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90 Day Fiance_ The Other Way Season 7 Episode 1 C'est La Vie
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00:00:00This season on 90 Day Fiancé, the other way.
00:00:07I'm leaving a six-figure job to a true river because I fell in love with a man on a pirate ship.
00:00:17Leng, there you go.
00:00:19Look, finally!
00:00:21Going to Colombia.
00:00:22Oh, you're welcome!
00:00:26She said, you need to move or else.
00:00:30I'm 58. I'm so shaken.
00:00:35It's happening, baby!
00:00:37But now, I'm moving to Tasmania to be with Don.
00:00:40Oh, my God.
00:00:54We are going to France! Yay!
00:00:57The American Dream is actually kidding me.
00:01:00So, we are moving to France to save our marriage.
00:01:04Oh, the smell!
00:01:08I'm not thinking I was going on a shoot today.
00:01:11I'm going back to L.A.
00:01:14We are in a financial crisis, and we decided to move in with the family.
00:01:25Jenny, Jenny, Jenny.
00:01:26I have no plans of staying with the family permanently.
00:01:32You can't.
00:01:32I have no plans of staying with the family, but it's hard when he's a booze-cruise host.
00:01:43My trust issues come from your actions.
00:01:47You work with him.
00:01:49I want to go out, my friend, okay?
00:01:51You can't control me like that.
00:01:52Respect me.
00:01:54Respect me.
00:01:54Respect what I f***ing said.
00:01:58Did you touch him?
00:02:00I didn't touch her.
00:02:01I mean, I didn't...
00:02:02I didn't...
00:02:02You're not your f***ing soup.
00:02:03Wait.
00:02:03Chloe has no idea what she is doing.
00:02:33My friend is about to make the biggest mistake of her life, and I really need to stop her.
00:02:59This is from the most iconic photo of me.
00:03:01This is my personality in one photo.
00:03:04That's it right there.
00:03:06I mean, nothing's changed.
00:03:13Okay.
00:03:14I don't really know where to start, actually, with all this stuff.
00:03:29It's really overwhelming.
00:03:33My name is Chloe.
00:03:35I am 23 years old, and I live in Oxford, Massachusetts.
00:03:392008.
00:03:40What is that, first grade?
00:03:41First grade already winning trophies.
00:03:43I mean, we're doing something right.
00:03:45I'm very competitive in anything I do.
00:03:48These are some accomplishments.
00:03:50Of course, these aren't all, but there is a few.
00:03:54I started cheerleading when I was four or five.
00:03:57I did, like, a club team with my school, and I also did competitive cheerleading for years.
00:04:05Growing up, my mom was able to give me the most amazing life.
00:04:13Total, spoiled princess.
00:04:15I got everything I wanted.
00:04:17Now, I work with my mom as a sales rep, and it's always been my mom's dream that I would
00:04:22take over her shipping and logistics business.
00:04:25My life was already set on a path.
00:04:28Money, security, comfortability, on a silver platter.
00:04:33And then on vacation in a robot, I fell in love with a man on a pirate ship.
00:04:40It's true, though.
00:04:41Jonathan is 32 years old.
00:04:53He's from Aruba, and he's an entertainer on a pirate ship party boat.
00:04:58We first met when I was on a girl's trip, and I saw him on the boat, shirtless.
00:05:04I just thought he was gorgeous, and that was it.
00:05:11But my first impression was, I don't want to say kind of he was, like, cocky, but he
00:05:18definitely knew, like, what he had going on.
00:05:21And I was like, oh, no.
00:05:23Like, no.
00:05:25You're not going to do that with me.
00:05:26Like, don't give me that, you know, energy.
00:05:31But we later met him at a bar, and he was really funny and actually really sweet.
00:05:36And I remember him just saying, like, oh, like, you'll have to come back.
00:05:39And he, like, looked at me, I'm like, you're looking through my soul.
00:05:42I was like, uh, I don't, I don't know.
00:05:44And I'm not a shy person, but I was like, yeah, like, I'm going to come back.
00:05:50A few days after I got back to Boston, I had already booked my flight back to Aruba.
00:05:55And went back another time, another time, and another time.
00:06:00And now, after 11 months of long distance, I'm packing up my entire life in Boston and
00:06:08moving to Aruba.
00:06:11I know that if I don't make the move to Aruba, we would not last long distance.
00:06:16And it's not a risk that I am willing to take.
00:06:20This isn't going to all fit.
00:06:21Are you really going to wear high heels on the beach?
00:06:27I mean, not on the beach, but jeans.
00:06:30Well, look, a cute tank top.
00:06:32Some little heels.
00:06:34I've been there five times, and I've never once even put on a pair of pants.
00:06:37You know, not all superheroes wear capes.
00:06:41Not all people can wear jeans in Aruba.
00:06:45My parents divorced when I was two or three, and I lived with my mom predominantly.
00:06:52She is truly my best friend.
00:06:56She was like my rock, basically, growing up.
00:07:01Did you remember to pack all my makeup stuff?
00:07:04I think so.
00:07:05I think I did.
00:07:06I'll double check, honey.
00:07:07I need that eye cream.
00:07:08Right.
00:07:08If you need this eye cream, you probably shouldn't be living in Aruba, because you can't get it there.
00:07:12That's why you're going to come visit me.
00:07:13Deliver it to me.
00:07:14Oh, really?
00:07:14So that's what I am.
00:07:15I'm going to be your delivery person.
00:07:17Huh?
00:07:18I think living in Aruba will be challenging, to say the least.
00:07:23I have always grown up.
00:07:25When I want something, I kind of get a tight mindset.
00:07:28And now I'm going to be in the middle of nowhere, in this tiny little, like, sandbox.
00:07:35I actually don't even know what I'm going to do.
00:07:38I can't believe that you're going to go living in another country.
00:07:44Packing you away to school is one thing.
00:07:46This is, um, this is really hard.
00:07:48I'm not going, like, to prison.
00:07:53Like, I can also just, you can come visit.
00:07:55Like, I can come see you.
00:07:58You can come see me.
00:08:00Can we really look at it, Chloe?
00:08:01You are moving to another country for a pirate.
00:08:06I mean, not everyone wants to work a nine-to-five.
00:08:11Understood.
00:08:12But how sustainable is piracy?
00:08:14I'm not going to be a pirate, hopefully.
00:08:16You never know.
00:08:17I mean, you're not going to have a ton of options there.
00:08:20I'm just going to wing it.
00:08:22You're going to be leaving a lot behind.
00:08:26I feel like I'm getting robbed, you know, in a sense.
00:08:30I worked so hard so that she could have opportunities.
00:08:33And she's leaving those opportunities behind.
00:08:38And she's going to have a much harder life.
00:08:39And that's not what I want with my daughter.
00:08:42You know, how you live here is, is, it's very different.
00:08:48At the end of the day, are you going to be happy not having your $80 face wash and having cold showers every day?
00:08:58I'm leaving a six-figure job with my mom to move to Aruba,
00:09:02which is obviously insane.
00:09:04But love does make you do crazy things.
00:09:14Johnny has a laundry list of girls behind him.
00:09:18And he's not the guy that you start your life with.
00:09:21My husband has grown up with this guy.
00:09:23And I know a lot of things about him.
00:09:25Not all of them are good.
00:09:27I really thought this was just going to be a fling.
00:09:30But now that she's really serious about moving there,
00:09:33I feel like I have to stop her before she just goes to another country.
00:09:37And she doesn't even know what she's getting herself into.
00:09:40I just want to get there already.
00:09:42So I can talk all the way out of making this decision.
00:09:45I'm going to be a little bit dramatic, but I'm coming for you.
00:09:54My name is Manon, I'm 32, and I am from Marseille, South of France, baby.
00:10:23But I live in Los Angeles.
00:10:27So, today I'm having a special photo shoot with my fat babes to showcase we can be plus-sized,
00:10:35curvy, fat, but loving ourselves.
00:10:38Let's do it here on the pavement.
00:10:39In France, everyone is so judgmental about your weight.
00:10:43If you dare to wear bright outfits, but you have a little bit of curls, you're going to be stared down all day long.
00:10:53So, 12 years ago, I actually started a social media page about being plus-sized and living in France.
00:10:58It started becoming actually really popular.
00:11:05And then one day, I just got a phone call, and it was a plus-sized denim brand.
00:11:12I said, hey, I'm the CEO, and I want to invite you to come to LA for a plus-sized photo shoot.
00:11:17I went, and I never came back again.
00:11:21Three, two.
00:11:26Once I was here, I was able to meet so many other girls just like me.
00:11:33Jessie, yes, swim!
00:11:35These women were not afraid of being who they want to be and afraid of wearing beautiful outfits.
00:11:42They were just like so proud and confident.
00:11:46It really made me feel I belong.
00:11:48Scoot, shout a little bit to your right.
00:11:50My right?
00:11:50It's a whole body here.
00:11:51So I can get your head right in between those two girls.
00:11:53My American dream was starting to become true, but something was missing.
00:11:59Come here, sexy.
00:12:00I'm Anthony.
00:12:04I'm 33 years old and from Corona, California.
00:12:09We've been married for 33 years.
00:12:13And new parents of a little baby boy, Benjamin.
00:12:21We are very much opposites.
00:12:23Yes, we are like the yin and the yang.
00:12:26I'm a shy person, and she's very outgoing and passionate.
00:12:32She is the style of dad, and I am the one who wants to provide.
00:12:37Guys, since I gave birth, do I have cremes in my entire body now when I post?
00:12:41I cannot do f*** anymore.
00:12:42I am an executive marketing director, and I own my agency for social media and for digital marketing.
00:12:56I'm all about, you know, walk, walk, walk.
00:13:02I'm going to go change my lens and grab a little one.
00:13:03I'll be right back, okay?
00:13:04Okay, okay.
00:13:05All right.
00:13:06You look amazing, guys.
00:13:09Let me stand up.
00:13:12Well, while we are waiting for the camera, I just wanted to say something to you really quick,
00:13:17because you know me since I first moved.
00:13:19I think I need to touch my head for this, because it's going to be something.
00:13:24Are you ready?
00:13:24Are you...
00:13:26Girl, I'm struggling with one kid.
00:13:29I don't know.
00:13:30I'm in my mind.
00:13:31Oh, my God.
00:13:33Okay.
00:13:36A few weeks ago, I came to the point where I'm like, I'm at the end of my rope,
00:13:41because I'm overwhelmed and overworked, right?
00:13:44I don't see my husband.
00:13:45I don't see my son.
00:13:47Antoni is also overworked and overwhelmed.
00:13:49The dad is staying at home full time.
00:13:51It is really hard.
00:13:52Yeah.
00:13:53And the thing is, like, we both were kind of losing each other a little bit in the process.
00:14:00So...
00:14:00But I'm sorry.
00:14:03It's just I wanted to let you know something that's really...
00:14:06It's been on my heart for a few weeks now.
00:14:09I'm staying in my house, and I'm going back to France for time.
00:14:13I'm leaving LA.
00:14:15Oh, my God.
00:14:16I don't know if I should say, love for Christ.
00:14:20But that's it.
00:14:21I'm going back home for my family.
00:14:24Yeah, so it's for my husband, for a good quality of life.
00:14:32He's going to be the one working fully now, so I can focus on my son.
00:14:37Because you know me.
00:14:39He looks like, it's a lot.
00:14:41You know, it's a lot.
00:14:42I totally get it.
00:14:43The quality of life, the health care, like, everything makes sense.
00:14:47But, like, you're, like, the most American person I know.
00:14:51I ruin anything.
00:14:53You're a confident person that's worked so hard.
00:14:57It's a huge sacrifice.
00:14:58I'm really shocked that she's leaving because she loves LA.
00:15:04She loves working.
00:15:05And I know the society hasn't changed as much there.
00:15:08And isn't as accepting of curvy bodies and confident women.
00:15:13So I'm really nervous that they're not going to be ready from home back in France.
00:15:19You've been working so much, so long, that maybe this is your time to maybe relax.
00:15:26I'm scared, Cindy.
00:15:27I'm not going to be able to.
00:15:28You know me.
00:15:29I'm going to want to do something.
00:15:30Because I need to buy a house there.
00:15:31Yeah.
00:15:32So I'm going to stay with my parents for a little bit.
00:15:35In a very tiny home.
00:15:37I support you.
00:15:37I'm just very scared for you.
00:15:39Yes, me too.
00:15:40You left France because of how you were treated.
00:15:43Are you scared at all of, like, that could happen again?
00:15:47Oh, I'm scared.
00:15:48Yeah.
00:15:48Yeah.
00:15:49I've been doing it my whole life with my family.
00:15:51I love them.
00:15:53But, but, there's a big, big, big, big.
00:15:56But, they've been living in France their whole life, right?
00:16:00So I'm still worried that all of the old patterns, they haven't changed or anything.
00:16:06When Tony was meeting my family for the first time ever, you know when I went to see my grandpa, what happened?
00:16:11The first thing he said to me, he looked at me, and he's like, how a girl like you married a man like that?
00:16:18Wow.
00:16:19Like, excuse me?
00:16:19That's horrible.
00:16:20That's horrible.
00:16:21My grandpa, and my, like, even just, like, little things, like, my mom would be like, oh, did you gain some weight?
00:16:26Oh, you lost a little bit.
00:16:27Just, why is it a criteria?
00:16:29You cannot just say, hi, how are you?
00:16:31But this type of thing that makes you feel like, you know, makes you feel you're never enough.
00:16:35You're never enough.
00:16:36That's why I wanted to do that shit today.
00:16:42Because I was like, that's most probably going to be the last one.
00:16:45Because, you know, there's no girls like you guys.
00:16:49But there are people all bringing you down.
00:16:52People look at you like a freak, you know, when you're big and stuff.
00:16:55Yeah.
00:16:55And that's what I was missing in France, is people like you that I could connect with.
00:17:02Because at home, I was always the fat girl.
00:17:04Like, why does she want to dream like that and go to a lab?
00:17:08I've always felt like I'm a freaking window, you know?
00:17:11My whole life.
00:17:13And being here nearly saved my life.
00:17:19Growing up in France always made me feel like I was less than.
00:17:24And I remember being bullied.
00:17:27All of the other kids at school were making fun of me, chewing gum in my hair, spitting on me, calling me the whale, calling me fat.
00:17:35And all of my parents, they were trying to do their best.
00:17:37But I do have a lot of resentment on how I was raised and the things that they said to me.
00:17:45So moving back to France with my parents is definitely going to be a big challenge.
00:17:50And I feel very, very stressed.
00:17:51I love my husband.
00:17:53I love my son.
00:17:54I see the bigger picture.
00:17:56But on the other side, I'm scared as s*** because I'm going to miss it a lot here, you know?
00:18:08I am Miley and I'm coming from Medellin, Colombia.
00:18:11Bien, recordate postura.
00:18:13Look, my fiancé tricks me like Hank.
00:18:16What do you want me to do, like this?
00:18:20You're horrible.
00:18:23Baby, let's back.
00:18:25We are in financial crisis right now.
00:18:27And we decided to move in with the families.
00:18:31We decided to move in with the families.
00:18:33I'm going to keep you up tonight, baby.
00:18:59I'm going to keep you up tonight, baby.
00:19:02Yeah, you need some good love and a good night.
00:19:05Baby, grab a bag.
00:19:07You should pick it up.
00:19:08Let me know you're wrong.
00:19:09Come on, come on.
00:19:11I can't wait.
00:19:11Tonight you're living at your best, yeah.
00:19:15Yeah, you're just out of the way.
00:19:21Look so handsome.
00:19:22What is it putting on your face?
00:19:36These are all natural items, good for the skin.
00:19:43I'm Jenny.
00:19:44I'm 67 years old.
00:19:46I'm from Palm Springs, California.
00:19:49And this is my cute husband, Sumit.
00:19:52I'm Sumit.
00:19:53I'm 36 years old.
00:19:54Married to this beautiful queen.
00:19:57I am Sadhana.
00:19:58I am Sumit Mom.
00:20:07I'm a little girl.
00:20:09I'm a little girl.
00:20:10I'm a little girl.
00:20:11I'm a little girl.
00:20:13Can't you?
00:20:15No, no.
00:20:16Give me a little.
00:20:17No haircut.
00:20:18No haircut.
00:20:19After 15 years of being together, his parents have finally accepted our relationship.
00:20:26I'm so happy I'm getting in the middle of two most important women of my life.
00:20:32And yeah, she loved you.
00:20:33Oh.
00:20:33But it's been a long journey to get here.
00:20:46We met on two-shoes media in 2011.
00:20:49We continued in a long-distance relationship until I finally decided to move to India to marry Sumit.
00:20:56Hey.
00:20:57I thought Sumit and I were going to live happily ever after until I found out he was already married.
00:21:15That was a big shock.
00:21:18Why is this happening right now?
00:21:28Why is this happening right now?
00:21:28Why is this happening?
00:21:30Why do you love me and talk to me every single day and still marry somebody else and not tell me?
00:21:41I don't want to lose you.
00:21:42It's not that I want to marry you.
00:21:45It's not like that I want to be the love.
00:21:47My parents forced me into an unhappy arranged marriage.
00:21:52It was one of the most difficult times of our relationship.
00:21:56He told me he was going to get a divorce and he did.
00:22:01But my family was not ready to accept our religion because of 30 years of age gap.
00:22:07I'm not old enough to be his grandmother.
00:22:22It impacted our relationship a lot.
00:22:26There were several times that I threatened to go back to the U.S.
00:22:32You promised me we were going to get married this time.
00:22:35So I would never have to leave India again.
00:22:37Do you know the situation or not?
00:22:38It's always because of your parents every time.
00:22:42I'm not going to keep coming back and leaving every damn six months.
00:22:46I'm not going to keep doing it.
00:22:47You're not going to keep telling me you're going to marry me.
00:22:48You're f***ing nuts.
00:22:50That's it.
00:22:52We wanted to be together.
00:23:00We wanted to be married.
00:23:01But we didn't have his family's approval.
00:23:04So we decided to get married in secret.
00:23:08When I broke the news to my family, my mom got so mad and they disowned me from the family.
00:23:25My mother was not happy that I chose Jenny over family.
00:23:42And that was a very sad time, very devastated time.
00:23:46But the biggest shocker of last year was when my mom finally accepted our relationship.
00:23:53My brother, my sister-in-law and my father accepted Jenny Eileen.
00:24:07She realized it's not like she's the only one who's missing.
00:24:11She couldn't find it anymore.
00:24:13But I did a good job.
00:24:16Yeah, your skin looks really nice.
00:24:20It's such a bomb.
00:24:21Hi.
00:24:27Hi.
00:24:27How am I as a daughter-in-law?
00:24:29I have done all of them, and now we are starting from a new way.
00:24:39Hey, Danny. See you soon.
00:24:43Hi. How am I as a daughter-in-law?
00:24:48Good daughter-in-law.
00:24:52We have a good time together, actually.
00:24:55But now the real test is gonna come.
00:25:08Baby, let's back.
00:25:11Okay, I have lots of clues.
00:25:14Six months ago, we moved into a nice fancy apartment.
00:25:18It's a gated community.
00:25:20And it is brand new.
00:25:22It's everything I wanted.
00:25:24But he lost his job.
00:25:27And so now we can't afford to pay the rent anymore.
00:25:30So we are in financial crisis right now, and we decided to move in with the family.
00:25:37Oh boy.
00:25:39Yay.
00:25:40I can't wait to see what happens.
00:25:42This really started to feel like home for me.
00:25:47I was comfortable here, and now I'm just completely devastated.
00:25:52It's costing us a lot.
00:25:53And you know, I can't handle it by myself.
00:25:55But the financial crisis is giving us a chance that I get to experience living with family.
00:26:04I know how you feel about this.
00:26:06I know this is what you've always wanted.
00:26:08And that's why I'm happy for you.
00:26:10And of course I love you, and I'm going to be right there with you by your side.
00:26:15But that doesn't mean I'm not worried.
00:26:17I'm happy.
00:26:18Absolutely.
00:26:19But you know, living with them is a whole nother thing.
00:26:21We're not going to be able to live like we've been living here.
00:26:22We've been free.
00:26:23We've been able to, you know, to be able to live like we've been living here.
00:26:24We've been able to live in India.
00:26:25And, you know, everybody knows their responsibility.
00:26:26Everybody knows their duties.
00:26:27From cooking to cleaning.
00:26:28Everybody, uh, contribute for the family.
00:26:32You need to be happy.
00:26:34So many years you are struggling to get acceptance.
00:26:37Finally we're getting that.
00:26:39I'm happy.
00:26:40Absolutely.
00:26:41But you know, living with them is a whole nother thing.
00:26:45We're not going to be able to live like we've been living here.
00:26:48We've been free.
00:26:49We've been able to do whatever we want.
00:26:52And your mom's, you know, she has a lot of rules.
00:27:13I'm not used to living with parents.
00:27:16And I used to live with my parents always.
00:27:18I know.
00:27:19I lived without them only for six years.
00:27:23So, I mean, we both have a different point of view about this.
00:27:27So, Meg thinks that we're all going to live together and everything is going to be great.
00:27:33But I have my doubts.
00:27:35The acceptance is new.
00:27:36And I would rather not rock the boat by us all moving in together, but we don't have a choice.
00:27:48I hope everything works out okay.
00:27:49I hope everything works out okay because I don't want anything to happen to our relationship.
00:27:53I'm getting into the ceremony in the helicopter.
00:27:54We need to follow a budget.
00:27:55This is something going to happen.
00:27:56Just want a picture, sir.
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00:28:28No.
00:28:29No.
00:28:30No.
00:28:31No.
00:28:32No.
00:28:33No.
00:28:34No.
00:28:35No.
00:28:36Because it's in the discipline, effort and dedication with which I participate.
00:28:41Thank you and happy night to all.
00:28:48Super good, excellent.
00:28:49I am Miley, I have 20 years old and I come in for a day in Colombia.
00:29:07I started to do the pageants like one year ago and I love it.
00:29:15I've been in two pages and in the second one I win.
00:29:19I love it.
00:29:26I love the makeup, I love the hair.
00:29:29And the only one is looking at me, we're like, oh, oh.
00:29:34I'm going with the expression, poqueta, poqueta, with a smile.
00:29:40My biggest motivation is showing the world the beautiful women we have a brain to.
00:29:46And we deserve to be treated like the queens, we are.
00:29:52And that is how Luke, my fiancé, tricks me.
00:29:55I am pain queen.
00:29:58I love you, my love.
00:30:09I love you, my love.
00:30:13Ready to practice?
00:30:15Yes.
00:30:16Uno, dos.
00:30:18You're so cute.
00:30:20Uno, dos.
00:30:22Uno, dos.
00:30:24Is this good?
00:30:25My baby.
00:30:26You want me to be honest?
00:30:28Yeah.
00:30:29It's horrible.
00:30:30My name's Luke.
00:30:33I'm 31 years old and I live in the hills north of Los Angeles.
00:30:37What do you want me to do like this?
00:30:40One, two.
00:30:42And you said do one, two.
00:30:43Dear Lord, what are they going to do with you?
00:30:48You're going to marry me.
00:30:50I know.
00:30:50Two years ago, I met Madelaine on a boys trip to Colombia.
00:31:02We picked Medellin because we've been told they have the hottest girls there.
00:31:06My buddies and I downloaded a couple dating apps and I met Madelaine literally day one.
00:31:12My jaw dropped, she was beautiful, she had this outfit on with a fur coat and I was like, damn girl, like, who the heck is this, right?
00:31:26When I meet him in the party zone, he's so f***ing hot, like, oh.
00:31:33Touch me here, touch me there, touch me everywhere, okay?
00:31:38Cause I love you.
00:31:41He was so cordial, so, so, so special.
00:31:46We got along right away, like, what?
00:31:49You know, we just met.
00:31:51How is this that easy?
00:31:53It was so weird because he told me that you wanted to be my wife.
00:31:59He told me love you and, oh my God, do you even have, like, how wait do you know me and you told me you love me?
00:32:06Are you crazy?
00:32:08When I got home, we talked every day.
00:32:16After three whole months, I tattooed her name next to my penis.
00:32:23I'm not the biggest tattoo person, but I wanted her to know that I was serious and she was the one.
00:32:28He was home, he told me, I really love you and I'm going to move to Colombia.
00:32:34I already make a plan, I'm going to sell my house.
00:32:42What?
00:32:42You're one special girl, Madeline.
00:32:47Yes, I am.
00:32:50Nine months after meeting Madeline, I proposed.
00:32:53I've never felt like this with anybody else.
00:32:56Madeline is a strong and confident person.
00:32:59She calls me on my ****.
00:33:01Can she be a little bit controlling?
00:33:03Sure.
00:33:03But at the end of the day, I think she was like a voice of reason for me.
00:33:11And I had every intention to move down to Colombia so that we could start our lives together.
00:33:15But unfortunately, that's not how it played out.
00:33:21Look, you're good for people.
00:33:24I'll try it, baby.
00:33:25We're supposed to be in person and it's...
00:33:27But don't move already.
00:33:29You promised me to move and you don't care.
00:33:32So...
00:33:32I'm working on it.
00:33:34I'll be there soon, okay?
00:33:37Te amo.
00:33:40It's been a whole year and Madeline is pissed that I'm still in the States.
00:33:45But I keep telling Madeline that I don't have the money to make this move.
00:33:49Baby, they wanted you so close.
00:33:53And we don't have this very year.
00:33:55Okay, well, that's why you're practicing.
00:33:58Madeline is sick of the long distance.
00:34:00She's fed up with waiting.
00:34:01She's fed up with my excuses.
00:34:03And basically, she said,
00:34:06you need to move to Colombia so that we can be together or else.
00:34:10I don't know what would happen if I don't move to Colombia,
00:34:12but I don't want to find out.
00:34:14So, we're getting married in three weeks.
00:34:17And after the wedding, I'll be staying there for good.
00:34:20You excited for the wedding?
00:34:23Sí, I'm so excited and happy about it, but it's just cool.
00:34:27Why?
00:34:28For example, the dad.
00:34:29This needs to be ready already.
00:34:32Okay.
00:34:33On the helicopter.
00:34:36For what?
00:34:37I'm getting to the ceremony in the helicopter.
00:34:39So, you want me to pay for a helicopter for you to show up to the wedding?
00:34:47Exactly.
00:34:48Oh, my God.
00:34:49Amor, I'm about to move.
00:34:53I'm not going to have my income for my job anymore.
00:34:55So, we need to follow the budget.
00:34:58I promised Madeleine the wedding of her dreams, but I'm in a lot of debt.
00:35:04I invested in sunglasses and a jewelry line, and it hasn't turned a profit yet.
00:35:09So, once I quit my job as a mining engineer, I am going to have no money coming in.
00:35:17So, yeah, that is not the best situation to be in.
00:35:21This is something going to happen just one day in our life is.
00:35:26Do you want to get any copy pictures or no?
00:35:28I mean, yeah, but I don't know, babe.
00:35:32Like, I'll look into it, and if I can make it happen, I'll try and make it happen.
00:35:36I mean, we'll see you, right?
00:35:41You seem to practice dancing.
00:35:43I don't see you dancing.
00:35:49I'll be the first to admit that I have a very hard time telling Madeleine no.
00:35:54That's why it's probably better for me to stay here, continue to work, and save money
00:35:59so that I can fully provide the wedding and lifestyle that she wants.
00:36:06But if I stay any longer, I think Madeleine would leave me for good.
00:36:10So, I need to move, and I need to make it work.
00:36:13End of story.
00:36:15There's so much at stake.
00:36:16My whole future.
00:36:18Yeah.
00:36:23I think I'm getting the hang of this, babe.
00:36:27I don't think so.
00:36:32For the past year and a half, I've been a full-time stay-at-home dad.
00:36:36You are definitely a very rare breed.
00:36:39That's why I married you.
00:36:40Look at him.
00:36:41Like, the mustache.
00:36:42He made my tingling, you know?
00:36:44I was like, ooh.
00:36:46I feel like I'm a f*** mom.
00:36:48I just can't.
00:36:49The American dream is actually killing me, and I need to let it go.
00:36:53I don't know.
00:37:04I'm a f***.
00:37:05I'm a f***.
00:37:05I don't care.
00:37:07I don't care.
00:37:08I don't care.
00:37:10I don't care.
00:37:11Okay, so you have the cheeser by the 24th, right?
00:37:33Because we cannot post later than 24th.
00:37:36For the past year and a half, I've had a full-time stay-at-home dad.
00:37:41Benjamin, daycare is stupid expensive, so I quit my job in security and stay at home
00:37:48with Ben.
00:37:49Anthony is an amazing, loving husband, but what he does the best and who he is the best
00:37:54is a baby daddy.
00:37:57You are definitely a very rare breed.
00:38:00That's why I married you.
00:38:02We met about four years ago.
00:38:06She actually swiped left on me at first.
00:38:09He's terrible at taking pictures of himself.
00:38:14You could not see his face at first.
00:38:16I'm like, oh, that's probably a creep, right?
00:38:17But we never know.
00:38:19I shake the phone.
00:38:20It goes back on the profile.
00:38:22And I'm like, oh, actually kind of cute.
00:38:24And then we had our first date in Malibu.
00:38:30And I think she kind of did a double take when she first saw me.
00:38:34Look at him.
00:38:35Like the mustache.
00:38:36Mr. Moustache.
00:38:37He made my jingling.
00:38:39You know, I was like, oh, I didn't expect that.
00:38:41You know, keep it.
00:38:42You better keep it.
00:38:43Oh, look at you.
00:38:46I already knew after our first date that I wanted to marry her.
00:38:51And then actually, he wrote me a handwriting letter as well in my mail a few days after.
00:38:57How freaking cool is that?
00:38:59And I was like, okay, well, he's not going anywhere.
00:39:01And then everything went back to back with him.
00:39:04One month later, we moved with each other.
00:39:07Six months after, he proposed.
00:39:10Nine months after we dated, we were locked in Las Vegas.
00:39:15Seven months.
00:39:17Seven months later, yes.
00:39:19A year later, we bought the house.
00:39:22And then right after, found the baby.
00:39:28All of that in less than three years.
00:39:34I, I, I.
00:39:36I, I.
00:39:37Okay, I finished my meeting.
00:39:39I had to go back to work after eight weeks.
00:40:00After giving birth eight weeks later.
00:40:02Because how are we going to pay our bills?
00:40:04And it was not just a nine to five.
00:40:06When I was five, I'm done.
00:40:07I can shut off my phone.
00:40:08I was running my agency.
00:40:10I had my social media business.
00:40:12And on top of that, I had a corporate job.
00:40:16Babies thrive on routines.
00:40:18But his entire routines for everything with Anthony.
00:40:23And sometimes it makes me feel like the biggest failure in the world.
00:40:28I do want to have that bond with that baby that it took me nine months to create, to carry.
00:40:37He's my, my pride and joy.
00:40:39Good job.
00:40:40Good job.
00:40:41And he deserves a mom.
00:40:42And he deserves a mom who's going to be there for him.
00:40:44And he deserves a mom who's going to be there for him.
00:40:46Come here, come here, come here, come here.
00:40:48I really cannot stand that, you know, he's just always into you, into you.
00:40:53Every time I try to play or something, he just goes straight back at you.
00:40:58I know.
00:40:58With Menon working and me taking care of Ben, there have been a lot of days where we were
00:41:04at each other's throats.
00:41:07I felt a lot of resentment coming from her for me spending so much time with Ben, building
00:41:13this incredible bond, you know, and everything was always falling on me with Ben.
00:41:18And both of us were actually starting to resent each other.
00:41:22I feel like I'm a mom.
00:41:23I just kids.
00:41:25You're not a mom.
00:41:27Because you provide for us.
00:41:30Yeah, but I should be there for him, though.
00:41:32And you will be in France.
00:41:33And that's why we're going.
00:41:36See how exciting he is about France?
00:41:38Yeah.
00:41:38Yeah.
00:41:40Woo.
00:41:41Yeah.
00:41:43Our marriage was falling apart.
00:41:46So I said, why don't we sell our house and move to France?
00:41:50And really focus on us as a family and the quality of life that can be there.
00:41:56I started seeing, I'm like, you know what?
00:41:58He's right.
00:41:59The American dream is actually kidding me.
00:42:01And I need to let it go.
00:42:04It's going to be better for us.
00:42:06You're going to spend more time with him.
00:42:08Yeah.
00:42:08And he's going to be more attached to you than he is to me.
00:42:12I am looking forward to it.
00:42:14But it's not going to be completely easy.
00:42:17It may save our marriage and also make me have a good relationship with my son.
00:42:24That's why I'm doing it.
00:42:26You're asking me to go back to a country that I used to hate and I wanted to escape.
00:42:32You ask me to not be the business entrepreneur goalie that I am.
00:42:36Like, it's a lot.
00:42:37So what if it's actually a bitch too much, Antony?
00:42:41What if it's too much change for me?
00:42:47You want to go with that?
00:42:48Yeah, go to daddy.
00:42:49Okay.
00:42:50Oh, I got to go to my next meeting.
00:42:53She thinks I'm coming just to say bye.
00:42:59But I'm really coming to tell her not to move there.
00:43:03I think you're making a mistake.
00:43:05The only thing that he's shown is that he's not even thankful to you.
00:43:08I'm so happy that finally we all can live together.
00:43:15I'm afraid.
00:43:16You're afraid?
00:43:19There are a lot of expectations from the daughter-in-law.
00:43:22She can't expect us to be there always cleaning and cooking.
00:43:26I don't want to scare you.
00:43:28You are scaring me.
00:43:30Chloe is living in, like, Delulu land.
00:43:37She's moving to another country for the wrong man.
00:43:40He is not the one.
00:43:42She thinks I'm coming just to say bye and to wish her luck.
00:43:45But I'm really coming to tell her not to move there.
00:43:52I see the clouds breaking up in my head.
00:43:57Ground shaking under my head.
00:43:59The rubble is where you go to have fun on vacation,
00:44:03not where you move to be with someone.
00:44:07I don't want to break her heart,
00:44:09but I think she's making a mistake.
00:44:15Hey!
00:44:17How are you?
00:44:19Me too.
00:44:21Thank God I missed you.
00:44:22It's so cold.
00:44:23I know, it's freezing.
00:44:25Wait, you don't really have to wipe your feet.
00:44:27It's fine.
00:44:27Jen's husband grew up on the same street as Jonathan.
00:44:30And they met when Jen was on vacation.
00:44:32Darren moved to the States about a year ago,
00:44:34and they just got married.
00:44:37You want a snack or, like, tea or something?
00:44:39I'll take some tea.
00:44:41I met Jen before they moved to the States.
00:44:43Jen is like my friendship mom.
00:44:46She'll tell me whether I'm insane or I'm not insane.
00:44:49But I don't always want Jen's advice,
00:44:51because 99% of the time she's probably right.
00:44:54And that's what I try to avoid at all costs.
00:44:57How are you?
00:44:58Good.
00:44:59Yeah?
00:44:59Drive is a little long.
00:45:01How long is it?
00:45:02Four and a half hours.
00:45:03Oh, gosh.
00:45:04So, I know I was coming to say goodbye.
00:45:07But I really came to try to talk to you.
00:45:13There is so much more to life than Aruba,
00:45:16which I love as a vacation home.
00:45:18But to live there is a completely different commitment.
00:45:24I need to explain to you how crazy it is there
00:45:27with how the culture is.
00:45:30There's just thousands of these girls
00:45:32that literally come to Aruba for one reason,
00:45:35and that is to party and hook up with the locals.
00:45:38I've been going there for such a long time.
00:45:40I've seen it so many times.
00:45:42And I think you're making a mistake.
00:45:44I'm so worried that you are literally
00:45:49leaving your life here for him.
00:45:52And the only thing that he's shown
00:45:53is that he's not even faithful to you.
00:46:00After a few months of Jonathan and I being together,
00:46:03I thought we were exclusive.
00:46:06We were going to be boyfriend and girlfriend.
00:46:08And then Jonathan was on a boy trip to Florida.
00:46:11One day I'm on social media,
00:46:15and I see that he was actually taking another girl
00:46:19on a trip to Florida for her birthday.
00:46:24You know, we talked about it.
00:46:26He told me he was in an open relationship,
00:46:31quote-unquote, with the girl.
00:46:34And I just said I honestly don't understand it
00:46:36because that's not how I do things.
00:46:38He just said, like, I really do want this to work.
00:46:41I made a mistake.
00:46:43It's just, it seems like he definitely jumps from females.
00:46:46He's got a long history.
00:46:48When you say it like that, it sounds bad.
00:46:51It is bad.
00:46:52It was bad.
00:46:55That's why I worry,
00:46:57because now you're literally six months later
00:47:00making the decision to go live with him.
00:47:02I am worried that it's a trend
00:47:04given the lifestyle and the culture there.
00:47:06Having a husband that also worked in tourism
00:47:09that got constantly hit on,
00:47:11it never stopped.
00:47:13And guys like Johnny constantly go with these girls.
00:47:17Like, what are they saying about it?
00:47:19Like, Leopard doesn't change their spots.
00:47:23I think Chloe does see successful relationships.
00:47:26Darren and I, for example,
00:47:27but our situation is a little bit different.
00:47:29He left Aruba.
00:47:30And Aruba, these guys know how to get away with cheating.
00:47:33My husband.
00:47:35We saw these things happen all the time.
00:47:36The guys on the boat all have each other's back.
00:47:39I think Johnny knows that he can get away with it
00:47:41if he wants to.
00:47:42He's already done it before.
00:47:44Yes, he's gotten caught.
00:47:45That doesn't necessarily mean he won't do it again.
00:47:47He may just get more clever about it.
00:47:51I know you came here
00:47:52to stop me.
00:47:54In a sense.
00:47:55Yes, I did.
00:47:56But I'm going through with it.
00:47:59I believe in him.
00:48:02Whether it's my insanity
00:48:04or the fact that I'm just delusional,
00:48:08I really do feel this is going to work out.
00:48:12Uh-uh, I tremble.
00:48:39How are you?
00:48:41How are you?
00:48:42Hi.
00:48:43Look how straight.
00:48:45How are you?
00:48:45How are you?
00:48:48We are moving in with my family tomorrow
00:48:51and today we are meeting my brother Amit
00:48:54and my sister-in-law Shree
00:48:56so we can buy some stuff for the house.
00:48:59Let's split up and let us buy the kitchen stuff.
00:49:03Bye.
00:49:04Bye.
00:49:05I have a great relationship with Amit and Shree.
00:49:10We get along really well.
00:49:12Oh, this is the shop.
00:49:14We just missed you.
00:49:15This shop.
00:49:16This shop, yeah.
00:49:16They've been living together with the family
00:49:20since they got married
00:49:21and I know that there's been some problems lately
00:49:25between mom and Shree.
00:49:27So I'm going to get the 411 on now.
00:49:31So what do you think of these pots and pans?
00:49:34This looks good for chai, right?
00:49:35But this one is too small.
00:49:37We need to be the size.
00:49:38Yeah, there's a lot of us there.
00:49:40Like, yeah, six people.
00:49:44Jenny's lifestyle will be completely changed
00:49:47once she moves in
00:49:49because, you know, waking up on her own way,
00:49:52going wherever she wants to,
00:49:53buying whatever she wants to.
00:49:55But when you're living in a joint family,
00:49:57especially in India,
00:49:58things does not work like that.
00:50:01I think I've only ever made chai for four people.
00:50:04That's the max.
00:50:05That's the max.
00:50:07Mom, she'll give some time to Jenny
00:50:09to tell up with the family.
00:50:12After some time,
00:50:12if she cannot prove herself
00:50:15or meet up to her expectations,
00:50:19mom might be a little frustrated
00:50:22or angry towards her.
00:50:25So did you speak with Suhid
00:50:28before moving up there?
00:50:30Yeah, we've been talking, of course.
00:50:33Okay.
00:50:33But I don't think he's telling me everything.
00:50:36I think he doesn't want to scare me.
00:50:38So you need to kind of fill me in
00:50:41on what to expect.
00:50:43So there are a lot of expectations
00:50:45from the daughter-in-law.
00:50:47You know, you have to be at certain places.
00:50:50You have to be wearing certain things
00:50:53at certain places
00:50:54and you have to behave certain ways.
00:51:02This guy is getting heavy.
00:51:04He's tired.
00:51:06You know, you're in a charging mode now.
00:51:07I'm so happy that finally wine dream is coming true.
00:51:16Like, we all can live together.
00:51:19I'm afraid.
00:51:20You're afraid?
00:51:20Maybe I'm afraid for my wife.
00:51:23Like, once we'll start living together,
00:51:25then the responsibility will be double for her.
00:51:29It will be divided.
00:51:29It won't be double.
00:51:30What I think is, will be double for her.
00:51:33Jenny makes a plate.
00:51:35She doesn't cook food.
00:51:37Like, you spend five years together,
00:51:39like, living by your own way.
00:51:43But now, the things are different.
00:51:45The family comes to responsibility.
00:51:48She has to get involved in the home.
00:51:50The courses will.
00:51:52I don't want my wife only the one
00:51:54who will be doing each and every thing.
00:51:59I understand my brother's concern.
00:52:02But he also needs to understand
00:52:04that it could be very difficult
00:52:05and different for Jenny.
00:52:06She needs some time to adjust into a culture
00:52:10which they are coming from.
00:52:12So they need to be patient.
00:52:19You know how I see it, Sri?
00:52:22Mom, this is her way of life.
00:52:25This is what she's always been doing.
00:52:27She can't expect us to be there
00:52:29always cleaning and cooking
00:52:30because that's her thing.
00:52:32That's what she likes to do.
00:52:34Exactly the thing is,
00:52:36that is where we have little mismatch things.
00:52:39We have our fights.
00:52:40It's not that it's nothing rosy rosy
00:52:42that we and mom are the bestest of
00:52:44mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
00:52:47It's nothing like that.
00:52:48A few months back,
00:52:49we had some disagreements.
00:52:52And mom said that
00:52:53you have been married for four and a half years
00:52:56and you didn't do anything for this house.
00:53:00You never made anything for us.
00:53:03You didn't even make tea for us.
00:53:04Very basic things.
00:53:06It was like very, very disrespectful
00:53:08for the house that I did for them.
00:53:11Then I said,
00:53:12fine, if you think that
00:53:13I have not done anything,
00:53:15then I'll be not doing anything
00:53:17from today onwards.
00:53:18Oh, God.
00:53:20Like, what have I got myself into?
00:53:23Oh, no.
00:53:24See, I don't want to scare you.
00:53:27You are scaring me.
00:53:28But I'm giving you a very, very real energy.
00:53:33Now, Sri and mom are not, like,
00:53:36into the very good
00:53:37transferring each other now.
00:53:39Mom, that's it.
00:53:40You have never done anything for us.
00:53:42Oh, like, now, Sri,
00:53:45you are not the favorite one, huh?
00:53:48Things have changed.
00:53:50Now, you are the most loved
00:53:52son and daughter-in-law.
00:53:56And now, the dynamics
00:53:57will be different once
00:53:58you guys move in together.
00:54:01And let's see
00:54:03who will be the favorite
00:54:04daughter-in-law.
00:54:08Sri used to be
00:54:09my mom's favorite.
00:54:10and my mom started
00:54:12arguing with Sri.
00:54:14Now, Jenny become favorite.
00:54:16And with concern
00:54:17in the future,
00:54:18she can be the
00:54:19bad daughter-in-law too.
00:54:21Jenny is a very independent
00:54:23person.
00:54:24She don't like to
00:54:25get orders from anyone.
00:54:27My mom is higher
00:54:28in the position
00:54:29and hierarchy.
00:54:31And she likes to order.
00:54:33It's going to be
00:54:34a very precious situation
00:54:35for Jenny
00:54:36and for my mom both.
00:54:39It took us
00:54:39so long
00:54:41in order to
00:54:42get the mom's
00:54:43love and appreciation.
00:54:45Moving with them,
00:54:47like,
00:54:47I hope I'm not
00:54:48going to do something
00:54:49which will make us
00:54:51apart for everyone.
00:54:57You have to move to
00:54:59friends and go damn
00:54:59blocks.
00:55:00$70,000 is a lot
00:55:01of money.
00:55:02I would love to
00:55:03not have to focus
00:55:04so much on
00:55:05money, money, money.
00:55:07We're on the
00:55:07ring of divorce.
00:55:09Like, just find
00:55:10someone who just
00:55:11means I'm cute.
00:55:12I'm cute.
00:55:15I'm cute.
00:55:16I'm cute.
00:55:16I'm cute.
00:55:17you're the original owner yeah yes why are you guys selling the car moving to france
00:55:47do you know what your payoff is 27 000 yeah okay let me book it out real quick
00:55:54we put our house on the market a week ago and the house is actually already sold
00:56:00okay so as you know we accepted the offer we took it all cash yeah 810 so the net proceeds we have
00:56:06right now that's 88 778 but we have two weeks we have to be out of the house so just prep yourself
00:56:12wow and now we have two weeks nothing is ready to get out of our house pack all of our belongings
00:56:18make sure we have all of our important piece of work
00:56:21so today we had the opportunity to leave benjamin's uh with the town and we sell our work
00:56:29i got auction fee i got detail i gotta put two tires on then we gotta make a little bit of money
00:56:35so the number i'd be at is probably right around 15 grand
00:56:38oh my lord 15k were you 27 and well that's something to just take a step back and to
00:56:46consider it's trying to help you out no no no no for sure thank you appreciate it we're looking at
00:56:51our options
00:56:52sorry about the news yeah no it's not going to be a good day but that's fine
00:56:58it's okay it is what it is right okay i'm gonna go to bed and cry thanks
00:57:02i have to lose twelve thousand dollars out of my own money to get rid of a car that seems like
00:57:12insane 15 okay like no way like no well i mean it's it's one option no but you have to move to
00:57:23france and go down bro you think the amount of money we have in our account after selling our
00:57:27house means we're broke we'd be broke yeah that because there's nothing coming in it's only coming
00:57:34out 70 000 is a lot of money because that money is not even enough for a down payment in france
00:57:40i set up some standard in my life i'm not going to rent anymore i'm not going to have
00:57:46a house that's way smaller or something we are not going there broke and we're not going there
00:57:53with the expectation of not working either
00:57:56i know this move isn't easy for me and financially we're gonna have to take a hit for a while but we're
00:58:05gonna be okay we'll be staying with your parents not paying rent you'll still be working part-time
00:58:11with your marketing company and as soon as my french gets better i can get a job at security
00:58:16or in some field where they're open to having someone that's either still learning or whatever
00:58:22level i'll be at you're delulu i'm motivated delulu it's different delusional
00:58:29stop focusing so much on we need this amount or else we're broke and it's not gonna work because
00:58:39every day as a kid i see my dad and my mom stressing because we don't have enough money
00:58:44and then i lived like for years in l.a trying to make it okay i was homeless i had nothing under my
00:58:54name nothing i'm not just a materialistic bitch we want like fancy bags and like a fancy house
00:59:00no i struggled to get where i'm at today so i'm not going to do 10 steps backward i want to enjoy life
00:59:08but not everyone has the same definition of what brings them happiness
00:59:14i would love to not have to focus so much on money money money maybe we don't need this fancier house
00:59:24with the pool and the jacuzzi well why is there this constant push for more if you make enough to
00:59:29get by and you're happy with your life what is wrong with that my version of happiness is spending
00:59:37time with you spending time with ben the roof over our head being able to pay our bills that's why we
00:59:42are going completely apart because what brings you happiness is not the same as me and we have
00:59:48actually very different ways of seeing life now one more
00:59:52antoni he has a certain standard of like as long as i have a roof above my head and food at the table
01:00:02and i'm surviving i'm happy me it's actually the opposite makes me feel i'm in danger it's being
01:00:09extra comfortable that makes me feel safe he expects me to follow his way because his way is the way
01:00:17and it's just exhausting
01:00:19you wanting more has left me having an amazing relationship with ben you're resenting me for it
01:00:27it has caused mental health issues for yourself because of how overworked and stressed you are
01:00:32to the point where we're on the brink of divorce so you know what i'm gonna say it like just find
01:00:39someone which is like you then
01:00:41why do i always have to compromise what i want who i am and stuff why because your focus on that dream
01:00:52is why we're here i'm sorry if i'm someone who's driven in life you can be driven but you can still
01:00:59focus on your family that's why i'm moving there and that's why i'm changing all of myself and all
01:01:05of my life for us
01:01:06we need some serenity now and really think about why we're moving to france because all of this
01:01:17focus on just finances and finances and finances it is like just tearing us apart
01:01:23for her to say we're not compatible it is very hurtful and to hear her say those things and not
01:01:38just once but multiple times every single time it's taken a toll but it is very important for me
01:01:45to fight for our marriage she is easily the best thing that's happened in my life moving to france
01:01:50is very drastic and men already has a lot of skepticism towards this move if this hail mary pass
01:02:00doesn't work out i have no idea what the future holds for us
01:02:06i'm trying to get this wedding done and then i'm trying to do a hotel
01:02:16yeah this will take a lot of money i know does madeline know that you're in debt
01:02:22it is finally sinking in that this is the highest stakes gamble that i ever made i mean i'm not stupid
01:02:30you want it to be classy you know you don't want to look like a pimp on your wedding
01:02:56okay you want to look slap madeline hated the shoes that i got for the wedding
01:03:02is this pimpy no no that's glossy so today i've asked my dad to tag along to go shop for a new pair
01:03:10i wanted to wear these ones that's nice that's the perfect color it's brown madeline hates brown
01:03:17she texted me she said you have to understand the shoes can't be brown
01:03:23that color is all people's and if you wear brown colored shoes i won't marry you
01:03:30so she's saying i'm old now
01:03:31i hate its color and you need to hate them too that's what she texted me
01:03:37yeah but at the same time you don't want her to walk all over you right now you gotta stand your
01:03:43ground otherwise your nuts will be gone right i don't want to uh ruin her day yeah over a pair
01:03:51of shoes well that's a problem if a pair of shoes is gonna ruin the wedding holy crap
01:03:56my dad has always been a really big role model for me he runs his own business he makes
01:04:03very good life decisions i ask my dad for advice quite often actually he is my best friend we talk
01:04:12all the time i don't get it you just bought a nice pair of shoes for the wedding and now you've got
01:04:20to buy another pair you've got bills to pay when we get down there you don't have to spend a fortune
01:04:27for it to be a nice day yeah you've got the rest of your life with her and you try and save as much
01:04:35as you can for the future i'm just i'm trying to get this wedding done and then i'm trying to do
01:04:41the the hotel that's like the only things i care about right now yeah it's gonna take a lot of money
01:04:48trust me i know i know i want to provide for madeline and since i'm passionate about investing
01:04:56i had the chance to purchase a property two hours outside of medellin and i plan to build a high-end
01:05:04luxurious resort which i'm wholeheartedly planning to become my primary source of income
01:05:12how's your jewelry stuff coming along you managed to sell any that and your sunglasses yeah i mean
01:05:18i mean a couple but i'll be honest like i haven't done any marketing that costs money and with me
01:05:22leaving my job and then the hotel thing i just allocated funds towards the hotel and the designs
01:05:28try and get that up and running see that's where you're going wrong yeah i mean i'm not okay
01:05:33everything's like a knee-jerk reaction for you and you go off on tangents you're in quite a lot of debt
01:05:40you spent a fortune on that jewelry and the glasses and now you're putting that on the back burner to
01:05:46do another idea but this this property wouldn't have been on the market for long and i just i
01:05:54needed to do what i needed to do i went to school for mining engineering i went to school for geology
01:06:00and i got an mba in business i mean i'm not stupid right you do stupid things okay fine yeah i took a
01:06:07risk and it is what it is i mean i love to see people take risks but educated risks
01:06:13yeah calculated risk
01:06:15luke comes to me for advice but it's not that he actually wanted my advice he wants me to back him
01:06:23up on his decisions rather than give him the negatives even though luke went to business school
01:06:30i sometimes question what they actually taught him because he's he lets money roll through his
01:06:38fingers like there's no tomorrow he's just a very impulsive person with everything now does madeline
01:06:45know that you're in debt she's aware of all the debt it is what it is and we're working through it
01:06:54the main thing you got to worry about it's not the business not the hotel not this not that
01:07:00it's madeline she's going to be your wife so you know she looks at you as her knife in shining armor
01:07:06i mean is that really sunk in yeah has it yeah that's why i'm putting almost all my eggs in this
01:07:15basket so i can be there and be with the person that i love you know you told me the second day you
01:07:21were in columbia two years ago i want you to speak to the girl i'm going to marry
01:07:27which is wonderful yeah you saw it then 24 hours later you knew that she was the one
01:07:36i just thought she can do you right and you do her right because i'm worried about you and your future
01:07:44i mean we're blood yeah i love you to death i don't want to see any harm of any kind
01:07:50come to you it's going to hurt you and that's going to hurt me
01:07:54i do often worry about luke because he's got himself into a sticky predicament he's got debt to
01:08:11pay he's got hotels to build he's going to go down to columbia he's not going to be earning the money
01:08:17he earns here and it leaves him no room to escape or to rectify the problems that you might have
01:08:25thrown at him i love you dad i mean you know
01:08:29i don't know the last time i saw my dad cry
01:08:41it adds a lot of weight it is finally sinking in and i really need this marriage to work
01:08:50because i'll lose everything if it doesn't this is basically the highest stakes gamble that i ever made
01:08:58i'm always here for you thank you
01:09:03goodbye apartment goodbye reader today is moving day
01:09:15what the hell get out of my stuff
01:09:23you can't hear jenny
01:09:25everything is fine
01:09:46oh this is so sad
01:09:49i can't believe you're leaving this apartment remember how happy i was to get that chandelier
01:10:02i miss this place too but yeah probably it's better
01:10:06today's move-in day i'm excited that i'm gonna move in with my family again and i feel like that
01:10:14it's gonna be good
01:10:15i feel like i'm leaving my freedom i'm giving up everything now i have to go deal with mom
01:10:25work work work do this clean that cook this cook that
01:10:31it's not that bad
01:10:32i mean do we plan on living with your parents forever though
01:10:36yeah that's what the plan is like forever
01:10:40yeah we could have lived there
01:10:42i have no plans of staying in this situation with the family permanently not gonna happen no way
01:10:57goodbye apartment goodbye freedom goodbye life goodbye everything i'll miss you
01:11:05i don't want to pick a fight with smith right now but at some point i'm gonna have to tell him
01:11:14no
01:11:15in order to present a positive image about yourself i suggest you cook the dinner tonight
01:11:23your parents aren't gonna want to eat my american food
01:11:28baby you just try this will be your chance to win more luck with my mother
01:11:34okay i'll do my best i hope they don't hate me for it
01:11:41i'm happy to live together as a typical indian family but jenny is not traditional housewife
01:11:50um but now us too because i know jenny and i know my mother too they both have
01:11:56very strong personalities
01:11:59if mom tries to tell me what to do it's not gonna go down well
01:12:10and who's gonna tell you what to do i can't
01:12:14welcome
01:12:20Welcome, Sumit Jani.
01:12:22Welcome, welcome.
01:12:26Can you believe it, was it?
01:12:28No. Finally.
01:12:32This is unbelievable.
01:12:34My mom is welcoming Jani
01:12:36the way they welcome you, Brian.
01:12:38It's shocking because
01:12:40all the time they were totally disapproval.
01:12:44This is beyond my imagination.
01:12:46You're not kicked it.
01:12:50Yo!
01:12:52Welcome.
01:12:56Welcome, Jani.
01:12:58Finally, we got me a high day.
01:13:02They're doing all these rituals
01:13:04and accepting me into the
01:13:06family and into their home.
01:13:08This is something
01:13:10I never really ever
01:13:12expected to happen.
01:13:14I touched the feet.
01:13:16It feels good, but
01:13:18I don't really want to live with them forever.
01:13:22And I don't think I can be
01:13:24that traditional Indian
01:13:26daughter-in-law.
01:13:28Now this is our house.
01:13:30This is our new house.
01:13:32Yes.
01:13:34I like what you've done with it.
01:13:36It looks nice.
01:13:38The movers are here.
01:13:40Are they waiting downstairs?
01:13:42Yeah.
01:13:44So we're gonna start moving stuff in.
01:13:46Okay.
01:13:48We need to hire someone to come put away all our stuff.
01:13:56Mom and other people are here.
01:13:58They don't need to hire them.
01:14:00Jenny?
01:14:02Cloth?
01:14:04Jenny, Jenny, Jenny, Jenny.
01:14:06What's your clothes?
01:14:08Jenny, Jenny, Jenny?
01:14:10How many clothes are you?
01:14:12I have a lot of clothes, I know.
01:14:14I have a lot of clothes, I know.
01:14:16I've had these clothes for a long time.
01:14:18Many years.
01:14:20It's too small for Jenny.
01:14:22Why is your mom going through my stuff?
01:14:24Jenny?
01:14:26Why is your mom going through my stuff?
01:14:28Jenny doesn't need this.
01:14:30You take it like.
01:14:32What the hell?
01:14:34I wanted to say get out of my stuff.
01:14:36Living in a joint family,
01:14:38everything will also ever have gone.
01:14:40I would never just go through their stuff.
01:14:42They don't need this.
01:14:43It's just a lot of clothes.
01:14:44What's your mom going through my stuff?
01:14:46Why is your mom going through my stuff?
01:14:48Jenny doesn't need this.
01:14:49You take it.
01:14:50Like what the hell?
01:14:52just go through their stuff. I mean is this a cultural thing or is this your
01:14:59mom's thing? It's more like my mom's thing. Like she... I had a feeling. That was it.
01:15:10What is this? What is this? Jenny? My room.
01:15:18If I get a migraine, sometimes...
01:15:24Sometimes for medicine, right?
01:15:27Don't do that. Don't do that.
01:15:36Jenny?
01:15:41I've only been here for an hour and I'm already being criticized.
01:15:45I don't know how I'm going to survive this.
01:15:58So, we're gonna move to France.
01:16:01Shut the front door.
01:16:03I know you guys have had some hard times. I just hope it's not a band-aid for a bullet hole.
01:16:09Are you gonna piss me off right now?
01:16:10That is why I...
01:16:11No, I don't think so, I guess.
01:16:12Oh!
01:16:13Do not speak over me right now.
01:16:15Okay, get out of my house.
01:16:17Okay.
01:16:18I don't know how to make these look pretty, sir.
01:16:33I don't think so, I don't know how to make these look pretty, sir.
01:16:46The baguette needs to be cut.
01:16:47Why?
01:16:48Anthony.
01:16:49Just rip it.
01:16:49No, you don't.
01:16:50Ah, cut it.
01:16:51Rip it, rip it.
01:16:53No.
01:16:53I think it's over there.
01:16:55So it's called breaking bread, right?
01:16:58We are moving to France in just a few weeks, but before that, I need Anthony's to know how
01:17:05to make a really good charcuterie board and how to pronounce it properly.
01:17:10Charcuterie.
01:17:12Charcuterie.
01:17:12Charcuterie.
01:17:13No, no, charcuterie.
01:17:15Not charcuterie.
01:17:17Charcuterie.
01:17:17Charcuterie.
01:17:20The grapes here.
01:17:21It's going to give it away that we are doing charcuterie board and baguettes.
01:17:25I just realized that that's very French.
01:17:27Oh, my God.
01:17:28I'm really nervous right now.
01:17:30Yeah, I got you.
01:17:31And no matter what they say, it is what it is, right?
01:17:34Yeah, look, we're in this together.
01:17:36We know why we're doing this.
01:17:37It's not your decision.
01:17:39It's not mine.
01:17:40It's ours.
01:17:41Okay.
01:17:42Today, we have to tell Anthony's family that we are moving to France and that we are staying
01:17:48in the house.
01:17:48We haven't said anything to anyone yet because everything happened kind of like so quickly.
01:17:54Oh, hi.
01:17:55Waiting to tell my family is very much par for the course for me and our relationship.
01:18:08It's your style.
01:18:08I mean, I don't like to involve my family in, like, everything that's going on in our marriage.
01:18:13You left your sweater in my house.
01:18:14Yes, you did.
01:18:15We have two different dynamics in terms of families.
01:18:19It's like we overshare, we overcommunicate, we say everything.
01:18:24Our families are very different in that respect, but they 100% will be sad that we're leaving.
01:18:29I'm not going to lie.
01:18:30I'm scared.
01:18:31I'm afraid that they're going to hate me forever for taking away their son and their first grandson.
01:18:36Yeah, I'm scared about that.
01:18:39Bonjour, everyone!
01:18:43You want more prosciutto, Baba?
01:18:46Yes, maybe.
01:18:46What's wrong?
01:18:47Just small pieces.
01:18:48Small pieces at a time, please.
01:18:51Well, thanks for coming, everyone.
01:18:54We appreciate it.
01:18:56And go ahead.
01:18:57I'll let him speak for once.
01:18:58Uh, yeah, so we're selling the house because we're going to move to France.
01:19:08Wow.
01:19:08Shut the front door.
01:19:14That is dope.
01:19:15That's huge.
01:19:15That's huge.
01:19:16That's a huge...
01:19:17Yeah.
01:19:17So his first words are going to be in French?
01:19:19No, his first word was brandy, okay?
01:19:22Yeah.
01:19:23Is this, like, a permanent move to France?
01:19:26Like, oh, this is a goodbye forever?
01:19:29Yeah, so we're not...
01:19:29The house is in this core right now already.
01:19:31Yeah, it's only...
01:19:31We accepted an offer, like, two more weeks, and we are out of the house.
01:19:35Yeah.
01:19:35Yeah.
01:19:35Holy shoot.
01:19:37It's been hard thinking about it.
01:19:40There's still time to change your mind.
01:19:42No.
01:19:44We're set.
01:19:45Yeah, we're set.
01:19:47Yeah, so we are going to France.
01:19:49Yay!
01:19:49Yay!
01:19:54It just feels like two weeks is a really short amount of time.
01:19:57With a permanent move.
01:19:59You just don't feel like you're rushing into decisions?
01:20:01Absolutely not.
01:20:02No.
01:20:02Because what we were doing was not sustainable as a family.
01:20:06And we're going to essentially make it better and repair.
01:20:10But, like, I know you guys have had some hard times recently.
01:20:14I guess it just seems like you're almost adding more fire to that than really water.
01:20:20I don't think so.
01:20:21Okay.
01:20:24It's about slowing down.
01:20:26Are you going to be able to slow down, though?
01:20:30I know it's going to be hard for sure, and people think that moving away, moving abroad
01:20:34is like, okay, all of your problems disappear.
01:20:36No, they don't.
01:20:37No.
01:20:37They come with you.
01:20:38They could also get a lot bigger.
01:20:40Yeah, but there's a flip side.
01:20:41We're going there as a means to really be a family unit.
01:20:46I just hope it's not a band-aid for a bowl hole.
01:20:48I don't think so.
01:20:49Sarah, Sarah, we're united in doing this, and you're kind of starting to push my buttons
01:20:54a little bit.
01:20:55So just quit with the whole, like, trying to, like, push us apart still.
01:21:01I'm not trying to push you apart.
01:21:02To stay together.
01:21:03I understand that, but my worry is I don't hear any of the work that has gone into place
01:21:08outside of we're just moving.
01:21:11You tell me.
01:21:12What's the solution for you?
01:21:13It's not.
01:21:13I don't need the solution.
01:21:15This is your relationship.
01:21:16And that's why we have come up with our solution, right?
01:21:21Whether or not you think that more time together is going to be beneficial, we think this is
01:21:26the best for us and him.
01:21:29So what's the alternative?
01:21:30We stay here and we destroy our marriage and family, or do we actually go to France
01:21:35and make it work?
01:21:40I mean, I will be honest.
01:21:42Manon and I talked about how you guys were in a really hard spot and that things weren't
01:21:47going well.
01:21:47And so I don't want you to think that I'm trying to drive a wedge in between you or create
01:21:52further separation.
01:21:53But you have to understand, Manon, that conversation was really hard to hear.
01:21:57Truly, like, it is a lot to take in.
01:21:59And it happened a few weeks ago and now all of a sudden everything is great, which is
01:22:03why I'm a little worried about the move to France, because I know when tensions are
01:22:06high and emotions run high, we say things that we don't necessarily mean, but there's
01:22:11a reason sometimes things are said.
01:22:12I was feeling bad and I was at the end of my rope because I felt stuck.
01:22:18And I said things on the moment because I just went crazy.
01:22:23It happens.
01:22:24We are humans, okay?
01:22:26Did I say to you that I wanted to split with him?
01:22:28Yes.
01:22:28Oh, okay.
01:22:28So maybe you didn't really understand me.
01:22:30No, Manon, when you talked to me and you said sometimes being with your brother makes
01:22:33me feel like I want to die inside.
01:22:37Sarah, just let it go.
01:22:38Those were her words.
01:22:39Those were not mine.
01:22:41Those are, okay, I'm not.
01:22:42Okay, we don't need to...
01:22:43And you probably put everyone in the family to say that, right?
01:22:46Yeah, you're going to piss me off, Sarah, right now.
01:22:47Because, like...
01:22:48Sarah, let it go.
01:22:48Yeah, let it go.
01:22:49Did I say to me I want to divorce?
01:22:51Yes!
01:22:51I said I want to divorce!
01:22:52Yes!
01:22:53You said those words to me, which is the only reason I have these concerns.
01:22:57I think she said it to you in conference.
01:23:01I don't even remember saying the G word, but if I said that, whatever.
01:23:05So I was trying to create a little bond with you by sharing how hard it can be.
01:23:11But, okay, if you take it this way, this is real.
01:23:14No, I don't think so, I guess.
01:23:16Because look how you use it against me right now.
01:23:18You just said I didn't say that.
01:23:20But then you also just said I was trying to create a little bond with you by saying that you do not speak over me right now.
01:23:26Okay, get out of my house.
01:23:27Okay.
01:23:28Adi, I'm done.
01:23:29I'm done.
01:23:35This season on 90 Day Viancé is the other way.
01:23:39My heart was jumping around like a kangaroo.
01:23:45Wow!
01:23:50Oh, that's pretty.
01:23:59Matthew thinks that I love my cat Hazel more than him.
01:24:02That's true, but I've never had this type of connection with a human before.
01:24:07Hey, sweetie!
01:24:08I can tell it was a long journey because you stink.
01:24:12You're welcome.
01:24:15What the f*** is this?
01:24:17There's no windows.
01:24:18And it's soundproof.
01:24:19Oh.
01:24:20I was asking for a sexy, romantic night away.
01:24:24I was definitely not expecting a, um...
01:24:28A sex dungeon.
01:24:29A sex dungeon.
01:24:30Uh-huh!
01:24:30Uh-huh!
01:24:32Fire!
01:24:33Fire!
01:24:34Yeah!
01:24:35We decided to open a cafe with the family.
01:24:40Sorry.
01:24:41No.
01:24:42I'm new.
01:24:43It's not.
01:24:44I'm like this.
01:24:46Our first customer and we lost it.
01:24:49Then we have to the net mode.
01:24:51You know what I can do?
01:24:52I can't help you.
01:24:53Fire!
01:24:53I don't like that you control me.
01:24:57You don't let me control you.
01:24:59If I had control, you wouldn't be working in a freaking street car.
01:25:03You're so f***ing insecure.
01:25:08You want me to just marry you and all that?
01:25:10I knew you for a year.
01:25:11Then don't have the conversation saying that you're ready when you're not.
01:25:15Because I tell you I'm ready.
01:25:16I'm ready when I take and bring this and I need more.
01:25:24It's terrible.
01:25:27I don't want to miss this, man.
01:25:30It's not funny.
01:25:34I'm sorry.
01:25:35I'm sorry.
01:25:37I don't want to miss you.
01:25:38I don't want to miss you.
01:25:40I don't want to miss you.
01:25:42I don't want to miss you.
01:25:43It was only a matter of time before Sato lost it.
01:25:47I don't want to miss you.
01:25:48I don't want to miss you.
01:25:48I don't want to miss you anymore.
01:25:51You understand?
01:25:53My life sucks.
01:25:54I'm in.
01:26:01Vinh, ta vẫn chưa hiểu mày muốn nói gì.
01:26:04Như thế này nè.
01:26:05Tôi liên nhiên mắt khi nào đến màn ảnh xuất hiện cảnh hôn nhau.
01:26:09Thì mày...
01:26:10Mày xúi tao hôn nhất không nhỏ miền hả?
01:26:13Vinh cầm bật lên kêu.
01:26:14Mày muốn ta bị ăn dít vào đầu hả đuôi tôm?
01:26:18Tao đâu có bảo mày hôn nó.
01:26:19Mày chỉ thò tay qua cái cầm tay của nó thôi.
01:26:22Cầm tay cũng không.
01:26:23Mày đừng có xui bậy.
01:26:25Bậy cái con khỉ gì cũng không dám làm mà đòi mai mốt làm chồng của người ta.
01:26:31Khi nào...
01:26:32Khi nào làm chồng rồi tính.
01:26:34Bây giờ tao cầm tay nó.
01:26:35Nó hét ầm vô chợ.
01:26:36Chắc tao phải bỏ nhà theo hàng hướng quá.
01:26:38Tôi biểu môi.
01:26:40Nhát như thỏ mà đòi thích người ta.
01:26:42Nhát kể tao.
01:26:43Vinh cầm buông thỏng vào một câu.
01:26:45Đá tôi một cái rồi.
01:26:46Láng mất.
01:26:49Một hôm tôi hỏi với cậu Huân.
01:26:51Cậu lớn rồi mà sao cậu chưa có vợ hả cậu?
01:26:54Cậu Huân cười hà.
01:26:55À thằng nhóc này bắt đầu quan tâm đến chuyện người lớn khi nào ra xa.
01:27:03Và cậu sơ cầm.
01:27:05Vợ đâu phải muốn lấy là lấy hả con?
01:27:10Rồi.
01:27:11Cậu nhắn coi người ta cái đút chút lên nha.
01:27:14Dạ.
01:27:17Lấy không thì góp vậy.
01:27:18Ta ngoan mà.
01:27:20Sao vậy cậu phải có duyên, có số con à?
01:27:23Duyên số á?
01:27:24Tôi ngờ nhát.
01:27:25Ừ duyên số.
01:27:26Đàn ông đàn bà phải có duyên số mới thành vợ chồng được.
01:27:30Cậu Huân càng dễ hết tôi càng mù mịt.
01:27:32Thế tôi và nhỏ miền có duyên số với nhau không nhỉ?
01:27:45Chứ không phải mình thích người ta, người ta thích lại mình thì trở thành vợ chồng hả cậu?
01:27:52Cậu Huân không trả lời thẳng câu hỏi của tôi.
01:27:55Mà cậu nhìn tôi chầm chầm.
01:27:57Còn đang thích con bé nào à?
01:27:59Dạ, dạ, không có.
01:28:00Tôi ấp, úng, chói và mặc ẩn lên như ráng chiều.
01:28:05Cậu Huân chỉ liếc một cái là biết ngay tôi nói dối.
01:28:11Con đang thích đứa nào vậy?
01:28:12Cậu gặn hỏi.
01:28:14Cứ như thế vừa rồi tôi gật đầu chứ không có lắc đầu.
01:28:18Tôi ngọ ngoại, két ngón chân và một lúc, ơ nữa là nóng rang.
01:28:23Tôi ấp, úng, dạ, dạ, một, hai tiếng.
01:28:26Thấy tôi có vẻ sắp ngốc cậu Huân thương tình.
01:28:29Thôi, con không nói tên con bé đó ra cũng được.
01:28:32Nhưng mà con đang thích nó đúng không?
01:28:34Từ cắn môi nghe giọng mình vo ve như mũi kêu.
01:28:37Dạ.
01:28:38Cậu Huân miễn cười.
01:28:39Thấy con bé đó có thích lại con không?
01:28:41Tôi cưới, gầm đầu xuống đất.
01:28:44Dạ, con không biết.
01:28:45Cậu Huân lại hỏi.
01:28:47Thấy con có biết con đó, con thích nó không?
01:28:50Thấy nó có biết con thích nó không?
01:28:53Dạ, con cũng không biết.
01:28:54Cậu Huân thở ra.
01:28:56Sao cái gì con cũng không biết vậy?
01:28:59Bỗng cậu đập tay lên vai tôi.
01:29:01Tét nghiệm cười.
01:29:02Nhưng thế này mới gọi là...
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