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01:13Chứ...
01:15Nhưng mà mình chỉ muốn được việc đó hơn vậy.
01:17Nhưng mà nó trong trong là sự l혁 cream...
01:19...kkar đi từ trước khi đến khi đến...
01:21...mai...
01:22...a có thể bị đơn giãn tấn hảnh.
01:25that rửa sẽ chọn mình bạn trẻ bảo nệnh xét hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh.
01:28Mọi người ta đã bắt kạm hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh hảnh.
01:34Chtch.
01:35Chtch.
01:36Wow, did he just say that?
01:46Want a tea, babe?
01:47Yeah, I'm spitting feathers
01:48That means you're angry?
01:49No, it means like you're thirsty
01:51I thought it meant you're...
01:52Like feathers are coming out your mouth, you're so dry
01:54I always thought that meant you're annoyed
01:58Cookie? Stop force feeding me
02:00No, no
02:01Great
02:02I don't want the cookie now you've licked it
02:06It's Maeve's 30th birthday today
02:13So I just want to make it as special as possible
02:16And celebrate her birthday together
02:18There you go
02:20That's not too bad
02:22Maeve!
02:23She sometimes needs reassuring how special she is
02:26What the f***?
02:28Happy birthday
02:30Good writing, innit?
02:32And then...
02:34Oh my god
02:36Yeah
02:37All I wanted was a three and a zero balloon, wasn't it?
02:40Happy birthday
02:41Oh, thank you so much
02:42I've never been treated this well of a lad on my birthday ever
02:46Me and Jo are in a really good spot right now
02:48I just feel like we're on cloud nine
02:50I feel very good about myself today
02:52What?
02:53Is it?
02:54What?
02:55Is it?
02:56Oh, sweetheart
02:57Oh, sweetheart
02:59It's a bit salty mate
03:01Oh f***
03:02Oh, it's salty
03:11After the expats week and the help with Charlene, myself and Sarah
03:14Were growing romantically
03:15Now we're holding hands, you know, now we'll cuddle, you know
03:17It's slowly, slowly getting there
03:19Then we were doing really good
03:20But we had a blit
03:22Last night we had a massive argument
03:26We had had a few drinks
03:28And I really wish the argument hadn't happened
03:31Because we have had a really good week
03:33I've put my foot in it again
03:37A member of the crew came down where we were drinking
03:39And Sarah said, oh, if you were straight, I'd be all over you
03:43Made me feel like
03:44I don't know if she'll ever feel that way about me
03:47So last night we had a massive argument
03:50Because I was like, do you think you'll ever fall for me?
03:53She said, I don't know
03:54And it did hurt
03:57I now have learnt from that
03:59And I have been apologising to Dean today
04:02She's saying, she's not used to thinking
04:03For somebody else's feelings
04:05And she went, I'm genuinely sorry
04:06It'll never happen again
04:07I'm here to find love
04:08And I'm putting everything into this
04:09So we're gonna be strong
04:10And we're gonna get through this
04:12You want a coffee, Grace?
04:14Yes, please
04:15Things with me and Ash are good
04:16Experts, we help the relationship
04:17We're getting more trusting
04:18And I'm relaxing more
04:19The workshop was helpful
04:20For taking the pressure off a little bit
04:21Did you find it awkward at all?
04:22I'm just private, aren't I?
04:23Did it make it more awkward that I wasn't awkward?
04:24No, I think that probably helped, to be fair
04:26Grace and I are really good
04:27But there's that constant communication issue
04:29Where my friends are not going to be
04:31I'm just private, aren't I?
04:32Did it make it more awkward that I wasn't awkward?
04:34No, I think that probably helped, to be fair
04:36Grace and I are really good
04:37But there's that constant communication issue
04:40Where my terminology isn't always correct
04:43It's normally silly things
04:45I woke up the other morning
04:46And her nails were overgrown
04:47And I was like
04:48Should we go and get your nails done?
04:49And her reply was
04:50I don't need to get my nails done for a man
04:51And I was like
04:52Okay
04:53It's not what I was saying
04:54But I get it
04:56How do I say this?
04:58When I met Ash
04:59I was so disappointed that
05:01I had this traditional person
05:03That wants a lady
05:04And a tomboy Barbie
05:05And all this bollocks
05:06It made me feel uncomfortable
05:07And not really me
05:09I've asked him not to comment
05:10On what I wear
05:11And how I look
05:12And how I am
05:13He continues to do it anyway
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07:16I don't know
07:20I'm not sure whether to go into the dinner party with Paul
07:27Obviously came here looking for love
07:29And Paul and I are on totally different pages
07:33Different books to be honest
07:34He feels that if he does ask questions
07:38He feels like he's being intrusive
07:40He's being nosy
07:41As always I don't know how he feels deep down
07:44I'm not sure what Paul wants to be honest
07:47How do you think the week's gone?
07:56It's been up and downish
07:57The workshop with Charlene was interesting
07:59Yeah
08:00I wouldn't say that the intimacy workshop brought me and Leah closer
08:04Because intimacy is still not massively progressed
08:09We went through that whole situation where Leah was being flirty with Rebecca
08:12And it annoyed me
08:13I felt disrespected
08:14I just feel like they're going to ask us
08:17Have you done your homework?
08:18Yeah but we're not in any rush to be doing anything that we don't want to do
08:23I'm frustrated
08:25I'm putting me all on the table
08:27Do I feel like I'm getting that back?
08:28Absolutely not
08:29We did take a load of different bits and pieces
08:31From the intimacy workshop
08:33But she's dug it under the bed somewhere
08:36And we haven't done anything or practised anything at home
08:40I just hope it doesn't just stay in this friend zone
08:43Because we're here for a reason aren't we?
08:51Thank you
08:52It's been a really tough week
08:56I have communicated to Stephen how I'm feeling
08:58But the effort's not there
09:01And I'm exhausted
09:03How's the rib?
09:07You know me
09:07I'm quite good with pain so
09:09I'm putting it up on me so yeah you must be good with pain
09:11Yesterday I fell over in the bathtub
09:15And broke my rib
09:16When I told Stephen
09:18I just felt like he didn't really care
09:20Because he ignored how I'm feeling
09:22And he didn't come home till gone
09:2411 at night
09:25Do you want to talk or not about when I broke my rib?
09:28Sure
09:30I felt deflated
09:32Not seeing you until very late at night
09:34That's just knocked me back a little bit
09:36I wear this mask like a dick
09:41She's not been my priority this week
09:43My stepdad's in the hospital
09:44It's hard to think of anything other than that
09:47We went out for drinks last night
09:50And we had Stephen with us
09:52There's things I don't agree with that were said
09:54Yeah it is quite concerning
09:56Stephen should have been at home with Nelly
09:59But instead he was at the bar
10:00Bragging about his sex life
10:02Before the experiment
10:02That is just insane
10:05Nelly has no idea
10:07And I'm not 100% sure if I should bring it up at the dinner party
10:09I'm struggling with that
10:11I think tonight will be very telling
10:12Once there's a bit of heat on him
10:14How strong that bond really is now
10:16I don't know what is going on in that boy's mind
10:23Nelly fell
10:25Fractured her rib
10:26She was hurt
10:27And then he just decided to stay up with the boys all night
10:29I just don't wear his head's at
10:30Both Bailey and I are really close with Nelly and Stephen
10:34But it feels really muggy
10:36And I think he's treating her the wrong way
10:39My husband wouldn't disrespect me in that way
10:41And if he did then that would be it for me
10:43People are going to have an opinion on how they would have done things
10:49Generally couldn't care
10:52I am apprehensive about going into the dinner party
10:55People are going to have an opinion
10:57And he's going to get his back up
10:59Because people are piping in again
11:00They can say their own thing
11:03But I'll just dismiss it
11:05And then see how they like that
11:07Stephen doesn't take into account my well-being
11:10And I deserve better than that
11:12Do you care?
11:15Because every single person came and checked on me apart from you
11:18I'm in agony
11:21I'm in pain
11:22Where were you?
11:36Here we are guys
11:37Dinner party number two
11:38I cannot wait to check in
11:40And see how all the couples are doing
11:41And of course right off the back of Experts Week
11:44Let's see if the couples put into practice
11:46Everything that they learned
11:48Take a look
11:49No one in here
11:55First one
11:56Julia Reef and Devaney
11:58Last time we saw these two
12:00They were not in a great place
12:01For Experts Week
12:02This couple had the values ranking task
12:05So it's going to be really interesting to see what that's done for them
12:07In terms of finding alignment
12:09Or otherwise
12:10Do you think anyone's going to come in alone?
12:12I don't think so
12:13I have Anita and Paul
12:14They're doing well
12:14No
12:15Rooting for them
12:16How are you?
12:23Here's Lee and Leah
12:25Good
12:26No
12:27The first thing
12:28Lee and Leah really struggled with intimacy
12:31So it'd be really interesting to find out whether there has been some progress
12:36What have you guys been up to?
12:38We had intimacy week
12:40And there was literally just sex toys all over a table
12:43I've got to take my mouth time
12:45Have you used it since you've been back?
12:46No, did you put it all under the bed?
12:47Really?
12:48All of it
12:49All of it under the bed
12:49Doesn't sound like they've been accessed
12:52Leah sounds quite disappointed
12:54The thing for me is that I mean
12:56We've touched first base
12:57We haven't gone to second base
12:59Yeah
12:59So pulling out a dildo at this point
13:01Oh God, aggressive
13:02You're actually going to like balls and walls are crazy
13:04What about the candle?
13:05The massage candle?
13:06Shall we try that later?
13:07Yeah
13:08Let's make a pack now
13:09Yeah
13:09Don't just say it
13:10We're the witnesses
13:11We're the witnesses
13:11Yeah
13:12We'll do that
13:13Oh, I'm knocking your door tomorrow
13:15And I'm like, how did it go?
13:16If I'm not burnt tomorrow, we're candle waxing
13:18She's a liar
13:18Well, it sounds like they might have shared a kiss
13:22Which is progress
13:23The question is
13:24Will Lee make good on that pinky promise?
13:27Let's see
13:28And Lily and Steve?
13:32Are we talking about the fact that he went out all day
13:34When she had a broken rib and didn't come back
13:36And see if she was alright
13:37And everyone else was in the apartment looking after her?
13:39Yeah
13:39Oh, Nellie must be really suffering
13:41Yes
13:42I mean, it's not what you expect from your partner, is it?
13:44To have a broken rib and for them not to show up for you
13:47Something's going wrong there
13:49I think everyone came in and checked on her
13:51But Stephen
13:52Hi, gorgeous
14:01Rebecca and Bailey
14:03Rebecca and Bailey
14:03They look like a really strong couple
14:06And it's because they've managed to build
14:08Both a strong physical and emotional connection with each other
14:11They seem to be doing really well
14:13Hello, Gellies
14:14How are you?
14:15Hello
14:15Did our old, um, experts week
14:19We had values
14:20Okay
14:20Our values was, like, complete opposite
14:23Were they?
14:24So we didn't align on the sex and the looks
14:27When did you put sex and looks?
14:28Yeah
14:29I don't even
14:29Nah, nah, I put sex as number eight
14:32Dang
14:33Well, I can imagine that Julia Ruth wasn't happy to hear that
14:37Because one thing we do know about Julia Ruth
14:39Is that sex is right up there
14:41It's very important for her
14:42He put sex, eight, and then looks as nine
14:45Oh, my God
14:46Sex is eight for you is a no
14:49The thing that got me was that he had occupation and money
14:52Above sex and looks
14:53And it just was, like, so you're more worried about someone's job
14:56Than you are
14:57Their sexual connection with them
14:59Really?
15:01I would appreciate it if it was, like, five, six
15:03Maybe something like that
15:04Because I'm mad
15:05I was, like, eight
15:05Yeah
15:06Hey
15:11Hey
15:11Maven Jo
15:15So I saw these two for Experts Week
15:17And we've had a really good session
15:18They've had a challenge around accepting compliments
15:20And I believe that we were able to work her through that hump
15:24So I had to do an exercise when I'm looking in the mirror
15:27Joe's got to give me a compliment
15:29What you're like?
15:29Did you feel that?
15:30You would have hated that
15:31You would have hated it
15:32Every minute of it
15:33And then, obviously, then, look at Joe
15:34And then repeat it back to him
15:35Oh, okay
15:36That's so nice
15:36That's sweet
15:36We're in a fucking great spot, man
15:38Like, this morning
15:40I actually woke up genuinely, like, buzzing
15:42I just felt very good where I was at
15:45Do you know what I mean?
15:45With her, so
15:46It's a good feeling
15:46So I just feel in a really good spot with her
15:48Yeah
15:48Go on, Sam
15:49Cheers to that, mate
15:50Yeah
15:50I feel like you two are actually closer
15:54Like, every time I see you, I'm like, oh, a bit closer, a bit closer
15:57We have had a wobbly week, haven't we?
16:02Our problem is
16:03And I'm going to speak about this at the commitment ceremony
16:06Because I don't know where these feelings will come from
16:08I felt a bit of a type of way
16:11And Leah was being flirty with Rebecca
16:12I felt rubbed up the wrong way about it
16:18And we was having a bicker
16:19And I was like, look, you take a minute
16:21We'll come back and talk about it again
16:22It'll be interesting to watch it play out
16:25And see whether this really is
16:27Leah having deeper feelings for Leah
16:29Or whether her pride's been hurt
16:31Or is this triggers from her past relationships
16:34Coming up and unsettling her
16:36Oh, Paul
16:43On me on again
16:44Oh, no, Paul's alone
16:47So him and Anita are still not going too well
16:50How are you, where's Anita?
16:51I've no idea, is she here?
16:53No, not yet
16:53You're in the floor this time
16:55How are you?
16:56Hello, Sam
16:56Thank you
16:57Of course, last week, Anita was talking very much
17:00About feeling that Paul wasn't listening to her
17:02Wasn't asking her questions
17:03Or really engaging with her
17:04By the looks of things
17:05There might not have been any improvement
17:08Do you want to like her, though?
17:11Yeah
17:11I need to take time
17:12And I build
17:13And I build
17:13And I build
17:14The more I get into her mind
17:16The more I get to know her as a human being
17:18The more chance it means of loving her
17:20I'm disappointed
17:23That we didn't come together
17:24Because I've put quite a bit of effort in this week
17:26I hope she realises that my intentions are sincere
17:29And perhaps that time
17:33Is something she will give me
17:35I'd like to try and build
17:36Some kind of emotional connection
17:38Of course, yes
17:39I've started to build it
17:41That's good
17:42Oh
17:45There she comes
17:49We'll talk of the devil
17:50Oh, here's Anita
17:53Oh, yeah, you all right?
17:56I don't know what I was talking about
17:57Let's see her talking about you
17:58You all right?
18:00Well, it looks like Paul missed Anita
18:02The question is
18:04If Anita missed Paul
18:05She looks nice, doesn't she?
18:06Yeah
18:07With her dress on
18:07She looks lovely
18:08All the compliments that Paul has are beautiful
18:13But is he saying this to Anita?
18:16Why are you coming separately?
18:17Did you start overthinking?
18:18This morning I did
18:19I just didn't want to give him any
18:20False hope
18:21Yeah
18:22I wanted to go in separate from Paul tonight
18:25Because I still believe that he's on a self-discovery journey
18:29And I'm on a love journey
18:30I have no idea what Paul's thinking
18:33I've wasted 17 years
18:34I don't want to do that again
18:36And it's quite notable that
18:38After a 17-year relationship that never progressed
18:41This weighs heavily on her
18:42This is about past triggers from previous relationships
18:45Yay!
18:51Ashley and Grace
18:52What an entrance
18:53You look dashing in your lilac
18:56How are you, honey?
18:57Good
18:57So my wife brought it for me
18:59Oh!
19:00Wow
19:01Oh, my wife
19:02How are you?
19:07I spend a bit intense, you know?
19:08I think you're definitely warming up to him
19:11Yeah
19:11Yeah
19:12I just feel
19:13He's just getting a bit exhausted
19:15I don't think he is
19:16But then I worry like
19:16We've just had a few conversations this week
19:19Just about like
19:20I don't know
19:21Speak it out
19:22For sake
19:24Ash made the mistake
19:25Of telling me I needed to get my nails done
19:27And I was like
19:28Ash, no one's going to tell me
19:29How to have my nails done
19:30I was going to tell me what outfit's wearing
19:31That's for me
19:31This is a big one for Grace
19:33You know, as an independent woman
19:36Having a man tell her what to wear
19:39How to do her nails
19:40This is really rubbing her the wrong way
19:42And this goes deep into her values
19:44This is not something she's just going to get over
19:46This is something that the two of them really need to
19:49Very carefully navigate together
19:51I'm really confused at the moment
19:52No
19:53Do you know what I mean?
19:54No, no, no
19:54I'm really good couple
19:55I'm really good
19:56And the fact that
19:58The way I say things isn't necessarily what I mean
20:00But things like I turned around
20:02And I was like
20:02Oh, your nails look like you need to in
20:04Like, should we go and get your nails done?
20:05And then she's like
20:05I don't need to get my nails done for me
20:07And I was like
20:08That's not what I meant
20:09That's not what you meant
20:09I don't tell me not
20:10Yeah, but it's like a constant thing
20:12So we're clashing
20:12But then also
20:14Like, we went out last night
20:14And of course I knew where I was going
20:15But it was a surprise
20:16Yeah
20:17So she got ready
20:18And then she was like
20:19Oh, do I look?
20:19And I was like
20:19You look lovely
20:20But have you got a dress?
20:21And that's because
20:21I'm not telling you to wear a dress
20:23I'm just saying
20:24I know where we're going
20:25When Ashley says things like
20:31Wear a dress
20:32I think there are lots of women
20:33That will be like
20:34Don't you tell me what to do
20:35Because if she's saying
20:37That this is offensive
20:38Then what we would want from Ashley
20:40Is for him to take that on board
20:41And make changes
20:42So here's that opportunity
20:43To question his partner
20:45And say
20:45What do you need?
20:46How do we interact around this?
20:49Can I talk to you?
20:50I just found it very weird
20:59That Stephen
21:00Oh, fuck me, dude
21:02He was talking to the group
21:04And he was bragging about
21:05How he's on riot
21:06And how he had, like, fucked a girl
21:08Like, two weeks before
21:09He came on here
21:10Oh, come on, Stephen
21:14Like, he kept bragging about
21:16Like, if I called Maeve here
21:17Like, she can
21:17Like, I'll find out
21:18Maeve
21:21I wonder what Margaret's getting for
21:26Sorry
21:27Okay
21:27When we were at the bar
21:29And then Stephen made the comment
21:30About him being on wire
21:31And the celebrity girl
21:33And him fucking
21:34Yeah
21:35So what I'm gathering here
21:38Is that Stephen's out
21:39With all the other guys
21:40Bragging about
21:42Being with other women
21:43On the internet dating site
21:44Is not a good look
21:45But my real concern here
21:47Is that Nellie's at home
21:48With a broken rib
21:50She's feeling pain
21:51Probably quite vulnerable
21:52And really needs that support
21:53Of her partner
21:54And it sounds like
21:55He hasn't shown up
21:56It wasn't just like
21:59One comment
21:59It was like
22:00Oh, yeah
22:00And then I did this
22:01And then I did that
22:01And then also
22:02When I went with her
22:03There was someone else
22:03That I went with
22:04And we were just like
22:05This would be really hurtful
22:07For Nellie
22:08If this gets back to her
22:09It's really going to reinforce
22:10Any insecurities
22:11That she's having
22:12In this relationship
22:13And her doubts
22:14About whether Stephen's
22:15Interested in her
22:16Salt water
22:18Thank you to cheeky bastards
22:23You guys look amazing
22:30Hi
22:32Stephen and Nellie
22:33I'm shocked
22:35They actually seem pretty happy
22:36Poor Nellie
22:37None the wiser
22:38How are you getting on today?
22:42So, obviously
22:43I broke my rib
22:44And then he didn't
22:45Come home until like
22:46Yes
22:47Which really upset me
22:48And I told him at the time
22:49I just don't want to rock the boat
22:51Because I feel like
22:52Anything I do is
22:52But you're not rocking the boat
22:53I feel like
22:55If I say anything about how I feel
22:56Then
22:57No
22:57You need to say how you fucking feel
22:59I know but it just turns into
23:00Come the fuck off
23:01At the end of the day
23:03You were injured
23:04He still jumped the boat
23:06With the lads
23:07For hours and hours
23:07And it was a five minute walk away
23:09So Nellie's talking about
23:11Being in this vulnerable position
23:13And not wanting to say anything to him
23:14Because she doesn't want to rock the boat
23:16It's a very dangerous position
23:18Walking on eggshells
23:20In a relationship
23:20And that's precisely
23:21What she's doing right now
23:22Yeah
23:23What's going on?
23:26Everything good or?
23:29Mm-hmm
23:30Yeah
23:31More little bickering's going on
23:34Yeah
23:34I'm going to go trust Stephen
23:37You know he gets really annoyed about people
23:39Being in there
23:40I don't give a shit
23:40I feel like it's going to go badly
23:42But Nellie's really panicking
23:44You want to chat?
23:45Yeah, yeah, yeah
23:46I'll be back
23:47Here we go
23:49Oh hell
23:50Oh hell
23:50So
23:57Yes
23:58Things are getting said
24:00And I'm obviously coming to you
24:02Prior to it going back to Nellie
24:04Why did you not come back
24:06All day, all night
24:06I said this to Nellie
24:08I've had an emoji challenge week
24:10And my stepdad's in hospital
24:11So yeah
24:11She's not been my priority this week
24:14Which I've held my hands up for
24:16Oh, that's why
24:17Okay
24:18Which is why I didn't come home the other night
24:21Which again held up
24:22Yeah, it didn't look good
24:23I'm not going to lie
24:24Like it was a shit move from you
24:26Something's happening with his stepdad
24:28That must be very hard
24:30I think it does help us understand his behaviour
24:33There's external pressures bearing down on Stephen
24:36He was pulling back
24:38Just listen to everything first
24:40Because I know you'll get up and go wild
24:42And Steve make comments about like um
24:47Having sex with a celeb
24:49Oh hell
24:51Two weeks before he came here
24:53It became raggy
24:55We're just looking at each other
24:57Thinking what the fuck do you even say about that
24:58When your wife's at home
24:59With a broken rib
25:00Poor Nellie
25:02She's been cheated on in three relationships
25:04So you can imagine her alarm bells will be going off
25:08I'm such a...
25:09No, no, no
25:10You're not me now
25:11The night that I hurt my rib
25:14And he didn't come home
25:15Stephen's obviously discussing who he's been with
25:17When your girl's at home
25:19I feel like an absolute fool for letting my guard down
25:23Just feel like he cares about himself
25:25Sorry to encroach
25:28If you care about Nellie
25:33And you want it to go somewhere truly
25:35You've got to be smarter about what you're doing
25:38The stuff that you've done so far don't look great
25:42Some of the things do look sticky
25:44They just look dodge
25:46I don't like the fact that everyone's getting involved
25:50In a nice relationship
25:51People sticking their two pence in
25:52I hate it from the off
25:53The way they go about their business
25:54They can fuck off
25:55Dean and Sarah
26:03At the intimacy workshop
26:04They both really gave it a good shot
26:06Whether the sexual attraction has grown though
26:08I'm not sure
26:10Come and sit down and say hello
26:12Are you and Dean getting on?
26:14It's tough
26:14Yeah
26:15I should have a little bit of an argument
26:17I think you probably heard
26:18Yeah
26:18I don't know if you heard
26:19We had our first like argument
26:21She said to one of the crew members
26:22That if he was straight she would sleep with him
26:24Ugh
26:26Last time we saw Sarah and Dean
26:27At the commitment ceremony
26:28We were quite firm with Sarah
26:30About some of the quite disrespectful comments
26:32She made about Dean
26:33She's made another one
26:34And she's hurt his feelings again
26:36If my missus said something like that
26:38I would probably take it from
26:39She said I would definitely pull up for it
26:41Are you okay though as well?
26:43Yeah I know
26:43Because obviously it sounds like it was quite a heated thing
26:45No it was yeah
26:46It just kind of caught me
26:46I was like I forgot
26:47I was like I don't think you're ever going to say that to me
26:48So that triggered that
26:50Yeah
26:50And then I went upstairs like
26:51I don't think I can stay
26:52Because I don't think you're ever going to
26:53Ever going to feel that way about me
26:55And she went I don't know if I will
26:57I was like what am I doing here?
26:58Yeah
26:58Because that's what I meant
26:59Sticking up for yourself is perfectly fine
27:01I've found it quite up and down and things
27:03I'm glad that Dean and I are getting on
27:05And we are getting better
27:06Normally you're having arguments
27:07But as long as you're taking sound positive out of them
27:09And these are things that you've gone through
27:11And you're not going to go through again
27:12And then yeah
27:13And yeah we did have yeah
27:14So we're actually like probably in the best place we've been in
27:16Dean wants this relationship more than anything
27:19But hopefully he's able to identify what his self-worth is
27:22Before he places priority on the relationship
27:24Yeah
27:25My real concern for Dean here is that his expectations are so low
27:29That almost anything Sarah offers him
27:31He's going to be prepared to accept
27:33Yes
27:34You don't deserve this
27:36I don't deserve this
27:37I deserve better
27:38Someone out there will give me better
27:40What he needs to do now is he needs to figure out how he's getting out of this
27:44That's what he's doing
27:45Hmm
27:46It's going to be bloody tough mate
27:48You need to ask him
27:51Let it
27:53I think it's time
27:54Go
27:55Go
27:56Go
27:57Go
27:58Go
27:59Go
28:00Go
28:01Go
28:02Go
28:03Go
28:04Go
28:05Go
28:06Go
28:07Go
28:08Go
28:09Go
28:10Go
28:11Go
28:12Go
28:13Go
28:14Go
28:15Go
28:16Go
28:24Go
28:37Go
28:38Go
28:39Go
28:40Nellie, do you know how fucking silly that is?
28:42Why is it coming into the experiment?
28:45Don't get mad at me.
28:48Fucking clownish, man.
28:53So this is interesting, looking at Stephen's default reaction
28:58to being confronted with his behaviour
29:01is to get defensive, angry and deflect.
29:03You're speaking about ex-partners that you've been with
29:06on the night when you should have been at home with me.
29:09Oh, wow.
29:10Wow, wow, wow.
29:14Are you going to listen to what I'm saying?
29:15I'm listening, but I'm finding it fucking laughable, Nellie,
29:18to be honest.
29:20Well, I'm laughable.
29:21No, I'm finding this situation laughable.
29:23OK, I'm not finding it funny.
29:24So if you are finding it funny, great.
29:26These are my feelings, and I'm not finding it very funny.
29:29OK?
29:31Right.
29:32Guys?
29:33Guys?
29:38Oi.
29:39Oh, God.
29:39Who has decided to say I was talking about my sexual activity
29:44with this fucking Z-lister?
29:46Did it happen at the bar?
29:47I mean, you did talk about you were having sex with on Raya, I guess.
29:51No, I was not.
29:53At the bar, you did?
29:54You weren't there?
29:55Devonnie, Maeve, you were there, so what is it?
29:57Huh?
29:58I've just said, I don't.
30:00Maeve, please, I don't want to get involved with this.
30:04Devonnie, don't leave me hanging.
30:06No, seriously.
30:07You did?
30:08No, I didn't, darling.
30:10Oh.
30:12What's interesting, though, is Devonnie has not said a word.
30:15Mm.
30:16We were all there.
30:17Dean, Sarah, Maeve.
30:21Some people are really starting to fuck me up.
30:23I wouldn't lie about this, seriously.
30:27Yeah, all right, all right, of course, of course.
30:28We both went to the bar, so when we went, oh, my God, what the fuck?
30:29Yes, because I've spoke so openly about my sexual activity with people.
30:33You did?
30:34You said she gave sloppy head.
30:37Whoa.
30:38Ho, ho, ho.
30:39She gave what?
30:40She gave sloppy head.
30:41Sloppy head.
30:44Let me ask you, let me ask you, I have a question here.
30:46Two weeks before I started the experiment, why the fuck does it matter?
30:49Okay.
30:50It's fine.
30:50What do you want to fuck you now?
30:51Who I date beforehand?
30:53Why the fuck does it matter what I do?
30:54May I have to give you a minute?
30:54What?
30:55No, because people are starting to fuck me off.
30:56That, that, that, that, that, that.
30:58I need to fucking realize shit.
31:01Fucking bollocks, man.
31:04That's a fucking loop.
31:05I ain't going over there.
31:06Fuck this.
31:07You fucking said it.
31:10You're right.
31:11No, I'm not fucking all right.
31:12All fucking cunts.
31:19Wow, did he just say that?
31:43He did.
31:44He's under pressure.
31:47He's back against the wall.
31:49He's been confronted with things that he said he cannot cope.
31:53And so he's attacking everyone else.
31:55And this is ugly.
31:58Currently with Stephen, I don't know where I'm at.
32:01Obviously, I'm going to be thinking, what the hell is going on?
32:03And you were sat there getting annoyed at me that I'm believing these people.
32:07Why would Julia Ruth and Maeve like?
32:09They're not going to.
32:10You are, but don't have to talk.
32:15Don't have to say anything.
32:16Cool.
32:17Fucking idiots, man.
32:18I know, I know.
32:20Just chewing it and have a breather for a second gaze.
32:23You're saying that you've done this, you've done that,
32:25but then you haven't even fucking seen your wife.
32:26That's what everyone's...
32:27And then you don't take accountability for it,
32:29and then you want to shout at everyone.
32:30You said it.
32:30What do you mean, who said it?
32:31You said it.
32:32But then it...
32:32You said it.
32:33I came out of your mouth.
32:33And obviously, if you said it more than once...
32:35You didn't pipe up.
32:36Hey.
32:36You left me.
32:37I didn't leave you.
32:38You left me.
32:40I didn't leave you.
32:40You did.
32:42Just disappointed in Devani.
32:43He just could have said something.
32:45I didn't like how that was handled.
32:46And he needs to have my back next time.
32:59We needed them in the room one minute ago.
33:02Yeah, we did.
33:03Well, the whole energy shifted as soon as they walked through.
33:06What's happening?
33:06Steven and his wife.
33:09Over there, one-on-one, quiet conversation.
33:16Words were said.
33:17What was?
33:18Something about...
33:20Steven said he had slept with a Z-lister.
33:23And Jordan...
33:24I mean, we've all slept with a Z-lister, right?
33:29Okay.
33:29I mean, I thought it was normal.
33:30LAUGHTER
33:31All righty, here we go again.
33:41Oh, hello.
33:41Oh, cutesy.
33:43Where do you think we are?
33:45LAUGHTER
33:45Can we not just switch the names?
33:50You okay?
33:52Yeah.
33:52You're good.
33:53Yeah, okay.
33:54Do you want some wine, though?
33:55No.
33:55Remember that?
33:56Yeah.
33:56Do you want some wine?
33:58Er, no.
33:58Thank you for holding your own and being truthful and not thank you.
34:06You're welcome, babe.
34:07I told you I got you.
34:08It's not a nice position to be in when someone's coming for you, but thank you.
34:11If anyone should be scared, it's him.
34:14Woman on a mission.
34:16Where is Steven?
34:17Probably crying somewhere about how he's messed up.
34:19How do you feel about Joe?
34:25I'm, like, obsessed for Joe.
34:27Ooh!
34:27In a healthy way!
34:29In a very healthy way.
34:31I just think you're class one.
34:32You're like everything that I've ever wanted.
34:35Aw!
34:36That's so cute!
34:38But, yeah.
34:39She knows how much love I have for her, and I said, I'm not going to, like, go all in with
34:44I'm falling in love with her, but I can see there's potential for love there because there
34:48are genuine things that I do love about her.
34:50What a sweetheart.
34:52Right, I don't feel that.
34:52I love that.
34:55Maeve is taking the advice that we gave her on Experts Week, and that is how to receive
35:00a compliment.
35:01This is so good to see.
35:04How are you?
35:04I'm good.
35:05How are you?
35:06We're good.
35:06We're on the right track, I think.
35:08Dean and I, we're learning so much about each other all the time.
35:10I've just been so overwhelmed.
35:12I really am giving it more this week.
35:15I shouldn't have disrespected Dean.
35:17I am worried about what to do next.
35:20I don't know whether to just bite the bullet, give him a kiss, but I also don't want to
35:24lead him on and hurt him.
35:25He deserves better than that, so I just want to not make any more mistakes.
35:29What is happening with you two?
35:30How are you getting on?
35:31Is it improving?
35:32Yeah, I don't think so for Anita, no.
35:34What about for you?
35:35Is it moving quick enough for you?
35:37Yeah, because the more I get to know her, the more I'll be attracted to her.
35:40You've already said you're attracted to her.
35:42You said she's attractive.
35:43Yeah, she's really attractive to me.
35:45That's the first time I've heard him say that.
35:48Well, I didn't know you needed affirmation, love.
35:50Absolutely not.
35:51I thought you were confident, independent.
35:52I would remember that.
35:54That right there is a great example of their inability to communicate.
35:58He believes she's attractive.
36:01He's vocalized it, and it's such a shame because they actually could work if they could just
36:07fix the communication.
36:12Oh, here comes Stephen.
36:18Welcome.
36:20Right.
36:21Is everyone all right now, then?
36:23Are we all all right?
36:23Yes.
36:23Are we good, Sam?
36:24I'm actually fine.
36:26The only thing that grinds my gears is, like, the more ears that listen in, the more mass
36:29that pipe up.
36:31And it's just, like, just back the fuck off.
36:34Hang on a minute, Stephen.
36:35Nell's had your back constantly.
36:38And I think the...
36:39Hang on.
36:39The issue was is that when she needed you on that night, she knew that you needed to
36:43blow off steam with the lads, but she just didn't want your last home and not checking
36:46in on her.
36:47She's not being my number one priority this week, which is shit, because my stepdad
36:50and making sure he's okay has been there at the forefront.
36:53So it's like, all these things are factored in into this week, and I've already been open
36:56and emotional on things I've never wanted to talk about before, because I'm a closed-off
37:00person.
37:01I think what's clear here is that, yes, he's got a lot going on at home, but what isn't
37:06great is how he's treating Nellie.
37:08That's not on.
37:10Stephen, I think the point of this is, you need to say in this moment is that, yeah,
37:13you did fuck up that day.
37:14Which I've said.
37:15That's what I mean, and I've said this to you, but now it's like, it's being made
37:20out, I've got to say sorry again, just to please everyone and you, and that's exactly
37:23what it's being made out to right now.
37:25Do you feel like you've had an apology?
37:29So, you apologize, obviously, the moment you walked in, but I think what stings a little
37:33bit for me is it's not that you're sat there talking about your family for, like, till,
37:36you know, midnight.
37:37You're talking about loads of other things that I just don't think are appropriate, and it's
37:40on the night where you should be at home with me.
37:43Words are great, but I just need actions.
37:46I can't do much in 24 hours to show that action.
37:50It needs to be over time, so I've said sorry, and not even 24 hours has passed, and then
37:55we've got another issue that we've got to then deal with.
37:56I feel like I'm getting frustrated now because it's at the point where I'm trying to look
38:04at the good in everything, and I just find that sometimes my feelings get dismissed.
38:11Don't roll your eyes at me.
38:13Sorry, can I just say, because that's uncomfortable at the moment, the minute...
38:16Yeah, it is.
38:17No, no, no.
38:19It's uncomfortable, Stephen, your reaction to when Nelly goes to talk about how she feels.
38:23Well, good on Lee for standing up for Nelly and actually calling this out because this
38:28is passive-aggressive behaviour, and it is dismissive.
38:32You've got your head in your hands, you're rolling your eyes, you're helping yourself.
38:35I'm extremely dismissed in what I'm saying.
38:37I just... It's a little bit difficult to watch my life.
38:39You're joking.
38:40Here's the honesty box where we get to ask difficult questions, but always bring out
39:05the truth.
39:10Right, are you ready?
39:13What are you finding the hardest about being in this experiment?
39:17I think, obviously, you know my past.
39:21From a really young age, I was addicted to the party lifestyle.
39:24Yeah.
39:25And I think being around, like, the drinking environment is what I'm really struggling with.
39:31But that's where you've been so amazing.
39:33And I think, obviously, you love getting pissed.
39:36I do, yes.
39:37But, and that's very much part of your lifestyle, but I think you've really adapted to me.
39:43And sometimes I've said I feel like I'm sucking the fun out of you sometimes, but you're saying
39:47that's not the case.
39:48Just, like, compromising me really well, and I just don't want to be in that environment
39:53all the time.
39:53That was really brave of Joe, I think, to open up and talk about the struggles he's had
40:12in that social environment in the past, and that this is quite tricky for him.
40:15Shows real vulnerability.
40:16Julia Roof, do you feel like we are on the same team?
40:29No, we're not always on the same team, no.
40:31Last week was telling that we, like, maybe weren't.
40:38And then I think today, I don't need anyone to, like, fight my battles.
40:42I can do that.
40:43But I think if I'm calling your name, I need you to step up and be there.
40:48I don't care if you like conflict or not, if that's your boy.
40:51You could have done a bit better than that.
40:54Oh, God.
40:55Yeah.
40:56This one is.
40:59I really appreciate Julia Roof's honesty here, because, fair enough, Devani could say,
41:04I didn't know you needed my support, but she actually called his name, and he still didn't
41:08help her.
41:10Right.
41:11Anita, young lady, why didn't you want to come to the dinner party with me?
41:16Initially, I did think, yeah, we can go to the dinner party together.
41:21There's no harm in that.
41:23But then I thought, I'm not sure where Paul has placed us.
41:29Is he thinking friendship, or is he wanting more?
41:32OK.
41:32So that was me kind of taking a step back.
41:35Mm-hmm.
41:37Judge me after six, eight, ten weeks.
41:39Don't judge me after two weeks.
41:40I'm getting more fond of her, the more I spend time with her.
41:43Yeah.
41:43And that's fair.
41:44And Anita, is that friendship?
41:46Is that not a good base?
41:48I'm at a point of my life now where I need to know where I stand.
41:52I need to know you want the same thing.
41:53And I haven't got time to waste.
41:56You've got ten weeks in you.
41:57You're not fucking dying.
41:58Time's precious.
42:00It seems like the issue is on both of their sides.
42:03They're moving at totally different speeds.
42:05Anita's said that she has no time to waste.
42:08Paul, on the other hand, is comfortable with a slow and steady approach.
42:11It takes him time to form a bond.
42:16Go on, Leah.
42:20How have your feelings changed for me this week?
42:24I feel like my feelings for you have changed this week because in the Rebecca situation,
42:30I realised that I obviously had feelings towards you because I was bothered by it.
42:37And if I didn't have any feelings towards you at all, it wouldn't have bothered me.
42:46Oh!
42:47Oh!
42:48What?
42:50That was a cheek, wasn't it?
42:52She swerved her.
42:53It's not total rejection, but it is stating a boundary when it comes to intimacy.
43:01Grace, what's the biggest challenge in our marriage for you?
43:04I think a challenge I'm having is that in speaking with you, I do sometimes feel it's, like, put back to me, like, well, you're just, you know, I can't understand you.
43:16I don't, you know, and I think, how do we get to a place where I feel comfortable, but you don't feel nagged and, like, you don't feel like I'm constantly calling you out for things.
43:26And everything you've kind of called me out on, I'm genuinely, I'm trying to be nice and I'm trying to do these things, and then they're backfiring on me.
43:33Yeah.
43:34What sort of thing, like?
43:36It's a little thing, so, like, the nails incident.
43:39In my head, I was thinking, right, your nails are, like, overgrown, and let's take you out to get your nails done.
43:43I meant it in, like, let me treat you, let me take you out.
43:46To clarify, he didn't say, like, oh, can I treat you to get your nails done?
43:49He didn't say that, he was like...
43:51The way you say it isn't the way I said it.
43:53OK, well, we're doing...
43:53There's three sides to every story.
43:54How did you say it, then?
43:55I got sisters in that, so there was a gap in the back, and I was like, your nails are overgrown.
43:58That's when you go to get your nails done.
43:59I was like, sorry?
44:00And he was like, yeah, I prefer French chips.
44:02And that wasn't said all in one thing.
44:04And I said, here's the French chip.
44:05No, no, no.
44:06Fuck off!
44:09I wouldn't have said it like that.
44:10What he meant to say.
44:10I'm not going to be a person that tells you, like, you need to get your nails done, or you need to wear this, or you need to do that.
44:14I'm not that person.
44:16I've never been that person.
44:17Forget the terminology.
44:19Do you think it came from a genuinely nice place, or do you think he was actually saying, like...
44:22In the moment, I was like, easy, Tiger.
44:24I was like, I'll manage my own alley cat, and I was like, you're all good.
44:27And I was like, caw, that is really bothering me.
44:29And it was just a few things, like, I'd put an outfit on, and Ash would be like, haven't you got a dress you can wear?
44:34No, no, no, no, no, again.
44:36So I booked a fancy meal and a show, and you said, do I look good?
44:40I said, you look amazing, but have you got, like, a dress?
44:42Because I knew where we were going, and you didn't.
44:44The real test of a mature relationship is your willingness to compromise, and also to listen to what your partner's saying.
44:54They both have two very different versions of the same event, so it's really difficult to know what the intention is.
45:01I'm with you.
45:01I'm confused.
45:02I feel like there's a reluctance on both of their parts to seek deeper.
45:07In this scenario, it's become quite apparent to everybody.
45:12Gracie is very independent, doesn't need anybody else's opinion.
45:16And so I think, given that you're her husband, and that you've probably taken that on board...
45:20But I am trying my best.
45:22I know you are.
45:22I know you are in so many ways.
45:24But I'm also, I'm not, like, I think Grace thinks that she's the bad person in it, but she's not.
45:27No, she's not.
45:28I understand that, I completely understand that I take full responsibility, that it is the way I say it, and the way it's presented.
45:34Yeah.
45:34But I'm not blaming Grace, I'm taking responsibility for it.
45:37Well, okay, yeah.
45:40We have this issue of, like, struggling to understand each other.
45:43But for us to progress, we need to get on the same page.
45:49That's the challenge we face.
45:50On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being love, how strong are your feelings for me?
46:00Ooh!
46:01Ooh!
46:01Ooh!
46:02Ooh!
46:02Ooh!
46:03Ooh!
46:03Ooh!
46:04Ooh!
46:04Ooh!
46:05Ooh!
46:0512 wasn't on it.
46:06One!
46:0712 wasn't on it.
46:08Be honest, Bailey.
46:09Um, I am a firm 9.5.
46:12Ooh!
46:13Ooh!
46:14Ooh!
46:15Ooh!
46:16Wow!
46:17Ooh!
46:18Ooh!
46:19Ooh!
46:20That's strong.
46:20Oh, my gosh.
46:21You round up.
46:22He's a 10.
46:23My heart is literally like...
46:24I don't know how much more I can say.
46:27I am falling, and I like the way it's going.
46:30I can't imagine you're not in my life.
46:31I can't imagine you're not in my life.
46:32Why couldn't you just give me a 10?
46:34Listen, maybe the 10 will come.
46:36Give me a moment.
46:37Listen, 9.5, maybe I'm holding a little something back.
46:41But honestly, yeah.
46:42It's nearly there.
46:43It's nearly, nearly there.
46:44But I'm sure it's not going to take too long.
46:48I can't imagine.
46:49I can't imagine you're too long.
46:50I can't imagine you're too long.
46:51But I can't imagine you're too long.
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48:17I don't know
48:24The only thing I struggle with is
48:31Can I trust you with my heart
48:33I like to think we can get there
48:37Words are great but I just need action to back it
48:42That's all
48:42I just don't want to be broken at the end
48:47I don't feel I've got that much making up to do
48:49It can't just be what I've got to compromise on
48:51It needs to be a better happy balance
48:53Otherwise it's purely I'm give, give, give
48:56And she's just receive, receive
48:57What a fucking day
48:58The way I'm feeling right now and after today
49:00I generally don't know if I'm going to be stand-on leaving
49:03So a lot of things to do over the night
49:05Next time
49:13I'll get bored saying the same thing over and over again
49:15But you keep saying that
49:16Don't antagonise me then
49:17Don't raise your voice at me
49:18Nelly and Stephen continue to clash
49:20Fucking idiot
49:21Why am I liking someone who's treating me like this
49:23Ahead of a tense
49:24We have hit an issue this week
49:27If this is the way it is
49:29I can't do this forever
49:30And emotional commitment ceremony
49:32My mindset really hasn't shifted that much
49:35Sorry I've just got to jump in
49:37It's time to actually take responsibility
49:39This week has been awful
49:41It's been hell
49:42I don't know who you are
49:45I don't know who you are
49:45I don't know who you are
49:46I don't know who you are
49:47I don't know who you are
49:48I don't know who you are
49:49I don't know who you are
49:50I don't know who you are
49:51I don't know who you are
49:51I don't know who you are
49:52I don't know who you are
49:53I don't know who you are
49:53I don't know who you are
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