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00:00do you have many non-jewish friends mostly rabbis yeah most of my friends are rambos
00:09not a huge number me yeah well hopefully we'll still be on good terms by the end of the week
00:15i'm stacy dooley
00:20and i'm packing my bags for some more sleepovers
00:26i'll be coming out of my comfort zone as if i thought of my death in scotland
00:31to spend the weekend in the homes of britain's more extraordinary families
00:36you leave i follow you've likened feminism to cancer
00:42this is hebrew oh my goodness i'm so sorry imagine owning an island
00:52where we are do you worry about having a criminal record
00:59my name is stacy ready go
01:05what's the best thing about being a model
01:07the one
01:14pumas don't belong in the uk oh my god i really didn't anticipate
01:18right now i am en route to go and me an orthodox jewish family they're in the suburbs
01:35it's outside northeast london i don't think it's really important to have conversations because i
01:43feel like there are so many lazy stereotypes particularly over the last couple of years like
01:48anti-semitism is undeniably an issue
01:54there are over a quarter of a million jewish people living in the uk
01:57with varying levels of religious observance
02:01around 15 percent are strictly orthodox
02:05they practice ancient traditions and complex rules with the kind of discipline
02:10i can only dream of of course i've got jewish friends but
02:17they're much less traditional with orthodox jewish families and communities it feels so private
02:25they have a very conservative very traditional set of guidelines that they have to follow and that
02:33does beg the question do you have to sacrifice being a part of modern britain
02:43the father of the wallenberg family is a rabbi
02:46so they are provided with a six bedroom house within a synagogue complex
02:51is this their house this one it's big i'm off i'm out of here
02:56hello hello it's stacy hi come in thank you
03:10hi okay i'll come and let you in it sometimes works push now right we're good that's good all right
03:18do come in thank you so much mordecai i'm stacy nice to meet you nice to meet you hello puppet
03:26you probably already know that we're the proud non-owners of a tv set but we have heard of you
03:30no but you're not you're not missing much you really aren't hello hi
03:34bleema yeah i'm stacy hi so nice to meet you you don't have to take your shoes off whatever you
03:40we just have lots of shoes um i'm gonna be hope not rude and not extend my hand to you because we
03:46have very strict boundaries okay so um you don't touch anyone opposite gender got you and you're you're
03:54the rabbi i am so you look after this synagogue next door we yes we are based in the synagogue next
04:00door so we have services daily and on shabbat on saturday morning it's quite a big time of the week
04:06and various jewish holidays and you've got nine children yes i mean i imagine it's completely
04:12non-stop some of it is um non-stop because of all the kids some of it is non-stop because of our job
04:20um some of it is non-stop because of being orthodox jewish and all the festivals that we've got through
04:26the year wow so yeah i've never stayed in an orthodox jewish home before so it's a no for me it's first
04:35hope it'll be quite an experience um we're probably not typical because we sort of straddle different
04:39worlds because we're we're obviously very orthodox but we're also part of a community which is very
04:43diverse um and we're not living in a sort of very orthodox jewish neighborhood so we get the best of
04:48all worlds hopefully very excited shall we show you where you're staying i'd love that yeah have a look
04:55around your house is massive lots of books lots of books within an impressively pat raising room
05:05is their most sacred book of all am i allowed to touch this yeah yeah the torah or jewish bible
05:13i that title hebrew this is hebrew and it will be raised i'm so sorry i cannot at least it's not the real
05:19torah if you drop the real thing everyone in the room would have to fast brilliant can we not tell
05:25anyone that i nearly dropped the torah i've been here it's just the book 10 minutes it can't be
05:30i'm gonna put this down with great care this is the girls room and baby's room you could probably
05:38tell from the colors how many girls you got two two girls two girls and seven boys yes
05:45yes this is the little boy's room can we see your room do you want to say hi do you want to say hi
05:52with mommy hello poppet this is moeshi moeshi yeah how old are you moeshi three so this is the room
06:03you're staying in look at this very fancy i've lucked out it's got a bathroom and oh some puzzle pieces
06:12you got the memo i can't i can't possibly stay anywhere without a beautiful balcony
06:22most of your kids are at school yes what time are they due back they get back between
06:275 and 5 30. okay how do they feel about me being here um not sure mix so some of my kids don't like
06:36having pictures taken at all or video so they're obviously more shy
06:43hello hello mate how are you good i'm stacy hello what's your name it's rollout how was school what
06:53were you doing uh i did art uh english math science for usual yeah the whole gang look they're coming
07:05back hello hi i seem to have found myself a guide with 13 year old yes rollick okay so you tell me who's
07:15who this is who this is diddles diddles she is eight this is yossi yeah eto eto eto is 12. um bat mitzvah a week ago
07:27this is mendel okay mendel yossi diddles eto eto i'm a genius this is gabriel yeah he's the youngest uh-huh
07:41his full name is gabriel naya which is named after a rabbi who was killed in a attack in mumbai
07:5112 years ago and it's like a custom that people name a son um after him because he was a rabbi and
08:00he was killed in a attack wow
08:02the last few years have seen fatal terror attacks on synagogues around the world
08:13and anti-semitic incidents in the uk have hit an all-time high
08:18wow i mean yeah this is pretty sophisticated cctv i suppose you're at home so much and synagogues have
08:25been targeted recently does that play in the back of your mind you've got all your babies here your nine
08:31children um if i see a car stop outside i'll stop and look you know see who it is unfortunately there
08:40is a lot of anti-semitism around it's something we live with we're used to you know it's there
08:47in the back of your mind but we you can't focus on it unlike the majority of jewish people in britain
08:54the strictly orthodox rarely mix with anyone outside of their tight community
09:01opening their doors to outsiders feels extremely unusual why have you agreed to have us in your
09:08home this weekend what are you hoping to achieve when you're part of any minority group rightly or
09:13wrongly the fact is people judge very quickly and that's just a reality we all make assumptions about
09:17people um often it's out of ignorance um so yeah if there are any stereotypes out there or assumptions
09:23that people are making hopefully you know we've got nothing to hide we can show you you know why we
09:28do what we do or why we act the way or dress the way we dress and hopefully that you know might be
09:34less intimidating for people i guess people are just curious because some people feel like orthodox
09:40jewish families are very insular so then you have loads of questions but you don't get you don't
09:45get the opportunity to interact or to hang out to spend time together british societies it's not
09:50proper to ask people personal questions why not you know within reason you know if i see someone on a
09:55bus and you say excuse me i notice you've got the strings do you mind my asking you what they're for
10:00i'm not offended by that but it's not very british thing to do so sometimes i wonder if it's just
10:03like oh no we could never ask them you know um do you have many non-jewish friends um not a huge number
10:11me um yeah well hopefully um mostly rabbis yeah most of my friends are rambos
10:22israeli atel mandor diddle supper
10:25hello you ready for supper where's your life before it's my first meal with the family keeping
10:35kosher means food must be both prepared and consumed under strict guidelines as commanded in the torah
10:43because we separate milky and meaty which we call milk a conflation when we have a milk at supper
10:50like this which we can't put meat in because then it would be mixing then we have milky plates
10:58milky forks everything is milky wow so it doesn't work to just cook foods that are kosher yeah um it's
11:08much more complex than that remind me why it's forbidden to mix milk and meat there are some
11:15commandments which we just don't understand and i think it's one of those so it's just something
11:21that we don't understand we do because we're told to do the reason is because it says in the bible not
11:25to do it but it's not one that has a logical reason it's like not murdering has a logical reason
11:30is that blind faith though if there's no logic behind it so those particular commandments are very
11:35much about just doing it because god told you to but i think faith is in a way blind faith always
11:43because faith isn't it is that you believe and there's not necessarily a basis
11:51for that belief does that make sense whatever faith is essentially a blind faith because you believe
12:03there's just a lot to try and get your head around
12:07there's so much information there's so much to take into consideration so many traditions so many
12:15rules so many cultural differences this is a world i am so unfamiliar with
12:24it's a very strict way of living and i think that's where i don't subscribe to religion because
12:31i have a tricky time just accepting i'd have to adhere to things that i don't understand
12:51it's friday and a special day of the week for many jewish families
12:56the children will only attend school for a few hours before returning to prepare for shabbat
13:02the holy day of rest this gives me a chance to get to know a bit more about the parents
13:08and their unusual sleeping habits normally we don't i don't like guests in my room
13:14first impressions it's two beds yes which one's yours which one's mordecai's and why do you have
13:21two separate beds so the big one's mine when a married orthodox jewish woman has her periods then a
13:30husband and wife won't um have any physical contact um so we have separate beds during that time and for
13:38a week afterwards so about 12 13 days for those 12 days when you're on your period etc
13:46he can't even touch you let alone i mean having sex is completely forbidden but you can't even sort of
13:52touch one another um so they say absence makes the heart grow fonder and it's definitely something
14:00that you you can feel um i suppose it works quite well if you've had a row sometimes obviously you know
14:08we have the one beds and if you've kicked off or you've got the um someone gets sent to the sofa
14:13so i suppose this lends itself to that there's clearly some quirks to orthodox married life
14:20these are incredible look i'm curious how things went down before they tied the knot
14:29so when did you meet yeah the i guess the crucial question which shocks a lot of people is that we
14:34knew each other for about 11 days so they do call it dating in our rabbi circles and the difference
14:40being there's no physical contact and also the whole purpose of going out is with a view to
14:44getting married which is quite heavy obviously so before you're introduced someone will do their
14:50homework usually the parents and make sure it's the type of person you want to marry um you've got
14:56similar goals similar ideals um so they'll make sure it's sort of compatible on paper so it was an
15:04arranged marriage not an arranged marriage because you it's an arranged yeah kind of like a blind date
15:11so you go out you date but for the purpose of seeing if you're compatible if you've got chemistry
15:17we were both the third person that we went out with so it wasn't like first you know the first
15:24person you went out with and that was it an arranged marriage type of thing you have the decision
15:28it tell me what was on your wish list what was non-negotiable for you non-smoking that much i
15:36remember um i wanted to go out and work in a community um not russia that was like my red line
15:44i didn't think i could do russia dating's like a minefield at the best of times so when i don't
15:50know how people manage at least we have kind of a framework of like there are some things you know
15:54are gonna happen aren't gonna happen i i don't know how people manage like no in the wider society
15:59where they've got much bigger questions to deal with like are we going to move in together or are
16:03we going to consummate our relationship i don't know whatever um i would hope that the message that
16:08our children are getting will be one of you you don't date for pleasure you date because you're
16:12serious about finding someone within quite strict boundaries and you're looking for someone that's
16:16similar to you that's going to lead a religious life that has the same values would the spouse have to
16:20be jewish orthodox jewish that's baseline already i mean you've seen how much detail there is in our
16:27lives you know can you imagine if somebody said well you know i'm happy to marry you you will do your
16:31religious stuff and i'll just you know stay out of it and you know you can go to shawl three times a day
16:36and eat strictly kosher and all this and i'll go to church on sundays well how on earth is that going
16:40to work practically you need to really be on the same page with the kids home the whole family must
16:52now do their bit before the sun goes down and the strict shabbat restrictions begin
16:59please because we've got lots to do stuff
17:02talk me through what happens in preparation for shabbat on shabbat we can't cook use electricity
17:14tear things cut things so in order to get ready we do all our cooking in advance and the house is
17:24cleaned everyone takes showers gets dressed in nice proper formal clothes and it all has to be ready by
17:30sunset square sweet locks and kugel yeah yes okay thank you with shabbat there's a real ah sense of
17:39urgency and everything feels quite mad in the run-up to it because there's so many things you're not
17:45able to do like the kids are tearing the toilet roll because you can't tear the toilet roll mum's like
17:50cooking massive batches because she's not allowed to cook etil is the design you're ready dad's shouting
17:58at the kids he's got the umks they're not listening where are you going think home alone you know when
18:06they're running about before they're going to miss the flight it's that kind of vibe you're sorry can
18:12you put your laundry where you please when the sun sets you have to make sure that everything's in
18:19order otherwise you're stuck for 25 hours before we start we're just going to blow the chauffeur for
18:29anyone that missed it this morning
18:34since coronavirus has kiboshed indoor gatherings mordecai has taken to use in the family garden
18:39for communal services while streaming it online okay page 170
19:02the key instruction of shabbat is to cease working
19:05so to honor this rule the crew and i have decided to down tools
19:13until sunset tomorrow have a lovely shambles everyone take care travis travis
19:19it's saturday and there's only a few more hours left and then we're able to start filming again
19:43with the family shabbat will be over do you think you'd be able to do it stacy i wouldn't last five
19:51minutes i would not last five minutes i'm addicted to my phone which isn't a good trait i think it
19:57requires an untold amount of dedication and i mean to do it every week as well
20:06as the sun drops marking the end of shabbat i head back to the house
20:17on arrival we notice a group of youths shouting at the family from across the street
20:22what did they say i didn't catch it the kids said stupid jews or something like that that's not okay
20:26like i and you just completely ignored it and that's where you're
20:30a lot more mature than me because i'd have been tempted to buy it back
20:34and the fact that your kids have to listen to that is mad
20:40it doesn't happen on a daily basis um we live in a pretty diverse neighborhood
20:44but i definitely have colleagues who on a regular basis are accosted on their way to shore
20:48and it's unfortunate um thank god it's a relatively rare occurrence i'm sorry yeah
20:53i'm sorry that's just happened that's really rubbish
20:59i do find things like that upsetting because i just
21:05it feels so unkind unnecessarily unkind you know what i mean they're sitting outside their own house
21:11doing absolutely nothing
21:14me as a white woman i think we sort of live in this diverse bubble and i think you know
21:18london's great and we've got it right in so many ways but clearly there's still so much to to do
21:29i'm privileged to be staying with a strict orthodox jewish family experiencing their ancient traditions
21:50my hebrew skills are being tested to the max
21:55so you can just pay the peace so then you can say borach
22:01atah atah atah adonai adonai adonai nuh melech melom hamotzi
22:07how might see hamotzi lechem lechem min min
22:11congratulations
22:15wow cheers
22:19with the jewish new year approaching right here we need to go the evening ceremonies have only just
22:24begun i am on route to observe one of the night time prayers basically we're quite lucky to see
22:38this because this happens the week before rosh hashanah the jewish new year on the saturday
22:48here i'll be able to see you know the wider community won't i
22:58mordecai serves some 800 jewish families in north london since the pandemic he has been faced with
23:05finding new ways of keeping them connected safely yeah we're starting 11 with speeches so all the
23:11rabbis are basically going to stand around in the back there that's where they're filming it feels
23:16like it's driving movie night water kai talk me through what is going on right so we've got our
23:22large screen here we're about to start our proceedings in jewish fashion it's it's late
23:27which is a cultural thing um we're going to start with a few speeches uh we're going to have the chief
23:33rabbi on video i'm going to say a few words and then in about half an hour we'll have the actual service
23:38while everyone else will be in their cars basically um so it's gonna be a little bit strange because
23:42normally it'd be a bigger service um but you know that's evolution for you how do i turn my headphones
23:47no clue oh look at this this is like a silent disco good evening ladies and gentlemen it's very
23:54strange speaking to a load of cameras with no people around but something we've got used in the last few
23:59months i know there's a lot of you out there in your cars some of you watching at home as well and it's
24:03really wonderful i'm impressed with mordecai's resourcefulness testament perhaps to a willingness
24:18to adapt in the face of adversity a happiness sweet new year particularly of course this year
24:23good health for all of us thank you
24:29do you know what i think is really cool they're like totally like unapologetically themselves
24:36even the teenagers i mean if if you saw me it's there's no way i would have been so
24:44kind of connected to the to the family on a saturday night i was probably in the park smoking
24:54some roll-up showing off you know
25:05to grow up in a strictly orthodox jewish family could mean your destiny has largely been decided
25:15you're expected to work socialize and marry within the community
25:19and much of your spare time will be given to religious observance
25:25i'm curious how you's rollick deals with it all i mean your parents they take their religion like
25:31super seriously but i think they're quite relaxed with you guys i i don't think so really i think
25:39my parents do are are quite strict especially compared to people i know it's not a bad thing but
25:48it could be annoying yeah parents are annoying though do you worry that when you're further into your teens
25:56you'll find it difficult to balance being an honorable jewish man
26:03and allowing yourself to sort of explore life and do your own thing and find your own way
26:13no i don't i don't think so
26:15um i think it's really easy to like keep your jewish identity even if you're yeah if you're trying
26:25to explore and stuff explore life have you ever had any doubts um questions i've i've had a lot of
26:34questions but not really i haven't really doubted there are some commandments which there's no reason for
26:42so they are very strange but it's it's a step like beat for being faithful that's it's like a test
26:53this religious framework that you have is it is it quite comforting in some ways yes so you have you
27:02have like some jewish circles where you know people around the world because they're jewish in judaism
27:08we have like rabbis who would be um the leader of the community in america and we would be friendly
27:15with them because just because they're rabbis and they do the same thing so so the fact that you share
27:23a religion yeah instantly there's a bond yeah yeah it brings us all together
27:27i've been thinking about what i'd find testing growing up in this culture
27:35both sexes are expected to dress with modesty but the girls have to take things a little further
27:42why is it that only you and your husband can see your hair i would say that's one of the faith
27:48belief things that's a modesty thing although if you go into it hair is an attractive thing the hair
27:56is something that obviously men find attractive and it's so it's meant to be reserved for your
28:02husband have your kids ever seen your real hair um no i don't think so so if you look carefully she's
28:11got split ends like hair would just trim that there so but don't say that hairdressers who don't deal with
28:20wigs won't touch a wig oh really yeah because with hair if you mess it up it'll grow back with this it
28:28won't go back and that would be for this one um an 800 mistake that's 800 dollars 18 years ago
28:40nice that you've got a couple of styles to choose from right so you can mix it out so i i i have one
28:46that i wear during the week one that i like to wear on shabbos and one that can be whatever i wanted
28:53to be what age were you when you started wearing the wigs and when will eto and diddles have to start
29:00so you only need to once you're married because it's for a married jewish woman
29:06so the age depends on when they get married
29:15strictly orthodox girls tend to marry in their early 20s
29:19but as i've learned enjoying affection with your other half isn't without its hurdles
29:28according to the torah menstruate and women are considered impure
29:36hello blima has brought me to a mikvah where women can cleanse themselves i'm right in thinking every
29:43month um the lady has to visit the the bath a married lady a lady before she's married and married
29:52ladies from after five days of menstruation and then seven clean days so it's 12 days in total and then
29:59she comes to the mikvah and in those 12 days there's no intimacy do you worry that it kind of gives
30:08younger girls the impression that you should sort of be embarrassed of periods and it's quite shameful
30:15and you've got to go in the night and it's all quite hush-hush no it's it's private it's not secret
30:23so it's not taboo it's a private thing and that's why it's kept quiet why does it have to be so private
30:30if it's so natural modesty isn't just the way we dress it's the way we talk it's the way we behave
30:38it's the you know the way we deal with ourselves so this is a private thing not everybody has to know
30:45when you and your husband are together and it's it's something that's just between the two of you
30:51so it's not that it's a secret or that it's taboo it's it's purely that it's modest obviously i've
30:58never experienced you know the immersion the experience talk me through sort of trying to
31:03describe it to me so some of the ladies have described it to me as a hug from god because the
31:09water's warm and it envelops them and they're going totally under it there was one woman that i took
31:14once years ago who had a very very challenging pregnancy and she went in her ninth month and she
31:21came out sorry i get i get emotional every time i think about it and she came out and she said
31:29i feel ready to have the baby now she said sorry she said that was that was just what i needed
31:37clearly belima is completely invested there's no part of her i don't get the impression there's any
31:45part of her that has ever wavered the torah you know she understands that this book is to be
31:53completely respected and she has to adhere to certain things things that she doesn't understand
31:58i wonder where that that kind of unwavering dedication comes from
32:12dad you need to get up in 10 minutes okay you're starting to heat you up blaney jones
32:18it's my last day with the wallenberg family and i'm up at 6am to attend synagogue it's time for modest
32:25stacy how do you like my dress it's perfect isn't it it's early i basically realized that
32:34nobody in this family sleeps very long because they're all so good again
32:41good morning how are you good how do you like my dress very suitable
32:45it's good for the image i'm curious about the challenges of preaching such ancient traditions
33:03to a largely mainstream community apologies in advance it's going to be very male dominated
33:08what can feel outdated to some is the segregation of women and the actual ladies section is at the back
33:18okay
33:32how do you feel about the fact that men and women have to be separated why is it important
33:36i think so you can concentrate on your prayers more we've i've just grown up with it and it's it's what
33:43we do yeah i know it's not everybody's cup of tea but it's it's it's fine and you're mainly focusing
33:51on your prayers it's the thought process men will be distracted by the women yeah
33:56thank you all for your cooperation and have a lovely day
34:07as a rabbi in an ever-changing modern society i'm guessing mordecai has his work cut out
34:14thank you so much for allowing me in pleasure it's very interesting yourself for me to watch
34:19this room normally takes 500 people at the moment we look at 80 people
34:22as you saw we don't get 500 every morning we definitely had more men than women so
34:28is that usual there is the time i can definitely see how it's quite patriarchal in the the men tend
34:34to go to the shawl more and um at the moment the division is right at the back which is always
34:39unfortunate because the women are at the back um in my ideal shawl it would be right down the middle
34:44and everybody would be either side there's no reason that has to be at the back the the funny thing
34:49is people are very traditional so when we've tried that they're like oh i don't like it i like to be
34:52at the back um by the standards of most orthodox analogs we're doing more there's a line in the
34:59morning prayer that essentially says um thank you for not making me a woman yes this is a source of
35:05great controversy um because that's so yes it does sound a bit offensive it's not supposed to be
35:10insulting is it outdated for 2020 it's only one blessing out of a whole canon of i mean there are many
35:16other places where we praise women over men so i think it's you know somebody wants to take that
35:22and make an issue out of it they will i appreciate it must be difficult for you to want to be deeply
35:29religious and adhere to traditions and respect people who are living in a very different way in
35:36the sort of traditional world that i inhabit where i'm the most observant person it is a huge minefield of
35:43religious tradition which is very clear about what marriage and what family is versus the reality of
35:48how people are living their lives and that we want to be there for people so all these kind of issues
35:54gender issues male and female roles lgbtq plus whatever letters are currently there or if somebody's
35:59going through a gender transformation or whatever it's very challenging and somebody said to me i think
36:03that the greatest challenge of the next generation will be how orthodox judaism deals with the modern
36:08family if you like because you can't ignore the reality i really respect mordecai i just think he's
36:20trying to
36:24be like a tolerant human first and foremost but also a decent leader they want to be deeply religious and
36:32they want to follow their laws sort of word for words but they also accept that they do have to
36:39practice tolerance and they do have to practice acceptance and you know we live in a progressive
36:45liberal society and he's saying to me stacy ask me whatever you want and often you know when you're
36:52talking about subjects that can be contentious you know there's little disclaimers or let's not talk
36:59about this or i'd prefer we didn't go there and i just really rate that
37:17as an atheist it's hard for me to comprehend the commitment to such a strict religion
37:23i'm intrigued what drives their unfaltering sense of duty this this way of life seems all-encompassing
37:39tell me why it's so important to you to maintain your jewish identity in one word continuity yeah
37:49continuity continuity um it's not just a way of life it's a heritage that was passed down from
37:57thousands of years ago and that is basically our responsibility to pass down to our children we've
38:02been charged with something that we have to pass on to the next generation that the previous generation
38:06often at great personal cost preserved for us and now it's our job to preserve it for the next generation
38:12is that why you've decided to have so many children because you want the the jewish way of life to
38:21continue definitely having a large family is obviously a good way to keep the traditions going
38:27um i think there's definitely also a sense for a lot of people that overpopulation is not a problem
38:32for the jewish community um we lost six million people in the holocaust our numbers have not increased
38:37dramatically since then i think there's like 20 million jewish people in the world so there is
38:43a sense of that probably that you know overpopulation is not our problem if anything it's been the
38:47opposite that we lost a lot of people you know you mentioned um the holocaust obviously it's very well
38:53documented how much do you go into that with the kids and and and are you mindful of that
39:01in 2020 there's the trauma traumatic side of it obviously not everything is age appropriate
39:05um i think also i have to choose my words really carefully here um
39:13for some people it's become a very large part of their jewish identity now i understand totally if
39:17your parents were survivors and you grew up in the shadow of the holocaust or the show as people call
39:21it that that's going to be very big for you but i don't think it's a healthy message to give your kids
39:29we have to be jewish because people are always killing us and persecuting us and therefore you know
39:33someone's got to replace the people that were killed and persecuted otherwise you're insulting
39:37their memory is that really positive identity yeah um so someone once asked me about it and i
39:42the way i explained it was we need to remember it so that it doesn't happen again you know i mean
39:50you can see the anti-semitism that is still around yes the other night we're in your car park outside
39:56your home and you've got ignorant people shouting nonsense and my grandparents fought for this country
40:02yeah sometimes i feel like shouting grabbing these guys by the scruff of neck saying my grandpa
40:05didn't fight for you so that you could insult his grandchildren in the street you know yeah
40:09i get the impression most of the people yelling in the street it's probably just because you look
40:13different and they can't handle that i would absolutely have you and your family around my home
40:19i would love to but it would just be a given that you you can't eat in my house because it's not
40:23the kitchen ain't kosher at all you could just come around but i couldn't make any food yeah i could show you
40:27my new my new table that i won't stop like won't stop talking about i know i haven't sworn in this
40:32house the whole time i'm very proud my mouth's like a sewer mordecai i know i watched your videos
40:48it's my last evening and i feel like i've learned a lot and mostly without putting my foot in it
40:54it's our last supper mordecai yes well wrong religion but yeah our last dinner
41:02how's the weekend been for you well obviously you're far too polite to ever be rude to guests
41:06but seriously speaking first of all it's been great having guests full stop because we haven't
41:10a guest for a while second it's been really lovely it's always nice to talk uh about how lovely our
41:14family are and it's always nice to talk about our religion and thank you asking lots of interesting
41:18questions and i hope it's been educational it's been an eye-opener for me i know that sounds funny
41:23because you're learning about our lives but it has because so much is like we just do it and we
41:31don't think about it no regrets no are you gonna miss me are you gonna miss me mendel yeah we enjoyed
41:41having you so uh yeah please come again yeah that's always what i'm after if you ever wanted to
41:48you're very welcome to i might be a problem with the mixed dancing and the strictly i don't know
41:54some of their outfits were not modest
41:59so do you want to start off yeah okay so okay you can put down anything green or food
42:06i think you know they're just lovely kids and they're a really sweet family there's a really
42:11loving atmosphere i will miss them i've just walked past all the kids now with their mom sat on the
42:32stairs singing they can't stop giggling and it's like idyllic
42:41you are gonna have nine children then i don't think i'm gonna have nine children i've left it too late
42:46for nine
42:57thank you so so much for being so great no worries i hope you've enjoyed it lots and lots and lots
43:03right lots of love thank you so much you want to wave gaby bye bye bye bye bye bye bye bye let's go
43:15you want to close the door yeah there we go
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