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Welcome to Plathville (2019) Season 7 Episode 4- The Proposal
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00:00I'm trying to surprise Lydia for the proposal in two weeks.
00:07Wow. Wow.
00:08The wedding day is going to be in three months.
00:12Oh, my.
00:13I'm glad you're sitting down for this one.
00:15Are you crazy?
00:18I don't really know him.
00:20I don't really like him.
00:22Why is that?
00:23I just don't like him.
00:24Sorry.
00:26I think the problem is more.
00:28He doesn't know me very well.
00:30And that's a hard reality to face.
00:36Lydia's not supposed to know we're here because we're here to witness her engagement today.
00:41I think Ethan's here.
00:43That's lovely. I need him at now.
00:44There's tension between Veronica and my family.
00:47It's tricky to navigate.
00:49Don't do anything before everything happens with Lydia and Zach.
00:53He's going to do anything to not have me, like, pop off.
00:56So dad and I are going, we're going out together.
01:19Just the two of us.
01:21So right now, Lydia thinks that I am taking her out to dinner.
01:25What is actually happening today is we're going to end up at the cabin where Zach is waiting for her to propose to her.
01:33And this is all a surprise.
01:34And she has remained in the dark about what's really going on.
01:38Zach called me the other day and was just like, he sounded really sad.
01:42And he was like, it's just hit me.
01:44I only have a few months left with you here.
01:47I want to spend as much time with you as I can.
01:49We just want to make the best of the few months I have left here before I move to Colorado.
01:55I mean, I assume I'm going to get married and move to Colorado, but I'm not.
02:05Dad, I'm ready when you are.
02:06Where is Zach right now?
02:09Let's see.
02:09This weekend, Zach is at a going away party with one of his friends who's leaving the country for four months.
02:17In Colorado.
02:18In Colorado, yeah.
02:23I love this one.
02:23I just flew in from Colorado.
02:34I picked up the ring and I'm at the cabin to get ready for the proposal.
02:39Lydia does not know I'm here, but we're looking forward to surprising her.
02:44Hi.
02:44Hello.
02:45So you must be Zachary Wise, huh?
02:48Yes, dude.
02:48Good to see you, man.
02:49Nice to meet you.
02:49There's so much coming together and I'm meeting Micah and Veronica for the first time, which is so exciting.
02:56I've been wanting to meet the whole family and Micah's the last one.
03:00It'll be good to have the whole Plath family able to join me and some of her friends are going to be there, too.
03:07So it's just so surreal.
03:10Thanks for coming down.
03:11Glad you guys could make it.
03:12Up.
03:13Up, yes.
03:14I guess that's fair.
03:14Down and up.
03:15Yeah.
03:16I guess I was coming down from Colorado.
03:20I can't wait to just be hopefully engaged by the end of the day.
03:24I'm pretty confident in her answer, but we don't know yet.
03:29Well, so what's the plan?
03:31I'm kind of, yeah, what's the plan?
03:33Throwing in a pot and stirred together.
03:35Well, we have these roses.
03:36We're going to actually piece them apart to put on, like, kind of the peninsula leading to me.
03:42And then...
03:43Oh.
03:43Like rose petals?
03:44Mm-hmm.
03:44Like the rose petals.
03:46I've never met somebody the same day they proposed to, like, a family member.
03:51Bold move.
03:52So, basically, they're going to pull up here.
03:56And, um, but you guys will already be here, kind of between the trees.
04:02I'm assuming they'll just drive up right here.
04:03Not a good thing.
04:04It feels like when the substitute teacher's telling you what to do and not one of the souls listening.
04:08Obviously, I'm excited to get a read on him, try to see what I come up with, because I've never met him.
04:14And he, like, feels like just last month met my sister.
04:18The whole family would stand where you guys are and be facing the driveway for when Leah and Barry come in.
04:24And then she would greet you guys.
04:27Obviously, Micah, Veronica, you guys would be surprised.
04:29So show us where you're going to be.
04:31My first impression, I don't know, he's an interesting fellow.
04:35But in terms of just visual for her, it might be better if I'm here.
04:41He is really, really particular about everything.
04:43But I'm also thinking here could be good.
04:56Damn, freaking idiot.
04:59From the moment Zach arrived, he, uh, was very, very pushy and, like,
05:04here's how we're going to do everything.
05:07Here's where everyone's going to stand.
05:08Here's what I want you to do, blah, blah, blah.
05:10Everyone can probably come down and follow her and just still watch anyone.
05:13They don't really care for it.
05:15So you're going to be here when she comes?
05:18Um...
05:18Or are you going to be at the end, where the chairs are?
05:21I'm thinking about that.
05:23I'm not just giving Lydia a ring.
05:25I'm not just giving her my hand.
05:27I'm letting everyone in on this so that she can enjoy it.
05:31And so I think failing to prepare is preparing to fail.
05:36I mean, it seems like down there would look better.
05:38Yeah.
05:39Zach is giving all of us instructions.
05:42And Ethan, Micah are kind of not paying attention.
05:47Yeah, so I think having everyone kind of leading into the peninsula,
05:51just so it's not too tight.
05:52I say we just let it happen today,
05:54and now we just try to give him a s***.
05:58I'm sure she'll want to just hug me immediately.
06:02Yeah.
06:04God, I love you.
06:05Here's the time.
06:06But then it's like more of a moment.
06:08I don't know if it's like...
06:10She probably wants to get to the point, but...
06:11So that she sees you guys.
06:13Oh!
06:16Here you go.
06:16Yeah!
06:19Rolling down the hill and knocking somebody over
06:21is the sort of thing that my boys would just do, period.
06:27I think Zach is just getting a little taste
06:29of what it's like to be in the Plath family.
06:32Is there anything else we need to really set up
06:35other than the roses?
06:35We just need to move the chairs.
06:37Yeah.
06:37We want to do that now, I guess.
06:39We could probably do that.
06:40Ethan, go grab a chair.
06:41What the hell are we doing?
06:42We got to follow this freaking idiot.
06:45All of my issues with Zach boil down to two things.
06:50The time frame and the fact that I firmly believe
06:53they don't know each other
06:53because there's no way that they can.
06:55And so I don't approve of anything going on here.
06:59It's frustrating.
07:02Oh, my God, Ethan.
07:04Oh, he started a fire.
07:05Yeah.
07:05Oh, Ethan.
07:08Hey, Micah.
07:09We can't have it anymore.
07:10It's all on fire!
07:12Ethan, please put this...
07:14Ethan, please don't.
07:17Mom, calm down.
07:18I know, okay.
07:20Look at all the water.
07:21Yeah, but look at all the pine straw.
07:24I think Ethan didn't mean any wrong by it.
07:27I don't think he was intentionally trying to ruin anything
07:30or sabotage anything.
07:31I think he was just going to blow off steam.
07:36Oh, my God.
07:38Which one of them did that?
07:40I think it was your man, not mine for once.
07:41That sounds about right.
07:44Don't you love your children?
07:44Yeah, but I do need you to get the chair, Micah.
07:52I have no idea why they're doing this.
07:54I don't know if there's anger within them
07:56that is just wanting to ruin something.
07:59I feel like it's pretty disrespectful,
08:01but here we are.
08:04Oh, Ethan's starting another fire.
08:05That's good.
08:06Oh, man, I love fires.
08:08If you want to burn something,
08:09can you please do it in the fire pit?
08:10It really makes me nervous.
08:13I'm not burning anything.
08:15I'm seeing friction between Zach and Ethan,
08:18almost like a hazing, you know?
08:19Like, maybe he's wanting to see Zach draw a line
08:23and a boundary and not put up with stuff.
08:26I mean, I don't know.
08:27There we go.
08:27See, it's smoking.
08:28That means it's almost out.
08:29I don't think we can put it out.
08:34That's the exact spot where I'm proposing
08:36to my girlfriend,
08:40and so it's definitely like, oh, my gosh.
08:45It's just a bunch of pine needles.
08:46Yeah.
08:47It would be really good, yeah,
08:48if I could get the edge there.
08:50Are you trying to burn the edge of the peninsula
08:52so that it's just burned for when Lydia and I are here?
08:56Well, they trim it off.
08:58Mm-hmm.
09:00Oops.
09:01Yeah, can we just put it out, please?
09:03No, I'm going to let it burn.
09:05Why?
09:07Because I want to burn the grass.
09:09I don't want the grass burned for when I'm proposing.
09:14I was just cleaning up the grass on the edge of the peninsula.
09:17I was going to burn it off and then put some pine straw down,
09:19and I didn't explain to him what I was doing
09:21because he was real, like, bossy.
09:23You could maybe say, like, we're going to do this.
09:25I want you guys to do that.
09:26Like, he had, I don't know, I just never met anybody like him.
09:30Put it out, please.
09:32Confrontation is necessary.
09:34Having that be a beautiful location for me to propose
09:38was important to me,
09:39and it wasn't getting any prettier with him burning that fringe.
09:45He very well could be testing me.
09:47I have no idea what his intention was,
09:49but I'm proposing today,
09:51no matter if the whole fringe is burned
09:53or the whole peninsula is burned or not,
09:56I'm proposing to Lydia.
09:57Well, you can put it out, then.
10:00Okay.
10:03off.
10:07We want to go through all the positioning,
10:09so do we know where Mariah Plath is?
10:14I'm a little bit nervous.
10:16The last time I saw Mike was when I sent him a letter for Veronica.
10:18Off to the cabin to get those towels up.
10:23Okay.
10:24Five minutes out.
10:25Let's go.
10:26All right.
10:26I do have to pee.
10:28Oh, seriously?
10:29Better now than ten minutes from now.
10:31Back to pee, too.
10:34Okay.
10:35Do you see the audacity that dude has?
10:46I feel like he's going to have a real temper.
10:49You know, he's right there, and he can hear him.
10:51I don't like him.
10:52God, I don't like him.
10:55I don't like how he treats other people so far.
10:59I was one shiny, too, honey.
11:00I'm like, calm down.
11:02Doc didn't set a good first impression for a lot of people.
11:04Well, a lot of people, it was the first time he met them.
11:07Ethan and I were like, whoa, why'd he snap at us like that for just lighting a fire?
11:10Ethan loves fire.
11:11Just chill out a little bit.
11:13I still think it's fair that he can just walk in and get Lydia so fast, you know?
11:17Well, he also, like, thinks he calls the shots, which is beyond.
11:20If he talks to me that way, he's going to talk to her like that.
11:24We do need to make sure he's the one for Lydia.
11:26He needs a test to see his true colors.
11:28You know how there's, like, that saying, like, you get the slow internet,
11:31and that's how you know if you're going to marry somebody, how they react to it.
11:33Let's frazzle him up a bit.
11:36Yeah, I totally agree.
11:38Lydia needs to see that side of him, too.
11:40I do feel protective over Lydia.
11:42You know, I feel like an older brother is supposed to be protective.
11:44So I am.
11:45I know Ethan definitely is.
11:47He might be easy to frazzle, because he got frazzled just over the fire on the peninsula.
11:51So I'm not opposed to trying to push Zach's buttons and see where he goes.
11:55Veronica thinks we should push his buttons, too, so she's kind of egging me on.
11:58So what do we do?
11:59You know, maybe light some more fire.
12:01I'm going to go back and light the peninsula on fire again.
12:04Yeah, scorched her.
12:05And then the rose petals will really shine.
12:08You've got to see his personality.
12:09I feel very torn.
12:13I don't like Zach, but my care for Lydia definitely holds me back from doing what I truly want to do to Zach.
12:22I want to throw him in the water so bad.
12:25God.
12:26Okay, well, no comment there.
12:31I'm just counting every minute.
12:33What time is she supposed to get here?
12:34Three-ish.
12:36Oh, okay.
12:37I would have loved to have some of my friends and family here.
12:40It is kind of a quick turnaround thing, so to ask for any of them to join me is kind of an out-of-way venture.
12:48Good to see you guys.
12:49Welcome.
12:51We have the Plath family, a couple of Lydia's friends, Jordan and Mariah, Mariah being her roommate.
12:57And then we have Richard and Darlene.
12:59They're actually our premarital counselors, and also Richard will be officiating our wedding.
13:04How are you feeling, Zach?
13:06Good.
13:07Yeah.
13:08Really good.
13:09Boom!
13:10Ready for it.
13:11I know.
13:12I have an idea.
13:14Whatever he says, we don't do, and we do the opposite.
13:16And then we just have fun.
13:19I'm down.
13:19Ethan, what do you think?
13:22I don't want to ruin Lydia's day.
13:24So, I'm thinking of more like talking to him and asking him questions and stuff.
13:30He said after, we'll get a question, a meet and greet session with him.
13:36Afterwards.
13:37I didn't know he was a celebrity.
13:40Did you schedule for the meet and greet?
13:42No, I didn't know there was a meet and greet.
13:46I'll just let him know nicely that before he leaves, that I want to talk to him, because I haven't got to talk to him.
13:54How does that sound, Micah?
13:57I'm down.
14:00I need to talk to Zach soon.
14:02And if he is going to marry Lydia and he's going to do it as fast as he wants, then I'm going to give him a little hell to pay for it, you know?
14:14I do understand where Ethan's coming from.
14:16I mean, I've never been an older brother, and no one in my family is married.
14:19But I told myself when I told Ethan I was just going to keep an open mind, meet the guy, so I can form my own opinion.
14:26Okay, so, I want to go through all the positioning and everything.
14:29So, do we know where Mariah Plath is?
14:46Zach is proposing to Lydia today.
14:48From what I know, I think everybody's going to be there.
14:52I'm a little bit nervous.
14:53The last time I saw Micah is when I sent him with a letter for Veronica.
14:59I haven't heard anything from either of them since then, so I don't know how it was received.
15:05So, you're walking into this event and you have zero idea of anything?
15:09Mm-mm.
15:10I think I do need, like, a tiny bit more wine, then.
15:13Just a little bit.
15:16Do you plan to talk to Veronica at the proposal?
15:22I don't know.
15:22I don't know.
15:23I'm really struggling with all this.
15:24I don't know what to do.
15:27I don't want anything to go south on Lydia's proposal day.
15:30I don't ever want anything to go south.
15:32I don't ever want to deal with confrontation and conflict ever again.
15:37You're on a good time to get back, I guess.
15:39Mm-hmm.
15:39You know, my relationships with my family members are all good.
15:44Like, it's better than it's ever been.
15:48It's just, like, I'm honestly scared of letting people down again, and I just need to have enough confidence in myself to know I'm not going to do that again.
15:59I feel like I've done all the healing that I can do here, and I just need a fresh start.
16:05So, in about a month, I'm going to move to Montana.
16:11Montana, um, it'll just be me and Blackjack, and grizzly bears, and moose, or elk, or buffalo.
16:21Are you scared?
16:23No.
16:24I have no idea why Montana.
16:26I have no idea what's out there, or, like, nothing.
16:30It's still, like, a whole leap of faith, but also, like, I just got to make this work, and I'm going to do it.
16:34Is that going to be like your mom with the book?
16:37No!
16:39I just know in my heart I need a fresh start, and I need to just close a lot of chapters here and just move forward.
16:47You should probably get going while you'll miss a proposal.
16:49Yeah.
16:50Oh, the sun is about to set, so I should probably head over top now.
16:56Who wants to do all that small talk anyway?
16:58The girls are going to be down here, so Amber, you'll be over here.
17:06Kim, you can be on that side.
17:07It is very awkward just standing there, like, military style.
17:12Honestly, like, more on this side is not bad.
17:15It gave Bradzilla vibes.
17:28So, to get Lydia to the cabin, without her asking, why are we going to the cabin, we had Kim text me.
17:46The cleaners forgot to leave extra towels that are needed at the cabin for the people who are checking in.
17:52Could you swing by?
17:53They need some towels.
17:55Yeah, I just got the text, too.
17:56Up there, so we'll deliver those on our way over to Bainbridge.
18:01Yeah, sounds good.
18:03So far, so good.
18:04Lydia's buying everything.
18:09Okay, so, everyone who just got here, want to go through all the positioning and everything.
18:12So, if we can stand in the places so we know where everybody is, that'd be great.
18:17Where should I be?
18:18So, you guys, the girls are going to be down here, so Amber, you'll be over here.
18:22This is the first proposal that I've been to like this.
18:24We need a couple more people on this side.
18:27Yeah, because it's always just the guy and the lady, maybe a hidden photographer.
18:30It looks like a freaking redneck wedding down there.
18:33It's like, it's just a proposal.
18:34I don't know what everybody was there for.
18:37Kim, you can be on that side.
18:39Micah and Veronica, you guys can stand here.
18:41You don't have to be on separate sides.
18:43And then, lined up like this.
18:45Honestly, like, more on this side is not bad.
18:48Um...
18:49It is very awkward just standing there, like, military style.
19:00It gave Bridezilla vibes.
19:02I don't know what that is.
19:03I don't know what Bridezilla is.
19:06Like, when they're getting ready for their wedding, they, like, become very, like, aggressive and angry.
19:11Yeah, like, very chokehold on things.
19:13And it was giving Bridezilla today.
19:15So, you know, Lydia, I'm going to really miss you when you go, as are all of your siblings that are here.
19:28Yeah.
19:29Zach and I are leaning towards moving to Colorado when we get married.
19:33And I'll be honest, it's going to be hard.
19:35Like, just last night, I was driving home, and I was just crying, thinking about leaving my family and, like, everything I've known my whole life.
19:43It's going to be a challenge.
19:46Let's go out.
19:47Let's spend some time together, because we're not going to have this luxury in a few months.
19:59Um, so, yeah.
20:00Hi, Mariah.
20:01Hi, guys.
20:01I like the all-black, all-black gang.
20:03Oh, thank you.
20:04Hi, Michael.
20:05Hi.
20:06How are you?
20:06Good.
20:07How are you?
20:07Good.
20:09Zach, is he getting married already?
20:11Is the wedding actually today?
20:13Good to see you, Mariah.
20:14Good to see you, too.
20:16The last time I saw Mariah was the concert.
20:21It's definitely uncomfortable, but I got to put it all aside, fake it till I make it, and just smile.
20:28And it's already very difficult.
20:30I guess where I'm at with Veronica is sometimes I hurt people, and sometimes it makes me want to run away, and not be close with anybody.
20:40And that's how I feel right now.
20:41But Lydia's getting engaged today, and even if I broke my leg, I'd show up.
20:47I'm getting a little hot.
20:50Here.
20:53Hold on.
20:56You need to take your shoes off.
20:57You're going to help me?
20:58We're going to flash everybody.
21:01Take your shoes off.
21:02There you go.
21:03Shh.
21:03I was joking around.
21:05I was like, what do I wear?
21:06And Zach was like, bring church clothes.
21:08And I was like, okay.
21:10That's what I'm not going to do.
21:13I don't listen to anybody, never mind a man I've never met.
21:16I am my own mind.
21:19Except it was a little awkward undressing.
21:21It was a little awkward.
21:22I got stuck on the shoes.
21:23Because you got stuck on your shoes.
21:25Take your shoe off.
21:26I think she thought it would be like, oh my gosh, look what she's wearing.
21:35Everyone's going to be like paying attention to her, and no one's going to care about the
21:37proposal.
21:37It's going to be like, Veronica, what are you wearing?
21:39That's so risky, whatever.
21:41Any questions, anyone?
21:42Are we good?
21:43Okay.
21:44Good stuff.
21:46And I don't think anyone really realized.
21:48You guys can come right down here.
21:53Okay, so we're just going to drop these dolls off.
21:56And we'll be on our way.
21:58Okay.
21:58Five minutes out.
21:59Five minutes back.
22:01Let's go.
22:02All right.
22:03I do have to pee.
22:06Oh, seriously?
22:07Better now than 10 minutes from now.
22:12I have to pee, too.
22:13Yeah.
22:14Run and do it.
22:15I have to go.
22:16Mercy?
22:17I have to go.
22:18Mercy.
22:19Mercy.
22:20Why did Amber and Amber think?
22:23Unbelievable.
22:23I'm not going to try and control 15 people at once.
22:28I know there's a lot going on, and I have to manage what I can control, and I can't control.
22:32And if I can't control it, then what's the use in spending energy on it?
22:37One minute.
22:38Everybody in places.
22:40They're on Paracrete.
22:40So, quiet time now.
22:50She's going to say, wait, that's Micah's truck.
22:52What's going on?
23:07What?
23:07Is this Micah's truck?
23:09It looks like Micah's truck.
23:10Let's get out for just a second.
23:16Micah and Veronica?
23:17Oh, my goodness.
23:18Well, hi, guys.
23:22Hi.
23:22Hi.
23:23Hi.
23:24Jordan?
23:27Jordan's here.
23:29Richard's here.
23:30Darlene's here.
23:36Oh, my goodness.
23:40The moment I see Zach, I know exactly why he's here.
23:43And I just, I just can't believe it.
23:46I'm sorry, Zach.
23:51I can't believe it.
23:53Thank you for coming.
23:55Oh, my goodness.
23:57Oh, my.
23:57Then she hugs every single person.
24:03Hi.
24:04I just kept smiling bigger and bigger just because that's totally Lydia.
24:09Like, that's totally her.
24:11Oh, my goodness.
24:34Oh, my goodness.
24:37Lydia Joy Plath.
24:38I can say everything right now, but I'm going to keep it simple.
24:50You are the love of my life, and you are so special to me.
24:55I've been so blessed with the joy of knowing you, and I'm shaking.
25:07Lydia Joy Plath, will you marry me?
25:11Oh, I should pull out the ring.
25:13Please say no.
25:26I'm just going to say yes.
25:31I feel like I'm trapped here.
25:34They all want to pretend that they didn't treat me like s***.
25:36And I think that others were treated this way as well.
25:40Who are you talking about?
25:41Olivia.
25:42I was going to give her a call.
25:44Right now?
25:44Yeah.
25:45On the family farm?
25:46Yeah, why not?
25:57Lydia Joy Plath, will you marry me?
26:02Please say no.
26:05Yes.
26:05Oh, my God.
26:10Yes.
26:17She said yes!
26:18Woo!
26:29We're engaged.
26:32We're engaged.
26:33you and me engaged this is more than i ever imagined in a proposal you went above and beyond
26:44that's gorgeous i was just really thrilled that we pulled it off i could see that she was
26:54genuinely surprised she couldn't believe it good job friend you did great lydia is just
27:00so in love with him and he's so in love with her and he came up with this great plan and it was
27:07pulled off really well i still am going to take you out for dinner we're just postponing that a week
27:13my concern is if the proposal was this much work what's the wedding going to be like
27:24well we're not keeping the wedding a surprise so right right but it's less than three
27:30months away that's crazy is it less than three months yeah we've got like 80 days or something
27:35like two months and i i have a notebook full of things i have to get done before the wedding
27:41yeah there's a a long way to go in a short time to get there
27:46it may take me years to warm up to zach it's just all very fast but i'm happy for her i want her to be
28:03happy
28:03i'm happy you're happy
28:14since there's a little bit of conflict between veronica and i and i don't want
28:24any of that coming up on lydia's special day i love you i kind of want to get away
28:30you know they call that an irish goodbye is that where people will leave because they don't want
28:36to be a problem
28:36people leave without telling people that they're leaving oh that i must be irish
28:44where are you going um i'm just trying to go take a walk make some calls
28:55i don't normally find myself hiking in the woods in south florida
29:00what can we do
29:04there's a lot going on they all want to pretend that they didn't treat me like
29:16and that none of it ever happened so sort of feel bad okay i think that others were treated this way
29:24as well when you say others who are you talking about olivia um i was gonna give her a call
29:29right now yeah on the family farm yeah why not
29:33i look like a mirror ball today
29:43hey hello how are you oh the service
29:50so it is yours i just have been dealing with chaos here my best friends here are the cows
29:56and that says something
29:57how are you hanging in there the welcome is colder than the weather and it's freezing but
30:04barry and mariah have been lovely
30:06doesn't talk to you in how many months
30:09eight yeah she's talked about me though she doesn't talk to us but they do talk about us
30:15i think you should make sure you're not yelling oh yeah make sure i'm not yelling i'm a loud person
30:21mercy you can be a bridesmaid yeah
30:23mercy has been asking like for weeks everyone like do you think i'm old enough to be a bridesmaid
30:31i had a chat with ethan and he told me to forgive them i said well i have to start apologizing
30:39first are you like speaking your mind up there are you just like staying quiet so you'll be crucified
30:43a bit of both like definitely covart like snarkiness i didn't want to speak to mariah didn't want to like
30:50ruin her engagement but i also threw in like some sass the family has a complete social structure
30:58of a high school they just don't know it because they don't go to high school
31:03you have your brainless jocks you have the nerds
31:06you have the young kids you have a social outcast you have the pariahs and you have veronica
31:12and olivia like under the pyramid you know like a mud chamber they put us in
31:19amber yeah
31:24i would love to be a flower girl would you do the honors of being my maid of honor
31:29lydia lydia lydia there's no one else i'd rather be with you i mean you've been there
31:38i for me i feel like
31:43i just say yes yeah yes i guess are you sure because like i haven't really you have
31:51i'm very sorry i should have warned you when you were driving up there to pack
32:00a couple bottles of wine in your suitcase because you were gonna need them and you wouldn't be able
32:03to buy them i feel like i'm trapped here i don't want to be in any family event like i don't want
32:09to go to the wedding i know the wedding's gonna be chaos though just bring me as your plus one and we
32:15can share a drink together yes i gotta run because they're coming for me talk soon bye girl drive safely
32:25have fun well at least i'm not alone in this woods there's so much barbed wire for a friendly farm
32:34i don't know this guy at all i've got many things rolling around in my head that are possible
32:55scenarios and i want to rule them out as best i can just because it's so fast and i know my dad didn't
33:00grill him that hard and i feel like maybe ethan and i should i mean we all know lydia's like
33:06whole world is in ministry in the church and and that's that's wonderful but i don't think that
33:12zach and lydia were divinely put together by god and there's no one else and it was just destined
33:17intended to be when in reality it's it's just a crush and you're probably making the crush
33:21bigger by not kissing or doing anything so you're just like they don't really know each other
33:26but i mean like lydia said he's a nice guy but i mean lydia wouldn't know any better
33:34and lydia is like the sweetest person ever i don't want i don't want her to change i saw people
33:40hurt mariah and mariah is a broken person now so i don't want to see lydia get heartbroken at all
33:48the mean tough world and you don't want to be sucked into something you can avoid
33:51hey guys how's it going hey zach i really am going in with expectations that they're going
34:00to ask hard questions and they're here to know every little thing when you think of lydia what
34:05do you what do you feel i feel i mean just confident confidence what does that mean um yeah i'm trying
34:19to think i mean um so you ready to talk to zach i mean there's things that we don't like about him
34:36for sure but i mean lydia he clearly makes lydia happy yeah that's crazy hey guys how's it going
34:44hey zach you're just talking about you yeah the proposal was over and micah and ethan wanted to
34:52have a conversation with me i really am going in with expectations that they're going to ask hard
34:57questions and they're here to know every little thing i just wanted to let you know that as lydia's
35:05bigger brother i know you make lydia happy and that's what matters to me yeah but if i ever find out that
35:11you did anything to hurt her or anything like that you ever let her down or anything yeah
35:17no consequences yeah i mean i actually would love to hang out and just open up the floor to any
35:26questions you guys have or anything why why is it so damn fast well we felt that it was really natural
35:32we didn't feel like we were forcing anything my concern is there's there's more to lose
35:39issues in my opinion than there is to gain by getting married very quickly and i just don't
35:48want lydia to be hurt well we've since the time we really met and having all the experiences together
35:55i don't know how much you guys know when she was out visiting in colorado we basically spent every day
36:01together we hiked like five mountains together and then went skydiving there was a lot of time together
36:08and a very compressed thing and so it felt like months had happened and you know like a week
36:18i don't know what psychedelics you're on but the fact is you still only spent a week with her
36:26and i don't like it too much and i object object
36:30my biggest concern is stability i guess yeah just like what's work looking like i've coached tennis for
36:40over a year and so i have a passion for tennis and a passion for coaching and then i would love to i have
36:49a passion to own like a coffee shop i just want to make sure you're gonna be breaking your back for
36:56lydia yeah i want zach to have you know a pretty good plan and i wanted to hear what he wanted to
37:00do what his passions were what he's done in the past make sure he has a pretty good work ethic it's
37:04not really what you do for work it's your hustle what do you like when you're with lydia when you think
37:09of lydia what do you what do you feel i feel she i mean just confident confidence
37:24what does that mean um i guess i'm just
37:30it's hard to put into words because there's so many
37:32yeah i would i'm trying to think let me um
37:41well the reason why i ask is because so you guys are saving your your first kiss for your wedding
37:46yeah how do you do that yeah it's it's not it's not anything i expected to make a commitment to
37:56but because of who lydia is it changed my heart and was like yeah no that's something i really do want to
38:02commit to to honor her because i just i couldn't do that and i don't know who could i was expecting
38:08like we said that we're going to say your first kiss but you know if i'm being completely honest i kind
38:13of i really want to i was looking for some answers some more along the lines of things i've experienced
38:20in the past with women a lot of that's tied to the core belief that we do have in jesus christ and
38:25and it's through the spirit so love joy peace patience kindness goodness faithfulness gentleness
38:33and self-control it's in the bible but i don't think it's honest to say i'm not kissing her because
38:40you know of the fruit of the loom or seven fruits of whatever off you big holy bastard it's like
38:49i think that's a answer our faith is very important and kind of building our relationship
38:55off of that foundation was kind of big for us something i dude i'm i've kissed someone before
39:04and i was like totally like yeah i'm okay with kissing again but then meeting her i want to show
39:09her other ways of my love for her instead of just touching her butt or whatever i don't know so
39:15um yeah but i feel like you don't get to know half of a person if you don't know
39:21that side of them i don't know i guess that might just be me yeah it's hard for sure i bet it is
39:29yeah i just want to make sure that there's actually a physical compatibility and passion
39:34for each other you know absolutely yeah i want to make sure you you have that when ethan asked if i
39:40have a passion or a yearning for lydia i absolutely do i just have understood in my previous relationships
39:47that it has become a distraction for me i've seen physical intimacy get in the way of truly getting
39:54to know someone and so we're doing it differently so do you do you want a kisser yeah but i know that's not
40:03that's not that's not everything i've never in my life met a straight man who voluntarily gives up
40:12the opportunity to be intimate with a woman kissing making out just you know everything it just doesn't
40:18compute in my own mind especially as a young man i mean i mean everything that you and lydia have said is
40:26great and sounds amazing but i gotta ask you yeah are you gay okay here we go
40:49i'm sorry i'm sorry i can't talk about this it was so gross
40:56your sister lies about me like i know what happened i know what i've seen but i also think
41:01you build up everything in your head and you exaggerate sometimes or you interpret things the wrong
41:06way i don't get why she's talking trash about my family that just doesn't make sense i feel like
41:12i'm so lost i don't know what to do i love veronica and i want nothing more than to make things work
41:16but i wanted to let you know that she did reach out to olivia
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