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90 Day Fiance The Other Way S07E05 (2025)
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00:00Previously on 90 Days of Yonsei, Tee goes away.
00:03I unpacked an entire bag.
00:05Not this one.
00:06So proud of you.
00:07It feels good to be back in Aruba.
00:11No, I don't like the noise.
00:13I'm afraid.
00:15Please help me.
00:16If you start it once, I'll restart it.
00:19She's always had everything done for her,
00:21but now we're living together
00:23and I can't have her have this vacation mode all the time.
00:26Oh!
00:27Good.
00:27Good day.
00:29Hazel, it's time.
00:32Saying goodbye to Hazel
00:35feels like my heart is being ripped from my chest.
00:39Bye, Hazel.
00:41But I can't wait to see Matthew again
00:43and feel that spark with the person that I love.
00:51This is sarcastic.
00:53Roping hair is not possible at all, no?
00:55It's small.
00:56For years, I've been the black sheep of the family.
00:59It feels like I disappointed them again.
01:05Bienvenue chez vous.
01:06I'm feeling super grateful
01:08to be moving in with Manon's parents.
01:10Oh my God.
01:11C'est petit.
01:11There's no intimacy, there's no privacy
01:15and honestly, staying at the house is just surreal.
01:20Yeah, it's surreal.
01:22Oh my God.
01:24So many problems with the wedding.
01:26She told me if you don't give the money,
01:28in two days, we're going to have to cancel the marriage.
01:30What, how much is?
01:31Es decir, más o menos 12, 13 millones pesos o 4,000 dólares.
01:36I sent over 4 million.
01:39¿Tú no recibe dinero en diciembre?
01:42No.
01:43Mentiroso.
01:44We can look at the bank account.
01:46Yeah, we can.
01:46Sure, I already have.
01:48Lo siento, pero es verdad.
01:50So don't get married, Jacin Paul.
02:20Today's the day.
02:22Greta is arriving in the UK.
02:26Hey Apple, your mummy's coming home.
02:29Do you know that?
02:30Yes, she is.
02:32I feel like I have a butterfly sanctuary
02:35in my tummy right now.
02:37It's been six months since we've seen each other.
02:42That is the longest we've been apart
02:44and it hasn't been easy.
02:47It's definitely a bit of a scramble
02:49to get things ready.
02:51But I want everything to be perfect for her.
02:55I better make some room for her here.
02:59Greta is sacrificing everything she has
03:03to be here.
03:05Her friends, her career,
03:08her cat,
03:10to be with me.
03:14It's a lot of pressure.
03:19I just arrived in England.
03:26I'm really excited to see Matthew.
03:28I haven't seen him in six months.
03:30I'm on the train,
03:32and the next step is to reunite
03:35with my love, Matthew.
03:37I've been to England five times,
03:41but this time feels really different
03:43because I'm starting a whole new life.
03:45I'm an American woman
03:47on the way to my English fiancée
03:50who lives in the countryside.
03:52I feel like I'm living out
03:53of a romance novel right now.
03:56It makes me very excited.
03:57I'm a little bit nervous.
04:23I have no idea what to do with my hands,
04:25no idea what to do with my feet.
04:26There's a lot riding on this for me.
04:32I just want to make sure I get it right.
04:34I'm soaring
04:41like a mighty wind
04:43I ain't knowing
04:45The sugar's on my skin
04:47cause you stole my heart
04:49Now everything makes sense
04:53But every night I'm kneeling
04:57Praying that it never ends
05:00This has been two years
05:03in the making
05:04and it's an incredible feeling
05:05to finally start my life
05:07with a person who I love
05:08But I am also sweating
05:12more than I would like to be
05:13in this moment
05:14Hi, darling
05:36Hi!
05:37You look very difficult.
05:38Woo!
05:39How are you?
05:40Good.
05:41How are you doing?
05:42I'm very well.
05:43It's been a long time.
05:44I didn't realize you would be right here.
05:45Yeah.
05:46Right there.
05:47Hey, sweetie.
05:48Did you get a haircut?
05:49Yeah.
05:50You look very different.
05:51It's very short.
05:52I know.
05:53It's very short.
05:54I know.
05:55It will grow back out.
05:56All right.
05:57No, we did it.
05:58We're here.
05:59Yeah.
06:00I can tell it was a long journey for you, because you stink.
06:04Yeah.
06:05I had to carry some very heavy suitcases, so I got it.
06:08It was a long journey for you, because you stink.
06:11Yeah.
06:12I had to carry some very heavy suitcases, so I got it.
06:16I got it.
06:17I got it.
06:18I got it.
06:19I got it.
06:20I got it.
06:21Some very heavy suitcases, so I got very sweaty, and I smell really bad right now.
06:26Your antiperspirant is fighting on for its dear life right now.
06:29Yeah.
06:30Yeah.
06:31You're welcome.
06:33Let's take you home.
06:34Okay, let's go.
06:35All right.
06:36Can I help you with that?
06:38Um, I mean, why are you being so formal?
06:45I've almost forgotten what it's like to have Greta with me, to have you with me.
06:50And so, yeah, it's, I feel very sort of disjointed right now.
06:57So I'm just waiting for those sort of jigsaw pieces to come back together over the next few days.
07:03It's good to see you again.
07:04There is no return flight booked this time.
07:09That's the first time we've done that.
07:11And now it feels like this is where everything else begins.
07:15This is the crossroad of everything in the future.
07:19So, yeah, it's, it's, it feels very special to me.
07:27Let's go home.
07:28Yeah.
07:29Let's go.
07:31Damn, you are really bad beyond.
07:33I know.
07:34Oh, wow.
07:35Thank God I got that loop for you.
07:36Thank God I got that loop for you.
07:37Thank God.
08:03Color's not good.
08:04I'm not Indian.
08:05What do they think?
08:07Progress is good at the cafe and things are moving along.
08:13And today we're having a Hindu ceremony called a puja.
08:17It's for blessings for our new house.
08:19Oh, beautiful.
08:21Indian lady.
08:22Indian lady.
08:23My family is very religious.
08:24They believe that a prayer is required because we all are moving in with a good intention.
08:38So that's why they choose to do a housewarming ceremony.
08:42I hope it doesn't break the floor.
08:52No, don't worry.
08:53Coconut is a high hanging fruit.
08:55And it gets the water by itself if you consider it's pure.
08:59And they're cracking the coconut like, it's like blessing the house.
09:04It's like as many you'll do, more blessings to the house.
09:08Okay, hold it.
09:09Both hands.
09:10Oh my God.
09:12Be careful with them.
09:13And both right hand.
09:14Right leg.
09:15Inside.
09:16Go on.
09:17Up.
09:18Yes, wait.
09:19Come over.
09:20It's gonna be.
09:21Carrying the thing on my head, it's supposed to be like I'm carrying in everything in the
09:37house with me like I'm gonna take control of everything.
09:40It's a balanced thing.
09:41If you want, you can get in your hand then.
09:43Yeah.
09:44I see this.
09:46Okay.
09:47It's not easy if you're not used to carrying something on your head.
09:52Okay.
09:53Yeah, come.
09:58I find these ceremonies to be very beautiful.
10:02The prayer that they're saying a mantra.
10:05Yeah.
10:12I'm so fascinated by it.
10:14How do they remember all these prayers and what to say?
10:18And everybody all says it together.
10:20It's been a surprise for me that Denny and I are leading the ceremony. This is amazing. This is a very good day. And now all my extended family members are showing up and this is a really happy moment.
10:33Why are you all?
10:34Why are you all?
10:35I don't spend a lot of time around his extended family.
10:36Most of them are going through the complexity of the culture and that's what makes them like to work.
10:41to resist against our relationship.
10:42to resist against our relationship.
10:43I'm Jenny, my sister-in-law.
10:44I'm Jenny, my sister-in-law.
10:45Hey.
10:46Like Shree to you, she's the sister-in-law.
10:47My sister-in-law.
10:48My sister-in-law.
10:49My sister-in-law.
10:50My sister-in-law.
10:51My sister-in-law.
10:52My sister-in-law.
10:53My sister-in-law.
10:54My sister-in-law.
10:55My sister-in-law.
10:56My sister-in-law.
10:57That's true.
10:58This is my sister.
10:59No, no, no, no.
11:00I don't spend a lot of time around his extended family.
11:01I don't spend a lot of time around his extended family.
11:05Most of them are going through the complexity of the culture and that's what makes them like to resist against our relationship.
11:11I'm Jenny, my sister-in-law.
11:12Hey.
11:13This is like Shree to you, she's the sister-in-law.
11:16This is true.
11:17This is my sister.
11:18Touch of P?
11:19No, no, no, no.
11:20This one, this one.
11:21No, no, no, no.
11:22This one, this one.
11:23No, no, no, no.
11:24This one.
11:25How about you?
11:26Since my extended family member choose to come here for the puja, it's a really good sign that they start accepting our relationship.
11:33I think that they need to get to know me and be happy for us and get over it.
11:40Make small flowers and small, small flowers.
11:46I'm making the middle dots.
11:49You're making the middle dot?
11:50Yes.
11:51Shree is teaching me how to draw vangoli on the floor, which is usually a flower, some sort of design.
12:00And it's used to welcome the guests and keep negative energy out of the house.
12:11How's my flower coming out?
12:13Wow.
12:14You like it?
12:15Let's see.
12:16Who makes it better?
12:18A little bit more here.
12:20What did you make?
12:21You didn't make rangoli?
12:23Sumit Jenny.
12:25Jenny, what are you doing?
12:28Make a flower.
12:29Flower.
12:30I made flower.
12:31Here.
12:32This one?
12:33I made the flower.
12:34Very pretty.
12:36Very nice.
12:37He's saying Jenny didn't make it good.
12:47Why are you having a problem?
12:49I have never thought about it.
12:50I had never thought about it.
12:51I had never thought about it.
12:52I had never done it.
12:57I've never done anything with my life.
12:58I've never done anything in the past.
12:59I haven't done anything with the past.
13:00I have never done anything with my life.
13:01I have no idea.
13:02I have no problem.
13:03I have no idea where my dad is.
13:04We are like my father.
13:05We are like my father.
13:06How do I fix her?
13:07And how do I fix it?
13:08Someone doesn't like my artwork, so I'm just going to watch.
13:12It's okay.
13:13Shall I complete this?
13:14Yours?
13:15very good very nice this is the after when I do Jenny the whole gonna
13:22Sunday I've Danny cause for carry oh and she can do that I ain't go see cannot
13:27it's gonna be a why are you bothering we're enjoying when you're bothering
13:33can you do you know the battle
13:46all right
13:55j'étais malheureuse misérable manon moi ma fille elle mange pas mais pour faire
14:02elle est grosse il y a beaucoup de body shaming
14:06piensen si es que se quieren casar porque pues c'est cette situation es
14:10bochernosa I trust Lisa no opinion so much
14:32so we've been in Marseille for a few days
14:47c'est parti les amis it's a very tiny house especially with a 19 month old baby boy
14:53so we plan a leader fun getaway to start fresh with my parents just get out of the house and we
15:04are going to go play some pétanque ah bonjour bonjour the first time playing la pétanque
15:16yeah let's see how we do a do two people in the same team because we are trouble with three
15:22four four double three guys two balls okay la pétanque it's actually a game that involves like a
15:32little cushion new like we call it a small ball and big ones very funny and you got to actually
15:38throw the balls really close to the smallest one never do you want to actually knock down the
15:44balls that are close so you can stay closer and you steal the points kinda j'ai pas joué depuis
15:50très très longtemps ah c'est pas mal ça merci ok je suis marseillaise moi dans le sang
16:02je suis trop grave je suis trop fort wow pétanque it used to be a tradition as a family when I was
16:26young during summer times my parents didn't have a lot of money for fancy expensive vacations so
16:32they used to rent a townhouse in a very very small asshole of friends type of city where every day
16:42it's just aperitif lunch pétanque and up and you start again in the morning
16:49your life.
16:51Ben Ben, Ben! Ben! Oh, Ben! Ben, il faut que je joue! Bon, allez, ok!
16:56Oh, Manu, faut que je te dise, c'était vraiment surprise quand tu m'as dit que tu voulais revenir,
17:04ça m'a… Je te dis la vérité je ne payais pas mes yeux, je… enfin mes oreilles, hein?
17:08Ben! Toi qui tout le temps, je reste là-bas je reste là-bas la France ou la France voilà!
17:14Because here I was sad, miserable.
17:17I felt like an ovni here.
17:22I've always felt not accepted with my friends,
17:27but also in my family.
17:30My daughter doesn't eat, but still she's gross.
17:34There's a lot of body shaming.
17:37I know I'm different from the other.
17:38We've all been able to do our best.
17:41I'm not saying that we've done everything perfectly.
17:44That's far away from it.
17:47I'm kind of just lost.
17:48I don't know if she's resolving stuff with the family.
17:51Is it just bringing more up from the past?
17:54It is hard for Menon to move forward,
17:58but I definitely worry that Menon dwelling on the past
18:01is going to make her family less interested in helping us.
18:05It's complicated.
18:06It's complicated.
18:07We're not doing it, it's good.
18:10We love our children because everyone loves it.
18:12Of course.
18:13You always loved me.
18:15I know, it's true.
18:17But I can't deny that some choices you've taken me,
18:21made me become the one I am today,
18:25who was a girl who didn't trust me,
18:27who thought it was a problem,
18:28who thought it was a mistake of nature.
18:31But, Maman,
18:33you growl, you change, and you see what it is to have a child.
18:36You tell me, they've done what they've done.
18:38And frankly, at the end, I'm happy.
18:40I'm happy.
18:41I'm happy.
18:42I'm happy.
18:43But at the end, I'm happy.
18:44I'm happy.
18:45I'm happy.
18:46I'm happy.
18:47I'm happy.
18:48And that I know where you want to be.
18:51Who chooses your life?
18:53It's not the others.
18:54And now, we're always here for you.
18:56And now, we'll be here for you anyway.
18:57You know what?
18:58Yes, we're here anyway.
18:59Yes, I know.
19:01I know.
19:02I was in such a dark place.
19:05But I'm like, this is my past life.
19:08So I just want them to be aware all the ways of thinking
19:11need to evolve.
19:13Because I'm committed to make it work here in France.
19:16So I hope to see them making a change.
19:19But we'll see.
19:21Anamina!
19:22Anamina!
19:23Anamina!
19:24Anamina!
19:25Anamina!
19:26Anamina!
19:27Anamina!
19:28Anamina!
19:29Anamina!
19:30Anamina!
19:31Anamina!
19:32Anamina!
19:38You told me I still do you want it, and you don't get it.
19:41Be careful with you, worse.
19:43I'm sorry for how this is turning out.
19:48For me, it's so embarrassing talking that about her.
19:51Okay.
19:58Please finish with her.
20:00I don't want all the people seeing me fighting.
20:02Okay, amor.
20:05It's so, so embarrassing.
20:08Lisana is my pageant coach.
20:11I work with Lisana.
20:13I kind of believe he's making me look like that.
20:16He say I talk the money when I don't talk anything.
20:20It's like he f***ed up.
20:23You're going to have to have the biggest problems you're going to have to have later.
20:27Let's just maybe get back to it.
20:30Yo tengo doce millones de pesos por este boda.
20:36Es funcionado o no?
20:38Es que no.
20:41La decisión es o quitamos algo de lo que está
20:44o se cancela la boda.
20:49No es normal que una pareja que está a punto de casarse
20:53peleando enfrente mío.
20:55O sea, esta situación es bochornosa.
20:57Límpiate, por favor, acá.
21:00Gracias.
21:01Siento que en estos momentos deberían estar más unidos.
21:04Las diferencias y la reacción tan fuerte de Made en ocasiones
21:08me genera un poco de inseguridad en cuanto a la boda.
21:12Y de pronto
21:13dudas
21:15que se generan
21:17de que
21:17¿será que sí hay matrimonio?
21:20Venga, yo miro la lista y le marco.
21:23Listo, los tachamos.
21:24Ok.
21:25Los bailarines.
21:27¿Estás ridiendo de eso?
21:28¿Y a mariachis?
21:31¿Desistir de los mariachis?
21:32Sí.
21:33Ya ahora tenemos como pagar 12 millones, ¿cierto?
21:37Bueno, hermosa, entonces, ¿para cuándo tengo todo esto?
21:41¿Cuándo vas a pagar aquí?
21:44¿Dónde vas a pagar hasta el domingo?
21:46Dos días.
21:47Dos días.
21:48Perfecto.
21:50Pues yo hablo con todos los proveedores a ver qué podemos hacer,
21:53pero también es que piensen si es que se quieren casar
21:57porque, pues, espero que realmente
21:59más que el dinero los una el amor,
22:03que es lo más importante.
22:08Gracias.
22:10Con gusto.
22:11Con gusto.
22:12Chao, hermosa.
22:14Chao.
22:14Chao.
22:16Chao.
22:17Chao.
22:26Chao.
22:27Chao.
22:27Chao.
22:27Chao.
22:30I am so sick and tired about always I need to forgive him
22:36and he continue to do and and and and my question is for how long
22:43he think I'm going to forgive him?
22:45I don't know what you want, Madeleine.
23:04I've had a really long day, and I'm exhausted.
23:08So I apologize for being rude.
23:11I apologize for making you look bad.
23:13I am very sorry.
23:14That is not my intention.
23:17I don't want to fight, but I've given up my life in the United States and all of my financial
23:23security.
23:24She doesn't understand the gravity of the situation.
23:28It's very troubling.
23:30Can we go to bed together on my first night here, moving here, or would she like me to
23:34go to the other room?
23:39Whatever.
23:40You have to understand, I work in hospitality, Chloe.
23:43I have to be nice to people.
23:45You can climb the rope, just don't put people on your back.
23:48I can't promise you that.
23:50His literally sole purpose on his job is to entertain young drunk girls.
23:54And it's like if I worked at like a strip club.
24:05That's gonna be a beautiful sunset today.
24:07I know.
24:08It's gonna be gorgeous.
24:09Just like you.
24:10Don't start.
24:12Hello, good evening.
24:27Now that I'm living in Aruba and I'm finally back with Jonathan, it is a relief to put
24:32everything from long distance behind us.
24:35I really want to become a less jealous partner, but his job makes that much more challenging
24:43considering his job is like a strip club located on the ocean.
24:48Oh, electronic mode.
24:51Jonathan has a lot of big dreams and he told me that he wanted to go into business together.
24:55I'm hoping part of him truly is considering it because I just, I don't think I could see
25:03the trust coming back truly at his job.
25:05I really don't.
25:06It's actually so pretty.
25:08Mm-hmm.
25:09That's like picture perfect.
25:11There it is.
25:13Enjoy, okay?
25:15You're welcome.
25:16Anyway, you mentioned that you want to open like a business type situation.
25:27Yeah.
25:28Does that mean you're going to lean towards leaving?
25:31Yeah, of course.
25:32I don't want to work for somebody, Chloe.
25:35I mean, like what kind of business are you thinking?
25:39Basically, if I'm thinking I'm starting a business where I could be in the water.
25:44And that's something I can't explain that feeling, you know?
25:48I would always want to work on the water.
25:51You understand?
25:52Yeah.
25:53I mean, but it's up in the air, but.
25:55Yeah, I know it's up in the air, but I mean.
25:56No, I think that.
25:57We're going to, we are going to have to help each other in this.
26:01Help you how, though?
26:04Help me create the business.
26:06We can come with a business plan now.
26:08And then maybe hopefully, lucky enough, we can find an investor that's willing to put money into it.
26:12Once I finally manage to get through that, then I will leave Jolly Pirates.
26:16But that's the whole idea.
26:18I think I want to believe him that he wants to open a business together.
26:22But I do feel like part of him telling me all these things is because he just wants to take my focus off of him quitting his job.
26:30So you think within the year?
26:32Within the year, I will start making bigger moves.
26:36I'll work really hard for like a year, maybe two.
26:40So you think you'll be there for two more years?
26:43Maybe two.
26:45But what if you find a job that I like sooner than two years or one?
26:55One.
26:56I mean...
26:57Because there's plenty of other jobs.
27:00I've asked Jonathan to quit multiple times.
27:05His literally sole purpose on his job is to entertain young drunk girls in literal dental floss bikinis.
27:14And then put these drunk dental floss girls on his back as they like cling on to him for dear life and then flip with them in the air.
27:25Even one more year is pushing it.
27:28Like you're going to be 33 working on a pirate ship.
27:31I think he would probably stay until the boat sinks.
27:35I don't know.
27:36It's an easy and fun job.
27:38I get good tips on that boat because of the things I can do.
27:41You know, I snorkel with the people.
27:42I show them all sorts of stuff.
27:44I feel like you don't have to be so much like the center of it anymore.
27:47Like I feel like you can slowly kind of step out of the limelight.
27:52I mean, if I start getting like colleagues that start doing what I do, like nobody climbs the rope.
27:58Climbing...
27:59Okay.
28:00You can climb the rope.
28:01Just don't put people on your back.
28:02I'm trying to do that lady.
28:03I'm trying, but I can't promise you that.
28:06You have to understand that like, I did leave working on the boat to go work in a hotel because my ex didn't like me working on the boat.
28:14And I did it thinking that it would make things better.
28:17But it didn't.
28:18I know, but I'm not your ex.
28:20I understand that.
28:21So you can't, you can't compare.
28:22I can't compare.
28:23I understand.
28:24But it's going to put me in a situation I've been in before.
28:27And I really don't want to do that again.
28:28I was just like mad that I had to go to work.
28:31Mad that I was doing what I was doing.
28:33But the work's not always fun.
28:34I mean, I think you can have a good balance.
28:36Yeah, I know.
28:37But that's what I'm trying to find a way to respect you as much as you can at work.
28:41So I can stay with my job because it's something I really, really love.
28:44I'm not asking you in this moment to go put in your two weeks.
28:47That's not what I'm asking you to do.
28:49I'm asking on the boat.
28:51Somebody asks, be like, listen, like, I have a girlfriend, whatever.
28:55I know you want to put on a show.
28:57Like, you know, leave young girls and dental floss out of it.
29:02Leave them out of it.
29:06You got to understand, you met me on Jolly Pirates.
29:09You know, like, you can't expect me to just change for you.
29:14Just I met you a year ago and like, oh, I have to change my job and my lifestyle and everything.
29:18If you're going to sit here and tell me, no, I'm not going to stop flipping young, beautiful girls,
29:24then you can easily tell them no as well.
29:27At least have more respect for me.
29:29And if you're going to say no to someone, say it to them, not to me.
29:32The only way that I would leave Jolly Pirates is if I did something for myself.
29:39It's like if I worked at, like, a strip club.
29:42No, I don't work at a, I do not, not even.
29:45But it's like if I worked at a strip club.
29:46I work at a strip club.
29:47That's not even.
29:48Because I'm saying most of your clients are girls.
29:49No, not about them.
29:50What do you mean?
29:51There's kids.
29:52There's families that come on the boat.
29:53In the morning trip.
29:54No, in all trips, Chloe.
29:55Like, Chloe, what is wrong with you?
29:58Anyway.
30:01Okay.
30:02Your parents are not here.
30:03Yeah.
30:04I'm seeing my fiance for the first time in six months, and I'm sleeping down the hall from
30:14his parents.
30:15It's not ideal, especially for the type of stuff I like.
30:19What Do You Mean Jaini are perfect.
30:21Jaini is a perfect girl who's married.
30:25She's not a girl.
30:26She'll never be about to meet him.
30:30She doesn't want to marry him like this.
30:31There's no marriage in life without such a divorce.
30:33Wow, you're driving more smoothly than what I'm used to.
30:59Not doing any of your speeding antics.
31:01Oh, I've been practicing just for you.
31:04I just arrived in England.
31:06It's been a long day of travel,
31:08and things were pretty awkward when we first saw each other.
31:11I think once we settle in together,
31:15we will feel more connected to each other.
31:18The town still looks the same.
31:20Not much changes in Sleepy Park or Barbara.
31:23Still pretty cute.
31:25Filled with old people.
31:27Uh-huh, yeah.
31:31The city's hometown is like the quintessential English countryside.
31:35There's lots of sheep, a lot of cute little cottages,
31:39and just long country roads leading to nowhere.
31:43Definitely not a place I would choose to live in my 20s.
31:46It maybe would be a place I would live in my 60s.
31:49I mean, I like a lot of the same things old people do,
31:52but I prefer city energy, not retirement home energy.
31:59Here we are.
32:00Here we are.
32:01Here we are.
32:03Here we are.
32:06Your parents are not here.
32:08Yeah.
32:09Hi, Nelly!
32:10Oh!
32:12Hi, my baby!
32:13Yeah, Apple!
32:14Hi, sweetie!
32:15I have stayed at this house three times before.
32:21Mommy's home?
32:22Yeah.
32:23Oh yeah.
32:24But it's always been like a little bit awkward
32:27because it's a small space.
32:29We all share one shower.
32:32I don't really have my own place to have my own alone time.
32:36Oh wow, you got your new computer monitors?
32:39Yeah.
32:40I'm also seeing my fiance for the first time in six months
32:43and I'm sleeping down the hall from his parents
32:46and the walls are pretty thin.
32:49It's not ideal, especially for the type of stuff I like.
32:53I'm sorry, I just cut that out.
32:58Is this where I put my stuff in these drawers?
33:00Yep, everything with a G on it.
33:02But there's stuff in there.
33:03Oh god, really?
33:06Oh yeah, these are my shirts.
33:08Oh, I'll figure that out.
33:12I guess you have to figure that out now, right?
33:18That's mine, that's mine.
33:20Maybe we should just get a bag and put everything in the bag
33:23and then figure it out later?
33:24Mm-hmm.
33:24I'm trying to.
33:25OK.
33:28Put everything in here.
33:31Like, I just don't know why all of this
33:32wasn't done beforehand.
33:35There you go.
33:37Three functional empty drawers.
33:39OK.
33:40I don't know if that's enough.
33:41Can you make me a fourth one right now?
33:43OK.
33:44Yeah, I'll get one empty.
33:47Well, I thought there was enough space.
33:50I mean, did you expect me to wear, like, four outfits
33:52over and over again?
33:54No, there's 20 hangers here.
33:56Enough space for about five or six pairs of trousers down there,
34:00seven pairs of shoes.
34:01Seven pairs of shoes are going to fit there and trousers?
34:05Yeah.
34:05Yeah, lined up, yeah.
34:07So you don't see space as an issue right now?
34:11No.
34:12I think this is fine.
34:13This is fine.
34:13Should we lay out and start doing the suitcase, or?
34:17I feel like I just want to do that, like, alone,
34:18because it's, like, too cramped for me to unpack
34:20while you're sitting there.
34:22OK.
34:22Sure.
34:23I'll let you unpack, then.
34:38I don't even know where to put anything.
34:39I know it's, like, so silly to, like,
34:53cry over, like, not having the space to put your stuff,
34:57but it just feels, like, really discombobulating.
35:03It just doesn't really feel like home,
35:04and I'm just, like, coming here and trying to just find the space
35:07to put my things, and there's not enough space, and, like,
35:12I'll just be living out of a suitcase, basically,
35:14and it's just, like, a really weird situation.
35:23I just thought he would get ready more for me to come,
35:29so it just kind of feels like I'm not really welcome here.
35:33I left home to come here and then just, like,
35:35to feel like you're just taking up space
35:38that you shouldn't be taking up.
35:41It just makes me really realize, like, I need to,
35:43we need to find a place, like, of our own.
35:48Because it's just not really going to work.
35:51I was already a little bit annoyed
35:53that Matthew hadn't seriously started looking
35:55at apartments for us, and then it doesn't even seem
35:58like he was expecting me to arrive here.
36:01It feels pretty inconsiderate.
36:03Like, I just left Hazel to move here.
36:06He's just not really making me feel at home right now.
36:11How's it going?
36:13Any help?
36:16You can get me a bigger room.
36:19This one will have to do, I'm afraid.
36:21What happens?
36:39What's she doing what happened why she took your mom away
36:59Okay, okay, yeah, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know
37:04What's she doing, right?
37:06She's a different person, but we have married married.
37:09everything she's been married and we're together and we're happy.
37:11It's the greatest thing.
37:13You are more than your life than your wife.
37:17What was she doing?
37:19I was happy with her husband.
37:21I'm seeing that husband's happiness. I haven't seen that.
37:24It's nothing like that.
37:26It's not so bad, right?
37:28It's not so great, right?
37:30It's not so big and so small.
37:32I didn't expect that my aunt will start like saying all this she was fine in the starting
37:48she come to celebration and all of sudden she's getting mad and they're talking about Jenny
37:53it's really like make me why and what is going on over here
37:58still having a problem with our age gap yeah age gap thing well we love each other you love it
38:08they love you a push mark a bravo they go out of my city one of my body oh well if you don't like
38:16to come over here you can see that you are my little girl I am with you and I have loved it
38:25and she has helped me with her at every time when I was very big and very upset that Jenny is a perfect
38:34girl who married a girl who is married a girl who is not a girl who is a girl who is a girl who is a girl
38:43But it is that we are living together and happy.
38:46This is the biggest thing.
38:48Here it is, it's okay.
38:51I don't want to say anything about this.
38:53I don't want to say anything about this.
38:55But it is a good thing.
38:57It was a good thing about it.
38:59It wasn't. It was a good thing about it.
39:01If you have said that,
39:03it's not like our family.
39:05What would you say?
39:07I also accept this.
39:09That's why I accept it.
39:13My family is so angry.
39:15I have left out of my house.
39:17Because I have to see my family.
39:21Many people say,
39:23what have you done with your son?
39:25I don't want to go anywhere.
39:29I will stay in my house.
39:31After some time,
39:33my husband also told me
39:37that you can't do anything.
39:39They both have married home.
39:41and they have married home.
39:43After that, I thought that
39:45they have taken it.
39:47I will not have to change you.
39:49I will not have to be able to change you.
39:51I will not have to be able to change you.
39:53I will not have to be able to change you.
39:55I will not have to be able to change you.
39:57I will not have to change you.
39:59If you think that your father is wrong,
40:01then you will be able to change you.
40:03And he will be able to change your family.
40:05That's okay.
40:07Let me tell you anything.
40:10This is your house.
40:27Jenny is a very good lady.
40:28You are part of our family.
40:31Okay. If you want to make your family,
40:33you can make your family.
40:35If you want to make your family,
40:38then you can make your family.
40:41Chachi, listen to me.
40:44It is like all the good work we've done till now
40:48can be spoiled by one loud person.
40:51It might make my opinion feel like
40:53fighting against the society and culture
40:56is not working.
40:58I don't know, but I think it's very risky for us.
41:02If you want to make your family,
41:04I'm going to make your family.
41:12Next time on 90 Day Fiance The Other Way.
41:15I'm Patia, I'm 58, and I'm an exotic dancer.
41:19But now I'm hanging up my cowgirl hat
41:22to move across the world
41:23to be with my boyfriend, Dylan.
41:25G'day, I'm Dylan.
41:28I'm 38 years old,
41:29and I live in Launceston, Tasmania.
41:32We've been together for 12 years
41:34and have broken up 20 times.
41:36I'm just tired of the back and forth, you know.
41:40I'm not gonna keep the break-up, the make-up,
41:42the break-up, the make-up going
41:44for the rest of my life.
41:45It's either get off the pot.
41:48In Oklahoma, I get weekly massages.
41:53I feel like you don't necessarily appreciate
41:55how much I give.
41:57He's never said anything like this before.
42:00I couldn't afford the life that you want.
42:02I engage you for the money,
42:04is that what you're saying?
42:08Aw, you're so cute.
42:10Sometimes.
42:11We're going to have a day night,
42:13and we can put all the violence behind us.
42:18I didn't do anything, I just...
42:22I didn't do anything.
42:23I just...
42:26Oh, my God.
42:28Oh, my God.
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