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00:01Today is the very first commitment ceremony.
00:05Previously, this is where the hard work begins.
00:09I can't communicate with you, and you don't listen.
00:12You don't back down.
00:14Tension built as two couples clashed.
00:16It's been proper difficult.
00:18This isn't gonna work.
00:19No emotional connection.
00:21No communication.
00:23I thought we could build from the wedding day.
00:26Just miles apart.
00:28So, for that reason, I won't leave.
00:31And there was zero tolerance for Sarah.
00:34You went around gossiping about your husband.
00:37You were laughing at it.
00:39As her scathing behavior towards Dean was exposed.
00:42This man is talking about how lovely his partner is,
00:46and you are on the other side of the room disrespecting him.
00:51It's not me. It's not who I am.
00:55Tonight...
00:56Hello!
00:58...it's Experts Week.
00:59Do I have permission to remove your rose?
01:01...while some couples lean into physical intimacy...
01:04Ooh!
01:05I hope you know where the key is for that.
01:06...Anita's patience with Paul wears even thinner.
01:09Surely you should know what you want by now.
01:11Are you expecting me to be fully committed after two weeks?
01:13I need to know where this relationship's going.
01:16No, I'm not hanging around.
01:18...and an unwanted interference in one couple's marriage.
01:22Other people don't need to know my shit,
01:24because you'll see a side of me which probably you won't like.
01:27I'm not having it sold it.
01:29I've always tried to come to a new relationship.
01:30I'm not.
01:31Couldn't give a flying f***ing completely.
01:32I'm here for my relationship.
01:33...causes two husbands to collide.
01:35It's one of the people just, uh, basically just f*** off.
01:38It's stupid.
01:39You're not part of this relationship, so see yourself out.
01:52I'm absolutely starving.
01:55There's a hair in me pineapple.
01:58It's yours.
02:02Oh, my God!
02:05It's the morning after the group's first commitment ceremony.
02:10Which David could not attend as he felt unwell.
02:13I'm never doing it alone again.
02:15I felt really guilty about not being there.
02:17Your letter was absolutely gorgeous.
02:19It did make me feel supported.
02:21Hopefully I made you proud.
02:23I am proud of you for doing it by yourself.
02:25Of the boys who look the best.
02:27It's rude.
02:28It's actually just rude at this point.
02:30You look really cute before you look.
02:31Who looked the best out of the boys?
02:32Me.
02:33Me.
02:34I do.
02:35There you go.
02:36Yes, you did.
02:39I felt like I was a bit blindsided yesterday at the commitment ceremony,
02:50when it was revealed that Sarah was kind of talking about me
02:53in not the most positive of waves sometimes.
02:55It was a lot.
02:57I didn't expect everything to come out.
02:59Like, it did come out, you know, it did catch me off guard.
03:01Disrespect is a big thing to me.
03:03It's, like, my biggest red flag.
03:06Hearing that word, there's like, whoa.
03:08Like, I was literally white-knuckling the couch, I think.
03:10I was like, ah!
03:11This is intense.
03:12Like, what's going on?
03:13It wasn't nice to hear, you know?
03:15Yeah, absolutely.
03:16Yeah, and it, like...
03:17And it wasn't okay.
03:18You don't like it as okay, and it's not okay,
03:19because I want my wife, like, championing me.
03:23It was hurtful, and I needed to get that across,
03:25because usually I'd be like, it's okay, it's okay.
03:26But I feel like this time I'd be like, no,
03:28that did hurt my feelings.
03:30I want my wife in the corner saying all the great things about me.
03:32Like, he's funny, he does these caring things for me.
03:34I don't want to be sitting there worrying, like,
03:36oh, did I annoy her?
03:37Is she going to tell everyone I annoyed her?
03:38And, yeah, and it's something I didn't think I had to think about.
03:41It was a bit of a wake-up call,
03:43and I do need to, you know,
03:45obviously consider your feelings at all times
03:47and think before I say anything.
03:49I found our first commitment ceremony pretty hard.
03:54You know, I really, really like Dean.
03:56I would never want to hurt him.
03:58I'm ready to move on, you know,
04:00taking those baby steps and just seeing where it takes us.
04:03I just want to make sure that you're okay.
04:05Yeah, it was hard, but, like, I am okay.
04:07Like, you know, I mean, I'm okay.
04:09Which is one of those things, we won't let it happen again.
04:11You know, like, it's one of those, like,
04:12we can let that happen, but that's it, lying under it.
04:15Yeah, 100%.
04:16So it would be silly to hold on to a grudge
04:18when we've both said sorry and said our piece, like,
04:20got to move on, fresh chapter,
04:22and hopefully be in a better place on the couch next week.
04:25There were some great points that Paul and Charlene touched on.
04:37Did anything stand out for you?
04:39The fact that, obviously, we did argue just to separate
04:42and just have that time away before we start back fresh.
04:45Perfect.
04:46I mean, just make sure that everything is just all clear.
04:49I felt the commitment ceremony in general was quite intense.
04:53I think it gave Devani a bit of a reality check
04:55and a little bit of a shake-up as well.
04:57I felt like he opened up last night
04:59and I just understand a little bit more
05:00how to best support him as well.
05:02It feels like we hit the reset button properly now.
05:07Obviously, they said that I should have a little bit more fun,
05:10let down my hair.
05:11We're actually strong.
05:13The things that we need to work on
05:14is just mainly our communication
05:16and that's what I'm going to go into this week doing.
05:18I'm excited.
05:28I was open and honest at the commitment ceremony.
05:30I wrote leave because that's how I felt.
05:33Paul and I haven't actually had that initial spark.
05:36Obviously, being in the separate apartments,
05:38we're not living in the same space,
05:40but Paul is a kind, sweet man.
05:44I want to show that I am being open
05:46and see if he does start asking questions
05:49and showing a bit of interest.
05:57Stranger!
05:58Hello.
05:59After the first ceremony,
06:00I'm feeling a little bit upset.
06:03Got your peace offering?
06:05Oh, bless.
06:06I thought Anita and I had a lot in common.
06:08I thought we had a great foundation stone to build on.
06:11It's nice to be nice, isn't it?
06:12Mm-hmm.
06:13In my wedding vows, I said I would give it 100%.
06:16It would be nice if she allows me to try and give it 100%.
06:21Why did you think I wrote leave?
06:23Well, you said you came in to find love.
06:25Yeah.
06:26I think there was a word missing.
06:28You came in to find instant love,
06:29because it was only eight days in.
06:34I wrote leave because of the lack of interest in me and my life.
06:41Because I think that is the basics of starting to get to know someone.
06:47Obviously, when we were in this apartment last time was,
06:49can you remember my children's names?
06:50And you said, no.
06:53You want to be asked the questions to volunteer the information
06:55and I volunteer the information.
06:59Are you expecting me just to go,
07:01I'm Anita.
07:02I've got two children.
07:03I've got three grandchildren.
07:04I'm an operations manager.
07:08Do you expect that?
07:09Yeah, because that's what I did.
07:10Because you could have talked about yourself.
07:17We're here to find out about each other.
07:18We're married.
07:19Paul definitely needs to ask more questions.
07:23If I'm not feeling it, I'm not getting what I want,
07:25then I'm off.
07:26I'm done.
07:27I'm done.
07:37How you doing? You all right?
07:38Yeah, good. Are you?
07:39Yeah, good. A bit tired, but I'm all right.
07:40I know, me too.
07:41Yeah? Eventful evening?
07:42Yeah.
07:44After the intensity of yesterday's commitment ceremony,
07:47some of the couples went to let off steam at a local bar.
07:55Steven and Nelly have had a bit of a disagreement.
07:56After the commitment ceremony, Steven did go into himself,
07:59and then naturally, Nelly needed a little bit of reassurance.
08:03Then I feel like a couple of people picked up on it and said to him,
08:05I'll go up to her.
08:06And I feel like, as a typical man, when people are telling you to do so,
08:09and he kind of fights against it a bit more.
08:10Yeah.
08:11And I think he just was, like, going into himself more and more, wasn't he?
08:13Yeah.
08:14He did a bit, yeah.
08:15It was really good at the commitment ceremony, but last night, Steven and I had our first bit of conflict.
08:27I think the last couple of days, I've just felt, like, a little bit on edge.
08:30He's not being the same as he was on the honeymoon.
08:33It's been an absolute spoiler. I couldn't have asked for a better match.
08:37Despite their perfect honeymoon...
08:39Where the hell have you been for 34 years of me life?
08:42I don't know what to say.
08:45Steven's approach to validation...
08:47Reassurance for me can be quite hard to give if I felt like I've given enough.
08:51Mm-hmm.
08:53...fuelled Nelly's insecurities.
08:55We just had a really, really good time.
08:57But then I would think, he's not giving me a kiss this morning.
09:00And then I think, yeah, it's because he doesn't like you.
09:04I probably did need a little bit of validation, and I was being needy.
09:09But he does feel distant.
09:11Then last night, we all went out for some drinks.
09:14Other people started picking up on it a little bit.
09:16Some of them were saying to Steven, like, tell her how good she looks.
09:20And he didn't like that.
09:22I'm really sorry that it's upset him, but these are my friends.
09:26I need to lean on them.
09:27I need that reassurance.
09:31Last night made me feel a little bit uneasy.
09:33Kia walked in with Nelly, asking me to compliment her.
09:37Absolutely no idea why Kia's got involved.
09:41I believe Nelly said something to the group about our relationship.
09:44That needs to stop, because it'll just wind me up even more
09:47if more and more people get involved in stuff they shouldn't.
09:49and don't need to be involved in.
09:53Let's just talk over, I guess, what happened yesterday.
09:56People were coming in, Kia being the main instigator,
09:59telling me that I've got to compliment you,
10:01and how you've worn this top just for me only.
10:03So I'm thinking, what has Nelly been saying?
10:08I was just telling them that you have pulled back a little bit
10:10since honeymoon and stuff.
10:12That was all.
10:13Kia was just trying to have my back more than anything,
10:15and just try and make me feel a little bit good.
10:17It feels like you're going behind my back and talking and shit.
10:19I would never.
10:20No, but this is what I mean.
10:21In the moment, that's what it felt like.
10:26I didn't ask them to have this conversation with you.
10:30Other people don't need to know my shit.
10:32It's just going to blow up the situation worse than what it actually is.
10:37I can't be having people come up to me again,
10:39because you'll see a side of me which probably you won't like.
10:47Let's be honest.
10:48You haven't been the same since the honeymoon.
10:51And that's why I needed a bit more reassurance from you.
10:54I've been standoffish because you've already created scenarios
10:59of when things are going to go wrong.
11:01I'm thinking, oh, shit.
11:03Is she now going to look for things?
11:05But that's what I do.
11:06That's what I said to Paul on the commitment ceremony.
11:08I'm doing this, and I hate that I'm doing it.
11:11Sorry, I don't want to get upset, but I hate that I'm doing it
11:14because I'm going to potentially throw something away
11:16that is just my protection mechanism coming up
11:19so that I don't get blindsided, and this is why I'm single.
11:24But if you're already in that self-sabotage mode
11:26or got shit in your mind,
11:27that's just going to make it ten times worse.
11:29Just be yourself.
11:30It will get back to the honeymoon stage.
11:32But that comes in time.
11:34I hate getting emotional about these things.
11:36It sucks having to tell someone it's because of my past.
11:39I am a little bit worried about if I am going to push him away,
11:42but, well, we can't go on like we were,
11:44so I haven't got a choice.
11:46Like, do you feel like that's everything off, like?
11:48My main issue is with other people,
11:50and I'll have those conversations with other people.
11:53I'm still feeling annoyed with a few things.
11:55I really want to have a conversation with Kia today.
11:57I don't want people meddling in Nellie and I's business.
12:00You're a part of this relationship, so see yourself out.
12:03Last night, drinks were flowing and we were having a fun time,
12:12but Leah was being a little bit flirty with Rebecca.
12:15She has said to me before that she's got a flirty personality,
12:18and it's something that I've dealt with in my past,
12:20so I just don't want to feel like I'm being disrespected.
12:24Last night, I started to feel like you were being overly familiar
12:29with Rebecca, and then because we've had conversations before
12:33and you've said you're quite a flirty person...
12:35No, I didn't say I'm a flirty person.
12:37I said people sometimes...
12:38You've got a flirty personality, you said.
12:39OK.
12:40So you did say that, and then I started to feel like
12:42you were being overly familiar with Rebecca,
12:44and it started to make me feel a little bit like I was like,
12:47hmm, that's a bit muggy.
12:49I think because she's from a similar area to me,
12:52I do gravitate to her,
12:54so I do feel like it's more that than anything,
12:56but I think the bottom line of that is
12:59you realise at this point that you liked me more than you thought,
13:02because you got a little bit jealous over Rebecca,
13:04that's why you thought, I'm going to pounce on you.
13:07OK, let's get into that, shall we?
13:10You got jealous?
13:11Obviously, that's coming from somewhere.
13:13I wouldn't feel that way if I just saw you as a friend.
13:16I feel like we both are getting a little bit closer
13:18to that romantic side.
13:21We had a kiss last night,
13:23which is not something we've been doing.
13:25Yeah, it was nice, to be fair.
13:27We shared a kiss last night.
13:29If I'd just purely viewed Leah as a friend behaving that way,
13:32it probably wouldn't have bothered me.
13:34So the fact that it did,
13:35obviously there are some feelings there
13:37that I maybe wasn't aware of.
13:43I need to speak to Kea after last night.
13:48I didn't like the way he was acting with Nelly.
13:51Paraded around like a bit of me.
13:53Who's at the door now?
13:58Hello. How are you?
14:02I need to tell him that, look, your actions for last night
14:05don't sit right with me,
14:06and now it's affected my marriage.
14:11Last night, I got frustrated with you.
14:14With everything going on with Nelly and I,
14:16with the distance and stuff,
14:17I just wanted people to basically just fuck off.
14:21Kea, you brought her over to me and was like,
14:24comment on her outfit, comment on her breast.
14:27In that way, I don't want anyone to get involved
14:30or just leave me alone.
14:34Sorry, I'm actually still just confused
14:36as to what I've done.
14:38Nelly had said that she was feeling down,
14:41didn't feel very cute about herself,
14:42so I picked her up to make her feel like she was cute.
14:45I then walked her in, gave her a spin and said,
14:47look how amazing your wife looks.
14:49It was more the comment of like,
14:52look at how good her breasts look,
14:54she wore this top for you.
14:55I was literally saying directly to her,
14:56look at those boobs, look at those boobs.
14:58When you hear like, look at your wife,
15:00you automatically assume,
15:01oh, she's directed at me.
15:02I can't be held accountable for your assumption.
15:05I'm not having it sold it.
15:07I was trying to come to a new relationship,
15:08I'm not.
15:09Couldn't give a flying fuck if I'm completely honest
15:10I'm here for my relationship.
15:12I was being supported the same way I would support
15:14absolutely anyone.
15:15That's who I am, I am a cheerleader,
15:16I'm a positive person, it's what I do.
15:18And if you've assumed more than that,
15:20that's on you.
15:21I am a cheerleader, I'm a positive person,
15:35it's what I do.
15:36And if you've assumed more than that,
15:37that's on you.
15:38When people were saying,
15:39no, you've got to say these things,
15:40I was like,
15:41but I've said it to her when I walked in.
15:44It actually had nothing to do with you whatsoever.
15:46I came in and gave you an opportunity to compliment her,
15:48because I had spent the time outside with her saying,
15:50maybe you just needed an opportunity.
15:51I was literally playing devil's advocate,
15:52having your side and having your back.
15:54No one knows the conversation we have back at home.
15:56God, just stay out of my business.
15:57If Nelly comes to me again and says,
15:58I feel shit about myself,
15:59I don't feel very cute,
16:00I'm gonna big her up again and do exactly the same thing.
16:02The same as I would for anyone in this fucking room,
16:04because that's what you do when someone feels low about themselves,
16:19then that's never gonna change, I'm afraid.
16:23I think everyone needs to put effort into a relationship,
16:26Steven included.
16:27If there are aspects of his relationship that he doesn't want discussed,
16:29that's the conversation between him and Julio
16:31and who put it in the same place for the girl.
16:32I got frustrated,
16:33conversation between him and his wife, not me.
16:38Feeling pretty pissed off.
16:40So I just ended up just walking away.
16:42My relationship is my relationship,
16:44and I don't like people getting involved in business
16:46they shouldn't get involved in.
16:48So stupid.
16:49I thought someone was actually at the door,
17:04but it looks like we've got an envelope.
17:05Star. Oh, my God.
17:07Oh, my God, our first golden envelope.
17:09Today marks the start of Experts Week.
17:12I think we've won the lottery, kid.
17:14I can't pick it up with my nails.
17:18We've devised a series of exercises
17:20to help the couples navigate
17:21these early stages of married life.
17:24I feel stressed.
17:26Some couples could find these exercises
17:28challenging or confronting,
17:29but this is a vital part of the process
17:32to allow them to develop deeper levels
17:34of emotional connection.
17:37There is no one-size-fits-all remedy for any relationship.
17:41So each of us have drawn on our own specific areas
17:44of expertise and devised activities.
17:47tailored specifically to you as a couple
17:49to help you navigate the challenges you face.
17:52There were some big words in that one, though.
17:54OK.
17:55Dear Grace and Ashley,
17:57you are requested to attend a fun workshop.
18:01Nice.
18:01I know that intimacy and affection
18:03has been an issue for your marriage,
18:04and this is something I'd like to help you work on.
18:07Lots of love, Charlene.
18:09Charlene, here we come.
18:10Come on, Charlene.
18:12We have left something outside for you.
18:14Oh, no.
18:15Will I go get it?
18:16Yeah, go, go, go, go, go.
18:19Oh.
18:20Oh, God.
18:21Oh!
18:22I'm already impressed.
18:23You're joking.
18:26Oh, it's a little robe.
18:28I mean, that's cool for me.
18:33I might do one leg.
18:34We'll see.
18:35We'll see how it goes.
18:37Dean and I get on great,
18:38but the main thing really missing is the intimacy.
18:42We've obviously not kissed,
18:43you know, being intimate with each other
18:44or anything like that.
18:45So, yeah, I think, you know, it's quite scary
18:49because you don't really know, sort of,
18:50what's going to happen and things,
18:52but I know it's what our marriage needs,
18:54so I'm really willing to work at it.
18:56I'm excited, yeah, to touch.
19:00It's exciting, right?
19:02It's a big moment, I guess, in our relationship.
19:03It's the next stage.
19:05So, yeah, I'm hoping it's the start of the touching
19:07and not the end of the touching.
19:08I'm hoping it's the beginning.
19:09Bring it on.
19:10Let's do it. Let's do it.
19:11Yeah, let's do it.
19:14I can't wait.
19:15Yep, me too.
19:16I wouldn't like to think what's in store for this workshop.
19:18I hope it's not a massage.
19:21We've already done that on the honeymoon.
19:23Are you okay with it?
19:24On their honeymoon,
19:25Grace's struggles with physical touch
19:28were brought to the surface
19:29during what should have been a romantic massage from Ashley.
19:32Hey, is that enough now?
19:35Do it for me.
19:37I will do it for you.
19:38You do so much for me.
19:39I am totally willing to do this for you.
19:45Would you like a hand?
19:46Because you're actually stressing me out.
19:49Me and Leah are trying to build a romantic connection.
19:53At the minute, it's just sort of more of a friendship thing.
19:55So I feel like it's definitely come at a good time
19:57for us to see if we can initiate a bit of a spark.
20:00It's important for our couples to understand
20:02that intimacy isn't just about sex.
20:04There are many different ways
20:05in which a physical connection can develop.
20:07With that in mind,
20:08I've set some of the couples a task to inspire trust
20:10and understanding between them.
20:12Welcome to my workshop.
20:14I'm sure you're very excited to see me.
20:27Let's talk about intimacy,
20:28because one thing that I realise is that as soon as I say the word intimacy,
20:32because one thing that I realise is that as soon as I say the word intimacy,
20:36everyone gets a little bit nervous.
20:39But intimacy should be fun.
20:42The key is to explore and that's what I want you to do today.
20:45I don't want you to do anything that you're not comfortable doing.
20:51So blindfold your partner.
20:53Not too tight.
20:54OK, OK.
20:55Can you see?
20:56No.
20:57Not too tight.
20:58No, even a bit tighter probably. Yeah, perfect.
21:00Next to you, what you'll see is some massage oil.
21:04My heart drops a little bit at the thought of massage.
21:07It's always going to be something like if I'm really, like, uncomfortable.
21:10OK, do you want me to go with a tickler?
21:12No, that's good.
21:17Feel free to make sounds if you want to, if it feels good.
21:20Oh, make some sounds, Leah. Make it better then.
21:23OK.
21:24How's that?
21:25Yeah, that's nice.
21:26Good.
21:27I've waited a long time for this.
21:31Like, it's been worth the wait, though, as well.
21:33It's so nice to kind of share that moment.
21:35And I think this is a step in the right direction
21:37and what we're missing, really.
21:39More oil.
21:40Oh, yeah, go on.
21:41Ooh.
21:42That's nice.
21:43I want to be Dean's biggest jewelry.
21:45I want for things to start going in the right direction.
21:48But, um, it was a little bit funny, isn't it?
21:52Like...
21:53You're really good at it.
21:55Soft hands.
21:57We're giving it a go.
21:58We're giving it a go.
21:59Grace, how does that feel?
22:06I've never been one for massages myself.
22:09I'm trying to focus on the fact that it's a good massage.
22:13Like, Ash is a good masseuse.
22:15OK.
22:16Mm-hmm.
22:17I'm feeling a bit stressed.
22:19It's not me.
22:20It's not my kind of thing.
22:21It's beyond my comfort zone.
22:23My comfort zone was, like, 120 miles back.
22:26You're doing amazing.
22:28But Ash, this is important to him, so...
22:31I'm trying to have an open mind.
22:34So, the partners that are massaging,
22:36I'm sensing that you're really enjoying this.
22:39Is it showing that much?
22:42You can see a massive difference.
22:44From the honeymoon,
22:45even though she's feeling a bit uncomfortable,
22:47she's staying there and she's working at it.
22:49Do you want to swap?
22:50Yeah, we could swap, yes.
22:51Swap? Good.
22:53Especially with Grace,
22:54where feelings are starting to build.
22:56Like, she's really sort of throwing herself into this,
22:58and, yeah, nice to see, to be honest.
23:01Do I have permission to remove your robe?
23:03Yeah.
23:04I'm really proud of her.
23:05I'm, I'm chuffed.
23:08Is that okay?
23:09Yeah. Perfect.
23:10Ooh!
23:11Ooh!
23:12It looks nice.
23:15Nice.
23:16It's good.
23:17It's nice to touch you.
23:20I really enjoyed getting a bit more touchy.
23:24I don't know.
23:25Yeah.
23:26Yeah.
23:27And I think all it can do is just make us stronger.
23:31Initially, I was slightly nervous, but actually,
23:34Dean is doing well at giving the massage.
23:36I'm getting rid of some of that tension.
23:38He's made me feel super comfortable.
23:41So, yeah, he is doing well.
23:45It's nice.
23:46Is it?
23:47Yeah.
23:48I think you guys have had quite a lot of fun.
23:52Grace and Ashley.
23:53The good thing with the two of you is that you have a really good connection.
23:56So, although there is this issue around the skin-on-skin touch,
23:59there's a bond that I see between the two of you.
24:03That's key.
24:04Today was important because I did want an opportunity to show Ash that I am trying as well.
24:08He has made a huge amount of effort,
24:10and he does deserve someone who's going to put as much in as he does.
24:14Well done, guys.
24:15Now, I think you're absolutely ready for stage two.
24:21Let's take it up a notch.
24:23Oh!
24:24Oh!
24:26Where is Charlene going?
24:28No way!
24:29What's going to be inside this room?
24:32What is behind this one?
24:34What is going on?
24:36Charlene?
24:37Charlene?
24:38Where are we going?
24:39There's no words.
24:40Here we go.
24:41Here we go.
24:43Oh, my God.
24:52Wow!
24:54I wasn't expecting that.
24:56Oh, my God!
24:57Holy shit!
25:00Okay.
25:01Ooh, strawberries.
25:03There is a table full of sex toys here.
25:05We've got handcuffs, we've got dildos, we've got butt plugs, we've got God knows what.
25:11Does Charlene just carry these around in her bag every day, or...?
25:15Welcome to my table of treats.
25:19You now have an array of lots of different tools that you can have lots of fun with.
25:23You may look at some of these things and think, well, that's not for me.
25:27Yep.
25:29But you may look at some of these things and think, actually, I wouldn't mind trying that.
25:34I hope you know where the key is for that.
25:40Oh, yeah, go on.
25:42You could go harder.
25:43Oh, really?
25:44Yeah, yeah, yeah.
25:45Ooh, ooh!
25:46Harder?
25:47Ooh!
25:48I'm just going to stay seated here for a while.
25:50I'm just going to stay seated here for a while.
25:51I'm just going to stay seated here for a while.
25:52Shit!
26:01Oi!
26:03That happens to everyone!
26:04I swear I didn't mean to do that, I swear!
26:06It went a bit tits-up, didn't it?
26:10Ha!
26:11Can't even think about it.
26:15Just had cream all over my face and a strawberry shoved into my mouth.
26:19Not feeling very sexy and sensual right now.
26:22Do you want another one?
26:23I'm fine, thank you.
26:25Rub your mouth.
26:27Ooh!
26:28Ashley!
26:30That's what I wanted, but that's not what I got.
26:36The next activity is fill in the blanks.
26:40Partner A will read out the card and partner B will answer the question.
26:45Right now, I'm feeling...
26:48Intrigue.
26:50Ooh!
26:52I love it when you are cuddly and tactile.
27:00Hmm.
27:01That's nice.
27:03It's because she doesn't say a lot of nice things.
27:06No, often, I mean.
27:07Often.
27:10No, often.
27:11I don't agree, but okay.
27:16It's a little bit uncomfortable that Leah's just said this in front of a group of people.
27:22I do feel like I have put a lot of effort in and there's this, like, running theme with you at the moment
27:26where you will sort of act as if I'm not doing anything at all.
27:30No, I'm not.
27:31I'm just saying it's nice to hear it when you say it, because you don't say it often.
27:34That's all.
27:38It's a little bit deflating.
27:40I'm trying to be nice and trying to make the effort, and it doesn't always feel like it's received in the best way.
27:46She likes what I'm saying, but there's always a but.
27:48Yeah, it just gets a bit draining.
27:51I will do that more, but I also would appreciate if, when I do do it, you don't make a backhanded comment,
27:56because that makes me not want to do it again.
27:58Okay.
28:02Intimacy Workshop isn't going the best for me, I'll be honest.
28:05Now, because we absolutely love you all, we would like you to choose anything on the table that you might want to go home with and have a bit of fun with.
28:15I promise I won't look.
28:18Cheers.
28:19Bye.
28:21How are you guys?
28:22What are we grabbing?
28:23Today was amazing for Grace and I.
28:25Behind closed doors, she's cuddly and affectionate, so it was really nice to be around people and for her to still be okay with it.
28:32It's a huge step for us, I feel. Huge.
28:35I did it for you.
28:36Oh, well done, guys.
28:41Let's do that.
28:42You basically burn it, it melts and then you massage.
28:44So, the Intimacy Workshop, I suppose it felt a little bit tense, but Lee picked up the candle.
28:51So I think I'm getting a full body massage.
28:53In for a treat.
28:55If that's not dibs.
28:56Oh, it's okay.
28:57She's a lingerie girl, yeah.
28:59There's been a lot of pressure in not having that intimacy with Sarah that it's been building up and building up and today's helped kind of deflate that and make it fun.
29:06So it's keeping that going now on our own and then hopefully progressing to loving, nice relationship.
29:12This could not have come at a better time for Dean and I.
29:16So many things are there.
29:17The main thing that is lacking is the intimacy side of things.
29:20I still do want to take it slow, but I think it has been just what we've needed.
29:31A values ranking.
29:34That's going to be fun.
29:35Oh dear.
29:36We'll see how it goes.
29:37Struggling to see eye to eye since their honeymoon, Julia, Ruth and Devani's task is to both rank nine different values chosen by the experts in their order of importance.
29:48Devani and I haven't spoken about values before.
29:52I hope that we get a better understanding of each other as a couple and that we can understand as well why we're both here and what we're here for.
30:01No peeking.
30:03I know what my core values are and hopefully they do align with Julia Ruth's.
30:09Here we go.
30:11This is my list.
30:14At number one, I'd say humor.
30:17If someone can make me laugh and that, I feel like that makes them like so outrageously attractive.
30:21You just want to be around that person.
30:24And then sex and looks is important to me.
30:29Okay, so this is my nine.
30:31Hmm.
30:33Devani's put sex and looks at the bottom of his list.
30:42So I've got a lot of questions to ask.
30:46Sex is quite low down.
30:48Mm-hmm.
30:49Yeah.
30:53Do you want to explain that?
30:54Like why you've put it at eight?
30:57I want to know the person before anything else.
31:00And that's why I put it at the bottom.
31:02Not because it's the least.
31:04But it is out of this list.
31:05That is the least.
31:06That's the second least.
31:08So someone's ambition to you is more important than sex?
31:13Yeah.
31:15Um, okay.
31:17Because all of this will connect a person.
31:19And then this is composites everything else.
31:23Money before sex?
31:25Yeah.
31:29For him, it's looks and sex is the last thing on a man's mind.
31:32On a man's mind.
31:34On a man's mind.
31:35Looks and sex is the last thing on a man's mind.
31:39Come on.
31:42Okay.
31:44Your sex was four.
31:45My sex was eight.
31:47Sex and looks is important to me.
31:49Mm-hmm.
31:50It's a struggle for me because that is not important to you at all.
31:53Mm.
31:55It's a little bit, uh, yeah, it's a little bit worrying.
31:57Don't worry.
32:01Apparently, it's not enough.
32:05Doesn't care.
32:06It's one of the less, so.
32:10Do you know what's really interesting?
32:12I almost put looks at one.
32:13So we literally would have had the polar opposites.
32:16But it does shed a light on things.
32:18It's definitely interesting to see.
32:20Yeah.
32:21I don't know where this leaves me in Damati
32:22just in terms of progressing forward.
32:25It's day one of hitting the reset button.
32:26It was meant to be a fresh start.
32:28It was meant to be fun and banter.
32:30But, um...
32:34They're quite opposite.
32:37Opposites attract.
32:48I never want to see that picture in my life.
32:51I look about 50 as well.
32:53No comment.
32:54No comment.
32:56Go on, then, girl. Hit me with it.
32:57Dear Rebecca and Bailey,
32:59you seem content in the present,
33:01so we're going to ask you to delve into your past
33:04by opening your X-Files.
33:06We want you to explore the lessons you've learnt
33:09and how you can bring them to bear on your current relationship.
33:12Lots of love, Mel, Paul and Charlie.
33:14Let's get into it. X-Files, then, yeah?
33:15Yeah, X-Files.
33:16I'm sure it'll be fine as long as my X isn't going to walk in through the door.
33:19Or your X.
33:20You ready?
33:21Yeah.
33:22Have you ever broken someone's heart?
33:24And how do you feel about that now?
33:26Er, yeah.
33:30Yeah.
33:31So, with my long-term ex, we had built a life together, literally built a house together.
33:41You all right? Yeah.
33:42You all right?
33:43Mm-hm.
33:45He proposed.
33:46Mm-hm.
33:47And I thought, God, like, I'm going to have to make a decision to either, like, marry him
33:52or, like, be more true to this, like, weird, niggly feeling that I had.
33:58It broke his heart.
34:00Yeah.
34:01Like, I feel selfish that, like, I decided to, like, take that away from him then.
34:07Yeah.
34:08And, no, it broke his heart. He told me I did, so.
34:11Mm.
34:12Um...
34:14You all right?
34:15Yeah, I didn't want to, like, I didn't, I wouldn't want to make anyone that sad.
34:18Yes.
34:19But I also felt like I had to be true to myself, but also true for him.
34:25It's such a double-edged sword to get emotional, because it is hard.
34:28Don't want to see someone upset.
34:29And, but then also, that vulnerability is somewhat a nice feeling.
34:33It's, like, part and parcel with kind of falling for someone
34:35and starting to like someone more.
34:36So, yeah, I'm relishing it.
34:37Yeah.
34:38Good answer. You all right?
34:39Yeah.
34:40Cool? Yes.
34:41Very hard then, come on.
34:42Mm.
34:43Mm.
34:44I find it hard sometimes to open up to people, but being with Bailey,
34:48it does make me feel like it's safe.
34:51I haven't felt that for a while, and it's a really nice feeling.
34:56Ready?
34:57Okay.
34:58Teddy?
34:59Go.
35:00Yeah.
35:01To help strengthen their emotional connections, Anita and Paul and David and Kia have been given the Ask Me Anything task.
35:11It's what we wanted.
35:12We're letting go.
35:13We're gonna smash it.
35:14Yeah, we will.
35:15I like this.
35:16This is things to do.
35:17It's what we're here for, right?
35:18It's to work on ourselves.
35:19It's to make sure that we get to know each other deeper.
35:23Ready?
35:24Let's do this.
35:25Right now, I have no nerves.
35:26I have my men.
35:27Where do you think you've gone wrong in your previous relationships?
35:32Um, many ways.
35:33Okay.
35:34I lose aspects of myself.
35:35In my marriage, I changed and edited myself and turned into something I wasn't and became very vacuous.
35:54I guess until this point I've never really got into a relationship as myself, so I guess I haven't given anyone a fair opportunity to actually date me or be in a relationship with me because I just have a different edited or amended version that I think they're going to like.
36:20I guess most of the facade versions of me are pretty shitty people, so.
36:24Yeah.
36:25I wouldn't want to have dated me either.
36:27They're in the past.
36:29They are indeed.
36:31You know, I don't judge for anything in the past.
36:36You're good as you are.
36:38I've never met anyone that is more themselves than you are.
36:42It's okay.
36:43The more time I spend with Daveed, the more I'm growing and developing because of how consistent.
36:49and caring he is.
36:51I like this.
36:52This is nice.
36:53This is lovely.
36:54Yeah.
36:55Kia, tell me three things you change about me.
37:00I wish your job didn't involve you having to go away for long periods of time.
37:04Okay.
37:06When you get in your head and overthink things, most of the time, it's a non-problem.
37:11It's a non-issue.
37:12I can work on that.
37:13We can try and do it together.
37:14Yes.
37:15And then the third thing I would change is your perspective on your body image.
37:19Mm-hmm.
37:20Because I think you're absolutely goddamn sexy as hell and wish you could see yourself the way that I see you.
37:28I speak.
37:30Being open with my body makes me a little bit anxious.
37:35But slowly, slowly, I'm getting more confident.
37:39I think it's lovely to see how he sees me.
37:42He makes me feel wanted.
37:43He makes me feel worried about myself.
37:45It's been a while since someone made me feel like that.
37:48It's just nice.
37:49Stop.
37:50Stop.
37:51Stop.
37:52It's kind of the perfect task this week for us, isn't it?
38:03That's what I've been banging on about all week at the end of the day, Anna.
38:06Hi.
38:07Hi.
38:08Depending on his questions, it'll depend where that actually leaves us.
38:13Did you find that hard?
38:15No.
38:16All right.
38:17Because I've not really asked you much.
38:19Right.
38:20As you've pointed out a few times.
38:22I am a little bit sweaty palms.
38:27I think it's important for me to see some improvement.
38:30So, fingers crossed again.
38:33Will you give the marriage enough time so I can love you for you?
38:42How long's a piece of string time?
38:45I'm not in a hurry.
38:48I just...
38:49It's more a case of I need to know where this relationship's going.
38:54What's on your mind?
38:55What you want out of it?
38:57Whether you're fully committed.
38:59Are you expecting me to be fully committed after two weeks?
39:02Well, the clue's in the title, isn't it?
39:04Married at first sight.
39:05Surely, you're wanting to commit, aren't you?
39:11I think you can be committed to the process, to going down that road of building a relationship,
39:17building trust, building respect.
39:19I think you are expecting me to be further ahead now.
39:22You've said it takes you time.
39:24It could be six years before you get a spark.
39:27That's the doubt that's set in my mind now.
39:29Yeah.
39:30How long does it actually take you?
39:32I just haven't got that time.
39:34Love is something you build.
39:38My timeframe may be different from her timeframe, and that's going to be the sticking point.
39:44I need to know what you're thinking.
39:47Surely you should know what you want by now.
39:49I don't know if Paul understands I haven't got time to waste.
39:52I was in my previous relationship for 17 years and didn't get the outcome I wanted.
39:58So I need to know where I stand.
40:00I've just wasted 17 years and I don't want to waste time.
40:03Surely we should want the same outcome.
40:06He's 60, I'm nearly 55.
40:09No, I'm not hanging around.
40:19What are we going to have dinner tonight?
40:26Pasta.
40:27Lots of cheese.
40:28Lots of cheese.
40:29Maeve and Joe's exercise for this week involves a visit from one of the experts.
40:34At the commitment ceremony, Maeve voiced her insecurities within the marriage and herself.
40:41Oh, I knew that could be.
40:44As Joe was absent, I'm visiting him and Maeve at their home to offer further one-on-one expertise.
40:50Yes!
40:53Hiya, you all right?
40:55I'm so happy to see Paul.
40:57Honestly, like, his home's my home.
41:00Do you know what I mean?
41:01No, my home's his home.
41:02Is that what you're saying?
41:03Well, anyway, I'm not.
41:04I'll just take your shoes off and get comfy.
41:07Where I would love to begin is the commitment ceremony.
41:10Yeah.
41:11Joe, I believe you missed a very important moment.
41:15It was profound.
41:17At yesterday's commitment ceremony, Maeve faced the couch alone while Joe was ill.
41:22I think he is really attractive, and I thought, like, he's not going to find me attractive whatsoever.
41:26I think he's too good for me.
41:30I mean, it's quite heartbreaking to hear you say that.
41:32Well, he is.
41:33You need to love on yourself more.
41:35This is more important than your relationship with Joe.
41:40Yeah.
41:42Do you recall a little bit of the conversation that we had?
41:44Oh, God.
41:45Joe compliments me all the time.
41:47Like, I couldn't have anyone nicer to say nice things about us, but I don't believe what he's saying.
41:52At what point in your life did you begin doubting yourself?
41:57Probably when I was with my ex, we used to talk about my appearance, just negative shit all the time.
42:06Okay.
42:07If someone says it in love to you, you start believing it, do you know what I mean?
42:10Yes.
42:11How do we take that narrative and switch it to positive?
42:15Maeve, what I would love for us to do is teach you how to receive a compliment.
42:25Taking compliments sounds like a very easy thing to do, but it's not.
42:29I really struggle to take stuff on board.
42:32All right.
42:33This is going to be great.
42:36So Joe is going to give compliments, and when he gives you that compliment, I want you to look in the mirror.
42:44Repeat the compliment, and you're going to say, I received this, I believe this, and thank you for seeing me this way.
42:55Okay?
42:56So hit us, Joe.
42:58I love how you give everyone your energy, and everyone just loves you as a person.
43:07That was cute.
43:08What, do I look at myself and say that?
43:10Yes.
43:11Just do it.
43:12I'm trying to.
43:13Come on.
43:14I feel like I can't say it.
43:17This is hard, isn't it?
43:18Yeah.
43:19Why is it hard?
43:20Because I can't take it in.
43:22Okay.
43:23I actually can't.
43:24I can hear him.
43:25I'm listening, but it doesn't go, like, it's literally in one ear and out the other.
43:29Exactly, because you've taught yourself to just not believe it.
43:33And I also notice that you have a hard time keeping eye contact with yourself in the mirror.
43:38Why do you think you're having a hard time looking at yourself in the mirror?
43:41I don't really enjoy looking at myself in the mirror.
43:45Why?
43:46I don't know.
43:47I just don't feel confident in myself.
43:49That's why this is important.
43:50Yeah.
43:51So we're going to do that round again.
43:54But you have to look at yourself in the mirror the entire time.
43:59Joe.
44:00I love how you have my back in any situation.
44:06That is so true.
44:07It's so true.
44:08It's actually really true.
44:09Yeah.
44:10I believe that one.
44:11So you believe that's what I mean.
44:12I do.
44:13But do you?
44:14Yeah, because I do have your back.
44:15Just say it in the mirror then.
44:16Joe loves the fact that I have his back in every situation.
44:19I receive this.
44:20I believe this.
44:21I actually do, though.
44:23Like, I know I'm struggling, but I feel like it is starting to make me believe him.
44:29This exercise actually makes me feel a little bit better about myself.
44:34It's melting my heart.
44:35You can always tell if an intervention has worked well because the couple is closer.
44:40You come back together.
44:41Look at it.
44:42Maeve is in your lap right now.
44:44Yeah.
44:45Maeve, you have this story going on in your mind that you were not good enough.
44:50And the more you take in these compliments, what's going to happen to that negative script in your mind?
44:55It's not going to be negative anymore. It's going to be positive.
44:58It's going to be positive.
44:59When you can connect at your true self, that's true love.
45:03Yeah.
45:04And that's what we're trying to get to.
45:08I'm very grateful for Paul.
45:09Yeah, we're going to work on it and actually do the task going forward.
45:12And so hopefully it'll improve.
45:15We are making...
45:16Baby steps.
45:17Yeah, but moving in the right direction, 100%.
45:20Well then, on that note, I'm gone.
45:22Go on.
45:23Thank you for coming.
45:24Yeah.
45:25100%, this is the beginning of a new Maeve.
45:27I actually want to believe what Joe's saying.
45:29Honestly, I think he's amazing.
45:31And I don't want him not in my life.
45:33And now, what is the matter with me?
45:35What?
45:37Oh, God.
45:40This place makes you go crazy.
45:50Go on, guys.
45:51To mark the end of Experts Week, some of the group head out to compare notes.
45:55I am so excited to find out what everyone else has done, what everyone's tasks have been for Expert Week.
46:02It's a special day of Stephens hitting the round, isn't it?
46:04Oh!
46:05First little day out. Cheers, lads.
46:07Cheers.
46:08I've been loving my time with Bec, but also excited to see the lads and have a bit of a debrief.
46:13We did a workshop with Charlene.
46:16She had us like a secret doorway into this, like, sex dungeon.
46:20Wait, wait, where is it?
46:21Where is it?
46:22Could I have a go?
46:24I'm jealous that you got to do the workshop.
46:28It was really good.
46:30Yeah, it was good.
46:31Like, I'm not going to lie, I was a little bit nervous.
46:33I mean, you just don't know what you're kind of expecting.
46:37Do you feel like it's grown you closer to him in, like, a different way?
46:41I think it's still too early to tell.
46:43Dean and I, obviously, we haven't had really any form of intimacy at all.
46:47But obviously, there are different forms of it, there's different levels of it.
46:51We are still taking baby steps.
46:52Yeah, it was good.
46:53I think it was what we needed.
46:54I said to him after the commitment ceremony, he's constantly got you on this pedestal,
46:58and that's something he said he wouldn't do.
47:00I was like, you know, you also need to be there for you too.
47:04I think that commitment ceremony kicked her up the arse a little bit.
47:07You know, maybe it's made her realise a little bit more how good Dean is.
47:11She needs to be open and vulnerable to him, like, she's been matching for a reason.
47:15Oh, good, me!
47:16Where are you and Lee now?
47:19Yeah, we haven't, like, we had to have the best night.
47:22How did you not?
47:23No.
47:24Like, Lee thought I'd come up to you in a bar and was like, hey, Rebecca, I fancy you.
47:31But it's not in that way at all.
47:33I think you'd said, like, Rebecca's more my type, gym girl darker.
47:38And also, like I said, you feel like home to me because you're, my friends are like you,
47:43and it was just something that was latched onto you but there was literally nothing in it.
47:48That made her realise definitely that, OK, maybe I do like her a little bit more,
47:53but she still won't admit that.
47:55I can't understand why Lee would feel negative feelings towards it
48:00because if somebody in the group is pointing it out as being more your wife's type,
48:05then there's going to be some sort of feelings, but there's just nothing to worry about
48:08with me and Leah.
48:12Go on in, Steve.
48:13You're the one that holds your cards close to your chest, what about you?
48:15Obviously for me, look, I never like to show vulnerability
48:19because it makes me look weaker than when I've done that in the past,
48:22then people take the piss.
48:23So I've decided to slow down on the intimacy side of things,
48:26like the less hugging, the kissing, which sounds bad.
48:29But why have you kind of made that decision?
48:31She's three steps ahead of me because she's opened up and I haven't.
48:34It might get in her head a little bit if she sees you going backwards a bit.
48:38I think if you are doing that, you've got to be super clear as why you are doing that.
48:42I don't like needness.
48:43It's good to feel wanted, right?
48:45Of course it is.
48:46Everyone wants to feel wanted, but just let me breathe.
48:48I need my time apart.
48:49I don't think she's super needy.
48:51But then also if you are, you're saying yourself, you're more on the closed side,
48:55that might bring a little bit of that out.
48:58She really likes you and I've talked with her a lot and you know that.
49:02Stephen is overthinking it.
49:04He's definitely overthinking it.
49:05He's being way too logical about this.
49:08Just let go.
49:09It's the only way it's going to work if you say let's go.
49:16So Stephen came to see you, didn't he?
49:19I think he just needed to kind of vent and go through what happened in the evening.
49:23He just kind of needed to say it out loud to us.
49:26And I told him like time and time again that they're not trying to do it to wind you up.
49:30No one's aim is to wind you up.
49:32No.
49:33Their aim is to pick me up because you could see that I wasn't myself.
49:35Much better to do it over one.
49:37Yeah.
49:38No.
49:39And you's two are good now.
49:40That's all squashed.
49:41Yeah, I'm just, obviously it's still hard I think.
49:44He still has pulled back.
49:45But now I'm like, well cool, sweet.
49:47You pull back if that's what you want to do.
49:49I'm going to do me.
49:50If you want me then great.
49:52If he doesn't, his loss.
49:54Yes, it is.
49:55Yeah.
49:57I don't really know where I stand.
49:59I just need a bit of consistency.
50:00It's really hard sometimes if the Stephen I've got now is slightly more reserved than the Stephen I met on the honeymoon.
50:07Usually I would be like, okay cool I'm tapping out, I'm not going to put myself through this.
50:12So if you don't want all of me then see you later mate.
50:16You can get fucked.
50:20Next time.
50:21On a scale of one to ten, how strong are your feelings?
50:24The second dinner party serves up romantic confessions from Sam.
50:299.5.
50:32Do you have any regrets so far?
50:34While others face harsher truths.
50:36Yes.
50:40I feel like I'm constantly calling you out for things.
50:42I'm trying to be nice and then they're backfiring on me.
50:45I'm at a point of my life now, I need to know you want the same thing.
50:48I haven't got time to waste.
50:50But it's gossip in the group.
50:52He fucked a girl like two weeks before he came here.
50:56Oi.
50:57That sparks the biggest conflict of the night.
50:59Who has decided to say I was talking about my sexual activity?
51:02You did.
51:03We were all there.
51:04People are starting to fuck me off.
51:05That, that, that, that, that.
51:09You fucking cunts.
51:10Wow.
51:11Did he just say that?
51:12You.
51:13Yeah.
51:14You might be able to say that?
51:15Yeah.
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