see Julia now.
00:35:58Oh, she's beautiful.
00:36:00Beautiful.
00:36:02Wow.
00:36:03I'll be taking joy for you, my happy life.
00:36:14This is gorgeous.
00:36:16Look at the proud daddy.
00:36:18So, you're going through this flat.
00:36:20Yeah?
00:36:20Yeah.
00:36:21Yeah.
00:36:22Brandon.
00:36:23I'd like to, if you don't mind, I'd like to say how grateful that we are, that with
00:36:47this time Elena and Igor can be with us to see you guys, and we're so happy for you guys
00:36:56because we love you.
00:36:58Yes.
00:36:59Они любят вас, любят нас.
00:37:01Мои дорогие, Джулия, Брэндон, я желаю вам счастья, любви.
00:37:10Ну что, дети мои, я счастлив, что вы встретили друг друга.
00:37:20Я надеюсь, что вы будете любить крепко друг друга.
00:37:25И, ну, когда…
00:37:32О-о-о!
00:37:37Будьте счастливы!
00:37:44Сейчас все заплачут.
00:37:47И Рону же тоже!
00:37:51Я не вижу, что я не вижу, что я не вижу, что я не вижу, что я не вижу, что я не вижу.
00:37:55И даже твои дети начинают жарить.
00:37:58О-о-о-о, что мы все вместе.
00:38:00Я знаю.
00:38:01Я чувствую эту поддержку.
00:38:03Это, как, прiceless.
00:38:05И я так, так, так глубоко, очень рада.
00:38:09И, о-о-о, я буду жарить снова.
00:38:11О-о-о, я буду жарить снова.
00:38:13О-о-о-о!
00:38:14А-а-а!
00:38:16О-о!
00:38:17Папа!
00:38:19О-о-о!
00:38:20О-о-о!
00:38:21О-о-о!
00:38:22Один-п cuántой!
00:38:26О-о-о!
00:38:27Это…
00:38:29Все ли, все ли?
00:38:30Все ли?
00:38:32Лишь?
00:38:33vez9
00:38:34Д préfื่?
00:38:35horizont
00:38:37Я легла,
00:38:38ох,
00:38:39ou,
00:38:40ты же не звучишь
00:38:41Что я-а-а?
00:38:42Даuju,
00:38:43как ты?
00:38:44Он хочет вам сказать
00:38:45он не мне…
00:38:46I had to translate everything, so you're going to have to bear with me.
00:38:50It's not the first time.
00:39:16Why is M and E?
00:39:19And me.
00:39:20And me very pleased that you are my honor.
00:39:30Hi, Brendan, thank you very much.
00:39:32You are a beautiful world.
00:39:34Красивые слова.
00:39:35I feel like it's a rough translation.
00:39:37We understand you.
00:39:38I love you too.
00:39:40We love you too.
00:39:44Okay, best part is rings.
00:39:47Uh-huh.
00:39:48So, take a closer.
00:39:51Just a minute.
00:39:52That's it.
00:39:53That's for you to give to Brandon.
00:39:56Take this ring as a symbol of my love.
00:40:05Take this ring as a symbol of my love.
00:40:08Oh.
00:40:09Sausage fingers.
00:40:10Stop feeding me so well.
00:40:11You can never take it off.
00:40:12I may kiss the bride.
00:40:13All right.
00:40:14No, no.
00:40:15You can never take it off.
00:40:16I may kiss the bride.
00:40:17fingers stop feeding me so well yeah you can never take it off i may kiss the bread
00:40:40thank you for being supportive thank you are be with me and understand and hearing me
00:40:45and i know we have our rough days but we made it and i think we have a beautiful wedding ceremony
00:40:54i think we did too
00:41:00let's go consummate what does it mean officiatize the wedding have a sex oh jesus christ brandon
00:41:09how i know tell this to my dad
00:41:17how do you feel i feel bonita but i gotta get it out of this dress because i can't breathe
00:41:24i'm kind of struggling on whether or not i want to reach out to lauren the things that she said
00:41:35about you it hurts me you cannot live self-centered people like that in your life
00:41:52yeah
00:42:04cheers you guys enjoy thank you so much that looks delicious all right cheers baby cheers cheers for us
00:42:12and f our enemies right do you me baby everyone else
00:42:25let's go
00:42:32not bad
00:42:34last night was very hard for me i'm still trying to figure out what the hell that was
00:42:41despite how awful last night was um honestly like we have a very strong relationship and i feel like
00:42:48no matter what we're gonna get over it and we'll pull through uh but however i cannot say the same
00:42:54thing about my friendship with lauren don't hold your breath on that one yeah i just
00:43:01i don't know i don't know how we come back from this
00:43:06i've spent about four years of my life talking to lauren all of that time majority of it was on the
00:43:13phone yeah well nevertheless we have talked about literally everything under the sun i mean you
00:43:20remember we would we talked every single day all hours for hours all day for hours you would get so
00:43:25annoyed at me because you'd be like babe what are you doing can you put your phone down whoa whoa
00:43:28whoa like i was we were so invested in our conversations with each other because we just
00:43:33connected so well so fast and we found out that we had so many things in common more than we knew
00:43:40but like the more time goes on and the more i spent with her in person the more i can really see her
00:43:46for who she is because like she sings up about you and then like i see how alex is treating her
00:43:54so you're not going to talk about my husband that way especially when you are not in any condition
00:44:00in your relationship to throw stones essentially exactly doing
00:44:05you think that they're just trying to portray this concept of a perfect couple which they're not
00:44:13no alex he was mad and embarrassed and left yeah that tells me that you're guilty of those things
00:44:19yeah of course he's guilty because she said it and she said it in front of us she said that like i
00:44:23have this body dysmorphic thing you know i can he shames me like that aside from that i do feel bad
00:44:30about everything that went down i mean i wouldn't want my dirty laundry aired you know especially at an
00:44:39event but it hurts me too because the things that she said about you and the comments she made about
00:44:48you that's not okay because i considered her to be a really close friend you know and so i'm just
00:44:59i'm kind of struggling on whether or not i want to reach out to lauren
00:45:04you think there is a solution and you can actually you know like be friends after you
00:45:07like all of this stuff and you can you know like be at the same same people you know like as before
00:45:13well i'm gonna try but i also want to see her put in some effort too you know what i mean
00:45:21because i would hate for all of that time that we talked to just like go down the drain
00:45:26lauren and i really initially bonded over the fact um that we're married to eastern european men
00:45:37we were just there for each other to just complain and vent so i mean i don't want to throw our
00:45:43relationship away just yet it's the same place you cannot leave uh self-centered people like that
00:45:50in your life just get rid of it
00:45:54babe i think if you're gonna go and you're gonna meet with her and she's like acting like
00:45:58a fool and she's just like not cooperating with your role just tell her to off and it's done
00:46:02take a sit the first thing i noticed was a bunch of boxes on the floor it looks like she's moving
00:46:17what was the urgent urgent message
00:46:39she's gonna tear me apart
00:46:46she's gonna tear me apart
00:47:16You can come in.
00:47:24You can come in.
00:47:25Okay.
00:47:29Take a seat.
00:47:31It's too cold outside.
00:47:46It's really weird to be at Matt's house, knowing that Jasmine has been living in this house
00:47:58for the last several months.
00:48:03I feel my house is much nicer than this apartment dump.
00:48:08The first thing I noticed was a bunch of boxes on the floor.
00:48:11It looks like she's moving.
00:48:12So I wonder if Jasmine is moving out of Matt's place and finally getting her own place.
00:48:21That would show me that she actually still cares about me and she's actually taking action.
00:48:33So I want to say thank you for coming, as I said, you know, in the message that I sent you.
00:48:41What was the urgent?
00:48:42Urgent message.
00:48:43Yes, it's very important for me to talk to you.
00:48:48And I'm glad you're here.
00:48:49I just want to say thank you.
00:48:53How have you been ever since the party?
00:48:57I haven't seen you or hear from you ever since.
00:49:00How have I been since the party?
00:49:02Yeah, Donna's party.
00:49:03Well, I mean, I'm going to have to say I was shocked how you acted towards Natalie, who I brought to actually meet my family.
00:49:18Which is my family, too.
00:49:22Um, I didn't understand that.
00:49:24Why you were in her face, like, in an instant from the time that you walked in to the party.
00:49:31You come over, you set something down on the table and you walked over.
00:49:35I said something, yes.
00:49:36I said, well, if this is a birthday party, not a bachelor's party, why is this hooker from Vegas here?
00:49:45I said that, and I take full responsibility on that.
00:49:51Well, she was doing fine until you scared the living out of her the night of the party.
00:49:58And she was very upset about the whole thing.
00:50:03And we broke up because of it.
00:50:12So you're telling me that your girlfriend broke up with you because of me and not because she discovered the web of lies that you've been telling her.
00:50:23It is not you telling her that you planned to divorce me when you have never told me that.
00:50:31And you were even trying to meet with me to fix things.
00:50:35It was not you not telling her about the open marriage and that there was still hope between you and me.
00:50:43I wasn't telling her anything.
00:50:44So you were 100% honest to her?
00:50:46Absolutely.
00:50:47I don't feel bad for you.
00:50:48I actually feel bad for her because by you bringing that woman to Michigan, and that is my fault, I take accountability.
00:51:00It just proved that you're the common denominator.
00:51:03You're the liar.
00:51:04You lied not only to me.
00:51:06You were lying to both of us.
00:51:08And I always be honest.
00:51:09Chris trying to switch the around.
00:51:11You're the liar.
00:51:12I'm not.
00:51:13Yeah, you are.
00:51:14There was no reason for you to attack Natalie when she walked into that party.
00:51:17Stop fighting with me.
00:51:18You're always fighting with me.
00:51:20You were always fighting with me.
00:51:21Anyway, the war is...
00:51:22That was not a good life for me.
00:51:23I lived a miserable life with you.
00:51:25I was miserable with you, too.
00:51:28I agree.
00:51:30So...
00:51:30And war is over.
00:51:32So that's the reason why I brought you here.
00:51:35Because I want you to know that I'm not longer gonna live in this house.
00:51:43I'm moving.
00:51:45Okay.
00:51:46Where are you moving to?
00:51:47So you're moving out of Matt's house?
00:51:51Yes.
00:51:54I'm moving to Florida.
00:51:57You're moving to Florida.
00:51:59Yeah.
00:52:01But Matt is coming with me.
00:52:09Okay.
00:52:10So you're moving with Matt to Florida.
00:52:12Okay.
00:52:12And I don't want you to know by anyone but me.
00:52:18What I'm gonna tell you, I just want you to know that I...
00:52:23I'm not doing this on purpose.
00:52:50I didn't do it to hurt you.
00:52:52I didn't plan.
00:52:54It just happened.
00:52:55Matt and I, we are going to have a baby.
00:53:00Matt and I, we are going to have a baby.
00:53:00Matt and I, we are going to have a baby.
00:53:13You don't want to have children because you're worried about the complications in life.
00:53:25But you just decide that, like, right now?
00:53:28Do you even care how I feel?
00:53:31Brandon.
00:53:32Brandon.
00:53:32Brandon.
00:53:33This is important.
00:53:34We need to talk about this.
00:53:35We need to talk about this in Russia.
00:53:51What?
00:53:52In Russia, we have a tradition where everybody should yell at Gorka.
00:53:56Gorka is mean opposite sweet.
00:53:59We need something sweet.
00:54:00So bright and brumny kiss and neck sweet.
00:54:03Gorka!
00:54:04Gorka!
00:54:04You can kiss me!
00:54:06Gorka!
00:54:06Gorka!
00:54:07Gorka!
00:54:09Vodka!
00:54:10Vodka!
00:54:22It was amazing that it did not rain today on you.
00:54:27You were blessed by the fact that...
00:54:29I guess it was meant to be.
00:54:32Yeah, it was just crazy.
00:54:34I mean...
00:54:35Our ceremony is not everything we're planning for, but in the end of this day, it's ours so cute.
00:54:47It's our whole marriage in a nutshell.
00:54:49Let's have our life.
00:54:52And you have lobster, right?
00:54:54Vodka, sorry.
00:54:55What lobster?
00:54:56Vodka, teach me how to clean. I've never eaten that before.
00:55:04Italians eat with their fingers.
00:55:07Everything tastes better when you eat with your fingers.
00:55:10I can't eat this. It's not so convenient.
00:55:14Bon appetito!
00:55:18It's so delicious.
00:55:19We have kind of exciting news.
00:55:23Okay.
00:55:26Julia and I had our appointment at the fertility clinic.
00:55:29You did?
00:55:30Yeah, we got our results back.
00:55:31Oh, good.
00:55:32So, good news?
00:55:33I think we are talking.
00:55:39We don't want to talk about that.
00:55:42We're short.
00:55:43We went to the doctor, and we asked to know if we can have children, if we can't.
00:55:54We can't.
00:55:54We got the results of the analysis, and I have problems with hormones.
00:56:08And they told me that everything is easy to do with the operation.
00:56:14It's dangerous.
00:56:15It's dangerous.
00:56:16Yeah.
00:56:17I have to remove these polyps.
00:56:19I have to have Anastasia.
00:56:21And I've never been Anastasia before.
00:56:23I don't want to do that.
00:56:25And it's like, it's going to be so hard for me.
00:56:28Don't oversell it, Julia.
00:56:30It's minor.
00:56:31It could be...
00:56:32Are you going to do the surgery?
00:56:38Doctors tell us to wait, and...
00:56:41To wait?
00:56:42I mean, like...
00:56:43Doctors didn't say to wait.
00:56:47They might tell us to talk at home, not just give right decision, because I mean, that is
00:56:52not like just you go there and doing that.
00:56:58But you would be okay, you could still have children, right?
00:57:07So the surgery could be successful, or maybe not?
00:57:10Could be not, could be yes.
00:57:13Oh, wow.
00:57:28We have two options.
00:57:29First, start to treatment, or second, decide to be never going to have kids, and that is
00:57:40our decision.
00:57:44Oh, no, don't...
00:57:45We're still young.
00:57:51We still have time, so make it a plan B, because we're still young.
00:57:55Julia?
00:57:55What do you mean, plan B?
00:57:56Why do they think you're still young?
00:58:00You're 30 years old.
00:58:02He's going to be 32.
00:58:04That's not that young.
00:58:05I mean, your biological clock is ticking.
00:58:07Betty.
00:58:08What?
00:58:09First of all, I just want to go on record and say, you're going to do what's best for
00:58:13your body.
00:58:14That's what I says.
00:58:15I mean, don't take any chances.
00:58:18There's things that...
00:58:19There's other options down the road, maybe if you want children, but you pay attention
00:58:24to what's going to make you okay.
00:58:26It's my body, and I want to choose what I want to choose.
00:58:28I don't have a problem with that.
00:58:29I'm sorry.
00:58:30That's the way I feel.
00:58:32It is your body.
00:58:36You should choose what you want, but I just am trying to be on the same page with you,
00:58:40and I want you to choose this with me together, because it is something that we should choose
00:58:46together, you know?
00:58:47I have too much pressure from everybody.
00:58:52I'm a person who will have all this process.
00:58:56I'm a person who will have a surgery.
00:58:57You're okay?
00:58:58No, but we'll be with you there together.
00:59:00You're not going to get Anastasia.
00:59:02You're not going to get a surgery.
00:59:04I'll be with you there, though.
00:59:05I'll be with you there to take you home.
00:59:07I'll be with you every step of the way to hold your hand.
00:59:09You know what I mean?
00:59:09No, that is too much, because it's happened too much.
00:59:13What are you saying, Julia?
00:59:18It's my decision for now, because it's too much.
00:59:21It's your decision as a married couple.
00:59:23Yeah, but my decision, I just want to have my kids.
00:59:28You don't want children?
00:59:30What?
00:59:30No.
00:59:31This is the first time we've heard that.
00:59:33It's my decision.
00:59:34I don't want children.
00:59:45I want clarity.
00:59:47I am here to get answers, because what happened was really up.
00:59:53Hello.
00:59:54Hello.
00:59:55Why did you feel the need to bring up my husband's body shaming?
01:00:01Really?
01:00:01Every little moment has led to this.
01:00:11Do we take it in order?
01:00:14Or just let it slip?
01:00:16The window is closing.
01:00:19I'm losing my grip.
01:00:22The story's unfolding.
01:00:23Tell me the ending, because we can't take this for granted anymore.
01:00:32I'm meeting up with Elizabeth.
01:00:39I brought evil eyes for protection.
01:00:43Elizabeth texted me that she wanted to meet up.
01:00:45And I think it's really important that we meet in a public place, because witnesses.
01:00:54And also, I want clarity.
01:00:56I am here to get answers, because what happened was really up.
01:01:01And it shouldn't have happened at all.
01:01:03I gave everything I'm for, or all we could be at all.
01:01:11I need, I need to go, cause this is the last chance for.
01:01:27Hello.
01:01:28Hello.
01:01:30Should we hug?
01:01:31Uh, no.
01:01:33No, but thank you.
01:01:34You don't want a half-assed hug?
01:01:35No, I don't want a half-assed hug.
01:01:36Okay, good.
01:01:37But at least you admit you would give it, so.
01:01:41How are you?
01:01:42I've been better.
01:01:44I really have.
01:01:45Yeah.
01:01:49So, I don't even know, like, where to begin or what to say.
01:01:55Me, too.
01:02:00What, what do you mean, me, too?
01:02:01No clue.
01:02:02I don't know where to begin.
01:02:04Okay.
01:02:05My supposed-to-be friend calls my husband a horrible man.
01:02:10I never called him a horrible person.
01:02:13Okay.
01:02:13But you said dick.
01:02:15But he is a dick.
01:02:17Isn't a dick worse?
01:02:20I don't.
01:02:20Been a horrible person?
01:02:22I, I don't think so.
01:02:25Okay.
01:02:25So, no matter how I may feel about Alex, I would never do that.
01:02:29You just don't talk about your friend's husbands.
01:02:33I am sorry that I hurt you.
01:02:35But when we had our double date, we all kind of said, yes, he's a dick.
01:02:40So, it wasn't just me, Elizabeth, and I feel like I'm being singled out.
01:02:44Because I care about you the most.
01:02:46Do you not understand that?
01:02:47Like, you were my closest friend.
01:02:49Yes.
01:02:50So, that stung me the most.
01:02:55So, imagine how I feel when I confided in you with so many things during my darkest time.
01:03:02Right.
01:03:02And personal things were brought up that should not have been.
01:03:09Elizabeth, I considered you one of my best friends.
01:03:13Why did you feel the need to bring up my husband?
01:03:18Body shaming.
01:03:19That is what kills me.
01:03:26And honestly, I don't believe that Andre reads your text messages.
01:03:31You don't believe me.
01:03:32At the puppy launch party, Andre says that he learns about all of this body shaming stuff through text messages.
01:03:43But then I had some time to think about it and I realized that that situation was from two and a half years ago.
01:03:53There's no way Andre could have read these text messages from two and a half years ago like he had to have learned about this body shaming nonsense through Elizabeth.
01:04:05Because who even keeps text messages from that long ago, I delete my messages from the other day, not because I'm hiding something, just because it stresses me out seeing all these threads.
01:04:16I would never talk about someone's personal life or conversations.
01:04:22I don't believe you.
01:04:23I don't believe you.
01:04:24Really?
01:04:25Really?
01:04:26I don't trust you.
01:04:31But then I don't trust you.
01:04:32Well, I'm not friendly.
01:04:33I don't trust you.
01:04:34Like, this is insane.
01:04:35Like, this is insane.
01:05:03Why don't you trust me?
01:05:04I've never given you a reason not to.
01:05:06I don't want to attack you.
01:05:07I don't want this to be that type of conversation.
01:05:09But I am going to speak my piece and how I feel.
01:05:12You call my husband a dick and all this stuff.
01:05:14That's what this is about, that I called your husband.
01:05:17And I told you.
01:05:18Well, it's about multiple things.
01:05:20We were just at your housewarming party and your friend attacked my husband.
01:05:24You didn't step in.
01:05:26If that was my home, I'd be like, get the f*** out.
01:05:28You're not going to talk to my friends that way.
01:05:30Right.
01:05:30So I could have sent that to your husband.
01:05:32Yeah, and we would have gladly left.
01:05:35This is really crazy.
01:05:36It's really f***ing crazy.
01:05:52So, if you remember, Andre started to raise his voice and Noga saw me getting cornered.
01:06:01And, yes, she went off.
01:06:03Have I apologized for that time and time again?
01:06:06Yes.
01:06:06When Andre was attacking Noga and they were going out, I looked at my guest and I said, I'm so sorry that this happened.
01:06:17I was genuinely apologizing and apologizing and apologizing.
01:06:20But, again, she refuses to accept it.
01:06:24Like, I don't know what else this girl needs.
01:06:29And that is what she is so stuck on.
01:06:31So I think because of that, they came to this launch party with malicious intent to try and hit so low below the belt.
01:06:42I think after I got over that, when I started to be like, what the f*** again, is when I heard about the double date and the things that were said over there.
01:06:54And I'm like, why did Lauren, my friend, say that about my husband?
01:06:58I would never say that about Alex.
01:07:00Because Alex isn't.
01:07:00As much as I know.
01:07:02Like, to other people in public, like, he's not.
01:07:05But to you?
01:07:05He's not a dick to me.
01:07:07We are a couple.
01:07:08But the things that you've said to me.
01:07:10I think that he's verbally abusing you.
01:07:12I've said that to you so many times.
01:07:14What the f***?
01:07:15A man should never f*** say that or do those things to you.
01:07:21Yes, but Alex would never body shame or talk bad about my body and say, this is ugly or that.
01:07:28No, he was trying to motivate me to working out and start this lifestyle change.
01:07:35And I took it differently because I was going through my postpartum depression.
01:07:41I was in such a dark place.
01:07:43You know me and you know we're very private people.
01:07:48So to bring something up that we handled privately, that is so below the belt.
01:07:54And you have yet to apologize for hurting me and that situation.
01:08:05And I think that it shouldn't have happened.
01:08:10It could have been avoided.
01:08:11If we were mature adults and just had a conversation, if we're feeling a certain way about something.
01:08:17You know what I mean?
01:08:25Um, but I am sorry about what happened.
01:08:29Yeah.
01:08:30So I, I do feel really bad and, um...
01:08:39I have missed you like you have no idea.
01:08:43And at the same time, I think, like, I, how can I get past this?
01:08:49I know.
01:08:50I thought the same thing.
01:08:52Because we've been friends for so long, it's not something that you and I can just, like...
01:08:58Forget about?
01:08:59Yeah.
01:08:59It's gonna take time.
01:09:01It's like, it's truly, like, grieving.
01:09:03I know.
01:09:03I just want you to know that I still care about you and I still love you, even though we won't be able to get back to where we were.
01:09:20I just want you to know that for your own self.
01:09:29Well, thank you for meeting me.
01:09:31Yes, of course.
01:09:33Take care.
01:09:33Until next time, maybe.
01:09:54Did you just decide that, like, right now?
01:09:57Can I ask a question?
01:09:58Is it you don't want to have children because you're worried about the complications?
01:10:02Yes.
01:10:03I have it so much.
01:10:05Do you even care how I feel?
01:10:08Brandon.
01:10:09Brandon.
01:10:09This is important.
01:10:11We need to talk about this.
01:10:13We'll shoot.
01:10:17I need to go back and talk about this.
01:10:22I need to go back and talk about this.
01:10:30I need to go back and talk about this.
01:10:31идет и потом ты никогда не сможешь забеременеть 0 я правда в этом есть
01:10:47i'll be taking back
01:10:53can it's gone token in a bag
01:10:55брендon you are a little overreaction you're tired so i'm tired and i am just tired of trying
01:11:06to i know our family cords hear me out i just need time please please just come back to dinner
01:11:18julia's saying she doesn't want any kids and this is exactly what i was afraid of happening
01:11:26i really was hoping things wouldn't go this direction i can't go through life without
01:11:31having kids okay
01:11:38don't get mad at me i believe that if it's her body is in jeopardy you got to pay attention
01:11:48first of all they have to talk about i mean it's not our decision no i agree i agree with that
01:11:53what's going on you all right yes i'm fine i'm fine thank you
01:12:05i thought after the ceremony we were going to continue to focus on building our family
01:12:09and now she's like screw it no uh-uh this can't happen you start all of this and i tell you i
01:12:18doesn't want to talk about this right now on our wedding day
01:12:21you remember when we're traveling you remember we'll be like have a happy and have something
01:12:33romantic in our relationship you remember that yeah you just lose all all our romantic all our love
01:12:40to each other you just don't feel that bad people take vacations they take them with kids
01:12:47i know but this moment i'm emotionally tired and i hope you understand me let's recharging let's give
01:12:54me a time don't press me be with me support me that's all what i asking our relationship is getting
01:13:03down we almost broke up almost divorcing multiple times and in this moment i think we have to focus
01:13:10on our relationship maybe we are take some vacations to another country and maybe there
01:13:17her it's going to be different mood but our relationship not going to be survive if we have kids
01:13:28in this moment i'm saying my final my final answer no children for me
01:13:36ever
01:13:39she doesn't know yet but i know i just think she needs time to breathe
01:13:43holding my tongue what i'm holding my tongue
01:14:01what's wrong i know i i'm with her i'm holding my tongue it's like julia i know this is hard but this
01:14:10is what you guys have been talking about for so long betty shut up
01:14:18this is their life they're the ones that's going to make decisions about their family
01:14:22we can want we can want grandchildren but we can't make them have
01:14:27everything this is what i'm trying to say i mean everybody's trying to push me nobody's trying to
01:14:32no
01:14:35we're very worried about all this and we wanted to make them a right decision in their life
01:14:44about children
01:14:45okay
01:14:47i would be very happy to be a grandmother but i would never have to give you my prayers
01:15:00can you say something with your team say something no i
01:15:05i'm tired to fight with everybody by myself i'm not i just need time to think seriously
01:15:10brandon tell us what you think no i just need time to think about this julia's not on the same
01:15:15page i don't know you guys can work it out together i don't know mom i don't know
01:15:28we're not on the same page of what we want in life
01:15:32julie if this is your final answer for this then i don't know where the future of our relationship is
01:15:36i'm just gonna go
01:15:46i am more emotional because i know that he's hurt
01:15:54she's such a liar
01:15:56so i want you to know that i am pregnant
01:16:26she's such a liar
01:16:33good for you
01:16:43well i'm not shocked
01:16:46i'm not shocked
01:16:50not surprised to me
01:16:51we're two adults matt and i and we know like the consequences of being intimate
01:17:00but we we didn't plan this it just happened and matt and i agree that we want to have the baby and
01:17:07that's what we're gonna do
01:17:08that's what we're gonna do
01:17:14okay
01:17:16is there anything else
01:17:25no that this marks the end for us
01:17:27i already knew that
01:17:32and matt and i were we're family now so
01:17:37okay
01:17:39well honestly i really don't care
01:17:42i didn't come here to listen to your personal life and all the details of your personal life
01:17:46so is there anything else important
01:17:53that's it
01:17:55okay
01:17:57well
01:17:59i hope you have a good life
01:18:03i will
01:18:06good
01:18:16good
01:18:41i am horrible
01:18:42Because I know that he's hurt.
01:18:49It concerns me even more when he has these kind of reactions.
01:18:53Because I know that he's going to have a meltdown when he's by himself.
01:19:00I don't know, like, what he's going to do.
01:19:03I know he's hurt and he's mad at me.
01:19:09When we were married, we were planning to have a family.
01:19:12Like, all these things we wanted to have a kid, at least of our own.
01:19:18And I know that Gino wanted to have kids of his own.
01:19:22It never happened.
01:19:24And even when Gino doesn't believe it, like, I still love him.
01:19:30And it hurts me to hurt people that I love.
01:19:34And I feel so guilty because I feel like he hates me,
01:19:38but I could never hate him, doesn't matter what.
01:19:42I can't believe what she just told me.
01:20:08What a f***ing idiot.
01:20:18I thought she loved me.
01:20:22She didn't love me.
01:20:26She faked the whole thing.
01:20:27And I, and I fell for it.
01:20:33I thought that she wanted to have a child with me.
01:20:53She's such a liar.
01:21:05She's such a liar.
01:21:13How could I fall for that?
01:21:15Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, Happily Ever After.
01:21:35We made it to Bulgaria.
01:21:36I'm excited that Stacey and Florian could come to Bulgaria.
01:21:44And I want to party.
01:21:46Oh.
01:21:47Hopefully Stacey is her best behavior.
01:21:49Wow.
01:21:54You guys know how to dance.
01:21:56So, in talking with Elizabeth,
01:21:59apparently you told her that I said he was horrible.
01:22:04I never said that.
01:22:06But we all agreed he's a dick.
01:22:08I realized that there is so much that I have to fix between Elizabeth and Lauren.
01:22:15I really want everybody to be friends.
01:22:18Oh, I love that.
01:22:19Oh, my gosh.
01:22:21Joey and I really want to do a skate trip to Lake Placid.
01:22:24And I want all of my friends to be in there.
01:22:26I just wish that things were different right now.
01:22:44I want you understand my side.
01:22:47I want you to hear me.
01:22:47I hear you loud and clear.
01:22:49But I feel like everything is falling apart at this point.
01:22:56Please give me the tan lotion to put on the baby.
01:23:00Yeah.
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