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00:00:01We're so cute!
00:00:03Previously...
00:00:06Our newlyweds took the next step into married life.
00:00:10But for some, domestic harmony...
00:00:12I won't be living in this apartment. I need some time out.
00:00:16...was short-lived.
00:00:20It was the first dinner party of the experiments.
00:00:23Here we are on this mad experiment, seeing things not in our element.
00:00:26Sarah shared her unfiltered opinions on Dean.
00:00:29He asked me if I'd ever slept with anyone.
00:00:31It's like a care bear.
00:00:34Sarah's already entered the zone of being disrespectful.
00:00:37And that's something that needs to end.
00:00:38And for Julia, Ruth and Devani...
00:00:40Spark is definitely there.
00:00:42We're literally like yin-yang-yang.
00:00:44Conflicting accounts of the honeymoon...
00:00:46He said how amazing it was.
00:00:48On what planet?
00:00:49...left their marriage hanging by a thread.
00:00:51The honeymoon was not easy.
00:00:53They've heard a different story. It makes no sense.
00:00:57I just want something genuine.
00:01:03Tonight is the very first commitment ceremony.
00:01:05It's time for the couples to face the experts.
00:01:08Can't communicate with you, and you don't listen.
00:01:10You don't back down.
00:01:11It's been difficult. It's been proper difficult.
00:01:14This isn't gonna work.
00:01:15Tension builds as two couples clash.
00:01:18No emotional connection.
00:01:20No communication.
00:01:21I thought we could build from the wedding date.
00:01:24It's just miles apart.
00:01:27And Sarah's badmouthing...
00:01:29Do you think that you were rude while talking about your partner?
00:01:33...catches up with her.
00:01:34This man is talking about how lovely his partner is.
00:01:38And you are on the other side of the room disrespecting him.
00:01:42It's not me. It's not who I am.
00:01:44That was good. Right, now get the other one in.
00:01:58Other one.
00:01:59Oh!
00:02:00Nah.
00:02:01Right, put them down there, cos they're all gonna be f***ing orange juice.
00:02:09Can I have this piece of toast?
00:02:11That one's a bit buttery.
00:02:12Cholesterol for breakfast.
00:02:21Yesterday, it was a lot, wasn't it?
00:02:23It was a lot, yeah. Fun, no?
00:02:24Yeah, we had a really good time.
00:02:26I felt really confident with you, even before we saw everybody else.
00:02:29But then when we did see everyone else and we saw where they were at,
00:02:32I was like, oh, actually, we are super strong.
00:02:34Yeah, it's a nice feeling, isn't it?
00:02:36I loved walking into the dinner party with Bec.
00:02:38I loved showing her off.
00:02:39And I walked in with a big smile on my face.
00:02:41Bailey and I are really good. We're happy.
00:02:43We have gone from strength to strength every day.
00:02:46We're very tactile. Intimacy's great.
00:02:48The spot for us is flying.
00:02:50So we're going into the commitment ceremony in a really strong position.
00:02:53The vibe this morning is a little bit tense.
00:02:59After last night's dinner party, Giovanni and I spent the night separately.
00:03:03We had a argument.
00:03:05Compared to other couples, I knew that we were struggling.
00:03:09It felt like, again, we were on different pages.
00:03:12He was trying to just paint a picture so no one could see what was going on.
00:03:16He's saying it's f***ing daisies.
00:03:19It wasn't the best feeling to know that my wife was upset.
00:03:23How I articulated our issues was a little bit sugar-coated.
00:03:27I can admit that.
00:03:29But that's what I chose to do, because obviously we're a team.
00:03:40It's really, really.
00:03:41Oh, last night was intense, wasn't it?
00:03:43Mm.
00:03:44Yeah, I'm sorry about the crying.
00:03:46I wasn't planning on doing that.
00:03:50I got upset at the dinner party yesterday from the honesty box.
00:03:53I feel a little bit embarrassed.
00:03:55Nelly, can you see yourself falling for me?
00:03:59It's very hard for me to say.
00:04:02Yeah.
00:04:03Yeah.
00:04:04Why is it so hard for you to talk about falling for somebody?
00:04:08I think I'm so afraid of, um, being so emotionally, like, open and vulnerable to someone.
00:04:15Like, thinking I know who I am and think, you know what, I'm not into her.
00:04:21And then they break my heart.
00:04:22I can't.
00:04:23I can't with it anymore.
00:04:24It's too much.
00:04:28Just a lot for week one.
00:04:29Yeah, of course it is.
00:04:30It's like, when that honesty box come out, we all know what that sort of entails.
00:04:34So, very courageous of you to show that emotion and say what you said.
00:04:38Stephen's doing all the right things, but I still keep getting into my own hair thinking,
00:04:43well, does he like you?
00:04:44Are you sure about that?
00:04:45I don't want to scare him off or give him the ick.
00:04:48And I will convince myself if he doesn't hold my hand for long enough,
00:04:51it's because he's not into me.
00:04:53Even though the poor guy probably just wants his arm back.
00:04:55He's clearly telling me he's being truthful.
00:04:57Why can't I believe it?
00:05:01Looking forward to seeing the experts today.
00:05:03Do you think you're going to get emotional?
00:05:04Me?
00:05:05I don't get emotional.
00:05:08What if they poke you in all the right places?
00:05:11Well, it hasn't happened for a while, so...
00:05:16Grace and I, I feel, are in a really good place.
00:05:18We're quite stable at the moment, so I'm quite happy with where I am.
00:05:22Is there anything you're looking to talk to the experts about?
00:05:25I feel like they might...
00:05:26I think it could be confronting.
00:05:28I'm scared.
00:05:29I wasn't myself on honeymoon.
00:05:31It's all been so overwhelming and so hard.
00:05:36I don't want to do this, sorry.
00:05:37On their wedding day...
00:05:39What's...
00:05:40What's upsetting you?
00:05:43Just...
00:05:44I don't...
00:05:45I can't...
00:05:46Grace struggled to find a connection with Ashley.
00:05:49I was raised like men of the breadwinners.
00:05:52Like old school morals, basically.
00:05:54Yeah.
00:05:56And the honeymoon brought her walls up even higher.
00:05:59Okay, is that enough now?
00:06:00Yikes.
00:06:01Oh, I'm not really feeling it.
00:06:03I feel like everything I'm doing is wrong and I don't know why.
00:06:09In an effort to turn things around, Grace finally opened up to Ashley.
00:06:13I just want to explain the physical touch thing, because I feel like maybe I'm making it seem like it's you.
00:06:18I've been this way since I was a kid.
00:06:20It's a sensation that I don't like.
00:06:22It's like skin.
00:06:23Yeah.
00:06:24But it's especially bad when I'm a bit stressed and with people I don't know.
00:06:28They don't mean to project it onto you.
00:06:31I just hope I don't get upset.
00:06:33If you do feel emotional, what is it that I'm supposed to do?
00:06:35Because my natural reaction would be to give you a hug if you're emotional, but you obviously don't...
00:06:39you're not going to want that.
00:06:40So what is it I do?
00:06:41I might want that.
00:06:42I don't know.
00:06:43Let's just see.
00:06:44Let's just cross that bridge.
00:06:46I am nervous about seeing the experts.
00:06:49Obviously, they're going to shine a light on all the things that, you know, sometimes I avoid talking about.
00:06:54The touching, the PDA, all of that.
00:06:57I'm the problem.
00:06:59That's how I feel, actually.
00:07:00So that's maybe why I'm nervous.
00:07:07I'm so sorry you feel sick.
00:07:10David is feeling really unwell.
00:07:12He's so achy.
00:07:13That poor man has got no energy whatsoever.
00:07:16How are you feeling about seeing the experts tonight by yourself?
00:07:19Overall, I'm terrified about going by myself and I don't want to go.
00:07:24I'm sure you're going to be fine.
00:07:25Yeah, I got us, but don't worry.
00:07:27But drink the honey and lemon ginger tea when it's hot.
00:07:30It does nothing now.
00:07:31It's cold.
00:07:33A little bit worried about walking into my first ceremony without him, but I think we're really strong, so it should be fine.
00:07:40First commitment ceremony today.
00:07:43What do you think they're going to say to us?
00:07:45I don't really know.
00:07:46From here, shit gets deeper, doesn't it?
00:07:49I want the experts to tell us where we're going wrong.
00:07:51We're just not there yet in terms of the romantic connection.
00:07:54It's more than friends, but at the same time, she doesn't want to rip my clothes off.
00:07:59I said, you just need to let your wall down a little bit more.
00:08:01Like, I'm trying.
00:08:02I'm being way more open and vulnerable than I ever would in any situation.
00:08:06The thing is, mine's not by choice.
00:08:08That vulnerability or, like, moving to that next stage with you is just not coming naturally.
00:08:12Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:08:13And it's not, like, something that I'm choosing to do.
00:08:15And it sounds so shallow.
00:08:17I think this whole narrative of, like, oh, you're not my typical type.
00:08:21It's like I'm struggling to fill the romance.
00:08:23It's not just about, like, you don't have an undercut.
00:08:25Do you know what I mean?
00:08:26Me having my walls up isn't by choice.
00:08:27Like, it's not something I'm in control of.
00:08:29Like, I feel like I'm blocked off and I can't unblock.
00:08:33It's just, like, how do I let these walls down?
00:08:36But at the same time, I think I'm more willing to try and get the wall down.
00:08:42There's a big decision to make today.
00:08:44I'm trying to be open and vulnerable, but I've had my walls up for so long,
00:08:48it's going to be really hard to change and let my guard down.
00:08:50I'm trying to, like, give it my all and be completely open.
00:08:54And initially, that attraction wasn't there.
00:08:56So I'm intrigued to see what the expert's advice is
00:08:59or what they think is beneficial for us to do moving forward.
00:09:06Are you still feeling shit?
00:09:08Yeah, I feel terrible, to be honest. I feel like crap.
00:09:11Joe's feeling proper poorly,
00:09:13so I don't know if he's going to be able to attend the commitment ceremony.
00:09:16I'm nervous, you know.
00:09:18Obviously, like, it's a commitment ceremony, and I hate feelings.
00:09:22So I'm guessing we're going to be talking about
00:09:24how we feel about each other.
00:09:27Joe's expressing some feelings towards us at the dinner party.
00:09:31I feel exactly the same way. I'm just not very good at showing it.
00:09:34But I'm obviously going to tell the experts that I really like Joe,
00:09:38because I can't stop smiling when I talk about him.
00:09:44Feeling a little bit disappointed.
00:09:46I came away from the dinner party feeling the same about Paul as I did going in.
00:09:51I agree with Rebecca saying that Paul and I was one of the weakest couples.
00:09:56I'm struggling with the emotional connection.
00:09:59Whatever decision I make today is very important.
00:10:03I entered this experiment to find love.
00:10:07So I'd be good to walk away without it.
00:10:10I'm 100% needy of the experts.
00:10:15I care very much about Anita,
00:10:17but opening up about my emotional feelings has always been a struggle for me.
00:10:21My coping mechanism is to put a barrier up,
00:10:24and I think that's something that Anita's found hard to break down.
00:10:28I'm not too empathetic towards her feelings, maybe.
00:10:33And it's something I need to improve on.
00:10:36Anita has compassion and patience.
00:10:38I'm hoping she stays around long enough
00:10:41and work together to build the marriage going forward.
00:10:44I've no idea where Anita stands.
00:10:46I've no idea if she's going to say stay or leave.
00:10:52What do you think about Sarah and Dean?
00:10:56He hasn't said much, but I know, obviously, she said bits to you.
00:10:59Oh, she did say she got the ick.
00:11:01Did she?
00:11:02Like, proper ick.
00:11:03That's a bit of a sad one, to be fair,
00:11:05because he's such a nice lad.
00:11:07She said there's no physical attraction there for her at all.
00:11:09Yeah.
00:11:10There's nothing sexual for her.
00:11:20Last night, it was harder than I thought it was going to be.
00:11:22Yeah, definitely.
00:11:23It's hard to see everyone as well, like, be lovey-dovey.
00:11:26Mm-hm.
00:11:27Cos I'm the guy, like, oh, comparison's the thief of truth,
00:11:29I'm not going to compare, but, yeah.
00:11:31It's definitely a feeling, a lot of feelings yesterday.
00:11:34You can't help that, naturally.
00:11:36You know, I won't, but, yeah.
00:11:38Um, I'd obviously said that I probably would compare.
00:11:41It obviously would be the attraction thing,
00:11:43which is, for me, the hardest bit.
00:11:45And last night, it was emotional at points,
00:11:47so I think, yeah, today will be the same.
00:11:49Last night's dinner party has given me a little bit of a wake-up call.
00:11:53Mine and Dean's relationship is not where I would have imagined it to be.
00:11:57It is quite hard to see other couples being quite all over each other,
00:12:00and Dean and I aren't like that.
00:12:02And I think that's making me feel very emotional.
00:12:06I'm nervous about it as well,
00:12:07cos it's kind of putting everything out there, isn't it?
00:12:09Mm-hm.
00:12:10And it is so intense.
00:12:11I think it's only going to get intenser.
00:12:12If we're honest, it can kind of only help.
00:12:15I like Sarah.
00:12:17I'm optimistic she'll say stay.
00:12:19There is reasons that we are matched.
00:12:21We're both here to kind of try and make it work.
00:12:23So, yeah, I'm confident that she'll stay.
00:12:27We're all wanting to get somewhere within this experiment.
00:12:29Yeah.
00:12:30We're both where we are.
00:12:31We're like, yeah, we need help.
00:12:32And that's what they're there for, so hopefully...
00:12:35I don't know what the experts could do to help get that spark.
00:12:39Looking at the other couples and feeling that, like, you know,
00:12:43sexual energy and sexual spark,
00:12:45I mean, that was like flying through the room at one point.
00:12:50I genuinely just don't know if we're going to get to it.
00:13:09Today is the very first commitment ceremony.
00:13:29And we are so excited to start your journeys with you.
00:13:33This is where the hard work begins.
00:13:36It's imperative that all of you commit to being honest and open.
00:13:43Honesty is the key to the success of your marriages.
00:13:49You're all here to make a very important decision,
00:13:52whether to stay or leave the experiment.
00:13:56A couple can only leave the experiment if both write leave.
00:14:01If just one person wants to stay,
00:14:03then the couple must stay in the experiment
00:14:06and continue to work on their marriage.
00:14:10Now, David and Jo cannot be here today due to illness.
00:14:14But for the rest of you, let's all get down to business.
00:14:17Our first couple up to the couch tonight is Grace and Ashley.
00:14:34Come and join us, you two.
00:14:36Hello.
00:14:37Hello.
00:14:38Hello.
00:14:39Hello.
00:14:40Why don't you take us back to the wedding day, Grace?
00:14:43How did you feel leading up to the ceremony?
00:14:47I don't really know what I was expecting.
00:14:49I certainly didn't expect it to hit me like the ton of bricks that it did.
00:14:53I think I just panicked.
00:14:55I was, like, frustrated with myself and, like, berating myself,
00:14:59and I took myself on a downward spiral.
00:15:02Later, there was talk of Ash's traditional values
00:15:06and being an old-school gentleman,
00:15:08and I didn't really know what that meant.
00:15:09I love being an independent woman,
00:15:10and I just thought it's dead in the water before it even starts.
00:15:15How did that feel for you, Ashley?
00:15:16It was like a deer at headlights
00:15:18when sort of Grace was feeling the way she was,
00:15:20so that kind of made me spiral a little bit
00:15:22because I said from the very beginning
00:15:24I wanted to be unapologetically me.
00:15:26That's really hard to do
00:15:27when you're the reason she's feeling like she is.
00:15:32It's about terminology, isn't it?
00:15:34Yeah.
00:15:35Grace, he's old-school gent, and she thinks,
00:15:37I'm not a trad wife.
00:15:39Yeah.
00:15:40I had no idea it would even be taken that way,
00:15:42so it completely kind of wiped me off my feet
00:15:44because I just wasn't expecting it.
00:15:47It sounds like that was quite difficult for you.
00:15:51And then you went on honeymoon?
00:15:53On the honeymoon?
00:15:54OK, so for the first couple of days, I'm feeling upset.
00:15:57Everything made me on the brink of tears.
00:16:00I'm not the most touchy-feely person.
00:16:03And in this moment, when I was feeling so overwhelmed
00:16:06and so stressed and so anxious, so vulnerable,
00:16:08that not wanting to be touchy-feely,
00:16:12it became a huge deal.
00:16:15And Ash, in wanting to make me feel better,
00:16:17is like,
00:16:19you OK?
00:16:20You all right?
00:16:21And I was like...
00:16:22It was making me, like,
00:16:23go more and more and more inside myself.
00:16:25I was struggling.
00:16:28Ash, how was that experience for you?
00:16:31If someone's feeling down, I try and make it better.
00:16:34Because the way I flirt,
00:16:36if someone likes you, they're touching you more.
00:16:38So I always thought touch was good,
00:16:40and, like, they let them know that you like them.
00:16:42But that wasn't what she wanted or needed,
00:16:45and I was kind of making it worse.
00:16:48Grace, are you able to direct your own insight
00:16:51back to yourself here on this one
00:16:53and see where that lack of comfort
00:16:55with all the touching comes from?
00:16:57I don't know anyone else like me.
00:16:59Mm.
00:17:00I don't know anyone else
00:17:01that doesn't really like the feeling of, like, skin on skin.
00:17:03But I do function as an adult.
00:17:05Like, I'm a midwife.
00:17:06I rub people's backs.
00:17:07I hold people's hands.
00:17:10But this experiment...
00:17:12OK.
00:17:17You're doing great.
00:17:18You're doing really good.
00:17:19It is confronting.
00:17:20Because for me, it's normal.
00:17:21I've always been this way.
00:17:22But then, like, looking at everyone else,
00:17:24finding it so easy, so natural,
00:17:26you do start to feel like a bit of a freak.
00:17:28You're like...
00:17:29And it's made me question,
00:17:30what was I thinking?
00:17:32Why did I think I could come into this?
00:17:36What was...
00:17:37Why did I...
00:17:38Like, it makes me think, like,
00:17:39what a bizarre thing to do.
00:17:40Or maybe it's a brave thing to do.
00:17:42Yeah.
00:17:43Yeah, OK, thanks, Paul.
00:17:44And also, yeah.
00:17:46You know, we all have different levels of comfort with touch.
00:17:49And I think what's important here is the two of you
00:17:51can start talking about what those boundaries are.
00:17:53On this point, when you both sat here on the couch,
00:17:56you, Grace, you were feeling emotional.
00:17:59Yeah.
00:18:00So Ashley literally, you were feeling emotional.
00:18:03And I think what's important here is the two of you
00:18:05can start talking about what those boundaries are.
00:18:07On this point, when you both sat here on the couch,
00:18:09Ashley literally, I just saw him put his hand out like this,
00:18:12and he went to touch you, and he was like,
00:18:14uh-oh, I better not do this.
00:18:16I better not do this here.
00:18:17And then he goes...
00:18:18It was one of those, oh, yeah, I'm cool.
00:18:21And I felt for you in that moment.
00:18:23Yeah.
00:18:24But I think it's also important for you, Ashley,
00:18:26to be able to say, you know,
00:18:28I'm here for you in this moment.
00:18:29Mm-hmm.
00:18:30Right?
00:18:31That's right. To do it verbally.
00:18:32To do it verbally.
00:18:33Yeah.
00:18:34I'm very verbal as a person anyway.
00:18:36If I feel a certain way or I'm upset with something,
00:18:38I just come straight out and say it.
00:18:40So hopefully we can sort of just keep going like that.
00:18:44So where would you say you guys ended up at the end of the honeymoon
00:18:48compared with where you started?
00:18:50Full 180.
00:18:51Tell us about that.
00:18:53We just agreed that we couldn't just be strangers,
00:18:56and then husband and wife had to be friends at first.
00:18:59Then it was fun.
00:19:01I was cracking up.
00:19:02I was laughing so much.
00:19:03I made a conscious effort when I did feel in a good place
00:19:06to try and be more affectionate.
00:19:09And then I can see that she's making a big effort
00:19:11and I really appreciate it.
00:19:13And hopefully she sees the same with the way I'm saying things
00:19:16and sort of that.
00:19:17Yeah.
00:19:18It's quite remarkable, I think, how much progress the two of you have made.
00:19:23Ashley, you're showing such patience with this woman you've just met
00:19:27who's showing behaviours that you don't quite understand.
00:19:29And for you, Grace, you are showing incredible bravery.
00:19:32Yeah.
00:19:33Because you're doing things so differently from how you've done them before.
00:19:36So I think it's brilliant that the two of you have come so far already.
00:19:41I think we're going to go to a decision.
00:19:44Let's start with you first, Ashley.
00:19:47So I honestly feel like we've come so, so far.
00:19:51And I can't wait to see how far we can take this.
00:19:54And I'm really excited to do the rest of this experiment and see where we go.
00:19:58So I voted to stay.
00:20:00Brilliant.
00:20:05And to you, Grace.
00:20:07I feel really lucky that I got partnered with someone
00:20:10so patient, so tolerant, so willing to learn, so open-minded.
00:20:15I'm happy to be here.
00:20:17And I'm glad that it's with you.
00:20:19So, yeah, I'm going to stay.
00:20:22Aww.
00:20:27Thank you so much.
00:20:28This is a really positive journey that you've taken so far.
00:20:31Keep doing what you're doing, guys.
00:20:33You're off to a good start.
00:20:35Thank you so much.
00:20:36Thanks, guys.
00:20:37Take a seat.
00:20:40All right, next up to the couch.
00:20:54If we can have Julia Ruth and Devani.
00:20:56Come on up.
00:20:57Woo!
00:20:58Thank you, Julia.
00:21:03Welcome.
00:21:04Welcome.
00:21:05How are we doing?
00:21:06Good.
00:21:07It is so good for you both to be here because I have so many questions.
00:21:13Can we start with the wedding?
00:21:15Oh, my God.
00:21:16Magical.
00:21:17It was wild.
00:21:18Best wedding ever.
00:21:19Best wedding ever.
00:21:20I'm not going to lie.
00:21:21The vibes were up there.
00:21:22So much fun.
00:21:23It was just like, damn, this person actually exists.
00:21:27I was stupid excited.
00:21:28I'm so excited.
00:21:29Just the true beauty that I saw in her at the beginning threw me off.
00:21:33That's big.
00:21:34Yeah.
00:21:35And then I'm laughing.
00:21:36I'm snorting.
00:21:37I'm giggling.
00:21:38It was a lot of emotions.
00:21:39It was really great.
00:21:40The energy was so good.
00:21:41We were vibing.
00:21:42All right.
00:21:43Next day, we go on honeymoon.
00:21:44Yes.
00:21:45Honeymoon was?
00:21:46Started off great.
00:21:48Yes.
00:21:49Started off good.
00:21:50Yeah.
00:21:53I think that we arrived in Morocco and that was when it hit me.
00:21:58Okay, I'm married.
00:21:59So I did, like, kind of feel overwhelmed.
00:22:03And I'm trying to find some joyous moments for us to build some sort of, like, emotional connection.
00:22:09Can you explain that?
00:22:11The physical didn't come naturally.
00:22:13So I'm like, let's build the, we're having so much fun and we're laughing that maybe that comes that way.
00:22:19But everything is really heavy and deep.
00:22:22It's always intense.
00:22:24Can you give an example?
00:22:27Yeah.
00:22:28For us.
00:22:29So we were on the camels and I asked you, what is your, like, biggest fear?
00:22:34And then you spiraled into the deepest conversation I've ever had in my life, which was shocking.
00:22:41You went on and you were like, it's always just been me.
00:22:44Always end up in these situations.
00:22:45No one's ever going to love me.
00:22:46It's always going to be me by myself.
00:22:47It's all this dark stuff.
00:22:48And I'm sitting there and I'm like, bro, like.
00:22:51Can I ask you a question though?
00:22:52Yeah.
00:22:53You've just asked about his deepest fear.
00:22:57Mm-hmm.
00:22:58Fears are dark.
00:22:59I know that fear is a big word, but I'm feeling overwhelmed by the amount of information that is being dumped onto me continuously.
00:23:07It feels like trauma dumping.
00:23:10We talk about deep stuff so much.
00:23:13There's inappropriate times where I just feel like I want to have fun with you.
00:23:18Devani, in that moment, how did you interpret what was happening?
00:23:22Answering that question was very personal to me, for sure.
00:23:26But it was just me opening up at that moment.
00:23:29And I just expressed myself the way I needed to express myself.
00:23:33Devani, do you feel clear when the right time is to talk in a deep way and when to kind of have a bit of fun?
00:23:42Do you feel clear in terms of what Julia Roof wants from you?
00:23:45Sometimes when I communicate, it can go on and on and on and on.
00:23:50It's just finding that balance of just choosing a part of information.
00:23:53I mean, maybe I can pick it up and then feed it another time.
00:23:56Right.
00:23:57Right.
00:23:58All right.
00:23:59Vital information missed.
00:24:01I obviously had the argument after the camels and it erupted.
00:24:05Devani's heightened and jittery and upset.
00:24:08And I don't like how you handled that situation.
00:24:11You don't back down.
00:24:13You get more intense.
00:24:15And you're going at me.
00:24:17And you did that last night after the dinner party too.
00:24:20And I'm like, whoa, like, okay, this isn't gonna work.
00:24:24I needed to get things off my chest.
00:24:26But you agree though, it was explosive.
00:24:28It was a bit explosive, yeah.
00:24:29Okay.
00:24:30So that is a major detail.
00:24:32So we have two issues of poor communication that happens on the honeymoon.
00:24:39And Julia Roof, what you're telling me is that there's many of these.
00:24:42So, honeymoon, not so good.
00:24:46You come back, you move into the apartment.
00:24:49How did you feel about your marriage when you walked into the dinner party?
00:24:53We sat down and had a conversation.
00:24:56We said we're gonna be on the same page at the dinner party.
00:24:59So, like, if we're getting asked the questions by people, how's your, like, time been?
00:25:04The wedding was great.
00:25:05It's been good.
00:25:06And it's been really bad.
00:25:07For sure.
00:25:08But I sit down and talk to people.
00:25:10And then when I tell them how the relationship's going, they were like, oh, like, that's not what I've heard.
00:25:15And I'm like, what do you mean that's not what you've heard?
00:25:17It's been, you've been really good, like, smooth sailing.
00:25:21That's why I was very confused because I go around looking like a dickhead saying that our relationship's been turbulent.
00:25:27And he's saying it's been a hiccup flying.
00:25:30Okay.
00:25:31That's not even remotely close to what's been going on in a relationship.
00:25:36I know that, obviously, we went through our shit.
00:25:39But I was going into the dinner party hopeful.
00:25:43You know, I'm curious.
00:25:44You mentioned there was an argument last night.
00:25:47What happened after the dinner party?
00:25:49Coming back to the apartment, I did confront her and I was just getting things off my chest.
00:25:53You always say you're getting things off your chest and it's not fun because you attack me.
00:25:57I want us to have the space so we don't yell at each other.
00:26:01And that's why I say go and breathe and come back to me when you can talk to me like a person.
00:26:06You don't talk to me like a person.
00:26:08You go at me.
00:26:10You don't listen to me.
00:26:11I'm like, should I go to another room?
00:26:13And you're going at me.
00:26:15Okay, well, then I'm going to go to another room.
00:26:17And you get more intense and more intense and more intense.
00:26:21You get so heightened and I can't communicate with you.
00:26:25I don't like that.
00:26:26You get more intense and more intense and more intense.
00:26:43You get so heightened and I can't communicate with you.
00:26:47I don't like that.
00:26:49You know what's so interesting about you two?
00:26:58You're the most hot and cold couple in this experiment.
00:27:02Wedding?
00:27:03Oh my gosh.
00:27:0410, 10 wedding.
00:27:05I can't believe it.
00:27:06By the next day, it's like, I don't even know if I want to be with this person, right?
00:27:10So what do you want from this relationship?
00:27:15So what I want is a companion, someone that's very supportive, someone that understands me in the whole entirety.
00:27:22Obviously having fun.
00:27:23That's what I'm looking for.
00:27:25Okay.
00:27:26And you still want that in Julia Ruth?
00:27:28Yes.
00:27:29Okay.
00:27:30Julia Ruth.
00:27:31What do you want?
00:27:32I want someone who's going to go 50-50 or 60-40 at different times with me in terms of energy.
00:27:39I don't mind being there for you.
00:27:41I don't mind you unloading to me.
00:27:43If anyone, I feel like I've got you.
00:27:46Let's also enjoy each other.
00:27:48I want to have that feeling of like, we're laughing so hard that the physical intimacy kicks off.
00:27:53We don't have that.
00:27:54And that's what I said, like, coming back to the apartments.
00:27:57I'm very excited because then I can take you out on dates and actually have those memorable moments of actually having fun.
00:28:03That's why coming and moving into the apartments was a thrill.
00:28:07The other thing, Giovanni, too, is I think what's very important, and I hear Julia Ruth wanting as well, is for you to listen.
00:28:15Sometimes listening means I'm going to take a cool off period.
00:28:18Yeah.
00:28:19And then during that period, reflecting upon what your partner said, what your partner feels, what their emotion is.
00:28:26So therefore, you're coming back in a position where you can actually resolve the conflict.
00:28:32You know, I have hope.
00:28:35Mm-hmm.
00:28:36Ultimately, you know what you both said?
00:28:37You want to have someone who will support you.
00:28:40And I think that's the place to remain focused on.
00:28:43Be each other's support.
00:28:44Okay?
00:28:47Can we go to a decision?
00:28:49Giovanni, why don't you take us away?
00:28:52Julia Ruth, it's been difficult.
00:28:54It's been proper difficult throughout this honeymoon.
00:28:57But obviously, I'm here for a reason.
00:29:02And I do believe in us.
00:29:04So my actual decision is for me to stay.
00:29:09For me, it's tricky.
00:29:22The vibes on the wedding day were unreal.
00:29:28I just haven't seen you let your hair loose and just have a fun, lighthearted conversation and just have giggles with me and create fun memories.
00:29:38I don't need everything to be picked apart and to be deep.
00:29:41We do have some good moments and I don't like spending time away from you because I miss you.
00:29:54I think I have chosen to stay.
00:30:04All right, done.
00:30:05Done.
00:30:12I think it's going to take a lot of work for Giovanni and I to fix and restart or mend our relationship.
00:30:18I hold on to so dearly the moments from the wedding.
00:30:21I want to stay because I'm fighting for those moments.
00:30:24I've shared how I felt and I think it's now up to him how he processes the information.
00:30:33Next up to the couch.
00:30:38Rebecca and Bailey.
00:30:44Hello.
00:30:45Hello.
00:30:46Hi.
00:30:47Good to see the two of you.
00:30:49Looking extremely comfortable with one another.
00:30:52I'm absolutely loving this.
00:30:55Okay, so I'm super keen to hear about your wedding.
00:30:59Kind of a roller coaster.
00:31:00Okay.
00:31:01Initial reaction, turning around, stunning.
00:31:04Absolutely gorgeous.
00:31:05I feel like the only thing, I just couldn't catch a vibe, I feel like.
00:31:09I was a bit thrown by it.
00:31:10Yeah.
00:31:11And then throughout the day, he kind of just followed on that path for me, just up and down like a yo-yo.
00:31:16So it sounds like you was trying to work out, what is she feeling?
00:31:19Yeah.
00:31:21And Rebecca, what was the experience like for you?
00:31:23I think I had in my mind, I would get to the end of the aisle and there would be massive sparks flying because that's what I'm used to.
00:31:32Like that initial big attraction and we didn't have that.
00:31:37Yeah.
00:31:38I know that for you, it's really important to have someone that is very much an alpha male.
00:31:42Yeah.
00:31:43And that was something that was quite difficult for you.
00:31:46On the wedding day, I struggled with that because I couldn't see like the real Bailey and I was like, oh my God, is he, you know, am I going to eat him alive?
00:31:53And that made me go into my shell. I was crying through the vows, I was very overwhelmed.
00:32:01Take me to the honeymoon. Did that get any better?
00:32:04It changed everything. We really, really got on.
00:32:08Yeah, I started talking, laughing, tables started turning.
00:32:11I saw him for who he was and I thought, wow, like I can really connect with this person.
00:32:16You call me a golden retriever.
00:32:18Yeah, he's got golden retriever energy, I've got black cat energy.
00:32:21Yeah, he matched so well in that way.
00:32:23Yeah, so we started to have a little bit of a giggle, like, yeah, a little bit of laugh, which like, I like, I can connect over.
00:32:28Bailey is who he is through and through. He doesn't put on a show or anything like that.
00:32:33Is this a definition of an alpha man? A hundred percent.
00:32:37He knows how to look after me whilst allowing me to just completely be myself.
00:32:42I go to the gym, I can carry my bags, can do things for myself.
00:32:45Bailey takes away anything that he can do while still making me feel that I'm capable.
00:32:52I do like to do the little things like going at the bar, getting your drink, carrying your bags.
00:32:56Little, just little things. They're only small.
00:32:58But because she was like super independent, I could do everything on my own.
00:33:02It kind of felt better when she putting that trust into me and kind of relinquishing a little bit of that independence that she has was nice.
00:33:08Well, you say that they're small things, but it sounds like they're small things with a big meaning.
00:33:12Yeah, and it's not just like little acts of service like that.
00:33:16It's like the little glance across the room or like the, are you okay?
00:33:20And that I do it back to him. Like there is a real connection there.
00:33:24Yeah.
00:33:25Well, I think that helps me to kind of neatly go on to the next question around intimacy.
00:33:29So how are things going in the intimacy department?
00:33:32Really?
00:33:33Like a Cheshire cat.
00:33:35Um, yeah. All good. Yeah, really good. Yeah.
00:33:38Very well matched in that department.
00:33:41So, no complaints. I can't stop. Yeah.
00:33:44Rebecca, do you want to help from here? No.
00:33:47I'm sweating here, are I?
00:33:49No, everything's good on that front. Yeah, great.
00:33:52Well, I am so excited with this union and it's just so nice to see the physical affection between the two of you, the way you have each other's back.
00:34:01Yeah, we're constantly laughing and joking at home. Loads of fun.
00:34:04I mean, I asked for like a little bestie and that's just what I've got.
00:34:08Yeah, it's a good feeling. It feels secure.
00:34:11So, let's go to the decisions. If we can start with you, Rebecca.
00:34:16Yeah.
00:34:17From our wedding day, I never ever expected to be in this position now. I think more than anything, I just love how you make me feel.
00:34:26Yeah.
00:34:27So, it's an easy one for me. It's a stay.
00:34:30Thank you, Rebecca. And Bailey, what's your decision?
00:34:35I'm really enjoying just getting to know you. I love just spending time with you at home and I'm looking forward to that carrying on.
00:34:42So, I've decided to. I'm upside down, but stay.
00:34:45So, Rebecca and Bailey, the couple to watch. I'm excited. Look forward to seeing you next week.
00:34:56Cheers. Really appreciate it. Cheers.
00:35:06Next up to the couch.
00:35:11Sarah and Dean.
00:35:13Hello. Hello.
00:35:19Oh, there. Oh, there. So, how are we both?
00:35:23Yeah, nervous.
00:35:24Nervous.
00:35:25I'm nervous.
00:35:26Yeah, I'm good. No, I'm good.
00:35:27Are you good? Oh, that's good.
00:35:28Yeah, you're all good.
00:35:29Okay. So, can we go to the wedding?
00:35:32Mm-hmm.
00:35:33So, the moment you saw Sarah, what did you think?
00:35:37Seeing that, I thought the energy's here and I was like, she's a beautiful girl as well.
00:35:41And I was like, yeah, this is good.
00:35:43You would say physically attractive, check?
00:35:46Yeah, yeah, definitely.
00:35:47Sexually attractive?
00:35:48Yeah, I guess I thought I could have sex with her.
00:35:53Okay.
00:35:54But it's important to know because there is a distinction between the two.
00:35:58Yeah, yeah.
00:35:59So, okay.
00:36:00Sarah, how did you feel going in to the wedding?
00:36:04I was very nervous and I think I had envisioned in my head of who was going to be at the end of the aisle.
00:36:10So.
00:36:11And what was that vision?
00:36:13Okay, so, I'll be honest.
00:36:15Yeah.
00:36:16Yeah.
00:36:17Um, tall.
00:36:20I love tattoos.
00:36:21So, covered in tattoos.
00:36:23Probably look like they've just come out of jail.
00:36:25I'm not going to lie.
00:36:27Because that was your quote unquote type.
00:36:31Okay.
00:36:32What else?
00:36:33I mean, I do also like a guy that's, like, into fitness and gym.
00:36:39So, yeah, I mean, maybe physical as well.
00:36:46It wasn't what I thought it was going to be.
00:36:48Okay.
00:36:51I don't want to hurt your feelings.
00:36:52I'm sorry.
00:36:53Yeah.
00:36:54It's got to be honest.
00:36:55I promise.
00:36:56You're not going to hurt my feelings.
00:36:57Dean, are you okay?
00:36:58You're literally fine.
00:36:59Fine.
00:37:00It's so good.
00:37:01It's so good.
00:37:02Okay.
00:37:03I appreciate that.
00:37:05So, let's move to the honeymoon.
00:37:08Yeah.
00:37:09It was hard.
00:37:10I had, like, a wobble.
00:37:12Because I sing a lot.
00:37:13And, um, you're like, it can get a little bit grating, innit?
00:37:16You're like, yeah, it's a bit...
00:37:17Yeah.
00:37:18It was just a lot of random outbursts of singing.
00:37:21It was getting just a little bit, I was like, I'm getting, I'm getting irritated by this.
00:37:25Okay.
00:37:26Because I don't really like sharing my emotions too much.
00:37:29But if you listen to the song I'm singing, that's how I'm feeling.
00:37:32So, I'll be singing, like, a sad song.
00:37:33And if you listen to the words, I'm like, that's how I'm feeling.
00:37:36So, are you saying that you were sad during the honeymoon?
00:37:39Uh, yeah.
00:37:40Well, I was at a point.
00:37:42We had a meal.
00:37:43And we was talking.
00:37:44And I reverted back to, like, the little fat kid at school who's trying to fit in, you know?
00:37:49I've not been that so long because I've built myself up so much.
00:37:52I guess doubts, you know, started coming.
00:37:54And then I was like, oh, man, I don't, I don't like this.
00:37:59And that was a real low.
00:38:00And that's when I spoke to Sarah about it.
00:38:02That's when I was like, let's just enjoy getting to know each other.
00:38:06You know what's interesting?
00:38:07I think when there are painful moments, we try to go past them quickly.
00:38:11Yeah, probably, man.
00:38:13You just said something that touches upon a moment in childhood.
00:38:17Yeah, yeah.
00:38:18Let's give that respect.
00:38:20I felt like what?
00:38:21The fat kid, like, back at school.
00:38:24And what made you feel that way?
00:38:27Probably feeling like, you know, honestly, like a bit of rejection.
00:38:31You know, and not feeling like I was enough.
00:38:34And what was it that made you feel like you were rejected and not enough?
00:38:39The physical attraction thing is something that kind of, I guess, hits me more than I think it does.
00:38:45Yeah, it put my defenses up.
00:38:48You know, like, that, I didn't like it.
00:38:51Yeah.
00:38:52Yeah.
00:38:54So when you both leave the honeymoon, are you at all optimistic about your marriage?
00:39:01I was super, because like, we get on so well and we're always having a great time.
00:39:05And there's no one else I'd rather be with in this.
00:39:08For me, I was like, yeah, this could be like...
00:39:10This could be something.
00:39:11Yeah, yeah, 100%.
00:39:13So were you optimistic at all, Sarah?
00:39:15I was optimistic.
00:39:22We have been matched for a reason and I can see why.
00:39:25I think my problem is, people I've dated or been with, I've always had that initial attraction.
00:39:29I've always wanted to rip their clothes off and just eat them.
00:39:33Just, you know what, that feeling.
00:39:35And I'm really struggling because I don't have that with Dean.
00:39:38But then I've got everything else.
00:39:40You wanted someone who was going to be funny.
00:39:42You wanted someone who could be a support system for you.
00:39:46So Sarah, you feel as if Dean is everything that you need.
00:39:50Oh, that's what I said.
00:39:51I said, I'm the husband you need, not the one you want.
00:39:53And I don't want him to change the...
00:39:54Like I, you know, the singing and the rapping, it did irritate me.
00:39:58It did.
00:39:59I mean, the raps and the songs sort of stopped.
00:40:02So he's receptive to modifying his behavior.
00:40:05Yeah.
00:40:06So what behavior are you modifying?
00:40:12Is there any modification that you think that you need?
00:40:17I don't know.
00:40:19You feel like you're good. You're doing everything appropriately.
00:40:21I feel like I'm doing everything okay.
00:40:24I think the communication is great. I think the honesty is great as well.
00:40:27You're giving it everything and that's all I wanted.
00:40:29Dean, what we've seen here is you kind of rescuing Sarah in this.
00:40:33That says a lot about you in terms of the kind-hearted person that you are.
00:40:37But I think at the moment, it feels a little bit like,
00:40:40Dean, you're willing to modify behavior.
00:40:43Yeah.
00:40:44You're willing to reel in the singing a little bit and the rapping.
00:40:47But what we're asking Sarah is what are you willing to do?
00:40:50What are you willing to change?
00:40:53I don't know.
00:40:54So I've got something for you.
00:40:58Oh God, okay.
00:41:01You could begin by stopping the disrespect of your husband.
00:41:09Let me take you to the dinner party.
00:41:11Okay.
00:41:13Someone disrespects you.
00:41:14What are they doing?
00:41:16Well, they're being rude.
00:41:18They're being rude. What else?
00:41:20They're being mean.
00:41:21Do you think that you were rude while talking about your partner at the dinner party?
00:41:29Oh, I was going to get in this.
00:41:32I mean, I maybe said you'd given me the ick with some things that you'd said.
00:41:39So in other words, you disrespected your husband.
00:41:44I get the challenge around physical attraction.
00:41:47But where you absolutely lost me is when you went around gossiping about your husband to other people.
00:41:53And you were laughing at it.
00:41:56Was I?
00:41:57It was a joke.
00:41:58I didn't mean to laugh.
00:41:59Well, you were.
00:42:00Okay.
00:42:01And I thought, this man is talking about how lovely his partner is.
00:42:05And you are on the other side of the room disrespecting him.
00:42:08I don't think I said it that much, did I?
00:42:13You know what?
00:42:14Disrespect.
00:42:15I know, I know, I know.
00:42:16One iota of disrespect is too much.
00:42:18You are on the other side of the room disrespecting him.
00:42:33I don't think I said it that much, did I?
00:42:36You know what?
00:42:37Disrespect.
00:42:38I know, I know, I know.
00:42:39One iota of disrespect is too much.
00:42:49I'm so sorry.
00:42:50I'm sorry.
00:42:52These relationships are a two-way street.
00:42:55And really what I want you to think about is, how can I be considerate to my partner?
00:42:59Yeah.
00:43:00There's no excuse for saying what I said yesterday and I really apologise.
00:43:06Dean.
00:43:07Are you okay?
00:43:09It kind of caught me off that.
00:43:10Yeah, I know.
00:43:11Yeah, that caught me off.
00:43:12Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:43:16I found yesterday really hard as well.
00:43:18I'm sorry.
00:43:20This couch is a very difficult place.
00:43:23But it is a place where relationships are broken or where they grow.
00:43:29Now, the physical and sexual attraction, it's significant.
00:43:33But the best antidote is just to say, how can I, every day, work on strengthening my relationship?
00:43:43And as long as you are continuing to make progress week after week after week,
00:43:47think of where you'll be at the end.
00:43:52On that note, I would like to go to a decision.
00:43:55Okay.
00:43:56And I would love to start with Dean first.
00:44:05It's obviously been a proper, like, emotional time, like, together, like, hard and like, but like, how do we get to that next stage?
00:44:13Because how can I make someone fancy me if they don't?
00:44:17But I do think we have got a good base.
00:44:21And I'm hoping it will come now.
00:44:23I'm still optimistic.
00:44:24I think this could be something special, you know, something different.
00:44:28So, it is a sting.
00:44:32Thank you so much, Sarah.
00:44:37This journey has just been so up and down. I can see all of the reasons why we've been matched.
00:44:50And I really wanted the nice guy. And I've got him. And I just really want it to work because you're such a nice guy.
00:44:59So, I have decided to stay.
00:45:06Stay. Okay.
00:45:08We applaud that you're staying. And what I would encourage you to do is think about how every day you can develop something that is strengthening your relationship.
00:45:25See you guys. Thank you, guys.
00:45:26I'm okay. I'm okay. We're gonna be okay.
00:45:47It was really hard to hear what Paul had to say. And I apologize. And yeah, I'm sorry. It's not me. It's not who I am.
00:45:53And maybe if I did have that spark, I wouldn't have said anything like that, because I wouldn't have.
00:46:00But there's not the spark there. So, that was the only reason why I said it. I haven't meant it maliciously at all.
00:46:07I don't want to hurt anyone. I'm being true of myself. But then it's coming across really badly. So...
00:46:13Yeah, it's been a really hard week.
00:46:18Hearing that Sarah has been disrespecting me, has caught me off guard. That is my probably biggest red flag. It does hurt me. And I can also feel myself, like, dwindling my shine. And I don't want to lose me.
00:46:33Okay.
00:46:35From here, I think we're at a low. But I think that's when you bounce back. There is so much there. Like, I'm still willing to trust and build. But it can never happen again. Are you joking me? It can never, ever happen again.
00:46:48It can never happen again.
00:46:51It can never happen again.
00:46:52It can never happen again.
00:46:55Sarah, are you okay?
00:46:56Yeah, I just, yeah. I just feel bad.
00:46:59We want everyone to grow, right? And so anytime we see something, we'll call it out. But if you ever disagree, if there's a disagreement, hold us accountable to the disagreement as well. Okay?
00:47:15Next up to the couch, we have Kia.
00:47:24Hi Kia. Hello.
00:47:25Good to see you.
00:47:26Good to see you.
00:47:27Sad to see that Daveed's not here.
00:47:29Me too.
00:47:30So, how was your wedding?
00:47:33The wedding was amazing. I was incredibly nervous. But then Daveed grabbed both my hands and said that he got us. It kind of came to me down and made me feel really grounded and safe.
00:47:44Lovely. And in terms of attraction, would you say that there was a real attraction there?
00:47:48Oh, 100%. Have you seen Daveed?
00:47:51We've all seen Daveed.
00:47:53He's got the most beautiful brown eyes with these little orange flecks. Like, his smile lights up an entire room. He's just fantastic.
00:48:03It sounds like you guys got off to a really brilliant start.
00:48:06Yeah.
00:48:08So, let's move on to my favourite question. How's the intimacy in your relationship?
00:48:14It's wonderful, thank you.
00:48:16It's great. Thank you.
00:48:17I love that response.
00:48:18It's great.
00:48:19It feels like you practiced that.
00:48:21The intimacy or the response?
00:48:23The two of you sounds like you're in a really, really good place. And it's so lovely to see the progress of this relationship.
00:48:35So, we know that Daveed is a man of many words. And he has very kindly written a letter for you.
00:48:43Okay.
00:48:44Great.
00:48:45Hey there, you beautiful human. I have no words to explain how amazing you are and how much I adore you.
00:49:00This last week, I have seen us go from strength to strength, and I could not be more proud to have you as my husband.
00:49:08Ikea, that I'm falling for. I'm sorry that I'm not there to let you know in person how much you mean to me.
00:49:16So, for sure, I'll stay as long as you want me to, Daveed.
00:49:19Powerful words.
00:49:26Yeah. It means a lot. It means everything. Yeah.
00:49:30We know what Daveed's response is to you. What's your decision?
00:49:35Um, Daveed is finding ways to make me smile every single day. I'm honestly loving absolutely every second.
00:49:41And can safely say I'm falling for him too.
00:49:45Which no one tell him before I get a chance to.
00:49:47So, I will, of course, stay.
00:49:54Nice. Nice.
00:49:56Thank you so much, Kea. We love love. So, it's so amazing to see how well the two of you are matched.
00:50:03Fabulous. Thank you so much.
00:50:04Good luck.
00:50:10Why don't you frame that?
00:50:11Thank you. I am framing that.
00:50:12Next on the couch, if we could have...
00:50:21Lee and Leah. Come on up.
00:50:23Come on up.
00:50:28Yeah.
00:50:30Hi, ladies.
00:50:32How are you both?
00:50:33Good.
00:50:34Phenomenal.
00:50:35All right.
00:50:36Can we start with the wedding?
00:50:38It was just a mad experience.
00:50:40Yeah.
00:50:41It was surreal.
00:50:42So, what did you think when you saw Lee?
00:50:44I thought she was really cute.
00:50:46And obviously, she's beautiful.
00:50:47I think straight away, I just had this, like, thing in my head.
00:50:50I was like, she's gonna be an annoying little princess.
00:50:52I think because I seen, like, princess dress, and then I seen she had a little bit of attitude, and I thought, nah, she's all right.
00:51:00All right.
00:51:01So, Lee, what did you think?
00:51:03I think it was just a bit of a shock, because it's, like, so far from what I would normally go for in a romantic sense.
00:51:13I'd never go for more feminine women.
00:51:17It's not just about physical type, like hair color or eye color or things like that.
00:51:21I've never felt physically attracted to a girly woman.
00:51:26I can appreciate their beauty.
00:51:27I can say that they look stunning, which Leah absolutely is.
00:51:30But there's, like, a persona of a person in the gay community that I'm usually attracted to, and Leah is not that person.
00:51:40Fair enough.
00:51:41And that's a great explanation.
00:51:42But I've realized since being in this experiment with Leah that I've spent the last year and a bit since I became single building myself up from being really let down by someone.
00:51:55And I've realized I've shut myself off so much from when I was hurt that I'm now struggling to turn it back on.
00:52:06And I'm like, I don't know how to get it going again.
00:52:08Leah, what you're telling us is that, hey, I've had the door shut.
00:52:12And it was bolted shut.
00:52:13And I'm now just taking the locks off of the door.
00:52:17So challenging to start a marriage like this.
00:52:21All right.
00:52:22But now the work that you need to do is how do you establish a stronger emotional connection?
00:52:30Mm-hmm.
00:52:31And I think the beauty is that the result is going to be positive no matter what.
00:52:34Mm-hmm.
00:52:35Like, it's going to lead to a better understanding of self.
00:52:37Yeah.
00:52:38It maybe just leads to, you know what, I'm now willing to open the door all the way, right?
00:52:43Mm-hmm.
00:52:44But no matter what, it's going to be a win.
00:52:45Yeah.
00:52:46I think the worry is, like, how do we get to the next step?
00:52:50This is a popular question.
00:52:52How do you get out of the friend zone?
00:52:54I find one of the most productive strategies is to think about how you would behave outside of the friend zone and just behave like that.
00:53:03See, that's what I have actually been trying to do.
00:53:05Like, I'm a little bit more, okay, I need to be vulnerable, I need to be open.
00:53:09I don't even feel like you're necessarily, like, going through these paces, though, because you are just being open and vulnerable.
00:53:15Yeah.
00:53:16Do you know what I mean?
00:53:17I'm still trying.
00:53:18Like, I'm trying to be like that.
00:53:19Yeah.
00:53:20If I'm honest, I feel like who's more willing to make this work?
00:53:22100% me, yeah.
00:53:23In my opinion.
00:53:26You are making more of an effort.
00:53:28Yeah.
00:53:29You are being tactile, you are doing all of these things, and I'm not able to get there.
00:53:33Leah, if you were not in the friend zone, what would your relationship look like?
00:53:38I think being more tactile with one another, maybe more flirty with one another, having a snog now and again.
00:53:45Okay.
00:53:46Everything that you've said that you would need is what I would be if those natural feelings were there.
00:53:54But I've just had a block there.
00:53:56It's stopping me from doing it because I've never wanted to feel like I'm leading Leah on.
00:53:59I just don't see it that deep.
00:54:01Yeah.
00:54:02I can have a flare and have a snog now and again.
00:54:04I don't see it that deep.
00:54:05Yeah.
00:54:06And it's never going to lead me on.
00:54:07I overthink it a bit.
00:54:08She overthinks.
00:54:09I'm not an overthinker.
00:54:11At the end of the day, I would encourage you to experiment with what the behavior is to be out of the friend zone.
00:54:19Whatever that is, practice that.
00:54:21So, let's go to the decision.
00:54:24Leah, you'll go first.
00:54:26I feel like it has been a tough week for me this week.
00:54:31But I'm optimistic and I'm very hopeful.
00:54:34I see why we've been matched in so many different ways and I'm happy and grateful of being matched with us so I vote today.
00:54:43I know that I've been a little bit difficult to deal with because my head's been a little bit all over the place.
00:54:56You've been so patient and still thrown yourself into it 100% and been completely vulnerable with me, even when I haven't been able to give that back to you.
00:55:09And so that I'm really grateful for.
00:55:11Yeah, and I am hopeful to see where it goes.
00:55:17So for that reason, I wrote to stay.
00:55:27Well done to both of you.
00:55:28Stop overthinking everything.
00:55:30I'm going to try.
00:55:31Right, just be in the moment.
00:55:32Thank you so much.
00:55:41Next up to the couch, if we can have Anita and Paul.
00:55:57Hey guys.
00:55:58Hey, hey.
00:55:59Hi.
00:56:00How are you both?
00:56:01Okay, yeah.
00:56:02Yeah, yeah.
00:56:03Okay, all right.
00:56:04Let's go to the wedding.
00:56:06Anita, what were your thoughts?
00:56:08There was a fun element straight away.
00:56:10We kind of laughed nearly all day, didn't we?
00:56:12Yeah.
00:56:13Yeah.
00:56:14It was a good day.
00:56:15All right.
00:56:16Paul, how was the day for you?
00:56:17A bit of excitement, then laughter.
00:56:20Conversation was very easy.
00:56:22After talking for a while, I thought there was potential to build.
00:56:27I thought, okay, now it begins.
00:56:30Now it begins.
00:56:31All right.
00:56:32So you're looking forward to the honeymoon?
00:56:34Yeah.
00:56:35I thought we could build from the wedding day.
00:56:38Hey.
00:56:39Anita, are you looking forward to the honeymoon?
00:56:41Yeah, because he is a fun guy to be around.
00:56:44He did make me laugh nearly all day.
00:56:47So yeah, going forward, I knew we could have a good time.
00:56:50So as we go into the honeymoon, you begin to investigate shared values, shared outlook
00:56:56on life.
00:56:57What did you notice that the two of you shared?
00:57:00So much.
00:57:01So much.
00:57:02Okay, like what?
00:57:03We've got the same values.
00:57:04Same values?
00:57:05Yeah, family orientated.
00:57:06Okay.
00:57:07Same morals.
00:57:08All right.
00:57:09It feels like things are good.
00:57:11The outside stuff matched us perfectly.
00:57:14Mm-hmm.
00:57:15But when it comes to the inner deep stuff, the emotional and the attraction, we couldn't
00:57:20be so far apart on the scale.
00:57:23Paul's a good talker, but when you pin him down to talk, he deviates around the relationship
00:57:31side.
00:57:32So are you really saying Paul wasn't emotionally connecting with you?
00:57:38No connection.
00:57:39No emotional connection.
00:57:41No communication.
00:57:42Yeah, just miles apart.
00:57:45Okay.
00:57:46Okay.
00:57:47To be fair, I didn't really give Anita anything emotional to grip onto.
00:57:51All my other barriers are down.
00:57:53Right.
00:57:54All my cards are on the table, and I think Anita knows that she saw them.
00:57:57I struggle to open up emotionally.
00:57:59It's hard for me.
00:58:01Paul, when you and I met on a one-to-one, I felt like you were quite open.
00:58:06So I'm wondering, was there something that you needed in this interaction to have made
00:58:12you feel a little bit more able to open up?
00:58:16Mm.
00:58:17I can interact all day.
00:58:18I can talk to you all day.
00:58:20When it comes to affairs of the heart with the opposite sex in our relationship, I'm a
00:58:24different beast.
00:58:25That's when it feels a bit difficult to do, to open up.
00:58:27It feels extremely awkward and difficult, yeah.
00:58:30It sounds like, on the honeymoon, Anita, you were observing Paul in terms of his emotional
00:58:36availability.
00:58:37You have placed him in this box, but it sounds like you've permanently placed him in the box.
00:58:43Because everyone can become emotionally available.
00:58:49Did you feel like, because he's not bringing that to the table now, I want nothing to do with him?
00:58:56No.
00:58:57I put him in that box because he said he wasn't in that head space to be available.
00:59:03He's on a self-discovery journey, and I'm on a love journey.
00:59:08So until he's discovered himself and found out what he actually really needs in his life.
00:59:13Are those two mutually exclusive?
00:59:15They're on different paths.
00:59:16Are they, Anita?
00:59:18I have no idea.
00:59:21What we're saying is that the two can exist together.
00:59:25So you can be on a journey to find love, and you can also find yourself on that journey as well.
00:59:31Go ahead.
00:59:32OK.
00:59:33All right.
00:59:34Honeymoon is done.
00:59:35Yep.
00:59:36You move into the apartments.
00:59:38Ish.
00:59:39Ish.
00:59:40For about 10 minutes.
00:59:42What happened?
00:59:43Went into the apartments, and I just thought, I just don't know if I can do this.
00:59:48The thing that tipped me over the edge, it was like a make or break thing in my head.
00:59:53It was just like, Paul, what's the name of my two children?
00:59:55And he just went.
00:59:56And was that because Paul hadn't asked you the names of your children?
01:00:10I've spoke about my children.
01:00:11I've actually said the names.
01:00:13Right.
01:00:14The grandchildren as well have spoke about them.
01:00:16So you felt like Paul just wasn't listening to you.
01:00:18And because he wasn't listening, he wasn't truly interested in you.
01:00:22Yeah.
01:00:23OK.
01:00:24In my brain, there's no real point of pursuing it.
01:00:28OK.
01:00:29It's interesting.
01:00:30So, Paul, what's your take?
01:00:31I have my children's tattoos, names, and dates of birth on my arm for a reason.
01:00:35So I can't remember nothing.
01:00:37I talk constantly, and I put all my cards on the table.
01:00:40Because that's how I operate.
01:00:42I volunteer the information.
01:00:44How Anita operates is she likes to be asked the information.
01:00:48So, at the end of the day, why are you here?
01:00:55To find love.
01:00:57Well, what does that mean to you?
01:00:59A partner in crime.
01:01:01Somebody to walk alongside us.
01:01:04Still be holding hands when we're 80.
01:01:07Somebody who's there for you.
01:01:09Now, Paul, what do you want?
01:01:14Invariably, I want to find a partner.
01:01:19I want to find love.
01:01:20I want to cry with somebody, laugh with someone.
01:01:23So, how is what you just said, Paul, and what you just said, Anita, different in terms of what you're looking for?
01:01:32Or is it the same?
01:01:35I want love.
01:01:36Is what you described what Paul just described?
01:01:39Yeah.
01:01:40OK, so what's the problem?
01:01:44Ultimately, you both said you want to have someone who will support you.
01:01:48And I think that's the place to remain focused on, is be each other's support.
01:01:54Can we go to a decision?
01:02:00Anita.
01:02:05Paul's a lovely man.
01:02:08He's the gentleman I asked for.
01:02:09He really is attentive.
01:02:12I'm totally saying why.
01:02:14You matched us up.
01:02:17But I still feel that I'm missing something.
01:02:23So, for that reason, I won't leave.
01:02:29I'm missing something.
01:02:46So, for that reason, I won't leave.
01:02:57So, Paul?
01:03:07Um...
01:03:11For me, it's about building that trust and respect.
01:03:16Building that emotional bond.
01:03:19I'm sorry it wasn't happening at the start.
01:03:21I do apologize for that.
01:03:23I feel a little bit inadequate that I didn't provide that.
01:03:27Fine.
01:03:35But it's the start of the journey.
01:03:36I'm gonna stay.
01:03:37Woo!
01:03:38Yes, Paul!
01:03:43So, if one person writes, stay, then the couple must stay and continue to work on their relationship.
01:03:54Now, let me give you my opinion.
01:03:57The miscommunication is in the listening and the asking of the questions.
01:04:02If those are done, this relationship becomes stronger.
01:04:08So, are you prepared to give this a go?
01:04:10Yep.
01:04:11Woo!
01:04:12Hey!
01:04:13Woo!
01:04:14Paul, are you prepared to give this a go?
01:04:15Yes!
01:04:16Yes!
01:04:18Paul, clearly, you have homework to do here.
01:04:20Yep.
01:04:21And Anita, can you think about what can you be doing to strengthen the relationship?
01:04:26Thank you both.
01:04:29Thanks very much.
01:04:31Thank you, guys.
01:04:34I wrote leave because it was a potent wasting time.
01:04:37I'm hoping that Paul takes the expert's advice, and he has listened this time.
01:04:42Doesn't listen much to me, so hopefully he has a life experience.
01:04:45And I'm hoping that Paul takes the expert's advice, and he has listened this time.
01:04:50Doesn't listen much to me, so hopefully he has a light bulb moment and thinks, yeah, I've got to try opening up.
01:05:00Rejection's a very difficult thing to cope with.
01:05:04A little bit disappointed that she doesn't want to try.
01:05:07It's only been eight days.
01:05:09Really?
01:05:10I'm hoping Anita can look at the differences we've got and work together to build the marriage going forward.
01:05:15Next up to the couch.
01:05:24We have Maeve.
01:05:30Hiya.
01:05:31Hi, Maeve.
01:05:32Is all right?
01:05:33Yeah, lovely to see you.
01:05:34Of course, Jo's not feeling very well.
01:05:36Yeah.
01:05:37So we're just really keen to know how the whole process has been for you.
01:05:40So take me back to the wedding.
01:05:43What were your first impressions of Jo?
01:05:46I was a little bit intimidated.
01:05:48Like, I couldn't make eye contact with him.
01:05:51He was looking at me, and I was just like, like, I couldn't look at him.
01:05:55What do you think was going on there for you?
01:05:57He's very good looking, and I'm just thinking, like, oh, my God.
01:06:01He's not going to find me attractive whatsoever.
01:06:03Feels quite sad to hear you say that.
01:06:08Because I've always got that self-doubt about us, do you know what I mean?
01:06:11Because I always go on like I'm loud and confident, but I am quite, like, shy inside.
01:06:16And when I saw him, I thought, nah, like, he's not going to like us.
01:06:20It sounded like you felt a bit intimidated when you saw Jo.
01:06:27Yeah.
01:06:29And then you went on honeymoon?
01:06:30Yeah.
01:06:31What happened?
01:06:33I argued with him, and he said something, and I took it out of context completely.
01:06:40I could feel myself getting angry with him.
01:06:43And I had to take myself out of the situation, because I thought, I don't want to be angry at you.
01:06:48Do you think because you felt quite intimidated, that's made you think, okay, let me kind of ruffle feathers here?
01:06:55Yeah.
01:06:56I could feel myself bubbling up thinking, I'm going to kick off, I'm going to kick off.
01:06:59So you felt quite triggered in that moment?
01:07:01Mm-hm.
01:07:02Okay.
01:07:03I could feel myself liking him.
01:07:04And I was thinking, oh, God, I don't want to go through the heartache again, I don't want to go through the shit times again.
01:07:08I can't do it.
01:07:09I can't, I can't, like, I'm trying to be vulnerable, but I really struggle doing that.
01:07:15I don't want people to see that side.
01:07:18And how did you resolve the argument with Jo?
01:07:21You know, when I said I want someone to speak to her softly, like, when I'm having bad moments, like, that's exactly what he did.
01:07:30And, like, I'm just so grateful that that's what he did, because I know I'm not an easy person to be around when I'm like that.
01:07:36And he's, like, so nice, there's so much more to him than, like, what he looks like. He's absolutely incredible.
01:07:42Yeah.
01:07:43I was getting in my head, I was thinking, oh, my God, I like him, I like him, like, what am I going to do here?
01:07:48I don't want to be nasty to him.
01:07:49I'm feeling too much in my head, because I struggle liking people.
01:07:54Because you feel that what?
01:07:56I don't know, I just feel like it's always going to end bad.
01:07:59I think he's too good for me.
01:08:04I mean, it's quite heartbreaking to hear you say that.
01:08:06Yeah.
01:08:07That you feel he's too good for you.
01:08:09Well, he is.
01:08:10No.
01:08:11No, he's not.
01:08:12No, he's not.
01:08:14And he adores her so much.
01:08:16Maybe there might be things that Joe could do differently to help you to feel more secure.
01:08:21He doesn't do anything wrong, do you know what I mean?
01:08:23So, Joe's perfect.
01:08:25No one's perfect.
01:08:27If you do nothing wrong, you're perfect.
01:08:28Well, he's not.
01:08:30I don't.
01:08:31Well, he's perfect to me so far.
01:08:33Okay.
01:08:35But now, let's talk about your part in this.
01:08:37Because you, Maeve, are the classic self-sabotager.
01:08:42But that comes from having low self-worth.
01:08:47Low self-worth comes from lots of places, but in particular from horrible relationships
01:08:54where we have been trounced on time and time again.
01:08:58And then, you look at yourself and you say, you know what?
01:09:01I'm not worthy to have a great relationship.
01:09:03And we also place people on pedestals.
01:09:06And that's what you're doing.
01:09:07You're saying, I'm not worthy to be with someone that perfect.
01:09:14You need to love on yourself more.
01:09:17You do.
01:09:25What do you do to love on yourself?
01:09:30I don't know. Nothing.
01:09:33Everyone's on a path here.
01:09:34And so, what I hope for you in this path is that you find your self-worth.
01:09:41This is more important than your relationship with Joe.
01:09:47You understand this?
01:09:48Yeah.
01:09:49Okay.
01:09:53Let's go to decisions, Maeve.
01:09:55I've had a bit of a rollercoaster of emotions, like, with this journey.
01:10:01And I've been vulnerable as much as I can be, but obviously I want to be a bit more vulnerable.
01:10:07Erm...
01:10:09And I want to give myself a little bit more self-love.
01:10:12That's the main one.
01:10:13So, what I have decided is that I'm going to stay.
01:10:23So, hold on, hold on, wait.
01:10:25Joe obviously can't be here.
01:10:28Yeah.
01:10:29But he has let us know his decision.
01:10:31And I can tell you, he has decided to stay.
01:10:35Yeah.
01:10:36That's good.
01:10:38Well, Maeve, I hope you grow to love yourself as much as we all love you.
01:10:44Aw.
01:10:45Right, can I go on up?
01:10:46You can now.
01:10:47Thanks, Maeve.
01:10:56Imagine if the fuckers had leave.
01:10:57I can't leave.
01:11:00Next on the couch, Nelly and Stephen.
01:11:09Hi.
01:11:10Hello.
01:11:11Hello.
01:11:12You all right?
01:11:13Welcome.
01:11:14Lovely to see the two of you.
01:11:15Lovely to see you.
01:11:16So, let's start from the beginning.
01:11:18How was your wedding?
01:11:19Wedding was amazing.
01:11:20Yeah.
01:11:21Couldn't have asked for a better day, to be honest.
01:11:23I was a little bit concerned when I turned around and saw six guys walking towards me.
01:11:27I thought, hang on, where's the wife?
01:11:29But yeah, once I saw her being carried in on a dolly and saw her face, my first word was
01:11:35just, wow.
01:11:36Yeah, that's nice.
01:11:37And it was like a portrait.
01:11:38Oh, my God, like, this is going to be my wife.
01:11:41Like, this person I'm going to say I'll do to and give my all to.
01:11:44So, yeah, it was really in that moment then.
01:11:46That's when I was like, okay, I'm ready.
01:11:49And Nelly, what was your experience?
01:11:52As soon as I saw Stephen, I just felt really calm.
01:11:57I just got a really nice vibe from him.
01:11:59For me, it was really important that my partner would value family a lot because I'm really
01:12:03close to mine.
01:12:04So, that was amazing to see.
01:12:05Yeah.
01:12:06It was just really, really special.
01:12:07It was really nice.
01:12:09Sounding absolutely amazing.
01:12:11I'm very hopeful that you're going to say the same thing about the honeymoon.
01:12:14Was sparks still flying?
01:12:16Yeah.
01:12:17We had such an amazing time.
01:12:18Yeah.
01:12:19And where did you go?
01:12:20To Jamaica.
01:12:22We just literally just felt that whole Jamaican aura.
01:12:26We didn't bicker.
01:12:27And it just got on so well.
01:12:29We laughed a lot.
01:12:30Yeah, we just had a really, really good time.
01:12:33We get on.
01:12:34We have a similar sense of humour.
01:12:35We are really playful with each other.
01:12:37It's exactly what I wanted.
01:12:41But I always just think like, well, when's something going to go wrong?
01:12:47It sounds like there's a part of you that's thinking this is too good to be true.
01:12:51Yeah, exactly that.
01:12:52I'm like kind of waiting for something to happen and it freaks me out a little bit that it hasn't.
01:12:58Why aren't we arguing?
01:12:59Why haven't you irritated me?
01:13:01Why haven't I irritated you?
01:13:04I end up trying to look for something.
01:13:06So, for example, I love how affectionate you were on our honeymoon.
01:13:12Yeah.
01:13:13And then I'd come back to the apartment and I would kind of think, he's not giving me a kiss this morning.
01:13:18And then I'd get in my head and think, yeah, it's because he doesn't like you.
01:13:23And then he will give me a kiss and I think, oh, that was nice. He does like me.
01:13:27And it's just constant.
01:13:29And I even feel saying this now, I'm thinking, oh, my God, this is going to give him the ick and it's going to push him away.
01:13:49It's just constant.
01:13:50Do you know why you do that?
01:13:51No.
01:13:52Your last three relationships, how did those end?
01:13:53They all cheat on me.
01:13:54Right.
01:13:55So they betrayed your trust.
01:13:56Whenever our trust is betrayed over and over again, we develop what's called a hyper vigilance for the world.
01:13:57It's not a place.
01:13:58It was just a place to go away, but it's a place to go away.
01:13:59do you know why you do that no your last three relationships how did those end
01:14:07they all cheat on me right so they betrayed your trust
01:14:15whenever our trust is betrayed over and over again we develop what's called a hyper vigilance
01:14:23for red flags because you have to learn to protect yourself okay so you now are in this mode of
01:14:31self-protection but you know what the problem is when you're just looking for red flags i don't see
01:14:37the green ones miss all the beautiful green ones yeah and so the best advice i can give on this
01:14:43is become hyper vigilant about green flags okay retrain your brain and that's how you do it
01:14:52obviously on the reassurance piece comes a little bit harder for me i get frustrated myself because
01:14:57i know i should give a lot more exactly yeah i was gonna say this you have to actually say it and
01:15:03it's very important for you to be consistent and what you know is that you do have to reassure and
01:15:08you have to do that consistently and nelly at the dinner party yesterday we saw you get quite
01:15:17emotional when it came to the honesty box and you worrying about being too much i just kind of worry
01:15:25that if i show too much emotion like in my last relationship i would be too emotional sometimes or
01:15:30if i get tearful it was oh for god's sake you're crying again sometimes i think i shouldn't give
01:15:34those emotions because what if that happens again and then yeah the tears kept leaking from my face
01:15:39i really applaud the fact that you did that and i could see that that wasn't an easy thing for you
01:15:45to do i would like to also say though that it is really important for you to be kinder to yourself
01:15:51and i would encourage you to acknowledge that actually it's all right to show emotion if there's
01:15:58a lot more about your ex-partners that they weren't able to hold that what i'm seeing here
01:16:04is that stephen can he can be there for you and we're seeing that right now yeah i feel it
01:16:11i don't thank you
01:16:13stephen how's it for you to hear nelly be so vulnerable yesterday in a weird sense it's pleasing
01:16:28obviously i never want to see like the person i'm with i cry it shows that she cares it shows that
01:16:33she's willing to be vulnerable but i've kept little memories little moments to then
01:16:37on those random days where maybe she's feeling a little bit too much in her head to be like
01:16:41well look here's what this week's meant to me here's our like weekend a small little bag the
01:16:47reassurance i'll give i like to do it through action and not purely through words all the time
01:16:51she walked in the other day in her head a little bit and i was picked up give her a kiss
01:16:56like and sort of not wrestling to the ground but i loved it that's what i want it's fun
01:17:00it's playful i want stuff like that you two sound like you're falling for each other you can
01:17:04definitely say you're on the path for that because there's been nothing wrong so you're on the path
01:17:08yeah you're on the path yeah i am i'm just gonna have to say it i probably would say i feel like i'm
01:17:14a little bit more ahead of stephen and i'll agree to that because she's allowed herself to be
01:17:17vulnerable so she's taken those extra couple of steps i haven't yet yeah so until i make that step
01:17:22and jump ahead then we can start walking like hand in hand again
01:17:26can we go to a decision well i am really grateful to have been matched with you in this process and i
01:17:36love being around you i am looking forward to doing this journey with you and i really want to know
01:17:43a little bit more about you um so i'll put stay stay
01:17:48and stephen what's your decision it's leading the right direction for me and i'm saying i'm fully
01:17:56committed to opening up a little bit more but yeah i'm fully in i've been fully in since i see you
01:18:02in that dolly so yeah for me it's a hundred percent stay with a little smiley face i think the two of you
01:18:15just made for each other i'm so excited to see where this goes and we wish you all the best for
01:18:19the rest of the week thank you i appreciate that yeah thank you so much thank you
01:18:22i'm really glad that actually paul highlighted what i'm doing because i knew i was doing it
01:18:32but i didn't know how to stop it thank you
01:18:35100 i'm going to be focusing on the green flags more i feel better yeah i feel more reassured already
01:18:41next time hello it's experts week do i have permission to remove your rose while some couples
01:18:53lean into physical intimacy oh i hope you know where the key is for that anita's patience with
01:18:58paul wears even thinner surely you should know what you want by now are you expecting me to be
01:19:03fully committed after two weeks i need to know where this relationship's going no i'm not hanging
01:19:08around and an unwanted interference in one couple's marriage other people don't need to
01:19:14know my shit because you'll see a side of me which probably you won't like i'm not having
01:19:19your soul that i was trying to come to a new relationship i'm not couldn't give a flying
01:19:22fuck if i'm completely honest i'm here for my relationship causes two husbands to collide
01:19:2620 people just uh basically just fuck off you're not part of this relationship so see yourself out
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