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00:00I want to leave.
00:01And there was zero tolerance for Sarah.
00:04You went around gossiping about your husband.
00:07You were laughing at it.
00:09As her scathing behavior towards Dean was exposed.
00:12This man is talking about how lovely his partner is.
00:16And you are on the other side of the room disrespecting him.
00:21It's not me. It's not who I am.
00:25Tonight.
00:26Hello.
00:28It's Experts Week.
00:29Can I have permission to unmute your own?
00:31While some couples lean into physical intimacy.
00:34Oh, I hope you know where the key is for that.
00:36Anita's patience with Paul wears even thinner.
00:39Surely you should know what you want by now.
00:41Are you expecting me to be feeling committed after two weeks?
00:44I need to know where this relationship's gone.
00:47No, I'm not hanging around.
00:49And an unwanted interference in one couple's marriage.
00:52Other people don't need to know my shit.
00:54Because you'll see a side of me which probably you won't like.
00:57I'm not having a soldier.
00:59I've been trying to come to me in a relationship.
01:00I'm not.
01:01Couldn't give a fly.
01:01I'm here for my relationship.
01:03Causes two husbands to collide.
01:05It's one of the people just, uh...
01:07I just can just...
01:08You're not part of this relationship, so...
01:11See yourself out.
01:21I'm absolutely starving.
01:25There's a hair in me pineapple.
01:28It's yours.
01:28It's the morning after the group's first commitment ceremony,
01:38which Daveed could not attend as he felt unwell.
01:43I'm never doing it alone again.
01:45I felt really guilty about not being there.
01:47Your letter was absolutely gorgeous.
01:49It did make me feel supported.
01:51Hopefully I made you proud.
01:52I am proud of you for doing it by yourself.
01:55Of the boys who look the best.
01:57It's rude.
01:58It's actually just rude at this point.
01:59You look really cute before you look good.
02:01Who looked the best out of the boys?
02:02Me.
02:03Me.
02:03I do.
02:04There you go.
02:06Yes, you did.
02:07I felt like I was a bit blindsided yesterday
02:19at the commitment ceremony
02:20when it was revealed that Sarah was kind of talking about me
02:23in not the most positive of a wave sometimes.
02:26It was a lot.
02:28I didn't expect everything to come out.
02:30Like, it did come out, you know?
02:30It did catch me off guard.
02:32Disrespect is a big thing to me.
02:33It's like my biggest red flag.
02:35Like, hearing that word,
02:37there's like, whoa.
02:38Like, I was literally white-knuckling the couch, I think.
02:40I was like, ah, this is intense.
02:41Like, what's going on?
02:44It wasn't nice to hear.
02:45Yeah, absolutely.
02:46Yeah, and it wasn't OK.
02:47Like, you know, my kids are OK and it's not OK
02:49because I don't want my wife, like, championing me.
02:52It was hurtful, and I needed to get that across
02:55because usually I'd be like, it's OK, it's OK.
02:56But I feel like this time I'd be like,
02:57no, that did hurt my feelings.
02:59I want my wife in the corner saying all the great things about me.
03:02Like, he's funny.
03:03He does these caring things for me.
03:04I don't want to be sitting there worrying, like,
03:06oh, did I annoy her?
03:07She's going to tell everyone I annoyed her.
03:08And, yeah, it's something I didn't think I had to think about.
03:12It was a bit of a wake-up call,
03:13and I do need to, you know,
03:15obviously consider your feelings at all times
03:17and think before I say anything.
03:20I found our first commitment ceremony pretty hard.
03:24You know, I really, really like Dean.
03:26I would never want to hurt him.
03:28I'm ready to move on, you know,
03:30taking those baby steps and just seeing where it takes us.
03:32I just want to make sure that you're OK.
03:35Yeah, it was hard, but, like, I am OK.
03:37Like, you know, I mean, I am OK.
03:39Which is one of those things, we won't let it happen again.
03:41You know, like, it's one of those, like,
03:42we can let that happen, but that's it.
03:43You know, that's it, lying under it.
03:45Yeah, 100%.
03:45So it would be silly to hold on to a grudge
03:48when we've both said sorry and said our piece, like,
03:50got to move on, fresh chapter,
03:52and hopefully be in a better place on the couch next week.
03:55There were some great points that Paul and Charlene touched on.
04:07Did anything stand out for you?
04:09The fact that, obviously, if we did argue,
04:11just to separate and just have that time away
04:14before we start back fresh, you know what I mean?
04:16Just make sure that everything is just all clear.
04:18I feel like the commitment ceremony in general was quite intense.
04:23I think it gave Devani a bit of a reality check
04:25and a little bit of a shake-up as well.
04:27I felt like he opened up last night
04:29and I just understood a little bit more
04:30how to best support him as well.
04:33It feels like we hit the reset button properly now.
04:38Obviously, they said I should have a little bit more fun,
04:40let down my hair.
04:41We're actually strong.
04:43The things that we need to work on
04:44is just mainly our communication,
04:46and that's what I'm going to go on to this week, though.
04:48I'm excited.
04:57I was open and honest at the commitment ceremony.
05:00I wrote leave because that's how I felt.
05:03Paul and I haven't actually had that initial spark.
05:06Obviously, being in the separate apartments,
05:08we're not living in the same space,
05:11but Paul is a kind, sweet man.
05:14I want to show that I am being open
05:16and see if he does start asking questions
05:19and showing a bit of interest.
05:27Stranger?
05:27Hello.
05:28After the first ceremony,
05:30I'm feeling a little bit upset.
05:34Got your peace offering.
05:35Oh, bless it.
05:36I thought Anita and I had a lot in common.
05:38I thought we had a great foundation stone to build on.
05:41It's nice to be nice, isn't it?
05:42Mm-hmm.
05:43In my wedding vows, I said I would give it 100%.
05:46It would be nice if she allows me
05:48to try and give it 100%.
05:49Why did you think I wrote leave?
05:53Well, you said you came in to find love.
05:55Yeah.
05:56I think there was a word missing.
05:58I came to find instant love
05:59because it was only eight days in.
06:04I wrote leave because of the lack of interest in me
06:08in my life
06:09because I think that is the basics
06:12of starting to get to know someone.
06:16Obviously, when we were in this apartment last time,
06:19I was, can you remember my children's names?
06:20And you said, no.
06:22You want to be asked the questions
06:24to volunteer the information
06:25and I volunteer the information.
06:29Are you expecting me just to go,
06:31I'm Anita, I've got two children,
06:33I've got three grandchildren,
06:34I'm an operations manager,
06:36do you expect that?
06:39Yeah, because that's what I did.
06:41Because you could have talked about yourself.
06:46We're here to find out about each other.
06:48We're married.
06:49Paul definitely needs to ask more questions.
06:53If I'm not feeling it,
06:54I'm not getting what I want,
06:55then I'm off.
06:57I'm done.
07:04How you doing, you all right?
07:08Yeah, good, you?
07:09Yeah, good.
07:09A bit tired, but I'm all right.
07:10No, me too.
07:11Yeah, a vent before evening?
07:12Yeah.
07:13After the intensity of yesterday's commitment ceremony,
07:17some of the couples went to let off steam
07:19at a local bar.
07:25Stephen and Nellie have had a bit of a disagreement.
07:27After the commitment ceremony,
07:29Stephen did go into himself
07:30and then naturally Nellie needed
07:32a little bit of reassurance.
07:33Then I feel like a couple of people
07:34picked up when I said to him,
07:35I'll go up to her.
07:36And I feel like, as a typical man,
07:38when people are telling you to do so,
07:39and he kind of fights against it a bit more.
07:41Yeah, and I think he just was like
07:42going into himself more and more,
07:44wasn't he?
07:44Yeah.
07:50It was really good at the commitment ceremony,
07:52but last night,
07:54Stephen and I had our first bit of conflict.
07:57I think the last couple of days,
07:58I've just felt like a little bit on edge.
08:01He's not being the same as he was
08:02on the honeymoon.
08:03It's been absolutely spying.
08:06I couldn't have asked for a better match.
08:08Despite their perfect honeymoon.
08:09Where the hell have you been
08:11for 34 years of me life?
08:13I don't know what to say.
08:15Stephen's approach to validation.
08:17Reassurance for me can be quite hard to give
08:20if I feel like I've given enough.
08:22Mm-hmm.
08:23Fueled Nellie's insecurities.
08:25We just had a really, really good time,
08:27but then I would think,
08:28he's not giving me a kiss this morning.
08:30And then I think,
08:31yeah, it's because he doesn't like you.
08:34I probably did need a little bit of validation
08:36and I was being needy.
08:39But he does feel distant.
08:42Then last night,
08:42we all went out for some drinks.
08:44Other people started picking up on it a little bit.
08:47Some of them were saying to Stephen,
08:49like, tell her how good she looks,
08:50and he didn't like that.
08:52I'm really sorry that it's upset him,
08:54but these are my friends.
08:56I need to lean on them.
08:57I need that reassurance.
09:01Last night made me feel a little bit uneasy.
09:03Kia walked in with Nellie,
09:05asking me to compliment her.
09:07Absolutely no idea why Kia's got involved.
09:11I believe Nellie said something to the group
09:13about our relationship.
09:14That needs to stop,
09:15because it'll just wind me up even more
09:17if more and more people get involved in stuff
09:19they shouldn't and don't need to be involved in.
09:21Let's just talk over, I guess,
09:24what happened yesterday.
09:26People were coming in,
09:27Kia being the main instigator,
09:29telling me that I've got to compliment you
09:31and how you've worn this top just for me only.
09:33So I'm thinking,
09:34what has Nellie been saying?
09:38I was just telling them
09:39that you have pulled back a little bit
09:40since I knew you were in and stuff.
09:42That was all.
09:44Kia was just trying to have my back more than anything
09:46and just try and make me feel a little bit good.
09:48It feels like you're going behind my back
09:49and talking and shit.
09:50I would never...
09:50No, but this is what I mean.
09:51In the moment,
09:52that's what it felt like.
09:56I didn't ask them to have this conversation with you.
10:00Other people don't need to know my shit.
10:04It's just going to blow up the situation
10:06worse than what it actually is.
10:07I can't be having people.
10:09I can't have them again,
10:10because you'll see a side of me
10:12which probably you won't like.
10:13Let's be honest,
10:18you haven't been the same since the honeymoon.
10:20And that's why I needed a bit more reassurance from you.
10:24I've been standoffish because you've already created scenarios
10:29of when things are going to go wrong.
10:30I'm thinking,
10:31I'm thinking,
10:32oh, shit,
10:33is she now going to look for things?
10:34But that's what I do,
10:36and that's why I said to Paul on the commitment ceremony.
10:38I'm doing this,
10:39and I hate that I'm doing it.
10:42Sorry,
10:42I don't want to get upset,
10:43but I hate that I'm doing it
10:44because I'm going to potentially throw something away
10:46that is just my protection mechanism coming up
10:49so that I don't get blindsided.
10:51This is why I'm single.
10:52But if you're already in that self-sabotage mode
10:56or got shit in your mind,
10:57that's just going to make it ten times worse.
10:59Just be yourself.
11:00It will get back to the honeymoon stage.
11:02But that comes in time.
11:04I hate getting emotional about these things.
11:06It sucks having to tell someone it's because of my past.
11:09I am a little bit worried about if I am going to push him away,
11:12but, well, we can't go on like we were,
11:14so I haven't got a choice.
11:16Like, do you feel like that's everything off, like...
11:18My main issue is with other people,
11:20and I'll have those conversations with other people.
11:23Still feeling annoyed with a few things.
11:26Really want to have a conversation with Keir today.
11:27I don't want people meddling in Nellie and I's business.
11:30You're not part of this relationship, so see yourself out.
11:38Last night, drinks were flowing, we were having a fun time,
11:42but Leah was being a little bit flirty with Rebecca.
11:46She has said to me before that she's got a flirty personality,
11:48and it's something that I've dealt with in my past,
11:51so I just don't want to feel like I'm being disrespected.
11:56Last night, I started to feel like you were being overly familiar with Rebecca,
12:01and then because we've had conversations before
12:03and you've said you're quite a flirty person...
12:05No, I didn't say I'm a flirty person.
12:07I said people sometimes...
12:08I've got a flirty personality, you said.
12:09OK.
12:10So you did say that, and then I started to feel like
12:12you were being overly familiar with Rebecca,
12:15and it started to make me feel a little bit like I was like,
12:17hmm, that's a bit muggy.
12:18I think because she's from a similar area to me,
12:22I do gravitate to her,
12:24so I do feel like it's more that than anything,
12:26but I think the bottom line of that is
12:29you realise at this point that you liked me more than you thought
12:32because you got a little bit jealous over Rebecca,
12:35that's why you thought, I'm going to pounce on you.
12:38OK, let's get into that, shall we?
12:40You got jealous?
12:41Obviously, that's coming from somewhere.
12:43I wouldn't feel that way if I just saw you as a friend.
12:45I feel like we both are getting a little bit closer
12:48to that romantic side.
12:51We had a kiss last night,
12:52which is not something we've been doing.
12:55Yeah, it was nice, to be fair.
12:56We shared a kiss last night.
12:58If I'd just purely viewed Leah as a friend behaving that way,
13:02it probably wouldn't have bothered me.
13:03So the fact that it did,
13:05obviously there are some feelings there
13:07that I maybe wasn't aware of.
13:15I need to speak to Kea after last night.
13:19I didn't like the way he was acting with Nelly.
13:22Parade around like a bit of me.
13:27Who's at the door now?
13:31Hello.
13:32How are you?
13:32I need to tell him that, look,
13:34your actions for last night don't sit right with me,
13:36and it's now it's affected my marriage.
13:41Last night, I got frustrated with you,
13:45with everything going on with Nelly and I,
13:46with the distance and stuff.
13:48I just wanted people just to basically just fuck off.
13:52Kea, you brought her over to me and was like,
13:54comment on her outfit, comment on her breast.
13:58In that way, I don't want anyone to get involved.
14:00Just leave me alone.
14:01Sorry, I'm actually still just confused
14:06as to what I've, what I've done.
14:09Nelly had said that she was feeling down,
14:11didn't feel very cute about herself,
14:12so I bigged her up to make her feel like she was cute.
14:15I then walked her in, gave her a spin and said,
14:17look how amazing your wife looks.
14:20It was more the comment of like,
14:22look at how good her breast looks,
14:24she wore this top for you.
14:25I was literally saying directly to her,
14:26look at those boobs, look at those boobs.
14:28When you hear like, look at your wife,
14:30if you automatically assume it,
14:31I was just directed at me.
14:32I can't be held accountable for your assumption.
14:35I'm not having it solved it.
14:37I was trying to come to a new relationship.
14:38I'm not.
14:38Couldn't give a flying fuck if I'm completely honest.
14:40I'm here for my relationship.
14:42I was being supported the same way
14:43I would support absolutely anyone.
14:45That's who I am.
14:46I am a cheerleader.
14:46I'm a positive person.
14:47It's what I do.
14:49And if you've assumed more than that,
14:50that's on you.
15:00When people were saying,
15:13no, you've got to say these things,
15:14I was like,
15:15well, I've said it to her when I walked in.
15:18It actually had nothing to do with you whatsoever.
15:20I came in and gave you an opportunity
15:22to compliment her
15:23because I had spent the time outside with her saying,
15:25maybe you just needed an opportunity.
15:26I was literally playing devil's advocate,
15:28having your side and having your back.
15:31No one knows the conversation we had back at home.
15:34God, just,
15:34it's out of my business.
15:37If Nelly comes to me again and says,
15:39I feel shit about myself,
15:40I don't feel very cute,
15:41I'm going to bid her up again
15:42and do exactly the same thing.
15:44The same as I would
15:46for anyone in this fucking room
15:47because that's what you do
15:48when someone feels low about themselves.
15:52Then,
15:53that's no going to change, I'm afraid.
15:56I think everyone needs to put effort
15:57into a relationship, Stephen included.
15:59If there are aspects of his relationship
16:01that he doesn't want discussed,
16:02that's a conversation between him and his wife,
16:04not me.
16:08Feeling pretty pretty, staff.
16:10Staffers end up just walking away.
16:12My relationship is my relationship
16:14and that lot of people getting involved in business
16:16they shouldn't get involved in.
16:19Stupid.
16:25I thought someone's actually at the door
16:33but it looks like we've got an envelope.
16:35Star.
16:36Oh my God.
16:36Oh my God,
16:37our first golden envelope.
16:39Today marks the start of experts week.
16:42I think we've won the lottery, kid.
16:44I can't pick it up with me now.
16:46We've devised a series of exercises
16:49to help the couples navigate
16:51these early stages of married life.
16:54I saw stress.
16:55Some couples could find these exercises
16:57challenging or confronting
16:59but this is a vital part of the process
17:02to allow them to develop
17:03deeper levels of emotional connection.
17:05There is no one-size-fits-all remedy
17:09for any relationship.
17:11So each of us have drawn
17:12on our own specific areas of expertise
17:15and devised activities
17:16tailored specifically to you
17:18as a couple to help you navigate
17:20the challenges you face.
17:22There were some big words in that one,
17:23weren't there?
17:23It was a lot, wasn't it?
17:25Dear Grace and Ashley,
17:27you are requested to attend a fun workshop.
17:30Nice.
17:31I know that intimacy and affection
17:33has been an issue for your marriage
17:34and this is something I'd like
17:35to help you work on.
17:37Lots of love, Charlene.
17:39Charlene, here we come.
17:40Come on, Charlene.
17:42We have left something outside for you.
17:45Oh, no.
17:46Will I go get it?
17:46Yeah, go, go, go, go.
17:49Oh.
17:50Oh, God.
17:52I'm already impressed.
17:54You're joking.
17:56No, it's a little ride.
17:58I mean, that's cool for me.
18:03I might do one leg.
18:04We'll see.
18:05We'll see.
18:06We'll see how it goes.
18:07Jane and I get on great,
18:08but the main thing really missing
18:10is the intimacy.
18:12We've obviously not kissed,
18:13you know, being intimate with each other
18:14or anything like that.
18:15So, yeah, I think, you know,
18:18it's quite scary
18:19because you don't really know
18:20sort of what's going to happen
18:21and things,
18:22but I know it's what our marriage needs,
18:24so I'm really willing to work at it.
18:26Oh, excited.
18:27Yeah, it's a touch.
18:30It's exciting, right?
18:32It's a big moment, I guess,
18:33in our relationship.
18:33It's the next stage.
18:35So, yeah, I'm hoping it's the start
18:36of the touching
18:36and not the end of the touching.
18:38I'm hoping it's the beginning.
18:39Bring it on.
18:40Let's do it.
18:41Let's do it.
18:41Let's do it.
18:42I can't wait.
18:45Yep, me too.
18:46I wouldn't like to think
18:47what's in store for this workshop.
18:48I hope it's not a massage.
18:50We've already done that
18:51on the honeymoon.
18:53Are you OK with it?
18:54On their honeymoon,
18:55Grace's struggles with physical touch
18:57were brought to the surface
18:59during what should have been
19:00a romantic massage from Ashley.
19:02Hey, is that enough, love?
19:06Do it for me.
19:07I will do it for you.
19:08You do so much for me.
19:09I am totally willing to do this for you.
19:15Would you like a hand?
19:16Because you're actually
19:17stressing me out.
19:20Me and Leah
19:21are trying to build
19:22a romantic connection.
19:23At the minute,
19:23it's just sort of
19:24more of a friendship thing.
19:25So I feel like
19:26it's definitely come at a good time
19:27for us to see
19:28if we can initiate
19:28a bit of a spark.
19:33Look at this.
19:34Hey, look.
19:37It's important for our couples
19:39to understand
19:39that intimacy
19:40isn't just about sex.
19:43There are many different ways
19:44in which a physical connection
19:45can develop.
19:47With that in mind,
19:48I've set some of the couples
19:49a task to inspire trust
19:51and understanding
19:52between them.
19:54Welcome to my workshop.
19:57I'm sure you're very excited
19:58to see me.
20:00Let's talk about intimacy
20:02because one thing
20:03that I realise
20:03is that as soon as I say
20:05the word intimacy,
20:06everyone gets
20:07a little bit nervous.
20:09But intimacy
20:10should be fun.
20:12The key is to explore
20:13and that's what
20:14I want you to do today.
20:15I don't want you to do
20:16anything that you're
20:17not comfortable doing.
20:21So, blindfold your partner.
20:23It's not too tight.
20:24Okay, okay.
20:25Can you see?
20:26No.
20:27It's not too tight.
20:28No, even a bit tighter
20:29probably.
20:29Yeah, perfect.
20:30Next to you,
20:31what you'll see
20:31is some massage oil.
20:34My heart drops
20:35a little bit
20:36at the thought of massage.
20:37It's always going to be
20:38something that I find
20:38really, like,
20:39uncomfortable.
20:40Okay, does anyone
20:41want me to go
20:42on the tickle?
20:42No, that's good.
20:45Ooh.
20:47Feel free to make sounds
20:48if you want to,
20:49if it feels good.
20:50Ooh, make some sounds, Leah.
20:51Make it better then.
20:53Okay.
20:54How's that?
20:55Yeah, that's nice.
20:56Good.
20:59I've waited a long time
21:00for this.
21:01It's been worth
21:02the wait though as well.
21:03It's so nice
21:04to kind of share
21:04that moment.
21:05I think this is a step
21:06in the right direction
21:07from what we're missing
21:08really.
21:09More oil.
21:10Oh, yeah, go on.
21:11Ooh.
21:12That's nice.
21:13I want to be
21:14Dean's biggest cheerleader.
21:15I want for things
21:16to start going
21:17in the right direction,
21:18but it was a little bit
21:21funny, isn't it?
21:23You're really good, though.
21:25Soft hands.
21:27We're giving it a go.
21:28We're giving it a go.
21:30Grace, how does that feel?
21:37I've never been
21:37one for massages myself.
21:40I'm trying to focus
21:41on the fact
21:41that it's a good massage.
21:43Like, Ash is a good masseuse.
21:45You okay?
21:46Mm-hmm.
21:48I'm feeling a bit stressed.
21:49It's not me.
21:50It's not my kind of thing.
21:51It's beyond my comfort zone.
21:53My comfort zone
21:53was, like, 120 miles back.
21:56You're doing amazing.
21:57But, Ash, this is important to him,
22:01so I'm trying to have an open mind.
22:04So the partners that are massaging,
22:06I'm sensing that you're really enjoying this.
22:09Is it showing that much?
22:12You can see a massive difference
22:14from the honeymoon.
22:15Even though she's feeling a bit uncomfortable,
22:17she's staying there
22:18and she's working at it.
22:19Do you want to swap?
22:20Yeah, we could swap.
22:21Swap?
22:22Good.
22:23Especially with Grace,
22:24where feelings are starting to build.
22:25Like, she's really sort of
22:27throwing herself into this
22:28and, yeah,
22:29nice to see, to be honest.
22:31Do I have permission
22:31to remove your rose?
22:33I'm really proud of her.
22:34I'm, I'm chuffed.
22:37Is that okay?
22:38Yeah.
22:39Perfect.
22:39Nice.
22:44Nice.
22:46Nice to touch you.
22:49I really enjoyed
22:51getting a bit more
22:52touchy.
22:54I don't know.
22:55Yeah.
22:55Yeah.
22:56And I think all it can do
22:58is just make us stronger.
23:01Initially, I was slightly nervous,
23:03but actually,
23:04Dean is doing well
23:05at giving the massage.
23:06I'm getting rid of
23:07some of that tension.
23:08He's made me feel
23:09super comfortable.
23:11So, yeah,
23:12he is doing well.
23:14It's nice.
23:16Is it?
23:16Yeah.
23:17Oh, good.
23:18I think you guys have had
23:19quite a lot of fun.
23:21Grace and Ashley,
23:23the good thing with the two of you
23:24is that you have
23:24a really good connection.
23:26So, although there is
23:27this issue around
23:27the skin-on-skin touch,
23:29there's a bond
23:30that I see
23:30between the two of you.
23:32That's key.
23:34Today was important
23:34because I did want
23:35an opportunity to show Ash
23:36that I am trying as well.
23:38He has made
23:38a huge amount of effort
23:39and he does deserve
23:41someone who's going to
23:42put as much in as he does.
23:44Well done, guys.
23:45Now, I think
23:46you're absolutely ready
23:47for stage two.
23:50Let's take it up a notch.
23:52Oh!
23:54Ah!
23:56Where is Charlene going?
23:58No way!
23:59What's going to be
23:59inside this room?
24:01No!
24:02What is behind this
24:04what is going on?
24:06Charlene?
24:06Charlene?
24:07Where are we going?
24:08There's no words.
24:10Here we go.
24:10Here we go.
24:13Oh, my God.
24:15I wasn't expecting that.
24:26Oh, my God.
24:27Holy shit.
24:30Okay.
24:31Oh, strawberries.
24:33There is a table
24:33full of sex toys here.
24:35We've got handcuffs,
24:36we've got dildos,
24:37we've got butt plugs,
24:38we've got God knows what.
24:40Does Charlene just carry
24:41these around in her bag
24:42every day, or?
24:44Welcome to my table
24:46of treats.
24:48You now have an array
24:50of lots of different tools
24:51that you can have
24:52lots of fun with.
24:53You may look at some
24:54of these things and think,
24:55whoa, that's not for me.
24:57Yep.
24:59But you may look at
25:00some of these things
25:01and think, actually,
25:02I wouldn't mind trying that.
25:04I hope you know
25:09what a key is for that.
25:10Oh, yeah, go on.
25:11Okay, you can go harder.
25:12Oh, really?
25:13Yeah, yeah, yeah.
25:13Ooh.
25:14Ooh.
25:15Harder?
25:16Yeah.
25:16Ooh.
25:19I'm just going to
25:19stay seated here for a while.
25:20Oh, shit.
25:21Oh, my God.
25:31Oi.
25:32That happens for everyone.
25:34I swear I didn't mean
25:35to do that.
25:35I swear.
25:38It went a bit tits-up,
25:39didn't it?
25:41Can't even think about it.
25:45Just had cream all over my face
25:47and a strawberry
25:48shoved into my mouth.
25:49Not feeling very sexy
25:50and sensual right now.
25:52Do you want another one?
25:53I'm fine, thank you.
25:54Pop your mouth.
25:58Ashley!
26:01That's what I wanted,
26:02but that's not what I got.
26:04The next activity is
26:07fill in the blanks.
26:09Partner A will read out the card
26:12and partner B will answer the question.
26:15Right now, I'm feeling...
26:17Intrigue.
26:18Intrigue.
26:19Ooh!
26:19I love it when
26:22you are...
26:24cuddly
26:26and
26:27tactile.
26:30Hmm.
26:30That's nice.
26:32It's because she doesn't say a lot of nice things.
26:35No, often, I mean.
26:37Often.
26:39No, often.
26:40I don't agree, but OK.
26:45It's a little bit uncomfortable
26:46that Leah's just said this
26:48in front of a group of people.
26:51I do feel like I have put a lot of effort in
26:53and there's this, like, running theme
26:54with you at the moment
26:55where you will sort of
26:57act as if I'm not doing anything at all.
27:00No, I'm not.
27:00I'm just saying
27:01it's nice to hear it
27:02when you say it
27:02because I don't say it often.
27:03That's all.
27:07It's a little bit deflating.
27:09I'm trying to be nice
27:11and trying to make the effort
27:12and
27:12it doesn't always feel like
27:14it's received in the best way.
27:15She likes what I'm saying,
27:17but
27:17there's always a but.
27:18Yeah, it just gets a bit draining.
27:19I will do that more,
27:22but I also would appreciate
27:24if when I do do it
27:25you don't make a backhanded comment
27:26because that makes me
27:27not want to do it again.
27:28OK.
27:32Intimacy Workshop
27:33isn't going the best for me,
27:35I'll be honest.
27:38Now, because we absolutely love you all,
27:40we would like you to choose
27:42anything on the table
27:43that you might want to go home with
27:45and have a bit of fun with.
27:46I promise I won't look.
27:48Bye.
27:50How are you, guys?
27:51What are we grabbing?
27:52Today was amazing for Grace and I.
27:54Behind closed doors
27:55she's cuddly
27:56and affectionate
27:57so
27:58it was really nice
27:59to be around people
28:00and for her to still be OK with it.
28:02It's a huge step for us, I feel.
28:04Huge.
28:05I did it for you.
28:06Oh, well done, guys.
28:10Let's do that.
28:11You basically burn it,
28:12it melts
28:12and then you massage.
28:14So,
28:14the
28:15Intimacy Workshop
28:16I suppose it felt a little bit tense
28:18but
28:18Lee picked up the candle
28:20so I think I'm getting a full body massage
28:22in for a treat.
28:25If that's not dibs.
28:26Oh, it's okay.
28:27She's a lingerie now, yeah.
28:29There's been a lot of pressure
28:30in not having that interview with Sarah
28:31that it's been building up
28:32and building up
28:32and today's helped kind of
28:34deflate that
28:35and make it fun.
28:36So it's keeping that going now
28:37on our own
28:38and then hopefully
28:38progressing to
28:39loving, nice relationship.
28:41This could not have come
28:44at a better time
28:45for Dean and I.
28:45So many things are there.
28:47The main thing that is lacking
28:48is the intimacy side of things.
28:50I still do want to take it slow
28:52but I think it has been
28:54just what we've needed.
28:54A values ranking.
29:03That's going to be fun.
29:05Oh dear.
29:05We'll see how it goes.
29:07Struggling to see eye to eye
29:08since their honeymoon,
29:10Julia, Ruth and Devani's task
29:12is to both rank
29:13nine different values
29:14chosen by the experts
29:16in their order of importance.
29:19Devani and I haven't spoken
29:20about values before.
29:20I hope that we get
29:22a better understanding
29:23of each other as a couple
29:24and maybe we can
29:25understand as well
29:27why we're both here
29:28and what we're here for.
29:31No peeking.
29:33I know what my core values are
29:35and hopefully they do
29:36align with Julia Ruth's.
29:39Here we go.
29:41This is my list.
29:43At number one,
29:44I'd say humour.
29:46If someone can make me laugh
29:48and that I feel like
29:49that makes them
29:49like so outrageously attractive
29:51you just want to be
29:52around that person.
29:53And then sex and looks
29:55is important to me.
29:59Okay.
30:00So, this is my nine.
30:05Devani's put sex and looks
30:08at the bottom of his list.
30:11So, I've got a lot of questions
30:13to ask.
30:15Sex is quite low down.
30:17Do you want to explain that?
30:24Like, why you've put it at eight?
30:27I want to know the person
30:28before anything else.
30:29And that's why I put it
30:31at the bottom.
30:31Not because it's the least.
30:33But it is out of this list
30:35that is the least.
30:36It's the second least.
30:40So, someone's ambition
30:41to use more important sex.
30:42Yeah.
30:45Um, okay.
30:47Because all of this
30:47will connect a person
30:48and then this is
30:49composite to everything else.
30:53Money before sex.
30:55Yeah.
30:58For him, it's looks and sex
31:00is the last thing
31:01on a man's mind.
31:03On a man's mind.
31:04Looks and sex
31:05is the last thing
31:06on a man's mind.
31:09Come on.
31:09Okay.
31:14Your sex was four
31:15and my sex was eight.
31:16Sex and looks
31:17is important to me.
31:18Mm-hmm.
31:19It's a struggle for me
31:20because that is not
31:21important to you at all.
31:22Mm-hmm.
31:23Mm-hmm.
31:24It's a little bit, uh,
31:26yeah, it's a little bit
31:26worrying.
31:31Apparently,
31:31it's not enough.
31:34Doesn't care.
31:36It's the bottom of the list,
31:37so.
31:37Do you know what's
31:40really interesting?
31:41I almost put looks
31:42with one,
31:43so we literally would have
31:44had to put the opposites.
31:46But it does
31:47shed a light on things.
31:48It's definitely interesting
31:49to see.
31:50I don't know where
31:51this leaves me in Davati
31:51just in terms of
31:52progressing forward.
31:54It's day one
31:55of hitting the reset button.
31:56It was meant to be
31:57a fresh start.
31:57It was meant to be
31:58fun and banter.
31:59But, um,
32:02they're quite opposite.
32:04Opposites attract.
32:17I'll never want to see
32:18that picture in my life.
32:20I look about 50 as well.
32:22No comment.
32:23Yeah, no comment.
32:25Go on then, girl.
32:26Hit me with it.
32:26Dear Rebecca and Bailey,
32:28you seem content
32:29in the present,
32:31so we're going to ask you
32:32to delve into your past
32:33by opening your
32:34ex-files.
32:36We want you to explore
32:37the lessons you've learned
32:38and how you can bring them
32:39to bear on your
32:40current relationship.
32:41Lots of love,
32:41Mel, Paul and Charlie.
32:43Let's get into it.
32:44Yeah.
32:44Ex-files then, yeah?
32:45Ex-files.
32:45I'm sure it'll be fine,
32:46as long as my ex
32:47isn't going to walk in
32:48through the door.
32:48Or your ex.
32:50You ready?
32:50Yeah.
32:51Have you ever broken
32:52someone's heart
32:53and how do you feel
32:54about that now?
32:56Yeah.
32:59Yeah.
33:00So, with my long-term ex,
33:02we had built a life together,
33:06literally built a house together.
33:10You're all right?
33:11Yeah.
33:12You're all right?
33:12Mm-hmm.
33:14He proposed
33:15and I thought,
33:17God, I'm going to have
33:18to make a decision.
33:19either, like, marry him
33:21or, like,
33:23be more true
33:24to this, like,
33:25weird, niggly feeling
33:26that I had.
33:28It broke his heart.
33:29Yeah.
33:30Like, I feel selfish
33:31that, like,
33:32I decided to, like,
33:34take that away
33:35from him then.
33:36Yeah.
33:36And I know
33:38it broke his heart.
33:38He told me I did.
33:39So, um...
33:43Yeah, I didn't want to...
33:45Like, I didn't...
33:46I wouldn't want to
33:47make anyone that sad.
33:48Yes.
33:48But I also felt like
33:50I had to be true
33:51to myself
33:51but also true
33:52for him.
33:54It's such a double-edged sword
33:56to get emotional
33:57because it is hard.
33:58I don't want to see
33:58someone upset
33:59but then also
34:00that vulnerability
34:00is somewhat
34:02a nice feeling.
34:02It's, like,
34:03part and parcel
34:03of kind of
34:04falling for someone
34:05and starting to
34:05like someone more
34:06so, yeah,
34:06I'm relishing it.
34:07Yeah.
34:07So, you all right?
34:08Yeah.
34:09Cool?
34:09Yeah.
34:10Have a figure
34:10we have a bit.
34:11Come here.
34:12Mm.
34:13Mm.
34:13I find it hard
34:14sometimes to open up
34:15to people
34:15but being with Bailey
34:18does make me feel
34:19like it's safe.
34:21I haven't felt that
34:23for a while
34:24and it's a really nice feeling.
34:26Ready?
34:36Okay.
34:36Teddy, go.
34:38Yeah.
34:38To help strengthen
34:39their emotional connections,
34:41Anita and Paul
34:42and David and Kia
34:43have been given
34:44the Ask Me Anything task.
34:45It's what we wanted.
34:46We're letting go.
34:47We're going to smash it.
34:48Yeah, we'll go.
34:49I like this.
34:50This is things to do.
34:51It's what we're here for, right?
34:52It's to work on ourselves.
34:54It's to make sure
34:54that we get to know each other
34:56deeper.
34:57Ready?
34:58Let's do this.
35:00Right now,
35:00I have no nerves.
35:02I have my men.
35:04Where do you think
35:05you've gone wrong
35:06in your previous relationship?
35:08Um,
35:09many ways.
35:11Um.
35:12Okay.
35:13I lose aspects of myself.
35:16In my marriage,
35:18I changed and edited myself
35:19and turned into something
35:21I wasn't
35:21and became very vacuous.
35:26I guess until this point
35:33I've never really
35:33gone into a relationship
35:34as myself,
35:35so I guess I haven't
35:37given anyone
35:38a fair opportunity
35:38to actually date me
35:41or be in a relationship
35:42with me because
35:42I just have a different
35:44edited or amended version
35:46that I think
35:47they're going to like.
35:50I guess most of the
35:51star versions of me
35:52are pretty shitty people,
35:53so yeah.
35:55I wouldn't want to
35:55have dated me either.
35:57They're in the past.
35:59They are indeed.
36:00You know,
36:02I don't judge
36:03for anything
36:05in the past.
36:06You're good
36:07as you are.
36:08I've never met anyone
36:09that is more themselves
36:10than you are.
36:12It's okay.
36:14The more time
36:15I spend with David,
36:16the more I'm
36:17growing and developing
36:18because of how
36:19considerate and caring
36:20he is.
36:21I like this.
36:22This is nice.
36:22This is lovely, yeah.
36:25Kia,
36:26tell me three things
36:28you change about me.
36:29I wish your job
36:30didn't involve you
36:31having to go away
36:32for long periods of time.
36:33Okay.
36:35When you get in your head
36:37and overthink things,
36:38most of the time
36:39it's a non-problem,
36:41it's a non-issue.
36:42I can work on that.
36:42We can try and do it together.
36:44And the third thing
36:45I would change is
36:47your perspective
36:48on your body image
36:48because I think
36:50you're absolutely
36:52goddamn sexy as hell
36:54and wish you could
36:55see yourself
36:56the way that I see you.
36:58being open
37:02with my body
37:03makes me
37:04a little bit anxious.
37:06But slowly, slowly
37:07I'm getting more confident.
37:09I think it's lovely
37:10to see how
37:11he sees me.
37:12He makes me feel wanted.
37:13He makes me feel
37:13worried about myself.
37:16It's been a while
37:16since someone
37:17made me feel like,
37:17ah, it's just nice.
37:20Stop.
37:21Stop.
37:21It's kind of the perfect
37:31task this week
37:32for us, isn't it?
37:33That's what I've been
37:33banging on about all week
37:34at the end of the day,
37:35haven't I?
37:36Aye.
37:38Depending on his questions,
37:40they'll depend
37:40where that actually
37:41leaves us.
37:43Did you find that hard?
37:44No.
37:47All right.
37:48Because I've not
37:48really asked you much.
37:49Right.
37:49As you've pointed out
37:50a few times.
37:54I am a little bit
37:55sweaty palms.
37:56I think it's important
37:57for me to see
37:58some improvement.
37:59So,
38:01fingers crossed again.
38:02Will you give the
38:04marriage
38:05enough time
38:06so I can love you
38:09for you?
38:12How long's
38:13a piece of strength
38:14time?
38:16I'm not in a hurry.
38:18I just,
38:19it's more
38:19a case of
38:20I need to know
38:21where this
38:22relationship's going.
38:24What's on your mind?
38:25What you want out of it?
38:27Or whether you're
38:28fully committed?
38:29Are you expecting me
38:30to be fully committed
38:30after two weeks?
38:32Well,
38:33the clue's in the title,
38:33isn't it?
38:34Married at first sight.
38:37Surely,
38:38you're wanting
38:38to commit,
38:39aren't you?
38:41I think you can be
38:42committed to the process
38:43to going down
38:44that road
38:45of building
38:46a relationship,
38:47building trust,
38:48building respect.
38:49I think you are
38:49expecting me to be
38:50further ahead now.
38:52You've said
38:52it takes you time.
38:54It could be six years
38:55before you get a spark.
38:57That's the doubt
38:58that's set in my mind now.
39:00How long does it
39:00actually take you?
39:02I just haven't
39:03got that time.
39:05Love is something
39:06you build.
39:08My time frame
39:09may be different
39:11from her time frame
39:11and that's going to be
39:12the sticking point.
39:13I need to know
39:15what you're thinking.
39:16Surely,
39:17you should know
39:17what you want
39:17by now.
39:19I don't know
39:19if Paul understands
39:20I haven't got
39:21time to waste.
39:22I was in my
39:23previous relationship
39:24for 17 years
39:25and didn't get
39:26the outcome
39:27I wanted.
39:27So,
39:28I need to know
39:29where I stand.
39:30I've just wasted
39:3117 years
39:31and I don't want
39:32to waste time.
39:33Surely,
39:34we should want
39:34the same outcome.
39:35he's 60
39:36I'm nearly 55.
39:39No,
39:39I'm not
39:39hanging around.
39:40What we're going
39:54to have dinner
39:54tonight?
39:55Pasta.
39:56Lots of cheese.
39:57Lots of cheese.
39:58Maeve and Joe's
39:59exercise for this
40:00week involves
40:01a visit from
40:02one of the experts.
40:03At the commitment
40:04ceremony,
40:05Maeve voiced
40:06her insecurities
40:06within the marriage
40:08and herself.
40:10Oh,
40:11I knew that
40:12could be.
40:13As Joe was absent,
40:15I'm visiting him
40:15and Maeve
40:16at their home
40:17to offer further
40:18one-on-one
40:19expertise.
40:20Yes!
40:23Are you alright?
40:25I'm so happy
40:26to see Paul.
40:27Honestly,
40:28like,
40:28his home's my home,
40:29do you know what I mean?
40:30No,
40:30my home's his home,
40:31is that what you say?
40:32Well,
40:33anyway,
40:33I'm not asked
40:33to take your shoes
40:34off and get comfy.
40:36Where I would love
40:37to begin
40:38is the commitment
40:39ceremony.
40:40Yeah.
40:40Joe,
40:41I believe you missed
40:42a very important moment.
40:44It was profound.
40:46At yesterday's
40:48commitment ceremony,
40:49Maeve faced the couch
40:50alone while Joe
40:51was ill.
40:51I think he is
40:52really attractive
40:53and I thought he's
40:53not going to find
40:54me attractive
40:55whatsoever.
40:56I think he's
40:57too good for me.
40:59I mean,
41:00it's quite heartbreaking
41:00to hear you say that.
41:02Well,
41:02he is.
41:03You need to love
41:04on yourself more.
41:05this is more
41:07important than
41:08your relationship
41:09with Joe.
41:10Yeah.
41:11Do you recall
41:12a little bit
41:13of the conversation
41:14that we had?
41:14Oh,
41:15God.
41:16Joe compliments
41:16me all the time.
41:17Like,
41:17I couldn't have
41:18anyone nicer
41:18to say nice
41:19things about us,
41:20but I don't
41:21believe what
41:21he's saying.
41:22At what point
41:24in your life
41:24did you begin
41:26doubting yourself?
41:28Probably
41:28when I was
41:30with my ex.
41:32He used to
41:32talk about
41:33me appearing
41:33just negative
41:34shit all the
41:35time.
41:36Okay.
41:37If someone
41:37says it in love
41:38to you,
41:38you start
41:39believing it,
41:39do you know
41:39what I mean?
41:40Yes.
41:41How do we
41:42take that
41:42narrative and
41:43switch it to
41:44positive?
41:45Mae,
41:46what I would
41:46love for us
41:47to do is
41:48teach you
41:49how to
41:51receive a
41:51compliment.
41:54Taking
41:55compliments
41:55sounds like
41:56a very easy
41:57thing to do,
41:58but it's not.
41:59I really
41:59struggle to
42:00take stuff
42:01on board.
42:02All right,
42:02this is going
42:03to be great.
42:05So Joe
42:06is going to
42:08give compliments
42:08and when he
42:09gives you that
42:10compliment,
42:10I want you
42:11to look
42:11in the
42:13mirror.
42:15Repeat
42:15the compliment
42:16and you're
42:17going to say,
42:18I received
42:18this,
42:19I believe
42:21this,
42:22and thank
42:23you for
42:24seeing me
42:24this way.
42:25Okay,
42:25so hit us
42:26Joe.
42:26I love
42:28how you
42:29give everyone
42:30your energy
42:31and everyone
42:31just loves
42:32you as a
42:32person.
42:36That was
42:37cute.
42:38What,
42:38do I look
42:39at myself
42:39and say
42:39that?
42:40Yes,
42:41just do it.
42:41I'm trying
42:42to.
42:43Come on.
42:44I feel like I
42:44can't say it.
42:46This is hard,
42:47isn't it?
42:48Yeah.
42:49Why is it
42:50hard?
42:50Because I
42:51can't take it
42:51in.
42:52Okay.
42:53I actually
42:53can't.
42:54I can hear
42:54him.
42:55I'm listening,
42:56but it
42:57doesn't go,
42:57like it's
42:57literally in
42:58one ear
42:58and out
42:59the other.
42:59Exactly,
43:00because you've
43:00taught yourself
43:01to just not
43:02believe it.
43:03And I also
43:03notice that
43:04you have a
43:05hard time
43:05keeping eye
43:06contact with
43:06yourself in
43:07the mirror.
43:08Why do you
43:08think you're
43:09having a hard
43:09time looking
43:09at yourself
43:10in the mirror?
43:12I don't
43:12really enjoy
43:13looking at
43:14myself in
43:14the mirror.
43:15What?
43:16I don't know,
43:17I just don't
43:17feel confident
43:17in myself.
43:19That's why
43:19this is important.
43:20Yeah.
43:21So,
43:22we're going
43:22to do
43:23that round
43:24again,
43:24but you
43:24have to
43:24look at
43:25yourself
43:25in the
43:26mirror
43:26the entire
43:26time.
43:29Jo,
43:29I love
43:31how you
43:31have my
43:32back in
43:32any
43:32situation.
43:35That is
43:36so true.
43:37It's so
43:37true.
43:37It's actually
43:38really true.
43:38Yeah.
43:39I believe
43:39that one.
43:40So you
43:40believe that's
43:41what I mean.
43:41But do you?
43:42Yeah,
43:43because I do
43:43have your
43:43back.
43:44So it
43:44ain't
43:44been it then?
43:45Jo loves
43:46the fact that
43:46I have his
43:47back in
43:47every situation.
43:48I receive
43:49this,
43:49I believe
43:50this.
43:51I actually
43:51do,
43:52though.
43:52Like,
43:53I know
43:54I'm
43:54struggling,
43:54but I
43:55feel like
43:56it is
43:56starting to
43:57make me
43:57believe him.
43:59This exercise
43:59actually makes
44:00me feel a
44:00little bit
44:01better about
44:01myself.
44:03It's
44:04melting my
44:04heart.
44:05You can
44:05always tell
44:06if an
44:06intervention
44:07has worked
44:07well because
44:08the couple
44:09is closer.
44:10You come
44:10back together
44:10and look at
44:11it.
44:11Maeve is in
44:11your lap
44:12right now.
44:13Yeah.
44:15Maeve,
44:15you have this
44:16story going
44:17on in your
44:18mind that
44:19you are not
44:19good enough.
44:20And the
44:20more you
44:21take in
44:21these
44:22compliments,
44:23what's going
44:23to happen
44:24to that
44:24negative
44:24script in
44:25your mind?
44:25It's not
44:25going to be
44:26negative anymore,
44:26it's going to
44:27be positive.
44:27It's going to
44:27be positive.
44:29When you
44:29can connect
44:30at your
44:30true self,
44:31that's
44:31true love.
44:33Yeah.
44:33And that's
44:34what we're
44:34trying to
44:34get to.
44:37I'm very
44:38grateful for
44:38Paul.
44:39Yeah,
44:39we're going
44:39to work on
44:40it and
44:40actually do
44:40the task
44:41going forward
44:41so hopefully
44:42he'll improve.
44:44We are
44:45making...
44:46Baby steps.
44:46Yeah,
44:47but moving
44:48in the right
44:48direction,
44:49100%.
44:49Well then,
44:50on that
44:50note,
44:51I'm gone.
44:52Thank you
44:52for coming.
44:53Yeah.
44:54100%
44:55this is the
44:55beginning of a
44:56new move.
44:56I actually
44:57want to believe
44:58what Joe's
44:58saying.
44:59Honestly,
44:59I think he's
45:00amazing and
45:01I don't want
45:01him not in
45:02my life.
45:03And now,
45:03what is the
45:04matter with
45:04me?
45:06Oh God.
45:10This place
45:11makes you
45:12go crazy.
45:19Come on,
45:20guys.
45:21To mark the
45:21end of
45:21Experts Week,
45:22some of the
45:23group head
45:23out to
45:24compare notes.
45:25I am so
45:27excited to
45:28find out what
45:28everyone else
45:29has done,
45:29what everyone's
45:30tasks have
45:30been for
45:31Expert Week.
45:32It's a special
45:32day if Stephen's
45:33getting around,
45:34isn't it?
45:35First little
45:36day out.
45:36Cheers,
45:37lads.
45:37Cheers.
45:38I've been
45:38loving my
45:39time with
45:39Beck,
45:39but also
45:40excited to
45:40see the
45:40lads and
45:41have a bit
45:41of a
45:41debrief.
45:43We did
45:44a workshop
45:44with
45:45Charlene.
45:46She had
45:46us like a
45:46secret
45:47doorway into
45:48this sex
45:48dungeon.
45:50Where is
45:51it?
45:51Where is
45:51it?
45:53Could I
45:53have a
45:53go?
45:57I'm
45:57jealous that
45:57you've
45:58got to
45:58do the
45:58workshop.
45:58It was
45:59really good.
46:00Yeah,
46:00it was
46:01good.
46:01I'm not
46:02going to
46:02lie,
46:02I was
46:02a little
46:03bit
46:03nervous.
46:03I
46:04mean,
46:04you don't
46:05know what
46:05you're
46:06kind of
46:06expecting.
46:07Do you
46:07feel like
46:07it's
46:07grown you
46:08closer to
46:09him in
46:09a different
46:09way?
46:10I think
46:11it's still
46:12too early
46:12to tell.
46:13Jean and
46:13I,
46:14obviously,
46:14we haven't
46:15had really
46:15any form of
46:16intimacy at
46:17all.
46:17But obviously
46:18there are
46:18different forms
46:19of it,
46:19there's different
46:20levels of it.
46:20We are still
46:21taking baby
46:22steps.
46:22Yeah, it
46:22was good.
46:23I think
46:23it was
46:23what we
46:24needed.
46:24I said
46:24to him
46:25after the
46:25commitment
46:25ceremony,
46:26he's
46:27constantly
46:27got you
46:28on this
46:28pedestal
46:28and that's
46:28something he
46:29said he
46:29wouldn't
46:29do.
46:30I was
46:30like,
46:30you know,
46:31you also
46:32need to be
46:32there for
46:32you too.
46:34I think
46:35that commitment
46:35ceremony kicked
46:36up the
46:36arse a little
46:37bit.
46:37You know,
46:37maybe it's
46:38made her
46:38realise a
46:39little bit
46:39more how
46:40good Dean
46:40is.
46:41She needs
46:41to be open
46:42and vulnerable
46:42to him.
46:43She's been
46:43matching for
46:44a reason.
46:46Where are you
46:47and Lee
46:47now?
46:47Yeah,
46:49we haven't
46:50the best
46:51night.
46:51How did
46:52you not?
46:53No,
46:53Lee thought
46:54I'd come
46:54up to
46:55you in
46:55a bar
46:55and was
46:56like,
46:56hey,
46:57Rebecca,
46:58I fancy
46:58you.
47:00But it's
47:01not in
47:01that way
47:02at all.
47:03I think
47:03you said
47:04Rebecca's
47:05more my
47:06type,
47:06gym girl
47:07dark hip.
47:09And also,
47:09like I said,
47:10you feel
47:10like home
47:11to me
47:11because
47:11my friends
47:12are like
47:13you.
47:14It was
47:14just something
47:15that was
47:15latched onto
47:15you,
47:16but there
47:16was literally
47:16nothing in
47:17it.
47:18That made
47:19her realise
47:20definitely
47:20that,
47:21OK,
47:22maybe I do
47:22like her
47:22a little bit
47:23more,
47:23but she
47:23still won't
47:23admit that.
47:25I can't
47:26understand
47:26why Lee
47:27would feel
47:28negative feelings
47:29towards it
47:30because if
47:31somebody in
47:32the group
47:32is pointing
47:33out as
47:33being more
47:34your wife
47:34tight,
47:35then there's
47:35going to be
47:36some sort
47:36of feelings
47:36to go.
47:37There's
47:37just nothing
47:37to worry
47:38about
47:38with me
47:39and Leah.
47:42All right,
47:42then,
47:42Steve,
47:43you're the one
47:43to hold
47:43your cards
47:44close to
47:44your chest,
47:44what about
47:45you?
47:45Obviously,
47:45for me,
47:46look,
47:46I'd never
47:47like to
47:47show
47:48vulnerability
47:48because it
47:48makes me
47:49look weaker
47:50than when
47:50I've done
47:50that in
47:51the past,
47:51then people
47:52take the
47:52piss.
47:52So I
47:53decided to
47:53slow down
47:54on the
47:54intimacy side
47:55of things,
47:55like the
47:56less hugging,
47:57the kissing,
47:57which sounds
47:58bad.
47:58But why have
47:59you kind of
47:59made that
48:00good?
48:00Because she's
48:01three steps
48:01ahead of me
48:01because she's
48:02opened up
48:03and I
48:03haven't.
48:04It might
48:04get in her
48:05head a little
48:05bit if she
48:06sees you
48:06going backwards
48:07a bit.
48:07I think if
48:08you are
48:08doing that,
48:09you've
48:09got to be
48:09super clear
48:10as why
48:11you are
48:11doing that.
48:11She really
48:28likes you
48:29and I've
48:30talked with
48:30her a lot
48:31and you
48:31know that
48:31Stephen is
48:33overthinking
48:33it.
48:34He's
48:34definitely
48:34overthinking
48:35it.
48:35He's
48:35being way
48:36too
48:36logical
48:36about
48:37this.
48:38Just let
48:38go.
48:39It's the
48:39only way
48:40it's
48:40going to
48:40work
48:40if
48:40he
48:40lets
48:41go.
48:41So
48:46Stephen came
48:47to see
48:48you,
48:48didn't he?
48:49I think
48:50he just
48:50needed to
48:51kind of
48:51vent and
48:51go through
48:52what happened
48:52in the
48:52evening.
48:53He just
48:53kind of
48:54needed to
48:54say it
48:54out loud
48:55to us.
48:56I told
48:57him time
48:58and again
48:58that they're
48:59not trying
48:59to do
48:59it to
48:59wind you
49:00up.
49:00No
49:00one's
49:00aim is
49:01to
49:01wind
49:01you
49:01up.
49:02Their
49:02aim is
49:03to
49:03pick
49:03me
49:03up.
49:03You
49:04could
49:04see
49:04that
49:04I
49:04wasn't
49:04myself.
49:05Much
49:06better
49:06to
49:06do
49:06it
49:06over
49:06one.
49:07And
49:09you
49:09two
49:09are
49:09good
49:09now.
49:10That's
49:10all
49:10squashed.
49:11Yeah
49:11I'm
49:11just
49:11obviously
49:12it's
49:12still
49:12hard
49:12I
49:13think.
49:14He
49:14still
49:14has
49:14pulled
49:14back
49:15but
49:15now
49:15I'm
49:16like
49:16well
49:16cool
49:16sweet
49:16you pull
49:17back
49:17if that's
49:17what you
49:17want to
49:18do.
49:18I'm
49:19going to
49:19do
49:19me.
49:19If
49:20you
49:20want
49:21me
49:21then
49:21great.
49:22If
49:22he
49:22doesn't
49:23his
49:23last
49:23thing.
49:24Yes
49:24it
49:24is
49:24yeah.
49:27I
49:27don't
49:27really know
49:27where I
49:28stand.
49:29I
49:29just
49:29need
49:29a bit
49:29of
49:29consistency
49:30it's
49:30really
49:39cool I'm
49:39tapping
49:40out
49:40I'm
49:40not
49:40going
49:40to
49:40put
49:40myself
49:41through
49:41this
49:41so
49:42if
49:43you
49:43don't
49:43want
49:43all
49:43of
49:43me
49:43then
49:44see
49:44you
49:44later
49:44mate
49:44you
49:46can
49:46get
49:46fucked.
49:49Next
49:50time
49:50on a
49:51scale
49:51of
49:51one
49:51to
49:52ten
49:52how
49:52strong
49:53are
49:53your
49:53feelings
49:54the
49:55second
49:55dinner
49:55party
49:56serves
49:56up
49:56romantic
49:57confessions
49:57from
49:58some
49:589.5
49:59do you
50:02have
50:02any
50:03regrets
50:03so
50:03far
50:04while
50:04others
50:05face
50:05harsher
50:05truths
50:06yes
50:08feel
50:09like
50:10I'm
50:10constantly
50:10pulling
50:11you
50:11out
50:11for
50:11things
50:11I'm
50:11trying
50:12to
50:12be
50:12nice
50:12and
50:12then
50:13they're
50:13backbiring
50:13on me
50:14I'm at
50:15the point
50:15of my
50:16life
50:16now
50:16I need
50:16to know
50:17you
50:17want
50:17the
50:17same
50:17thing
50:18I
50:18haven't
50:18got
50:18time
50:18to
50:19waste
50:19but
50:20it's
50:20gossip
50:20in the
50:21group
50:21he
50:22fucked
50:22a
50:22girl
50:22like
50:22two
50:23weeks
50:23before
50:23he
50:23came
50:23here
50:24that
50:26sparks
50:27the biggest
50:27conflict
50:28of the
50:28night
50:29who
50:29decided
50:30to say
50:30I
50:30was
50:30talking
50:31about
50:31my
50:31sexual
50:31activity
50:32you
50:32did
50:32we
50:33were
50:33all
50:33there
50:33people
50:33starting
50:34to
50:34fuck
50:34me
50:34off
50:34that
50:34that
50:35that
50:35that
50:35that
50:35that
50:35that
50:38you
50:39fucking
50:39cunts
50:39wow
50:40did he
50:41just say
50:41that
50:41that
50:42that
50:43that
50:44that
50:45that
50:46that
50:47that
50:48that
50:49that
50:50that
50:51that
50:52that
50:54that
50:55that
50:56that
50:57that
50:58that
50:59that
51:00that
51:01that
51:02that
51:03that
51:04that
51:05that
51:06that
51:07that
51:08that
51:09that
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