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90 Day Fiance S11E05 (2025)
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00:00:01Previously on 90 Day Fiancé...
00:00:04Let's go! Let's go! Let's go! Let's go!
00:00:06Yes! Yes!
00:00:09I am Annie. He's my boyfriend.
00:00:12And she's my girlfriend, too.
00:00:14So let's go back to the hotel.
00:00:16Yes! Let's go!
00:00:19Being in a truffle is so rewarding.
00:00:22But it's three times more complicated
00:00:25than a normal relationship.
00:00:27Oh, he's gonna go in the middle.
00:00:28I don't know. It's hard.
00:00:30I don't know.
00:00:34The beginning of the end.
00:00:35The beginning of a new chapter.
00:00:37Not the end.
00:00:38I am making a sacrifice.
00:00:40To leave everything behind.
00:00:42Make my parents upset. Just for her.
00:00:48I hope she appreciates that.
00:00:50Allah sizi korusun.
00:00:54Me and her are very close.
00:00:56Father, daughter.
00:00:57Her concern is, does dad really need to have more kids?
00:01:00I thank Mark's daughter, Jordan the snake and the hypocrite.
00:01:06We don't want drama at the wedding.
00:01:07You want your wedding?
00:01:08It's possible you don't come in?
00:01:09No.
00:01:10He's coming for the wedding.
00:01:11It's my daughter.
00:01:12Maybe I made a mistake coming, living with Mark in America.
00:01:16I hadn't told dad anything about you yet before you got here.
00:01:26Like nothing?
00:01:27Yeah, no I didn't.
00:01:28I have only one meeting to make him feel good about me.
00:01:32I'm really uneasy about starting my life in America on the foundation of life.
00:01:38If you're 100% about me, you would have told him.
00:01:41I first met Douglas online and I loved his curly hair and his bubble butt.
00:01:50But now is no more Douglas.
00:01:52Now everything's a different playing field.
00:01:55Being a trans woman is not easy here in Brazil.
00:01:59Since all my documents are in my own name, if they don't like trans people, they can deny my visa.
00:02:08Jessica's my best friend.
00:02:09And for you to be off potentially messing around just literally shatters my heart.
00:02:16You think that's my pride in that.
00:02:19Megan just every time she comes and bring everything up.
00:02:22Did you sleep with that girl?
00:02:24I did.
00:02:45Okay, so we're walking to our gate.
00:02:47We went through all the different security checks.
00:02:50They didn't detain this guy, which is great.
00:02:52She would be detained, you know that?
00:02:55Yeah, usually they detain me because of all my surgeries.
00:02:58I don't look like my passport anymore.
00:03:08About to get on our flight.
00:03:09Are you excited yet?
00:03:11Mm-hmm, so.
00:03:12So much.
00:03:14You better start getting excited, mister.
00:03:17Everything is surreal.
00:03:18I'm just like in a dream nightmare or whatever you call it.
00:03:24You're going to America.
00:03:26Wow.
00:03:28You people.
00:03:30I'm right now going to away match and the rules are set by Chicana.
00:03:34Come on, babe.
00:03:36Don't miss the flight.
00:03:38All my plan is up.
00:03:39And when my routine is broken, I am broken.
00:03:43I know myself.
00:03:44That's also very concerning.
00:03:46We're going to snuggle together.
00:03:48Snuggle.
00:03:49We're about to touch down.
00:03:50This is the big moment.
00:03:51We've been waiting for the beginning of a lot of new experiences for you.
00:03:55Chapter 2 of our life.
00:03:56Here we go.
00:03:57Hey.
00:03:58Hey.
00:03:59Yes.
00:04:00That was a very smooth landing.
00:04:02Smooth landing.
00:04:03Wow.
00:04:04Oh, my God.
00:04:05You're on American soil, babe.
00:04:06First time.
00:04:07I'm sorry.
00:04:08I'm sorry.
00:04:09I'm sorry.
00:04:10You're right.
00:04:11I'm sorry.
00:04:12Yeah.
00:04:13I'm sorry.
00:04:14I'm sorry.
00:04:15I'm sorry.
00:04:16I'm sorry.
00:04:17I'm sorry.
00:04:18I'm sorry.
00:04:19I'm sorry.
00:04:20I'm sorry.
00:04:21I'm sorry.
00:04:22It's the first time.
00:04:23I'm sorry.
00:04:24you are strong keep pushing oh my god flight was a torture yeah but i understood something
00:04:40she came to turkey seven times and she took that flight 14 times i mean she really loves me
00:04:49i would never do that i would never even i die for you i would never do that wow babe thank you
00:04:57you really love me it's the proof i saw the proof yeah so you don't really love me because you
00:05:01wouldn't do it i love you another way okay wait pull over here i have to do something i have to do
00:05:09something come here come here we're in the us you can really kiss me now how does it feel no one is
00:05:23staring at us no one's staring at us it's normal don't be shy oh baby you're in l.a if you do it
00:05:32in turkey for example they would probably stone us well here you can kiss me all the time
00:05:41not in public i think 13 hours of flight babe okay okay oh i love that
00:05:49i'm not a public kisser i'm a public kiss virgin okay and you took my version we found one thing you
00:05:55haven't done finally welcome to america babe i love you thank you for making this journey with me
00:06:05it's gonna be great we're gonna have a great life together here really i love you okay now we can go
00:06:14i don't really feel like 90 days is enough time it's maybe enough time for sarper to decide if he likes
00:06:20living in the us but we're still early on in our relationship and i would prefer to wait longer
00:06:26before walking down the aisle get your muscles ready i mean he still has to meet my friends and my
00:06:34family and my daughter my apartment is smaller than his and i also work out of it it's a live workspace
00:06:41so that's difficult because when i have clients sarper is going to have to leave oh my god
00:06:47there are a lot of cars that i never saw you know yeah he's a self-proclaimed alpha male
00:06:54which i think will make it really hard for him to live in my home under my terms
00:07:01babe this is our card so wow i never saw such a thing before yeah cute
00:07:10even though getting this visa has been difficult this is actually the easy part
00:07:14because the difficult part is now going to be learning how to adapt to my life
00:07:19and i'm gonna have to take the lead on a lot of different things and that might be kind of hard for
00:07:24him yes good job he likes to be in control of situations and when he's not things can start
00:07:34going sideways really quickly hey let's go welcome to america
00:07:46where am i sarah not too much further are you nervous let's go wild
00:08:08why are you laughing because when i'm nervous i'll like pretend like i'm not nervous but i am that's
00:08:17why i anxiously laugh and act awkward
00:08:22i'm nervous to see how my dad and maddie are going to interact and i'm really kind of hoping that this
00:08:50goes well despite the fact that i waited until last minute to tell my dad sorry
00:08:59okay
00:09:03the destination is on your left okay here we go
00:09:20well hello hey he's nervous you should be stop well really
00:09:40her family members are huddled around the fire and there are like murder weapons all around them like
00:09:47axes saws and everything
00:09:51come on i've seen all these in the horror movies and in those movies it never ends well for guys like me
00:09:58so this is dad this is maddie hey maddie how you doing this is brother anthony hey and wangie
00:10:08you want to put the chairs up yeah sure
00:10:24well that's gonna put the smoke right in your face
00:10:25well this way a little you sit there if you want to in the hot seat sure
00:10:32you want to sit here yeah
00:10:36here why don't you scoot down and then when you can put her chair or never mind anything
00:10:39don't come at me you're good you're good i'm scared of smoke
00:10:45is that yours yes okay
00:10:49he's a crazy cat
00:10:52be scared be very scared
00:10:57do you know what it means when a black hat like walks out in front of you
00:11:01it's bad luck we have almost the same thing in our culture black that's funny yeah we even have a
00:11:07saying for that like if a team loses to a specific team all the time we say that's that's our black cat
00:11:15honestly i don't think i need to read into black cat very much i'm not worried about it but i'm scared
00:11:20because you look scared you good yeah i'm fine how are you liking it here so far and like how is it
00:11:34different than iran it's super different like i don't know where to start like the cars people
00:11:43they're pretty much isolated right i ran as far as iran is like uh one of the most isolated countries
00:11:49yeah in terms of everything like yeah yeah i know you know there's a lot going on now tension between
00:11:56the u.s and iran honestly like when you turn on the news like there's always ringing chanting
00:12:06like death to america these kind of things but you didn't do that huh never never
00:12:15i'm sure you have a lot of adjustments i mean there's a lot of rules there i mean
00:12:19they know they have a lot of hard standards for women over there yeah exactly like the way they uh
00:12:26very close and also like if you're a woman and you want to leave the country
00:12:31uh if you're married your husband has like signed something you're like like property
00:12:39that's one of my big concerns the way women were treated the way you were raised
00:12:43right now in my head i'm like here we go
00:12:51good luck proving yourself
00:12:55you would just have to rule over her and she has to ask you every time she starts to leave
00:12:58to me the interview just started with that question
00:13:10what does your family know so far about matt and i my brother he thinking
00:13:15what do you mean you are my friend that is my boyfriend what do you mean really seriously i'm the
00:13:26friend honestly i'm still trying to process what she just said
00:13:30um
00:13:33mina and i and maria are taking the trip to spend some time around family
00:13:39why you talk this conversation with you and me and jack was you a job and why stupid
00:13:46Let's try to enjoy it. Look, there's a beach here, there's water.
00:14:05Out to North Carolina. Look at all your stuff.
00:14:10Look at my little pile over here.
00:14:16Talk to me, I really don't know what to say.
00:14:20I lose my mind, live it every day. You can't make it okay.
00:14:27Mina and I and Maria are taking a trip down to Bald Head Island, North Carolina, to spend some time around family.
00:14:37All right. Welcome to North Carolina.
00:14:41Stay fried.
00:14:42My brother's in North Carolina and all his boys and my parents.
00:14:51Maria, welcome.
00:14:52My daughter, Jordan, and her boyfriend, Gabe, are planning to fly up as well from Florida.
00:14:58And this is a great opportunity for her and Mina to maybe kind of try to find some common ground here and bond a little bit.
00:15:06So I'm hopeful that that happens.
00:15:07Just make sure your brakes are off. We'll take care of the aircraft. I'll get her tied down for you and park.
00:15:12Thanks, Mike.
00:15:20Take Maria with you?
00:15:22Is she still in?
00:15:24I thought you were getting Maria.
00:15:25No.
00:15:26You left the baby?
00:15:28Didn't even notice.
00:15:31Great parents.
00:15:33At least we didn't drive off.
00:15:36What you think of North Carolina? First time in North Carolina.
00:15:38Is she good?
00:15:39Yeah.
00:15:40All right.
00:15:41Heading to the hotel.
00:15:42Yeah.
00:15:43Excited to see everybody. You haven't seen them since Paris.
00:15:46I don't know.
00:15:47You don't know? What do you mean you don't know?
00:15:48I don't know if I'll see a job at...
00:15:55No.
00:15:57Well, Jordan is just like the rest of the family. What do you mean?
00:16:00I don't know.
00:16:02What do you mean you don't know?
00:16:10Well, Jordan is just like the rest of the family.
00:16:17What do you mean?
00:16:24I know I effed up.
00:16:26I shouldn't have said anything to you or to Jordan.
00:16:30Well, I told her about the jacuzzi when we were...
00:16:35What?
00:16:38Why you talk this?
00:16:40The conversation with you and me and jacuzzi with Jordan, why?
00:16:44Stupid.
00:16:47Sorry, Maria. Sorry, Mina.
00:16:55I completely regret really relaying anything either one said.
00:16:59I should have just kept quiet and let them two interact with each other and not know what the other one had said.
00:17:08It was a stupid thing to do.
00:17:09I mean, I just put my foot in my mouth by talking too much.
00:17:14Is this your problem, baby?
00:17:16I told you, my problem with you is for you and me.
00:17:20I don't, I don't, I...
00:17:22I know, it's my fault.
00:17:24My engagement with you, the family's operate, not now, okay?
00:17:29No, but she is my daughter, so I talked to my daughter.
00:17:31Yeah, but she don't...
00:17:32Why you talk with Jordan anytime?
00:17:34She sleep with you and me too?
00:17:36I know.
00:17:38Now I'm very mad because I think I come in, I come in here for a stay, for my peace and talk.
00:17:45And now I'm not comfortable.
00:17:47I know, but let's try to enjoy it.
00:17:49Look, there's beach here, there's water.
00:17:51I'm very furious about Mark.
00:17:56He must understand that there are private conversations that he doesn't need to go and talk to his family.
00:18:04He really believes that he tries to strengthen the links between everyone, but in fact, simply...
00:18:12...he blew up.
00:18:12Look, I know you're mad, but let's try to have fun too, and we'll...
00:18:20I'm gonna shut my mouth.
00:18:23Stop.
00:18:24Yeah, it's better.
00:18:24Oh, all right, damn.
00:18:54I'm hungry, baby.
00:19:01Mm-hmm.
00:19:01I'm hungry.
00:19:03Yeah, let's go.
00:19:04Starving.
00:19:05Always hungry.
00:19:07She means another type of hungry.
00:19:09Mm.
00:19:10Oh, my God.
00:19:17I gotta go pee.
00:19:19Oh, my God.
00:19:30Oh, my God.
00:19:39My money, I'm mad.
00:19:40Then come to Mexico last night.
00:19:43When I stay with them, I feel complete.
00:19:50Last night, Amani is sick.
00:19:55I wanna try touch her, play with her.
00:19:59But she's like, no, no, not today, not tonight, please.
00:20:03No more.
00:20:04Mm-hmm.
00:20:05Uh, after that, I have sex with Matt.
00:20:09Uh, I'm asleep well.
00:20:14More well.
00:20:15Where my honey?
00:20:17Mm-hmm.
00:20:18Coming.
00:20:19Where are you?
00:20:20No.
00:20:21OK, now I lost my spot.
00:20:22Mm-hmm.
00:20:27Same.
00:20:29You gonna drive today?
00:20:30Oh, yeah.
00:20:31I'm going to Ensenada.
00:20:32Bonny adventures, yay.
00:20:35She never stayed in Ensenada.
00:20:37Never.
00:20:38Really?
00:20:38Yeah, I was surprised, too.
00:20:40Never stay with a good guy.
00:20:43Right.
00:20:43Come on.
00:20:44Mm-hmm, yeah.
00:20:46Makes sense.
00:20:46Or a couple.
00:20:47We're about to spend two weeks together.
00:20:52We're going to go to Ensenada.
00:20:54We're going to go to Guadalajara.
00:20:55We're going to meet her family.
00:20:56We're, this is the longest time we've ever spent together.
00:20:59Honey, are you ready?
00:21:00Yeah, I'm ready.
00:21:01Not you babies, the other honey.
00:21:03Anya, are you ready?
00:21:04Two minutes.
00:21:05We're just so excited to get to know her more.
00:21:08Every moment matters when you're in a long-distance relationship.
00:21:15All this for one night, girls.
00:21:17Y'all are going to work me to death.
00:21:25Let me open the door for you.
00:21:27There you go, my lady.
00:21:28Should we go with me?
00:21:31Yeah, I'm going to go sit next to you.
00:21:32Perfect.
00:21:33Thank you, honey.
00:21:34You're amazing.
00:21:39So I booked us this hotel, Ensenada,
00:21:43so we can spend some quality time together,
00:21:46so I can get to know you more.
00:21:49And I'm so excited to go to Guadalajara.
00:21:51So is Matt.
00:21:52Show us around your city.
00:21:54Meet your family, where you grew up.
00:21:56Uh, just see that side of you.
00:21:59I know, but I'm a little scared.
00:22:05Scared?
00:22:06Why?
00:22:08I don't know.
00:22:09What does your family know so far about Matt and I?
00:22:15My brother, he thinking, you are my friend.
00:22:24Matt is my boyfriend.
00:22:26What do you mean?
00:22:29What do you mean?
00:22:30So he doesn't know about a mini?
00:22:33Yes, but he looked for us, but he don't understand.
00:22:38Does he or does he not know?
00:22:39Like, what do you think I am?
00:22:41No, no, no.
00:22:42I don't know what I'm thinking.
00:22:43Um, it's not easy, honey.
00:22:44That's going to be awkward.
00:22:45I'm a third girl coming all the way to Guadalajara.
00:22:48You hear this?
00:22:49Honestly, I'm still trying to process what she just said.
00:22:57It's triggering to be hidden.
00:23:01Majority of my life, I had to hide who I am in my culture,
00:23:05and I promised myself I will never do that again.
00:23:09And to see your loved one hide you,
00:23:13it's just, like, so triggering for me.
00:23:16So what's the plan?
00:23:18To pretend to be a friend?
00:23:20No, of course not.
00:23:20I just know about this right now.
00:23:22Of course not.
00:23:23I swear to God that I present you for my girlfriend.
00:23:27Are they going to be surprised to know that you like women?
00:23:32I think it's understanding if I am only with you
00:23:36or only with Matt, but reason?
00:23:40Interesting.
00:23:42I think it would have been nice if you told us before.
00:23:46You tend to drop information on us, like, in the last minute,
00:23:51which makes it, like, hard to digest that information.
00:23:54My family is Catholic.
00:24:02My father goes every day to the church.
00:24:05And the rules is you need to stay with the one person.
00:24:11I want to talk with my family, but maybe if I present them,
00:24:18my family don't talk anymore with me.
00:24:22My family is my own life.
00:24:28Not all people understand, you know?
00:24:30All parties here involved are making a lot of sacrifices.
00:24:34So I think the least you can do is introduce this to your family
00:24:37for us to know that you're serious about us, you know?
00:24:40I will, I will, of course, I will, but I need time.
00:24:48How much time does she really need, though?
00:24:50The time is here.
00:24:52We're thinking we're going to ask for a blessing.
00:24:54We're thinking we're going to go home and, you know,
00:24:56start planning, like, a divorce and a wedding,
00:24:58and then to hear that we're still there where you're hiding me,
00:25:04I can't help but to think that she maybe is not taking this seriously.
00:25:19When I get out of there, it's like I want to cry.
00:25:22What happened?
00:25:24We are waiting for so long.
00:25:29Everything that we are living, it's hard.
00:25:31It's too much time, too much waiting.
00:25:34It's like, at that time, I was not in my best place either.
00:25:41We're both feeling distant, he even asked me about that guy.
00:25:44I mean, he was your ex-boyfriend, though.
00:25:46What?
00:25:47What?
00:25:48Why was she hiding it from me?
00:25:52This just completely changed the whole story.
00:26:04I was really worried about how you betrayed.
00:26:17Did you go?
00:26:19I approve it!
00:26:21Finally!
00:26:23I am so happy!
00:26:28Yeah, I did that.
00:26:30I was really worried about how you'll be treated,
00:26:34but in the embassy, everything was amazing.
00:26:37One of the ladies asked me how I want to be colored,
00:26:41so she just wrote, like, a layer in the paper
00:26:44so she can say my name.
00:26:46Me, Aaliyah, it's moving to United States.
00:26:49Yeah!
00:27:01Hi, love.
00:27:02Hey.
00:27:03Tell me, tell me, tell me what happened.
00:27:06It's done.
00:27:08I was approved.
00:27:10Thank God.
00:27:12We finally did that.
00:27:14Was it nice?
00:27:15Were they good?
00:27:16Was it easy?
00:27:17What happened?
00:27:18Yeah, everything was amazing,
00:27:20and they treated me very well.
00:27:22They just asked me some questions, and that's it.
00:27:26And after that, he said, welcome to America.
00:27:29When I got out of there, it's like I want to cry,
00:27:34and I want to cry.
00:27:35I have no anyone here.
00:27:39We are waiting for so long.
00:27:41We've waited for so long, and we'll have each other to rely on,
00:27:55and not be separate and trying to figure things out alone.
00:27:59And now we can finally plan our wedding.
00:28:02Yay!
00:28:03Yeah.
00:28:04And also, you need to meet the other parts of your family and everyone.
00:28:10That might not be as fun.
00:28:12My mom will be fun.
00:28:13I don't know about the rest of them.
00:28:15It was a big race that I took today, but everything works well.
00:28:22I was treated with respect, and I got approved.
00:28:26I just can't wait to start my new life in America
00:28:29and have, like, my future with Sean.
00:28:32I'm going to America.
00:28:41I'm going to America.
00:28:42Yeah.
00:28:53What happened on the cruise?
00:28:55Did you sleep with that girl?
00:28:57I did.
00:29:02Did I miss you?
00:29:09Why?
00:29:12I guess I felt lonely.
00:29:16I'm human.
00:29:17How many more times are you going to be human?
00:29:20Now that I'm here, it's just not the same.
00:29:24So as long as you're babysat, you're good.
00:29:27I mess it up.
00:29:28It's fine.
00:29:29I'm an adult.
00:29:30I can just say it.
00:29:32It's taken a year for you to admit this to me, Juan,
00:29:35when I confronted you in Colombia a year ago.
00:29:38My bad.
00:29:40Yeah.
00:29:41My bad.
00:29:43Hard to tell her the truth.
00:29:45Tired of it.
00:29:46And then I guess she took it wrong.
00:29:50She wasn't ready.
00:29:51I don't know.
00:29:52She started crying.
00:29:53I don't know.
00:29:55I mean, she's not my fiancee.
00:29:56I don't know.
00:29:57Asking about everything.
00:29:58What she wants my phone to.
00:30:00Check it out or what.
00:30:04So, I mean, I do want to say, like, I did know this.
00:30:07It's something that we decided to work through.
00:30:11You're my best friend, Jess.
00:30:12I know.
00:30:13Like, I love you more than anything.
00:30:14I know.
00:30:15I love you more than anything.
00:30:16I think.
00:30:17This is why I protect you.
00:30:22Juan has admitted to me that he did cheat on me.
00:30:25You know, this was a year and a half ago.
00:30:28And, you know, he sat there and cried to me and begged me to forgive him.
00:30:33And I can forgive him for failing while we're at a distance.
00:30:37So, I will not forgive him if he fails if we are together.
00:30:43The big thing is, like, this was, like, a year and a half ago.
00:30:47There's no skills.
00:30:48I know.
00:30:49But, I mean, it's not like I forgot either.
00:30:52But I want to back up a little bit, too.
00:30:55Okay?
00:30:56So, like, obviously, you and I have talked about this.
00:30:58Like, at that time, I was not in my best place either.
00:31:01And I told you that.
00:31:02Like, I found myself...
00:31:03You can never cross that line.
00:31:09I feel like the same time that Juan was feeling weak in our relationship,
00:31:13I was as well.
00:31:16I found myself kind of catching feelings for, like, an ex-boyfriend.
00:31:20But they were never anything that I acted on.
00:31:28So, like, I mean, obviously, like, at the same time period,
00:31:30you're both feeling distant.
00:31:31He even asked me about that guy.
00:31:32Like, do you have feelings for this guy?
00:31:34I mean, he was your ex-boyfriend, but...
00:31:37What?
00:31:38What?
00:31:39Yeah.
00:31:40Yeah.
00:31:41I told you when we were talking about this, like, a forever ago,
00:31:44you maybe just were gonna...
00:31:45Jessica told me that she was talking to a guy.
00:31:50And I believed her, and she said nothing ever happened.
00:31:54But what I didn't know is that the guy she was talking to was her ex-boyfriend.
00:32:01And this just completely changed the whole story.
00:32:04That's okay.
00:32:05It's my fault.
00:32:06It'll be okay.
00:32:07It's all out in the open.
00:32:08That'll be fine.
00:32:09Why was she hiding it from me then?
00:32:13Maybe she knew this wasn't right at all.
00:32:24It's not what I would have pictured for you when you and mom got divorced
00:32:28and you were gonna get remarried.
00:32:30I don't think I have to ask permission to have another kid.
00:32:35Meena can be fiery, and she might take this out on Jordan.
00:32:40I feel like this is, like, your new family now.
00:32:43And I'm not.
00:32:46It's my decision.
00:32:47It's my body.
00:32:48I don't understand.
00:33:00What do you think so far of North Carolina?
00:33:09You think this will change my mind?
00:33:12No.
00:33:13I'm trying to change the subject, because I want you to get happy.
00:33:17I don't want you to be mad.
00:33:27Here it is.
00:33:41That's nice, baby.
00:33:42That's a balcony.
00:33:43Yeah.
00:33:44Big chair.
00:33:45Oh, my God.
00:33:46Oh.
00:33:47Let's see what the view looks like.
00:33:53Trees.
00:33:54Like New Hampshire.
00:33:57The ocean is close.
00:33:58Yeah, look.
00:33:59That's...
00:34:00The inlet is right there.
00:34:01The ocean comes in.
00:34:02And Rich and the family are over on that island right there.
00:34:07Mina's mad at me for running my mouth to Jordan.
00:34:11And Mina can be fiery.
00:34:13And, you know, I know she's mad, and she might take this out on Jordan.
00:34:19Right now, I'm just trying to keep things light and calm.
00:34:22Oh, you're going to get sexy and make Jordan even mad?
00:34:34Yeah.
00:34:35Make more mad.
00:34:36She's not going to get mad at that.
00:34:37She will if it takes you three hours like Paris.
00:34:41My biggest concern right now is Mina showing up late.
00:34:46I swear there's not a woman on earth who takes more time than Mina to get ready.
00:34:50Serious, I don't want to be late again for Jordan.
00:34:53It's not my fault.
00:34:56One of the reasons Jordan is skeptical of Mina is because she was three hours late to the baptism for Maria,
00:35:02which the whole family flew all the way to Paris to be a part of.
00:35:06So if Mina leaves her hanging again now, that's going to be a problem for us.
00:35:15You finished? Serious?
00:35:16Yes.
00:35:17I can't believe.
00:35:19All right, Maria, you ready to go see your sister?
00:35:22Mama's ready to go see her stepdaughter.
00:35:27Yes?
00:35:28Yes?
00:35:31No, you don't have choice.
00:35:34All right, Maria.
00:35:36We're going.
00:35:37Mama is finally ready.
00:35:39Yes.
00:35:41Just one minute.
00:35:42Baby, it's always one minute.
00:35:49Serious?
00:35:50Again?
00:35:53Baby, it's 100 degrees outside.
00:35:55You need to make it warm.
00:35:57Oh, Mark.
00:35:59They already been waiting again, again.
00:36:07Ah, it's nice.
00:36:09Yeah, good day, I hope.
00:36:12Of course, she's late.
00:36:14I just want to go to the island with everyone else.
00:36:17Hey.
00:36:18Hey, I missed you.
00:36:20Good to see you.
00:36:21You too.
00:36:22You too.
00:36:23This is Mina.
00:36:24All right, nice to meet you.
00:36:25Nice to meet you.
00:36:26Nice to meet you.
00:36:27Yeah.
00:36:28First time meeting, right?
00:36:29Hi.
00:36:30Hi, Maria.
00:36:31Maria.
00:36:32Maria.
00:36:33She's really cute.
00:36:35She was so little when I saw her last.
00:36:37Five months old.
00:36:38Yeah, like 45 months old.
00:36:39I think back then in October.
00:36:40It's so crazy.
00:36:41I still can't believe that, like, you have a baby.
00:36:43I know.
00:36:44Maria.
00:36:45Definitely wasn't expecting to have another sibling, so.
00:36:46I know.
00:36:47I know.
00:36:48I know.
00:36:49I know.
00:36:50I know.
00:36:51I know.
00:36:52I know.
00:36:53I know.
00:36:54I know.
00:36:55I know.
00:36:56I know.
00:36:57I know.
00:36:58I know.
00:36:59I know.
00:37:00I know.
00:37:01I know.
00:37:02I know.
00:37:03I know.
00:37:04I know.
00:37:05I know.
00:37:06But it's cool.
00:37:09You only live once.
00:37:10You know?
00:37:17You know, I know right now there's some issues and tension.
00:37:20I mean, yeah.
00:37:21This is really awkward.
00:37:23I feel very awkward right now.
00:37:25I agree.
00:37:26This is not me and you's normal, you know?
00:37:28No.
00:37:29Normally we're...
00:37:30But it's not gonna be anymore because the whole dynamic's different now with them here.
00:37:34Yeah, but not between me and you and...
00:37:36But I feel like this is like your new family now.
00:37:39And I'm...
00:37:40Not.
00:37:44To be honest, now she's here in America, so it's a lot more real.
00:37:48Like, you don't expect to see your dad, you know, at this age, having and playing with a baby.
00:37:55For a while I kind of brushed things off because I didn't think it was really gonna happen.
00:38:00But now it is happening, like, it's getting real.
00:38:03And it's...
00:38:05It's strange and it's awkward.
00:38:08I do have another daughter now, so yeah, I'm gonna be busy with her.
00:38:12Yeah, but you don't have to forget about the other kids just because you have another.
00:38:16I do.
00:38:17We're here to see you.
00:38:18I know.
00:38:19I don't think it's my fault.
00:38:22Kind of.
00:38:24Like, my dad wouldn't have a baby if he was with someone who is his own age.
00:38:28It's not what I would have pictured for you when you and mom got divorced and you were gonna get remarried.
00:38:46Well, I didn't write out a plan of how I was gonna proceed after the divorce.
00:38:52And you know, I fly to France a lot, so I was in France a lot.
00:38:55Me and Mina met.
00:38:56And then, once we got engaged, we got serious.
00:39:00I don't think I have to ask permission to have another kid.
00:39:04It's my decision. It's my body. I don't understand.
00:39:26This isn't what I would have envisioned or wanted for our family.
00:39:31So now we've started this countdown of the 90 days.
00:39:42But, I mean, I haven't told the kids.
00:39:45My three children don't know that Aaliyah even exists or that we're engaged.
00:39:50It's not like I'm enjoying hiding things from them.
00:39:54That's just something that I have just not wanted to deal with with them.
00:39:58I'm seriously worried about Sean's children.
00:40:02I don't want huge family drama, but they're really great at doing that.
00:40:06I think it's gonna be fine.
00:40:08You're talking about your kids or somebody else's kids?
00:40:11I will have a vodka gimlet?
00:40:14A gimlet?
00:40:15And I'll have a shot of tequila and wine.
00:40:19Do you want something to drink with it? Do you want water or anything?
00:40:21Water?
00:40:22And room the tequila.
00:40:24Please.
00:40:26I will have a vodka Gimlet, like Gimlet.
00:40:30And I'll have a shot of tequila and lime.
00:40:33Do you want something to drink with it?
00:40:35Do you want water or anything?
00:40:36Water.
00:40:37And room the tequila.
00:40:39Please.
00:40:48Brought you a lime.
00:40:51That's going to be her liquid vitamin for the day.
00:40:54So my mom's pretty much a dynamo.
00:40:58I used to do the salt, but my blood pressure's too high now,
00:41:02so I had to quit salt.
00:41:03No salt for you.
00:41:05All right.
00:41:06As far as knowing a lot of sexy seniors that are 86
00:41:13that have the stamina to go out to WeHo and, you know,
00:41:17make it rain on strippers, I'm not that familiar with very many
00:41:23if any other people.
00:41:26Clunkery.
00:41:27Oh, good grief.
00:41:31So now we've started this countdown within 90 days.
00:41:35Oh, going to be interesting.
00:41:38It's definitely not going to be boring, that's for sure.
00:41:40Oh, definitely not.
00:41:42So you're obviously one of the only people that have actually,
00:41:47God, I don't even know.
00:41:48Are you the only person that has talked to Douglas and Aaliyah in my life?
00:41:55Oh.
00:41:56I feel like you are.
00:41:57Oh, yeah.
00:41:58So have you noticed any kind of difference between the two?
00:42:01Oh, my God, yes.
00:42:03Yeah?
00:42:04Yeah.
00:42:05In what way?
00:42:06Because in the very beginning when I talked to Douglas,
00:42:09it was wanting to have a conversation with me but not really saying a lot.
00:42:16And then when I talked to Aaliyah, oh, my God.
00:42:21My mother is my closest confidant.
00:42:29She knows where all the bodies are buried and everything about me.
00:42:33And she knew about Douglas right from the beginning because I was living with her at that point in time.
00:42:40And it was during the pandemic.
00:42:42But my three children and some of my closest friends don't know that Aaliyah is, that she even exists,
00:42:50that she's coming to the US, that she's trans, or God knows that we're engaged.
00:42:56Are you planning on a, like, a meet and greet kind of thing?
00:43:00Or what are you going to do?
00:43:02Um, well, I mean, I haven't told the kids.
00:43:08It's a recipe for a lot of opinions.
00:43:12The reason I haven't told friends and family is because me and Aaliyah's relationship keeps changing.
00:43:17I mean, I'm involved with somebody from another country.
00:43:20I'm involved with somebody super younger than me.
00:43:23One of the things that's probably most hard for people to understand is that I mostly dated men.
00:43:29And then I met Douglas.
00:43:32And now I am with Aaliyah.
00:43:34So I'm trying to get clear with everything in my life.
00:43:38And until I feel like I'm super clear, then why give anybody else a reason to start poking holes in something that I'm already looking at in a bunch of different directions.
00:43:49I know they know something's going on because they keep going to Brazil, so they're not stupid.
00:43:57It's not like I'm enjoying hiding things from them.
00:44:01That's just something that I have just not wanted to deal with with them.
00:44:05And probably because I know it's not going to be an easy thing.
00:44:10It's like, oh, I'm getting married to a foreigner from Brazil who's 25.
00:44:14Oh, by the way.
00:44:15Did I mention transgender?
00:44:17It's a lot for one sentence.
00:44:21Yeah, that really is.
00:44:24So we'll see.
00:44:25I wasn't putting that into proper perspective, but you're right.
00:44:30You've had a lot longer to go along the storyline.
00:44:35They're going to get shaboom.
00:44:37And then it's going to be.
00:44:39Oh.
00:44:40Oh.
00:44:41Dun, dun, dun, dun.
00:44:45I'm seriously worried about Sean's children.
00:44:49I don't want huge family drama, but they're really great at doing that.
00:44:54I'm hoping that the children will realize that this is Sean's life.
00:44:59That he deserves more than anybody to be happy.
00:45:04And his children should all be happy for him.
00:45:09Leave.
00:45:11I love them dearly.
00:45:12They're my grandchildren, after all, you know.
00:45:15But they, uh, I don't know where they get the stubborn streak from, but they are.
00:45:20They're very opinion-y.
00:45:21Says the most stubborn woman ever.
00:45:24Okay, yeah, it's a crazy mystery.
00:45:27Go on.
00:45:28Your kids are just going to say, oh, Dad, this is wonderful, and we're so happy for you.
00:45:35Well, what do you think they are going to say?
00:45:37The three of them are going to get together, and they are going to be going,
00:45:41Oh.
00:45:42My dad's crazy.
00:45:44That's what I'm afraid of.
00:45:47I love them dearly.
00:45:49But I don't know how the situation's going to work out.
00:45:53I really don't.
00:45:54I can tell them over the phone, or I can bring Aaliyah with me.
00:46:02They can meet the actual person, and then they can talk behind my back to each other.
00:46:07Maybe the other thought should be, how is Aaliyah going to feel?
00:46:13Yeah.
00:46:14There's that.
00:46:16There's that.
00:46:17There's that.
00:46:18There's that.
00:46:19There's that.
00:46:23There's that.
00:46:24There's that.
00:46:25There's that.
00:46:26There's that.
00:46:27There's that.
00:46:28There's that.
00:46:29There's that.
00:46:30There's that.
00:46:31There's that.
00:46:32There's that.
00:46:33There's that.
00:46:34There's that.
00:46:35There's that.
00:46:36There's that.
00:46:37There's that.
00:46:38There's that.
00:46:39There's that.
00:46:40There's that.
00:46:41What's that?
00:46:43I brought the preparations for us to make the food.
00:46:47The food that you like, mom.
00:46:49What?
00:46:50A brigadeiro?
00:46:51Yes, it's there.
00:46:52What's that?
00:46:55When I started my transition,
00:46:57my mom is the main person that supports me.
00:47:00My mom wants me to be my true self,
00:47:03so I can live my life.
00:47:05Look at your face,
00:47:06of red.
00:47:08I think it's an instinct of mom and daughter.
00:47:11But at the same time,
00:47:12I think she feels worried about Sean leaving me
00:47:17or rejecting me because of my transition.
00:47:24It looks delicious, huh?
00:47:26It's good, but it's very good.
00:47:29I'm eating everything.
00:47:31Yes, but they're in the rain.
00:47:32I don't think that this is our last moment together, right?
00:47:46For me, it's a lot of gratitude for your life, right?
00:47:51I feel like I'm feeling a little bit insecure.
00:47:57It's like how you're going to deal with Sean's family.
00:48:00I know that we're talking about the mother,
00:48:01so we're very close to him.
00:48:03But there's the issue of his children.
00:48:05His children didn't hear him talk about me.
00:48:09And he's been in a relationship for a long time,
00:48:11for three years.
00:48:13Yes, but he already told me, right?
00:48:15My God, right?
00:48:16Yes.
00:48:19If he loves her, I think he should have already talked about it.
00:48:22But then I'm wondering if he's hiding her,
00:48:26like, for shame?
00:48:28I don't know, I don't know.
00:48:31Because it's a big change.
00:48:32So I have to be sure that he will always be on my side.
00:48:39That, you know,
00:48:41that he won't have this issue of shame.
00:48:50I'm here praying for you,
00:48:52praying for God for you.
00:48:55That he's keeping you, you know?
00:48:57I'm so excited about my new life in America.
00:49:10But at the same time,
00:49:11it scares me that Sean's still keeping me a secret.
00:49:16My worst fear is maybe Sean is not ready
00:49:21to be committed with me.
00:49:24If there is a part of him
00:49:30that feels ashamed by the person that I became,
00:49:33there is no way that we can be together
00:49:35and get married.
00:49:42So how about this exploiting thing?
00:49:45What time came to your house?
00:49:46It was probably, like, evening.
00:49:48Were the kids around?
00:49:49No.
00:49:51Why would you hide that?
00:49:52Next time I go to Colombia,
00:49:53I'm going to tell my ex-girlfriend
00:49:54to come while I'm alone.
00:49:56I did tell you.
00:49:57I did tell you.
00:50:01Yesterday, when you just leave,
00:50:04he had sex with me.
00:50:08I figured as long as we were all there
00:50:10that it was okay.
00:50:11I'm glad you told me.
00:50:12I have much more respect for you
00:50:14for you telling me that.
00:50:15I'm struggling on how to manage
00:50:18building a relationship
00:50:19without stepping on one of their toes.
00:50:21All right, let's just end this.
00:50:23My parking job sucked.
00:50:44I'm ready to go home.
00:50:46Yeah, me too.
00:51:02So how about this boyfriend thing
00:51:04that I didn't know about?
00:51:06I told you that.
00:51:08We had talked.
00:51:10I remember even where I was,
00:51:11I was in the bathroom,
00:51:13upstairs, at my house.
00:51:15I had him come over,
00:51:18and, I mean, we hung out as friends.
00:51:20I mean, we never, like,
00:51:22there was nothing that was ever acted on.
00:51:25I mean, I think it's pretty unfair
00:51:26that you guys come at me all the time,
00:51:28like, the bad guy chasing me down.
00:51:31What happened?
00:51:31What happened?
00:51:32What have you been doing?
00:51:33You need to prove stuff.
00:51:34And then I got to know this kind of stuff
00:51:36that I had no idea about.
00:51:39I mean, but I didn't cheat on you.
00:51:42You, like, literally,
00:51:43physically cheated on me.
00:51:49You cheated emotionally.
00:51:51Next time I go to Paloma,
00:51:52I'm going to tell my ex-girlfriend
00:51:53to come while I'm alone.
00:51:55Because we're friends.
00:51:56We're going to just talk.
00:51:57And then I'll let you know
00:52:00in a couple years.
00:52:03I mean, I did tell you, Juan.
00:52:04I did tell you.
00:52:05I did tell you.
00:52:09If you're talking to a random person,
00:52:12that's, like, a physical attraction.
00:52:15But if you're talking to an ex-boyfriend,
00:52:18we're talking, like, an emotion attraction.
00:52:21Like, are you feeling the old feelings?
00:52:23Are you feeling new feelings?
00:52:25Like, what's going on here?
00:52:29I have been very faithful to you,
00:52:34our whole relationship.
00:52:35And you were distant at that time.
00:52:38But, I mean, I never acted on anything.
00:52:41Ever.
00:52:43What time you came to your house?
00:52:45I mean, it was probably, like, evening.
00:52:49Were the kids around?
00:52:50No.
00:52:52I mean, the...
00:52:54All right.
00:52:55I mean, but it wasn't, like, anything.
00:52:57I mean, there was a time...
00:52:59There was one other time,
00:53:00and I never...
00:53:00There was one other time...
00:53:01Let me explain.
00:53:02When I'm alone...
00:53:03You know, you know...
00:53:04You used to watch TV.
00:53:07Should I have communicated to you
00:53:09that maybe someone was over?
00:53:10Yeah, but should you have communicated to me
00:53:12that you hooked up with a girl?
00:53:13Definitely.
00:53:14I did.
00:53:15Because you got caught?
00:53:19I feel like Juan's kind of being a hypocrite
00:53:21because I forgave him easily,
00:53:24and I feel like what he did was pretty severe.
00:53:28He's trying to maybe level the playing field
00:53:30and make it seem like it's the same situation,
00:53:33but it's not.
00:53:34You just can't imagine how I'm feeling now,
00:53:40being so far away from home,
00:53:43getting to know stuff
00:53:44after just starting a family and everything.
00:53:51I just want you to know that I love you,
00:53:54and I mean, I...
00:53:55Thanks for loving me, but...
00:53:58I still feel the same.
00:53:59That makes my heart sad.
00:54:05Because you barely just got here.
00:54:07Exactly.
00:54:10I didn't expect that Jessica will lie to me.
00:54:15Clearly, there's a lot of issues we need to work on
00:54:18before we get married.
00:54:22Done with this thing.
00:54:23We're here, guys.
00:54:33Grab your jackets.
00:54:34It is cold.
00:54:36Hi.
00:54:36Hello.
00:54:37We're checking in.
00:54:38Of course.
00:54:38May I have your signature, please?
00:54:40Such a beautiful place.
00:54:41It is, yeah.
00:54:42So I'm going to show you your room.
00:54:51This way, please.
00:54:52Oh.
00:54:55Oh.
00:54:56Oh, wow.
00:54:57I love that.
00:54:59Yes.
00:54:59Beautiful.
00:55:01Good taste, love.
00:55:01Good taste.
00:55:03Over here, we have the jacuzzi.
00:55:05So nice.
00:55:07You find a small courtesy for the fire pit?
00:55:09Oh, yes.
00:55:10Oh, I can't wait for this.
00:55:12Is it going to be three people's thing?
00:55:14Yes.
00:55:14You need an extra bed, extra towels, or something?
00:55:17We're going to need extra towels.
00:55:18Extra bed?
00:55:20No.
00:55:21All right.
00:55:21I love that.
00:55:23Welcome again.
00:55:24Thank you so much.
00:55:24Okay, awesome.
00:55:25Enjoy your estate.
00:55:26Mm-hmm.
00:55:26It hurts me that Anya's hiding me and hiding this relationship, and it's weighing on me heavily.
00:55:35I can't stop thinking about it, but we just got here, and I don't want to come off too strong.
00:55:40I don't want to come off too pushy, so I'm going to table it for now and try to make the
00:55:46most out of this beautiful place that we're in.
00:55:49You want to get the s'mores going, honey?
00:55:50Oh, okay.
00:55:51I'm going to grab a little blankie side.
00:55:53I'll use this, uh, yeah.
00:55:56We don't have the same boob size, but we'll make it work.
00:55:59Oh, it's so nice out here.
00:56:05Oh, so beautiful.
00:56:07I know.
00:56:11Did you think it was weird what she said in the car?
00:56:14Yeah.
00:56:14I mean, there were certain things that made me think.
00:56:18I don't know.
00:56:19That kind of hurt my feelings to be, like, hidden.
00:56:23I'm done being hidden.
00:56:25I've lived my life hiding, hidden, all that, since I was a kid.
00:56:30I deserve better.
00:56:31We deserve better.
00:56:33Yeah.
00:56:33I don't think it's right.
00:56:35It's just makes the situation awkward.
00:56:38I need to be clear with that with her.
00:56:40Maybe I should be more clear.
00:56:41I'm done playing nice.
00:56:43I always try to, like, you know, tiptoe around her feelings and stuff.
00:56:47I wouldn't say don't play not nice, but I think it needs to be brought up.
00:56:52I think we should just sleep on it and, uh, figure out the right moment to do this.
00:56:58Understood.
00:57:01Hey.
00:57:02Ready to get in?
00:57:03Oh, please, I need.
00:57:06Oh, my God, it's hot.
00:57:08Okay, we're going to go change, too.
00:57:10You ready, honey?
00:57:11Oh, it's so delicious.
00:57:13Oh.
00:57:15Oh.
00:57:23Get in, boy.
00:57:25Just a ball.
00:57:25Let's kiss her.
00:57:29Oh, my God.
00:57:30Oh.
00:57:31I didn't know that.
00:57:31I thought it went all over.
00:57:34Oh, my goodness.
00:57:35Can I do a cup?
00:57:36Hey guys, I'm here.
00:57:43Can you get a hand?
00:57:48Your hands aren't busy, I can tell.
00:57:51It's cold.
00:57:55I'm so mad.
00:57:57I'm so mad.
00:58:02Beautiful places, I love this.
00:58:04Beautiful place, beautiful people.
00:58:06Beautiful.
00:58:07Very handsome.
00:58:08Aww.
00:58:09Aww.
00:58:10He's shy.
00:58:12He's shy.
00:58:13Yeah, he gets shy around us.
00:58:15It's cute.
00:58:16Yeah.
00:58:18But yesterday, when you just leave, he had sex with me.
00:58:28I'm glad you tell me.
00:58:29I have much more respect for you, for you telling me that.
00:58:31And you didn't even tell me.
00:58:33Um, yeah.
00:58:38Last night, after our first round, Amini started feeling sick.
00:58:41Ani and I tried to initiate sex with Amini, and she said no, so we did it without her.
00:58:51I didn't think anyone was hiding it from you, you know?
00:58:54I don't think that was...
00:58:55It doesn't matter, she still said something about it.
00:58:57Sure.
00:58:58Amini's pissed.
00:58:59I don't exactly know what to tell her.
00:59:01I figured as long as we were all there, that it was okay.
00:59:04I am Asara.
00:59:05No, I'm just upset that he didn't tell me.
00:59:08I had to hear from you, even if you thought I heard or I knew.
00:59:13For you to come tell me, like, hey, is it okay if I do this?
00:59:16I would have said it's okay.
00:59:18Well, is it cool or is it not cool?
00:59:20I'm so confused.
00:59:21You don't get the point.
00:59:22It's about the communication.
00:59:24I just want to be treated with consideration.
00:59:27That's it.
00:59:28I mean, I'm a lady, too.
00:59:31So, I understand.
00:59:33Yeah, it's all my fault to get it.
00:59:35Okay, never mind.
00:59:36All right, let's just end this.
00:59:39The fact that Ani told it to Amini as if I was the one hiding something just makes me feel like they're ganging up on me.
00:59:49I'm struggling on how to manage building a relationship without stepping on one of their toes.
00:59:56I can't read their minds, and they're both females.
00:59:59They're going to think alike.
01:00:01So, not only do I have to read the mind of one woman, I got to read the mind of two.
01:00:05I'm set up for failure here.
01:00:12This is the living space.
01:00:14So, this is where we can actually hang out and be comfortable.
01:00:17It is cute.
01:00:18Frankly, the house is a little smaller than I expected.
01:00:22I wish she kind of told me before I came here.
01:00:25That's a mistake.
01:00:26That's the red flag.
01:00:27Are you disappointed?
01:00:38Now you can see downtown.
01:00:39Wow, it looks good.
01:00:41This is real America.
01:00:52I will ask you something, by the way.
01:00:55When I meet any friend, we kiss like that from the cheeks, even man to man.
01:01:02But do I kiss them?
01:01:03No, you just shake their hand, babe.
01:01:05Hug them?
01:01:06No, you just shake their hand.
01:01:08That's it.
01:01:09Even very close friends of yours?
01:01:11We don't start kissing people when we first meet them here.
01:01:14Okay.
01:01:15This is the house, yeah.
01:01:16Oh.
01:01:17Before we go to my place, we need to stop and pick up my dogs, Teddy and Adonis, at my friend
01:01:27Janae's.
01:01:28You ready to see the boys?
01:01:29Yeah.
01:01:30Yes.
01:01:31Wow.
01:01:32What a great house.
01:01:33Let's see.
01:01:38Wow.
01:01:39Let's go.
01:01:40I danced in such mansions.
01:01:42Oh, babe.
01:01:43Interesting, you know?
01:01:44I don't want to care about your dancing.
01:01:47Oh, my God.
01:01:48This is something else.
01:01:49I cannot describe it easily.
01:01:51You know?
01:01:52That L.A. vibe.
01:01:53The mansion.
01:01:54Wow.
01:01:55I mean, you feel yourself like a celebrity in this city.
01:02:00Oh, my God.
01:02:02Hi.
01:02:03Hi.
01:02:04Hi.
01:02:05How are you?
01:02:06Good.
01:02:07How are you?
01:02:08It's so good to see you.
01:02:09How was your trip?
01:02:10Oh, my God.
01:02:11It was so long.
01:02:12Hi.
01:02:13Hi.
01:02:14Hi.
01:02:15Hi.
01:02:16Hi.
01:02:17Hi.
01:02:18Hi.
01:02:19Hi.
01:02:20Hi.
01:02:21Hi.
01:02:22Hi.
01:02:23Hi.
01:02:24Hi.
01:02:25Hi.
01:02:26Hi.
01:02:27Hi.
01:02:28Hi.
01:02:29Hi.
01:02:30Hi.
01:02:31Hi.
01:02:32So, we have a great bond with Adonis.
01:02:34Daddy.
01:02:35Hi, baby.
01:02:37Oh, my goodness.
01:02:38But, Teddy, I don't know his character, so I have to be a little cautious.
01:02:44Aw.
01:02:45This is your new papa.
01:02:47Your new daddy.
01:02:49I really just want to thank you to look after that I'm in.
01:02:53Oh, of course.
01:02:54Where's Rabbi?
01:02:55I want to see.
01:02:56We should actually go find him.
01:02:57Let's go find him.
01:02:58Because, like, I'm afraid he might, like, knock down stuff.
01:03:01Rabbi, you opened the gate.
01:03:06Oh, my.
01:03:07He wanted to go pee outside and he did not open the door.
01:03:11Rabbi.
01:03:12Rabbi.
01:03:13Oh.
01:03:14My.
01:03:15God.
01:03:16I mean, first I thought it's a dog, but this, what is this?
01:03:21It's a cow.
01:03:23This can be the cutest thing that I have ever seen.
01:03:28No.
01:03:29Isn't he so...
01:03:30Oh, man.
01:03:31So bad.
01:03:32Janai is obsessed with the animals, and she recently fell in love with the idea of having
01:03:36house cows.
01:03:37It is kind of a trend right now that you're seeing more on social media.
01:03:41So, she got ribeye, and you can't just have one house cow.
01:03:44She has brisket, too.
01:03:46But only one is awake this late at night.
01:03:49This face.
01:03:51Wow.
01:03:52It's a great experience.
01:03:54I never experienced such a thing in my life.
01:03:58Have you ever seen a cow in person or no?
01:04:01I saw the big ones, not only in the farm, but nothing like this.
01:04:06I believe everything is possible in America.
01:04:09Everything can happen in this country.
01:04:12House cow.
01:04:13Wow.
01:04:14Bye, love.
01:04:15Take care of yourself.
01:04:16Take care of you guys.
01:04:17Bye.
01:04:18Bye.
01:04:19Now that we finally have the dogs back, it's time to go home and for supper to see where
01:04:23we're going to live.
01:04:24Where is my boy?
01:04:27We're all together.
01:04:30Last destination.
01:04:32It's night time right now.
01:04:42I'm not sure how it is, but it looks ordered, you know?
01:04:47Not chaotic.
01:04:48Your place.
01:04:49Yeah.
01:04:52Let's get the dogs last.
01:04:54Let me unload everything.
01:04:55Stay here, boys.
01:04:56We're going to come get you.
01:04:58I made a great workout with luggage.
01:05:01Let's just put them all on the porch for now.
01:05:07What do you think?
01:05:08It's silent.
01:05:09I love it.
01:05:10So different.
01:05:11There's a studio there.
01:05:12What's that?
01:05:13That's a dance studio.
01:05:16A totally different type of dancing.
01:05:20Hey, come here, Teddy.
01:05:21Can you shut the door open?
01:05:22Thank you so much for everything.
01:05:23Bye-bye.
01:05:26We're home, you guys.
01:05:28They're excited.
01:05:29Okay, babe.
01:05:30Wow.
01:05:31The moment of truth.
01:05:32Let me turn on a light.
01:05:35Welcome to your new house, babe.
01:05:41There's a lot of facial stuff here, obviously, because I'm also working from home.
01:05:48You know, my apartment is smaller than his, and I also work out of it.
01:05:57I'm a licensed esthetician, and it's a live workspace, so that's difficult because when I have clients, Sarper's going to have to leave.
01:06:04I can't have him there when I'm doing treatments.
01:06:06On the photos, I mean, when I see it, I imagine a little bigger, but...
01:06:12You did?
01:06:13Especially this part.
01:06:14Yeah.
01:06:15It's small.
01:06:16It's really small.
01:06:17So this is the kitchen, but we can't really cook, like, food here because I'm seeing clients and I don't want the place smelling like food.
01:06:25Normally.
01:06:26What?
01:06:27You don't cook anything, for example, for breakfast, eggs or something like that?
01:06:32No, because it makes the place smell funny, so I don't like to cook food here.
01:06:37So...
01:06:38Even for the breakfast?
01:06:39You can buy the same stuff that you're making at home, like, already made, so it's not a big deal, babe.
01:06:44It's not a big deal, babe.
01:06:47Not cooking in a house?
01:06:49What the **** are we living in a hotel room?
01:06:52By the way, hotel room is bigger than her house.
01:06:55Everywhere is full of her equipment.
01:06:59Where will we live?
01:07:02When I do have clients, babe, like, you can't be here because most of my clients are female and I don't want them to feel uncomfortable.
01:07:13That a man is in the room.
01:07:16Will I shout or something?
01:07:18What?
01:07:19No, you'll be able to hear what they're saying.
01:07:21That's the problem.
01:07:24She wants me to go away when her clients in her studio.
01:07:29But can you imagine me?
01:07:30I mean, what will I do?
01:07:32Okay, if you go to a visit, you can deal with it, but if it's your life, it's too much.
01:07:37And she didn't tell me anything about those.
01:07:42And that's unfair.
01:07:50I didn't know about you until just a couple of days ago.
01:07:52I know you would like to come here because of the freedoms and everything.
01:07:56Getting married in 90 days, I mean, pretty bold thing.
01:07:59Do you see what I'm saying?
01:08:01Do you love each other?
01:08:03Do you think you would just have to rule over her and she has to ask you every time she starts to leave her?
01:08:09Oh, no. No way.
01:08:11I was brought up in a family that I respected to all the laws.
01:08:17And I used to respect that.
01:08:19But then I realized it just didn't make sense to me.
01:08:21Women are not properties.
01:08:23Yeah. Yeah.
01:08:24Well, good.
01:08:25Does anybody hungry?
01:08:26Yeah.
01:08:27Yeah.
01:08:28Well, good.
01:08:29Does anybody hungry?
01:08:30He's always hungry.
01:08:31Look at it.
01:08:32He's so tall.
01:08:33He's always hungry.
01:08:34Let's go.
01:08:35Yeah.
01:08:36Yeah.
01:08:37Yeah.
01:08:38Well, good.
01:08:39Is anybody hungry or...?
01:08:40He's always hungry.
01:08:41Look at it.
01:08:42He's so tall.
01:08:43He's always hungry.
01:08:44Let's go.
01:08:45Yeah.
01:08:46Yeah.
01:08:47We'll be right there.
01:08:48How are you?
01:08:49I'm fine.
01:08:50You were, like, fidgeting the whole time with your hands.
01:08:52I was super nervous.
01:08:53You were nervous.
01:08:54But you did good.
01:08:55How do you feel?
01:08:56Yeah.
01:08:57I just hope he likes me.
01:08:58Like...
01:08:59Yes.
01:09:00I'm fine.
01:09:01I'm fine.
01:09:02I'm fine.
01:09:03I'm fine.
01:09:04I'm fine.
01:09:05I'm fine.
01:09:06I'm fine.
01:09:07I'm fine.
01:09:08I'm fine.
01:09:09I'm fine.
01:09:10I'm fine.
01:09:11I'm fine.
01:09:12I'm fine.
01:09:13I'm fine.
01:09:14I'm fine.
01:09:15I'm fine.
01:09:16He does.
01:09:17I think he does.
01:09:18You sure?
01:09:19Yeah.
01:09:20This is, like, American America.
01:09:22Yeah.
01:09:26You coming in?
01:09:27No.
01:09:28He just came in.
01:09:29Is the cat...
01:09:30Can the cat come in?
01:09:31I'd rather he didn't right now.
01:09:32Well, he ran in.
01:09:33He's been being bad.
01:09:37Hungry?
01:09:38Are you hungry?
01:09:39Yeah.
01:09:40Look.
01:09:41Do you know what all this is?
01:09:43He don't know.
01:09:44I'm sure.
01:09:45That's mac and cheese, right?
01:09:46Mac and cheese.
01:09:47Yes.
01:09:48Yeah.
01:09:49This is turkey.
01:09:50And that's pork.
01:09:52Oh, pork.
01:09:54Pork.
01:09:55Yeah.
01:09:56I don't think I'm...
01:09:57I don't know how...
01:09:58Do you have to advertise it?
01:09:59No.
01:10:00Go ahead.
01:10:01It's been, like, a thing that my parents have always told me, like, this is not okay.
01:10:04Yeah.
01:10:05So I'm programmed like this.
01:10:06It's right in your parents.
01:10:07Yeah.
01:10:08That's good.
01:10:09That's okay.
01:10:10Okay.
01:10:11So what are these southern cooking?
01:10:13Yeah, like, southern cooking is, like, fried food.
01:10:16Oh.
01:10:17We have a lot of grease.
01:10:18Oh.
01:10:19But we have a lot of it.
01:10:21Yeah.
01:10:22Your six pack is going to be fading soon.
01:10:25I know that.
01:10:26You teach, like, English, don't you?
01:10:29Yeah.
01:10:30I teach English.
01:10:31You have really good pronunciation and everything.
01:10:33Oh, thanks.
01:10:34I was really worried about, um, having a conversation with dad, because based off what
01:10:39Steve has told me, like, uh, dad would have, like, a really thick accent.
01:10:44You're not gonna be able to just follow.
01:10:46But it wasn't like this.
01:10:47Really?
01:10:48Yeah.
01:10:49I was really worried about that.
01:10:50Thanks for telling him I was talking .
01:10:51No, no.
01:10:52Not talking .
01:10:53It was just, like, different.
01:10:54Yeah.
01:10:55You have never .
01:10:56I just .
01:10:57Why are you talking about me like that?
01:10:59Y'all just buried me in a grave today.
01:11:01Really?
01:11:02I mean.
01:11:05Stevie kept it a secret that she had been seeing you.
01:11:12I didn't know about you until just a couple of days ago.
01:11:15Yeah.
01:11:16It caught me off guard.
01:11:18He thought I had already told you.
01:11:20Yeah.
01:11:21I mean, why are you gonna get married in 90 days?
01:11:23I mean.
01:11:24Pretty bold thing, I mean.
01:11:25Because, I mean, I know y'all have been talking, but as far as actually spending time together,
01:11:29that's...
01:11:32Yeah, that's different.
01:11:33How come you can't wait a little bit longer and get to know each other a little better?
01:11:38So, it's a K-1 and fiancé visa?
01:11:42And we only have 90 days to just wrap everything up.
01:11:45Oh.
01:11:46And if not, then after 90 days you would just have to retire?
01:11:48Oh.
01:11:49Yeah.
01:11:50I mean, I know you would like to come here because of the freedoms and everything.
01:11:55How are we to know that you just, I mean, just didn't want to come to America and get married and...
01:12:00I mean...
01:12:01Yeah.
01:12:02Do you see what I'm saying?
01:12:04Yeah.
01:12:05It totally makes sense to...
01:12:06I mean, what people do that?
01:12:07They do that.
01:12:08Yeah.
01:12:09Yeah, totally makes sense to ask that question and to be concerned about everything.
01:12:13I think the only one that we can just, like, prove that I'm not that kind of a person and I'm not here for that only is Stevie.
01:12:30Do you love each other?
01:12:34I've never been in love with anyone else more than Stevie.
01:12:39I can assure you that we can live together forever and we love and care for each other.
01:12:52Huh?
01:12:54Yeah.
01:12:58Well, do you want to try some marshmallows and chocolate candy now?
01:13:01Yeah, sure.
01:13:02A s'more.
01:13:03Let's go.
01:13:05I'm not sure if I would really say tonight that I would be able to give my blessing, but what I've seen so far, I mean, they seem to be a nice, genuine guy.
01:13:14As I talk to him on through the night, I think Maddie is going to have to do a lot of adjusting.
01:13:19It sounds shockingly different.
01:13:21I worry about what it will be like for him and the pressure that both he and Stevie will feel around those issues.
01:13:30You get the first s'more.
01:13:39Oh, my God.
01:13:40Stop, stop.
01:13:41You don't do that.
01:13:42You blow.
01:13:43Like that.
01:13:44Oh.
01:13:45Okay, hold it.
01:13:47Hold it.
01:13:48There you go.
01:13:49Okay, now I'll just wait for a little bit for it to cool down and then the chocolate will melt and then you bite it.
01:13:53Oh.
01:13:54That's kind of cool.
01:13:55Do me, do me.
01:13:56Do me, do me.
01:13:57I got you.
01:14:00I'm the official s'more smasher.
01:14:05It's amazing.
01:14:06Really?
01:14:07It's really good.
01:14:08He's going to like sweets.
01:14:09He's going to get fat here.
01:14:10We will be friends.
01:14:11I know.
01:14:12He's ate sweets all day.
01:14:13He's going to like it.
01:14:14We will be friends.
01:14:15I can pull it.
01:14:16Can we have anything to drink?
01:14:17What do you want?
01:14:18A little Coke?
01:14:19Wendy, I get it.
01:14:20Thank you so much for all this.
01:14:31Oh, you're welcome.
01:14:32It was really sweet.
01:14:33And I feel like it probably helps Maddie a little bit because he's a little homesick.
01:14:37Yeah.
01:14:38He's a lot homesick.
01:14:39What do you think that will be like going forward?
01:14:43On his first night here, he did say something to me that kind of really shocked me.
01:14:48He said, if I go back and there's a chance that I can never come back or there's a chance
01:14:53that I could be hurt, but that's what I want to do.
01:14:56Like, would you be okay with it?
01:14:58He hasn't even got to my house yet.
01:15:01We're in New Orleans and he's already asking me if he can go back.
01:15:05I'm sure he's dealing with a lot.
01:15:08Talk that out or?
01:15:10We did, well, not enough.
01:15:13And he says it is what he wants as long as nothing changes and I continue to love him
01:15:17and he's okay, but that's a lot to carry for me.
01:15:22It is.
01:15:23A lot of pressure?
01:15:24It is.
01:15:25All I can do is keep showing Maddie the life that we can have together here.
01:15:29But it still worries me how different everything is to Maddie.
01:15:32And at the end of the day, I don't know if he's ever going to get settled in here or what
01:15:37that will mean in terms of us getting married.
01:15:43How long does it last?
01:15:44Like, how long does this last?
01:15:47But it's definitely something I'm going to figure out before I say I do.
01:15:54You think I come here for the green card, for the house, for...
01:16:03Yeah, you're coming into my family and having babies.
01:16:06And, like, how do I know you're not just with my dad for his money?
01:16:09I try to fix it with Jordan, but...
01:16:17I think your snack, you don't come into my wedding.
01:16:20It wasn't like a big plan of having another...
01:16:36Obviously, you, like, planned to have a baby.
01:16:38We fell in love.
01:16:39We fell in love.
01:16:40And then, yeah, she wanted to have a...
01:16:42She wanted to have another baby.
01:16:44So...
01:16:45That's what we...
01:16:46I can just...
01:16:47Excuse me, Mark.
01:16:48I need to talk with Jordan.
01:16:57Okay, me and Gabe will hang out with Maria.
01:16:59You guys...
01:17:00I'm happy you guys talk.
01:17:01Mark.
01:17:24I talked with Mark.
01:17:26He told me, you're mad for the Paris
01:17:28because I take a long time.
01:17:30And you never tell me, I don't like this.
01:17:32I don't like this.
01:17:33Yeah, because we don't...
01:17:34I don't talk to you.
01:17:35We don't really communicate.
01:17:37And when we were in Paris, we didn't communicate either.
01:17:40Like, we didn't really talk to each other
01:17:42or get to know each other or anything when we were there.
01:17:44Yeah.
01:17:45And I think that was part of why I was mad.
01:17:47I would have expected to feel a bit more welcomed and wanted there.
01:17:52And we flew all the way to be there for you guys.
01:17:55It just would have been nice to feel included.
01:17:57Like, you and my dad say,
01:17:59oh, we're a big family now, but it doesn't feel that way.
01:18:02Yeah.
01:18:04I understand, but this is not my fault.
01:18:07It's Mark's fault.
01:18:08Because I...
01:18:09Right, but if you're going to be his wife,
01:18:10you should be wanting him to, like,
01:18:13have a good relationship with me and my brother still.
01:18:15I mean, I'm not just blaming you.
01:18:17I do think it's both of you.
01:18:19But I feel like you could have made more of an effort.
01:18:22Okay.
01:18:24You were, like, four hours late to the party,
01:18:27and that was a whole reason we were even in Paris.
01:18:29You never apologized to any of us for being that late.
01:18:31Because for me, it's normal.
01:18:33For me, it's normal.
01:18:34It's just I need to have an appointment for my hair,
01:18:37for my makeup.
01:18:38You were getting your hair and your makeup done,
01:18:40while everyone else was at the party with your baby
01:18:43and celebrating, and you weren't even there.
01:18:59Good job.
01:19:01They've been talking for a while, man.
01:19:02I don't know if that's good or bad.
01:19:03Well, no one's stormed off yet, so that's true.
01:19:06That's true.
01:19:08Do you want to have more kids?
01:19:10Yes, because I'm young.
01:19:13Not for now.
01:19:14Maybe in two years.
01:19:16Like, maybe I want to have kids in two years.
01:19:18What, they're going to be the same age?
01:19:20It's just that's so weird.
01:19:22I made it pretty clear to him that I'll be very uncomfortable
01:19:25with it if you guys decide to have more babies.
01:19:28You knew when you started dating my dad that he's a lot older.
01:19:39Yeah.
01:19:40So I feel like it's like common sense that if you want a big family
01:19:43and you want to have more babies,
01:19:45that you would pick someone, like, who's younger,
01:19:48who can do that because he's my dad.
01:19:50His kids are in their 20s.
01:19:52Like, he doesn't need to be having more babies right now.
01:19:55I think maybe because of my age,
01:19:59you think I come here for the green card,
01:20:02for the house, for...
01:20:05I mean, yeah, that's obviously my first thought.
01:20:10I try to fix it with Jordan,
01:20:13but it's more big problem because
01:20:16she tries to control my life.
01:20:21I don't understand that.
01:20:22I don't know if the kids in the United States
01:20:24have enough words in the couple
01:20:26or if it's just about me.
01:20:30You're coming into my family and having babies
01:20:32and coming to the US and you're so much younger.
01:20:34Like, how do I know you're not just with my dad
01:20:36for his money?
01:20:41I think you're a snake.
01:20:42You don't...
01:20:43You think I'm a snake?
01:20:44Yes.
01:20:45You don't have a judgment
01:20:47just because you think I'm young
01:20:49and coming just for the money for your dad.
01:20:54I think now you don't come into my wedding.
01:20:58So you don't want me to come to my dad's wedding?
01:21:01Yes.
01:21:04That's all.
01:21:05That's all right.
01:21:06Next, next day.
01:21:17Next time on 90 Day Fiancé.
01:21:19I have a fantasy.
01:21:21Are you Baywatch?
01:21:22Yes.
01:21:23Features of LA.
01:21:24Are you ready for a supper?
01:21:27When I was a kid, I loved to watch Baywatch.
01:21:29It's kind of a thing that I started working on.
01:21:36I rescue you.
01:21:41Realistically, what is the next step here?
01:21:43Are you going to take your standard job,
01:21:44try to move out of your parents' house?
01:21:46I mean, obviously we're going to push towards
01:21:48getting our own place.
01:21:49I don't want to rent.
01:21:50I hope maybe in six months for you,
01:21:53we'll be moving out from mommy's house.
01:21:56I'm hoping, you know,
01:21:57maybe a year and a half, two years.
01:21:59Two years before we get our own place.
01:22:02Had I known, I think I would have to reconsider
01:22:04my decision to come here.
01:22:09I want to be too honest.
01:22:11I miss my parents more.
01:22:13So that is a thought that always comes to my mind.
01:22:17Like going back.
01:22:19This is the first time in our whole entire relationship
01:22:22that I've ever questioned Maddie's motive.
01:22:24So if that was even in your mind before you came here,
01:22:26then I don't know that this was the best decision.
01:22:29If you didn't need to marry me for me being here,
01:22:35do you think you want to marry me?
01:22:40No.
01:22:41I don't have any big need to get married in life.
01:22:43I've done it.
01:22:45If Sean's still like this until the end of the ninth days,
01:22:49I don't know if I want to marry him.
01:22:51If I want to marry him.
01:22:54She had sex with Matt behind my back.
01:22:56I felt like I was disrespected.
01:23:00It's complicated.
01:23:02You should have said something to me.
01:23:04How would I have known how to navigate this?
01:23:06And no worlds have been in place.
01:23:09So what you're asking for is for permission.
01:23:11I think so.
01:23:21She don't accept me.
01:23:22She don't come into my wedding.
01:23:23It's simple.
01:23:25Jordan, seriously.
01:23:26Yeah.
01:23:27You're just going to bail out on the whole day, Jordan?
01:23:30I feel bad for Mina, but I'm also pretty serious.
01:23:33She can't get along with my daughter.
01:23:35Maybe I won't marry her.
01:23:36I'll go back tomorrow to New Hampshire.
01:23:39It's supposed to go like this.
01:23:40.
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