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90 Day Fiancé- The Other Way-[ Season 7 Episode 4] Full Episode
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00:00Previously on 90 day jumps 8, you're the way.
00:03Chloe, Chloe.
00:11You did it.
00:12Well, I did it.
00:16I'm so happy Chloe's back in Aruba.
00:18What scares me is that Chloe is spoiled.
00:21I need to find my other silk pillowcase
00:23because I know I had another one.
00:25Makes me think like, hey, is she really ready for this?
00:28I'm so stressed.
00:30It's even brought a massive pimple out of my nose.
00:32Don't worry, honey.
00:33I'll still hug you and make love to you
00:36even if you have a giant spot on your face.
00:37You'll still love me.
00:39I'm about to change my whole life
00:41because Matthew is a connection I've been waiting for,
00:44but I'm not going to sugarcoat what a sacrifice
00:47it is to leave my baby behind.
00:52Madeleine, things are coming in two days,
00:55but I've changed my flight,
00:56so I'm flying out tonight.
00:58The wedding is in just over three weeks
01:00and getting real.
01:02We've been fighting because of money challenges
01:05and she blocked me.
01:07Ouch.
01:08It'll be absolutely heartbreaking if it fails.
01:11I know you're struggling with money and that.
01:13So I've just got you a little.
01:15I love you so much.
01:17Let's go, let's go.
01:19Anthony said to my face that he feels that he is the solo parent.
01:25That's just like a dagger in my heart.
01:28Yes, mommy and papi.
01:30Coco.
01:31Hello.
01:32We made it.
01:35I cannot be like, yeah, Marseille.
01:37I love it so much.
01:38No, I don't.
01:39No, I don't.
01:48I don't know what am I going to do.
01:49Hello, how are you?
02:02I'm in Medellin.
02:04Madeleine.
02:06Here I come.
02:08I just landed a day early to surprise Madeleine.
02:18Madeleine and I haven't spoken.
02:21So I'm a little nervous about what I'm walking into.
02:24At least.
02:25I don't know if she's still super upset with me.
02:28I don't know if she's going to be happy to see me.
02:31There's a lot going on.
02:33The last time I decided to surprise the past girlfriend
02:37of mine, I showed up to her apartment, walked up the stairs,
02:42and I saw her cuddling in bed with her ex-boyfriend.
02:56We are just a few weeks from the wedding,
02:58and since Madeleine and I have been fighting over finances,
03:02I thought it would be a big deal to surprise her
03:06and start the rest of our lives off on a really good note.
03:09So I hope that this surprise goes a lot better than the last one.
03:13I've been working in my salon, Madeleine Beauty, for one year and a half.
03:14I love this work.
03:15I love hair, makeup and helping people feel beautiful.
03:16I love this work.
03:17I love this work.
03:18I love hair, makeup and helping people feel beautiful.
03:23I make this month 18 millones.
03:24Hola.
03:25Hola.
03:26Hola.
03:27Hola.
03:28¿Cómo estás?
03:29¿Cómo estás?
03:30¿Cómo estás?
03:31¿Cómo estás?
03:32¿Cómo estás?
03:33Super bien acá haciendo cuentas.
03:34¿Qué más?
03:35¿Qué más?
03:36¿Qué más?
03:37¿Cómo estás?
03:38¿Cómo estás?
03:39¿Cómo estás?
03:40¿Cómo estás?
03:41¿Cómo estás?
03:42beautiful i make this month 18 millones holas hola
03:53my relationship with my mom now is good to support me with my everything but it's weird for me
04:17because when i was a child she don't was around that much
04:29my mom was working all the time so the relationship was up down up down but look teach me to leave my
04:38past in the past and leave the moment right now and now we go out together we have so much fun
04:45together oh mom mira termine de organizar todos los diplomas en la pared que bueno siento que
04:52se ve hermoso me encanta estoy súper orgullosa de mi hija verla apenas con 20 años y ya todo lo que
05:00ha hecho verla que se va a casar que tiene la estoy muy orgullosa de mi hija mucho cómo va todo eso
05:07cuéntame cómo va el matrimonio pues sí o sea mi vestido ya está listo todas esas cositas ya están
05:13listas pero es mucho estrés porque nosotros no contamos con unos sobrecostos que nos enviaron
05:19la wedding planner y obviamente todo viene desde mi imaginación desde mis sueños organizado por mí y
05:25ha hecho realidad por mí pues y look también hay ayuda solo pagando pero
05:30un saludo
05:33para la wedding myself de este que a lot work and the more me me mad about it is look don't
05:42everything i do for the mario like he always gets crazy and roll when i talking him about money
05:49I hate that.
05:51I don't have any time to fight him with him,
05:53so I just block him.
05:56Block, block, block.
06:01Ah, bueno, muchas gracias, que estén muy bien, chao.
06:03Chao.
06:10I think she's gonna see the flowers
06:11and forget about everything.
06:14Say, oh my God, I can't believe you're here.
06:17I love you.
06:19I think that's how it's gonna go.
06:21But, I've been known to be wrong sometimes,
06:25so we'll see.
06:35Ay, tengo mucho calor.
06:44Gracias, señor.
06:46¿Puedo echarme un momentico?
06:49I really need the surprise to go well.
06:52To be honest, I'm not feeling confident
06:54about anything right now.
06:58I've given up almost everything.
07:00I've quit my job.
07:01I'm scared about my money.
07:03I'm scared about my investments,
07:05and most importantly, my relationship with Madeline.
07:09If she isn't happy to see me,
07:11what the heck am I doing here?
07:13I'm gonna be one of my favorites.
07:15I'm not feeling too bad.
07:16I'm gonna be on here.
07:17I'm walking behind your lawn.
07:19I'm gonna be liking you.
07:21You know what I'm doing.
07:22I'm going to be hanging out.
07:23I'm thinking of your laundry.
07:24I'm going to be doing this.
07:25I've never been able to act
07:27I've seen the past
07:29I've chosen a path without a return
07:34My future, my will, my love
07:41We've arrived at my dad's house, my friend!
07:44We've just arrived to Marseille and to my parents' house.
07:49There you go, buddy.
07:51And honestly, staying at the house is just surreal.
07:56Yeah, it's surreal.
07:58Look at the girl who's there!
08:01Look at your wife!
08:03He's tired. He's tired.
08:06How are you, my sister?
08:08Yes, and you?
08:10You're more happy to see Anthony than me.
08:15I'm exhausted after the whole trip that just happened.
08:20I just want to go to bed.
08:22I'm feeling super grateful to be moving in with Manon's parents
08:25just so that we have a place to stay without paying rent.
08:29Bienvenue chez vous!
08:31I love seeing my son having a lot of fun with my parents.
08:36Oh, my beauty!
08:37T'as vu dehors, c'est joli, hein?
08:39You know, it's really nice.
08:41But this is not actually the house I grew up in.
08:45Like, my parents just sized down to less space for just the both of them.
08:50So, the house is a boîte à sardines.
08:53Ow!
08:55OK, donc, j'ai mis les grosses valises dans le garage.
08:59Très bien fait.
09:00Ça va, c'est comme chez toi, chérie.
09:01Et les deux petites.
09:02C'est comme chez toi, chérie.
09:03Bah non, les valises vont vous gêner.
09:05Tu peux les mettre aussi dans la petite pièce.
09:07Merci.
09:08There's only one wall between my bedroom and their bedroom.
09:11There's no intimacy.
09:13There's no privacy.
09:14There's no space.
09:16Oh, my God.
09:17Eh, ouais, c'est toi, chérie.
09:19C'est petit!
09:20It's not your space.
09:22Yeah, no.
09:25OK.
09:26Can you go get Ben?
09:28I don't know if he's going to want to come up.
09:30C'est bonne nuit!
09:32Bonne nuit!
09:33Bonne nuit!
09:34À demain!
09:35À demain, petit coeur!
09:36Bonne nuit!
09:37Bonne nuit!
09:38Bonne nuit!
09:39Bonne nuit!
09:42Merci beaucoup!
09:43De rien, Tony.
09:44Voilà, je portais ça, voilà.
09:47It was a long day.
09:49Yeah, and I'm just exhausted.
09:51Yeah.
09:52I loved seeing everyone, but I'm just, I'm just tired.
09:56You know, it's a lot.
09:57Yeah.
09:59But, uh, I just, I really wanted to talk to you too.
10:02OK, so, the conversation in the car.
10:06What you said is solo parenting.
10:08You know it hurt me.
10:09I'm not forgetting.
10:10I shouldn't have said it.
10:13I will not be here if I don't agree with, I need to spend more time with Ben.
10:19We need to spend more time together.
10:21I'm moving here.
10:22I'm moving here.
10:23For us.
10:24Look at my efforts, you know?
10:27I know.
10:28I was just saying that what we were doing before you quit your job, I was doing the brunt of childcare.
10:34Yeah.
10:35But why?
10:36Because we talked about it.
10:37I understand, but that's where...
10:38I was the sole provider.
10:39OK, but that's...
10:40That's why I could not be the parent.
10:41Does that make sense?
10:42That's where my comment came from.
10:44It's been a super long day.
10:46I'm very exhausted.
10:47And a lot of these arguments, she'll say to me, oh, that really hurt me.
10:52I don't like that.
10:53I'm going to remember that.
10:54But I'm sitting here hearing all these hurtful things and I never sit there and say, well,
10:58I'm hurt.
10:59I'm going to remember that.
11:00Because I feel like that's almost escalating things further.
11:03I'm just expressing how I'm feeling and she's invalidating the way I feel because it's not what she wants to hear.
11:12I need you to be more, like, aware of, like, how you talk to me.
11:16You always use the fact that you're the primary caretaker to actually, like, shut me off.
11:25That's...
11:26I feel like that's not valid.
11:27Every day, I tell you how much you're a good dad, how much I'm happy to be with you,
11:31how much I'm grateful to have someone like you.
11:33I try to, like, show how much I love you by touching you, kissing you.
11:37Like, I'll do my best.
11:39Okay.
11:40Well, I'm doing my best.
11:42You're doing your best as being a dad.
11:44You're an amazing dad.
11:45Well, right now, you're not a husband to me.
11:47And look at how you are with me.
11:48I'm just expecting you to be a loving man.
11:51Show me your love.
11:52I'm your wife.
11:53Kiss me.
11:54Like, this is expectation.
11:55This should be natural.
11:59Are we roommates?
12:00We just conceived a baby?
12:01That's it?
12:02I'm a donor?
12:03Yes.
12:04Our marriage needs saving.
12:06I miss my husband.
12:09We move to France because we want to deal with these issues.
12:12So, Anthony needs to understand that it's not just the balance as a mom and a dad,
12:20it's the balance also as a wife and husband.
12:23You also have to nurture your wife.
12:26If Anthony and I, we are not on the same page, I really don't know if this move is actually
12:32going to be worth doing.
12:34I need to at least eat first.
12:43Can you think you can manage making boy wives?
12:46No, I don't like the noise.
12:49It's very, very ridiculous to me that Chloe is afraid to turn on the stove.
12:53She thinks she's going to blow up the house or something.
12:55I just don't want to burn myself.
12:58Holly, how are you?
13:01I was really hoping for a better reaction than this.
13:04You're not happy I'm here?
13:06You're not happy I'm here.
13:36It feels good to be back in Aruba.
13:49The last time I was here was about a month ago.
13:52So, Jonathan and I were very excited to see each other.
13:59My first night was great, but I was exhausted and I literally went to bed
14:04because I was just too tired.
14:06I just give him the eyes of, like, if you touch me, I'm literally swinging.
14:11Like, that was my mood yesterday.
14:14You'd be so proud of me right now.
14:16Yeah, you finally woke up?
14:18No.
14:19Even better.
14:20Even better?
14:21I unpacked an entire bag.
14:23Not this one.
14:24Definitely not that one.
14:25The small one.
14:26The small one.
14:27Okay.
14:28Baby steps.
14:29I unpacked the entire thing.
14:30So proud of you.
14:31Yeah.
14:32So what's the plan, Stan?
14:34I took a couple days off work.
14:36So...
14:37To spend with me?
14:38Yeah, so we can go out.
14:39I'm gonna go to your favorite beach.
14:41Concebo?
14:42Yeah, Concebo.
14:43I could be there every day and do nothing and I'd be happy.
14:47I need to at least eat first.
14:50Can you think you can manage making boiled eggs?
14:55You can do it.
14:56I mean, I know I can.
14:59I don't know how to use the stove.
15:02Because anytime we've wanted to eat, I took us out to breakfast, lunch or dinner.
15:08So really there's no use of the stove because we're not even home ever to use it.
15:13Do I have to use the lighter?
15:14No.
15:15I just don't think...
15:18I believe in you.
15:20Go ahead.
15:21I got the beach stuff ready.
15:22Okay.
15:23Adios.
15:24No, I'm more than capable of making eggs and other things that a stove requires.
15:32But, um, it's gas.
15:35Gas stove.
15:36Or propane stove.
15:37Whatever it is.
15:38To me, a stove is very appealing when it's, like, flat and electric and controlled.
15:45That's probably what my problem is.
15:47It's, like, a flame I can't control.
15:49Like, if it wants to light something on fire, like, what am I gonna do?
15:54No, I don't like the noise.
15:58See what I mean?
15:59Like, it's just gas coming out.
16:01Donovan, I'm afraid.
16:04I'm scared of the stove.
16:07I just don't want to burn myself.
16:10Is this on fire too?
16:11Oh, that's hot.
16:12What the is that?
16:13Is this supposed to be smoking?
16:18Oh, it's a little intense thing.
16:22I can't.
16:23I can't do it.
16:24I'm literally afraid.
16:27Oh, man.
16:28Wait.
16:29Come in, come in.
16:30Please, help me.
16:31Please.
16:32If you start it once, I'll restart it.
16:34Let me put the eggs in.
16:36I love sometimes how naive Chloe can be, but, you know, it's very, very ridiculous to me that
16:41Chloe is afraid to turn on the stove.
16:43She thinks she's gonna blow up the house or something.
16:46All you have to do is press it down, twist just a little bit.
16:49You feel the click?
16:50Bring it back.
16:51I feel like she's like this because she's always had everything done for her.
16:55But now we're living together, and I can't have her have this vacation mode all the time.
17:00I'm not expecting to come home every day and having a full cooked meal, but, you know, she needs to know how to cook dinner.
17:07Okay, here we go.
17:08Ready?
17:09Press it down.
17:10This is a big deal.
17:11Oh!
17:12Good.
17:13Ready?
17:14Watch this.
17:15Oh, wow.
17:16Yeah.
17:17Wow.
17:18Now we wait for seven to eight minutes.
17:20It's good that, you know, you can start learning how to use the stove and then we can have more breakfasts together.
17:25Things like that so we don't have to go out all the time and save time, save money, you know.
17:31When Chloe visits me short term, like, we go out every night and we can't do that.
17:36Like, we really have to focus on stability.
17:40Like, I really need her to understand, like, I need a family.
17:44I need something to keep moving forward.
17:49Now that I know, I'm not going to be at home playing with the stove while I...
17:54It's not the idea.
17:55No, it's literally fine.
17:57It's just going to take forever.
17:58Yeah.
17:59Don't worry.
18:00You take that home.
18:01I am hungry.
18:02It's been seven minutes.
18:03I don't know.
18:04We didn't even set a timer.
18:05It hasn't even boiled it.
18:06Damn it.
18:07Don't let them see me breaking.
18:14Don't let them see me crying.
18:17Hazel, are you ready to go meet your new parents?
18:24Today is the day I'm saying goodbye to Hazel.
18:39And I've been thinking about this moment for weeks and how I would feel about it.
18:45Every time I think about it, I start to cry and then I hug her really closely and I tell her how much I love her.
18:52Come in.
18:55Hello.
18:56Oh my gosh.
18:57She's so sweet.
18:58Hi, Hazel.
18:59I just can't believe the day is finally here.
19:09I feel really sad about saying goodbye to her, especially because I don't think she fully understands what's going on.
19:15Hazel is extremely emotionally sensitive and she is someone who has gone through a lot in life.
19:22She lived outside and she had kittens.
19:25She looks kind of tired.
19:27How are you doing, Hazel?
19:28She's exhausted.
19:29It's destroying me to leave Hazel behind.
19:32But moving her across the pond to a small house with other animals wouldn't be fair to her.
19:38She likes to be held all the time and she likes to fall asleep in your arms and just like as many hugs as you can offer she'll take.
19:52We feel lucky to get to help look after her.
19:55Yeah, just thank you so much.
19:57If you guys want to get her stuff, I'll bring her out to you guys.
20:02Hazel, it's time.
20:06I know.
20:08I know.
20:09I know.
20:10Shh.
20:11It's okay.
20:12I think I would want Hazel to know if I could tell her what I was feeling.
20:21Well, I do tell her, but if she could understand.
20:23I would just want her to know that I love her unconditionally.
20:27And I'm like really, really grateful for her.
20:30Thank you for helping heal my heart a little bit.
20:35Thank you for all the smiles and laughs.
20:38You literally made my days like a thousand times more special.
20:43Saying goodbye to Hazel feels like my heart is being ripped from my chest.
20:52I love you so much.
21:03Bye, honey.
21:04Bye, honey.
21:05At the same time, I am moving to the UK to be with Matthew, the love of my life.
21:11He's the only person that has understood me the way Hazel does.
21:15I really hope that Matthew and I can get our own place soon so me and Hazel can reunite.
21:23Bye, Hazel.
21:25Probably when I go to sleep tonight and I realize she's not there, that's gonna be the most heart-wrenching part.
21:45Hopefully it's worth it.
21:46You remember how you talked to me?
21:47That is the reason why they blocked you.
21:48Have so many problems with the wedding.
21:49I've been asking to Lou to give me the money and he don't give it to me.
21:50We agreed on a budget.
21:51You want flowers?
21:52You want flowers?
21:53You want flowers?
21:54What are you doing?
21:55What are you doing?
21:56What are you doing?
21:57What are you doing?
21:58How are you doing?
21:59I've been asking to Lou to give me the money and he don't give it to me.
22:00We agreed on a budget.
22:01Are you happy I'm here?
22:02What are you doing?
22:23Me gusta.
22:28You happy I'm here?
22:30No.
22:31No?
22:39Okay.
22:42Oh .
22:45I know she's not talking to me,
22:46but I was really hoping for a better reaction than this.
22:51You're not happy I'm here?
22:53Mm-mm.
22:55Mm-mm.
22:56Okay.
22:57No, amor.
23:03Ah, mentirosa.
23:07Ay, amor!
23:14Hola.
23:15Te amo mucho.
23:19Mirena.
23:21I don't like surprises at all, at all, at all, at all.
23:24But really, when I see him,
23:26I really forget about why I was mad to him.
23:29I just went to him, give a hug, and a little kiss.
23:33Yeah!
23:34Yeah!
23:35Yeah!
23:37He's in black, but no more surprises.
23:40I don't know.
23:41I don't know.
23:42You're so beautiful.
23:43You're so beautiful.
23:47I'm here.
23:48When Luke came out of surprise, it was really nice.
23:55Bye mom.
23:56See you later.
23:57I trust him for the conversations we've had.
24:01I want to get the wedding.
24:03I'm so excited.
24:05I mean, a child doesn't get married every day.
24:07I feel very happy for her.
24:09Damn.
24:11Damn.
24:16You like the flowers?
24:17Yeah.
24:20It's my lingut.
24:21I like it.
24:22How would you apply?
24:23Why you don't hold me?
24:24You know, you blocked me.
24:27Why I blocked you?
24:30You remember how you talked to me?
24:33That is the reason why I blocked you.
24:35I have so many problems with the wedding,
24:37and you just give me problems and fightings and fightings.
24:41I feel so much pressure because I've been asking to Luke to give me the money, and he don't give it to me.
24:52Okay.
24:54Well, how much is?
24:56She told me if he don't give the money in two days we're going to have to cancel the
25:11mario.
25:12OK.
25:13Well, how much is?
25:18We agreed on a budget that was adjusted up, and then now it's adjusted up again.
25:25You're not telling me how much more we have to pay.
25:27Today I have an appointment with her later in the night, so it's perfect you get here early.
25:33So we'll meet her tonight.
25:35We'll talk about it.
25:36We'll figure it out.
25:37Everything's going to be OK.
25:38I'm so happy you're here.
25:42You know I love you no matter what.
25:46Obviously, having a meeting with Madelaine's wedding planner is not what I had planned
25:51for my first night in Colombia.
25:53Leaving my job has definitely made me be a lot more frugal.
25:59So, I do have a lot of questions.
26:01There are a ton of financial discrepancies that I need to look into, but I don't know
26:06who's to blame.
26:07The wedding planner or Madelaine?
26:10I know it's not me.
26:16Let's get out of here.
26:22I could not sleep because I feel I'm never good enough.
26:25I'm here in France to save her marriage.
26:27I have a lot to work on and she has a lot to work on.
26:33I know.
26:34Yeah.
26:34I know.
26:35Yeah.
26:36I know.
26:37Yeah.
26:38I know.
26:39Yeah.
26:40I am.
26:41I am very grateful for a place to stay.
26:47Very grateful, but it's definitely way too small.
26:52And as you can see, I don't know where I'm going to put my clothes except on the floor.
26:58Or in the baby bed and then Ben is going to sleep with me, I guess.
27:28I mean, I slept more than she did.
27:30He likes to sleep in the bed and yesterday, he's sideways.
27:35So I'm curled up on the bottom of the bed and he's not giving her enough space on the
27:40side.
27:41So she's on the edge.
27:42So I don't even think she got any sleep last night.
27:48It feels good to be back home because of the family.
27:52Actually, I had like a realization yesterday when I saw my mom being so happy with Ben.
28:04And she bought so many little gifts for him, which is so much.
28:08It feels good.
28:09And even if we have a lot to unpack and everything, unpack like here and unpack here.
28:15I feel kind of like changed a little bit.
28:17I feel reassured.
28:22I have to do some stuff in the garage.
28:25Okay.
28:26Wow.
28:38And how are you feeling this morning after having no resolution with Anthony last night?
28:43I could not sleep.
28:44So we kept on talking.
28:45I said, you know, by being this way, you're kind of like pushing me away because I feel I'm
28:50never good enough.
28:51I was feeling like I'm failing as a mom.
28:54I was exhausted because I had a very busy long day.
28:57He apologized, which I appreciated it.
29:00And I know I do have a lot of things to get done and work on.
29:04I know.
29:05In LA, I asked all the time, can I do this?
29:07Can I do that?
29:08He doesn't want me to ask anymore.
29:10He wants me to say, I'll do this.
29:12Okay.
29:13I hear you.
29:14I hear you.
29:15I'm sorry if I haven't done as much as you wanted me to do.
29:18So I apologize to Anthony.
29:21I feel a little bit better.
29:24We've we're now on the same page.
29:26Like I know I need to be more attentive and affectionate and show her how much I do love
29:31her.
29:32Tremendously.
29:33We've always been, Antonia and Manon, glued with each other.
29:37We were such a big team.
29:39We were in that place before.
29:41So we just need to go back to it.
29:43Let's just work on it for real and start acting on it.
29:47I think moving forward is important because I'm here in France to save her marriage.
29:51I have a lot to work on and she has a lot to work on.
29:54And I think if we both work on it with like determination and like motivation, we'll be in a good place.
30:00Good bye, Norman.
30:16How are you doing this evening?
30:21I am good.
30:26I am moving to England to be with my fiance.
30:31Oh, really?
30:32Yeah.
30:33That's a big step.
30:35Yeah.
30:38Have y'all already set a date or have y'all talked about the wedding?
30:42Mm-hmm.
30:43No, we haven't.
30:44We have never lived together.
30:46We've only visited each other.
30:48So I'm not really comfortable setting a wedding date until we have lived together.
30:54Living with someone is way different than just visiting somebody.
30:57Right.
30:58Exactly.
30:59When I was young, I had it all planned out that something big was down the road.
31:05All right.
31:06It was so nice meeting you.
31:07It was very nice meeting you.
31:08That's when you say my love was nowhere near the end.
31:15Now that I'm leaving for the UK, I'm getting more and more nervous.
31:19Bye.
31:20Bye.
31:21Have good travels.
31:22Because I'm going from living alone with my cat to living with my fiance and his parents.
31:32It's been hard being apart, but I can't wait to see Matthew again and feel that spark.
31:37And finally start my life with the person that I love.
31:46Oh no, you ain't seen nothing yet.
31:55I sent over 4 million.
31:57Don't come here.
31:58You're here to say you already sent me more money when you don't.
32:00Mentiroso.
32:02Olé, olé , olé .
32:04Olé, olé, olé .
32:09Dime, dime, dime, dime, dime, dime, y me qunom contigo
32:16Dime, dime, dime, dime, dime, y mi amor, y me qu'to contigo
32:20No te comprendo, tú me sigues sonriendo
32:23No lo entiendo...
32:25I have to do pee early, but...
32:35Okay, I'm exhausted.
32:36I need to take a shower and wake up, baby.
32:39Luke arrived early, and he came to surprise me, and I really feel so happy.
32:46Hello.
32:48Hi.
32:50I have a meeting with my wedding planner today, so it's so good.
32:54Luke is here, because we are very behind in payments in our wedding.
33:01Come here. Come on.
33:05I've been tracking expenses, but for some reason, Luke don't buy at my work.
33:11He was refused to send me payments.
33:15The point here is Luke promised me the wedding of my dreams.
33:19We need more teams, so for that, we are over in budget.
33:24I hope tonight we can figure out that.
33:30What's the plan? When's she coming?
33:34I think she's almost here.
33:36Lots to talk about, huh?
33:39I'll get it.
33:40I think she's going to push the responsibility in someone I know.
33:41It makes me more comfortable about where everything's going to happen.
33:46Good.
33:46I like it.
33:47I like it.
33:48Lizana is my wedding coach.
33:51She also is my wedding planner and my dress designer.
33:56How are you?
33:56Fast.
33:58She make it all my dress for the Padgers,
34:01so I trust in her.
34:03I think to push the responsibility in someone I know,
34:07maybe more comfortable about everything's gonna to be good.
34:12Vamos a hablar.
34:13Well.
34:26Oh, where did we start?
34:31And in general, everything, everything,
34:34and make sure that this is the final price.
34:38Okay, I'm going to tell you how much it is.
34:42Madeleine and I went back and forth on the budget
34:46for the wedding for quite some time,
34:48and we finally agreed on a budget of $12,000.
34:53Compared to U.S. prices, it's a bargain.
34:57And I thought it was paid for.
35:00So hearing that there's an outstanding balance
35:02is pissing me off.
35:06Seria lo de la champan,
35:10$780,000 más,
35:13sería $1,210,000.
35:19I know this conversation made me be stressful.
35:23It makes you stressed.
35:27There's not really any accountability
35:30or bookkeeping that's been happening.
35:33Every time Madeleine and I talk about the wedding,
35:36it's, oh, we're gonna get this,
35:38and, oh, we're gonna get the helicopter ride for only me.
35:41So part of me is frustrated that there's items
35:46that keep getting added to the list.
35:48And before I give Madeleine any more money,
35:51I would like to better understand
35:54where the money I sent actually went.
35:58I want to see the receipts.
36:02Okay.
36:04Okay, I'm ready.
36:06De las facturas anteriores,
36:08tenemos un pendiente de 4,5 millones,
36:11y de los sobrecostos,
36:13un aproximado de 7 millones y pico,
36:17es decir, más o menos 12, 13 millones de pesos
36:20o 4 mil dólares.
36:22Entonces, es que si en dos días no está,
36:25pues...
36:26It's canceling the boda.
36:31That's the limit limit that we have for the boda to work.
36:35If no, there's no boda.
36:37I'm sorry, but I'm a little confused.
36:41Because in December they say that you want a payment
36:47and ask for 4.2 million pesos.
36:51And I send them...
36:54But I didn't receive it in December.
36:56You didn't receive the money in December?
36:58No.
37:00What I received in December was a gift from the vestido.
37:03Only a million.
37:05Hmm.
37:07I know exactly how much I sent Madeleine and when I did
37:10because I knew this would happen and I wrote it down.
37:12We can look at the bank account transactions.
37:14Yeah, we can't.
37:15Perfect, I already have.
37:17I'm not trying to accuse my fiancé of mismanaging money,
37:22but she seems to have a track record of me sending money
37:26that's supposed to be used for something
37:29and then it gets used for something else.
37:31Like shopping.
37:34Who gets ?
37:36This guy.
37:38In early December I sent over 4 million because she said
37:43that you asked for 4 million.
37:46Si.
37:47Yo mandale por eso.
37:49Si, claro.
37:50Honestly, amor, like I love you, but maybe I should have
37:53helped you be organized.
37:55Like we need to add everything up, figure out what was spent,
37:58what was paid for, what's left.
38:00I mean...
38:01Look, are you so, so rude?
38:03I don't mean to be rude of me.
38:04Like are you so rude because...
38:06That permit you send it to me was transferred to the property
38:10and I transferred 1 million to her.
38:12Pues es lo único, es lo que tenemos fue un abono del vestido.
38:18You say I don't pay nothing money to her.
38:21Mentiroso.
38:23No.
38:24He sent me that money for the rent
38:27and just 1 million for my dress.
38:30And I have all the receive.
38:32Like he's crazy.
38:34I sent her 1 million.
38:36It happened in December.
38:38Mira, mira.
38:40Don't come here to say you already sent me more money
38:43when you don't.
38:45Be real, man.
38:47Okay.
38:48That is my biggest problem with him.
38:53He never know where he take the money.
38:57And later he blame me like I use barley
39:00when I use the only one use good.
39:04Lo importante es que tenemos un compromiso
39:07y en dos días máximo debe estar todo cancelado.
39:13We clearly miscommunicated about what we paid the wedding planner.
39:17But I only have $3,000
39:20and $3,000 goes a long way in Colombia.
39:23She needs to figure out how to do this
39:26with this current budget.
39:27That's it.
39:30I'll just be frank.
39:32I have $3,000.
39:33We have $3,000 to spend.
39:34Amor, lo siento, pero...
39:35Yo quiero hacer este boda.
39:36No tengo más dinero, amor.
39:37Lo siento, pero es verdad.
39:38No tengo más dinero, amor.
39:39Lo siento, pero es verdad.
39:40So don't get married.
39:41Just simple.
39:42You have one year to asking me to get married.
39:43When it's about make the twins true, you never get it.
39:45Like the promise you move here like one year ago or something.
39:48You have one year to ask me to get married.
39:52When it's about make the twins true, you never get it.
39:56Like the promise you move here like one year ago or six months ago, you don't get it.
40:03You is the one to get responsibilities you don't kind of pay for.
40:07So that is your responsibility.
40:08Next time on 90-Day Fiancé, the other way.
40:09Hi, darling.
40:10Wow!
40:12I'm out of bed.
40:13You are all.
40:14I'm out of bed.
40:15I'm out of bed.
40:16What it is.
40:17I'm out of bed.
40:18Three bags, two bags, one bags that they have.
40:19Can't be too much, one bag.
40:20Thank you so much.
40:21Thank you, Juan.
40:22Yes.
40:23Your bag.
40:24How are you going?
40:26Here, Juan.
40:27Here we go.
40:28Here we go.
40:29Here we go.
40:30Hi, Mariana.
40:31Here we go.
40:32Here we go.
40:33Here we go.
40:34Then we go.
40:35Here they go.
40:36Hi, darling, I'm really excited to see Matthew. I haven't seen him in six months
40:42Hey, sweetie, I can tell it was a long journey because you stink
40:47You're welcome
40:49Is this where I put my stuff in these drawers?
40:52Yep, everything with a G on it, but there's stuff in there. Oh god, really?
40:56It doesn't even seem like he was expecting me to arrive here. I
41:00Just don't know why all this wasn't done before he
41:06Manon focus to this just every mama so please can she made it to you would they all mean your summer?
41:13It's a malheureuse miserable
41:15Yeah, book who the body shaming I
41:19Definitely worried that men on dwelling on the past is gonna make her family less interested in helping us
41:26Do you have to understand I work in hospitality Chloe I have to be nice to people his sole purpose on his job is to entertain
41:34Young drunk girls. I know you want to put on a show. I believe girls and dental floss out of it
41:43I'd sorry family got to over you
41:45I don't spend a lot of time around his extended family
41:50Jenny my sister-in-law
41:53Most of them resist against our relationship
41:55You're on Jenny they come new or me or whatever they remember make it never again still having a problem with our age gap
42:02I've got nobody are man and I pop up never ever now. I am I just up my God you
42:07You're thing go
42:08Dawson million is the best of what is the border?
42:12It's functionado or no
42:16Cano test a situation is butcher nosa who tell you you're going into sleeping with me
42:21I've had I think I want to sleeping with someone told me so I don't know what you want Madeleine
42:26he
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