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Love During Lockup (2022) Season 5 Episode 1 - Sugar Mama Drama
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00:00she don't know me on the outside world there's things that she will figure out and learn in
00:06time she just don't need to know right now the hard thing about dating someone that's
00:10incarcerated is them nights get really cold do you like my wedding dress
00:14love is handing someone your heart and hoping they don't break it
00:20we're gonna make this work no matter what
00:22oh my god bitch we got 20 days
00:30bradley's my best friend she's always been someone i could talk to but the sneakiness and
00:35the lying brought me the wrong way there's a lot of hurt yeah on both sides
00:39there's royalties in the building royalties bow down when i walk by i wasn't looking to date
00:45an inmate again but here i am now i sent her from credible arrangement to let her know i was serious
00:50i just up and move my whole life here and you want me to be here for an extra two and a half years
00:55this call is being terminated andrew is very sexy have you seen the man
01:00i love willie but i don't know what my ex-husband is doing well
01:13hi mj sam has dedicated his entire life to me it's about like 102 000 in four years
01:21good god it's a guy she wants something doesn't she i'm terrified to disappoint her
01:26i got some pictures of rob and his tattoos are just like glistening
01:31i said lord i'm a sexy actor today yeah so well i feel like i'm gonna turn into an animal
01:36all fantasies and rainbows while he's locked up you don't know if a child's gonna live or die
01:43it's scary i have no idea this is
01:46i just need some time to myself i feel like it could be polar opposites attract oh my god
01:53what's the issue you're the issue or it could just be this cataclysmic show
01:58i haven't been completely honest with sam i'm so over it
02:01that's a transport man i'm taking me and my mans and we gonna go do that people do in the real world
02:10you have a collect call from an incarcerated individual to accept charges press one
02:26hi daddy
02:29how's your day going so far
02:36it's all right
02:37not you're gonna pick my big ass up in the air
02:44i come plus size and everything i do
02:49look at me let's got everything big personality big career big woman big ass titties big ass booty
03:01my ankle's kind of big too but it's okay
03:03how's the weather outside i'm sitting like on a bench right next to the water it is absolutely amazing
03:13wait sit next to you right there where you sitting at
03:15rob and i have a twin flame connection he is my divine counterpart
03:34our sexual chemistry is extremely good i'm 45 days away from walking out of this prison so you know i'm excited i can't wait i am sexually active in eight years she is in trouble i feel like i'm about to turn it to an animal
03:49my cousin is married to rob's sister
03:59my cousin calling the phone like i got some pictures of a teacher brother rob i sent it to you go look
04:06that's the lord i'm bigger now though i gotta see my show now i gotta take one for you guys
04:13it's been eight months since me and rob had our first conversation over the phone
04:19i've been sitting down for eight and a half years right everything on pause
04:24mm-hmm
04:25we gotta get everything we'll get the ball rolling
04:27the last 16 years i've been in and out of the system
04:29i was fortunate enough to have two parents in the household
04:32and grew up with love inside the house you know but um the finances wasn't there
04:38so when i was 14 years old i started selling drugs
04:40and i was stealing cars you know and taking to the chop shop
04:44when i was 24 i was arrested and convicted for robbery in the first degree
04:48um i got a 10 year sentence when i'm serving eight and a half
04:51but um i'm done with this lifestyle i am ready to get on with my life and be a productive member of
04:57you know society you know so and um
05:00okay this is actually a surgery i just had from parathyroid
05:04unfortunately it's not from nobody else cutting me open over no valence
05:08now i need a type of cosmetic surgery to take it off
05:12what's your biggest goal that you plan to achieve as soon as you come home
05:18i'm excited for us to to be together you know and start our life together
05:23aww
05:25thank you so sweet
05:27i'm one of these like strippers and that's one of my goals as well
05:32oh my god you with the strippers bro
05:35my question for you is are you gonna be a part of this or are you gonna be at home
05:39all right something i want to do sooner that was definitely with my my homeboys is
05:43you know um have the strippers and you know we're just having fun and you know doing things men do
05:48you know like i'm saying
05:49slapdolls and you know have this my face dance my life
05:52when are you trying to get the strippers it's not like the first day you come home
05:56right like when is it when when are we doing this
05:59first of all what
06:08no we're not doing that
06:12so you're telling me you want everybody over at the house while
06:15we already had the talk that the first two days was just me and you
06:27and then now all of a sudden you want the family to be there as soon as
06:30why why why
06:31she want me immediately she don't want to wait
06:35i think that's gonna be an issue
06:36i want to cuddle i want to be held
06:39why do we have to have other people as soon as you come home
06:42i have to really like calm down because i am completely vulnerable
06:47i do carry trauma with me from past relationships
06:53if he hurts me i think i wouldn't get in a relationship probably for the rest of my life
07:00we're gonna do domestics over here
07:15all right cool boom you ready
07:17oh god
07:18don't fall out
07:22it doesn't bother you that like the grass is wet
07:35i got one of pretty shoes
07:36oh all right go you
07:37yes
07:38go guy go
07:40hold on i gotta fix my boobs
07:42they're supposed to look like they just do this on their own but they don't
07:45takes a lot of effort actually
07:47okay
07:48i love to tell people what i think about everything and i like to talk all the time
07:54hold on babe
07:55i am working at a local country club and i'm the bev cart girl on the golf course
08:02all i know is when they say duck duck
08:04i don't got time for all that
08:07i'm a work in progress okay
08:09oh it's my bradley
08:13i'm gonna just pause over here
08:14to accept this call plus zero
08:17what is up babe
08:19hey
08:19i'm at work right now
08:21but maddie came to see me
08:23hey
08:24oh i didn't even check my countdown today
08:26oh my god
08:27bitch we got 20 days
08:29it kind of gives me butterflies
08:32bradley's my best friend
08:35we started dating two years ago
08:38after he was incarcerated
08:39but he's been in my life for five or six years
08:42i met savannah through friends of a friend
08:46i used to throw a couple cool parties
08:48and one of her friends brought her around
08:49and we started like
08:50linking up to like bars and stuff
08:52she's just always been someone i could talk to
08:55about anything
08:56i knew that i loved him a lot
08:58but like a relationship
09:00the way that we are today
09:01would not have been possible
09:02back then
09:04i think that you should get my name tattooed on your
09:06oh my god
09:09y'all need some privacy
09:12maddie said y'all need some privacy
09:15why not
09:18get off that idea
09:19get on a different idea
09:21well you know what is a crazy idea
09:24i can't wait to hear it
09:26the fact that we have 20 days left bitch
09:30i'll be in that parking lot at 6am
09:32till whenever you walk out them doors
09:34i still haven't even registered reality yet
09:36i know right
09:37i've been locked up for about 28 months now
09:42i was charged with transportation of a firearm
09:45and since two and a half years in prison
09:48i'm really excited and it doesn't even feel real
09:52everything happens for a reason
09:58i mean if you wouldn't have went to prison
09:59and i wouldn't have went to rehab
10:01like those were not good times in our life
10:03but like we want to be here
10:05we want to be talking
10:06we want to be a thing
10:07my descent into drug addiction was actually
10:12i think different than most
10:15growing up
10:16i was a princess actually
10:17i never felt like there was a lack
10:20at 19 i met this guy
10:23and he was a recovering heroin addict
10:25and he had a kid
10:26and i loved that little girl
10:29um more than anything
10:32every three months like clockwork
10:36her dad would relapse on heroin
10:38for days without coming home
10:40i put up with it for four years
10:43and then uh we got into a fight one night
10:47and then the next day he was gone
10:49and he took her with him
10:52his daughter
10:53so it wasn't the breakup
10:55that caused a lot of trauma for me
10:59um
11:00or gave me feelings that i didn't know how to cope with
11:04i was waking up one day
11:09every day for four years being a mom
11:12and then waking up one day and not being a mom
11:14it's a blessing that i never had
11:20go to prison
11:22or that i'm even able to be
11:24out here right now
11:25like that in itself
11:26like
11:26there's a reason for that
11:28you know what i mean
11:29started with cocaine
11:32and then adderall
11:33after adderall we met methanie
11:36um
11:37bitch
11:38i went through a lot of pain
11:40i caused myself a lot of pain
11:42i hurt a lot of people
11:43but god turned me into the person that i am today
11:50and
11:50she's not perfect
11:52but
11:53she's working on it
11:54talking
11:54what
11:55this bitch
11:56i hate her
11:59i love you
12:01i've been clean off of meth
12:04and cocaine
12:06for just over two years
12:07but
12:08i will always
12:09be a drug addict
12:11have y'all been together
12:12sober before
12:13like how do you think that's gonna
12:14no
12:15i mean obviously he's in a position right now where he's forced to be sober
12:19but like life is full of uncertainties
12:21i don't know
12:22that's just scary to think about
12:25i just want to make sure that you've like thought all this through
12:28yeah
12:29i'm full supportive of her and her pro sober
12:33second chance
12:34mojo she's got going on
12:36but me personally i am in control of my own life
12:39so as long as she doesn't push those morals on me
12:42we're beautiful
12:43i insulted my ex-husband
12:52cutting him on the forehead with a tumor
12:54my mother-in-law is telling me about the relationship
13:06and i know the young lady
13:08a young lady
13:09there's things that see her figure out and learn in time
13:12she just don't need to know right now
13:13i didn't think
13:15something like this would happen
13:16this makes me nervous
13:18i've been using my message
13:20if you were to find out
13:21she would blow a f***ing gasp
13:22hi how you feeling
13:34great
13:35no relief
13:36a little bit
13:38a little bit
13:38okay well
13:39you look a little better so
13:41we'll be on our way
13:42well let's grab some coffee
13:49i'm not trying to go right away
13:50right
13:51so what's going on with you
13:53the usual
13:54how's the wife
13:55she calls you all the time
13:57yeah
13:58right on schedule every time
14:00i never thought i'd find my soulmate in prison
14:03i never thought that i'd find even a friend in prison
14:07but crystal is the love of my life
14:13i'm serving a 14-year sentence
14:21at the christina milton crane unit in gatesville texas
14:25when i was 19 i fell in love with a guy
14:31it was a very addiction-fueled
14:34volatile relationship
14:36and my ex-husband and i got into a really bad argument
14:40and i assaulted him by cutting him on the forehead with a kitchen knife
14:45i was charged with aggravated assault with a deadly weapon
14:51i've done seven years on a 14-year sentence
14:55shortly after i got divorced to my ex-wife
14:59i wrote crystal off a website
15:02all right
15:04and the plan behind it simply was just kind of
15:08be able to write somebody
15:10but not actually have to have any kind of obligation to it
15:14invest in it
15:15yeah
15:15i married my high school sweetheart
15:17and we spent most of our adult life growing up together
15:20but i could tell how unhappy i made her
15:23and it was better to get divorced
15:27than end up killing each other
15:29i was living in the northwest
15:31and i was looking for a pen pal specifically in texas
15:35texas women carry a reputation i think
15:38that they're beautiful
15:39that they're honest
15:40that they're raw
15:41i thought
15:42this guy is too cute to be on this website
15:44we instantly knew we were going to make this work
15:47no matter what
15:48this call will be recorded and subject to monetary at any time
15:52you may start the conversation now
15:54hi baba
15:56hi honey
15:57killing time
16:00hold on kevin's squeezing through
16:01hi kevin
16:03how are you miss crystal
16:05i'm good
16:06how are you
16:07oh doing good
16:08working with your better half
16:09after about three-ish months of crystal and i communicating
16:15i flew down to texas from oregon
16:18we met for the first time in person
16:20and it was awesome
16:22i realized
16:23on my flight back home
16:25it was time
16:26to move to texas
16:27and pursue
16:28how
16:28to marry somebody in prison
16:30have you eaten today
16:32lukewarm water
16:33sitting on the ambulance floor
16:35yes
16:35oh yum
16:36yeah i'm ready for the weekend
16:39and cameron
16:39it'll be the first time in forever
16:41i've seen him
16:42don't let cameron eat
16:44so she can like
16:45go hang out
16:46or whatever
16:48crystal can be a jealous little munchkin
16:52very much so
16:54she doesn't want me to go out and be social
17:00it really actually upsets me
17:02because she's not here
17:03she's a puppet master
17:05and it's hard to be the puppet
17:06i won't
17:09but
17:11she's
17:13the woman i love
17:14this is correspondence i've sent to crystal
17:16i miss you so much
17:18ten days left till our wedding
17:19thank you my love
17:24for standing by me
17:25every step of the way
17:27by her
17:28you have one minute left
17:30all right love you bye
17:31all right
17:32i love sam
17:36but
17:38i do not
17:39trust sam
17:40at this point in time
17:41even though we've been married
17:44for two years
17:45we only have the surface level of a relationship
17:50you can't have sex
17:52you can't stay the night
17:53we don't have that physical bond yet
17:56she's interested in what you're doing
17:58who you're talking to
17:59but
17:59do you think anyone else has ever contacted her
18:02i don't think so
18:03yeah
18:03as far as i know
18:04but again it's
18:05it's part of the trust factor
18:08there's no way i could really know
18:10he's got to have some secrets
18:12and i know that
18:15because
18:15i haven't been completely honest with sam
18:18i need to know what your plans are with my child
18:33i'm scared
18:35you know you've always been the only one that i can really be truly honest with
18:40nothing can take away the connection that he and i have
18:44i've been using these for me
18:45so peaceful
18:57yeah
18:58hey
19:01well you already know the drill
19:04baby
19:05please
19:06love you more
19:07oh hey
19:08hey
19:09hey
19:11hey
19:12you gotta fold your legs like mine
19:13oh boy
19:14girl i don't know if i can do that
19:15you got it
19:16all right
19:18so let's go ahead and get started
19:20my cousin toya
19:22is
19:23my favorite cousin
19:25she does tarot
19:27and she's a medium
19:28so she speaks to people who have passed over
19:30she introduced me and rob
19:33like
19:34i love her so much
19:36do you have any questions
19:38yes
19:38what's the first one
19:39okay so basically
19:40like right before here
19:42me and rob were on the phone right
19:44and we were talking about like
19:45when he comes out
19:45what we're gonna do
19:46he was like
19:47okay i want
19:48my family there the first day
19:49and then the second day
19:50he gonna have strippers
19:51strippers though
19:53bro
19:54like what is wrong with you
19:55oh man
19:56all right holy spirit team
19:58we ask
19:58to let's here
20:00see how rob sees how
20:02the ten of cups
20:06as his happiness
20:07his love
20:09his joy
20:10that's right
20:11his family
20:12that's right
20:12his peace
20:13right
20:13he plans on
20:15going full force
20:16he's not gonna let anything stop him
20:18in the relationship
20:19but it's okay
20:19i know right
20:20i think some more messages
20:24okay
20:24heal
20:27it has to be a conscious effort
20:32to continue to do that
20:34oh my god
20:36i asked
20:37how do you have any tissue
20:39just don't go back there
20:41because you have a lot of happiness here
20:43in the past
20:45i have been
20:46in
20:47an abusive relationship
20:50it got really bad
20:53to the point where i ended up
20:55breaking bones
20:57one day i said
21:00i gotta go
21:01i gotta try
21:02or
21:02so everything happens
21:14as it should
21:15you were supposed to go through
21:16everything you went through
21:17even though it was hard
21:18that it hurt
21:19that your heart was broken
21:21it's so you could be here right now
21:23so i want those tears
21:27to turn into happy tears
21:28eventually
21:29i know they will
21:29after that
21:33like
21:33i was just like
21:34i didn't want
21:35i didn't want to be in nothing
21:36for real
21:37but i had to give it a chance
21:39everything inside of me
21:40said just give it a chance
21:41my mother-in-law
21:44has been coming to me
21:44for a couple of days now
21:46just telling me
21:48about her son
21:49about the relationship
21:50rob's mom passed away
21:53a long time ago
21:54i definitely feel
21:56rob's mom's presence
21:57just trying to give you
21:58some guidance and advice
22:00and wanting you to know
22:01that she is available
22:02the fact that me and robbie
22:04actually got together
22:05yeah i'm telling you
22:07she was definitely like
22:09um no it's time
22:10it means a lot to have her
22:11approval on this relationship
22:13as well
22:13once he gets out
22:17things are going to move
22:18very quickly for you guys
22:19he's going to be home
22:20for like
22:21maybe
22:21a month
22:23and then he's going to be
22:23ready to come and you know
22:24move in
22:25i don't know where he's
22:27technically staying
22:28when he gets out
22:29like
22:29um i will tell you
22:30i know the young lady
22:31that's going to be living there
22:33and she knows her
22:34and um
22:35young lady
22:36it's a family friend
22:39it's not just his friend
22:40but it's like a family
22:41friend
22:41i know that
22:42i won't be paroling with tia
22:51i'll be paroling to brooklyn
22:53because it wasn't enough time
22:54for me to know
22:55if we should be living together
22:56right away
22:57what's displayed to tia
22:58my whole full living situation
23:00in brooklyn
23:01i don't really think she'll really
23:03wholeheartedly improve of it
23:05because
23:05it's still another female
23:07gonna be present
23:08when she's not around
23:09tia won't be upset
23:11but like
23:12she just don't need to know
23:13right now
23:13you didn't know he was
23:17that's where he was going
23:18he could tell
23:18it's more and more things
23:20that
23:21are just not making sense to me
23:23and i'm getting a little worried
23:25so are we gonna
23:26get to some type of understanding
23:28or
23:29is it just like
23:30we're just not gonna see y'all out
23:31is rob
23:34playing me
23:34that would really break my heart
23:36communication
23:40has to stay open
23:42it's gonna be a lot
23:43for you
23:44for a while
23:45and not even
23:46it's crazy
23:46i'm not even seeing it for him
23:48as much as i am
23:49for you
23:49i was gonna be the greatest
23:58got no time to wait
24:00okay we made it
24:02i know i hear ya
24:06hi there
24:15hi how's it going
24:16good
24:17nope
24:17wait
24:18well he's full of energy
24:20he is
24:21he's very excited today
24:22i'm a crazy dog lady
24:24he's set some agility up for us
24:28it gives it a while today
24:29so we're gonna get some energy out of him
24:30let's see if he can balance on that thing
24:32i always felt like
24:34when i was lonely
24:36i could be
24:37around animals
24:38and i wouldn't feel
24:39as lonely
24:40come on get your paws up
24:44come here
24:45come here just your fun paws
24:46you can do it
24:46okay that's almost the right place
24:48remember you're pulling up
24:51in the direction you wanted to go into
24:53what's going on
24:55he never acts like this
24:56sorry girl
24:57yeah he's a little
24:58he's a little stressed
25:00we've got some big changes coming
25:02so i think he kind of feels the energy shifting
25:05what kind of changes
25:05well hunter's getting out of prison soon
25:08so we're getting all ready for that
25:10hunter is very sexy
25:13have you seen the man
25:15he's very charming
25:17he makes everyone feel like they have like an inside joke with him
25:22do you have suggestions about how it's best to like introduce a new housemate to a dog
25:29he definitely requires more leadership
25:31if he's softer than you then
25:33you know he's gonna run the house period
25:35you know what i mean
25:36yeah
25:36i met hunter at
25:38the coffee shop in my neighborhood
25:40he'd been recently hired as a barista there
25:43we ended up dating casually for about a year
26:02before he went into prison
26:03i stayed in touch with hunter when he went into prison as a friend
26:21because for me having DUIs is not a shut the door red flag
26:26but i got more deeply emotionally involved
26:30than i would have liked to have been
26:32the silver lining is that
26:34i found someone who i really love
26:35hey baby
26:37hey baby
26:38how you doing
26:40how you doing mama
26:41i'm good
26:42i'm with uh jose right now
26:44we're um training the dog
26:46okay good
26:48uh
26:50so uh
26:51i don't want to know what you think i love you any less
26:54but
26:55i have to
26:56tell you
26:57this makes me nervous
26:59and i didn't think something like this would happen
27:02i've been doing good all the way up to this point
27:05but
27:07brace yourself for this
27:09uh
27:09it's the women
27:11you guys are toxic to each other
27:20he's gonna come out and do the same stuff
27:22bradley was my weed dealer
27:23i see pearl next month
27:27and i don't know what's gonna happen
27:30it could just be this cataclysmic show
27:32mom
27:47what up
27:49where are you
27:50i'm making tacos
27:51okay
27:52how was your day
27:59you make bank
28:00absolutely not
28:01there was literally
28:02are you serious
28:02i mean it's raining
28:03there was not a single person on the golf course
28:05yeah
28:07i'm gonna go get changed
28:08um you can come help me
28:09no
28:11right now i am living at home
28:15while i save some money
28:16and wait for bradley to come home
28:18oh bradley's calling
28:21i live with my mom and my grandma
28:24in this really big traditional deep south looking house
28:29when my grandma picked out the floor plan
28:31she based it off of thomas jefferson's house monticello
28:34hence the uh pillars
28:36we don't have a pool though
28:39we gotta work on that
28:40thank you for using gtl
28:42what's up baby
28:44nothing i literally just got home
28:46i think i just heard my mom yell
28:51hold on
28:52savannah
28:53why are you yelling at me
28:55can you come home and cook dinner
28:56bradley's on the phone
28:57okay bring bradley down
28:59okay
29:00i wanted to change my clothes up
29:03hello bradley
29:06what's up chenoa
29:07hey
29:08what are you gonna do with your life
29:09my life
29:10i need to know what you're gonna do with your life
29:11she needs to know your whole life plan right now
29:13i do
29:14i need to know what your plans are with my child
29:18what is this the 50s
29:19she's really pressed about what your plans are for life
29:22i really wanna know
29:23are y'all going to counseling or anything
29:25counseling
29:26yeah
29:27counseling
29:27what are you talking about
29:29you guys are not very nice to each other
29:31this is pretty toxic
29:32in the past
29:34last week was the past
29:35uh i mean
29:37why do you think our relationship is toxic
29:38when he says
29:40you mother
29:41hangs up
29:42and then he literally calls right back
29:44that's not normal
29:46my mom has some concerns about me
29:50using drugs
29:51and i think that
29:53those concerns are fair
29:55and i think that those concerns are valid
29:57because bradley was my weed dealer
30:00and then we became best friends
30:02i feel like you don't really know our relationship
30:06for real for real
30:06yeah
30:08it's all good
30:09i'm gonna change my clothes
30:10i love you
30:11all right mom
30:13i'm gonna finish up this food
30:14mom you're ridiculous
30:15that's okay
30:16i do advocacy work
30:19for people in the virginia prison system
30:20and i know
30:23what's capable of going in there
30:25i don't know if bradley has stayed
30:27sober in prison
30:28i've never asked
30:29but if you want to get high
30:31you're gonna get high
30:32i guess for me savannah
30:36the part that i worry about is
30:38i believe people change
30:40and i believe
30:41do you
30:41yes
30:42but i worry
30:43he's gonna come out
30:44and do the same stuff
30:45you're just like
30:45hey you're toxic
30:46and you need to go to therapy
30:47we've been dating for two years
30:49so i feel like the time for you to say this
30:51was probably well before now
30:52so the approach was bad
30:54yeah
30:55i think that for me i'm
30:58i know
31:02i went down that road before
31:05and i'm scared
31:07i'm the one who got the phone calls
31:10when you don't know if your child's gonna live or die to the next day
31:14my biggest fear
31:17a relapse
31:18i have the fear that he's going to go out and use him because she loves him so much
31:24she could follow him down that path of addiction
31:28i'm scared
31:29i mean i understand that
31:32i feel like all i can say back to that is that i'm not
31:35that you're not what
31:37i'm not scared
31:39you don't have to trust him mom
31:41you just gotta trust me
31:42i'm getting about 2,000 a month
31:50from these chicks
31:51you bet
31:51the number jumped all the way up to around 40 women
31:55we're cooking it up
32:02we're holding it down
32:05hey riri
32:07hey i'm wondering if you could stop the store and buy me a few things
32:11just kidding i'll do it yeah
32:17get your butt on down here
32:19all right i will
32:20rita is
32:26probably my closest friend in texas
32:29hi riri
32:32hey
32:32well you're alive and breathing
32:35yeah
32:35what
32:36got you everything on the list crystal being yours
32:44sure appreciate it
32:47i moved to texas for crystal
32:50but if you want crystal you get rita
32:52if you're not willing to take care of rita look after rita in the best way you can
32:57then crystal will not be satisfied with you
33:00my mother passed away three months after i came to prison
33:06my father's never been in my life
33:09i'm an only child
33:11it's really just my grandmother on the outside
33:15her and sam have a very unique type of relationship
33:20i take rita out to lunch we go shopping together
33:23you know like as i get to know crystal it was rita that i'd go out to a restaurant for the first
33:28time with in texas so we are sort of like
33:31this symbiotic organism that works together
33:37first i'm gonna get i want you to form and then whatever you need i will do
33:41you're a sweetheart
33:42i know i know
33:44sam helps me with chores or anything i'll ask him to do he does it
33:51it's like he's heaven sent
33:54oh well you know what i said to crystal on the phone today
33:56i said you're my uh second wife
33:59oh i am or she is
34:01who's number two
34:04oh
34:05uh crystal's the first wife
34:08yeah
34:08you're the second wife
34:10okay
34:12are you willing to
34:13stick with this seven more years
34:16if she gets a seven year set off at parole i'll be here
34:19unless you know again unless she takes me to a limit
34:23it worries me when y'all
34:25fight
34:26i know
34:26i can't tell if it's a precursor
34:29of what's to come or if it's
34:31a difficult time
34:32and
34:33money situation
34:35every day she wants something doesn't she
34:37i know
34:38i'm not rich
34:40i'm a working class guy
34:41and i've sacrificed a lot for crystal and for this relationship
34:46about twenty seven thousand dollars a year
34:49and roughly one hundred two thousand dollars in four years
34:52so i work overtime 65 hours a week on average the money goes towards commissary television shows and movies and music on her prison issue tablet
35:05he put a hundred dollars on my books last week and i have 18 left because i binge watched one tv show
35:14best money i ever spent
35:16what's that
35:17what's it gonna be like when she gets out and keeps spending on her
35:23I'm sometimes terrified to disappoint her.
35:26But, I mean, she's my wife.
35:27I chose to love her and be with her and support her family.
35:31Before Sam and Crystal got together,
35:34I had the financial responsibility of Crystal all by myself.
35:37Then he comes along and starts funneling that money fast and heavy.
35:43Crystal gets me, so I think it'll be worth it.
35:48I see parole next month,
35:49and I could potentially be released within the next year.
35:53But there is something I haven't told Sam.
35:57So, I don't know.
35:59I don't know what's going to happen.
36:01Anything can happen.
36:03I don't know.
36:03I feel like me and Crystal meeting could be, you know,
36:07like the polar opposites attract,
36:10or it could just be this cataclysmic show,
36:12and everything falls apart,
36:15and we're worse off than we ever were.
36:17Yeah.
36:19I didn't think something like this would happen.
36:33I've been doing good all the way up to this point.
36:36But,
36:37brace yourself,
36:38it's the women.
36:41Dude, I f***ed up.
36:42I got in trouble.
36:53Okay.
36:55Oh, f*** you.
36:56What happened?
36:57Well, I had a couple visits throughout the week,
36:59and, uh...
37:00Video visits, right?
37:02Yeah, video visits.
37:04No physical visits.
37:05I know the rules.
37:06No.
37:06Hunter does communicate with other women.
37:08I trust him,
37:12and I just sort of resigned myself to the fact
37:14it takes money to be comfortable in there.
37:17So I signed him up for, um,
37:19a website called Write a Prisoner
37:22for him to get pen pals and sugar mamas through that.
37:27I do feel bad for the women that he's talking to,
37:43but he needs financial support,
37:45and I'm a yoga teacher.
37:47I don't make a lot of money.
37:47I also wanted to be sure
37:50that he was staying in touch with me
37:52because he felt supported by me,
37:54um, emotionally and not financially.
37:57I guess one of the visitation officers heard me,
38:00and they went back and checked the videotapes.
38:03Okay.
38:03I'm so curious.
38:04Yeah, so I got written up
38:07for seeing titties and sexual activity on camera.
38:11What does this mean?
38:13What does it mean for your release?
38:15I could get a sanction of up to 30 ERCs taken away.
38:20What's an ERC?
38:23Early release credits.
38:25So it could take 30 days of that,
38:28but I don't know yet.
38:29So it could impact your release.
38:32Yeah, I didn't know that the punishments
38:34were going to be so severe.
38:36Maybe you need to break up with these chicks.
38:40Uh.
38:41I, you know, I think you're in a position right now
38:44where you can cut things off, right?
38:46You can block.
38:47Are you ready for these bitches to be gone, basically?
38:49Yeah, I am.
38:50Well, I kind of still need to use them to eat,
38:54and we don't have to pay for these phone calls.
38:56How much are you really making?
38:57Like, is it really worth it
38:58when you're getting out so soon?
39:00I'm getting about $2,000 a month
39:02from these chicks.
39:04Oh, Jesus.
39:05I didn't know it was that much.
39:06I'm not proud to say it,
39:07but I've been using these women
39:09to live a little flesh life in here.
39:12Food, hygiene products.
39:15Like, I think he can buy protein powder.
39:18There's plenty of buns and snacks,
39:20yummy eyes.
39:20He has really nice shoes,
39:22and those are all purchased
39:23by the money that the Raider Prisoner women
39:26put on his books,
39:27or maybe directly purchased by them.
39:29The number jumped all the way up
39:31to around 40 women at one point.
39:33It got kind of stressful,
39:34so I kind of narrowed it down
39:36to which ones are financially
39:37supporting me the most.
39:39So my roster sits at a strong 10 right now.
39:44All of them are babe and wifey.
39:47They all expect me to get out and go to them.
39:50They all expect to pick me up.
39:52Yeah, it's going to be kind of a mess.
39:54Will you send me a list of the girls?
39:59So are you going to hit them up?
40:01Probably not.
40:02Okay, good.
40:03Don't worry.
40:04I'm no idea.
40:05I'm no idea.
40:06You know, you've always been the only one
40:08that I can really be truly honest with,
40:10and I appreciate you for that.
40:11Yeah.
40:12And I've just been able to be super open with you,
40:14and that's helped me become, like,
40:16giving me the person I am today and with you.
40:18So I appreciate you, and I love you for that.
40:20I love you too, baby.
40:22I'm angry about these Raider Prisoner sugar mamas
40:25risking his freedom,
40:27but I love the way that this man makes me feel.
40:30He makes me feel strong and brave and smart and sexy.
40:34I want you to handle this,
40:36and I don't want there to be any more risks
40:38to your release date.
40:39I'm sorry.
40:41I know.
40:42I've never considered marrying anyone
40:44until I met Hunter.
40:46Nothing can take away the kind of connection
40:49that he and I have,
40:51which is unlike any I've ever had.
40:52I'll talk to you later, okay?
40:55All right, baby.
40:55I love you so much.
40:57I love you too, honey.
40:58Mwah.
40:58I'm hopeful that me and Kate
41:02will make it through the rest of our lives together,
41:05I love her to death.
41:06But the sky kind of complicated
41:10with one of the women,
41:11if you were to find out,
41:12she would blow up the ass.
41:18This call will be recorded
41:19and subject to monitoring at any time.
41:22You may begin speaking now.
41:23This season on Love During Lockup.
41:33Do you like my dress?
41:34I love you so much.
41:37What?
41:38What are you going to do when you get out?
41:40I'm going to get down on one knee.
41:41I'm going to climb him like a dream.
41:46So you're going to pay for my BBL, right?
41:48What the f**k?
41:49I think I said next time I'm a little bitch.
41:51I want your bed.
41:52You want to do that?
41:53Just do it.
41:54Pretty much.
41:55F**k.
41:55I'm a**.
41:56You really just kicked me off.
41:58She picked up a blade and used it.
42:00Go through the hole.
42:01Stay in the hole.
42:01I'll get a break away from you.
42:03I have a lot of ideas.
42:04I don't know if you are coming home to me.
42:05F**k you.
42:07You're sick.
42:07What the f**k are you talking about?
42:10Oh my God.
42:10I know a little thing about loyalty.
42:12Can you just turn off the camera, please?
42:13I'm torn whether this is a really great...
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